The SECRET To Finding LOVE & The PERFECT PARTNER Explained! | Jay Shetty

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  • @TGIF82
    @TGIF82 5 лет назад +2324

    I just realised I am The One for myself:-)

  • @hannabie_
    @hannabie_ 3 года назад +699

    I can say that im lucky because after all the heartbreaks and failed relationships, God gave me my husband and im happily married for 7 years. We are bestfriends.

    • @aaliyaholson532
      @aaliyaholson532 3 года назад +2

      Last week I found out my spouse had always been texting this woman also. He said she lives in New York but we stay in Houston Tx then I didn't bother after I did some investigation I found out that she lives in Texas too I couldn't just think straight I was hurt and feel like my soul was taking away we have no kiss yet and we have been married for 10 years now when there is not enough money I make sure he finish schooling and got a good job, finding out about his affairs with this woman is not easy for me because have hired a lot of private investigators but Donald help via whats-app +1 (469) 563-2325 made all this secret came out plainly to me....You can also contact him also on #Instagram FEEDDONALD1 if you want to know more about your spouse and come back thanking me.. Tested and reliable with 100% guaranteed

    • @summersunshineillusions2767
      @summersunshineillusions2767 3 года назад +9

      Congratulations! I am yet to reach that point that I hope to get as lucky as you!

    • @tzdtuc-pd9yv
      @tzdtuc-pd9yv 3 года назад +4

      Congrats, you deserve it in the end !

    • @ritikak2612
      @ritikak2612 3 года назад

      Extra Marital Affairs, Why People fall in Love

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    • @salmanmehar2613
      @salmanmehar2613 3 года назад

      hy this for you dear now you can find you lover around the world viral481.com/srv.html?id=5498947&pub=1342606

  • @hendyho3240
    @hendyho3240 3 года назад +172

    You will know he is your true love when your mind and heart have the same agreement. No struggling, no questioning, no confusing.... Inside you just know

  • @elenabalogova4592
    @elenabalogova4592 4 года назад +21

    1. You respect and trust one another
    2. You both know how to make each other laugh
    3. Both of you want the other person to succeed
    4. You love each others flaws
    5. He/she makes you feel special

  • @bahaatamer1245
    @bahaatamer1245 5 лет назад +7274

    1. They respect and value your dreams!
    2. They are present with you at the moment!
    3. That person is self aware and knows their own self worth!
    4. Trust!
    5. You dont always need someone to keep the chemistry between the two of you!
    6. You can spend time apart, but cant wait to be back!
    7. You can disagree!
    8. You dont have to like each others' friends!
    9. You can be your real self with them!
    10. You argue to get to a healthy conclusion!
    5 months later and I got 1.9k likes out of nowhere: thanks guys! :)

    • @mizyasmin26
      @mizyasmin26 5 лет назад +13

      hey ,I agree but not with second one, your partner don´t need to be there anytime and anywhere (because work,school etc) but if you need him than he needs to be present.
      And the third ,i dont know what does it means.

    • @christinewright8670
      @christinewright8670 5 лет назад +84

      @@mizyasmin26 the second one doesn't mean that they have to be with you all the time, it means that when they ARE with you they are ACTUALLY PRESENT in the moment; for example, not on their cell phone or looking around or not paying any attention to you at cetera. And the third one means that they have their own self worth and respect for themselves; because the only way someone can show respect for you is if they have respect for themselves.

    • @lianaint1178
      @lianaint1178 5 лет назад +7

      So that means the guy i like is not the one its not love just hope

    • @oneten3754
      @oneten3754 5 лет назад +1

      Explore17 🙏

    • @Cecigarcian_n
      @Cecigarcian_n 5 лет назад

      8

  • @alamasama
    @alamasama 5 лет назад +888

    You already know the ONE, look in the mirror. It's you!!! Love you and the person you love is complementary to making your life meaningful

  • @omkarrevankar7605
    @omkarrevankar7605 3 года назад +38

    There is an awsum line in the movie "before we go" which I still believe in - "No one is perfect, and there will be struggles, Its us who choose the person with whom we wanna struggle with". This blew my mind and I feel if both the individuals feel the same, then thats love.

    • @ashwanijha7695
      @ashwanijha7695 2 года назад +1

      Unfortunately, these days people are so busy in finding the perfect partner, that they cheat on the present when the struggle begins. But the miss being in the journey together, and man that thrill and adventure is absolutely amazing!!. Anyone here felt the same?

  • @sinahjond7402
    @sinahjond7402 4 года назад +44

    They respect your privacy, your feelings, and they respect themselves.

  • @cantoscope8966
    @cantoscope8966 4 года назад +1942

    Stop looking for true love, just be true and love will find you. 😏

  • @bthartneyx
    @bthartneyx 6 лет назад +2150

    I met her (Shan) when I was sixteen. I was instantly attracted to her. We hung out for a week and I realised I could be myself around her. She made feel good about being me. I told her at the end of that week that I was going to marry her one day. She laughed. A few months later she left for Scotland to study aircraft engineering. She was away for 5 years and during that time I dated many girls. I was dead inside, I realised one day that it was because I was comparing these relationships to what I had with Shan (Nick name).
    She came back, we got back together, we got married. It still is amazing, but we have had to work hard at our marriage, sometimes more so than not. I can still be me, I don't have to pretend, I can say whatever I feel, whatever I fear and it's all okay. It's been a hell of a journey and I look forward to any more amazing years.

