It’s so hard, kinda in the same situation except we’re just friends and don’t have kids. The guy isn’t the best at all but I don’t want to try anything with someone new especially when it comes to sex. How do you start moving on and loving yourself? I lost my mother and now I feel I have no one to talk to or get advice from. Please older woman give me advice 🙏🏾
That young man has no clue what to do with his life. He has no family support, no education, no job, no income. He's clueless and needs help to change his trajectory. I hope Karamo can point him in the right direction. Would be a great update show next year.
Absolutely agree with you. I feel sorry for this young man. As much as he says he loves this girl he hasn’t a clue what love is. He said he has no support or interaction with his own family. To him she’s his support system and feels like it’s love as she’s the provider of the family. He’s searching for love from anyone he feels is offering it to him. He’s truly lost. And it’s so heartbreaking to see young people searching for guidance acceptance and love and not knowing what it feels like to have it. I wish him the best.
He want her back because she provides for him, he had no job he’s a bum he’s not anything without her .. long as she stay with him he will always have stuff that he wants & needs😌😌
Put it this way she picked him and what you think she going to pick again? She only as smart as him because she gave that man a child. She lost just like that man. As of know she only giving street guy a child. Nothing going to change her until she get therapy also. She doing what most single black mothers do. She choosing a weak man she can boss around. Then give that man a child. Then all the sudden expect that man to change. Now she'll struggle until her children grown n if it a son then it's highly likely her son will be in and out of jail. She's as irresponsible as her babydad. You won't hear Kamara say this because he knows his audience is mostly women. So instead of fixing the problem at the root of it all he just blames men for what the women choose. He'll hold the man accountable like on this short skit instead of holding both accountable.
@@troy028 They have been together since they were 16. She has a high school diploma and a job that is supporting the 3 of them, , so how can she be as irresponsible as he? He wants to be with her and she realizes that he is not pulling his weight and has brought their situation to Karamo for help and guidance. Karamo is attempting to put an end to his dependency on her by telling her he is not her responsibility and making him aware as well.
She's irresponsible in the sense that she chose to maintain such a personal relationship with this leech of a boy. She knows who he is now and knew who he was then. All the money, time and energy that she's using to fret over that boy could be used to better herself and her child. She took on the role of a mother figure at 16 which is excusable because kids don't have the best judgement but as a mother she knows better than to keep chasing another child when she has one at home. It's just frustrating cause I've seen this play out. I just hope she genuinely listens to Karamo and lives up to her full potential. Same goes for the father of her child. Sometimes taking on certain responsibility is the most irresponsible thing a person (especially a parent) can do@@jearl3054
20 years old, High School drop out and COMPLETELY NOTHING going for yourself 🤔. Gotta look in the mirror 🪞 and blame yourself. Be accountable. Your bm is gorgeous and a breadwinner. Don't take advantage of that. And also, stop 🛑 playing victim.
I salute you karmo . Me as a black man , looking an listening to this young guy and realizing how very lost he is reminds me of ME when i was young . Thank God I was able to find my way to man hood 🙏 with the help of a woman an others ... Only because I really wanted it more than anything..
I can understand him being lost and having limited opportunities. But instead of getting his ged he's cheating on the person who is solely supporting him. While he's at home with the kid do some online courses instead of wasting this opportunity. Without an education or a job only thing out there for him is crime and jail. I can't understand how people have kids but don't think about investing in their future.
She out grew him in HS. He is still emotionally a child, no need to mock or insult him. Especially y’all considering yourselves grown women and laughing at an obvious motherless child. He needed a village and instead the village ridiculing him. So glad Karamo is in this position.
I have no idea why babymoms give coodles to there baby fathers for what they are already supposed to be doing, such as babysitting and watching there own seeds.. THEY HELPED BRING THEM INTO THIS WORLD, THATS WHAT THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO BE DOING ANYWAY, THERES NO PRAISE FOR THAT. That’s fantastic! Now let’s talking this man having no job, no money, no car, no drive, but yet is cheating on you, having baby’s on you from left to right and having no place live but off of you and your kids.
