How America Made Me A Feminist | Paulina Porizkova | TEDxAsburyPark

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  • Опубликовано: 21 дек 2024

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  • @Alpha-Andromeda
    @Alpha-Andromeda 3 года назад +109

    “I suppose the constant discomfort of the lace thong reminds you where your power lies” 😂 epic.

  • @laracroft8395
    @laracroft8395 3 года назад +77

    Omg, Paulina, as a Czech woman, you are 100% correct about the way it works over here. Spot on. Nothing changed.

    • @atheistcrusader1160
      @atheistcrusader1160 3 года назад +5

      Don't let feminism ruin your beautiful country full of rich history that you're not even aware of because why would you

    • @sonamtashi7706
      @sonamtashi7706 3 года назад +9

      @@atheistcrusader1160 Don’t confuse feminism for feminazis. If things are as bad in Czech as she says there were during her childhood then yeah they could do with a healthy moderate dose of feminism.
      Feminism is about gender equality & freedom, feminazis believe that as women they are inherently superior to men & are thus entitled b***hes.

    • @srayanjacobs6530
      @srayanjacobs6530 3 года назад +3

      @@sonamtashi7706 feminism is about gender equality!? Heard that a lot. Greatest joke of 21st century.

    • @sonamtashi7706
      @sonamtashi7706 3 года назад +7

      @@srayanjacobs6530 Feminism was & should be about women striving for equal rights with men on the grounds that they’re equal & not lesser than men.
      What modern feminism has become is something worth being called feminazism.

    • @Silversubs29078
      @Silversubs29078 2 года назад +5

      @@srayanjacobs6530 you're the greatest joke of the 21st century mate

  • @material___
    @material___ 6 лет назад +60

    Paulina is inspiring, and very intriguing. She is also someone who embraces aging. Our society is obsessed with 'youth' and that alone. It seems like once you age, you are fastly forgotten. Paulina you are still an icon !!!

  • @tiaturnbullchampionscoachi9587
    @tiaturnbullchampionscoachi9587 5 лет назад +117

    I like hearing a woman who has traveled sharing her experiences of how she was seen( treated) in different places. I find the cultural comparisons very interesting. I dont think she was trying to make a huge philosophical\ intellectual point but to speak candidly and openly about her observations to show us ourselves without worrying about how people would take it. I appreciate her openness and can relate her sharing to how I was treated as if I was supposed to embody some cultural box meant for women and girls. Yay for lookimg back and seeing it clearly for the first time.

    • @me67226
      @me67226 2 года назад

      She is weird

    • @ilincavlad5536
      @ilincavlad5536 Год назад +2

      I think it went much deeper than that. Through razor sharp humour, wit and brilliant intelligence, she made us deeply reflect on an important subject, making it palatable as she made us laugh..

  • @meghill4537
    @meghill4537 3 года назад +12

    She's so real and refreshing. Loved every second. Sharing this everywhere. More Paulina.

  • @estellewadsworth4187
    @estellewadsworth4187 3 года назад +80

    She is the most legendary supermodel ever. She is beautiful down to earth and lovely. I would love to be her friend. She is a gem 💎💎💎👌❤️❤️❤️

  • @mtnpfi
    @mtnpfi 2 года назад +2

    4 year old talk and 11:18 min more a topic than ever. Thanks, Paulina, for shining light in dark places👏💛

  • @garyinmarz8938
    @garyinmarz8938 4 года назад +29

    "Being in a different location, it was like I was a different person" 1:32,,,, I would say that very few understand an believe this to be true.

  • @DreamPrague
    @DreamPrague 4 года назад +71

    That was beautifully said. I just watched an old interview of you on Jan Krause (trying to improve my Czech) and found you so charming, I'm glad I dug deeper and found this video 🤓

    • @qrandrea2160
      @qrandrea2160 4 года назад +2

      Dream Prague I have seen it too , she was very sweet .
      Díky Jane Krausi , že jste Pavlínu pozval.

    • @lenahuerta100
      @lenahuerta100 4 года назад +1

      Me too!!

  • @juliamarin4896
    @juliamarin4896 3 года назад +19

    This is Fascinating, and I have noticed similar differences just when moving from one state to another right here in the US of A - it's odd and uncomfortable sometimes.