    • @chrissyisateehee._.4855
      @chrissyisateehee._.4855 6 лет назад +33

      MrH im so glad u and her got a happy ending

    • @MatthewCSHughes
      @MatthewCSHughes 6 лет назад +23

      MrH really beautiful Brother, thank you so much for sharing ❤️

    • @caitlyn8611
      @caitlyn8611 6 лет назад +14

      that's so sweet! - happy for you! xo

    • @ajaykarthi7760
      @ajaykarthi7760 6 лет назад +23

      MrH Happy for you brother as ya got the girl you like as your life partner , that is the most beautiful feeling and hardest task in life getting married to someone who you love, Wish me luck tooo

    • @KJAlways
      @KJAlways 6 лет назад +3

      That is so awesome!! 💜💚🧡🙏🏽

  • @bookwarmtee7750
    @bookwarmtee7750 4 года назад +28

    I found my one. It's just simple. Nothing flashy. But without eachother we feel stagnant. It's just two people open to learn and grow together.

    • @geezerhull
      @geezerhull 4 года назад +1

      avoid the "flashy" ones. Also....modest is hottest.

    • @wealthlibrary
      @wealthlibrary 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/DueEAH0Oq7w/видео.html ,,, love your self ,, love you

  • @misspriss2482
    @misspriss2482 4 года назад +23

    You know that you've found the one when you've been through all 4 seasons of life with them and they continue to show up and strive to put you first every day. Only time will tell you that.

  • @Sr20657
    @Sr20657 5 лет назад +1288

    Someone once told me when I asked them how I would find true love ,
    “ don’t look for true love , look for love that seems good enough to be true “
    Man that stuck with me

    • @lesegopercyval7703
      @lesegopercyval7703 5 лет назад +20

      Sassy Pohtato dont try to look for love let love find you.

    • @melissaannmagee27
      @melissaannmagee27 5 лет назад +5

      This is so true, if it's hard to believe and seems to good to be real, its real...

    • @Emily-sf8wz
      @Emily-sf8wz 2 года назад

      Do you mean that seems too good to be true but us true?

  • @satarupaganguly8553
    @satarupaganguly8553 6 лет назад +572

    When you feel u r not falling in love anymore, instead u are rising in love....Dear u have found the one ❤

  • @dollyrama1132
    @dollyrama1132 4 года назад

    In his eyes there will be the most beautiful deep compassion, not just for u...but for the world.

  • @lilsahara8812
    @lilsahara8812 3 года назад +48

    Just take care of yourself and you'll always be fine, my friend Greetings from Africa

  • @clw6791
    @clw6791 6 лет назад +593

    Best relationship advise I ever got....Your relationship doesn't have to make sense to everyone else, as long as it works in a healthy way for the two of you. That's why it's YOUR RELATIONSHIP and not anyone else's.

    • @Thisz026
      @Thisz026 6 лет назад +3

      How you can deal with someone that lie constantly?

    • @teddynkwabi4502
      @teddynkwabi4502 6 лет назад +2

      wilson wilson Amen to that!

    • @KJAlways
      @KJAlways 6 лет назад +4

      sherlijn de windt I would eventually stop wasting my time on a person who is a liar and not trustworthy if they did not stop doing it. Jay say trust must be earned. How can you trust a liar?

    • @ShineVizzy
      @ShineVizzy 5 лет назад +2

      I needed this

    • @treavam5653
      @treavam5653 5 лет назад +2

      Loved "In a healthy way" -- most important. Otherwise nuclear disaster is just a matter of time.

  • @maygordon9019
    @maygordon9019 4 года назад +470

    If you've ever been hurt by someone you love and the relationship ends, please take time to to heal. Enjoy you, so you can enjoy someone else. Slow down, real love will not run off and leave you. Trust, respect each other and become friends first, because there will be times in your life when you'll need a Friend. That is your real love.

  • @Sarah.f2804
    @Sarah.f2804 3 года назад +3

    i just realized that I've found the one !! omg, he's exactly everything you said plus our relationship is so healthy. omg, I hope we stay like this forever !!

  • @Bee4Brendan
    @Bee4Brendan 4 года назад +11

    I think it's not always about finding the one, but more about making somebody (that you like) the one by working on yourself and vice versa. I think most of these things you can work on if you don't already possess these characteristics. It's about willingness to do better and get better. Some of these you can't create on your own, but some of these, I believe, "The One" will definitely want to get better at.

  • @beingthebestemmaicanbe3785
    @beingthebestemmaicanbe3785 6 лет назад +2160

    Your eye colour skin colour combo is absolutely stunning! Very handsome.

    • @ClaireRachel
      @ClaireRachel 6 лет назад +124

      I met him once at one of his talks and his eyes are mesmerizing! He makes you feel like you're the only person in the room of thousands!

    • @Gymnastzz
      @Gymnastzz 6 лет назад +42

      Claire Rachel
      I bet! He seems like an amazing person. And anyone with eyes like that knows how to use them, myself included.😳😁

    • @juhishukla5667
      @juhishukla5667 6 лет назад +7

      So true !!

