Hello to everyone reading this. Right now, I'm inconsolable. My ex-partner left a few weeks ago, and I am heartbroken and saddened since this relationship is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Although I tried, I was unable to win him back. I don't know what to do, but I shouldn't be posting this here.
Since my 12-year relationship ended, I know how hard it is to say goodbye to someone you love. But I couldn't just let him go, so I did everything I could to win him back. I finally went to a spiritual counsellor for guidance, and he helped me win back his love.
I really needed to hear this. I was trying to get busy again and avoid that healing, but this brought me back to the present and told me to stay still and trust the process. If you listen carefully, there are no coincidences THANK YOU
Thank you for your vulnerability 🙏🏽 ~ "The inability to be alone. The restless jumping from one person to the next is a sign of something deeper. You need to recognize it's a pattern and where do most patterns come from? Trauma." "I was selfishly using women to feel good about myself instead of treating them with respect and consideration by not leading them on." "We all need love in our lives but if we're not comfortable with being with ourselves first then it means our traumas are not resolved."
Totally agree. Healing requires time. This advice can also be applied if you don't believe in God. Your inner child needs to spend time with your adult self. That is the relationship that needs to heal. Show up to your inner child and let him know by your actions that he will be loved, listened to and cared for. This is what communion means and the result is the true meaning of integrity - living in inner harmony.
sir , you are god sent , i just finished crying and tearing up , i wanted to reach out to a toxic ex or rather ex s , but this one time i tried controlling and cried it out ive been isolated consciously cutting myself off from all types of people , something in me keeps saying that this is a period of sowing seeds and my harvest time will soon come when i bloom but for nowits dark coz im planted . and bam this video pops out of no where , tbh my reccomendations are about studies and all and this was a god sent video . thank you , god bless !
We all go through it, just know there are similar experiences out there so you’re not alone. And like I said, I believe you were meant to see this. So go answer that call. All the best!
Thank you for taking the time to leave this comment. It helps encourage me to continue sharing these types of conversations. Good luck with everything and you got this!
Remarkable, to the point. Thank you a latte for sharing your point, Tommy. What does the process seem to be right there after? What does it look like to you? Of course I will attempt to contemplate with a brief answer but I would deeply appreciate your feedback as well. You probably experience more peace within, contentment, purposefulness, contemplation and deeper relationships.. but isn't there something that remains hidden, something that keeps pushing us (or you) to the negative path which we all have walked on our way at some point? In order to summarize the above, where do you put the egoistic purpose of self growth and self care according to the path of being of service? How do you distinguish between both? Or is it give care, and care shall be given to you, in the simplest of examples. Thanks, Alex 😊
I had a very complicated situationship with an ex who I let go of (probably for good) at the end of October. I wish he could see this video… I struggled to articulate how well I could see these issues in him. But by him discarding me was probably the start to him recognising his issues. I didn’t do anything to him but to him I was a reminder of his lustful past which was rooted in some trauma he didn’t open up about
I think where I went wrong was gripping onto someone who needed to be let go. I’ve never had feelings for someone that intensely in my life so it was really a double edged sword probably for the both of us
I’ve been through this myself and I understand exactly what you mean. But take that as an experience and a win in the fact that you have an opportunity to learn what you value, don’t value and what you learn from this to apply into your next relationship. But first take the time to heal, work through whatever you have to work through, and let go.
Ur so cute ☺️ I just called my ex cuz I was lonely and got angry after talking to him because it just is the same circle again nd again. Thank you I need to heal❤
If it comes from a place of security within yourself as opposed to avoidance or a fear of something, then I think that's fine. You may be just in a season of solitude, and comfortable being by yourself, maybe the right person that you meet along the way will change that. As long as you feel true to yourself and are content. But if it’s the latter then it’s confronting those fears/avoidance.
