The Devil's Obsession with Comparison - Khutbah By Nouman Ali Khan

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  • Опубликовано: 7 сен 2018

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  • @shellynd2728
    @shellynd2728 5 лет назад +228

    "I want to do better than I did, not better than them" that's a good one. Never thought of it that way.

    • @j_sr3608
      @j_sr3608 5 лет назад +9

      It's a growth goals theory of personal best (PB) by A.J Martin.

  • @lssabban11
    @lssabban11 5 лет назад +265

    Ya Allah I have this obsession with comparing myself to others all the time, make duaa for me brothers ans sisters. My Allah forgive us all.

  • @asimnabi99
    @asimnabi99 5 лет назад +385

    Lessons from this lecture
    - Iblees said that he is better than Adam (ALS) since he is made from fire and Adam (ALS) from clay, which lead to shirk. As it is Allah who decides who is better than anyone among us and we don`t have any basis of comparison.
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    Don`t compare yourself with anyone in this duniya as this is not your job to do, your sustenance is in Allah`s hands and you won`t get anything more or less as what is decided.
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    Comparing in materialistic items as those of clothes, income, cars, home, etc will lead to arrogance which will lead to jealousy and thus this is what Iblees wants from all of us to fight and holds grudges among ourselves.
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    you are not superior when compared with anyone else.
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    If Allah Gave you knowledge, fame, money power etc don`t consider it as a sign that Allah loves you more than anyone else.
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    Since competition is a natural instinct, you need to compare with the person you were yesterday with the person you are today.
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    Don`t focus on beating someone else but beating who you were yesterday.
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    If you have thoughts like "why someone else is happy", "Why he earns more than me", "how can he be successful and I am not", then seek refuge from shaytaan and read and recite Al-falaq. These thoughts are popped up only due to shaytaan and ask Allah for help.
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    May Allah protect us from jealousy and hasad and ask for the success for all people in this duniya and aakhirah as well.

    • @lebebeve4881
      @lebebeve4881 5 лет назад +13

      worfoz you my friend are incorrect. Your are sadly misguided. Islam isn’t slavery. It’s the light. Inshallah may Allah guide to Islam ameen.

    • @worfoz
      @worfoz 5 лет назад

      Your are sadly misguided. Islam isn’t slavery
      please do not lie, islam means submission which is the same as slavery
      you muhammedans are abd ullahs, slaves of muhammeds man made god
      and muhammed hated Trinity because the message of the bible is that we are not Gods slaves, but his children, the people of the covenant, not his slaves like you muhammedans
      so stop wishing your fake idol alla, it's offensive and blaspheme
      islam is utter darkness and very evil, you should read and understand your quran, and the bible (where the quran was badly copied from) and stop insulting me, YOU are terribly misguided by a filthy child rapist, who made slaves out of you bastards
      (which is in accordance with the bible, read about Abram and slave Hagar, the mother of bastard Ismael. And read your quran, surah 29:27 where the lineage of the true prophet is mentioned: Abram Isaac and Jacob, not the lineage of slave bastard Ismael)
      educate yourself, you need it, you are really ignorant about your own sect

    • @worfoz
      @worfoz 5 лет назад

      Bible is made by humans
      quran is a fraud copy of that book, written by Uthman
      why are you so misguided and ignorant about your sect, muhammedan?
      there are more lies, errors and mistakes in your one book quran than there are in the 66 books in the bible
      so read that book and see where your fake prophet stole your fake quran from
      you really should do something about your lack of knowledge

    • @abdulrahmant8095
      @abdulrahmant8095 5 лет назад +7

      worfoz You seem like someone who likes to read and get more knowledgeable but unfortunately you are reading from the wrong resources and this knowledge is harming you more than benefiting you so for your own good i guess you should look at the bigger picture and see all points of view not only what taught to you by people or what you have learned by yourself with all my respect but you are the one who is brain washed and you are going the wrong way.

    • @abdulrahmant8095
      @abdulrahmant8095 5 лет назад +3

      worfoz You said our prophet Muhammad (pbuh) " child rapist" First of all what is your clue that is true ?what are your references? was it from old scholars or you just assumed that is the truth based on what you have heard or read ?
      second let me ask you a question how is it possible for a child that was raped as you say by a man when she was young to be one of his most beloved wives and she become one of the biggest scholars of Islam? wouldn't she hate that man who raped here as you say when she was a child? would she even hate every thing that comes out from this man including his massage which is Islam?! Weird isn't it!

