If You've Been Rejected - WATCH THIS | by Jay Shetty

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  • Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024

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  • @TanvirAhmed24
    @TanvirAhmed24 5 лет назад +2464

    Every rejection is an OPPORTUNITY. Take it. Use it. Make the most of it.

    • @veroblabla
      @veroblabla 5 лет назад +14

      Tanvir Ahmed not always easy!

    • @TanvirAhmed24
      @TanvirAhmed24 5 лет назад +22

      Definitely! I would even say that it's never easy. Rejection is always a difficult thing to deal with.

    • @MinhExplores
      @MinhExplores 5 лет назад +5

      Catching a better opportunity is not easy at all. There will be a ton of matters arising when running a new business.

    • @TanvirAhmed24
      @TanvirAhmed24 5 лет назад +12

      You're absolutely right, Minh! And it's not meant to be easy. But the important thing here is to realize that the opportunity EXISTS. :)

    • @dugthethugknight
      @dugthethugknight 5 лет назад

      Tanvir Ahmed even getting rejected by a girl?

  • @googlebarbaralernerspectre2581
    @googlebarbaralernerspectre2581 5 лет назад +776

    Rejection is the way the universe shows and tells you. Aim better. Aim higher. You deserve better.

    • @thatcyclistl2257
      @thatcyclistl2257 5 лет назад +2

      @Larry Hinderman true...

    • @graui908
      @graui908 5 лет назад +9

      Still living in lala land, huh?

    • @knbsd3876
      @knbsd3876 5 лет назад

      TheMarker2015 L.S ...great words of wisdom💜

    • @barshana6231
      @barshana6231 3 года назад +1

      What should u do when don't know what to do??? When u have no aim

    • @flowers8442
      @flowers8442 3 года назад +1

      @@barshana6231 Pray.
      Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lead not onto your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your path.

  • @ilovegoddoyou7003
    @ilovegoddoyou7003 4 года назад +422

    To anybody who's reading this, I pray that whatever is hurting you or
    whatever you are constantly stressing about gets better. May the dark
    thoughts, the Overthinking, and the doubt exit your mind right now. May
    clarity replace confusion. May peace and calmness fill your life.🙏❤🌷

  • @itsmeshree3908
    @itsmeshree3908 3 года назад +170

    Your mom spend 9 months for making your heart don't let someone to break it one day ❤️❤️💔🤗

    • @jannettsnow2856
      @jannettsnow2856 2 года назад +3

      That does happen. Like in abused cheating lieing
      These no way to.stop it

    • @eagerbeaver009
      @eagerbeaver009 2 года назад +1

      Bhaisaab bahot kadak baat....Sahi 💯🌺

  • @hemantsajwan5246
    @hemantsajwan5246 5 лет назад +680

    The best part is the man is still so humble to his boss .../.

    • @orubek355
      @orubek355 5 лет назад +7

      Yes !!!

    • @ClearYourMindTravel
      @ClearYourMindTravel 5 лет назад +29

      That's the same thing I said in my comment above. He didn't act petty to his boss. He remained humble.

    • @sagarsharma3048
      @sagarsharma3048 5 лет назад +31

      Always remember the more you achieve the greatest height, the greater level the more you have to be humble, otherwise it just won't work out in your work ethics

    • @SirReal1958
      @SirReal1958 5 лет назад +19

      There was something about his ex-boss that seemed somewhat awkward. Either his ex-boss wasn't happy for his former coworker's success or the ex-boss wasn't doing very well himself.

    • @eghoseisiramen1892
      @eghoseisiramen1892 5 лет назад +4

      @@SirReal1958 yup, I definitely think he lost his stuff

  • @williamadams2361
    @williamadams2361 3 года назад +193

    I'd rather impress and impact people by creating value to their lives which is the only true and honest path to wealth and abundance.

    • @smithwillison6345
      @smithwillison6345 3 года назад +1

      @Chris Davis I use money to better my life and solve my financial problems from the profits I make from every investment, I invest on Bitcoin that's why money come to me easily.

    • @danhanson5314
      @danhanson5314 3 года назад

      I stopped caring and panicking about Bitcoin price ever since I started using Bella strategy. it gives me gain daily even with the down trend.

    • @ericrobert4651
      @ericrobert4651 3 года назад

      Buying Bitcoin doesn't make you a winner, the ability to make profits daily out of your capital is what makes you a winner. stop depending on the market price to make profits, choose trading over holding.

    • @carsoncordelli9557
      @carsoncordelli9557 3 года назад

      @@danhanson5314 This lady is no joke, she's a genius when it comes to technical analysis. Love her.

    • @ervinmiller938
      @ervinmiller938 3 года назад

      @@carsoncordelli9557 I saw the recommendation but I didn't bother chatting her up I keep loosing tally i still don't understand how the forex market works tho.

  • @whatdadogdoin7531
    @whatdadogdoin7531 5 лет назад +804

    2:58 " If a door doesn't open for you it's not your door " damn so inspirational. I guess I have faced it in real life.

