Being an Egg Donor Experience- Complications and All Storytime!
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- Опубликовано: 25 июн 2017
- This is my egg donor story from beginning to end! I was the egg donor for my best friends, a wonderful gay couple going through the journey to fatherhood - A.K.A. the Mchusbands. It was a difficult thing to go through but I couldn't be more thankful to the McHusbands for being there through it all. They are now going through the surrogacy process and by November of this year there will be twin babies with my DNA! How crazy is that?! If you are thinking of being an egg donor and need some support, please feel free to reach out to me via comments below, instagram or email. If you went through the process yourself, I'd love to hear your experience!
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YOU ARE QUEEN AND WE LOVE YOU!!! BEST FWENDS FOREVER!!!!
McHusbands LOVE YOUUU 💕💕💕
We love you all from Naples, Florida ❤💙💚💛💜
Addisen is a mini Adam and Everest looks like Eric. They make brilliant fathers and the babies are so beautiful ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
@@ericamae7287 Addison favors Julie a lot, she is a mix of Julie and Adam, but her sister is like Eric's clone.
I can't believe people give negative reactions. I think you did an amazing thing for your friends. I don't think I could do such a selfless thing.
Thank you so much! Yeah, it was tough to see so many women not understand why I wanted to do this.
Julie Ventura you are a wonderful person and amazing friend, and Mc Husbands are really appreciative of you love and kindness,they are amazing parents and loving family...🤗🤗🤗🌹🌹🌹🌹🌸🌸🌸👏👏👏👏👍👍👍👍👍👍👍💙💚💛💜💓❤
@@JulieVentura Las madres te entendemos. Mercadear con el cuerpo de nuestras hijas y con niños: no. Madre es biología, no compra de óvulos.
@@JulieVentura Ventura, madura; eres muy pueril.
Just come across your video. I must say you're an amazing woman ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉 thanks for helping a friend or friends
Hi Julie,
Thank you for your amazing video. Last November I donated eggs to my high school bestie & her husband. The baby will be raised knowing that I am his/her egg donor and I'm really thankful that I will get to know the baby and be involved in his/her life.
Egg donation isn't a simple procedure. I have 4 kids of my own, and besides childbirth, egg donation has been the most painful experience of my life. I'm a fit and healthy person, but it's been 4 months since I donated and my body still hasn't quite got back to it's normal rhythm yet. And my hair started falling out like it did post pregnancy...nobody warned me about that! Like you, I had a lot of anxiety about the injections. I had to reinject the needle quite a few times too, so like you I had lots of bruising. I threw up after my egg collection procedure. And I didn't realise just how bad the constipation would be. It took me 5 days for bowl movements, so I felt incredibly bloated and uncomfortable. I hate the comparison "It's just like donating blood." It's not!! Trust me, I'm a blood donor! I'm so thankful I could help my friend start her family, but this is definitely not something that I would have done for a stranger and not something I would want to repeat.
I'm well aware that I'm "Not the MAMMA!" as the boys so beautifully phrased it. But I disagree when people say "It's just a tissue donation, like donating bone marrow". For some people that is true, but for others it's more special than that. Personally, I think being an egg donor ranks me somewhere in between; I'm definitely not "mum" and I'm not "just a tissue donor" either.
There are heaps of videos like "Make money by donating your eggs" (I'm from Australia where you can't be paid to donate eggs or sperm or be a surrogate anyway), and there's basically no videos that address the issues surrounding donating your eggs to your friends. And there's lots of promotional videos from fertility clinics spruiking "How simple egg donation is." So thank you so much Julie, for telling it like it is. Everyone I've spoken with about my own egg donation has been really positive, and I think it's a real tragedy that you've experienced some negative comments. I think you've given a wonderful gift to your friends and I wish you all the best
What is the hardest childbirth or egg donation?
The child will have half your DNA what does that make you...
@@lilacmelody2021 honorary aunt/bio mom the twin girls are 6 now. They know Julie is their bio mom and they call her Aunt Julie. One girl is her father's female clone. The other girl is a combo of Julie and her father. she does love both girls and sees them a few times a year, the fathers had made sure she is included in their lives, but she is happy they live with their fathers. So, in her case it has worked out well. Now as an anonymous egg donor I don't think I would like that at all. I would want to know the people who carry my DNA.
and their surrogate is their aunt. One of her fathers' brother's wife. She sees them regularly too.
