Hi everyone! thank you so much watched my story in video. ( I cant English well..;) ) Actually, I've been worried since I took the video. BUT many people are sending me a direct message. I think I was worried about something after receiving the message! I felt like there were so many wonderful people in the world like you. So I was moved. thanks everyone!!! 😍Love more yourself😍
As a student, I was bullied in junior high (and some of high) school. I became a teacher specifically because I wanted to make sure no student ever goes through that. A few years ago, one of my students was at risk of suicide, partially due to bullying. Upon graduation, she gave me a letter, thanking me for believing in her and getting her through that dark time. That one thanks is more valuable to me than any teaching certificate or degree.
Imagine, bullied at school, abusive parents, doesn't have much money to afford hoby, no one wants to talk to you because egerybody was laughing at you, worst feeling ever. One person came and that person will be his or her entire world.
When you are down never use to think then you at lost but if nothing to do with money then you have so many ideas to make your hobby come true , just look around you , you can start with something small hobby then when you success you have big hobby , good lucks all the best
@@LingLing-pn3us i really have a feeling its because their jealous of someones beauty. Everyone should know there beautiful in their own way and not bully someone because of their good looks. I dont know what u look like, but your obviously very beautiful/handsome(not to assume gender). Everyone needs to know that. I wish we coupd at least tell people if they are beautiful or handsome. U dont need to be attractive to be liked. It depends on what type of heart u have. And bullies need to know that.
I ship bts and got7. I fully agree with this!, Ive gotten Beaten up in the girls restroom by my bully and harassed and abused multiple times, It was very traumatic. Now i have moved schools and she got expelled. But i don’t understand how she could have been jealous of me. I’m so ugly and fat!?,
I think it's a common reaction for a lot of Asian people, at least here in Japan people laugh when talking about tough subjects like death or emotional pain...
@@RedPhantom97 I'm European and I also laugh to try to keep it a little light during sensitive subjects. I think it's something every human does. To try to keep it a little bright
@@김은지-y5e Oh I'm European too (living in Japan) and I agree that I do usually start laughing after crying from a traumatic experience, but I still find it odd when talking with my Japanese friends about people dying from natural disasters and they smile or laugh it off
In korean we say 'chingu' (친구) which we usually translate by friend in english. But actually it's a whole concept that doesn't have any word to translate it, so that's why they use friend as a translation for this video. 친구 means somethong like 'someone who is the same age as you and could probably be your friend', and in school we could translate is as 'schoolmate who's the same age as you' kind of meaning. I think it's linked to the whole hierarchy and society wording in Korea, but I'm not a linguist so idk
I think in Asia its mostly like that. We call everyone in our school 'friends' and what western culture would regard as friends we call sonething else like 'good friends' or 'best friends'
I'm Korean myself, and I despise some people in Korean society, because they have no manners and mercy. I'm glad that Yi Jeong was able to tell her story like this because Korean teens make me sick on how much bullying they do towards innocent souls. It's one of the many reasons why I hate Korean society quite a lot: it's way too conservative and people are too strict on looks. She looks beautiful and an innocent soul who doesn't deserve bullying at all. Korean students needs to think twice before saying something because most of the time, they don't care, and that needs to stop. If there are Korean students watching, you guys need to smarten up because your behavior is not acceptable coming from a Korean student, me. If you guys don't wanna be friends with someone who has concerns about themselves, why do you guys even exist or even open your mouths to bully someone?
Is it really that bad? The students in Korea? In our country, the students are most likely to tease each other but, just out of joke, or maybe I'm just in a good neighborhood.
@@joanmarie7598 It could be that you're lucky to have that school environment. Bullying is a behavior that's pretty much everywhere, not only a Korean thing. Unfortunately.
In my school there are also bullies. I am currently in highschool right now and I am Filipino. In my class though, we don't bully each other and I'm so lucky for that. But of course there are still times that some of my classmates or even me are being badmouthed behind our backs. That's okay, though. If I were to witness bullying, I would definitely stand up. All of us should stand up for what's right. And I will befriend that person and comfort them. Being a student isn't about learning books, formulas, etc. It's all about how we INTERACT and CARE for each other. For me, being KIND is better than being smart. What do you use your brain for if you aren't aware of what's wrong and what's right?
@@arnesdiaryxxx Backstabbing is rampant in Ph schools, even in the neighbourhood. Bullying? Not common. Some are just hidden perfectly or seen through SNS.
I've been bullied at my college for being an introverted guy. They all assumed I was gay & basically the entire college ended up isolating me purposefully. Truly being ignored and isolated is the worst feeling ever, it's even worse than someone hurting you verbally or physically. I hope colleges take this issue seriously and implement some ways to combat bullying
What kind of college did you go to? College usually has little to no bullying. No one would care about anyone but themselves because they're worried about passing their classes. Lots of students are introverts. Consider transfering.
The colleges in my country sucks too! Like they have block sections and it seems like you haven’t left high school yet(except for the school work) and bullying is quite common in the university that I’m going at and it’s really annoying, like grow up people
i have same experience like you too :( i was frustrated i don't have anyone to talk. all my classmate really like to make fun of me, calling me extra, dog, stupid, weird, anti social. like why u guys have to say all of the negative things to me i'm a human too i have feeling. what if u guys in my position too :(
Make an interview with a bully too. A lot of them regret what they did now that they're adults and it would be interesting to hear what made them do it at the time.
@I think I am no longer a fan thanks Sm k I expected that kind of comment. You are absolutely right. Bullies deserve punishment, it is a crime. I never said it wasn't. But also there are different types of bullies. Not all of them are that extreme. There are also different kinds of reasons behind bullying, be it how they were taught at home, in what psychological condition they are or how they are born. The point behind learning about the point of view of the perpetrator of any crime is to try to prevent as many kids as possible from becoming perpetrators in the future, or at least spot them early on. It also helps to learn how to deal with them as a teacher or a victim based on what you know about them. The objective behind my comment is to seek knowledge about human behaviour, not to forgive the wrongdoings of perpetrators just because they regret it. But those who regret it are the ones who are most likely to participate in that kind of interview. Understanding your enemy makes it a little easier to not be so afraid and to act in the right way to protect yourself.
@I think I am no longer a fan thanks Sm k I was also bullied. For over 8 years. It IS a horrible thing to do. And yes they should be held responsible for that. However I don't think holding on to grudges forever is healthy. The only person you hurt with this is yourself. It's important to let go of the grudges. Humans change. To the better or worse. But everyone is capable of change. And teenagers are incredibly stupid. They do stupid things. But they also should be heard. They also should be forgiven. You don't have to forget, but it's okay to forgive. It's not a sign of weakness but of strength to forgive those who made you suffer. It's important for your own personal growth. People do bad things but they also should get a chance to better themselves and receive forgiveness. 🍀🌹
@University student in hiding ho ho ho I agree with you about the bullies. Others sympathizing with the bullies because some bullies are bullied victims too or a person who are being abused by their family etc. and in return they want to make someone experience their pain and suffering which is twisted. In my opinion you might not have the choice on what happened to you but you have the choice, the decision to be a better person or be cruel. They have chosen to be a bully and in the process should face the consequences of their action. They have the power to be a hero to help and protect others to not experience what they've been through but in the process they choose to be a villain. Someone who is a bully, who pushed someone to their death should be called a murderer too. I have no empathy towards bullies. I experienced being bullied and the one who bullied me is also bullying another person because that person is a (special child) but intelligent. That person went to college but still treated badly, I guess that is the last straw for him and he killed himself. I realized that time that forgiving and understanding bullies is letting another victim, letting another person to suffer. And in the end we might not be involved but those other victims blood is in our hands because we didn't do anything to punish those bullies.
Bullying is one of the most emotionally stunting thing that can happen to you...I’m 21 right now and I’m still unable to live a life free of anxiety and depression because of bullying that happened to me ages 5-15. There should be huge conversations about how bullying affects you for the rest of your life.
Galena Anyanwu It’s true .. can cause physiological changes that can make a person ill rest of their life.. it can be outsiders or family members Of course, as long as there’s no evidence.. people deny and that’s how it thrives
Galena Anyanwu True and I am glad that those who bullied me are out of my life now. But those flashbacks get to me sometimes too. However, just try to forget it all as life is too short to focus on sickos who are not worth it. Karma will bite them back sooner or later!!
I agree 100%. People tend to not take bullying seriously. I notice a double standard where if an adult abuses another adult it's taken seriously and that person can get support or counseling. When a kid emotionally abuses another kid and invites others to do so, it just gets labeled as "bullying" and adults will just look the other way and let it happen.
I was being bullied too with my classmates in elementary school because of my very plain appearance in famous school. They hide my stuff, stole my homework, told me that I'm disgusting, etc. Even the boys told me poor and disgusting. I was really down, however I tried to be friend with others from different class and changed my self to look strong even though I still afraid around the bullies. I showed them that their words didn't hurt me and ignore them like nothing happen and just keep hang out with my friends from other class. Slowly they're tired and just let me go. Even though I finally won over bullies it affected me until now. In high school people like to praised my style and my achievement, I even joined the school organisation, but I was very skeptic over praise from people and very careful in social life and observant. I didn't trust people easily. I had small attack of social anxiety which is I still try to overcome until now Bullying is scary
You're very strong. And you're more than what happened to you. You'll never be anything less. I'm glad that everyday you had the courage to stand up and decide for existing. For living. You did so well and I'm so proud of you. Keep fighting 🍀🌹
I taught in Korea for a year at a private school and I could definitely see that some students were bullied by other students. My director was against it but it was never a worry for them except money.
Same! I just finished teaching at an academy in Korea and there was always one student ostracized for being a little different. I made sure to step in before it got big.
It's evident from most of the highschool K-dramas how they glorify bullying, like the person keeps getting bullied waiting for someone else to save them or until the bully falls in love with them 🤦♀, come on, at least for once you gotta be mentally and emotionally strong and stand up yourself against bullying ✊ instead of just always hiding behind others' back otherwise you will end up getting bullied again.
