Exactly, I'm doctor. I worked in surgery department. All woman use to prefer woman doctor for check up n treatment. Now I'm working in ophthalmology, even here woman tend to get checked by woman Dr. We need career woman . It's not luxury, it's necessity. ❤️❤️
In India many Muslims don't have much Idea about halal and haram..they use religion according to their needs..they think if a woman works then she is doing something haram on the other hand they make women stay in joint family system after marriage where lots of haram mingling of non mehrams happen in the name of family bonding and relationships.. it's so hard to maintain hijab for women after marriage as non mehrams roam around the house half naked and women are forced to talk unnecessarily with those non mehrams in the name of creating a "happy family image"...I am suffering from this torture daily after marriage... When I protest I become the villain.. Only Allah can save us Indian Muslimahs...May Allah protect us from haram and guide everyone around us to the right path..🤲..Ameen
maybe you do not say it like you should. Like if your having a problem with this situation where i think most of women will have, you should talk to your husband privately. with a cool mind, don't heat it up. but allah knows the best what your going through, i just wanted to help and i do not know if i did or not. May Allah guide us to the right path, Ameen.
@@Samin41 this is a most common issue faced by Indian Muslimahs. And the middle aged ppl mix culture and Islam and make Islam very complicated and harsh on women while actually Islam is not harsh on women. Sometimes they even get angry when we tell them that's not what Islam teaches us. They don't wanna listen at all!! May Allah guide us all
In this world, not needing to have a career as a woman are for the privileged. Its a luxury. Its not very practical. In my country, most families wont survive off of one income. My mom is a doctor who speciflizes in a field where very few men work in, becauze of her and female doctors in general, so many people and women feel comfortable in treating themselves. A while ago, there was a flood in my country, and it was female swimmers and divers who rescued women.
@@pink_kunafa345I may not be the commenter but my guess is that the mother might be a gynecologist or something similar which involves a womens privates because most women whether muslim or not wouldnt prefer a male over a female in a field like this as to that might make the women uncomfortable.
@@fairymoon15 you do understand the underlying message here? nursing was kept mostly for women, a career field where only women worked. this is why working for women is not haram but as you can see the medical field is also now a place of free mix, thus for all the more reason to protect ones aura and modesty.
those who are strict about women having job will look for a women gynocologist as soon as their wives have issue. They will look for a woman doctor for anything actually. And yet they have nerves to say woman are not allowed to work. What women were doing at war in Uhud? Why would they give medical support to men? Many of people don't take a time to think and consider. Lack of empathy and seeing forward.
How many women need to be doctors to help the community? 1%? Okay the top 1% of women can do that. What about all the other women doing jobs men can do themselves easily? Should they spend their time away from their family listening to her male boss at work doing a mundane job? At that point, you're basically your boss' work wife. Do you like that?
Not all careers require working with non mehram and why are you calling work as a hang out? So nen going to work hang out with non mehram as well???? Makes no sense, at work you work, and get back home. Most people both men women who are in healthy relationships try to wind up work fast and leave as quickly as possible to go back home. No one hangs out with non mehram unnecessarily. And it goes for both men and women not just women.
@@s.hjawed9247 Men are obligated by Allah to provide for their family. Women are earning as a hobby. You are putting yourself in a non mahrem environment for a hobby. Do you see the difference? Also, what kind of job doesn't require you to be next to or engage with non mehrem men? Please share with us
As long as my man is ready to provide for my parents too and not taunt me about providing for me and my parents, InshaALLAH I won't mind sitting at his home, cooking and cleaning for him. My parents is my responsibility. It’s my duty to provide for them. So if my husband doesn’t want me to earn then he has to take this responsibility. Loud and clear.
If your father has passed away or you are poor then your husband and others can give him zakat (if you don't have money). Your reasoning doesn't make sense. Islam has the answers to all your problems.
Many men mainly want a pure woman despite her career/education but i feel like her educational background matters for the sake and respect of people and how they will look down on her especially today. Also, a woman should have her own income instead of relying on a man all the time
@@mohamedhasan6420 It's not about modernism. It's about how dangerous Muslim husbands have become, and how highly unreliable they are, that you need to have insurance as a virgin woman going into marriage.
Allah has given women the right to be provided for in a marriage. In Islam men and women don't look down on providing for women. I know this may come as a shock to you but not everyone believes in the concept of women relying to men as something bad or evil.
Because ultimately you'll have to be desirable enough to get married to a man one day. If you are unappetising to men, then you will get all the bad proposals and the rest of your life will be much more difficult than it had to be. This is my guess but only Allah knows best.
If you have kids you need to take care of, how do you do both? Do you offload your kids to someone else? If so, then why don't you offload your job to someone else, like your husband? How do you do both?
They say khatija r.a was a businesswomen before she accepted the islam Yaani before marrying prophet pbuh she was a businesswomen Correct me if I'm wrong Jazakallah
@@amigaa9926 Her elder sister Hala and slaves managed her interaction with men...in fact, she bequeathed all her property to Muhammad and became a loyal and submissive housewife to him because she saw a just and honorable husband in him...if women want to do a business, do it through their wali or in his supervision...rampant free mixing is HARAM and advocating for free mixing is opening the way for haram and enabling it...and men have protective jealousy...its a fact that women diminish their value by free mixing because it is a given that men have flirted with her and she has most probably been stripped of her Haya by Allah
@@tasmiyashaikh9964 Khadijah did not stop being a businesswoman after marrying the prophet. After becoming the wife of the Prophet , Khadijah continued her business. What the public knows is that Khadijah handed over all business responsibilities to the prophet , but in fact she continued to work with the Prophet. What must be underlined is that Khadijah did not stop working, but rather contributed with the Prophet in building her business,, but as time went by she gets older so she didn't do as much work as before. tysm I hope this helps😄
There is nothing wrong with having a career - to the ladies, do not waste your time listening to what men want, focus on what you want and the right man will respect it and follow suite. As women it's essential for us to have a career and make a living because I don't have to be reminding you of the instances where men have failed to support us financially. As for the men in the comment section - women aren't made for you, stop acting like they are, they are made for the same purpose as you; to worship Allah swt - and they can do that whilst being a single woman making a living and supporting themselves - women are you equals and if you even think you have the right to treat them as inferiors by even suggesting them that maybe they shouldn't dedicate themselves to their work, then you are wrong and if you don't fix that corrupted mindset then I hope life teaches you that the hard way, amen
Ouch! "to the ladies, do not waste your time listening to what men want". Ladies and gentlemen, this is what a single mum of 11 cats looks like. I hope you're not there yet but if you are, I hope you can snap out of your anger and disdain for your brothers.
It’s simply because he wants to have a certain toxic control over his wife by saying “I’m the bread winner so you obey me” whenever it’s unnecessary and uncomfortable
The fact that you are calling a RIGHT given to the man by Allah as toxic shows your ignorance my sister. The wife must obey her husband, within the boundary of the shariah, as Allah and his messenger command. If a husband is fulfilling his obligations I.e. providing food and shelter etc... then he has every right to tell his wife not to work. Truly liberalism and Feminism has penetrated with our Muslim community. Sad :(
Assalamualikum sister, I hope you are having a good day. Obedience of wife to her husband is ordained by Allah and thus cannot be deemed toxic by definition. Prophet Muhammed (peace be upon him) is the best of Allah's creation, the best human who ever lived and even his wives obeyed him. None of our beloved Nabi's wives had a problem with obeying him. I hope whatever poison you have been injected with against men will leave your brain and once you are free of this indoctrination, you will see the Wisdom of Islam. May Allah give us all the wisdom to see the beauty of Islam. Allah says: "Men are in charge of women by [right of] what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend [for maintenance] from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allah would have them guard. But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance - [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them [lightly]. But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand." (Quran 4::34) Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "Any woman dies while her husband is pleased with her, she will enter Jannah". (Riyad as-Salihin 286)
@@PEACEWITHIN114 I absolutely agree, calling the duty of men to provide for their wives toxic control is stupid. However, it's fine if she still wants to work, I believe. I don't know why you would PREFER to work when you already have everything provided for you. It's kind of dumb in my opinion. Just an extra burden no rational human being should want unless it's just out of pure interest for a line of work.
@@PEACEWITHIN114yeah but a man doesn't need to say it like that. It's like if I as a girl look into my husband's eye and said "I don't need to give you a single penny if you're struggling or sick because you aren't entitled to my financial support under any circumstance." Is it my right to withhold financial support from my husband? Yes it is. However does that mean I should say it so bluntly to his face? No.
I think there's a difference between a woman with a career and a career woman...I think the general sentiment about career women always comes with some sentiment of them sacrificing their family for their career...and if that's what defines them, I don't think anyone wants that...
If our women have career mind within Islamic boundaries and pure work environment we should allow them Insha Allah yeah, Also we should appreciate those type of women 👸🏼
i recommend any women that has no job yet to get a online type work if she feels like she needs to take off burden of her husband's shoulder ,online work has *ENDLESS* opportunities that way you can manage both house duties and assist your husband,AGAIN *IF* you dont have a job and wish to help, but do talk to you husbands about it,if he doesnt wants to ask him his reasoning,and there is nothing wrong with doing work especially if your intention is to help your husband.
well, the person he is talking about, the entire topic is an opinion. Like "most Muslim men think", and yeah I agree. Practicing Muslim men don't want a career minded woman. And the sister was talking about intentions, but that's not the reason at all. You can have the best intentions. But Muslim men don't want you around male coworkers and stuff, and also not have time for family. Of course with not having enough money sometimes we have to.
When there's no problem in something, what evidence you need? Not 100% things will be clearly mentioned as halal in Quran and Hadith. It's about marriage preferences and he said there's nothing wrong in preferring one over another in Islam. What verse or Hadith is required for this? Rather if anyone wants to refute, then they will need specific proof to make it Haram or non preferable.
@@rafatmunshi3572 sis there are several references about the muslim brother being the protector and authority of the muslim wife inside a family. If we let the femine religion inside of our Deen then this will change. For example: if I am working as nurse and I'm making around the same as my husband, won't Shaytan use feminists ideals to let me think that because of how much om earning I should be the authority in the house? Maybe I'm too worried but I see feminimus as great fitna inside our ummah.
Well actually we can find solution to this debate in seerah of Hazrat Fatima and Hazrat Ali where at the time of Nikah, our beloved Prophet (صلی اللہ علیہ والہ وسلم) assigned duties to Harzat Fatima to do the work inside the home and Hazrat Ali to take care of work outside the home. But with that, He (صلی اللہ علیہ والہ وسلم) taught us by practically helping His wives in household chores which is like a guidance to us. Now, when i say women to do the work inside the home, in this global village, there are a lot of opportunities now available for wives to do business or to continue pursuing their studies or whatever they want to do which they should do. Hope you could understand my point.
