I completely agree. This is why I am such a proponent of being in your kids business. knowing who their friends are and what they are doing. Because they don't know what the right questions are to ask yet! It so crazy how this all played out. SMH
I don't mean to sound judgey, but when I was 14/15 years old I'd like to think I would have the sense to know when something seemed sketchy. Refusing to remove the hats, not letting them see their whole face, refusing to talk and only text in person... Too many red flags that these girls overlooked. I mean, the fact that they were both dating "guys" who wore hats year round didn't seem a bit odd them? It's really, really sad that things went as far as they did and now both of these girls are probably scarred for life.
Yeah, I hear you! I would like to think that my younger self would be able to clearly and quickly identify these red flags, too! I feel so bad for these girls though and I hope they got the help they needed to recover from this!
I love this! I feel like so many RUclipsrs assume that their crowd is just one gender and that is so limiting! I don’t know all I need to know but I try!
I went to the same primary school as Gemma Barker. Although she was two years younger than me, I’ve never encountered a child like her before or since…Very cold, very cruel, hardly ever smiled, very deceitful…when I was 12 and she was 10, we were in the same Girl Guides group and went on a trip abroad; she engineered a situation whereby all the girls staying in the same cabin believed that I was stealing and moving their belongings, because I was often in the cabin by myself- I was picked on by most of them so didn’t join in with much. It was Gemma moving people’s things all along- she told me so on the coach on the way home, while laughing about it. She was such a horrible child. Having said that, her mother also worked at the school, and she was one of the nicest, kindest people I’ve met until this day- so unfair to her what Gemma did. Knowing the family, I also don’t believe that her mother only “threw money at the problem” when Gemma claimed to be depressed and suicidal- she literally lived round the corner from me, and it wasn’t a rich neighbourhood at all, not even what you would call middle class- not poor, but certainly not rich- if her mother did buy her a brand new car, she would have felt it bless her ❤️
The deception is horrible, but the assaults...that's just beyond disgusting. She cares nothing about others (and these were CHILDREN; anyone under 18 is a child). Her reasons are beside the point.
In another video, one of the girls said that they noticed that Aaron, I think it was (could have been Luke, but I'm pretty sure it was Aaron) had the same cheeks and teeth as Gemma, but for some reason didn't connect that it WAS Gemma.
So much! It seems like the typical high school drama case, but so many actual layers beyond the surface than need to be unpacked and a lot of teaching moments for sure.
Girl! I was bothered just telling this story! I do not miss any of this type of drama! I am also thankful that none of my high school drama ever got here!
I didn't intend to add anyone else, but I'm happy to add you to my long list of true crime youtubers that I follow because of the way you tell it. You're a great balance of spilling the facts while being personable and fun. Keep going, Brittany!👍
Glad I just found you, I love listening to you tell the stories. You are now one of my fav's! Thank you for all the work that you put into these videos.
@@BizzieBrittany I truly did, and I also love how you do your makeup! I’m not one who wears makeup on a regular but I have a lot of the same things you do ( great minds… )and watching your tricks on applying has me playing with my stuff again!!!!
I would just like to share some information about multiple/split personality disorder; they're both incorrect and extremely outdated terms. Formerly known as multiple personality disorder, dissociative identity disorder (DID) is a trauma response to intense abuse as a child which results in the person's brain splits into different people (known as alters) to protect and hide the abuse from the original "personality" because what they experienced is too traumatic for a child to cope with. I have been diagnosed with an actual personality disorder (BPD) and the key difference is that personality disorders are often represented by the inability to regulate one's emotions. I am not an expert on DID so I highly recommend listening to some creators such as MultiplicityAndMe, Acrylic And Aether, The Entropy System, or A Collaborative Life to learn more about DID.
All this mess doesn't compute to me. Like how you dating someone whose nose and mouth is the only thing you see and you text to speak. What the actual ....?!!
Wow! Great rendition of this crime. I can tell you took your time on this have been subscribed and watching your videos for a while and I hope my videos and channel will be as good as you one day.
