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After my divorce 6 years ago I was determined to never put myself in a vulnerable position again. My patients became so short in dealing with people's BS that I would just leave them in a heart beat. Eventually I met a Philippine woman that showed me through her patients, caring, and genuine heart, that trying to love again would is worth it. That I owed it to myself. I then though, just because I went through a divorce doesn't sentence me to a life time of being alone for the rest of my days. I've grown to love this woman dearly and we are set to be married later this year. She is everything that I desire in a mate. From my experience, most Philippine women just want to be loved and appreciated. I know and feel deep in my heart that she is well worth pouring all my love into. Just my experience....
Bro your message kinda touched my heart. I really pray it goes well !!!! I have the same experience but not married to the ex but have kids but met a women that is littrly the sweetest thing ive ever met in my whole life !!! Goood luck my guy and god bless you and your lady.
@@nicknicholson2465 I am going to the Philippines next year in 2023. I am doing this because I have lived here in the United States and I have suffered loneliness because women here are way too picky and they are selfish. I can see why there are a lot of mass shootings and violence here. George Sodini and Elliot Rodger both killed women and killed themselves here in the United States in 2009 and 2014.
I met my Pinay in November 1974 while I was stationed at Subic Bay. We dated nearly two years when I brought her to California as a fiancé, we married three weeks after her arrival our marriage has lasted 46 years
Is that possible today because I was born in 1974. I will be 50 at the end of the month. I have my passport. My plan is to visit next August. And hopefully retire there. Not at 50.
A wonderful presentation. At the age of 80, I have been dating a Filipina for three years. She is a woman full of faith. She is 72, and as long as the Lord gives us, we will be together.
I've been married to a Filipina for 7 years after dating for 2 years. I traveled to the Philippines 2 months after we met online. I am bald and yet she insisted I shave the remaining hair in the top of my head. And don't ever shave my hairy chest! I continually joke around and use sarcasm most of the time. Sometimes she says, "I'm trying to be serious!" Whereas I joke, "If you wanted a serious relationship, this isn't it!" I am overweight, I have 3 kids, there is a sizeable age gap, and she is not my first wife. She's never been married and has a son who is here as well.. But when she comes home from work, even after a bad day, she sees me, and with a great big smile, runs to me and we kiss passionately. I know people talk behind our backs accusing her of being a golddigger. But, in fact, she is the main source of income. I took early retirement after losing my job during the pandemic. So, I am the golddigger! Loved your date with Jerry!!!
This was a problem I had with a Filipina. She was ranting about being a real man, and not catching diseases. I tried to calmly tell her that in my culture circumcision is not normal, I never had a disease in my life and I'm always hygienic. She told me to either get circumcised or forget about her. She said it would be embarrassing to tell her friends that her boyfriend is not a real man. I let her go because I have one condition with a woman: Love me for who I am, or take the door out!
I have been married to my Phillipino wife for 12 years. I learned some new things here. I love my beautiful Phillipino wife. She takes my hand in public first. She is so good to me. Im retired military and we have a good time. When we fight at the end of the day we are in love and respect each other. Im also an ABDL and she is ok with this. I love her more then the air that I breathe.
@@peterandrew4027 its a kink thing. lets just say theres a reason she says "i love you baby" to him haha. but meh im not shaming we all got our thing, that ones just not mine haha. glad ur wife is so open minded tho frank.
I’m bald, bearded, tattooed and no longer as slender as I once was.. but I still love Filipinas and the Filipino people. I may no longer be “attractive” but I’m 💯 % genuine.
Lol, same here, but if you find the right one - she'll LOVE you for that! So many women REALLY appreciate it! Always be straight up with her and hopefully she'll always do the same for you!
Dear Pea. I am an American man and have met a woderful Philipeano lady. We have been chatting now for some time and I will be traveling to Mindanao to meet her and her family. I watch your videos and have learned much from you, so, thank-you and keep those information coming.
No kidding 35 years & counting. All delightful martial bliss, lubby dubbie... ah who in the hell and I kidding! But it's otherwise just fine. She pisses me off & I piss her off, we have so much in common! I tell lies too!
Your videos should be considered as suggested viewing for almost any westerner who is headed to the Philippines in search of meaningful relationship with a Filipina.
I met my lady where in live in Spain and she's amazing but I have dated Filipinas before her and everyone is different. It's far too easy to generalise . There are though aspects of Filipino culture that appear in all Filipinas obviously and it's important to try to understand and adapt. Many filipinas who travel to Europe for work get corrupted by money and lose their integrity.
Sadly, I have no hair on top. I also carry a few extra pounds, but am not visually obviously overweight. Also, I have a pure white beard. So, clearly, I would not be very attractive to Filipinas. But, I am also 80 years of age, and have found a lovely 73 years young Filipina who dotes on me. We have been together for three years, and I am really happy that she is so tiny, I don’t think she has ever gotten a clear view of my bald head. Thanks for all you do, Pea. Every time I mention your name, my love cringes. However, you have pegged her so accurately, so often, she has grown to respect your cultural knowledge. She grew up in the provinces very poor Philippine style, so now she appreciates EVERYTHING.
Pea, I truly love and enjoy your innate and learned knowledge about both Filipino and Western culture. You provide a looking glass into understanding the established expectations and acceptable behaviors that Westerners should understand with Filipinas. Your insight should allow viewers the opportunities for fostering true and loving relationships. Great expose!
Hi Pea ! This is not my first post probably not my last. I wish I had found your channel years ago as you’re so informative I wish I had known before I dated a woman from Cebu for 2 years & 3 mo. Why is it that Filipinas want to get married before the third date is over? A man who has come out of a bad relationship wants to really get to knot a lady better so as not to make the same mistake again. I’m still looking! A guy I know, I’m sorry I even told him about the Philippines. If and when I make it to the Philippines I’d like to thank you in person ( your car to young but wise beyond your years. Keep up the good work. Your a star to the people there. We should be as moral. What should we expect when trying to bring a lady to the west? What are the warning signs she’s becoming too Americanized? It seams they lose the values that endeared them to a western man?
I’m Filipino-American myself. My goal is to be in a relationship with a Filipina born in the Philippines or is a Filipino-American. I’d like to keep the family tradition. Thanks Pea for this advice 🤗
Great advice as ever! Your comments about humour particularly hit home. My Filipina almost never gets my jokes, but is polite enough to laugh anyway. I say to her "just joking" a lot It's a particular problem being British I think: it isn't just Filipinos who don't get our sense of humour 😁
Agree i been talking to a Filipino for nearly a year we both really like each other and we been in a relationship now for near 3 weeks and she still don't get my humer she got angry with me a few times aswell that was a mission to get her to see im just a joke when I get nervous
Have you shown her any of the Monty Python films? Our lass was holding her ribs they were hurting so much, and then came a month of film quotes from her.
I really liked this video, Filipina Pea, my wife from the Philippines also watched it for once too. You are funny and often make me laugh, I learned more about the culture and Filipina likes and dislikes. Good job! 👍
I am bad ...I argue with her to test her ...I do it because I want to know if she will quit.... relationship ..my views are to be married you will argue marriage is forever 30. 40 .50 year to live together...if she runs after 2 years then you didn't waste ...my Filipina is a keeper
The best relationship I've ever had was with a Filipina. She knew I was headed for the catholic priesthood. We both fell in love deeply. She had her Canadian citizenship and worked in my monastery as a RN. She would tease me without mercy Lol. Her family seemed to like me and insisted I call her Mom as Nani. She asked me to marry her. I wish I did. I was deeply torn as I headed to the US for additional schooling in seminary. I enjoy your videos and appreciate your honesty. I've since left the priesthood. I love her still after fifteen years. Us westerners, me in particular, can be so dumb. I'm so glad Pea you make these videos. I guess I'll always miss her deeply ... love from Canada, Roger
So go SEE her! And in the first place, you SHOULD have become an Anglican{English Catholic} or an Orthodox {Greek/Russian/?}. With those, God EXPECTS you to marry!