    • @karishmak1170
      @karishmak1170 6 лет назад +6

      Agreed

    • @queenvic83
      @queenvic83 6 лет назад +4

      Jaemee Gasaway 😂😂😂 Woooord..lol 👍😉

  • @KellieKellyCorner
    @KellieKellyCorner 5 лет назад +790

    Some of my ways I knew my husband was the one are;
    1. We disagree openly and honestly without taking it personal that we have different opinions.
    2. We are completely opposite and because of that we help balance one another.
    3. We enjoy our differences because we see it as an opportunity to learn something new
    4. We ended up wanting to better ourselves because we could finally see ourselves through each others eyes and knew we deserved to be the best versions of ourselves without being forced.
    5. We challenge each other. We force each other to step outside our comfort zone in order to make ourselves acknowledge what we usually try to avoid.
    6. We helped each other find our strengths in our weakest moments.
    7. We validate each others feelings. We share our goals. We create our dreams and encourage each other along the way.

    • @nafizfaruk19
      @nafizfaruk19 5 лет назад +17

      This is beautiful, sad to say I thought I had a lot of these common with this woman I fell in love with and I could definitely feel her love for me too. But things got messed up between us and her past led to us ending before we even started, especially because we began as friends. But I'll still always be around her to support when I can from a respectable distance.
      Thanks for sharing Kelly. Beautiful insights that I agree with and feel are also true to what I would want a relationship with a partner for myself to be like. May Allah keep you guys happy and together.

    • @yukijkina-vargasaguirre6304
      @yukijkina-vargasaguirre6304 5 лет назад +3

      This advice is quite helpful

    • @joanpashinsky-greve8760
      @joanpashinsky-greve8760 5 лет назад +4

      Kellie Kelly Corner I get your comments my husband and I are same way

    • @RegumRai
      @RegumRai 5 лет назад +7

      I always thought 'The One' should have common interest or opinions with you. But this is interesting.

    • @eighteror
      @eighteror 5 лет назад +6

      @@RegumRai It's not that important! Similar values and morals are more important in the long term. I remember in high school still I would hope that my boyfriend would dress like this and listen to that, since I enjoyed those things and aesthetics. In my now relationship I don't see those things important at all. Surely it is nice if you have some common interest like excersise or traveling, but in grand picture much bigger things matter than what do you think about certain bad or food :)

  • @sashapaule7372
    @sashapaule7372 4 года назад +1

    It is just super how you really give details on what you have seen about each category, and most of all, you make us see the slit differences of each, and on what we actually mistake.

  • @sheilatischler2197
    @sheilatischler2197 3 года назад +4

    Thank you for sharing these tips Jay.
    It is very level-headed advise. There is no such thing as perfection and we can't expect another human being to be responsible to "complete us." If two healthy, responsible, mature people are fortunate to find each other, just keep individually growing and encourage your partner in their growth as well and let life lead the way. ♥️

  • @lebo5676
    @lebo5676 6 лет назад +138

    You know you have found the one, when they can still respect (not excuse or enable) you when you are at your lowest of lows. Loosing your job, failing a course, fighting depression. Instead of tearing you down, they can call you to action/encourage you to change and develop. That’s deep love.

    • @kikiabdi3194
      @kikiabdi3194 6 лет назад

      true indeed ❤❤❤❤

    • @KJAlways
      @KJAlways 6 лет назад

      I love my best friend, who is my ex-boyfriend for 3.5 years now, through it all!

    • @balancewithliv7158
      @balancewithliv7158 5 лет назад

      Lebo Selemela indeed!

    • @crazyleaf257
      @crazyleaf257 5 лет назад

      Lebo Selemela ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @tanum7158
      @tanum7158 3 года назад

      Extra Marital Affairs, Why People fall in Love
      ruclips.net/video/B0fOPGGwQQY/видео.html

  • @TheIheartweezyfbaby
    @TheIheartweezyfbaby 5 лет назад +59

    1. They value/support your dreams
    2. They are present with you in the moment.
    3. They know their self worth/own person.
    4. Earn your trust
    5. You don't need anything to keep the fire burning
    6. You can spend time apart but can't wait to be together.
    7. You can disagree.
    8. You don't have to like their friends.
    9. You can be your real self.
    10. You argue but so you can come to a healthy conclusion together. It's more of a discussion

    • @wealthlibrary
      @wealthlibrary 3 года назад +1

      love you self ruclips.net/video/DueEAH0Oq7w/видео.html bless the year

  • @dolphindeerwolf
    @dolphindeerwolf 4 года назад +13

    I have the most amazing partner. I love him and feel truly blessed to have him in my life. What you said about our exposure to certain media influencing our ideas about love really hit home for me. As a young lady in my 20s I keep getting bombarded with the message (in subtle and not so subtle ways) to marry rich or find a sugar daddy... It's really bad. My partner is not rich but he treats me with so much kindness and love. The messages I have recieved have made me question my relationship and if I have chosen the right person. I have felt inner conflict from mixed messages and it's upsetting. I tuned into my heart more and am resting in gratitude for everything I have in my relationship and everything good my partner brings into my life even if it's not material wealth per say

    • @hanneliebremer7692
      @hanneliebremer7692 4 года назад +1

      Also in my 20's and really relate and needed to hear this... thanks x

  • @lucyjames8818
    @lucyjames8818 4 года назад +8

    Both are ready for each other. Both are ready for themselves. Time plays a great role in this.
    And definitely, a real chemistry.

