Society teaches men to be simps, then punishes men for being simps.. I had to unlearn years of simp propaganda to finally achieve balance in my life.. I had to learn how to be comfortably single, and then i finally began to focus on self improvement and also began attracting women..
"finally began to focus on self improvement and also began attracting women"..this sums up everything....that your entire life revolves around women and know this you will just end like a host which is infested and infected by a parasite...all your self improvement is ultimately to get the box.......😆😆😆😆
WHAT THEY THINK SHOULD NOT BE IMPORTANT TO YOU. A REAL MAN DONT CARE WHAT A GIRL THINK, HE WORKS HARD FOR HIMSLEF ENJOYS HIS LIFE. OPENLY ASK GIRLS TO BE HIS GF AND THEN SEX IF DIRECT YES THEN OK ELSE NEXT, NOT RUNNING BEHIND HER TO IMPRESS. THE DAY YOU TRY TO IMPRESS A GIRL YOU ARE HEADING IN WRONG DIRECTION IN LIFE. GIRLS ARE MADE TO CHASE SUCCESSFUL MEN. DONT DO OPPOSITE. YOUR EFFORTS WILL MAKE YOU LOOK WEAK AND THEY WANT TO MAKE YOU SLAVE
Both are very different things, my effort it means an equal exchange of value while being a simp means putting in effort without ever getting anything in return
What you’ve said is absolutely right, but let me provide a perspective on this. I know some guys in my circle who are doing very well in life-they are financially stable, taking care of themselves, and progressing at a good pace for their age. Everyone knows the importance of having a partner, and naturally, they also try to connect with women or go on dates. But they aren’t desperate, running after every woman like a street dog for attention. They don’t jump from one woman to another just because they find someone attractive. Women, on the other hand, rarely make the first move. They expect men to take the initiative. Fine, men step up and make the effort, but even after that, the situation with modern women is not ideal. No one talks about their behavior. This isn’t about being a “simp” or messaging every girl repeatedly. If she isn’t interested, men move on. But the truth is, many women ghost men and are constantly chasing “alpha males.” When that alpha male leaves them, they return to the “beta males” carrying emotional baggage. But by then, even those beta males have wised up to the harsh realities of today’s dating market. Now, even if a man is focused on his purpose and goals, there’s still a high chance that he’ll face heartbreak or betrayal. I personally know two women in my mutual circle who had four partners each. So, the question arises-how can men trust women today? At this rate, building a healthy relationship in the future seems incredibly difficult. No one talks about how the modern dating culture is flawed or about the toxic feminist propaganda that’s creating chaos. Women today have privileges and know how to use them to their advantage. They play the game smartly, but in the end, it’s the men who suffer in multiple ways. This leaves men with just one option-stay single and live in “freeze mode” for the rest of their lives. I’m not insecure-I know my worth very well. At my age, I’ve achieved a lot, and I know I’ll keep improving because I’m clear about what I want. What concerns me is that around 80% of men in India are single, and society labels them as “simps.” It’s laughable. Many men have now chosen the “monk mode” lifestyle, but they’ve also started viewing all women with skepticism. Yes, there are high-value women in the dating market, but the majority of men are high chance of cheated by their life partners or gf in some way or another. The societal issues need to be addressed from both sides. We’re all humans, but the growing divide between men and women needs to be discussed. Social media plays a huge role in manipulating women with false narratives, feeding them unrealistic expectations, and creating hatred between genders. As a result, beta males are beginning to hate women because they’re observing how difficult life has become-not just in dating but also in career and other aspects. Men are becoming more aware, but at the end of the day, they must be extremely cautious about the kind of woman they choose. The choice will either lead to a happy life or a disastrous one. Never accept a woman with “past baggage” or a high body count. Always prioritize yourself first and then consider anyone else. Especially for Indian men, this caution is critical, because it’s ultimately they who end up getting hurt the most. I have lot to say about this but why I waste my energy... And never deleted my comments
Thank you for stating things clearly. It's easy for women to label men as simps. It's easy for women in aspects of dating because they just have look pretty and wait. They don't need to develop a sense of humor or learn pickup lines or specific mannerisms to be seen as attractive. On top of that, modern working women expect men to earn more than them, while talking crap about equality.
@@abhilashd6360 even I think they also lost their father also in their mind how much hard he did to make or fullfill their family needs every single possible ways.. my family is my first priority.. they didn't think about their self.. this girl never se or mirror or learn being a men it's curl not easy
Over analysis. I enjoy treating women well. End of story. If they leave me because I'm being too kind, well that's her loss and I move on to another woman. Love her but don't get attached to her. Live in the moment.
Self love is very imp, this is where most of the people out there goes wrong!! valuing the other person more than they deserve end up hurting ourselves!! all of the points you pointed out in this video, is absolutely right!
