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  • Опубликовано: 18 авг 2024
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Комментарии • 53

  • @jerrywise
    @jerrywise  Год назад

    Finally get your family OUT OF YOU & be the true self you were never allowed to be 👇
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  • @d.h.fremont3027
    @d.h.fremont3027 6 лет назад +45

    Thanks for your talk. Made me realize why I don't have affairs. I have always been able to self regulate no matter what the stressors have been. Much more important to me to remain trustworthy and always the same in my marriage.

    • @margaretkelly8211
      @margaretkelly8211 6 лет назад +1

      D.H. Fremont me

    • @orianna9200
      @orianna9200 5 лет назад +3

      D.H. Fremont Thank you. Makes me feel like there are some people still out there with loyalty and decency.

  • @reneealex4146
    @reneealex4146 5 лет назад +26

    Wow my husband of 43 years of marriage kept repeating this betrayal and hurt for years until he left me without notice in an empty apartment ,ALL GLORY TO THE MOST HIGH GOD YHA that I’m am free hallelujah hallelujah amen

    • @mmommo2025
      @mmommo2025 4 года назад +3

      me too after 37 years

    • @leahflower9924
      @leahflower9924 2 года назад +2

      43 years of marriage you don't even look 43 lol

    • @reneealex4146
      @reneealex4146 2 года назад +4

      @@leahflower9924 thank you so much ,that's from forgiveness and forgiving myself and prayer counseling and healing I'm still healing and probably will heal forthe remainder of my days but I'm peaceful I'm grateful that he is gone❤🙏

    • @laurajane4806
      @laurajane4806 2 года назад +2

      Awesome!! Just don't fall for it when he comes back - he will check back.

    • @reneealex4146
      @reneealex4146 2 года назад +2

      @@laurajane4806 hahahhahahaha already tried, i said Tricks are for kids silly RABBIT 🤣🤣🤣

  • @caycic1
    @caycic1 3 года назад +7

    My issues are perfectionism, addiction to food and shopping, had affairs.
    My parents were emotionally stunted and absent.

    • @jerrywise
      @jerrywise  3 года назад

      Sorry to hear this CC
      I have another workshop coming up in April 10, 2021
      “Overcoming Shame and Guilt with Family-of-origin Work
      It will be April 10th Saturday 1-5pm EST on Zoom
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  • @Levandetag
    @Levandetag 6 лет назад +15

    Very wise mr Wise, it has nothing to do, with just the topic, workoholism is also as a lot other things (too much of anything/posses-obsessivenesses) is many times as a mistress, to one or the other part in a relationship,
    and yes, all dysfunctions is not visible to all the familymembers, at a shallow glance. Sometimes the whole fam-system, or one part do not want to see, or deal with (any problemsolutions) them, at all.
    Very wise advices in here. Both parts have to be there if solutions are to become real.
    Thank you for shedding the mists on this :) and by the way, I do believe some of the advices, goes well for all relating.

  • @danielletirpkoff4167
    @danielletirpkoff4167 6 лет назад +11

    I never knew that Mr. Wise. A thumbs up to you and your informative video.👍👍👍👍👍👍

    • @alex-ip1er
      @alex-ip1er 6 лет назад

      Lovely Video! Excuse me for chiming in, I would appreciate your opinion. Have you heard the talk about - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (should be on google have a look)? It is a good one off guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the hard work. Ive heard some awesome things about it and my buddy finally got astronomical results with it.

  • @danielletirpkoff4167
    @danielletirpkoff4167 6 лет назад +8

    Mr. Wise, If I know any person
    who was unfaithful or betrayed by an unfaithful spouse, I will tell them about you. I hope that they will get the counseling that they will need, to work out their differences. And I will gladly give them your phone number. I hear a lot about any people who are unfaithful to their husband or wife. Or else, someone who had been betrayed by an unfaithful spouse and they're very hurt, by the betrayal. I always pray for them. And I hope and pray that they will work out any problems, that they may have.

  • @herewegokids7
    @herewegokids7 4 года назад +5

    Well this became very clear in the Chris Watts case

  • @orioleaszme3415
    @orioleaszme3415 5 лет назад +3

    'Intimacy Allergy'! I've always called it 'oil and water', or soil that is so dry that it resists rain.

  • @mmommo2025
    @mmommo2025 4 года назад +3

    holy cow, amazing, was recommended to hear Mr. Wise.....amazing

  • @kristine8338
    @kristine8338 5 лет назад +5

    Thank you, I am having a good day after a bad night. Merci 🤝.

