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Another original video Pea! No doubt Joy will find the toy-boy she is looking for! Please tell her to remember that the secret of staying young is to live honestly, eat slowly, and lie about your age. The second thing is that Foreigners over 65 get a free Bus Pass, so she’ll need to get a season ticket! Lastly, blue pills are sold half-price in packs of 50 …
Hey PEA….. as you may ask anyone, I do ❤️❤️❤️ Filipinas, a whole more then the younger Filipinas. …. They know how to talk. They do understand more. They are Not superficial. They do understand Life that’s not about material things & Life is about Happiness. 🔥 🇵🇭 🔥 🇵🇭 🔥 🇵🇭 🔥 🇵🇭
Hello Filipina Pea. I’ve watched your yourtube channel for a long time and I love your content as I am a content creator myself. So I’ll get right to the point. I’ve found myself in a very unusual/ unique situation (relationship) and could use some advice from someone like yourself that might have a better take on it. I would even be will to collaborate with you and make a video about this story if thats in the cards later down the line to share my story for your channel. Is there any other way for us to connect and speak more detail on this matter?
From my experience there are 10 Filipina widows for every eligible bachelor. After dating many Filipinas ranging in age from 23 to 74, I finally settled on a 70 year old lady, 4 years older than myself and we are happily married. We live in the Philippines. She is honest, frugal and masipag.
I met online, did LDR for almost 7 months, moved to Philippines to meet a woman who was never married and over 50. I DID not come here for anyone else but her. She is a wonderful person and I love her and her family very much. Thank you Philippines !
I am a 61 year old widower from the USA, semi retired engineer and part time Associate Pastor. I’m engaged to a beautiful, kind 45 year old Filipina from the Province, never married and no kids. We are currently waiting for her K1 visa to come to the USA. We both feel very blessed to have found each other.
Just be careful! I met a divorced Filipina with kids. America changes them my ex became a angry feminist. I'm divorced and happy. I've dated many Filipinas, so next year I'm going to the Philippines and live somewhere in Asia. Live with her for 3 yrs before you marry her. You will know her lies bye that time. All Filipina lie, my ex was the best I've ever me. I'm not bitter, just cautious now. Good luck in your search! 😁
@@bobbo7147 9 months have passed since the original comment. A K-1 visa doesn't allow for living together in the USA for 3 years, only 3 months before marriage. K-1 isn't designed for dating. It's meant for wedding planning in the USA. Either they're married now in the USA, she's back home in the Philippines, or she's in the USA illegally from overstaying her visa and not getting married.
You are a master at this. Your interviews are always both deep and light-hearted. She seemed so comfortable with you. Nicely done. I'm amazed that you aren't followed by millions more. You will be in the future, I'm sure.
I'm dating a 56 year old Pinay from the province, she is the best, we have so much in common, we're connected emotionally, have the same values, enjoy traveling the world, honest with each other, share the same goals, open communication and we're "Equal" on decisions making and troubleshooting. Love her so much!
I am 56, married to a 45 year old Filipina. My wife was a former OFW and speaks excellent English. She has a single friend which is in her late 50's who would love to meet someone. I can't find anyone who is interested in America (my country) to even start communicating with her. In fact I haven't found anyone who even wants to see a photo of her. She is a beautiful woman. I believe there are many, many more women like her.
Dude, there's a reson no one's interested. Don't pawn off used up goods on friends. They can get a 30 old Filipina by making one trip to Cebu. It's a man's market.
@@GUITARTIME2024 With a tag like peaceful ☮️ music, sounds like you'd be perfect for an 80 year old Pinay. Come on bro, don't discriminate/discrimiHate. Bleeeee 😜😂
Sweet Pea it was a Joy to listen to your interview with Joy. Those of us in our 60's can be faithful as well and not chase skirt. I was one of those asking for interviews with older Filipinos and really appreciate the effort you put into finding them for us. My choice in a Filipino would be a widow in her 50's and above who have lived life and have a myrid of life experiences that you do not find in a young Filipina. Joy is still frisky in her 50's which is great to hear for those of us who are still young at heart (and don't need a blue pill yet 😉). Although I have not commented for some time I am a loyal watcher who doesn't miss any of your videos as they are such great value. God Bless. 🥰
Congratulations on officially hitting 150,000 subscribers. Your channel growth has been impressive and you should be commended for keeping the content fresh and fun. It is very hard to basically wife a script for a video, ad lib when necessary and edit so well. Drink up and celebrate.
Joy is a delight! You accomplished what many Westerners have been looking for a long time, and that in itself is a remarkable achievement! Joy is a attractive woman and my only concern with her at all, is that being pregnant at 50 can have a lot of complications and may not be productive without attentive medical care. Other than that, I really hope she finds the man of her dreams. She appears to be well worth the effort! Thanks Pea❤️
This is true I met my wife at just 37 and so she had our son around the age of 30 8 and he turned out pretty good she had to have a cesarean though like you say because she just wasn't strong enough to give birth naturally. But my son turned out great I bought her an $800 round of some of the best vitamins on the market he came out strong as a pup.
You handled that interview with grace and humor, Pea. Fantastic perspective for a older filipina. I wish her the best. Sorry I missed you last posting. I had company from out of town for a week. Take care of yourself and I'll see you next week.
I got married to a Filipina when both of us were in her 30s. It was a first (and only) marriage for both of us. I really wanted someone close to my own age. Quite apart from anything else, it has meant that we are now both growing old together. At the same time, I know a few Filipinas who are now in their forties and fifties who have never married or had a partner. It's just simply the hand that life has dealt them. My wife's best friend and former workmate is one. She's the same age as me, but just hasn't found anyone. Edit: Pea, as I'm sure you're aware, foreign men tend to look for love in the Philippines, not so much because they don't like Western women, but rather because Western women don't like THEM. I myself am an excellent example. Around the time that I got married, I used to get local women whining at me "Why a Filipina? What's wrong with New Zealand girls?" The fact is it wasn't me that didn't want NZ girls, it was NZ girls who didn't want me!
That’s a big part of it. The other part is that the laws are against you and as soon as she say,”I’m not happy” she can get half of your resources. The good news is Pea and other foreign women know about this.
I dont think so , it just depend maybe women have a high standard and you dont meet those standards , Edit: I heard its hard to get in countrymen a lady because they know how to play games as well ,and they can make you poor because divorce cost a lot of money while most filipina are frugal and they dont care about money especially if they love you ,they are even willing to sign an prenuptial agreement that they wont get any penny
Pea, when I met and married my Filipina wife Ling we were both widowed. She was 52 and I was 60. I was lucky because I was introduced to her by one of her younger sisters who lived in the same suburb as me in Australia. We met online, she came to Australia less than two months later, and we married in my hometown in Australia just three months after meeting online. I followed her to the Philippines in late August 2017, and we have lived in Cagayan de Oro City Mindanao Philippines since then. We have no children together, but I have five adult step-daughters and five step-granddaughters and a step-grandson here. She has a step-daughter in Australia and a step-son as well. She loves my son Donovan especially because she never had a son of her own! I have had people say online "Why didn't you get a newer model?". I said to them "Because they are too much trouble!". Ling is fluent in English and six Filipino languages, including her tribal language, Higaonon Binukid. I'm "Becoming Bisaya" (sorry na Kulas!). Di talino ko pa sa Bisaya, apan pwede ko nga mag Bisaya sa conversation kada adlaw ug sa chat online. Gihigugma ko ang akong asawa Ling sa wala'y katapusan!
@@ginanovo6285 I'm 59 look 45 and I want one 28-35. What I have found is that if a girl truly likes to french kiss with you, then she is attracted to you. If she doesn't want it or isn't into it, she is not into you.
I just recently married a Filipina that just turned 50. She is single and never been married and no kids. She is also a fairly succesfull sugarcane farmer. When she was 32 she was left at the alter by her former fiance and shunned men ever since, until recently. She is slim, beautiful and looks 20 years younger than her age. I feel like I hit the jackpot. Women like my wife are out there. you just got to find them.
Congratulations! I found my filipina unicorn too! 45, no children, speaks english well, beautiful, intelligent, and not jaded. So blessed! They exist everyone.
@@GUITARTIME2024 LOL don't you have any an idea how embarrassing it is in the Philippines to be left on the altar? Plus the fact that other men probably judged her, too. That it was her fault and was a used good already. I can't blame her if she did shunned men for years.
Great interview that answered all the questions a single man would have to begin a journey to learn more about Joy... who is a beautiful woman with a strong grip on conversational English. This married man wishes Joy all the best. Good luck Joy!