That's what men are trying to do, we are changing ourselves instead of chasing women we are trying to progress our lives alone then those women who rejected us would come back like when they didn't get better men at their 28 and 30s, then we would reject them and save ourselves from those ever changing personality beings
Myth: Be yourself, be gentleman, focus your goals & you will get suitable woman. Reality: I have seen women giving themselves to simps rather than a true gentlemen. 😂
Depends what is a SIMP according to u , It's not wrong to approach ppl show affection and give attention , But when it's not reciprocated and is taken for granted n the demands keep on getting increasingly insane and yet the giver of attention keeps on giving it despite being walked upon all over himself , That's when u are a simp It's better to just be single than getting someone by being a simp and getting walked all over upon u by them , cuz one day u will explode and ofc the relationship will erupt into huge rage and u would end up bitter .
Any guy who's watching this video , i request... please do not waste your time. She has just pointed out the A, B, C, D 's of not becoming a simp... There's more to it. This video feels like a monologue downloaded from the internet
It's not about being simps , it's about lack of socializing with opposite sex..Men generally in our indian society were always objectified from having friendship with females which became a set of drawback for them and didn't know how to socialize with them.
This video should be loud enough to reach most of the simps These guys are the reason why women's unrealistic expectations are getting higher everyday as these guys will accept every demand a woman makes and she flaunts this simp as her servant on social media encouraging other women to find a simp like her bf and women bombard her comment section with "where can I find a guy like him" watching how many women are reacting positively to this content simps will start mimicking this behaviour to get women and cycle of unrealistic expectations from women continues on and on. Fun fact: most of the times the simp isn't even that woman's first priority he is just a safety net
The way you articulate, your body language, your expression, your psychological knowledge everything looks perfect. Indeed masculinity is being confident, calm, decisive, setting boundaries and having mission and purpose in life.
@@sagnikbhattacharya9191 no bro actually the meaning is that the best bait and technique will attract the fish. (bait= wealth, technique = personality and looks)
This video hit me so hard! It made me think of I knew one person that siffed and messed at. Always placed everyone before himself and used bad relationship habits as his fuel. He couldn't remake that mold of dating though once he realized self respect mattered at all cost and dam the hurts before. I honestly think that when you must pursue your self love whats left is deeper, more meaningful relationships. Love the can kicking on this theme and getting ppl fired up about it!!
And for the men reading this comment it's absolutely okay as you are now' what she talks about I realised this very early in my life when I turned 19 and my feelings were never heard in childhood moreover growing up with single mother got me' this Trauma, but anyways you' can surely heal from this within 6-8 months by realisation, focusing on career/business and glowing up spiritually, mentally and physically!!
I am so ashamed right now to see how we men have fallen so bad in this generation that we are even getting counselled by women on how we should be a men, tough times soldiers, please bounce back, they are not worth it if you chase, the right one will come along and add value ❤
I agree. 💯 No one likes people pleasing & desperate attitude. Men have been fed this stupid lie that you've to simp & fall head over heels for their female counterpart, basically lose your self respect & dignity to gain their respect which is obviously not true. You can take care of your partner's emotional and physical needs without simping. Thanks for talking about this.
Everything that you say is very clear and Precise but I wanted to add something, Please take it as constructive criticism. So, the way you present all of the things is very understandable and well organized, but you talk a bit faster than usual, so it would be very convenient for the audience If you spoke a little bit slower.
Great video and very practical ideas. But men, trust your bro, the first priority is to set the right behaviours that will lead to the life you want. Second is to take care of your parents, don't run from it, it's your and solely your responsibility, not your brother's, or your elder brother's. It's YOURS. And when you have these straight, one day you will find a girl whom you will look at and you will not notice that you have been looking at her for more than a moment. When you find her, don't play games, don't try to be high value or sigma or any of that. Talk to her and the rest will follow. Wishing myself and you all a life and a wife we deserve.
what's wrong in being a man and giving off highly "feminine energy"? i believe one should not be limited when it comes to be self expression. i get it when someone just genuinely have more "masculine traits" in your opinion, but i also believe that being the authentic version of "you" is always better then trying to be under label of "masculine energy or feminine energy", being your true authentic self is what makes you special. i also think that if someone just gives off more "feminine energy" and will try to bend into social standards of what "masculine" is then that's just self harm in the long run and which can give off "toxic masculinity".