    • @gardensofthegods
      @gardensofthegods 3 года назад +2

      Interesting can you please tell me which states you have lived in and which differences you observed ?

  • @jenison2985
    @jenison2985 3 года назад +62

    Bravo Paulina, a super intelligent beauty that speaks her mind and her experiences!! What a fantastic talk, thank you so much! Your voice is heard and appreciated 🙏❤️🥰

    • @Jason-gt6ko
      @Jason-gt6ko 3 года назад

      Yeah, she's so brilliant she blew millions of dollars and ended up broke and irrelevant. What an inspiration!

    • @source5729
      @source5729 3 года назад +2

      @@Jason-gt6ko
      Wow ~ how shallow. This woman made a choice to devote her life to raising her sons (since she didn’t have a mother for 7 years). Yes, naive, but her sons hold her in high esteem. She was obviously married to a narcissist & is finally learning how to value her worth.

    • @Jason-gt6ko
      @Jason-gt6ko 3 года назад

      @@source5729 Paulina married a rich, unattractive, famous rockstar that was twice her age. I'm sure it was because she was so in love with him. Yet, I'm the one who's Shallow. Lmao 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 Do you even know who she married or are you commenting on blind speculation?!?!

    • @TheForkOnTheLeftist
      @TheForkOnTheLeftist Год назад

      @@Jason-gt6ko it's one year later but I salute you for speaking truth

  • @crystalparker100
    @crystalparker100 2 года назад

    Paulina, don't forget that your power is in your attitude, not your looks. This was a great talk and you are a timeless beauty!

  • @tatianaramos6193
    @tatianaramos6193 4 года назад +73

    She lost me at the “first female president”. One: Hillary is a liar . Two: a woman should not be anything just for her gender. We need to earn it, regardless of being “ a woman”.

    • @GreenTara2010
      @GreenTara2010 4 года назад +26

      Hillary did earn the presidency, she was highly competent and experienced. Too bad you refuse to see that because of your gender prejudice. This same gender prejudice always makes personal comments about women to bring them down rather than focus on their competency. You people do that same thing to ALL female candidates. It is this kind of attitude that prevents other women from being successful. Also, is so pathetic that all you can do is blame her for being dishonest when tRumpster tells a lie a minute. You have no faith in women and want to believe the patriarchal lies.

    • @xxxnamkhaxxx
      @xxxnamkhaxxx 4 года назад +21

      WHY IS HILLARY STILL FREE? WHY IS BILL STILL FREE????

    • @tatianaramos6193
      @tatianaramos6193 4 года назад +2

      Yolanda72 she did imply it. Perhaps you should pay better attention. 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @kamzamosweu2269
      @kamzamosweu2269 4 года назад +4

      Hillary as more qualified than TRUMP. If you want to talk about lies and a conman trump is your guy. You like to ignore all trump horrible history and pick one misconduct of his opponent and run it for a year as if they are equal, trump is master of fraud.

    • @codacreator6162
      @codacreator6162 4 года назад +3

      Said the next trophy wife.

  • @cwb1400
    @cwb1400 3 года назад +23

    The comments from men on here are insecure and hilarious. feminism wouldn’t even exist if it wasn’t for the way that men behave and treat women.

    • @poocrayon4588
      @poocrayon4588 3 года назад +7

      And the comments wouldn’t exist if it weren’t for the way feminists behave and women treat men so?

    • @Silversubs29078
      @Silversubs29078 2 года назад

      @@poocrayon4588 you just proved her correct

  • @racheldriscoll9710
    @racheldriscoll9710 4 года назад +18

    I have idolized this woman since the 80s....and she is still an inspiration. Beauty and brains, amazing

  • @kimhannan4892
    @kimhannan4892 4 года назад +24

    Wow...she rocks!! I always liked her and I appreciate that she was in this forum to display how intelligent, insightful and amazing she is!

  • @RhythmAddictedState
    @RhythmAddictedState 3 года назад +40

    What's up with all the dislikes? Smh. This was a great speech.

    • @peggysullivan5396
      @peggysullivan5396 3 года назад +6

      Probably Ric Ocasek

    • @rubyfirefly2582
      @rubyfirefly2582 3 года назад +2

      @@peggysullivan5396 lol

    • @lisalove511
      @lisalove511 3 года назад

      @@peggysullivan5396 he dead 😆

    • @Brosnan-Double007
      @Brosnan-Double007 3 года назад

      I don't see any dislikes.