  • @thomasbayer2832
    @thomasbayer2832 5 лет назад +73

    All envy and most unhappiness comes from comparisons.
    Sheytan was the first racist. And all racists are sheytans.

  • @ijazzzali
    @ijazzzali 5 лет назад +226

    He gives you pieces and later combines it to give perfect explanation.
    MashaAllah

    • @marrytesfu3163
      @marrytesfu3163 5 лет назад +3

      it is his unique style

    • @souledoucara2530
      @souledoucara2530 5 лет назад +2

      We're waiting for your comment almost as much as we're waiting for bayyinah's new video 😁

    • @worfoz
      @worfoz 5 лет назад

      it is his unique style
      Maybe it's strange for you muhammedans but that is how a teacher should work, nothing special, just educational skills.
      Not muhammeds style, I agree.
      Muhammed was not a great teacher, more like a dictator who needs to be blindly believed and obeyed.

    • @saifgoheer3550
      @saifgoheer3550 5 лет назад +1

      Say, [O Muhammad], "I do not tell you that I have the depositories [containing the provision] of Allah or that I know the unseen, nor do I tell you that I am an angel. I only follow what is revealed to me." Say, "Is the blind equivalent to the seeing? Then will you not give thought?" Al-Qur'an [6:50]...

    • @worfoz
      @worfoz 5 лет назад

      quran is the words of men
      the errors, wrongs and lies in it are proof

  • @nicoletteferragamo
    @nicoletteferragamo 5 лет назад +54

    I love how he has to remind us "think about yourself not anyone else" 😂😂😂 may Allah guide us and protect us from shaytan

  • @khnrzk7102
    @khnrzk7102 3 года назад +16

    If you feel jeoulous for anyone, just make dua for that person, make sure you mention their name on dua,
    Once your done you will feel a change in your heart 💓

  • @raihanhossain1531
    @raihanhossain1531 5 лет назад +55

    I truly love Nouman Ali Khan I hope one day inshallah I can meet him like if you believe so to.

  • @FajarSuryawan
    @FajarSuryawan 5 лет назад +23

    I didn't know I needed this khutbah so much, until now.

  • @hafsahussein365
    @hafsahussein365 5 лет назад +7

    My parents, mostly my father, have always compared me to kids my ages, and even my siblings. I’m 21 now and I’m still being compared to others who have already graduated from university. Now I don’t even want to hear about the successes of others around me because all I can think of is my fathers constant and endless nagging. And even when I do something that I’m proud of and worked really hard for, it’s never enough for them. I’m just so tired of it all and have been honestly considering just dropping out of college. But this Khuthba has made me feel a lot better. Jazakallahu Karin ya Ustaad

    • @NaMe-ll3yx
      @NaMe-ll3yx Год назад +2

      It’s been 4 years now, but I relate to you a lot and I think everyone does, it just makes it harder to do things when you are already having a hard time, I hope you were able to push through and Finnish college and I hope your parents have stopped comparing or at least it’s gotten better and lesser though it’s highly likely not

  • @TheYusra2008
    @TheYusra2008 5 лет назад +67

    Very useful advice in this in age where social media is full of people’s activities it’s so easy to fall into this trap. Alhumdiliallah is for this important teaching.

  • @hijabigirl9338
    @hijabigirl9338 5 лет назад +66

    Allahu akbar when i picked my phone today and see that it's a notification from bayyinah so.......:) it made my day JazakAllah

  • @totoyesica
    @totoyesica 5 лет назад +22

    These series have now become part of my every morning. And every morning, I learn something new... in particular how to think about life (going forward) in a different way.
    thank you for giving us your interpretation of the best guidance a person can have. Any other way would have been nearly impossible, especially not knowing the Arabic language or having any background at all, to tackle the lessons of the Quran.