This is just a westernised concept that work on purpose focus on yourself bla bla bla..... But in india majority mens are driven with responsibilities to work for their families mostly middle class mens and I don't think their relationship/ marriages are falling bcuz they don't have any purpose or just to feed their families best example hardik Pandey he is focused working on his purpose, millionaire, one time captain of team india but still failed in love so you cannot conclude by saying that all womens are like that who loves a purpose driven passionate men it's just your perspective learned from west that doesn't work in india or elsewhere 😅
This is not the case here that you pointed out here, she is talking about simps, You are right that Hardik pandey failed in love but that is a total different case they are divorced. And are already in a married life before that. And she is talking about simping Which diffrent topic Beacause in that a boy start stalking a girl Starts talking, aur baaton ka aise chnge kr deta hai jaise ki vo ladki uski khud ki ho ya use kisi aur ladko se baat krne se mna krna start ke dena Aur uske ghr ke chakkr katna apne tym waste krke jbki us tym usko apna kaam krna chahiye Dosti ko relationship bnane ka jbrjasti kosis krna Meri hi friends ke saath ho chuka is typ ka harkat
Pehle vo baat krna start kiya baad me dusre ladko se baat krna bnd krne bola fir aise baat krne lga ki mai tumhe psnd krta hu. Pyaar krta hu, pr aisa feeling ladki ko nhi hai us ladke ke liye, bta di vo ki aisa nhi sochti uske baare me, to ladka fir gussa hona baat n krna for bhi ladki thoda dost ki thr smjhayi ki apne kaam pr dhayn de tera bhi future hai to smjha nhi To ab kya kr skti thi vo baat krna bnd kr di Uske kuch mhino baad un sb chiz ke liye sorry bola fir baate start kiya for vhi sb hrkt repeat ghr aana start vo bhi itna dur 24 km jake copy exchnge krne ke bhane se dekhne ke liye ladki smjh nhi payi ki bina emergencey ke kyu aana jana kr rha hai itna dur vo jbki school me roz mil rhe hai baat bhi ho rha tha phone me Pr ab ladki ke ghr valo ko smjh aagya ye baat So what do you think simping aur love ek chiz hai ??
Anand Tondan then CEO of SMIFS suffered severe setback for being over possessive with a woman having surname MENON in 1990, as Ajay Kayan the chairman ran after him so badly for misbehaving with that menon GIRL.
If you don't need a relationship that's totally fine but I think it's beautiful isnt it.. After a period of time all my friends will have their partners, if I don't have anyone whom with I DESIRE to live my entire life with, then what's the meaning of living. These are my thoughts, you can have different viewpoints.
At a certain time you feel loneliness or need who help u emotion that time u will realise why relationship is important, moreover I think u r adult now after a time old age hits no want a person as a burden, that time this person will help u
Remember, relationship won't make you happy. It's just like that lie, "this job will make you happy." Happiness and contentment lies in having a secure relationship with yourself, where you have this pursuit of knowing thyself.
I have always been an introvert typa guy, infact i have 1 own and 8 cousin sisters. I know how to talk to girls but hanging out with them since i didn't have any brothers , it showed the side women that is completely different from the narrative of society. I never had any gf since then, cause i know if i prioritize them on pedestal i will be fkd up. Healthy life and making parents proud should be no 1 on the list.
Bottom line is, if one wants to be in a relationship, that relationship must be of equals or it simply fails. When somebody chases their prospective partner and the partner keeps them in the "nice guy" zone or just keeps using the person, clearly it would never be a relationship of equals. Even if one succeeds Once the passion starts fading out, the efforts one might have applied starts becoming a thing of the past and this is the start of the end of the relationship. The mental trauma might be far deep and dark than the desperation of being single. So the point is MAN UP, keep an example of true masculinity in front of you and always ask yourself whether that person would ever commit such actions.
She is right . I made wrong 😅 ! I understood it earlier, now I pay to get , that's my mind . I do still simp , I do what I like , I actually don't care anymore what they think, just live and do what feel happy and isn't wrong .
your points are really great, but this issue is mostly in Indian boys, and many of them still don't know english, I would recommend please create contents in hindi too, it will also help you, to grow your channel.
The problm is after relationship and marriage u want that same men to convert into simp. Basically to satisfy a women completely for whole life is impossible cz every 2 nd day women's thoughts and mentality chnges. So my msg for men is stick to ur career goals take care of parents nver run for a girl.
80% is correct 90% is too high May b you as a girl, see a normal behaviour of someone as simping, and may be if you tell them, they can immediately correct
Hi Vaish, I have been watching your videos for a while and found them all very relevant and well-researched. Your communication skills are also very impressive. Keep up the great work and continue to inspire everyone!
I appreciate your advice, and personally, I will apply some important points you said in the video, like self, which I understand is a must for everyone, irrespective of gender. But I disagree with you vaguely saying work on your attachment issues. It's like telling a serial killer who has murderous tendencies to work on his/her tendencies working on yours. There is a reason these men turned out to be like this with attachment issues because I believe no one would intentionally want to live a life like this, they came from traumatic environments, and they have seen their parents fight or maybe even worse in some cases. So your statement vaguely says, that you work on your attachment issues as if they could be treated or cured in one day. Please be mindful of what you say
Yet many would say, you prioritise your work above your lover. All of this you said would certainly work but no way she will come up with arguments. In the end, it all falls on the equation of how both partners are as a human, his core values. All the limits, boundaries, freedom you gave would be leveraged out by her - if he gives time sje won't like it - pyar se ghar nhi chalta, paison se chslta hai I had to do this because you never give time to me.
