@@jurassicthunder. Well if the OP didn’t care about what women think, then why click and the video and then reply? It undos his point of not caring. That’s what I was pointing out.
Hi Erin! Based solely on my experience. I am divorced, I attempted three separate relationships after my divorce. As soon as a guy gets into a serious relationship with a woman it becomes her mission to change him. That is one reason why I have gone my own way.
True, and ironically she loses interest in him if he makes the changes she says she wants. Best to ignore her nagging and remain the guy she fell for in the first place
All of my serious relationships have ended because the woman wants emotional control of me and I can't give it (just not wired that way). They completely meltdown and sabotage the relationship.
Perfect marriages or relationships aren't real; they're all different. What works for one person might not work for someone else. But I've come to understand that there's always a solution to problems. Five years ago, my wife and I were close to divorcing because of issues in our marriage, but we found a way to fix them. It was tough, but we survived.
I really understand why what you're saying matters, and I truly want to find happiness as well. I have someone special in my life, and even though we're not together right now, I can't imagine living without her; my love for her is deep. I really hope she comes back, and I'm fully committed to making it happen. We've tried different ways, like therapy, to make things right.
Moving on from someone you hold dear is invariably challenging, but in my experience, I was guided by a spiritual counselor who prevented the breakdown of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I'm thankful for this guidance. I'll immediately start searching for her online. I appreciate it. I'm hopeful that adopting this strategy will also bring about positive changes for me; I miss her deeply.
I can vouche for the musician thing. I dated a girl who was a musician (pianist, Orchestra and choir). She was legit psycho. Not just saying that. She ended up in a mental hospital.
Your reactions to magazine articles and even the Grimm Brothers' tales are truly priceless. Chatting with you would be delicious delight. Guys like me tend to read such things and without overthinking things just react with "well, what did he expect?" Keep 'em coming, Erin. Please know that you are loved and appreciated.
On the 'parental alienation' part; My party girl mom left me unattended in the crib, my hyper religious grandmother caged me, my step-mom sent me away to camps and boarding schools starting at 6th grade never to return home ever again. Yay Feminism! I am not suitable for relationships (unless doing an episode of American Horror Story)
Feel your pain bro. My alcoholic mother sealed my fate at the age of 7 when she blamed me for my father leaving us. The only way people like us can win, is not to play. Be a good person, work on yourself and get right with God, 5 minutes sweaty fun in the sack is worth NOTHING compared to eternity with our loving creator!
The whole bit about the moms really hit home with me. Everything you said made sense and is something I've come to a realization too. My mom was not a single mom nor a bad mom...she just didn't heal from her childhood traumas. She has some of the feministy ways of thinking. I'm fortunate I found the red pill to unlearn some of that stuff. Not that my mom is a bad person...she is still married to my dad (they are happy)...she still believes in gender roles...she's not promiscuous. But her whole thing that she drilled into me was that "asian men are crap". Anytime I would point out that I am asian she would cut me off and say "no, you're American." I too was not really allowed to express my feelings because I am a man...etc. But she loves me. She's a tiger parent to the nth degree. She's been there for me when I needed it. She's been encouraging and proud about my accomplishments (and she lets me know it 😊). but a lot of things you said do resonate with me. of course...the whole low self esteem because I'm asian thing..nothing she ever did was as harmful as American society in general is towards asian men. look at how we are portrayed in the media. look at how we are rated on attractiveness by the opposite sex by the supposedly tolerant, enlightened and understanding "western woman". hey...it is what it is...
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
Dude, There are lessons that you would not learn without her leaving. Learn them. Be grateful for the lesson. Only then, think about getting her back. Or you may have learned that you never saw the real "her."
Suddenly it all makes sense! ... 😳 Being a music loving snowboard instructor (basically doing the things I loved) made me (NOW SO OBVIOUSLY) un-dateable! Thank you ladies, once I was blind...!
I play a few different instruments. If it is really that much of a red flag ill keep it up . Instrument practice every day keeps the feminist away lol . Before I became disabled I learned how to skateboard. If therapists didn't always choose sides I would say that's good advice . Maybe I should say they bias opinions . Same thing right .