    • @wealthlibrary
      @wealthlibrary 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/DueEAH0Oq7w/видео.html ,,, love your self ,, love you

  • @ywertz8800
    @ywertz8800 5 лет назад +3151

    Video actually starts at 3:15
    You're welcome.

  • @nithinr3617
    @nithinr3617 5 лет назад +414

    When you find the one, you don't really crave for a relationship with them, you just love them, respect them, care them. You wish for them to have whatever they want in life. You want them to be happy. You wouldn't be interested in someone else when you find the one. You wouldn't give up and move on even when the whole world says you to. Because if you do then that wouldn't be love.

    • @fairuzsalsabila9306
      @fairuzsalsabila9306 4 года назад +2

      Exactly, the same thing does to me

    • @prilmac1329
      @prilmac1329 4 года назад +1

      exactly..

    • @babypriya5602
      @babypriya5602 4 года назад +5

      Nithin R exactly n thats scared the shit out of me if I found the "one", did every little effort to be together n then not end up together!! It's going to hurt so bad! 💔

    • @surajmishra3015
      @surajmishra3015 4 года назад +1

      It's perfectly true! I can relate this very well!

    • @icecrystal3255
      @icecrystal3255 4 года назад

      You are so right😌

  • @lycaluriaga548
    @lycaluriaga548 4 года назад +1

    We are so grateful that we have you in YT channel,so interesting❤️

  • @zin82e98
    @zin82e98 4 года назад +2

    It is so hard for me to accept our differences. Thanks for saying it’s unlikely to find someone who agrees with you on everything. I really need to wrap my head around that it’s okay we’re different.

  • @deanafromchicago6661
    @deanafromchicago6661 5 лет назад +49

    when your souls connect. the sixth sense kicks in and you both feel each other’s everything like emotions, thoughts, etc.

  • @emansam1847
    @emansam1847 6 лет назад +213

    "It's not about who's right and who's wrong,it's about getting to the right conclusion together"

    • @tom7083
      @tom7083 6 лет назад

      eman mb "......and I have the right conclusion!" :P

    • @spriya7
      @spriya7 4 года назад

      Agree

  • @amayapadilla_
    @amayapadilla_ 2 года назад

    When you find the one you just know and your love for them is constantly growing and expanding

  • @kimhorne-fortner3938
    @kimhorne-fortner3938 3 года назад +5

    Love finds you. Mind did at work 39 years ago. My best friend and love of my life. He passed 5 years ago. But I feel lucky to have had him in my life and hope others find what I was lucky to have.

  • @2states881
    @2states881 5 лет назад +388

    I guess the one thing I'm sure of is when you really are not looking for that someone is the time you actually find them!!

    • @naghamlvly6306
      @naghamlvly6306 5 лет назад +5

      absolutely agree

    • @hearteusoftie9415
      @hearteusoftie9415 5 лет назад +9

      👏👏👏😊wish this would happen to me too😀

    • @2states881
      @2states881 5 лет назад +8

      @@hearteusoftie9415 For sure and the best part is you won't have to put unnecessary efforts for this 😊

    • @2states881
      @2states881 5 лет назад +10

      @AnimusFlux I guess especially when u want someone to come in your life desperately u might choose the wrong person because all u need is someone and u don't care if that person is the One.😀

    • @Aryan-sw4ni
      @Aryan-sw4ni 4 года назад +1

      Couldn't agree more absolutely true

  • @angelahamlett8249
    @angelahamlett8249 5 лет назад +121

    True love feels like a relaxing, soft, calm warm, cool breeze by the ocean. Open communication and earned trust. Not a blazing hot passionate crazy heart pounding fire!!! Holding back feelings and has you wondering, talking to other people is not it.

  • @ramone648
    @ramone648 3 года назад +6

    True love comes from within you..You have to first love and accept your self to be loved in return

    • @wealthlibrary
      @wealthlibrary 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/DueEAH0Oq7w/видео.html ,,, love your self ,, love you

  • @fi442
    @fi442 3 года назад +1

    I frickin loved this Jay!!! So helpful!! I’m still searching for him....& tips like these are so useful & inspiring! Would love it if you could do more like these to help keep us single people encouraged & on the right path in finding the essence of love instead of getting caught up in all the confusion. Thanks brother ❤️🙏🐞

  • @mariasilva-ii8oy
    @mariasilva-ii8oy 5 лет назад +126

    I am 2000 kms apart from him but I still think about it, missing him so much...and we been married for 20 years now...love is a powerful thing!

  • @jennifermwah6627
    @jennifermwah6627 5 лет назад +420

    Me and my husband started dating when i was 12 and he was 14. We dated all the way until his Senior year and then we broke up for about 2 years. He ended up moving to a different state and I dated a few guys but it never turned out. Eventually we started talking and catching up and then we got married! Been married for 2 years now and its been amazing! We're now in our 20s and are happy together

    • @petrudejanecek586
      @petrudejanecek586 5 лет назад +17

      12 and 14? 😬

    • @user-md6he7wd5h
      @user-md6he7wd5h 5 лет назад +5

      Omg, what a nice story. I'm motivated by this.

