This made me soooo emotional. My two year old was recently diagnosed with level 3 asd. He was playing with his cars today and I was on the floor with him and he came up and kissed me twice 😭🥰 seriously the best feeling in the world
Lots of similarities to my story and my son. He's almost 23, did 2 years in college, has worked jobs, traveled, has hobbies and groups of friends and lives a great life.
Praise God for him any advice my granddaughter is 3 give my son such a hard time dont sleep right now im awake watching her she up at 5 this morning and it was good friday we were awake she slept and we got to bed we never had a sleep but now when we want to sleep she up pkease give us what we should do thank you God bless
I don’t have a child with autism but somehow I stumbled I across of this video. I just want to say that those videos of you and your son are one of the most precious things I have ever seen. You are an amazing mama, respect to you.
I see some signs in my great niece but I'm scared to say anything to my niece or my sister cause sometimes people take things the wrong way my great niece is 1 and I notice she ignores u she flaps her hands when she get excited watching cartoons she's not saying most words toddlers say could someone please give me advice on how do I bring it up to my niece or my sister who's the grandmother
@@ComingHometoAutism I had a classmate who had a brother with autism she was kind of his caregiver because parents had nothing to do with him yeah she was kind of mean to him at times and yeah she could be kind of a b**** to him at times but she was also the same kind of woman that would bounce your head against one of the school tables have you even looked at her brother wrong I still the same kind of girl that would probably river dance On your body if you made him cry and also the same kind of girl they told a 6 foot football player if he made Fun of her brother again he'd be a 4 foot football player and she was 4 feet herself
I am an expecting mom. I am so glad I stumbled on this video! I am a special needs teacher for level 3 asd. You did amazing in intervening with your son. I am always very amazed when parents educated themselves and whole heartedly do the best they can for their child! Thank you!
I am on the spectrum. I stim, there are lots of foods I can’t eat as well as fabrics I can’t touch or wear . I’m a terrible sleeper in facts it’s the hardest part of having autism for me( because when I’m tired my symptoms worsen). I get overwhelmed in stores and large crowds. With that being said there is hope . I am a productive member of society. I have a full time job , a house a car . And I have raised two amazing daughters. Diet for me is huge I’m a vegan and try to eat Whole Foods . My symptoms are lessened when I eat well and when I have a strict routine.
Kym Robinson hey there! Wow thank you so much for reaching out and commenting. Your an inspiration! Your right diet can make a huge difference as I have noticed with my son. ❤️
Thank you so much for sharing all of these detail. We are not quite sure where my son fits his symptoms are so mild and compounded by other medical problems.... and he is constantly changing. But i am his mom, i know who he is and will never stop fighting for the best for him.
Shara cy I’m sure with you by his side he will flourish 🥰. The hardest thing about having mild “ symptoms “. Is that people don’t know how hard the person is working on the inside . So that way the world can perceive them as mild . I just want to show the world as well as new parents that hearing their child has autism isn’t the end of the world . I’m sure your son is amazing 😊 and having a label doesn’t change that .
@@kymrobinson9589 I cannot thank you enough. All medical professionals have told me no or he is in the mild to no signs group or his famous diagnosis of Devolpmental Delay (he has mild hearing loss as well). Though a part of me was always afraid of him having any disability, through people like you I know we are going to be ok. I always thought i dont want anything to be "wrong" but the truth is I dont want him to live his life pretending to be something he is not... so I embrace his quirks when possible, follow up with ALL appointments, check ups, reviews but most importantly we embrace a new way of life that fosters his learning pattern and ensure he is confident, independent and happy.
You're right families with the "typical" child do not understand. It took me having my second child and watching her developing faster than her big brother was the awakening for me. You're a beautiful family, thank you for your openness.
I loved this video, my son is 7 with Autism. He was almost all non verbal until he was 5! Now he is making complete sentences and can have a conversation! He is half autism program and half gen ed. We never know how our kids will grow but we can never give up on them. Forget the doctors who say there's nothing we can do. We as parents have to work hard for our kids. Bless you and your beautiful family. ❤
I just found out last week my 4 year old first born child is autistic & it's hard because he doesn't say any words I spent 2 nights crying just trying to figure out how can I help him, I just want to say God gives the biggest battles in life to the strongest soldiers, You are a strong person and an Amazing mum! X
Thank you for this video. We just got the diagnosis today. It has been overwhelming and I already have been feeling like others don’t want me to feel all the emotions I’m feeling about this. I love my son and know he can and will live a full life, but I still have fear and worry about how the world will treat him.
I was just told my son is possibly autistic. I’ve been noticing more signs now and I feel so overwhelmed. I am also 3 weeks postpartum so it has been a lot. I love my babies so much… I’m just so sad thinking about how others might treat him.
I'm literally in in tears because it's exactly how I fee.l my son was told that he might have it too and he's 3 years old and I told his father my boyfriend and he says that it's all my fault he doesn't want to be with me anymore and I'm just so sad for my son I just don't know what to do. I just feel very alone.
Thank you for this video! My daughter just got diagnosed with autism. She’s 2.5 years old. I cry, I cry a lot because I feel alone and I’m overwhelmed and I don’t know where to start. Your video made me feel that everything will be okay. Thank you very much
Khristine Ocampo thank you for your comment. It’s ok to cry it’s part of the process but I do promise you everything will work out and there are so many parents like us and we are all on a similar journey and together we are stronger xox
Be strong, you can do this. My son is now 23 and he was diagnosed at 3. It’s been a rocky road but honest there is light. Here if you need to talk or need support.
Please, do some research about vaccines second effects. No 100% of kids respond the same way. Good nutrición can clean the system. ( I am not an expert). Take care.
I don't have children, but I just wanted to say you are such a strong and engaged mum. I don't know what it is like have a child with ASD, but what I do know is that you being an advocate for your sons health and wellbeing is really empowering to watch. So happy to see that you shared your journey with the world.
Hi my name is Simon , and I was diagnosed with autism only seven years ago , and I'm 54 years old . At first it would be very worrying and upsetting , but your son will do the things that are a topical to Autism . Anyway you are doing a great job with him . All the best . Simon
This is a great channel. My almost 17 year old son has Autism. It is a journey. We all, (as parents) do the best we can. Please be good to yourselves so that you can support your child with Autism. I wouldn't want my son any other way. He is amazing. All of our children are amazing.
When i got my son diagnosed i cried a lot too. Even though Autism isnt bad, i felt like it was my fault. And i did feel alone as well. God doesn't give us things we can't handle.
I’m a single mom with a son on the Spectrum This video is so helpful thank you for your story makes me feel not so alone sometimes when you’re going through it you feel like no one has and it’s not true
My granddaughter has autism and she is attached to my daughter, she is now 13. My daughter removed her from school in the second grade and has homeschooled her and it’s made such a difference. They belong to a homeschooling group so she has plenty of social contact. May God Bless you both
My son's a Dylan also, diagnosed with autism at 3 years old, he had an injury from the Tdap, lost all his words, have done biomed healing, he's doing so good now, don't lose heart or hope!
Same here. Just got diagnosed for my 3 years old son with mild autism this year but I struggled alot with him. It was not easy to accept but when I accepted it and came into peace,he is improving day by day. I knew even b4 he was 2 but still sometimes I feel so anxious about his future yet trying to stay happy mostly.😑 He is 3 and 1/2 and yet not said a single word but communicate his emotions through hugging, crying, holding my hand, taking me to the place wherever he wants to go😊
@@esrshxhfs look into vaccines and how they cause Autism. Go to vaxxed tv on RUclips and watch the parents testimonies. My son is two and never been vaccinated and never will and he is just fine
London Girl what signs did you see? My son is getting evaluated next week. He’s 2.5 now but we knew something wasn’t right around 13 months. Did your son have words and regress?
@@MissDub16 Hun it could b but my son is youngest of 4 even his one sister is only 13 months older than him and she is bilingual,far more mature than her age so I don't know the reason? And to b honest now I m not even looking into it cos now I m trying to focus on what can make him better😊
It's a sad reality that many professionals just say, you can do nothing about your child's autism. You are helping a lot by sharing your experience ❤️❤️
I came from China and I heard many stories about kids diagnosed with autism recovered and they can go to normal school now. Play, play with the kid, and use a lot of interaction to stimulate him. There are many things that can be done.
You have a wonderful relationship with your son, well done. My daughter was diagnosed at 18 months, I have brought her up on my own along with her older brother. It has been hard work but when I see how she is now at 31 I am so proud how she has coped along the way. She has a job, drives, and has many wonderful friends all with some form of learning difficulty, she could not cope with mainstream friends, her brain doesn't function the same way. I wish you and your lovely family all the best, all the hard work and perseverance will pay off.
my nephew and godson is autistic. it all depends who raises them. most ( not all ) are not sure what to do, but some do and they go above and beyond to raise them like being normal and they will and can live a brilliant life. it also depends on the level of autism he or she has.
