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I was cringing SO HARD during the BTS part. I've been a fan for years and I have the urge to roll this fan up in a carpet and hide them under the couch. 😖
Same here 😶
Same 😂.. immature fans are the worst..
I cringed SO hard. I actually was kind of fearful of that "fan"
I wonder how bts feels about crazy girls like her? they're probably not a fan
Yea... its people like this who give us a bad image
The girl who doesn't care for BTS responded quite admirably. She gave them a chance and wasn't interested and stayed polite as long as she could. Kudos. 😬
Ughhhh I like kpop but the crazy stans make us regular fans look bad
Yea they were super cool about it. I enjoyed that!
@@qhyirrghsteinne3109 yup esactly
ikr? Good griefs, poor thing.
The fan was way out there. I wouldn't have put as much effort into that conversation.
The BTS girl reminds me of a friend I had in high school. She was so obsessed with Duran Duran (yes...I'm old) that she was convinced that they were taking her to prom. She got dressed up & spent all of prom night sitting by her door, waiting for them to show up. We tried to convince her to come with us but she was convinced "her boys" were coming to pick her up. Hope she got therapy.
I think that is called maladaptive daydreaming. Sad. I hope that she got help, too.😧
This was the saddest post I've seen all day. 🏆
Her parents didn't step in?
Oh, no! Like Charlie Brown and the Great Pumpkin? That breaks my heart! I hope she overcame it.
@@jgw5491 Hi,
I have maladaptive daydreaming disorder. Have done for many many years now,
We can tell the difference between fantasy and reality, and primarily our daydreams focus around characters or vivid stories. Mine are based on characters of my imagination with their own world.. fun stuff sometimes. If she believes they're genuinely coming to her IRL, I suspect this is more something along the lines of schizophrenia
If it was maladaptive daydreaming disorder she would recognise that they're not coming to take her to prom
“I’d rather be quietly pathetic” oh man that sent me 😂😂😂😂
The self defeating guy was really a turn off, I had a few dates like that too. Men please don't do this, we're already trying to be nice and badmouthing yourself is a one way ticket to rejection because most women don't want to spend their dating lives reassuring men that we really do like them.
I could not agree more. I'm not qualified to be anyone's therapist, and if I were qualified, it would be unethical to date them. The dude did not have "facts." He had confirmation bias.
Yeah, rejection super sucks, but wallowing in it only fuels more rejection. It's a vicious cycle 😥
@@pearlofthedarkage exactly, I'm pretty sure even if someone told him it was his self defeating attitude he'd add that to his list reasons he doesn't understand
Wow. And he deliberately puts himself in the path of rejection regularly with this dating ap. So very sad. 😞
Oh my god... I went on a date this guy who would just non-stop talking how women would not date him and how he had no luck and what not and I am like "dude, I am right here... what do you think I am doing?". It was so uncomfortable. And he was hot too. Really my type but he just progressively became more and more unattractive. The whole thing had so many layers of uncomfortable....
That photo of the party that no one attended cut me to the quick.
I was badly bullied in high school. I had absolutely no friends until Grade 12, when I found a small group of outcasts like myself. The first 3 years were a nightmare, I dreaded walking into the school every morning. My anxiety was so bad that some days I would throw up before leaving for school. Unfortunately, this was waaaay back in the 70's, before anyone took bullying seriously, including my parents.
When I was in Grade 11, my parents had the brilliant idea to have me host an end-of-the-school-year party. I tried everything to put them off, hoping they would give up on the idea or forget about it. But they insisted and persisted, and just wouldn't let it go. I had literal panic attacks while asking people to come to the party. As I said, I had no friends and plenty of bullies, so I basically asked the 2 people who sat in front of and behind me in each class.
The day of the party came, my parents had gone all out on the food, and, of course, no one showed up. Now, I was humiliated in front of my whole family. My parents and my 3 younger sisters were all there to see that not a single person liked me enough to come to the party. And to make things worse, my father would tease me about it for years after. Because he was an asshole like that.
Knowing what I felt like on that day, whenever I see a post like this one, or a child's birthday that no one showed up to, it just makes me cry. I have 3 grown children. They went to every birthday party they were ever invited to when they were kids. Even if they were invited by someone who wasn't a close friend, or didn't really want to go, I told them my story. I explained that maybe that child didn't have any really close friends, but still wanted a party. I told them that it was probably someone who wanted to be friends but may have just been very shy about making new friends. I asked them how they would feel if they had a birthday party and no one came. I told them that it costs nothing to be kind. I had a few parents thank me over the years because only my children and (maybe) one other child showed up at their party, but those couple guests meant everything to their child. Being a parent, I couldn't imagine having to look at my child sitting at an empty birthday table, and I was never going to let another parent watch their child go through that either.
🥺💕 Thanks for sharing, Terri. And, I hope your posterity continue encouraging such expressions of kindness for many generations. 💖
Edited for spelling.
I feel sorry for kiddie-you but I'm glad you did better and cared so much and not just about your own family but everyone else's as well in a way💙
@@NNic. I'm proud to say that my children all grew up to be incredibly caring and kind adults. ❤️
I was never invited to a birthday party until I got into middle school,at 15. I wasn't able to invite people over either because it was in August ,and everyone was on a holiday trip , although I am sure they wouldn't have cared less if I ever did invite them. Many of those High school friends are still my friends now. I am turning 40 this year.
@@Terri_MacKay Definitely something to be proud of! 🙂 🙌 🎉
Literally that BTS conversation is why I don't tell people I like BTS or Kpop unless I REALLY know them. Scary, man.
I like kpop, but I don't listen to BTS, and I've been attacked for that (and the group I stan) for not being that interested in BTS...
@@Ram875 see that's messed up. As a multi stan, I feel that on so many levels haha I don't consider myself part of any fandom because they All frighten me to a certain degree.
Very relatable
I love kpop but I am scared of other kpop lovers. I don’t tell anyone I am obsessed with 💕Jimin💕 or bts because their “ARMY” fans terrify me.
@@Ram875 I did not like bts at all at first. I listened to Astro and VAV for like a year before I tried listening to bts again. It’s okay not to like the band.
The last one was really painful. Just imagine! We’ve all been there…your love interest just wants to be friends. That’s sad. Now imagine they want to forget that you even ever existed. That’s a killer.
As a kpop fan, I really hate people that are obssessed with some groups, especially when it comes to BTS. They get reaaaally aggresive and just create a bad reputation for the group. You can love groups and be proud of their members without being toxic!
music gatekeepers are the worst (but close second being the anime gatekeepers)
@@randomrandom450 OMG so true!!!
The fact that she kept saying "us" was concerning. Like she was actually part of the group. Also, talking about positivity while being toxic 😮💨
@@randomrandom450 As both an anime fan and lover of music, I agree!
It’s like how some guys are with their favourite teams to the point of organising huge group fights over the rivalry… Or fanatics about their religion.
I guarantee that guy ranting about women not liking short guys wouldn't give certain women who don't fit HIS standards the time of day. It's always the biggest whiners who are the pickiest.
Istg blink and army got the most problematic people in their fandom. Plus exo-l. Those three are so problematic. I've blocked many people from their fandom. Like, ew.