    • @Amy-nq5wh
      @Amy-nq5wh 5 лет назад +2

      @@petrudejanecek586 I know right😂

    • @truongtruong817
      @truongtruong817 4 года назад

      Jennifer Mwah why did you break up with him?

    • @HobeyDator
      @HobeyDator 4 года назад +1

      @@truongtruong817 Its Probably That Due To Growing Apart Scenario. So We Can Say They Break Up Mutually In Good Terms. And Thankfully, Their Destiny Is Wired To Each Other😍 After Years Of Growing They Found Out That They Are Indeed Worth At Each Other.

  • @FernandoRamirez-si1lj
    @FernandoRamirez-si1lj 3 года назад +2

    I totally agree!!, we are different persons with own dreams, goals, ideas, and it is very important in a mature relationship to support each other in reaching all what we propose!!

  • @Dirty28Diana
    @Dirty28Diana 4 года назад

    When you realized you love him/ her, a flash back all the beautiful moments in your life, and you feel the same wonderful feeling when you think about that person. It is like a wonderful light bulb moment.

    • @williamsjames3002
      @williamsjames3002 3 года назад

      I actually found that too
      True love is been hard to find
      I only Hope God Send to me a trustworthy partner
      Someone I could love and trust
      God fearing person
      I am open.. distance is not an issue

  • @naturallawhealth9272
    @naturallawhealth9272 4 года назад +422

    I know I found the one when:
    1. they walk on four legs
    2. they are furry
    3. they cuddles and give lots of kisses
    4. they enjoy walks
    5. they just like being by my side (I don't have to prove anything to them)

    • @rukdogg
      @rukdogg 4 года назад +11

      You don't have to ever worry that they won't love you.

    • @yash7223
      @yash7223 4 года назад +3

      Aww❣️❣️

    • @LL-ht5yc
      @LL-ht5yc 4 года назад +7

      That’s bestiality.

    • @nom5205
      @nom5205 4 года назад +10

      they shit and you have to pick it up....

    • @livingforwhat2172
      @livingforwhat2172 4 года назад +3

      a cuddly werewolf that enjoys walking ?

  • @diharmony5532
    @diharmony5532 5 лет назад +325

    Jay:"I am so grateful that you're watching my videos..."
    Me: "No man, it's me who's grateful for you putting out that wisdom here"
    Also me: Cries in gratitude 💖

    • @karenreyes8373
      @karenreyes8373 5 лет назад +2

      I'm feeling confused about everything I've been through with the one I thought is the one

    • @playfulvisionary7255
      @playfulvisionary7255 4 года назад

      @@karenreyes8373 I'm sorry about the loss. I think they were confused cause that wasn't exactly a response to them either so here's mine

  • @roopajoseph4991
    @roopajoseph4991 Год назад

    You simplify things so beautifully. Thank you!

  • @sheldonwright9826
    @sheldonwright9826 4 года назад +1

    This was the best advice so far. Thanks for this Jay, these make so much sense.

  • @sonyaiiis451
    @sonyaiiis451 4 года назад +44

    I found the One, 4 years ago.
    And you know that when you support each other in difficult times and good times. And what about Love between us? it is only growing stronger day by day.

  • @joyeblessed
    @joyeblessed 5 лет назад +624

    i met her while i was 8th grade but we separated for a about 8 years but we met again and i'm not letting her go again!

  • @reinettesteynberg8432
    @reinettesteynberg8432 3 года назад

    Agree 100% with him... Need to be supportive . Respect each others dreams ... and the rest of it...It comes naturally to want to be of value for the one person we love.. I love you .. Great video clip Thank you

  • @MariCornell
    @MariCornell 2 года назад +4

    I think love is simple. In the beginning. The more time it has to grow and develop, it becomes complex and beautiful.

  • @xuanlam8095
    @xuanlam8095 5 лет назад +177

    you found the one when you chose to love the person rather than fall in love with the person

  • @michellemiddleton1661
    @michellemiddleton1661 5 лет назад +51

    this isnt explainable its just an inner knowing . a soul deep feeling that brings ultimate clarity on unconditional love . you love this person with all of your being and everything they are and you dont wanna change a thing about them. your frequencies are the same. everything is energy and you just vibe you click you just KNOW.

  • @jillwylie6767
    @jillwylie6767 3 года назад +2

    A perfect relationship is Love Trust and Respect in it . They do 💗

  • @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489
    @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489 Год назад +1

    One who has good heart is the sweetest heart making life sweet forever.

  • @w47willrise
    @w47willrise 6 лет назад +438

    You know when you've found the right one when you only need them to be happy. No money, no material, and nothing else but them.

    • @mano-1996
      @mano-1996 6 лет назад +11

      that could be for a friend as well...platonic love for a guy friend

    • @jakefromaustria8096
      @jakefromaustria8096 6 лет назад +29

      Need is never love but obsession

    • @afrozsharmin6049
      @afrozsharmin6049 6 лет назад

      totally agree with you,you are the best

    • @marinangue9105
      @marinangue9105 6 лет назад +27

      Why do you need someone to be happy?? Does your happiness depends on other people??????

