Considering the marriage and divorce laws which are so women-centric and gender-biased, marriage has become horror story for men. Women and their families are misusing the laws and blackmail men for alimony and maintenance.
I decided not to marry. I am in 30s....... and my friends who are career wise way more successful than me..... are either running around divorce courts (Divorces in india are more common than developed country like japan)...or have turned to EMI cattle. Me on other hand have easily travelled multiple countries......and in multiple relationships.Literal Zero Stress😎
Blackmail men in pretext of marriage by women also a women favouring and women empowerment commission aggresive process of women centric laws judiciary
Hell NO! My brother got divorced and completely F'ed up his life. And he was an IITB grad and worked at one of the FANG companies - nothing to sneeze. Still he wasn't enough for that woman. After divorce, she turned his daughter against him. Who wants that shit show in their life. Nah! I am just fine without it. My parents who saw my bro don't even ask me to get married. They are just fine me being alone.
My neighbor committed suicide. It was covered in newspaper and TV. His wife Was having an affair with her colleague. She filed false case and event took custody of two kids. He Was heart broken and hanged. Family living here for 25 plus years. His dad about to retire. Whole family dynamics changed. I still don't understand how jokers in judiciary award custody to one who cheated.
India law के चलते मेरा भी मैरिज करने की इच्छा खत्म हो गई , 😢अगर डाइवोर्स हो गया तो क्या होगा अपनी हड्डी बेच कर भी maintenance and alimony का पैसा देना पड़ेगा
" 3 Cheers to equality " -To marry me, He should earn 3X than me but after marriage i want equality. - I can choose not to work outside, I can choose not to work at home but providing for the family is his duty. - I want my name in our matrimonial home but even if i am working, paying EMI is his liability. - I don't want his family name but I want share in his ancestral property. - I don't want his name in our child's passport but he has to fund our international/national holidays. - I have absolute clarity if my husband has an affair, it is cruelty. If i cheat on my husband it is my body my sexuality. - If wife leaves a husband it will be her new opportunity, If husband leaves a wife he will be shamed by society. - A separated wife always a victim, a separated husband is by default always guilty. Three cheers to equality.
Note that these used to be conditions even by women of older generations but men used to get something in return, typically, youth beauty fertility and chastity. Now you get a 30's or 35+ female, dangling a leg in geriatric pregnancy, youth beauty lost to the career and yet somehow makes herself believe that she can enjoy female privileges when young and then at 40 will enjoy privileges accorded to males at later ages. So she keeps increasing her REQUIREMENTS and decreasing things she provides but is mentally deluded by feminism to thing 'the world' is against her !
For 10-20 minutes pleasure ,how can anyone destroy his/her 23:40 hours of each day of life?...life is so much greater than all these marriage and dramas...
@Rohan_Choudhary5 10 to 20 mins stops after sometime for many men all over world not just india. A woman can say my husband is not satisfying and ask for divorce but most men does not do that as we loss more and from our gen taught respect women for minor troubles.
Now it's okay bro I'm 22 but living single is better than after getting divorce pay the alimony pay the children support needs courts permission to meet them and she's get half of your property this is hell and she can live with a another man and court is Fine with that.
I have been married for 5 years now and I tell you with my pure heart. It's been a trauma for me. Never felt happy in the relationship and now courts are involved. Extremely difficult time.
@@nikhilsrivastava4172 Hope you're doing well. What is the issue. Why will a woman want to screw her own marriage and live divorced life. Did you observed any red flags during marriage which you ignored ?
*False accusations, questions on my character, abuses my family, small fights led to years of no talking, never cared for anything.* Things I shared with her in confidence (money/property) all declared in public. Can't explain what I felt when I got to know all these false allegations.
Bhai kaash me aapki madad kr paata, but i hope you stay healthy both physically and mentally. Accha hoga ki aap doston ke sath rho, achi company me rho, Modi ji naari jaati ko jitna radically forward kr rhe usse lagra aage aadmio ko aur dikkat hone wali hai@@nikhilsrivastava4172
My friend did the mistake like you. I still feel like slapping him because I told him not to increase his trouble. But he went on with it and now complains all the time.
Indian men are rejecting marriage, and can anyone truly blame Us? Look beyond the surface, beyond what’s said in this polished video. The real stories, the heartbreak, the betrayal, the fear, they’re all in the comments. Many women today have been with countless s*xual partners and are unable to pair bond, and if a man dares to marry one and later seeks a way out, the price he pays is devastating. He’s pulled into endless, brutal court battles where he’s bled dry, forced to hand over his hard-earned savings in alimony and child support, watching helplessly as his assets are stripped away. His reputation, his future, everything he’s worked his entire life for, gone. And now, with paternity tests illegal, he’s even denied the basic right to know if the child he’s supporting is truly his own flesh and blood. Why should Indian men be forced to play the role of a 'retirement plan' for some girl who spent her best years chasing 'freedom' and ‘empowerment’ while he sacrificed for his future? Why should they risk everything-finances, reputation, peace of mind-to pick up the pieces of choices they never made? It’s not fear of commitment; it’s fear of losing everything. And that fear is real.
Men physiological societal norms process with emotions men never accepted by majoritarian women empowerment society and women commission laws judiciary and mostly women instinct always search better but never seeks and do best
The courts have failed the marriage institution in india. It's okay if the wife cheats, you can move on and find someone new. The problem is that she cheats and takes away more than a third of your net worth with her. Even if the kid is not yours, you'll be forced to pay for it. Paternity test is not taken as an evidence of adultery. You are destined to be the ultimate loser despite not doing any wrong. No man who's actually aware of this would ever willingly sign up to be a clown.
@@nobsguykeepitreal one small correction. Courts interpret laws that are made by parliament. The Guardians and wards act which is basic law that decides custody dates back to 1890. Shared Parenting as default law has been introduced in progressive nations like Denmark and Switzerland. But our parliamentarians foggies refuse to even start that discussion. They are the biggest culprits.
1. Law is against MEN 2. Women dont wanna cook & clean anymore 3. Alot of people have multiple partners in past - always comparing and looking for something better 4. Materialism and big egos
Yes alot of people have maids, but usually we expect women to be nurturing and take care of our needs, to be the annapurna of our home. Maid se bhi kaam karwana padhta h, its about responsibility which acc to modern standards women are not taking because they have also been raised the same way as men. Women are taught what to expect from a man but not how to treat a man. Men are taught how to treat a woman, but if we expect we become orthodox/patriarchal etc Sadly we are unable to find balance.
@@Shelly-Manifest also most of india doesnt have maids, even if they do , ye galat mentality ban gyi h ki maid hee cook and clean karti hai. Isliye ladkiyo ko ghar sambhalna maid banna lagne lag gya hai.
Few simple reasons 1)Laws being against men 2) Women don’t want to do their part of the work but still expect man to do their job 3) People being extremely selfish and not wanting to adjust to the other person and unwilling to work on the marriage
He's right. Everyone carries baggage. You wont find a single person without baggage because the whole world has been through countless traumas in the past and 2 world wars. Traumas and mental diseases also get handed down to the newer generations.
