My Amputation Accident: Horseback Riding Fall That Cost Me My Leg...

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  • Опубликовано: 4 ноя 2024

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  • @BethCoppard15
    @BethCoppard15 4 года назад +382

    So sad that your first real gallop was the one that broke your leg! But you’re incredible. Thanks for sharing your story.

    • @Savvy_equine11
      @Savvy_equine11 4 года назад +4

      Ya as a barrel racer we have many falls with and without our horses the main thing is GET OFF UR BUTT AND CHECK UR HORSE once ur horse is okay GET IN THE DANG SADDLE AND CONTINUE

    • @foxyforlorn
      @foxyforlorn 3 года назад +2

      I love ur energy, ijust learned to perfect canter last week and things happened while i finding balance in seating trot , i fell off n broke my upper hummerus :(

    • @jelly_robotic8236
      @jelly_robotic8236 3 года назад

      Ya

    • @kenna_c
      @kenna_c 3 года назад +1

      @@Savvy_equine11 As a fellow barrel racer, I agree lol. I take more care of my horses than myself. I’ve been working on training my quarter horse who used to be a cow pony for barrel racing. He’s doing pretty well after getting over his fear of the barrels 😂

    • @Savvy_equine11
      @Savvy_equine11 3 года назад +2

      @@kenna_c hahhahaha sounds like my six year old ottb

  • @rosegranger2872
    @rosegranger2872 4 года назад +190

    I normally am a quite watcher, but I just have to tell this now. I lost half of my leg in a car crash when I was 7. I've always lived on a horse ranch and riding was (and still is) my life. After the accident I had to stay in the hospital for quite a long time cause I also had other injuries. When I got back out and was allowed to ride again I directly tried to, and it worked. It still does. And I love horses. I don't know if I'd be still here without my very special horse...
    Sorry for any mistakes, english is not my mother tongue

  • @melinawiltgen8450
    @melinawiltgen8450 4 года назад +333

    I can’t imagine having a limb amputated in general, but especially from a horse accident. Horses are my life and I train horses. I was in a serious horse accident that left me with many injuries including a trauma induced cyst in my brain and vision loss. It’s still a hard adjustment and can be overwhelming and I love keeping up with your channel because even though mine isn’t an amputation, not being able to drive because of vision and seizures from brain cysts really takes away my independence so it’s nice to see you finding ways to be independent and positive

    • @erictaylor5462
      @erictaylor5462 4 года назад +17

      I am an amputee as well, and it sounds to me like you are a lot worse off than an amputee. I can't imagine having a vision loss.
      Thing is, I think that people who don't deal with a "disability" every day seem to think it is much more limiting than it really is.
      When I was about 30 I ran into a woman I had gone to school with. We had never actually met, I think she was a year or two behind me, but she had noticed me and had been impressed with how well I got around.
      It turned out when she was 19 she was in a car accident. She woke up in the hospital with her leg gone.
      She was devastated, wondering what she was going to do now. Then she remembered me and how well I got around. She said it was that that helped her get through it, because having seen me made her realize she would be okay.
      It blew my mind that I could have that sort of impact on someone's life without ever having even met them.
      You too will be okay. I wish you the best.

    • @icantdecideonaname2748
      @icantdecideonaname2748 4 года назад +3

      @@erictaylor5462 wow what an incredible story, I'm so glad you got to ,by chance, meet and affect each other!
      Also, I'm not an amputee but I get what you are saying with the vision loss and seizure accident being worse than an amputation

    • @erictaylor5462
      @erictaylor5462 4 года назад +4

      @@icantdecideonaname2748 I think a blind person might think limb loss is worse than being blind, because as I said, you and I deal with a lost limb every day. I've never been blind so I think it is more limiting than it actually is.

    • @icantdecideonaname2748
      @icantdecideonaname2748 4 года назад +1

      @@erictaylor5462 I get what you are saying but still for example think about a BKA and a blind person, they both face great challenges with every day things but when they both sit in their beds..let's say at night, the amputee is basically like a person who is not and amputee, you text, or watch a movie, or read, etc but when the blind person sits on its bed the blindness is there and they cant really do anything like a person who is not blind because almost everything people do relies on vision....idk if you understood my logic

    • @erictaylor5462
      @erictaylor5462 4 года назад +4

      @@icantdecideonaname2748 Imagine a blind person waking up in the night. They don't want to wake their partner so they get up without turning on the light and walk into the bathroom to pee.
      An amputee needs to crawl or hop, and hopping isn't too safe in the dark.
      In the dark, a blind person has the advantage because they don't depend on sight to navigate.
      Each side has their advantages. I know about the BKA, but not so much the blind person.

  • @alternativeprincess4783
    @alternativeprincess4783 4 года назад +320

    If a doctor hasn't seen an injury like yours... You're probably in for a wild ride

    • @icantdecideonaname2748
      @icantdecideonaname2748 4 года назад +6

      Sadly true😩

    • @ryo6013
      @ryo6013 4 года назад +2

      unfortunatley... very true

    • @pariahmouse7794
      @pariahmouse7794 Год назад +2

      When my liver failed at 28 from alcohol consumption it presented in ways that baffled the doctors, because they couldn't believe I had consumed enough in 28 years to cause so much damage, they thought it was in conjunction with something they couldn't figure out, so I was sent to a teaching hospital and was looked at like a lab specimen every morning- they even published a paper in a medical journal about me.
      They never figured out why the damage doubled down on itself, essentially, and miraculously I started getting better, and they ended up calling it alcoholic hepatitis, but my kidneys failed too, and they never figured out why exactly, my entire body was actually shutting down for a about a week, it was scary...

    • @linvi_chemutai
      @linvi_chemutai 10 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@pariahmouse7794oh wow. I experienced the same at 26 and 27 due to Alcohol. Same diagnosis as you. I've been sober for close to 2 years and I'm so glad I got that bad to change my ways. Hope you're good and be blessed

    • @spiritedaway0tutu
      @spiritedaway0tutu 3 месяца назад

      I’m a medical anomaly. I have a ton of really rare conditions that most doctors have never heard of, so my appointments are eternal chaos.