    • @qusaial-momani1774
      @qusaial-momani1774 5 лет назад +5

      Me too, it's so hard

    • @ProfessionalHaterTeamSnowcat
      @ProfessionalHaterTeamSnowcat 5 лет назад +6

      im just gonna kick that door open.

    • @Ranteray
      @Ranteray 5 лет назад

      @@ProfessionalHaterTeamSnowcat ahahaahhaxD

    • @edgehead13
      @edgehead13 5 лет назад +1

      Isn't that a bad quote though? what if someone works for something but, doesn't get it. Saying it wasn't meant to be is basically quitting.

    • @ulaszypcio8835
      @ulaszypcio8835 4 года назад

      edgehead13 no, it just means that what they have been working on isn’t meant for them and that there’s something else greater for them. It’s not quitting, maybe what they worked on isn’t giving them enough so they are looking for another door/future. But I do understand how u thought that, you just might have not have thought it through.

  • @BeautyLilya
    @BeautyLilya 5 лет назад +153

    Being rejected is the best. Because I know something better is out there...

  • @halahradwan9825
    @halahradwan9825 5 лет назад +891

    Done 7 interviews this week got rejected for all though I passed all of their tests. This was right on time 💕

    • @Warpath1337
      @Warpath1337 5 лет назад +40

      Halah wishing the best for you. May God open the right doors for you.

    • @enniswhalen2428
      @enniswhalen2428 5 лет назад +14

      H r - Hey! Your GETTIN' the next one!

    • @divineprovidence803
      @divineprovidence803 5 лет назад +37

      Don't give up Halah. God is directing your steps and guiding you. He'll provide you with the right role that you will love! You'll like the work culture, people you work with and the pay!! Trust in God. I speak from personal experience. Matthew 7: 7-8.

    • @iamlegend712
      @iamlegend712 5 лет назад +9

      Keep going hun, you'll get one

    • @Anonymiss28
      @Anonymiss28 5 лет назад +13

      Been through this as well. You will get to the place you need to be.

  • @choiijkorea89
    @choiijkorea89 4 года назад +34

    Failed 4 interviews in a row and watched this. Felt really low for a while but helped be get remotivated. Wil keep trying!

    • @ritamdas3833
      @ritamdas3833 3 года назад

      hey bro I failed 3 interviews and i feel really low
      i dont know when can i crack one
      i got 2 jobs now

    • @tirumalakumar1682
      @tirumalakumar1682 3 года назад

      Failed 6 interviews and keep motivating my self

    • @shivakumarreddyp8764
      @shivakumarreddyp8764 2 года назад

      Bro jobs almost got in hand and missed due to some others selfishness and profit.... And almost it happened 3-4times for me now Iam very deep down in my life. But still I will fight bcz Iam fighter.

  • @ATrueLoveOfficial
    @ATrueLoveOfficial 5 лет назад +416

    It is never easy being rejected, whether on your job or relationship. It is embarrassing. It can shaken your ego, it's totally disappointing. However, life goes on. You need to live with the mantra of never giving up because every rejection opens another door of opportunity and growth, as well.

    • @Aus200
      @Aus200 5 лет назад +9

      You can say all these pretty little fake words but it doesn't matter. Women only care about looks in men, and are very shallow. If you don't have the looks, then it's over for you.

    • @ironmight4334
      @ironmight4334 5 лет назад +8

      @@Aus200 How insecure are you? I mean, you get what you call into the universe!

    • @Aus200
      @Aus200 5 лет назад +1

      @@ironmight4334 it's over for you.

    • @darkbribe777
      @darkbribe777 5 лет назад

      It closed almost all my doors, im literally not leaving mine xd

    • @batfinkforever7036
      @batfinkforever7036 5 лет назад +6

      or more rejection, some people don't have a magic golden door, they have life times of rejection. that is the real world like it or not..

  • @ArtistryAlchemyy
    @ArtistryAlchemyy 3 года назад +67

    I just lost my job because of the pandemic, so I started a RUclips channel. I'm not giving up!!

    • @DeSeannMaye
      @DeSeannMaye 3 года назад +4

      I wish you all the success with your channel fam!! Forreal

    • @AnkitSingh-xn2fh
      @AnkitSingh-xn2fh 3 года назад +1

      In the same boat at present as you were back then. Wishing you all the success. Way to go buddy !!

    • @GabrielTobing
      @GabrielTobing 3 года назад +1

      PPPFFFFFTTTT!!!! 1.57K????!!!!
      NICE MAN!!!

