how to trick people into thinking you're cool

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  • Опубликовано: 8 апр 2023
  • hello you spicy bean! my name is harriet and this week and this week we're tricking people into thinking we're cooler than we actually are
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Комментарии • 123

  • @Hjg936
    @Hjg936 Год назад +101

    You’re the definition of cool girl energy

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад +7

      Thanks bestie 🥹💖

    • @MetjeB
      @MetjeB Год назад +1

      Facts

  • @leannerae
    @leannerae Год назад +55

    The editing was excellent! It really made the video even more fun to watch! Not that you have to do that all the time but just saying the effort was recognized and appreciated!
    Also, with Coachella coming up, I was thinking it'll be cool to see you style items you already own into Coachella looks!

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад

      Thank you so so much!!!

  • @Bubblebiba
    @Bubblebiba Год назад +26

    You are already cool just by being you! : ) (we all need to remind ourselves this). I think confidence is overrated sometimes in that it is essentially just a feeling, and nobody’s going to feel confident in every situation. It is okay to be scared, nervous and anxious, we’re just humans being humans💛. But also love what Ethan said, we shouldn’t let it hold us back from expressing our truest selves. Thanks for this great video! 🌈

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад

      Totally agree 💖 thanks for watching angel!

  • @elaynejuten9084
    @elaynejuten9084 Год назад +17

    Loved this video! I’m the exact opposite of cool girl when it comes to style but loved the tips.
    I’m like Ethan, I love chatting with new people (was a musician so tracks with his exposure therapy take). One tip that I’ve kept in the back of my head for walking into a room where I don’t know anyone is, people love to talk about themselves. Being curious (and kind of course) and asking about folks lives, careers, journey to where they are now rarely goes sour.

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад +6

      I totally agree!! Being interested is the best social tool you can use ❤️❤️❤️

    • @EthanConway
      @EthanConway Год назад +4

      such a good tip! especially for talking to people who are a bit shy. much easier and more comfortable to talk about yourself than to ask about others.

  • @autievhall
    @autievhall Год назад +25

    love seeing you find your style/vibe/aesthetics. you’re so inspiring!

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад

      This means so much, thank you 🥹💖

  • @charlimarieTV
    @charlimarieTV 11 месяцев назад

    The editing 👏🏻 the tips 👏🏻 the fits 👏🏻

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  11 месяцев назад

      Thank you angel 🥹❤️

  • @lulu272.
    @lulu272. Год назад +18

    you are yourself, authentic and seem like a really nice person! so i think you are super cool!!! you‘ve become my favorite youtuber❤❤ keep going, your hard work does not go unnoticed:) love from Germany

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад

      I’m HONOURED! Thank you for your support!!!

  • @courtneygzf
    @courtneygzf Год назад +4

    You and Ethan’s encouragements were so

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад +1

      aw love you!!! so happy you enjoyed

  • @mmasND98
    @mmasND98 Год назад +4

    SUPER COOL seamless transitions! absolutely loved the vibe !

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад

      Omg thanks bestie love u

  • @piratelilac4255
    @piratelilac4255 8 месяцев назад +1

    The advice at the end! Chefs kiss, thank you xxx

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  8 месяцев назад

      Yayyy so happy you enjoyed!! Thanks for watching!!

  • @rocha.nicole
    @rocha.nicole 9 месяцев назад

    This is officially one of my favorite fashion related videos. I allways wanted to be a cool girl and this video made me realize that being yourself is the coolest thing you can do. Also, the fashion advice was really good too. This entire video was great aaaaaa loved it!!

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  9 месяцев назад

      You are the COOLEST!! We just gotta own our own vibe, fashion is all about confidence. Love u xxx

  • @Hjg936
    @Hjg936 Год назад +9

    Would you do a “outfits for college when you don’t feel like wearing sweats again” video?