Karamo is such a great guy. He really cares about ppl and their mental health. I appreciate him always trying to help people and giving his honest opinion.
Even though he's in the wrong at LEAST he can admit to having emotions and admitting that he is lost which is breaking down the patriarchal expectations because everyone has feelings
@@Lenasevilla-yb4eihow is the bar low You can't get anywhere without being honest with yourself and or even being able to identify your feelings That's the first step in changing n to succeed for anyone men or women U don't have that u don't have nothing
@@Lenasevilla-yb4ei okay???? What's that got to do with what shes talking about Even if he had a job, the same thing I said and the same thing she said would still apply You get it yet 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯
it seems like he loves her because she showed him love when no one else did. I’m glad karamo is offering to help him repair the relationship with his family because he needs it. He needs his parents and he needs to know that he’s loved and wanted. This young man feels disposable and unworthy of anything. I pray for his journey & him turning his life around!🙌🏾❤️
I am disgusted. Why would he wants to be with someone he sees as a mother figure. That's why a lot women don't want to be intimate with SO because they see their SO as their child or another child.
Thats because he lacks a mother figure, or at least a good one, so he seeks it in women like her. Unsurprisingly a lot of men with mommy issues tend to do something similar and aren't aware of it
He is too slow, move on girl. He needs to go get his GED and get himself all the way together 💯 until then he will just be a burden and another mouth to feed 🫢
I hope that this young lady can relocate somewhere safe because this guy is all messed up and needs a ton of help plus he’s dependent and if she stops helping him he’ll snapped and try to harm her. Even though he’s being offered help he still can be a harm to her and the baby.
He got off easy. She seemed like she wanted Karamo to unlock his phone because she is still in love with him and still involved with him, and she seemed like she wanted to find out if he is out there giving it away for free.
He should get his GED and go get a trade. PERIOD. Focus on yourself Queen and let this young King go find himself. As young parents I wish they would be able to co-parent successfully while he goes and get help that he needs for personal growth. Wish them the best and the little one ✌🏾
She’s a beautiful young lady & has no reason to continue wasting her youth on him. He needs to get it together as a young man & she can’t help him do that - clearly.
Karamo wow - the way you handled this was amazing and absolutely spot on. You tackled the root, didn’t attack this young man for what he’s displaying on a surface label. Job well done and I hope you’re able to help him do the work to free himself from the bondage he’s in. As for the young lady, you freed her and gave her the confirmation she needed not to get bogged down with this young man who would have ultimately dragged her down.
Sounded Like Karamo Was Calling Him Tiera, In Which I Thought It Fit Him Because He Was Not Holding Up His Responsibility as a Young Man But Seeing Him Admit To His Problems, Short Comings and His Agreement To Get Help, I'm Glad Karamo Offered Him Counseling. Because When You're Depressed, it is Very Hard To Be Motivated To Do Anything, I Know This From Experience.
He is a young man who lost his way and needs guidance and direction. With the proper support, he will come well. He seems remorseful, and I don't think he is happy with where he is now, which is a good sign that he wants to change. I am so glad that Mar Karamo has offered him support, which he accepted. The lady seems to be a kind person who feels responsible for him and plays a mother role, but you cannot be a mother to someone who is supposed to be your potential husband because that makes him even more irresponsible in this context. She has to move on with her life for now and keep developing, while the young man needs some counselling and guidance to discover himself because right now, he is lost. However, the good thing is that he can turn things around if he is committed. I wish them the best, and I pray they both become hugely successful.
That relationship is over. Once a woman starts saying things like “I feel like his mother or he’s another child” all the respect is gone. You won’t get that back.
Us as women (some) are nurturing beings almost to the point we do act like mothers to our men. I’m speaking from experience so I can understand how she fell into that role. Then we get upset at the man for not being what we needed him to be. Not taking sides, but it’s hard when you’ve done it for so long it becomes second nature. I pray that they both find they’re path & co-parent in peace.