  • @marikapotvin6053
    @marikapotvin6053 4 года назад +457

    Me: an equestrian
    Also me: Hears that shes riding a chestnut mare
    Me: oh oh

    • @snubblebubble4937
      @snubblebubble4937 4 года назад +51

      I absolutely hate that stereotype. A good horse is never a bad color. There are some really sweet and gentle chestnut mares out there and also some really nasty geldings of all colors. I have personally ridden several amazing chestnut mares doing hunt seat and dressage. It was a dark bay gelding who gave me a concussion, but I won't hold that against dark bay geldings.

    • @libbynoelle
      @libbynoelle 4 года назад +20

      @@snubblebubble4937 Chesnut mares (and quite honestly all mares) are just generally sassy. It’s not a bad stereotype, but it’s true as far as I have seen. I’ve ridden two Chestnut mares (recently) that are at the stable I ride at. One is a 20 yr old jumper mare. She is super awesome, but has many many opinions, and she believes those opinions are facts. She is absolutely incredible, but is the also the stereotypical sassy Chesnut mare. The other is a jumper pony mare ridden by a little girl. This pony has SASS. One time I had to get on and school her around a bit, because the little girl couldn’t do it, and she ran halfway around the arena trying (and failing) to buck me off. So while not all chesnut mares are that way, at least from my own experience, the stereotype is true. You might have a very different horses experience though.

    • @marikapotvin6053
      @marikapotvin6053 4 года назад +22

      @@snubblebubble4937 I was making a joke of that stereotype not expecting anyone to see it. :) I myself lease (loan) a chestnut mare and she is lovely. Like Jo said, it wasn’t the horses fault, and it never is!
      Did you know that a study was conducted and they found that geldings are considered more sassy then mares? That sassy mare stereotype comes from leading woman who are seen as “bossy and bitchy” simply because they are leading? :)
      Anyways, I 100% agree with you! :) doesn’t matter the gender or colour of the horse, they all have different personality’s!

    • @snubblebubble4937
      @snubblebubble4937 4 года назад +4

      @@libbynoelle I've had a lot more issues with geldings than with mares. At my current barn all of the mares are absolute gems, but there are five geldings who are really aggressive. I've never had a serious issue with a mare and I have over 18 years of horse experience.

    • @chrisilkley
      @chrisilkley 4 года назад +7

      Lel, tbh all the horses I’ve fallen off of are chestnut mares.

  • @Flugkaninchen
    @Flugkaninchen 4 года назад +51

    That dreamy voice when You talk about that feeling when galopping across the field, despite everyting that happened afterwards....

  • @katielane4431
    @katielane4431 4 года назад +51

    You are my soul mate I was thrown from a horse on 24th of Feb 1994 broken tib fib and smashed ankle. This was operated on many times and fused and then hardware finally I had it amputated at 61. I am a great fan of yours you are my inspiration I can’t do as much as you but I can walk and do many things that I could not do before amputation. I drive my car and am independent at 64. I am so glad that you did not wait longer before amputation and you are now on your new exciting journey. Take care Jo and keep up the wonderful videos stay safe Love Katie 🦋💕💕🦋🇦🇺🦋

    • @tammyburke9453
      @tammyburke9453 3 года назад +2

      TY for posting that reply. I am 63, was equestrian, had my horse fall over backwards on me, saddle horn to my pelvis, so lucky nothing broke. Glad you finally got some comfort nice to hear from another old horse gal!

    • @meemurthelemur4811
      @meemurthelemur4811 Год назад +1

      I too took a fall in the early 90s . I was reared over on and the horse broke my left tibia and fibula. To this day my fibula is still in 2 pieces that dig into my calf muscle. I'm 47 and as the years progress have had increasing difficulties with it, multiple DVTs, constant muscle spasms, etc. I still ride (heck, I got back on with 20lbs of plaster from my ankle to my hip!😂), nothing has taken that passion from me. But I do wonder what kinds of issues I'm going to develop as time goes on. It's comforting in a way to read stories of people who have been through similar and not given up. Thank you!

    • @Hc.krd1
      @Hc.krd1 7 месяцев назад

      What do you mean by smashed ankle

  • @darkiee69
    @darkiee69 4 года назад +113

    Theory: When you flew thru the air you bent your leg. When you landed on your back your heel slammed into the ground. That how it broke and got pushed up into your lower leg.

    • @Grace-jk4en
      @Grace-jk4en 4 года назад +6

      @MARY or maybe her foot got caught in the stirrup as she came off

    • @Grace-jk4en
      @Grace-jk4en 4 года назад +3

      MARY ah yeah ahah, I follow someone on insta who fell off over the horses shoulder and broke her foot, she had to get surgery 😅💗

    • @a.neko.77
      @a.neko.77 4 года назад +2

      Grace I heard a story time on RUclips a few years ago about a girl who fainted while riding and fell of the horses shoulder, breaking her ankle and leg

    • @katieburland6846
      @katieburland6846 3 года назад +1

      @@Grace-jk4en yup. That's how I broke my right ankle, galloping a bay thoroughbred mare through an open field.

    • @jennifertimberlake6522
      @jennifertimberlake6522 2 года назад

      @@Grace-jk4en Thats what I was thinking too

  • @toniperret5365
    @toniperret5365 4 года назад +26

    I know the exact field you’re talking about. You’re incredible. I lost both of my horses this year and it’s been nuts. Your story will inspire so much.

  • @jenniferg2771
    @jenniferg2771 Год назад +2

    Im so glad it wasn't a major brain injury. Hugs!

  • @leert2698
    @leert2698 4 года назад +21

    Your upbeat spirit is inspirational, especially for others that have either gone through what you have or might be facing the difficult situation. I wish you all the best.