"I thought - why would they ask me." possibly, partly because you look like Anne Hathaway (aka, gorgeous).
she really does. funny how it bugged m for age and it finally hit me whom she looked like. Anne Hathaway or a very young Debra Winger like in Urban Cowboy or An Officer and a Gentleman. Lol Debra Winger could play Anne Hataway's mother! Or they could play the same character in a This Is Us type series.
I never knew it was such a process! I never gave it much thought, but I thought it was just a quick surgery, where they take out an egg. I didn't realize you had to go on hormones. It takes an amazing friend to do something like that
Etta Jurima I thought the same thing! Definitely didn't realize how crazy the process was going to be until I did a ton of research. Thanks so much!
Well Julie, this was great. I've always wondered what people went through who did this. You have the best of both worlds. You don't have to be overwhelmed with being around kids all the time, yet you still get to see them often. And when they're adults, the relationship will be incredible as well. Thank you for making this video
Wowzer! I had no clue. Ive been a nurse for 35yrs and had 4 kids. But what a superwoman you are! Im just sitting here thinking how could anyone be so cruel and judgemental to post negative comments about what you did for the McHusbands! Youre so very beautiful and animated and obviously intelligent and so many more things! Of course theyd ask you! You have so much to offer to their babies!!!! I applaud you and give you my admiration, love, and respect for all you went through emotionally and physically. Yoyre such a brave and selfless woman! What a blessing youve been in each others lives with one another. Im glad you guys have each other. What a great gift to have such dear friends and share being with them as they raise their daughters! Youre much more julie than a DNA donor! For real😊😍😙
I watched this before I did IVF, but then watched again. I did IVF in Feb. I felt you on another level when you said it hurt to pee. I cringe just thinking about how that felt. They retrieved 55 eggs, I couldn't even walk. But this is the greatest gift you could give to anybody
What you did for them is such an amazing selfless thing that one can do for someone, you have such a kind heart. There needs to be more great people like you!
+Shelly Depont Awe, thanks Shelly! 💕
Thank you so much for posting such an in-depth video about this!! I am currently considering becoming an egg donor, and I’ve watched a few other peoples videos but they haven’t really talked about the pain levels and the injections they kind of just skimmed over that and made it sound a lot less painful than it probably actually is!!
That's amazing! It's a really rewarding process! Well, everyones experience is quite different. My doctor told me some women don't even have any side effects. I knew I wasn't going to be one of those haha!
Those babies look just like you!!! I cried looking at them :/ I was thinking about doing it but the feeling I felt after watching this and then seeing the babies made me so emotional
You are an amazing friend!!! Chemo treatments have caused me to need an egg donor & I wish I had a best friend like you! You’re a true hero❣️
Wow. Just wow. I hope Adam and Eric are so thankful to you. This was a lot to go through for them. I do watch them and the babies are beautiful but I had no idea that this is what an egg donor goes through. God bless you for doing this.
I can’t believe anyone would give you problems! What you did is absolutely so amazing! And so non selfish! I follow Adam and Erik and love love their videos! I’m not completely caught up because I just found them a couple weeks ago! Your amazing!
Awe, love you Julie!!! The guys are truly blessed to have you. Thanks for sharing your story. And of course, you totally made me cry 😍
Love you Corrin!!! They could not be luckier to have such an amazing sister-in-law in their lives! Superwoman to the rescue!!!
Both of you are truly angels! Erik, Adam, Everest and Addisen are so very blessed to have THIS village!! I love ALL of you!
Thank you for sharing Julie! Thank you for your honesty and openness. What a rollercoaster! You are such a giving, beautiful person x
You did a very amazing thing for Erik and Adam. Addisen and Everest are absolutely beautiful and they would not be here without you. You are a very strong person :)
You're absolutely amazing for helping them create this gorgeous family they have can't believe we getting negative energy. You did a great thing
I think the first McHusbands vlog I watched the one with you being interviewed. I've been working my way through the older vlogs. I look forward to McBaby Monday. You're an amazing woman /friend to do what you did.
Thank you so much!! McBaby Monday's are my favorite, pretty soon it's going to be "McBaby Everday" ahah
This video seriously helped me so much. I was going to do this a few months back. I didn't really get any info from an actually talk to someone who has been through this. I really wanted to do this for the fact of giving someone something that they are not able to get them selves. I've had the same split opinions but more of the whole "you're okay with just giving someone a baby that you could have had and made your own" it's just deeper than that to me and I feel like a lot of people who aren't fortunate to be able to make a baby or have the means deserve it. I actually looked this video up because I was considering doing it in the town I recently moved into. I appreciate your honesty and all the real stuff that happens and what goes on. Some people can and some people can't do this kind of stuff. This video really helped me out sooo much. Thank you! ☺️
I'm glad this helped! It's definitely not common to hear many egg donor stories, that's why I felt it was important to share. Everyone has a different experience and I hope if you decide to do it in the future, you get that warm feeling of purpose that I did. Hard to find that! Feel free to reach out if you have any questions!