For those who are looking for a mature woman, I have a 41 year old sister. She's been separated for about 18 years and never found another partner ever since because of being busy working abroad. I just want her to be happy. I don't want to see her become old and alone. She works so hard, she deserves to be happy too.
You know Pea, you're sweet. You went out of your way to help your viewers when you're a busy person with plenty of other material you could've run with instead. I hope you find a good husband who cherishes you and makes you happy someday soon 🙂
I have been in a LDR with a Filipina for about 14 months. She is from San Quintin, on Luzon. She is a widow and is 54. She has 6 kids. The youngest is 16 and the rest are over 19. Her English is exceptional. I had many young girls trying to chat with me but I wanted someone closer to my age. I am 63. I am also a widow. I am moving to The Philippines as soon as I sell my house here in the USA. She is still very beautiful and I look forward to meeting her in person soon.
Charles, for God's sake, slow down. Do not sell your house. Have you asked for a Cenomar? Why are you going for an older woman. You could get one in your home country. You wouldn't accept a mom of 6 kids in America, I bet, yet you'll accept it in a country where you have your choice of women.
@@GUITARTIME2024 Seconded!! Even sell your house if it is too big, buy smaller one or apartment to rent out, have Income plus have somewhere if it goes belly up!!
Charles, I must say that I agree with 'Peaceful Music' here. It doesn't really matter that five of her six children are adults now. Their future needs, and the needs of the grandchildren to come, will always be foremost in her mind, and because of that conflict between you and her and the rest of the family is inevitable. I would suggest that you rent out your home in the US for at least the first year that you're in the Philippines, and live off of those rental proceeds until you've assessed what it's like there with your partner and her family. No matter what your LDR partner may have said most Filipinos believe all westerners are rich. Your nest egg from selling your US home will go much quicker than you can even imagine. If you're committed to your current plan 'come hell or high water' then please consider buying a home there that's only in YOUR name. You can't own land there, so if you buy or build a house get a lawyer there and first ensure a lease on the land IN YOUR NAME ONLY for 25 years, with an option to renew that for 25 more years if you so wish. Draw up two wills, one in the US and one in the Philippines, and state in each that if you die within the first 25 years your Filipino home must be sold and the proceeds will go to loved ones back home or to a charity specifically named in your will. If you have American pensions coming to you and a wife gets first dibs on them when you die then you've also incentivized untrustworthy people there in thinking that they don't need you around in order to have a sound financial future. I wish you all the best because true love and commitment is what all of us are searching for. Unfortunately most of us wear blinders during our search. All of these suggestions will ensure that your new wife and her family will take better care of you than even the good Lord himself!
My wife is from Iloilo. She's 46 and I'm 56. We met in Toronto in 2013, and we have a beautiful daughter. Joy is a very sweet lady. She reminds me of the ladies I met while visiting my wife's family.
That’s the way I always said it. Meet them locally so you have a much better chance of getting to know each other properly before making that lifelong commitment. I am in the Vancouver area of Canada and my wife immigrated here three years before I met her and we took two years to get to know each other. I can’t imagine the reasons I would have to have to want to marry somebody I haven’t met yet in person. It only ever seems like sincere desperation mixed in with a lot of superficial desires and gold digging
For those middle aged men looking to meet Filipinas closer to their age I’d like to suggest looking at those ladies who have spent years working as OFWs (overseas foreign workers) and who have returned home to the provinces. There are a fair number who went overseas to work to support children born without husbands. They’ve usually still kept their culture and traditions because they live and mingle mostly with other Filipinas when not working. Where do you meet them in the Philippines? I’m not sure.
the Philippines really is the garden of eden. even if you have problems the people will calm and relax you. if that doesn't work take a ride on a jeepney look at all the sweet beautiful people and all the problems melt away.
@@ominousenough6172 - that's his personal experience though, and who are you to say his experience is false? Besides, I don't think many would take that comment at face value, at least I hope. If they do, that's their gullibility.
@@ominousenough6172 it depends on your perspective. I prefer it real. Instead of some facade of nice infrastructure with a society of weak woke people. BTW there was no electricity in the garden of eden.
Although I'm already married and not connected to Philippines in any way, I watch your videos for the valuable hidden insights on life. Quality and serious programming.
There is something refreshing about this lady. Something about her is unique, maybe? She also seems smart about things from a generational perspective. She's not polluted by "modern" fancies. She's a winner. Uh, and, uh, nice blue dress 😊
@@TheFilipinaPea Funny (?) story: Right after watching a video by AwakenWithJP, I saw your comment. "What the ...," I thought, freaking out, how did she know? Then I realized you were using the last two letters of my YT name (JP).
Geez, this video is just up my alley.I am a 69 year pld widower, and have a L.D.R.,( 6 years), with a almost 50 year old widow.She is very conservative, loving and compassionate.
Great job all the way around, from the interview, and the commitment on your part to search for her! 🙂 She seems like a wonderful lady, and still so full of life, even though life isn't easy there... I have a lot of respect for her wanting to provide for herself, so her daughter can save for her future. I wish her the best of luck! Thanks Pea! ♥️
Your interview with Joy brought a smile to this old man once again Pea. Joy said she would still have kids and that is the biggest reason I would not want a younger Filipina. To me it would not be fair to the young person that their father is an old man and might not be able to share in the more active rolls that a father should. Some of us old men's bodies have taken a beating to get to this age. It was a pleasure to watch Joy 👀❤️the Pea 😃
I got a provincial widow who is in here 50s. Nothing wrong with a 50ish Filipina. They are hidden jewels of the Philippines. Great video about this. Keep on rocking with the videos
FINALLY getting to meet my fiancee on Monday after nearly two years! She's 45 and I'm almost 50. Soooooo much paperwork just getting her out of the Philippines! The CFO certificate was a nightmare!
I met my husband on Tinder when I was 57 and he was 59 and we've been happily married for 4 yrs now. I often tell him that if we had met each other on our early 20's or 30's, our relationship might have not lasted that long. Since we wanted different things back then, today at our age we know exactly what we want and what we can give.... today at our age we're just perfect for each other. :)
I enjoyed watching this video. So refreshing to hear from mature audiences. The comparison between old and new generations is striking and the changes within cultures far reaching with the advent of technology and social media. In some ways, social media has done more harm than good: vanity, greed, hateful agendas, misinformation and rapid spread of lies. On the other hand, there is the good, like the Pea and others who try to make this world a better place to live and love life. (Just a thought.) Sorry for the long sermon! 😂😂
Thanks Pea, you always manage to keep it fresh and constantly find new and interesting topics. I hope Joy manages to find her 73 year old dream guy (who still wants kids). Have a great weekend.
Enlightening video 📹 Miss Pea. Joy is a joy 😊. I dated a Latina here in the states and she didn't have very good English. A recipe for disaster. I thought it was going to be great. I was horribly wrong. Communication is a Very Big key in a relationship. Lessons learned. Stay Safe 💕 💞 🙏 🙏
I met my Filipina on line while I was in the US. She was 50. I was 60. I have been here in the Philippines for 7 years now. We have a great time together
Joy is a very lovely lady for an older woman. I think that the main reason that she is single is because she has a daughter that she still supports financially. Most men consider a woman’s children from other men as more of a liability than an asset. That’s the way it is these days.
I had my choice here of 18-60 yet out of millions of beauties I picked a 27 single mom with a beautiful 8yr old daughter. When you click you won’t care about age or kids. Promise
Kids are a part of the woman as well, and a valuable asset too. It takes a good man, well basically just a man, to support the children, but it will pay of.
No thanks James. I will choose the woman with less extra mouths to feed. Other mens children aren’t an asset. With Filipinas you already have their lazy family begging for a handout. Kind of similar to here in the USA. 😂😂😂😂
A women's children are a precious blessing, I have wanted to marry some because of their children. I have a adopted daughter in Philippines, she is a young adult now, delight of my life.
@@joshuaramirez6039 dead wrong. We live in a wealthy compound 800 miles away from family and I’m a multi millionaire so I don’t have your money issues and I have the best the Philippines has to offer.