  • @catherinemurphy550
    @catherinemurphy550 4 года назад +7

    I am a 15 year old equestrian and hearing this story I cried the whole time. I grew up in the "farm setting" in beautiful Michigan, where your neighbors are 5 miles down the road from you. It was an amazing childhood that I was blessed with. I have so many injuries that I have collected over the years and thousands of hospital visits. I train horses, I teach lessons, I do english and western work, but I also love bareback jumping. Nobody realizes the danger we put ourselves through, and I think that you described it amazing. I love your video. I take wild mustangs who are rangled in from the wild from the government in Arizona and I pay to have them shipped up to Michigan. I train them to be fully rideable and as safe as possible. During school days, I wake up at 4 am after getting into bed at 12 after working, homework, etc. I will feed and bring in/out horses and ride some. Then I shower and go to school. After school I do homework, and go straight to my backyard which is my personal playground where my best friends are. Thank you for sharing your story.

    • @wisepati123
      @wisepati123 3 года назад

      I always wanted a mustang. I am in Michigan also.

  • @sassandsets
    @sassandsets 4 года назад +20

    What an incredible testimony, Jo! You are the epitome of resilience. Thank you for being so open, I am sure that I am one of MANY who feel inspired watching your story. ❤️

  • @HollieandPonies
    @HollieandPonies 2 года назад +4

    I love horse riding and I just can’t imagine loosing a limb because of it!!!
    You are so strong and positive!

  • @gerrybrunner7009
    @gerrybrunner7009 3 года назад +3

    Footless Jo, I really love reading about and seeing the way any " Disabled "people show the world that NOTHING can hold them down. GOD BLESS and PROTECT YOU always.

  • @MegF142857
    @MegF142857 4 месяца назад +1

    So glad you didn't have a head injury or even worse. Dead or paralyzed. I got my first horses at 13 yo & didn't have lessons on how to ride. We didn't use helmets back then either. I somehow never fell off, but I didn't go charging on a race horse across fields. My brother had his femur snapped when horse he rode on was attacked by another horse ridden by a little girl. They weren't even going fast. Horses crashed into each other with his leg in between. Yes, that altered his life & body, but thankfully not as bad as happened to you. -- My sister ran on foot across a field & fell into a hole & we only learned years later that she fractured her back. Ended up in multiple hour surgery & fused spine. -- Moral of story: Life is dangerous.

  • @spreid_
    @spreid_ 4 года назад +12

    Thanks for sharing Jo! Your strength and courage in sharing your story (through all your videos) is really meaningful.
    Just as much as you appreciate us choosing to spend a few minutes of our day with you, I appreciate you choosing to post videos! You are a source of brightness in my life. Take care :)

  • @beckbeverley3451
    @beckbeverley3451 5 месяцев назад +1

    Omg Ur amazing your story really is similar to mine. Although not a horse accident but farming. I got impaled on a fence post after a huge fall. So all your medical stuff is so similar. I fought so hard at 22 to keep my leg. Which I have not had amputated yet but have asked a number of years ago. As I have a leg aesthetically but not functional. I was at my Witt's end trying to hold onto everything I loved and worked for to still be unable to use it. I think I'm on about my 10th. I almost took my life due to pain and being in a small country town in Australia so it was very complex and difficult case. But... I was into competitive sports then and out of horses but I about 6 years ago ended up with a raced thoroughbred who is my heart horse he has gotten me threw all life has thrown at me. He is so forgiving and understands often if I'm having a bad pain flare he will come and lie in my lap and he will lick my leg. Mind U he's 17,"2 but I had to learn to ride differently. I use our truck to stand on the tray he parks next to it and off we go. Thanks for sharing your story

  • @harleymichelle9420
    @harleymichelle9420 2 года назад +8

    I'm a left foot amputee and to this day I still LOVE horses 😁 I have been through hell and back with them with injuries never once did I blame the horse. So glad you didn't either. My amputation was caused by an illness at the age of 3. If you need to chat I'm here for you! ❤️

    • @MokaneMalone-z2d
      @MokaneMalone-z2d 8 месяцев назад

      well ladies, i relate with u both, i'm missing teeth, i wish 🌠 😞 i could get it back. I beg God for it back, but he gives no answer, he's quiet 🤫 in his throne, when the Teachers quiet, we have to be quiet 🤫 and work on our exam, God is in heaven and he's always testing us. Baby you lost ur left foot, Jo lost her right foot, i lost a few of my Teeth, 😥😢no fair...i know God can give it to us back, but WTF, these Doctors are to blame, they have a cure, they just like to get paid. Harley Michelle and Jo, u both can talk to me anytime. Im sorry 😞 u both lost a leg, i know thats worse, so is losing teeth, but as a Black man, im too young to be missing side teeth. Dayummmm 😢

  • @KellyCDB
    @KellyCDB 4 года назад +70

    I’m hesitating to post this comment because of course it doesn’t help you now, hindsight is 20/20, etc. but in case it helps anyone reading the comments who is thinking about riding horses: good horseback riding lessons don’t just teach you how to ride, they teach you how to fall, in such a manner that you’re less likely to be seriously injured. You practice emergency dismounts standing still, at a walk, a trot, a canter. My riding instructor would shout them out randomly like a fire drill sometimes; everyone riding around the arena, suddenly “EMERGENCY DISMOUNT!” and we were all standing beside our horses. Obviously there’s always a risk but knowing how to fall off a horse almost certainly saved me from a few breaks in my teenage years. I definitely recommend lessons before attempting serious horseback riding! I grew up with horses and fell a dozen times but never broke anything. The worst was when the horse spooked in the middle of a jump, while I was on the ground he ended up stepping on my thigh, I had a nice hoof-shaped bruise but nothing broken. Another time I went galloping across a large open space, and yep, horses can really take off in that situation! She tripped, I fell, knocked the wind out of me, which was scary, but still no broken bones.
    I am 100% NOT trying to blame 13 y/o Jo for not knowing that or assessing the risks accurately, you were 13! And maybe you did learn emergency dismounts and there just wasn’t time, that can happen too. This is just in case it helps anyone reading to be safer in the future!

    • @erinemassey7306
      @erinemassey7306 4 года назад +2

      I ride horses, and this one horse Buck you off over a jump and he is 6 year old , Buck me off over a 30cm jump and we were just toting ( I think that how you spell it) but he is just a love bug so you can give him love and he will be your best friend because he mom got put down when is was 2 month old.