Im 22 and I was diagnosed with Autism when I was 16 and I did 4 years at college and now I'm in my 2nd year of university doing better than I ever thought I would
I have never left a comment but this video compelled me to share a bit. Thank you so much for making this video! My 3 year old son was diagnosed ASD recently and tho I knew very early on, I’m still coping with my feelings and anxiety. I don’t always feel connected to him but I am searching for information and guidance to learn more. Again thank you for sharing your personal experience. A day like today where we barley got sleep and our morning was rough, and I dropped him off at preschool so I could sleep and cry alone; I am so grateful for the hope your video gave me.
Sending you a big hug please watch my video how I deal with my anxieties. I hope this will help you as you need to be gentle on your self also. Sending you a big hug c
I'm also 25 years old and recently had my first son (3 months old and a half) and he was born with vocal chord paralysis almost,he was 1 month at a children's hospital in NICU and was very hard since he is my first child .Wished all babies would born healthy and strong . Hugs to all the strong babies and Moms 🙏🙏blessings to ALL
You are a gift. Truly a ray of sunshine and hope. How lucky is Dylan to have a mom like you!❤ You took your childs diagnosis and provided them with all the resources to thrive. I just saw the video of Dylan turning 13 and he is doing exactly that... thriving! So amazing to see. Thank you for sharing!
I don’t have children yet but I watched this entire video. I now have a better understanding of autism and what you can look out for so thank you for this. You are doing such a great job as a mom because from those clips Dylan looks so healthy, happy and smart. God gives the toughest battles to his toughest soldiers.
I just want to say thank you to you and other mothers of autistic children sharing on this platform. Your experience is so similar to what we've been going through with my 3 year old. Even had his hearing checked. He's slowly using more words, but the tantrums have been out of this world since he was 2. I understand the pain you feel, because I feel it too. Ir's not their fault, or our faults, and we try to not compare. I am a preschool teacher and my son was in my class prior to quarantine. It was so hard seeing him unable to interact with peers, or engage in things as a class. But this video is reminding my that I am not alone. And that I am not at fault, autism happens to anyone. The hardest is seeing him hurt himself out of frustration, even at 18 months old to see a baby trying to bash their head into the wall, it's heartbreaking as a mother. Luckily we've worked through those intense emotions.
I found your channel by chance or faith. I am in America and I am raising my 3 year old autism grandson. He is non verbal and attention deficit disorder . My daughter in law drink heavy during her pregnancy so they think that is what cause his disorder. My son is incarcerated due to drugs and my daughter in law left him with us. We have adopted Nickolas. He is my son!!!! I look under every rock for help. You are so much encouragement. Thank you 😊
I can feel your pain because i'm in the same situation with my 5 year old autistic son, i'm 23 year old and you inspire me so much thank you for sharing your story.
I'm a 45 year old man who was diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome which has now turned into Autism Spectrum Disorder. Life has been extremely difficult and lonely but I'm now on a voyage of self discovery. Things were very different in the 1970's...no one had really heard of autism or were talking about it. Things may have been different if there was some early intervention then. Great video though and you're obviously a great mother.
I pray that you can take advantage of the many support groups , websites and resources available now . Just wanted to say you are a blessing from God and He is always here for you !
You give me hope....and I wish for this everyday for my son to attend university and who is also on the spectrum and being bullied in school for being different. God Bless him.....
Eve Darth Hi there this makes me so sad to hear this have you spoken to the school about perhaps doing an autism awareness Day where they can try and teach the difference in different children. I would have the highest hopes for your son he is going to be a great man to please do not give up hope big love to you
I just want to let you know that you both parents are amasing in parenthood. Because most of us, as parents, don t think that our children have to have an especific education in order to develop their capacities. The autism as a condition, on the other hand, has demonstrated how important and helpful is the fact that parents get involved in their children s education. Beleive me, you may think that there is a lot to work getting to educate your boy, but your way is the right way to educate every children, despite any condition. You did and sure, you are still doing great.
"I cried because I didn't know what it meant." I love that. I love Autism. I've worked with autistic children as a behavioural interventionist. Being able to help them grow in motor function and speech and so much more was a blessing to me. I wish everyone knew how unique and wonderful people with autism are.
🙌 for your statement about early intervention! I am an early intervention provider in the U.S. and have found some really nice success with the Autism Navigator program for toddlers.
I’ve watched this video more times than I can count. I’m at the beginning of this journey. My son is 21 months old and just began showing signs of regression. I am still in the crying stage.. but I know he will be ok. Because I’ll move heaven and earth to see it through. Thank you for your candour 💜
My heart goes out to you and your family, Rayyan Mohamed. Do not vaccinate him anymore. Drinking camel milk daily can actually help your son to improve, as far as I have read previously. I would definitely try that. If you don't live in a country where you can buy it fresh, you can order Camel Milk Powder through Amazon. May Allah heal your son and bless and protect your whole family.
Our son is ten and yesterday he told us somebody called him a weirdo at school ;(, he doesn't understand why, just because he carries his stuffed animal and was wearing long sleeves in a hot day... he is the sweetest boy and can't understand how can people call you names without knowing you! It breaks our hearts because it is only the 3 of us, had been here for 8 years and have not friends or family, the loneliness is the worst ;(
The tzu P. I hate this , all children get bullied at one point in time but when it’s our children it hurts even more. There is a great on line safe gaming platform called autcraft its minecraft for children with asd. This has been a life saviour for Dylan. I also tell dylan about all the other people that have autism that are amazing. Such as Steven jobs and the guy who did Pokemon. I’m on Instagram if your want to add me we can connect our sons virtually so he doesn’t feel alone x
We’d be your friends . We get it . We friend people like us cause other people don’t understand us . Maybe join a group ? Even that doesn’t always work .
The tzu P. Loneliness causes autism... please find friends or move close to family... there’s nothing more important thang friends and/or family. Join a church or a community where he can engage with other people.
@@brothertn708 thank you for your comment. Loneliness does cause autism, but your so right to join a community and to get support for the family and for people to support your child. it can make all the difference x
Thank you everyone for the kind words, I'll try that minecraft game, thanks!!! Hopefully someday we can find even 1 friend, not having a religion is difficult because I don't know where else do you meat people... sorry for my english btw, not my 1st language.
I couldn't believe a pediatrician could not see the obvious signs in your son earlier. My children don't have autism, but my pediatrician checked for milestones at every visit since birth. Good luck and well wishes to you and your family. Dylan is lucky to have you.
Thank you for sharing this. As a speech-language pathologist, it is so moving and important to see autism from a parent’s perspective. I’m glad you had the wherewithal and people in your life to take the action you needed to brighten your son’s future, and I wish the same for all of the parents I work with on a daily basis who are in the same situation.
Melissa Arauz thank you for taking the time to comment . It was only myself that pushed me forward and this is why I started this channel to help others through what was a very lonely time for me x
My son was diagnosed 3 weeks ago and he is almost 3. I am feeling exactly what you were at first. He loves cars and airpalnes and dinosaurs and spiderman and hates loud noises. He is high functioning. It made me cry watching this because it was like you were describing my son to the t. I am just scared that I will fail him at acomendating to his needs Thank you for your videos.
My brother also has autism I’m so emotional watching your video that I couldn’t finish them but I feel you and as a sister to him I want to say that living with autism is special and not easy, it’s love that keep us all together. I’m proud being his little sister and now that I’m having my first child, I understand my parent more and more and I’m so proud of them raising both of us. Thank you for making this video and sharing your personal story. It meant a lot to all the autism family ❤️❤️
Sounds very much like what happened with my daughter. She started regressing at 11 months. She’s nearly 3 and still no words. I live in hope that one day she’ll talk. I understand about the meltdowns. Adeline is like someone possessed when she kicks off, I can’t restrain or help her as she’s so strong she makes crazy noises it’s really scary. I dread when she gets older. Thanks for sharing this video.
Thank you so much. I’ve been so overwhelmed lately cause doctors keep telling me everyone develops differently but there is a clear difference between a meltdown and a normal toddler tantrum and she turned two in July and still isn’t sleeping through the night. We struggle to go out to eat as a family and get so many looks when she gets over stimulated and we even try to go during the week when there aren’t many people there. This video has given me the strength to try again with her doctor cause they don’t see any of it. She has seen how frustrated people can get when she is overwhelmed and so in a new environment with different people around she doesn’t show her true self as much and then melts down when we get home she struggles with being in her car seat so we always have to keep toys and snacks in the car but we never know what is going to work on what day and don’t get me started on how hard the days are when our schedule is different. I have been trying to work with her and find what works for her but everyone around me keeps telling me to just discipline her and that I can “out last” her melt downs when I have to take what makes her comfortable like juice or milk at night without any guidance on how to replace that coping skill. Thank you so much for these videos they are really helping me to not feel like a failure as a mom so often ❤🙏🥹
I remember the day my son who is coming 4 received his diagnosis. I did not cry tears of sadness, I did not grieve for a child that I could've had because I already had the most uniquely perfect child who brought me so much joy and love every day. A love that doesn't need words, he reminds each and everyday how beautiful the small things in life are. I cried tears of joy and relief on the day of my son's diagnosis, it was a validation of identity for him and a celebration of better things to come. He inspires me on so many levels and has taught me more than I could ever teach him. 💖💖💖
Me too Angelina. I didn't cry as well. I have been tutoring since I was 8 years old with kids myself being gifted. They call him level 3 BUT he's extremely intelligent like a lot of autistic children. His is just he has problems socializing with other kids, paying attention at times and group activities. How does that qualify him as a 3?? He no longer has melts down nearly as bad 2 years ago. Either way, he was always a blessing😁
Thanks for posting this kind of content. I'm an adult with an autism spectrum disorder, and for all the parents of kids with autism, please know that you make our world one worth living in. With the right support, people who are on the spectrum can live wonderful lives, and--speaking for myself--I'm very grateful for all those who have been there for me.