Hello Pea, love your vlogs as always. That’s a hard working woman and only makes 4-5 dollars a day. She seems happy so it’s not about the money she makes. You always have such good content. Thanks for posting regularly. Have a super day! 😊
I met my wife of 11 years in Filipino Heart. I believe God brought us together at that time in our lives because of several “ coincidences” and similar life events. I sought an Asian women for many reasons. Of course they are Beautiful, but they are still Faithful to their partner and appreciate the little things in life. Family and Faith are still very important to them. The typical western women has lost sight of what a Woman/Wife/ Partner is all about. They have become very self centered and needy. Her life is a One Way Street. Life in the west is not all peaches & cream as many think. Be careful what you wish for, everything comes at a cost. Love your channel Miss Pea, always good content from many view points. God Bless you 🙏🏼
When I signed up for Filipino Cupid I was bombarded by 20 year olds. I am 60 and wanted someone more mature. After searching through the sight I found a lady in her 50's. We have been skyping since the pandemic. I am headed to Mending in December to meet her.
Hi Captain Pea. It’s been a while. However, I do really admired your ethical values with great characteristics. Bridging connections across the globe from PH to the table of anyone for a life change with outstanding firsthand amicable plates. Thanks Pea.
Hi Pea, interesting interview. It’s interesting hearing her opinions of younger Filipinas. I’m somewhat surprised that she's still hoping to have more children which clearly shows you shouldn’t make assumptions 😁
I saw it as Ate Joy is proud of her continued fertility; I have heard that from a few Filipinas thru the years, that once fertility is done a woman’s femininity is done. I think they feel that men want that in a woman (fertility). But not all Filipinas feel that way I’m sure. This is all just my theorizing! Thank you, great interview. 2 admirable women.
@@UrsulavonB And yet so many younger Filipinas are unwed mothers and the fathers have disappeared. One would think that marriage insurance wasn't a thing there, hmm.
Hi, Pea. I guess I have old-fashioned values and beliefs. When my mother passed away, her mother was living with her. I took in my grandmother, and she lived with me for about 10 years until she passed away. During that time she became my best friend. Interesting interview today. I hope your new friend wasn't lonely during the 14 years after her husband passed away. It seems her views on marrying an older man reflect those of younger Filipinas. I like how she would like to spend a lot of time cuddling with her future husband. Cuddling sounds great. BTW I normally save your video for last on the days you post them, saving the best for last. However, since today is my birthday, I decided to treat myself and watch your video first this morning. So thank you for posting today, especially for posting a video featuring someone from the provinces. Have a good day, Pea.
Well Pea, as a guy who just turned 50 & has already raised 3 adult kids, & am now retired, you can let Joy know ain't nobody trying to start over with babies & little kids!🤣 She's gonna have to adjust her criteria.😁😏
You know , with all the excellent interviews you ve done with single women , older and younger ones , you could probably have a very successful match making gig going on . You have a very good following, and people trust you .
Hi pea, I arrive in Manila, on 28th Nov and stay one month. I will meet my filopina of 13 yes for the first time...now theres a story.. I'm 60, she's 56.. and we both sing.
My Filipina is 51 years old. At that age she is a woman, not a girl. I wouldn't trade her for anyone. I'm 27 years her senior. At her age we still seem to have a lot in common. More than we would have if she were 25 and I were 52. The older woman is likely to come with less baggage than the younger ones. She's seen more of life and may well see more in you than just your income. Fellas there may be fewer available older women but they are there and many of them are pure gold.
Us Americans weren't always like this. Prior to my parents generation who are Baby Boomers, things were a whole lot better. My grandparents generation had great relations as did their parents generation. It was only after my parents generation became of age that the problems began. Divorces and unfaithfulness went sky high.
It only took two generations. In my grandmothers time no woman would allow her husband to do the dishes, take care of the baby or anything like that in front of visitors. She would consider it shameful, as if she needed help performing basic tasks.
Hi Filipino pea , I'm from Australia , my girlfriend is Filipino , she's over 60 years old , I'm 59 , but you know dreams can come true 🧡 ❤ ❤ I always told her even if you were in your 70s I would still go after her 🧡 I noticed that matanda Filipino women do keep their age , it's her mata and her personality that attracts me 👍🙏🧡 Salamat for your videos 🧡🙏👍
Asian women, and Asian people in general are great. I love the way we don’t have to walk on eggshells in your part of the world. My Filipina tells me I’m pink, and she doesn’t want a young handsome man. I find that really funny. She is really complimenting me, but in the UK, people would say she is calling me old and ugly. I bloody love you lot.
The woman still looks pretty good for her age personally i don`t think 50 is old at all maybe to filipinos it might be the case but not in my country if you feel good you look good love the filipinas always have great skin tone and beautiful Dark hair personally that is attractive so i believe filipinas shouldn`t give up on finding love in their mature years there`s always a man out there who find mature filipina woman very attractive even younger men prefer older to young women so good luck to joy in finding her perfect man . Looking beautiful as ever pea love your OOTD !
For me it depends. In my case, I’m 51 years old, also a widow. I’m in a relationship right now he is younger than me, super bait, maasikaso, responsible and super sweet/clingy❤️
What a great attitude Joy has ! She really does come across as a very good person, very rare indeed that a parent in the Philippines does not expect to be supported by her kid when she gets old and despite her humble earnings still shares some of it with her daughter. It's also nice Joy believes there's still a lot of life left in her (which is true) and hasn't simply accepted she will be alone for the rest of her life, I really hope she meets someone even if he isn't 73 yet ! In fact I'd say someone in his late 50s or early 60s would be ideal for her since she's still adventurous and would like to experience what life has to offer. What a wonderful video miss Pea ! BTW seems to me it was only a few months ago when you hit 100K subscribers, just noticed you have over 151K now ! I'm certainly not surprised and congratulations !!!
Great interview, as always. She is very knowledgeable, especially about western women not being loyal and the younger generation being attached to their phones.
I avoided commenting, mainly because all your vlogs are great. Your research, content, and delivery are on point. I choose the Philippines after my divorce and in 2020 I met my match/ soul mate, so to speak. We are busy now getting her ready to join me. At 50+ I think she is God-sent. For Ate Joy, I do hope she finds he mate. I asked for what I wanted, and my girl was asking too. When we checked, we were praying for the same thing. in the same moment. Believe in life.
Very nice Pea! We almost never hear from an older Pinay. She was a joy to watch. I agree that 73yrs old is oddly specific for a choice in partner. I wonder if she already has someone in mind? lol Great video as always!
Congrats for another amazing interview, I'm currently dating a 50-year-old pinay online six months now, I'm 60 so it's a perfect match for me, she's never been married {certificate of non-marriage} one teen son, ppl tells her I'm. the prize and she's lucky, but based on this magnificent interview, i feel like I'm the lucky one, and she's the prize, thank you for your wonderful incite, she's maintaining religious old fashion family and cultural values always acknowledging I'm the man meanwhile keeping her feminine ways in a respectful way not that 20 or 30 something wouldn't but i haven't experienced it
I chatted with many young Filipina we got along but still didn't feel right. And finally one day I found a beautiful Filipina she just turned 43 I'm 56. And we are currently in the k1 process of her coming to America she has 2 older daughters and 3 beautiful apos we are hoping we can bring along in the future mainly so the apo's can get a education here. I've only been there once and made many good Filipino friends I love the Filipino people
Older women from the province usually have a hard time responding in English but comprehend it better if you articulate the words well. Their life revolves around their community, if no one speaks english then there usually is no reason for them to keep up or learn it.
@@woodspirit98 I find that a problem also even though my wife is mostly fluent in English there’s still every now and then some thing that gets in the way where she uses the wrong word and it changes the meaning entirely. Sometimes I’m able to guess what she means but there are many other times where it just came across exactly how it sounded and then there was a big misunderstanding sometimes an argument and when we go over the word that was used versus what the intended meaning is where we find the problem. Which would be nice to avoid if the language barrier wasn’t there. But I always give her massive credit for knowing my language while I barely know her’s at all
I am 61 from America and in perfect health. Nobody here wants a man in their 60's and I am looking for a younger woman who can be young with. The Philippines woman put their man as first priority. I think they have much more family values than here. Great video Pea!
I found a beautiful partner, she is 52 and absolutely fantastic. I am an Englishman living in France. The best thing I have ever done is find a Phillipino woman😊
I married a Filipina in her late 40's, never married and no children. Best move I ever made. We have more in common and the age gap I am older, is not as much.
She sounds like a fun loving lady and intelligent who wants a decent partner. Wish her the very best in her search! The divorce laws in strong Catholic countries make more mature available ladies few and far between. You handled a sensitive interview so well Pea, take care and be well lovely Pea! 😘❤
Attracted to a 48 yrs old single Filipina woman living in Canada I am a tidy bit younger than her. I would not mind married to her. Age is just a number. You said it. “Good character, very loving, very honest, frugal” might I add she can make me laugh. Don’t let age be an handicap.