    • @salmabegum298
      @salmabegum298 3 года назад

      Good luck dude 🤞

  • @christinaa7735
    @christinaa7735 5 лет назад +89

    Every time i got rejected, i was redirected to something way better. Now, i get happy when i lose an opportunity and i wait for the next better one to happen

  • @pargm9543
    @pargm9543 5 лет назад +1199

    I came here to see what happened if girlfriend rejected you!!😂😂

    • @donjamoralin9113
      @donjamoralin9113 5 лет назад +10

      @@marsmars9261 lmao

    • @frederickamartinez
      @frederickamartinez 5 лет назад +68

      Focus on success. Her loss

    • @brianjanssens8020
      @brianjanssens8020 5 лет назад +6

      @@marsmars9261 then you're dure to get a girlf*cough*golddigger

    • @i27m4di5
      @i27m4di5 5 лет назад +13

      Shovine Bojraj who hurt u dude. He meant that he thought the vid is about that

    • @shiva4ever
      @shiva4ever 5 лет назад +31

      Still applies: you weren't the right fit. Find someone with whom you fit well. TC.

  • @michellegreen4526
    @michellegreen4526 5 лет назад +115

    This message is so relevant to what I am experiencing right now. I’ve decided to stop trying to open the door that was not meant for me.

  • @bdjenemndmndmndk7261
    @bdjenemndmndmndk7261 4 года назад +18

    Came here after getting rejected from my school's WEB, volleyball team, and California All State Band. I just learn that every rejection is an oppurtunity...I made it into my school's math olympiad, and made it into a university science camp. :)

  • @wapp1567
    @wapp1567 5 лет назад +104

    "Sometimes it takes a good fall, to really know where you stand" - Jay shetty ....... words - this quote is real !!!!!!!

    • @user-ob4od5pn8g
      @user-ob4od5pn8g 5 лет назад +1

      My faith teaches me ,that you may hate some thing is good for you . it is part of my faith
      that's makes me satisfied , not blue of events in my life ,I believe that the God chose to me the best ,he is the most wise ,the most know

  • @antoniosolomonjr.lpt.mried1373
    @antoniosolomonjr.lpt.mried1373 5 лет назад +33

    I was deadly hurt 😭😭😭 when I was rejected 😭😭😭 but I Know for a fact that it's was not my lost.

    • @knbsd3876
      @knbsd3876 5 лет назад +1

      Antonio Solomon Jr ...Thanks for your words...reinforces my thinking from today's rejection!

    • @aileronhelicopters
      @aileronhelicopters 2 года назад

      How are you guys now??

  • @thetruthbetweenthelines8521
    @thetruthbetweenthelines8521 5 лет назад +292

    Rejection is part of being alive. We all felt it. The fact is...how do you answer to that? How do you change the narrative in your mind so next time when you'll be rejected, you'll fuel yourself with that energy. That will lift you instead of putting you down. Jay helps us to better reframe the stories of our lives. And he does it in a masterful manner.

  • @tonytackett3843
    @tonytackett3843 5 лет назад +9

    Spending time with my grandchildren, I look back and realise could I be happier on in a castle surrounded by all my desires and all my needs met. No absolutely not. I've lost everything I worked for except the most important. My Will to be and see everybody happy many of these things we strive for separate us from each other. The more you have the farther you can travel, the smaller your world becomes. I live in the rule south where the poorest are the happiest. Homes made of storage building in clever ways and mountain tops overlook vast amounts of earth, friends and myself get together with our guitars ,the children chasing wild horses. Its in that moment we realise we are at the end of the rainbow and there's no place on earth we'd rather be. Y'all welcome to come but leave your rules at home. There's only two rule here. Be happy and help gather fire wood. Luv y'all

    • @knbsd3876
      @knbsd3876 5 лет назад

      Tony Tacket...So, where is this Shangri-La to which All is welcome?!

    • @grayaici
      @grayaici 4 года назад

      "Where the poorest are the happiest". I love this😭❤

  • @stayslickwithkit
    @stayslickwithkit 5 лет назад +326

    Sometimes we don't realise that that door closes because a better door has just opened for us :) hard in the moment, but in hindsight is when you realise.
    Thanks Jay Shetty, youre the man! Always an inspiration for me and my channel!

    • @scaboi
      @scaboi 5 лет назад +4

      Of all the rejections and bad things that happen to me, I've yet to see a better door opened for me.

  • @potato5169
    @potato5169 5 лет назад +8

    Today was the first interview of my life and i got rejected ..and as a result i was really very unhappy for letting my parents myself down...and short of my expectations........
    But these 4 mins of yours provided me the console i needed....thanku sir for your kind work💜

    • @Mishii0_0
      @Mishii0_0 2 года назад

      Same thing happened to me today mate it shattered my confidence and I feel really down🥺

  • @madhavanand756
    @madhavanand756 5 лет назад +218

    In our 😧 *PAIN* we find our ✊ *GREATEST* *POWER* .
    Awesome HIT LIKE FOR JAY SIR..

    • @1987ducanh
      @1987ducanh 5 лет назад +1

      Yes, Even in one relationship, I got so much pain now, but I think I will change and become a better version of my self.

    • @csguak
      @csguak 5 лет назад

      Because of pain, I am more awake. I am more alert, and more alive than ever before.

  • @love_agapi_m3976
    @love_agapi_m3976 4 года назад +5

    So true I started a new career and my first two jobs I got fired. The 3rd I quit bc of mean coworkers all while dealing with my mothers illness and death. Let me say no compassion at all for going through such a difficult time. I ended up at a better job that pays better, is more prestigious and is easier.