Hopefully with Karamo's help, this young man can re-establish ties with his family and with the counselling he can get himself on the right path because he seems so lost. He is of no help to himself let alone his kid and her Mom. Airreyonna needs to ensure that the only dealings she has with Teair is in relation to their child, it is about time you take care of yourself and your baby. God's blessings!
He only want to be with her because she does not have standards. She’s taking care of him and he’s comfortable. Men love where it’s comfortable at. They want the women with standards but know that they can’t measure up so they settle for her type. Sad truth. And when I say here type, I’m not referring to looks, I’m referring to her taking care of him without receiving anything in return
Thank you Karamo,great advice for both of them please 🙏 help him, he's lost and the baby mama not helping their situation, she's the enabler @ her age where did she even learn these bad behaviors of taking care of a man.
I'm so thankful for this episode. ❤ It's seems too easy for Black women to fall into the pattern of babying Black men. We deserve to be wives with caring and capable HUSBANDS. The era of grown man-boys needs to stop! Young Black women get abandoned by their families and still have to figure it out. Sometimes they have to figure it out while caring for their own child(ren). Black men can grown up and handle their own too!
I'm glad this young woman chose herself. It's always harder when you have a child with someone but she owes it to herself and their child to give herself the opportunity to have someone who loves and provides for her - not just someone who uses her.
Sometimes we can love someone so much we subconsciously take on the role of whoever they may be missing in their life..and we start to neglect our own…whole time it was never our responsibility
When he said he want everything back to normal and that he want to stop bringing up the past…so you want her to just forget everything y’all went through?? this man is a joke😂
He will definitely ruin her life if this continues. She seems so mature and responsible for her age. I hope she continues to grow wiser and has much success.
This girl said him staying home while she get up and go to work is a big help for her.. umm no ma’am. Him getting a job and helping you go half on daycare so you BOTH can work and support the child and each other.. y’all settle for anything
I love the way Karamo handle this! That boy needs love and support. But one thing I want to suggest. Why not speak with the mom & dad. Over and over again I say this: Mommas baby daddy’s maybe and all the responsibility is always on the mother! Never the father. When the father being absent is more of the problem than anything else!
This young man needs to grow up, get a regular job, even a nine to five, learn to look after himself. He is exactly like a child looking for a Mother and Father and is clutching on to this poor young woman to provide for him, so sad. He will never be any use to himself or anyone until he learns the basic lessons of life and responsibility. She needs to get him out of her life until he proves he's a man.
should’ve known when the first thing that came out his mouth about why he needed her back was bc he’s BROKE. please mann 😭😭 this was me a couple years ago thankfully my son helped me escape that situation cus now I have a REAL CHILD to take care of, not some grown ass adult.
She provides for him so he doesn’t have to get it together.. girl stay a baby mama because at this point that man is another child to take care of … yuck I can’t stand that type of situation…
This guy is a lost soul who needs serious help. His family abandoned him and he found a home with this girl, which is what he truly wants, not a relationship. She just needs to co parent with him until he heals, which is gonna take YEARS. He dropped out of school to join the streets (which btw he doesn't fit the thug esthetic, I can see him now trying to rob somebody 🤣). But all jokes aside, I'm glad Karamo offered him some counseling. Now it's on the guy to actually show up and participate. He's only 20, so it's not too late for him.
He’s literally a bum and that’s the only reason why he wants to latch back on to her! She thinks it’s cute to keep saying “I gave him everything like a mom” and that’s the problem! Wake up girl!!
He wants her back because she allows him to do nothing while she take care of everything. He seems like he has no ambition or drive beyond laying up and making babies. She can keep being pitiful with him or be amazing without him. He has a very low vibe.
Girllllll he’s w/ you b/c you take care of him & you’re sticking by him b/c of looks & sex. Focus on your child, being single & loving yourself. 💁🏾♀️
This💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
SAY IT AGAIN!!!!!!!