He forgot that our beloved prophet (pbuh) married a career woman as his first wife. What a an insult to her honor, he should stop issuing commands on behalf of all men. Edit: I may be wrong in some replies and i apologize for lack of in depth knowledge about Khadija (Ra) and prophet Muhmmad (pbuh) love life and family dynamic.
it was a different time back then. they had slaves to do all the chores dear! do you have slaves? who is going to look after the children? after the house? after the marriage? when both parties are working 9 hours a day, are tired whats good in that? I have seen/heard about a lot of infidelity among people in work places, they share their laughter with their colleagues but when they get home they don't give a damn about their spouses. so working for women is very problematic. the main job for a woman is to be at home, raising kids, all other comes next, imho, as necessary.
we need this kind of scholars in our society...who stand with just side... I am Indian here Islamic scholars picture a woman as villain... here Muslim family and men are not at all interested in marrying career women because they associate it as prohibition in Islam... I met a boy when I ask why you people don't educate women n keep them isolating, he replied "those women who go outside of home their generations destroyed because of her" I was broken totally after listening to him... and he belong to very practicing family... I would say if your wife is working you have to help n support her if u want an domestic worker them this video n comment is not for you ! A marriage is a relationship of balance n efforts for both sides not only women side... now marriage is my fear I am 25 n want to keep my own family happy thats it...
I get your point. I'm also Indian Man what he said was wrong that women who go out then their entire generation is destroyed. It's too extremist point of view. Well when that's boy's wife conceive or pregnant or have some gynac issues then they Run whole city to find "Best Female Gynacologist" what a ignorant one can be. I was having same mindset as him which was too extremist but I came to know that about having female Gynacologist or nurse or doctor or teacher any field is essential for society as much as male. What actually men fear about career oriented women is that women start to prioritise career over what's her role stipulated in Quran by Allah that is first obedience to Allah by following commands, obedience towards Husband, raising kid (career women usually argue that it's not solely job of women to raise a child n I agree with this father's role is also important but point must be noted here that Allah made obligatory upon Man to provide financially to his family not women so if man has to balance his work life. Allah made favour on women they don't have to provide financially)
In my opinion women can have any career but it should not go against the Law of Allah that is free mixing with the opposite gender, covering awrah issues in the workplace, neglecting children's needs such as social physical emotional. Children raised upon Islam so that they will make dua for parents after they leave this world, guarding private parts, staying chaste with halal provision.
In India many Muslims don't have much Idea about halal and haram..they use religion according to their needs..they think if a woman works then she is doing something haram on the other hand they make women stay in joint family system after marriage where lots of haram mingling of non mehrams happen in the name of family bonding and relationships.. it's so hard to maintain hijab for women after marriage as non mehrams roam around the house half naked and women are forced to talk unnecessarily with those non mehrams in the name of creating a "happy family image"...I am suffering from this torture daily after marriage... When I protest I become the villain.. Only Allah can save us Indian Muslimahs...May Allah protect us from haram and guide everyone around us to the right path..🤲..Ameen
Indian and Pakistani are the worst. They try to portray their society through religion. But Islam is far away from the dirty culture. Forget to mention Bangladeshi... But some of our Bangladeshi scholars are getting educated from abroads Islamic school and,letting us know the real facts Nowadays. Im happy about THIS.
No, it's not. 4 marriages in Islam is permissible but it's not encouraged. Like This way - working in a halal place is permissible but it's not encouraged in Islam. In our Indian society 4 marriages also don't accept in general though it's halal, Why don't talk for it because of jealousy or you have no business in it ?
Everyone is mostly using the example of only woman - Khadeeja RadiAllahu anhaa, who was continuing his father's business after his death - to become a career woman :) Yet nobody is using the example of Maryam RadiAllahu anhaa, the only woman in whose name there's a whole surah in the Qur'ān , describing the best woman on earth, who was in love with Allāh ﷻ, abiding in her residence and only doing Ibādāh - to become an submissive Ibādāh woman :)
Right. And not only that. But All of the wives of the prophet and daughters of the prophet peace be upon him, were housewives. And used to do house chores. Including the leaders of the ladies of jannah, Hazrat Fatima RA. But they run for exceptions and even lie on that too.
@@clipflips9204 In your narrow world, women can't get sick, they don't need teachers or anything like that? If there are no working women, who's going to treat sick women and teach young girls to read and other subjects? Do you think women only need gynecologists? No, we get ill just like men do; we have different interests, and not everyone loves to do housework. I would rather work 15 hours a day just not to do the dishes, not to cook, etc., because those house chores make me so unhappy and irritated that I want to die. Men, as always, are selfish to the cell level, and don't see anything outside their noses. Men design the world only for their own comfort. You never think about women's comfort. And thats why we need women who work in different fields, because only woman can know what other women needs, how women suffer, etc.
@@clipflips9204 and yet they all used to go to wars and help their nation and their were many women that worked different businesses so why don't you stop accusing people of lying?
@@clipflips9204 and both women are great women, theres nothing wrong with working or being a housewife so long as you keep to the halaal and stay away from the haram
Correction :i MEANT more like a buisness owner,Khadija(RA) never talked to non mahram men to do buisness and mostly had other workers , the modern day 'buisness women" talk to non mahram men and free mix when i said H.Khadija was buisness woman i didt mean it like that.she was owner more than actually dealing with the buisness. Hadrat Khadija was one of the richest business women(owner) in all of arabia( just a reminder),i feel like many men *NOT ALL* may be pressurizing themselves to the SOLE providers despite economic hardships because they believe that it is a masculine trait or dont want to pressurize their women they may say they dont want working wife but at the same time they need help as too much burden can make them mentally un healthy or unstable even.
It got nothing to do with masculinity, please don't bring feminimus into our Deen. Muslim Man have been appointed to be the protector and have the authority inside a family. It is insane to read how many sister of mine are missquoting information about khadija(ra) without evening checking what sort of business she had and how she shifted her work and business over to her husband our prophet Muhammad ssaws. If a Muslim women wants to work for intention of good to there family and Allah then the least we can do is to be picky about our workspace and working hours. It can't be that we have no issues working male colleges while we are married and its a no go that our children suffer because of an empty house. ❤
Was Khadija (ra) leaving her home to hang around non mehrem men from 9 am to 5 pm everyday? Don't insult her by using her name to push your narrative. The wives of Prophet Muhammed (peace be upon him) are the Mothers of the believers. Don't insult my mother.
Obviously Khadija RA was a working woman and so was Ayesha RA if people observe well. She was a scholar and Allah gave her the wisdom and memory which continue to help us even today. There was also Maryam (peace be upon her) who was praying day and night to Allah. We have not read about her doing hiusehold chores too. So I think we need to understand things deeply in our Mislim community rather than see on the surface.
Dear Ladies, If you want to work Work! If you want to be at home be a housewife But Remember your primary responsibility is to look after your children & Husband & not to earn Money You are too responsibile to give a good upbringing to your children If your work interfere in your duties as a mother & wife Leave it for the sake of your family & Allah For a mother children is more important than Money ❤
The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "You will follow the ways of those nations who were before you, span by span and cubit by cubit (i.e., inch by inch) so much so that even if they entered a hole of a mastigure, you would follow them." We said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! (Do you mean) the Jews and the Christians?" He said, "Whom else?"
Work hard until you become independent - sisters no one else will fullfills your needs untill you are capable or have a good & understanding parents/ partner. (just keep Allah in your each journey & the life will be sorted wid lots of joy) Ignore everything else!
Hadith and Quran allow women to work. During the Prophet's time, women were engaged in trade. Those scholars who say that women should not work are ignorant and not scholars
Are you stupid??? That was actually a very logical question and sensible answer Like "Use your intellect" This exact word is written in quran itself Bro please use it Or else it will just go in vain
Do whatever you want ... Family is first to man first and woman both, he marries you the way you are ...you don't want work or you want it , it's your decision....stop those ignorant men from exercise by accepting them ...men who say this use religion for their own benefits, they don't accept their duties ... You married to a woman, you're he provider ! You don't choose her lifestyle ! She's free to work or not ... Please please don't say in religion whatever you want
@homeschooling-4302 she had a servant or representative to deal with outsiders/clients for trading and commercial transactions, so she managed for not mixing with non mahram.
@@homeschooling-4302careful with that word. You are wrong. Have you not researched Khadijah RA whatsoever? You are only speculating that she might’ve needed to go outside. But this was 1400 years ago. Did she need to go into office to hold meetings too 😂
If a woman doesn't have financial security then she's at risk of being used, so it's always better to have a career, a side hustle, or a small project.
@@mihawk_san lol yes he did. He clearly tells women how it is sinful for them to get education because it will make them think they are superior than men. Wake up brother
@@HudaKhizar I think you misunderstood him on this regard. What he said was that education should always come after establishing a home (becoming a mother). What he criticizes most is the mindset of women being career oriented up until they are in their forties then expecting to get married then. The other point he makes is that women who have gone down this path not being satisfied with their spouses because they basically have no need to full heartedly rely on their husbands. And relying on one another is what fosters a strong bond and attachment, which is severely missing on most married couples nowadays.
@@mihawk_san idk where ya get this from that "everything should come after being mother" like and why isn't it for men? Why aren't there no rules like these for men?😂Involvement mother as important as involvement of father.and maybe u should understand he is no one to say this. Not every woman wants to be a mother and those who wants can do it after or before getting education and be a good parent just like men can get education before a dad lol. There is no islamic proof that indicates "relying on spouse makes the bond stronger" all he is doing is spewing his opinion and labeling it as something islamic. Infact marriage of khatija ra and prophet Muhammad saw proves this all whole nonsense wrong. Khatija ra helped prophet saw financially as he was very poor while still having kids and their bond was stronger than anyone else's. Men only pay emphasis on women needing to reply on them financially so that they won't have any means but to stay with them even if they are not full filling their rights and abusing them. As financially independent women do not hesitate to leave when they are being wronged by men. Best way to see how "logical" ur opinion is to see what impact it will have on society of everyone started to follow ur opinion. If u are so against womens education be ready to let a male doctor treat ur wife because thats what will happen if everyone followed ur ideology. U are nothing but a hypocrite that is against womens education yet still want female doctor for their wives and mother. If prophet never said anything abt it or stopped women from getting education who do think u are to? U are absolutely no one. There is a reason why Allah didn't gave u the power to control or influence how women live, because ideology doesn't go with islam, all u can do is potray ur non islamic opinion in islamic light which only have impact on women who had no academic interest in the first place
It truely is a preference for muslim man, generalizing it is a bad idea. I can understand after listening to several lectures on this matter why muslim man might deslike the idea of a wife working be it family or community wise. But please dont just write it of simply, as long as im not in any mixed workspace and im not working full hours it hopefully might not be an issue and a blessing instead❤ P:S: just because im earning money for the household won't take away any of the authority my husband has inside our home. I strongly deslike how feminimus invaded our deen and communities.