Julie Ventura thanks so much. I think more things like this need the most honest opinion! You're on strong woman for doing this!👏🏼
I just want you to know I think you are amazing and selfless person for helping your Adam and Eric. So glad they have someone like u in there life and the babies life.
You are an amazing friend and I know you see that with every moment you spend with the twins and their dads. It’s a shame that you didn’t have a “smooth sailing” experience but you hung in there and I admire you for that. Congratulations!
To go through that for your best friends.... Now that's love right there
You did an amazing job, infact you have helped a lot of people, I know an egg donor who later got married, conceived and delivered twins naturally less than a year after marriage
You have given them a selfless gift, and I know you are going to be the best Auntie ever! Corrin too! (And hopefully when it comes to things like first bras and first periods that you two will step in and give the girls the female support they'll need at certain times! No offense to Erik and Adam on that front!) These girls are going to be the luckiest ever with two great dads and such an amazing extended family. ❤️
I follow Adam and Erik and you have done such a great thing for them. You should definitely not get any negativity for being so selfless. The process does NOT sound appealing whatso-freaking-ever, but can't wait to see the beautiful little girls when they arrive. They've got so much love and support from everyone involved in the process
Thank you so much! Yeah it's amazing to be a part of their journey, they are such genuine, wonderful people!
You're amazing for helping your friends achieve their dreams!
Both my best friend and I are looking to be donors. Thank you SO much for all of this knowledge. I’ll be sure to pass it on to her.
Thank you for explaining this process as I did not know much about it. You are a very special women to help others in need.
I'm so suprised you didn't get many posostive reactions. I've considered donating eggs. But it's a massive process I am aware thank you for sharing your story with us all ❤️
You are an amazing person to do this! Don't let anyone tell you otherwise! God Bless You for your servant heart!
Thank you so much!
enjoyed watching your video julie, and learned a lot from it.
all i can say is that, your a superwoman!! god bless you! 😍😘😘
I call the pain "fire crotch". I can sort of understand that pain. Had uterine surgery and coming out was sickeningly painful. 3 shots of meds, the last being morphine to get mine under control. You are brave as f to do this for Eric and Adam and such a fantastic friend. The babies you helped create are beautiful.
Thank you so much for the honesty of your experience. This definitely has thoroughly briefed me about the process and potential effects of this procedure!
Wow! What a gift of love that u were able to share with them!! Congrats to you!!
OMG what a journey you went on. You’re an amazingly beautiful lady who did an amazingly beautiful and selfless thing that most people wouldn’t do.
You are an amazing friend to do this Julie. I needed an egg donor. Unfortunately I still was never able to have children. God bless you for doing this! ❤💛💚💙💜💕💖💗💓💞💖
RonneeSue Scott Thank you, you're so sweet! I'm so sorry, that must be difficult to deal with - I have some friends who dealt with the same problem and it was really rough for them. It's insane how expensive it is to go to fertility clinics and find help!
Julie Ventura I spent over 30 grand, and that was with insurance. Not to mention all the shots, at all the exact times, all the procedures at the dr, only to be let down 4 times. It was devastating. My last try I went home and threw all my leftover meds in the corner of my room and never looked at them for years. I've learned to accept being a dog mommy. But it still upsets me. You're an angel Julie, and are giving your friends the best gift ever!
@@ronneesuescott9495 What kind of insurance? How less did you need to pay?
I've seen your vids with Mc.Husbands, between the 4 of you, you made 2 absolutely perfect angels 😊❤
You ARE amazing! Wow. You are so giving and kind. You are giving love to the world.
I’m writing now after watching the whole video. I really enjoyed hearing your honest story on doing this. I had no idea on how it all worked.
I watched all the Mchusbands and they are a riot to watch. You are such a very special person to be doing this for them. Not many people would do what you did.
Cindi Atkins Thank you so much! Totally not something I ever thought I would do but so glad I'm apart of it! Aren't they hilarious?!