Please do more of such content. because i should also firstly say I am Sorry , but I watch a lot of the video in Mute.. I mean i tried once . and going to .. OfCourse . but I think what you say is correct, but might not be all. ofcourse you might not be talking Every thing on RUclips .You might be a very good Hitch for your Clients . 😍
The best video every should watch before getting into relationship in 2025 . Thanks alot girl . Youre doing great work towards mens welness. Love from Bihar ❤
Bhai na simp na sigma, subah uthne ka kaam pe jane ka, khana khaneka aur bati bujake mast sojaneka. Koi mili to bhi theek na mili to aur bhi theek 😎. #SarthakGoel
See I don't think it's self love that one needs but rather to feel complete within oneself. Because what is it that u can self love your body and your personality because thats all a person has experience of. Both body and personality should keep improving but if u start loving yourself what i experienced was it became hard to change my personality and it prevented me from becoming the best version of myself. When one have no idea of how to change and people are not accepting them, it became natural to come up with the conclusion well atleast i have to love myself. So from my experience if i say its better to become the love than to love yourself. But the hard part is to accept the fact that no science or psychology people can help u with that. U have to enter the field of spirituality. To all people out there before u start loving a person first feel complete within yourself then learn how to let go of anything precious , develop that emotional integrity and maturity because at the end of the day nothing is permanent. Then share the love that you are. As long as you do this no matter what happens in life we will always have the power to make good out of anything.
You are absolutely right but even you know not everything is black and white . What do you suggest i do if ny partner keep crossing the boundary ? Leave her? Is this how simple it is ? No. Sometimes they have reasons . Now what?
Society teaches men to be simps, then punishes men for being simps.. I had to unlearn years of simp propaganda to finally achieve balance in my life.. I had to learn how to be comfortably single, and then i finally began to focus on self improvement and also began attracting women..
@@Avin9969 society doesn't teach us to be simps, instead they teach us to be Sakht Launda but this F-ing Bollywood teaches us to simp for women
Appreciate
Me too bro. I did exactly the same as you. Also, it preserves the mental health 😄
"finally began to focus on self improvement and also began attracting women"..this sums up everything....that your entire life revolves around women and know this you will just end like a host which is infested and infected by a parasite...all your self improvement is ultimately to get the box.......😆😆😆😆
Me too
Let me tell this to young men
Any man who puts his relationship above his purpose will lose both... Happy New Year, yall.
They say 'Effort Matters' also they say 'We don't like simps' 😔
Both are different things.
Girl in this video making you aware so that ur efforts don't go in wrong direction or wasting ur time n effort
Effort happens for relationships not for random people 😂
WHAT THEY THINK SHOULD NOT BE IMPORTANT TO YOU.
A REAL MAN DONT CARE WHAT A GIRL THINK, HE WORKS HARD FOR HIMSLEF ENJOYS HIS LIFE. OPENLY ASK GIRLS TO BE HIS GF AND THEN SEX IF DIRECT YES THEN OK ELSE NEXT, NOT RUNNING BEHIND HER TO IMPRESS.
THE DAY YOU TRY TO IMPRESS A GIRL YOU ARE HEADING IN WRONG DIRECTION IN LIFE. GIRLS ARE MADE TO CHASE SUCCESSFUL MEN. DONT DO OPPOSITE.
YOUR EFFORTS WILL MAKE YOU LOOK WEAK AND THEY WANT TO MAKE YOU SLAVE
@@rebacathek-popfan7950Correct 💯
Both are very different things, my effort it means an equal exchange of value while being a simp means putting in effort without ever getting anything in return
What you’ve said is absolutely right, but let me provide a perspective on this.
I know some guys in my circle who are doing very well in life-they are financially stable, taking care of themselves, and progressing at a good pace for their age. Everyone knows the importance of having a partner, and naturally, they also try to connect with women or go on dates. But they aren’t desperate, running after every woman like a street dog for attention. They don’t jump from one woman to another just because they find someone attractive.
Women, on the other hand, rarely make the first move. They expect men to take the initiative. Fine, men step up and make the effort, but even after that, the situation with modern women is not ideal. No one talks about their behavior. This isn’t about being a “simp” or messaging every girl repeatedly. If she isn’t interested, men move on. But the truth is, many women ghost men and are constantly chasing “alpha males.” When that alpha male leaves them, they return to the “beta males” carrying emotional baggage. But by then, even those beta males have wised up to the harsh realities of today’s dating market.