  • @toneman335
    @toneman335 5 лет назад +4

    You have to make allowances if one of the married couple is a Narcissist. If so, they are a compulsive cheaters.

  • @mmommo2025
    @mmommo2025 4 года назад +3

    generational curse. his dad cheated on his mom, he cheated many many times on me

  • @Sadiya_Tariq_Shannon
    @Sadiya_Tariq_Shannon 3 года назад +4

    This is terrifying . 🤭🤭But great as always. 😊

    • @jerrywise
      @jerrywise  3 года назад

      Thanks 😅
      I have another workshop coming up in April 10, 2021
      “Overcoming Shame and Guilt with Family-of-origin Work
      It will be April 10th Saturday 1-5pm EST on Zoom
      Sign up on website to get info on workshops
      www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com/event-details/overcoming-guilt-and-shame-through-family-of-origin-work-workshop
      Sign up now for early bird price
      I also have three other workshops for rent or sale on my website:
      • Introduction to Self-Differentiation-Workshop
      • Reducing Your Reactivity-Workshop
      • Getting Your Family-of-Origin Out of You-Workshop
      www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com
      Please join as a paid member for $1.99/month on my RUclips channel, click JOIN and support the free videos on my RUclips channel, also you will get notifications of upcoming events and additional

  • @centpushups
    @centpushups 9 месяцев назад

    Interesting. In christian way God is important in the marriage as it builds a way to release the tension to god with prayer. Lean on god and not on others. What a relief for the spouse.

  • @lizbethbrady8308
    @lizbethbrady8308 6 лет назад +3

    Phenomenal video..Wow.

  • @FatcatTOEFL
    @FatcatTOEFL 5 лет назад

    start at 1:29

  • @rh1660
    @rh1660 3 года назад +3

    Wow

  • @georginajovanovic
    @georginajovanovic 4 года назад +1

    So true

  • @leahflower9924
    @leahflower9924 2 года назад +2

    I feel smarter just from watching this video lol

    • @jerrywise
      @jerrywise  2 года назад +1

      Lol this is a great comment. I appreciate it and you

  • @shezyouknowwho9258
    @shezyouknowwho9258 5 лет назад +4

    Does that mean cheaters are mostly either narcissistic or active codependent or bpd people and addicts?

    • @sanctusignis9746
      @sanctusignis9746 5 лет назад +2

      yes

    • @a.nonymous2089
      @a.nonymous2089 4 года назад +3

      Not necessarily. But there are always unmet developmental needs from childhood.

  • @HappyHolyHealthyLife
    @HappyHolyHealthyLife 2 года назад +2

    Other regulation! Wow that's familiar 🥺😭

    • @leahflower9924
      @leahflower9924 2 года назад +1

      I agree gun was loaded before we even got married it keeps things in perspective

  • @RajNRI
    @RajNRI 3 года назад +1

    Thanks for your lovely insightful videos
    Can I ask if you have any tips how to keep an eye on your Girlfriend if she's pretty and going out like gym or office and in case she's having an affair however she's not telling her partner she's living with? As it might break a relationship
    Thanks

  • @Sovereignlupi
    @Sovereignlupi 2 года назад

    ❤️

  • @Botwire
    @Botwire 5 лет назад

    If she dont put out... its time to get out.

    • @a.nonymous2089
      @a.nonymous2089 4 года назад +2

      How horrible. How about asking why she doesn't "put out" first. Maybe she has physical or emotional problems. Maybe you're being an asshole … sort of like you are here.

    • @mgkos
      @mgkos 3 года назад +3

      Scorpio sounds like any she would be wise to put you out, with the garbage.

    • @leahflower9924
      @leahflower9924 2 года назад

      😅

  • @gnosis6656
    @gnosis6656 Год назад

    This is moronic. It assumes, essentially, that there is no randomness in life and that humans are programmed to act as they do. Sometimes affairs happen because of an impulse decision. Sometimes they happen because a person realizes his/her spouse is an asshole. The relationship with an affair partner opens the person’s eyes to how much he/she has constricted his/ her horizons by forced faithfulness. Sure, sometimes the dynamics you describe are applicable, but marriage relationships are far too diverse to all fit under a single paradigm such as you are doing here.

  • @ArtistryRRene
    @ArtistryRRene 5 лет назад +2

    So true