This made me cry, I felt like it was me speaking through that video, thank you for posting, my son is 2.5 years and has his ASD assessment coming up, in my heart I know but just want the resources to help my son have the most happy life he can have. You are an amazing mom❤ Lots of love from🇨🇦
My son is 3. We are just now in the testing phase. He may be on the spectrum... He may not. This is a really hard time. Bless your heart and thanks for this encouraging video.
I am so impressed by the love you have for your child, a love which led you to leave no stone unturned in your efforts to help him. I know that's what Mother Love is all about, but to see Love in action really touches me... ❤️
Thank you. I cried the whole time watching you. Almost the same thing happened with my sweet Anna. She had eye contact and I felt like she was growing just as beautifully as her big Sister. Approaching age 3 I started noticing the same thing, less eye contact, toe walking, wanting to be by herself. I expressed my concerns to almost everyone in my family who tried to reassure me everything was fine. (I’m sure because they didn’t want me to worry) finally she was diagnosed properly like you I cried from both pain knowing and not knowing. Anna is 7. We are still learning everyday. Seeing your video helped me so much to that much stronger and seek new avenues of helping Anna. Thank you for sharing. God Bless you and your beautiful family as you journey on. Best Fue
Hi, another fellow parent with very similar story. Thank you for sharing your experience, these types of videos are so helpful to new Autism parents, including myself 10 years ago! I too was determined to build a connection that was not coming typically with my son as well. Building a bond through play is about the best way to break into their world. For me, I just did what he liked with him, even if I thought it was silly. His stems, like running in circles, stacking items, and lining things up were the first ways, and it worked! Also, when be started speech therapy, I was always right there involved and continued it when the therapist wasn't there! God bless you and your family!
I cried too when my son was diagnosed. I cried because I had no idea all these years. I knew my son was different but I just thought kids go through different phases. My son is 7 and he was diagnosed when we was 5 years old. He is high functioning and he is the sweetest boy! When we join their world it makes it so much better for them! Your a great mom! I am worried when I ask him at school who we played with and he tells me he doesn’t know who to play with. He still plays alone :(
i know its hard when all you want is your child to have friends. can you ask his teacher who has similar interests to him and get them over for a play date. for example we do lots of playdates with friends who also like mine craft and they just sit along side each other and play that. then at school it gives dylan something to talk about with them. but sometimes he does just want to be on his own as well x
Thank you for this! I feel as though everywhere must give newly diagnosed kids parents more info on what to do next or options. A pamphlet is not enough!
They do its crazy! let me tell you something that will change your world and here is a pamphlet so good luck! I just felt so alone in the whole process and I want to make sure that no one else has to feel the way I did . xox
Oh my your story is similar to my son. All those emotions I felt after hearing the doctor tell me he has ASD, SPD was harder than the ADHD diagnosis. We has improved so much through diet, removing toxins from the home and through brain balance. I am truly grateful to see him no longer struggle with things he used. Before he stuttered and wouldn’t be able to finish a sentence, he would scream when things upset him or scared. He know longer does that and he will give me details about things and talk to family members! Good for you for giving him tools for a better life! My son screamed when he was 2 days old when I put him in the baby swing and after 3 days of trying it I gave up because he screamed when I would turn it on.
Thank you so much for your video's. My son was diagnosed with autism when he was 2, he is now 4 and we're still waiting for 'help' from specialists. Everyone treats him like it's some sort of disability and I just can't see it that way because he is so smart with some things that I don't care that he's not potty trained or doesn't talk yet. I see him doing other things way beyond his years and we have an amazing bond as well like you do with your children. After reading so many specialist books, none of it seemed to help but when I stumbled on your video's and tried some of the little tricks you've tried with your children I saw improvements almost instantly. Please keep it going, every child is different and it might not help everyone but you are definitely helping some.
Hi there thank you so much for your message. Don’t ever listen to anyone who says that your son can’t do things he might be a little bit slower than others but it’s a surprise smarter than them also. If you manage to get hold of my book I talk about everything you can do at home so you don’t need help from specialist because to be honest they don’t help much anyway you and your Child’s best teacher. From one Mama to another I’m sending you a huge hug and keep on going you’re doing amazing. X
I’m expecting and I think this is every parents worse nightmare. As parents we want the best for our children and we make every sacrifice we can for them. My prayers are with You and every parent 🙌🏾
@@mscharita my son is autistic and I would NEVER in a thousand years compare it to something like heart problems. They are not anywhere close to the same field and to be perfectly honest comparing it in that way is not only infuriating because of the message it sends to others but terribly sad and shows how much most need to learn about autism. If a parent's worst nightmare is that their child is neurodivergent, they don't need to have children. Someone's brain working differently is ALOT different than a heart that doesn't work properly.
@@morganpoff4237 Maam no one is saying your child is less than average or not beautiful or there is something wrong because of autism. The problem with ppl is that everyone is taking words so sensitively and twisting them into their OWN NARRATIVE. instead of comprehending what is being said. I am not saying there is a problem with your child or any child being autistic and they should be loved or treated any different. What i CLEARLY - said was any disorder of any sort is a parents worse nightmare. There are mothers on here that commented that when they found out how badly they cried and were emotional and how it tore them apart, which I fully understand and have compassion for them and all mothers. It appears that your misinterpreting my words. I am not sending any message ... which your going way off the board. Those other issues were EXAMPLES.. we learn about examples in 5th grade at least. Instead of assuming how about you either ask me to specify so that you clearly understand what I'm saying before making a comment so that we can have an intelligent conversation instead of twisting my words. Hope this helps :)
@@mscharita oh I understood what you said and need no help understanding it. I am also aware you weren't talking about my child. I have issue with what you said, and still do. If you don't want your words twisted, use better ones and compare properly.
I happened upon this video and it's very interesting and relatable. Our son was diagnosed with ASD December of last year. It's been an interesting process and he's making great progress. He's going to be five soon.
My son was diagnosed with Autism at Age 3. I was devastated. He changed right after he received his MMR vaccine. When I explain this to healthcare professionals and friends they treat me like I am crazy. My son is now 5. He’s an amazing beautiful boy. He doesn’t talk, but communicates very well nonverbal. I hope to hear him tell me he loves me. Thank you for sharing!
@@HotMessToHotMom Well last time i saw a study on mmr and autisms connnection it was faked and BOUGHT science, There is a thing called Hypotesis that makes science true it ensures that every following test is similiar and not cherry picked
Thank you so much for sharing your experience with us. I know many people will be saved by watching your video. I am Japanese and my 10 year old son is also severely autistic. I was very encouraged by the fact that you are living in a foreign country and facing the same struggles as me, but giving your full attention and love to your child.
Thankyou for sharing your story. I too have a son on the spectrum he is 7 and is considered mild high functioning. His verbal skills just keep improving and he is wonderful. He also has ADHD but shows so much potential. I have so much hope for him and his future i know he can and will do great things, but i will be honest i did and still do struggle at times so I’m glad to know I’m not the only one.
I'm a speech therapist.I was so touched by your journey with your son. And also,thank you for making me know more about how Austism family face and deal with their problems.
When my daughter was diagnosed last year at 18 month I cried for 2 hours straight . My daughter has had ABA therapy ,speech therapy and OT . She has made so much progress I have alot of hope every week is a struggle and a blessing .But when there are small victories like saying her name when asked brings that much more joy. Thank you for sharing your journey .Its always nice to hear someone elses story to feel a little less alone .
@UCmL9-NdRFbQrSKLfq1Z7ZCQ ABA is no longer what it used to be. I do know that it has a history of abuse. I am always there to advoctae for my daughter by listening to her.We work alot on daily living skills and is a very small fraction of our day. Not everything works for everyone and I repsect the choice not to . Needing support as a parent should not be shamed though.
Neverending thanks for sharing your case. I'm a doctor, even if I'm not a pediatrician but we learn faster and faster from case videos rather than from books. It takes to be intelligent and brave to share such experiences. Keep on so and I wish you all the best for your son. A huge hug.
I cried too when I found out my daughter had autism. I was a young mother didn't know what to expect. People were being judgemental, saying my child wouldn't live life like "Normal" people. I'm like what is "Normal" these days? It's tiring at times but it comes with life. A mother's work is never done. Stay encouraged, keep being a great woman and mother. Keep educating yourself about the diagnosis. Your intuition as mother is never wrong. Your not by yourself, it's a journey you and your child are navigating together.
Girl, it's hard and it is hard to talk about sometimes. I just remind myself of all my son's uniqueness and what I love about his autism( carrying pumpkins and carrying letter "0" blocks everywhere). The painful screaming meltdowns are the worse and people just don't understand.