These men in the comments are like Khadijah r.a used to work and she was rich at that time but after marrying our beloved prophet she left the business cuz thats not right foe women and all , Listen here she didn’t left but donated all her wealth cuz of islam cuz prophet was poor to set an example to his ummati Allah made him poor he did live and followed each and every step what Allah told to , if he would have been rich then people would have said ohh he was rich he had many he ate three times meal , he had good health cuz he had medicine to eat , he had luxury thats y he followed what allah told , people would have pointed at our prophet but even tho he was Allah’s beloved prophet Allah would have given him everything but he didn’t cuz prophet itself denied it …… plz try to understand it and ask me if u have any doubt in this ….
I don't think its mostly because of work, its because what they wear, how they interact with male colleagues and how open and friendly they appear to the other men. Thats most problematic then the work itself 🙏.
I'm sure most western men would like a career woman. As for the rest of the world especially in Saudi where the men have more money, even the women themselves choose to stay at home
Someone PLEASE send this to FaiyadFit. He is spreading so much misogyny in the name of Islam, and does not consider men and women equal as spouses at all, but rather someone to serve men and basically act like a pet -- obeying everything and not caring about her feelings. He's a big youtuber too, please share this with him.
He doesn't even say that. I watch him and all this content is about promoting healthy halal marriage and self-improvement. Yes, he does shame some clowns but he even censors the faces of the women.
You are clearly too young to understand. Stay away from politics for now because you are dumb. Wait till you've grown up if you want to have a say so bad.
Most muslim women in western countries don't pursue an education to help the ummah, its either because of the ideals of feminism in the west, parents pressuring, the condition where you can't afford crap (so now even if both work they can barely afford anything) or personal desires.
firstly id like to ask you why do you want to pursue a carrier? why do you even go to school to study? ideals feminism of west? can you please tell me what are the goals of feminism? feminism is about insuring equality of women not anti-men or you cant be a housewife a women can pursue a carrier because she doesn't want rely on her partner financially
@@jannahtasnim1622 I find feminism to be incompatible with Islam. Not because feminism allows women to work, Islamically there's nothing wrong with that. But when it comes to what Islam allows for men and women (hijab for women, 4 wives for men, etc.), it's fundamentally incompatible with feminism, since feminism advocates for equality for both genders whereas Islam advocates for EQUITY for both genders, not equality.
I think most of them have really high aspirations and a hardworking spirit. Many women want their parents to live in a comfortable life. Good for them!
@@jannahtasnim1622 Idk if Islam is compatible with feminism. Feminism is abt equality between the genders but Islam has different roles and rights for both genders (ex. hijab for women, man is the main provider, etc.), which is something that feminism is fundamentally against.
Most practicing muslim men in the west which is a small fraction of the muslim men of today don't want career women as their wives. Because the work environment is not suitable for muslim woman that wears hijab etc, now i'm doing everything i can to guarantee that my future wife won't have to work.
A woman working is not a problem at all. Problem is, many sisters these days want to earn money, keep it all to themselves while making sure the husband fulfills all his financial obligations as well as helping around the house. Dear sisters, that is not how things work. Make sure you are not a leech to your partner.
haha, clever way of victim blaming, but the fact remains the same that men like you are called "gold-diggers". you gotta provide for your wife even if she is a multi millionaire and she has full right to keep her money to herself. tadaaa keep crying :((
Ladies don't get discouraged with what was the brother saying. CONCLUSION - Islam gives us full rights. ALLAH has given us full rights so just focus on your education and goals whatever you have thought of. Education is the only thing after your parents which will stand by you every thick and thin. Just focus on your independence. May Allah ease our hearts my dear sisters.
Dear women whatever you do but for the sake of Allah please study and acquire knowledge of Deen and dunya. Also learn some skill which you can implement if you are alone and you have no male mehram in your family.
I advise for the sake of Allah, not to use the symbol in which the greeks used for women which could be found in the thumbnail of the video because to its historical background.
A man set a business so that he can be with his wife and family. If a man like Mufti Menk, I don't think he would mind if his wife working, he is busy working himself, got no time.
A woman having a career and being a mother and wife is like having two careers.. you cant have two successful Careers… you have to choose one or the other … why would a woman put her self in a place that is worse even then men - men dont juggle two careers…. The brother who said to this woman that men dont want career oriented women was spot on …
@@mondrella627 they dont take care of them the way women do and are required to do... women are attentive to all of a child's needs, men may change a diaper once in a while, cook dinner once in a blue moon, its not the same by any stretch.... if a couple have to survive on one income to do the right thing then that's what it is... people want two incomes so they can pay the nanny, take vacations, get that big suburban home.. but it's better to give up those luxuries and instead do justice to your role as a spouse and parent.
@@mondrella627 Father is not mother. Half mother is not full mother. Having a career means your kids will be disadvantaged. If you can't afford your lifestyle then change it. You don't need the fancy things in life. Allah will put barakah in the simple lifestyle.
Of course, there is no problem with that. It is true that it is not recommended to become a lawyer in non-Sharia countries, but there is also no prohibition. because you judge based on a certain law not your not by your choice
But think what kind of work u will be doing once u become a lawyer, dont support the wrong side..but If ur intention is to help people , sure..it's a way to go
Sayida khadija went to events networking with men to choose the best men who trade She also studied in college 4 years She left her children to the nanny or sometimes to the prophet She didn't clean the house the prophet cleaned it She didn't cook also We were feminist before feminism came 😂😂
Do feminists have no shame in lying? There was no college at that time. Prophet pbuh used to manage her business she wasn't the one networking. After marriage she gave away everything and became a housewife. Islam is the polar opposite of kufr ideology like feminism. Do whatever you want to do with your life but Have some shame before attributing lies to family of prophet pbuh.
if you are a muslim, i am ashamed, if you are a non muslim get your facts staright. there were no nannys, no college, no social events with non menhram, such fabrication of islam saddens me to my core. yes, she was a business owner before she got married, she was alone thus she needed to take care of her, yet she did business through mehrams and a chain of command. after she got married to our prophet pbuh, she did no business of any sort, none. this is the same as if the man is unmarried he has to take care of himself by cleaning and cooking for himself, after not so much.
Fact is, I don't mind wife working or having a career if these things are ensured: 1. An workplace or environment where she can maintain Mahram and non-mahram. 2. She can maintain her Porda ( hijab/ vail - hijab is not just covering yourself with a scarf. It is so much more than that). 3. There is no worry about husband being daiyuth. 4. She can have her prayer and perform Islam without hassle. 5. Does not deprive her from her motherhood and motherly duties. 6. Does not deprive her and husband's from spending quality time together with family. 7. A safe workplace that is not exposed to any ism (i.e. feminism, individualism, secularism, lqbt etc). 8. Workplace which does not exploit her femininity. 9. A safe workplace which ensures no Islamic rule violation is occurred. 10. No cheating and haram things and no infidelity.
@@alphauno6614 no if husband is oppressing her and destroying someone's career is like oppression ok and any woman can't live with a man like this you men oppress women in the name of religion you men are oppressor and one more I am not interested to reply your kind of people whose minds are full of hit you men never want women to study and do something in their life women are also human beings but you men treat women like an animal and you think everything is good but you forget that she can tell Allah about your oppressing behaviors on the day of judgement and Islam is not like that , that your kind of men are trying to show Islam doesn't oppress women Allah have told women to obye your husband but he didn't told women to being oppressed by you husband or let him torture you and you know destroying something dreams to be something in life is a biggest sin if someone have done lots of hardwork to achieve something and you enter in there life and destroyed there dream so you are a sinfull a woman can do anything in veil but you men think women are made for only and only household and they are machine to give birth and they are your sexual objects right you men always want women to depend on you buy bejng independent is not a kind of sin you men want women to do slavery and you forget about the judgement day if your wife is crying because of you and she tried to do suicide and she lost her believe in Allah because you don't let her to fulfill her dream and treat her like a slave so you are responsible for each and every tears of her and remember our Islam doesn't oppress women you men like oppressing women not Islam so don't throw your opinion here a women is not made only for doing slavery of you men and you men never recognize her hardwork she does in the house and continue treating her like a shit and you bring concept of Islam no bro Islam is not like that I don't know why in Iran men kill women if thir single hair get visible but no one will punish you men if you done r@PE of a women and you will blame that girl you men always force hijab on women but no Islam is not like that Allah have told you men to lower your eyes first but no you men never do so but yes you will force hijab on women and you men hate feminism but do you know feminism is a weapon that allow women to vote feminism is more better than you toxic kind of muslim men and do you know after listening to you shits no women will want to convert to Islam and yes but a Muslim women can lose her hope and faith from Allah their was a time that I had also lost my hope from Allah because of your kind of men and I use to cry cry and cry for continue some weeks but one day I just opened my phone and I reseved a message in front their was written that some times Allah gives you tears without any reason just for erasing your sins, and do you know on that day I realized that Allah is not toxic like you men and Islam is not like that you guys show us you all should stop this kind of things ok nither you ......Allah knows best what he will do to you men
what scares me the most is that a man marrying just because you have a career so that you can contribute in the household (men usually stop working and start using woman's money for their needs) Most women opt career to be financially independent and mostly because they like what they are doing however when that career becomes a responsibility like its the income on which ur house runs, even if she gets tired she cant leave that job.. Hence she gets both physically and mentally tired.
Watch the MUSLIM SKEPTIC on this topic and feminism. He's much more educated and makes more sense than such companionate imams. He's clear and unfiltered. Unlike mufti menk
Example example example ,reference to quran and hadith . Reference is learning about the mothers of islam , their role included mixing in the society they lived with guidelines . We have the examples first person that embraced islam was a successful entrepreneur business woman , first imam was a woman , warriors on bartle fields were women , during our prophets time (saw) women addressed wuestions directly travelled to the mosque . Men have guidelines when outside their homes placed lowering eyes ,only talking in a linited manner to essential topics same applies to women , hijab is not just clothing first meaning of hijab is intentions. Islam is not a cave man religion its the religion that tells us to learn not just spirually but worldly to and its for botg gender . Alot of this men not wanting xyz is more based on cultral upbringing with the cover of islam . The veru same men who dont wajt their wife to educate or work at times are the very same men that are happy to attend university that was establiahed by muslim woman based on the teaching of islam to educate oneself and the other end of the scale is men whom limted their own education mentally and have clouded yheir voews with xyz upbringing . Behaviour is influenced by intentions. A strong faith person can be surrounded by a millions glasses of milk with a drop of alcohol plsced in it and even their thirst will not allow them to drink it knowing that the one drop of alcohol in that milk will not effect their mind , yet there will be another that will think its ok as I'm thirsty and 99%is milk and that 1% Allah will forgive me as I'm only in a situation of desperation. Will power (disciplibe) and faith go hand in hand in islam . Hiding behind the bushes during a war situation shouting out to warriors and cheering them on doesnt make you a warrior cause your there , makes a warrior is the one that goes out there in the mist of the war (surroundings) and has the ability to fight the enemies (temptation /obstacles) with the armer of your faith . Nothing else matters Muslim men are around non -muslim women yet cause they fail 5o folllow islams guidelines they do thiings against islam yet go home acting according to the religion . Muslim women who dont know their rights islamically will fight for feminist views to a point without knowing they have no reason to fight as islam gave us the rights that the western femist fight for examoke votes,political expression,right to education ,right to work earn and keep all without sharing financially but also tells us to priotise our family . Sometimes knowing that taking a break for a short period from the rat run in modern world is beautiful while we raise and build a faoundation that will forever remain important our marriage and children. Children need the good exampke of muslim parents as role models . Remember our propher used to help with house hold chores ,this is a man of islam (saw) so the mebtally a womans place is inside thats it is inorrrect if those who learn are not willing to twist it with male cultural aspects . Do your own reasing instead of seekinv the opinions of the world around go back to the teye source and not selected sources that are weak in foubdation as evidence
But now days men are using Islam to attack on women and they will never understand this things may be this is the reason Allah will ask to the wife first about the behavior or her husband towards her on the judgemental day
Woman needs to have a career and be independent. what if her husband passed away. what if he turned out to be a bad and abusive man.woman needs to have their own money, freedom and independence to be able to protect themselves.the only man that will tell woman not to study and have a Career are insecure men that wants to control a woman financially and mentally a man that is confident and secure wouldn't be intemidated because a woman is educated and smart.
