Learning from Our Dating FAILS: Navigating Love, Faith, Identity & Waiting For Marriage | Ep 17

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  • Опубликовано: 22 авг 2024

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  • @Magnifycollective
    @Magnifycollective  9 месяцев назад +3

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  • @lifeinsights7695
    @lifeinsights7695 10 месяцев назад +40

    . 😅. So spot on..i literally dated 2 pastors before and that was when i knew that marrying charisma is a death trap!!!! Always choose godly character over everything ❤

  • @victorineneba8110
    @victorineneba8110 10 месяцев назад +57

    I just discovered Magnify yesterday and it is a blessing. Very inspirational.

    • @Magnifycollective
      @Magnifycollective  10 месяцев назад +5

      We’re so glad you found us, welcome to the Magnify Community 🤍🫶

  • @igrowingrace5548
    @igrowingrace5548 10 месяцев назад +18

    I love how authentic & real life yet God infused your talks and stories are
    And you are all look very beautiful & classy! Love it! Thank you for this work

  • @Bukkyofbukkyslay
    @Bukkyofbukkyslay 10 месяцев назад +37

    The realest conversation around dating with Christian ladies I’ve experienced in my entire life❤ Thank youuuuuu

    • @Magnifycollective
      @Magnifycollective  10 месяцев назад +2

      We gotta keep it real 🔥

    • @siphokaziluzipho4197
      @siphokaziluzipho4197 2 месяца назад

      As a single Christian lady I'm so happy I've discovered this channel. Watching from SA.

  • @2wallywest
    @2wallywest 10 месяцев назад +8

    Just want to add that as a man who reconnected with God after solo travelling - this episode was so relatable and honestly a blessing.
    It was inspiring to hear everyone’s stories and taking lessons from each of them.
    For anyone reading and confused/conflicted about dating fall back on uncle Paul’s words 1 Corinthians 13:4-8❤

    • @Magnifycollective
      @Magnifycollective  10 месяцев назад +2

      Thanks for sharing, it’s beautiful that men and women can gain wisdom from each conversation. We love how you’ve pointed us back to what God defines us love in Corinthians 🤍

    • @TT-zf1bn
      @TT-zf1bn 9 месяцев назад

      I’m curious what does your solo travelling have to do with this? Where you on a soul searching journey or prodigal son vibes ? Respectfully

  • @Jasminewairimu.
    @Jasminewairimu. 10 месяцев назад +17

    I love the brand identity this is pure excellence. Great job

  • @esthermumbi29
    @esthermumbi29 10 месяцев назад +13

    Thank you so much for allowing God to use you to influence us!
    I was praying to God asking for direction on my businesses,relationships,friendships,life..I was asking God for a community so I could see the vision he's given me lived through by other women..then I stumbled on your podcast,been watching all the episodes since!Thank you so much!
    So much value,so much truth,so much God ❤

    • @Magnifycollective
      @Magnifycollective  10 месяцев назад

      Thank you for listening in - we created The Magnify Conversations were made for the very reasons you mentioned 🫶

  • @Claudia-yc8xk
    @Claudia-yc8xk 10 месяцев назад +9

    You have no idea how much I needed this ! I have been conflicted for the past few months as I'm dating someone that is not a Christian and have compromised alot to be with the person. Im praying that God gives me the strength to make the right decisions and to trust him as I don't want to let this person go but I know he will never be the right person for me.

    • @charitymasango2649
      @charitymasango2649 10 месяцев назад +5

      Where you heart is, so is your treasure. I've recently discovered that I've idolised relationships since the beginning (daddy and mommy issues). When you said you know he isn't for you but you don't want to let it go it reminded me of this. I'm relearning who to love with all my heart, mind and soul - the Lord, my God, creator and lover of my soul.
      It wasn't easy to admit and confess but it's worth it. God is faithful, we should fall in love with him. This is what I'll be telling my daughter ❤

    • @Magnifycollective
      @Magnifycollective  10 месяцев назад +5

      We’re so glad that we can shed light on a situation that many of us have been in. Sometimes things can feel right in the moment but we always have to think about what the future will look like and any long term effects of being unequally yoked. We’re praying for wisdom and discernment to go forward for you 🙏

  • @zechariah4663
    @zechariah4663 10 месяцев назад +7

    Fantastic! Just found your channel and immediately subscribed. I am a professional woman in the U.S. divorced, woman of Faith and LOVE LOVE, LOVE THESE CONVERSATIONS. I married the wrong person because I didn't lnow to date well and wasn't strong in my faith. Professional women are also encouraged to dumb themselves down so as not to ' scare off a man". I know understand that a 'man' isnt intimidated by a woman.