She’s definitely made a good point especially about America that I don’t like. It seems there’s no family core now. It’s like kids are raised by social media instead of family. Communication is practically leaving families. When it’s supper time it’s fix your plate and go sit in front of the TV or grab your iPad or phone and start watching The Filipina Pea on RUclips 😉😂. But seriously there seems to be no communication amongst family members like there was when I was growing up.
Hi Pea, my fiancé and I watched this vlog of yours before our wedding and kept on thinking of sending a comment after our civil wedding. Now, he is my husband. We got married last October 26 this year. We met on an online dating app way back September 28,2020 but it took 18 months before we finally met in person . I was once a public school teacher and being a former government employee I don’t have time to social that much so I tried my luck about online dating. I was a NBSB before I met him. 😅 He was my first boyfriend . I even told him that I want my boyfriend to be my best friend(in which I can confide with things that I wanna share)lover and husband soon( and it did happen finally💕🥰). We do have an age gap of 21 years . One thing that people in the Philippines would notice upon his first and second visit but I told him in the first place just be ourselves and don’t mind them at all. I am now living in his country and I don’t have any stares seen from people around here like for example if we walk around the suburbs or in the city holding hands. It was really nice to know in your vlog that despite of having a big age gap ,the couple stayed married for such a long time. 😊
Sadly, the chances of Ate Joy finding a 73 year old Westerner who is prepared to learn a foreign language are pretty remote. At 73, Western guys don't want to have to struggle to understand their new wife. On the other hand, she was very brave to be interviewed, and I pray that she can find someone suitable. My own personal story involves finding an OFW (Filipina) while working in Kong Kong (I am a Westerner). My now wife's English was very good since English is (or at least has been) widely used in Hong Kong. Although her boss was Hong Kong Chinese, the children of the family used mainly English at home. My Filipina started working as an OFW early in her life and had not married before leaving home (i.e. the Philippines) and had no children. I consider myself very fortunate. The age difference is 14 years. She is now 49, but we have been apart (due to COVID) for the past almost 3 years. Looking forward to getting back to the Philippines early next year, and bringing my wife to Australia. I think it might be worth your while interviewing OFWs during their annual / biannual holiday back in the Philippines to get their stories about life, working hard overseas to support their parents and families back home. OFWs are a broad range of ages, and to me, they exhibit a great characteristic of love and suffering to ensure family survive as best as possible. In any case, as I am sure you are aware, remittances from OFWs is one of the largest sources of income for the Philippines (and money dealers such as WU!). Keep up the amazing effort that you always put in, Pea. Cheers.
English is widely used in the Philippines too although some of the older generation have more trouble speaking it but hey love finds a way. I've seen lots of old men there with younger women but most of the old guys I know there have women their own age. It all works out I have spent as much as four plus years at a time away from my family just because I had to work to make our life better right now I have spent another 2 1/2 years away from them
I am quite confident that some similar aged guy would like to establish a relationship with someone that does not bury their face into an Android Device....
I am talking to a Filipina right now and am enjoying every minute so far. I am also going back through your videos Pea on advice and what to look and look out for.
I remember several years ago when my wife said how lucky she was that she married a man who didn't hit her. Unfortunately, that type of behavior is often overlooked there in the Philippines. 😥😥
I know one aged 54 never married. She's one of my wife's relatives. She doesn't speak English well, and she is really mean, so we will sell her cheap.😅
For the guys that have never visited. These women are stunning beautiful and know how to pull at your heartstrings. When you “click” I promise you age, a child, poverty, won’t matter at all. Just know “your” limits and be honest with her about the future. It pays off I promise.
Very interesting Pea: How long did it take you to find that needle in the haystack? I'll bet finding a single woman over the age of 30 in the Philippines is kinda like finding a third year high school student here in Canada that is still a virgin. Good video Pea! keep up the great work.
I love her attitude and energy. She is a very good choice for someone looking for an older woman. I'm not in my 70's, I'm 53 and looking for someone younger myself, but I'm confident she will find someone.
Another thing that an older women may offer differently from a much younger Filipina is cleaner skin. I see a trend in young Filipinas to tattoo everything on their body. I have never understood why anyone would like a cartoon or a paragraph of words so much that they want to permanently apply it to their body for the rest of their life. A big turn off for me. Less likely to see on an older woman in the Philippines.
Ate joy Cabrera she is pretty awesome i did like her attitude she is amazing. Ate joy is smart and beautiful todays interview with her was something new pea 👍🏻🇵🇭🏆🏅
This was a fantastic to interview. I just turned 50 last month myself. My long term plan is to retire to the Philippines. Along with that learning Tagalog is at the top of my list. You might have been speaking bisayan which I want to learn too. She would be someone I could see pursuing since I could meet her in the middle. But I am sure you will be getting plenty of contact requests for her info.
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She to young for me 🙂
Another original video Pea!
No doubt Joy will find the toy-boy she is looking for!
Please tell her to remember that the secret of staying young is to live honestly, eat slowly, and lie about your age.
The second thing is that Foreigners over 65 get a free Bus Pass, so she’ll need to get a season ticket!
Lastly, blue pills are sold half-price in packs of 50 …
What is the best dating apps Americans can use to attempt to look for a Filipina partner??
Hey PEA….. as you may ask anyone, I do ❤️❤️❤️ Filipinas, a whole more then the younger Filipinas. …. They know how to talk. They do understand more. They are Not superficial. They do understand Life that’s not about material things & Life is about Happiness.
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Hello Filipina Pea. I’ve watched your yourtube channel for a long time and I love your content as I am a content creator myself.
So I’ll get right to the point. I’ve found myself in a very unusual/ unique situation (relationship) and could use some advice from someone like yourself that might have a better take on it. I would even be will to collaborate with you and make a video about this story if thats in the cards later down the line to share my story for your channel.
Is there any other way for us to connect and speak more detail on this matter?
From my experience there are 10 Filipina widows for every eligible bachelor. After dating many Filipinas ranging in age from 23 to 74, I finally settled on a 70 year old lady, 4 years older than myself and we are happily married. We live in the Philippines. She is honest, frugal and masipag.
An amazing story, Stephen 👍
Best of luck to you both ❤️
Good lord. Lol.
@@GUITARTIME2024 🤣🤣😩
Wow that’s rare
I love to hear it tho ☮️
Lol
I met online, did LDR for almost 7 months, moved to Philippines to meet a woman who was never married and over 50. I DID not come here for anyone else but her. She is a wonderful person and I love her and her family very much. Thank you Philippines !
I am a 61 year old widower from the USA, semi retired engineer and part time Associate Pastor. I’m engaged to a beautiful, kind 45 year old Filipina from the Province, never married and no kids. We are currently waiting for her K1 visa to come to the USA. We both feel very blessed to have found each other.
Get ready for a change when her feet USA soil.
Just be careful! I met a divorced Filipina with kids. America changes them my ex became a angry feminist. I'm divorced and happy. I've dated many Filipinas, so next year I'm going to the Philippines and live somewhere in Asia. Live with her for 3 yrs before you marry her. You will know her lies bye that time. All Filipina lie, my ex was the best I've ever me. I'm not bitter, just cautious now. Good luck in your search! 😁
Mistake! Bro she hits all the red flags and you NEVER EVER bring them to the USA anyways
@@bobbo7147 9 months have passed since the original comment. A K-1 visa doesn't allow for living together in the USA for 3 years, only 3 months before marriage. K-1 isn't designed for dating. It's meant for wedding planning in the USA. Either they're married now in the USA, she's back home in the Philippines, or she's in the USA illegally from overstaying her visa and not getting married.
Agreed, from a percentage success point of view. Don’t bring them to your home country, big mistake statistically.
You are a master at this. Your interviews are always both deep and light-hearted. She seemed so comfortable with you. Nicely done. I'm amazed that you aren't followed by millions more. You will be in the future, I'm sure.
I’ll be waiting for that, John!
And waiting …
And waiting … 😂
I have to agree. She is very engaging to watch. She seems also to have figured out how to attack clicks I dont see where she can go wrong.
The smile when she said her daughter had finished college. God bless her.
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I'm dating a 56 year old Pinay from the province, she is the best, we have so much in common, we're connected emotionally, have the same values, enjoy traveling the world, honest with each other, share the same goals, open communication and we're "Equal" on decisions making and troubleshooting. Love her so much!
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@@annanemeno2822 You sound jealous.