Just make sure his idea of someone with no baggage is realistic. Given the world we live in, it's unlikely that there is anyone with absolutely no baggage at all. Society is broken at large.
Discriminatory divorce and alimony laws are the real reason why indian men are avoiding marriage. Police, lawyers and judges all have their cut from the alimony amount. Thats why divorce is being encouraged by the legal system. Whatever a counteys govt encourages is bound to increase.
Marriage was always discriminatory - Just that now it is tilting heavily on other gender's favor which is absolutely opposite to what Indian society is use to !!
My friend married a woman against my advice. Then after their daughter was born, she went back to her parent's and refused to let him even see his daughter. She brainwashed the child to hate her father but also ask him nicely enough to get money from him. I told him to divorce her but he refused to listen. Today he is divorced by that same wife and pays both alimony and child support for a child he never sees and a wife who never wanted to marry him. Who knows if that child is even his? I saw all this coming long before they got married. The key is to keep watching what happens in the western countries. Because whatever happens there, will also eventually happen here after a few years. Those few years are the window to protect yourself from the inevitable import of western ideas, especially if they are negative ones.
As a girl, i find it disheartening & disgusting 💔. Laws should be gender neutral!! He should get a paternity test, & do indian courts not allow "co-parenting"?
1. many guys feels they can't live up to expectations of today's girl in marriage 2. many prefer girl with no past ( no rlshp/ virgin ) 3. girls and their families prefer a boy who is better financially than them ( in an env favoring women hiring and promotion in corporates many men are simply not eligible fo rhtis criteria ) 4. boys are not that confident that a girl will stay with them for life ( through job losses/ economic problems/ health problems/ taking care of parents ) 5. many boys come from household who live in rented houses with parents, girls want separate and own houses 6. cheating, extra marital affairs, hookup culture so normalized that for boys its too risky 7. add to this the horrible stories of divorce cases, estrangement from children, DV cases against entire family, false dowry cases. Why should boys take the risk ? for girls to have all the fun.
With the cost of everything rising, it is difficult to have a family. With children, middle class men/women almost give up their lives to make ends meet. Add cherry to the cake, home assignments from schools do not really help. At least the wife has a husband to vent her frustrations, the man only has the bathroom to go.
For men in marriage there is no authority and only responsibility, while such biased law has given women all authority and no responsibility. All responsibility of men are enforced by law while there is nothing enforced on women by law.
Right now, I’m 34, but I gave up on the idea of marriage a long time ago. Finding the right person felt like an impossible quest, so I chose to let it go. Instead of dwelling on it, I shifted my energy toward building a successful career and creating wealth. It’s a decision I’m proud of, with no regrets, as I focus on crafting a life that truly fulfills me.
Sahi h!!! As a girl, i support you bhaiya. It's so hard to find a suitable person today. Or Ghar se hamesha pressure rhta h shadi ka, aise ki agr meri doli nhi uthi to arthi uthegi
Hey.. I am almost 35 years old. Never got married and 2 long relationships have made me realise that we are in the battle of sexes. It has become men vs women rather than man and woman. Everyone having unrealistic expectations and not being adaptable to this fast changing world is already a challenge that is hard enough to suck your soul. We are all soulless here. Being alone atleast gives you a little sense of control which is so refreshing.
Anything in excess is always bad. High cost of living, increasing inflation, unrealistic expectations from their partners without extra effort, raising kids in a volatile and risky world, etc
You just have to ask, "What does the person get out of the said situation?". You will have a long list of positives for the woman and if it does not work she can just get a divorce and take all the money as well. So, if the marriage succeeds, the woman get to enjoy and if the marriage fails, the man is punished. Any unfair system will be forced to recalibrate.
Those who say marriage is a challenging responsibility must be joking because they clearly haven't experienced challenges of Parenting. Even healthy cheerful children are a challenge for initial few years.
Indian men know very well how easy it is to stay within the Brahmacharya ashram, bypass Grihasta ashram and then jump directly to Sannyasa ashram at retirement - this is the new age trend in Kali Yuga. Scripture didn't say men have to experience all 4 ashrams in sequence.
80% of indian women are interested in only 2% of indian men. Im scared of marriage because of hookups shit cultur . You cand find a real loveable women in these-days. 😞😞😞😞
That's not a major issue, if u r skilled capable no one is going to stop u from getting jobs in private sector But the main reasons are horrible women centric divorce laws, where men can't defend themselves
First of all - there will not be a right person or perfect partner unless until you're the luckiest guy. People now a day's are like I will only marry if a get that ideal partner which I was idealizing or imagining. This is the main issue not the marriage. Every relation wants some courage, efforts, understanding, respect, love if both try to understand each other's need. They can do wonders in their marriage life.
29.. Like pressure is off the roof.. I seriously gave consideration to get married and find my life partner but looking at expecations form other side in an arranged marriage setup where love isn't even a thing, I think I lost the interest to get married. I feel being single is the best.
i am 30 and still single and i am very happy being the same i dont want or need any partner to fulfill me i had some pretty hard bad phases in my life and still ongoing no matter how hard i tried or how much of my best i try to give people always judge you ny their way of perception they dont even give a damn about whats happening with you judging somebody is way to easier than being in their position and understanding them these days there are no love no compassion no respect nothing people are so pathetically egoistic worst mentality worst behaviour and character so maybe i dont have a female in my life but atleast i am way much happier and in peace than any other average couple out there there is a huge difference in seeing a happy couple and their actual reality the grass is always greener on the other side
why are NICE GUYS Don't Want To Get Married? Yeah . . in all the answers you will hear RESPOSIBILITY . . . . . People are not going by 'whatever happens, happens' mentality.
I used to love the idea of marriage, but as I grow up and see real life tragedies happening all around me and my friends life, I am now very reluctant towards it. I know how females and their family use the male and his family to make quick money. A married girl can literally charge Marital Rape case on her husband without any real proof and his life will be turned to hell. And there are much more points similar to that one. Ofcourse, adultery is so common in Indian females that it makes me sick to the stomach. I do still have some hope for marriage, but only if I ever find the correct woman for me. Which I honestly don't see happening because of the lifestyle I have. But still, I think arrange marriage is the biggest hazard for a man right now. Since you are basically going for a person who you don't know anything about. I really wish that Indian government also focus on the situation of men and make things like prenuptial agreements legal. Stay sharp people. Nowadays, not everyone is as good as you may think.
Marriage Industry is still a big industry, there are marriage halls you need to book first at least six months in advance and based on the availability marriage date is fixed.