Calais McNeely A lot of people don’t understand that’s why autism awareness is very important. And building a community of like-minded parents to understand what we are going through gives us strength x
Thank you for sharing your story. It's comforting to know that I am not the only mom out there that feels the same. My son is 3 an was just diagnosed an it has been a very ruff journey for us.
I love that you acknowledge that autism isn't a disease but still want to help your son however you can because you want to support him. That's true love at its purest.
thank you. thank you. thank you. from a mom with a 16 month old son. I thought i was the only one and identified so much as you were sharing your story. thank you again all the way from modest, ca
I'm from Croatia, your story is like ours.. Our daugther is 9 years old now and she is so loving and beatiful, full of emotions, she doesnt speak but we learned to comunicate in other ways.. It was hard, it was painfull at first.. But.. This children are so speciall, it's a blessing to grow with them. I wish you all the luck in life.. 💞
Hello Radmy 👋 my daughter was diagnosed at 4 years old this is so frustrating and sad because at first I was in denial😔can I ask you something? Does your daughter said small words when she was little like cookie water etc.
my son just had his assessment yesterday and we received the diagnosis. I've pretty much cried most of the day. I can't sleep, I ended up on RUclips trying to understand and I've found this. Thank you so much for making these videos. I still feel lost in all of this new information but it's nice to here another mom's story. someone has done this before and has survived lol
oh lovely i am sending you a huge hug. this is so hard right now i know it is. The good news is this is probably the lowest you will ever feel . its up hill from here. Not always easy no, but there is so much you can do to help your little man. Be kind to your self , have a glass of wine and watch a comedy movie tonight.. always here if you need a friend x
Coming Home to Autism thank you so much for the support and for the videos. it makes a huge difference. 💗 I think I will take that glass and a movie tonight
We are also just waiting for our Mda for our son he will be 3 in December..I knew very early that something was going before he was 12 months..so it's a long road but keep up what your doing it's a great help to familys like ours x
thank you so much. It is a long road but it will get easier, and you will never believe how much can change in such a short space of time . so keep the faith and don't forget to look after you in all of this xoxo
I’m autistic and I have OCD, anxiety, sensory processing disorder and Tourette Syndrome. I have been told that I’m “not that autistic because I can speak” by a teacher. I love your channel by the way ❤️❤️
Also some people can be so silly I’ve had people tell me dylan is not that bad because he can speak. Just because he can now speak doesnt means he doesn’t suffer with his ocd it isn’t autistic x
I am 33 years old and am starting the process of assessment for ASD for myself next month. Not for my benefit, but for the benefit of my 6 year old daughter who was recently diagnosed with autism. I want to do everything I can to help her negotiate this world, to know she is not alone. That knowledge alone would have helped me so much growing up. We are certain our 3 year old son is also autistic. Our middle child is so much like her dad and is the calm in the middle of this wonderful whirlwind that is our family. It is almost impossible for other people to understand unless they are autistic or have autistic children themselves. Thank you for sharing ❤️
I just wanted to say Thank you! My son is 3 in Dec, we are awaiting a diagnosis, everything you have said in this episode has meant so much. I realise we have a long road ahead and at times i'm at breaking point and feel very alone, other times I feel like i can take on the world to help him. We are doing play therapy and OT and supplements, my son's diet sadly is very limited - so diet is challenging, but I'm doing what I can to help him. I'm tuning in every Sunday now x Thank you
Valerie Watkins hello there. So much to learn and I’m sure your daughter/son is so grateful your wanting to learn and help. It’s such a huge relief to have support from family. Xox
When you said "at one point I thought he was possessed", I knew what you were going to say, my little boy has just received his diagnosis at nearly two and a half and he also laughs in the night and the day time, I love it now though.
Thank you for sharing. It really help to hear stories about people who We can relate too in so many levels. My daughter is 3 years old, turning 4 in January. She recently was diagnosed with mild autism. She is going to speech therapy. We were in denial at first but learn to accept it and now figuring out how to get the best help for our child. Your videos are inspiring. I have learn so much from it. Thank u
My friend's daughter only says "I care", but she actually means that "she is scared". She says that to express "she doesn't like something, or not agree, or afraid of something or wants her favorite toys back" she is almost 4 years old, but never asks the WHY. I want to tell my friend about the little girl, but it's hard for me to open up. My daughter is younger than the girl 3 months but they are completely opposite. I don't know if she has autism or speech delay. Her signs: - spinning - jumping - running around - doing repetitive things - line up objects - not response when someone calls - indirect eye contact - flapping hands when excited - speech delay - making EH EH sounds - enjoy playing alone - enjoy high place - not like changing habit. Such as she will not let you scroll up her shirt sleeve, or wearing long pajamas will make her cry to die. **but she is happy, smile a lot too. She says "Hello" to people.
My son is 4 and half and has autism When he was 2 years old Now we spend a lot of time on her and therapies like behaviour,speech , occupational etc but now thorough games and poems he learns more but speaking when he wants not us He has everything like u mention up and 2 thing more 1- bitting 2-midnight awaking But these thing going less and I pray and wish for all of your love ones to come out from disorder
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My name is Dylan too! I have high functioning autism myself and I'm 15 years old!
Dylan Larson that’s amazing thank you for messaging me. You do have an amazing name . I hope you like the videos x
you have a great name my friend. thank you for your comment x
Dylan Larson I am high functioning autism to and I am 18 and I graduated high school
Bravo dylan. Stay blessed
This makes me so happy to hear. Hoping my daughter will accomplish all you have Dylan
This made me soooo emotional. My two year old was recently diagnosed with level 3 asd. He was playing with his cars today and I was on the floor with him and he came up and kissed me twice 😭🥰 seriously the best feeling in the world
Natalie Mastroianni oh that’s made me cry! So lovely big hug x
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God bless your child. Lotz of love.
He is such a sweetheart
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Lots of similarities to my story and my son. He's almost 23, did 2 years in college, has worked jobs, traveled, has hobbies and groups of friends and lives a great life.
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I wish this to my daughter in Jesus name.
Praise God for him any advice my granddaughter is 3 give my son such a hard time dont sleep right now im awake watching her she up at 5 this morning and it was good friday we were awake she slept and we got to bed we never had a sleep but now when we want to sleep she up pkease give us what we should do thank you God bless
Inspirational and encouraging
Wow thank you for sharing! That gives me so much hope!
I don’t have a child with autism but somehow I stumbled I across of this video. I just want to say that those videos of you and your son are one of the most precious things I have ever seen. You are an amazing mama, respect to you.
thank you so much for taking the time to comment really means a lot x
@@ComingHometoAutism salute for your bravery for facing and dealing with your son ❤️❤️
I see some signs in my great niece but I'm scared to say anything to my niece or my sister cause sometimes people take things the wrong way my great niece is 1 and I notice she ignores u she flaps her hands when she get excited watching cartoons she's not saying most words toddlers say could someone please give me advice on how do I bring it up to my niece or my sister who's the grandmother
@@ComingHometoAutism I had a classmate who had a brother with autism she was kind of his caregiver because parents had nothing to do with him yeah she was kind of mean to him at times and yeah she could be kind of a b**** to him at times but she was also the same kind of woman that would bounce your head against one of the school tables have you even looked at her brother wrong I still the same kind of girl that would probably river dance On your body if you made him cry and also the same kind of girl they told a 6 foot football player if he made Fun of her brother again he'd be a 4 foot football player and she was 4 feet herself
I am an expecting mom. I am so glad I stumbled on this video! I am a special needs teacher for level 3 asd. You did amazing in intervening with your son. I am always very amazed when parents educated themselves and whole heartedly do the best they can for their child! Thank you!
I am on the spectrum. I stim, there are lots of foods I can’t eat as well as fabrics I can’t touch or wear . I’m a terrible sleeper in facts it’s the hardest part of having autism for me( because when I’m tired my symptoms worsen). I get overwhelmed in stores and large crowds. With that being said there is hope . I am a productive member of society. I have a full time job , a house a car . And I have raised two amazing daughters. Diet for me is huge I’m a vegan and try to eat Whole Foods . My symptoms are lessened when I eat well and when I have a strict routine.
Kym Robinson hey there! Wow thank you so much for reaching out and commenting. Your an inspiration! Your right diet can make a huge difference as I have noticed with my son. ❤️
Thank you so much for sharing all of these detail. We are not quite sure where my son fits his symptoms are so mild and compounded by other medical problems.... and he is constantly changing. But i am his mom, i know who he is and will never stop fighting for the best for him.
Shara cy I’m sure with you by his side he will flourish 🥰. The hardest thing about having mild “ symptoms “. Is that people don’t know how hard the person is working on the inside . So that way the world can perceive them as mild . I just want to show the world as well as new parents that hearing their child has autism isn’t the end of the world . I’m sure your son is amazing 😊 and having a label doesn’t change that .