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад +3

      Omg YES what a fun idea

  • @briskellyy
    @briskellyy Год назад +5

    as soon as you said you've "never been a cool girl" i was like whaaaat? but we could be uncool girls together if need be ^u^ i love your authenticity and the vulnerability you showed in this video

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад +1

      thank you so much for the loveliest comment ever!! love u so much

  • @hamsaessam
    @hamsaessam Год назад +7

    although i am a hijabi, i get so inspired from your videos and put my own twist on them

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад +2

      This makes me so happy! ❤️❤️

  • @wwhat
    @wwhat 11 месяцев назад

    Gurl youre too good for this app istg u deserve more subs

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  11 месяцев назад

      Omg this made my day, thank you 😭❤️

  • @_LozFromOz
    @_LozFromOz Год назад

    Honestly confidence accounts for so much! Like u pulled off every look bc I could just feel ur confidence coming through. And I feel that way even in myself, when I feel confident, I feel so much cooler and that I’m serving a look!

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад

      Confidence is truly so important!!

  • @cezzekorv
    @cezzekorv Год назад +5

    I loved this video, especially yours and your boyfriend's insightful reflections ❤

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад +1

      I’m so happy you enjoyed!! Ethan and I love a deep chat hehe

  • @aroapascualguerrero9081
    @aroapascualguerrero9081 Год назад +4

    Loved all of the pieces of advice from you Ethan and Harriet!!🙌💕🌸

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад +1

      I’m so happy you enjoyed!!

  • @themaarjaeliisabet
    @themaarjaeliisabet Год назад

    the vibe of your vids is just soo wholesome 💗

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад

      This means so much to me, thank you!! ❤️❤️

  • @leylaypsilon6264
    @leylaypsilon6264 Год назад

    The Blow Out was like WHAT THE ...who is THAT GIRL! A total vibe - looove it!

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад

      hahaha omg it makes the biggest difference doesn't it!!

  • @mellin3368
    @mellin3368 Год назад +2

    😩😩babe wake up, new scrivspo post

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад +2

      My fave comment ever

  • @michelleweird
    @michelleweird Год назад +2

    You can't fool us, we all know you're super cool already 😍

  • @elleanne3410
    @elleanne3410 Год назад +1

    Coolest spiciest bean offering cool tips???? yes pls, also the pep talks at the end were so cute!!

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад

      Aw I’m so glad you enjoyed ❤️❤️❤️

  • @athenalysandrou
    @athenalysandrou Год назад

    I definitely think kind confidence is the epitome of cool, and I loved that last bit about caring less and doing more. Also, editing vibes = immaculate 🔥 I feel so happy when I watch your videos. It feels like I know you even though I don’t know you, you know? 😄 the power of the internet I guess. Cool sometimes not-so-cool girlies unite! ❤

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад

      i'm so so happy you enjoyed and also so happy you feel like you know me! that's the goal

  • @AnnaCav
    @AnnaCav Год назад

    I can really see the effort you put into this video! I really enjoyed watching it 💓

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад +1

      this means so much to me! thank you for watching!!

  • @roseivory1142
    @roseivory1142 Год назад

    i always look forward to your videos!! your vibes just feel so nice ^•^

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад

      This means so much, thank you 💖💖💖

  • @iske1702
    @iske1702 Год назад

    This video is actually so helpful and interesting, thank you for all the advice 💕

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад

      i'm so happy you enjoyed!! thank u for watching!

  • @ridafatima988
    @ridafatima988 Год назад

    I LOVED the video. ❤It was fantastic and really helpful. Especially the ted talk with Ethan was very encouraging. 😊

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад

      i'm so happy you enjoyed! thanks for watching xx

  • @SamanthaYonge
    @SamanthaYonge Год назад

    This video was so fun. Love the edits!
    You may have already tried putting product on your hair before slicking back - but if not I find that helps so much keeping it secure as you make your bun/pony!
    Just ordered some velcro rollers to hopefully make my blowouts look a bit nicer.

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад

      I will definitely try this!!! And let me know how your roller journey goes hehe

    • @SamanthaYonge
      @SamanthaYonge Год назад

      @@scrivspo I will!!!