    • @Magnifycollective
      @Magnifycollective  10 месяцев назад +1

      There’s so much diversity in the body of Christ and it’s a shame to see women not stand in everything they were designed to be. We’re so thankful for you tuning in and sharing your story in the comments. ✨🤍

    • @zechariah4663
      @zechariah4663 10 месяцев назад

      @@Magnifycollective
      Thank you for your efforts

  • @oyindabello554
    @oyindabello554 10 месяцев назад +4

    This was incredible. I don't think I've watched a RUclips video this long all the way through in a long long time. Such an honest, vulnerable and relatable episode. God is good.

  • @GNA_xx
    @GNA_xx 10 месяцев назад +9

    I love the honesty in these conversations, especially as a 'church girl' from a young age. It's hard to describe the experience but this is exactly it. Thanks Magnify.

    • @Magnifycollective
      @Magnifycollective  10 месяцев назад

      Thank you for taking the time to tune in and engage 📺🤍

  • @immanuella5245
    @immanuella5245 10 месяцев назад +8

    Such a fabulous conversation with gorgeous women of God. Absolutely love seeing and hearing Sinéad on here. Grateful for the Magnify platform🙏🏽

    • @Magnifycollective
      @Magnifycollective  10 месяцев назад +1

      This episode was such a blessing, so raw and vulnerable 🤍🙌

  • @farahabamani761
    @farahabamani761 3 месяца назад

    I loooooove magnify. ❤. I think this is something we really need an authentic space to just find ourselves in God.

  • @deborahnyamu2320
    @deborahnyamu2320 10 месяцев назад +9

    Such conversations give me so much joy because they are honest and rich in wisdom through real life experiences❤

  • @ThatGirl912
    @ThatGirl912 4 месяца назад

    Thank you for the honesty and realness of this discussion. Im not alone, after all.
    1 Peter 5:9 Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that the family of believers throughout the world is undergoing the same kind of sufferings.

  • @josopata2627
    @josopata2627 10 месяцев назад +7

    Very thought provoking chat, thank you ladies for sharing your stories
    Rachel, love your outfits🔥

  • @graceekewuba9982
    @graceekewuba9982 9 месяцев назад +2

    Dear Sinead, I appreciate your honesty and authenticity, and I love the way you know yourself and you are confident in your identity. You’re so full of wisdom and grace, and you’re gorgeous !!! I feel you’d be such a great friend, I feel like you would give the best advice !❤

  • @elidyah9558
    @elidyah9558 10 месяцев назад +4

    Loved the vulnerability, wit and stories from this episode

  • @marthangafor6414
    @marthangafor6414 3 месяца назад

    This chat will set many free. Thank you ladies! I appreciate your vulnerability. LOVE how Sinead is honest about how visual she is. I'm often amazed that people don't think this is a thing for women 😂😂😂

  • @graceekewuba9982
    @graceekewuba9982 9 месяцев назад +1

    Dear Anna, I see so much of myself and other women’s stories in you, and I’m so grateful that you shared your story. My heart goes out to you, not in a pitiful or sympathetic way, because you have overcome and you’re inspirational, but you’ve been through so much and I’m inspired that you’re on the other side. It’s also encouraging to see that you can talk about it, and seem healed. God bless you Anna, for being so vulnerable and sharing ❤

  • @tolufavour
    @tolufavour 10 месяцев назад +5

    ANNA SPRECKLEY is so real and so pretty

  • @thisislydiab
    @thisislydiab 10 месяцев назад +4

    I absolutely love this platform and feel grateful to have come across it over a month ago. Every discussion I've listened to thus far has resonated with where I am in my life. Keep inviting such incredible voices and stories to be shared. Great episode! ✨

    • @Magnifycollective
      @Magnifycollective  10 месяцев назад +1

      Comments like these remind us every week to continue doing what you’re doing so it can impact people like you, thanks for sharing ✨

  • @blessingaligana9567
    @blessingaligana9567 10 месяцев назад +5

    This was so beautiful to watch, very timely and enlightening as well. God bless you all❤

    • @Magnifycollective
      @Magnifycollective  10 месяцев назад

      God bless you too and thanks for joining us for this week’s conversation ✨

  • @sarianbull8171
    @sarianbull8171 10 месяцев назад +3

    As a Christian women.
    Do you think you should be a certain stage in your walk with god/ journey before you consider dating or marriage?