    • @w47willrise
      @w47willrise 6 лет назад +28

      You don't need anyone to be happy. Happiness is the deeper understanding of your consciousness. Placing happiness on an external object is bad because then you have no control over your own happiness.

  • @mirla570
    @mirla570 6 лет назад +81

    For me it’s loving myself and treating myself as the one first before “the one” appears .. I also don’t believe you can “find” the one ... I believe that when the right person comes into your life you will know .. and that you have to have an awareness that some people come into your life to teach you great lessons and mold you to who you are ultimately to become and prepare you for “ the one “ some of those experiences may hurt and feel as if it’s a set back or years wasted but in reality everything happens for a reason !

    • @axel7801
      @axel7801 6 лет назад +4

      mirla570 Exactly! While I do miss my ex and hold a form of resentment or dismay to how we treated one another. Along witg how things ended to soon before we could've grew and worked on our issues... Im accepting that perhaps this was the best way. She's with someone else now and im on journey of self discovery and self love. The break up was truly painful but it has opened my eyes a lot on who I am and life in general

  • @linelamothe8727
    @linelamothe8727 4 года назад +8

    You have a mutual respect and understanding for each other's boundaries. And he says "Say what is on your mind, we're in this together".

    • @ilovemydog3542
      @ilovemydog3542 3 года назад +1

      Line Lamothe I really appreciate this

    • @linelamothe8727
      @linelamothe8727 3 года назад

      @@ilovemydog3542 Thank you. That really means a lot.

    • @ilovemydog3542
      @ilovemydog3542 3 года назад +1

      Line Lamothe can I be your friend

    • @linelamothe8727
      @linelamothe8727 3 года назад

      @@ilovemydog3542 Absolutely!

    • @ilovemydog3542
      @ilovemydog3542 3 года назад

      Line Lamothe chat me on hangout ilovemydog466@gmail.com

  • @noelmartin9786
    @noelmartin9786 3 года назад

    This seems like a framework for who YOU need to be to meet the one. When you can come to place where you are trustworthy, passionate even without a certain set of circumstances, a good listener, etc...that will be mirrored back to you. That’s when you will be ready to find “the one.”

  • @jenniferhansen7925
    @jenniferhansen7925 5 лет назад +15

    I have been with my husband for 10 years and I absolutely agree with this list! We have been through plenty of bad times but we fully support and except each other and raise each other back up! 💕

  • @LizCalvert
    @LizCalvert 5 лет назад +8

    I agree with you - and I would add that the ‘ONE’ stands up for my greatness and wont let me play ‘small’ in life...

  • @perfecttransformation
    @perfecttransformation Год назад +2

    We do not allow or let frustration get in the way of our relationship. We make sure/certain that we are doing what is right for us/our relationship.

  • @davidjohnpaul7558
    @davidjohnpaul7558 4 года назад +12

    You have found 'the one' when they make you want to be the best person you can be, they make you want to be MORE, they add MORE to your life. You've found the one when you can't wait to talk to them/see them & when all you can do is think about them...Yes, I'm in love & she is beautiful inside & out 💕

    • @ilovemydog3542
      @ilovemydog3542 3 года назад +1

      David John Paul hello can I be ur friend

    • @davidjohnpaul7558
      @davidjohnpaul7558 3 года назад

      @@ilovemydog3542 I guess so...are you on Instagram or FB?

    • @ilovemydog3542
      @ilovemydog3542 3 года назад

      David John Paul Instagram

    • @davidjohnpaul7558
      @davidjohnpaul7558 3 года назад

      @@ilovemydog3542 Find me on Instagram..David John Paul....same photo, you can't miss it..

    • @tanum7158
      @tanum7158 3 года назад

      Extra Marital Affairs, Why People fall in Love
      ruclips.net/video/B0fOPGGwQQY/видео.html

  • @KelticLegend
    @KelticLegend 5 лет назад +1726

    I should be studying for finals. And I’m single. Alright.

  • @diipachuau4938
    @diipachuau4938 6 лет назад +183

    When you talk .. I just stared at your beautiful eyes 😍 and I love your English accent 😘

    • @KK-bh2xx
      @KK-bh2xx 5 лет назад

      I think so he's a Hindu and an Indian guy..

    • @lee-anndraghoender2387
      @lee-anndraghoender2387 5 лет назад

      I love u😘😘😘😘😘😘

    • @nyasiae46
      @nyasiae46 5 лет назад +1

      matei Pachuau I was just gunna comments the same way...his eyes and his accent are sexy

    • @tanum7158
      @tanum7158 3 года назад

      Extra Marital Affairs, Why People fall in Love
      ruclips.net/video/B0fOPGGwQQY/видео.html

  • @tobylangdale95
    @tobylangdale95 2 года назад

    My life partner and I were introduced and and knew very quickly that we had found the one and only true love of our lives in each other 💘❤️💘
    Neither of us even saw it coming, she at 48 an accomplished single mother of two wonderful daughters, and I at 57 living quietly in the countryside with my two canine companions were each ok with life and the world as it is. Even with the knowledge that neither of us had ever experienced being loved like we truly deserved, like everyone deserves to be loved. Unconditionally, honestly, forever and always with every fiber and force of our beings ❤️
    I hope and pray that we both have many years ahead of us to grow old together in happiness and contentment 💕❤️💕
    I love you Catherine, life and true love truly began for me at 57💘

  • @gratefulsoul1661
    @gratefulsoul1661 4 года назад +1

    Keep up the great work Jay your video's are Awesome. Covers alot of real life situations and opens our eyes to a better perspective and helps steer us into a better direction and towards the healing process. Well rounded advice. Thanks Sir, God bless and take care.