Heads up....check yalls sub cuz somehow I was unsubscribe to Ms. Brittany I thought she had LEFT ME 😭😭😭 super happy to be back and now I got to play catch up
I heard about this quite a while ago. I watched a video on it and I was completely enthralled with it. I think this was the video. ruclips.net/video/xGz6VC-UKsg/видео.html It goes into a little more detail. My mind was completely blown at how these girls didn't realize Gemma was all 3 of these guys. It's so weird. But regardless, these poor girls. Doesn't matter if it was Gemma or an actual boy, these girls were manipulated and sexually assaulted and it's not okay. I hope they have been able to heal. And yeah girl, that concealer had me worried, but I was like I'm just gonna trust the processes. And it came out beautiful as always 😊
Oh my God girl I was going back-and-forth trying to figure out who this girl was I don't know why Gemma did not cross my mind like I don't know why I didn't think it was her that is so but I knew it was a girl I'm like I know I know what it's like to be young and desperate for love but best believe me baby I'm a see your face
Oh also I’ve been a catfish but it was in the name of Justice. Since I’m a trans guy I have all the parts to be passed off as a girl (until i can get surgeries anyway to remove the tiddies lol) and I had a treasure trove of old pictures of a cute girl that wouldn’t harm anybody. It was to get proof for a single mom who was about to marry a piece of crap who was preying on girls online via discord communities. He took the bait, I got the proof, and will never do it again because it was horrible and felt gross. But a friend asked me to and I was the only person for the job so I did it. But it did not go very far like this it’s so gross
OMG!!!! First of all, congrats to you for even being able to commit to that to help someone else out! But my GOD! To have to have conversations and pretend to be interested in that person must have been so hard and sickening!
Hey Brittany, as soon as you said dildo I knew it was a female but didn't think it was their friend... Wow there are really some strange crazy evil folks out here. Like you said you have got to be careful, do some research... Love the makeup look. Natural and glowing...
Kids are so dumb sometimes. As an adult I'm so confused how this could play out, but I guess kids don't ask the right questions. Crazy.
I completely agree. This is why I am such a proponent of being in your kids business. knowing who their friends are and what they are doing. Because they don't know what the right questions are to ask yet! It so crazy how this all played out. SMH
Right. I really don't understand how anyone could look at that picture (in the hat) and be fooled. That's clearly a chick.
I don't mean to sound judgey, but when I was 14/15 years old I'd like to think I would have the sense to know when something seemed sketchy. Refusing to remove the hats, not letting them see their whole face, refusing to talk and only text in person... Too many red flags that these girls overlooked. I mean, the fact that they were both dating "guys" who wore hats year round didn't seem a bit odd them? It's really, really sad that things went as far as they did and now both of these girls are probably scarred for life.
Yeah, I hear you! I would like to think that my younger self would be able to clearly and quickly identify these red flags, too! I feel so bad for these girls though and I hope they got the help they needed to recover from this!
“Welcome sis, welcome sir”
I’m a trans guy and for some reason this just gave me the best warm feelings and gender euphoria
I love this! I feel like so many RUclipsrs assume that their crowd is just one gender and that is so limiting! I don’t know all I need to know but I try!
I went to the same primary school as Gemma Barker. Although she was two years younger than me, I’ve never encountered a child like her before or since…Very cold, very cruel, hardly ever smiled, very deceitful…when I was 12 and she was 10, we were in the same Girl Guides group and went on a trip abroad; she engineered a situation whereby all the girls staying in the same cabin believed that I was stealing and moving their belongings, because I was often in the cabin by myself- I was picked on by most of them so didn’t join in with much. It was Gemma moving people’s things all along- she told me so on the coach on the way home, while laughing about it. She was such a horrible child. Having said that, her mother also worked at the school, and she was one of the nicest, kindest people I’ve met until this day- so unfair to her what Gemma did. Knowing the family, I also don’t believe that her mother only “threw money at the problem” when Gemma claimed to be depressed and suicidal- she literally lived round the corner from me, and it wasn’t a rich neighbourhood at all, not even what you would call middle class- not poor, but certainly not rich- if her mother did buy her a brand new car, she would have felt it bless her ❤️
I was like😐☹😮🙄😕🧏♀️😳 she could of won a damn Oscar, she is nuts
I pulled up my youtube wondering what im gonna watch and then i see your vid that just dropped, woohoo!
Awww thank you so much for supporting!💜
The deception is horrible, but the assaults...that's just beyond disgusting. She cares nothing about others (and these were CHILDREN; anyone under 18 is a child). Her reasons are beside the point.
Brittany...a pink what?!?! 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ issue a girl?! Chile i can't
Girl yes!
How did they not recognize her?! This crazy and sad!
I have no idea how they didn't connect the dots!
In another video, one of the girls said that they noticed that Aaron, I think it was (could have been Luke, but I'm pretty sure it was Aaron) had the same cheeks and teeth as Gemma, but for some reason didn't connect that it WAS Gemma.