Yes it`s a rewarding thing, when you can play ..... and have a group of friends who do as well, i often wonder how my life would be without being in bands ....all new mates ..
What does it say about a man's relationship with his mother if he becomes a blackpilled omega male, never has a girlfriend, never gets married, and is not gay?
@@cosmictreason2242 Yep, its really just label after label after label to cause more stereotyping and more problems. This is why I stay away from "flags" in general. All humans are flawed in someway. If a women ever mentions "insert colour" flag either to me directly or in passing, then I know she is the type that has no issues shamelessly discriminating against men in general, and thus I'll give her a wide berth. One of the reasons relationships no longer work in the modern era is because of too many labels that take on a significant meaning on their own, when they really shouldn't. According to all those "type of man" labels, I'm apparently a sigma male. This implies I don't care what anyone really thinks, be it the Alpha male, or the boss female bi-atch (Oops, I'm a Gen-Xer). I can tell you this is 95% true, I'm also a Libertarian politically and an INTJ personality type if that also adds anything to the mix. Ironically at the end of the day, I'm not really concerned about my own labels that much either. I live my life to my own (apparently very high) standards and I am neither compelled to force anyone to accept them, nor accept anyone or doesn't me. I simply walk on.
@@cosmictreason2242 Omega is lower than beta. Life long singleness. Closest I can find to any "clinical" address of it is some works by the late Dr. Brian Gilmartin but some questions are still unanswered.
@@cosmictreason2242 In many cases, ine parent or the other may have been overbearing. In one case I know of the parents were married 52 years until death of one spouse. No divorce.
Girls vetting... Here's one for you: I heard at the next table, a girl talking to her friend, saying: "Oh I won't be dating him again. He didn't use a spoon to drink his soup broth. He drank it out from the bowl". Wow.
The biggest red flag for me: a gal getting jealous of my dogs/horses and the time i invest in them. My critters are necessary for my job and caring for and training them is my number one soul feeding activity. I will choose them over a gal every time
Parent and child relationships: I agree that, if your parents were involved in your life growing up and helped you explore your interests while being examples of what a man and woman should be in a healthy household, it does affect your relationship with the opposite sex in a positive manner. I, however, seem to have a complex relationship with my parents. Though it was mostly healthy showing me each of the parents' roles, I was never cuddled or received hugs lasting longer than 1 second which has made me distance myself from them while still respecting them and being open to spending time together if they choose to do so at the same time. From that lack of attention, I have developed a strong Physical Touch and Quality Time Love Languages.
Women want a 6 figure earning man who is also available all the time that they want him to be, who does 50% chores, if not 100%. Basically. Mission impossible. And it's not our fault it's impossible for us. I'm sorry ladies. But we only have one body and 24 hours in a day. Just in case yall didn't know. I wouldn't be surprised if yall didn't. lol
A lot of sons are just like those little teacup pigs; people get them because they are cute; not realizing that it's going to grow into something a lot more dangerous and a lot less cute. Most mothers have us because they are selfish and wanted a living plaything when they should have just got a cat instead. There are like 10 available men per 1 available woman nowadays; why are you still having sons?
Good afternoon Erin. I feel the need to point out that my relationship with my mom was never good, and I went no contact in 2018. Those who know our history have agreed that this was best, as she is decidedly toxic on many levels.
So the cliff notes version of this woman’s story: she was burned by a man or men that checked these boxes. More to come if she continues dating! Maybe sky diving is next to be put on the list??
I gotta say the bit about you describing magazines was pretty hot. If you would have mentioned perfume samples or those index card-sized subscription forms, I would have lost my mind.
I was raised believing that dating was only done to vet a person for a potential long-term relationship. Then in my mid 20s, I discovered that dating was simp behavior and a fool's errand.
The classic dichotomy: Wealthy men have little time and options while less-wealthy men have more time and less options. Women want a man with lots of money and time for them.