I am 56, married to a 45 year old Filipina. My wife was a former OFW and speaks excellent English. She has a single friend which is in her late 50's who would love to meet someone. I can't find anyone who is interested in America (my country) to even start communicating with her. In fact I haven't found anyone who even wants to see a photo of her. She is a beautiful woman. I believe there are many, many more women like her.
It really helps when you both speak the same language fluently, yes 👍
Dude, there's a reson no one's interested. Don't pawn off used up goods on friends. They can get a 30 old Filipina by making one trip to Cebu. It's a man's market.
I know someone that might be , he is in his mid 60's
@@GUITARTIME2024 With a tag like peaceful ☮️ music, sounds like you'd be perfect for an 80 year old Pinay. Come on bro, don't discriminate/discrimiHate. Bleeeee 😜😂
@@GUITARTIME2024 lol did you even watch the video or any other of peas videos?
That age gap thing is not good long term
Just short term
Sweet Pea it was a Joy to listen to your interview with Joy. Those of us in our 60's can be faithful as well and not chase skirt. I was one of those asking for interviews with older Filipinos and really appreciate the effort you put into finding them for us. My choice in a Filipino would be a widow in her 50's and above who have lived life and have a myrid of life experiences that you do not find in a young Filipina. Joy is still frisky in her 50's which is great to hear for those of us who are still young at heart (and don't need a blue pill yet 😉). Although I have not commented for some time I am a loyal watcher who doesn't miss any of your videos as they are such great value. God Bless. 🥰
Congratulations on officially hitting 150,000 subscribers. Your channel growth has been impressive and you should be commended for keeping the content fresh and fun. It is very hard to basically wife a script for a video, ad lib when necessary and edit so well. Drink up and celebrate.
She must be living her best life
Joy is a delight! You accomplished what many Westerners have been looking for a long time, and that in itself is a remarkable achievement! Joy is a attractive woman and my only concern with her at all, is that being pregnant at 50 can have a lot of complications and may not be productive without attentive medical care. Other than that, I really hope she finds the man of her dreams. She appears to be well worth the effort!
Thanks Pea❤️
She was hard to find, too 😳
@@TheFilipinaPea Yet.. she is awesome. Good interview. It is nice to be 'tito' or 'lolo'... at our age.
This is true I met my wife at just 37 and so she had our son around the age of 30 8 and he turned out pretty good she had to have a cesarean though like you say because she just wasn't strong enough to give birth naturally. But my son turned out great I bought her an $800 round of some of the best vitamins on the market he came out strong as a pup.
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You handled that interview with grace and humor, Pea. Fantastic perspective for a older filipina. I wish her the best. Sorry I missed you last posting. I had company from out of town for a week. Take care of yourself and I'll see you next week.
I got married to a Filipina when both of us were in her 30s. It was a first (and only) marriage for both of us. I really wanted someone close to my own age. Quite apart from anything else, it has meant that we are now both growing old together.
At the same time, I know a few Filipinas who are now in their forties and fifties who have never married or had a partner. It's just simply the hand that life has dealt them. My wife's best friend and former workmate is one. She's the same age as me, but just hasn't found anyone.
Edit: Pea, as I'm sure you're aware, foreign men tend to look for love in the Philippines, not so much because they don't like Western women, but rather because Western women don't like THEM. I myself am an excellent example. Around the time that I got married, I used to get local women whining at me "Why a Filipina? What's wrong with New Zealand girls?" The fact is it wasn't me that didn't want NZ girls, it was NZ girls who didn't want me!
Amen and the same in America sir!
That’s a big part of it. The other part is that the laws are against you and as soon as she say,”I’m not happy” she can get half of your resources.
The good news is Pea and other foreign women know about this.
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I dont think so , it just depend maybe women have a high standard and you dont meet those standards ,
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I heard its hard to get in countrymen a lady because they know how to play games as well ,and they can make you poor because divorce cost a lot of money while most filipina are frugal and they dont care about money especially if they love you ,they are even willing to sign an prenuptial agreement that they wont get any penny
Well said!
56 yrs old, marriage Annuled, educated, fluent in English language, willing to relocate to the USA, looking for an American man 60+ yrs old.
You sounds wonderful, but I so attracted to Pea
Hello, how do you feel about Canada and a 60 year old Canadian man ?
60 year old us man single
Pea, when I met and married my Filipina wife Ling we were both widowed. She was 52 and I was 60. I was lucky because I was introduced to her by one of her younger sisters who lived in the same suburb as me in Australia. We met online, she came to Australia less than two months later, and we married in my hometown in Australia just three months after meeting online. I followed her to the Philippines in late August 2017, and we have lived in Cagayan de Oro City Mindanao Philippines since then. We have no children together, but I have five adult step-daughters and five step-granddaughters and a step-grandson here. She has a step-daughter in Australia and a step-son as well. She loves my son Donovan especially because she never had a son of her own! I have had people say online "Why didn't you get a newer model?". I said to them "Because they are too much trouble!". Ling is fluent in English and six Filipino languages, including her tribal language, Higaonon Binukid. I'm "Becoming Bisaya" (sorry na Kulas!). Di talino ko pa sa Bisaya, apan pwede ko nga mag Bisaya sa conversation kada adlaw ug sa chat online. Gihigugma ko ang akong asawa Ling sa wala'y katapusan!
You did well! A newer model? Why do people want women who would not be attracted to them? Makes little sense to me
@@ginanovo6285 I'm 59 look 45 and I want one 28-35. What I have found is that if a girl truly likes to french kiss with you, then she is attracted to you. If she doesn't want it or isn't into it, she is not into you.
@@puppyupper4565 its not true
I just recently married a Filipina that just turned 50. She is single and never been married and no kids. She is also a fairly succesfull sugarcane farmer. When she was 32 she was left at the alter by her former fiance and shunned men ever since, until recently. She is slim, beautiful and looks 20 years younger than her age. I feel like I hit the jackpot. Women like my wife are out there. you just got to find them.
You did hit the jackpot! ❤️👍❤️
Lol. Dude, you really believe she "shunned" men.lol ! They say what you want to hear.
Congratulations! I found my filipina unicorn too! 45, no children, speaks english well, beautiful, intelligent, and not jaded. So blessed!
They exist everyone.
@@GUITARTIME2024 LOL don't you have any an idea how embarrassing it is in the Philippines to be left on the altar? Plus the fact that other men probably judged her, too. That it was her fault and was a used good already. I can't blame her if she did shunned men for years.
Ask her for a cenomar
Great interview that answered all the questions a single man would have to begin a journey to learn more about Joy... who is a beautiful woman with a strong grip on conversational English. This married man wishes Joy all the best. Good luck Joy!
Most older Filipinas can understand conversational English much better than they can speak it 👍😊
For those who are looking for a mature woman, I have a 41 year old sister. She's been separated for about 18 years and never found another partner ever since because of being busy working abroad. I just want her to be happy. I don't want to see her become old and alone. She works so hard, she deserves to be happy too.
I’m interested
You know Pea, you're sweet. You went out of your way to help your viewers when you're a busy person with plenty of other material you could've run with instead. I hope you find a good husband who cherishes you and makes you happy someday soon 🙂
Thanks so much for that, Gaven! So nice of you to say 👍❤️
I have been in a LDR with a Filipina for about 14 months. She is from San Quintin, on Luzon. She is a widow and is 54. She has 6 kids. The youngest is 16 and the rest are over 19. Her English is exceptional. I had many young girls trying to chat with me but I wanted someone closer to my age. I am 63. I am also a widow. I am moving to The Philippines as soon as I sell my house here in the USA. She is still very beautiful and I look forward to meeting her in person soon.
Charles, for God's sake, slow down. Do not sell your house. Have you asked for a Cenomar? Why are you going for an older woman. You could get one in your home country. You wouldn't accept a mom of 6 kids in America, I bet, yet you'll accept it in a country where you have your choice of women.
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Seconded!!
Even sell your house if it is too big, buy smaller one or apartment to rent out, have Income plus have somewhere if it goes belly up!!
Are you crazy. She has 6 kids and you will be played for every cent they can get from you then throw you under the bus.
Charles, I must say that I agree with 'Peaceful Music' here. It doesn't really matter that five of her six children are adults now. Their future needs, and the needs of the grandchildren to come, will always be foremost in her mind, and because of that conflict between you and her and the rest of the family is inevitable.
I would suggest that you rent out your home in the US for at least the first year that you're in the Philippines, and live off of those rental proceeds until you've assessed what it's like there with your partner and her family. No matter what your LDR partner may have said most Filipinos believe all westerners are rich.
