What Exactly is Self-Control? | Jordan Peterson

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  • Опубликовано: 19 янв 2025

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  • @TheModernDating
    @TheModernDating 3 года назад +81

    Self-control is the strong awareness behind the mind that can stand detached to the madness of the mind. Thanks for sharing - Migue

  • @motivationbaychannel6891
    @motivationbaychannel6891 3 года назад +43

    Dear friend, step outside of your comfort zone.🔥 Stop playing it safe and make that decision to finally go for your dreams.🎯
    You must win, I am rooting for you.

  • @Leo-mr1qz
    @Leo-mr1qz 3 года назад +22

    "Practice makes permanent." - My high-school basketball coach ('94)

  • @Science10s
    @Science10s 3 года назад +13

    He remains a blessing to our society.

  • @Hasan_Almasri_87
    @Hasan_Almasri_87 3 года назад +58

    02:25
    Anything you practice becomes part of you

  • @THEUNCROCKTTV
    @THEUNCROCKTTV 3 года назад +12

    Im happy to see you uploading again. Always the best JP vids. No excess music, other speakers, not too long, etc...just the point. Thank you

    • @ILfarmgirl1970
      @ILfarmgirl1970 2 года назад +1

      I agree. Thank you for not adding mood music.

  • @christophzika1573
    @christophzika1573 3 года назад +7

    Welcome back, sir!

  • @sudreddevil
    @sudreddevil 3 года назад +5

    Welcome back buddy!

  • @onfirefoley2792
    @onfirefoley2792 3 года назад +9

    Missed these, thank you

    • @WordToTheWise
      @WordToTheWise  3 года назад +5

      Going to be uploading weekly again ;)

    • @onfirefoley2792
      @onfirefoley2792 3 года назад +2

      @@WordToTheWise whoot! But you're doing okay right?

  • @MorenoKing1997
    @MorenoKing1997 3 года назад +3

    been waiting for a new video! thanks man👍🏼

  • @mesutdoyurucu377
    @mesutdoyurucu377 3 года назад +2

    Thank you my brother, you are the profound teacher of our time.

  • @kotaguy7
    @kotaguy7 3 года назад +3

    Thank you for sourcing the video

  • @alex-ander-13
    @alex-ander-13 6 месяцев назад

    Once again, thank you to both of you, to your team and of course to doctor Jordan!

  • @richardmiddleton7770
    @richardmiddleton7770 3 года назад +4

    1:37 was that Jordan Peterson laughing?!

  • @Hicom310
    @Hicom310 Год назад

    What he said about OCD is very true.

  • @eliasbarrionuevo3332
    @eliasbarrionuevo3332 3 года назад +1

    Amazing!! That was like a "wake up, stupid"

  • @wandantombela4877
    @wandantombela4877 3 года назад +5

    Interesting stuff but what I would like to know is how to minimize or take control of this habits so you can maximize your input towards whatever I'll be doing?

    • @marshallmastery1848
      @marshallmastery1848 Год назад

      From what I understood, you can't. You can however, consistently practice or do things to minimize the habits and eventually make it a part of your unconscious self.

    • @stacykee8285
      @stacykee8285 2 месяца назад

      Mediate. Basically you're training your "self" to focus on one thing.

  • @sicklecroftdave456
    @sicklecroftdave456 3 года назад +14

    Self control in my experience is at its upmost when a cow has calved perfectly but refuses to stand still in order for the calf to suckle the most important drink of its life, so that’s when you summon up the courage to assist knowing full well you will get kicked and knocked over, not only that if you push the calf towards the teat it goes into reverse, if you pull it towards the teat it goes into reverse, to make matters even more interesting is the fact that the calf is still covered in birth fluids basically the best lubricant on the planet , so self control is very important its stops me from beating the calf to death with a shovel then if I’m not by now on the floor sobbing for breath i would then turn my attention to the mother giving her the same treatment, may i just add that this has never happened i have always been successful in getting calves nursing when the need arises,but in the early hours of the morning i have certainly thought about it, plus i can never find a shovel when i want one.🐮🇬🇧 ps so i believe that is a good indicator of self control on my part and yes this story is true this does happen to me.