  • @nouraklieb
    @nouraklieb 4 года назад +100

    Honestly... this helped me know how to *become* the one

    • @floreg1370
      @floreg1370 4 года назад +2

      👍😂
      Good point of view

    • @romanitza24
      @romanitza24 3 года назад +1

      Exactly. I actually tried to check who have I been in my last relationship and I have found that unfortunately a lot of them where not my way of behaving with him. Now I do not know about the trust. I could not trust him at all, even from the 1st day, but if the person does not earn your trust, maybe is not only yiyr imagination. Nevertheless I guess he had more boxes checked.

  • @qrzhang7426
    @qrzhang7426 4 года назад +42

    “Trust should be earned... layers of trust”

    • @salmanmehar2613
      @salmanmehar2613 3 года назад

      try it now
      hy this for you dear now you can find you lover around the world viral481.com/srv.html?id=5498947&pub=1342606

  • @nightsky220
    @nightsky220 4 года назад +1

    You were smiling throughout the video that made my day!!

  • @PatriciaSmith-rp2kh
    @PatriciaSmith-rp2kh 4 года назад

    Love is an emotion you can't force. Either you do or you don't. When everything in your life is we not I. When being apart feels like a part of you is missing. When just the thought of that person can bring a smile to your face. When your tomorrows are filled only with them. I realized when I felt these things, that he was the one.

  • @siddharthpatel148
    @siddharthpatel148 6 лет назад +28

    A true relationship is when your togetherness become more important than anything 😊
    Love is a feeling which can't explain in words it is just beyond the limit when u r in love with some 1 u don't need to always talk with them even when u sit with them quietly u feel an amazing joy 😊😊

  • @caribbeanmermaid5535
    @caribbeanmermaid5535 5 лет назад +56

    He never said “the only one for you ever in life” - I think the idea is “the one you can be in a healthy, loving relationship with”.

  • @perfecttransformation
    @perfecttransformation Год назад +1

    We encourage & support each other & respect and value each others goals/dreams/visions. We live in the present moment with each other & together. We are self-aware and we know our self-worth. He is independent and earns money. I am independent and I earn money. We trust each other.

  • @geetharella6421
    @geetharella6421 3 года назад

    Truth is one which builds trust trust is one which gets you reality of love

  • @shaehanahussein4457
    @shaehanahussein4457 5 лет назад +5

    After being married once. Now i know i found the one. Its not just about love. Its how well we get along and respect eachothers views on our individual lives.

  • @theinitiatedman8228
    @theinitiatedman8228 4 года назад +872

    An elderly man once told me
    “ Mary your best friend and it will be the best decision you’ve ever made”

    • @chiztruth21
      @chiztruth21 4 года назад +52

      What if your best friend has a girlfriend😥

    • @CIassict
      @CIassict 4 года назад +7

      Really? 🤔

    • @MaanChallan
      @MaanChallan 4 года назад +5

      Michael Clark if he or she is of opzt gender hahahahhabahahha

    • @trizawangu8752
      @trizawangu8752 4 года назад +12

      What if my best friend is a lesbian😭😅

    • @theinitiatedman8228
      @theinitiatedman8228 4 года назад +1

      Triza Wangu haha good point 😆

  • @ahmadmohamad7210
    @ahmadmohamad7210 3 года назад

    Wow Jay. Excellent video. Great 10 tips, full of wisdom. Perfectly picked movie clips. The perfect length. Love it love it love it!

  • @sagarikabiswas1534
    @sagarikabiswas1534 4 года назад +1

    I had been having a bad week and thank you. This calmed me down a lot. This gave me a lot of peace.

    • @wealthlibrary
      @wealthlibrary 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/DueEAH0Oq7w/видео.html ,,, love your self ,, love you

  • @missiemaya
    @missiemaya 5 лет назад +44

    when you feel inner peace

    • @williamsjames3002
      @williamsjames3002 3 года назад

      I actually found that too
      True love is been hard to find
      I only Hope God Send to me a trustworthy partner
      Someone I could love and trust
      God fearing person
      I am open.. distance is not an issue

  • @carotari4491
    @carotari4491 5 лет назад +5

    Whenever I feel lonely and discouraged I always found myself watching you on RUclips

  • @Bodycamgameplay1
    @Bodycamgameplay1 4 года назад

    You are right about everything you said, it's easy to understand this, but hard to applie cuz many people are "asleep" and you know that, i love what you do to insipere people, you are the best, belive it.

  • @lastingloveministries9204
    @lastingloveministries9204 3 года назад

    Great tips and that's coming from a professional counselor! In fact I wrote a book about discovering your ideal mate and your tips are on the mark!! Keep up the good work!

  • @vinayhansda9846
    @vinayhansda9846 5 лет назад +19

    Seems like when I started focusing on myself after several arguments, I changed my ways of relationship. When I saw this video, I already had all those qualities. I think I am in right direction now. Thanks for confirmation.