It’s so hard, kinda in the same situation except we’re just friends and don’t have kids. The guy isn’t the best at all but I don’t want to try anything with someone new especially when it comes to sex. How do you start moving on and loving yourself? I lost my mother and now I feel I have no one to talk to or get advice from. Please older woman give me advice 🙏🏾
He talks like a mumble rapper 🤦🏽♀️🫣
U got it 100%. But he don't even look good tho
Him talking alone is ENOUGH for me 🤦🏾♀️
Girrrrlll!! Okay!! Open your mouth!!
That's exactly what I thought the moment I heard him talk it was a no
Girl I thought it was just me! I was getting so annoyed with his speech and you can clearly see that he hasn’t developed past a certain age.
Yesss!!! 😂😂
@@NicholeFormon I thought he was on lean.
He only wants her back bc she’s taking care of him. Run Girllllll RUNNNNN!!!!!
🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️ as fast as you can He making BABIES HE can't and doesn't take care of.
@@shirleyrussell7089yeah which says a lot about her🤦🏽♀️🙄. Yikes😬
Refusing to unlock the phone your gf/kid's mother bought for you is WILD.
I mean why isn't she unlocking her phone and 2 their not together.
What's the point in unlocking the phone when they're not together lol
There should be stuff in his phone....they aint together lol
Not really.
@@kingdjack6 bc she not the one cheating???
@@scorpiocara6798cuz he said he misses her and wants their family back????
Dear Lord please never let me be this desperate for a relationship Amen
AMEN
Amen
LOL!! Amen
Amen, Amen!
Amén y amén. 🙏🏼
That young man has no clue what to do with his life. He has no family support, no education, no job, no income. He's clueless and needs help to change his trajectory. I hope Karamo can point him in the right direction. Would be a great update show next year.
Yes he needs Steve Harvey mentoring camp for young men
Prayers for this young man and young lady ❤
Absolutely agree with you. I feel sorry for this young man. As much as he says he loves this girl he hasn’t a clue what love is. He said he has no support or interaction with his own family. To him she’s his support system and feels like it’s love as she’s the provider of the family. He’s searching for love from anyone he feels is offering it to him. He’s truly lost. And it’s so heartbreaking to see young people searching for guidance acceptance and love and not knowing what it feels like to have it. I wish him the best.
Facts😢
Hunny, he ain’t got no JOB…
I love Karamo because instead of tearing this young brother down, he lifted him up, and offered counseling services because he saw the need.
I wish the comments were more like this.
He’s amazing at what he does. I must admit I’d be tearing into some of his guests but he really gets through to them
He want her back because she provides for him, he had no job he’s a bum he’s not anything without her .. long as she stay with him he will always have stuff that he wants & needs😌😌
Exactly. That was basically his answer- he needs her and to him that’s love. She needs to decide if that’s what love means to her
She’s overweight
You don’t get a provider being out of shape. That’s the rules of being overweight, same for big stomach guys pay what you weigh
He's on his grind 🤑
@@jeromebass7878so you’re a bum too 🤣😂😂
@@KingRose339That's your opinion I don't judge 🙏 😇 people
"She broke up with me and every since then i been broke" 😂😂😂😂😂
That had mee weak🤣so u know u ain’t shit😭
Bars 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂 u silly
😂😂😂😂 Enough Said right there!
Right
OH BABY KEEP HIM AS A BABY DADDY! Don’t even waste your time anymore. He’s like another child you said 🤔
Put it this way she picked him and what you think she going to pick again? She only as smart as him because she gave that man a child. She lost just like that man. As of know she only giving street guy a child. Nothing going to change her until she get therapy also. She doing what most single black mothers do. She choosing a weak man she can boss around. Then give that man a child. Then all the sudden expect that man to change. Now she'll struggle until her children grown n if it a son then it's highly likely her son will be in and out of jail. She's as irresponsible as her babydad. You won't hear Kamara say this because he knows his audience is mostly women. So instead of fixing the problem at the root of it all he just blames men for what the women choose. He'll hold the man accountable like on this short skit instead of holding both accountable.