    • @LivingForThis
      @LivingForThis 4 года назад +5

      I have been a horse rider for 15 years and never done this... But I did judo before and it helped me on some fails

    • @snubblebubble4937
      @snubblebubble4937 4 года назад +5

      I got bucked off 16 months ago and got a concussion. I was never taught how to fall or what to do when a horse bucks, and I have 18 years of on and off horse experience and was jumping. In hindsight, I really should have learned these things.

    • @rockermystic
      @rockermystic 4 года назад +13

      This is absolutely true, as a former competitive rider (at national level), there is a correct and safe way to perform emergency dismounts that should be taught at all levels of horseback riding. It's not a guarantee you won't be hurt (that's never guaranteed) but it can prevent devastating injury just know how, and when, to dismount if you feel that your horse might come out of hand (not just spooking, but any time the rider feels like they are losing balance or control and cannot get it back).

    • @Horsesareforlife
      @Horsesareforlife 4 года назад +1

      @@snubblebubble4937 i was on a trail my horse decides to buck and i was being taught as it was happening... not fun

  • @Noblebird02
    @Noblebird02 Год назад +2

    It's amazing how much you remember

  • @phantasmen_
    @phantasmen_ 4 года назад +3

    horseriding truly makes you feel free and majestic. ive been doing it for more than 10 years now but every time I get onto a horse you have to know that there's a risk. a horse is not a machine, it can trip or spook and being at the barn you hear a lot of horrible stories. every time I fall I just tell myself; well you're lucky, you didn't die or get paralyzed so I just get back on but always stay careful

  • @jadenr.j
    @jadenr.j 7 месяцев назад +1

    Even though it was completely traumatic, you are a fantastic story teller!

  • @mamapoch1915
    @mamapoch1915 3 года назад +2

    What an inspirational young lady you are! When I was around that same age, I fell off a galloping horse and underneath him. He trampled my right foot, breaking a bunch of little bones. But nothing at all like what you have been through. Sending much love, hugs, prayers, and positive vibes! 💖💖💖

  • @colbiewest8404
    @colbiewest8404 4 года назад +5

    I am so lucky I had a very similar experience two weeks ago. My horse French Fry tripped while I was cantering a course. He crashed to the ground and I dove head first into the ground. I popped right up because I felt fine but after the fear wore off I realized that the horse almost fell on top of my leg. The first question I asked is if French Fry was ok which he was. The next day I started feeling extreme rib pain so I’m pretty sure I bruised a rib. I was still so lucky. I thank god that I remained safe and I think what you are doing with your life is amazing.

  • @WatAboutRin
    @WatAboutRin 4 года назад +51

    Our storyline likely the same. I went thru 26 operation in 4 years to save my leg, until i need to walk using crutches, in pain 24/7, dependind on pain killers, had to quit studies, until 2010 i just lost hope for my leg and ask the doctors to amputate my leg, since then i am below knee amputee, and i never regret my decision to amputate my leg to be free from pain.

  • @kimberleyjanemcnab5343
    @kimberleyjanemcnab5343 4 года назад +20

    In 2013, I was out riding with my daughter and my horse spooked resulting in me falling off! I broke my leg/ankle in 17 places. My surgeon managed to save my leg but it was touch and go for a while, I was in hospital for 4 weeks. I totally feel your pain! Xx

  • @eventingthedude
    @eventingthedude 2 года назад +2

    I love horses and have been riding them for 7 years now. I had my first fall three weeks ago and strained a tendon in my shoulder. I am already back to riding even though it’s not fully healed. I never would have imagined a horse riding accident would be the reason someone would have to get something amputated

  • @sooshu_lover526
    @sooshu_lover526 4 года назад +5

    I LOVED this! I also love you because you are so brave and confident to talk about this infront of MILLIONS of people globally, I want you to keep fighting for as long as you can, if you start falling, your internet friends will back you and push you back up!! ✊😁😍😘❤🌹💐😊😙

  • @nonbeenary_hi9064
    @nonbeenary_hi9064 4 года назад +6

    When you talk about horses you explain it exactly how I would. I may not be the best socialable human but when your on a horse I am perfect in that moment!!

  • @a.p.5429
    @a.p.5429 2 года назад

    Just found your channel. We have had horses for 43 years with our share of spills. I always try to stay away from the bad accident videos, because they will keep you afraid and from enjoying life. Accidents can happen anywhere. You are such a positive person. I am sharing your videos with my grandchildren. I hope they follow you. Too many angry, negative, smarty butts on internet right now. Great to find you. God bless.

  • @jonkicker1278
    @jonkicker1278 4 года назад +4

    Jo,
    Thank you for sharing, it is both a great and sad story. I'm glad you still love horses and don't blame it.
    I have never fallen off of a horse, but I have been bucked off of a couple of donkeys. A couple of years ago, I went riding with my brother and his horse got spooked, reared up, and he fell off the back. He hit his head pretty hard. I think he might have had a concussion, but I couldn't get him to go to the hospital. He ended up being fine, but it was a bit scary.

  • @purplekitten3971
    @purplekitten3971 4 года назад +10

    Wow, might be the earliest I’ve ever been 😂, excited to hear you share your story in a dedicated video 💖

  • @kaitlyn_equestrian
    @kaitlyn_equestrian 2 года назад +3

    omg this is so cool! i’m glad your ok but i ride at the barn you feel off at! frances talks about georgia all the time!

  • @peggyjoyner9214
    @peggyjoyner9214 4 года назад +1

    I had a health challenge in my 20’s that was shrinking my world in much the same way your ankle did yours. I, too came to the realization (after 5 yrs, in my case) that what some would consider a disfiguring surgery was a freeing surgery that gave me my life back! Like you, I’m so glad I had the surgery. I’m 38 years post-op now (😳), and I know I made the right choice. I hope you too can lead a full, happy, pain-free life!

  • @laurawilliams5363
    @laurawilliams5363 4 года назад +1

    What a positive video! You didn't let this accident win! It is so refreshing as well to hear a young woman talk, make complete sentences, not "um" or "like" every other word! Home schooling was a good thing for you! I am sorry this happened but the joy that you still feel from that day what a gift. Kudos to you!