  • @mohamedsuhailirfankhazi6628
    @mohamedsuhailirfankhazi6628 5 лет назад +9

    As a desi, I want this video to be sent to each and every family in India and Pakistan etc, cuz this mindset is everywhere there...you have no idea how bad it is...desi weddings are so expensive and families put themselves into debt and they don't care cuz they want their wedding to be better than their cousins... and they say "log kya Kahenge?" (What ppl will say?)
    May Allah guide us

    • @MuhammadFaizan-jl4hp
      @MuhammadFaizan-jl4hp 3 года назад +1

      agreed from Pakistan

    • @vinsmokesanji7550
      @vinsmokesanji7550 3 года назад

      Pakistani people have forgotten their religion...
      It's all about being better than others
      Getting more likes, followers, looking better than others, eating better than other, wearing better than others it is just awful
      پاکستانی لوگ دین دین دار ہونے کی بجاۓ دنیا دار ہو گۓ ہیں...

  • @steezefairy
    @steezefairy 5 лет назад +16

    Allah sent me here Alhamdulilah

  • @easyenglish2023
    @easyenglish2023 5 лет назад +3

    May Allah shower His enormous bliss on you.

  • @jemima1688
    @jemima1688 4 года назад +5

    I’ve never ever ever, believe me ever related to a video as much as I hav to this one in my entire life. There’s a reason they say comparison is a disease. And this video fundamentally distinguished the truth of that. This video says it all. In black and white. What a man. His words are nothing but the truth. And give you such perspective 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I have no words

  • @shahla9899
    @shahla9899 2 месяца назад

    Ustaad NOMAN is a GREAT blessing for us.
    May ALLAH bless him and his family.
    Ameen Allahumma Ameen

  • @haymaroo3577
    @haymaroo3577 5 лет назад +14

    Alhumdulilah,I am student of biyannah through youtube.
    May allah give you effort to do more lectures,Sir!

  • @johnconstantinegrey7793
    @johnconstantinegrey7793 5 лет назад +1

    This Islamic sermon is relevant to people of all faiths. I agree with most of it.

  • @momahmood5543
    @momahmood5543 5 лет назад +6

    The way this brother dissects and explains is truly a blessing for him and for us. Allahumma barek brother nouman

  • @MohamedAmin1983
    @MohamedAmin1983 5 лет назад +2

    I am natively arab speaking and really impressed by how you get these interpretations out of Quran which i never got or red about it before . Allah bless and protect you . Please keep on the great work you are doing

  • @ribhafatima7960
    @ribhafatima7960 9 месяцев назад +1

    May Allah protect us from this disease ameen

  • @yochielevitch4056
    @yochielevitch4056 5 лет назад +3

    Talk about a SPIRIT OF DECEPTION: MANY ARE FILLED WITH IT!!! Great teaching.....HELP US get delivered from OUR foolishness!!

  • @husnakh5136
    @husnakh5136 3 года назад +1

    JazzakAllah kheir brother Nouman

  • @Ahmed35956
    @Ahmed35956 5 лет назад

    Jazakallah khair. Exactly what I needed to hear.

  •  5 лет назад +3

    ♥️ Eye opening reminder! JazaakumAllahu khayran

  • @musharrafhassan7699
    @musharrafhassan7699 5 лет назад

    Masha Allah.... Jaza kAllah Khair Ustaad

  • @zh7077
    @zh7077 5 лет назад +14

    May Allah SWT gives u long live n health inshallah

  • @iqrahcfrvbh9078
    @iqrahcfrvbh9078 5 лет назад +4

    Very useful khutbah. Jazaka Allah khairan

  • @haq786786
    @haq786786 5 лет назад +18

    Very good topic Ustadh !! Jazaak Allah Fid Daarain.

  • @emmakhan9122
    @emmakhan9122 5 лет назад +1

    Subhan Allah knowledgeable khutbah Jazak Allahu khair for sharing

  • @donyariadi3181
    @donyariadi3181 5 лет назад +2

    Alhamdulillah... thanks brother, Jazakallah khair

  • @bushrazaman9882
    @bushrazaman9882 5 лет назад +13

    MashaAllah . May allah bless us all. Keep up the good works you are doing .Thanks

  • @ayansaid8551
    @ayansaid8551 5 лет назад +1

    Masha Allah beautiful ❤️ jazakumulaahu Khair for uploading and may Allah bless ustadh Nouman Ali Khan and all of us ameen.