    • @seniorarubia
      @seniorarubia 3 года назад

      Maybe Eppstein and Maxwell people dislikes she was on this planes too. Can't believe but it's true Naomi too

  • @jenjohnson1747
    @jenjohnson1747 4 года назад +21

    When I am in Europe I am sooo flattered by how men treat me...so refreshing

    • @MirelaRR
      @MirelaRR 4 года назад +15

      Europe is a whole continent with 50 countries and in each one men are different lol

    • @goodtimes8229
      @goodtimes8229 4 года назад +1

      I agree with @M. R. R lol, where in Europe?

    • @Mrsbehavin59
      @Mrsbehavin59 4 года назад +3

      jen jo yes were in Europe did u travel....... when I arrived to the USA I received so many compliments on my legs - they actually blushed. While living in Sweden for 31 years and traveling extensively throughout Europe - I never once received a compliment on my - well shaped legs....... just curious... were did you travel?

    • @Alpha-Andromeda
      @Alpha-Andromeda 3 года назад +3

      @@Mrsbehavin59 that’s so American to compliment your legs lol. Hilarious! Thanks for sharing

    • @Alpha-Andromeda
      @Alpha-Andromeda 3 года назад

      @@Mrsbehavin59 also she said she liked the way they treated her. Did you think you were being treated well because they had noticed your legs? I think she meant something other than flattery of a body part.

  • @edithcarter3554
    @edithcarter3554 4 года назад +33

    Love this Ted talk. She is amazing.

  • @veronikaj1089
    @veronikaj1089 4 года назад +45

    I was born in Czechoslovakia too.❤️💎
    Paulina is an amazing woman.She is my favourite model with Adriana sklenarikova.
    Amazing character, beautiful inside and outside too.👍✌️💎

  • @VincentFulco
    @VincentFulco 3 года назад +15

    Outstanding, thought provoking delivery. Kudos!

  • @Bowiefan4ever
    @Bowiefan4ever 3 года назад +17

    As a Swede, I loved this, and so true!

    • @jonburrows2684
      @jonburrows2684 Год назад

      I'm so thankful to our LGBTQI in America for ENDING once and for all Feminism here.

  • @nanettetabuac8664
    @nanettetabuac8664 4 года назад +17

    Wow! She is very articulate and funny. I was a huge fan of hers back in the 90’s and 80’s!!

  • @stevejarred6484
    @stevejarred6484 Год назад

    I hope Paulina will keep on presenting herself as an "older (no offense intended) but wiser" woman. She seems even more attractive now because she has something to say.

  • @RobL358
    @RobL358 3 года назад +8

    Paulina is as beautiful today as she ever was walking the catwalk.

    • @kapa0224
      @kapa0224 4 месяца назад

      Thank you, very interesting!!

  • @grassofpeace
    @grassofpeace 2 года назад +5

    Love this beautiful and intelligent woman. I look up to her for more

  • @carmengeorgeweddings3906
    @carmengeorgeweddings3906 3 года назад +2

    Many many good points

  • @cherylsomerfeldt8129
    @cherylsomerfeldt8129 4 года назад +29

    I loved this and was shocked at the amount of dislikes. Why? Are you all men who do not want to hear the truth that gender is a societal construct and you are not really due anything innately, or are you an attractive young woman with the same misconception?

    • @Intheknow-c8w
      @Intheknow-c8w 4 года назад +5

      c sw exactly all insecure men comments and dislikes 😆

    • @bellepierre24
      @bellepierre24 4 года назад +2

      The dislikes actually give credence to a lot of what she is saying.

    • @paulgotik
      @paulgotik 4 года назад +8

      Well I didn't disliked but I don't agree with everything she said.

    • @seanqphinney5235
      @seanqphinney5235 4 года назад +10

      Gender is a societal construct? Hmmm. Got me stumped on that one.

    • @erniebuchinski3614
      @erniebuchinski3614 4 года назад

      Why would the number of dislikes shock anyone, given the lowest common denominator that the various social media promote?

  • @elenaandrew8414
    @elenaandrew8414 Год назад

    Excellent speech!!