What a beautiful thing. It saddens me to think someone would try to talk you out if it. This is 6 years old right now as I'm seeing this. I am going to look and see if this boy or girl has videos at 6 years old. May the Gods smile on you for giving such a unselfish gift ❤
I Love McHusbands! What a blessing that they have you for a dear friend! I must say though Addison does look a lot like you! Everest does have some I your features too! You are a beautiful woman and Eric and Adam are definitely very handsome men! The three of you have created 2 gorgeous little Angels!
Never let the negative people get you down. You gave a selfless gift. A most precious gift. You are a blessing to give such a gift. I can't wait to see the beautiful baby girls.
You're so sweet, thank you! They should be here any day now, we are all so excited!
This video was super informational!
You are so wonderful!!!!!!!! God bless you for helping Eric and Adam have 2 beautiful babies!!!!!! I am also so happy you are such a wonderful friend!!!!!!! God bless you
Wow, you are truly amazing. You went through a lot. Omfg wow. Your story is truly amazing. Also you are gorgeous.
You did an amazing thing sweetie! Just throw out the negative things and remember the positive
You explained everything very well, thank you
Julie you are amazing. I love watching you visit the girls. 😍😍 you need to come to Niagara falls Ontario x
Your story has inspired me not to do egg donation. You had an terrible journey. Thank you for posting.
Lexie m 😂😂right! Fuck that. I go through enough with my period every month.
right. nt get me wrong I love her a story but it is definitely more invasive than the clinics tell you online
Yes! I feel like I would have an unlucky experience....dont think I want to risk it!
Keep in mind everyone's body reacts to things differently.
LMFAO same
You are really brave 🙌
And thank you for making this much informative video 👌
I think what you have done is amazing and beautiful
Drusilla Marsters Thank you so much! 💕
I think it is really amazing that you did that for them! Do you feel like they are your babies too or dont you have that kind of view of them? Love from Austria!
Thank you! I'm sure I'll have quite a mix of feelings once they are born in 2 months, but for now I'm comfortable with the boundaries I've established. I'll never view them as my children but I'll still view them as my blood, if that makes any sense. Haha
Julie Ventura but you are there mum ?you cant take that back
@@judiedimatteo5195 No but you need to raise the children to be able to call them a mom.
@@user-lv4ov5rp6d Biological mom is a thing. Raising them is the next step. Being a mom isn't just a one step thing you know.
U are amazing person.. I've been watching all the episodes today, u are a great friend..bless u all..💕😍💖
Can't believe this was a year ago already!
Every time that horn would blow, I'd jump off my chair (I had my headphones on high because you talk quietly) lol
hahaha same thing happened to me :P
Same, i powered through the video because i was interested but the car noises were way loud
Saaame omg I was driving and trying to get over and that scared me so bad 😭😂
Hi Julie! I've been thinking about being an egg donor and I found your video to be very thorough and helpful, thanks for bringing out all the details of this experience. I live in southern Cali as well and been researching several fertility clinics. May I ask which one was yours?
What did you decide to do?
What a wonderful gift to provide! Glad everyone is getting along well. Could you share the protocol you were on? On one vid you mentioned they almost doubled your medicine dosages. I wasn't clear if you started with 150IUs and it was increased or they increased it to 150IUs. Thanks for sharing; I wish you well in all of your endeavors!
Hi.Julie .U r amazing person ,good things will return to you:)
Thank you for all you did
You are Amazing. God bless you.
Trully a miracle from heaven.Double identical miracles. Shaped by Gods own hands. God bless the lady, 👶👶👼
I just want to know if you were covered in frosted flakes when they sprang you out after the egg harvest
We literally have identical stories in every way.
Hi hi. I follow Eric & Adam and I wanted to hear your side. Girllllllll, you are super woman. Adam & Erick couldn't have ask for anybody else. You the the best. That entire 40min video had me on my toes, I just needed to know what happened next. You will be an awesome aunt to Everest & Addisen. You deserve a medel for being selfless and heroic. *three*
Louise Fontaine You’re so sweet, thank you so much! It was all so worth it, Erik and Adam deserve the world 💕 Three!
Oh ma gawd. I cringe hearing about the IV. Holy cow, Julie. I feel sick to my stomach just hearing it. Nothing can ever make up to what you did. But still its like a modern fairytale. That these things are possible. Stunning.