@@troy028 They have been together since they were 16. She has a high school diploma and a job that is supporting the 3 of them, , so how can she be as irresponsible as he? He wants to be with her and she realizes that he is not pulling his weight and has brought their situation to Karamo for help and guidance. Karamo is attempting to put an end to his dependency on her by telling her he is not her responsibility and making him aware as well.
Stfu you don’t understand
She's irresponsible in the sense that she chose to maintain such a personal relationship with this leech of a boy. She knows who he is now and knew who he was then. All the money, time and energy that she's using to fret over that boy could be used to better herself and her child. She took on the role of a mother figure at 16 which is excusable because kids don't have the best judgement but as a mother she knows better than to keep chasing another child when she has one at home. It's just frustrating cause I've seen this play out. I just hope she genuinely listens to Karamo and lives up to her full potential. Same goes for the father of her child. Sometimes taking on certain responsibility is the most irresponsible thing a person (especially a parent) can do@@jearl3054
20 years old, High School drop out and COMPLETELY NOTHING going for yourself 🤔. Gotta look in the mirror 🪞 and blame yourself. Be accountable. Your bm is gorgeous and a breadwinner. Don't take advantage of that. And also, stop 🛑 playing victim.
Gorgeous?. Man your taste must be terrible.
He never once said he was a victim
You must ain’t have nobody in your corner ! You a foul human being !
I actually feel for him.he feels unworthy didn't finish school,nothing to offer but sex.he wants his mothers love
Same and she don’t want to see him in the streets
You are so right.
He needs help.
Don't be so sympathetic Lorraine. HOMIE KNOW EXACTLY WHAT he doing. Consistently with his hand out 💁🏿♂️
Y’all love speaking life into these kangs 😅😂
Why not a father's love.
Girl, he can barely string together a sentence, he doesn’t provide for himself or the baby. Don’t adopt this grown child.
He provided daycare for his daughter
@@momonie4wooow amazing 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
wow congratulations he did something a parent should be doing anyways 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@@momonie4 yes, he's not working and living with her. That was him doing the least.
I salute you karmo . Me as a black man , looking an listening to this young guy and realizing how very lost he is reminds me of ME when i was young . Thank God I was able to find my way to man hood 🙏 with the help of a woman an others ... Only because I really wanted it more than anything..
I can understand him being lost and having limited opportunities. But instead of getting his ged he's cheating on the person who is solely supporting him. While he's at home with the kid do some online courses instead of wasting this opportunity. Without an education or a job only thing out there for him is crime and jail. I can't understand how people have kids but don't think about investing in their future.
Girl he want you because you're like a Momma. You provide for him. Get a backbone!
She out grew him in HS. He is still emotionally a child, no need to mock or insult him. Especially y’all considering yourselves grown women and laughing at an obvious motherless child. He needed a village and instead the village ridiculing him. So glad Karamo is in this position.
Speak on it sis 💯
I have no idea why babymoms give coodles to there baby fathers for what they are already supposed to be doing, such as babysitting and watching there own seeds..
THEY HELPED BRING THEM INTO THIS WORLD, THATS WHAT THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO BE DOING ANYWAY, THERES NO PRAISE FOR THAT.
That’s fantastic! Now let’s talking this man having no job, no money, no car, no drive, but yet is cheating on you, having baby’s on you from left to right and having no place live but off of you and your kids.
That’s because, they don’t feel they can keep a man unless he’s dependent on her.
I knew he needed a place to stay and someone to take care of him as soon as he started talking! 🙄
Just embarrassing why she let that man embarrass her like this.
he ain’t embarrass me.
@@airreyonnaclair7989well this is embarrassing you taking care of a man is insane
@@Simoneegyalshe is still young and needs to learn. It will be ok
@@airreyonnaclair7989girl what’s your IG??
