I wish that were true, but so many people, men included, are drawn to damaged people and make it their mission to "fix" them. The men are jokingly referred to as "Captain save-a-Ho", because so many inexperienced men can get attached to a sex worker and think they are going to rescue them from the life.
Ugh, I cannot stand people who go "I dont need child support, I don't want to be financially tied to the other parent" ITS NOT FOR YOU. IT'S FOR YOUR CHILDREN.
Granted it's not a smart choice. But if she has the finances to ensure her kids can do the things they enjoy without the child support, then I don't think it's a massive issue. What I probably would do is have those payments put into a savings account for each of them would be the smart move.
@@att6484 It IS a massive issue. Child support is his responsibility, and he need not even communicate with Op to pay it. And since she has so much money she can just slit the child support three ways and start an index investment fund for each child as a custoodial account. I am a woman and definitely a feminist (basically equal rights and equal pay for equal work), but at least one of those kids is going to wonder why Daddy doesn't even pay anything for them. She needs to get her head out of her azz and realize there is nothing special or strong about refusing child support. I think if I were the judge (which would never happen) I wouldn't even allow Op to refuse the support.
S2: Damn right you’re single! OP didn’t have a future with her boyfriend once he manifested as a literal man-child. There was no way she could un-hear/un-see that outburst of his. As for the part about the braces… Go see a doctor/therapist. Don’t deny yourself forever because Jake needed both Google Maps and a gumshield.
She doesn't need to say anything about how he broke his vows because they know already that he is behaving irresponsibly, and the reality is the kids don't usually care about what he does to you but rather how what he is doing is affecting THEM. You have to remember that their view of things is not an adult view, but a child's. But definite;y never lie to them. I have also found that you should resist the urge to bad mouth the other parent. If that parent is as bad as you say, it will become apparent to the children without you saying anything, even if he tries to bribe them with money and presents.
S2: Finn and Jake lol Seriously, though, he needs to grow up. You guys agreed you don't do that kind of stuff, but he's mad now he's not receiving it? Really?
Two stories about mental health issues and men. It's always good to remember that you need to seek help yourself. Don't count on the women you know to support you because they can't or won't.
Why you feel bad for him? Are you even listening to the whole story? That man admitted via text that he only fight for custody just to spite OP, and when AP yelled at his kids he did nothing, he neglected the children during his weekend. He DOESN'T deserve to be anywhere near the children, at least for now.
To be fair, he is a bad father; he only wanted custody out of spite, he denied that his girlfriend was abusing his children, drinking in front of them, missed visiting them, ignores them, he barely feeds them, went to a school event drunk, and tries to manipulate his own children to convince Op to get back together with him. He made the kids are so miserable that they basically cry when they talk about him or when they have to visit him, that’s a sign of a horrible father, a real father should never make their children miserable. I hate to say this, but they’re better off without him. If he wants to see his kids again, he needs to get shit together, get a job, go to therapy, get rehab, go to those supervised visits, treat his kids better, and accept that he and Op will never ever get back together.
@@jeniferesparza7770 and, don't forget that if AP weren't dead that man won't even ask OP to take him back, he would continue to torment OP, let AP abused the kids, and all the shits he did.
S2: She got a pixie cut without telling you? Unless she looks like a supermodel he was right lmao. EDIT: getting further into it, yeah he sucks but still wtf did you get a Pixie Cut? Its the cut that girls tell girls they look good in to whittle down the competition 🤣
Story one: wait till OP starts getting back in the dating game, that's when stbx will go really nuts
Facts
Oh yea.
Story 1: this is why i am a firm believer in karma its real and she can be so sweet when your good but when your bad ohhhhh man
Story 1: OP and her kids are absolutely done with this pathetic excuse of a man
Story 2: Oh, hell no; he needed to go. He's not going to find any decent woman to cater to him when he's such a baby.
I wish that were true, but so many people, men included, are drawn to damaged people and make it their mission to "fix" them. The men are jokingly referred to as "Captain save-a-Ho", because so many inexperienced men can get attached to a sex worker and think they are going to rescue them from the life.
Ugh, I cannot stand people who go "I dont need child support, I don't want to be financially tied to the other parent" ITS NOT FOR YOU. IT'S FOR YOUR CHILDREN.
