@DatingbyMarie maybe but the problem with women and feelings is that feelings change.... and it takes a woman with great self awareness to realize she is an emotional being and largely reaponsible for her mood n feelings swings. Combine this with a modern woman mentality the relationship will largely fail!
steps that helped me turn my life around and finally get a girlfriend: started cold approaching (the first few tries were awkward, but it got easier) joined a martial arts gym (built confidence and discipline) read a book called Celestial Soulmate by Lentlish (full of practical dating advice that actually works) improved my style (better clothes, better impression) stopped wasting time on distractions like TikTok and focused on making money (affiliate marketing). Happy New Year guys, wishing you all the best in 2025!
I see a lot of frustrated and angry men on these videos but what Marie says makes a lot of sense. Why bad-mouth a female point of view and a free advice?
Best advice I have learned comes from my own experiences. Just do not think about things and do not be overly eager. Real connection comes from two people wanting to pursue each other because they want to. You can’t force someone to wanna pursue you and I would also argue to say that women can drop the ball on this as well. Best thing you can do, come into the equation, as if you weren’t going to date this person but you’re gonna date this person. Do not think emotionally through the decisions you make but think through logic on what they give to you when you give back to them. It’s all about what you give people and how they respond to what you’re giving them. Not all people are gonna be compatible and not all people are going to be attracted to each other. Sometimes, it just takes dating the wrong people to figure stuff out.
My honestly advice, make sure that you have attractive values, like physical appearance, humor, etc, show those values and do whatever you want, no need to follow any advice, women that are attracted for you will continue to be interested no matter what, in fact, yoh can even sell yourself short sometimes and she will still be attracted to you, don't make any afford or follow any of those advices, you will feel like an idiot, just make sure that you are attractive and act whatever you are yourself.
If a man doesn't have any results with women, it means they have to improve in some areas (it doesn't mean change and be someone you're not) and same applies to women ;)
The thing i have realised by now is that women are different than men. communication styles, needs in relationship, thinking patterns and more. you have put forward important points, if she loses interest then instead of blaming her we should evaluate what went wrong and then just move forward to next.
I don’t get it, Mine broke up with me about a month after I told her she was the one. After 1.5 years together. A week before she told me how much she loved me. Then she told me she’d been dating another for a little while. I don’t know how she couldn’t be loyal? Could just move to another? And act like there was nothing between us. We haven’t spoken in weeks.
Means you didn't notice something months ago. Could be boredom explained by your dependence and predictability. If she really had to invest to just stay with you the story would be different. You have to examine women before telling them she's the one. Probably no need to tell at all. Who is she with her looks compared to your looks + accomplishments? You shouldn't return her anyway. What she did is always because of suggesting your attention has low value even if you're a professor or a boxer or a ceo. Even if she was just stupid take it as your fault, become better and let someone not that stupid discover you.
Also remember, they love leaders, most relations become worse because they implicitly start to control you decisions. Your aims first. Be like Sean Connery or Adriano Celentano. Look The Naked Truth, 2009
@ We had an amazing time the last few months. Always joking and laughing. Aren’t we suppose to depend on each other ? And she liked being predictable, organised and such. We were long distance too so only so much we could do. And she hated authority she was very against male leaders and such. Very feminist.
@@KyleTheDalek I watched Wannabe by Spice Girls and suddenly understood it was just a bastardized version of The Mamas & The Papas Go Where You Wanna Go.
@@KyleTheDalek All this 50/50 stuff doesn't work. Fsts lose their feminity. Think, Amazon owner's wife got billions actually for divorce. And gave a lot of that to fsts. Same for Microsoft's owner wife. All this madness can be corrected with your objective and subjective value, her upbringing and laws. Look for her abilities to respect, be grateful, if she had a childhood with a leading father (agreeableness), feminine and her friends are good women too. Do it old way.
Really like your video’s. A Lot of good tips which are helping me. These tips are more helpfull for my ex wife. She did them all especially in the beginning. Maybe I was the woman in the relationship😂😂😂
Women: Consistency, stability, and good communication make us lose interest. Also women: Where are the good men?
They only want a sucker (good guy) when they want to settle down.
Women are not looking for JUST good men but also men who make them feel safe physically and emotionally and that's where many men fail in dating ;)
@DatingbyMarie maybe but the problem with women and feelings is that feelings change.... and it takes a woman with great self awareness to realize she is an emotional being and largely reaponsible for her mood n feelings swings. Combine this with a modern woman mentality the relationship will largely fail!
steps that helped me turn my life around and finally get a girlfriend:
started cold approaching (the first few tries were awkward, but it got easier)
joined a martial arts gym (built confidence and discipline)
read a book called Celestial Soulmate by Lentlish (full of practical dating advice that actually works)
improved my style (better clothes, better impression)
stopped wasting time on distractions like TikTok and focused on making money (affiliate marketing).