But the environment of the work must be adapted to conditions islam accepted.. don't speak openly with men .. wear modest .. and so on And women first priority is to give rise to children and raise them correctly.. if she can't handle with work she has to quit it
I wouldn't marry a career woman because I don't need a man when I come home after breaking my back ! And I have Gheerah I don't want my wife serve coffee to another males looking at her I have been working as an HR manager for 1.5 years in my country I know how things happen here even married people choose to forget they are married talking casually, casual touches going to parties together for Males it's a necessity cause they don't have a choice but females have choice to be a homemaker
Please someone reply,I have a doubt are making these animation videos halal I am interested in 2d and 3d animation please someone clear my doubt if it's halal what part should i have to remove for example: from face If i create eyes and mouth only is it permissible.
Those who are giving example about Khadija ra: you are totally wrong. Yes she was a business woman before she was muslim. After marrying prophet Mohammad pbuh and become muslim she gave all her wealth to Mohammad pbuh.
Please don't take a youtube comment on such an important matter, look it up. I can recommend Channels with scholars that can help you understand the full "picture" 😊
@@Arwha-x9y 1. Sheikh Assimal Hakeem 2. Dr. Zahir Naik . I hope it helps and clears any doubts you might have about drawing pictures brother inshallah.
You have to take what he the sheikh in the fish course said with a pinch of salt. Khadijah r.a. Was among the best of women, but she wasn’t a « career woman » as we understand it today. Even though she had a business (that she inherited if I remember correctly) once she got married to the prophet s.a.w. She devoted herself to him. Her husband was more important to her than her « career ». Nowadays’ career woman are so focused on their job that they neglect their husband, which is why men don’t want to marry a « career woman ». It’s not the fact that she has a career, it’s the fact that it is what drains her energy and her devotion.
@@m.hassan8145 in Surah Nisa ayat 32 there is a line " To men is allotted what they earn, and to women what they earn ". Pretty sure the woman's money comes from her job. The Prophet (PBUH) 's wife was a business women too
@@m.hassan8145 in Surah Nisa ayat 32 there is a line " To men is allotted what they earn, and to women what they earn ". What the woman earn came from working
Please stop sharing these kinds of modern liberal trash. The prime duty of a wife is to take care of the children and the household. If there's room then ofcourse she can work. But that's totally different than chasing after a career. Because it is impossible to have a career and fulfill your duties at home. Allah created men and women differently. If everyone fulfills their role the marriage will be in balance in shaa Allah. That still means that the man has authority over his wife.
Do you know who the first wife of the prophet pbuh was? She was a working woman who bankrolled the spread of Islam. Obviously you are not a successful man because you need women to be less than you. Too bad your version of events is not Islam.
Instead of handing all household duties to the wife, just go and help them. Don’t tell me men are so lazy and weak that you can’t do housework. It’s not easy at all. A woman is a human before a wife, a daughter, a mother or a sister. She is a human who has her own dreams and life. What makes y’all think that she will have to sacrifice everything she has or wants just so men can lead an easy life? Fools
It's really not that hard, both my parents worked while I was in school, then we would all reunite at home and live like a normal family lmao idk why you want to make things difficult
These compassionate and feminist "Imams" are getting out of hand totally disrupting the principles of Islam and sunnah of the prophet, People should stop assuming that they have even an inch of authority in explaining islam, they are grass feed by western feminists.
get over yourself. women are not robots, women get sick, if there are not working women like doctors, surgeons, teachers, who's going to treat sick women, and teach women? Or you and your like want to let your wife to die and marry someone else instead?
@@clipflips9204 I'm just innit for the truth and to preserve the traditions and teachings of Islam, not to support some grassfed westernised, modern, feminist so called scholars.
So what mufti menk is saying is just that he is talking about himself. Talking about career minded wives , it is destroying the homes in reality . Such a generic response from a mufti is problematic really. Sheikh is promoting the idea of the west.
Don't use our beloved mother Khadijah (may Allah be pleased with her) to justify feminist desires. Feminists go so far as to straight up lie about her. Why don't you tell the truth? Wasn't she obedient to her husband, the best of creation (Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam)? Wasn't she a home maker? Wasn't she modest? Didn't she have many children whom she looked after? Didn't she go above and beyond to serve her husband and home? She isn't to be used to fulfill your lowly shaytanic desires. May Allah make it easy for Muslims to be in modest traditional homes, communities, and environments again, and to be able to fulfill their natural roles Allah created them for again. May Allah guide the men to be real men with good character that the women folk can truly look up to and follow. And may Allah free everyone from this backwards western liberal feminist athiest secular demonic system that destroys human families, human nature, and all that which is good.
@@amigaa9926 the main job of a women is to raise her kids home in an Islamic way ..that's the most important thing ..but Muslim women's sadly have been indoctrinator by liberal feminism ideas to pursue work and career as the main goal ..stop using liberal argument as it's kufri ideology
This kind of proves the stupidity present in people speaking about what they shouldn't speak about. Understanding & memorisation are 2 different things.
We need doctors, nurse, teachers and nanny women. I don’t want to show any of my body parts to men🗿
men think we are robots, we dont get sick or tired and our dream is kissing their damn asses 24/7.
Exactly! I agree with you as a sister
@@zhaoyaolu8468you chose to be a dog😂
There are non Muslim women for that...
Exactly, I'm doctor. I worked in surgery department. All woman use to prefer woman doctor for check up n treatment. Now I'm working in ophthalmology, even here woman tend to get checked by woman Dr. We need career woman . It's not luxury, it's necessity. ❤️❤️
In India many Muslims don't have much Idea about halal and haram..they use religion according to their needs..they think if a woman works then she is doing something haram on the other hand they make women stay in joint family system after marriage where lots of haram mingling of non mehrams happen in the name of family bonding and relationships.. it's so hard to maintain hijab for women after marriage as non mehrams roam around the house half naked and women are forced to talk unnecessarily with those non mehrams in the name of creating a "happy family image"...I am suffering from this torture daily after marriage... When I protest I become the villain.. Only Allah can save us Indian Muslimahs...May Allah protect us from haram and guide everyone around us to the right path..🤲..Ameen
maybe you do not say it like you should. Like if your having a problem with this situation where i think most of women will have, you should talk to your husband privately.
with a cool mind, don't heat it up.
but allah knows the best what your going through, i just wanted to help and i do not know if i did or not.
May Allah guide us to the right path, Ameen.
May Allah make it easy for you! Have faith in him!
@@Samin41 this is a most common issue faced by Indian Muslimahs. And the middle aged ppl mix culture and Islam and make Islam very complicated and harsh on women while actually Islam is not harsh on women. Sometimes they even get angry when we tell them that's not what Islam teaches us. They don't wanna listen at all!! May Allah guide us all
Are you from Kerala?
@@rasmiyaali978 nope
In this world, not needing to have a career as a woman are for the privileged. Its a luxury. Its not very practical. In my country, most families wont survive off of one income. My mom is a doctor who speciflizes in a field where very few men work in, becauze of her and female doctors in general, so many people and women feel comfortable in treating themselves. A while ago, there was a flood in my country, and it was female swimmers and divers who rescued women.
what field did your mom specialize in, if you dont mind me asking?
bro you definitely can't have a career as a woman where you can't cover your awrah.
@@shadmansudipto7287 Astgfurallah brother there are a lot of different careers alhamdulillah
@@pink_kunafa345I may not be the commenter but my guess is that the mother might be a gynecologist or something similar which involves a womens privates because most women whether muslim or not wouldnt prefer a male over a female in a field like this as to that might make the women uncomfortable.
@@fairymoon15 you do understand the underlying message here? nursing was kept mostly for women, a career field where only women worked. this is why working for women is not haram but as you can see the medical field is also now a place of free mix, thus for all the more reason to protect ones aura and modesty.
He always has the perfect words, such a wise seikh !! This ummah is lucky to have u
those who are strict about women having job will look for a women gynocologist as soon as their wives have issue. They will look for a woman doctor for anything actually. And yet they have nerves to say woman are not allowed to work. What women were doing at war in Uhud? Why would they give medical support to men? Many of people don't take a time to think and consider. Lack of empathy and seeing forward.
How many women need to be doctors to help the community? 1%? Okay the top 1% of women can do that. What about all the other women doing jobs men can do themselves easily? Should they spend their time away from their family listening to her male boss at work doing a mundane job? At that point, you're basically your boss' work wife. Do you like that?
Conservative Muslims are trying to imitate fundamentalist Christians.
Having a career is not a problem as long as you know your priorities
Priority is your husband and kids. If you leave them to go hang with non mahrem men, then how can you say "you know your priorities"?
@@alphauno6614But then again people like you will refuse to take your wife to male doctors but u won't let a female be a doctor.
Not all careers require working with non mehram and why are you calling work as a hang out? So nen going to work hang out with non mehram as well???? Makes no sense, at work you work, and get back home. Most people both men women who are in healthy relationships try to wind up work fast and leave as quickly as possible to go back home. No one hangs out with non mehram unnecessarily. And it goes for both men and women not just women.
@@s.hjawed9247 Men are obligated by Allah to provide for their family. Women are earning as a hobby. You are putting yourself in a non mahrem environment for a hobby. Do you see the difference?