It sounds like your experience was that of a pregnant woman! I am a mom, and have been through the whole process of birth. The burning was normal for a while after I had her, as well as the bloating (my feet were swollen for weeks after!). UTI's are common for pregnancy as well. I think that is just a normal response to the hormones, however internal bleeding definitely is not! When I had my IV, it took me quite a while to get the fluids out of my body and system. Also, (TMI) pooping on the table is common for woman giving birth ( I didn't thank goodness) but I had a good laugh at your story, as I know I was super worried about that the whole time leading up to the birth. But just from watching your video and hearing about your experience, it sounds like that of an (expedited) pregnancy. I don't blame you for not wanting to do it again! I probably would choose to never give birth again, as much as I love my child. But I'm really happy to learn about your experience, as egg donation is something I've been thinking about (since I don't plan to have anymore kids of my own). So THANK you for the in-depth breakdown of your experience!
+Kameri Holtz RIGHT? I feel like I have a very good idea of what it feels like to be pregnant ahah! That’s amazing, it’s such a rewarding feeling to donate your eggs. Glad you enjoyed, thanks for watching!
I pretty much got "That's great, youre wonderful" and "How could you give away your children like that" and "That's great but how could you" Mostly the last. I just told them it wasn't *my* children and my friends really deserved their own kids.
you're awesome thanks for doing that
I'm curious as to how you feel emotionally? Do you have any worries that once the babies are born that you'll feel some maternal bond with them? I would love for you to post a video where you go more in depth about your inner feelings regarding your fears/insecurities/uncertainties about what's to come once the babies are here knowing that biological you are their mother.
I currently don't have those worries, but I've never really desired to have kids of my own. We'll see soon enough if that feeling changes but I for sure plan to update you guys with how I'm feeling once they are born! I think right now, I'm just so happy for my best friends to finally be able to experience fatherhood, ya know?
Julie Ventura you have a warm heart and a amazing soul
Julie Ventura so excited for all of you, the best is yet to come! 🙏🏻😘
I love the way you make happy family 😘😍
I'll tell you what, YOU are absolutely BEAUTIFUL! You have some of the most beautiful features I've ever seen and those little girl's are seriously going to be so GORGEOUS!! If I were them I would have asked you to. LOL But that's so awesome of you to do for your friends.
You're so sweet!! Thanks Valarie!
I think you did a wonderful thing girly. ❤️
You should be tested for a bleeding disorder. Be tested for Von Willebrands disease. I had all of these symptoms. Bruising. Heavy bleeding. Honestly we think heavy periods are normal but they aren't. Please be tested
Mine was low platelet count
IVF, ICSI, IUI, Egg Donation and Surrogacy are becoming a good business. Many countries earn huge sums of money by providing these services. And I can't stop admiring those women who are doing this for relatives, sisters, brothers, friends, etc. It is a huge hand of help! I am in need of IVF and I don't think that I would agree to take the eggs from my friend even if she agreed to do this. I wouldn't allow her to take such a risk as anything can happen.
You are an angel from god, literally you are amazing.
Just what I needed. Someone close to me has asked for an egg and I’m exploring the process now. How do you feel five years on? Do you see the couple and child often? Thank you for the excellent video.
Yes! The couple are my best friends -more like my true family, I talk with them daily and see them super often. I think being 100% positive that I don’t want children of my own made this process the perfect fit for me. I love my egg donor babies but in no way do I feel I am a parent to them or have any “motherly” feelings in that sense. I’m just the fun “aunt” and its a great dynamic. 💕
Hi Julie, Your video was very helpful. Did you have to pay for any of the process? Like for the medications or the surgery or anything?
Nope! That was part if the contract, I did it for free for them so they paid for everything.
I think it was wonderful.. This allowed 2 people to share the love.. have a family. If they cant get passed the Mchusbands being gay.. then it's on them.. I am 50 I love the family and love and openness of the way you have done this..
You may essentially later want kids.. just wait..
The fact that you possibly did it for free is mind boggling
How do you know it was free?
@@user-lv4ov5rp6d keyword is “ possibly” . I wonder too though
Hi. Thanks for the video. I'm curious did you develop any long-term complications? (Endometriosis? Colon cancer?)
Nope! No issues since. It’s been about 6 years now since the process.
I am thinking of becoming an egg donor I’m just worried they won’t select me to be an egg donor and I really want to help somebody create a family any tips for me?
So do you feel like their mom? Like not that you're going to be their "parent" so to speak but like do you feel like they are your children as well? Or do you feel like they are solely Eriks & Adams bio kids? Will they know you are their biological mother growing up? Or not until they're older??? Sorry I'm asking so many questions, I just think this is so inspiring to be able to help someone in this way!