Most likely bullies get treated poorly at home by parents or raised poorly, so they transfer that negativity onto someone else. Still makes them a horrible person though lol
Jacob L. Lol some dude was trying to bully me middle school calling me names I literally walked up to him and elbowed him in the side. He stopped talking about me.
uwuCat same! I threw lots of elbows in the hallways. It was subtle enough to not get in trouble, but enough to get the message across “don’t mess with me”
I can definitely relate to her, as a kid I always got severely bullied, even by my parents, loved how she managed to endure the pain like I did and become a good friend 😭
8:53 what hurts the most about getting bullied at school is when you realize your closest friends also take part in bullying you. and that's what makes people who's bullied at school always have the thought of jumping off the roof, because they feel like they're lonely, and whoever they have now is gonna leave them/betray them anyway they want to end their life, because it hurts too much that they can't stand it. but do you know one thing that'll keep them going? the feeling of being loved. by friends, family, or anyone and even strangers. that's why you should never show how much you dislike someone you meet on the street, because you don't know what they're going through. what people don't know is that even strangers contribute in suicides too. talking about bullying is really complicated, but if you really wanna fight against bullying, you just have to appreciate others the way you want to be treated.
I've been bullied during whole school time, so I endured years. Now I'm an adult, moved away from my parents and having my own flat and a stable work, I just can say that I'm happy now.
Ignore bullies, not the bullied! 💪🏽 Severity of being bullied varies. I was ‘casually’ bullied for a short time as it used to be a sort of trend in my elementary school. Luckily, I didn’t care much that I was bullied and I was very active in every class then bullies lost their interest in continuing it. It still hurts after decades if I look back even though my case wasn’t the severe one. I highly respect her friend who supported this woman and I totally agreed with them that we need to proactively give our help and support to bullied friends. Ignore bullies, not the bullied! 💪🏽
As much as I agree with a lot of what you said, I still think that bullies must be taught a good lesson. They have to be stopped because some of them have no limits, and their actions cannot be ignored.
She’s talks so quietly yet she’s speaks volumes and is one of the bravest people Ive had the chance to watch on this channel. For speaking out on a topic that most people turn a blind eye too as well as hoping that other bullied victims are able to be brave like her and for not letting her bullies win in the end.
As a parent it just hurts my feelings when kids get bullied I don't allow it with my own because I'm the parent that walks up to kids and/or their parents and confront them
As a bisexual this breaks my heart hearing others being so heavily bullied for what they cannot control. Its painful that there are societies that are even less accepting of us; and furthermore how many millions of LGBT youth that commit suicide bc of it :/ I'm so glad she is well! I hope she is now successful and happy :,) 💖
@@lifejustsucks7639 bc she also likes the same sex did u even pay attention to the video?? She was bullied at an all girls school for having a crush on another girl.
I really don’t understand why bullying exists. It’s not your fault that you were born in a certain way. It’s simply *you* (something that you can’t control at all). I really hope that the world is going to change and understand the fact that not everyone is straight ect.
Yeah, you western people (by western people I mean Americans and Europeans) shouldn't take your home countries for granted. Y'all are privileged in your countries compared to some others, and this young woman is a perfect example of that.
I'm a Filipina I experienced being bullied before when I was in my 4th grade because of being fat but I punched the guy's face who bullied me luckily my teacher wasn't sent me to the guidance counselor haha but his Mom really angry with me and I didn't feel sorry.. lol he deserved it!
Good job! I also punched a guy for being obnoxious one time, while playing hide and seek. He was the tallest guy and I was the tallest girl but he was one grade above me, man I punched his lights out LOL and obviously, school called my mom, but all she did was: try to look stern and tell me not to do it again but in the end she laughed her ass off because she couldn't stand the guy as well (since he was brothers class xD)
@@chigingshah1824 really Am I the bully? lol I respect your comment but just imagine you were in my situation that every day he annoyed you during classes since he was my classmate and breaktime you couldn't concentrate on your studies because of he keep insulting your physical appearance. Were you just keep it in silence? Maybe you were but it didn't work for me...
thx for sharing, YI Jeong started when i was around 7 for me and it never ended until finish school at around 18 almost 40 and still didnt get over it i am still hardly able to do anything social other then work i feel insanly anxious in public or around stranger its kinda sad tbh cannot travel or have any relationship i cannot even go to family stuff because for me there is nothing fun to be around other not even my own family .. in a way they killed me i am dead inside ..while all those bully have life and kid and friend i am still broken...
The world is beautiful and hard at the same time but if you have the will to see it you will find something to live for. Traveling helped me, i changed countries, did sacrifices but meet beautiful people, learned to recognize and avoid toxic persons but without hate and eventually found a partner to live my life with. Stay strong, help others and be happy within yourself.
dissya1 Force yourself to go outside your comfort zone & try to make friends. Go volunteer and find groups that have the same interests as you. There’s over 2 billion people in this world so if the person your trying to connect with doesn’t want to interact, then move on to the next person. Before you know it, you’ll find a good group of people that will appreciate you. Stay strong and don’t give up. We all have flaws so don’t try to be perfect. Just be who you are. And you are stronger than you think. Look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself you are beautiful, strong, and that you are choosing to be happy regardless of the circumstances. My saving grace is God. He gave me strength to face all my struggles & challenges and I can only hope that you’ll find him in your life. I can assure you that He will give you peace & joy that transcends all understanding. God loves you & bless you!
This is something I’ve noticed a lot when watching people from more collectivistic cultures (like Asian/Middle Eastern/Latinx) is they tend to smile/laugh when taking about something painful. Even now, in this interview to discuss and validate her experiences, she feels like it’s her duty to not seem sad about it. It’s really sad but the strength behind it is also inspiring. She is so strong, even now, for the young victims of bullying watching her at home. So much respect
I was also bullied back in high school,well my whole group of my friends pretty much,but I felt like it mostly directed towards me (maybe it is my social anxiety who knows) , but yeah they would also call me things like "dirty" and they would yell things like "take a shower" and I really never understood why this happened bc i literally shower every single day.-. Anyways it came to a point where I would just cry every day and I would try to comfort myself through music because I felt like I couldn't talk to anyone about how I felt. Today I'm still trying to get over these memories and delete all these people from my life so I can finally move on. Thanks to this girl,I know that I'm not alone and I honestly appreciate her so much for talking about such a sensitive topic.
@@whenyounutinhermouthandshe wait bullies dont get pension? damn..now i cant just gouge their eyes and mutilate their nose. Guess now since i am angry and sad i have to kill myself and cement my reputation as another creep and pedophilia i guess...and make this world an even more horrifying place to live in so that we all can start moving to the darker side of the moon.
Yeah...as someone who was once stayed in Korea, people bullied me just because I was chubby... It's sad but at that time all I can think about was, "it's my fault I'm fat, so I should be skinny"... Writing this kinda make me sad
I never experienced bullying when I was in school .. but, I it was difficult for me to make friends with other and socialized so I only had few friends and I often felt lonely. I prefer to stay away from others to avoid conflict. Sometimes I feel jealous of those who have friends and laugh together, but maybe this is me .. I feel comfortable with my solitude even though I often feel lonely. And the more I grow up, I realize that many fake friends. Sorry for my bad english
@Jason Lee My first friend at school in the Netherlands was a black boy he was really kind he was the first one to talk to me he spent the break with me and he introduced me to my other classmates I missed him the most when I had to move to Germany. First day of school in Germany was horrible it couldn't be worse I got bullied my classmates made fun of me and the first person to bully my was a black person who made offensive comments and laughed at me.
i'm a college student right now and i often get bullied because of my introvert character and my face being looks like i'm sick but i'm not. they often say i don't have willing to life, but it just who i am. i don't have any friends to talk in real person, almost all of my class mate laughing at me, when someone makes a joke about me, sometimes they even look at me while laughing. yesterday it was the hardest day of my life i cried during class and after class. we are on pastry class and sometimes when we make to many pastry stuff we can take the it and eat it. so yesterday we made many pastry stuff so we can take it and eat it. i took 4 pieces of pastry stuff, i took it because i want to share it with my class mate who didn't go to take the pastry. i offer it to my class mate (let's say him boy A) the pastry and the boy A took it.i go to the class (our pastry kitchen is connected to class room) and offer it to my other class mate, when i was in the class there was my (let's say him boy B) asked me to keep his pastry stuff in my bag and i say sure just keep it in my bag. at this time my styrofoam is already empty and i put my styrofoam on my seat. i had a bottle of water and the boy B asked me if he could drink it or not and i said sure u can drink it, and the boy A also came and asked if he could drink it or not and i said sure " if u guys are really thirsty u can drink all of it " and sure they drank all of it. after that we continue with mid term exam, i was feeling sick and i had to back and forth to toilet, because of that my class mate started to notice me that i'm sick so she said why don't u go to the clinic, i said i'm fine it will get better because i'm often feeling sick like this and it will get better, but suddenly she got mad and said to me with the entire class watching " u looks like want compassion but when we give it to u, u don't want it. what do u want ? u just drive us nut " and i was shock in silence, like i didn't ask for compassion from u, and why u bother urself just because me ?. and the entire class looking at me and laughing. at this point i can handle my tears and i have to bow down to shade my tears so they didn't notice that i was crying. fast forward when the class was ended, we were getting ready to go home, and when i took my bag the boy B give my styrofoam with something written on it, it said " this belongs to Key's boyfriend i love u 3000 " and key is one of my classmate who everyone hated on and got bullied also. after i just remain silence and get out from the class and went to the toilet. i cried, after everything that i have been giving to him all of my kindness, he reprisal me with that. and he already did it to me alot of times. LIKE WHY I DESERVE ALL OF THIS HATE :'( .i can't tell to my parents i'm worried they will become worried too. i don't have anyone to talk. (I'm sorry if u guys can't understand, english is not my native language)
The world thinks kindness is weak. But you're strong. Don't ever doubt yourself. Continue to be the person you are despite these trying times. Tho no one deserves hate, no one. You're worthy and beautiful and the weight of their words and actions are not truth. The truth is you're worthy. You're a beautiful person and you're strong. God made you and doesn't wish for these things to happen. But know that He thinks these things about you as well.
I’m sorry this happened to you. Have confidence in your self and know that you aren’t defined by their words/actions towards you. I suggest talking to people anonymously online (but be careful and don’t meet up with them in real life). I heard about this app called Bighead where you can meet similar people online anonymously. I haven’t tried it so idk much but just know that’s an option. Also focus on your hobbies and things u like! (Ex: for me, kpop and webtoons are good distraction/entertainment) Good luck and stay strong!