    • @UnrulyJ88
      @UnrulyJ88 Год назад

      Awesome comment
      😄

    • @sicklecroftdave456
      @sicklecroftdave456 Год назад

      @@UnrulyJ88 Thank you very much sir. Presently we are just coming to the end of calving 350 limousine cows plus 60 first time Calvers therefore have been to hell and back yet again, but the spectacular results are more than worth it, the temptation to incorporate the shovel still exists but i am still able to suppress the temptation.😂😂🇬🇧👍

  • @DrAAbid-dh4us
    @DrAAbid-dh4us 2 года назад

    Thank you

  • @olgacarmenforsythsanchez4288
    @olgacarmenforsythsanchez4288 3 года назад

    Thanks JP.

  • @ILfarmgirl1970
    @ILfarmgirl1970 2 года назад

    Did anyone else notice what he said about autonomous semi- spirits and 'you're in the grip of something?' It was towards the end.

  • @mikemerrill5223
    @mikemerrill5223 3 года назад +1

    Self Mastery is one of Highest Goals to obtain...

  • @ruzkovwantchange2000
    @ruzkovwantchange2000 3 года назад

    02:25
    Ooh i see, thats why i never forget how to ride my bike, even after a year.

  • @FabianOkafor
    @FabianOkafor 3 года назад

    This was legendary

  • @Mohammadali_9999
    @Mohammadali_9999 3 года назад +1

    So what should we do?

  • @rainermaelger4726
    @rainermaelger4726 3 года назад

    Danke

  • @juliehardingham108
    @juliehardingham108 3 года назад +1

    When we are selfless we are connected to the divine, a love that is mercyful and loving. With love jdx

  • @jamielake-boyd3600
    @jamielake-boyd3600 Год назад

    What is so bizarre for me is.... it's when I'm calm and mono tone where I lose self control. If am loud amd yelling I'm in full control. When I get quiet it's bad. It's funny because I said I'm autistic so when I talk momo tone for some reason I think they can understand me better it's because they better be understanding me better. It's serious.

  • @areebali9298
    @areebali9298 3 года назад

    what are the tips to being more self controlled and stronger than your impulses

    • @Thewonderingminds
      @Thewonderingminds 3 года назад

      ethical simplicity

    • @tinafritz6401
      @tinafritz6401 Год назад +1

      Pursue God and he gives us the gifts of the Holy Spirit. One of them is self-control. It’s a fruit of living a Christian life.

  • @fateriddle14
    @fateriddle14 3 года назад

    where do I find the whole video?

  • @murlimanoharadas
    @murlimanoharadas Год назад

    The working senses are superior to dull matter; mind is higher than the senses; intelligence is still higher than the mind; and he the soul (the observer) is even higher than the intelligence.
    Bhagavad Gita Chapter 3 Text .42

  • @madison_drew
    @madison_drew 3 года назад +5

    Cuz well, your a mess .. haha 😆 I love it 🥰, he is an amazing doctor truly blessed physician we don’t have many of these people in this world he is one of a kind and I am appreciative, he brings solutions for it however so that is good.

  • @hanuyen4898
    @hanuyen4898 Год назад

    1:03

  • @debbiesianturi2505
    @debbiesianturi2505 3 года назад +2

    I only remember on 9 Holy Fruits, the last is Self-Control

  • @jarradpuckridge8210
    @jarradpuckridge8210 Год назад

    Self control is where you keep every horrible thought sarcastic quip and impulse locked deep inside towards people you despise in favour of a long term prosperty or goal.
    Maintaining sensibility against the overwhelming desire to burn down the monuments to misery.
    In short i hate my job.😢. And i hate my co workers.