Now, even if a man is focused on his purpose and goals, there’s still a high chance that he’ll face heartbreak or betrayal. I personally know two women in my mutual circle who had four partners each. So, the question arises-how can men trust women today? At this rate, building a healthy relationship in the future seems incredibly difficult.
No one talks about how the modern dating culture is flawed or about the toxic feminist propaganda that’s creating chaos. Women today have privileges and know how to use them to their advantage. They play the game smartly, but in the end, it’s the men who suffer in multiple ways. This leaves men with just one option-stay single and live in “freeze mode” for the rest of their lives.
I’m not insecure-I know my worth very well. At my age, I’ve achieved a lot, and I know I’ll keep improving because I’m clear about what I want.
What concerns me is that around 80% of men in India are single, and society labels them as “simps.” It’s laughable. Many men have now chosen the “monk mode” lifestyle, but they’ve also started viewing all women with skepticism.
Yes, there are high-value women in the dating market, but the majority of men are high chance of cheated by their life partners or gf in some way or another. The societal issues need to be addressed from both sides. We’re all humans, but the growing divide between men and women needs to be discussed.
Social media plays a huge role in manipulating women with false narratives, feeding them unrealistic expectations, and creating hatred between genders. As a result, beta males are beginning to hate women because they’re observing how difficult life has become-not just in dating but also in career and other aspects.
Men are becoming more aware, but at the end of the day, they must be extremely cautious about the kind of woman they choose. The choice will either lead to a happy life or a disastrous one. Never accept a woman with “past baggage” or a high body count. Always prioritize yourself first and then consider anyone else. Especially for Indian men, this caution is critical, because it’s ultimately they who end up getting hurt the most.
I have lot to say about this but why I waste my energy...
And never deleted my comments
100 % agreed
Thank you for stating things clearly. It's easy for women to label men as simps. It's easy for women in aspects of dating because they just have look pretty and wait. They don't need to develop a sense of humor or learn pickup lines or specific mannerisms to be seen as attractive. On top of that, modern working women expect men to earn more than them, while talking crap about equality.
@@abhilashd6360 even I think they also lost their father also in their mind how much hard he did to make or fullfill their family needs every single possible ways.. my family is my first priority.. they didn't think about their self.. this girl never se or mirror or learn being a men it's curl not easy
Over analysis. I enjoy treating women well. End of story. If they leave me because I'm being too kind, well that's her loss and I move on to another woman. Love her but don't get attached to her. Live in the moment.
Saving your comment for future.
she exactly knows how to survive on internet. and also she exactly knows what she is doing.
Atleast words coming from her mouth is not trash, and holds weight to improve teenagers. Atleast mere doston ke lie to ye lines kaam krengi
Finally the comments
You escaped the matrix..
Self love is very imp, this is where most of the people out there goes wrong!! valuing the other person more than they deserve end up hurting ourselves!! all of the points you pointed out in this video, is absolutely right!
Which means 60% of the population will never get married.
Lots of emotionally effed up men still land up love of there life
That's what men are trying to do, we are changing ourselves instead of chasing women we are trying to progress our lives alone then those women who rejected us would come back like when they didn't get better men at their 28 and 30s, then we would reject them and save ourselves from those ever changing personality beings
"90% simps.." how did you come to the conclusion.. is there any reference?
Just look around in your daily life...
Its more than that
Atleast in india, this is the case..mostly because of bollywood movies 😂
My whole crowd of males were mostly simps.
You can see the simps near you when a girl and boy fell on road and people run to save the girl not the boy.
Myth: Be yourself, be gentleman, focus your goals & you will get suitable woman.
Reality: I have seen women giving themselves to simps rather than a true gentlemen. 😂
Depends what is a SIMP according to u , It's not wrong to approach ppl show affection and give attention , But when it's not reciprocated and is taken for granted n the demands keep on getting increasingly insane and yet the giver of attention keeps on giving it despite being walked upon all over himself , That's when u are a simp
It's better to just be single than getting someone by being a simp and getting walked all over upon u by them , cuz one day u will explode and ofc the relationship will erupt into huge rage and u would end up bitter .
more precisely, they give themselves to the bad guys, the simps are totally despised
Any guy who's watching this video , i request... please do not waste your time.
She has just pointed out the A, B, C, D 's of not becoming a simp... There's more to it.
This video feels like a monologue downloaded from the internet
A lot of people need it u might not need it but they are people who needs to hear it
thx bro
thanks man.. this is the benefit of opening comments
thanks for saving my time i m quitting it
It's not about being simps , it's about lack of socializing with opposite sex..Men generally in our indian society were always objectified from having friendship with females which became a set of drawback for them and didn't know how to socialize with them.