  • @damyantivdevi
    @damyantivdevi 5 лет назад +78

    Great video thks
    Absutely. 13yrs ago I was rejected and told that my potential is no good.
    Guess what I have my own business 13yrs today. I thank that person than and today.

  • @GabGab-zv9kk
    @GabGab-zv9kk 5 лет назад +2

    I’ve been rejected so many times everytime I apply for work because they say i dont meet the standards that they needed.but i just always put in my mind that theres a great oppurtunity for me not now but very soon.Thankyou for this inspiring video.

  • @TheLifeAcademySN
    @TheLifeAcademySN 5 лет назад +116

    We never know what we're being protected from. God's plan is always bigger than our plan! All we need to do is change our perspective towards rejection, setbacks, failure or any other adversity for that regard. Those times are times to adjust our approach towards life, to showcase and strengthen our pre existing abilities, and to learn something that we haven't learned yet! So never give up. Keep showing up, keep pushing against whatever life throws at you. Clarity, and eventually growth, will always come! 💯💙

    • @thecrazymuzician1
      @thecrazymuzician1 5 лет назад +3

      Thank you, so inspiring!

    • @8v71buses
      @8v71buses 5 лет назад

      Tanmay Nayyar Very true and thanks for sharing btw 😊

    • @bethelhemhabte4377
      @bethelhemhabte4377 4 года назад

      Yeah God is always with us and his plan far beyond ours tho....
      can you subscribe please

  • @miscellaneous714
    @miscellaneous714 5 лет назад +1

    I was laid off last year and I was so depressed and shocked at that time. However, in fact, it was the best incident occurred in my life. I have now a job that I love it and I enjoy every moment of it. I am now even thinking and preparing myself to make my own startup in my field.

  • @srisailamgoud2752
    @srisailamgoud2752 5 лет назад +16

    Rejection is necessary. It tells ur worth. This video completely reflects my journey throughout. Thanks jay😊

  • @Sarah-mg2pp
    @Sarah-mg2pp 2 года назад +1

    Got rejected from one job this morning and just got offered a much better job and higher paying job this afternoon!!! Much better hours lovely staff! When one door closes another opens!

  • @Shiraz321
    @Shiraz321 5 лет назад +17

    In every failure in my life i have learnt something new out of it.

  • @user-zd8ff7qc7p
    @user-zd8ff7qc7p 4 года назад +12

    Failure is the beginning of SUCCESS

  • @hamannshaikh7398
    @hamannshaikh7398 4 года назад +4

    *REJECTION LEADS TO YOUR DREAM WORK* ❤️❤️❤️ 💯%

  • @SJones-kk5lg
    @SJones-kk5lg Год назад

    WOW! That’s cold. He walks in all energetic, excited, and enthusiastic in expressing his interest in being considered for a promotion. Then it flips to him be fired. But true. It’s a numbers game and nothing else matters.

  • @chemistrybyap
    @chemistrybyap 5 лет назад +17

    "Time is the most powerful weapon" "you can be stronger than anyone but time is more stronger than you"
    2 year later....
    Those 2 year how hardwork he put along with those bad memories & rejection. When one learn how to tackle bad time and be mentally strong.

  • @muhammadzubairali7175
    @muhammadzubairali7175 4 года назад +3

    Success is totally depends on hard-working. failure is nothing it's like to opportunity to achieve your goals 💪💪💪

  • @nadirrabah6756
    @nadirrabah6756 5 лет назад +14

    Revenge by being successful. He gave himself the promotion by starting his own company yay yay!!!!

  • @julietmam1182
    @julietmam1182 5 лет назад +1

    I suffered rejection not once or twice..in our pain we find our greatest factor.May the God who opens closed doors.Renews lost hope and pardons see y’all through your new journey in 2019🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @griez7065
    @griez7065 5 лет назад +36

    When you get rejected, don't think about it.
    Just change your point of view.
    You're gonna see something great to live.

  • @kirayamato5549
    @kirayamato5549 5 лет назад +1

    if that door does not open for you you create your own door do not give up your passion.

  • @mustafajawad7356
    @mustafajawad7356 5 лет назад +11

    That’s actually happened to me before two years ago, my manager punished me by moving to another new place, I was really frustrated, when I shifted there in the first day I cried But now I’m just growing up and enjoying it

  • @titineharris3085
    @titineharris3085 4 года назад +2

    God, this is nothing but the truth. Thank you.

  • @rajasteavn4724
    @rajasteavn4724 5 лет назад +70

    Big fan from India... I will make comments every because I want you come to India and meet us...

    • @pradhirp1636
      @pradhirp1636 5 лет назад

      I Kno right Gujarat#

    • @saichandchandu8718
      @saichandchandu8718 5 лет назад +1

      From Andhra

    • @jake_runs_the_world
      @jake_runs_the_world 5 лет назад

      From Orange County California!