I was bullied too during middle & high school. Attempted suicide several times too. Glad there were people who cared about me to keep me alive. My worst bully even brought knives to our tennis match. I outsmarted him by calling my sister to pick me up during his match once i noticed his opened backpack had numerous knives.
I just saw me in this video : [ i was bullied because i'm a lesbian, i was bullied to the point that i refused to leave my house. I stood inside for almost an year and refusing to talk with people. With the time i overcome my fear of going outside and now i'm happy , living together with my girlfriend. Theres a story , once a man went to the forest to chop some woods a bear came. He told on bear you smell pretty bad, then the bear told him to hit her with the axe. He did and the bear start bleeding and ran back in the forest. Few years later , the man went for woods again , met the bear again and asked her: hows your wound? Bear reply: the wound recover its not hurting me anymore , but i still remember the bad words you said to me and they hurt a lot. Guys... Be careful what you saying, words can ruin someones live. Thank you for reading this ❤️😘🤗🌈
When I was 7, I had a bully 5ish years older than me who would bully me pretty much every day. Little did she know that her dad was a close family friend of ours, so I talked to him and she never made eye contact with me again lolol.
@@aricm5973 In a way, I'm kinda glad it was me because if she had picked on anyone else, they most likely wouldn't have had the advantage I had with being able to confidently tell her dad that she was bullying me. Apparently she got a lot better with her attitude over the years and now she's a nurse.
I understand her, I was bullied in my childhood. Also I remember being hit by some of my classmates, saying bad words to me it’s just horrible. And like no one wants to be your friend and you feel lonely, and you feel like you’re the weird one, because no one will want you.
In my opinion: Most bully have a lot of friends plus most of the victim don't have a good fighting skill so it is very difficult to fight them back. And in my experience I got bullied by national athlete who is an appearance of the school so my class counselor teacher in my primary school turn blind eyes. But I'm still want to say thank you to them for inspiring me to work as a lawyer. "Bully don't deserve bullying back they deserve more than that!!!" My grammar is bad sorry!!!
I used to be bullied by the whole class. And there was this one time during extra class, they moved my bag out of my seat and just put it on the floor in front of the class. The girl that did it bev she wanted to sit with my desolate her bestie. And when I came back from lunch i saw my bag on the ground just like that and I had to look for a new seat. NO ONE in the class let me sit down next to them. There was also this one time the boys in my class just blamed me for making a mess at the teacher's desk just because i was sitting on the front. None of my clasmate defended me even though they know I didn't do it. There was this one girl defended me but the teacher chose to believe the boys and asked me to cleaned up the mess that I didn't make and had no business with.
when I was a teenage, my friend was bully me about my face. round face ,big face ,no point nose , Along time I think their are the problem in my life. It's made me unconfident . But today I'm proud of myself . I'm pretty in own way
They werent your friend if they bullied you. Bullies are insecure about themselves so they project onto others. Im glad you didnt let that stop you from recognizing your own beauty and becoming more confident😊
OMG we had the same situation! I was bullied for my bushy eyebrows and monolids as a teenager and it made me think I was ugly somehow but now that I am an adult I have learnt to love myself!
I relate to this way to much. I was bullied for 3rd grade my last year in high school and it seriously has has a really damaging effect on my mental health. The issue is schools and teachers but being able to see or notice bullying, if a kid makes a derogatory joke about another kid during class and everybody starts laughing the teacher will mostly just say settle down and think nothing of it when that's clearly bullying and probably not the first time it's happened. Schools need to have 0 tolerance for bullying and actual take it seriously. If found bullying multiple times students should face expellsion or even be placed in juvenile detention centers depending on the situation
I hope this video will get viral and so big, her whole batch would be ashamed of themselves. There shouldn’t be any bullies in the first place but well thankfully some friends reciprocate after that. I hope she is happy and content with her life now. Being bullied, IT IS NEVER YOUR FAULT.
@@lavender44444 Some bullies were victims actually. So no, no one deserves it because bullying is not productive it is only done out of either boredom, an ego boost or immature insecurities
Don't let the bullies look down u, don't let anyone look down on u. I think she is very strong to try & make a change! It's really really admirable. Any victims of bullying should be inspired from her and should know when to fight back. Even through everyone has different type struggles, we all deserve happiness. We shouldn't just give up, we should be strong & not just strong, we should know our value! You don't deserve anything sad. Please know that you didn't do anything wrong and that you're beautiful, just the perfect way you are!!!!
I am from a beautiful state in a countryside and I always thought that how lucky those people who are studying in good schools and living in developed places. Now, I realise that how lucky I am, I have never encounter any kinds of bullying in my 20yrs of existence and now I fell proud. And those people who are bullying others should understand the pain that they are giving to those people..
I actually cried a little when I watched this because I felt the same way Yi Jeong did when she went to school and had the same dark thoughts about myself and my bullies as well. I was abused so badly that I was traumatized by it, but I have been able to grow as a person and slowly learn to overcome it with the help of therapy and psychology. I really wish Yi Jeong the best and hope she can open that cafe one day cause she's so brave and strong and will change lives by teaching others how to be the same.
I always like to see recovery and growth in people that were bullied. The girls in this video and the protestors in Hong Kong, they get bullied a lot so I am excited for them to reach success!
I was bullied all the time by all classmates and teachers since primary school (4th grade) till the end of high school years. And then they were always thought to be the “victims” and I would all the time be sent to the school’s psychologist because of I’ve always been an introvert... I always cried when I got home from school, even during classes and recess time, not because I was sad, but because I was really angry at them and myself for not being able to do something to stop it. There was one time that I will always remember when we were with our homeroom teacher discussing about excellence, grades and so on... idk how, but it turned down all against me, all my classmates started attacking me and the teacher would do nothing about it, I just exploded and shouted to them all out of desperation, returned to my seat and started silently crying. My supposedly-called friends (two) turned their backs and completely changed and sided-up with the bullies. Of course there’re other times I recall completely, but long story short: It took me a while, but throughout the years, I thought of quitting that school and attending another one, but you know what? I kept telling myself “you’re able to endure it, don’t give that sort of pleasure to your bullies” and I did so. I became stronger and confronted them every single time (that doesn’t mean they stopped bullying me, but I no longer cared if I had lunch alone, spent my time doing something else, etc). These experiences made me the person who I am today, someone who doesn’t give up easily, who knows when something’s off and tries to help and is focused on her goals and self-motivation to do things. I encourage people to stand-up, become stronger and be who you are.
Thank you for sharing this. You are very brave. I was also bullied in the 2nd grade of elementary school. I was the new student and I was very shy, at the first day of the school they asked me to play with them before the lesson begin. I rejected it because I was very nervous starting in a new school. I don't know what happened after that time, they bullied me. They said mean things to me, they grabbed and pinched my arms till I cried. I was barely seven that time so I don't know why they did that. The teacher ignored what was happening. I told my mother after a few months but since one of the bullies is the daughter of my mom's friend and she had a good grade, my mom did not believe me. That was my first heartbreak. That time, I feel unexplainable sadness all the time but I had to be a good daughter so I had to smile. Thankfully I was moved to another class by the 3rd grade.
I was also being bullied in the 3rd year of middle school and the first year of high school. Back then, I have a lot of going on at home. I was very depressed so I keep quiet and keep reading at school. I don't know why people get mad at me when I kept to myself. My classmates saw my quietness as an invitation to bully me? I don't know. In the 3rd grade of middle school, I was caught reading during a lesson and the teacher kicked me out. That time I just want to forget what happened at home so I read. After the incident, my classmates said mean things one after another. I ignored them by reading. one time i also shut the class door in the front of their face when they are being too annoying. I guess one of the reason is because they were nervous about getting to a good high school. So they stopped when a mock exam happened and I get the highest score in the class and top 3 at school. Guess my reading did not hinder me at all. The first year in high school I was being bullied for being too quiet. I just really depressed and they did not understand that.
Im also getting bullied when i was in high school, years maybe past but the memories is like always fresh and my trauma won't fade, and my confidence and my original self.. i want it back
If you guys bullied, please fight back. I know you're afraid, I know you don't want to hurt others , but just fight back. even if only using words . I hope you guys become stronger.
And then....... she ended up being an example of overcoming and strength, like always happens whit such great persons like Yi Jeong....... The world needs more persons like you Yi.....God bless us
This is so sad but they gave amazing advice and i'm happy she found strength. I remember in primary school I had some friends that told me to stop hanging out with a certain kid or they would stop talking to me. I stopped talking to them instead and hang out with that one lonely kid instead. I would always try making conversation with the lonely kids I saw while in school because I felt for them and then I ended up becoming that lonely kid myself due to moving a lot. If I could go back to school I would try harder to befriend the lonely kids because it is more meaningful, it literally lightens their hard day. I was waiting for a report like this because when I see kdrama and it includes bullying tbh it angers me and I wondered if that's how it really is? that's harsh. It's so sad how people have nothing better to do than to be cruel. "I tell you, on the day of judgment people will give account for every careless word they speak" Matthew 12:36
No one ever deserves the feeling of left alone, ever! I will never understand how anyone gets satisfaction from making someone's life miserable like how?!
The fact that she could've wish worst for he bullies but instead was grateful to them shows how much she'd healed and have a kind heart. Wishing her all the best and love the intention of opening up a cafe
Isn't the term for an outcast there "왕따" (wangdda)? I may be wrong but I remember reading an article about how wangdda are treated at school and it's horrible how if someone else tries to talk to them then they may get bullied as well. I've gone through something like this for over 4 years and I'm so glad I'm not the only one who had their entire school ostracize them.
That sucks, but somehow I think I would rather be ostracized together defending a friend, than being alone with other scared and indifferent kids. At least that situation would give us both a friend for life.
I was bullied in the past for having different coloured skin to those around me. Everyone in the class enjoyed making fun of me for being different, for having a different culture, for liking things that was different to what they liked. I was strong enough to filter out the white noise but there were days where I felt suicidal. I'm glad I didn't go through with it and the experience has made me a stronger person. I just wish I had enough courage back then to defend the other kids who were being bullied as well.