Everywhere marriage pressure and competition of having a grand wedding I cannot understand why the society is so much puts pressure for a unmarried woman
One of uncle have 3 sons .eldest got married n they always misbehaved with their daughter in law she ran away with another guy then they choose their relative girl for middle son but did same thing with her too .even she left home with her baby but they bring her back for the kid n now their youngest son don't wanna get married after watching his family drama
💯. I just came right after watching a video where all the comments were urging women to use men as just procreating tool, that men aren't needed and children are enough to live a Happy life. I will tell you the level of misandry is unbelievable. When questioned one of the user said it's payback for all the injustice that men have done to women in the past. India is still new to feminism and the day it gains as much momentum as it has in western countries it's game over. Protect your daughters from feminism
1. Marriage is expensive. Ending a marriage is even more expensive. 2. I think there should be very open discussions about what marriage means, personally, socially and legally. 3. All those moronic movies, scowling uncles, giggling aunties, raging feminists and trolling woman-haters make things very confusing. 4. Older generation should be more open to live-in relationships. Younger generation should take relationships a bit more seriously and learn to adjust a bit. A couple of years of living together before marriage helps build confidence between partners. 5. Let laws meant to protect under-privileged women protect under privileged women. Women who are as educated and earn as much as their male counterparts dont need mollycoddling. 34 yr old man with no intention of getting married. Fortunately, my parents are cool with it.
modern laws incentives women to take divorce via frivolous complaints. this disentivises men from marrying. why would any sane person get tied to laws which are intentionally righed against them. I am 100% sure maker of video came across this point while researching the video. and chose to skip this part from showing in video. understandable from side of a woman.
I think because of our outdated culture we have created an environment where demand exists but supply has been greatly restricted.This has artificially overinflated the value of women in the marriage market wherein men are being forced to buy an inferior product worth 2Rs for 20Rs(earn a very high package or visa).So, we are not getting what we deserve.
Actually the opposite is true. Its modern marriage laws made by woke politicians which is to blame for demise of marriage system and gynocentric laws for hyperinflated egos of females. USA doesn't have so called Outdated culture, its a pretty new civilization yet so F up . India would've been a much better place if it was left to Cultural nurturing. Woke laws are problem, Culture actually keeps females in Check
Due to stress and life style. People are getting easily reactive for everything. Nowadays youths have lost patience. Maintaining relationships is difficult. Its requires decipline and patience and Mutual respect
Youth are reactive because of the environment left for them by their parents. They enjoyed things and left this rot of culture to be dealt by us. This argument is not the main cause of issues. The main cause of the issue is the systemic inequality faced by men nowadays
One big thing our generation misses in this whole process is that we hinder our legacy. As in we keep delaying but then when will we have kids and family?
M 28 years being man is not a joke 🙂💔we have to do something or anything to get money then only we got respect and love from families friends and society which is very depressing 🙂💔and thinking about getting married is more depressing 😑😴
Even average to below average women want a man who is tall, earns a very high salary, has own house, and others. Meanwhile the women wouldn't even be average looking and have average jobs earning 30k - 40k
Indian females become shurpnakha post wall. They get so corroded that they start projecting their insecurities openly and hate on men. They see marriage as optional up untill 27 or so, post that they start screeching if they stay unmarried. I can tell you unmarried post 30 indian females are absolute psychos
I got married at 27, now im 30, marriage going well, no depression, just happy amd normal life. I guess people have commitment issue and just dont want to take responsibility. I feel marriage creates a character development and gives a meaning to your life
Divorce is the biggest social dragger -- The laws are heavily loaded towards ladies -- even if lady is well employed the divorce husband has to give huge alimony as per the Law .. The alimony goes up to 25 lakhs to 50 lakhs etc.. for many ladies marriage has become money spinner
You've bashed the society/family/relatives so much that there will soon going to be a time that they would stop bothering you completely . Then you'll bash them again that they are ignoring you
Dude I don't even want apasara if that she's not virgin 😂 coz I am ! Also with these looks it's easy for me to get laid but I don't want that if I don't get that partner I'll just hookup after 30
Earlier people used to get married in their childhood only without thinking much about it. I believe Its a good thing that people nowadays think about all the responsibilities that comes with the marriage.
India is following now, western world had learned this before we as indian are very far from reality marriage is not for everyone alone life is best life
For the simple reason that marriage gives commitment, security, responsibility, and seriousness, a live-in relationship can never be a substitute for marriage. The real world differs from what the movie business portrays to the public. Since the family is the fundamental unit of society, marriage is also important for the country. The liberal ideologies destroyed the Western society. I hope India manages to protect itself.
It will not...And " family system" is sprinting to its downfall...15 years more , the time bomb is ticking....And ofcourse that is the " greater agenda".....And it is not happening " organically", it is a well thought out " strategy" which is again part of a the " Greater game"....
I was clear about not marrying since childhood. I never understood the obsession with marriage in this country. In movies, stories, songs. Understanding people now as a grown up, it's even more reason to not.
compatibility is biggest issue in marriage -- in my case is 100 % incompatible -- 200 % arranged marriage - My working wife is totally in contrast to my thinking -- We are living under one roof and that is it -- With great difficulty we produced one Child and our sex life ended after my baby is born -- 9 years into marriage we started sleeping separately .. No movie / no temple / no tour / nothing -- eating sleeping -- I could have easily gone for Divorce -- But i was scared of Alimony which is huge -- Hence I decided to undergo suffering --- Marriage -- Not worth it..
going to to be 32 soon not married but very happy didn't felt the need to because i don't want the government telling me whom to give our family's hard earned money
As a Man, the only thing fear is that the woman they're to gonna get married to will have illogical demand like expensive trips, expensive gifts, expensive this lavish that. All while themselves being broke as hell, unrealistic demands. The biggest fear is she'll leave you at your worst and the Indian Laws being so female centric that you'll be treated as offender by the law, pay her half your property. That's unfair, every situation is different. Problems are a part of life, they'll always be there at every step, someone who's there at both good and bad times is a true partner. As a young Adult it's fearful to see so many cases like these, Finding a True Partner is more difficult than earning your first million.
Yeah.. men has more & more responsibility & women contribute less & less to the table. Dont worth it.. Rather have a g.f living seperately and do things whenever shedules and mood match up..
Marriage is risky and risk is very high as compared to reward. The girl having multiple partners and it has been so normalised. And the environment is not favorable to raise and continue a family.
my standpoint is marriage is necessary but people are struggling to find right partners and have to much expectations im 26 and i think im a student whos feeling both career wise and marriage wise pressure but its for our own good i think more expectations make us unhappy , my understanding is as you grow older life gets harder and harder but if you skip marriage then its a different thing my advice would be marry a friend rather than a lover and then sacrifice
Seeking happiness through others is like borrowing loan from bank everybody knows how life become irritating after that. We must live our life loan free debt free. Only fools seek happiness in others but wise men seek there where GOD has established that is our own mind, heart n soul that is why people who live with celibacy discipline are the most happiest ones because they seek there happiness in there own mind heart n soul which is limitless unlimited. So guys save yourself from marriage it's not wrong but time for marriage has ended this world is no more suitable place for marriage it has become a curse. All happiness GOD has stored in our own mind just have courage to go on expedition to seek it you will definitely return with everlasting happiness safely n successfully I am saying this with experience.