    • @andrey9590
      @andrey9590 5 лет назад

      @@jake_runs_the_world i can't believe it you're pretty much the first American who's not roasting indians

    • @mdeepak
      @mdeepak 5 лет назад +2

      From Tamil Nadu

  • @hardikparikh1324
    @hardikparikh1324 8 месяцев назад

    True story, everyone can relate to themselves, post failure there is a success and failure is an opportunity to see what best you can do now

  • @beingcheercool
    @beingcheercool 2 года назад +4

    Mark My Words, "Every Failure Has One Success Story" 😍🔥

  • @veroniquendambo3242
    @veroniquendambo3242 4 года назад

    What a shattering experience! Well, he must have sensed it coming: the boss being cold with him, less work coming his way, co-workers becoming silent when he entered a room, and God knows the rest. Sometimes the workplace can be a terrible place and turn into a hell. Too bad !

  • @smartenough3613
    @smartenough3613 5 лет назад +48

    Well, when u get rejected alot u start getting used to it and u get astounded if suddenly u don't get rejected. I don't know about others but I got used to being rejected(mostly in everything I get rejected) and I am totally fine with it. Well, once something worked out for me and I was so shocked. I couldn't believe it ahahaha. I was like nah girl I think ur dreaming wake up. Most important, be patient and don't take life too serious. Rejection is totally a good thing.

    • @aboy3064
      @aboy3064 5 лет назад +6

      Sunny days wouldn't be special if it wasn't for rain.

    • @knbsd3876
      @knbsd3876 5 лет назад

      Smart Enough...Those little wins are great and so precious...and a reminder for what rejection feels like. Enjoy, and be humble with the wins☺️

    • @priteegupta8399
      @priteegupta8399 2 года назад +1

      Even i got rejected everytime wheather it is about starting a new life with anyone or in a job..
      Now tired of this rejection... Feels like I'm not capable for anything

    • @aileronhelicopters
      @aileronhelicopters 2 года назад

      Thanks for this. I'm Aerospace Engineer and will use this

  • @essamgossiel6377
    @essamgossiel6377 3 года назад +2

    If they are rejecting you, they are actually opening new doors and opportunities to widen your horizon without them knowing that

  • @harishbk3806
    @harishbk3806 5 лет назад +27

    I am bouncing back with the same attitude what you told here🗾🙂

  • @anonymous_6029
    @anonymous_6029 5 лет назад +1

    A truly excellent message. Just stop for a moment, one door closes and another door opens.

  • @smrjt9102
    @smrjt9102 5 лет назад +14

    This video has changed the way I see my life . Thank you so much for the inspiration ❤

  • @parveensehgal9125
    @parveensehgal9125 5 лет назад +1

    I agree with you Jay Shetty...Life must go on .

  • @gopalkrishnadwivedi1822
    @gopalkrishnadwivedi1822 5 лет назад +4

    Thanks for this video jay.
    Hope this would happen with every rejected or broken heart. Be focused and continuously working towards your goals.

  • @thelaurels13
    @thelaurels13 5 лет назад

    Sometimes we have to have a breakdown to get a breakthrough. I was fired from my job 7 months ago and I was devastated. A month after being fired I was offered a managerial role in a much bigger company and I have been there since May 2018. I love working with my colleagues and so grateful to my old boss for firing me, because if he had not then I would not have even applied for this job and I love this job and the people I work with. Anybody who is going through something similar, mark my words, something better is waiting for you, just don’t give up, stay positive and know your worth. Happy New Year folks 👍🏽😀

  • @HimanshuYadav-zd2vy
    @HimanshuYadav-zd2vy 5 лет назад +7

    Trust me it's the first video i saw on youtube with 0 dislike.

  • @tavoiaiono7885
    @tavoiaiono7885 5 лет назад +2

    Everything that happens to you in this world is a reflection of your energy and vibration that you project out into the world. Its no one elses fault BUT YOUR OWN!!! is someone stabs you in the leg in the subway, it is because YOU have vibrated so low that you attracted low level vibrations like, pain, sadness, hurt, hate, envy, greed, sorrow, gossip etc......high level vibration is appreciation, love, satisfaction, laughter etc..... Always check your vibrations and energy each day and live in the NOW.

    • @knbsd3876
      @knbsd3876 5 лет назад +1

      Tavoi Aiono...When I shared information about this great opportunity, there were a couple of naysayers in the group of supporters. They would state, "maybe", "we'll see", "I don't know", and "don't get your hopes up". I think those unbelieving sentiments probably contributed to my rejection today (9/26).

    • @tavoiaiono7885
      @tavoiaiono7885 5 лет назад

      @@knbsd3876 yes but YOU were looking for that support or lack of support to support your lack of enthusiasm. You see....they can say anything, but you picked the ones that stood out due to your vibration. If your vibration was high...you would have pick the other supporters more positive statements. Even worst, you partially blame the naysayers supporters for your rejection. It is ALL YOU!!! The reason you got rejected because you vibration was low, the reason for that is because you didnt really want to be accepted in, the reason for that is because your true higher self and your angels and guardians KNOW that you are BETTER than that....so therefore you knew you can do better. You will have what you want when it feels right with your vibrations. Enjoy the experience and remember you are powerful and beautiful. xx

  • @ThatOpinionIsWrong
    @ThatOpinionIsWrong 5 лет назад +46

    Don't think of it as "get rejected, and then take revenge or make that person jealous later on", it's about not being in where you don't fit but rather where you fit, where you should be.