YUP
Ehh ... I'm 6'4" and I find it off-putting when people demand their dates be at least/at most a certain height. People have no control over how tall/short they are.
They do, however, have control over how much they weigh, which is usually the thing that women get incredibly angry at men for having requirements for. There are people who are medically incapable of controlling their weight, but those are an incredibly rare minority. And I say that as someone who is quite fat without a medical reason.
Hahaha definitely agree, it's the same with most people who whine. Gay and straight alike. They might have this unrealistic ideal that they aren't even willing to put the effort in for. "I want a super fit girl that can take care of herself.... but I never work out and hate working but she'll like me for my personality... Who knows everyone likes different things you just might find it." but you are less likely to find something like that. She had a really good point, "it wasn't his height that was the issue it was his attitude and negativity that was probably making people take steps back because she was genuinely interested and he didn't even address her concern when she mentioned that she got judgments from people too.
Truth. People tend to project their own insecurities onto others. So if they always inspect themselves under a magnifying glass and hate themselves for certain flaws, they apply that logic to people around them as well. It's why pity parties are so off-putting to begin with. Cause mentally grounded people usually don't want that vibe in a relationship.
You never tell a woman “Now you’ve got to give me a kiss”. Uh, no she don’t. He didn’t even ask for a kiss, he straight up commanded her for one.
I was looking for someone to comment about this!! No one owes anyone a kiss in any situation!
@@Anonicant aaaaaaaaamen
He gave me a creepy vibe.
Yeah, that whole thing was incredibly uncool. Disrespectful. It's a terrible position to be in, can't even imagine it happening in front of a camera (& I'm no internet celeb). Feel so bad for her.
@ThePatUltra so basically what ur saying is ur exactly like that guy u just word it differently to manipulate a girl in a different way to kiss u.
Some people can't resist the urge to twist the knife online when they know they're safe from getting their teeth knocked into their lungs.
That wasn't asking for a kiss... He was TELLING her to kiss him. How do people still think that's okay?
Exactly! Then got mad when she didn't.... Consent is important!
I am still trying to understand why would anyone walk up to a person and ask for a picture let alone a kiss.
Yes they maybe famous but let them live their life.
On second thought... that guy acted as if she owed him a kiss.
He has to be a paid subscriber
She knows that trick she ain't stupid! She goes to kiss his cheek & he turns his head making her kiss him on the lips!
Few things make me so incredibly sad as seeing a set party table someone has prepared, hoping/wanting/believing people they invited will come and then... they don't. It's just heartbreaking to me, no matter if it happens to a child or an adult, because it such a vicious way of learning that the friends you thought you had, weren't your friends at all.
I just can't with "parties that never happened because no one showed up" pics, because unless there had been some really unfortunate mistake that was literally no ones fault and the invited guests had every intention to come but got the wrong date or something, it's just so fucking devestating.
I had that happen to me. When my mom turned 40, she threw a party for herself, invited her friends and had a great time. So when I turned 40, I wanted to do the same thing. I invited a bunch of friends, I made a bunch of food. NOBODY came. It was me, my kids, and my younger daughter's bff who lived across the hall.
I think it’s intentionally vicious, and probably a concerted effort.
I would decide that everyone did it intentionally.
At which point, I would have no more to do with them. If there were coworkers involved, I would limit myself to courteous at work communication, and no more. I’d certainly not accept apologies. I’d shrug, say “don’t worry about it” and walk away.
In these situations, hard as it is, maintain courtesy and respect. Period. No more.
Whatever you do, do not accept make up gestures, or try again.
@@Queina1 Sorry that happened to you. Hopefully, you’ve removed those individuals from your life.
@UCvLnP6aoc55jj9cZBgGsXeA good for her seriously....people are SOOOO mean....like I can never ieven imagine doing that to someone
True....my heart bleeds for these poor people....why are human beings SO mean😭😭
I'm a 5'9" female & some of the cutest guys I've ever known were shorter than I am. They were even cuter if they weren't self-conscious about their height. Just sayin' 😬
I literally know so many couples where the girl is taller than the guy like it doesn't even register anymore.
you’re a goddess to them
5'8" and can relate so much! I wasn't worried about the guy being shorter, but holy hell were they dramatic! One guy even got mad when he said he didn't go to the pub, went anyways and I had my heels on. My heels bother him, but he wasn't going, so I put them on. He was moody the whole night and I was done with him, haha! For the first time I'm the shorty in the relationship, as my current boyfriend is 6'11" I think (210cm).
Honestly I've heard a lot more men making fun of other mens hight, than women.
No guy wants to be regarded as 'cute' though.
I will never understand why people have to be SO mean when they’re telling someone they’re not interested?!? Even if they have nothing in common or weren’t feeling the other person all they have to do is say “hey I don’t think I’m feeling this” or something like that ! These people think they’re funny and cute being total jerks and trying to hurt peoples feelings by shooting them down and what’s actually going to be funny is when that karma comes back around !!! Kindness is FREE !
As an anime/manga fan, I took that personally. How dare they insult my 2D boys.
This made me upset as well. 2D people are sometimes better than 3D people.
As a person that likes both anime and kpop I felt really offended like an anime character (Sougo from Gintama) is still above BTS even though I love their music.
I started off with anime, and began to love the Asian culture. So, I am an anime fan and ARMY.
Same! I also like kpop but fans are too toxic. esp Armies, blinks and once.
Me being both an ARMY and weeb, apologise on this person's behalf. Just know that not every ARMY or k-popper trying to convert people and k-pop idols and my 2D baes are the reason why I'm still single. Set my expectations too high istg🥲. #KaoruJyosakomybae🤤
Oh my god, this tinder guy. This is more common than you would think 🤦🏻♀️ I once had a date with a guy and he wore a really big and colorful bracelet (made by a kid or something). So I looked at it and he went „here we go again! Everyone is always looking at my vitiligo, no one wants to date me because of it, yeah go ahead, stare at it like all the other ladies!!“ aggressively waving his hand at my face. Only then I noticed that he had a tiny white spot which wasn’t even noticeable at all. (And any way, I wouldn’t have minded obviously). He kept on rambling because apparently he felt so insecure and I just didn’t know how to react. I felt almost threatened and of course didn’t want to see him again. He then said „yeah, sure, no one wants a guy with vitiligo!!“ No dude, that wasn’t the issue.
A big oof, and you dodged that bullet. 😰
Wow! Talk about issues. And you're right not to vitiligo!!!
Sounds like that Was the issue.
I feel so bad for the guy who rambled on about Star Wars for two hours. It's totally fair that the girl didn't enjoy herself, but the comment about his baldness was hitting below the belt.
Yeah, but also, you can interrupt someone and tell them politely you aren't interested in Star Wars, so let's find something we both are interested in. In her case I suppose it's her. I also would like to say that she made it certain he'll never contact her again, and will warn his friends about her as well. And apparently the whole internet...
The first part is good feedback though. He's obviously not picking up clues that the other person is bored, so he needs to work on that. And get his apartment clean when there are visitors.
I'd want to tell her that he can learn to tone down the rambling about Star Wars and maybe even get hair implants if he wants, but that I doubt that she can ever evolve into a decent human being. 🦠
I guess it just depends on who you’re talking to. Personally I don’t mind talking a long time about Star Wars or other geeky things.
