Are Our Dating Expectations TOO HIGH? The Reality of Picking A Partner with Intentionality | Ep 1

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  • Опубликовано: 27 ноя 2024

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  • @sarahdeecreates
    @sarahdeecreates Год назад +53

    Thank you for your lovely conversations, ladies. I like your show a lot. Keep up the good work and God bless. :-)

    • @Magnifycollective
      @Magnifycollective  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much for the encouragement! We're looking forward to more conversations like this!

  • @joasante1672
    @joasante1672 Год назад +71

    I hope many young ladies get to watch this! This is such an honest conversation with integrity from well articulated Women.

    • @Magnifycollective
      @Magnifycollective  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much - we hope you enjoyed it! We're so excited for so many women across the board to watch this and be inspired - was truly a blessing to learn so much from Sandra and Abiké ❤

  • @onyinyeodokoro
    @onyinyeodokoro Год назад +26

    Came here from TikTok. I loved this through and through! Thank you! And these ladies? Whoosh! Such grace. Such wisdom and vulnerability. Admire it all so much❤❤

  • @daniellepowell2708
    @daniellepowell2708 Год назад +4

    My immediate and genuine reaction to the title IS THERE ANYTHING TOO HARD FOR GOD?!!
    y'all the Holy Spirit took OVER 🤣

  • @ForMySoulSistas
    @ForMySoulSistas Год назад +3

    @51:54 "Relax into it, God's got you" Amen I needed that
    My list has pretty shortened : integrity, attractiveness, humor and Christian. I'm in this proces now: what do I need to do to attract him and improve myself to be ready.
    I love how:
    - Sandra's hubby took her debt like his burden
    - Sandra explained how her emotional baggage resurfaced early on in her marriage
    - they also talked about green flags, settling for "great" instead of good.

  • @tumininuo1038
    @tumininuo1038 Год назад +27

    That point at Abike said, to step back and watch him grow. It can be so hard to see someone and want them to be in God, but we want to see our partners grow because they want to grow and because they want a godly wife.
    Really great questions too, TeamMagnify

    • @Magnifycollective
      @Magnifycollective  Год назад

      So many gems dropped by Abiké and Sandra! In particular that perspective that Abiké shared on stepping back gave us lots to think about!

    • @bikkydoo
      @bikkydoo Год назад

      🥰🙌🏾 God is kind. He’ll see us through the ‘Hard things’ ❤

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 Год назад

      Perfection doesn't exist; HOWEVER, goodness.

  • @oluwadamilolatunde-adeleke6661
    @oluwadamilolatunde-adeleke6661 Год назад +3

    I'm happy I came across this channel 🔥🔥🔥 Thank you women. I'm not up to 25 but I hope I can get to enjoy my femininity to the fullest without bothering so much as to who to marry because God's got me 💪

  • @prudenceellah1327
    @prudenceellah1327 Год назад +5

    I listened to this conversation and learnt more than about just Lovin relationship. I learnt to not put a list on God in any situation (of the things I ask of Him)in my life, but to know what things are not of Him so that I don't chase away the goodness God has for me because of selfish desires caused by the flesh.
    I really enjoyed watching this. Thank you so much and God bless you ladies

  • @omozusisophia5402
    @omozusisophia5402 Год назад +8

    Wow! Relax into it, God's got you! Trust God through the process. I learnt a lot. Thanks for this, Team Magnify.

  • @alinafedaka7728
    @alinafedaka7728 Год назад +9

    Its how both of them mentioned yielding to the Holy Spirit for me❤❤❤

  • @Just.Celestina
    @Just.Celestina Год назад +5

    It's very interesting when a woman is committed to purpose and is very interested in growing every area of her life. Thank you for this ma'am

  • @marthangafor6414
    @marthangafor6414 Год назад +3

    Very positive conversation. It's refreshing to see black women in such healthy relationships (I know there are many more but the media tends to focus on the negative). Big up to Abike for intentionally breaking a harmful family cycle in this area.

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 Год назад +1

      Culture pros up certain relationships as "healthy"/ #RelationshipGoals when they aren't

  • @japeriawilliams4470
    @japeriawilliams4470 Год назад +8

    I LOVED THIS EPISODE!!! God bless you ladies for the transparency and allowing the Holy Spirit to speak and teach through you! I have indeed been blessed!