    • @JoakimBB
      @JoakimBB 4 года назад +6

      You don't need to take revenge. Usually the revenge of success will haunt the people who wronged you for eternity.

    • @lionroaring7021
      @lionroaring7021 4 года назад

      Interesting.very interesting

  • @RapFanatic4ever
    @RapFanatic4ever 4 года назад

    I remember the day I got laid off at my job at Best Buy . Due to budget cuts . I worked for a year from 2011-2012 I was so upset but now I’m working on trying go get back into working so this is actually what I needed thank you Jay Shetty for the motivation

  • @Inforza
    @Inforza 5 лет назад +5

    this video is how my life went in the last few years.. i am glad my boss let me go ^^ it was the best thing that happened in my life

  • @geethaaa1495
    @geethaaa1495 3 года назад

    I'm experienced and I believe that I'm perfect in what I do.
    Even in interviews I did well. But I'm getting rejected.
    I wish this situation should pass soon.

  • @Eye-Wandering
    @Eye-Wandering 5 лет назад +3

    I have to steal what you say "success is not built on success, but failure and rejection built on success" 🔥🔥🔥🔥😮😮😮 I have to share this because i like to motivate other people too thanks 👍👍👍👍👍💪💪💪💪💪

  • @chinashorts1491
    @chinashorts1491 3 года назад +1

    These stories always have a sappy turnaround point where somebody becomes WILDLY successful after their misfortune. Then they get to humble brag. Real life isn't like that. When you get pushed out or rejected from something, that's it. It's a negative and you might never find anything better. You don't get lucky because of karma and cosmic balance.
    It's good to encourage people to just always make the best of it, but don't tell them they're going to be wildly successful and get to gloat about it. Life just isn't like that. There's a lot to be said for being able to take a life changing rejection that you will never recover from, but recover spirtually by just making the best of it, finding your groove, finding your happiness regardless of your station.
    These stories almost make it seem like happiness is conditional to the station. Try doing one where someone experiences devastating change and just handles it like a normal person with normal luck. We're all challenged to make the best of what we got, and most of us will never be as financially successful or as lucky as depicted in your videos. Keep it real, man.
    You're reaching out to real people, so keep it realistic and relevant. We gotta relate to this stuff.

  • @islamislam-zw3il
    @islamislam-zw3il 5 лет назад +3

    Regardless of what other users are commenting here , The pain of rejection is more heart -breaking than Watching your business , crumble and belly up before your own eyes ( this is not a hyperbolic statement ) ....
    My 2 cents :
    Embrace the pain instead of running from it ...
    Let the anguish out , even though it might shoot up like a geyser ....
    But , let it out ...
    In the lieu of this not happening ,The most probable zone you 'll end up is depression ...

  • @COOLANDCONTROL3469
    @COOLANDCONTROL3469 5 лет назад

    JUST LIKE A BEAUTIFUL CHILD WHO KEEPS FALLING. THEN ALL OF SUDDEN STANDS, WALKS & THEN RUNS.

    • @raghav1308
      @raghav1308 3 года назад

      Then ask the child not to run😊

  • @bobswap910
    @bobswap910 5 лет назад +9

    Jay I’m really at very low point of my life! Really motivated me! Thank you

  • @SJHtown
    @SJHtown 4 года назад

    Rejection after rejection in this covid job market, however, it is giving me more time to devote to my Coaching business. I will be this man by this time next year!!!

  • @wendallparker8420
    @wendallparker8420 5 лет назад +5

    I love being rejected. It means that something better is waiting for me, and it usually is. I’m living a good life right now because of all my rejections.

  • @bhoodevitadkapelly7136
    @bhoodevitadkapelly7136 7 месяцев назад

    Learning
    6 Jan
    Don't just keep running, stop and enjoy a single moment."The good, the bad, the beautiful, the ugly, the inspiring, the not-so-glamorous moments, and thank god through it all."

  • @PracticalInspiration
    @PracticalInspiration 5 лет назад +32

    Love these videos, provide context and important messages!

  • @joycesegers5578
    @joycesegers5578 5 лет назад +1

    ❤️❤️❤️Love this!!! "If a door doesn't open, its not your door...sometimes we're climbing ladders that aren't ours to climb!!" Thank you Jay! 🙌🙇‍♀️

  • @darlingtonnkwopara4293
    @darlingtonnkwopara4293 5 лет назад +4

    That’s me been rejected one year ago and now I make twice as much and am happy.

  • @ato1188
    @ato1188 5 лет назад +2

    I got rejected today, this video actually helps me a lot. Thank you! 🙂

  • @mamathasade5874
    @mamathasade5874 5 лет назад +14

    Everytime we are being rejected from something good, remember we are just being redirected to something better.