This video should be loud enough to reach most of the simps These guys are the reason why women's unrealistic expectations are getting higher everyday as these guys will accept every demand a woman makes and she flaunts this simp as her servant on social media encouraging other women to find a simp like her bf and women bombard her comment section with "where can I find a guy like him" watching how many women are reacting positively to this content simps will start mimicking this behaviour to get women and cycle of unrealistic expectations from women continues on and on.
Fun fact: most of the times the simp isn't even that woman's first priority he is just a safety net
Self respect is above all.
At the end, its always You vs You
The way you articulate, your body language, your expression, your psychological knowledge everything looks perfect. Indeed masculinity is being confident, calm, decisive, setting boundaries and having mission and purpose in life.
Simp
@@Skewel🤣🤣🤣
@@Skewelhe looks like chatGPT
@@Skewel, just men making it hard for other men to live
@@Skewel😂
Do not ask the fish how to catch fish.. ask the fisherman.. Those who know know..
Hmm
Good 😮
Don't compare a girl with a fish..a girl comes to your life willingly whereas a fish comes unwillingly
exactly
@@sagnikbhattacharya9191 no bro actually the meaning is that the best bait and technique will attract the fish. (bait= wealth, technique = personality and looks)
This video hit me so hard! It made me think of I knew one person that siffed and messed at. Always placed everyone before himself and used bad relationship habits as his fuel. He couldn't remake that mold of dating though once he realized self respect mattered at all cost and dam the hurts before. I honestly think that when you must pursue your self love whats left is deeper, more meaningful relationships. Love the can kicking on this theme and getting ppl fired up about it!!
And for the men reading this comment it's absolutely okay as you are now' what she talks about I realised this very early in my life when I turned 19 and my feelings were never heard in childhood moreover growing up with single mother got me' this Trauma, but anyways you' can surely heal from this within 6-8 months by realisation, focusing on career/business and glowing up spiritually, mentally and physically!!
I am so ashamed right now to see how we men have fallen so bad in this generation that we are even getting counselled by women on how we should be a men, tough times soldiers, please bounce back, they are not worth it if you chase, the right one will come along and add value ❤
I agree. 💯
No one likes people pleasing & desperate attitude. Men have been fed this stupid lie that you've to simp & fall head over heels for their female counterpart, basically lose your self respect & dignity to gain their respect which is obviously not true. You can take care of your partner's emotional and physical needs without simping. Thanks for talking about this.
No BS. Straight to the the point. Awesome video 👏 keep going
damn true..really..over-sharing,over anything can ruin..
There is one more type of simp. One who asks a woman on how to be attractive to a woman 😂😂😂
I did that man and she just hated it later during break up she told multiple times that how much i am insecure and inferior
bro indirectly roasting all the viewers 😂😂😂
Best comment 😂tbh
over-sharing,over anything can ruin..
1.14
2.51 to 4.39
5.21 - Are you Simping or not how to find out? - 6.32 onwards
Oh girl !! where were you all these years 😭😭. Finally knocking some true sense. Thank you very much❤️
simp spotted
Everything that you say is very clear and Precise but I wanted to add something, Please take it as constructive criticism. So, the way you present all of the things is very understandable and well organized, but you talk a bit faster than usual, so it would be very convenient for the audience If you spoke a little bit slower.
Great video and very practical ideas.
But men, trust your bro, the first priority is to set the right behaviours that will lead to the life you want.
Second is to take care of your parents, don't run from it, it's your and solely your responsibility, not your brother's, or your elder brother's. It's YOURS.
And when you have these straight, one day you will find a girl whom you will look at and you will not notice that you have been looking at her for more than a moment. When you find her, don't play games, don't try to be high value or sigma or any of that. Talk to her and the rest will follow.
Wishing myself and you all a life and a wife we deserve.
what's wrong in being a man and giving off highly "feminine energy"? i believe one should not be limited when it comes to be self expression. i get it when someone just genuinely have more "masculine traits" in your opinion, but i also believe that being the authentic version of "you" is always better then trying to be under label of "masculine energy or feminine energy", being your true authentic self is what makes you special. i also think that if someone just gives off more "feminine energy" and will try to bend into social standards of what "masculine" is then that's just self harm in the long run and which can give off "toxic masculinity".
So basically overly available people are called simp
Love this. This needs to be a daily alarm for men. ❤
8:50 now I realised I've wasted 9 minutes, coz I'm not in it 😂,
After learning from your skool community i will make you fall for me first mam.
Thanks to the Saviour ;)
Thankyou mommy for this lovely video ❤
Happy new year to all of you 🎊
This is just a westernised concept that work on purpose focus on yourself bla bla bla..... But in india majority mens are driven with responsibilities to work for their families mostly middle class mens and I don't think their relationship/ marriages are falling bcuz they don't have any purpose or just to feed their families best example hardik Pandey he is focused working on his purpose, millionaire, one time captain of team india but still failed in love so you cannot conclude by saying that all womens are like that who loves a purpose driven passionate men it's just your perspective learned from west that doesn't work in india or elsewhere 😅
This is not the case here that you pointed out here, she is talking about simps,
You are right that Hardik pandey failed in love but that is a total different case they are divorced.