The more of your videos I watch, the more enamored I’m becoming with Filipina attributes. If I wasn’t already happily married I would definitely have looked for a Filipina spouse.
That young lady makes me remember why I loved the Philippines so much. What a lovely and charming lady. I like ladies, though I have been known to settle for mere women. I still remember the most lovely young lady I ever saw in the Philippines, riding on the back of a water buffalo. Her brother and I were coming to visit in their province while on leave. He was Eddie. She was Maria. God, she was gorgeous - and man, was that water buffalo ugly! Wow, that was 40 years ago. I'll bet Maria is still gorgeous.
“Gentlemen” have been vilified as wolves in sheep’s clothing on the west. It’s refreshing to know women in the Philippines appreciate “old school” men.
Your ability to paint mental pictures while describing situations or physical appearance is absolutely amazing !!...another great lesson on the Filipina psyche....you obviously have a passion for classic TV shows...GREAT VIDEO!
I remember that Jerry episode show: the (woman with man hands). Thank you Pea for showing that episode again. I have outlived two Filipina wives that were two sisters. I should have responded to a niece that found me on Facebook, she was so much younger than me by 29 years. She was 5 when I met her while visiting the family. She was shy and I asked her if she wanted to sit by me. She raised her eyebrows, and I held out my arm to her and she came across the room and sat on my lap not beside me, and put her arm around my neck, not letting go. She got a smiling comment from her mother. God, she was such a beautiful and adorable child. She found me on Facebook some years ago. She sent me a photo, and she had grown up so beautiful. I didn't do what my heart wanted me to do, and the contact faded away after some months. Yes, to Filipina women being such glorious caring mates. I'm too old to mate up again. I would like to live in the Philippines. Your people are so nice and friendly. Mike Hayes NC USA.
So in my experience, Filipinas want stability. They want someone stable who will love them for who they are. They want someone who can provide, but not necessarily give them everything they want. These are the real Filipinas... the ones worth knowing. If they seem to keep wanting you to buy them things, steer clear.
90% of the Phillipinas I've met #1 is getting the bills paid, often by ANY means necessary..... if the man can pay the bills, keep food on the table and a few extra pesos for sisters-cousins-neighbors-whole F-ING town,then she will 'love' you to the best of her ability....it's a different society
@Tim Duvall.... they want someone to love them for who they are but she would never love you for who you are but only what you can provide.... please wake up buddy before you get played out there 😂 It's all about money
I am 6'6" so not scared of most people. spot on my wife gets mad when I dance in a store or make a comment about someone. There was someone holding a sign that he had been robbed and had no money, no gas and no other cloths. I told her with the window down... "Boy lucky they did not steal his pen or cardboard " he could hear me and she was so mad. I did that.
Being a man over 6 foot and fat I have to agree we are more of a "niche" market. There is still women who like us but you have to wade thru the ones who really just want to be out having money spent on them more then otherwise. I tend to make up for it just being a good guy and culturally sensitive to the other points. There is a lot of heavy men dating in the Phil so don't get discouraged it's not the end of the world. Besides we tend to loose weight over there, at least I do walking everywhere and eating better.
No woman wants a fat man. If she picks you it’s because she is needing money/security and her family needs help. If the American girl picks you it’s because she is also fat or not very attractive. That is unless you are rich and then you can get all the ladies
Honestly dude, I gained weight with the lack of vegetables, along with the abundance of rice and the high salt and sugar content in the food. It's really hard to eat well over there, and any place you go seems to be the same.
The "take me, show me, buy me" syndrome certainly lives in the US, and height/weight have little to do with it. I've been out with women whose only interest seems to be that one free meal/movie etc. The trick is, of course in selecting and being selected... and filtering out the BS. Probably true of the woman's point of view, too.
I've had nothing but failure dating in the US I've been cheated on, used, disrespected ect, had a girl that couldn't even wait a week to cheat after I left for a deployment, but after watching this it sounds like eastern culture is very traditional as am I its how I was raised, I can't even so much as compliment or hold open a door for a girl here without being labeled a simp and I can't express my dismay with western culture involving women without being labeled misogynistic or an incel, I had lost hope in dating completely, losing any motivation to even talk to women knowing in the back of my mind it would end poorly, since discovering your channel I think I'll definitely be taking a long vacation to the Philippines, I feel hope I haven't felt in a very long time and maybe I can finally kill off the loneliness for good, I appreciate you and your content more than you could ever understand!
That’s shitty asf bro hopefully stepping out the country will be good for you. If mine doesn’t work out, I’m mos def gonna go abroad.. stay on it 💪🏽💪🏽💯💯💯
My first date with a Filipina. I met this charming lady at the base store and I introduced myself. She was so beautiful and spoke English with little or no accent. I asked her on a date and she accepted. She gave me her address and a time she would be ready to go. This was my first experience with Filipino time because when I arrived, she was far from ready and seemed to be embarrassed so I told her I would come back later. When I got back she was ready than told me that her older sister will be going along too. I had a great date with both of them. They were both beautiful, fun to be with too so I dated both until Racheal the one I originally asked out seemed a bit jealous because I was "too friendly" with her sister Sarah. My thought was a question. Why did she insist on bringing her sister? I found out later that her sister was the chaperon.
Next time Sir, if u ever date a Filipina again and if she brought a friend with her or a family member always keep in mind that the other one is a Chaperone not an another girl in your table she, might feel insulted and the other ones think you are a player deep down in her thoughts even if she treated you politely. You good luck
Pretty much hit the nail on the head with all of them. Married 30 years now to my little Filipina Princess, and yes I was stationed in PI back in the day before the bases closed back in 92'. As how we met, I jokingly tell people I picked her right out of a rice patty. Decades later she gets my humor, and I get the look, and at times some of her own quick wit in return.
Some humor is best not said.." how about she found you in a trailer park or halfway house"..hahaha..not so funny is it. Unlearning racism is hard if are taught this as a child and through the environment you are raised .
Over the last 10 years , I have had several relationships with filipina's ....I found that most really don't care that much about appearance, they want a good ,loving ,caring , responsible man with a good heart....which I am all that, but also 6'5 tall, 260 pounds, very hairy, full beard....the physical was a deal breaker for some....4'10, 90 pound scared of my size....also some wanted me to shave or wax body and shave beard , I refused to do that.....but ,overall, my experience, it is being a good person.....thanks Pea....God bless...🙏❤
Would love to find someone like that. Where are they?? Several of the ones I've found here in California seem quite materialistic. They also are obsessed with their looks, have facial injections done. Maybe they get that way when they come to the US. I make a good income too, but that's not the point. I want a relationship first before spending money on someone.
I have never been disappointed with the content of your posts. You are always informative, inciteful and very entertaining. This was probably a sensitive post for some. I thought your candor was refreshing but always well-meaning. Look forward to your next one! You are in a small group of youtubers that can produce a lot of content but it never gets old
i have never had a single date. My Filipino date always brings her whole family to our date. So it always Looks like a family outing with her parents and siblings
I really wish I knew about your channel 3 years ago when I met my wonderful Filipina. I learned almost everything you spoke about in this video the hard way, From my experience as a Westerner your videos are all spot on! Thank you always and take care.
I'm in a relationship with indigenous Filipina known as ita, she is a real gentle woman, with an awesome personality. People are drawn to her positive attributes. On that note I'm planning a vacation to the Philippines very soon and meet her.
Thank you Pea, that's very useful. I will need to watch again and make notes before my visit (Covid permitting)in December, One thing was really enlightening - your definition of the word strict, as understood by Filipinas. Just a few days ago a Filipina friend explained that she didn't think it would work out between us (she had already openly moved on to another man, but still chatting with me as friends) because she thought I was too strict. I found that puzzling since we haven't even met yet, but with your definition it now makes sense. Another word that puzzled me for a moment was the word cursing. In the UK we would say swearing, never cursing, for the f***, c***, or s*** words. Cursing has a different meaning. There are quite a few differences in meaning between American English and British English, but I hadn't come across that one before.