  • @bilbo1710
    @bilbo1710 5 лет назад

    every failure brings with it the seeds of an equivalent success

  • @goodvibesonly9153
    @goodvibesonly9153 5 лет назад +15

    *REJECTION MEANS THE AREA OF URSELF U NEED TO WORK ON*

  • @propertyninja2701
    @propertyninja2701 2 года назад

    I loved been rejected, it tap into my potential to drive higher than the one who rejected me. I learned not to hate the one who rejected me but owe them my success.

  • @ahmedlaari9406
    @ahmedlaari9406 5 лет назад +5

    Am big fan of yours from Kenya....come visit Africa this continent needs inspirational

  • @caribaez5711
    @caribaez5711 4 года назад

    I have been rejected from others who do not want to be my friend. But at the same time even though it feels stingful, I have God and He will lead me to better circles and outcomes. I have learned my strengths and weakness being alone and getting sort of bullied, but I am more understanding. Just like jay said, if those people who reject me, they are not my _door_ and God leads me through MY door. Lessons are learned and protecting me.

  • @samoslich8131
    @samoslich8131 5 лет назад +4

    What if EVERY door you encounter is “not your door”? Eventually you gotta just break one of those doors down

  • @lusitanus6504
    @lusitanus6504 5 лет назад +1

    I spent years thinking I was a good fit to be a Personal Trainer in a gym working for someone else. Found out I was wrong after a few months (finally) working in one. I am currently working in security saving money to open my online personal trainer business and move to a bigger city that I love. I found out quickly that to be able to have the lifestyle that I want I cant have a boss or employes. I need freedom, mobilty and independente. I Will probably make my own youtube Chanel to teach and promote my business too. I got exploited and didnt like the way I was forced to work with the clients. Sometimes failures really can be lifechanging!

    • @lusitanus6504
      @lusitanus6504 4 года назад

      @Heyjose you mean the online personal Trainer Will give me the freedom that the security guard job doesnt. Your right ☺️ Abraços from Portugal!

  • @chirley.j1838
    @chirley.j1838 5 лет назад +4

    I really love Jay Video.

  • @FLYWITHBIEBER6
    @FLYWITHBIEBER6 3 года назад +2

    Thank you for thiss!! I really needed this. I've been rejected couple times on Job, Internship or even Mentorship. I always thought that maybe I'm not good or smart enough, but after watching this I realized those things maybe are just not for me, or maybe this is not the right time yet. Okay Best of Luck for you

  • @kingofgames8993
    @kingofgames8993 5 лет назад +10

    Awesome big fan brother

  • @ruidias4346
    @ruidias4346 4 года назад

    Something very similar happened to me. In my case the numbers were there, but I was inconvenient guy. I always strongly defended those who fought for the company and also to
    say what I thought, not what my bosses want to hear. One day they strangely proposed to I find a new job, I understood that was a sign, so they didn't want me anymore. I made a plan, borrowed money and got a partner and 7 months latter i went out. Together we opened a store. 6 years then things are going very well, we both yet bought a new house that we paid in cash. Luckily we have any debts and most importante thing, we have our family close. I know that the day will come when I will thank both for having thrown me out. Because I also just couldn't stand them anymore. Today I`m a new man, a man of faith who believes that life has a purpose and I worked hard for it. Here we are!

  • @caitlinboneparte5099
    @caitlinboneparte5099 5 лет назад +18

    Hii Jay all the way from South Africa.
    Can you please do a video about being bullied or about bullying .💝👍

    • @rahul17023
      @rahul17023 5 лет назад

      Let's team up and bully everyone around us.

    • @caitlinboneparte5099
      @caitlinboneparte5099 5 лет назад

      @@rahul17023we need to stop bullying each other

    • @rahul17023
      @rahul17023 5 лет назад

      Okay :'(

    • @junglegymbali5136
      @junglegymbali5136 5 лет назад

      Power, Strenght and love❤ i send to you. I got bullied a lifetime just yesterday.... So... I try not take it personell its the best trick cz the person doing it to you actually bully him, her self!! If you anderstand this life going better my dear 👍

    • @nadirrabah6756
      @nadirrabah6756 5 лет назад

      @@caitlinboneparte5099 it makes us stronger. Genghis Khan was bullied, John Gotti was picked on in school, a kid I knew in my high school was picked on and in my high school I find out he's a UFC fighter.

  • @OSTARAEB4
    @OSTARAEB4 4 года назад

    Love it. Maintain your professionalism despite being angry or disappointed. As another man, I wouldn't have asked him for a drink and just be polite and walk away. Or, option two. Success is the best revenge but read between the sheets.

  • @RaxFilms7
    @RaxFilms7 5 лет назад +148

    I got rejected today😭😭😭

    • @rijuldavenda
      @rijuldavenda 5 лет назад +3

      🤨🤨😐😐😐

    • @RaxFilms7
      @RaxFilms7 5 лет назад +3

      👍❤

    • @whatdadogdoin7531
      @whatdadogdoin7531 5 лет назад +6

      Well this experience is nothing new for me man. I have got accustomed to it. Hopefully things will turn out good for both myself and you. All you need to do is just stay strong and positive in order to get through the pain. Because no pain no gain. God bless us all.