Bravo. 👏 👏 👏. That is not only American materialism at play but academia vs common sense. It is highly of my opinion that in order to maintain a proper work life/family balance. Work must be treated as a means to an end. Hobbies characterize interests and common bonds and gives a teaser of ones character, but their actions over their words is what really deliniates their character. There could be so much to a person's character that we may never know or experience based off these superficial presuppositions. Is it any wonder why everyone is mismatched and miserable? Or alone?
These chicks chasing the bad boy Chadronious in their 40s and 50s divorce after divorce, situationships after situationship are so high school. 😂 THEY WANT ALL THE MEN TO BEAR ALL THE BURDEN FROM THEIR OWN POOR CHOICES AND LIVES. THEY NEVER LEARN OR MATURE OR CHANGE. JUST BLAME SHAME AND SHIFT TO MEN.
"Good morning hunny..i've never told you that i fall in love with you every morning the sun touches your face.. No man can be more lucky and happy as i am in the moment" ...reaction: "ugh..what did you do?" Thats the point you turn around and sleep another hour and ask yourself what you did wrong this time.
I recently seen a random youtube post of a young lady (27) that has kinda of realized she wasted away a lot of years being addicted to social media. She said she has been on since 12 years old. She started a RUclips channel thinking of the fame and fortune of being popular, yada, yada. She doesn't mention one time in a 25 min. video about starting a family. It's all about poor me I didn't make it as a RUclipsr, what am I going to do now. The comments didn't help either so I spoke up and said that she should start a family, that's what humans do. I have a feeling there is a lot of young ladies out there that just don't have a clue. I don't think they know what to do, seriously. There so caught up worrying about other people on the internet that they don't do anything, literally. My futrure son in law approves of me wanting to start a RUclips channel because he says that he has spent so much time on the internet that he never learned how to do anything. He said that there are a lot of young people just like him that need help learning basic things like changing a tire or a headlight. Or how to hang a picture on the wall or clean out a drain. I can't say that I'm suprised. Everyone is stuck to their phones. I went ahead and started the process. I got a name picked and some pictures. Made a new email address. I'm going to start filming this weekend. I'm sure it will be cringe to start with, but I'll get better. Wish me luck! Hello Erin and Lola, thank you for the video! See you soon.
This is why fathers chose their daughter's husbands, and before someone tries to reply with wives were being beat by their husbands everyday shut up and stop spreading false information. Husbands in the majority were not beating their wives.
@@HealthWyze Ok white knight, how about I’ll ask whatever questions I want, and if you want to be an e warrior, you hop on a video game instead? She can respond herself
I recently came across a woman, professor Fiamengo, who has a channel called studio b. You might be interested in her. She is against the feminist movement and has some interesting talks on the subject. It might be a good talking point for a future video. I hope your having a good day, take care.
I noticed that some of these women ( used in the clips ) are on a few other channels , make me wonder ? if they are excited that other people are talking about her , even if it`s to shame her ... we know how women love attention... and have no Shame !
First symptoms of regreting career appeared in Poland-Europe. But for now it's only change from hard career to lazy job but maybe someday being tradwife will come back. Unfortunately i cannot paste here a link cause algorithm still deletes my comment
I *know* there are godly women out there... but sadly they are exceptionally rare. Unless God chooses to send one into my life, I'll remain content (Phil 4:11) and enjoy my peaceful life.
@@cosmictreason2242 I live an active life. I just haven't run into any decent available women. I've had women express interest in me, but after I learn a bit about them... no.
@@tdrive398 know that feel. Most women i can "pre-ject" without the need for a relationship of any kind. Only 4 have gotten past my filters and been available and seemingly virtuous enough to make a time investment worth it, and one crossed my physical boundaries and had one sided expectations of compromise, three others declined my overtures, one was pining for another and still is, one recognized me as a good catch but i was not exciting, which she covered up by saying she was busy but please try again in 6 months, and another gave overt signals with flirtatious smiles but then evidently found me unattractive, and declined without any deeper indication. Granted the one that i actually briefly dated developed a crush at first sight because i was 40lbs lighter than with the other girls, but i have personally considered women with good character who are thicker than i want them to be, because I'm willing to give them a chance. They might lose it before i speak to them. I have not presumptively rejected anyone on that basis. Obesity sure but not 10-20 lbs overweight. So i think I'm less shallow than the girls I've met. I think there's too many negative adjectives and yt might nuke this
I recently got to spend an hour or so with my sister’s bestie who has a daughter who was the well paid income earner and the husband stayed home and raised their daughters. Fast forward and hubby is cheating on the wife and disrespecting her in front of the still young daughters and they end up divorced. Well, guess who got custody and a substantial alimony and child support payday in divorce court? Yes, the cheater dad is making out like a bandit and the major money earner ex-wife is getting the shaft.