I'm a Star Wars fan and am female so he can talk to me about it all he wants, felt bad for him.
I REALLY love Nightmare Before Christmas. A lot. I ran into someone in the store wearing a Jack Skellington hat. I was wearing a NBC tshirt. I said: nice hat and showed him my shirt. For a half an hour he followed me around the store, telling me all about the movie. And explaining every single thing that was in his house memorabilia. He was sweating and trying to catch his breath while talking. I fake waved at a person and said I had to go. I left my stuff and ran. 😬
Yikes!
😬 Yeah, some Army’s can get a bit overboard. I’ve had my experience and I’ve seen it in comments. If it were me I would’ve replied, “You’re right, anime boys aren’t real, but the chances of you being next to any of the BTS members are about as real as an anime character.”
The VAs are real though and they do conventions so technically- We can meet our 2D fictional crushes 😌👌
Ooooh I love that I'm so gonna use it next time my friends says smth abt "anime boys aren't real unlike my celebrity crush"
@@Ayyyitsakira in my honest opinion, obsessing over a fictional character is much less creepier than obsessing over a real person.
@@ritwikreddy5670 THIS
I'm a tall girl and I met a short guy on a dating site, and we're about to be married after dating for over 7 years.
If he had thrown himself that pathetic "woe is me" pity party when we were initially messaging, he would've never gotten a first date. That guy in the video sure seems to love sabotaging himself, huh.
Yeah, especially when she literally told him she was interested in him despite being short guy...
Congratulations ❤
That BTS fan, tho.
"We're going places. You're gonna envy us" No dude, the band might be going places, you'll just continue sitting in your room looking at Twitter for hours eating instant ramen bought with your parent's money.
(Not saying all BTS fans are like this, but this one in particular definitely gives me that feeling)
I was thinking the same thing, especially after the "fan" accused the recipient of doing that.
All of us have been there. My metalhead friends used to think they were the part of a bigger realm; the glorious community of heavy metal, etc. We’d even be fighting for our preferred music genre. Rap vs rock, metal vs punk, rock vs techno…you name it. But in reality the artists we liked would be at the same party, snorting cocaine together, or whatever.
I thought that non-fan was far to nice. BTS are an artificial group of puppets that hop around to computer-produced 2-chord music. Imho that is not music. And hyping a "music"-group with members that are only chosen for very specific looks and that had to undergo plastic sugery to look even more "perfect" to be accepted into the overproduced-group is horrible. There are so many really good artists in the music business, that are actually musicians that can write their own songs and play real instruments... and such a bubble-gum-pink joke has an army????? Lol. So, yes, I think that non fan was really nice and diplomatic :D
@@endlessstudent3512 those fads come and go. 60s had this “bubblegum pop” (those guys played their instruments though), throughout the 90s we had this New Kids On The Block, Take That, Backstreet Boys, Spice Girls, etc. That’s the way the industry goes. Nonetheless I like this situation. Because at least a non-Western genre adds some diversity to the scene. Like the African artist Mory Kante in 1988 with his hit song Yeke Yeke sweeping through Europe, the Lambada craze in 1989, some J-pop & J-rock bands having their name heard here and there.
@@winniethepooht5776 I sometimes see on Twitter that when some person talks badly about the member they like some fans go “oh, don’t say that to our poor Jongun, he’s so upset and hurt, blabla” but I am sure that that Jongun (generic name) doesn’t care at all and he’s counting his money and getting ready for his date with a groupie in the next few hours. Love your idols, but don’t overdo it. They are no saints, just regular people like you, only famous…
When they said Blood, Sweat and Tears, I thought they were referring to the actual group from the sixties and seventies. They were really good
He didn’t even ask for a kiss. That was a demand! “You got give me a kiss” wtf is wrong with you dude?!
Amen! Thank you for saying this!
Had some drunk dude pull this on me (& I'm not even some internet celebrity)... I cringed SO hard because it's the most uncomfortable awkward feeling to have to be like 'uh, _NO.'_
@@KyrieChii wow! People are nuts!
Right!??! "Well I'm the only one that asked"....u didn't even ask...u acted like she owed u a kiss like tf... strong incel vibes
@@kimberlyrain1772 also, I'm sure he's not the only one who asked and if he is, it's because everyone else respects her autonomy. What a dill hole.
she acts like when BTS does a concert, she gets a check too!
THEIR accomplishments are not HER accomplishments. Their hard work is not her hard work. she is just watching them work!
I hear sports fans talk about their team like that all the time, but never a fan of a group. It's weird either way; you can be happy for the band or team's success but it's not YOUR success.
Worst date story: I had a guy tell me that I was too smart for him. He paid for the table and left. What did I do to cause this reaction? I used the word GENRE in a sentence while talking about music.
Well, better that he realize it then rather than you having to inform him he's too dumb for you later.
@@truthunfiltered314 lol. No one is too dumb just because they don't know a particular word. He was a good guy who went on to do a lot of good with his life. He just felt dumb. ☺️
Sounds like you dodged a bullet and got a free meal, so why are you complaining? Maybe you pronounced it all weird like Alex Trebek used to (RIP). If that's your worst date, you should feel very fortunate.
Oh my goodness......
Girl, you're better off without him, if that's... yeah.
@@John-tr5hn you seem to be another bullet to dodge 😉
First, Army does not claim the BTS "fan". That's psychotic.
Second, the no show party hit me Hard! I planned a Superbowl party when I was 20. I got a friend to get some drinks, I got party platters and wings, told my friends, my coworkers, my neighbors, the guy I was seeing, put up a sign in the work breakroom, gave plenty of notice. Sat down right before kickoff and woke up in the middle of the halftime show. No knocks, no calls, no texts, no show.
Just one more weight to the sharp decline into depression.
The one about Star Wars… she could have left it as his obsession with Star Wars was the reason she didn’t want to go out again. She didn’t have to be malicious mentioning his baldness. That’s just mean.
Yeah, she really went in for the kill on that one, totally unnecessary & hurtful.😟 Sounds like maybe a bad blind date? (Doesn't sound like she found the guy attractive to begin with, not that that's an excuse to be awful). 😕
@@KyrieChii That wasn't "going in for the kill". It'd be like a guy saying "get some breast implants - your flat chest is gross!"
@@KyrieChii I believe that blind dates are normally not in the apartment of one of the participants. There was a lot wrong. Even if it was a blind date in his apartment she should have told him at the start that she is not interested. She was super rude writing gross all the time.
Either she was good at acting like she had fun or he didn't watch her reactions at all.
@@MrMartinSchou what man making under 500k annually and is hopeless with women outside of having money is saying that to women? “Everything else is great but get bigger boobs”
@@dubya724 I wouldn't be surprised if some incel would say it, but that was my point.
"We." "Us." Honey? Slow down. You aren't a member of BTS and they don't have any idea who you are. Relax! Cussing out a stranger isn't "spreading love and joy". Lmao. - No, I'm not against being a fan of someone or some group. But this particular level of vitriol is entirely unnecessary.
So true lol
I have a friend who genuinely loves BTS, and I am so thankful that she's not like this.