  • @anewloveofficial9137
    @anewloveofficial9137 6 лет назад +48

    You already know in yourself that you found the one if he supports and cares for you no matter what happen. If he accept your worst then he's also deserving to have you at your best.

    • @antoinitaviolette4140
      @antoinitaviolette4140 6 лет назад +1

      A New Love Official for me is is Jesus says in my heart that this is the one, because not always does it seem like the one, and still knowing all are still growing and need to wait until baggage is gotten rid of, heart is healed, and having peace is a beautiful thing and to wait to experience.

    • @allananoynay8651
      @allananoynay8651 6 лет назад +1

      ❤❤❤

  • @vaishalivaidya7978
    @vaishalivaidya7978 Год назад +6

    True...someone who is as interested and invested in your growth as their's. Someone who doesnt require you to make them.feel complete or vice versa bcoz then its just a void thats devoid of Self Love. Trust with vulnerability is so so essential...and yes its earned and built with time. Agreeing to disagree on some aspects is equally important. Most importantly one needs to be in peace, experience peacefulness most days with the other person.

  • @romaineford8890
    @romaineford8890 3 года назад +1

    Extremely valuable insight Jay.many thanks. Romaine

  • @lyfewithdj2258
    @lyfewithdj2258 6 лет назад +8

    Great advice, Jay!🤗 Thx 4 spreading positivity & love...the world needs lots more of it!💖

  • @aquariuschild0710
    @aquariuschild0710 6 лет назад +23

    This came at the right time and is absolutely correct! Thankyou..Merry christmas!

  • @poppinpeitetuholejoseph8097
    @poppinpeitetuholejoseph8097 3 года назад

    someone who is always there when you are at your lowest moments in life and always telling you that the will be a brighter day
    or
    someone who belives in your dreams when one does

  • @kv2490
    @kv2490 4 года назад +2

    We can disagree and still like each other. 🙌Word.

  • @jillyoung1282
    @jillyoung1282 5 лет назад +6

    I agree! Love listening to your videos. They’re meaningful, make me think on a deeper level, and fun. Thank you for your hard work.

  • @reshmimanthripragada1610
    @reshmimanthripragada1610 6 лет назад +77

    Definitely noteworthy! 😊❤️ I'm gonna put them into a checklist 😁 ...Some things I need to learn..and be a better person first than expecting the other person to be better...!!😃😃

  • @perfecttransformation
    @perfecttransformation Год назад

    We are great together. We both are our real-selves together. We let go of all of our identities and are our true-selves.

  • @christabelrewe749
    @christabelrewe749 3 года назад +2

    This has concluded my search. Thank you Jay

    • @wealthlibrary
      @wealthlibrary 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/DueEAH0Oq7w/видео.html ,,, love your self ,, love you

  • @umaruaru7271
    @umaruaru7271 5 лет назад +139

    My girl said she doesn't care I watch anime and read mangas and she said its kinda attractive on how I managed to be truth to myself by doing what i love even though people surrounding me ridiculed and belittled my interest on something, from when i was a 8 y/o toddler up until now (21), that moment when she said that i knew, she's the one and then started dating for a few years but....unfortunately she died from cancer few months ago.

    • @highmaple75
      @highmaple75 5 лет назад +4

      Mr Songsong Well.. I’m sorry for that, but shit happens. Hope you can find a better one in the future 💪

    • @ellie2041
      @ellie2041 5 лет назад +6

      Mr Songsong I hope you find peace and maybe love with another person if she loved you as much as you loved her I believe she’d want that for you and I wish you the best.

    • @jenkobruski3183
      @jenkobruski3183 5 лет назад +4

      I'm sorry man. Good things are coming your way. Don't worry

    • @vsboardza
      @vsboardza 5 лет назад +1

      Oh I'm sorry❤️

    • @mizzyuk8697
      @mizzyuk8697 5 лет назад +3

      Oh man... Didn't expect that... Hope you're okay. Stay strong friend.

  • @ryangood4595
    @ryangood4595 5 лет назад +399

    I was married to someone with which I had 0 of these 10. I guess that's why we're no longer married ;)
    Look here kids, don't do what your mom and dad did unless your mom and dad are doing these things - we gotta stop recreating the mistakes of our parents.

    • @olohialli9289
      @olohialli9289 5 лет назад +4

      What made you fall for this person?

    • @unreal4u2
      @unreal4u2 4 года назад

      @@olohialli9289 99% certain it's an unplanned pregnancy

    • @gerzylcarano-o4847
      @gerzylcarano-o4847 4 года назад +3

      Arranged marriage

    • @mac9162
      @mac9162 4 года назад

      Oleohi Alli sex

    • @tanum7158
      @tanum7158 3 года назад

      Extra Marital Affairs, Why People fall in Love
      ruclips.net/video/B0fOPGGwQQY/видео.html

  • @perfecttransformation
    @perfecttransformation Год назад +1

    We build trust and our idea is that trust is really unbreakable.

  • @ineslopeztalaya7498
    @ineslopeztalaya7498 4 года назад +1

    I think you know when you found the one when.... you can be yourself!! With and without that person.
    And that person is always there for you, even when you feel sad that person is there for you! ❤️❤️❤️ and viceversa ofc😊