Also, what kind of job doesn't require you to be next to or engage with non mehrem men? Please share with us
Priorities to your wife and the children it's same
@@alphauno6614
As long as my man is ready to provide for my parents too and not taunt me about providing for me and my parents, InshaALLAH I won't mind sitting at his home, cooking and cleaning for him. My parents is my responsibility. It’s my duty to provide for them. So if my husband doesn’t want me to earn then he has to take this responsibility. Loud and clear.
You father is going to provide for his family.
If your father has passed away or you are poor then your husband and others can give him zakat (if you don't have money). Your reasoning doesn't make sense. Islam has the answers to all your problems.
@@alphauno6614 you basically used the word husband in your argument sooooooo
@@inayajavid8345 okay and?
exactly likee whos gonna feed em, you? then okay i will be at home. and no my father will not be able to work when he is 80, not a valid argument.
Many men mainly want a pure woman despite her career/education but i feel like her educational background matters for the sake and respect of people and how they will look down on her especially today. Also, a woman should have her own income instead of relying on a man all the time
Hope you find a modernist of your deen
@@mohamedhasan6420 It's not about modernism. It's about how dangerous Muslim husbands have become, and how highly unreliable they are, that you need to have insurance as a virgin woman going into marriage.
@@nilox2823you need to have an insurance as a WOMAN
Allah has given women the right to be provided for in a marriage. In Islam men and women don't look down on providing for women. I know this may come as a shock to you but not everyone believes in the concept of women relying to men as something bad or evil.
Best comment so far. Exactly specially in this generation a woman should be financially independent
why would I care about what man prefer, why nobody ask about what woman prefer
Because ultimately you'll have to be desirable enough to get married to a man one day. If you are unappetising to men, then you will get all the bad proposals and the rest of your life will be much more difficult than it had to be. This is my guess but only Allah knows best.
It is simple. You can do both with the right person.
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I knew boys were going to cry under this comment
and have ZERO self respect...
@@razamughal4582what the hell do you even mean?
@@fizaAhmed-e3h ANY woman that works like a dog all day only to come home and work AGAIN is a WORTHLESS SLAVE.
If you have kids you need to take care of, how do you do both? Do you offload your kids to someone else? If so, then why don't you offload your job to someone else, like your husband? How do you do both?
@@razamughal4582 For whom or rather for what???
I am so so happy... We are understanding the true meaning of islam ❤❤❤❤ Long live my religion🎉
The true meaning of Islam is women hanging out with non mahrem men while her children are being looked after by someone else?
And even khadija was à businesswoman subhanallah
JazakAllahouma khairan
They say khatija r.a was a businesswomen before she accepted the islam
Yaani before marrying prophet pbuh she was a businesswomen
Correct me if I'm wrong
Jazakallah
lol. she did not go out for work her cousin was managing the business. BTW will you give birth to 6 children after the age of 40 like her?
@@tariqmostafaI couldn't find anything online about her cousin managing her business.
@@amigaa9926 Her elder sister Hala and slaves managed her interaction with men...in fact, she bequeathed all her property to Muhammad and became a loyal and submissive housewife to him because she saw a just and honorable husband in him...if women want to do a business, do it through their wali or in his supervision...rampant free mixing is HARAM and advocating for free mixing is opening the way for haram and enabling it...and men have protective jealousy...its a fact that women diminish their value by free mixing because it is a given that men have flirted with her and she has most probably been stripped of her Haya by Allah
@@tasmiyashaikh9964 Khadijah did not stop being a businesswoman after marrying the prophet. After becoming the wife of the Prophet , Khadijah continued her business. What the public knows is that Khadijah handed over all business responsibilities to the prophet , but in fact she continued to work with the Prophet. What must be underlined is that Khadijah did not stop working, but rather contributed with the Prophet in building her business,, but as time went by she gets older so she didn't do as much work as before. tysm I hope this helps😄
I am female and I am an engineer and your answer just boosted me up alhmdulillah
There is nothing wrong with having a career - to the ladies, do not waste your time listening to what men want, focus on what you want and the right man will respect it and follow suite. As women it's essential for us to have a career and make a living because I don't have to be reminding you of the instances where men have failed to support us financially. As for the men in the comment section - women aren't made for you, stop acting like they are, they are made for the same purpose as you; to worship Allah swt - and they can do that whilst being a single woman making a living and supporting themselves - women are you equals and if you even think you have the right to treat them as inferiors by even suggesting them that maybe they shouldn't dedicate themselves to their work, then you are wrong and if you don't fix that corrupted mindset then I hope life teaches you that the hard way, amen
YES💯💯💯💯💯
Ouch! "to the ladies, do not waste your time listening to what men want". Ladies and gentlemen, this is what a single mum of 11 cats looks like. I hope you're not there yet but if you are, I hope you can snap out of your anger and disdain for your brothers.
@@alphauno6614 all you guys do is telling women what she should and shouldn't do. get a life.
@@alphauno6614 we will not do what random man on internet says
Best comment!!!I totally agree with u. Someone spoke the right thing. 😊
I'm planning to marry a career woman.
If you need more money in your life then get a second job.
@@alphauno6614 then I'll marry a career woman and find a second job. Sounds about right. But I want time with friends, family and children.
Dayooth
@@rakinrahman890astaghfirullah. That’s a loaded word, you have sinned by saying that without actual evidence. Apologise to him brother
@@quinn9074 No I won't
It’s simply because he wants to have a certain toxic control over his wife by saying “I’m the bread winner so you obey me” whenever it’s unnecessary and uncomfortable
The fact that you are calling a RIGHT given to the man by Allah as toxic shows your ignorance my sister. The wife must obey her husband, within the boundary of the shariah, as Allah and his messenger command. If a husband is fulfilling his obligations I.e. providing food and shelter etc... then he has every right to tell his wife not to work. Truly liberalism and Feminism has penetrated with our Muslim community. Sad :(
Assalamualikum sister, I hope you are having a good day. Obedience of wife to her husband is ordained by Allah and thus cannot be deemed toxic by definition. Prophet Muhammed (peace be upon him) is the best of Allah's creation, the best human who ever lived and even his wives obeyed him. None of our beloved Nabi's wives had a problem with obeying him.
I hope whatever poison you have been injected with against men will leave your brain and once you are free of this indoctrination, you will see the Wisdom of Islam. May Allah give us all the wisdom to see the beauty of Islam.
Allah says:
"Men are in charge of women by [right of] what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend [for maintenance] from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allah would have them guard. But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance - [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them [lightly]. But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand." (Quran 4::34)
Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "Any woman dies while her husband is pleased with her, she will enter Jannah". (Riyad as-Salihin 286)
@@PEACEWITHIN114 I absolutely agree, calling the duty of men to provide for their wives toxic control is stupid. However, it's fine if she still wants to work, I believe. I don't know why you would PREFER to work when you already have everything provided for you. It's kind of dumb in my opinion. Just an extra burden no rational human being should want unless it's just out of pure interest for a line of work.
@@PEACEWITHIN114yeah but a man doesn't need to say it like that. It's like if I as a girl look into my husband's eye and said "I don't need to give you a single penny if you're struggling or sick because you aren't entitled to my financial support under any circumstance." Is it my right to withhold financial support from my husband? Yes it is. However does that mean I should say it so bluntly to his face? No.
I think there's a difference between a woman with a career and a career woman...I think the general sentiment about career women always comes with some sentiment of them sacrificing their family for their career...and if that's what defines them, I don't think anyone wants that...
If our women have career mind within Islamic boundaries and pure work environment we should allow them Insha Allah yeah, Also we should appreciate those type of women 👸🏼
Why should we allow them? Who are you to dictate what we should and shouldn't allow? Who are you?
@@alphauno6614 who are you to say we shouldnt allow them?
@@m.aryaanamiri2755 Husbands do have the authority to tell their wife many things. If
i recommend any women that has no job yet to get a online type work if she feels like she needs to take off burden of her husband's shoulder ,online work has *ENDLESS* opportunities that way you can manage both house duties and assist your husband,AGAIN *IF* you dont have a job and wish to help, but do talk to you husbands about it,if he doesnt wants to ask him his reasoning,and there is nothing wrong with doing work especially if your intention is to help your husband.
The whole video is just his opinion. No reference to the quran or hadiths at all.
well, the person he is talking about, the entire topic is an opinion. Like "most Muslim men think", and yeah I agree. Practicing Muslim men don't want a career minded woman. And the sister was talking about intentions, but that's not the reason at all. You can have the best intentions. But Muslim men don't want you around male coworkers and stuff, and also not have time for family. Of course with not having enough money sometimes we have to.
When there's no problem in something, what evidence you need? Not 100% things will be clearly mentioned as halal in Quran and Hadith. It's about marriage preferences and he said there's nothing wrong in preferring one over another in Islam. What verse or Hadith is required for this? Rather if anyone wants to refute, then they will need specific proof to make it Haram or non preferable.
@@rafatmunshi3572 sis there are several references about the muslim brother being the protector and authority of the muslim wife inside a family. If we let the femine religion inside of our Deen then this will change. For example: if I am working as nurse and I'm making around the same as my husband, won't Shaytan use feminists ideals to let me think that because of how much om earning I should be the authority in the house? Maybe I'm too worried but I see feminimus as great fitna inside our ummah.
Well actually we can find solution to this debate in seerah of Hazrat Fatima and Hazrat Ali where at the time of Nikah, our beloved Prophet (صلی اللہ علیہ والہ وسلم) assigned duties to Harzat Fatima to do the work inside the home and Hazrat Ali to take care of work outside the home. But with that, He (صلی اللہ علیہ والہ وسلم) taught us by practically helping His wives in household chores which is like a guidance to us.
Now, when i say women to do the work inside the home, in this global village, there are a lot of opportunities now available for wives to do business or to continue pursuing their studies or whatever they want to do which they should do.
Hope you could understand my point.
@@Lampsofmotivation
He forgot that our beloved prophet (pbuh) married a career woman as his first wife. What a an insult to her honor, he should stop issuing commands on behalf of all men.
Edit: I may be wrong in some replies and i apologize for lack of in depth knowledge about Khadija (Ra) and prophet Muhmmad (pbuh) love life and family dynamic.
She was not a career woman
it was a different time back then. they had slaves to do all the chores dear! do you have slaves?
who is going to look after the children? after the house? after the marriage? when both parties are working 9 hours a day, are tired whats good in that?
I have seen/heard about a lot of infidelity among people in work places, they share their laughter with their colleagues but when they get home they don't give a damn about their spouses.
so working for women is very problematic. the main job for a woman is to be at home, raising kids, all other comes next, imho, as necessary.
One Can Work From Home @@amortalbeing
stop lying
Yeah You are true but in modern world there are so many ignorant people think different
we need this kind of scholars in our society...who stand with just side... I am Indian here Islamic scholars picture a woman as villain...
here Muslim family and men are not at all interested in marrying career women because they associate it as prohibition in Islam... I met a boy when I ask why you people don't educate women n keep them isolating, he replied "those women who go outside of home their generations destroyed because of her" I was broken totally after listening to him... and he belong to very practicing family... I would say if your wife is working you have to help n support her if u want an domestic worker them this video n comment is not for you ! A marriage is a relationship of balance n efforts for both sides not only women side... now marriage is my fear I am 25 n want to keep my own family happy thats it...