  • @evamolnar204
    @evamolnar204 4 года назад +3

    You are amaizing! Thanks for sharing your story! Your energy, and positive thinking is great! You've lost something really important, but life goes on and you try to enjoy it as much as you can!

  • @NorseButterfly
    @NorseButterfly 4 года назад +4

    I'm very thankful it was only your ankle.. knowing what can happen when a person falls from a running horse, your life could have been drastically different than it is. I grew up around horses because of my sister.. she also taught me to ride. I miss riding. The freedom of being one with such a majestic creature💜

  • @georgebusby6466
    @georgebusby6466 4 года назад +10

    Oh, I just learned a little bit more about my wonderful internet friend. Thanks, Jo! See, that's why I decided to Patreon you. When you make these Vids, you talk "to" us out here and not "at" us. You would be surprised how many folks cannot tell the difference.

  • @flyinggirl3121
    @flyinggirl3121 4 года назад +2

    Amazing! Thanks for sharing! I used to own an ex-racehorse. And, yes, riding something born to run is very different outside the arena. There were times i remember trying to decide if i should bail off or stay on and potentially end up in a ditch or piece of farm equipment. But i also echo your feelings of terror and exhilaration equalling absolute freedom!

  • @kristophjj17
    @kristophjj17 4 года назад +110

    I was trying to figure out why listening to you talk is so familiar, and I realized you have a lot of mindsets and vocab that my therapist uses (and that I've started picking up as I've grown and integrated healthy habits into my life). It's obvi to me that you value mental health and that you've taken the time to process and work through stuff and I'm proud of you for that

    • @a.neko.77
      @a.neko.77 4 года назад +10

      Jo has had many mental health issues like depression, anxiety and ptsd
      (Idk why but I feel wired about describing somebody else’s issues when I’ve never met them in real life
      If this is how I make it feel In my mind welll sorry)

  • @spicyuterus1650
    @spicyuterus1650 4 года назад

    I had a similar fall off a horse and ended up with almost the exact same injury, but in my elbow. The ends of my humerus broke off and wedged up into the remaining humerus, splitting it up the middle. It was five years ago and I'm 2 surgeries in, with lots of hardware, and probably more in the future. I'm lucky because my surgeries have been largely successful, but I've been following your story since the beginning and it's so helpful and encouraging to know there are always options and ways to live your life other than in pain with these sorts of breaks. Best of luck with your continued recovery and thank you for always being so open with your story!

  • @jerylabrams8408
    @jerylabrams8408 4 года назад

    Hey Jo, remarkable journey. There is no shame in your game. Inspirational to say the least. Real quick, I too horse lover since 7-8 yrs old. Couldn’t get enough of my fantasy. The way you were able to be around horses is fantastic. Then the Corgi, I fell in love with this breed from boating. Yrs gone by, divorce, Yada, Yada. I got my corgi, Dakota. The most amazing dog one could have. Only 8 yrs young, lost her life to cancer. Devastated. Horses, little I could be around or even ride, Hawaii, Costa Rica, yearning for more. I am a motorcycle rider, since 15. Riding up to now, I had my second accident. I am lucky to be alive. Might be getting a shoulder replacement, I am too young, 62.? Horses, I found my in on Craigslist, Pookie, $100 a month , to ride 2x a week. Recovering from 2 prior WCB accidents, 2 surgeries, I am more into the what ever I can do, help, and be around these horse, there is 25 of them . Glad I saw your video, connection is power.

  • @maryerb6062
    @maryerb6062 3 года назад

    Good to hear your story; just met you today. You speak beautifully with heart and this is good stuff!!

  • @laurasteiner6345
    @laurasteiner6345 4 года назад +3

    My mom has horses too and a few years ago she had a pretty similar "fall" like you. She went over his right shoulder, hit the ground with her back/shoulders and (here's where this might help you) while falling he hit her shin with one of his hoves and the moment she hit the ground and her legs met the grass I actually heard it crack. Like, the horse fractured her bone right above her ankle but actually hitting the ground broke it. I think that could be a possibility for you too, but like you said, we'll never know for sure 🤷🏼‍♀️
    I also love your channel and really admire your way of dealing with everything life hands to you. You're such a smart and positive person, it's very inspiring and educating to watch your videos. (And your voice is really calm and soothing, I always feel like I'm in a spa 😂)

  • @sopheeart5698
    @sopheeart5698 4 года назад +8

    I really enjoyed hearing more details to the story! 😊

  • @TheCyborgplayer
    @TheCyborgplayer 4 года назад

    Beautiful story sad to hear that you lost your leg. Back when I started horse riding the situation was this, I came to the stable, climb on horse back and start riding after one hour I climb off, pay my riding and im done nothing to do now. Thats the broblem on modern riding schools you are not able take care or brush your horse, the horse is already saddled up when you come to the stable. Thankfully I finylly found a stable that I was able to work with horses and much more.. and oh boy I have learned sooo much about horses, how to take care of them how much it cost and how much work of owning a horse really is. A really big thanks to this stable I have been even involved as organizing on horse show. Thanks to this awesome stable again I have also ride a horse wide open fields, forest and small town far away from stables it feels so amazing I love horses :3

  • @irish.eventing0386
    @irish.eventing0386 4 года назад +4

    i love how she is still so positive about the horse, the day, and the whole thing. alot of people would be angry at the horse

    • @peggyjoyner9214
      @peggyjoyner9214 4 года назад +3

      Only non-riders would blame the horse. Animals (& people, like Jo said) stumble; stuff happens. Galloping across a field you don’t know increases the chance of a stumble. There may be hidden holes or soft spots from animal burrows; your horse steps on/in one & stumbles or even falls. It happens.

  • @amayafuller8895
    @amayafuller8895 4 года назад +2

    I had no idea that you were an equestrian! I’m so sorry that this happened to you. Me and my friend went for our first real gallop through a field over the weekend, and my friend fell off(luckily she is fine), but I can’t imagine going through this. It’s insane to think about how a fall can change your life forever.

  • @katiekellogg7464
    @katiekellogg7464 4 года назад +34

    Did you ever go back to the barn and see Georgia?