I think they weren't even a stranger I think they actually knew and were acquainted with that person lmao THE EMBARRASSMENT. I can't believe they're any older than 12 or 13 tbh
Tell me more about it... My neighbour stopped talking to me bcoz of BTS 😂😂😂 (she is 13 by the way and she wants to move to Korea to support them) I only said "they don't know you (exist I mean) ... That's it, she stopped talking to me and kinda hates me now 😂😂😂
This is the reason I left the ARMY fandom almost three years ago.
I've been a KPop fan for about 15 years now, and, while I mean absolutely no offense to all ARMY, and am by no means lumping them all into the same category (Although I'm pretty sure that some ARMY will read this and *STILL* take personal offense to what I say and assume it's a personal jab at them or BTS), out of all the fandoms that I've been part of, ARMY was hands down the most toxic and annoying.
Some of them, their entire world revolves solely around BTS, and they build their entire identity around being an ARMY, and lash out at anyone who doesn't want to be a fan, cursing at people and accusing them of being jealous. And before BTS made it big, they would relentlessly hound people to check out their music, even when people weren't KPop fans. And if other KPop artists came out with a new song/album or music video, ARMY would flood the comments section, telling people to check out BTS instead. If people declined, or just wasn't into their music or KPop at all, they'd cuss them out and insult them.
I know all of this for a fact because I was a fan for almost five years. And when I was in the fandom and I tried to tell ARMY to chill, to stop hounding people, etc, I'd get cussed out, was told that I was jealous and called a fake fan for "Not promoting/standing up for our boys "
Personally, I love BTS music. But my world never revolved around them, and I couldn't stand how toxic and obsessive some people in the fandom are.
I once dated a man 2" shorter than I, and sometimes 6" when I wore heels. Because of his confidence it was never an issue with him or anyone else! We were a great looking couple.
I worked with a guy who was about 4' 8" very cute and a body builder. Tge other guys used to give him a lot of shit about it til his wife came to drop off something. She is a 6'1" beautiful woman. I swear she could be a model beautiful.
She called him her "pocket god" lol.
The guys stopped picking on him and started asking about sisters and cousins 🤣
Back in the early 2000s there was a local newspaper that still ran those ads for singles looking for a date. I was really surprised to see so many women who were 5' or 5' 2" telling men not to contact them unless they were at least 6' tall. That can't be a confidence builder for men, but that guy was pathetic and was looking to make someone feel sorry for him.
@@Emeraldwitch30 Oh mah gawd that's so cute. That's pure goal 🥺
For my 16th we had just moved so I didn’t have a lot of friends. The boys I invited didn’t come bc they were (rightfully) scared of my parents and my other friend got grounded. So only 1 friend and a family friend came to my birthday party. My sisters proceeded to ask “Why did you even come?” And made my friend feel awkward. I was so embarrassed and mad.
The unconfident short guy most likely isn’t getting girls because he puts his insecurities on display like this. Why is he even on the dating app to see if someone likes him just for him so act like it’s impossible & they’re lying for swiping right?? Make it make sense lord
Maybe he's intentionally sabotaging himself because of his insecurities? I've seen people who seemed interested in meeting new people (for dates or just to make friends) let their insecurities rule them to the point it chased people away, more than once. But sometimes it seemed like they were sabotaging a chance to be happy.
I think some people like to feel like shit. Like it confirms (to him anyway) that no one wants to date him cause he's short, which feels bad but also takes the blame off of his actual problem - his martyr syndrome personality which he is 100% in charge of.
Yeah, this happened to me when a guy said I didn't like him because he was too dark when the truth was I found him corny. I never told him the real reason why, but I had to defend that I wasn't exercising colorism. Whew!
This is not related but love your hair! Mine is purple at this moment and I hope next week gonna be turquoise. Quarantine made me decide to start experimenting more with my hair after years wanting to do it.
@@jennymunday7913 eh, Jenny gets it: he's not insecure; when they start telling you what you're "thinking" (you're probably thinking X; all you women think Y) that's just the pity act opening the door to the Narcisistic Syndrome they're about to throw on you. Run.
A man once said that "If one person laughs at your joke, then it is a good joke." That is why i always laugh at my own jokes, so they are good. Also that man was me.
I love it when someone says, "That's not funny!" If _anyone_ laughs, anyone at all, then it's funny. And usually, I'm the one laughing, so it's technically funny. I just respond with laughter and remind them that luckily for them, _they_ aren't _required_ to enjoy it.
I laugh at my own jokes too 😁 plus, I'm the type of person that will spend their time talking in their head, creating fake scénario and conversations and stuff... One day I was in my kitchen with a friend. We were not talking (she was on her phone and I was in my fantasy) and I start laughing really hard. She asked me "why are you laughing ?" and I went "BECAUSE I'M HILARIOUS !" 😅
LOL Well played Sir!
Hahahahaaa
My friend is a huge fan of BTS but she didn’t go crazy at me for not liking them. I feel sorry for that person😂
Do you guys remember the Twilight craze ? Yeah, so, a girl f*ing BIT ME when I told her I didn't like Twilight. She must have been like... 8 or 9. She was smiling like it was funny afterwards. Crazy.
I am a fan of kpop and tbh I am FEARFUL of talking about it because these are the type of people who represent us. The other person was extremely respectful too, watching the music video and everything. It's rude to push someone's limits when they say no...
I am OBSESSED with Michael Jackson
I think of it as a generational preference, my nieces like them but it's not my thing, you can't really expect a good review from anyone who grew up in the 80's and 90's so if we say it's okay that's the best you're going get from us and that's speaking pretty highly of them.
I started watching Kpop back in 2006, before it was really popular internationally. I get pretty disgusted by the way many of the fandom members conduct their selves now, and Army has to be one of the worst - not all of them, of course, but on average, they are the most childish, rudest fans.
I happen to be a fan of the Kings of Kpop...Big Bang....and yeah there are some VIPs that go overboard, but not like what I've seen so many times with Army.
And a perfect example is that girl demanding why her friend doesn't like BTS in the same way she does.
I am, too, a fan of BTS...and a number of other groups, so I try to not be biased in my comments about these groups and their fandoms. Just my 2 cents.
As a BTS ARMY… I’m so sorry that girl is like that. Every fan group has their whackos.
Yeah I just recently got into the ARMY and man that hurt to listen to 😫
My coworker is a diehard fan of them, like full on sqealed with delight when we got the BTS magazine special on the shelves- you mention them and she brightens up and can go on for AGES... but she's never, ever even asked me about their music beyond asking if I knew them/listened at all, and then just dropped it when I said I hadn't gotten into them. (I have seen videos since, and I do agree they are SUPER attractive and very talented, but like the OP in that post... not really my style. xD)
@@Palitato which true fans accept you don’t have to like them if you are polite about it like you and the person in the video we don’t have an issue with not liking bts when people are rude and racist then we have a problem with them but you were neither
@@heavenlee6464 BTS 🤢🤢🤢🤢
I was like NO!!!! Don't be like that, I felt so sorry for the non fan about this.