Honestly, why not celebrate? The vast majority of them genuinely celebrate on the other side. I say life is too short to spend it commiserating with every honest victim
Rock musicians are musicians. That was a bad one sweetie. Women can't show their man's character in a way that would impress their friends. Isn't that the priority
I know a male DJ who is now father of three children and married. And I don't believe he would ever cheat. He is many other things too "a criminal" that never got caught. Not that he did anything evil, he just broke the law, which is not the same as being immoral. He will protect his family whatever it takes. He is his own man.
I'm 70 yrs old. I never got Married or Had Children !!! Women like Me !!! Most Men Hate Me, unless they are Gay. But I'm not interested in that !!! People say I am Aloof and Very Lucky !!! But the Truth is, I'm Just Not Daft !!! I have 2 Lovely Dogs who are So Happy, that Women Fall in Love with them !!! I tell Women Something like :- "I've just been to the Gym, and I used the Machine. I bought a Couple of Kit Kats and a Mars Bar !!!". They usually think I'm Mad !!!
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I'm so beyond caring what any woman says or thinks.
But you clicked on the video and made a comment.
I think up to 50% of men are now days .
Yes but the host of this channel is so magnetic one cant help to wish there was one of her on every man’s arm.
@@tsalazar1981yeah? your point?
@@jurassicthunder. Well if the OP didn’t care about what women think, then why click and the video and then reply? It undos his point of not caring. That’s what I was pointing out.
Hi Erin!
Based solely on my experience. I am divorced, I attempted three separate relationships after my divorce.
As soon as a guy gets into a serious relationship with a woman it becomes her mission to change him.
That is one reason why I have gone my own way.
True, and ironically she loses interest in him if he makes the changes she says she wants. Best to ignore her nagging and remain the guy she fell for in the first place
Awesome life choice
All of my serious relationships have ended because the woman wants emotional control of me and I can't give it (just not wired that way). They completely meltdown and sabotage the relationship.
Perfect marriages or relationships aren't real; they're all different. What works for one person might not work for someone else. But I've come to understand that there's always a solution to problems. Five years ago, my wife and I were close to divorcing because of issues in our marriage, but we found a way to fix them. It was tough, but we survived.
I really understand why what you're saying matters, and I truly want to find happiness as well. I have someone special in my life, and even though we're not together right now, I can't imagine living without her; my love for her is deep. I really hope she comes back, and I'm fully committed to making it happen. We've tried different ways, like therapy, to make things right.
Moving on from someone you hold dear is invariably challenging, but in my experience, I was guided by a spiritual counselor who prevented the breakdown of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I'm thankful for this guidance. I'll immediately start searching for her online. I appreciate it. I'm hopeful that adopting this strategy will also bring about positive changes for me; I miss her deeply.
You should.
I can vouche for the musician thing. I dated a girl who was a musician (pianist, Orchestra and choir). She was legit psycho. Not just saying that. She ended up in a mental hospital.
The hottest things a Man can say:
#1 "I'm not really this tall...I'm standing on my wallet."
Your reactions to magazine articles and even the Grimm Brothers' tales are truly priceless. Chatting with you would be delicious delight. Guys like me tend to read such things and without overthinking things just react with "well, what did he expect?" Keep 'em coming, Erin. Please know that you are loved and appreciated.