@@kymrobinson9589 I cannot thank you enough. All medical professionals have told me no or he is in the mild to no signs group or his famous diagnosis of Devolpmental Delay (he has mild hearing loss as well). Though a part of me was always afraid of him having any disability, through people like you I know we are going to be ok. I always thought i dont want anything to be "wrong" but the truth is I dont want him to live his life pretending to be something he is not... so I embrace his quirks when possible, follow up with ALL appointments, check ups, reviews but most importantly we embrace a new way of life that fosters his learning pattern and ensure he is confident, independent and happy.
Shara cy You are a Rock Star mom ❤️❤️❤️
You're right families with the "typical" child do not understand. It took me having my second child and watching her developing faster than her big brother was the awakening for me. You're a beautiful family, thank you for your openness.
Jasmine Perry thank you my friend x
I loved this video, my son is 7 with Autism. He was almost all non verbal until he was 5! Now he is making complete sentences and can have a conversation! He is half autism program and half gen ed. We never know how our kids will grow but we can never give up on them. Forget the doctors who say there's nothing we can do. We as parents have to work hard for our kids. Bless you and your beautiful family. ❤
Amazing story thanks for sharing x
I just found out last week my 4 year old first born child is autistic & it's hard because he doesn't say any words I spent 2 nights crying just trying to figure out how can I help him, I just want to say God gives the biggest battles in life to the strongest soldiers, You are a strong person and an Amazing mum! X
Check out gestault language processing. This turned everything around for my son…
Thank you for this video. We just got the diagnosis today. It has been overwhelming and I already have been feeling like others don’t want me to feel all the emotions I’m feeling about this. I love my son and know he can and will live a full life, but I still have fear and worry about how the world will treat him.
I was just told my son is possibly autistic. I’ve been noticing more signs now and I feel so overwhelmed. I am also 3 weeks postpartum so it has been a lot. I love my babies so much… I’m just so sad thinking about how others might treat him.
The world is changing very quickly and in favour of our kiddos keep positive, it’s gonna be okay x
I'm literally in in tears because it's exactly how I fee.l my son was told that he might have it too and he's 3 years old and I told his father my boyfriend and he says that it's all my fault he doesn't want to be with me anymore and I'm just so sad for my son I just don't know what to do. I just feel very alone.
I’m crying watching this because I’m going through all of this with my son. Thank you for sharing your story.
Thank you for this video! My daughter just got diagnosed with autism. She’s 2.5 years old. I cry, I cry a lot because I feel alone and I’m overwhelmed and I don’t know where to start. Your video made me feel that everything will be okay. Thank you very much
thank you for your comment. its all going to be ok i promise you . i know its not easy but you have a big support group behind you. x
Khristine Ocampo thank you for your comment. It’s ok to cry it’s part of the process but I do promise you everything will work out and there are so many parents like us and we are all on a similar journey and together we are stronger xox
Be strong, you can do this. My son is now 23 and he was diagnosed at 3. It’s been a rocky road but honest there is light. Here if you need to talk or need support.
Please, do some research about vaccines second effects. No 100% of kids respond the same way. Good nutrición can clean the system. ( I am not an expert). Take care.
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I'm so happy you won't give up. I have struggled to have someone believe me my child has dyslexia. No one understands my pain.
I don't have children, but I just wanted to say you are such a strong and engaged mum. I don't know what it is like have a child with ASD, but what I do know is that you being an advocate for your sons health and wellbeing is really empowering to watch. So happy to see that you shared your journey with the world.
Thank you xox
Hi my name is Simon , and I was diagnosed with autism only seven years ago , and I'm 54 years old . At first it would be very worrying and upsetting , but your son will do the things that are a topical to Autism . Anyway you are doing a great job with him . All the best . Simon
This is a great channel. My almost 17 year old son has Autism. It is a journey. We all, (as parents) do the best we can. Please be good to yourselves so that you can support your child with Autism. I wouldn't want my son any other way. He is amazing. All of our children are amazing.
When i got my son diagnosed i cried a lot too. Even though Autism isnt bad, i felt like it was my fault. And i did feel alone as well. God doesn't give us things we can't handle.
Idk how this can be true... my autistic sister committed suicide in 2019... obviously she was givin to much 💔
I’m a single mom with a son on the Spectrum
This video is so helpful thank you for your story makes me feel not so alone
sometimes when you’re going through it you feel like no one has and it’s not true
Elsa N it can feel very lonely at times and that’s why I wanted to set up a channel where no one had to deal with this alone. Sending you love x
My granddaughter has autism and she is attached to my daughter, she is now 13. My daughter removed her from school in the second grade and has homeschooled her and it’s made such a difference. They belong to a homeschooling group so she has plenty of social contact. May God Bless you both
My son's a Dylan also, diagnosed with autism at 3 years old, he had an injury from the Tdap, lost all his words, have done biomed healing, he's doing so good now, don't lose heart or hope!
lovely to hear thank you x
God Bless all of you mothers that dont walk away from this! I am fighting for you daily...
My daughter is three she was diagnosed with autism this year but I knew way before... this will make you love them even more.
SLAY-AYANA way were her symptoms? I’m concerned for my daughter😢
Same here.
Just got diagnosed for my 3 years old son with mild autism this year but I struggled alot with him.
It was not easy to accept but when I accepted it and came into peace,he is improving day by day.
I knew even b4 he was 2 but still sometimes I feel so anxious about his future yet trying to stay happy mostly.😑
He is 3 and 1/2 and yet not said a single word but communicate his emotions through hugging, crying, holding my hand, taking me to the place wherever he wants to go😊
@@esrshxhfs look into vaccines and how they cause Autism. Go to vaxxed tv on RUclips and watch the parents testimonies. My son is two and never been vaccinated and never will and he is just fine
London Girl what signs did you see? My son is getting evaluated next week. He’s 2.5 now but we knew something wasn’t right around 13 months. Did your son have words and regress?
@@MissDub16 Hun it could b but my son is youngest of 4 even his one sister is only 13 months older than him and she is bilingual,far more mature than her age so I don't know the reason? And to b honest now I m not even looking into it cos now I m trying to focus on what can make him better😊
It's a sad reality that many professionals just say, you can do nothing about your child's autism.
You are helping a lot by sharing your experience ❤️❤️
thank you so much x
I came from China and I heard many stories about kids diagnosed with autism recovered and they can go to normal school now. Play, play with the kid, and use a lot of interaction to stimulate him. There are many things that can be done.
You have a wonderful relationship with your son, well done. My daughter was diagnosed at 18 months, I have brought her up on my own along with her older brother. It has been hard work but when I see how she is now at 31 I am so proud how she has coped along the way. She has a job, drives, and has many wonderful friends all with some form of learning difficulty, she could not cope with mainstream friends, her brain doesn't function the same way. I wish you and your lovely family all the best, all the hard work and perseverance will pay off.
my nephew and godson is autistic. it all depends who raises them. most ( not all ) are not sure what to do, but some do and they go above and beyond to raise them like being normal and they will and can live a brilliant life. it also depends on the level of autism he or she has.
Sharing stories makes hearts feel relief and more comfortable...
i am so pleased x
Im 22 and I was diagnosed with Autism when I was 16 and I did 4 years at college and now I'm in my 2nd year of university doing better than I ever thought I would
That's amazing so very happy for you ❤
@@TeresaRamirez-yb9iu thank you
Thank you so very much for sharing xox
I have never left a comment but this video compelled me to share a bit. Thank you so much for making this video! My 3 year old son was diagnosed ASD recently and tho I knew very early on, I’m still coping with my feelings and anxiety. I don’t always feel connected to him but I am searching for information and guidance to learn more. Again thank you for sharing your personal experience. A day like today where we barley got sleep and our morning was rough, and I dropped him off at preschool so I could sleep and cry alone; I am so grateful for the hope your video gave me.
Sending you a big hug please watch my video how I deal with my anxieties. I hope this will help you as you need to be gentle on your self also. Sending you a big hug c
I'm also 25 years old and recently had my first son (3 months old and a half) and he was born with vocal chord paralysis almost,he was 1 month at a children's hospital in NICU and was very hard since he is my first child .Wished all babies would born healthy and strong . Hugs to all the strong babies and Moms 🙏🙏blessings to ALL
God bless you ur baby..
This is my story. Every step of your journey mirrors my own experience. My son is now 28 years old. I can relate to every single word.
You are a gift. Truly a ray of sunshine and hope. How lucky is Dylan to have a mom like you!❤ You took your childs diagnosis and provided them with all the resources to thrive. I just saw the video of Dylan turning 13 and he is doing exactly that... thriving! So amazing to see. Thank you for sharing!
I don’t have children yet but I watched this entire video. I now have a better understanding of autism and what you can look out for so thank you for this. You are doing such a great job as a mom because from those clips Dylan looks so healthy, happy and smart. God gives the toughest battles to his toughest soldiers.
I just want to say thank you to you and other mothers of autistic children sharing on this platform. Your experience is so similar to what we've been going through with my 3 year old. Even had his hearing checked. He's slowly using more words, but the tantrums have been out of this world since he was 2. I understand the pain you feel, because I feel it too. Ir's not their fault, or our faults, and we try to not compare. I am a preschool teacher and my son was in my class prior to quarantine. It was so hard seeing him unable to interact with peers, or engage in things as a class. But this video is reminding my that I am not alone. And that I am not at fault, autism happens to anyone. The hardest is seeing him hurt himself out of frustration, even at 18 months old to see a baby trying to bash their head into the wall, it's heartbreaking as a mother. Luckily we've worked through those intense emotions.