  • @finnovationwithsesi
    @finnovationwithsesi 10 месяцев назад

    I’m so glad I discovered this podcast. I’m in my early 20s and wish I had more women in my life like the ones featured in these videos.

  • @Zoe-od9mj
    @Zoe-od9mj Год назад +4

    Thank you so much for this beautiful conversation. I wept and wept again, it felt like these sisters' words carried healing for my heart. To God be all the glory. I have also learned a few lessons I will apply in my life as a woman waiting for her husband. Thank you for being open and vulnerable---it goes a long way in this world we are living in where everything is polished to look pleasing. I appreciate the sharing of genuine life stories from this channel. May God continually use this channel to touch lives. Beautiful---Beautiful.

  • @missakua1
    @missakua1 Год назад +4

    Thanks so much for this open and frank discussion. I have found it very informative and insightful as a early 30s Christian woman. God bless you all richly 🙏🏾💜

  • @siphokaziluzipho4197
    @siphokaziluzipho4197 5 месяцев назад +1

    Ahhh marn these ladies inspired me to wait for my husband. To be pursued by him.

  • @TomiDaniels
    @TomiDaniels Год назад +29

    Really enjoyed watching this and loved the conversation.
    Loved their point about surrendering to God in the waiting season.
    P.S. the set is really lovely 😊

    • @Magnifycollective
      @Magnifycollective  Год назад +2

      So great to hear that! We loved the vulnerability that Sandra and Abiké shared and glad it resonated with you too! X

    • @bikkydoo
      @bikkydoo Год назад +1

      So glad it blessed you ❤

  • @brigittetoumou
    @brigittetoumou Год назад +6

    I came across these clips on insta and you ladies are well spoken and honestly this was so soft and easily understandable and a chill way ❤❤ May God keep blessing this page and May it reach the people that needs to hear this in Jesus name ❤

  • @ylau535
    @ylau535 11 месяцев назад

    What incredible and inspiring women in the room. They carried confidence, grace, wisdom, and such convictions. Wow. And I’d like to point out what an amazing host we have here. I thoroughly enjoy this channel - what a powerful message that is so relevant today

  • @thinkinggrace8092
    @thinkinggrace8092 Год назад +3

    I needed to hear the relax into it- because I'm prone to feeling anxious. Thank you for this wonderful ministry! Just found you all and am making my way through :)

  • @estherndunge6766
    @estherndunge6766 Год назад +2

    This conversation has brought a lot of clarity in my life. I'll ensure my girlfriends watch it😊💯💯

  • @MsStefy01
    @MsStefy01 Год назад +12

    Who did these women hair ? I need that hairstylist details. Wow. So beautiful n not wiggy looking

    • @Magnifycollective
      @Magnifycollective  Год назад +6

      We're so grateful for the wisdom they shared with us ♥They both did their own hair and Abiké is based in London and is an award winning hair stylist - check out her link! instagram.com/hairbyabike/ ♥

  • @abiolao3839
    @abiolao3839 Год назад +4

    Relax into it! Loved this so much! It reminds me of the verse, in quietness and confidence shall be your salvation. Entering into a rest with God. 💙

    • @Magnifycollective
      @Magnifycollective  Год назад

      So good! Isaiah 30:15 truly is one of our favourites 💙

  • @glorialawson4017
    @glorialawson4017 Год назад +6

    Loved this conversation as so much of this resonates loudly with me. Great lessons for the younger people coming up and waiting. The gift of waiting us where you grow. Know yourself and be true to yourself. Gx

    • @Magnifycollective
      @Magnifycollective  Год назад

      We're so honoured to hear this episode resonated with you! We're so grateful for the wisdom and learnings our guests shared! X

  • @leratomuthabe4265
    @leratomuthabe4265 Год назад +2

    Watching from South Africa. Thoroughly enjoyed this!!!!!! Thank you ❤

  • @ser5615
    @ser5615 Год назад +2

    They ate, especially the part of being bold spoke to me

  • @kirstyackah9853
    @kirstyackah9853 Год назад +1

    Such an insightful chat. Loved it. Really affirming that I'm in the season Sandra was just before she met her husband ❤

  • @NwaThemba
    @NwaThemba 9 месяцев назад

    So blessed with this conversation I’m watching it for the third time that’s how I thoroughly enjoyed it❤❤😅

  • @melissamorrison2308
    @melissamorrison2308 Год назад +9

    Love this and I really enjoy how everyone presents themselves on here! x

  • @yvieary574
    @yvieary574 Год назад

    Magnify you need to do a live tour. Live audience. Loving this show . You guys are my new bffs❤

  • @kari5879
    @kari5879 Год назад +1

    Such a beautiful conversation. Thank you for your honesty and wisdom ladies ❤

  • @dee1184
    @dee1184 Год назад +1

    Great conversation. I really enjoyed listening to these beautiful ladies.