Your nest egg from selling your US home will go much quicker than you can even imagine. If you're committed to your current plan 'come hell or high water' then please consider buying a home there that's only in YOUR name. You can't own land there, so if you buy or build a house get a lawyer there and first ensure a lease on the land IN YOUR NAME ONLY for 25 years, with an option to renew that for 25 more years if you so wish.
Draw up two wills, one in the US and one in the Philippines, and state in each that if you die within the first 25 years your Filipino home must be sold and the proceeds will go to loved ones back home or to a charity specifically named in your will. If you have American pensions coming to you and a wife gets first dibs on them when you die then you've also incentivized untrustworthy people there in thinking that they don't need you around in order to have a sound financial future. I wish you all the best because true love and commitment is what all of us are searching for. Unfortunately most of us wear blinders during our search.
All of these suggestions will ensure that your new wife and her family will take better care of you than even the good Lord himself!
Good to hear sir
I wish you the best !
My wife is from Iloilo. She's 46 and I'm 56.
We met in Toronto in 2013, and we have a beautiful daughter.
Joy is a very sweet lady. She reminds me of the ladies I met while visiting my wife's family.
That’s the way I always said it. Meet them locally so you have a much better chance of getting to know each other properly before making that lifelong commitment. I am in the Vancouver area of Canada and my wife immigrated here three years before I met her and we took two years to get to know each other. I can’t imagine the reasons I would have to have to want to marry somebody I haven’t met yet in person. It only ever seems like sincere desperation mixed in with a lot of superficial desires and gold digging
For those middle aged men looking to meet Filipinas closer to their age I’d like to suggest looking at those ladies who have spent years working as OFWs (overseas foreign workers) and who have returned home to the provinces. There are a fair number who went overseas to work to support children born without husbands. They’ve usually still kept their culture and traditions because they live and mingle mostly with other Filipinas when not working. Where do you meet them in the Philippines? I’m not sure.
Not a bad idea, JLA 👍👍👍
the Philippines really is the garden of eden. even if you have problems the people will calm and relax you. if that doesn't work take a ride on a jeepney look at all the sweet beautiful people and all the problems melt away.
I love jeepneys and the people as well! 🙂
I’m glad you feel that way 👍❤️😊
@@ominousenough6172 - that's his personal experience though, and who are you to say his experience is false? Besides, I don't think many would take that comment at face value, at least I hope. If they do, that's their gullibility.
@@ominousenough6172 it depends on your perspective. I prefer it real. Instead of some facade of nice infrastructure with a society of weak woke people. BTW there was no electricity in the garden of eden.
Although I'm already married and not connected to Philippines in any way, I watch your videos for the valuable hidden insights on life.
Quality and serious programming.
There is something refreshing about this lady. Something about her is unique, maybe? She also seems smart about things from a generational perspective. She's not polluted by "modern" fancies. She's a winner.
Uh, and, uh, nice blue dress 😊
Thanks JP 👍😂❤️
@@TheFilipinaPea Funny (?) story: Right after watching a video by AwakenWithJP, I saw your comment. "What the ...," I thought, freaking out, how did she know? Then I realized you were using the last two letters of my YT name (JP).
Geez, this video is just up my alley.I am a 69 year pld widower, and have a L.D.R.,( 6 years), with a almost 50 year old widow.She is very conservative, loving and compassionate.
Great job all the way around, from the interview, and the commitment on your part to search for her! 🙂 She seems like a wonderful lady, and still so full of life, even though life isn't easy there... I have a lot of respect for her wanting to provide for herself, so her daughter can save for her future. I wish her the best of luck! Thanks Pea! ♥️
Your interview with Joy brought a smile to this old man once again Pea. Joy said she would still have kids and that is the biggest reason I would not want a younger Filipina. To me it would not be fair to the young person that their father is an old man and might not be able to share in the more active rolls that a father should. Some of us old men's bodies have taken a beating to get to this age. It was a pleasure to watch Joy 👀❤️the Pea 😃
That’s the good thing about the Philippines- it adds a few decades to your happiness 😂
@@TheFilipinaPea If you are diligent to seek out the right one for you!
I am on DIA now and it takes some time and well pointed questions to pre-filter potential prospects . . .
How great to see a Beautiful older woman with such JOY!! for life!!
Pea…Fantastic REAL Interview…
Yes, she’s sure full of life 😂👍
I got a provincial widow who is in here 50s. Nothing wrong with a 50ish Filipina. They are hidden jewels of the Philippines. Great video about this. Keep on rocking with the videos
FINALLY getting to meet my fiancee on Monday after nearly two years!
She's 45 and I'm almost 50.
Soooooo much paperwork just getting her out of the Philippines! The CFO certificate was a nightmare!
Finally!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
(tell us what happens) 😏
@@TheFilipinaPea Pretty sure you already know what will happen. Somebody did tell you all about the birds and the bees right? ;)
@@legbreaker2762 lol
I met my husband on Tinder when I was 57 and he was 59 and we've been happily married for 4 yrs now. I often tell him that if we had met each other on our early 20's or 30's, our relationship might have not lasted that long. Since we wanted different things back then, today at our age we know exactly what we want and what we can give.... today at our age we're just perfect for each other. :)
Just curious...where are you and your husband both from originally?
@@carlgriffith4660 Hello Carl, I'm originally from the Philippines & hubby is from Denmark.
I enjoyed watching this video. So refreshing to hear from mature audiences. The comparison between old and new generations is striking and the changes within cultures far reaching with the advent of technology and social media. In some ways, social media has done more harm than good: vanity, greed, hateful agendas, misinformation and rapid spread of lies. On the other hand, there is the good, like the Pea and others who try to make this world a better place to live and love life. (Just a thought.) Sorry for the long sermon! 😂😂
You can post as much as you want! I’ll read every word 👍😊
@@TheFilipinaPea 😊
Thanks Pea, you always manage to keep it fresh and constantly find new and interesting topics. I hope Joy manages to find her 73 year old dream guy (who still wants kids). Have a great weekend.
Enlightening video 📹 Miss Pea. Joy is a joy 😊. I dated a Latina here in the states and she didn't have very good English. A recipe for disaster. I thought it was going to be great. I was horribly wrong. Communication is a Very Big key in a relationship. Lessons learned.
Stay Safe 💕 💞 🙏 🙏
100% agree with you as I did the same!
Ricky Lee, talk to me, I am a latina with better English skills I am from live from Texas from Mexici.
correctly said
I met my Filipina on line while I was in the US. She was 50. I was 60. I have been here in the Philippines for 7 years now. We have a great time together
Where you guys living ? And is it safe ? From crime or calamity ?
Joy is a very lovely lady for an older woman. I think that the main reason that she is single is because she has a daughter that she still supports financially. Most men consider a woman’s children from other men as more of a liability than an asset. That’s the way it is these days.
I had my choice here of 18-60 yet out of millions of beauties I picked a 27 single mom with a beautiful 8yr old daughter. When you click you won’t care about age or kids. Promise
Kids are a part of the woman as well, and a valuable asset too.
It takes a good man, well basically just a man, to support the children, but it will pay of.
No thanks James. I will choose the woman with less extra mouths to feed. Other mens children aren’t an asset. With Filipinas you already have their lazy family begging for a handout. Kind of similar to here in the USA. 😂😂😂😂
A women's children are a precious blessing, I have wanted to marry some because of their children. I have a adopted daughter in Philippines, she is a young adult now, delight of my life.
@@joshuaramirez6039 dead wrong. We live in a wealthy compound 800 miles away from family and I’m a multi millionaire so I don’t have your money issues and I have the best the Philippines has to offer.
Hello Pea, love your vlogs as always. That’s a hard working woman and only makes 4-5 dollars a day. She seems happy so it’s not about the money she makes. You always have such good content. Thanks for posting regularly. Have a super day! 😊
And thanks so much for watching regularly, Bricky 👍❤️
Yes most of the older women don’t care about the money
My filipina fiance was 50 when we met 10 years ago. We will be married next year. Couldn't be happier. She is the nicest person I have ever met.
Congratulations
A very hard working lady with a good attitude. She will make a good partner for someone in the future.
Great topic as usual Pea. Your guest seems full of life and exhibits the strength I have seen from the women her in the Philippines.
Thanks Cliff!! 👍😊
I met my wife of 11 years in Filipino Heart. I believe God brought us together at that time in our lives because of several “ coincidences” and similar life events.
I sought an Asian women for many reasons. Of course they are Beautiful, but they are still Faithful to their partner and appreciate the little things in life. Family and Faith are still very important to them.