To my mind and heart. True love does exist.. If we take the time. To know the person. Not try to change them. Just to meet our needs. Be patient and honest. Love will find its way into your heart.
When I first started watching this channel, I was thinking what a wonderful opportunity it might be to get with a Filipina at some point & actually have a loving long term partner... but the more I watch & listen, the more I realize, I would never get on with a Filipina long term any more than I can one of these around here that are readily available... I'm just a loner & that's just my lot in life...
There are all types of women even within each subculture. She might be hard to find, but I promise there’s a mate out there just waiting for you! Is she worth the effort? Not until you find her 😊
I've dated 2 Filipinas long distance. 1 only dated black guys and the other didn't care what race I was. I've had good experiences dating Filipinas. Even though I am no longer with either of them, I have nothing bad to say about them. 🇵🇭 ❤
Pea, I enjoy your humor as much as your wisdom. Today's video has given me the confidence that there will be a lovely Filipina who will be the delight of my life. Thank you.
I remember once when I was in the Philippines standing in line at Jolibee in SM Mall with my fiancee (who is now my wife) and there was this little kid on his mother's shoulders. The little guy sees me, his eyes open wide, points at me, and yells "He has no hair!!!" I laugh and bend my head down so he could get a better look at say "Yep, no hair." His mother was so embarrassed and avoiding eye contact so I didn't say anything else. I wave goodbye to the kid and order our food. Kids say the funniest things sometimes. LOL.
I commend you, not only on your excellent and informative content, but on the obvious hard work, effort, and time you put into the editing of your videos.
Been married with my little sunshine who makes every single day a blessing for 10 years, and I find your description very accurate and funny. I've also been at sea with many pinoys for years and I find you guys exceptional by many ways. And for the record, Italians are way much more noisy than you are :-)
In your show about dating single Moms, you said that the child’s birth father could make things very difficult for everyone. Pea, you mention in the show that the new boyfriend should learn everything about the birth father and even find out about what kind of relationship the mother had with this person. In this show you say that you should never bring up the mothers past relationships and that the mother will pretend that she has no history or past relationships even while she is holding a child under each arm. So my question is, do you bring up her past relationship or not?
I had previously said that a Filipina doesn’t want you to bring up her past (if you want to play by her rules), but that you MUST bring up her past, and convince her to talk about it. I’d never get into a relationship with a person without knowing everything about their past 👍👍👍 She won’t like it, but too bad 😂
Hi Pea, I think your quirky wonderful sense of humor gives you that rare ability to tell it like it is without offending us guys. Most things you mentioned I didn’t know but are easy to change. From my experience, being kind without faking it will make us stand out from the pack in a good way.
Captain's log. Make an entry. You naughty girl! Much of what you describe (not much body hair/tattoos/piercings, not loud, no swearing, etc) sounds like my tribe! 💖
This is precisely why I’ve been single for the past 19 years after my divorce. I don’t have to deal with all these requirements because from my point of view it’s just not worth it. All I have to do is just imagine all the unnecessary hassles and headaches one has to go through and for what. I was already married for 14 years and have two wonderful kids who are doing well, don’t have to do that again. My 19 years of single life have been just wonderful, peaceful and free of all conflicts and I’m not going to change that for anything. At this stage of my life I’m not going to risk my peace and harmony and calm for the unknown. I’m not going to allow anyone to change my way of life and I don’t want to change anyone. I’m just so happy that I was born to be a loner and don’t pull my hair out because I don’t have someone with me 24/7. I’ve done it for 19 years. Most important I’m a very healthy 69 year old that plays golf 4 to 5 times per week with my other retired friend. As far as I’m concerned life couldn’t be better.
Exactly, so right, so right. I don't mind having a good honest relationship but if the sh*t starts hitting the fan then...don't let the door hit you on the way out. Girls I have zero tolerance for BS, so don't piss me off.
spot on, Joseph. I'm 61 and same situation. life is too short to try to appease another person 24-7. I'm divorced, and when married, I could not do anything right by my ex. I prefer to be alone than deal with that crap again. I still work because I like my job, but weekends I REALLY enjoy. I do whatever I want whenever I want. Selfish? Maybe. But better to be selfish than being subjected to continuous emasculation by a manipulating hag.
Lots of fun there - thanks! That Star Trek ending and its variations are great. I am heartbroken to tell you I’m not strict, according to my new definition, but on the upside am definitely a cowboy. Also, I’m relieved to know that all the effort involved in not getting too fat would be worth it. In general it sounds like if you’re a reasonably decent person things will be okay.
Wow over 500,000 views. Funny I was just reading the comments and saw 2y ago. So hey your content is great and your getting quite a following. 😆 keep up the outstanding work you do.
Pea, you are a wealth of practical information, and you are a delight. I am in love with a Filipina, and she is with me. Learning how to negotiate the cultural differences is hugely important. Thank you Pea
Wow thanks FP very informative, especially "Joke Lang" l am married to a beautiful Filipino woman and wondered often if she had a sense of humour, but the problem l realise after watching your Video is me not adding "Joke Lang" after my teasing remark, so thanks for the info, you are a much needed source/bridge of information on cultural differences keep up the good work.
You and I truly agree on one big thing. The "F" word, Too many people in the West can't say 5 words without using it. I wish we could just get rid of the word forever. It is destroying basic culture and communication. Great video as always Pea.
@@secretagent86 I say to those that use the 'F' word to just say 'Frackin' like on the Battlestar Galactica T.V show! I worked in the construction industry for over 30yrs. and I never cursed and many would ask why I didn't I would reply just think about what you are saying and try to tell me it makes sense in english. There you go it doesn't so why say it try to substitute with a real english word to replace your curse word. Make that Brain work!
Thank you for all your very informative videos. I'm an American, I have been talking to a Filipino woman from there for a little over a year. We are in a relationship even though we have never actually met. She is a simple provenance woman. Everything has been going great. We even planned on getting married. The last of months she has changed in a way. Her whole demeanor has changed. You can tell that something is wrong but she won't open up to me. She seems very distant, not as talkative and hardly smiles anymore
I love you for saying that. We are so influenced by the western views. Of course, we have our views and preferences too. You have spoken for Asian male like me. Thanks.
except it's funny how they want equal partnership but their religion teaches in ephesians to submit to your husband in ALL things...... ain't that shit funny
One thing you can count on with me, is that I'll always tell it like it is, I don't waste time with lies or B.S. nor do I tolerate either one, I believe that a relationship, be it friendship or something more can only be sustained on truth and honesty 💯
Love your videos, Pea. You're a good looker, speak and communicate well, great sense of humour, relevant topics, and much more. Looking forward to watching more of your videos. Maybe even see you in the Philippines one day soon, after the virus.
Another standard Sweet Pea. In other words, absolutely the best information I can imagine on Filipina women and the general what is liked and disliked. I especially like that you do not give what might be called dating advice. Rather, you focus on basic qualities of traditional Filipina women. You focus on general behaviors and basics. That is the correct approach based on my models for human connection. Good job Sweet Pea.
I have several Filipina friends from the Visayan region, mostly Cebu and Mindanao here in California. The women from there LOVE dancing, are very attracted to men that are good dancers and expect the man to lead the dance movements. I'm having to take dance lessons just to keep up with them. They also seem to have quite a machismo culture. The people from there also speak with a louder voice. Are these traits common mostly in the Visayas or other regions as well?
Odd. All of the Visayan girls and women I knew were the quietist filipinas. They also had an air of elegance and old world European charm, compared with other filipinas. Their movements were measured and graceful, as a girl who was a graduate of charm school. They, besides being relatively quiet, were far less likely to lose their temper. It’s as if they were a combination of the best of Asian and European behavioral traits. Because of that, I tended to be partial towards Visayan girls and women. And I knew many. I worked my way through university at a very large Department of Veterans Affairs Medical Center that employed many thousands of filipina nurses.