And are already in a married life before that.
And she is talking about simping
Which diffrent topic
Beacause in that a boy start stalking a girl
Starts talking, aur baaton ka aise chnge kr deta hai jaise ki vo ladki uski khud ki ho ya use kisi aur ladko se baat krne se mna krna start ke dena
Aur uske ghr ke chakkr katna apne tym waste krke jbki us tym usko apna kaam krna chahiye
Dosti ko relationship bnane ka jbrjasti kosis krna
Meri hi friends ke saath ho chuka is typ ka harkat
Pehle vo baat krna start kiya baad me dusre ladko se baat krna bnd krne bola fir aise baat krne lga ki mai tumhe psnd krta hu. Pyaar krta hu, pr aisa feeling ladki ko nhi hai us ladke ke liye, bta di vo ki aisa nhi sochti uske baare me, to ladka fir gussa hona baat n krna for bhi ladki thoda dost ki thr smjhayi ki apne kaam pr dhayn de tera bhi future hai to smjha nhi
To ab kya kr skti thi vo baat krna bnd kr di
Uske kuch mhino baad un sb chiz ke liye sorry bola fir baate start kiya for vhi sb hrkt repeat ghr aana start vo bhi itna dur 24 km jake copy exchnge krne ke bhane se dekhne ke liye ladki smjh nhi payi ki bina emergencey ke kyu aana jana kr rha hai itna dur vo jbki school me roz mil rhe hai baat bhi ho rha tha phone me
Pr ab ladki ke ghr valo ko smjh aagya ye baat
So what do you think simping aur love ek chiz hai ??
beauty with brain in irl, I totally agreed with your words
Anyone can figure out that you are a Biggest Simp ever😂😂😂
"90% men are simps" I highly disagree with this statement
Well said... Thanks... Advance happy new year sis
Anand Tondan then CEO of SMIFS suffered severe setback for being over possessive with a woman having surname MENON in 1990, as Ajay Kayan the chairman ran after him so badly for misbehaving with that menon GIRL.
If my purposr should come first why the hell should i have relationship
If you don't need a relationship that's totally fine but I think it's beautiful isnt it..
After a period of time all my friends will have their partners, if I don't have anyone whom with I DESIRE to live my entire life with, then what's the meaning of living.
These are my thoughts, you can have different viewpoints.
At a certain time you feel loneliness or need who help u emotion that time u will realise why relationship is important, moreover I think u r adult now after a time old age hits no want a person as a burden, that time this person will help u
Self respecting leads to a linely life ahead
Nice advice
Remember, relationship won't make you happy. It's just like that lie, "this job will make you happy."
Happiness and contentment lies in having a secure relationship with yourself, where you have this pursuit of knowing thyself.
Great 📈
I have always been an introvert typa guy, infact i have 1 own and 8 cousin sisters. I know how to talk to girls but hanging out with them since i didn't have any brothers , it showed the side women that is completely different from the narrative of society. I never had any gf since then, cause i know if i prioritize them on pedestal i will be fkd up. Healthy life and making parents proud should be no 1 on the list.
Genuine content , thanks for resonating with me .
Will take your lectures as a general advise but not in men and women matters.
Vaish menon you really opened my eyes I was in the simp but I swear I won't repeat this again
No bro' keep licking their asses😂😂😂 it's your life. Make it large.😂
Bottom line is, if one wants to be in a relationship, that relationship must be of equals or it simply fails. When somebody chases their prospective partner and the partner keeps them in the "nice guy" zone or just keeps using the person, clearly it would never be a relationship of equals. Even if one succeeds Once the passion starts fading out, the efforts one might have applied starts becoming a thing of the past and this is the start of the end of the relationship. The mental trauma might be far deep and dark than the desperation of being single. So the point is MAN UP, keep an example of true masculinity in front of you and always ask yourself whether that person would ever commit such actions.
Proper eye opener🙏💥
U r really example of the high value women
She is right . I made wrong 😅 ! I understood it earlier, now I pay to get , that's my mind . I do still simp , I do what I like , I actually don't care anymore what they think, just live and do what feel happy and isn't wrong .
everything you said i totally agree with that 💗
your points are really great, but this issue is mostly in Indian boys, and many of them still don't know english, I would recommend please create contents in hindi too, it will also help you, to grow your channel.
Simping can also arguably be a consequence of how women bring up their sons.
The problm is after relationship and marriage u want that same men to convert into simp.
Basically to satisfy a women completely for whole life is impossible cz every 2 nd day women's thoughts and mentality chnges.