@@Simoneegyal don’t believe everything they are saying I wasn’t just taking care of him .
Yup, this guy is still a child. He's not ready to be someone's boyfriend much less someone's dad.
And all the mumbling lol
Karamo is such a great guy. He really cares about ppl and their mental health. I appreciate him always trying to help people and giving his honest opinion.
He's not willing to do what it takes for her and the child.
Other woman pregnant is crazy
Exactly he needs go back to school and get his stuff together
The other woman had a miscarriage.
He needs a GED
he doesn’t even have a high school diploma
Even though he's in the wrong at LEAST he can admit to having emotions and admitting that he is lost which is breaking down the patriarchal expectations because everyone has feelings
The bar is low for yall 😩🤦🏾♀️
@@Lenasevilla-yb4eihow is the bar low
You can't get anywhere without being honest with yourself and or even being able to identify your feelings
That's the first step in changing n to succeed for anyone men or women
U don't have that u don't have nothing
@@scorpiocara6798 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️he needs a job
@@Lenasevilla-yb4ei okay???? What's that got to do with what shes talking about
Even if he had a job, the same thing I said and the same thing she said would still apply
You get it yet
🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯
@@scorpiocara6798 omg🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️. I feel sorry for you
it seems like he loves her because she showed him love when no one else did. I’m glad karamo is offering to help him repair the relationship with his family because he needs it. He needs his parents and he needs to know that he’s loved and wanted. This young man feels disposable and unworthy of anything. I pray for his journey & him turning his life around!🙌🏾❤️
Beautifully said. I agree 💯
I love how karamo handles them with care ❤
I'm my man ever got another woman pregnant it'll be over forever I'd never talk to him again
His speech is giving 6th grade level education. I would not be fighting to keep no “man” like that… 🤷🏾♂️💀
I am disgusted. Why would he wants to be with someone he sees as a mother figure. That's why a lot women don't want to be intimate with SO because they see their SO as their child or another child.
Thats because he lacks a mother figure, or at least a good one, so he seeks it in women like her. Unsurprisingly a lot of men with mommy issues tend to do something similar and aren't aware of it
He is too slow, move on girl.
He needs to go get his GED and get himself all the way together 💯 until then he will just be a burden and another mouth to feed 🫢
I hope that this young lady can relocate somewhere safe because this guy is all messed up and needs a ton of help plus he’s dependent and if she stops helping him he’ll snapped and try to harm her. Even though he’s being offered help he still can be a harm to her and the baby.
Watching him speak for the first 30 seconds, I don't even have to bother watching till the end. He needs help to get over his addictions....
He got off easy. She seemed like she wanted Karamo to unlock his phone because she is still in love with him and still involved with him, and she seemed like she wanted to find out if he is out there giving it away for free.
He should get his GED and go get a trade. PERIOD. Focus on yourself Queen and let this young King go find himself. As young parents I wish they would be able to co-parent successfully while he goes and get help that he needs for personal growth. Wish them the best and the little one ✌🏾
He either has a large load of trauma, or just DL.
He just confused and don’t wanna be alone .
Hope Karmo was able to reunite The young man with his family .Best of luck to the young lady she seems like a smart young lady.
She’s a beautiful young lady & has no reason to continue wasting her youth on him. He needs to get it together as a young man & she can’t help him do that - clearly.
Karamo wow - the way you handled this was amazing and absolutely spot on. You tackled the root, didn’t attack this young man for what he’s displaying on a surface label. Job well done and I hope you’re able to help him do the work to free himself from the bondage he’s in. As for the young lady, you freed her and gave her the confirmation she needed not to get bogged down with this young man who would have ultimately dragged her down.
KARAMO TO THE RESCUE. Glad he was able to help these two
Karamo should have also offered him the resources to get into GED school. How can he get a job without one ? It will be difficult .