Thank you, your presentation is wonderful. Informed and humourous. To the point. Behind it all however, is the fact that you explain to us Westerners, that the Asian way is so subtle. I think that it takes intelligence to appreciate an Asian woman. Keep up the good work, friend.
The things you say for me are really true almost all mentioned these things sure are good for foreigners looking for Filipinas must know to be aware of.
After being married to my Filipina now some 12 years (And happily married still!) Through meeting all my wife's Filipino friend's American husbands here in the US- most are also very happily married!!! Today I am 69 years old while my Filipino is 40 years old! To those of you who have no experience with Filipino's this may sound a extreme- but in reality its quite common arrangement! Personally, I am in decent shape still today and 'look' about 50 so I feel I can provide what my wife needs- sex, money and a healthy lifestyle! Yet, and here is where some of you may find equally amazing. (In General!) Filipino-Women besides being accessible, mature and great life-mates are A Western Man's "Second Chance' in finding any 'happiness' here in this present worldly set-up! And I say this as a guy who has been 'Around' ie. I used to own an international hotel for European backpackers and there, suffice it to say, I abused my privileges with my female guests and consequently had girlfriends around the world- ALL the time! Indeed, I'm equally happy to know today that there is Life "outside of the American-female!" (Which I see as- spoiled, immature, argumentative and rather unattractive compared to what essentially Most of the world has to offer!). Between Latin America, Africa and definitely Asia- its still largely A Man's world and there are Billions of nice, attractive young women who Do want to meet you and particularly in PI!!!!! i.e. I've seen 350lbs Black American man happily married to a young 115 lib gorgeous-filipino who has his children and they are a happy, satisfied family today! I've seen old-old Expats who live in PI and started a Second family and the Filipina thinks nothing of this as she does her part!!! Let me say this though, these above are all Relationships- real marriages! While, for most Westerners just 'stubble blindly' into PI- meet, find (The Filipino finds You!) and they (Like myself many years ago!) use the situation- exploit some females and leave (Some do this for years!) Thereby the Expat-Filipina meeting Most of the time is more of a fling-confrontation where both-sides get as ugly as it comes!! (You guys be particularly warned about city girls and getting involved with BIZ using your money!!) Still in all of this- I say for you Good Guys- CAN have A Second Chance in finding a real solid relationship with A good woman 'in PI' (As well as other places??) But PI is what I know best and it has worked for me and quite a few others I know of too!
Thank you, Pea, I was in the Philippines in November for a friend's engagement party, and it turns out I met my Filipina there. We had several days to spend together while I was there, and now that I returned home, I'm in a long-distance relationship. But I'm returning for Valentine's week. Thank you for all your advice. By the way, there is an age gap between us. It does not seem to be a barrier.
I have a very muscular body with tattoos, grey hair at least on the sides, the rest still dark, one pierced ear, my girlfriend Filipino, told me I was scary looking but also handsome, her friends say the same, but I'm good to her she is well taken care of, her friends all like me, she is very happy & she makes me happy, I feel very lucky to have her in my life :)
This video is absolutely hilarious 😂 It’s a masterpiece dear Pea - I love all your references, and I understand them all fully. I wish WE can meet you some day in Cebu, with my loving Cebuana Kimberly❤️ You should consider making us a part of your stories. Best of luck to you 👏
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Pea love today's subject 😂
I have to agree with you 100%
great video super professional
Well, I may be short out of luck cause have tattoos, getting bald, hair in body, muscular......other than that, I got what women love, confidence
@@christopherarce8773 Nice😊
Hey Pea. i don't know if you ever seen this video here is the link ruclips.net/video/pInk1rV2VEg/видео.html. i want you to know that i found my unicorn.
After my divorce 6 years ago I was determined to never put myself in a vulnerable position again. My patients became so short in dealing with people's BS that I would just leave them in a heart beat. Eventually I met a Philippine woman that showed me through her patients, caring, and genuine heart, that trying to love again would is worth it. That I owed it to myself. I then though, just because I went through a divorce doesn't sentence me to a life time of being alone for the rest of my days. I've grown to love this woman dearly and we are set to be married later this year. She is everything that I desire in a mate. From my experience, most Philippine women just want to be loved and appreciated. I know and feel deep in my heart that she is well worth pouring all my love into. Just my experience....
Thanks for sharing it 👍😊
Thanks! Your input is gold! 🥇
Three friends of mine gave up on American women and married Asians and never looked back. They are happy to this day
Bro your message kinda touched my heart. I really pray it goes well !!!! I have the same experience but not married to the ex but have kids but met a women that is littrly the sweetest thing ive ever met in my whole life !!! Goood luck my guy and god bless you and your lady.
@@nicknicholson2465 I am going to the Philippines next year in 2023. I am doing this because I have lived here in the United States and I have suffered loneliness because women here are way too picky and they are selfish. I can see why there are a lot of mass shootings and violence here. George Sodini and Elliot Rodger both killed women and killed themselves here in the United States in 2009 and 2014.
I met my Pinay in November 1974 while I was stationed at Subic Bay. We dated nearly two years when I brought her to California as a fiancé, we married three weeks after her arrival our marriage has lasted 46 years
Is that possible today because I was born in 1974. I will be 50 at the end of the month. I have my passport. My plan is to visit next August. And hopefully retire there. Not at 50.
Beautiful
A wonderful presentation.
At the age of 80, I have been dating a Filipina for three years.
She is a woman full of faith.
She is 72, and as long as the Lord gives us, we will be together.
nice gramps. finally some normal age gap .
I've been married to a Filipina for 7 years after dating for 2 years. I traveled to the Philippines 2 months after we met online. I am bald and yet she insisted I shave the remaining hair in the top of my head. And don't ever shave my hairy chest!
I continually joke around and use sarcasm most of the time. Sometimes she says, "I'm trying to be serious!" Whereas I joke, "If you wanted a serious relationship, this isn't it!"
I am overweight, I have 3 kids, there is a sizeable age gap, and she is not my first wife. She's never been married and has a son who is here as well.. But when she comes home from work, even after a bad day, she sees me, and with a great big smile, runs to me and we kiss passionately. I know people talk behind our backs accusing her of being a golddigger. But, in fact, she is the main source of income. I took early retirement after losing my job during the pandemic. So, I am the golddigger!
Loved your date with Jerry!!!
Awesome work Mr. Topaz. I LOVE it!!!
How old are you/what's the age gap.... if I may ask?
Pea you've confirmed that most Filipinas have very good sense. And that's very good information for most of us.
@@invisiblerevolution 25 years. I'm 64 and she's 39.
Good for you
This was a problem I had with a Filipina. She was ranting about being a real man, and not catching diseases. I tried to calmly tell her that in my culture circumcision is not normal, I never had a disease in my life and I'm always hygienic. She told me to either get circumcised or forget about her. She said it would be embarrassing to tell her friends that her boyfriend is not a real man. I let her go because I have one condition with a woman: Love me for who I am, or take the door out!
Good for you
and Filipinas ALWAYS tell you to take them as they are and do NOT change them ! yeah, it works for them but NOT allowed to YOU ! typicall women ...
Super
Colored hair woman : love me the way i am
Me: hmmm... U sound a Feminist
Wtf? That broad is dumb.. men shouldn’t get circumcised. Its just forced by society
Get in good shape, be a good man, be polite, dial down on your Faith. This is great advice for any single guy anywhere.
I have been married to my Phillipino wife for 12 years. I learned some new things here. I love my beautiful Phillipino wife. She takes my hand in public first. She is so good to me. Im retired military and we have a good time. When we fight at the end of the day we are in love and respect each other. Im also an ABDL and she is ok with this.
I love her more then the air that I breathe.
ABDL ?????????????????????
@@peterandrew4027 A Bald Dude Loser ?
He's a Abdul
@@peterandrew4027 its a kink thing. lets just say theres a reason she says "i love you baby" to him haha. but meh im not shaming we all got our thing, that ones just not mine haha. glad ur wife is so open minded tho frank.