She's so humble, down to earth and pure, and she genuinely wants to help others who are going to through such issues, the world would be s better place if more people like her existed instead of the selfish egotistical brats
As a Korean guy who was bullied in middle school, I know how she felt so painful at past. I was hit by cursed by students only for the reason I am look like south east asian or Indian people. But the most painful and gross thing was that Korean people treat bullied like 'weak or not social' people. Even my teacher said 'why you make problems?' even I was a victim. Seriously being different, being bullied or weaker mean a death in Korean society. I still live in a painful memory of my school days and I cannot go out without wearing a mask because I am afraid to show my face to others. They just criticize because I do not look like normal Korean people.
wwhuaa man, I know it's more easier to speak than doing it, but hope you can have the strenght to forget them in a way. I've been bullied too, I'm 24 now, almost everyday I think about it, sometimes it's just thinking about a moment, sometimes I'm asking myself "why" but at the end, you cannot have an answer. You're still in big pain (I suppose) if you're not showing your face, and I imagine, in a society where apparence is crazy/creepy important is a horrible situation. But know that you're not a problem, you're not weak, you're just someone who is not in the standard of your society and you don't have to justifiy and hide yourself. You are you and just that, it's a beautiful thing.
i still remember when i moved to a new city i 've been bullied in school for 3 year .but i really had enough of it when i started highschool. and since i moved to another school i wanted to have a new start but those girls were also in my class and still keep trying to trash me. i still remember they stole my birthday watch that my dad got me.and saw it in one of the girls pocket. seriously in middle of the class i grabbed her hair and slammed her head on the table. from that day she didn't dare to talk to me or even her minions.damn if i knew i would have done than before. I'm really a peaceful person i would never put my hands on someone i tried to talk to them but no they were even brave to do more thing to me .it was at first just you know calling me names laughing .but escalated to stealing and spreading rumors. i had enough .and when i think about it none of my so called friend helped me out or just give me an advice to encourage me .i was so shy back then i just wanted to blend in.
Wow amazing!! I wish she got a bloody nose. Many bullies people should know that they always can change the situation. I know its hard but it is possible
I was an introvert. Everyone considered me weak and dumb. ...BUT, Whenever they tried to bully me. I make them regret. I make them kneel before me. *I told them that I'm the king. Expect me.* If you're being bullied. Stay strong. Don't stay silent unless you need to. Approach the problem from different angles. If you can make them expect you. Be kind to them if you establish your dominance. Be respectful to them if you're in an submissive position. Remember when you limit your responce and tend to ignore. You are teaching them how to treat you.
I was bullied quite badly when I started high school, which resulted in me being homeschooled. it’s a horrible thing that nobody has to go through. Son Yi Jeong seems like a really sweet girl, and it’s sad that she wet through what she did. Anyone who is bullied, you have my support x I do hope that when the bullies became adults, they looked back and were ashamed of what they did.
I was bullied everyday till grade 10... But I don't regret a things because the only thing it help me to reliase was that I have to become stronger... So that no one would look down on me.... So cheer up to all my bro who are being bullied...
Awesomeness Dude Dante I know that pain as I was bullied a lot too. The good thing was it has now made me stronger. Glad that it made you stronger too. Fight against the bullies!!!!
Don't be so reckless by saying that. Not everyone has the support or strength that you had. Not everyone can surpass this and by expecting them to like it's nothing is just giving them unnecessary pressure.
@@purrpaws7863 you sound depressed... I didn't had any support back then after all am a orphan.... And you know bully too are people.... And the point I meant was to become stable not to become stronger and suppress other... Cause nobody can help you in case of your self respect and depression.. when you yourself don't even try to help yourself....
This video is really heart touching to me because I had some problems in my school days. And I also like the fact that no comment in the comment section has a dislike . Asianboss IS and ALLWAYS will be a channel I can find comfort or alteast the true reality of how people work.THANK YOU
I've been bullied too in grade and high school days. And have a huge impact on me. Since then, There's a huge part Of me that have lost. That bubbly, goofy and friendly side of just died. Up until now as a 25 y/o, i still having a hard time opening up to people and I built this walls around me.
I never understood the mentality of my bullies... They were from good backgrounds and were talented... I don't know what made them bully me... It was verbal abuse but nevertheless it made me strong enough to take my stand... Today I understand what others feel and I try to befriend those who are left alone... I've been on the spot in which they currently are so I try my best to be a person I needed back then....
Y'know I *WAS* a bully, but everything really changed once I felt life get more difficult for me to the point I started thinking more. I was then thinking about the people around me, like are they the going through the same thing as me?? I guess that's what stopped me from bullying. I do regret my choices, and I've been trying to become a greater person every day. Sadly not many people can change.
Hi everyone! thank you so much watched my story in video.
( I cant English well..;) ) Actually, I've been worried since I took the video. BUT many people are sending me a direct message. I think I was worried about something after receiving the message!
I felt like there were so many wonderful people in the world like you. So I was moved.
thanks everyone!!!
😍Love more yourself😍
쏘니U튜브 thank you for sharing your story! You’re so brave♥️♥️♥️
너의 마음은 정말 아름다워요. 나는 언젠가 너의 카페에 올 거예요. ❤
Ur so brave I love your video... finally someone can speak out loud about bullying
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쏘니U튜브
Thank you for being so brave to share your story. I would love to visit your own cafe someday! ❤
As a student, I was bullied in junior high (and some of high) school. I became a teacher specifically because I wanted to make sure no student ever goes through that. A few years ago, one of my students was at risk of suicide, partially due to bullying. Upon graduation, she gave me a letter, thanking me for believing in her and getting her through that dark time. That one thanks is more valuable to me than any teaching certificate or degree.
Wow, that's amazing! I'm glad that your able to make a difference in the lives of your students. 💖
@@GodlyEddy wtf is wrong with you?
Aww... I'm sure you mean a lot to that student
thank you
Great job, colleague!
Imagine, bullied at school, abusive parents, doesn't have much money to afford hoby, no one wants to talk to you because egerybody was laughing at you, worst feeling ever. One person came and that person will be his or her entire world.
Wow gay
You can make money from being bullied tho
@TiiNANI u can either sell your bodhi or seoul to youtube
@@cometsan1644 Dumbass
When you are down never use to think then you at lost but if nothing to do with money then you have so many ideas to make your hobby come true , just look around you , you can start with something small hobby then when you success you have big hobby , good lucks all the best
Chí Phèo nguyễn just because of bullying
People tend to bully the most beautiful souls, how sad....
Agree with you..
why?
@@LingLing-pn3us i really have a feeling its because their jealous of someones beauty. Everyone should know there beautiful in their own way and not bully someone because of their good looks. I dont know what u look like, but your obviously very beautiful/handsome(not to assume gender). Everyone needs to know that. I wish we coupd at least tell people if they are beautiful or handsome. U dont need to be attractive to be liked. It depends on what type of heart u have. And bullies need to know that.
I ship bts and got7. I fully agree with this!, Ive gotten Beaten up in the girls restroom by my bully and harassed and abused multiple times, It was very traumatic. Now i have moved schools and she got expelled. But i don’t understand how she could have been jealous of me. I’m so ugly and fat!?,
@@LingLing-pn3us it's not about weight or physical beauty. It is what is within you. We, in the west, call it your heart and soul.
It hurts to see that she laughs to hide the pain in her words...
I think it's a common reaction for a lot of Asian people, at least here in Japan people laugh when talking about tough subjects like death or emotional pain...
@@RedPhantom97 I'm European and I also laugh to try to keep it a little light during sensitive subjects. I think it's something every human does. To try to keep it a little bright
@@김은지-y5e Oh I'm European too (living in Japan) and I agree that I do usually start laughing after crying from a traumatic experience, but I still find it odd when talking with my Japanese friends about people dying from natural disasters and they smile or laugh it off
@@RedPhantom97 i find it funny that "die" is a casual insult to them
I do it and it's my defense mechanism and pointing it out is offensive for me. Like just let me be. I hate that
No one should be bullied ever , we should all stand up against bullying .
yes...
bull fightings are really cool.
it's fun.
where do they get the horns from i wonder
that is were you are wrong...
Bt its happening in real life..shes korean bt she experience bullying what more to foreigners...
I don't really care
@Roxas In Japan hugs
They clearly weren't her friends if they didnt support her after finding out about her concerns. I dont understand that, how do "friends" do that?
In korean we say 'chingu' (친구) which we usually translate by friend in english. But actually it's a whole concept that doesn't have any word to translate it, so that's why they use friend as a translation for this video.
친구 means somethong like 'someone who is the same age as you and could probably be your friend', and in school we could translate is as 'schoolmate who's the same age as you' kind of meaning. I think it's linked to the whole hierarchy and society wording in Korea, but I'm not a linguist so idk
@@minhee734 interesting
I think in Asia its mostly like that. We call everyone in our school 'friends' and what western culture would regard as friends we call sonething else like 'good friends' or 'best friends'
@@minhee734 so it means something more like " a peer" than "a friend"
@@minhee734 Got it. So basically, chingu means that person is your equal. (not younger, not older). Thanks for explaining
I'm Korean myself, and I despise some people in Korean society, because they have no manners and mercy. I'm glad that Yi Jeong was able to tell her story like this because Korean teens make me sick on how much bullying they do towards innocent souls. It's one of the many reasons why I hate Korean society quite a lot: it's way too conservative and people are too strict on looks. She looks beautiful and an innocent soul who doesn't deserve bullying at all. Korean students needs to think twice before saying something because most of the time, they don't care, and that needs to stop. If there are Korean students watching, you guys need to smarten up because your behavior is not acceptable coming from a Korean student, me. If you guys don't wanna be friends with someone who has concerns about themselves, why do you guys even exist or even open your mouths to bully someone?
Is it really that bad? The students in Korea? In our country, the students are most likely to tease each other but, just out of joke, or maybe I'm just in a good neighborhood.
@@joanmarie7598 It could be that you're lucky to have that school environment. Bullying is a behavior that's pretty much everywhere, not only a Korean thing. Unfortunately.