Happy New Year guys, wishing you all the best in 2025!
Love that!
@@DatingbyMarie C'est une arnaque pour vendre des livres.
Ça se voit à la date de création de compte.
I see a lot of frustrated and angry men on these videos but what Marie says makes a lot of sense. Why bad-mouth a female point of view and a free advice?
Ahah I don't know, I just want to help men navigate their dating lives
@@DatingbyMarieand you think that's what you're doing, helping them with their dating? By telling them everything they've done wrong?
Simple :
Because most women have been so evil that many men are traumatized.
Best advice I have learned comes from my own experiences. Just do not think about things and do not be overly eager. Real connection comes from two people wanting to pursue each other because they want to. You can’t force someone to wanna pursue you and I would also argue to say that women can drop the ball on this as well.
Best thing you can do, come into the equation, as if you weren’t going to date this person but you’re gonna date this person. Do not think emotionally through the decisions you make but think through logic on what they give to you when you give back to them. It’s all about what you give people and how they respond to what you’re giving them. Not all people are gonna be compatible and not all people are going to be attracted to each other.
Sometimes, it just takes dating the wrong people to figure stuff out.
My honestly advice, make sure that you have attractive values, like physical appearance, humor, etc, show those values and do whatever you want, no need to follow any advice, women that are attracted for you will continue to be interested no matter what, in fact, yoh can even sell yourself short sometimes and she will still be attracted to you, don't make any afford or follow any of those advices, you will feel like an idiot, just make sure that you are attractive and act whatever you are yourself.
If a man doesn't have any results with women, it means they have to improve in some areas (it doesn't mean change and be someone you're not) and same applies to women ;)
The thing i have realised by now is that women are different than men. communication styles, needs in relationship, thinking patterns and more. you have put forward important points, if she loses interest then instead of blaming her we should evaluate what went wrong and then just move forward to next.
Completely agree!
Because of hypergamy
Not taking accountability will never help you with your dating life ;)
@@DatingbyMarieBut how do men take accountability for women's desires that they themselves lack control over? It makes no sense.
I don’t get it, Mine broke up with me about a month after I told her she was the one.
After 1.5 years together.
A week before she told me how much she loved me.
Then she told me she’d been dating another for a little while.
I don’t know how she couldn’t be loyal?
Could just move to another?
And act like there was nothing between us.
We haven’t spoken in weeks.
Means you didn't notice something months ago. Could be boredom explained by your dependence and predictability. If she really had to invest to just stay with you the story would be different. You have to examine women before telling them she's the one. Probably no need to tell at all. Who is she with her looks compared to your looks + accomplishments? You shouldn't return her anyway. What she did is always because of suggesting your attention has low value even if you're a professor or a boxer or a ceo. Even if she was just stupid take it as your fault, become better and let someone not that stupid discover you.
Also remember, they love leaders, most relations become worse because they implicitly start to control you decisions. Your aims first. Be like Sean Connery or Adriano Celentano. Look The Naked Truth, 2009
@ We had an amazing time the last few months.
Always joking and laughing.
Aren’t we suppose to depend on each other ?
And she liked being predictable, organised and such.
We were long distance too so only so much we could do.
And she hated authority she was very against male leaders and such.
Very feminist.
@@KyleTheDalek I watched Wannabe by Spice Girls and suddenly understood it was just a bastardized version of The Mamas & The Papas Go Where You Wanna Go.
@@KyleTheDalek All this 50/50 stuff doesn't work. Fsts lose their feminity. Think, Amazon owner's wife got billions actually for divorce. And gave a lot of that to fsts. Same for Microsoft's owner wife. All this madness can be corrected with your objective and subjective value, her upbringing and laws.
Look for her abilities to respect, be grateful, if she had a childhood with a leading father (agreeableness), feminine and her friends are good women too. Do it old way.
Really like your video’s. A Lot of good tips which are helping me. These tips are more helpfull for my ex wife. She did them all especially in the beginning. Maybe I was the woman in the relationship😂😂😂
Great to hear!
They find out im 2x their age...poof! Gone
Well maybe you should go for women your age
@DatingbyMarie tell them, i just entertain them when they show intial interest
Why women lose interest on me: Reason 1: I'm ugly.
Work on your physique if you think that's the reason
Because y'all are flighty and fickle
I think the area where I went wrong is not being hot enough.
Good it's something you can work on ;)
@@DatingbyMarie Hahaha thanks, you too! ;)
Tu devrais faire ta chaîne en français.
Mais bon, je comprend que les anglais sont cons comme des chaises, donc plus de clients. ;)
Ahah j'aimerai bien faire une chaine en français également mais ce sera pour plus tard, j'ai déjà trop de boulot avec celle-ci
These advices are disaster !
nope
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You are very charming
Guess what I’ve got for you??? It’s a piece of candy & a shiny quarter 🍬 🪙.