I’m bald, bearded, tattooed and no longer as slender as I once was.. but I still love Filipinas and the Filipino people. I may no longer be “attractive” but I’m 💯 % genuine.
Lol, same here, but if you find the right one - she'll LOVE you for that! So many women REALLY appreciate it! Always be straight up with her and hopefully she'll always do the same for you!
Dear Pea. I am an American man and have met a woderful Philipeano lady. We have been chatting now for some time and I will be traveling to Mindanao to meet her and her family. I watch your videos and have learned much from you, so, thank-you and keep those information coming.
A lot of rich American disturbing influence in Philippines they give all their big show we are the most rich people in the world
"I love being married. It's so great to find one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life."
Hahahahaha
Spoken like a married man 👍😂
According to Jack Sparrow marriage is the ultimate wager to see who’ll fall out of love first😱🙄
No kidding 35 years & counting. All delightful martial bliss, lubby dubbie... ah who in the hell and I kidding! But it's otherwise just fine. She pisses me off & I piss her off, we have so much in common! I tell lies too!
@@bryansammis998 spoken as a jealous pirate.
@@TheFilipinaPea No coincidence that British rhyming slang for Wife is "trouble and strife".
Your videos should be considered as suggested viewing for almost any westerner who is headed to the Philippines in search of meaningful relationship with a Filipina.
I don't care about what the girls like anywhere in the world, but i'm glad that men are finding good wives somewhere, people deserve to be happy.
From my experiences, Filipinas love cuddles and hugs. Goes a long way...
I'm an American man and I've been married to a Filapena going on 6 years. What you are saying is so true.
You got Ripped off because you got a filapena instead of a filipINA
I met my lady where in live in Spain and she's amazing but I have dated Filipinas before her and everyone is different. It's far too easy to generalise . There are though aspects of Filipino culture that appear in all Filipinas obviously and it's important to try to understand and adapt. Many filipinas who travel to Europe for work get corrupted by money and lose their integrity.
Thats what the west does to people, this is the dangers of what Andrew Tate spoke about.
Not "Sugar coating" things is exactly why we love your video's Pea! : )
Thanks Storm! But you probably only say that because your gift wrapping’s been removed 😂
@@TheFilipinaPea hahaha, damn…….you’re good at this!
Sadly, I have no hair on top. I also carry a few extra pounds, but am not visually obviously overweight. Also, I have a pure white beard. So, clearly, I would not be very attractive to Filipinas. But, I am also 80 years of age, and have found a lovely 73 years young Filipina who dotes on me. We have been together for three years, and I am really happy that she is so tiny, I don’t think she has ever gotten a clear view of my bald head. Thanks for all you do, Pea. Every time I mention your name, my love cringes. However, you have pegged her so accurately, so often, she has grown to respect your cultural knowledge. She grew up in the provinces very poor Philippine style, so now she appreciates EVERYTHING.
Pea, I truly love and enjoy your innate and learned knowledge about both Filipino and Western culture. You provide a looking glass into understanding the established expectations and acceptable behaviors that Westerners should understand with Filipinas. Your insight should allow viewers the opportunities for fostering true and loving relationships. Great expose!
@@wardcummins8736 Me also, White Willy seems quite the catch!
Yes Filipino Pea is right onto it
..l have been going to the Philippines since 2000
She really opened my eyes about the Filipino mind and culture..
Hi Pea ! This is not my first post probably not my last. I wish I had found your channel years ago as you’re so informative I wish I had known before I dated a woman from Cebu for 2 years & 3 mo.
Why is it that Filipinas want to get married before the third date is over? A man who has come out of a bad relationship wants to really get to knot a lady better so as not to make the same mistake again. I’m still looking! A guy I know, I’m sorry I even told him about the Philippines. If and when I make it to the Philippines I’d like to thank you in person ( your car to young but wise beyond your years. Keep up the good work. Your a star to the people there. We should be as moral. What should we expect when trying to bring a lady to the west? What are the warning signs she’s becoming too Americanized? It seams they lose the values that endeared them to a western man?
I’m Filipino-American myself. My goal is to be in a relationship with a Filipina born in the Philippines or is a Filipino-American. I’d like to keep the family tradition. Thanks Pea for this advice 🤗
Great advice as ever! Your comments about humour particularly hit home. My Filipina almost never gets my jokes, but is polite enough to laugh anyway. I say to her "just joking" a lot It's a particular problem being British I think: it isn't just Filipinos who don't get our sense of humour 😁
Agree i been talking to a Filipino for nearly a year we both really like each other and we been in a relationship now for near 3 weeks and she still don't get my humer she got angry with me a few times aswell that was a mission to get her to see im just a joke when I get nervous
I sometimes think they don't make jokes.
Have you shown her any of the Monty Python films?
Our lass was holding her ribs they were hurting so much, and then came a month of film quotes from her.
Her age will play a major part in this. The younger or more in-tune she is with the western/outside world, she’s more likely to understand your jokes
no.. you must be a western to understand britsh humour.. 🤣😂
I really liked this video, Filipina Pea, my wife from the Philippines also watched it for once too. You are funny and often make me laugh, I learned more about the culture and Filipina likes and dislikes. Good job! 👍
I'm a big guy so my wife been pushing me to lose weight since we been together, so far I lost 30 lbs but she has gained 10 lbs. lol
I can teach you guys about food if you want help.
Keep up the good work 👏. For your health for the long-term.
@@johnpost2452 this has to be the kindest comment I've seen so far on RUclips
Now thats funny 😂
I am bad ...I argue with her to test her ...I do it because I want to know if she will quit.... relationship ..my views are to be married you will argue marriage is forever 30. 40 .50 year to live together...if she runs after 2 years then you didn't waste ...my Filipina is a keeper
I’m impressed. That’s legit video work. Excellent episode.
The best relationship I've ever had was with a Filipina. She knew I was headed for the catholic priesthood. We both fell in love deeply. She had her Canadian citizenship and worked in my monastery as a RN. She would tease me without mercy
Lol. Her family seemed to like me and insisted I call her Mom as Nani. She asked me to marry her. I wish I did. I was deeply torn as I headed to the US for additional schooling in seminary.
I enjoy your videos and appreciate your honesty. I've since left the priesthood. I love her still after fifteen years. Us westerners, me in particular, can be so dumb. I'm so glad Pea you make these videos. I guess I'll always miss her deeply ... love from Canada, Roger
So go SEE her! And in the first place, you SHOULD have become an Anglican{English Catholic} or an Orthodox {Greek/Russian/?}. With those, God EXPECTS you to marry!
Oh that’s sad 😞
@Akel can u give me scripture to this...
So, you didn't 'Roger' her in the pews?😁😁😁 Sorry Pea, I couldn't resist.
Marriage is a sacrament. Priesthood is a vocation.
A+ content with A+ entertainment value! Thank you Filipina Pea!
The more of your videos I watch, the more enamored I’m becoming with Filipina attributes. If I wasn’t already happily married I would definitely have looked for a Filipina spouse.
That young lady makes me remember why I loved the Philippines so much. What a lovely and charming lady. I like ladies, though I have been known to settle for mere women. I still remember the most lovely young lady I ever saw in the Philippines, riding on the back of a water buffalo. Her brother and I were coming to visit in their province while on leave. He was Eddie. She was Maria. God, she was gorgeous - and man, was that water buffalo ugly! Wow, that was 40 years ago. I'll bet Maria is still gorgeous.
My Philippine girlfriend has inherited the British sense of humour
Incredibly versatile 🇬🇧🇵🇭🇬🇧🇵🇭❤️
Very happy to hear this! Was thinking of moving there after retirement. Not anymore! Thank you for being truthful!
Being a Gentleman with a good heart is a must despite people saying it’s old skool
Well looks like I’ll fit right in cause that’s the way I was raised
I'm all for that too, but also I won't date a woman that isn't a kind and loving gentlewoman.
“Gentlemen” have been vilified as wolves in sheep’s clothing on the west. It’s refreshing to know women in the Philippines appreciate “old school” men.