About getting ghosted or told the truth: I'd rather be told the truth. You don't have to be a jerk about it. All you have to say is "sorry, I'm actually interested in (insert name)" or "I don't think we are compatible." That's it. And then move on. I would rather have a quick and painless mature conversation. It's just as easy to make a bad lasting impression as it is to make a good first impression. 😬
Yesss!!! No guessing or wondering, just rip the bandaid off and move on. And there’s no need to engage further if they can’t accept your polite end to things, just block and move on.
Agreed.
“Women pick on short men” no sweetie, women don’t pick on people because we’re not so pathetic we have to make others feel bad about themselves, in order for us to feel good about ourselves. Little girls play that crap 😬
Preach
Exactly what I was thinking during the video! Especially the one where the girl was really outright mean. Absolutely no need to be mean.
I agree, but the problem arises because men don't have exclusivity on "grown child" syndrome. There are plenty of older bodies walking around with people inside who haven't yet graduated kindergarten.
Truly! It bugs me that this is such a mindset that it has a whole community behind it. Guys who seriously believe that women hate on all men who aren't 6', chiseled and multimillionaires 🙄
And maybe there is something else about you that they don't vibe with its not like every woman has to like you and height is not the only reason you may not be her type...and in this case attitude is way negative before she could even get to know you
welll ... the thing with: stop talking with emma, i actually did something like that too, but not to a girl, who wanted to get her hands on my bf, a persistent and disrespectful dude persuaded one of my best friends(she was modeling at that time and he send her sexual harassing messages and stuff) so i wrote him really agressive and creepy messages, that if he don't stop this bs i'm going to get him and he will learn never to write a women in that way. i know, really creepy but it actually helped
People like that one that wants to 'convert' fans is the reason why some people hate on them.
I don't mind BTS, but it's also something I don't go out of my way to listen to. My sister loves BTS and people like the girl in the post is why she spent over a year being a closet fan.
It’s fun if you can get your friend into it too so you and them can talk about it BUT if someone looked into it and just didn’t like it then that’s that.
It's BST! Not BTS! Blood, Sweat & Tears!
@@rickwaters3592 Funny you say that, the first time my sister asked If I knew about BTS, I thought she was referring to a deli sandwich lol.
@@rickwaters3592 huh? Blood sweat and tears is a song BTS made.
@@cassienorwood8078 Ok
I thought it was so good how that twitch streamer, who looked like she was 16, was a quick thinker and thought to say to that guy that if she gave him a kiss, she’d have to do it for everyone who asked. Way to set boundaries!!! Not everyone is able to do that, especially not under pressure. 😬😬😬
"5 feet 9 inches = Average height for men in the United States" That dude needs to relax. 5'8" is pretty average. It's 100% NOT the reason he can't get a date. Just have some confidence. I'm of average height and in my many years I've only had 1 woman ever pass on me because I was "short" But hey, She was +2" taller than me so I get it! :) Like Icarus , I reached too high! LOL
It's ridiculous too because he's taller than most average women, I'm 5'4" I dated guys even shorter than me because they had confidence.
I’ll bet he kept getting rejected and he’d always say “ITS BECAUSE IM SHORT ISNT IT” and they’d go “yeah sure whatever just leave me alone”
I’m 5’8. Last 3 girlfriends were 5’10, 5’10, 5’11. It never bothered me either.
It's not that weird alot of the new gen woman are very very picky about length and they ask 6 minimum
As a 5'11" female, I have dated lots of men shorter than I am. I think this dude has bigger issues. Pun intended
As a BTS fan for so many years, I can say I would like to apologize for the younger and newer fans that they think they are entitled to act this way to others. I understand that we all want to get recognition for BTS but trying to implement/ force to other people is just wrong and it makes me sad of the people who think that our fandom is like this. It literally makes me sad and mad at the same time to hear stories like this as an older fan that the goals we set off to accomplish as BTS Army’s= fans have been twisted in this horrible way!!!
“We this, we that!”
BTS doesn’t know you exist.
i understand you may not like the group but please don't speak for bts. they've done so much to acknowledge their fans so they know we exist. also, that "fan" doesn't represent our whole fandom. we don't care if you like bts or not as long as you don't insult them. thanks.
@@nidhi2693 Lol, I think you're taking it too seriously, they just meant that the obsessed BTS fan in the video was speaking as though they were somehow part of the group when they're obviously not part of the band. It was weird. No one is saying all fans are like that, but the fan in the video clearly needs some therapy because that sounds MAJORLY unhealthy.
@@hnichole oh yeah that's weird i totally agree but i was talking about the second part. but yeah, normal fans don't act like that. that person needs help
@@phangirlable why are you calling names when you didn't understand what i said? you don't know what goes on in the fandom so you likely wouldn't know- which is fine. but if bts were as fabricated as you claim then they wouldn't have such diverse fans (that person in the video is not a fan; seems like a troll)
@@phangirlable maybe they do make a ton of money on that, which i'm glad considering they blast their asses of working late and enduring all the bully throughout the years. But they do consider their fans, they can't do an international fansign, but if you'r coreean or in Korea you can interact with them and you can see they're genuine on how they treat others, they're polite and humble, now tell me an U.S or international artist which has these qualities. @Nidhi 💜
You can be honest without being impolite and hurtful. She could've said, "I'm not into the Science Fiction stuff and felt we were not a good match." The rest was unnecessary and unkind.
Agree 100%. I wonder if that was a bad blind date, it didn't sound like someone she would've said yes to if she'd seen them in person ahead of time (not that that was ANY excuse for how intentionally hurtful she was). There are gentle ways to respectfully say you don't want to go out with someone again. It really sucked as the guy seemed polite from what we got to see.
@@KyrieChii Right, I think it reflects poorly on her because she's so pathetic she can't even change the subject or even end the date soon. He clearly didn't pick up on any negativity, so I think she's a horrible person.
Think she was annoyed for him not fawning all over her instead, basically jealous of a movie franchise. Self absorbed beeitch I feel.
For the poor guy whose date accidentally texted him that she was going to screw someone else after dinner, I can relate. I was long-distance "dating" a guy I met online when he sent me this gem of a mistell: "No, my wife doesn't play the game, but my girlfriend (my name) does." Yep. He'd neglected to mention he was married.
I liked your comment, but I don’t feel good about it. That’s brutal poodle 💀 🐩
@@theirmanager5204 It sucked at the time, but I am very glad I found out before I got more invested than I was. Recently ran into him. He hasn't changed much. Dating some married woman.
@@KE-hr4sb hopefully karma gonna get him one day 🤞
That's a big yikes from me! Hope you found it out sooner rather then later in the relationship!
You dodged a nuclear warhead there. Happy to hear that you got out of the range of the explosion when it happens.
😬😬I feel so bad for that person who was left alone for their party 🥲🥺
Also that dude with kiss. Everyone, please remember that unless it's about unpaid bills and rent, you don't owe anyone single 💩. Don't be afraid to set your strict boundaries and say no, for the sake of your mental health and safety.🙏
People who order you to kiss them or any other physical contact, tell them they are not entitled to anything and to leave.
I've been ordered to kiss women but never had to order nor would I, being myself has worked out pretty good so far.
The short man with issues DEFINITELY had a short humiliation fetish. Definitely. He literally pushed for it so hard it almost hurt me and I'm just reading the conversation 😂😂😂
@Nina Montana let's say that in my line of "work" I see many men doing even worse to push their fetishes on unaware and non consenting women. Which is disgusting.
