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Thanks for your talk. Made me realize why I don't have affairs. I have always been able to self regulate no matter what the stressors have been. Much more important to me to remain trustworthy and always the same in my marriage.
Wow my husband of 43 years of marriage kept repeating this betrayal and hurt for years until he left me without notice in an empty apartment ,ALL GLORY TO THE MOST HIGH GOD YHA that I’m am free hallelujah hallelujah amen
@@leahflower9924 thank you so much ,that's from forgiveness and forgiving myself and prayer counseling and healing I'm still healing and probably will heal forthe remainder of my days but I'm peaceful I'm grateful that he is gone❤🙏
Sorry to hear this CC I have another workshop coming up in April 10, 2021 “Overcoming Shame and Guilt with Family-of-origin Work It will be April 10th Saturday 1-5pm EST on Zoom Sign up on website to get info on workshops www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com/event-details/overcoming-guilt-and-shame-through-family-of-origin-work-workshop Sign up now for early bird price I also have three other workshops for rent or sale on my website: • Introduction to Self-Differentiation-Workshop • Reducing Your Reactivity-Workshop • Getting Your Family-of-Origin Out of You-Workshop www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com Please join as a paid member for $1.99/month on my RUclips channel, click JOIN and support the free videos on my RUclips channel, also you will get notifications of upcoming events and additional
Very wise mr Wise, it has nothing to do, with just the topic, workoholism is also as a lot other things (too much of anything/posses-obsessivenesses) is many times as a mistress, to one or the other part in a relationship, and yes, all dysfunctions is not visible to all the familymembers, at a shallow glance. Sometimes the whole fam-system, or one part do not want to see, or deal with (any problemsolutions) them, at all. Very wise advices in here. Both parts have to be there if solutions are to become real. Thank you for shedding the mists on this :) and by the way, I do believe some of the advices, goes well for all relating.
Mr. Wise, If I know any person who was unfaithful or betrayed by an unfaithful spouse, I will tell them about you. I hope that they will get the counseling that they will need, to work out their differences. And I will gladly give them your phone number. I hear a lot about any people who are unfaithful to their husband or wife. Or else, someone who had been betrayed by an unfaithful spouse and they're very hurt, by the betrayal. I always pray for them. And I hope and pray that they will work out any problems, that they may have.
Lovely Video! Excuse me for chiming in, I would appreciate your opinion. Have you heard the talk about - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (should be on google have a look)? It is a good one off guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the hard work. Ive heard some awesome things about it and my buddy finally got astronomical results with it.
Thanks 😅 I have another workshop coming up in April 10, 2021 “Overcoming Shame and Guilt with Family-of-origin Work It will be April 10th Saturday 1-5pm EST on Zoom Sign up on website to get info on workshops www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com/event-details/overcoming-guilt-and-shame-through-family-of-origin-work-workshop Sign up now for early bird price I also have three other workshops for rent or sale on my website: • Introduction to Self-Differentiation-Workshop • Reducing Your Reactivity-Workshop • Getting Your Family-of-Origin Out of You-Workshop www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com Please join as a paid member for $1.99/month on my RUclips channel, click JOIN and support the free videos on my RUclips channel, also you will get notifications of upcoming events and additional
Interesting. In christian way God is important in the marriage as it builds a way to release the tension to god with prayer. Lean on god and not on others. What a relief for the spouse.
Thanks for your lovely insightful videos Can I ask if you have any tips how to keep an eye on your Girlfriend if she's pretty and going out like gym or office and in case she's having an affair however she's not telling her partner she's living with? As it might break a relationship Thanks
How horrible. How about asking why she doesn't "put out" first. Maybe she has physical or emotional problems. Maybe you're being an asshole … sort of like you are here.
This is moronic. It assumes, essentially, that there is no randomness in life and that humans are programmed to act as they do. Sometimes affairs happen because of an impulse decision. Sometimes they happen because a person realizes his/her spouse is an asshole. The relationship with an affair partner opens the person’s eyes to how much he/she has constricted his/ her horizons by forced faithfulness. Sure, sometimes the dynamics you describe are applicable, but marriage relationships are far too diverse to all fit under a single paradigm such as you are doing here.
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Thanks for your talk. Made me realize why I don't have affairs. I have always been able to self regulate no matter what the stressors have been. Much more important to me to remain trustworthy and always the same in my marriage.
D.H. Fremont me
D.H. Fremont Thank you. Makes me feel like there are some people still out there with loyalty and decency.