@@Mystefier exactly
old school is the only way I know how. I have a hard time with all of the online dating :(
Your ability to paint mental pictures while describing situations or physical appearance is absolutely amazing !!...another great lesson on the Filipina psyche....you obviously have a passion for classic TV shows...GREAT VIDEO!
Thanks Rogue, and yes, I do love the classics, and I discover more of them every day 👍😊
@@TheFilipinaPea you are the new “Classic”, Pea , the one we cannot do without 👍😊
I remember that Jerry episode show: the (woman with man hands). Thank you Pea for showing that episode again. I have outlived two Filipina wives that were two sisters. I should have responded to a niece that found me on Facebook, she was so much younger than me by 29 years. She was 5 when I met her while visiting the family. She was shy and I asked her if she wanted to sit by me. She raised her eyebrows, and I held out my arm to her and she came across the room and sat on my lap not beside me, and put her arm around my neck, not letting go. She got a smiling comment from her mother. God, she was such a beautiful and adorable child. She found me on Facebook some years ago. She sent me a photo, and she had grown up so beautiful. I didn't do what my heart wanted me to do, and the contact faded away after some months. Yes, to Filipina women being such glorious caring mates. I'm too old to mate up again. I would like to live in the Philippines. Your people are so nice and friendly. Mike Hayes NC USA.
So in my experience, Filipinas want stability. They want someone stable who will love them for who they are. They want someone who can provide, but not necessarily give them everything they want. These are the real Filipinas... the ones worth knowing. If they seem to keep wanting you to buy them things, steer clear.
90% of the Phillipinas I've met #1 is getting the bills paid, often by ANY means necessary..... if the man can pay the bills, keep food on the table and a few extra pesos for sisters-cousins-neighbors-whole F-ING town,then she will 'love' you to the best of her ability....it's a different society
@@robaldridge6505 sorry,but not all Filipinas you think like that.Please don't generalized‼️
All girls want stability. JS
If you marry a Filipina, you marry her family. Be prepared for in-laws moving in with you.
@Tim Duvall.... they want someone to love them for who they are but she would never love you for who you are but only what you can provide.... please wake up buddy before you get played out there 😂
It's all about money
I don't care about the looks... As long as we love and respect each other ... Just bieng true to yourself it's goes.. love finds the way😊😊😊
Great content!
Underrated channel.
I am 6'6" so not scared of most people. spot on my wife gets mad when I dance in a store or make a comment about someone. There was someone holding a sign that he had been robbed and had no money, no gas and no other cloths. I told her with the window down... "Boy lucky they did not steal his pen or cardboard " he could hear me and she was so mad. I did that.
Being a man over 6 foot and fat I have to agree we are more of a "niche" market. There is still women who like us but you have to wade thru the ones who really just want to be out having money spent on them more then otherwise. I tend to make up for it just being a good guy and culturally sensitive to the other points. There is a lot of heavy men dating in the Phil so don't get discouraged it's not the end of the world. Besides we tend to loose weight over there, at least I do walking everywhere and eating better.
Nice to know I’m not alone
No woman wants a fat man. If she picks you it’s because she is needing money/security and her family needs help. If the American girl picks you it’s because she is also fat or not very attractive. That is unless you are rich and then you can get all the ladies
Honestly dude, I gained weight with the lack of vegetables, along with the abundance of rice and the high salt and sugar content in the food. It's really hard to eat well over there, and any place you go seems to be the same.
@@Deltadawg THIS
The "take me, show me, buy me" syndrome certainly lives in the US, and height/weight have little to do with it. I've been out with women whose only interest seems to be that one free meal/movie etc.
The trick is, of course in selecting and being selected... and filtering out the BS. Probably true of the woman's point of view, too.
I've had nothing but failure dating in the US I've been cheated on, used, disrespected ect, had a girl that couldn't even wait a week to cheat after I left for a deployment, but after watching this it sounds like eastern culture is very traditional as am I its how I was raised, I can't even so much as compliment or hold open a door for a girl here without being labeled a simp and I can't express my dismay with western culture involving women without being labeled misogynistic or an incel, I had lost hope in dating completely, losing any motivation to even talk to women knowing in the back of my mind it would end poorly, since discovering your channel I think I'll definitely be taking a long vacation to the Philippines, I feel hope I haven't felt in a very long time and maybe I can finally kill off the loneliness for good, I appreciate you and your content more than you could ever understand!
That’s shitty asf bro hopefully stepping out the country will be good for you. If mine doesn’t work out, I’m mos def gonna go abroad.. stay on it 💪🏽💪🏽💯💯💯
Asian women are everything American women are not. Do yourself a favor and stay away from the homegrown females
My first date with a Filipina. I met this charming lady at the base store and I introduced myself. She was so beautiful and spoke English with little or no accent. I asked her on a date and she accepted. She gave me her address and a time she would be ready to go. This was my first experience with Filipino time because when I arrived, she was far from ready and seemed to be embarrassed so I told her I would come back later. When I got back she was ready than told me that her older sister will be going along too. I had a great date with both of them. They were both beautiful, fun to be with too so I dated both until Racheal the one I originally asked out seemed a bit jealous because I was "too friendly" with her sister Sarah. My thought was a question. Why did she insist on bringing her sister? I found out later that her sister was the chaperon.
Next time Sir, if u ever date a Filipina again and if she brought a friend with her or a family member always keep in mind that the other one is a Chaperone not an another girl in your table she, might feel insulted and the other ones think you are a player deep down in her thoughts even if she treated you politely.
You good luck
I have to give Pea credit where credit is do. Segments are well thought out & I'm sure it takes quite a bit of time to put them together. KUDOS!!!
Pretty much hit the nail on the head with all of them.
Married 30 years now to my little Filipina Princess, and yes I was stationed in PI back in the day before the bases closed back in 92'. As how we met, I jokingly tell people I picked her right out of a rice patty. Decades later she gets my humor, and I get the look, and at times some of her own quick wit in return.
HuaH and hahaha!! what a great story, Homeboy!! 🤘👽
Some humor is best not said.." how about she found you in a trailer park or halfway house"..hahaha..not so funny is it.
Unlearning racism is hard if are taught this as a child and through the environment you are raised .
@@clayadams-el7072 you must be fun at parties.
I love Filipina women. I pray and hope I'll have a Filipina woman one day 😍😍😍😍😍
Over the last 10 years , I have had several relationships with filipina's ....I found that most really don't care that much about appearance, they want a good ,loving ,caring , responsible man with a good heart....which I am all that, but also 6'5 tall, 260 pounds, very hairy, full beard....the physical was a deal breaker for some....4'10, 90 pound scared of my size....also some wanted me to shave or wax body and shave beard , I refused to do that.....but ,overall, my experience, it is being a good person.....thanks Pea....God bless...🙏❤
Would love to find someone like that. Where are they?? Several of the ones I've found here in California seem quite materialistic. They also are obsessed with their looks, have facial injections done. Maybe they get that way when they come to the US. I make a good income too, but that's not the point. I want a relationship first before spending money on someone.
I’m now 36 years with my wife, my prayer to The Lord Almighty is to give me that same Filipina wife for eternity.
I have never been disappointed with the content of your posts. You are always informative, inciteful and very entertaining. This was probably a sensitive post for some. I thought your candor was refreshing but always well-meaning. Look forward to your next one! You are in a small group of youtubers that can produce a lot of content but it never gets old
What she said is gold guys, pay attention. Very good video!
After so many vlogers for years, I am following this girl is THE Best ,
Wow, Darius, now that’s a compliment ❤️👍
You naughty vulcan! 😆
"Is that the Captains log? Are you going to make an entry?" 😆 😆 😆
Hahahahaha
I have three different versions of that ending 😂
@@TheFilipinaPea , this one had me laughing until my stomach ached. 😆 Witty, very witty indeed! 😆 😆 😆
will like to boldly go where no man has gone before? just a 'fantasy' like Star Trek :)
@@TheFilipinaPea and i bet all those endings are happy.