  • @asifloni7237
    @asifloni7237 5 лет назад +3

    Ustadh Nouman Ali khan, you are extremely special. May Allah bless you in this life and the hereafter.

  • @Kohat911Khan
    @Kohat911Khan 5 лет назад +2

    Ma Sha Allah May Allah Ezza Wa Jal blessed you for the opening of our closed eyes Wa Jazak Alla Khair

  • @AhamedKabeer-wn1jb
    @AhamedKabeer-wn1jb 2 года назад +1

    Jazakallah Khair..

  • @Greta-Latina
    @Greta-Latina 5 лет назад +2

    I wish more people would watch this InshaAllah. Beautiful message.

  • @FitFamTV1
    @FitFamTV1 5 лет назад +1

    The world should listen to NAK’s talks

  • @faree38green
    @faree38green 5 лет назад +1

    Brother Nouman thank you so much for this much needed sermon. May Allah bless

  • @FarhanaFaruq
    @FarhanaFaruq Месяц назад

    Masha'Allah, so well explained. Jazak'Allahu-khair.

  • @omarmohamed-ft6em
    @omarmohamed-ft6em 5 лет назад +1

    Just wow wow mashallah the most beautiful khutbah ever heard jazakallauhkra Nouman Ali khan

  • @shum0013
    @shum0013 5 лет назад +2

    Excellent Khutbah. May Allah protect you and your loved ones. Ameen

  • @user-ff6df5uw5m
    @user-ff6df5uw5m 5 лет назад +3

    JazakAllahu khairan kathiran for the noble message.May Allah increase us in knowledge and wisdom n help us to understand His Word in best way.

  • @auliadevi2009
    @auliadevi2009 5 лет назад +2

    Assalamuamaikum,
    Ustadz Nouman, I have ever told you that you are the only one person that I want your possession. I have never wanted anybody elses possession.I don't care about their spouse,their children, their money and treasures,or their job/bussiness, even i never envy about their appereance given by Allah SWT. You are the only one who I want yours which is your strong relationship to Qur'an. I have never wanted to take it from you, because I love the lectures that you explained to us.
    There is also a group of people who always says: there is a sky upon sky to me which they mean is not to be humble, but to always compare ourselves to other people and compete them (in a wrong way just like an example in your lecture). So, i have never heard them ( and thus they think I'm arrogant) because I'm agree with you about the right competition you mean and not to compare to other in an envy way. .Alhamdulillah, that you and many other Ustadz around the globe have teached us to improve ourselves to be better by a guidance of Allah SWT in Al-Qur'anul Kariim, so I've got many lessons to know my mistakes and change it to a good way. I don't care anymore about the people who always only like and happy to make fun to other people in a bad way and angry if they are being corrected about themselves. I found thats because many people don't have a good connection to Qur'an. Im happy and so grateful that Im having a good relationship with Al-Qur'anul Kariim (thats because of you).I know that I will still find many tests, calamities and difficulties (this world is a test place,isn't it?!) in my journey with Al-Qur'anul Karim, but insya Allah I will be guided by Allah Subhanawata'alaa through Al-Qur'anul Kariim.
    Jazakallah khairon katsiron Ustadz, may Allah Subhanawata'alaa always gives many many blessings for you and your family.

  • @maleehaaamir665
    @maleehaaamir665 4 года назад

    JazakAllahu khairan kaseera. Amazing lecture 💕

  • @fiskavia
    @fiskavia 5 лет назад

    Mashaa Allah. Jazak Allah. 🖤

  • @Sib751
    @Sib751 5 лет назад +1

    Elhamdulillah. Thank you for such a nice khutbah,we really all needed it,agree or not. May Allah reward you,as much as all of us that watch it. Amin 🤗😍❤❣☝🏼☝🏻☝🏾

  • @talash0071
    @talash0071 5 лет назад +4

    Ma Sha Allah , May Allah bless you and all of us

  • @mohammadameraliimami5319
    @mohammadameraliimami5319 5 лет назад +4

    Barakallah feeh

  • @mohamedfaizal7150
    @mohamedfaizal7150 3 года назад

    Masha Allah.. May Allah give him rewards for his wonderful talk.. Ameen... He just explain things beautifully...!!!