  • @wendysea1693
    @wendysea1693 3 года назад +4

    I love listening to Paulina👏

  • @danielfisch389
    @danielfisch389 2 года назад +7

    Class, in every aspect. Respect!

  • @victoriakawesa3558
    @victoriakawesa3558 4 года назад +15

    Wonderful, entertaining speech. Thank you Paulina🙏🏿❤🙏🏿

  • @jonstirling9169
    @jonstirling9169 4 года назад +32

    She is so amazing.

  • @sarasam6392
    @sarasam6392 3 года назад +2

    It is not equality, it should be fair between them.

  • @Chrissepisje
    @Chrissepisje 3 года назад +8

    I love this speech right up until the point where she says America is the only country where anything is possible. FWIW, Germany, Finland, New Zealand, Denmark, Iceland and a plethora of others including the UK and Israel, for crying out loud, had female leadership long before the US put a woman on the ballot.
    As an expat that moved between a variety of countries I would have hoped that she'd recognize social mobility in the US is mostly fictional, as is the notion of democracy. But there is hope yet. :)

    • @margaretmartine9430
      @margaretmartine9430 3 года назад +1

      And that's the note she ended on. Don't you get it?

    • @philomath67
      @philomath67 3 года назад +1

      The only female leader worth a darn was Margaret Thatcher.

    • @TheRapnep
      @TheRapnep 3 года назад +2

      Stay where you are, Chris. Don't need ya. 🇺🇲

  • @neltolans5044
    @neltolans5044 3 года назад +5

    She was and is still beautiful, brains and mind are connected close to God's creation of Eve

  • @peopleplacesandperspective5564
    @peopleplacesandperspective5564 4 года назад +20

    Funny delivery! She’s awesome! 👏✨

  • @rachelrogers6795
    @rachelrogers6795 4 года назад +4

    You go Paulina! Great summation of the different countries attitudes.

  • @lovehildagrey
    @lovehildagrey 4 года назад +7

    Beautiful Story, words More then her looks. How could a woman praised for her looks all her life be so down to earth? Such a RARE FIND

  • @mariamilo487
    @mariamilo487 4 года назад +15

    This talk is disliked by so many people? Oh, come on, people, grow some brains

  • @julierose6196
    @julierose6196 4 года назад +8

    Bien Dit! Impressed and really appreciated her insights of the cultural differences of feminism as a global phenomenon. Quelle Femme Fantastique

  • @gipsiesrealm
    @gipsiesrealm 4 года назад +9

    I love hearing her talk

  • @sonadora1942
    @sonadora1942 6 лет назад +18

    This is so inspiring. Thank you for such a great talk

  • @toma-2807
    @toma-2807 2 года назад +1

    Она такая классная ,даже сейчас,красавица!

  • @rich-ard-style6996
    @rich-ard-style6996 4 года назад +18

    I wonder did he take all her money that she had earned as a model and then wrote his will as he did by leaving nothing to her?

    • @soaluc
      @soaluc 4 года назад +12

      Yes, I saw a interview of her saying she was left basically poor. Felt really sorry for her, she was such a hard working model and pretty sure she had a lot of money from modelling. No wonder she is back in the spotlight

    • @mymoonams
      @mymoonams 4 года назад +13

      Now, we can see how greedy Ric Ocasek was.

    • @TheGreenlineProject
      @TheGreenlineProject 4 года назад +13

      They were in the process of divorce and he had his will rewritten a month before he died. In his new will, he had said that Paulina had abandoned him, though from her perspective, she felt like it was an amicable break. She didn't abandon him; she very much wanted to remain friends. In fact, the morning she discovered him dead in bed, she had picked up a cup of coffee for him. She obviously had keys to the house, was kind enough to keep bringing him brew. But Ric was spiteful, and he left her and his kids from a previous marriage absolutely nothing. Sadly, Paulina had thrown most of her money into the marriage, and had felt very much betrayed and taken by him. From an interview in March, it looks like she's still struggling with grief and betrayal. It's such a sad story.

    • @sunshine2049
      @sunshine2049 4 года назад +2

      @@TheGreenlineProject It seemed as though she made a huge profit on their townhouse that was recently sold for like 10 million? Whether that’s true or not I’m sure she’s where head of the rest of us financially

  • @xiqueira
    @xiqueira 4 года назад +16

    “An acrobatic session and a couple sneezes at the end.”