Sending you so much love x
I found your channel by chance or faith. I am in America and I am raising my 3 year old autism grandson. He is non verbal and attention deficit disorder . My daughter in law drink heavy during her pregnancy so they think that is what cause his disorder. My son is incarcerated due to drugs and my daughter in law left him with us. We have adopted Nickolas. He is my son!!!! I look under every rock for help. You are so much encouragement. Thank you 😊
Hi how is he doing now
This is the first video I’ve ever seen of yours but it is apparent that you’re a wonderful mummy
Emily Scobie thanks so much for watching hope you enjoy the others too xox
I can feel your pain because i'm in the same situation with my 5 year old autistic son, i'm 23 year old and you inspire me so much thank you for sharing your story.
Barbara Romain Thank you so much for taking the time to leave a comment. Sending you a big hug you’re an amazing mamma
I'm a 45 year old man who was diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome which has now turned into Autism Spectrum Disorder. Life has been extremely difficult and lonely but I'm now on a voyage of self discovery. Things were very different in the 1970's...no one had really heard of autism or were talking about it. Things may have been different if there was some early intervention then. Great video though and you're obviously a great mother.
sending you a big hug x
thanks for the supportive messages Zonya x
I pray that you can take advantage of the many support groups , websites and resources available now . Just wanted to say you are a blessing from God and He is always here for you !
@@SonjaKreukniet thanks Zonya...and thank you Barbara and Bright star for the kind comments x
You give me hope....and I wish for this everyday for my son to attend university and who is also on the spectrum and being bullied in school for being different. God Bless him.....
Eve Darth Hi there this makes me so sad to hear this have you spoken to the school about perhaps doing an autism awareness Day where they can try and teach the difference in different children. I would have the highest hopes for your son he is going to be a great man to please do not give up hope big love to you
I just want to let you know that you both parents are amasing in parenthood.
Because most of us, as parents, don t think that our children have to have an especific education in order to develop their capacities.
The autism as a condition, on the other hand, has demonstrated how important and helpful is the fact that parents get involved in their children s education.
Beleive me, you may think that there is a lot to work getting to educate your boy, but your way is the right way to educate every children, despite any condition.
You did and sure, you are still doing great.
thank you my friend x
As an autistic adult who got a late diagnosis I really loved the valuable information you have shared.
Thank you so much for commenting x
Love you matt
"I cried because I didn't know what it meant." I love that. I love Autism. I've worked with autistic children as a behavioural interventionist. Being able to help them grow in motor function and speech and so much more was a blessing to me. I wish everyone knew how unique and wonderful people with autism are.
❤️ thank you
Godbless you! Hope you dont get tired with helping children with autism
i agree, they may be autistic but they are very smart. but because of their disability they can figure out how to show it or they can't figure it out
Hi sis, where and how can I get hold of you?
I am just melting watching this.
So brave. So strong. So proud. I’m in admiration of your strength.
🙌 for your statement about early intervention! I am an early intervention provider in the U.S. and have found some really nice success with the Autism Navigator program for toddlers.
Chantelle Miller hey there thank you for taking the time to comment and for you for all that you do to help families like ours x
I’ve watched this video more times than I can count. I’m at the beginning of this journey. My son is 21 months old and just began showing signs of regression. I am still in the crying stage.. but I know he will be ok. Because I’ll move heaven and earth to see it through. Thank you for your candour 💜
My heart goes out to you and your family, Rayyan Mohamed. Do not vaccinate him anymore. Drinking camel milk daily can actually help your son to improve, as far as I have read previously. I would definitely try that. If you don't live in a country where you can buy it fresh, you can order Camel Milk Powder through Amazon. May Allah heal your son and bless and protect your whole family.
@Raya autism starts in the gut and spreads, later resulting in neurological showings. Heal the gut help the baby.
Our son is ten and yesterday he told us somebody called him a weirdo at school ;(, he doesn't understand why, just because he carries his stuffed animal and was wearing long sleeves in a hot day... he is the sweetest boy and can't understand how can people call you names without knowing you! It breaks our hearts because it is only the 3 of us, had been here for 8 years and have not friends or family, the loneliness is the worst ;(
The tzu P. I hate this , all children get bullied at one point in time but when it’s our children it hurts even more. There is a great on line safe gaming platform called autcraft its minecraft for children with asd. This has been a life saviour for Dylan. I also tell dylan about all the other people that have autism that are amazing. Such as Steven jobs and the guy who did Pokemon. I’m on Instagram if your want to add me we can connect our sons virtually so he doesn’t feel alone x
We’d be your friends . We get it . We friend people like us cause other people don’t understand us . Maybe join a group ? Even that doesn’t always work .
The tzu P. Loneliness causes autism... please find friends or move close to family... there’s nothing more important thang friends and/or family. Join a church or a community where he can engage with other people.
@@brothertn708 thank you for your comment. Loneliness does cause autism, but your so right to join a community and to get support for the family and for people to support your child. it can make all the difference x
Thank you everyone for the kind words, I'll try that minecraft game, thanks!!!
Hopefully someday we can find even 1 friend, not having a religion is difficult because I don't know where else do you meat people... sorry for my english btw, not my 1st language.
I cried the moment i hear your voice break. im so touched by your bravery to share this story. lot of love and hugs all the way from singapore to you
I couldn't believe a pediatrician could not see the obvious signs in your son earlier. My children don't have autism, but my pediatrician checked for milestones at every visit since birth. Good luck and well wishes to you and your family. Dylan is lucky to have you.
thank you. Yes the services here are not great. I went back three times and told them there was something. x
Thank you for sharing this. As a speech-language pathologist, it is so moving and important to see autism from a parent’s perspective. I’m glad you had the wherewithal and people in your life to take the action you needed to brighten your son’s future, and I wish the same for all of the parents I work with on a daily basis who are in the same situation.
Melissa Arauz thank you for taking the time to comment . It was only myself that pushed me forward and this is why I started this channel to help others through what was a very lonely time for me x
My son is 11 with nonverbal autism. He is the sweetest little boy ever. Much love to your son and your family. ☺️❤️
sending you a big hug x
Jaime Reynolds My daughter is 10 she is Autistic non verbal as well. Blessings!
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My son was diagnosed 3 weeks ago and he is almost 3. I am feeling exactly what you were at first. He loves cars and airpalnes and dinosaurs and spiderman and hates loud noises. He is high functioning. It made me cry watching this because it was like you were describing my son to the t. I am just scared that I will fail him at acomendating to his needs Thank you for your videos.
My brother also has autism I’m so emotional watching your video that I couldn’t finish them but I feel you and as a sister to him I want to say that living with autism is special and not easy, it’s love that keep us all together. I’m proud being his little sister and now that I’m having my first child, I understand my parent more and more and I’m so proud of them raising both of us. Thank you for making this video and sharing your personal story. It meant a lot to all the autism family ❤️❤️
Sounds very much like what happened with my daughter. She started regressing at 11 months. She’s nearly 3 and still no words. I live in hope that one day she’ll talk. I understand about the meltdowns. Adeline is like someone possessed when she kicks off, I can’t restrain or help her as she’s so strong she makes crazy noises it’s really scary. I dread when she gets older. Thanks for sharing this video.
My heart breaks for you. My daughter is 30 with autism. She has improved so much. I will be praying for Dillon.
thank you so much xo
Dylan is absolutely beautiful! You are such a strong, amazing mama! Your family is so blessed to have you...sending you lots of love
sweetest comment ever thank you so much x
Hi my son is 4 yrs old. I know it's hard but trust me every will be fine.
Thank you x
Thank you so much. I’ve been so overwhelmed lately cause doctors keep telling me everyone develops differently but there is a clear difference between a meltdown and a normal toddler tantrum and she turned two in July and still isn’t sleeping through the night. We struggle to go out to eat as a family and get so many looks when she gets over stimulated and we even try to go during the week when there aren’t many people there. This video has given me the strength to try again with her doctor cause they don’t see any of it. She has seen how frustrated people can get when she is overwhelmed and so in a new environment with different people around she doesn’t show her true self as much and then melts down when we get home she struggles with being in her car seat so we always have to keep toys and snacks in the car but we never know what is going to work on what day and don’t get me started on how hard the days are when our schedule is different. I have been trying to work with her and find what works for her but everyone around me keeps telling me to just discipline her and that I can “out last” her melt downs when I have to take what makes her comfortable like juice or milk at night without any guidance on how to replace that coping skill. Thank you so much for these videos they are really helping me to not feel like a failure as a mom so often ❤🙏🥹
I remember the day my son who is coming 4 received his diagnosis. I did not cry tears of sadness, I did not grieve for a child that I could've had because I already had the most uniquely perfect child who brought me so much joy and love every day. A love that doesn't need words, he reminds each and everyday how beautiful the small things in life are. I cried tears of joy and relief on the day of my son's diagnosis, it was a validation of identity for him and a celebration of better things to come. He inspires me on so many levels and has taught me more than I could ever teach him. 💖💖💖
sending you a big hug x
Me too Angelina. I didn't cry as well. I have been tutoring since I was 8 years old with kids myself being gifted. They call him level 3 BUT he's extremely intelligent like a lot of autistic children. His is just he has problems socializing with other kids, paying attention at times and group activities. How does that qualify him as a 3?? He no longer has melts down nearly as bad 2 years ago. Either way, he was always a blessing😁
Thabk u for this . I needed this. I love how ur so positive. 😢❤
Crying my eyes out here.. thnx for this vid. I’m so scared, we have no answers yet. But you really calmed me down.