It sounded so cheesy, but it was funny!
Love the cool endings, your shows get better, more creative all the time! 👍🕶
Thanks M - I’m always working on something 👍
i have never had a single date.
My Filipino date always brings her whole family to our date.
So it always Looks like a family outing with her parents and siblings
I just love the way you expect yourself and you put things in the right order
I really wish I knew about your channel 3 years ago when I met my wonderful Filipina.
I learned almost everything you spoke about in this video the hard way, From my experience as a Westerner your videos are all spot on! Thank you always and take care.
I'm in a relationship with indigenous Filipina known as ita, she is a real gentle woman, with an awesome personality. People are drawn to her positive attributes. On that note I'm planning a vacation to the Philippines very soon and meet her.
Thank you Pea, that's very useful. I will need to watch again and make notes before my visit (Covid permitting)in December, One thing was really enlightening - your definition of the word strict, as understood by Filipinas. Just a few days ago a Filipina friend explained that she didn't think it would work out between us (she had already openly moved on to another man, but still chatting with me as friends) because she thought I was too strict. I found that puzzling since we haven't even met yet, but with your definition it now makes sense. Another word that puzzled me for a moment was the word cursing. In the UK we would say swearing, never cursing, for the f***, c***, or s*** words. Cursing has a different meaning. There are quite a few differences in meaning between American English and British English, but I hadn't come across that one before.
To my mind and heart. True love does exist.. If we take the time. To know the person. Not try to change them. Just to meet our needs. Be patient and honest. Love will find its way into your heart.
I love that sentiment, Alejandro, and I hope you have someone that feels the same way 👍❤️
When I first started watching this channel, I was thinking what a wonderful opportunity it might be to get with a Filipina at some point & actually have a loving long term partner... but the more I watch & listen, the more I realize, I would never get on with a Filipina long term any more than I can one of these around here that are readily available... I'm just a loner & that's just my lot in life...
There are all types of women even within each subculture. She might be hard to find, but I promise there’s a mate out there just waiting for you!
Is she worth the effort? Not until you find her 😊
@@TheFilipinaPeathank you ❤
I've dated 2 Filipinas long distance. 1 only dated black guys and the other didn't care what race I was. I've had good experiences dating Filipinas. Even though I am no longer with either of them, I have nothing bad to say about them. 🇵🇭 ❤
I know personally speaking 20 single bebes
Yea idk if they will me I’m very sarcastic and I tease alot
I hope they weren't fat.
Hollowed them out huh?
I experienced the same with local Mexican girls. I prefer Filipinas.
Pea, I enjoy your humor as much as your wisdom. Today's video has given me the confidence that there will be a lovely Filipina who will be the delight of my life. Thank you.
DEAR LADY ALL THIS INFORMATION WAS A REAL JEWEL TO ME. I HAVE ALL THE GOOD FEATURES I SHOULD HAVE TO IMPRESS A FILIPINA. THANK YOU SO MUCH!
I remember once when I was in the Philippines standing in line at Jolibee in SM Mall with my fiancee (who is now my wife) and there was this little kid on his mother's shoulders. The little guy sees me, his eyes open wide, points at me, and yells "He has no hair!!!" I laugh and bend my head down so he could get a better look at say "Yep, no hair." His mother was so embarrassed and avoiding eye contact so I didn't say anything else. I wave goodbye to the kid and order our food. Kids say the funniest things sometimes. LOL.
We’re just not used to it 😂
You reacted in the perfect way 👍
Your intro’s and exits are crazy funny!
I commend you, not only on your excellent and informative content, but on the obvious hard work, effort, and time you put into the editing of your videos.
Cool video ❤️
Been married with my little sunshine who makes every single day a blessing for 10 years, and I find your description very accurate and funny. I've also been at sea with many pinoys for years and I find you guys exceptional by many ways. And for the record, Italians are way much more noisy than you are :-)
It appears that I'm the perfect Man for a Filipina! Thank you, I enjoy your channel
You would be in high demand here 👍👍
(you’ll see)
In your show about dating single Moms, you said that the child’s birth father could make things very difficult for everyone. Pea, you mention in the show that the new boyfriend should learn everything about the birth father and even find out about what kind of relationship the mother had with this person. In this show you say that you should never bring up the mothers past relationships and that the mother will pretend that she has no history or past relationships even while she is holding a child under each arm. So my question is, do you bring up her past relationship or not?
I had previously said that a Filipina doesn’t want you to bring up her past (if you want to play by her rules), but that you MUST bring up her past, and convince her to talk about it. I’d never get into a relationship with a person without knowing everything about their past 👍👍👍
She won’t like it, but too bad 😂
Hi Pea, I think your quirky wonderful sense of humor gives you that rare ability to tell it like it is without offending us guys. Most things you mentioned I didn’t know but are easy to change. From my experience, being kind without faking it will make us stand out from the pack in a good way.
Great humor mixed with extensive subject Knowledge!!
You’re so witty and funny with Western references 🤗✌🏽🤣
Captain's log. Make an entry. You naughty girl!
Much of what you describe (not much body hair/tattoos/piercings, not loud, no swearing, etc) sounds like my tribe! 💖
This is precisely why I’ve been single for the past 19 years after my divorce. I don’t have to deal with all these requirements because from my point of view it’s just not worth it. All I have to do is just imagine all the unnecessary hassles and headaches one has to go through and for what. I was already married for 14 years and have two wonderful kids who are doing well, don’t have to do that again. My 19 years of single life have been just wonderful, peaceful and free of all conflicts and I’m not going to change that for anything. At this stage of my life I’m not going to risk my peace and harmony and calm for the unknown. I’m not going to allow anyone to change my way of life and I don’t want to change anyone. I’m just so happy that I was born to be a loner and don’t pull my hair out because I don’t have someone with me 24/7. I’ve done it for 19 years. Most important I’m a very healthy 69 year old that plays golf 4 to 5 times per week with my other retired friend. As far as I’m concerned life couldn’t be better.
Keep up the golf!!
Even the third world ones are obnoxious these days. It's better to go solo.
I wholeheartedly agree with you I'm just glad I learned this young enough
Exactly, so right, so right. I don't mind having a good honest relationship but if the sh*t starts hitting the fan then...don't let the door hit you on the way out. Girls I have zero tolerance for BS, so don't piss me off.
spot on, Joseph. I'm 61 and same situation. life is too short to try to appease another person 24-7. I'm divorced, and when married, I could not do anything right by my ex. I prefer to be alone than deal with that crap again. I still work because I like my job, but weekends I REALLY enjoy. I do whatever I want whenever I want. Selfish? Maybe. But better to be selfish than being subjected to continuous emasculation by a manipulating hag.
Lots of fun there - thanks! That Star Trek ending and its variations are great. I am heartbroken to tell you I’m not strict, according to my new definition, but on the upside am definitely a cowboy. Also, I’m relieved to know that all the effort involved in not getting too fat would be worth it. In general it sounds like if you’re a reasonably decent person things will be okay.
Wow over 500,000 views. Funny I was just reading the comments and saw 2y ago. So hey your content is great and your getting quite a following. 😆 keep up the outstanding work you do.
Pea, you are a wealth of practical information, and you are a delight. I am in love with a Filipina, and she is with me. Learning how to negotiate the cultural differences is hugely important. Thank you Pea
I love Pea's double entendres.
Thanks! But I’m never satisfied, so I’m going to invent the triple entendre 😂😂😂
@@TheFilipinaPea Glad you're on top of it.
@@TheFilipinaPea so you want the big one?
Pea, I agree with you about the cologne, apparently some guys thinks it's marinade and the smell is overwhelming. I never use that stuff.
I suffer through the ads just for u Pea😊
THANKS!! I really do appreciate that 👍❤️
@@TheFilipinaPea i watch twice but google chrome seems to ad block
@@secretagent86 uss the app adblock no adds at all. I use a chromebook :)
Muting the sound helps a lot.