    • @morganfisherart
      @morganfisherart 3 года назад +2

      Haha! That was funny. Aerobic, is what she actually said.

  • @stephiecalhoun8945
    @stephiecalhoun8945 3 года назад +9

    she is great!!! :)

  • @mrs.strompsenson288
    @mrs.strompsenson288 3 года назад +2

    Paulina is an expert on being a beautiful smart woman. You can trust her.

  • @sandoristar7597
    @sandoristar7597 3 года назад +4

    So Sweden is bad because equality ??? Too many controversies in her speech.

  • @SevenDeMagnus
    @SevenDeMagnus 3 года назад +8

    Very cool, Paulina:-)

  • @hansvontrier771
    @hansvontrier771 5 лет назад +25

    she even acknowledged her privilege!! We love a self-aware queen!!

    • @Soapandwater6
      @Soapandwater6 4 года назад +6

      I have seen an earlier clip of her where she also acknowledged her beauty, saying that she had to thank her parents for that and that it was not something that she had achieved or had anything to do with. Now that's humble.

    • @kelrogers8480
      @kelrogers8480 3 года назад

      Excuse me? An orphan, growing up in a communist country? My dear, we ALL have privilege - AND we ALL have disadvantage as well. Many of us have had terrible lives, regardless of our race. So, what is YOUR privilege? And if you are so Woke, what are YOU doing to address your own privilege? You lead by example, okay? We will follow you.

  • @richardmoglia5628
    @richardmoglia5628 4 года назад +11

    More beautiful than ever.

  • @786checkmate
    @786checkmate 3 года назад +5

    Notice the reaction of toxic feminists when a girl punches a boy for bullying her friend.
    Physical violence is never OK but the way the audience laugh like its cute has probably scarred that boy.
    The real truth is women like this don't want equality but superiority. To prove my point swap roles and notice how disgusted you feel if it was a boy punching a girl for bullying his friend and having an audience who laugh innocently
    Have a good day!

  • @lisamariepagliei3945
    @lisamariepagliei3945 3 года назад

    She's right

  • @mva6213
    @mva6213 3 года назад +4

    Beautiful!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @elmomz
    @elmomz 2 года назад +1

    for any reasons the youtube algorithm didn´t spread the video of this awsome, entertaining and inspirational speech.
    Now, Jan 2022 let´s try together and give it a 2nd try !!!

  • @greatestshopper1077
    @greatestshopper1077 3 года назад +4

    I love her! Well said...

  • @HurricaneIrene07
    @HurricaneIrene07 3 года назад +1

    Unlike the struggles of Everywoman just we were not supermodels.

  • @mtbiker4life918
    @mtbiker4life918 3 года назад +6

    Women:
    18- 25- ofcourse you can take me out to dinner on a date and pay. I get free drinks, and I get backstage plus vip access in the clubs where everyone else pays.
    Women:
    25- 35
    I'm a single mom, but I love to party and go out to eat. Younger men want me, and I'm a packaged deal.
    Women:
    35-55
    Are there any real men out there? What happened to chivalry? I have to leave work early to pick up my kids. I deserve equal pay. Marry me...I'm ready now. I have guy friends.
    Women:
    55-65
    I'm divorced and have my own place. I'm ready for true love. I don't do one night stands so keep swiping. My profile is on bumble, okcupid, plenty of fish, and Christian mingle.

  • @nevinevenus2338
    @nevinevenus2338 6 лет назад +14

    so articulate! o my God!

  • @yazminelle8331
    @yazminelle8331 4 года назад +15

    I'd like to have tea or coffee with this lady !

  • @ca8824
    @ca8824 3 года назад +7

    How does a women with millions of dollars have "less options" than the average guy? She certainly isn't subject to the dictates of an employer the way the average man is. She has more healthcare options, more options in terms of whether to live - there's a big quality of life difference between exurban Missippi and Beverly Hills or Manhattan. She has more options on where her kids will be educated. And she has more options on how to plan her retirement and the life she'll have should she need eldercare assistance.
    She may have less options than a man of equal wealth, though at that comfort level, I wonder how impactful the practical difference would be - maybe the man would feel more comfortable to go on a night time jog whereas she'd feel safer indoors on her brand new Pelaton? And really how many 50 year old millionaire men find themselves on solo midnight runs?
    Systemic sexism definately exists in this country, but with the erosion of the middle class and the rise of inequity I don't think it's in good taste or correct for rich women to be putting themselves below the average Jane or the average Joe.