I get your point. I'm also Indian Man what he said was wrong that women who go out then their entire generation is destroyed. It's too extremist point of view. Well when that's boy's wife conceive or pregnant or have some gynac issues then they Run whole city to find "Best Female Gynacologist" what a ignorant one can be. I was having same mindset as him which was too extremist but I came to know that about having female Gynacologist or nurse or doctor or teacher any field is essential for society as much as male. What actually men fear about career oriented women is that women start to prioritise career over what's her role stipulated in Quran by Allah that is first obedience to Allah by following commands, obedience towards Husband, raising kid (career women usually argue that it's not solely job of women to raise a child n I agree with this father's role is also important but point must be noted here that Allah made obligatory upon Man to provide financially to his family not women so if man has to balance his work life. Allah made favour on women they don't have to provide financially)
In my opinion women can have any career but it should not go against the Law of Allah that is free mixing with the opposite gender, covering awrah issues in the workplace, neglecting children's needs such as social physical emotional. Children raised upon Islam so that they will make dua for parents after they leave this world, guarding private parts, staying chaste with halal provision.
In India many Muslims don't have much Idea about halal and haram..they use religion according to their needs..they think if a woman works then she is doing something haram on the other hand they make women stay in joint family system after marriage where lots of haram mingling of non mehrams happen in the name of family bonding and relationships.. it's so hard to maintain hijab for women after marriage as non mehrams roam around the house half naked and women are forced to talk unnecessarily with those non mehrams in the name of creating a "happy family image"...I am suffering from this torture daily after marriage... When I protest I become the villain.. Only Allah can save us Indian Muslimahs...May Allah protect us from haram and guide everyone around us to the right path..🤲..Ameen
Indian and Pakistani are the worst. They try to portray their society through religion. But Islam is far away from the dirty culture. Forget to mention Bangladeshi... But some of our Bangladeshi scholars are getting educated from abroads Islamic school and,letting us know the real facts Nowadays. Im happy about THIS.
No, it's not. 4 marriages in Islam is permissible but it's not encouraged. Like This way - working in a halal place is permissible but it's not encouraged in Islam. In our Indian society 4 marriages also don't accept in general though it's halal, Why don't talk for it because of jealousy or you have no business in it ?
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Everyone is mostly using the example of only woman - Khadeeja RadiAllahu anhaa, who was continuing his father's business after his death - to become a career woman :)
Yet nobody is using the example of Maryam RadiAllahu anhaa, the only woman in whose name there's a whole surah in the Qur'ān , describing the best woman on earth, who was in love with Allāh ﷻ, abiding in her residence and only doing Ibādāh - to become an submissive Ibādāh woman :)
Right. And not only that. But All of the wives of the prophet and daughters of the prophet peace be upon him, were housewives. And used to do house chores. Including the leaders of the ladies of jannah, Hazrat Fatima RA.
But they run for exceptions and even lie on that too.
@@clipflips9204 In your narrow world, women can't get sick, they don't need teachers or anything like that? If there are no working women, who's going to treat sick women and teach young girls to read and other subjects? Do you think women only need gynecologists? No, we get ill just like men do; we have different interests, and not everyone loves to do housework. I would rather work 15 hours a day just not to do the dishes, not to cook, etc., because those house chores make me so unhappy and irritated that I want to die. Men, as always, are selfish to the cell level, and don't see anything outside their noses. Men design the world only for their own comfort. You never think about women's comfort. And thats why we need women who work in different fields, because only woman can know what other women needs, how women suffer, etc.
@@clipflips9204 and yet they all used to go to wars and help their nation and their were many women that worked different businesses so why don't you stop accusing people of lying?
and both women are great women, theres nothing wrong with working or being a housewife so long as you keep to the halaal and stay away from the haram
@@clipflips9204 and both women are great women, theres nothing wrong with working or being a housewife so long as you keep to the halaal and stay away from the haram
Correction :i MEANT more like a buisness owner,Khadija(RA) never talked to non mahram men to do buisness and mostly had other workers , the modern day 'buisness women" talk to non mahram men and free mix when i said H.Khadija was buisness woman i didt mean it like that.she was owner more than actually dealing with the buisness.
Hadrat Khadija was one of the richest business women(owner) in all of arabia( just a reminder),i feel like many men *NOT ALL* may be pressurizing themselves to the SOLE providers despite economic hardships because they believe that it is a masculine trait or dont want to pressurize their women they may say they dont want working wife but at the same time they need help as too much burden can make them mentally un healthy or unstable even.
It got nothing to do with masculinity, please don't bring feminimus into our Deen. Muslim Man have been appointed to be the protector and have the authority inside a family. It is insane to read how many sister of mine are missquoting information about khadija(ra) without evening checking what sort of business she had and how she shifted her work and business over to her husband our prophet Muhammad ssaws.
If a Muslim women wants to work for intention of good to there family and Allah then the least we can do is to be picky about our workspace and working hours. It can't be that we have no issues working male colleges while we are married and its a no go that our children suffer because of an empty house. ❤
She got her business from her husband who died. She did not establish it herself as many women wish to do to "prove themselves".
@bliewhale whatever, she was still a businesswoman.
@@tahsinislammahi7346 yeah "whatever" my argument still counts regardless of your "facts". ...sigh really?
Was Khadija (ra) leaving her home to hang around non mehrem men from 9 am to 5 pm everyday? Don't insult her by using her name to push your narrative. The wives of Prophet Muhammed (peace be upon him) are the Mothers of the believers. Don't insult my mother.
The fact that you replace eyes with the letter عين which also means eye in arabic 😅
Obviously Khadija RA was a working woman and so was Ayesha RA if people observe well. She was a scholar and Allah gave her the wisdom and memory which continue to help us even today. There was also Maryam (peace be upon her) who was praying day and night to Allah. We have not read about her doing hiusehold chores too. So I think we need to understand things deeply in our Mislim community rather than see on the surface.
i know mufti menk voice when i hear it
Dear Ladies,
If you want to work Work!
If you want to be at home be a housewife
But Remember your primary responsibility is to look after your children & Husband & not to earn Money
You are too responsibile to give a good upbringing to your children
If your work interfere in your duties as a mother & wife
Leave it for the sake of your family & Allah
For a mother children is more important than Money ❤
Sorry brother the world is not the same both of us have to work to give our kids a future and happiness i know my responsibilities okey
@@K_idk That's great dear
If you are balancing both May Allah make it ease for you
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@@sabaabidi133you’re so well spoken! I’m a sister, thank you for the reminder ❤ I’d like to work and have a family ❤
Masha Allah he always forgets to mention that one Quran verse where Allah swt says we created women so you can find peace in them
The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "You will follow the ways of those nations who were before you, span by span and cubit by cubit (i.e., inch by inch) so much so that even if they entered a hole of a mastigure, you would follow them." We said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! (Do you mean) the Jews and the Christians?" He said, "Whom else?"
Work hard until you become independent - sisters
no one else will fullfills your needs untill you are capable or have a good & understanding parents/ partner.
(just keep Allah in your each journey & the life will be sorted wid lots of joy)
Ignore everything else!
he did not refer to quran or hadith at all
who?
Hadith and Quran allow women to work. During the Prophet's time, women were engaged in trade. Those scholars who say that women should not work are ignorant and not scholars
Are you stupid???
That was actually a very logical question and sensible answer
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"Use your intellect" This exact word is written in quran itself
Bro please use it
Or else it will just go in vain
Mufti menk the speaker here
Khadija r.a was a working women too, what else do you need? And In this video mufti manek is the speaker, you really questioning him?😂
2:42 علامة النجوم تلك هي علامة الصليب و ابحثوا عن مختلف أشكال الصليب و ستجدونها منتشرة في المواقع
Amazing video Allahuma Barik
Do whatever you want ... Family is first to man first and woman both, he marries you the way you are ...you don't want work or you want it , it's your decision....stop those ignorant men from exercise by accepting them ...men who say this use religion for their own benefits, they don't accept their duties ...
You married to a woman, you're he provider ! You don't choose her lifestyle ! She's free to work or not ...
Please please don't say in religion whatever you want
Khadija R.A was a successful woman entrepreneur
Wallahi you are lying. Is she was going to meeting and working in mixed environment outside of her house?
@homeschooling-4302 she had a servant or representative to deal with outsiders/clients for trading and commercial transactions, so she managed for not mixing with non mahram.
@@homeschooling-4302careful with that word. You are wrong. Have you not researched Khadijah RA whatsoever? You are only speculating that she might’ve needed to go outside. But this was 1400 years ago. Did she need to go into office to hold meetings too 😂
@@snowecaddel9454 Works was much harder then.
Machaellah, 2M subscribers. Congrats 🥳
If a woman doesn't have financial security then she's at risk of being used, so it's always better to have a career, a side hustle, or a small project.
Daniel was absolutely right.
Daniel isn't prophet or God to make rulings on women. He is no one
@@HudaKhizar Did he make any rulings? If so, can you mention some, please?
@@mihawk_san lol yes he did. He clearly tells women how it is sinful for them to get education because it will make them think they are superior than men. Wake up brother
@@HudaKhizar I think you misunderstood him on this regard. What he said was that education should always come after establishing a home (becoming a mother). What he criticizes most is the mindset of women being career oriented up until they are in their forties then expecting to get married then. The other point he makes is that women who have gone down this path not being satisfied with their spouses because they basically have no need to full heartedly rely on their husbands. And relying on one another is what fosters a strong bond and attachment, which is severely missing on most married couples nowadays.
@@mihawk_san idk where ya get this from that "everything should come after being mother" like and why isn't it for men? Why aren't there no rules like these for men?😂Involvement mother as important as involvement of father.and maybe u should understand he is no one to say this. Not every woman wants to be a mother and those who wants can do it after or before getting education and be a good parent just like men can get education before a dad lol. There is no islamic proof that indicates "relying on spouse makes the bond stronger" all he is doing is spewing his opinion and labeling it as something islamic. Infact marriage of khatija ra and prophet Muhammad saw proves this all whole nonsense wrong. Khatija ra helped prophet saw financially as he was very poor while still having kids and their bond was stronger than anyone else's. Men only pay emphasis on women needing to reply on them financially so that they won't have any means but to stay with them even if they are not full filling their rights and abusing them. As financially independent women do not hesitate to leave when they are being wronged by men.
Best way to see how "logical" ur opinion is to see what impact it will have on society of everyone started to follow ur opinion. If u are so against womens education be ready to let a male doctor treat ur wife because thats what will happen if everyone followed ur ideology. U are nothing but a hypocrite that is against womens education yet still want female doctor for their wives and mother. If prophet never said anything abt it or stopped women from getting education who do think u are to? U are absolutely no one. There is a reason why Allah didn't gave u the power to control or influence how women live, because ideology doesn't go with islam, all u can do is potray ur non islamic opinion in islamic light which only have impact on women who had no academic interest in the first place
The same man who said women should not work and male doctors should not treat my wife.