On the 'parental alienation' part; My party girl mom left me unattended in the crib, my hyper religious grandmother caged me, my step-mom sent me away to camps and boarding schools starting at 6th grade never to return home ever again. Yay Feminism! I am not suitable for relationships (unless doing an episode of American Horror Story)
Mate. The destruction ends with me.
Feel your pain bro. My alcoholic mother sealed my fate at the age of 7 when she blamed me for my father leaving us.
The only way people like us can win, is not to play.
Be a good person, work on yourself and get right with God, 5 minutes sweaty fun in the sack is worth NOTHING compared to eternity with our loving creator!
The whole bit about the moms really hit home with me. Everything you said made sense and is something I've come to a realization too.
My mom was not a single mom nor a bad mom...she just didn't heal from her childhood traumas. She has some of the feministy ways of thinking. I'm fortunate I found the red pill to unlearn some of that stuff. Not that my mom is a bad person...she is still married to my dad (they are happy)...she still believes in gender roles...she's not promiscuous.
But her whole thing that she drilled into me was that "asian men are crap". Anytime I would point out that I am asian she would cut me off and say "no, you're American." I too was not really allowed to express my feelings because I am a man...etc. But she loves me. She's a tiger parent to the nth degree. She's been there for me when I needed it. She's been encouraging and proud about my accomplishments (and she lets me know it 😊).
but a lot of things you said do resonate with me.
of course...the whole low self esteem because I'm asian thing..nothing she ever did was as harmful as American society in general is towards asian men. look at how we are portrayed in the media. look at how we are rated on attractiveness by the opposite sex by the supposedly tolerant, enlightened and understanding "western woman".
hey...it is what it is...
Gosh I love this woman. She is so insightful. If she’s not a unicorn I don’t know who is.
Coincidentally she’s a horse expert 😊
If Erin is a horny horse expert, sounds like a winner!
She's just listing her exes.
One good counter would be Emily King's "10 things women say they want in a man but can't handle".
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
You have an emotional bondage to the idea of her.
Dude, There are lessons that you would not learn without her leaving. Learn them. Be grateful for the lesson. Only then, think about getting her back. Or you may have learned that you never saw the real "her."
A little too late for your scam. lol
This chick you are talking about will not die alone, she will ǵet pregnant,and pass the evil on to the controlled child.
Suddenly it all makes sense! ... 😳
Being a music loving snowboard instructor (basically doing the things I loved) made me (NOW SO OBVIOUSLY) un-dateable!
Thank you ladies, once I was blind...!
"Never sign a contract where the other part wins taking everything when they break it " - Marriage is like playing russian roulette for men
Hello Erin!
You are very well spoken and seem to have Great Critical thinking skills.
I Liked Lola.
Best Wishes from Montana! M.H.
LET'S keep it simple, Susie. Im a liberated man. I can be bought. Bring your financials on the first coffee date.
I play a few different instruments. If it is really that much of a red flag ill keep it up . Instrument practice every day keeps the feminist away lol . Before I became disabled I learned how to skateboard. If therapists didn't always choose sides I would say that's good advice . Maybe I should say they bias opinions . Same thing right .
Yes it`s a rewarding thing, when you can play ..... and have a group of friends who do as well, i often wonder how my life would be without being in bands ....all new mates ..
What does it say about a man's relationship with his mother if he becomes a blackpilled omega male, never has a girlfriend, never gets married, and is not gay?
You'll have to explain Omega since all those labels are based on a faulty premise, alpha and beta were daddy and mommy wolf
Now that i got to that point: it might imply she was overbearing and his dad wasn't present often, and they divorced after middle school
@@cosmictreason2242 Yep, its really just label after label after label to cause more stereotyping and more problems. This is why I stay away from "flags" in general. All humans are flawed in someway. If a women ever mentions "insert colour" flag either to me directly or in passing, then I know she is the type that has no issues shamelessly discriminating against men in general, and thus I'll give her a wide berth. One of the reasons relationships no longer work in the modern era is because of too many labels that take on a significant meaning on their own, when they really shouldn't.