Sounded Like Karamo Was Calling Him Tiera, In Which I Thought It Fit Him Because He Was Not Holding Up His Responsibility as a Young Man But Seeing Him Admit To His Problems, Short Comings and His Agreement To Get Help, I'm Glad Karamo Offered Him Counseling. Because When You're Depressed, it is Very Hard To Be Motivated To Do Anything, I Know This From Experience.
Like Karamo said,he's trying to belong.He is looking for a mother.
So I'm happy,that Karamo will help him.
He is a young man who lost his way and needs guidance and direction. With the proper support, he will come well. He seems remorseful, and I don't think he is happy with where he is now, which is a good sign that he wants to change. I am so glad that Mar Karamo has offered him support, which he accepted. The lady seems to be a kind person who feels responsible for him and plays a mother role, but you cannot be a mother to someone who is supposed to be your potential husband because that makes him even more irresponsible in this context. She has to move on with her life for now and keep developing, while the young man needs some counselling and guidance to discover himself because right now, he is lost. However, the good thing is that he can turn things around if he is committed. I wish them the best, and I pray they both become hugely successful.
She damn right she's not his responsibility anymoree
That relationship is over. Once a woman starts saying things like “I feel like his mother or he’s another child” all the respect is gone. You won’t get that back.
Man, I love Karamo, just always doing it correct! no notes!
Us as women (some) are nurturing beings almost to the point we do act like mothers to our men. I’m speaking from experience so I can understand how she fell into that role. Then we get upset at the man for not being what we needed him to be. Not taking sides, but it’s hard when you’ve done it for so long it becomes second nature. I pray that they both find they’re path & co-parent in peace.
She is so well-spoken and put together. They don’t match at all.
Karamo is the best! Love that he has empathy for both guests and offers real solutions ❤
Kara Mo you are just the best, help the young handsome man to find himself God bless u Karamo all the way from Zambia Lusaka
This young man seems so broken. I’m glad he will get help…
Hopefully with Karamo's help, this young man can re-establish ties with his family and with the counselling he can get himself on the right path because he seems so lost. He is of no help to himself let alone his kid and her Mom. Airreyonna needs to ensure that the only dealings she has with Teair is in relation to their child, it is about time you take care of yourself and your baby. God's blessings!
yes he told the girl he wanted to be with her because he knew was finna be homeless when this lady found out 😭
He only want to be with her because she does not have standards. She’s taking care of him and he’s comfortable. Men love where it’s comfortable at. They want the women with standards but know that they can’t measure up so they settle for her type. Sad truth. And when I say here type, I’m not referring to looks, I’m referring to her taking care of him without receiving anything in return
I have standards stop letting this script shit get to you.
@@airreyonnaclair7989 I only go off what y’all showin so yea I stand on what I said
Karamo know.... I feel just what he feel, When he started talking I could tell that young man is BROKEN AND LOST
Karamo changing lives
That was sooo painful to watch.. young ladies like this can damn there have any man they want and they choose a barnacle boy
Thank you Karamo,great advice for both of them please 🙏 help him, he's lost and the baby mama not helping their situation, she's the enabler @ her age where did she even learn these bad behaviors of taking care of a man.
That boy has sooo much to learn.. I pray he becomes a great man one day ❤
This man is depending in her for his survival and she’s more worried about him cheating! 😭😭😭😭😭😭
I'm so thankful for this episode. ❤ It's seems too easy for Black women to fall into the pattern of babying Black men. We deserve to be wives with caring and capable HUSBANDS. The era of grown man-boys needs to stop! Young Black women get abandoned by their families and still have to figure it out. Sometimes they have to figure it out while caring for their own child(ren). Black men can grown up and handle their own too!
I'm glad this young woman chose herself. It's always harder when you have a child with someone but she owes it to herself and their child to give herself the opportunity to have someone who loves and provides for her - not just someone who uses her.
This
Sometimes we can love someone so much we subconsciously take on the role of whoever they may be missing in their life..and we start to neglect our own…whole time it was never our responsibility
This dude walked out like weirdo. He seems slow in the head.