Granted it's not a smart choice. But if she has the finances to ensure her kids can do the things they enjoy without the child support, then I don't think it's a massive issue. What I probably would do is have those payments put into a savings account for each of them would be the smart move.
@@att6484 It IS a massive issue. Child support is his responsibility, and he need not even communicate with Op to pay it. And since she has so much money she can just slit the child support three ways and start an index investment fund for each child as a custoodial account.
I am a woman and definitely a feminist (basically equal rights and equal pay for equal work), but at least one of those kids is going to wonder why Daddy doesn't even pay anything for them. She needs to get her head out of her azz and realize there is nothing special or strong about refusing child support. I think if I were the judge (which would never happen) I wouldn't even allow Op to refuse the support.
S2: Damn right you’re single! OP didn’t have a future with her boyfriend once he manifested as a literal man-child. There was no way she could un-hear/un-see that outburst of his.
As for the part about the braces… Go see a doctor/therapist. Don’t deny yourself forever because Jake needed both Google Maps and a gumshield.
😅😅🤣🤣😂😂
S2:
So he wants all the lovey dovey romantic couple stuff to be given to him but doesn't think he needs to reciprocate
you tell the kids the truth. what daddy did. EXACTLY. that he broke his vows, he decided to choose someone else.
She doesn't need to say anything about how he broke his vows because they know already that he is behaving irresponsibly, and the reality is the kids don't usually care about what he does to you but rather how what he is doing is affecting THEM. You have to remember that their view of things is not an adult view, but a child's.
But definite;y never lie to them. I have also found that you should resist the urge to bad mouth the other parent. If that parent is as bad as you say, it will become apparent to the children without you saying anything, even if he tries to bribe them with money and presents.
story 2: is he a child 😂
Story 1: 🎶 The sweetest woman in the world could be the meanest woman in the world. 🎶
and the school should have called 911 when daddict showed up drunk.
The first story is a perfect example of reaping what you sow.
S2: Finn and Jake lol
Seriously, though, he needs to grow up. You guys agreed you don't do that kind of stuff, but he's mad now he's not receiving it? Really?
The dad needs rehab and get sober before he should see the kids
Story one makes me really happy
So, like, anyone else get distracted by the solid Minecraft footage recently? The glass dome build was dope, btw.
That's when she could have said " the witch is dead " ...but writing it is not nice I guess ...😅
Ain't KARMA GREAT?? 😊😊
Story two names LMAO I was expecting someone named Marcy. Maybe it’s OP.
Why are all these people answering the door the a.I needs to do better.
Now how long after the first story was posted will there/was there an update of the husband ending it all because that's honestly it's inevitable.
And nothing of value would be lost.
Plz tell me op#1 started taping that mess he made in her living room... 8-(
Okay, she did
Two stories about mental health issues and men. It's always good to remember that you need to seek help yourself. Don't count on the women you know to support you because they can't or won't.
Pollution hazardus
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I feel bad for the husband a little i get it he cheated but not even allowed to meet his children at all is fucked up
Why you feel bad for him? Are you even listening to the whole story? That man admitted via text that he only fight for custody just to spite OP, and when AP yelled at his kids he did nothing, he neglected the children during his weekend. He DOESN'T deserve to be anywhere near the children, at least for now.
To be fair, he is a bad father; he only wanted custody out of spite, he denied that his girlfriend was abusing his children, drinking in front of them, missed visiting them, ignores them, he barely feeds them, went to a school event drunk, and tries to manipulate his own children to convince Op to get back together with him. He made the kids are so miserable that they basically cry when they talk about him or when they have to visit him, that’s a sign of a horrible father, a real father should never make their children miserable.
I hate to say this, but they’re better off without him. If he wants to see his kids again, he needs to get shit together, get a job, go to therapy, get rehab, go to those supervised visits, treat his kids better, and accept that he and Op will never ever get back together.
@@jeniferesparza7770 and, don't forget that if AP weren't dead that man won't even ask OP to take him back, he would continue to torment OP, let AP abused the kids, and all the shits he did.
@@chyntiaqalba4372 only saying this cause most people lie about stories to get attention
S2: She got a pixie cut without telling you? Unless she looks like a supermodel he was right lmao.
EDIT: getting further into it, yeah he sucks but still wtf did you get a Pixie Cut? Its the cut that girls tell girls they look good in to whittle down the competition 🤣