I am second son to my father -- I left home for job -- My father gave entire prime land to my elder brother ( it was my father's own property ) .. Father called me and told you are settled and hence leave it to your elder brother -- Now My brother's only son got married recently - The Daughter in Law came home and became legal owner of Rs 6 crore property immediately after marriage -- My elder brother has to hand over property to his Son as it is ancestor property to my brother . the Newly wed girl over night became owner of house which I was born and grown up -- This is as per Hindu succession act -- Now tell me where is sacrifice of girls happening now a days after marriage ?. girls are pampered too much now days -- JOB Reservation for woman / promotion reservation / National Commission for Woman NCW .. Separate Train for woaman -- Men are left to god;s grace -- Hence not getting married is a good decision .. Wife are now a days do not respect husband .. Wifes generally are arrogant and they think they are better off than husband -- hence marriage is not required
Nowadays loyalty is very rare these days and both partners should be working and earning atleast 4 lac ctc and its very difficult to stay with a person whom we get married Its very difficult to find a right person and real relationship..
please read carefully specially for men: ask yourself when you marry what are you getting from it days are gone when their would have been emotions tied to relationship, now these days imagine you got married to a woman who is demanding moneywise and she will allow only to have sex whenever she wants, she wants to have baby only at her choice, she will work in office and earns lakhs of rupees and she will not contribute to a single penny in household expenses because she will say you are man you are supposed to pay and moreover she will tell you to cooperate in kitchen which is absolutely ok to cook food for your wife but the hypocrisy comes when a man ask his wife to contribute in travelling and entertainment expenses , school fees then the society says you are not a man because you are not taking any responsibility. That's why before entering into a conventional marriage talk to your partner about the fair deal n make an agreement if anyone of us leave no one is going to pay any sort of compensation in terms of money. choice is yours. The reason i am telling you is because woman are not absolutely wrong in entering into marriage as they have all the fingers in ghee makhan so its a value deal for them but for men, its a total loss.
I think only when a person is mentally prepared for a marriage , should he / she proceed - the maturity to accomodate and co-exist with someone from the opposite sex is needed. The comfort of sharing is the biggest of all 😂
I can speak from experience when I say that the lack of gender-neutral legislation makes it more difficult for Indian males to marry. Some guys wish to marry, but the laws are making them reconsider.
Considering the marriage and divorce laws which are so women-centric and gender-biased, marriage has become horror story for men. Women and their families are misusing the laws and blackmail men for alimony and maintenance.I decided not to marry. I am in 25s....... and my friends who are career wise way more successful than me..... are either running around divorce courts (Divorces in india are more common than developed country like japan)...or have turned to EMI cattle. Me on other hand have easily travelled multiple countries......and in multiple relationships.Literal Zero Stress😎
Indian females , especially Hindu ones come at bottom of their gender due to high toxicity and narcissistic traits. Even indian men avoid Indian females in a 3rd country
Well said - "The cultural context of the marriage is changing."
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Or rather indian.society being destroyed by tinder and likes. Only tie2 cities marry.
Considering the marriage and divorce laws which are so women-centric and gender-biased, marriage has become horror story for men. Women and their families are misusing the laws and blackmail men for alimony and maintenance.
The correct word is gynocentric
I decided not to marry. I am in 30s....... and my friends who are career wise way more successful than me..... are either running around divorce courts (Divorces in india are more common than developed country like japan)...or have turned to EMI cattle.
Me on other hand have easily travelled multiple countries......and in multiple relationships.Literal Zero Stress😎
definitely yes !!
Blackmail men in pretext of marriage by women also a women favouring and women empowerment commission aggresive process of women centric laws judiciary
Ofcourse.... selfish women always misuse laws and exploit men's expenses... unmarried men are more joyful 🎉 and balance the nature 🌿
Hell NO! My brother got divorced and completely F'ed up his life. And he was an IITB grad and worked at one of the FANG companies - nothing to sneeze. Still he wasn't enough for that woman. After divorce, she turned his daughter against him. Who wants that shit show in their life. Nah! I am just fine without it. My parents who saw my bro don't even ask me to get married. They are just fine me being alone.
My neighbor committed suicide. It was covered in newspaper and TV. His wife Was having an affair with her colleague. She filed false case and event took custody of two kids. He Was heart broken and hanged. Family living here for 25 plus years. His dad about to retire. Whole family dynamics changed. I still don't understand how jokers in judiciary award custody to one who cheated.
@@Mysteriousman-b3y As someone said, Law for Women and Lawda for Men.
India law के चलते मेरा भी मैरिज करने की इच्छा खत्म हो गई ,
😢अगर डाइवोर्स हो गया तो क्या होगा अपनी हड्डी बेच कर भी maintenance and alimony का पैसा देना पड़ेगा
can we connect !!
@@rarara4111Lawda judiciary lawda judges lawda kanoon.....
Time to leave India
" 3 Cheers to equality "
-To marry me, He should earn 3X than me but after marriage i want equality.
- I can choose not to work outside, I can choose not to work at home but providing for the family is his duty.
- I want my name in our matrimonial home but even if i am working, paying EMI is his liability.
- I don't want his family name but I want share in his ancestral property.
- I don't want his name in our child's passport but he has to fund our international/national holidays.
- I have absolute clarity if my husband has an affair, it is cruelty. If i cheat on my husband it is my body my sexuality.
- If wife leaves a husband it will be her new opportunity, If husband leaves a wife he will be shamed by society.
- A separated wife always a victim, a separated husband is by default always guilty.
Three cheers to equality.
Duniya waalon ka dooglapan hain.... double standards hypocrisy
Note that these used to be conditions even by women of older generations but men used to get something in return, typically, youth beauty fertility and chastity. Now you get a 30's or 35+ female, dangling a leg in geriatric pregnancy, youth beauty lost to the career and yet somehow makes herself believe that she can enjoy female privileges when young and then at 40 will enjoy privileges accorded to males at later ages. So she keeps increasing her REQUIREMENTS and decreasing things she provides but is mentally deluded by feminism to thing 'the world' is against her !
Perfect summation
damn
U forgot high body count of women
No Marriage, No Wife, No Alimony, No Kids, No child support, No Court cases, No Depression, No Drama = An uncomplicated stress-free happy life.. 😁 😎 😆
For 10-20 minutes pleasure ,how can anyone destroy his/her 23:40 hours of each day of life?...life is so much greater than all these marriage and dramas...
@Rohan_Choudhary5 10 to 20 mins stops after sometime for many men all over world not just india. A woman can say my husband is not satisfying and ask for divorce but most men does not do that as we loss more and from our gen taught respect women for minor troubles.
Same for women 🙌
i am 38 and unmarried happily. It was best decision of my life.
I am 38 too. Abhi bhi time hai bhai. Itne bhi budhe nahi ho tum.
@@bharatbhushan4243why do you want others to fall in a pit. 😅. You are married enjoy your servant life
@@Bharatiya1907 Welcome to our slave world
@@hemangshrivastava9561 me 40 yr. Divorced 4 years bck. Now living peacefully.