Wow my husband of 43 years of marriage kept repeating this betrayal and hurt for years until he left me without notice in an empty apartment ,ALL GLORY TO THE MOST HIGH GOD YHA that I’m am free hallelujah hallelujah amen
me too after 37 years
43 years of marriage you don't even look 43 lol
@@leahflower9924 thank you so much ,that's from forgiveness and forgiving myself and prayer counseling and healing I'm still healing and probably will heal forthe remainder of my days but I'm peaceful I'm grateful that he is gone❤🙏
Awesome!! Just don't fall for it when he comes back - he will check back.
@@laurajane4806 hahahhahahaha already tried, i said Tricks are for kids silly RABBIT 🤣🤣🤣
My issues are perfectionism, addiction to food and shopping, had affairs.
My parents were emotionally stunted and absent.
Sorry to hear this CC
I have another workshop coming up in April 10, 2021
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• Reducing Your Reactivity-Workshop
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Very wise mr Wise, it has nothing to do, with just the topic, workoholism is also as a lot other things (too much of anything/posses-obsessivenesses) is many times as a mistress, to one or the other part in a relationship,
and yes, all dysfunctions is not visible to all the familymembers, at a shallow glance. Sometimes the whole fam-system, or one part do not want to see, or deal with (any problemsolutions) them, at all.
Very wise advices in here. Both parts have to be there if solutions are to become real.
Thank you for shedding the mists on this :) and by the way, I do believe some of the advices, goes well for all relating.
'Intimacy Allergy'! I've always called it 'oil and water', or soil that is so dry that it resists rain.
holy cow, amazing, was recommended to hear Mr. Wise.....amazing
Mr. Wise, If I know any person
who was unfaithful or betrayed by an unfaithful spouse, I will tell them about you. I hope that they will get the counseling that they will need, to work out their differences. And I will gladly give them your phone number. I hear a lot about any people who are unfaithful to their husband or wife. Or else, someone who had been betrayed by an unfaithful spouse and they're very hurt, by the betrayal. I always pray for them. And I hope and pray that they will work out any problems, that they may have.
Well this became very clear in the Chris Watts case
I never knew that Mr. Wise. A thumbs up to you and your informative video.👍👍👍👍👍👍
Lovely Video! Excuse me for chiming in, I would appreciate your opinion. Have you heard the talk about - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (should be on google have a look)? It is a good one off guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the hard work. Ive heard some awesome things about it and my buddy finally got astronomical results with it.
Thank you, I am having a good day after a bad night. Merci 🤝.
You have to make allowances if one of the married couple is a Narcissist. If so, they are a compulsive cheaters.
I needed this. Thank you Jerry ❤ I just fino out for this your's video.
generational curse. his dad cheated on his mom, he cheated many many times on me
This is terrifying . 🤭🤭But great as always. 😊
Thanks 😅
I have another workshop coming up in April 10, 2021
“Overcoming Shame and Guilt with Family-of-origin Work
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• Introduction to Self-Differentiation-Workshop
• Reducing Your Reactivity-Workshop
• Getting Your Family-of-Origin Out of You-Workshop
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Phenomenal video..Wow.
Does that mean cheaters are mostly either narcissistic or active codependent or bpd people and addicts?
yes
Not necessarily. But there are always unmet developmental needs from childhood.
start at 1:29
So true
Interesting. In christian way God is important in the marriage as it builds a way to release the tension to god with prayer. Lean on god and not on others. What a relief for the spouse.
Other regulation! Wow that's familiar 🥺😭
I agree gun was loaded before we even got married it keeps things in perspective
Thanks for your lovely insightful videos
Can I ask if you have any tips how to keep an eye on your Girlfriend if she's pretty and going out like gym or office and in case she's having an affair however she's not telling her partner she's living with? As it might break a relationship
Thanks
Wow
So true
I feel smarter just from watching this video lol
Lol this is a great comment. I appreciate it and you
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Affairs are as common as marriage. LOL
If she dont put out... its time to get out.
LOLOLOLOL
How horrible. How about asking why she doesn't "put out" first. Maybe she has physical or emotional problems. Maybe you're being an asshole … sort of like you are here.
Scorpio sounds like any she would be wise to put you out, with the garbage.
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This is moronic. It assumes, essentially, that there is no randomness in life and that humans are programmed to act as they do. Sometimes affairs happen because of an impulse decision. Sometimes they happen because a person realizes his/her spouse is an asshole. The relationship with an affair partner opens the person’s eyes to how much he/she has constricted his/ her horizons by forced faithfulness. Sure, sometimes the dynamics you describe are applicable, but marriage relationships are far too diverse to all fit under a single paradigm such as you are doing here.