In my school there are also bullies. I am currently in highschool right now and I am Filipino. In my class though, we don't bully each other and I'm so lucky for that. But of course there are still times that some of my classmates or even me are being badmouthed behind our backs. That's okay, though. If I were to witness bullying, I would definitely stand up. All of us should stand up for what's right. And I will befriend that person and comfort them. Being a student isn't about learning books, formulas, etc. It's all about how we INTERACT and CARE for each other. For me, being KIND is better than being smart. What do you use your brain for if you aren't aware of what's wrong and what's right?
@@arnesdiaryxxx Backstabbing is rampant in Ph schools, even in the neighbourhood. Bullying? Not common. Some are just hidden perfectly or seen through SNS.
@@joanmarie7598 i agree.
I've been bullied at my college for being an introverted guy. They all assumed I was gay & basically the entire college ended up isolating me purposefully. Truly being ignored and isolated is the worst feeling ever, it's even worse than someone hurting you verbally or physically. I hope colleges take this issue seriously and implement some ways to combat bullying
What kind of college did you go to? College usually has little to no bullying. No one would care about anyone but themselves because they're worried about passing their classes. Lots of students are introverts. Consider transfering.
Your college must suck
The colleges in my country sucks too! Like they have block sections and it seems like you haven’t left high school yet(except for the school work) and bullying is quite common in the university that I’m going at and it’s really annoying, like grow up people
i have same experience like you too :( i was frustrated i don't have anyone to talk. all my classmate really like to make fun of me, calling me extra, dog, stupid, weird, anti social. like why u guys have to say all of the negative things to me i'm a human too i have feeling. what if u guys in my position too :(
College usually has grown adults, what grown ass adult in their right mind would bully someone? Adults should know better...
Make an interview with a bully too. A lot of them regret what they did now that they're adults and it would be interesting to hear what made them do it at the time.
@I think I am no longer a fan thanks Sm k
I expected that kind of comment. You are absolutely right. Bullies deserve punishment, it is a crime. I never said it wasn't. But also there are different types of bullies. Not all of them are that extreme. There are also different kinds of reasons behind bullying, be it how they were taught at home, in what psychological condition they are or how they are born. The point behind learning about the point of view of the perpetrator of any crime is to try to prevent as many kids as possible from becoming perpetrators in the future, or at least spot them early on. It also helps to learn how to deal with them as a teacher or a victim based on what you know about them.
The objective behind my comment is to seek knowledge about human behaviour, not to forgive the wrongdoings of perpetrators just because they regret it. But those who regret it are the ones who are most likely to participate in that kind of interview. Understanding your enemy makes it a little easier to not be so afraid and to act in the right way to protect yourself.
@I think I am no longer a fan thanks Sm k I was also bullied. For over 8 years. It IS a horrible thing to do. And yes they should be held responsible for that. However I don't think holding on to grudges forever is healthy. The only person you hurt with this is yourself. It's important to let go of the grudges. Humans change. To the better or worse. But everyone is capable of change. And teenagers are incredibly stupid. They do stupid things. But they also should be heard. They also should be forgiven. You don't have to forget, but it's okay to forgive. It's not a sign of weakness but of strength to forgive those who made you suffer. It's important for your own personal growth. People do bad things but they also should get a chance to better themselves and receive forgiveness. 🍀🌹
@University student in hiding ho ho ho I agree with you about the bullies. Others sympathizing with the bullies because some bullies are bullied victims too or a person who are being abused by their family etc. and in return they want to make someone experience their pain and suffering which is twisted. In my opinion you might not have the choice on what happened to you but you have the choice, the decision to be a better person or be cruel. They have chosen to be a bully and in the process should face the consequences of their action. They have the power to be a hero to help and protect others to not experience what they've been through but in the process they choose to be a villain. Someone who is a bully, who pushed someone to their death should be called a murderer too. I have no empathy towards bullies. I experienced being bullied and the one who bullied me is also bullying another person because that person is a (special child) but intelligent. That person went to college but still treated badly, I guess that is the last straw for him and he killed himself. I realized that time that forgiving and understanding bullies is letting another victim, letting another person to suffer. And in the end we might not be involved but those other victims blood is in our hands because we didn't do anything to punish those bullies.
there reason behind their bullying does't matter it does not give them any excuse to do bad things to others who are not hostile towards them..😁😂
i would really love to see that,amazing idea! it's interesting to see things from different perspectives,even though what they were doing was wrong
Bullying is always a character of an insecure human.
true
I agree.
My thirteen year old jerk self would agree... Glad I got over that idiotic phase.
Or that feeling to be superior...
I agree. Then they have bad lives thats why they bullied other human with innocent souls
I just imagine my ugly face going to korea... Maybe the whole town would bully me
that's a very expensive hollywood script
@@cometsan1644 🤣
@@cometsan1644 wtf
Hugs
@@Therpsycora that cometsan guy needs some help haha
I cracked some of my bullies' heads open with a desk. I got expelled after that. One of the best things that happened back then.
You mean... literally?
Don't know what your situation is, but that move sounds lethal, seriously.
Hsjjjskk I'm actually terrified......
Aye, you gotta set an example sometimes. Bet when you came back no one bullied you then huh?
lmao
Bullying is one of the most emotionally stunting thing that can happen to you...I’m 21 right now and I’m still unable to live a life free of anxiety and depression because of bullying that happened to me ages 5-15. There should be huge conversations about how bullying affects you for the rest of your life.
Galena Anyanwu It’s true .. can cause physiological changes that can make a person ill rest of their life.. it can be outsiders or family members
Of course, as long as there’s no evidence.. people deny and that’s how it thrives
Galena Anyanwu True and I am glad that those who bullied me are out of my life now. But those flashbacks get to me sometimes too. However, just try to forget it all as life is too short to focus on sickos who are not worth it. Karma will bite them back sooner or later!!
I agree 100%. People tend to not take bullying seriously. I notice a double standard where if an adult abuses another adult it's taken seriously and that person can get support or counseling. When a kid emotionally abuses another kid and invites others to do so, it just gets labeled as "bullying" and adults will just look the other way and let it happen.
@@JC-yo5tx So true! I got bullied and 2 years later i'm still petrified to go to school... lots of therapy!
Same here. It's funny because prolonged bullying can be listed under C-PTSD. A not very known type of PTSD.
I was being bullied too with my classmates in elementary school because of my very plain appearance in famous school. They hide my stuff, stole my homework, told me that I'm disgusting, etc. Even the boys told me poor and disgusting. I was really down, however I tried to be friend with others from different class and changed my self to look strong even though I still afraid around the bullies. I showed them that their words didn't hurt me and ignore them like nothing happen and just keep hang out with my friends from other class. Slowly they're tired and just let me go.
Even though I finally won over bullies it affected me until now. In high school people like to praised my style and my achievement, I even joined the school organisation, but I was very skeptic over praise from people and very careful in social life and observant. I didn't trust people easily. I had small attack of social anxiety which is I still try to overcome until now
Bullying is scary
You're very strong. And you're more than what happened to you. You'll never be anything less. I'm glad that everyday you had the courage to stand up and decide for existing. For living. You did so well and I'm so proud of you. Keep fighting 🍀🌹
same happened to me in 3rd grade
To those who bullied me before:
We are hiring. You might need a job. :D
damn cool
Can you hire me? I need a job.
@Kento you're fat. Now I can apply for the job as a bully
@@Cliffracer46 lol
I am unemployed too, give me one.
I taught in Korea for a year at a private school and I could definitely see that some students were bullied by other students. My director was against it but it was never a worry for them except money.
was muhammad an amputee or just generally wiseass
nvm poverty is a bigger business than petty amputees
Did you stand up for them? or ignore them
Same! I just finished teaching at an academy in Korea and there was always one student ostracized for being a little different. I made sure to step in before it got big.
@@cometsan1644 what
@@somegrill7561 oh its oppa
It's evident from most of the highschool K-dramas how they glorify bullying, like the person keeps getting bullied waiting for someone else to save them or until the bully falls in love with them 🤦♀, come on, at least for once you gotta be mentally and emotionally strong and stand up yourself against bullying ✊ instead of just always hiding behind others' back otherwise you will end up getting bullied again.
lmao true, you just described like 80% of k-dramas, this is why i absolutely hate them. most of them have this exact same story smh.
Yeah in a lot of asian teen dramas the girl is bullied and the love interest saves her or something
preach 👏🏻👏🏻
...It's not always soo easy.
K-dramas nowadays do not glorify bullying. That was the case a few years ago.
guys, she's so pretty inside out and her voice is so soothing, how could anyone NOT want to be friends with her??
Because she was different then?
@@hohograndfatherthat doesnt mean no one should be frineds with
Why bully when you can just treat everyone nicely and have a great time together??
김태진 sadly not everyone thinks like that :(
Most likely bullies get treated poorly at home by parents or raised poorly, so they transfer that negativity onto someone else. Still makes them a horrible person though lol
Jacob L. Lol some dude was trying to bully me middle school calling me names I literally walked up to him and elbowed him in the side. He stopped talking about me.
uwuCat same! I threw lots of elbows in the hallways. It was subtle enough to not get in trouble, but enough to get the message across “don’t mess with me”
Jacob L. Not always, some of them are just spoiled brats that think they are superior
I can definitely relate to her, as a kid I always got severely bullied, even by my parents, loved how she managed to endure the pain like I did and become a good friend 😭
good to be dense
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@@dogie1070 Thanks sm 🤗
@@cometsan1644 U don't have to tell us that. We can see that from your comment.
@@olivejake3053 wow u not dense
People can be absolutely horrible sometimes
I feel genuinely apologetic to her , she seems absolutely beautiful on both the inside and outside
ugly insecure people always bully the good looking innocent ones
8:53 what hurts the most about getting bullied at school is when you realize your closest friends also take part in bullying you. and that's what makes people who's bullied at school always have the thought of jumping off the roof, because they feel like they're lonely, and whoever they have now is gonna leave them/betray them anyway
they want to end their life, because it hurts too much that they can't stand it. but do you know one thing that'll keep them going? the feeling of being loved. by friends, family, or anyone and even strangers.
that's why you should never show how much you dislike someone you meet on the street, because you don't know what they're going through.
what people don't know is that even strangers contribute in suicides too.
talking about bullying is really complicated, but if you really wanna fight against bullying, you just have to appreciate others the way you want to be treated.