Anushka Milano everything will be ok I promise you. At the moment this is a scary time for you. But we are here to support you x
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Same here I will find out next Friday and im so sad
Thanks for posting this kind of content. I'm an adult with an autism spectrum disorder, and for all the parents of kids with autism, please know that you make our world one worth living in. With the right support, people who are on the spectrum can live wonderful lives, and--speaking for myself--I'm very grateful for all those who have been there for me.
uptown3636 thank you for commenting sending you so much love x
I can't even imagine how tough this is.
I had to literally pause for breath. And this was just a video!
May you have the strength!
Thank you so much .. you too .. you got this xox
This made me cry, I felt like it was me speaking through that video, thank you for posting, my son is 2.5 years and has his ASD assessment coming up, in my heart I know but just want the resources to help my son have the most happy life he can have. You are an amazing mom❤ Lots of love from🇨🇦
My son is 3. We are just now in the testing phase. He may be on the spectrum... He may not. This is a really hard time.
Bless your heart and thanks for this encouraging video.
sending you love through this hard time. it does get easier x
I am so impressed by the love you have for your child, a love which led you to leave no stone unturned in your efforts to help him. I know that's what Mother Love is all about, but to see Love in action really touches me... ❤️
Kathleen M. Carson thank you for your super sweet comment makes my day and makes it all worth while x
You are such a good mom and you are helping alot of people with this video.
keep your head up and stay strong sweetheart...
thank you so much xox
Thank you. I cried the whole time watching you. Almost the same thing happened with my sweet Anna. She had eye contact and I felt like she was growing just as beautifully as her big Sister. Approaching age 3 I started noticing the same thing, less eye contact, toe walking, wanting to be by herself. I expressed my concerns to almost everyone in my family who tried to reassure me everything was fine. (I’m sure because they didn’t want me to worry) finally she was diagnosed properly like you I cried from both pain knowing and not knowing. Anna is 7. We are still learning everyday. Seeing your video helped me so much to that much stronger and seek new avenues of helping Anna. Thank you for sharing. God Bless you and your beautiful family as you journey on.
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hey there, thank you so much for your comment. I am sending you and your girl a big hug xox
@@ComingHometoAutism how old was your son when he started talking
Hi, another fellow parent with very similar story. Thank you for sharing your experience, these types of videos are so helpful to new Autism parents, including myself 10 years ago! I too was determined to build a connection that was not coming typically with my son as well. Building a bond through play is about the best way to break into their world. For me, I just did what he liked with him, even if I thought it was silly. His stems, like running in circles, stacking items, and lining things up were the first ways, and it worked! Also, when be started speech therapy, I was always right there involved and continued it when the therapist wasn't there! God bless you and your family!
Just starting to navigate this journey. Such a roller coaster already and I'm so thankful to have found your videos!
A M I know thsi is so hard and it’s a total roller coaster . Here if you need to chat x
I cried too when my son was diagnosed. I cried because I had no idea all these years. I knew my son was different but I just thought kids go through different phases. My son is 7 and he was diagnosed when we was 5 years old. He is high functioning and he is the sweetest boy! When we join their world it makes it so much better for them! Your a great mom! I am worried when I ask him at school who we played with and he tells me he doesn’t know who to play with. He still plays alone :(
i know its hard when all you want is your child to have friends. can you ask his teacher who has similar interests to him and get them over for a play date. for example we do lots of playdates with friends who also like mine craft and they just sit along side each other and play that. then at school it gives dylan something to talk about with them. but sometimes he does just want to be on his own as well x
Thank you for this! I feel as though everywhere must give newly diagnosed kids parents more info on what to do next or options. A pamphlet is not enough!
They do its crazy! let me tell you something that will change your world and here is a pamphlet so good luck! I just felt so alone in the whole process and I want to make sure that no one else has to feel the way I did . xox
Oh my your story is similar to my son. All those emotions I felt after hearing the doctor tell me he has ASD, SPD was harder than the ADHD diagnosis. We has improved so much through diet, removing toxins from the home and through brain balance. I am truly grateful to see him no longer struggle with things he used. Before he stuttered and wouldn’t be able to finish a sentence, he would scream when things upset him or scared. He know longer does that and he will give me details about things and talk to family members! Good for you for giving him tools for a better life! My son screamed when he was 2 days old when I put him in the baby swing and after 3 days of trying it I gave up because he screamed when I would turn it on.
sending you love
Thank you so much for your video's. My son was diagnosed with autism when he was 2, he is now 4 and we're still waiting for 'help' from specialists. Everyone treats him like it's some sort of disability and I just can't see it that way because he is so smart with some things that I don't care that he's not potty trained or doesn't talk yet. I see him doing other things way beyond his years and we have an amazing bond as well like you do with your children. After reading so many specialist books, none of it seemed to help but when I stumbled on your video's and tried some of the little tricks you've tried with your children I saw improvements almost instantly. Please keep it going, every child is different and it might not help everyone but you are definitely helping some.
Hi there thank you so much for your message. Don’t ever listen to anyone who says that your son can’t do things he might be a little bit slower than others but it’s a surprise smarter than them also. If you manage to get hold of my book I talk about everything you can do at home so you don’t need help from specialist because to be honest they don’t help much anyway you and your Child’s best teacher. From one Mama to another I’m sending you a huge hug and keep on going you’re doing amazing. X
Thank you so much for this video. Has me in tears. My baby boy is 2½ and has level 3 autism and, this has given me much hope. Thank you 🥲
This is awesome! Love that your strong to share this and help others. I taught autistic 4 yr olds for 10 years and learned so much from them.
I’m expecting and I think this is every parents worse nightmare. As parents we want the best for our children and we make every sacrifice we can for them. My prayers are with You and every parent 🙌🏾
Autism should never be a parent's worst nightmare. Autistic people are beautiful and special
@@morganpoff4237 i think you misunderstood. Any disorder is apart of any parents worst nightmare. Wether it be autism or heart problems, diabetes etc.
@@mscharita my son is autistic and I would NEVER in a thousand years compare it to something like heart problems. They are not anywhere close to the same field and to be perfectly honest comparing it in that way is not only infuriating because of the message it sends to others but terribly sad and shows how much most need to learn about autism.
If a parent's worst nightmare is that their child is neurodivergent, they don't need to have children. Someone's brain working differently is ALOT different than a heart that doesn't work properly.
@@morganpoff4237 Maam no one is saying your child is less than average or not beautiful or there is something wrong because of autism. The problem with ppl is that everyone is taking words so sensitively and twisting them into their OWN NARRATIVE. instead of comprehending what is being said. I am not saying there is a problem with your child or any child being autistic and they should be loved or treated any different. What i CLEARLY - said was any disorder of any sort is a parents worse nightmare. There are mothers on here that commented that when they found out how badly they cried and were emotional and how it tore them apart, which I fully understand and have compassion for them and all mothers. It appears that your misinterpreting my words. I am not sending any message ... which your going way off the board. Those other issues were EXAMPLES.. we learn about examples in 5th grade at least. Instead of assuming how about you either ask me to specify so that you clearly understand what I'm saying before making a comment so that we can have an intelligent conversation instead of twisting my words. Hope this helps :)
@@mscharita oh I understood what you said and need no help understanding it. I am also aware you weren't talking about my child. I have issue with what you said, and still do. If you don't want your words twisted, use better ones and compare properly.
I happened upon this video and it's very interesting and relatable. Our son was diagnosed with ASD December of last year. It's been an interesting process and he's making great progress. He's going to be five soon.
My son was diagnosed with Autism at Age 3. I was devastated. He changed right after he received his MMR vaccine. When I explain this to healthcare professionals and friends they treat me like I am crazy. My son is now 5. He’s an amazing beautiful boy. He doesn’t talk, but communicates very well nonverbal. I hope to hear him tell me he loves me. Thank you for sharing!
Well i dont blame the docs for thinking that your crazy cause mmr and autism have no link AND autism is genetical
Akseli Ruokonen Judgmental people like you are the worst. I’m not even going to entertain you. Have a great day!
Akseli Ruokonen you do NOT know that... you THINK you know that because all the BOUGHT science has told you that.....
TheJenBERRY ignore these people... hugs from FLORIDA....
@@HotMessToHotMom Well last time i saw a study on mmr and autisms connnection it was faked and BOUGHT science, There is a thing called Hypotesis that makes science true it ensures that every following test is similiar and not cherry picked
Thank you so much for sharing your experience with us. I know many people will be saved by watching your video.