Now it's okay bro I'm 22 but living single is better than after getting divorce pay the alimony pay the children support needs courts permission to meet them and she's get half of your property this is hell and she can live with a another man and court is
Fine with that.
I have been married for 5 years now and I tell you with my pure heart. It's been a trauma for me. Never felt happy in the relationship and now courts are involved. Extremely difficult time.
@@nikhilsrivastava4172 Hope you're doing well. What is the issue. Why will a woman want to screw her own marriage and live divorced life. Did you observed any red flags during marriage which you ignored ?
@@Mysteriousman-b3y Good question bro🎉
*False accusations, questions on my character, abuses my family, small fights led to years of no talking, never cared for anything.* Things I shared with her in confidence (money/property) all declared in public. Can't explain what I felt when I got to know all these false allegations.
Bhai kaash me aapki madad kr paata, but i hope you stay healthy both physically and mentally. Accha hoga ki aap doston ke sath rho, achi company me rho, Modi ji naari jaati ko jitna radically forward kr rhe usse lagra aage aadmio ko aur dikkat hone wali hai@@nikhilsrivastava4172
My friend did the mistake like you. I still feel like slapping him because I told him not to increase his trouble. But he went on with it and now complains all the time.
Indian men are rejecting marriage, and can anyone truly blame Us? Look beyond the surface, beyond what’s said in this polished video. The real stories, the heartbreak, the betrayal, the fear, they’re all in the comments. Many women today have been with countless s*xual partners and are unable to pair bond, and if a man dares to marry one and later seeks a way out, the price he pays is devastating. He’s pulled into endless, brutal court battles where he’s bled dry, forced to hand over his hard-earned savings in alimony and child support, watching helplessly as his assets are stripped away. His reputation, his future, everything he’s worked his entire life for, gone.
And now, with paternity tests illegal, he’s even denied the basic right to know if the child he’s supporting is truly his own flesh and blood.
Why should Indian men be forced to play the role of a 'retirement plan' for some girl who spent her best years chasing 'freedom' and ‘empowerment’ while he sacrificed for his future? Why should they risk everything-finances, reputation, peace of mind-to pick up the pieces of choices they never made? It’s not fear of commitment; it’s fear of losing everything. And that fear is real.
@@AjayKumar77.
You summarized perfectly.
this video conveniently hides these real facts.. must have been created by a fem journo 😂
Men physiological societal norms process with emotions men never accepted by majoritarian women empowerment society and women commission laws judiciary and mostly women instinct always search better but never seeks and do best
Wait, the paternity test is illegal in India?
Omg! This sounds like a nightmare!!
The courts have failed the marriage institution in india.
It's okay if the wife cheats, you can move on and find someone new. The problem is that she cheats and takes away more than a third of your net worth with her. Even if the kid is not yours, you'll be forced to pay for it. Paternity test is not taken as an evidence of adultery. You are destined to be the ultimate loser despite not doing any wrong.
No man who's actually aware of this would ever willingly sign up to be a clown.
Indian courts 😢😢😢
Lawda judiciary
It's now the best decision to not get married, atleast the person could live a peaceful life 😅
@@Leo-rd7dt Well put dear. Try domestic travel - you can do it cheap and you can do it on a premium - all the best.
@@nobsguykeepitreal one small correction. Courts interpret laws that are made by parliament. The Guardians and wards act which is basic law that decides custody dates back to 1890. Shared Parenting as default law has been introduced in progressive nations like Denmark and Switzerland. But our parliamentarians foggies refuse to even start that discussion.
They are the biggest culprits.
I don't believe in marriage bcz of one sided marriage laws. Also with the average 20k salary, it's good to be alone and happy
Bhai with 20k salary your just alone and broke.
20k main tension naa lei koi nahi aane vali
@@Sab_ka_baap_007he should marry a working woman
Right trend. Happy they are taking the right decisions despite not having faced 489A and women centric custody laws.
We may have not faced such things, but we have seen others face this
Still some foolish men are getting married
Stay away from woman.. don't give to much importance.
Marriage is a huge responsibility, I'm 40, never married, and never will. I sleep with pretty women. i have the choice.
Mass bro
@terranowa2080, bro i want to talk with u about ur life ,im curious 😂, to know more
How do you sleep with women? Prostitution?
1. Law is against MEN
2. Women dont wanna cook & clean anymore
3. Alot of people have multiple partners in past - always comparing and looking for something better
4. Materialism and big egos
Exactly
I thought most people have maids.
Yes alot of people have maids, but usually we expect women to be nurturing and take care of our needs, to be the annapurna of our home. Maid se bhi kaam karwana padhta h, its about responsibility which acc to modern standards women are not taking because they have also been raised the same way as men. Women are taught what to expect from a man but not how to treat a man. Men are taught how to treat a woman, but if we expect we become orthodox/patriarchal etc
Sadly we are unable to find balance.
TQ God at last I found one gem 💎
@@Shelly-Manifest also most of india doesnt have maids, even if they do , ye galat mentality ban gyi h ki maid hee cook and clean karti hai. Isliye ladkiyo ko ghar sambhalna maid banna lagne lag gya hai.
Few simple reasons
1)Laws being against men
2) Women don’t want to do their part of the work but still expect man to do their job
3) People being extremely selfish and not wanting to adjust to the other person and unwilling to work on the marriage
My son's answer was i have dated five educated inteligent young indian girls but they seem to carry baggage, they are all Princesses
He's right. Everyone carries baggage. You wont find a single person without baggage because the whole world has been through countless traumas in the past and 2 world wars. Traumas and mental diseases also get handed down to the newer generations.
Just make sure his idea of someone with no baggage is realistic. Given the world we live in, it's unlikely that there is anyone with absolutely no baggage at all. Society is broken at large.
Not wanting to Marry coz thats how i am and Scared of marriage due to biased laws are two diff things we need to focus on latter.
Discriminatory divorce and alimony laws are the real reason why indian men are avoiding marriage. Police, lawyers and judges all have their cut from the alimony amount. Thats why divorce is being encouraged by the legal system. Whatever a counteys govt encourages is bound to increase.
Marriage was always discriminatory - Just that now it is tilting heavily on other gender's favor which is absolutely opposite to what Indian society is use to !!
My friend married a woman against my advice. Then after their daughter was born, she went back to her parent's and refused to let him even see his daughter. She brainwashed the child to hate her father but also ask him nicely enough to get money from him. I told him to divorce her but he refused to listen. Today he is divorced by that same wife and pays both alimony and child support for a child he never sees and a wife who never wanted to marry him. Who knows if that child is even his?
I saw all this coming long before they got married. The key is to keep watching what happens in the western countries. Because whatever happens there, will also eventually happen here after a few years. Those few years are the window to protect yourself from the inevitable import of western ideas, especially if they are negative ones.
As a girl, i find it disheartening & disgusting 💔. Laws should be gender neutral!!
He should get a paternity test, & do indian courts not allow "co-parenting"?