The typical western women has lost sight of what a Woman/Wife/ Partner is all about. They have become very self centered and needy. Her life is a One Way Street.
Life in the west is not all peaches & cream as many think. Be careful what you wish for, everything comes at a cost.
Love your channel Miss Pea, always good content from many view points. God Bless you 🙏🏼
When I signed up for Filipino Cupid I was bombarded by 20 year olds. I am 60 and wanted someone more mature. After searching through the sight I found a lady in her 50's. We have been skyping since the pandemic. I am headed to Mending in December to meet her.
Hi Captain Pea. It’s been a while. However, I do really admired your ethical values with great characteristics. Bridging connections across the globe from PH to the table of anyone for a life change with outstanding firsthand amicable plates. Thanks Pea.
Hi Pea, interesting interview. It’s interesting hearing her opinions of younger Filipinas. I’m somewhat surprised that she's still hoping to have more children which clearly shows you shouldn’t make assumptions 😁
I was … amazed 😳
@@TheFilipinaPea Not using hormonal BC, enough physical activities. A kid is thought of like marriage 💑 insurance policy 🤔 and income source.
I saw it as Ate Joy is proud of her continued fertility; I have heard that from a few Filipinas thru the years, that once fertility is done a woman’s femininity is done. I think they feel that men want that in a woman (fertility). But not all Filipinas feel that way I’m sure. This is all just my theorizing! Thank you, great interview. 2 admirable women.
@@UrsulavonB And yet so many younger Filipinas are unwed mothers and the fathers have disappeared. One would think that marriage insurance wasn't a thing there, hmm.
@@wintersojourn9356 - question: are you from the Philippines?
Pea, I love your interviews, cunning, wits and immortal wisdom. How you unveil underlying truths is wonferful. You are amazing
Hi, Pea.
I guess I have old-fashioned values and beliefs. When my mother passed away, her mother was living with her. I took in my grandmother, and she lived with me for about 10 years until she passed away. During that time she became my best friend.
Interesting interview today. I hope your new friend wasn't lonely during the 14 years after her husband passed away. It seems her views on marrying an older man reflect those of younger Filipinas. I like how she would like to spend a lot of time cuddling with her future husband. Cuddling sounds great.
BTW I normally save your video for last on the days you post them, saving the best for last. However, since today is my birthday, I decided to treat myself and watch your video first this morning.
So thank you for posting today, especially for posting a video featuring someone from the provinces.
Have a good day, Pea.
Happy Birthday, Jim!
I’m glad to be a part of it 👍
@@TheFilipinaPea
Thank you. ❤🙂👍
That was fun. Thanks for interviewing Ate Joy.
You rock that dress, Pea... in the opening AND of course the Princess Leia outfit!
Well Pea, as a guy who just turned 50 & has already raised 3 adult kids, & am now retired, you can let Joy know ain't nobody trying to start over with babies & little kids!🤣 She's gonna have to adjust her criteria.😁😏
I’m sure she will 😂👍
You know , with all the excellent interviews you ve done with single women , older and younger ones , you could probably have a very successful match making gig going on . You have a very good following, and people trust you .
Hi pea, I arrive in Manila, on 28th Nov and stay one month. I will meet my filopina of 13 yes for the first time...now theres a story.. I'm 60, she's 56.. and we both sing.
Oh my, how exciting!
Best of luck to you both 👍❤️❤️❤️
@@TheFilipinaPea thank you pea, I will keep you updated, luv all your videos there great .. keep it up.. xx
My Filipina is 51 years old. At that age she is a woman, not a girl. I wouldn't trade her for anyone. I'm 27 years her senior. At her age we still seem to have a lot in common. More than we would have if she were 25 and I were 52. The older woman is likely to come with less baggage than the younger ones. She's seen more of life and may well see more in you than just your income. Fellas there may be fewer available older women but they are there and many of them are pure gold.
Us Americans weren't always like this. Prior to my parents generation who are Baby Boomers, things were a whole lot better. My grandparents generation had great relations as did their parents generation. It was only after my parents generation became of age that the problems began. Divorces and unfaithfulness went sky high.
It only took two generations. In my grandmothers time no woman would allow her husband to do the dishes, take care of the baby or anything like that in front of visitors. She would consider it shameful, as if she needed help performing basic tasks.
Joy is delightful and I will be 73 next year and consider visiting the Filipines
A 50 yr-old mom + her 21 yr old daughter all living together with full benefits sounds like a heavenly arrangement for a 60 yr old foreign dude :)
Hi Filipino pea , I'm from Australia , my girlfriend is Filipino , she's over 60 years old , I'm 59 , but you know dreams can come true 🧡 ❤ ❤ I always told her even if you were in your 70s I would still go after her 🧡 I noticed that matanda Filipino women do keep their age , it's her mata and her personality that attracts me 👍🙏🧡 Salamat for your videos 🧡🙏👍
Asian women, and Asian people in general are great. I love the way we don’t have to walk on eggshells in your part of the world. My Filipina tells me I’m pink, and she doesn’t want a young handsome man. I find that really funny. She is really complimenting me, but in the UK, people would say she is calling me old and ugly. I bloody love you lot.
Yes, we’re very blunt, Pinky! 😂😂😂❤️
The woman still looks pretty good for her age personally i don`t think 50 is old at all maybe to filipinos it might be the case but not in my country if you feel good you look good love the filipinas always have great skin tone and beautiful Dark hair personally that is attractive so i believe filipinas shouldn`t give up on finding love in their mature years there`s always a man out there who find mature filipina woman very attractive even younger men prefer older to young women so good luck to joy in finding her perfect man . Looking beautiful as ever pea love your OOTD !
There’s someone for everyone, yes 👍😊
@@TheFilipinaPea 😃
For me it depends. In my case, I’m 51 years old, also a widow. I’m in a relationship right now he is younger than me, super bait, maasikaso, responsible and super sweet/clingy❤️
What a great attitude Joy has ! She really does come across as a very good person, very rare indeed that a parent in the Philippines does not expect to be supported by her kid when she gets old and
despite her humble earnings still shares some of it with her daughter. It's also nice Joy believes there's
still a lot of life left in her (which is true) and hasn't simply accepted she will be alone for the rest of her
life, I really hope she meets someone even if he isn't 73 yet ! In fact I'd say someone in his late 50s or early 60s would be ideal for her since she's still adventurous and would like to experience what life has to offer. What a wonderful video miss Pea ! BTW seems to me it was only a few months ago when you hit 100K subscribers, just noticed you have over 151K now ! I'm certainly not surprised and congratulations !!!
Ate Joy is such a sweetheart! Only 25 yrs until i'm 73!!! Hope she's still waiting!!!
Great interview, as always. She is very knowledgeable, especially about western women not being loyal and the younger generation being attached to their phones.
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Very grateful for this interview. At 68 I would be extremely happy to be able to spend time with Joy.
Good morning Pea, hope you have an awesome weekend. Thanks for what you’re doing here girl, stay safe Pea.
Thanks Chris! I’ll be busy cooking up something good for you for Tuesday 😂👍
@@TheFilipinaPea Sounds awesome.
I avoided commenting, mainly because all your vlogs are great. Your research, content, and delivery are on point. I choose the Philippines after my divorce and in 2020 I met my match/ soul mate, so to speak. We are busy now getting her ready to join me. At 50+ I think she is God-sent. For Ate Joy, I do hope she finds he mate. I asked for what I wanted, and my girl was asking too. When we checked, we were praying for the same thing. in the same moment. Believe in life.
Very nice Pea! We almost never hear from an older Pinay. She was a joy to watch. I agree that 73yrs old is oddly specific for a choice in partner. I wonder if she already has someone in mind? lol Great video as always!
She was really stuck on ‘73’ - but I even edited a lot of it out 😂😂😂
Yep. Bet she wants him on an oxygen tank too. Cha ching! $$$
Congrats for another amazing interview, I'm currently dating a 50-year-old pinay online six months now, I'm 60 so it's a perfect match for me, she's never been married {certificate of non-marriage} one teen son, ppl tells her I'm. the prize and she's lucky, but based on this magnificent interview, i feel like I'm the lucky one, and she's the prize, thank you for your wonderful incite, she's maintaining religious old fashion family and cultural values always acknowledging I'm the man meanwhile keeping her feminine ways in a respectful way not that 20 or 30 something wouldn't but i haven't experienced it
I chatted with many young Filipina we got along but still didn't feel right. And finally one day I found a beautiful Filipina she just turned 43 I'm 56. And we are currently in the k1 process of her coming to America she has 2 older daughters and 3 beautiful apos we are hoping we can bring along in the future mainly so the apo's can get a education here. I've only been there once and made many good Filipino friends I love the Filipino people
Older filipina is a rare commodity,they age with grace and speak good English,40 and up.these are good questions do hold back.