  • @tessjones5987
    @tessjones5987 4 года назад

    So glad you did not end up with a spinal injury. You are so delightful and smart and sweet and a trooper.

  • @codeXenigma
    @codeXenigma 4 года назад

    Had a similar accident 2 months ago. Horse stumbled while galloping. Remember seeing him beside me, then feeling a crunch and then fell onto my back. But it was my ankle that took the brunt of the impact. Fractured and dislocated, with bone outside my leg. Been told I'm looking at a year until its recovered. My doctors tell me its a serious injury, though think even if I lose my foot at least it wasn't my back or head that took the force of that fall. Or at least its me dealing with this with medical help and the horse is ok.
    Likewise was more worried about the horse and in no way place blame. Been around horses since I was 4, its not the first time galloping or coming off, but never been hurt before.
    Its good to see you so upbeat. Pleased I found this video

  • @mypetgiraffe4236
    @mypetgiraffe4236 4 года назад

    Hi Jo,
    I grew up with horses. 🐎 I've done English forms (hunter jumper, hunter seat equitation, as well as dressage) and Western forms... Western Pleasure (pasture, hill, trail rides, etc.) and some limited Rodeo (barrel racing, pole bending, roping). I rode on my Moms lap as a 9 month old and screamed my head off when they took me off (I was told I was an easy going baby and freak outs just Didn't happen).
    I've Loved horses ever since.
    When I was 8 my parents lost their construction business and we lost our home and property and... our horses.
    I've fallen Many, Many, Many times. Broken bones, head injuries, you name it. I've been stepped on and bitten (by a pregnant unhappy mare).
    I Suspect I may know how your ankle got broken. Sometimes, it's easy to get caught up in the moment and not realize your foot has slid too far forward in the stirrup. The heel on boots helps to prevent that to some degree, but it can still happen.
    I used to work for my lessons in English Hunter Seat Equitation. My foot kept going too far into the stirrup because I wasn't riding on the balls of my feet, and hadn't built up that muscle memory. I spent many hours in a position called two point with the horse trotting... Precisely to prevent an injury like yours from ever happening.
    My horses have also tripped inside And outside the arena, and I went over a horses left shoulder once because she (Cash) had stumbled and I was just basically standing in the stirrups, not balanced. Being off balance threw me over her shoulder, but I hung on with my arm around her neck, my body weight pulling me off on the left side and... my right foot Stuck in the stirrup, up on her back (on top of the seat of the saddle).
    My foot slipped lose just in time to get slammed into a steel I beam support in the arena. I was very lucky. I got away with 4 fractured ribs and a bruised kidney on the left side.
    But if I hadn't spent all those hours in two point, (which burns your muscles like Crazy) I could have easily broken my ankle too.
    Anyway... I wasn't there, but... I suspect that's what happened. I'm guessing your foot was too far forward in the stirrup and got twisted when you went over Georgia's shoulder, breaking it. A Lot of people end up with "spiral fractures" and "burst fractures" and neither is easily healed.
    I'm very sorry that happened. I'm glad you recognized that the Oxy is bad mojo and were careful with it. Cheers! S.

  • @sethpanfil2604
    @sethpanfil2604 10 месяцев назад

    You are awesome. Kicking ass after everything is truly inspiring. You answer all the questions we all have but don't ask.

  • @jaggedalliance1224
    @jaggedalliance1224 4 года назад

    Thanks for sharing. I also fell off a horse. So there was this stallion I was training, I got too cocky and he did teach me a lesson about actually respect your common sense. I fell and broke spine in 5 places. Doctors were actually amazed that I am alive - they said that 50% of those breaks end with death and 30% with disability such as unable to use your lower body. And there was me, lucky 20%. It was non operational breaks and I need to heal naturally but I kept my arms and legs. After this fall, its been 3 years. I still ride horses and I am also in pain. Its not a big pain, but it's there. It helps when I move and ride horses, if not I get constant back pains. Still small price for being able to use my legs and arms.

  • @plut0_plut0nium
    @plut0_plut0nium 4 года назад

    This is what we should all strive for. Having something life changing happen and being able to look back and say "I have no resentment". Love you, Jo!

  • @valerieberry8416
    @valerieberry8416 4 года назад

    I'm so happy youtube led me back to your channel. I remember watching the video of you saying bye to your leg. I'm happy to see how well you're doing!

  • @tessmonro7102
    @tessmonro7102 4 года назад +1

    You have an amazingly positive & resilient spirit. Kia kaha

  • @hellenmoo8817
    @hellenmoo8817 4 года назад +2

    I almost had the same thing happen to me. My horse dumped me at a trot and I broke my shoulder and had to have surgery lol. I'm glad you're so positive though. That's awesome to see. I hope you stay well!

  • @kaylapatek8421
    @kaylapatek8421 4 года назад

    Horses are blessings ❤️ cute pup too!!! I’m a horse lover and found emotional healing in riding. Grief sucks but many horses healed it ❤️

  • @juliannagrace5025
    @juliannagrace5025 4 года назад

    Hey there! I recently started riding horses and love it do much! I have been watching a lot of youtube videos on horses lately and this video popped up on my home screen. I just wanted to say that I am so sorry that this happened to you. You didn't deserve it. Also, you have such and amazing attitude about everything! You are the kind of person that the world need to see!