I am Japanese and my 10 year old son is also severely autistic.
I was very encouraged by the fact that you are living in a foreign country and facing the same struggles as me, but giving your full attention and love to your child.
Thank you so much for your lovely message . Never feel alone I’m here with you xox
Thankyou for sharing your story. I too have a son on the spectrum he is 7 and is considered mild high functioning. His verbal skills just keep improving and he is wonderful. He also has ADHD but shows so much potential. I have so much hope for him and his future i know he can and will do great things, but i will be honest i did and still do struggle at times so I’m glad to know I’m not the only one.
right there with you xox
I'm a speech therapist.I was so touched by your journey with your son. And also,thank you for making me know more about how Austism family face and deal with their problems.
Wen Chi Yeh thank you for such a lovely comment x
You are in good company, lady. Every last symptom you mentioned, my son had and has too....power to us all and for our children too. 💜
médiatique .video together we are stronger x
When my daughter was diagnosed last year at 18 month I cried for 2 hours straight . My daughter has had ABA therapy ,speech therapy and OT . She has made so much progress I have alot of hope every week is a struggle and a blessing .But when there are small victories like saying her name when asked brings that much more joy. Thank you for sharing your journey .Its always nice to hear someone elses story to feel a little less alone .
big hug mama
@UCmL9-NdRFbQrSKLfq1Z7ZCQ ABA is no longer what it used to be. I do know that it has a history of abuse. I am always there to advoctae for my daughter by listening to her.We work alot on daily living skills and is a very small fraction of our day. Not everything works for everyone and I repsect the choice not to . Needing support as a parent should not be shamed though.
Neverending thanks for sharing your case. I'm a doctor, even if I'm not a pediatrician but we learn faster and faster from case videos rather than from books. It takes to be intelligent and brave to share such experiences. Keep on so and I wish you all the best for your son. A huge hug.
I cried too when I found out my daughter had autism. I was a young mother didn't know what to expect. People were being judgemental, saying my child wouldn't live life like "Normal" people. I'm like what is "Normal" these days? It's tiring at times but it comes with life. A mother's work is never done. Stay encouraged, keep being a great woman and mother. Keep educating yourself about the diagnosis. Your intuition as mother is never wrong. Your not by yourself, it's a journey you and your child are navigating together.
thank you so much my friend xox
Some things I'm sure he will grow out of. But you will learn so much from him. YW.
Girl, it's hard and it is hard to talk about sometimes. I just remind myself of all my son's uniqueness and what I love about his autism( carrying pumpkins and carrying letter "0" blocks everywhere). The painful screaming meltdowns are the worse and people just don't understand.
Calais McNeely A lot of people don’t understand that’s why autism awareness is very important. And building a community of like-minded parents to understand what we are going through gives us strength x
Thank you for sharing your story. It's comforting to know that I am not the only mom out there that feels the same. My son is 3 an was just diagnosed an it has been a very ruff journey for us.
Nicole Vanterpool sending you love I know this is a hard journey always here if you want to chat x
I love that you acknowledge that autism isn't a disease but still want to help your son however you can because you want to support him. That's true love at its purest.
thank you. thank you. thank you. from a mom with a 16 month old son. I thought i was the only one and identified so much as you were sharing your story. thank you again all the way from modest, ca
sending you a big hug
I'm from Croatia, your story is like ours.. Our daugther is 9 years old now and she is so loving and beatiful, full of emotions, she doesnt speak but we learned to comunicate in other ways..
It was hard, it was painfull at first.. But..
This children are so speciall, it's a blessing to grow with them.
I wish you all the luck in life.. 💞
Radmy P. Thankyou so much for your comment and I love hearing about your daughter. Sending you all the biggest love and hugs x
Thank you for sharing! Do you mind me asking How you guys communicate? I love hearing success stories!
Hello Radmy 👋 my daughter was diagnosed at 4 years old this is so frustrating and sad because at first I was in denial😔can I ask you something? Does your daughter said small words when she was little like cookie water etc.
Hi I know it’s tough to tell us your story but you still continues. Thank you for sharing us I’m so appreciated. ☺️☺️
sarah azalia thank you x
You create very heart felt videos and I have appreciated all of the ones I have watched so far. Thank you
thats so lovely to hear thank you x
my son just had his assessment yesterday and we received the diagnosis. I've pretty much cried most of the day. I can't sleep, I ended up on RUclips trying to understand and I've found this. Thank you so much for making these videos. I still feel lost in all of this new information but it's nice to here another mom's story. someone has done this before and has survived lol
oh lovely i am sending you a huge hug. this is so hard right now i know it is. The good news is this is probably the lowest you will ever feel . its up hill from here. Not always easy no, but there is so much you can do to help your little man. Be kind to your self , have a glass of wine and watch a comedy movie tonight.. always here if you need a friend x
Coming Home to Autism thank you so much for the support and for the videos. it makes a huge difference. 💗 I think I will take that glass and a movie tonight
Update on your little one two years later?? How are you making out??
I'm just receiving my own autism diagnosis this week.
My daughter was just diagnosed this week. Man your words were so true. Thank you for sharing.
We are also just waiting for our Mda for our son he will be 3 in December..I knew very early that something was going before he was 12 months..so it's a long road but keep up what your doing it's a great help to familys like ours x
thank you so much. It is a long road but it will get easier, and you will never believe how much can change in such a short space of time . so keep the faith and don't forget to look after you in all of this xoxo
I’m autistic and I have OCD, anxiety, sensory processing disorder and Tourette Syndrome. I have been told that I’m “not that autistic because I can speak” by a teacher. I love your channel by the way ❤️❤️
Thank you that’ means a lot x
Also some people can be so silly I’ve had people tell me dylan is not that bad because he can speak. Just because he can now speak doesnt means he doesn’t suffer with his ocd it isn’t autistic x
Dylan is very lucky to have a Mommy like you! Godspeed 💜
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I am 33 years old and am starting the process of assessment for ASD for myself next month. Not for my benefit, but for the benefit of my 6 year old daughter who was recently diagnosed with autism. I want to do everything I can to help her negotiate this world, to know she is not alone. That knowledge alone would have helped me so much growing up. We are certain our 3 year old son is also autistic. Our middle child is so much like her dad and is the calm in the middle of this wonderful whirlwind that is our family. It is almost impossible for other people to understand unless they are autistic or have autistic children themselves. Thank you for sharing ❤️
I just wanted to say Thank you! My son is 3 in Dec, we are awaiting a diagnosis, everything you have said in this episode has meant so much. I realise we have a long road ahead and at times i'm at breaking point and feel very alone, other times I feel like i can take on the world to help him. We are doing play therapy and OT and supplements, my son's diet sadly is very limited - so diet is challenging, but I'm doing what I can to help him. I'm tuning in every Sunday now x Thank you
susie jones thank you for taking the time to comment. The food does get easier and it takes time. Be kind on your self xox
Love the video my grandbabie have Autism and I'm still learning
Valerie Watkins hello there. So much to learn and I’m sure your daughter/son is so grateful your wanting to learn and help. It’s such a huge relief to have support from family. Xox
Same for my wife and i.. today, my son is 5 and he is an incredible genius.. Do not worry.. everything will be fine..
Homeschooling is the secret
sending you a big hug x
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When you said "at one point I thought he was possessed", I knew what you were going to say, my little boy has just received his diagnosis at nearly two and a half and he also laughs in the night and the day time, I love it now though.
Amy Speed hey it’s scary at first isn’t it and you don’t know what’s going on!
Read about happy puppets or Angelman Syndrome
Thank you for sharing. It really help to hear stories about people who We can relate too in so many levels. My daughter is 3 years old, turning 4 in January. She recently was diagnosed with mild autism. She is going to speech therapy. We were in denial at first but learn to accept it and now figuring out how to get the best help for our child. Your videos are inspiring. I have learn so much from it. Thank u
My friend's daughter only says "I care", but she actually means that "she is scared". She says that to express "she doesn't like something, or not agree, or afraid of something or wants her favorite toys back" she is almost 4 years old, but never asks the WHY. I want to tell my friend about the little girl, but it's hard for me to open up. My daughter is younger than the girl 3 months but they are completely opposite. I don't know if she has autism or speech delay. Her signs:
- spinning
- jumping
- running around
- doing repetitive things
- line up objects
- not response when someone calls
- indirect eye contact
- flapping hands when excited
- speech delay
- making EH EH sounds
- enjoy playing alone
- enjoy high place
- not like changing habit. Such as she will not let you scroll up her shirt sleeve, or wearing long pajamas will make her cry to die.
**but she is happy, smile a lot too. She says "Hello" to people.
It sounds like she does on paper but it’s so hard the situation your in . When she goes to school a teacher will flag it up x
My son is 4 and half and has autism
When he was 2 years old
Now we spend a lot of time on her and therapies like behaviour,speech , occupational etc but now thorough games and poems he learns more but speaking when he wants not us
He has everything like u mention up and 2 thing more
1- bitting
2-midnight awaking
But these thing going less and I pray and wish for all of your love ones to come out from disorder
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