Short man syndrome!!!!
I think he has been seeing negativity for so long that when positive comments come across he doesn't even see them. Like he does bilieve what she is telling him and he just wants or feels like it's better to stay "safe" ,rather than give this one a try.
Hahahaaa.. give the little wee bastard what he wants! 😜
Some dude my friend knew liked it when she said his peen was small, it was kinda odd, no kink shame but odd
Yikes, yikes, yikes. 😬
That 5'8" guy sounds like an incel just waiting to happen. I wouldn't be surprised if he had been rejected by a crush when he was younger for being short and ended up with a complex about it. How much would you bet that when she unmatched with him he told himself "I knew she didn't like short guys" instead of going "Wow. I'm so neurotic that I literally drive people away."? Just...yikes.
I was a Husky kid in Grade school with super curly hair and lots of freckles and ended up taking up Running track and playing Hockey but was constantly Bullied until I learned Martial Arts and fought back. I used education to gain success and obtain 3 degrees, own 3 businesses and go on to own dozens of Rentals, a lakefront house and couple of sports cars. Now I am thinking of retiring or adding to my worth and go from Rich to wealthy and allot of those bullies and HS women i dated are poor and on SSRI antidepressants and live in houses less than some of my rentals. Desire and strong motivation to succeed are Best Revenge as some of these struck some nerves but now, I can laugh at remembering
This is how old I am, I thought they were talking about Blood, Sweat and Tears the 60's band and wondering WTF was going on with all this craziness! HOWEVER, in high school I had a friend that was a maniac over Led Zeppelin and even went as far as to claim that because she was from England she knew Robert Plant whom wrote her letters! She showed me the letters and they were written on binder paper in her left-hand script. I bit and asked "where was the envelope it would be great to have the stamp". She said that her mom opens the mail and throws the envelopes away under direct orders from the British Empire because she was only 16 and he was an adult . Crazy has been around for years people!
I did too
Under direct orders of the British empire 😂 man pathological liars are hilarious but it's also so sad. Its almost like they believe their own shit even when it's so insane.
To any pathological liars reading this, yes, we know you're lying. The reason we don't call you out is because it would be too embarrassing for you. Just stop. I promise you are probably interesting without the lies
@@Tanya-lk9eq I hope people take this advice. Calling people out for lies that are ragingly obvious causes me anxiety through second hand embarrassment...
Hey 'what goes up must come down' you dig?
@@Tanya-lk9eq what are you even talking about?
That guy with a complex about his height literally talked his way out of a match and potential date because of his bitterness. I hope that he spots the screenshot of this convo online and learns to change his attitude.
@@bunnygummy I agree. It's kind of the reverse of humblebragging - "I suck, but I'm still better than you because you're just going to reject me for a stupid reason." When in fact he's being rejected for a very GOOD reason that has zero to do with his height.
I do not hang with men like this. I'm not here to constantly prop up another's ego. For one thing, I don't have that kind of power, and for another, I see no reason why I should do all the heavy lifting in a relationship. There's a HUGE difference between the degree of insecurity we can all experience from time to time and the nuclear winter of a personality this guy is bringing. It's not her, dude, it's you.
I can’t figure out WHY he is on dating apps if he is going to pity party himself out of dates!! 🤔
As an ARMY I cringed so hard....we're all not like that I promise.
Same pinch babe... Didn't think someone from BTS army (like me) would be like that
I’m not into kpop, it’s not my scene, I’m very death metal. Big scary bikers in leather. But my friends info Arianna Grande, BTS and the usual mainstream artists. She’s never made fun of me for liking the music I do, she just asks how I can understand the words.but one of her many toxic friends that I’ve told her over the year to stop and leave them alone, but she doesn’t. She converted to BTS then sent me a screenshot of her friends Tiktok smashing her and saying that my friend bullied the toxic friend for liking KPOP then ends up liking it.
How egotistical can you be? Aye I’ve made fun of her for liking Arianna, she’s so mainstream and she’s begging for the banter man, she has a successful fan page with like 2.7k followers or whatever it is in insta. I’ve never said anything more than a simple “she’s so like other artists, they all blend into one” here that happens with metal too. For the longest time I thought never too late was by Linkin Park not three days grace 🤷🏻♀️
Same ! I felt like taking that poor person out for a drink or coffee just to show them we are normal people….
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You're the only vlogger that makes me laugh out loud. Thanks.
As an ARMY (BTS Fandom), I can promise we are all not that crazy or obsessive!
It's a small portion that sadly have louder voice than the majority. Believe me, even ARMYs get annoyed and embarrassed seeing people like that 😅
Anyway, enjoyed the vid Charlotte!
every time i get SO embarrassed
The "I rather be quietly pathetic" comment made me spit water all over my keyboard!!! LMFAO I hadn't laughed like this in a whileeeee. Thank you!
As an army we don't claim that fan the forces her/his friend into kpop just for his/her desire
As an Army I agree.
Agree🙋♀️
Agree!!!!!
Honestly, don't ghost someone. If they wasted their time on dating you, give them the closure they need on why you aren't interested. And if you are rude, it gives them a chance to se that they dodged a bullet.
As a BTS fan, if someone said they didn’t like them but liked the music video, then I’d move on. I’d think, “Ok, at least you watched the music video.”
BTS LAME AF!!!!🤢🤢🤢🤢
@@professionaltrollgirl2682 that's simply your opinion 😊
Don't make the assumption that everyone hates them just cuz you don't like them
@@professionaltrollgirl2682 Look some people hate them, some don’t. I’m simply stating my opinion. You can hate them but not on my comment thank you very much.
@@blakepaulineswingler6620 You tell them. 😂
@@iamalimelight2346 i mean im not a giant fan or anything but we don't need that stuff here right? XD
Much rather be told than ghosted. Being ghosted makes you doubt everything.
You don't have to tell someone the whole truth lol... there's such a thing as tact :P
It's always best to tell the truth, but you can tell the truth without intentionally trying to hurt people. "It just didn't click for me. And I'm not interested in Star Wars, so I suppose there isn't much in common. But thanks for inviting me to your home."
Ugh people like at 1:38 give us army's/kpop fans a really bad rep... I'm sorry to everyone who's been in a situation like that!!!
Omg, that ARMY, is giving us a bad name, holy. Chill person, bring it down a notch.
@@phangirlable itsnotthe majority, is the toxic ones that act like this
My husband is 5’9” and my brother is 5’8”… I’m 5’2”, anyone over 5’5” is actually tall hahaha!
that’s what i’m saying. for us* shorties 5’8/9 is TALL i still gotta look upward at them lmfaoo
Thanks now I feel like giant at 5'6" 😂
OMG! Same! My husband to be is 5’11” and my brother is 5’9”. I am a little under 5’2”, so my brother is tall for me and my fiancé is a total giant for me 😂 #shortiesassemble
Lol, 5'1 here, I feel ya'll! I could wear stripper heels & still be shorter than most dudes. 😂
I am 5’6” as well as my two sisters. My other sister is 5’3”. My mom is 5’4”. I don’t really care about height, but I prefer to not have a huge difference. It doesn’t matter in the end though. Whoever you love is who you love.