  • @patriciadoallo9555
    @patriciadoallo9555 6 лет назад +25

    She is beatiful always!!!

  • @rondanorthrup8433
    @rondanorthrup8433 4 года назад +6

    Love this so true

  • @AlongtheFarClimbDown843
    @AlongtheFarClimbDown843 5 лет назад +6

    What a bummer!

    • @vaquera9368
      @vaquera9368 3 года назад +4

      @@MK10022 way to attack another woman’s view. Really shows your immaturity.

  • @claireandersongrahamkeller2744
    @claireandersongrahamkeller2744 4 года назад +4

    So sweet, funny and brilliant, wonderful!!!!

  • @DenisBeskov
    @DenisBeskov 27 дней назад

    - I am like the most privileged woman ever and yet I have fewer choices and less freedom than average guy?
    What choices exactly? And what freedom? There was 0 info on that which makes her statement empty claim.

  • @angelrogo
    @angelrogo 8 месяцев назад

    I would love Ric Ocasek would tell us his side of the story, because it seems completely the opposite of this speech.

  • @karenhogan731
    @karenhogan731 3 года назад +5

    Paulina is a wise intelligent amazing woman.

  • @annechildress2721
    @annechildress2721 4 года назад +8

    Smart lady!

  • @thanoskoumpanis9699
    @thanoskoumpanis9699 3 года назад +2

    I like this kind of femininity. Imagine women hitting on you!!!

  • @davidedeblasio1783
    @davidedeblasio1783 4 года назад +7

    male female, EACH have there role in Nature,,,, no laws rules can change that,,,,, thats what i see andi have traveled,,,,, cheers

  • @victoriagiardinieri1904
    @victoriagiardinieri1904 3 года назад

    Yes!!!

  • @parnaz1623
    @parnaz1623 4 года назад +9

    she's so cool wtf

  • @br-xq1yz
    @br-xq1yz 4 года назад +1

    10:16 nice use of the term " clam up"

  • @locutusofnubz
    @locutusofnubz 3 года назад +6

    So basically no matter how a woman is treated she's never happy. Got it.

  • @radar0412
    @radar0412 2 года назад

    But Paulina DOESN'T want a guy who will shop, cook and clean. Those guys aren't masculine enough for Paulina.

    • @aotctd
      @aotctd 7 месяцев назад

      lol I HIGHLY DOUBT that
      It is normal for men to also do that these days

    • @radar0412
      @radar0412 7 месяцев назад

      @@aotctd If Paulina wanted just a Normal Guy, she wouldn't be whining. She needs to stay in her Lane and stop blaming Guys she can't get.

    • @aotctd
      @aotctd 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@radar0412 She has a guy.

    • @aotctd
      @aotctd 7 месяцев назад

      @@radar0412 You people need to up the ante with your own game, be a little more kind, then yall would attract others too.

    • @radar0412
      @radar0412 7 месяцев назад

      @@aotctd Correct. She has a regular guy now JUST LIKE I TOLD YOU. Maybe YOU can learn from Paulina and start accepting what's available to YOU instead of having unrealistic expectations from others who aren't available to You. Remember me for that. So long kid.

  • @laurabeckman82
    @laurabeckman82 3 года назад +5

    Every woman wants a man to do things for her, otherwise, why would we deal with them at all. As we get older, and our beauty fades and their virility fades, the only thing left is love. I hope our men can keep up with us. I mean this in the most loving way.

  • @Lommy9999
    @Lommy9999 3 года назад +4

    Smart woman.

  • @36whitedove
    @36whitedove 5 лет назад +19

    What happened to just being feminine and true to your own God given gift ? Why do so many woman want to be like and compete with the masculine energies .

    • @xiqueira
      @xiqueira 4 года назад +11

      36whitedove I’m sorry. I actually haven’t received any gift from god. Is that through amazon? or an Etsy store. What I’ve done has been through hard work and chance.