  • @MIMZification
    @MIMZification 10 месяцев назад +1

    This was so so sooo good! Such impactful conversation! Wow, I believe God lead me to this. Literally was in tears listening to shenia’s stories and breakthroughs. I have taken notes! God is good. Thank you both ladies for sharing your stories. Shania stood out to me , I was like she’s me and I’m her. God is just so smooth! And wanted to reassure me.

  • @janebernard3214
    @janebernard3214 9 месяцев назад

    God bless you Magnify for coming public to reach out to the vast majority of people. This is a great platform. God bless you.

  • @TominiAmanda
    @TominiAmanda 10 месяцев назад +3

    Saw Sinead and clicked on this instantly!

  • @scnetha9886
    @scnetha9886 10 месяцев назад +2

    "I thank God everyday that i got dumped coz i wouldn't have left" ❤‍🔥

  • @tamarabello
    @tamarabello 10 месяцев назад +2

    This conversation has really helped me in this new stage of my life while dating. Thank you ❤

  • @obindeborah1305
    @obindeborah1305 10 месяцев назад +1

    I just found this channel , i watched a video on building wealth now this i just love the vibe ,the decency , the fact that they are really vocal about Jesus

  • @jenniferfolukeganzallo7423
    @jenniferfolukeganzallo7423 10 месяцев назад +1

    Just stumbled on this and it was sooo elevating!! I love the vulnerability from the two of you. It kept me glued to the entire discussion. Thank you for allowing God to use you. Plus everything about the aesthetics was on point!! From the set, to the make up and styling, everything. I’ll definitely be following this channel. See me gushing 😂

  • @callen5100
    @callen5100 9 месяцев назад

    Love love love this conversation!
    So authentic and transparent. Hats off to having a REAL conversation about love, dating fails, faith, etc.

  • @tinygoof
    @tinygoof 10 месяцев назад +3

    That was so encouraging, genuinely - thank you!!

  • @chescao6307
    @chescao6307 10 месяцев назад +1

    Wonderful episode, I was glued to the screen throughout. Thanks to be both guests for being so real and honest ❤

  • @mamorenaramapepe6752
    @mamorenaramapepe6752 10 месяцев назад +3

    The holy spirit led me on here. Love this channel🤍👑

  • @daniellaonimisi596
    @daniellaonimisi596 10 месяцев назад +3

    This session is so relatable! Throughly enjoyed this!

    • @Magnifycollective
      @Magnifycollective  10 месяцев назад

      We’re so glad that you enjoyed this episode 💕

  • @shoyoyedamilolaopemipo1092
    @shoyoyedamilolaopemipo1092 10 месяцев назад +3

    Very real conversations, Thanks guys👏

  • @SimplySybella
    @SimplySybella 7 месяцев назад

    Loved this talk and can really feel Anna’s healing with her sharing.

  • @olanikesarah4282
    @olanikesarah4282 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you Magnify. I discovered this platform recently and I’m truly glad I’m here. I’ve learned a lot ever since then and I just to appreciate Magnify. Seeing gorgeous and God-fearing women talk from their experiences and from God’s perspective is beautiful and contagious.❤
    Thank you Magnify and please don’t stop😊

  • @nanagyimah35
    @nanagyimah35 9 месяцев назад

    Thoroughly loved this interview from beginning to the end! The vulnerability of these ladies were so precious and worth learning from! Thank you and God bless you🙏

  • @joansjd
    @joansjd 10 месяцев назад +7

    I just discovered this today, like right now.

  • @midongosi
    @midongosi 10 месяцев назад

    I loved the candid relationship and faith conversation. Very insightful! Thank you ladies for sharing your stories.

  • @tinom8921
    @tinom8921 10 месяцев назад

    Love the new intro!! This channel is honestly a blessing thank you guys 🙏🏽

  • @tammycovington3288
    @tammycovington3288 10 месяцев назад +2

    Honest , transparent, good content👏👏👏👍🙂👊🙌

    • @Magnifycollective
      @Magnifycollective  10 месяцев назад

      That’s always the goal with The Magnify Conversations ✊

  • @jemimajanvier4706
    @jemimajanvier4706 10 месяцев назад +1

    I loved the conversation regarding being “undersexualized” by the church and oversexualized by the world, that was definitely something to think about.

  • @aliawoyera
    @aliawoyera 10 месяцев назад +1

    Brilliant conversation and ultimately, vulnerability. Thank you ❤

  • @TheGoodFathersClub
    @TheGoodFathersClub 10 месяцев назад

    ❤This was a great broadcast, full of wisdom- very fulfilling. Thank you so much ladies !