  • @juliehardingham108
    @juliehardingham108 3 года назад +2

    Because sin is in the world, this is a strange fornominal, only through jesus who died for us , do we obtain gods grace, for god loves us so much , only through jesus will we know of gods love, and are free from the chains of sin, as long as we are then selfless, and do not live by the ego. My perception comes from where i am standing, it may in fact look different from anothers, perception, jesus came for all man kind, it is in him through him that we can see christs conciousness, and therefore, those that already speak of gods love, have it already, it is those that follow their own ego, who are selfish and only for themselves that the only way their hearts can be changed is by coming to jesus, those that already who are selfless, already know of gods love, and speak of it. How wonderful that we can all obtain gods love, through the cross, if in fact we want it, for it is a free gift. We all have a journey in life, some are on different levels of life, if the world , was to end which it is not, but god forbid anyone who threatens this, because god is love, and does not want any to perish, but those that threaten this world , will fear the lord, for it is his world his creation, believe me you would not want to go there, for there would be no turning back for those people. We can look forward to a better world for our children and their children, please take heed, im aware that a meleavilant sorry cant spell being seeks to distroy the good in this world by encouraging the ego in a person, which therefore becomes more and more selfcentered and therefore crosses the line into the evil that we see, this could well be caused by rejection, causing the manifestation, of bitterness, revenge, and controlling behaviour, out to avenge, society , for what they see , or have percieved , they are just intent on power over others. But we should be free .with love jdx 🙏🙏🙏💕

  • @henkverhaeren3759
    @henkverhaeren3759 3 года назад

    The peanut butter sandwich did it. Got to get it now.

  • @truthwillwin3
    @truthwillwin3 3 года назад +1

    Not the answer to the title though

  • @christineabercrombie7316
    @christineabercrombie7316 Год назад

    what is sel control under extreme durress and torture? id have to speak with a POW or someone who has been through that, unless you have you could never speak to me about it. or have the right to.

    • @Saundersstrong
      @Saundersstrong 9 месяцев назад

      How so? If one study’s from books written by those who have suffered through such things , wouldn’t that be enough where you could share a perspective?

    • @christineabercrombie7316
      @christineabercrombie7316 9 месяцев назад

      @Saundersstrong maybe. I don't know. I don't know it can equate actually with the experience. But that's my heroes are from books. I like Harriet Tubman.

  • @hebatarek-lo1zy
    @hebatarek-lo1zy 2 месяца назад

    Why I didn't understand anything

  • @Ayodhya9439_collaborated
    @Ayodhya9439_collaborated 3 года назад

    👍😎

  • @bryanessing3344
    @bryanessing3344 3 года назад

    I can't control my obsession to become filthy rich.

  • @andreelfrink
    @andreelfrink 3 года назад +1

    Compleet bullshit this way of talking.
    I AM ALWAYS IN CONTROL WITH MY FEELINGS WITH MY ❤ AND SOUL.
    You can’t learn anything thinking is never the Creator.
    The Creator lives in our ❤🙏
    Times up the thinkers teaches themselves a hard lesson.
    THE FEELINGS KNOW EVERYTHING FROM DAY 1.
    WE DO WHAT WE SPEAK
    ✝️❌⚡🤎AE1🙏

  • @karlmohan8258
    @karlmohan8258 3 года назад +4

    :)

  • @unclebirdman
    @unclebirdman 10 месяцев назад

    "What Exactly is Self-Control?" video doesn't answer question

    • @xxmystiganxx9060
      @xxmystiganxx9060 7 месяцев назад

      You’re supposed to find your own answer. ✨individuality.✨

    • @unclebirdman
      @unclebirdman 7 месяцев назад

      @@xxmystiganxx9060 lol

  • @jamesdelap4085
    @jamesdelap4085 3 года назад

    JORDAN just uses mommas little helper.

  • @QuantumPineapple
    @QuantumPineapple 3 года назад +1

    Isn't this coming from the guy addicted to painkillers?

    • @sulaimanalmahrooqi188
      @sulaimanalmahrooqi188 3 года назад +13

      "There is a false saying: “How can someone who can’t save himself save others?” Supposing I have the key to your chains, why should your lock and my lock be the same?"
      ~Nietzsche
      I hope this answers your question

    • @joannademore1540
      @joannademore1540 3 года назад +4

      Who are You Judging?
      Or is this gossip?
      Be careful with judgement, it can bite you! The word itself bothers me… to be judge -mental “like a mental judge! Only “GOD IN HEAVEN” will judge Us accordingly! 🎚♥️🕊