According to all those "type of man" labels, I'm apparently a sigma male. This implies I don't care what anyone really thinks, be it the Alpha male, or the boss female bi-atch (Oops, I'm a Gen-Xer). I can tell you this is 95% true, I'm also a Libertarian politically and an INTJ personality type if that also adds anything to the mix. Ironically at the end of the day, I'm not really concerned about my own labels that much either. I live my life to my own (apparently very high) standards and I am neither compelled to force anyone to accept them, nor accept anyone or doesn't me. I simply walk on.
@@cosmictreason2242 Omega is lower than beta. Life long singleness. Closest I can find to any "clinical" address of it is some works by the late Dr. Brian Gilmartin but some questions are still unanswered.
@@cosmictreason2242 In many cases, ine parent or the other may have been overbearing. In one case I know of the parents were married 52 years until death of one spouse. No divorce.
Girls vetting... Here's one for you: I heard at the next table, a girl talking to her friend, saying: "Oh I won't be dating him again. He didn't use a spoon to drink his soup broth. He drank it out from the bowl". Wow.
The biggest red flag for me: a gal getting jealous of my dogs/horses and the time i invest in them. My critters are necessary for my job and caring for and training them is my number one soul feeding activity. I will choose them over a gal every time
US News and World Report ! I had to read these magazines for high school classes.
Yes!! That one too!
Parent and child relationships: I agree that, if your parents were involved in your life growing up and helped you explore your interests while being examples of what a man and woman should be in a healthy household, it does affect your relationship with the opposite sex in a positive manner. I, however, seem to have a complex relationship with my parents. Though it was mostly healthy showing me each of the parents' roles, I was never cuddled or received hugs lasting longer than 1 second which has made me distance myself from them while still respecting them and being open to spending time together if they choose to do so at the same time. From that lack of attention, I have developed a strong Physical Touch and Quality Time Love Languages.
Egotistical ways = Is VERY good at something!!
Women want a 6 figure earning man who is also available all the time that they want him to be, who does 50% chores, if not 100%.
Basically.
Mission impossible.
And it's not our fault it's impossible for us. I'm sorry ladies. But we only have one body and 24 hours in a day. Just in case yall didn't know. I wouldn't be surprised if yall didn't. lol
6 figures isn’t what it use to be
@@tomyoung8563
Not the focus of my comment but yes.
High income in general isnt' what women think it is.
@Eric-dd8bk hell, they are just insane
A lot of sons are just like those little teacup pigs; people get them because they are cute; not realizing that it's going to grow into something a lot more dangerous and a lot less cute.
Most mothers have us because they are selfish and wanted a living plaything when they should have just got a cat instead. There are like 10 available men per 1 available woman nowadays; why are you still having sons?
No fault divorce! You can thank Ronald Regan for that one!!!
1969 as governer of commiefornia Reagan.
@@psychoholicslag4801it wasn't blue then, but that didnt help
@@cosmictreason2242 I don't want the younger people to think it was in the 80's.
@@psychoholicslag4801 That 1969 tumor became cancer in the eighties!
@@kylehorner8782 all the other states passed no fault by 1980.
Good afternoon Erin.
I feel the need to point out that my relationship with my mom was never good, and I went no contact in 2018. Those who know our history have agreed that this was best, as she is decidedly toxic on many levels.
Norman Bates is now the patron saint of Mother/Son relationships - he did a helluva lot of damage 😆😆
So the cliff notes version of this woman’s story: she was burned by a man or men that checked these boxes. More to come if she continues dating! Maybe sky diving is next to be put on the list??
I gotta say the bit about you describing magazines was pretty hot. If you would have mentioned perfume samples or those index card-sized subscription forms, I would have lost my mind.
She doesn't want a man with hobbies, she wants all the attention.
I can point out 10 things Erin posses that men find irresistibly attractive
I was raised believing that dating was only done to vet a person for a potential long-term relationship. Then in my mid 20s, I discovered that dating was simp behavior and a fool's errand.
Funny how nobody likes to think they are brainwashed. We've all been brainwashed quite a bit actually. This is the ole Disney curse.
I've dated a karaoke dj and met several other women DJs but they were all very nice
The classic dichotomy:
Wealthy men have little time and options while less-wealthy men have more time and less options.