He was probably nervous out there
Another child literally. Sweetheart move on. He’s using DF out of you.
One thing I can say about Karomo he is always willing to help people that's y I watch his show he is real
"Stop Getting Other Women Pregnant!" That could be crazy enough work.
It’s sad that he feels that way and already brought a child into the world when he’s not healed and has so much trauma going on .
When he said he want everything back to normal and that he want to stop bringing up the past…so you want her to just forget everything y’all went through?? this man is a joke😂
He will definitely ruin her life if this continues. She seems so mature and responsible for her age. I hope she continues to grow wiser and has much success.
This girl said him staying home while she get up and go to work is a big help for her.. umm no ma’am. Him getting a job and helping you go half on daycare so you BOTH can work and support the child and each other.. y’all settle for anything
I have child care nd naw ion need nun but a sitter .
Don’t do it girl! 😅😅
karamo really doing gods work out here i love this man !!!
He looks sad and I hope there’s a update
I love the way Karamo handle this! That boy needs love and support. But one thing I want to suggest. Why not speak with the mom & dad. Over and over again I say this: Mommas baby daddy’s maybe and all the responsibility is always on the mother! Never the father. When the father being absent is more of the problem than anything else!
That young man is stuck and lost she has to leave him alone to bring herself up
Karamo we need an update on him!!
Omg I feel so bad for him … damn I hope he get help. He too young & I would hate for any crazy things to happen to him.
Pick wisely wth 🤦🏾♀️
This young man needs to grow up, get a regular job, even a nine to five, learn to look after himself. He is exactly like a child looking for a Mother and Father and is clutching on to this poor young woman to provide for him, so sad. He will never be any use to himself or anyone until he learns the basic lessons of life and responsibility. She needs to get him out of her life until he proves he's a man.
should’ve known when the first thing that came out his mouth about why he needed her back was bc he’s BROKE. please mann 😭😭 this was me a couple years ago thankfully my son helped me escape that situation cus now I have a REAL CHILD to take care of, not some grown ass adult.
She provides for him so he doesn’t have to get it together.. girl stay a baby mama because at this point that man is another child to take care of … yuck I can’t stand that type of situation…
Girl bye. He needs his mom and dad, a counselor, Jesus, a job…..a lot. You can’t be his momma. Please help him.
Ikr, she more worried about him cheating then him actually getting in his feet 😭😭😭😭
She doesn’t want to let him not have no where to go!!
I’m sure he was like this when they first started dating & yet she still chose to have this man’s baby.. lord have mercy.
Ughhhhh. You can tell she's a good person. Leave that man alone sis! You deserve better.
Karamo is such a great person omg❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
She said she owns him. What a looser
This guy is a lost soul who needs serious help. His family abandoned him and he found a home with this girl, which is what he truly wants, not a relationship. She just needs to co parent with him until he heals, which is gonna take YEARS. He dropped out of school to join the streets (which btw he doesn't fit the thug esthetic, I can see him now trying to rob somebody 🤣). But all jokes aside, I'm glad Karamo offered him some counseling. Now it's on the guy to actually show up and participate. He's only 20, so it's not too late for him.
He’s literally a bum and that’s the only reason why he wants to latch back on to her! She thinks it’s cute to keep saying “I gave him everything like a mom” and that’s the problem! Wake up girl!!
He wants her back because she allows him to do nothing while she take care of everything. He seems like he has no ambition or drive beyond laying up and making babies. She can keep being pitiful with him or be amazing without him. He has a very low vibe.
Wow this guy definitely needs help.. so he can find his place in life
I feel for him! How I wish he is in Nigeria
2:01 Karamo knows damn well🤣🤣
The young man looks really lost....
I love you Karamo, thank you for all that you do for our community 🫶🏾🫶🏾
His parents fail him first
She's too good for him.
I'm glad Karamo saw what wasn't said....That young dude needs some kind of guidance, I wish him the best with better.
That boy is young and this not the end of his cheating ,, he’s n his prime as well as her,