I've been bullied during whole school time, so I endured years. Now I'm an adult, moved away from my parents and having my own flat and a stable work, I just can say that I'm happy now.
You know? I aspire to have a similar lifestyle like you, having had the same treatment given to me at school.
Wow that's a person.👍
Good for you man👍
Ignore bullies, not the bullied! 💪🏽
Severity of being bullied varies. I was ‘casually’ bullied for a short time as it used to be a sort of trend in my elementary school. Luckily, I didn’t care much that I was bullied and I was very active in every class then bullies lost their interest in continuing it. It still hurts after decades if I look back even though my case wasn’t the severe one.
I highly respect her friend who supported this woman and I totally agreed with them that we need to proactively give our help and support to bullied friends. Ignore bullies, not the bullied! 💪🏽
As much as I agree with a lot of what you said, I still think that bullies must be taught a good lesson. They have to be stopped because some of them have no limits, and their actions cannot be ignored.
She’s talks so quietly yet she’s speaks volumes and is one of the bravest people Ive had the chance to watch on this channel. For speaking out on a topic that most people turn a blind eye too as well as hoping that other bullied victims are able to be brave like her and for not letting her bullies win in the end.
As a parent it just hurts my feelings when kids get bullied I don't allow it with my own because I'm the parent that walks up to kids and/or their parents and confront them
Wow so nice
If it was me i just guilt trip my child while smoking my cigarette
What am i? Jesus?
Just so you know we support you even if don't know you and haven't met you. Never stop defending your child.
@@cometsan1644 😹🤦🏾♀️👏🏾 model citizen
@@cnordegren I appreciate it thank you... my mom did the same for me
Good that's what I call parent. My dad used to hurt me with his belt when I complained about it.
As a bisexual this breaks my heart hearing others being so heavily bullied for what they cannot control. Its painful that there are societies that are even less accepting of us; and furthermore how many millions of LGBT youth that commit suicide bc of it :/ I'm so glad she is well! I hope she is now successful and happy :,) 💖
What does your sexuality have to do with that,.... maybe I wasn't paying enough attention...
@@lifejustsucks7639 bc she also likes the same sex did u even pay attention to the video?? She was bullied at an all girls school for having a crush on another girl.
I really don’t understand why bullying exists. It’s not your fault that you were born in a certain way. It’s simply *you* (something that you can’t control at all). I really hope that the world is going to change and understand the fact that not everyone is straight ect.
Bullying is just the worst. They bullied you just because you're different.
Yeah, you western people (by western people I mean Americans and Europeans) shouldn't take your home countries for granted. Y'all are privileged in your countries compared to some others, and this young woman is a perfect example of that.
The dislikes are from the bullies of her school
I’m so touched and near to tears when she said that she wants to open up a cafe where they can share their pains and concern.. 🥺
I'm a Filipina I experienced being bullied before when I was in my 4th grade because of being fat but I punched the guy's face who bullied me luckily my teacher wasn't sent me to the guidance counselor haha but his Mom really angry with me and I didn't feel sorry.. lol he deserved it!
Good job lol
Good job! I also punched a guy for being obnoxious one time, while playing hide and seek. He was the tallest guy and I was the tallest girl but he was one grade above me, man I punched his lights out LOL and obviously, school called my mom, but all she did was: try to look stern and tell me not to do it again but in the end she laughed her ass off because she couldn't stand the guy as well (since he was brothers class xD)
Good job..🤣🤣🤣
*actually you are the bully*
@@chigingshah1824 really Am I the bully? lol I respect your comment but just imagine you were in my situation that every day he annoyed you during classes since he was my classmate and breaktime you couldn't concentrate on your studies because of he keep insulting your physical appearance. Were you just keep it in silence? Maybe you were but it didn't work for me...
*imagine being so insecure you have to pick on others who are so much better then you*
thx for sharing, YI Jeong started when i was around 7 for me and it never ended until finish school at around 18 almost 40 and still didnt get over it i am still hardly able to do anything social other then work i feel insanly anxious in public or around stranger its kinda sad tbh cannot travel or have any relationship i cannot even go to family stuff because for me there is nothing fun to be around other not even my own family .. in a way they killed me i am dead inside ..while all those bully have life and kid and friend i am still broken...
The world is beautiful and hard at the same time but if you have the will to see it you will find something to live for. Traveling helped me, i changed countries, did sacrifices but meet beautiful people, learned to recognize and avoid toxic persons but without hate and eventually found a partner to live my life with.
Stay strong, help others and be happy within yourself.
@Laurell LaurellBay what???
Hugs
@@marcotessariol hugs
dissya1 Force yourself to go outside your comfort zone & try to make friends. Go volunteer and find groups that have the same interests as you. There’s over 2 billion people in this world so if the person your trying to connect with doesn’t want to interact, then move on to the next person. Before you know it, you’ll find a good group of people that will appreciate you. Stay strong and don’t give up. We all have flaws so don’t try to be perfect. Just be who you are. And you are stronger than you think. Look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself you are beautiful, strong, and that you are choosing to be happy regardless of the circumstances. My saving grace is God. He gave me strength to face all my struggles & challenges and I can only hope that you’ll find him in your life. I can assure you that He will give you peace & joy that transcends all understanding. God loves you & bless you!
This is something I’ve noticed a lot when watching people from more collectivistic cultures (like Asian/Middle Eastern/Latinx) is they tend to smile/laugh when taking about something painful. Even now, in this interview to discuss and validate her experiences, she feels like it’s her duty to not seem sad about it. It’s really sad but the strength behind it is also inspiring. She is so strong, even now, for the young victims of bullying watching her at home. So much respect
I was also bullied back in high school,well my whole group of my friends pretty much,but I felt like it mostly directed towards me (maybe it is my social anxiety who knows) , but yeah they would also call me things like "dirty" and they would yell things like "take a shower" and I really never understood why this happened bc i literally shower every single day.-.
Anyways it came to a point where I would just cry every day and I would try to comfort myself through music because I felt like I couldn't talk to anyone about how I felt.
Today I'm still trying to get over these memories and delete all these people from my life so I can finally move on.
Thanks to this girl,I know that I'm not alone and I honestly appreciate her so much for talking about such a sensitive topic.
"Don't away from your friend. If that friend reaches out their hand toward you, don't reject them."- Zinie Park 2019
I was bullied throughout primary and high school. After all of that my advice is to be yourself no matter what.
Thank you, Asian Boss!!! Once again, you acknowledge what the news refuses to acknowledge. We need to spread more awareness of health issues.
yes
we need to give pension to the mentally apathetic bullies
they probably cant even spell indonesia
@@cometsan1644 what the hell is your problem, I just saw you at another comment spouting nonsense.
@@whenyounutinhermouthandshe he's a weirdo, just leave him be xD
@@whenyounutinhermouthandshe wait bullies dont get pension?
damn..now i cant just gouge their eyes and mutilate their nose.
Guess now since i am angry and sad i have to kill myself and cement my reputation as another creep and pedophilia i guess...and make this world an even more horrifying place to live in so that we all can start moving to the darker side of the moon.
Seems like bullying is almost normalised in korea.
Sadly not only in Korea
Cherry Blossom But Korea is too much
If u live in korea, u need to learn how to fight the other. Have to be strong
Yeah...as someone who was once stayed in Korea, people bullied me just because I was chubby... It's sad but at that time all I can think about was, "it's my fault I'm fat, so I should be skinny"... Writing this kinda make me sad
Not only in Korea, but also around the world. It happen when people seeing you weak and can be targeted as their toys.
I never experienced bullying when I was in school .. but, I it was difficult for me to make friends with other and socialized so I only had few friends and I often felt lonely. I prefer to stay away from others to avoid conflict. Sometimes I feel jealous of those who have friends and laugh together, but maybe this is me .. I feel comfortable with my solitude even though I often feel lonely. And the more I grow up, I realize that many fake friends.
Sorry for my bad english
I wold really like to know more about how much discipline is given to people in Asian countries and reflect that on other countries
@Jason Lee just kidding.
. Yeah bUlLy Is JuSt FoR fUn ..not big deal at all.
Jason Lee from your name I can assume that your a minority too and I’m really disappointed because dude seriously...what??? I-
@@madisunie lee could be irish
@Monokuma interesting, the black kids at my school were always the coolest kids in school
@Jason Lee My first friend at school in the Netherlands was a black boy he was really kind he was the first one to talk to me he spent the break with me and he introduced me to my other classmates I missed him the most when I had to move to Germany. First day of school in Germany was horrible it couldn't be worse I got bullied my classmates made fun of me and the first person to bully my was a black person who made offensive comments and laughed at me.
i'm a college student right now and i often get bullied because of my introvert character and my face being looks like i'm sick but i'm not. they often say i don't have willing to life, but it just who i am. i don't have any friends to talk in real person, almost all of my class mate laughing at me, when someone makes a joke about me, sometimes they even look at me while laughing.
yesterday it was the hardest day of my life i cried during class and after class.
we are on pastry class and sometimes when we make to many pastry stuff we can take the it and eat it.
so yesterday we made many pastry stuff so we can take it and eat it. i took 4 pieces of pastry stuff, i took it because i want to share it with my class mate who didn't go to take the pastry. i offer it to my class mate (let's say him boy A) the pastry and the boy A took it.i go to the class (our pastry kitchen is connected to class room) and offer it to my other class mate, when i was in the class there was my (let's say him boy B) asked me to keep his pastry stuff in my bag and i say sure just keep it in my bag. at this time my styrofoam is already empty and i put my styrofoam on my seat. i had a bottle of water and the boy B asked me if he could drink it or not and i said sure u can drink it, and the boy A also came and asked if he could drink it or not and i said sure " if u guys are really thirsty u can drink all of it " and sure they drank all of it. after that we continue with mid term exam, i was feeling sick and i had to back and forth to toilet, because of that my class mate started to notice me that i'm sick so she said why don't u go to the clinic, i said i'm fine it will get better because i'm often feeling sick like this and it will get better, but suddenly she got mad and said to me with the entire class watching " u looks like want compassion but when we give it to u, u don't want it. what do u want ? u just drive us nut " and i was shock in silence, like i didn't ask for compassion from u, and why u bother urself just because me ?. and the entire class looking at me and laughing. at this point i can handle my tears and i have to bow down to shade my tears so they didn't notice that i was crying. fast forward when the class was ended, we were getting ready to go home, and when i took my bag the boy B give my styrofoam with something written on it, it said " this belongs to Key's boyfriend i love u 3000 " and key is one of my classmate who everyone hated on and got bullied also. after i just remain silence and get out from the class and went to the toilet. i cried, after everything that i have been giving to him all of my kindness, he reprisal me with that. and he already did it to me alot of times. LIKE WHY I DESERVE ALL OF THIS HATE :'( .i can't tell to my parents i'm worried they will become worried too. i don't have anyone to talk.