  • @cathy-annemannix8898
    @cathy-annemannix8898 2 года назад

    Simply put.......you are amazing!! Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @katieburland6846
    @katieburland6846 3 года назад

    I can relate a lot to this video... I broke my right ankle galloping a bay thoroughbred mare through an open field when I was 15. She stumbled and caught herself as she went to her knees. I came off over here shoulder as well. When you fall forward like that, as the horse is coming back up from their stumble, you are going down, and coming off over the shoulder at the same time, so the combined upward force of the horse, with the downward force of your body is all focused on your remaining contact point with the horse. The ankle that is attached to the foot still in the stirrup. It's a *tremendous* amount of force and my ankle snapped like a twig. I'd lay money that's how you broke your ankle as well. (Thank God my beloved Maggie was fine also... And thankfully my break wasn't displaced and healed perfectly.
    14 years later (now 2 years ago) I had another accident and broke my left leg. Smooshed it really... My lovely mare Misty and I were just trotting quietly along when her hind legs slipped a little on the wet grass. She lost her balance and fell flat on her side crushing my left side of my body. My leg was pretty well smashed from the knee down. I have a lot of hardware now, but I was listening to your video on how you have electrical pain in your leg and it was so... Idk what the feeling is... To hear someone describe exactly what I feel in my leg every day. Every step is painful (I've got arthritis now in the knee and ankle, in addition to the nerve pain, and I swear the tibia itself still hurts, tho my orthopedic doctor says that's unlikely...) Some worse than others. My leg is healed but the nerves were just damaged beyond hope and the nerve pain is unlike anything I'd ever experienced. It's not debilitating thankfully, but it's definitely limiting.
    So anyways... Sorry for the novel, just found your channel today and it was soooo interesting to hear someone's story that resonated so much with me. Thank you for sharing your story!!

  • @Linsi273
    @Linsi273 4 года назад

    Love your mentality and love that you dont blame the horse.

  • @jasonshupe6376
    @jasonshupe6376 3 года назад

    Jo...I've been subscribed to your channel for a while now. My story is similar except mine was a different horsepower...my motorcycle. I've had several surgeries...graphs...fusion...hardware now constant pain and considering transtibial amputation. I can surely appreciate your struggle and you are so upbeat and positive. Thank you!!

  • @lylapcohen1901
    @lylapcohen1901 2 года назад

    wow that sounds so hard. I'm so sorry you had to go through all that so young.

  • @-insertname-9766
    @-insertname-9766 3 года назад

    You are really a nice person for this I can not believe that you got back on!!!

  • @rmmccoy51
    @rmmccoy51 4 месяца назад

    Wow Jo, that is an amazing story. I have dropped by your channel previously but never stopped long enough to hear your story. You seem like a very nice young lady and I (guess?) I am glad that you got to have your dream ride. Just sorry that it had such a twist ending.

  • @ringocomedynews5825
    @ringocomedynews5825 4 года назад +1

    Hi Jo been a sub since October 2018 you helped me thru a very dark time where I badly sprained my groin and I was on crutches for 3 months. When I was told I would be off my crutches 2 weeks after my injury but I wasn’t.

  • @janholman6192
    @janholman6192 4 года назад

    A friend of mine also fell off her brother's horse. She said her foot was hanging on by a few shreds of tissue, but it was reattached and has hardware as well. This was about 3 years ago, she has trouble with it to this very day. Sorry for your accident, you have a great attitude through it all!

  • @alorapena8843
    @alorapena8843 4 месяца назад

    Footless Jo that’s an insane story sounds like a great time til then I pray you feel okay I lost a limb small one but it changed my life

  • @jackiedorman2188
    @jackiedorman2188 4 года назад +1

    I rode all the time. Kept me out of trouble. It started hailing, i was riding bare back, had to make a sharp turn, my stepdad always cut their mane and i fell off because of no mane. Went over his head, he jumped over me and i fell on my butt. Broken tailbone, im 62 and it hurts everyday. Never stopped riding until later. Your great, your attitude is awsome, sorry u lost your leg. You can do anything

  • @janicemichaloski3319
    @janicemichaloski3319 4 года назад +3

    Hi Jo thanks for sharing your story my daughter is 10 and rides it's always a fear for me of her getting hurt she's so in love with them they are are her life right now 😊

  • @beckyhashimoto4764
    @beckyhashimoto4764 4 года назад +2

    Love your spirit and how encouraging you are!

  • @johndej
    @johndej 4 года назад +7

    Two things: I'm very glad you have such happy memories of what led up to that day. I think that's a very important memory to have. The other thing, I was wondering if you think having to wait for your initial treatment/surgery made a difference in the long-term outcome? Anyway, thanks for another great video!

  • @livapetermane3652
    @livapetermane3652 Год назад

    You're literally so brave ! You're an inspiration to everyone ❤ I own horses and this really scared me, I'm a professional level showjumper (130 jumps) and a eventer. I own 3 horses and live in the countryside with my horses and go galloping very often. I had a very bad rotational fall a few years and luckily I escaped with quite minimal injuries for how bad the fall was😅 you're amazing ❤

  • @MsCruisein
    @MsCruisein 4 года назад

    So positive! My dad has cancer, and he's had several facial surgeries. It's been hard for him to adjust to life as it is now. This gives me hope!

  • @kimbailey3539
    @kimbailey3539 4 года назад

    You are so positive with everything you have been through. 🙏♥️👍🏻

  • @dannieabel3298
    @dannieabel3298 4 года назад

    I love riding horses and always have. I've never galloped or anything but I have fallen off. I was incredibly lucky when I fell. The horse I was riding (a stallion named Psycho, he was one of the sweetest things I've ever met) got scared by a car backfire and bucked me off. I fell off and landed underneath him as he went crazy. I was winded so I couldnt really move but I could hear his hooves hitting all around me. Thankfully he didnt step on me even once and his owner was able to calm him down quickly. I know how fortunate I was and thank every day that that day turned out exactly how it did. My mum also has a story of falling off a horse and had an injury that falls into a similar category to yours (in that we have no idea how she did it falling off a horse). She was lucky too. The horse she was riding went to go into this little shelter that was just tall enough for her, so my mum did a complete backflip off the horse and all she did to injure herself was rip a hole in her fingers. One was very serious and almost needed a skin graft but it thankfully didnt and healed. It wasnt a pleasant injury but she was so so lucky compared to what she could of done

  • @shelld776
    @shelld776 4 года назад

    I'm so happy your life has improved. I'm sure that it was such a tough decision, you're so strong and inspiring. Thank you for sharing your story. ❤

  • @conniebabcock4045
    @conniebabcock4045 Год назад +1

    You are amazing ❤.