Older women from the province usually have a hard time responding in English but comprehend it better if you articulate the words well. Their life revolves around their community, if no one speaks english then there usually is no reason for them to keep up or learn it.
Unless they speak better english than younger women.
Yes, that’s what I’ve found, too.
Joy could understand much of my English better than she could speak it 👍
They are few that can't speak english
@@carlcutts8535 Of course. Speaking in general terms.
@@woodspirit98 I find that a problem also even though my wife is mostly fluent in English there’s still every now and then some thing that gets in the way where she uses the wrong word and it changes the meaning entirely. Sometimes I’m able to guess what she means but there are many other times where it just came across exactly how it sounded and then there was a big misunderstanding sometimes an argument and when we go over the word that was used versus what the intended meaning is where we find the problem. Which would be nice to avoid if the language barrier wasn’t there. But I always give her massive credit for knowing my language while I barely know her’s at all
Oh contrare, I found a 53 year old widowed filipina woman here who is the best I've ever had. In every way. Thank you.
She is beautiful and traditional, I can imagine any 73 year old man could fall in love with her.
I am 61 from America and in perfect health. Nobody here wants a man in their 60's and I am looking for a younger woman who can be young with. The Philippines woman put their man as first priority. I think they have much more family values than here. Great video Pea!
It doesn't snow in the Philippines. She is single & ready to mingle & has a good sense of humor.
I found a beautiful partner, she is 52 and absolutely fantastic. I am an Englishman living in France. The best thing I have ever done is find a Phillipino woman😊
I married a Filipina in her late 40's, never married and no children. Best move I ever made. We have more in common and the age gap I am older, is not as much.
She sounds like a fun loving lady and intelligent who wants a decent partner. Wish her the very best in her search! The divorce laws in strong Catholic countries make more mature available ladies few and far between. You handled a sensitive interview so well Pea, take care and be well lovely Pea! 😘❤
Attracted to a 48 yrs old single Filipina woman living in Canada I am a tidy bit younger than her. I would not mind married to her. Age is just a number. You said it. “Good character, very loving, very honest, frugal” might I add she can make me laugh. Don’t let age be an handicap.
She’s definitely made a good point especially about America that I don’t like. It seems there’s no family core now. It’s like kids are raised by social media instead of family. Communication is practically leaving families. When it’s supper time it’s fix your plate and go sit in front of the TV or grab your iPad or phone and start watching The Filipina Pea on RUclips 😉😂. But seriously there seems to be no communication amongst family members like there was when I was growing up.
Hahahahaha
Well I can’t complain about the Pea videos - they’re educational 😂👍
100% correct
America, that one you knew when you were growing up, is gone. You all better start working on your "plan B" because you are going to need it.
Hi Pea, my fiancé and I watched this vlog of yours before our wedding and kept on thinking of sending a comment after our civil wedding.
Now, he is my husband. We got married last October 26 this year.
We met on an online dating app way back September 28,2020 but it took 18 months before we finally met in person . I was once a public school teacher and being a former government employee I don’t have time to social that much so I tried my luck about online dating. I was a NBSB before I met him. 😅
He was my first boyfriend . I even told him that I want my boyfriend to be my best friend(in which I can confide with things that I wanna share)lover and husband soon( and it did happen finally💕🥰).
We do have an age gap of 21 years . One thing that people in the Philippines would notice upon his first and second visit but I told him in the first place just be ourselves and don’t mind them at all.
I am now living in his country and I don’t have any stares seen from people around here like for example if we walk around the suburbs or in the city holding hands.
It was really nice to know in your vlog that despite of having a big age gap ,the couple stayed married for such a long time. 😊
Sadly, the chances of Ate Joy finding a 73 year old Westerner who is prepared to learn a foreign language are pretty remote. At 73, Western guys don't want to have to struggle to understand their new wife. On the other hand, she was very brave to be interviewed, and I pray that she can find someone suitable. My own personal story involves finding an OFW (Filipina) while working in Kong Kong (I am a Westerner). My now wife's English was very good since English is (or at least has been) widely used in Hong Kong. Although her boss was Hong Kong Chinese, the children of the family used mainly English at home. My Filipina started working as an OFW early in her life and had not married before leaving home (i.e. the Philippines) and had no children. I consider myself very fortunate. The age difference is 14 years. She is now 49, but we have been apart (due to COVID) for the past almost 3 years. Looking forward to getting back to the Philippines early next year, and bringing my wife to Australia.
I think it might be worth your while interviewing OFWs during their annual / biannual holiday back in the Philippines to get their stories about life, working hard overseas to support their parents and families back home. OFWs are a broad range of ages, and to me, they exhibit a great characteristic of love and suffering to ensure family survive as best as possible. In any case, as I am sure you are aware, remittances from OFWs is one of the largest sources of income for the Philippines (and money dealers such as WU!). Keep up the amazing effort that you always put in, Pea. Cheers.
Oh my, apart for 3 years?? 🥺🥺🥺
English is widely used in the Philippines too although some of the older generation have more trouble speaking it but hey love finds a way. I've seen lots of old men there with younger women but most of the old guys I know there have women their own age. It all works out I have spent as much as four plus years at a time away from my family just because I had to work to make our life better right now I have spent another 2 1/2 years away from them
Great interview, especially how you are able to bond with her to answer openly.
It’s my secret talent 😂👍
A little bit of respect goes a long way
great video Pea! my wife and I look forward to returning to the philippines in Feb for a 2 month vacation! cant wait to get back there!!!
Pea, I'm the Leonado Dicaprio type. I get older, my girlfriends stay the same age.
24 and younger? 😂😂😂
My strategy too.
Wow Pea, you have never been more beautiful than you are right now. Hubba, Hubba. 🤠🤩🥰
I am quite confident that some similar aged guy would like to establish a relationship with someone that does not bury their face into an Android Device....
I am talking to a Filipina right now and am enjoying every minute so far. I am also going back through your videos Pea on advice and what to look and look out for.
I remember several years ago when my wife said how lucky she was that she married a man who didn't hit her. Unfortunately, that type of behavior is often overlooked there in the Philippines. 😥😥
I like how she's so active, funny and so positive!! Also she knows what she wants and respect that. And Miss Pea, that outfit looks beautiful 😻
I know one aged 54 never married. She's one of my wife's relatives. She doesn't speak English well, and she is really mean, so we will sell her cheap.😅
For the guys that have never visited. These women are stunning beautiful and know how to pull at your heartstrings. When you “click” I promise you age, a child, poverty, won’t matter at all. Just know “your” limits and be honest with her about the future. It pays off I promise.
Very interesting Pea:
How long did it take you to find that needle in the haystack?
I'll bet finding a single woman over the age of 30 in the Philippines is kinda like finding a third year high school student here in Canada that is still a virgin.
Good video Pea! keep up the great work.
Yes, it’s very difficult! They only come along once in a while 👍😊
@@TheFilipinaPea does the term "Blue Moon " mean anything to you? lol
I love her attitude and energy. She is a very good choice for someone looking for an older woman. I'm not in my 70's, I'm 53 and looking for someone younger myself, but I'm confident she will find someone.
Another thing that an older women may offer differently from a much younger Filipina is cleaner skin. I see a trend in young Filipinas to tattoo everything on their body. I have never understood why anyone would like a cartoon or a paragraph of words so much that they want to permanently apply it to their body for the rest of their life. A big turn off for me. Less likely to see on an older woman in the Philippines.
Smartly done. Great interview. Very enlightening. Thanks for the hard work you do.
I really appreciate that, JM 👍❤️😊
She is a beauty and i like her attitude she sounds amazing
Ate joy Cabrera she is pretty awesome i did like her attitude she is amazing. Ate joy is smart and beautiful todays interview with her was something new pea 👍🏻🇵🇭🏆🏅
Thanks Javier! Just don’t ask me to find 60+ next 😂😂😂
She has a great attitude. Good for her.
This was a fantastic to interview. I just turned 50 last month myself. My long term plan is to retire to the Philippines. Along with that learning Tagalog is at the top of my list. You might have been speaking bisayan which I want to learn too. She would be someone I could see pursuing since I could meet her in the middle. But I am sure you will be getting plenty of contact requests for her info.
I was lucky to find my 41 year old Filipina!! I’m 51