Women want a man with lots of money and time for them.
Women says don’t date a guy who (fill in the blank) and then is attracted to men who do that.
Interesting point about how women conflate character with occupation; kind of like conflating education with intelligence.
Bravo. 👏 👏 👏. That is not only American materialism at play but academia vs common sense. It is highly of my opinion that in order to maintain a proper work life/family balance. Work must be treated as a means to an end. Hobbies characterize interests and common bonds and gives a teaser of ones character, but their actions over their words is what really deliniates their character. There could be so much to a person's character that we may never know or experience based off these superficial presuppositions. Is it any wonder why everyone is mismatched and miserable? Or alone?
These chicks with lists are so high school.
These chicks chasing the bad boy Chadronious in their 40s and 50s divorce after divorce, situationships after situationship are so high school. 😂 THEY WANT ALL THE MEN TO BEAR ALL THE BURDEN FROM THEIR OWN POOR CHOICES AND LIVES. THEY NEVER LEARN OR MATURE OR CHANGE. JUST BLAME SHAME AND SHIFT TO MEN.
"Good morning hunny..i've never told you that i fall in love with you every morning the sun touches your face.. No man can be more lucky and happy as i am in the moment" ...reaction: "ugh..what did you do?" Thats the point you turn around and sleep another hour and ask yourself what you did wrong this time.
I recently seen a random youtube post of a young lady (27) that has kinda of realized she wasted away a lot of years being addicted to social media. She said she has been on since 12 years old. She started a RUclips channel thinking of the fame and fortune of being popular, yada, yada. She doesn't mention one time in a 25 min. video about starting a family. It's all about poor me I didn't make it as a RUclipsr, what am I going to do now. The comments didn't help either so I spoke up and said that she should start a family, that's what humans do. I have a feeling there is a lot of young ladies out there that just don't have a clue. I don't think they know what to do, seriously. There so caught up worrying about other people on the internet that they don't do anything, literally. My futrure son in law approves of me wanting to start a RUclips channel because he says that he has spent so much time on the internet that he never learned how to do anything. He said that there are a lot of young people just like him that need help learning basic things like changing a tire or a headlight. Or how to hang a picture on the wall or clean out a drain. I can't say that I'm suprised. Everyone is stuck to their phones. I went ahead and started the process. I got a name picked and some pictures. Made a new email address. I'm going to start filming this weekend. I'm sure it will be cringe to start with, but I'll get better. Wish me luck! Hello Erin and Lola, thank you for the video! See you soon.
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This is why fathers chose their daughter's husbands, and before someone tries to reply with wives were being beat by their husbands everyday shut up and stop spreading false information. Husbands in the majority were not beating their wives.
That counts out most of the male population thankfully. :D
Be it skate boards or horses, motorcycle, just be sure you always have goood health insurance
"Infinite degrees" is the hottest thing ever said.
As a man ive always knosn its raken as a red flag by most people if im breathings
Some Dj rejected her “surprise”…
Erin I was watching the first video you made a few years ago: are you still engaged or did you guys get married?
Pretty obvious she's unmarried
Not that it is anyone's business. It is not appropriate to ask, and it could be very uncomfortable for her if things ended badly.
@@HealthWyze Ok white knight, how about I’ll ask whatever questions I want, and if you want to be an e warrior, you hop on a video game instead?
She can respond herself
Is this article the confession of a petty tyrant?
It’s about a TikTok that went viral
That's the party life the dj
I recently came across a woman, professor Fiamengo, who has a channel called studio b. You might be interested in her. She is against the feminist movement and has some interesting talks on the subject. It might be a good talking point for a future video. I hope your having a good day, take care.
I noticed that some of these women ( used in the clips ) are on a few other channels , make me wonder ? if they are excited that other people are talking about her , even if it`s to shame her ... we know how women love attention... and have no Shame !
H.M.S. Pinafore of RED flags!!!
I am a classically trained pianist, I can confirm that we are the bottom of the barrel.