(I'm sorry if u guys can't understand, english is not my native language)
Mindy Ti Thank you for sharing this with us
The world thinks kindness is weak. But you're strong. Don't ever doubt yourself. Continue to be the person you are despite these trying times. Tho no one deserves hate, no one. You're worthy and beautiful and the weight of their words and actions are not truth. The truth is you're worthy. You're a beautiful person and you're strong. God made you and doesn't wish for these things to happen. But know that He thinks these things about you as well.
I’m sorry this happened to you. Have confidence in your self and know that you aren’t defined by their words/actions towards you. I suggest talking to people anonymously online (but be careful and don’t meet up with them in real life). I heard about this app called Bighead where you can meet similar people online anonymously. I haven’t tried it so idk much but just know that’s an option. Also focus on your hobbies and things u like! (Ex: for me, kpop and webtoons are good distraction/entertainment) Good luck and stay strong!
Be strong buddy ❤💪
I was bullied too during middle & high school. Attempted suicide several times too. Glad there were people who cared about me to keep me alive. My worst bully even brought knives to our tennis match. I outsmarted him by calling my sister to pick me up during his match once i noticed his opened backpack had numerous knives.
Proud of you. There's people that DO care.
Wow that's really scary and sad. It's nice to know that there was people that helped you up after all the tragedy.
You could have taken a photo of his back pack & report to the teacher/principal
Why don't you reported him or attack him when you show knife
I just saw me in this video : [ i was bullied because i'm a lesbian, i was bullied to the point that i refused to leave my house. I stood inside for almost an year and refusing to talk with people. With the time i overcome my fear of going outside and now i'm happy , living together with my girlfriend.
Theres a story , once a man went to the forest to chop some woods a bear came. He told on bear you smell pretty bad, then the bear told him to hit her with the axe. He did and the bear start bleeding and ran back in the forest. Few years later , the man went for woods again , met the bear again and asked her: hows your wound? Bear reply: the wound recover its not hurting me anymore , but i still remember the bad words you said to me and they hurt a lot.
Guys... Be careful what you saying, words can ruin someones live. Thank you for reading this ❤️😘🤗🌈
aww, as a lesbian teenager, this is wonderful to see. it's great to see you're living a good life now!! you're very strong, keep going!
@@thepriceofsalt9003 Thank you so much ❤️😍🌈🤗
Please don't be lesbian. There's too many single guys who would love a pretty girl like you
@@silo3comshut up ,you homophobic dumbass
@@silo3com people don't get to choose their sexuality and can't stop being a lesbian KaReN
When she opens her own cafe I will go 😭😭😭
When I was 7, I had a bully 5ish years older than me who would bully me pretty much every day. Little did she know that her dad was a close family friend of ours, so I talked to him and she never made eye contact with me again lolol.
And someone who's like 12 bullying a 7 y.o.?.... Sad she wouldn't even find someone her size. 😡
@@aricm5973 In a way, I'm kinda glad it was me because if she had picked on anyone else, they most likely wouldn't have had the advantage I had with being able to confidently tell her dad that she was bullying me. Apparently she got a lot better with her attitude over the years and now she's a nurse.
I understand her, I was bullied in my childhood. Also I remember being hit by some of my classmates, saying bad words to me it’s just horrible. And like no one wants to be your friend and you feel lonely, and you feel like you’re the weird one, because no one will want you.
this lady has such a wonderful heart and deserves the world
In my opinion: Most bully have a lot of friends plus most of the victim don't have a good fighting skill so it is very difficult to fight them back.
And in my experience I got bullied by national athlete who is an appearance of the school so my class counselor teacher in my primary school turn blind eyes.
But I'm still want to say thank you to them for inspiring me to work as a lawyer.
"Bully don't deserve bullying back they deserve more than that!!!"
My grammar is bad sorry!!!
Your aspirations and attitude makes me think that you're very impressive and cool as a person. I hope you fulfill your dream of becoming a lawyer
LEARN KRAV MAGA
I used to be bullied by the whole class. And there was this one time during extra class, they moved my bag out of my seat and just put it on the floor in front of the class. The girl that did it bev she wanted to sit with my desolate her bestie. And when I came back from lunch i saw my bag on the ground just like that and I had to look for a new seat. NO ONE in the class let me sit down next to them. There was also this one time the boys in my class just blamed me for making a mess at the teacher's desk just because i was sitting on the front. None of my clasmate defended me even though they know I didn't do it. There was this one girl defended me but the teacher chose to believe the boys and asked me to cleaned up the mess that I didn't make and had no business with.
I feel so blessee that I lived in the country whom defend right over wrong. I hope your okay now❤
when I was a teenage, my friend was bully me about my face. round face ,big face ,no point nose , Along time I think their are the problem in my life. It's made me unconfident . But today I'm proud of myself . I'm pretty in own way
They werent your friend if they bullied you. Bullies are insecure about themselves so they project onto others. Im glad you didnt let that stop you from recognizing your own beauty and becoming more confident😊
Exactly that is not a friend.
I’m insecure about my round face 😢
OMG we had the same situation! I was bullied for my bushy eyebrows and monolids as a teenager and it made me think I was ugly somehow but now that I am an adult I have learnt to love myself!
@@yong8664 When you grow up or over 30+ years, You 'll proud of round face ,Becouse you just look younger than your friend who have tiny or V shape
I relate to this way to much. I was bullied for 3rd grade my last year in high school and it seriously has has a really damaging effect on my mental health.
The issue is schools and teachers but being able to see or notice bullying, if a kid makes a derogatory joke about another kid during class and everybody starts laughing the teacher will mostly just say settle down and think nothing of it when that's clearly bullying and probably not the first time it's happened.
Schools need to have 0 tolerance for bullying and actual take it seriously. If found bullying multiple times students should face expellsion or even be placed in juvenile detention centers depending on the situation
She's an amazing person❤😭
Bullying exists worldwide!
In Brazil, I suffered a lot of bullying throughout my school life. From insults to physical and psychological aggressions.
I hope this video will get viral and so big, her whole batch would be ashamed of themselves. There shouldn’t be any bullies in the first place but well thankfully some friends reciprocate after that.
I hope she is happy and content with her life now. Being bullied, IT IS NEVER YOUR FAULT.
No one deserves to be bullied 🔥
Curse them to be an amputee snake
some people do..
Fortnite kids do
@@lavender44444 Some bullies were victims actually. So no, no one deserves it because bullying is not productive it is only done out of either boredom, an ego boost or immature insecurities
*Why no one deserve bully?*
Thank you, Yi Jeong! We celebrate you for who you are, and I am so impressed that you are making it your mission to help others being bullied now!
Me too I'm being bullied when I was elementary school student and I still remember it till now I'm 27 years old
Don't let the bullies look down u, don't let anyone look down on u. I think she is very strong to try & make a change! It's really really admirable. Any victims of bullying should be inspired from her and should know when to fight back. Even through everyone has different type struggles, we all deserve happiness. We shouldn't just give up, we should be strong & not just strong, we should know our value! You don't deserve anything sad. Please know that you didn't do anything wrong and that you're beautiful, just the perfect way you are!!!!
I am from a beautiful state in a countryside and I always thought that how lucky those people who are studying in good schools and living in developed places. Now, I realise that how lucky I am, I have never encounter any kinds of bullying in my 20yrs of existence and now I fell proud. And those people who are bullying others should understand the pain that they are giving to those people..
I actually cried a little when I watched this because I felt the same way Yi Jeong did when she went to school and had the same dark thoughts about myself and my bullies as well. I was abused so badly that I was traumatized by it, but I have been able to grow as a person and slowly learn to overcome it with the help of therapy and psychology. I really wish Yi Jeong the best and hope she can open that cafe one day cause she's so brave and strong and will change lives by teaching others how to be the same.
It's interesting that the word "chingu" in Korean means friend....and also is used for the word classmate/bullies, etc.
It is used to talk about peers your age :)
@@candace6611 what???
@@GmingTai like if you're 18 then there is a person who is also 18 you call them that,
@@candace6611 Thanks for explaining :)
I always like to see recovery and growth in people that were bullied. The girls in this video and the protestors in Hong Kong, they get bullied a lot so I am excited for them to reach success!
I was bullied all the time by all classmates and teachers since primary school (4th grade) till the end of high school years.
And then they were always thought to be the “victims” and I would all the time be sent to the school’s psychologist because of I’ve always been an introvert... I always cried when I got home from school, even during classes and recess time, not because I was sad, but because I was really angry at them and myself for not being able to do something to stop it.
There was one time that I will always remember when we were with our homeroom teacher discussing about excellence, grades and so on... idk how, but it turned down all against me, all my classmates started attacking me and the teacher would do nothing about it, I just exploded and shouted to them all out of desperation, returned to my seat and started silently crying. My supposedly-called friends (two) turned their backs and completely changed and sided-up with the bullies.
Of course there’re other times I recall completely, but long story short:
It took me a while, but throughout the years, I thought of quitting that school and attending another one, but you know what? I kept telling myself “you’re able to endure it, don’t give that sort of pleasure to your bullies” and I did so.
I became stronger and confronted them every single time (that doesn’t mean they stopped bullying me, but I no longer cared if I had lunch alone, spent my time doing something else, etc). These experiences made me the person who I am today, someone who doesn’t give up easily, who knows when something’s off and tries to help and is focused on her goals and self-motivation to do things.
I encourage people to stand-up, become stronger and be who you are.
I'm really happy for you. Fellow Survivor!
Thank you for sharing this. You are very brave.