    • @maryiyami5550
      @maryiyami5550 5 лет назад +4

      be strong... more than half of the world loves u

    • @DianaDiana-uc8zy
      @DianaDiana-uc8zy 5 лет назад +5

      Much love & strength to you! ❤️

  • @anthonythudium5279
    @anthonythudium5279 5 лет назад +1

    This won't feel true to a lot of people but after being fired I can absolutely say that it is.

  • @AarohanRasik369
    @AarohanRasik369 5 лет назад +6

    Atleast he's handsome.

  • @himanshumaheriya5339
    @himanshumaheriya5339 2 года назад

    You know I was just thinking to tell my father that what I really want to do after failing in so many things and I opened RUclips and I found this video I think universe or god telling me that I should follow my instinct. Thank you for making this video

  • @jatingupta003
    @jatingupta003 5 лет назад +6

    This doesn't happen in real. The reality is just opposite.

  • @TR4008
    @TR4008 5 лет назад +2

    I just got removed from.my project last week after 3 years of hard work .People who do nothing and are mere ass wipes are being promoted .
    But this is so true .This job I am currently at is not what I want to do .

  • @zerol3971
    @zerol3971 4 года назад +9

    If you've been rejected, it's a sign to stop chasing them, let them chase you. In another word, focus on something else more important than flirting around

    • @edith324
      @edith324 3 года назад

      Lol people use SM for business and connection part of fun is flirting as long u know the person. J people look at others to judge and flaws love life live it what makes u happy then u wont have time to see others.

  • @E2Moto
    @E2Moto 5 лет назад +1

    David's situation is almost exactly as what I went through 3 years ago in the Navy. I initially planned to stay 20 years, and towards the end of my enlistment, I was doing a reenlistment process and would have been transferred to Hawaii. Towards the end of that, my chief(supervisor) decided to talk to me alone in the Chief's Quarters in my boat, and told me the same pattern as David's boss did: I wasn't cut out enough as an Electronics Technician, and it was for the best that I don't reenlist. He did give me credibility as a good sailor, and told me that there are jobs outside the military that are better suited for me and I just have to find it. And then like David, I did thank my chief for spending the time helping me for four years, and walked off the office to go back to work. With my dreams of working for my next station in Hawaii shattered, I had to spend the rest of my work day trying not to cry silently, and I died inside later on coming to terms that STEM jobs were never meant for me which I've been trying to fit in for 20 years. I left the Navy a month later with an Honorable Discharge.
    Right now, I work as a glazier apprentice in the construction trade, and loved both the job and pay, but my biggest pet peeve about this is there are periods of unemployment which I really hate. I'm currently not employed because jobs are pretty slow right now, but I surely had a huge blast working for my last company for 13 straight months. I love working and doing my current job, but I'm not completely sure if this is the perfect job for me. I'm still trying to think if I should give myself another chance to work in a STEM job because that seems to be the only way to have good job security.

  • @MareaOmar567
    @MareaOmar567 5 лет назад +5

    can u make a video about what to do when u get bored in your relationship

    • @stayslickwithkit
      @stayslickwithkit 5 лет назад +2

      That's a great idea, I've added it to my list of videos to do for ya :)

    • @MareaOmar567
      @MareaOmar567 5 лет назад

      Stay Slick with Kit
      Oh thanks

    • @amrutakarekar2312
      @amrutakarekar2312 5 лет назад +1

      Make it a long distance relationship

    • @idamaya3398
      @idamaya3398 5 лет назад

      Ya habibi .. You so pretty

    • @lolazz4475
      @lolazz4475 5 лет назад

      Uhm break up?

  • @bodybuildingandfitness4695
    @bodybuildingandfitness4695 4 года назад

    Your temporary defeat clarifies what you don't want. So what you call is a failure or temporary defeat is only that pursue the situation in a destructive way, but in reality you just got smarter on what to focus on instead. Thank you for sharing this Jay!

  • @Shubhamsharmaaaaaaa
    @Shubhamsharmaaaaaaa 5 лет назад +4

    Anyone from India like here❤

  • @steph-7696
    @steph-7696 3 года назад +1

    Okay this made me cry so hard. This is exactly how I just got laid off and I’ve been wanting to start my own company for a long time. I’m so tired of putting my everything into places that would replace me in a second.

  • @muhatsy2455
    @muhatsy2455 5 лет назад +7

    He got a Porsche within 2 years only?!
    That's what i called "money laundry"

  • @hbk788dbz
    @hbk788dbz 3 года назад +1

    Lost my job because of the Covid situation. Got rejected in my 17th Job interview today.
    I know most of you are going to say that I'm constantly rejected because I'm dumb.
    But, this video gave me a sense of hope.
    I might make it one day. I just might.