1. many guys feels they can't live up to expectations of today's girl in marriage
2. many prefer girl with no past ( no rlshp/ virgin )
3. girls and their families prefer a boy who is better financially than them ( in an env favoring women hiring and promotion in corporates many men are simply not eligible fo rhtis criteria )
4. boys are not that confident that a girl will stay with them for life ( through job losses/ economic problems/ health problems/ taking care of parents )
5. many boys come from household who live in rented houses with parents, girls want separate and own houses
6. cheating, extra marital affairs, hookup culture so normalized that for boys its too risky
7. add to this the horrible stories of divorce cases, estrangement from children, DV cases against entire family, false dowry cases.
Why should boys take the risk ? for girls to have all the fun.
Never enter into a contract where the other party benefits from breaking it.
With the cost of everything rising, it is difficult to have a family. With children, middle class men/women almost give up their lives to make ends meet. Add cherry to the cake, home assignments from schools do not really help.
At least the wife has a husband to vent her frustrations, the man only has the bathroom to go.
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Dude.so well written.
yes
Marriage is waste.. I got married.. and absolutely my wife is so demanding..
You show your power too, if she shows women prowess. Don't help her easily
It feels so good to see so many men feeling the same way 😅
We should form a club and grab a beer someday 😂
For men in marriage there is no authority and only responsibility, while such biased law has given women all authority and no responsibility. All responsibility of men are enforced by law while there is nothing enforced on women by law.
This statement must put in front family court in bold letters. ❤
Very well said.
if they legally recognise prenup agreements in India, then more men will be interested in marriage
Right now, I’m 34, but I gave up on the idea of marriage a long time ago. Finding the right person felt like an impossible quest, so I chose to let it go. Instead of dwelling on it, I shifted my energy toward building a successful career and creating wealth. It’s a decision I’m proud of, with no regrets, as I focus on crafting a life that truly fulfills me.
From which country are you, am sorry to ask
India@@AlaaNasinza
@AlaaNasinza India
Sahi h!!!
As a girl, i support you bhaiya. It's so hard to find a suitable person today. Or Ghar se hamesha pressure rhta h shadi ka, aise ki agr meri doli nhi uthi to arthi uthegi
Hey.. I am almost 35 years old. Never got married and 2 long relationships have made me realise that we are in the battle of sexes. It has become men vs women rather than man and woman. Everyone having unrealistic expectations and not being adaptable to this fast changing world is already a challenge that is hard enough to suck your soul. We are all soulless here. Being alone atleast gives you a little sense of control which is so refreshing.
Anything in excess is always bad.
High cost of living, increasing inflation, unrealistic expectations from their partners without extra effort, raising kids in a volatile and risky world, etc
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Sex is not marriage and marriage is not a ticket for sex
You just have to ask, "What does the person get out of the said situation?". You will have a long list of positives for the woman and if it does not work she can just get a divorce and take all the money as well. So, if the marriage succeeds, the woman get to enjoy and if the marriage fails, the man is punished.
Any unfair system will be forced to recalibrate.
precisely
Those who say marriage is a challenging responsibility must be joking because they clearly haven't experienced challenges of Parenting. Even healthy cheerful children are a challenge for initial few years.
36 still single, after reading comments it seems horrible to get married.Better delay...and see what's God plan for me
Not getting married isn't that bad too, good luck friend!
Men of this generation,are full of lies i rather be single than wasting my time on them
Indian men know very well how easy it is to stay within the Brahmacharya ashram, bypass Grihasta ashram and then jump directly to Sannyasa ashram at retirement - this is the new age trend in Kali Yuga. Scripture didn't say men have to experience all 4 ashrams in sequence.
Yes
Getting married is not a problem, the problem is about finding a good partner to build a great relationship
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This point am with you ❤
Because modern feminist women doesn't want to take responsibilities of Sasural after marriage.
I dont wanna liv with someones parents
@@Shelly-Manifest wish your brother's wife says the same thing and leaves your a****** parents alone
Did your mother also did the same ..? Just curious@@Shelly-Manifest
@@Shelly-Manifestwom en like you are the reason why men are afraid of marriage. Femin ism and it's laws
@@Day-je4um ma ke sath agar domestic violence hua hai to u bhi apne sath same kam kare, Truman pass mat karo, tum apni sas, sasur ke sath rahoge
80% of indian women are interested in only 2% of indian men.
Im scared of marriage because of hookups shit cultur .
You cand find a real loveable women in these-days. 😞😞😞😞
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Where are you getting those figures from??
@@vishaldas5758andrew tate ? he started men empowerment
@@RahulShinde-wk2yvHe didn't start it. It has been going on since decades in other countries. He just made it go mainstream with his radical views.
@@RahulShinde-wk2yvhookup and all that is still not into Indians,may be you are looking at just the 2% or else you are a foreigner.
Look at the Prime Minister, he himself has left his wife. Then why not the youngster .
Sab uski tarah namard nhi.
Nobody is talking about job security
Inflation , future uncertainty
What the fuck are they even talking
it is a valid point too, because no marriage means chaos in future
@bestelevated it is also valid point no job no future don't need to think about marriage
cos that's not the main issue....main issue are ultra biased marriage laws.
If a man gets divorced in india..he will never recover from it.
That's not a major issue, if u r skilled capable no one is going to stop u from getting jobs in private sector
But the main reasons are horrible women centric divorce laws, where men can't defend themselves
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First of all - there will not be a right person or perfect partner unless until you're the luckiest guy.
People now a day's are like I will only marry if a get that ideal partner which I was idealizing or imagining. This is the main issue not the marriage.
Every relation wants some courage, efforts, understanding, respect, love if both try to understand each other's need. They can do wonders in their marriage life.
29.. Like pressure is off the roof.. I seriously gave consideration to get married and find my life partner but looking at expecations form other side in an arranged marriage setup where love isn't even a thing, I think I lost the interest to get married. I feel being single is the best.
Only till you hit 40s and you have to keep calling up to join events or make appointments to have fun.
i am 30 and still single and i am very happy being the same
i dont want or need any partner to fulfill me
i had some pretty hard bad phases in my life and still ongoing
no matter how hard i tried or how much of my best i try to give
people always judge you ny their way of perception
they dont even give a damn about whats happening with you
judging somebody is way to easier than being in their position and understanding them
these days there are no love no compassion no respect nothing
people are so pathetically egoistic worst mentality worst behaviour and character
so
maybe i dont have a female in my life but atleast i am way much happier and in peace than any other average couple out there
there is a huge difference in seeing a happy couple and their actual reality
the grass is always greener on the other side
Why is Responsibility only a Man’s Responsibility?
why are NICE GUYS Don't Want To Get Married?
Yeah . . in all the answers you will hear RESPOSIBILITY . . . . . People are not going by 'whatever happens, happens' mentality.
I used to love the idea of marriage, but as I grow up and see real life tragedies happening all around me and my friends life, I am now very reluctant towards it. I know how females and their family use the male and his family to make quick money. A married girl can literally charge Marital Rape case on her husband without any real proof and his life will be turned to hell. And there are much more points similar to that one. Ofcourse, adultery is so common in Indian females that it makes me sick to the stomach.