  • @celestea4499
    @celestea4499 Год назад

    Hey Harriet, I love the editing in your videos!! Happy Easter :)

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад

      thank you so much!! happy easter xxx

  • @heyitsgabs21
    @heyitsgabs21 Год назад +1

    actually had a thrifted moment a couple summers back at highpoint, i was in that nerdy store next to lush and one of the workers there asked me where my shirt was from (its an embroidered simpsons crop top) i was like savers.

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад +1

      Love this for you!! It’s honestly such a good feeling

    • @heyitsgabs21
      @heyitsgabs21 Год назад

      @@scrivspo yeah i think were both cool girl confirmed

  • @magdalenafinke
    @magdalenafinke Год назад

    this whole video 🎉 just straight up cool girl

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад

      Thanks angel 💖💖💖

  • @taras6377
    @taras6377 Год назад +1

    take a shot every time harriet says cool 😆 love this vid !!!!

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад

      A great idea if you want to be ✨hospitalised✨

  • @kirstenglae
    @kirstenglae Год назад +3

    Confidence is literally the only accessory you need to have swag (which just means to be cool).

  • @livijoy3867
    @livijoy3867 Год назад

    Omg this editing style was. v cool!

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад

      thank u!! i really enjoyed making it!

  • @deanacincotta2236
    @deanacincotta2236 Год назад

    Goof job lovely. 🤘
    Big thumbs up to Ethan as well. For someone so young he's got a lot of wisdom to share 😊

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад

      he honestly gives the best advice!!

  • @franciscacava350
    @franciscacava350 Год назад

    this was so fun to watch.

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад

      So so happy you enjoyed!!

  • @blue.thegodseye
    @blue.thegodseye Год назад

    YES! hahaha I always say people will find you cool if you wear something that is weird enough to catch people's attention but normal enough for they think they could wear that one day in their life 😂😂

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад

      Hahaha I’m so glad that you agree

  • @mmasND98
    @mmasND98 Год назад +1

    those sunglasses really are the perfect amount of spunk

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад +1

      Aren’t they so cool!!!!

  • @sachi8745
    @sachi8745 Год назад

    Loved this video!! You're super cool hehe 😎

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад

      Omg thank u, right back at you!!! 💃🏼

  • @jasmineramsahai8223
    @jasmineramsahai8223 Год назад +2

    Someone should count how many times you say "cool" in this whole video😂

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад +2

      They rlly should. It would be a fun drinking game lol

  • @Miausan14
    @Miausan14 Год назад +1

    17:30 So with this photo, she could have taken a photo first.... and then taken a photo of the perfect angle, from her converse. I say this, simplly because the way she is turned in it, but it is possible she zoomed out to .5 zoom (the phone is naturally at 1.0 zoom) and got it that way! I just feel like the angle is difficult to get without a prop to see the whole body, which is the coolest part! Honestly I have a lot of people compliment me for my vibes, I have always had a unique style, and just find what is most flattering on me! Such as you finding your colors, it makes you feel put together, and therefore, you hold your head up higher! I know i wear ALOT of black, and when i go to my natural colors, i look sweet.

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад

      You’re totally right about the photo I think 😭 I was trying to do the most hahaha

  • @edwardleecaliforniausa
    @edwardleecaliforniausa Год назад +2

    Hi Harriet happy Easter to you and your loved ones and I hope you having amazing day today and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter and I'm proud of you

  • @getJENNArated
    @getJENNArated Год назад

    Harriet you are the coolest girl because you’re kind, relatable, and honest. True great friend worthy and I’d tune into your content even if you were dressed as a potato 🫶🏼

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад +1

      love you so so much!!!

    • @getJENNArated
      @getJENNArated Год назад

      @@scrivspo love you sweet human!!

  • @5am_nightmares
    @5am_nightmares Год назад

    Two tips i have for the slicked back hairstyle:
    - use a small comb after your hair is up to smooth out the small bumps on your hair
    - use a soft toothbrush to spread the product on your hair and tame the baby hairs

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад

      you're a genius. love this, thank you!

  • @juliat7475
    @juliat7475 Год назад

    A thing I do when doing a bun is that i tie my hair up in a regular firm ponytail and then wrap the hair into a bun with a new elastic. That way I don't get any kinks or weird pieces of hair moving around🙌😄

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад +1

      Yesss omg I’ve heard this I really need to try it!!!

