Does the vulnerable narcissist know they are hurting people with these traits and refuse to admitt this or is it possible that the truely believe they are caring amd empathetic and think they arent hurting anyone?
Beth Simm, Tamara seems to emphasize on narcissists' delusion and lack of empathy... So for my boundaries I'm wary if they refuse to consider believing or listening to others, especially if other ppl are feeling hurt by them. To me that's the point where it's dangerous...
Thank you for your videos. My pity for the narcissist had recently begun to morph to anger and resentment after a triggering visit. It was ugly within but I could see it growing and only watch. Watching your videos today has helped me to recontextualise it all again and focus on my journey of processing, understanding and healing my own trauma as oppose to focusing on the other individuals wrongs. Thank you for your peace :)
You're welcome Courtney B! Thank you for watching. :) I'm so glad this video was helpful to you. Sometimes that's all we need to give us better direction.
So I'm finding myself passing this pandemic in the basement of my friend's house. His mother shows all the signs of VN, and I have to say, over the course of the last four months, I've at times had to question my own sanity. At first I thought she was just a hypochondriac...
I do understand. I think CORONA has made a lot of people show their "true colors" and hints of narcissism and insensitivity seems to be apart of that for so many people. I think life was so fast-paced before COVID that we may not have seen the disturbing personality characteristics we are seeing now.
I'm more aware of this type of behavior in retail jobs such as Home Depot & Macy's. There's a few family members who come to mind when I reflect back at various family events. I can only imagine at this point that they were key crap starters and at the core some very ugly things that happened in the family. I'm glad that I don't bother with ANY of these people anymore!
I m 44 , and nobody understand what was going on in the relationship with my mum. Thank you for enlightin us. It s vital for our lives to start living free. 💗
I totally understand. I see this a lot amongs older clients. And You're welcome! Glad this was helpful. Sometimes it will take almost a lifetime to truly figure it out.
I understand the term "Delusions of Grandeur " much better after your explanation. I've read that term many times, but felt it's explanation was vague. Your video made it click with me.
Can you talk about how a couple can deal with a narc in law especially when the adult child defends the narc and seems to be in denial. Dealing with a covert narc grandparent.
My mum preached me christianity. I was virgin when I married . Now she found a toy boy. She is now 65 and that guy is a foreigner and he is 30 . He smokes and drinks. She is the best hipocrit. I don't talk to her anymore.
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Can you identify these traits in a family member?
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Does the vulnerable narcissist know they are hurting people with these traits and refuse to admitt this or is it possible that the truely believe they are caring amd empathetic and think they arent hurting anyone?
Beth Simm, Tamara seems to emphasize on narcissists' delusion and lack of empathy...
So for my boundaries I'm wary if they refuse to consider believing or listening to others, especially if other ppl are feeling hurt by them. To me that's the point where it's dangerous...
Thank you for your videos. My pity for the narcissist had recently begun to morph to anger and resentment after a triggering visit. It was ugly within but I could see it growing and only watch. Watching your videos today has helped me to recontextualise it all again and focus on my journey of processing, understanding and healing my own trauma as oppose to focusing on the other individuals wrongs. Thank you for your peace :)
You're welcome Courtney B! Thank you for watching. :)
I'm so glad this video was helpful to you. Sometimes that's all we need to give us better direction.
Best definition of a vulnerable narcissist! Thank you! 🙏🏾
You're welcome and thank you!
thank you for this video ....so much information....it's so needed for people to recognize the narcissist...scary people.
You're welcome Carrie! Thanks for watching.
I too need a "booster course" from time to time.
So I'm finding myself passing this pandemic in the basement of my friend's house. His mother shows all the signs of VN, and I have to say, over the course of the last four months, I've at times had to question my own sanity. At first I thought she was just a hypochondriac...
I do understand. I think CORONA has made a lot of people show their "true colors" and hints of narcissism and insensitivity seems to be apart of that for so many people. I think life was so fast-paced before COVID that we may not have seen the disturbing personality characteristics we are seeing now.
I'm more aware of this type of behavior in retail jobs such as Home Depot & Macy's. There's a few family members who come to mind when I reflect back at various family events. I can only imagine at this point that they were key crap starters and at the core some very ugly things that happened in the family. I'm glad that I don't bother with ANY of these people anymore!
I love your videos, your are spot on! Thank you!!
Glad you like them! Thank you.😊
I m 44 , and nobody understand what was going on in the relationship with my mum. Thank you for enlightin us. It s vital for our lives to start living free. 💗
I totally understand. I see this a lot amongs older clients.
And You're welcome! Glad this was helpful. Sometimes it will take almost a lifetime to truly figure it out.
I think it will take a while to be myself.
Please make a video on a vulnerable narcissist in a romantic relationship dynamic. Would really appreciate it. Great content BTW. God bless 🤗
Thanks Julia!! Glad this was helpful.
We may not talk about this for a while but I'll certainly get it un when we revisit relationships.
I really like the ambiance
Thanks Valtressa!
Terrified I am one, really struggle to know how to do things that help anyone who isn't me
Thank you Tamara. This is very helpful.
You are so welcome! And thank you!
Thank you Tamara this information is so helpful 💛
You are so welcome! So glad to hear that.
I understand the term "Delusions of Grandeur " much better after your explanation. I've read that term many times, but felt it's explanation was vague. Your video made it click with me.
That's good to hear!! Thanks for watching.🙂
That was a great presentation, perfect.
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I love this content! But I'm with you in terms of the background. 😱 You're awesome any how. Lol
Thank you 😊
Not a fan!
Can you talk about how a couple can deal with a narc in law especially when the adult child defends the narc and seems to be in denial. Dealing with a covert narc grandparent.
I can certainly bring that into the mix. I might discuss this as part of my "domestic violence" video.
My family respected me until my mother died...then, it ALL changed.
My mum preached me christianity. I was virgin when I married . Now she found a toy boy. She is now 65 and that guy is a foreigner and he is 30 . He smokes and drinks. She is the best hipocrit. I don't talk to her anymore.
Run…..
Exactly
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Great vid! ALL of this applies to most borderlines, mostly females
Thank you Sean. Glad it was helpful.
They can have a secret life- like gambling