As someone who loves bts, we are not all like this! Trust me, some of us are really chill
Up this comment please 💜😊
Very true ❤
If you ha e to tell everyone how chill you are, you're not too chill.
Can confirm. Not all of us are like that, I cringed so hard I probably have wrinkles
There is always that crazy person in any group Fandom Lily I am glad most of the Fandom isn't so crazy and love bts myself my coworker and I love to watch tiny toonz and listen to their music
While BTS Blood, Sweat and Tears mv is MAGNIFICENT and I watched it probably more than 300times, I can't imagine myself pushing people into liking a certain music genre. My fiancee watches anime but doesn't listen to K-Pop. They're two completely different things 😂
"I laugh at everything including my jokes" same Charlotte same😌
If you cant make yourself laugh then no one else we be able to.
@@thefifthaceassociation I agree
I laughed at my own joke once for 5 min, then giggled every hour just thinking about it.
@@TherealDanielleNelson lol relatable. I have like 3 jokes that i made, that I find hilarious. but everyone else hates the. Ok ok.. so here lol listen or read rather.
So a priest walks up to a drug dealer and beats the sh!t outta him right? And after the man is on the ground black and blue from the whoopin the priest takes the drugs deals right shoe, but only his right. and starts to walk away. And then the drug dealer confusingly asks "why did you do that? why did you take my shoe?" And the preist turns around and say "This is my way of putting you on the right path...."...im was grinning like a child the entire time i was typing that. my gf was hate it if she knew i told that joke to a bunch of strangers too. Cuz she hates it.Which makes it better.
@@thefifthaceassociation 🤣🤣🤣
the girl who said she didn’t like BTS sounds pretty chill, when i was super into Kpop i didn’t really bring it up or push it onto my friends but on the rare occasions i did they’d ignore me or clearly look annoyed even tho it really wasn’t a lot- i’d listen to them talk about their interests all the time but they never listened to mine which felt invalidating but this girl actually did try it out and said no politely, if i had a friend like her i’d be pretty happy lmao just lmk how you feel about something i like if i ask no need to be rude
I've been in the same boat as you with my high school friends. Being an autistic kpop fan is a lil double edged sword sometimes.
It's ironic how that BTS fan said to admire their positivity... all the while... 😬😬😬😬😬😬😬
My brother invested in doge ironically, enough to say he did, but not enough to cry over when it inevitably plummeted.
Does anyone get really happy when she says “subscribe” at the end? I don’t know why that makes me smile every time!!!
Actually, that's the one thing that annoys me to no end and I try to skip it whenever I can. Cool videos otherwise.
I love it when she does that :) hehe
I like it cause she doesn't beg and plead she just yells one word and moves on lol
I always smile when she says "Subscribe!!" 😁😬
I kind of play the game of getting the timing right to say it with her. Love it so much!🥰
I’m 5’4. Short for U.S. standards. My husband is 5’7. He’s PERFECT. He had self esteem issues until we met. I did too. We make each other feel content with our meat suits.
Y’all, listen....be happy with the skin you are in. Not loving yourself causes issues with others and how they interact with us. You are worthy how you are.
Meat suits lol
You're actually not! 5'4" is the average height of a woman in the U.S.
Me and my 5’1” a** crying in the distance
@@Vanessa-pf6eu So I'm 5'7, yet I feel short all the time bc my sister is 5'9, my mom is 5'11, my dad is 6'1, and my brothers are 6'2 and 6'5. I feel tiny on the regular and they make fun of me for being "short" lmfao
I spy another spn fan :) "meat suits" is what I call my body too haha
Years ago, I used a dating site where you could rate people from 1 to 5 stars, 1 being the lowest. So I proceed to RIP though profiles, rating people. Lo n behold, it says, "you have a match!"
I clicked on the notification and it says, "you've both rated each other one star!"
Be an adult and just say "sorry I don't think we clicked and I'm not interested in a 2nd date" instead of ghosting someone after promising a date (or 2nd date, etc...)
For the girl that wanted an answer to her question.
The reason why I don't like K-pop are the following reasons:
1. The culture surroubding K-pop is that you should try to look like a teenager even though most of the "stars" are approachong 30. The number of people doing plastic surgery are the #1 in the world in Korea, horrible business making money on people's insecurities and these so called "K-pop stars" are supporting this. It's a business that will subtly change what is looked upon as attractive, so that the next thing you want surgery for is different than the decade before, very smart scamming business.
2. Due to them having plastic surgery all 7 of the MEN approacing thirty in one of the most popular K-pop bands, lool the exact same, like creepy asian dolls, you know, that kind that haunts most peoples dreams.
3. There is always going to be some new trend brainwashing young people into thinking it's the greatest thing ever, because it's flashy and it's looks like the perfect world from the outIde, all sparkly and rainbows and candy land. But it's not, it's all fake. The one hope I have is that you are 11-16 years old when you are involved in the trend and then grow up. Another example of this trend is the Justin B phase, sadly still lingering for no apperent or justifiable reason.
4. People most of the time just have different oppinions and tastes, it's only because you obnoxiously insisted on an answet that I would bother giving you one, just take the first answer if you can't handle the long and real one. Thank you.
OMG...nooo, I am a BTS fan but dang I am having second hand embarrassment, not all the fandom is like this😖
Yeah. Me too. *Hiding behind my blanket*
The 5'8" guy reminds me of most guys on a famous "humour & meme" website who are so insecure and always blaming others for them sabotaging everything... How can you re-read such a convo and think "Yeah, I was perfectly normal, she definitely ruined it like the others"... Blows my mind.
The Beastie Boys song Sabotage is there anthem.
I was talking to a guy on a Tinder-like app when he asked what I was reading, and told him it was a graphic novel written from the perspective of a vampire child from a book (Interview With A Vampire for those who know). He started going on about how children are "evil" and ignored me when I explained that kids are self-centered, not evil, there's a difference and it's a natural part of child development. I cut him off and blocked him but I SO wish I had asked him "So do you get a lot of dates this way? You know, being a raging misanthrope and all." It's like they LIKE being victims...
Shot himself in the foot? Buddy emptied the entire clip
That's a good one.
I'll have to remember this. 😊
Tell them the truth, it's better than leaving them wondering.
As a fan of kpop for more than a decade if someone came at me with that energy when I was first getting into it I would have run away screaming if I met a fan like that 🤣
That 5'8" guy is going to end up an incel and blame women for it, while completely lacking the understanding that it's his attitude that's the problem. I'm 3" taller than my husband (who is not even 5'8"). Sure, some women only care about height, but (and here's the truly salient point) that's their issue, not yours.
Man, I first read that you were 3 FEET taller and immediately pictured an Amazon...
@@patrickbuick5459 lol that would be something
@@patrickbuick5459 me too!
Sad part is that 5'8 is not even that short lol.. i've been 5'4 since i was 14y old and haven't grown a single centimeter for the past 11 years 😅 also never got bullied for it.. not sure what's really his problem...
Some of us do prefer taller men for certain reasons, mine is because I need to have someone in this household that can reach the top shelf. I'm too clumsy to climb on the counter. HOWEVER I think short men are adorable, plus there's nothing better than finally being able to reach thing for your SO than the other way around......... But he's climbing to the top shelf, because I'm not paying the hospital bills for the concussion I receive when I bounce my head off the floor 😳
My husband knows everything about Star Wars... That's how he got me...I looooove Star Wars!