I do still have some hope for marriage, but only if I ever find the correct woman for me. Which I honestly don't see happening because of the lifestyle I have. But still, I think arrange marriage is the biggest hazard for a man right now. Since you are basically going for a person who you don't know anything about.
I really wish that Indian government also focus on the situation of men and make things like prenuptial agreements legal.
Stay sharp people. Nowadays, not everyone is as good as you may think.
Marriage Industry is still a big industry, there are marriage halls you need to book first at least six months in advance and based on the availability marriage date is fixed.
Everywhere marriage pressure and competition of having a grand wedding
I cannot understand why the society is so much puts pressure for a unmarried woman
One of uncle have 3 sons .eldest got married n they always misbehaved with their daughter in law she ran away with another guy then they choose their relative girl for middle son but did same thing with her too .even she left home with her baby but they bring her back for the kid n now their youngest son don't wanna get married after watching his family drama
Toxic families exist,good comment.broader perspective is need instead of blaming just 1 thing
@roninyeagerist4152 yeah they don't let their D-I-l to sit on sofa 😏 .she was literally their maid
@@roninyeagerist4152 you are ri8
This sounds like a one sided story. Misbehave in what sense?
Indian families are the world’s toxic dumbasses
Feminism destroyed it
💯. I just came right after watching a video where all the comments were urging women to use men as just procreating tool, that men aren't needed and children are enough to live a Happy life. I will tell you the level of misandry is unbelievable. When questioned one of the user said it's payback for all the injustice that men have done to women in the past. India is still new to feminism and the day it gains as much momentum as it has in western countries it's game over. Protect your daughters from feminism
marriage is now the most boring & most difficult topic nowadays., dating got so much easier while real marriage is so much harder nowadays.,
Not just indians ..its a world wide trend ..😢
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Don't be sad it's not bad. It's people making choices
@@TheUMESH34 I want to get married.. I'm also single I'm not sad is just the woman on the matrimonial sites are unbelievable
@@iamthelegendripper8900don't cry my dia,am also a single lady but am tired of men who pretends to be in relationship yet they lie
I don't want to marry...I am happy i am single forever...
1. Marriage is expensive. Ending a marriage is even more expensive.
2. I think there should be very open discussions about what marriage means, personally, socially and legally.
3. All those moronic movies, scowling uncles, giggling aunties, raging feminists and trolling woman-haters make things very confusing.
4. Older generation should be more open to live-in relationships. Younger generation should take relationships a bit more seriously and learn to adjust a bit. A couple of years of living together before marriage helps build confidence between partners.
5. Let laws meant to protect under-privileged women protect under privileged women. Women who are as educated and earn as much as their male counterparts dont need mollycoddling.
34 yr old man with no intention of getting married. Fortunately, my parents are cool with it.
modern laws incentives women to take divorce via frivolous complaints.
this disentivises men from marrying.
why would any sane person get tied to laws which are intentionally righed against them.
I am 100% sure maker of video came across this point while researching the video.
and chose to skip this part from showing in video.
understandable from side of a woman.
I think because of our outdated culture we have created an environment where demand exists but supply has been greatly restricted.This has artificially overinflated the value of women in the marriage market wherein men are being forced to buy an inferior product worth 2Rs for 20Rs(earn a very high package or visa).So, we are not getting what we deserve.
Women r no product
Actually the opposite is true. Its modern marriage laws made by woke politicians which is to blame for demise of marriage system and gynocentric laws for hyperinflated egos of females.
USA doesn't have so called Outdated culture, its a pretty new civilization yet so F up . India would've been a much better place if it was left to Cultural nurturing. Woke laws are problem, Culture actually keeps females in Check
Control your desires
Then live life on your own terms
had me dying 💀 8:26
Due to stress and life style. People are getting easily reactive for everything. Nowadays youths have lost patience. Maintaining relationships is difficult. Its requires decipline and patience and Mutual respect
Youth are reactive because of the environment left for them by their parents. They enjoyed things and left this rot of culture to be dealt by us.
This argument is not the main cause of issues. The main cause of the issue is the systemic inequality faced by men nowadays
Livin in the worst choice. Wasting each other's time.
One big thing our generation misses in this whole process is that we hinder our legacy. As in we keep delaying but then when will we have kids and family?
M 28 years being man is not a joke 🙂💔we have to do something or anything to get money then only we got respect and love from families friends and society which is very depressing 🙂💔and thinking about getting married is more depressing 😑😴
Even average to below average women want a man who is tall, earns a very high salary, has own house, and others. Meanwhile the women wouldn't even be average looking and have average jobs earning 30k - 40k
No, it's not Indian men only; I think women also see the majority of men as an option anymore.
Indian females become shurpnakha post wall. They get so corroded that they start projecting their insecurities openly and hate on men. They see marriage as optional up untill 27 or so, post that they start screeching if they stay unmarried. I can tell you unmarried post 30 indian females are absolute psychos
I got married at 27, now im 30, marriage going well, no depression, just happy amd normal life. I guess people have commitment issue and just dont want to take responsibility. I feel marriage creates a character development and gives a meaning to your life
Never marry city girl, go for a traditional girl in the village, this is your best chance
Accept marriage as a duty and supporting each other
Getting my popcorn
Divorce is the biggest social dragger -- The laws are heavily loaded towards ladies -- even if lady is well employed the divorce husband has to give huge alimony as per the Law .. The alimony goes up to 25 lakhs to 50 lakhs etc.. for many ladies marriage has become money spinner
Im 35, waiting for pr in abroad,(Europe) settled, unmarried.
So much from this video matches my thought process. It's not about "f*ck around and have fun". It's a totally different thing. I'm a millenial.
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I give a f@ck care about your silly opinion
You've bashed the society/family/relatives so much that there will soon going to be a time that they would stop bothering you completely . Then you'll bash them again that they are ignoring you
More oppurtunity for us
Also, NO SEAL, NO DEAL
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Ye toh demand Number 1 hai. Ye na rhe toh shadi kya hogi
Dude I don't even want apasara
if that she's not virgin 😂 coz I am ! Also with these looks it's easy for me to get laid but I don't want that if I don't get that partner I'll just hookup after 30
Unka body count 1 se zyada he hota hai
@@Gavin_Francis_123 then don't accept. Be firm with your standards. If she couldn't save her purity for marriage, she doesn't deserve a marriage
Earlier people used to get married in their childhood only without thinking much about it. I believe Its a good thing that people nowadays think about all the responsibilities that comes with the marriage.
Taking responsibility is the only way to become mature without marriage PPL will remain immature & mentally damaged
Such a lame and baseless comment.... Maturity is when you realise that you don't need to marry to become matured 😅
Good video. Thanks for taking the time to make it.
Thank you 🧡 This means a lot to us.