Jazakallah Khair
Love how woman is misspelt
It truely is a preference for muslim man, generalizing it is a bad idea.
I can understand after listening to several lectures on this matter why muslim man might deslike the idea of a wife working be it family or community wise.
But please dont just write it of simply, as long as im not in any mixed workspace and im not working full hours it hopefully might not be an issue and a blessing instead❤
P:S: just because im earning money for the household won't take away any of the authority my husband has inside our home. I strongly deslike how feminimus invaded our deen and communities.
Everyone has their preference but I won't take risk on boss baby.
These men in the comments are like Khadijah r.a used to work and she was rich at that time but after marrying our beloved prophet she left the business cuz thats not right foe women and all ,
Listen here she didn’t left but donated all her wealth cuz of islam cuz prophet was poor to set an example to his ummati Allah made him poor he did live and followed each and every step what Allah told to , if he would have been rich then people would have said ohh he was rich he had many he ate three times meal , he had good health cuz he had medicine to eat , he had luxury thats y he followed what allah told , people would have pointed at our prophet but even tho he was Allah’s beloved prophet Allah would have given him everything but he didn’t cuz prophet itself denied it …… plz try to understand it and ask me if u have any doubt in this ….
I don't think its mostly because of work, its because what they wear, how they interact with male colleagues and how open and friendly they appear to the other men. Thats most problematic then the work itself 🙏.
Do you think a married Muslim woman would sleep with her colleague or smth? Get your mind off the gutter.
Very wise
Great lesson mashallah
Having a career is not a problem as long as you know your priorities, And many forget that due to being indoctrinated by Western culture in the west.
Acceptable to
I'm sure most western men would like a career woman. As for the rest of the world especially in Saudi where the men have more money, even the women themselves choose to stay at home
greed is too real nowadays.
Someone PLEASE send this to FaiyadFit. He is spreading so much misogyny in the name of Islam, and does not consider men and women equal as spouses at all, but rather someone to serve men and basically act like a pet -- obeying everything and not caring about her feelings. He's a big youtuber too, please share this with him.
He doesn't even say that. I watch him and all this content is about promoting healthy halal marriage and self-improvement. Yes, he does shame some clowns but he even censors the faces of the women.
You are clearly too young to understand. Stay away from politics for now because you are dumb. Wait till you've grown up if you want to have a say so bad.
@@masterbaits4108he does that. He's far away from being a ideal muslim
Most muslim women in western countries don't pursue an education to help the ummah, its either because of the ideals of feminism in the west, parents pressuring, the condition where you can't afford crap (so now even if both work they can barely afford anything) or personal desires.
if you hate women, just say so
firstly id like to ask you why do you want to pursue a carrier? why do you even go to school to study? ideals feminism of west? can you please tell me what are the goals of feminism? feminism is about insuring equality of women not anti-men or you cant be a housewife a women can pursue a carrier because she doesn't want rely on her partner financially
@@jannahtasnim1622 I find feminism to be incompatible with Islam. Not because feminism allows women to work, Islamically there's nothing wrong with that. But when it comes to what Islam allows for men and women (hijab for women, 4 wives for men, etc.), it's fundamentally incompatible with feminism, since feminism advocates for equality for both genders whereas Islam advocates for EQUITY for both genders, not equality.
I think most of them have really high aspirations and a hardworking spirit. Many women want their parents to live in a comfortable life. Good for them!
@@jannahtasnim1622 Idk if Islam is compatible with feminism. Feminism is abt equality between the genders but Islam has different roles and rights for both genders (ex. hijab for women, man is the main provider, etc.), which is something that feminism is fundamentally against.
what about women working in a free mixing environment? Subhan Allah no mention!
Most practicing muslim men in the west which is a small fraction of the muslim men of today don't want career women as their wives. Because the work environment is not suitable for muslim woman that wears hijab etc, now i'm doing everything i can to guarantee that my future wife won't have to work.
So you will have to provide for her parents too
@@Joseph-o7x Why? Where can't her father provide for his family?
A woman working is not a problem at all.
Problem is, many sisters these days want to earn money, keep it all to themselves while making sure the husband fulfills all his financial obligations as well as helping around the house.
Dear sisters, that is not how things work. Make sure you are not a leech to your partner.
haha, clever way of victim blaming, but the fact remains the same that men like you are called "gold-diggers". you gotta provide for your wife even if she is a multi millionaire and she has full right to keep her money to herself. tadaaa keep crying :((
Ladies don't get discouraged with what was the brother saying.
CONCLUSION - Islam gives us full rights. ALLAH has given us full rights so just focus on your education and goals whatever you have thought of. Education is the only thing after your parents which will stand by you every thick and thin. Just focus on your independence. May Allah ease our hearts my dear sisters.
Dear women whatever you do but for the sake of Allah please study and acquire knowledge of Deen and dunya. Also learn some skill which you can implement if you are alone and you have no male mehram in your family.
Do you have any arabic channel?
As long as she doesn’t prioritise her career over her children
@AndersenTrades you should also take responsibilities of your children.
Subhanallah❤
I advise for the sake of Allah, not to use the symbol in which the greeks used for women which could be found in the thumbnail of the video because to its historical background.
A man set a business so that he can be with his wife and family. If a man like Mufti Menk, I don't think he would mind if his wife working, he is busy working himself, got no time.
A woman having a career and being a mother and wife is like having two careers.. you cant have two successful Careers… you have to choose one or the other … why would a woman put her self in a place that is worse even then men - men dont juggle two careers….
The brother who said to this woman that men dont want career oriented women was spot on …
Men are fathers too, they also have to take care of their kids. Also in this economy its almost impossible to life on one income
@@mondrella627 they dont take care of them the way women do and are required to do... women are attentive to all of a child's needs, men may change a diaper once in a while, cook dinner once in a blue moon, its not the same by any stretch.... if a couple have to survive on one income to do the right thing then that's what it is... people want two incomes so they can pay the nanny, take vacations, get that big suburban home.. but it's better to give up those luxuries and instead do justice to your role as a spouse and parent.
@@mondrella627 Father is not mother. Half mother is not full mother. Having a career means your kids will be disadvantaged. If you can't afford your lifestyle then change it. You don't need the fancy things in life. Allah will put barakah in the simple lifestyle.
Can you please help me out there? Can a true Muslim really study Law?
Of course, there is no problem with that. It is true that it is not recommended to become a lawyer in non-Sharia countries, but there is also no prohibition. because you judge based on a certain law not your not by your choice
What kind of question is this? Of course they can, they are human.
Becoming a lawyer also takes an incredible amount of time and effort, like you don't have time for anything else. Soif you're fine with that..
But think what kind of work u will be doing once u become a lawyer, dont support the wrong side..but If ur intention is to help people , sure..it's a way to go
You’re gonna be a lawyer?! I’ll pray for you ❤
Sayida khadija went to events networking with men to choose the best men who trade
She also studied in college 4 years
She left her children to the nanny or sometimes to the prophet
She didn't clean the house the prophet cleaned it
She didn't cook also
We were feminist before feminism came 😂😂
Bring the evidences from the Qur'an and Hadiths that prove what you're saying is legit.
Do feminists have no shame in lying? There was no college at that time. Prophet pbuh used to manage her business she wasn't the one networking. After marriage she gave away everything and became a housewife. Islam is the polar opposite of kufr ideology like feminism. Do whatever you want to do with your life but Have some shame before attributing lies to family of prophet pbuh.
@@bronzebueno ya college exists 😂
if you are a muslim, i am ashamed, if you are a non muslim get your facts staright. there were no nannys, no college, no social events with non menhram, such fabrication of islam saddens me to my core. yes, she was a business owner before she got married, she was alone thus she needed to take care of her, yet she did business through mehrams and a chain of command. after she got married to our prophet pbuh, she did no business of any sort, none. this is the same as if the man is unmarried he has to take care of himself by cleaning and cooking for himself, after not so much.
@@ammar8256i think maybe the guy is saying sarcastically that all these things didn't exist back then
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Fact is, I don't mind wife working or having a career if these things are ensured:
1. An workplace or environment where she can maintain Mahram and non-mahram.
2. She can maintain her Porda ( hijab/ vail - hijab is not just covering yourself with a scarf. It is so much more than that).
3. There is no worry about husband being daiyuth.
4. She can have her prayer and perform Islam without hassle.
5. Does not deprive her from her motherhood and motherly duties.
6. Does not deprive her and husband's from spending quality time together with family.
7. A safe workplace that is not exposed to any ism (i.e. feminism, individualism, secularism, lqbt etc).
8. Workplace which does not exploit her femininity.
9. A safe workplace which ensures no Islamic rule violation is occurred.
10. No cheating and haram things and no infidelity.
So you should also help her because halping your wife is sunnah of our beloved propet
Feminism means equality ok and it should be there
@@Joseph-o7x nope. The very core idea of feminism is flawed.
@@Joseph-o7x Does that include the concept of wife obeying her husband as Islam stipulates?
@@alphauno6614 no if husband is oppressing her and destroying someone's career is like oppression ok and any woman can't live with a man like this you men oppress women in the name of religion you men are oppressor and one more I am not interested to reply your kind of people whose minds are full of hit you men never want women to study and do something in their life women are also human beings but you men treat women like an animal and you think everything is good but you forget that she can tell Allah about your oppressing behaviors on the day of judgement and Islam is not like that , that your kind of men are trying to show Islam doesn't oppress women Allah have told women to obye your husband but he didn't told women to being oppressed by you husband or let him torture you and you know destroying something dreams to be something in life is a biggest sin if someone have done lots of hardwork to achieve something and you enter in there life and destroyed there dream so you are a sinfull a woman can do anything in veil but you men think women are made for only and only household and they are machine to give birth and they are your sexual objects right you men always want women to depend on you buy bejng independent is not a kind of sin you men want women to do slavery and you forget about the judgement day if your wife is crying because of you and she tried to do suicide and she lost her believe in Allah because you don't let her to fulfill her dream and treat her like a slave so you are responsible for each and every tears of her and remember our Islam doesn't oppress women you men like oppressing women not Islam so don't throw your opinion here a women is not made only for doing slavery of you men and you men never recognize her hardwork she does in the house and continue treating her like a shit and you bring concept of Islam no bro Islam is not like that I don't know why in Iran men kill women if thir single hair get visible but no one will punish you men if you done r@PE of a women and you will blame that girl you men always force hijab on women but no Islam is not like that Allah have told you men to lower your eyes first but no you men never do so but yes you will force hijab on women and you men hate feminism but do you know feminism is a weapon that allow women to vote feminism is more better than you toxic kind of muslim men and do you know after listening to you shits no women will want to convert to Islam and yes but a Muslim women can lose her hope and faith from Allah their was a time that I had also lost my hope from Allah because of your kind of men and I use to cry cry and cry for continue some weeks but one day I just opened my phone and I reseved a message in front their was written that some times Allah gives you tears without any reason just for erasing your sins, and do you know on that day I realized that Allah is not toxic like you men and Islam is not like that you guys show us you all should stop this kind of things ok nither you ......Allah knows best what he will do to you men
what scares me the most is that a man marrying just because you have a career so that you can contribute in the household (men usually stop working and start using woman's money for their needs)
Most women opt career to be financially independent and mostly because they like what they are doing however when that career becomes a responsibility like its the income on which ur house runs, even if she gets tired she cant leave that job..
