The fact even after she tried to attack OP dad's still trying to reach out and 'get through this', should mean forgiveness is off the table...permanently. No 'maybe someday after 10 years of groveling', NOTHING. It's OVER. He made his choice. OP should go be with her grandparents, and go NC when she turns 18
For anybody watching the second story is completely pointless. It's just a story about OP being stalked and nothing is done about it, there's no ending. LOL
Not physical?! Absolutely not! Emotional is enough. For example, the Bible says that even looking at someone with lust is cheating. It's Laura's fault for her job lost. Just don't do this at work.
I went looking for S1 on reddit (did not find, just reference to this video on google) but did anyone notice that reddit now has AI search? I don't know how to feel about this. Usual information may not be accurate of course at the end of the info😕 I think that's what bugs me the most about AI based search tools
Because he took are of his dying wife, he thinks it's OK to start a new relationship with someone else, while she still alive. As if he couldn't just wait until she passed.
OP is just being vindictive. She clearly said her mom being sick her whole life and his dad took care of her and at end he was overwhelmed too.. . She could handle it better.
S2: don't listen to this one. Fake sex story written by lonely single guy wishing for this scenario where women actually want him. Cringe extreme fantasy
Wow. It’s actually pretty messed up that all the people in that dad’s life totally tried destroying him after the mom passed. If he connected with her while caring for the mom for months and months of painful cancer treatments while also not cheating on her that is quite messed up. Is he supposed to just sulk for years? I think it would be okay especially if the wife suggested for him to not linger or remain sad. I know if I were dying of cancer I wouldn’t give a crap about how long someone cried for me. I’d want them to never cry for me and move on the second I’m dead.
This sucks all around. She's a kid, of course she and grandparents would be hurt, but the father took care of his wife until the very end. It was in the last couple of months when the nurse saw what a dedicated and loving man he was. And they started feeling things for each other. How can you not feel lonely when your wife is in a delicate position like that?
@@cosmosadorabilis7677 If he actually physically cheated, it would be bad. If it was an emotional thing, it should be overlooked. It seems like the husband respected his wife, took care of her and did not act on his urges until afterwards.
@rondog5 no it's not. Emotional cheating shouldn't be overlooked, in this very situation, it's actually the worst one. Women take care of their dying husbands everyday, without cheating on them, but when men do it, it has to come with some sorts of compromise. Disgusting.
@@cosmosadorabilis7677 If I was dying of cancer and my wife was taking care of me no questions asked i'd make sure to tell her only on that its fine to start preparing for life without me. I'd know that there was nothing more that I could do for her and she's going to have a long while dealing with whatever she's seeing and would want her to do what she needs to do and wouldn't want anyone to begrudge her after I was gone. But thats just me. If I was OPs dad I probably would've been having discussions with my wife before she passed but of course OP and the Grandparents probably have no way of knowing what their relationship was like in the last, what was it, year or 2 (?) that he was taking care of her as she died? Probably obvious that im not married (yet?) but i'd hope if I ever unfortunately have to go through this I my "family" wouldnt spend their mourning period trying to ruin me
The fact even after she tried to attack OP dad's still trying to reach out and 'get through this', should mean forgiveness is off the table...permanently. No 'maybe someday after 10 years of groveling', NOTHING. It's OVER. He made his choice. OP should go be with her grandparents, and go NC when she turns 18
Is it like delayed for anyone else?
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when Laura tried to claim the house as hers and lashed out at you, that was absolutely wild-can't believe she went that far!
For anybody watching the second story is completely pointless. It's just a story about OP being stalked and nothing is done about it, there's no ending. LOL
Turn on subtitles for the video delay
Thanks bro 🙏🏾
Story 1: Those are some badass grandparents.
Not physical?! Absolutely not! Emotional is enough. For example, the Bible says that even looking at someone with lust is cheating.
It's Laura's fault for her job lost. Just don't do this at work.
Don’t use the Bible for any type of authority on morality.
@ScottBub Do you have anything better?
Story 2 - This is why you can't be nice to crazy.
16:13 not if the dad cuts her off, then no the house isn't going to be hers
subtitles are off again.
I bet the cameras have been off since op's dad and Laura started their affair.
I went looking for S1 on reddit (did not find, just reference to this video on google) but did anyone notice that reddit now has AI search? I don't know how to feel about this. Usual information may not be accurate of course at the end of the info😕 I think that's what bugs me the most about AI based search tools
Because he took are of his dying wife, he thinks it's OK to start a new relationship with someone else, while she still alive.
As if he couldn't just wait until she passed.
OP is just being vindictive.
She clearly said her mom being sick her whole life and his dad took care of her and at end he was overwhelmed too..
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She could handle it better.
S2: don't listen to this one. Fake sex story written by lonely single guy wishing for this scenario where women actually want him. Cringe extreme fantasy
Wow. It’s actually pretty messed up that all the people in that dad’s life totally tried destroying him after the mom passed. If he connected with her while caring for the mom for months and months of painful cancer treatments while also not cheating on her that is quite messed up. Is he supposed to just sulk for years? I think it would be okay especially if the wife suggested for him to not linger or remain sad. I know if I were dying of cancer I wouldn’t give a crap about how long someone cried for me. I’d want them to never cry for me and move on the second I’m dead.
So sorry op
This sucks all around. She's a kid, of course she and grandparents would be hurt, but the father took care of his wife until the very end. It was in the last couple of months when the nurse saw what a dedicated and loving man he was. And they started feeling things for each other. How can you not feel lonely when your wife is in a delicate position like that?
So it's OK to cheat on your dying wife, because she's dying?
@ Yes it is 🤣
@@cosmosadorabilis7677 If he actually physically cheated, it would be bad. If it was an emotional thing, it should be overlooked. It seems like the husband respected his wife, took care of her and did not act on his urges until afterwards.
@rondog5 no it's not. Emotional cheating shouldn't be overlooked, in this very situation, it's actually the worst one. Women take care of their dying husbands everyday, without cheating on them, but when men do it, it has to come with some sorts of compromise. Disgusting.
@@cosmosadorabilis7677 If I was dying of cancer and my wife was taking care of me no questions asked i'd make sure to tell her only on that its fine to start preparing for life without me. I'd know that there was nothing more that I could do for her and she's going to have a long while dealing with whatever she's seeing and would want her to do what she needs to do and wouldn't want anyone to begrudge her after I was gone. But thats just me. If I was OPs dad I probably would've been having discussions with my wife before she passed but of course OP and the Grandparents probably have no way of knowing what their relationship was like in the last, what was it, year or 2 (?) that he was taking care of her as she died?
Probably obvious that im not married (yet?) but i'd hope if I ever unfortunately have to go through this I my "family" wouldnt spend their mourning period trying to ruin me
It's not rlly cheating if his mom had already passed no?
It's still immoral and gross. It's only been five weeks and he's banging her nurse?
Oh looks like he was emotionally cheating before the mom died. So yes, still cheating.
Yes yes it is
Cheating on someone who's actively passing away is still cheating. In fact it's kinda absolutely worse than normal cheating.
@@thejadewizard6178 I'd say trying to actively ruin someone's (multiple people actually) life for moving on is worse than either.