Omg too funny ! The MAN-HANDS ? Hilarious!! Spock-Pea fits right in ! Can’t wait to see what’s next !!!
Wow thanks FP very informative, especially "Joke Lang" l am married to a beautiful Filipino woman and wondered often if she had a sense of humour, but the problem l realise after watching your Video is me not adding "Joke Lang" after my teasing remark, so thanks for the info, you are a much needed source/bridge of information on cultural differences keep up the good work.
You and I truly agree on one big thing. The "F" word, Too many people in the West can't say 5 words without using it. I wish we could just get rid of the word forever. It is destroying basic culture and communication. Great video as always Pea.
agree!
@@secretagent86 I say to those that use the 'F' word to just say 'Frackin' like on the Battlestar Galactica T.V show! I worked in the construction industry for over 30yrs. and I never cursed and many would ask why I didn't I would reply just think about what you are saying and try to tell me it makes sense in english. There you go it doesn't so why say it try to substitute with a real english word to replace your curse word. Make that Brain work!
U got a very good phuckin point !
I agree. I hate it
@@Buildsolarhomes changing the spelling doesn't help
You continue to amaze me with your grasp of western culture and English language. Thanks for a great video
Clearly been around of a lot of western men
Thank you for all your very informative videos.
I'm an American, I have been talking to a Filipino woman from there for a little over a year. We are in a relationship even though we have never actually met.
She is a simple provenance woman. Everything has been going great. We even planned on getting married. The last of months she has changed in a way. Her whole demeanor has changed. You can tell that something is wrong but she won't open up to me. She seems very distant, not as talkative and hardly smiles anymore
Uh ohhhhh, James 😳
I hope you can have a serious conversation with her 👍
I love you for saying that. We are so influenced by the western views. Of course, we have our views and preferences too. You have spoken for Asian male like me. Thanks.
everyone has their likes and dislikes but ultimately filipinas want love,respect and be treated as a true equal partner
Same here! I said that exact thing in one of the few interviews I did 👍
except it's funny how they want equal partnership but their religion teaches in ephesians to submit to your husband in ALL things...... ain't that shit funny
@@cattywampusmcdoogle It also states for Men to Love your wifes. Each gender gets what they want. Women want to be loved and Men want respect.
Good comment! I feel the same way.
One thing you can count on with me, is that I'll always tell it like it is, I don't waste time with lies or B.S. nor do I tolerate either one, I believe that a relationship, be it friendship or something more can only be sustained on truth and honesty 💯
Love your videos, Pea. You're a good looker, speak and communicate well, great sense of humour, relevant topics, and much more.
Looking forward to watching more of your videos. Maybe even see you in the Philippines one day soon, after the virus.
I liked the Star Trek parody at the end. And your reference to Pan Far shows you are fairly knowledgeable about this subject. Live long and prosper!
Another standard Sweet Pea. In other words, absolutely the best information I can imagine on Filipina women and the general what is liked and disliked. I especially like that you do not give what might be called dating advice. Rather, you focus on basic qualities of traditional Filipina women. You focus on general behaviors and basics. That is the correct approach based on my models for human connection. Good job Sweet Pea.
I have several Filipina friends from the Visayan region, mostly Cebu and Mindanao here in California. The women from there LOVE dancing, are very attracted to men that are good dancers and expect the man to lead the dance movements. I'm having to take dance lessons just to keep up with them. They also seem to have quite a machismo culture. The people from there also speak with a louder voice. Are these traits common mostly in the Visayas or other regions as well?
Odd. All of the Visayan girls and women I knew were the quietist filipinas. They also had an air of elegance and old world European charm, compared with other filipinas.
Their movements were measured and graceful, as a girl who was a graduate of charm school.
They, besides being relatively quiet, were far less likely to lose their temper.
It’s as if they were a combination of the best of Asian and European behavioral traits.
Because of that, I tended to be partial towards Visayan girls and women. And I knew many. I worked my way through university at a very large Department of Veterans Affairs Medical Center that employed many thousands of filipina nurses.
Not all
You are meeting americanized filipinas....that's a whole different ballgame!
She's hilarious, extremely smart, feminine, and super cute... and I am developing a fanboy crush on a Filipina I'll never meet.
Hehehe , I like that statement.
Stand in line
4/10 at best
@@davesmith9858 The best I have so far is a bunch of twos, so a four is great for an improvement.
Thank you, your presentation is wonderful. Informed and humourous. To the point. Behind it all however, is the fact that you explain to us Westerners, that the Asian way is so subtle. I think that it takes intelligence to appreciate an Asian woman. Keep up the good work, friend.
Great knowledge + sub. Im from Poland. Have a nice day🙏
Thanks, Pitsoner! Happy to have you on the team 👍😊
Pea this was a really good video today, I really enjoyed it!
The things you say for me are really true almost all mentioned these things sure are good for foreigners looking for Filipinas must know to be aware of.
After being married to my Filipina now some 12 years (And happily married still!) Through meeting all my wife's Filipino friend's American husbands here in the US- most are also very happily married!!!
Today I am 69 years old while my Filipino is 40 years old! To those of you who have no experience with Filipino's this may sound a extreme- but in reality its quite common arrangement! Personally, I am in decent shape still today and 'look' about 50 so I feel I can provide what my wife needs- sex, money and a healthy lifestyle!
Yet, and here is where some of you may find equally amazing. (In General!) Filipino-Women besides being accessible, mature and great life-mates are A Western Man's "Second Chance' in finding any 'happiness' here in this present worldly set-up! And I say this as a guy who has been 'Around' ie. I used to own an international hotel for European backpackers and there, suffice it to say, I abused my privileges with my female guests and consequently had girlfriends around the world- ALL the time! Indeed, I'm equally happy to know today that there is Life "outside of the American-female!" (Which I see as- spoiled, immature, argumentative and rather unattractive compared to what essentially Most of the world has to offer!). Between Latin America, Africa and definitely Asia- its still largely A Man's world and there are Billions of nice, attractive young women who Do want to meet you and particularly in PI!!!!!
i.e. I've seen 350lbs Black American man happily married to a young 115 lib gorgeous-filipino who has his children and they are a happy, satisfied family today! I've seen old-old Expats who live in PI and started a Second family and the Filipina thinks nothing of this as she does her part!!!
Let me say this though, these above are all Relationships- real marriages! While, for most Westerners just 'stubble blindly' into PI- meet, find (The Filipino finds You!) and they (Like myself many years ago!) use the situation- exploit some females and leave (Some do this for years!) Thereby the Expat-Filipina meeting Most of the time is more of a fling-confrontation where both-sides get as ugly as it comes!! (You guys be particularly warned about city girls and getting involved with BIZ using your money!!)
Still in all of this- I say for you Good Guys- CAN have A Second Chance in finding a real solid relationship with A good woman 'in PI' (As well as other places??) But PI is what I know best and it has worked for me and quite a few others I know of too!
Thank you, Pea, I was in the Philippines in November for a friend's engagement party, and it turns out I met my Filipina there. We had several days to spend together while I was there, and now that I returned home, I'm in a long-distance relationship. But I'm returning for Valentine's week. Thank you for all your advice. By the way, there is an age gap between us. It does not seem to be a barrier.
Congrats, David!! And at least you met her in person first, so your chances of success are Much higher! Best of luck to you both ❤️❤️❤️
I have a very muscular body with tattoos, grey hair at least on the sides, the rest still dark, one pierced ear, my girlfriend Filipino, told me I was scary looking but also handsome, her friends say the same, but I'm good to her she is well taken care of, her friends all like me, she is very happy & she makes me happy, I feel very lucky to have her in my life :)
Great job on the editing that you do!
Thanks so much! It’s just me, my cell phone, and my laptop 👍😊
This video is absolutely hilarious 😂
It’s a masterpiece dear Pea - I love all your references, and I understand them all fully.
I wish WE can meet you some day in Cebu, with my loving Cebuana Kimberly❤️
You should consider making us a part of your stories.
Best of luck to you 👏