  • @WinnieGooo
    @WinnieGooo 5 лет назад +3

    ma sha Allah... the reason that i think he is the best , is the way he explain..may Allah reward him..

  • @peaceeverywhere4627
    @peaceeverywhere4627 5 лет назад +1

    Jazak allah Khair, may allah protect you bro, aameen

  • @kajianjum
    @kajianjum 5 лет назад

    This was like another life changing Qutba.. I wish everyone in this world would have watched it..

  • @safiyamir8825
    @safiyamir8825 5 лет назад +20

    U r owsome in explaining.. may Allah SWT bless uhh..

  • @Momoisonline
    @Momoisonline Год назад

    May Allah Baraka be upon you and upon all the persons that worked to allow these teachings to be available and moreover free. Al hamdouliLlah.
    Thank you very much.

  • @xrayonthemove
    @xrayonthemove 5 лет назад +1

    Subhanallah May Allah swt grant you good health and peace of mind

  • @MdFaizullah
    @MdFaizullah 4 года назад

    Alhamdulillah. Powerful message from a wise person. May Allah bless you and us along with stop comparing with one another.

  • @rabeedee1805
    @rabeedee1805 5 лет назад +3

    Every single time I hear you speak... I am absolutely grateful for You! May our Incredible Allah reward you in incredible ways ustadh!! Salaam

  • @rubinaqureshi9356
    @rubinaqureshi9356 4 года назад +1

    I am really thankful for this video. It carries very important lesson that will help us protect from the trap of the shyataan. May Allah guide our hearts. Jazakallah khair

  • @nextupafrica9897
    @nextupafrica9897 2 года назад

    Beautiful message. May Allah guide us and may we seek refugee in Allah that we may shun jealousy and comparison. May Allah bless brother Khan. I’m a new revert and he’s been such a joy to listen to

  • @naadirsoeker2504
    @naadirsoeker2504 5 лет назад +5

    "Your ultimate competition is against your own self"
    SLOW DOWN NOUMAN 🔥🔥🔥
    (Masha Allah, Jazak Allah)

  • @tikauknow
    @tikauknow 5 лет назад +6

    Anyway thank you ustadz, make my understanding change and insyaaAllah I will compete with my self from yesterday and become better for tomorrow insyaaAllah, I luv ustadz nouman, always keep healthy ustadz 💜😚

  • @m0rhis528
    @m0rhis528 5 лет назад +1

    Jajak Allah khair

  • @N.a.n.a._
    @N.a.n.a._ 5 лет назад +2

    Alhamdulillah, I couldn't wait !

  • @corpuscallosum9355
    @corpuscallosum9355 5 лет назад +2

    ‏جزاك الله خيرا

  • @Mahreen
    @Mahreen 5 лет назад +2

    Masha Allah , wonderful words

  • @user-we1hv9oi2r
    @user-we1hv9oi2r Год назад

    جزاك الله خير يا شيخ

  • @munajama4705
    @munajama4705 5 лет назад

    Jazakalehu khair Nouman Almighty Allah bless you and your family. 💕💕

  • @fizasuhani2697
    @fizasuhani2697 5 лет назад +1

    Mashallah so amazing Bayan Subhanallah may Allah bless you so much of good

  • @amreenrao3830
    @amreenrao3830 2 года назад +1

    MA this lecture gave me so much content for self reflection. Jazak Allah

  • @esraaahmed6098
    @esraaahmed6098 5 лет назад +1

    Barak allah feek .I enioy this vido so much.iam an arab muslim and alawys watches your vidoes and enjoy it so much so iwant to thank you and ask allah to protect you

  • @hashamfahmi8065
    @hashamfahmi8065 5 лет назад +1

    Masah allah, wat a perfect explanation.....we need to compare ourself with ourself only...

  • @machinegunkely4417
    @machinegunkely4417 5 лет назад +1

    Allhumdu lillah for Islam allhundu lillah for making us amongst the ummah of prophet Muhammed (PBUH)

  • @desilads5555
    @desilads5555 5 лет назад +5

    Aslam Alikum Brothers & Sisters
    & Thank you very Much Ustad Nauman Ali Khan for sharing such a Beautiful Video ..!!