I have decades of past trauma that is unresolved. After my last relationship that ended poorly like the two before it I got a new job and started making enough money to pay off debt and stop living paycheck to paycheck. I thought I was ready to get back out there to meet new potential partners but I was just lonely and the pressure from my new misogynistic boss to go out and get women made me feel like I was missing something. My attempt to feel better failed miserably and I spiraled into depression. I’m not okay with being alone or being genuine in front of people who I like and I know that if I really want to enjoy my life then I have to change. I just want to feel comfortable in my own skin and not have to seek validation from others
We just need to live in alignment and true to ourselves, your gut is the biggest indicator of who you are. Listen to it. And we’ve all gone through it, you’re aware that that isn’t what you wanna do. So it’s time to start making those changes, day by day and slowly. Be better than yesterday, you got this.
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Hello to everyone reading this. Right now, I'm inconsolable. My ex-partner left a few weeks ago, and I am heartbroken and saddened since this relationship is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Although I tried, I was unable to win him back. I don't know what to do, but I shouldn't be posting this here.
Since my 12-year relationship ended, I know how hard it is to say goodbye to someone you love. But I couldn't just let him go, so I did everything I could to win him back. I finally went to a spiritual counsellor for guidance, and he helped me win back his love.
It's fascinating! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor and how can I get in touch with one most effectively?
Father Obah Eze is a wonderful spiritual counselor who has the ability to bring back your ex.
He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers and he’s the best spell caster to ever live
Thank you for sharing this valuable insight. I just looked father obah eze up, and I'm genuinely impressed.
I really needed to hear this. I was trying to get busy again and avoid that healing, but this brought me back to the present and told me to stay still and trust the process. If you listen carefully, there are no coincidences
THANK YOU
I needed to hear this. This is a real letter from god
Thank you ❤
Thank you for your vulnerability 🙏🏽
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"The inability to be alone. The restless jumping from one person to the next is a sign of something deeper. You need to recognize it's a pattern and where do most patterns come from? Trauma."
"I was selfishly using women to feel good about myself instead of treating them with respect and consideration by not leading them on."
"We all need love in our lives but if we're not comfortable with being with ourselves first then it means our traumas are not resolved."
Thank you for watching brother 🙏
Everything I needed to hear to encourage me to keep going in my healing journey is in this video. I broke down and cried. Twice. Thank you ❤
Elaine, thank you for being vulnerable here. Healing is not linear but it’s always upwards when we continue on the path. Keep going, God bless you ❤️
Totally agree. Healing requires time. This advice can also be applied if you don't believe in God. Your inner child needs to spend time with your adult self. That is the relationship that needs to heal. Show up to your inner child and let him know by your actions that he will be loved, listened to and cared for. This is what communion means and the result is the true meaning of integrity - living in inner harmony.
People need to stop deciding here on social media what others need
That’s straight up generalisation
Love and respect your perspective brother, inner child work is important as well!
sir , you are god sent , i just finished crying and tearing up , i wanted to reach out to a toxic ex or rather ex s , but this one time i tried controlling and cried it out ive been isolated consciously cutting myself off from all types of people , something in me keeps saying that this is a period of sowing seeds and my harvest time will soon come when i bloom but for nowits dark coz im planted . and bam this video pops out of no where , tbh my reccomendations are about studies and all and this was a god sent video . thank you , god bless !
We all go through it, just know there are similar experiences out there so you’re not alone. And like I said, I believe you were meant to see this. So go answer that call. All the best!
Beautifully said ❤GBY
Thank you for being so vulnerable. I can relate to all you have said. Let's do the work!
Thanks Alicia! Appreciate the support
This video explained so much for me. I don’t know how to thank you enough for this video. Truly you’ve helped me more than you know. Thank you ❤
Thank you for taking the time to leave this comment. It helps encourage me to continue sharing these types of conversations. Good luck with everything and you got this!
I feel like I'm having an awakening. I'm shocking myself ❤ Amen! ❤
I appreciate you taking the time to watch this video, and am glad it's given you some light. All the best and God bless you!
i needed this right in this moment, i'm passing through it
I'm glad that this resonated with you at the right time. All the best with everything!