Hi Rachael! Ask away! I do not feel any maternal bond whatsoever, I feel as if I'm strictly the biological egg donor in the process of helping my best friends. They plan on being open with the girls from day one which is great, and I'll be known as Aunt Julie! Everyone keeps telling me I'll feel differently once they are born but I've never really had that maternal instinct majority of women have. So we'll see, I'll be posting an update once they are born!
Thank you so much for answering my questions!😊
You are awesome!
Thank you! You're awesome!
The girls are beautiful!
This is like a mchusbands spin off
brave girl , god for you and your gorgeous
It was hard to watch this bc u sounded like u were going to cry the whole time. But thanks for making this video
I’ve heard so many people talk about how horrible this process is and they wouldn’t do it again even though it’s for a good cause me personally I didn’t IVF cycle it’s the same process as what you went through except I keep my eggs and you donated yours to somebody else it wasn’t bad for me. I had a little bit of bloating it wasn’t enough where I couldn’t button my pants or anything or I was uncomfortable. I had 26 eggs and 15 were fertilized and we had one transferred which failed😢. But it’s OK because we have 14 more .
Also I didn’t have any symptoms no headaches nausea nothing from the medications I barely bruised I think I bruise one time and that was when somebody else did it for me and then I just started doing it myself. The needles are actually really small compared to the 2 1/2 inch needle you have to do for muscle injections when you’re doing a frozen transfer which I’m doing now and those hurt but it’s not that bad. As for the egg retrieval day the sleep was amazing lol 😂 The surgery was quick afterwards I had no pain I didn’t take any Tylenol or anything I didn’t need nothing I was perfectly fine I was up walking around even though they tell you not to but I was taking it easy just walking around the house and letting my dogs out and things like that but other than that I just kind of took it easy for the rest of the day. But my experience honestly was the complete opposite than yours so I guess everybody’s experience are definitely different. And if someone asked me to be an egg donor I wouldn’t hesitate I would do it right away I will do another IVF cycle for myself if I had to it was that easy for me. I think the hardest part of this whole entire thing for me because I’m doing an IVF cycle instead of a egg donation. When you get a negative pregnancy test that has to be one of the most hardest things about this whole entire process because you have your hopes so high! But it’s good to let everybody know your side of the story as well as mine and anybody else that everybody is different and medications and pain tolerance and all that run different and each person. I think what you did was an amazing thing and I actually have been looking into being an egg donor 😁 can’t wait but not until after I have a child!
How long did the whole process take from day one where you started injecting to the last inject? You're very strong love❤ god bless you
I'm going to be an egg donor. My best friend isn't fertile and when she asked me I knew I wanted to. There was no hesitation. I have only told a couple people and they don't exactly agree with my decision which is disappointing.
Brittany Graham Congrats! Yeah, I completely understand. It’s insane how so many people don’t see the good in helping others create a family. But when you see how happy you’ll have made your best friend and the feeling of being a part of something so special, you won’t think twice about any one else’s opinions. Do this for your friends and for you, don’t worry about anyone else! 💕 best of luck!
Thanks love!
Your so beautiful... Baby Everest and Baby Addison look so much like you :o
Wow you will a big heart. I couldn't live my life knowing I have kids and I can't love them or see them. Do you feel to see those children?
I know this is old, but as someone who’s done ivf twice, I really feel like you had ohss and possibly other side effects/complications. A lot of those symptoms are not “normal”.
Didn't you have those complications?
I know it's a beautiful thing to give anothers the opportunity to have a child. Please keep in mind the side effects it could have. Please so all your orwn research watch videos. There have been plenty of women come up with cancer, and sterile after having donating. Might not happen to everyone but it could. I've been a surrogate myself and have thought if egg donation but the fact that " No KNOWN side effects" means they quite literally dont know the side effects it could cause. Things such a CANCER, or infertility etc. So please consider this also if you ever want to have children yourself and want tk live long enough to see your child grow up.
What are the major side effects
I am dead. I was prairie doggin. I am traumatized they will just scoop it out no hesitation mid surgery. I am dead. and disturbed. do you think they teach it in medical school
I don't understand. What do you mean?
It is an amazing thing to do. We have a little girl thanks to an amazing woman who did the same
That's amazing to hear!! Makes my heart happy!
I think you're amazing for what you did. I'm someone unable to have children and if it wasn't for people like you I may never get the chance to ever to become a mother. You feel like less of a woman not being able to be a mom. You giving the opportunity to two men become fathers is absolutely amazing! Without people like you they wouldn't be able to have that opportunity. Being a parent is more about sex... It's about the love you can give a child. If more people had the mindset you do, our world would be a better place to live in.
Screw what people say. You did a great thing!
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