    • @mymoonams
      @mymoonams 4 года назад +1

      A country change a person.

    • @goodtimes8229
      @goodtimes8229 4 года назад +4

      I agree that you shouldn't try to be something you're not, but a lot of women for centuries have been told to act a way that isn't actually natural. There's nothing wrong with being feminine, it's just that some of us are naturally more masculine (such as myself) and we should be allowed to be that way (as long as we aren't infringing on someone else's rights.

    • @koul3709
      @koul3709 3 года назад +2

      It’s not about competing with masculine energies. Some women are born with natural highly masculine traits, and instead of being lauded and embraced my society like their highly masculine male counterparts, they’re treated with disgust and revulsion. Male and society at-large only want a shy and demure stereotype of women to exist, so they can conquer over them and feel like heroes. It’s all a bout sustaining the male ego, and not about every woman expressing her unique nature. It’s great if you’re a naturally feminine woman. That should be embraced and is a gift. Unfortunately some feminine women like to “pretend” to be masculine, and become very unhappy in their lives as a result of it. On the other hand, some women are born androgynous, and have both highly feminine and masculine traits. But society spurns a woman like this who speaks her mind truthfully and without reserve. Apparently only “men” have that privilege.

  • @juliaxo2872
    @juliaxo2872 4 года назад +16

    I feel the opposite. I feel patronized if a man doesn’t hold the door open for me.

    • @goodtimes8229
      @goodtimes8229 4 года назад +6

      lol I can't tell if you're joking or not.

  • @susancarillo7822
    @susancarillo7822 4 года назад +8

    Beauty and brain....

  • @marufhossain1638
    @marufhossain1638 6 лет назад +5

    what is this lecture about???

    • @pp-wh4hp
      @pp-wh4hp 5 лет назад +10

      About a woman who thinks she can randomly talk about stuff because she looks good so she can talk about her 'ted talk' on receptions.

    • @michele21auntiem
      @michele21auntiem 5 лет назад +23

      The subject of this talk is how women are treated in different cultures.

    • @koul3709
      @koul3709 3 года назад +2

      It’s about how foolish societies like to determine who women are, without actually letting the woman actually open her mouth and say two words. Pre-set scripts have already determined her worth as a human being, without any achievement or personal quality being observed. As long as you meet the “acceptable” parameters of the determined scripts, which vary cultures-by-culture, you will be told determinatively who you are, by others who have nothing to do with you. As if your worth isn’t intrinsic and unchanging and determined by your own self-opinion and self-respect. Thus comes her conclusion-women and their bodies are owned by others and society at-large in the United States. She just said it in a slightly more open-ended way to soften the blow.

  • @Jason-gt6ko
    @Jason-gt6ko 3 года назад +1

    Funny that it's almost ALL women posting on here praising Paulina. Lol

    • @philomath67
      @philomath67 3 года назад +1

      Not this one. I do like her, but she's limited in her thinking things out...of what she supports and their consequences.

  • @Panwere36
    @Panwere36 4 года назад +1

    All anyone really needs to do to see the bent of most TEDx talk people is to see the videos they have "turned off comments" for. I am totally surprised they haven't for this one.

  • @MrBacus72
    @MrBacus72 2 года назад +4

    And now she complains that no high value man wants to date her.

  • @philomath67
    @philomath67 3 года назад +4

    How are the "powerful" women in Sweden holding up to the invading Muslim hordes? You were a different person in Sweden in the 70s. You'd really be a different person there now.

  • @keithhh
    @keithhh 3 года назад +4

    Reality slaps

  • @schultz1966
    @schultz1966 2 года назад

    What privileges?

  • @cellphonecinema3740
    @cellphonecinema3740 4 года назад +5

    Awesome person!!!

  • @jeremypeppler7185
    @jeremypeppler7185 6 лет назад +21

    My wife and I are both feminists. But as a man I'm just a little bit better at it than her.

  • @sunshinesun4662
    @sunshinesun4662 3 года назад

    Yes great speech but not truth at all what she is saying about
    Czech people. I am from Czech and
    men are very different those days than they were in 1973

  • @grandconjunct
    @grandconjunct 2 года назад +3

    No wonder Ric ocasik disinherited this woman.