I’ve been thinking about this but couldn’t put it in the right words, thank you 🙏
I appreciate you taking the time to share this, thank you for watching
Remarkable, to the point.
Thank you a latte for sharing your point, Tommy.
What does the process seem to be right there after? What does it look like to you? Of course I will attempt to contemplate with a brief answer but I would deeply appreciate your feedback as well. You probably experience more peace within, contentment, purposefulness, contemplation and deeper relationships.. but isn't there something that remains hidden, something that keeps pushing us (or you) to the negative path which we all have walked on our way at some point?
In order to summarize the above, where do you put the egoistic purpose of self growth and self care according to the path of being of service? How do you distinguish between both? Or is it give care, and care shall be given to you, in the simplest of examples.
Thanks, Alex 😊
Hi Tommy, thanks for sharing your perspective. I'm currently on that path :)
Hey Victoria! Thanks for watching, I’m wishing all the best for you! You got this.
This is so eye opening,thank you!
Thank you so much for tuning in, God bless!
Thank u for this ❤
Thank you for watching ❤️
I needed this
Love bro, good luck with everything. You can do it
I had a very complicated situationship with an ex who I let go of (probably for good) at the end of October. I wish he could see this video… I struggled to articulate how well I could see these issues in him. But by him discarding me was probably the start to him recognising his issues. I didn’t do anything to him but to him I was a reminder of his lustful past which was rooted in some trauma he didn’t open up about
I think where I went wrong was gripping onto someone who needed to be let go. I’ve never had feelings for someone that intensely in my life so it was really a double edged sword probably for the both of us
I’ve been through this myself and I understand exactly what you mean. But take that as an experience and a win in the fact that you have an opportunity to learn what you value, don’t value and what you learn from this to apply into your next relationship. But first take the time to heal, work through whatever you have to work through, and let go.
Ur so cute ☺️ I just called my ex cuz I was lonely and got angry after talking to him because it just is the same circle again nd again. Thank you I need to heal❤
Don't forfeit the freedom in front of you for the sake of the familiar behind you. You got this 🤍
God Bless you Tommy 🙏🏽💓
God bless you too Oliver 🙏
i can relate to this
Relate. Thank you for address and validate my experience.
I'm grateful that it resonates with you. You're never alone, there is always someone in the world who has shared a similar experience with us.
im muslim but morals are morals. thank you for sharing this and being open about your own mistakes.
Thank you for taking the time to watch 🙏
Words of wisdom by Tommy *
Thank you! ❤
Thank you for the support, much love!
Thank you
Thanks for watching!
What if you enjoy your solitude too much, and never feel the need to seek out anyone. Isn't that unhealthy too.
Feel like that’s an anxiety response maybe? If you are truly happy in that though, then you might have less problems than many!
If it comes from a place of security within yourself as opposed to avoidance or a fear of something, then I think that's fine. You may be just in a season of solitude, and comfortable being by yourself, maybe the right person that you meet along the way will change that. As long as you feel true to yourself and are content. But if it’s the latter then it’s confronting those fears/avoidance.
I have decades of past trauma that is unresolved. After my last relationship that ended poorly like the two before it I got a new job and started making enough money to pay off debt and stop living paycheck to paycheck. I thought I was ready to get back out there to meet new potential partners but I was just lonely and the pressure from my new misogynistic boss to go out and get women made me feel like I was missing something. My attempt to feel better failed miserably and I spiraled into depression. I’m not okay with being alone or being genuine in front of people who I like and I know that if I really want to enjoy my life then I have to change. I just want to feel comfortable in my own skin and not have to seek validation from others
We just need to live in alignment and true to ourselves, your gut is the biggest indicator of who you are. Listen to it. And we’ve all gone through it, you’re aware that that isn’t what you wanna do. So it’s time to start making those changes, day by day and slowly. Be better than yesterday, you got this.
Cuz im poor.😂..
Hahaha that’s another good reason to be alone, go get your money up 😂