  • @callen5100
    @callen5100 6 месяцев назад

    Great conversation! I appreciate the vulnerability. Thank you.

  • @shaheedabernard747
    @shaheedabernard747 10 месяцев назад +2

    Such a great episode 👏🏾👏🏾🤎

    • @Magnifycollective
      @Magnifycollective  10 месяцев назад +1

      We might be a little biased but we couldn’t agree more! 😅

  • @piimberira
    @piimberira 10 месяцев назад +2

    Another good one ladies🙏🏼💕.

  • @winfredkiboi8041
    @winfredkiboi8041 10 месяцев назад

    You guys always dropping so much wisdom ❤❤❤
    I loved this episode!

  • @TolzThundercats
    @TolzThundercats 10 месяцев назад +8

    'Jesus didn't run anywhere..... unless you're going to raise the dead, take your time'!!!!!

  • @Ayorindeseun
    @Ayorindeseun 10 месяцев назад +1

    ❤❤❤ a true inspiration and blessing

  • @MyNaturallyMe
    @MyNaturallyMe 10 месяцев назад

    I love the transparency!!!!

  • @LuandraTanya
    @LuandraTanya 10 месяцев назад +2

    Resonated so much with this episode. Thank you for having this conversation.

  • @lucykabi8339
    @lucykabi8339 10 месяцев назад

    I'm so glad I got to listen to this I've learnt alot

  • @katherine_art05
    @katherine_art05 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you! I love it.

  • @musakhumalo5873
    @musakhumalo5873 9 месяцев назад

    I wish I could like this a thousand times ❤

  • @user-nm5oq6gv3e
    @user-nm5oq6gv3e 10 месяцев назад +2

    This episode is full of wisdom❤

  • @Tadiee
    @Tadiee 10 месяцев назад

    loved loved this discussion, so relatable

  • @maamelordina5310
    @maamelordina5310 9 месяцев назад

    God bless you ladies❤❤❤🙏 I have learnt so much.

  • @ibiyemib2191
    @ibiyemib2191 10 месяцев назад

    This conversation was everything

  • @Ms.Busisiwe
    @Ms.Busisiwe 10 месяцев назад

    Amazing! I learned a lot. Thank you❤

  • @the_amarh_jane
    @the_amarh_jane 10 месяцев назад

    Finally someone explained this in English 😂 Hey thanks for knowledge man❤

  • @ARueHeart
    @ARueHeart 10 месяцев назад +1

    Amazing episode ❤

  • @barthshebanyaboke426
    @barthshebanyaboke426 10 месяцев назад

    Great discussion thanks for the blessing.

  • @doofanshambe260
    @doofanshambe260 9 месяцев назад

    Magnify set is gorgeous ❤

  • @ranirainejoshi1108
    @ranirainejoshi1108 10 месяцев назад

    SO SO good! Loved this.

  • @kholiendlovu1435
    @kholiendlovu1435 10 месяцев назад +1

    Love it here #zimbabwe

  • @CuratingDreamsPodcast
    @CuratingDreamsPodcast 10 месяцев назад

    Beautiful testimonies!

  • @Ezzzaaa
    @Ezzzaaa 10 месяцев назад +1

    I loved this so much however I do feel that non Christians can understand the concept of not having sex & the reasons why - abstaining can be a moral choice not out of faith too!

  • @bunmiawonubi1147
    @bunmiawonubi1147 9 месяцев назад

    This is exceptional 👏

  • @mugowakere5902
    @mugowakere5902 8 месяцев назад

    Wonderful content. Thank you

  • @adwoaannan3104
    @adwoaannan3104 10 месяцев назад

    Blessed by this!

  • @This_is_Turpui
    @This_is_Turpui 10 месяцев назад

    Nice vulnerable conversation ❤

  • @priscillaax4842
    @priscillaax4842 10 месяцев назад

    This is soo good🙏🏾❤️

  • @vrilsessentials
    @vrilsessentials 10 месяцев назад

    Powerful conversation ❤

  • @PoSHEmediaglobal
    @PoSHEmediaglobal 10 месяцев назад +2

    It’s actually super painful to hear how God has come through for others in relationships and have ended up married but that’s not happening for some of us and you know deep down it won’t happen
    This has been my biggest let down in my Christian walk

    • @TT-zf1bn
      @TT-zf1bn 9 месяцев назад +1

      It’s always sad to see these comments in Christian videos about dating as well. Do you find that you’re more focused on marriage etc than him? Ofcourse it hurts but comparison doesn’t help either. I have good news for you,you are not a failure for feeling how you do. God loves you and he is for you and he is working all things together for your good and his glory. “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”
      ‭‭Jeremiah‬ ‭29‬:‭11‬ ‭NIV‬‬