I cannot even fathom this story! I mean, I heard it, and still can’t comprehend any of it 😆
I just told it and still can't ! 😂
It’s hard to get your head around
what in the world? throughout this case i kept forgetting that gemma was 19 and not the same age as these girls! So much to unpack about this case
So much! It seems like the typical high school drama case, but so many actual layers beyond the surface than need to be unpacked and a lot of teaching moments for sure.
Girl u gotta do these live one time so i can stop seeming like a weirdo in the comments dropping 5 at a time 🤦🏾♀️
LOL the way that I record with my kids constantly interrupting, yall would hate me! 😂😂😂
Wowwww Gemma, just wow 🤯
Anyone else other than me glad that we are not dealing with high school drama anymore? 🥴
Girl! I was bothered just telling this story! I do not miss any of this type of drama! I am also thankful that none of my high school drama ever got here!
I am still 😭 not good to be 17
@@sirugacha you don't have much longer to go sweetheart!
@@banditpoon714 im failed many classes so i have still, but luckily my sister and i graduate same time now
@@sirugacha good to be there with your sister atleast! You got this, and you will make it, I believe you can!
I didn't intend to add anyone else, but I'm happy to add you to my long list of true crime youtubers that I follow because of the way you tell it. You're a great balance of spilling the facts while being personable and fun. Keep going, Brittany!👍
Thank you!
Let me move my bang so I can watch this again…. WHAT
😂😂😂 Not the bang!! This one is definitely ALOT to track and digest!
Thanks BB!!
You're so welcome! And thank you!
Girl im so over these folks naming our shades after some variety of chocolate 🤣🤣
😂😂😂 Half the products I own are either Cacao or Mocha, and now they have shifted to African locations!
Catfishing is the scariest ever
It's crazy!
Wait Jess grandma ain’t hear her screaming 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
I had the same question. Like how hard does grandma sleep?
This was so intense, i had to keep rewinding to keep track 😂
Girl, yes! I did the same thing while I was researching for this one! Many times!
But wait, how him having alopecia make sense for him not speaking to her when they were in person 🤦🏾♀️
LOL I think it was like an overall "feel sorry for me please" so she didn't ask questions.
@@BizzieBrittany girl 16yo wlda been "that dont make no sense, lemme see." 😂
Wow! This is the craziest! Meanwhile, the more of you I see, the more I appreciate u and your channel! Oh, the natural look...my favorite!
Thank you so much!! I appreciate the support! The look was so easy!
Good story. What a twist!
Crazy!
I WOULD LOVE TO HEAR YOU DO MORE STORIES LIKE THIS PLEASE!🤗
Ooh sis… I’m a new subscriber. Happy to support your channel. This story should be made into
a movie!! 😮It’s giving ‘Boys Don’t Cry’ vibes 🤯
Omg this one's from where I live. I know it well. Thank you for telling this story and spreading awareness on the dangers
Woooow
GIRL!
Wow! What a crazy case! 😲
It is!
Glad I just found you, I love listening to you tell the stories. You are now one of my fav's! Thank you for all the work that you put into these videos.
Thank you so much!
Excited to see this episode
I remember seeing this story on an ID show! I totally forgot about it. So glad you covered it!
Thank you! I watch ID RELIGIOUSLY!
New subscriber here watching all your content 😂 you are hilarious and I like how you care about the victims, it shows 💛
Thank you so much and welcome! ❤️
Your channel is so under-rated! Love your vibe!
Thank you so much!! I am so happy that you are enjoying the content!
so glad ive found your channel. Love your storytelling and makeup, keep it coming
Thank you so much and welcome!
Most bizarre case ever
It truly is!
Happy New Year🎉
Same to you!
U look beautiful boo!!!! I really like the makeup and that bronzer is hittin!!!! And thanks for the hard work on the video ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much!! It is my favorite bronzer hands down!
I’m new and I’m glued!!!! 💜
Thank you and welcome!
@@BizzieBrittany thank you girl!!!! I have binged your channel for daaays!!!!! 💜💜💜
@@gaditana8289 omg I absolutely appreciate that! I hope you enjoyed the content!
@@BizzieBrittany I truly did, and I also love how you do your makeup! I’m not one who wears makeup on a regular but I have a lot of the same things you do ( great minds… )and watching your tricks on applying has me playing with my stuff again!!!!
Just found your channel, chose this case to start. Greetings from Brazil. ☺️
I would just like to share some information about multiple/split personality disorder; they're both incorrect and extremely outdated terms. Formerly known as multiple personality disorder, dissociative identity disorder (DID) is a trauma response to intense abuse as a child which results in the person's brain splits into different people (known as alters) to protect and hide the abuse from the original "personality" because what they experienced is too traumatic for a child to cope with. I have been diagnosed with an actual personality disorder (BPD) and the key difference is that personality disorders are often represented by the inability to regulate one's emotions.