First symptoms of regreting career appeared in Poland-Europe. But for now it's only change from hard career to lazy job but maybe someday being tradwife will come back. Unfortunately i cannot paste here a link cause algorithm still deletes my comment
I *know* there are godly women out there... but sadly they are exceptionally rare. Unless God chooses to send one into my life, I'll remain content (Phil 4:11) and enjoy my peaceful life.
Agree but with the proviso that i/you must also be excellent and also put in a reasonable effort to search. Being shut-in isn't valid.
@@cosmictreason2242 I live an active life. I just haven't run into any decent available women. I've had women express interest in me, but after I learn a bit about them... no.
@@tdrive398 know that feel. Most women i can "pre-ject" without the need for a relationship of any kind. Only 4 have gotten past my filters and been available and seemingly virtuous enough to make a time investment worth it, and one crossed my physical boundaries and had one sided expectations of compromise, three others declined my overtures, one was pining for another and still is, one recognized me as a good catch but i was not exciting, which she covered up by saying she was busy but please try again in 6 months, and another gave overt signals with flirtatious smiles but then evidently found me unattractive, and declined without any deeper indication. Granted the one that i actually briefly dated developed a crush at first sight because i was 40lbs lighter than with the other girls, but i have personally considered women with good character who are thicker than i want them to be, because I'm willing to give them a chance. They might lose it before i speak to them. I have not presumptively rejected anyone on that basis. Obesity sure but not 10-20 lbs overweight. So i think I'm less shallow than the girls I've met. I think there's too many negative adjectives and yt might nuke this
Wow my reply got hidden
@@cosmictreason2242 YT cens0rship is real, which is why some of my responses look as they do.
I recently got to spend an hour or so with my sister’s bestie who has a daughter who was the well paid income earner and the husband stayed home and raised their daughters. Fast forward and hubby is cheating on the wife and disrespecting her in front of the still young daughters and they end up divorced. Well, guess who got custody and a substantial alimony and child support payday in divorce court? Yes, the cheater dad is making out like a bandit and the major money earner ex-wife is getting the shaft.
Honestly, why not celebrate? The vast majority of them genuinely celebrate on the other side.
I say life is too short to spend it commiserating with every honest victim
Wow what a win. lol
That's how 90% of divorces end up going but genders reversed. lol
Yet another woman making a list of her own past trauma/mistakes.
We know who she's chasing.
I go the exact opposite direction of what nearly all women say and do. Listen, why put your life on a bad prospect. Stay single and travel, have fun.
Norman Bates thought he has a good relationship with his mom but alas NOT!!!
At least he took care of her. 🙄
@@theoriginalDAL357 Rookie mistake!
Rock musicians are musicians. That was a bad one sweetie. Women can't show their man's character in a way that would impress their friends. Isn't that the priority
parents. you hate them and you love them lol
Hawk tuah.
What if you make flags for a living?
Man may not have any relationship with his mother, he may not love his mother - he may only love his girlfriend - it's egoism
Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me." -John 14:6
I know a male DJ who is now father of three children and married. And I don't believe he would ever cheat. He is many other things too "a criminal" that never got caught. Not that he did anything evil, he just broke the law, which is not the same as being immoral. He will protect his family whatever it takes. He is his own man.
Too many sand traps and water hazards on the dating course.
I'm 70 yrs old. I never got Married or Had Children !!! Women like Me !!! Most Men Hate Me, unless they are Gay. But I'm not interested in that !!! People say I am Aloof and Very Lucky !!! But the Truth is, I'm Just Not Daft !!! I have 2 Lovely Dogs who are So Happy, that Women Fall in Love with them !!! I tell Women Something like :- "I've just been to the Gym, and I used the Machine. I bought a Couple of Kit Kats and a Mars Bar !!!". They usually think I'm Mad !!!
Yes. The disjointedness of this comment does indicate something mental
@@cosmictreason2242 You seem to have no idea about Mental Illness. Are you a Social Worker or Something ???
@@cosmictreason2242I was about to say something similar lol
beyond stereotype
This is pandering on a new level. You seem so disingenuous. Like it’s scripted off google search answers. Very fake.