    • @PoSHEmediaglobal
      @PoSHEmediaglobal 9 месяцев назад

      @@TT-zf1bn amen and thank you

  • @TheGospelArena_001
    @TheGospelArena_001 10 месяцев назад

    MAGNIFY ❤️

  • @tolufavour
    @tolufavour 10 месяцев назад +74

    What should christians ladies do if no man is even talking to them...this is the REAL PROBLEM

    • @citrises
      @citrises 10 месяцев назад +23

      Yes I feel like Leah from the bible. It’s tough out there. I feel like being a black women is not desirable. But it could also be a mindset thing I admit. But the stats are there too

    • @tolufavour
      @tolufavour 10 месяцев назад +46

      @@citrises yeah I hear you sis. I’m positive but it’s not easy I’m 31 still a virgin and want to have a family of my own by Gods grace.

    • @citrises
      @citrises 10 месяцев назад +80

      I think one thing they said in the video was praying for a partner. I don’t do that enough. Going to start doing it. Gods dating pool is not the worlds dating pool

    • @tammycovington3288
      @tammycovington3288 10 месяцев назад +49

      Just speaking encouragement Sisters, seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness and ALL these other things will be added to you. I am single as well and desire marriage but my focus is on God and His Purposes and in DUE Season God will send us and give us the desires of our heart. I am learning it’s going To be Beautiful In His Time. Waiting is not easy but necessary. I am a newly divorcee and there is NO fun after saying yes for a temporary fix which was meant for a lifetime. Take your time ladies and Have a Blast With The Lord and just maybe as you’re enjoying your relationship with HIM… he brings your marriage partner…. Just something to think about 🙂👊❤️🙌

    • @tessa4181
      @tessa4181 10 месяцев назад +12

      Maybe going out to events and places more?

  • @sarahhh.idaishe
    @sarahhh.idaishe 10 месяцев назад +1

    I’m next in line💍

  • @deborah6806
    @deborah6806 10 месяцев назад

    So good

  • @newid10
    @newid10 10 месяцев назад +1

    I’m really conflicted about the question of should Christian women date outside their Faith.
    On the one hand is it right for so many Christian women to be alone, childless with no family because there are no Christian men available?
    On the other hand as a Christian woman would you comfortable knowing that the man you’re joined to has no walk with God. Cannot pray you for you when you’re going through something difficult? Cannot lead your family in devotions?
    But then I also know that there are many Christian women married to christian men who do not lead in devotions anyway!!
    As I say, I’m conflicted!

    • @TT-zf1bn
      @TT-zf1bn 9 месяцев назад

      It is very clear in the bible that as Christian’s we are not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers. The life we are currently living is not all there is as Christian’s. Be careful not to make having a marriage and children become an idol.

    • @newid10
      @newid10 9 месяцев назад

      @@TT-zf1bn I have children and I’ve been married so it’s not an idol. But I don’t think it’s a helpful to say that to any unmarried woman because there is clearly a lot of societal pressure and women who remain single often get left behind and left out. I don’t think it’s unreasonable for them to want to not be lonely.

  • @yetundeakinlosotu8945
    @yetundeakinlosotu8945 10 месяцев назад

    Why can’t I download magnify episodes anymore?😢

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    @CL-do5eq 10 месяцев назад

    New Subbie ! 🥰

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    @BARANPUBG34 9 месяцев назад

    usy

  • @kwameopoku3576
    @kwameopoku3576 10 месяцев назад

    Wat if she out earns u nwants u to level up even tho ur happy with ur job shud we dump her?

  • @filmler100
    @filmler100 9 месяцев назад

    ssy

  • @musakhumalo5873
    @musakhumalo5873 9 месяцев назад

    Jesus didn’t run anywhere 😂

  • @babylys911
    @babylys911 10 месяцев назад +1

    One word to describe you guys...REAL...and I just love it. Thank you for being so open and vulnerable. Your stories have helped me a lot. Blessings to all of you . ❤🤍🤍🤍🤍❤‍🩹

  • @rae2457
    @rae2457 10 месяцев назад +25

    Amazing topic & discussion . This has really helped me a lot . 🤍🙏🏾

  • @Oneofthenailas
    @Oneofthenailas 10 месяцев назад

    🥹❤ I feel so understood and heard. This was very much needed and it is God’s confirmation. Thank You ❤

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