I was also bullied in the 2nd grade of elementary school. I was the new student and I was very shy, at the first day of the school they asked me to play with them before the lesson begin. I rejected it because I was very nervous starting in a new school.
I don't know what happened after that time, they bullied me. They said mean things to me, they grabbed and pinched my arms till I cried. I was barely seven that time so I don't know why they did that. The teacher ignored what was happening. I told my mother after a few months but since one of the bullies is the daughter of my mom's friend and she had a good grade, my mom did not believe me. That was my first heartbreak. That time, I feel unexplainable sadness all the time but I had to be a good daughter so I had to smile.
Thankfully I was moved to another class by the 3rd grade.
I was also being bullied in the 3rd year of middle school and the first year of high school. Back then, I have a lot of going on at home. I was very depressed so I keep quiet and keep reading at school. I don't know why people get mad at me when I kept to myself. My classmates saw my quietness as an invitation to bully me? I don't know.
In the 3rd grade of middle school, I was caught reading during a lesson and the teacher kicked me out. That time I just want to forget what happened at home so I read. After the incident, my classmates said mean things one after another. I ignored them by reading. one time i also shut the class door in the front of their face when they are being too annoying. I guess one of the reason is because they were nervous about getting to a good high school. So they stopped when a mock exam happened and I get the highest score in the class and top 3 at school. Guess my reading did not hinder me at all.
The first year in high school I was being bullied for being too quiet. I just really depressed and they did not understand that.
9 people that disliked this video, are probably bullies.
Im also getting bullied when i was in high school, years maybe past but the memories is like always fresh and my trauma won't fade, and my confidence and my original self.. i want it back
If you guys bullied, please fight back. I know you're afraid, I know you don't want to hurt others
, but just fight back.
even if only using words
. I hope you guys become stronger.
And then....... she ended up being an example of overcoming and strength, like always happens whit such great persons like Yi Jeong....... The world needs more persons like you Yi.....God bless us
I got bullied for 5 years at school it left me with low self esteem, ptsd and anxiety
This is so sad but they gave amazing advice and i'm happy she found strength. I remember in primary school I had some friends that told me to stop hanging out with a certain kid or they would stop talking to me. I stopped talking to them instead and hang out with that one lonely kid instead. I would always try making conversation with the lonely kids I saw while in school because I felt for them and then I ended up becoming that lonely kid myself due to moving a lot. If I could go back to school I would try harder to befriend the lonely kids because it is more meaningful, it literally lightens their hard day. I was waiting for a report like this because when I see kdrama and it includes bullying tbh it angers me and I wondered if that's how it really is? that's harsh. It's so sad how people have nothing better to do than to be cruel.
"I tell you, on the day of judgment people will give account for every careless word they speak" Matthew 12:36
*Bullying Is An Locker For Depression.*
*Because While Bullying from social Media We Lost Our angel Sulli.*
it's fun.
until it's not.
cuz you are more beautiful than you think.
No one ever deserves the feeling of left alone, ever! I will never understand how anyone gets satisfaction from making someone's life miserable like how?!
It breaks my heart to see people getting bully at school
The fact that she could've wish worst for he bullies but instead was grateful to them shows how much she'd healed and have a kind heart. Wishing her all the best and love the intention of opening up a cafe
Isn't the term for an outcast there "왕따" (wangdda)? I may be wrong but I remember reading an article about how wangdda are treated at school and it's horrible how if someone else tries to talk to them then they may get bullied as well. I've gone through something like this for over 4 years and I'm so glad I'm not the only one who had their entire school ostracize them.
That sucks, but somehow I think I would rather be ostracized together defending a friend, than being alone with other scared and indifferent kids. At least that situation would give us both a friend for life.
I was bullied in the past for having different coloured skin to those around me. Everyone in the class enjoyed making fun of me for being different, for having a different culture, for liking things that was different to what they liked. I was strong enough to filter out the white noise but there were days where I felt suicidal. I'm glad I didn't go through with it and the experience has made me a stronger person. I just wish I had enough courage back then to defend the other kids who were being bullied as well.
@zigyzigy13 not all of them but yea.
It's so painful to listen to ! Noone should ever be bullied
never accept bullying, we need to fight back for those bullies. no good will come if u let bullying pass
She's so humble, down to earth and pure, and she genuinely wants to help others who are going to through such issues, the world would be s better place if more people like her existed instead of the selfish egotistical brats
Funny that when the victim fights back they get in trouble.
Yeah I got in trouble when I fought back, to my toxic friends/bullies/classmates and we shared home room classes for 5 freaking years
Underrated
As a Korean guy who was bullied in middle school, I know how she felt so painful at past. I was hit by cursed by students only for the reason I am look like south east asian or Indian people. But the most painful and gross thing was that Korean people treat bullied like 'weak or not social' people. Even my teacher said 'why you make problems?' even I was a victim. Seriously being different, being bullied or weaker mean a death in Korean society. I still live in a painful memory of my school days and I cannot go out without wearing a mask because I am afraid to show my face to others. They just criticize because I do not look like normal Korean people.
wwhuaa man, I know it's more easier to speak than doing it, but hope you can have the strenght to forget them in a way. I've been bullied too, I'm 24 now, almost everyday I think about it, sometimes it's just thinking about a moment, sometimes I'm asking myself "why" but at the end, you cannot have an answer. You're still in big pain (I suppose) if you're not showing your face, and I imagine, in a society where apparence is crazy/creepy important is a horrible situation. But know that you're not a problem, you're not weak, you're just someone who is not in the standard of your society and you don't have to justifiy and hide yourself. You are you and just that, it's a beautiful thing.
Is that happened at public school in korea or also at private school in korea?
i still remember when i moved to a new city i 've been bullied in school for 3 year .but i really had enough of it when i started highschool. and since i moved to another school i wanted to have a new start but those girls were also in my class and still keep trying to trash me. i still remember they stole my birthday watch that my dad got me.and saw it in one of the girls pocket. seriously in middle of the class i grabbed her hair and slammed her head on the table. from that day she didn't dare to talk to me or even her minions.damn if i knew i would have done than before.
I'm really a peaceful person i would never put my hands on someone i tried to talk to them but no they were even brave to do more thing to me .it was at first just you know calling me names laughing .but escalated to stealing and spreading rumors. i had enough .and when i think about it none of my so called friend helped me out or just give me an advice to encourage me .i was so shy back then i just wanted to blend in.
Wow amazing!! I wish she got a bloody nose.
Many bullies people should know that they always can change the situation. I know its hard but it is possible
I was also bullied in my school and I had depression. You made me feel brave about myself. Thank you so much for sharing this.
I already am teary eyed when she said she became a barista so bullied kids can talk to her. What a beautiful heart. 😭❤
imagine being the reason why someone would want to kill themselves..... bullies are really the worst people in this messed up world
The ones that disliked this are bullies themselves.
How on Earth can anyone bully such a beautiful young lady? It just breaks my heart😢.
I was an introvert.
Everyone considered me weak and dumb.
...BUT,
Whenever they tried to bully me. I make them regret. I make them kneel before me.
*I told them that I'm the king. Expect me.*
If you're being bullied. Stay strong. Don't stay silent unless you need to. Approach the problem from different angles.
If you can make them expect you. Be kind to them if you establish your dominance. Be respectful to them if you're in an submissive position.
Remember when you limit your responce and tend to ignore. You are teaching them how to treat you.
Yeah,i'm introvert too.They always bully me when i in the junior highschool,but now they never bully me again.
@@nizar9159 Yeah. 😃
*POWER OF DETERMINATION*
I was bullied quite badly when I started high school, which resulted in me being homeschooled. it’s a horrible thing that nobody has to go through. Son Yi Jeong seems like a really sweet girl, and it’s sad that she wet through what she did. Anyone who is bullied, you have my support x I do hope that when the bullies became adults, they looked back and were ashamed of what they did.
I was bullied everyday till grade 10... But I don't regret a things because the only thing it help me to reliase was that I have to become stronger... So that no one would look down on me.... So cheer up to all my bro who are being bullied...
u r amazing for being so strong !
Awesomeness Dude Dante I know that pain as I was bullied a lot too. The good thing was it has now made me stronger. Glad that it made you stronger too. Fight against the bullies!!!!
Thank you for this! ❤
Don't be so reckless by saying that. Not everyone has the support or strength that you had. Not everyone can surpass this and by expecting them to like it's nothing is just giving them unnecessary pressure.
@@purrpaws7863 you sound depressed... I didn't had any support back then after all am a orphan.... And you know bully too are people.... And the point I meant was to become stable not to become stronger and suppress other... Cause nobody can help you in case of your self respect and depression.. when you yourself don't even try to help yourself....
They bullied her because she liked another classmate? That pisses me off so much...
Same sex class mate... To other that thing is taboo especially when u're in school age
My bullying had a phase that centred around this as well
Rehana Begum I did to but I punched that dude in the side and he stopped taking about me
The idea of her cafe is so beautiful. I wish her happiness ❤
This video is really heart touching to me because I had some problems in my school days. And I also like the fact that no comment in the comment section has a dislike . Asianboss IS and ALLWAYS will be a channel I can find comfort or alteast the true reality of how people work.THANK YOU
I've been bullied too in grade and high school days. And have a huge impact on me. Since then, There's a huge part Of me that have lost. That bubbly, goofy and friendly side of just died. Up until now as a 25 y/o, i still having a hard time opening up to people and I built this walls around me.
Bro I hope her bullies are watching this and feeling the utmost guilt for what they have done to this woman 😔 the world is so cruel
I never understood the mentality of my bullies... They were from good backgrounds and were talented... I don't know what made them bully me... It was verbal abuse but nevertheless it made me strong enough to take my stand... Today I understand what others feel and I try to befriend those who are left alone... I've been on the spot in which they currently are so I try my best to be a person I needed back then....
She’s so pretty and brave and everything good. More power to her ♥️
amazing example of someone using their pain to inspire & help others! Much respect and keep fighting for your purpose!
Y'know I *WAS* a bully, but everything really changed once I felt life get more difficult for me to the point I started thinking more. I was then thinking about the people around me, like are they the going through the same thing as me?? I guess that's what stopped me from bullying. I do regret my choices, and I've been trying to become a greater person every day. Sadly not many people can change.