India is following now, western world had learned this before we as indian are very far from reality marriage is not for everyone alone life is best life
@Rocket health..your thumbnail should be corrected..its not INDIAN ..its INDIAN MEN.
For the simple reason that marriage gives commitment, security, responsibility, and seriousness, a live-in relationship can never be a substitute for marriage. The real world differs from what the movie business portrays to the public. Since the family is the fundamental unit of society, marriage is also important for the country. The liberal ideologies destroyed the Western society. I hope India manages to protect itself.
It will not...And " family system" is sprinting to its downfall...15 years more , the time bomb is ticking....And ofcourse that is the " greater agenda".....And it is not happening " organically", it is a well thought out " strategy" which is again part of a the " Greater game"....
I was clear about not marrying since childhood. I never understood the obsession with marriage in this country. In movies, stories, songs. Understanding people now as a grown up, it's even more reason to not.
Underrated sublime power of Osho 🙏
The grey hoodie guy🤩 Wat maturity!!!🫶🏼👏🏼
compatibility is biggest issue in marriage -- in my case is 100 % incompatible -- 200 % arranged marriage - My working wife is totally in contrast to my thinking -- We are living under one roof and that is it -- With great difficulty we produced one Child and our sex life ended after my baby is born -- 9 years into marriage we started sleeping separately .. No movie / no temple / no tour / nothing -- eating sleeping -- I could have easily gone for Divorce -- But i was scared of Alimony which is huge -- Hence I decided to undergo suffering --- Marriage -- Not worth it..
going to to be 32 soon not married but very happy didn't felt the need to because i don't want the government telling me whom to give our family's hard earned money
As a Man, the only thing fear is that the woman they're to gonna get married to will have illogical demand like expensive trips, expensive gifts, expensive this lavish that. All while themselves being broke as hell, unrealistic demands. The biggest fear is she'll leave you at your worst and the Indian Laws being so female centric that you'll be treated as offender by the law, pay her half your property. That's unfair, every situation is different. Problems are a part of life, they'll always be there at every step, someone who's there at both good and bad times is a true partner. As a young Adult it's fearful to see so many cases like these, Finding a True Partner is more difficult than earning your first million.
Yeah.. men has more & more responsibility & women contribute less & less to the table. Dont worth it..
Rather have a g.f living seperately and do things whenever shedules and mood match up..
Marriage is risky and risk is very high as compared to reward. The girl having multiple partners and it has been so normalised. And the environment is not favorable to raise and continue a family.
7.5 Years Saturn 🪐 started.. And im 32 😂
Modi become PM in Saturn 7.5 years.
So did Trump!
7.5 y of Sani works differently for various people. Don't lose hope.
@@suresh-dv7he thanks for your optimism, if I live for next 7.5 years I shall come here brother. 🍀💕☢️
@@RamalingamKB may shani dev bless you dude😂
Sade sati Mera band baja Raha hai 😅
my standpoint is marriage is necessary but people are struggling to find right partners and have to much expectations im 26 and i think im a student whos feeling both career wise and marriage wise pressure but its for our own good i think more expectations make us unhappy , my understanding is as you grow older life gets harder and harder but if you skip marriage then its a different thing my advice would be marry a friend rather than a lover and then sacrifice
Seeking happiness through others is like borrowing loan from bank everybody knows how life become irritating after that.
We must live our life loan free debt free. Only fools seek happiness in others but wise men seek there where GOD has established that is our own mind, heart n soul that is why people who live with celibacy discipline are the most happiest ones because they seek there happiness in there own mind heart n soul which is limitless unlimited.
So guys save yourself from marriage it's not wrong but time for marriage has ended this world is no more suitable place for marriage it has become a curse.
All happiness GOD has stored in our own mind just have courage to go on expedition to seek it you will definitely return with everlasting happiness safely n successfully I am saying this with experience.
Better to avoid marriage.
I am second son to my father -- I left home for job -- My father gave entire prime land to my elder brother ( it was my father's own property ) .. Father called me and told you are settled and hence leave it to your elder brother -- Now My brother's only son got married recently - The Daughter in Law came home and became legal owner of Rs 6 crore property immediately after marriage -- My elder brother has to hand over property to his Son as it is ancestor property to my brother . the Newly wed girl over night became owner of house which I was born and grown up -- This is as per Hindu succession act -- Now tell me where is sacrifice of girls happening now a days after marriage ?. girls are pampered too much now days -- JOB Reservation for woman / promotion reservation / National Commission for Woman NCW .. Separate Train for woaman -- Men are left to god;s grace -- Hence not getting married is a good decision .. Wife are now a days do not respect husband .. Wifes generally are arrogant and they think they are better off than husband -- hence marriage is not required
In today's time, it's more about convenience than love or compatibility..unfortunate but true.
Best choice, very lucky generation! No drama, no responsibility no financial loss after divorce 👍
Deluxe gang op 🔥
Nowadays loyalty is very rare these days and both partners should be working and earning atleast 4 lac ctc and its very difficult to stay with a person whom we get married
Its very difficult to find a right person and real relationship..
Marriage as an institution has failed miserably.....
please read carefully specially for men: ask yourself when you marry what are you getting from it days are gone when their would have been emotions tied to relationship, now these days imagine you got married to a woman who is demanding moneywise and she will allow only to have sex whenever she wants, she wants to have baby only at her choice, she will work in office and earns lakhs of rupees and she will not contribute to a single penny in household expenses because she will say you are man you are supposed to pay and moreover she will tell you to cooperate in kitchen which is absolutely ok to cook food for your wife but the hypocrisy comes when a man ask his wife to contribute in travelling and entertainment expenses , school fees then the society says you are not a man because you are not taking any responsibility. That's why before entering into a conventional marriage talk to your partner about the fair deal n make an agreement if anyone of us leave no one is going to pay any sort of compensation in terms of money. choice is yours. The reason i am telling you is because woman are not absolutely wrong in entering into marriage as they have all the fingers in ghee makhan so its a value deal for them but for men, its a total loss.
I think only when a person is mentally prepared for a marriage , should he / she proceed - the maturity to accomodate and co-exist with someone from the opposite sex is needed. The comfort of sharing is the biggest of all 😂
I can speak from experience when I say that the lack of gender-neutral legislation makes it more difficult for Indian males to marry. Some guys wish to marry, but the laws are making them reconsider.
Considering the marriage and divorce laws which are so women-centric and gender-biased, marriage has become horror story for men. Women and their families are misusing the laws and blackmail men for alimony and maintenance.I decided not to marry. I am in 25s....... and my friends who are career wise way more successful than me..... are either running around divorce courts (Divorces in india are more common than developed country like japan)...or have turned to EMI cattle.
Me on other hand have easily travelled multiple countries......and in multiple relationships.Literal Zero Stress😎
I am Indian but I will try my best not to marry Indian woman. I have lot of money to travel abroad many times a year.
Indian females , especially Hindu ones come at bottom of their gender due to high toxicity and narcissistic traits. Even indian men avoid Indian females in a 3rd country
Marriage is big business. Without marriages Indian economy will collapse.