    • @Ariana-wv4pf
      @Ariana-wv4pf 4 месяца назад

      Yeah, men hate smart women.

  • @philomath67
    @philomath67 3 года назад +5

    Sorry, women can't do anything. We have different brains from men with different desires and aptitudes. We have different physical strength. It's a lie to say we are the same.

    • @jillh7934
      @jillh7934 2 года назад

      Good lord. That's not the point of her speech

    • @Ginika877
      @Ginika877 Год назад

      Speak for yourself . If you can't do anything, don't generalize. Yes we're different from men , but that doesn't make us interior.

    • @Ariana-wv4pf
      @Ariana-wv4pf 4 месяца назад

      Here's me, being a surgeon. Better than all the male surgeons I work with.

    • @philomath67
      @philomath67 4 месяца назад

      ​@@Ariana-wv4pfMaybe the other surgeons would have something different to say.

  • @jamesmcnaughton5092
    @jamesmcnaughton5092 4 года назад +11

    There's more to this story than reported, she divorced him then complained when she got nothing

    • @mymoonams
      @mymoonams 4 года назад +3

      She was not divorced yet.

    • @Penpenjunior
      @Penpenjunior 3 года назад +4

      She put all her money ( a lot) to his business and now left with nothing.

    • @Kbda222
      @Kbda222 3 года назад +3

      He died and afterward she discovered he had cut her out of his will, and left her with nothing after they had been married for over 30 years. And she had put all of her money into her marriage and his businesses. They never divorced.

    • @julia393n
      @julia393n 3 года назад +2

      She cared for him right up until the day he died, regardless of their marital status.

    • @jamesmcnaughton5092
      @jamesmcnaughton5092 3 года назад +2

      @@julia393n once she decided to get a new boyfriend then she was not entitled to any of his money

  • @jorney74
    @jorney74 4 года назад +1

    Super!!!

  • @Taku10619
    @Taku10619 4 года назад +7

    I can assure you it is even harder for men to be a man in this age

  • @ReasonNotFightFlight
    @ReasonNotFightFlight 3 года назад +1

    After the fall of the wall a woman could write that she had an interest in feminism on a grant application and get the grant to go west.

  • @br-xq1yz
    @br-xq1yz 4 года назад +7

    funny , stay at home wives expect that their husbands do half the wife's job at home, but the wife never does half of the husbands work at his job

    • @mymoonams
      @mymoonams 4 года назад

      True.

    • @goodtimes8229
      @goodtimes8229 4 года назад +5

      I think in this video, the wives she mentioned also worked full time.

    • @valentina47734
      @valentina47734 4 года назад +5

      My mother and grandmothers especially, have worked with men in fields and with animals. Same hard work. I never heard that men have helped clean the house.

    • @thereseember2800
      @thereseember2800 4 года назад +2

      Umm->Excruciating childbirth. That’s worth billions. Ante up.

    • @AL-cv3qt
      @AL-cv3qt 3 года назад

      Being a full time mom is EXAUSTING. It's a 24h job, just a mental exaushtion to think about doctors meetings, grocery list, home care, nanny, taking care of the kids, cleaning the home...
      The "husband" does a 8h job and get back home to not think about job anymore, and put his feet under the table. Do you call that fair? NO!

  • @trilabradorable
    @trilabradorable 4 года назад +3

    Rick O left her out of his Will. So sad...

    • @mymoonams
      @mymoonams 4 года назад +2

      Not only that, he stole her money too.

    • @kjbennie9245
      @kjbennie9245 3 года назад

      He must obviously have his reasons.....she mustve done something horrendous!

    • @AnastaciaInCleveland
      @AnastaciaInCleveland 3 года назад +2

      @@kjbennie9245 Oh, like still bringing him his coffee even though they were splitting up? That is how she found him dead, you see. No, Ocasek was being a petty, vindictive POS to her, and by cutting her out of the will, he stole the money that she had earned while they were married.

    • @kjbennie9245
      @kjbennie9245 3 года назад +1

      @@AnastaciaInCleveland yaa I'm thinking now he was probably the one who caused all the problems. Well she seems to be in a good place now 😊. Hope it works out with her new man

    • @AnastaciaInCleveland
      @AnastaciaInCleveland 3 года назад

      @@kjbennie9245 I hope so, too! 🙂