  • @Ombr.re__
    @Ombr.re__ Год назад +2

    I feel so blessed and lucky to have come across this video! Looking forward to more gems like this🎉

  • @cheryldian
    @cheryldian Год назад

    I was so blessed by this episode. Thank you

  • @abigailegyinedusah27
    @abigailegyinedusah27 Год назад

    This is such a beautiful and relatable conversation❤may lots of ladies get to watch this..Amen❤

  • @christiansalvationist2324
    @christiansalvationist2324 Год назад

    woooow!!!, i really enjoyed sandra's contribution and her insight

  • @GG8p
    @GG8p Год назад +4

    amazing episode i hope we havnt seen the last of these women ! xxx

  • @idriannakrayee8842
    @idriannakrayee8842 10 месяцев назад

    It's so beautiful that it really touches me deeply.

  • @dthy_774
    @dthy_774 Год назад +2

    I enjoyed listening to this a lot. Thank you ladies. Its so enlightening

  • @sarahndayiziga8413
    @sarahndayiziga8413 Год назад

    so happy I clicked on this! Thank you ladies❤

  • @sheisstrongpodcast
    @sheisstrongpodcast Год назад +7

    This is such a good good episode tbh

  • @priscillachinsembu4669
    @priscillachinsembu4669 Год назад

    This conversation is so amazing. Needed this and thank you for these conversations.
    I relate with Sandra....

  • @CryingHurts1
    @CryingHurts1 Год назад +2

    This was an interesting debate! Good few topics to consider! I do personally believe woman have high dating expectations but their arguments were an interesting watch!

    • @Magnifycollective
      @Magnifycollective  Год назад

      Glad you enjoyed the discussion and found it an interesting watch!

  • @ClaireEllis-xm6ms
    @ClaireEllis-xm6ms Год назад +7

    Really liked this video and thought there was a lot of wisdom in it. Only point I disagree with is where the host said it's much easier to leave a toxic relationship than a good relationship - I think this downplays how much trauma bonding and manipulation there can be in toxic relationships and how hard they can be to get out of. You might look back with relief but the actual decision to leave can be just as hard as leaving a healthy relationship.

    • @Magnifycollective
      @Magnifycollective  Год назад +3

      We're so glad you enjoyed this conversation! Thank you for highlighting the fact that toxic relationships bring a different point of view and nuance to this conversation. We appreciate you sharing your perspective and hope to continue a conversation around this in a future episode. With Love, Team Magnify xx

  • @Olayinka-BO
    @Olayinka-BO Год назад +1

    Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @elizabethope4670
    @elizabethope4670 Год назад

    This is such a beautiful and amazing conversation. I learnt a lot. Thanks team Magnify.♥️

  • @Herdailyjournall
    @Herdailyjournall 11 месяцев назад

    So clarifying ❤

  • @essypowerfx
    @essypowerfx Год назад +4

    Wow i love this .

  • @ruthmoya8586
    @ruthmoya8586 Год назад +1

    Loved this❤

  • @essaigho5351
    @essaigho5351 Год назад +1

    Loved this

  • @katherine_art05
    @katherine_art05 Год назад

    Thank you! 💞

  • @sandralopato2036
    @sandralopato2036 Год назад

    Thank you. ❤

  • @wenyashamataka2270
    @wenyashamataka2270 Год назад

    I enjoyed this

  • @sil5841
    @sil5841 Год назад +4

    This was so lovely and timely. Thanks, ladies!!

    • @Magnifycollective
      @Magnifycollective  Год назад

      Great to hear it resonated with you at this time! ❤❤

  • @Heyu7her3
    @Heyu7her3 Год назад

    "Are our dating expectations too high?" NOPE. NOT HIGH ENOUGH.

  • @sharlenewilson628
    @sharlenewilson628 Год назад

    ❤❤

  • @meg27mm
    @meg27mm Год назад

    Gained so much from this conversation. Thank you, ladies! 🤍