Light Triad vs Dark Triad (2020 Rerun)
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- [Rerun] We’ve heard of the “Dark Triad” (Narcissism, Machiavellianism, and Psychopathy) but what about the “Light Triad” (Kantianism, Humanism, and Faith in Humanity)? Dr. Kirk takes the test and sees how “Dark” and how “Light” he is.
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January 1, 2020
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Being an achiever may also be influenced by upbringing and society. If people are primarily defined by their achievements, than they must achieve to exist. Society has influence because of how it defines "achievements" - usually in the simplest form of something tangible or that may be measured/scored/understood/easily labeled. Imo.
At what age can anyone consider themselves simply as "older"?
Your question is vague. PD's usually start in early childhood. Basically 'the cake is baked' as far as empathy goes by about 10 years old although I'm a firm believer in growth, maturity and intervention goes and people less than 18 years old can't be diagnosed with them although scientists are now saying that people aren't fully matured or grown until 25 years old.
Some of my best examples of goodness came from Andy Griffith, Little house on the prairie, the Walton’s.
L. Ron. Hubbard did not 'discover' anything....not policing just clarifying.....You will know them by their fruits 🙏☦💙
Your timing is perfect with this repost. I have a friend who needs to hear this!
I came to Kant through The Good Place!
Not my experience of Young vs. Old, since I moved to a populated by elders community. The elders my age and older are quite narcissistic and borderline.
The young are more stable.
As narcism is a spectrum and isn't always associated with outright toxicity many of us may find ourselves in relationships with more benign narcissists especially if the covert type. Is there much discussion or advise for those this is the case for where there are destructive narcissist patterns of behaviour that come out in stress and conflict but are not necessarily abusive?
A lot of advise tends to be "leave the narcist" and " they will never truely love you" which I feel is not always true
What it sounds more like to me is that you are pointing towards traits of Narcissism, such as being more selfish or egocentric, and possibly even having strong emotional reactions that include blaming when a person becomes upset. While anyone can have traits of Narcissism, Narcistic Personality Disorder whether being Covert or Grandiose, have personalities entirely surrounded by bolstering their ego and even manipulating others to maintain a superior image of themselves. This is why it is considered a spectrum, because we can observe those traits without a person being eligible for the criteria in the diagnosis for NPD. There is also some overlap with traits for NPD with other personality disorders, so it's best not to always assume someone has NPD or is a Narcissist because anyone can act in Narcissistic ways at times.
But for those with personality issues that don't require psychiatric treatment, if a person can gain insight into their behavior and actively works towards changing that, they can often lessen emotional reactivity or change their behaviors by communicating better or more effectively. Sometimes that still requires guided Therapy however, because we are not often taught in normal society how to effectively communicate our emotions without being rude or blaming someone else for them.
To prevent attracting Narcissistic partners it comes down to being more aware of people pleasing tendencies and knowing how to use healthy boundaries from being manipulated or used for Narcissistic supply of their need for attention or putting down others. Some of us have had Narcissistic people in our lives growing up that make these behaviors normalized for us and are more susceptible to later having them as partners, where those behaviors are seen as more charismatic and attractive, while more healthy behaviors seem fake or abnormal and make us feel uneasy instead. So guided Therapy may be needed to help in those areas including teaching how to see red flags of abusive behaviors. Adversely, treating the other person instead that meets the criteria for NPD is difficult though, because they often see treatment or accepting help as being weak. And then they lack the insight or self-awareness to feel bad for how they act (often making it the fault of another or of outside factors instead of accepting accountability) and have no motivation to change the way they behave normally. That is why most people suggest to just get away from them.
"humans are a social species" is true scientifically speaking but this is a VERY wide spectrum.
I am more light side by 20-30% than average and less dark side by give or take 10% than average except machiavellianism, which I am 7.78% more machiavellian than average