  • @dreamsultimate
    @dreamsultimate 4 года назад +1

    Your stories are amazing, your videos are amazing, you have the most beautiful smile and you are a inspiration. This is David saying Hi from India :)

  • @stormiesragingsea5509
    @stormiesragingsea5509 4 года назад

    I’m so sorry about your accident I still ride and continue to ride to this day even though my horse has thrown me off I refuse to give up it’s what I love

  • @jerilynanders
    @jerilynanders 4 года назад

    You’re a beautiful speaker with a beautiful attitude.

  • @ingeborgm6147
    @ingeborgm6147 4 года назад

    What a story and you are amazing! life is so strange and the smallest incidents o a normal old day can change life forever! I know you must have had some awful days with little hope, but you kept your gusto and we can look at you and see the girl still riding her horse with her hair flying behind her..... and she looks perfect because she is!

  • @DiscoveryClaudia
    @DiscoveryClaudia 4 года назад +3

    Absolute success to the artistic part!!!

  • @randomperson349
    @randomperson349 4 года назад +54

    Wait you were an Equestrian???
    Just to think about quiting everything abt horses is too scary

    • @OzarkRose
      @OzarkRose 4 года назад +11

      Horse back riding is risky. But worth it! I'm telling you this from the place of recently having been bucked off and really injured. Will I be getting back on once my leg is better? Yes! The best things in life involve some risk. Don't let fear be what decides whether or not you ride. Take lessons. Read the book Come closer, Stay longer by Dr. Stephanie Burns. Study horse psychology. In my case, I got bucked off because I asked a young horse to do something in an area he wasn't coordinated enough to do it yet. I know what I did wrong and I am going to fix it.

    • @erinemassey7306
      @erinemassey7306 4 года назад +3

      You just need to ride a calm horse at first and then go on a less calm horse so on

    • @yuzu8709
      @yuzu8709 4 года назад

      I wouldn't and I couldn't.

    • @catherinemurphy550
      @catherinemurphy550 4 года назад +2

      The first time I rode a horse I was 2 days old, and it would have been sooner but my mom was not stable enough to leave. I have metal rods in my back, and screws and pins all up and down my legs and arms... Im 15 right now... I will never quit, that thought gives me nightmares of quiting my entire livelihood.

    • @haleynorthpie6740
      @haleynorthpie6740 4 года назад +1

      I can't imagine quitting.. I can maybe imagine quitting riding but I could never not spend time with them often...

  • @ankejacobs4649
    @ankejacobs4649 Год назад

    You are so inspiring! Keep going and being wonderful ❤

  • @raycharleson4167
    @raycharleson4167 9 месяцев назад

    As a child my parents found a way to make sure I had a pony to enjoy and I learned how to take care of and ride a horse but without a bridle or a saddle and its such a feeling of freedom that it can't be described. 💯🖤

  • @ForeverSwift.
    @ForeverSwift. 9 месяцев назад +2

    And yet people still say horse back riding is so easy and not dangerous at all

  • @Jes-Lynne
    @Jes-Lynne 4 года назад +1

    You ever going ride again!? Para-equestrian!! ❤😁
    Thank you for sharing your story. I am grateful every day that I haven't sustained too serious of injuries in the spills I've had, as really anything can happen. And awesome and big of you to understand that you accept that risk when you mount or even spend time around horses, and to not blame the horse ❤
    This is the first video of yours I've watched (prob suggested due to having horse content lol) but it was a good one!
    Super glad you had a great experience galloping the fields before the stumble and fall.
    Thanks again for sharing!

  • @zivagoldman2001
    @zivagoldman2001 4 года назад +1

    3 things: Thoroughbred. Chestnut. Mare. I know you said it wasn't the horse's fault. I am certainly NOT blaming the horse... or anyone for that matter! My gelding always tripped and I have gone over his shoulders a couple times. But if someone were to offer me any horse of my choosing for free, those three items would be off the list completely!

  • @professorchucke4087
    @professorchucke4087 6 месяцев назад

    You have come far since I first saw you. I actually saw your commercial about some cream stuff yesterday. lol I lost my leg just before you lost yours. I did loose my other leg from a totally different reason. Yeah I know what are the odds. I’m glade you found your gig!

  • @RanchoGV
    @RanchoGV 4 года назад

    Your very inspirational, God has a plan with you. Keep moving forward.

  • @duckwolfswife6795
    @duckwolfswife6795 4 года назад

    Jo God bless you and Georgia

  • @Peedarb
    @Peedarb 4 года назад +7

    At 14 my dad arranged for some of my brothers and I to help some family in Arizona run some cattle that they did every year. With no horse experience at all i hopped on a horse and did pretty good.... Until the last day, when the horses knew when they were getting close to home we were riding without the cattle anymore and the horses just were itching to get home to their final destination. My horse took off like a rocket and I realized that I had never been on a full run with these animals and I was holding on for dear life hahaha!!. My cowboy hat which I had purchased for just this drive flew into my face and latched itself right on my face and I couldn't see a damn thing at a full run I was holding on for dear life it was the funniest thing that's ever happened to me in the scariest. I managed to slow him down and I can't believe I didn't fall the hell off. Love horses and riding.

    • @elsie6464
      @elsie6464 4 года назад

      Jesus christ... what kind of butt glue did you use??

    • @GreyGhostBreyers
      @GreyGhostBreyers 4 года назад

      The butt glue thing kills me 😂😂

  • @kkdoc7864
    @kkdoc7864 4 года назад +3

    Sounds like you had incompetent care, but in spite of all that, you still have an incredible spirit.

  • @fluteteachermarcie6283
    @fluteteachermarcie6283 4 года назад +8

    Wow, we’re so similar-I spent my teens working at barns, being homeschooled and able to spend so much time there. Im so sad your opportunity to ride was cut so short. Do you ever think you’ll ride again?

  • @TheAverageDutchman
    @TheAverageDutchman Год назад

    I've broken my ankle myself (tri-maleolar fracture, fell with my bicycle in icy conditions) and after this story I'm just glad it was all clean breaks and they were able to fix things with screws and I can still walk normally (until the point the cartilage is worn out from the no longer perfect alignment). I can attest is hurts VERY badly.

  • @paolapelt627
    @paolapelt627 4 года назад

    Thanks for sharing your story I am glad you did ❤️🙏