  • @zarminadogar6232
    @zarminadogar6232 5 лет назад +11

    May Allah bless ustadh nouman

  • @FazlayElahi
    @FazlayElahi 2 года назад

    Words are not enough to accomplish how much remarkable Nouman Ali Khan's Khutbahs are....!!!! Jazakallah Khayr.
    Oh Allah please give me a chance to meet him directly and make me a disciple of him....

  • @emaanw3507
    @emaanw3507 5 лет назад

    Amazing talk, mashAllah

  • @BenjouriNadine
    @BenjouriNadine 5 лет назад +1

    What a precious khutbah this is.A lot of GEMS can be obtained if we hear and understand carefully.May ALLAH bless Ustadh and his team for all the good work! BarakALLAHu feekum jami'an.

  • @MNIASV
    @MNIASV 5 лет назад +2

    Ma Sha Allah

  • @rorealmughraby8928
    @rorealmughraby8928 5 лет назад +1

    ما شاء الله يارب رد المسلمين الى الاسلام ردا جميلا

  • @vinsmokesanji7550
    @vinsmokesanji7550 3 года назад +1

    I feel like everyone needs to listen to this.

  • @samiharahman894
    @samiharahman894 5 лет назад

    This just hear this continually 3rd time. Very sincere thoughts

  • @aliashamim3073
    @aliashamim3073 5 лет назад +1

    It's such a powerful reminder! I've watched it 8 times already still it's just mind boggling! It changes the whole point of view of our way to lead the life and how we are maybe unknowingly getting into the devil's trap! May Allah save all of us from following the wrong way.

  • @ammaribrahim5756
    @ammaribrahim5756 5 лет назад +1

    I will try to share this valuable knowledge

  • @anggisiregar3449
    @anggisiregar3449 Год назад

    barakallahu fiikum ustadz and bayyinah team and to someone who make indonesian sub. sangat bermanfaat.

  • @thebohofanatics2461
    @thebohofanatics2461 4 месяца назад

    Beautiful. Would want to come back to it everyday to be consumed be this

  • @iffipathaan5089
    @iffipathaan5089 5 лет назад +13

    Love you Ustadh . . . thnq so much please visit India

  • @ashesarestupid
    @ashesarestupid 5 лет назад +3

    love this, beautiful. JZK as always

  • @msk389
    @msk389 5 лет назад

    Subhanallah alhamdullilah allahu Akbar. ...important lesson.....may Allah help me and all Muslims to get rid of this dangerous heart disease of pride and comparison which even lead the human being to leave the true path after knowing the truth same like shaytan....the uncle of prophet (pbuh) knows islam is truth but didnot accept it coz of his pride ..today also lot of people are there same like ...very very dangerous heart disease which doesn't allow us to accept the truth from allah....may allah protect me my family and all believers from being one among them and make us accept the truth and qadr of allah ....aameeen....

  • @CaliMaxamad-pp8hi
    @CaliMaxamad-pp8hi 9 дней назад

    Subhana Allah

  • @kazifareehanawar3370
    @kazifareehanawar3370 5 лет назад +1

    He is the so good Ma shaa Allah. May Allah Almighty bless you bhaijan❄🕋❄

  • @khalanjoabdigani9686
    @khalanjoabdigani9686 5 лет назад +1

    ma sha Allah

  • @ayeshakunni4366
    @ayeshakunni4366 5 лет назад +7

    Beautiful khutba and wounderful explantion.

  • @msa11387
    @msa11387 5 лет назад +1

    Alhamdollah for Allah's mercy and Islam!

  • @user-ob4od5pn8g
    @user-ob4od5pn8g 5 лет назад +1

    اللهم ارحمنا بالقرآن ،واجعله لنا نورا ،وهدى ورحمه ،اللهم ذكرنا منه ما نسينا وعلمنا منه ما جهلنا ، وارزقنا تلاوته آناء الليل وأطراف النهار ،وجعله لنا حجة

  • @mahfujhossain1403
    @mahfujhossain1403 4 года назад

    Wonderful...Masa'Allah...very nice lecture...🙂🙂

  • @taariekchakouh8119
    @taariekchakouh8119 5 лет назад +2

    Ma sha Allah!!
    Love from belgium, wish you could come here!!
    Karima

  • @user-lx9qe2ll9c
    @user-lx9qe2ll9c 4 года назад

    Thank you! I needed that