I am not an expert on DID so I highly recommend listening to some creators such as MultiplicityAndMe, Acrylic And Aether, The Entropy System, or A Collaborative Life to learn more about DID.
Thanks for jumping in and providing that clarification for us all! 💜
Thanks for the sir! A lot of the creators in this genre only acknowledge the women!
That is so true! Trying my best to be inclusive over here! lol
I have so many questions about this when she looked under the hat she didn’t realize that it was Gema I’m so confused
Right! I don't know why she went to it was Aaron and not It was Gemma!
happy new year! really, really like this look, and lip color! :D
Thank you! And Happy New Year to you too!
Love the message behind this video, such an important one!
It really is! We really have to be careful with who we choose to talk to and what we choose to share with others.
Hope you're doing ok Queen Bee!
Thank you so much for always looking out Brandi! 💜
@@BizzieBrittany always girl!
Here! 🖤
Hey Ash!
Wait lmao I'm so confused
😂
Come thru puff!
Thank you!
Wow this one is wild! Even though it’s not murder involved I feel just as scared 😳 love your vid’s and your look was beautiful
Thank you so much! And it is scary because catfishing happening everyday all day at this point!
I'm sorry, what?!!
I said the same this as I was researching this case!
All this mess doesn't compute to me. Like how you dating someone whose nose and mouth is the only thing you see and you text to speak. What the actual ....?!!
Jemma needs an academy award! I still don’t know how things went that far?!? Wowww 😳
Me either! Like how on earth....
Wow! Great rendition of this crime. I can tell you took your time on this have been subscribed and watching your videos for a while and I hope my videos and channel will be as good as you one day.
THank you so much and you got this!
This is diabolical..
Heads up....check yalls sub cuz somehow I was unsubscribe to Ms. Brittany I thought she had LEFT ME 😭😭😭 super happy to be back and now I got to play catch up
I heard about this quite a while ago. I watched a video on it and I was completely enthralled with it. I think this was the video. ruclips.net/video/xGz6VC-UKsg/видео.html
It goes into a little more detail.
My mind was completely blown at how these girls didn't realize Gemma was all 3 of these guys.
It's so weird. But regardless, these poor girls. Doesn't matter if it was Gemma or an actual boy, these girls were manipulated and sexually assaulted and it's not okay. I hope they have been able to heal.
And yeah girl, that concealer had me worried, but I was like I'm just gonna trust the processes. And it came out beautiful as always 😊
HAHAHAHAHAHA It had ME worried for a bit, like I was questioning myself and my life choices for a sec! lol
This was a mess im so confused
This was definitely a messy case!
Oh my God girl I was going back-and-forth trying to figure out who this girl was I don't know why Gemma did not cross my mind like I don't know why I didn't think it was her that is so but I knew it was a girl I'm like I know I know what it's like to be young and desperate for love but best believe me baby I'm a see your face
Exactly! I need to see your entire face!
Miss You Pretty Lady 😫
wait what? how can she lose her virginity with his clothes on ..
According to her, he kept his clothes on and just opened his fly....
@@BizzieBrittany that's incredibly weird to me. Maybe just in my own experiences but I would find it weird he didn't want at least a handy first.
@@steffithintherye4918 😂 😂 😂 boys!
Oh also I’ve been a catfish but it was in the name of Justice. Since I’m a trans guy I have all the parts to be passed off as a girl (until i can get surgeries anyway to remove the tiddies lol) and I had a treasure trove of old pictures of a cute girl that wouldn’t harm anybody. It was to get proof for a single mom who was about to marry a piece of crap who was preying on girls online via discord communities. He took the bait, I got the proof, and will never do it again because it was horrible and felt gross. But a friend asked me to and I was the only person for the job so I did it. But it did not go very far like this it’s so gross
OMG!!!! First of all, congrats to you for even being able to commit to that to help someone else out! But my GOD! To have to have conversations and pretend to be interested in that person must have been so hard and sickening!
@@BizzieBrittany it was so gross my skin was crawling all the time and I ended up drinking way too much to cope that week or two ugh
The concealer was concerning.. I’m not sure if its lighting .. the final look is smooth but it does look on the grayish side.
Hey Brittany, as soon as you said dildo I knew it was a female but didn't think it was their friend... Wow there are really some strange crazy evil folks out here. Like you said you have got to be careful, do some research... Love the makeup look. Natural and glowing...
You have to be very careful these days! It will be your own "friends"!!