My Ex wife never watched them before we met but kept my Star wars blu rays when we split.
@@troysears2860 well that's unfair, but at least you enlightened her 😋
@@ivanacukic90 I got the best dog out of it so it worked out in the end.
When you die internally after witnessing someone else's pain. Yeah. Thats human decency right there.😬
"I'd rather be silently pathetic" me: Same.
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the girl who didn't give the kiss had a good answer, though, that I think was underrated: If I give a kiss to you, everybody else will want it. That's true. You know how 'copycat' and competitive some fans are.
My dad is 5'7 and I know he has never had an issue with picking up women(keeping them is his issue, he's an arsehole) he's just got good chat and doesn't feel sorry for himself 😂
10:04 I’m sure someone else answered this already, but that’s Nightmare FredBear from Five Nights at Freddy’s 4……
I’m all for being honest, but that was BRUTAL!!! She didn’t have to do him like that. 😬
The bald star wars guy maybe?
@@tgosuke yes. The bald guy. That was RUTHLESS!! Lol
The guy who’s date texted him at dinner about going to meet up with another man should’ve excused himself and left just before the bill came. She would’ve realized why that happened to her the moment she picked that phone up to ask him where he is.
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That seems like a dick move. I'd pay for my food and then go. The fact she my date doesn't wanna have sex with me doesn't entitle me to forcing them to pay for my meal.
@@Roberta_Trevino l guess you're not like the 'other girls'
@@tagourramt5082 I don't know, most of my girl friends also pay for their meal when in dates. Having had financial issues myself and knowing what it's like to save up just to go out for an evening, I wouldn't want to force someone to pay for my stuff unless they offered. You never know who's struggling financially and imposing yourself as an expense really is a dick move, no matter your gender.
I wanna add this dick move here but paid his portion of the bill (get up find the server pay on the side) and left her at the table........but realistically I would just pay the bill if that was the plan and just left it that though if we not committed it doesn't matter who she has sex with after.
@@skylarjaxx2399 Fair enough, I think that that's what I'd want to do in that situation too, just pay my bill on the side and go. But I don't really know what I'd do in that situation, it's just really awkward and there's no right way to react.
I cringed so hard at the BTS fan, just respect other people's opinions! Just because you like them doesn't mean everyone has to. And fans like this are the main reason for fanwars yet they still call themselves unproblematic.
Yes I am an army
I get embarrassed when I see such army .......they are literally making all of the army bad
@@kethanashanmukhi583 every fandom has some toxic fans and what's the worst is that people then blame whole fandom because of them or hate the artist for their fans, so yeah, that's the problem but thankfully there are people who understand that not the whole fandom is like that just because of few toxic fans, so you don't have to be embarassed for their behavior, they should be
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Hi, I'm an army since 2014 💜 and I can insure you we're not like that at all, they're just the rotten eggs 😭
Yeah same 👉🏻👈🏻
Hiding behind blanket 🥺
@Leonie That's true because the fandom is enormous! But theres not much we can do....
A larger basket of fruit will no doubt have more rotten fruit than one smaller in size.
@Leonie you're absolutely right, the fandom is massive right now. Pls just don't engage, they make us seem like lunatics. Pls remember that true armys are definitely not. 😊 Also, your name, are you perhaps Dutch, 'cause I am 🤗
@@BtsArmy-ln7qo oh I'm sorry ma'am. I didn't see your reply. You already explained it very well 😄 thank you
We know, but it's the extreme stans that ruins stuff for everyone. I personally believe there is no such thing as bad music, but rather just music that doesn't suit ones taste
Ghosting is almost never the answer, imo. Keeping their hopes up is way worse then politely telling them no. Tbh, I’d actually rather get that super rough message about my fails then be ghosted. Part of that response was just evil (the baldness part), but part of it was constructive criticism (clean your place, shut up about star wars).
Shutting up about his passion is not something he NEEDs nor is it constructive criticism. He honestly needs to realize if it's such a big part of him, he needs a different demographic of women. If you are in a relationship because you keep your passions to yourself, your relationship is built on lies already.
The insecure guy reminded me of a guy I met on a gaming app. It wasn’t for dating but to find others with similar interests to game with and soon as I didn’t respond to him instantly he started asking if I was enjoying the conversation, if I was having fun, if he was doing something wrong..
Later out of the blue he sent me an article about dating selfish psychos and how this was his life when we literally weren’t talking about dating at all. When I didn’t reply he said well I guess you didn’t like that and some other woe is me crap. He was a big teddy bear and was a single dad, I thought he was totally adorable but he drove with away with his insecurities. Guys don’t do this shit! Some women care about height yes but some guys won’t date fat chicks or women who aren’t thick enough, it goes both ways! I’m a plus sized lady and there’s so many men who find me gross, but there are still loads of guys who find me attractive. The key is just to be open and honest your appearance, not be an insecure jackass and I promise there will be people interested.
Exactly. People who are insecure and blame OTHERS for their own shortcomings and inability to establish relationships is pathetic and very ugly. No one wants to date someone like this.
Oh please, please, please with sugar on top, err I mean HI!
I may still be slightly insecure, but it is all me. It doesn't help that I only go out for errands or to do things with my son. 100% me. My cats thoroughly enjoy not being "abandoned' though.
We all.have our preferences. Yes, I like the athletic look, so not skinny, not fat, but big boned is fine, even if others think they look fat..... BUT what is inside counts big-time, probably more. Intelligence and heart are big in my books. I have dated or been friends with (even married) women that in hindsight, were on the thicker side. At the time, it didn't even matter because of who thy were.
Dicked Down what an absolutely Charming expression
people who shame others for being passionate about something are the WORST! There is literally nothing sadder than seeing someone deflate after being enthusiastic with a quiet 'but you don't want to hear about that'. Like you KNOW that people have told them that 'no one cares about that'. It is not true. Seeing someone so enthusiastically passionate about something is the best! It is adorable and I love to see it even if I don't particularly care about the topic. Like seriously. Nothing fills my heart with love for mankind than hearing someone ramble about a thing they like.
There's the uncomfortable time between when the party is supposed to begin and the first guests arrive and you start thinking that if one or two people turn up, you're screwed, but if _nobody_ turns up then at least you get to tell them what a fantastic party they missed.
People are mean beyond my understanding 😡
The one where no one turned up to the party was genuinely sad :(
That happened to me once. It was Halloween and I had invited a bunch of people 2 weeks in advance. Everyone forgot, including a friend who decided to invite people over at the last minute. Everyone... EVERYONE... was at her house. So I took all my food and stuff over there and had a good time in spite of. But I have honestly never thrown a party again and it's been over 30 years. No lie.
@@pearanerd I'm sorry that happened to you.
In elementary i had one girl invite to her birthday only for me to arrive and claim she didnt invite me. Another invited the whole class and "forgot" my invite and when I called her on for it the next day she came saying she couldnt invite anyone else. Also the last one invited me the day after inviting others and the invite card was crudely written on notebook paper🤣 like damn ok i see