Hence she gets both physically and mentally tired.
The cur$e of modernism and feminism. You shouldn't even ask such questions from these compassionate imams.
Watch the MUSLIM SKEPTIC on this topic and feminism. He's much more educated and makes more sense than such companionate imams.
He's clear and unfiltered. Unlike mufti menk
Example example example ,reference to quran and hadith .
Reference is learning about the mothers of islam , their role included mixing in the society they lived with guidelines . We have the examples first person that embraced islam was a successful entrepreneur business woman , first imam was a woman , warriors on bartle fields were women , during our prophets time (saw) women addressed wuestions directly travelled to the mosque . Men have guidelines when outside their homes placed lowering eyes ,only talking in a linited manner to essential topics same applies to women , hijab is not just clothing first meaning of hijab is intentions. Islam is not a cave man religion its the religion that tells us to learn not just spirually but worldly to and its for botg gender . Alot of this men not wanting xyz is more based on cultral upbringing with the cover of islam .
The veru same men who dont wajt their wife to educate or work at times are the very same men that are happy to attend university that was establiahed by muslim woman based on the teaching of islam to educate oneself and the other end of the scale is men whom limted their own education mentally and have clouded yheir voews with xyz upbringing . Behaviour is influenced by intentions. A strong faith person can be surrounded by a millions glasses of milk with a drop of alcohol plsced in it and even their thirst will not allow them to drink it knowing that the one drop of alcohol in that milk will not effect their mind , yet there will be another that will think its ok as I'm thirsty and 99%is milk and that 1% Allah will forgive me as I'm only in a situation of desperation.
Will power (disciplibe) and faith go hand in hand in islam .
Hiding behind the bushes during a war situation shouting out to warriors and cheering them on doesnt make you a warrior cause your there , makes a warrior is the one that goes out there in the mist of the war (surroundings) and has the ability to fight the enemies (temptation /obstacles) with the armer of your faith . Nothing else matters
Muslim men are around non -muslim women yet cause they fail 5o folllow islams guidelines they do thiings against islam yet go home acting according to the religion .
Muslim women who dont know their rights islamically will fight for feminist views to a point without knowing they have no reason to fight as islam gave us the rights that the western femist fight for examoke votes,political expression,right to education ,right to work earn and keep all without sharing financially but also tells us to priotise our family . Sometimes knowing that taking a break for a short period from the rat run in modern world is beautiful while we raise and build a faoundation that will forever remain important our marriage and children. Children need the good exampke of muslim parents as role models .
Remember our propher used to help with house hold chores ,this is a man of islam (saw) so the mebtally a womans place is inside thats it is inorrrect if those who learn are not willing to twist it with male cultural aspects .
Do your own reasing instead of seekinv the opinions of the world around go back to the teye source and not selected sources that are weak in foubdation as evidence
But now days men are using Islam to attack on women and they will never understand this things may be this is the reason Allah will ask to the wife first about the behavior or her husband towards her on the judgemental day
Woman needs to have a career and be independent. what if her husband passed away. what if he turned out to be a bad and abusive man.woman needs to have their own money, freedom and independence to be able to protect themselves.the only man that will tell woman not to study and have a Career are insecure men that wants to control a woman financially and mentally a man that is confident and secure wouldn't be intemidated because a woman is educated and smart.
which brother said it? who???
Mufti Simp is telling woman to go work while Allah tells them to stay home. Choose who you want to follow.
But the environment of the work must be adapted to conditions islam accepted.. don't speak openly with men .. wear modest .. and so on
And women first priority is to give rise to children and raise them correctly.. if she can't handle with work she has to quit it
I wouldn't marry a career woman because I don't need a man when I come home after breaking my back !
And I have Gheerah I don't want my wife serve coffee to another males looking at her I have been working as an HR manager for 1.5 years in my country I know how things happen here even married people choose to forget they are married talking casually, casual touches going to parties together for Males it's a necessity cause they don't have a choice but females have choice to be a homemaker
Please someone reply,I have a doubt are making these animation videos halal
I am interested in 2d and 3d animation please someone clear my doubt if it's halal what part should i have to remove for example: from face If i create eyes and mouth only is it permissible.
u can animate it just like they do this video
@@bahjatullah1156 thanks
@@bahjatullah1156 For 3d also?
Bro it’s very haram, you should just stay home and sleep. That’s very halal
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Those who are giving example about Khadija ra: you are totally wrong. Yes she was a business woman before she was muslim. After marrying prophet Mohammad pbuh and become muslim she gave all her wealth to Mohammad pbuh.
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Is making animations of living beings haram? I am a fellow Muslim who loves to draw but stopped it because it's haram
Please don't take a youtube comment on such an important matter, look it up. I can recommend Channels with scholars that can help you understand the full "picture" 😊
@@Leenia18 pls recommend..
@@Arwha-x9y 1. Sheikh Assimal Hakeem 2. Dr. Zahir Naik . I hope it helps and clears any doubts you might have about drawing pictures brother inshallah.
Если мужчине не нужна работающая женщина, то мне не нужен муж.
I'm not happy ! I can access to the link because my country are banned ! But whyyyy 😭😭😭😭
No wonder he is Mufti Pink .. UAE favorite imam
@@tariqmostafa the fact that people are actually liking such a comment about a respected scholar j shows how brain dead y'all are ,
Feminist Imaam
Mufti menk 🤦
You have to take what he the sheikh in the fish course said with a pinch of salt. Khadijah r.a. Was among the best of women, but she wasn’t a « career woman » as we understand it today. Even though she had a business (that she inherited if I remember correctly) once she got married to the prophet s.a.w. She devoted herself to him. Her husband was more important to her than her « career ». Nowadays’ career woman are so focused on their job that they neglect their husband, which is why men don’t want to marry a « career woman ».
It’s not the fact that she has a career, it’s the fact that it is what drains her energy and her devotion.
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Anxiety increased after women working and left the kids alone for 8 hours.
Why so triggered 💀? How about helping her out with the kids and the house work instead of complaining?
instead, you can hire a nanny
@@amigaa9926why woman do what Allah told them to instead of 9 to 5 jobs
@@m.hassan8145 in Surah Nisa ayat 32 there is a line " To men is allotted what they earn, and to women what they earn ". Pretty sure the woman's money comes from her job. The Prophet (PBUH) 's wife was a business women too
@@m.hassan8145 in Surah Nisa ayat 32 there is a line " To men is allotted what they earn, and to women what they earn ". What the woman earn came from working
Please stop sharing these kinds of modern liberal trash. The prime duty of a wife is to take care of the children and the household. If there's room then ofcourse she can work. But that's totally different than chasing after a career. Because it is impossible to have a career and fulfill your duties at home. Allah created men and women differently. If everyone fulfills their role the marriage will be in balance in shaa Allah. That still means that the man has authority over his wife.
Do you know who the first wife of the prophet pbuh was? She was a working woman who bankrolled the spread of Islam. Obviously you are not a successful man because you need women to be less than you. Too bad your version of events is not Islam.
Instead of handing all household duties to the wife, just go and help them. Don’t tell me men are so lazy and weak that you can’t do housework. It’s not easy at all. A woman is a human before a wife, a daughter, a mother or a sister. She is a human who has her own dreams and life. What makes y’all think that she will have to sacrifice everything she has or wants just so men can lead an easy life? Fools
@@OiledOttoman oh, man has authorityy. They just change the word responsibility with authority..Authority is only to Allah
@@Allinone-mw1ev With authority I mean that the man is the protector and mainainer of his wife and his wife needs to obey him.
It's really not that hard, both my parents worked while I was in school, then we would all reunite at home and live like a normal family lmao idk why you want to make things difficult
These compassionate and feminist "Imams" are getting out of hand totally disrupting the principles of Islam and sunnah of the prophet,
People should stop assuming that they have even an inch of authority in explaining islam, they are grass feed by western feminists.
It appears that freequraneducation has also been bought by the same people whose intent is to destroy the family household
Fellow muslim skeptic student? 😅
get over yourself. women are not robots, women get sick, if there are not working women like doctors, surgeons, teachers, who's going to treat sick women, and teach women? Or you and your like want to let your wife to die and marry someone else instead?
@@clipflips9204 I'm just innit for the truth and to preserve the traditions and teachings of Islam, not to support some grassfed westernised, modern, feminist so called scholars.
@@zhaoyaolu8468you carry on living like a dog with ZERO self respect
So what mufti menk is saying is just that he is talking about himself. Talking about career minded wives , it is destroying the homes in reality . Such a generic response from a mufti is problematic really. Sheikh is promoting the idea of the west.
Don't use our beloved mother Khadijah (may Allah be pleased with her) to justify feminist desires. Feminists go so far as to straight up lie about her. Why don't you tell the truth? Wasn't she obedient to her husband, the best of creation (Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam)? Wasn't she a home maker? Wasn't she modest? Didn't she have many children whom she looked after? Didn't she go above and beyond to serve her husband and home?
She isn't to be used to fulfill your lowly shaytanic desires. May Allah make it easy for Muslims to be in modest traditional homes, communities, and environments again, and to be able to fulfill their natural roles Allah created them for again. May Allah guide the men to be real men with good character that the women folk can truly look up to and follow. And may Allah free everyone from this backwards western liberal feminist athiest secular demonic system that destroys human families, human nature, and all that which is good.
nice lecture. But, may Allah save me from "career" oriented women.
mufti simp 😅
@@mohamedelhaddade6371 does helping your working wife with housework decrease manliness?
Never taint the name of a scholar. He is better than you. Never utter such disgusting word choice out your mouth
@@amigaa9926who said that ? He is talking about letting women work outside
@@m.hassan8145 where does Allah forbid women from working inside or outside?
@@amigaa9926 the main job of a women is to raise her kids home in an Islamic way ..that's the most important thing ..but Muslim women's sadly have been indoctrinator by liberal feminism ideas to pursue work and career as the main goal ..stop using liberal argument as it's kufri ideology
This kind of proves the stupidity present in people speaking about what they shouldn't speak about. Understanding & memorisation are 2 different things.
And men like him then look for lady drs for thier wives