So my msg for men is stick to ur career goals take care of parents nver run for a girl.
80% is correct
90% is too high
May b you as a girl, see a normal behaviour of someone as simping, and may be if you tell them, they can immediately correct
Hi Vaish,
I have been watching your videos for a while and found them all very relevant and well-researched. Your communication skills are also very impressive. Keep up the great work and continue to inspire everyone!
I appreciate your advice, and personally, I will apply some important points you said in the video, like self, which I understand is a must for everyone, irrespective of gender. But I disagree with you vaguely saying work on your attachment issues. It's like telling a serial killer who has murderous tendencies to work on his/her tendencies working on yours.
There is a reason these men turned out to be like this with attachment issues because I believe no one would intentionally want to live a life like this, they came from traumatic environments, and they have seen their parents fight or maybe even worse in some cases. So your statement vaguely says, that you work on your attachment issues as if they could be treated or cured in one day. Please be mindful of what you say
I think in the new year I found this video to change my life
Your content is amazing and super helpful. Great communication too! Happy New Year!
You and Listen to me, Joao are the only two on youtube i will even listen to........ Happy New Year!
Podi ivale
Men are sigma 🗿🔥
Very good keep it up ❤😊
Very nice points ❤
Yet many would say, you prioritise your work above your lover.
All of this you said would certainly work but no way she will come up with arguments.
In the end, it all falls on the equation of how both partners are as a human, his core values.
All the limits, boundaries, freedom you gave would be leveraged out by her - if he gives time sje won't like it - pyar se ghar nhi chalta, paison se chslta hai I had to do this because you never give time to me.
Please do more of such content. because i should also firstly say I am Sorry , but I watch a lot of the video in Mute.. I mean i tried once . and going to .. OfCourse . but I think what you say is correct, but might not be all. ofcourse you might not be talking Every thing on RUclips .You might be a very good Hitch for your Clients . 😍
This is how the real woman talks and think💯💯
Definition of masculinity
I would say many of us are tired now maybe few of us are simps
That means you too a Simp.😂😂😂
Your contents are really amazing.. Interesting to watch. Keep it up
Being Clingy and Being a Simp are different virtues, Your title and Thumbnail are misleading!
The best video every should watch before getting into relationship in 2025 . Thanks alot girl . Youre doing great work towards mens welness. Love from Bihar ❤
thank you so much for this you are the best
give us the full guide to become a masculine bad boy
Nice content
Nice video ma'am and happy new year
Aap challenge videos banate ho?
In a different universe may be...
Bhai na simp na sigma, subah uthne ka kaam pe jane ka, khana khaneka aur bati bujake mast sojaneka. Koi mili to bhi theek na mili to aur bhi theek 😎.
#SarthakGoel
What's your opinion looks matter for a relationship ❤
Women are so picky and fall for looks and money than we men do. If any woman says that she falls for character not looks then she must be lying.
Happy New year🎉🎉...I am impressed by your communication skills ❤
GOLDEN POINTS
If you make a video about full healthy relationship guide it would solve every problem
I was made into some kind if simp. I have this people pleasing syndrome but I never chased women. It's a general tendancy.
One of your astute videos..
Thanks for geneuion guidance.
By the Nice communication skill.
yes you are right...
Chivalry is biggest simping activity.
See I don't think it's self love that one needs but rather to feel complete within oneself. Because what is it that u can self love your body and your personality because thats all a person has experience of. Both body and personality should keep improving but if u start loving yourself what i experienced was it became hard to change my personality and it prevented me from becoming the best version of myself. When one have no idea of how to change and people are not accepting them, it became natural to come up with the conclusion well atleast i have to love myself. So from my experience if i say its better to become the love than to love yourself. But the hard part is to accept the fact that no science or psychology people can help u with that. U have to enter the field of spirituality. To all people out there before u start loving a person first feel complete within yourself then learn how to let go of anything precious , develop that emotional integrity and maturity because at the end of the day nothing is permanent. Then share the love that you are. As long as you do this no matter what happens in life we will always have the power to make good out of anything.
If we help we are simp if we don't help we are mean
Mean chlega lakin valued women will not think you are mean, she will just find you as hard to get
You are absolutely right but even you know not everything is black and white . What do you suggest i do if ny partner keep crossing the boundary ? Leave her? Is this how simple it is ? No. Sometimes they have reasons . Now what?
relax guys "This is business", she knows how it works
Why r u so underrated 😮 ... I've just found your channel 🎉🎉🎉
Don't simp
Agree with you my friend
Could talk us through your journey to becoming a "men's dating/wellness coach "
thank you
Where did you get the data that 90% men are simps? What peer reviewed studies or meta analysis have you to back your claim?
Best advice in 1st january I'll followup!?
Thanks mam I have subscribed this channal