  • @feliciabailey0411
    @feliciabailey0411 11 месяцев назад

    From the black girl community! I slick my hair down all the time with the got2be! I recc using something like a toothbrush (there’s edge brushes) that are made for this and it really helps get the detailed areas and it gives you more control. You can also wrap your hair with a silk scarf to allow the product and hairs to fry into place!

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  11 месяцев назад

      Okay I have the got2be and I just haven’t mastered it yet!! I massively appreciate your advice, I’m gunna try find a brush that works better cause I’m definitely doing it so wrong 😭 it never looks like everyone else’s hahaha

  • @Esther-32013
    @Esther-32013 11 месяцев назад

    Some of these outfits brings me back to 1998 --- early 2000s. I wonder if younger generations are going to think these trends are from 2023 or from 20 years ago...lol!

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  11 месяцев назад

      hahaha i know, i was born in 1996 and it's been weird to see so many 2000s trends that i wore when i was a kid coming back!

  • @duchessedeberne3909
    @duchessedeberne3909 10 месяцев назад

    Better hot than cool

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  10 месяцев назад +1

      I hope to be both 💅🏼

  • @harrietjoyce05
    @harrietjoyce05 Год назад

    Omg my name is Harriet too 🤩

  • @sarah.bea.
    @sarah.bea. Год назад

    As a greasy weasel myself I‘d like to suggest: shampoo your roots twice and use a root lift (e.g. from Redken) - products that promise volume will be your friend because they are less heavy :)

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад

      GREASY WEASEL lmao obsessed with that term. i shampoo twice but i've never used a root lift! thank you!!!

  • @Lolokoko22
    @Lolokoko22 Год назад

    🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @TheseNights984
    @TheseNights984 Год назад

    I feel like I’m becoming a fan of the “controversial” sunglasses after this video 😎 😅

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад

      They’re honestly so cool!!

  • @alangiles776
    @alangiles776 Год назад

    Hi 🙂
    🔥🫒 Only people who are cool 😎 say, "I am not cool." You live in one of the coolest cities in the world. Your channel is great. You are living your best life ✨️. I really like your purple top and skirt outfit.

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад

      you are so lovely!! thank you!

  • @t.t.9081
    @t.t.9081 Год назад

    Speed dealer?! Please say more…

  • @juliat7475
    @juliat7475 Год назад

    Also you always reminds me of a young Alicia Silverstone😄

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад +1

      HONOURED! she is the most beautiful human being

  • @TRUEDT
    @TRUEDT Год назад

    Uh first

  • @notyou5594
    @notyou5594 Год назад +1

    I really didn't know how much I needed this video, not only because I couldn't figure out how to do that sleek bun on my own 😂 It made me think and reflect on myself and where I am in life as a person right now. I recently felt soooo out of touch with myself, mostly everything about me feels so weird. My appearance, my style but also my social life and my family situation. In the last months so much changed, I finished my university degree, moved in with my boyfriend, my parents suddenly split after over 30 years together. Between that, allthough there was good stuff like finishing uni, I totally lost confidence in myself. I am 25 and on a regular basis people think I am 15 (by my apperance mostly, I look very young but to some extent the vibe I give off I guess). Your and Ethan's words kind of woke me up and made me realize that I have to and can do something about this very wonky stage that I am in. Thank you so much for this, you really touched my inner, not so sparkely right now, spark! 🫶🏼

    • @scrivspo
      @scrivspo  Год назад

      Omg I can’t thank you enough for sharing all of this and being so vulnerable. It sounds like a lot in your life has changed and it’s totally ok and normal to feel a little wonky and sad and confused. I’ve had such low confidence at so many points in my life and I lost my spark as well, so I truly relate to you so deeply. Please be kind to yourself and take it day by day!! One small win a day is still a win ❤️❤️ love you so much and please feel free to DM me on Instagram anytime you need a friend xxx

    • @notyou5594
      @notyou5594 Год назад

      @@scrivspo awww thank you so much, you are the sweetest and kindest person! ❤️ Your reply made me tear up a little 🥹