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Oh God, I just realized the two Greek Goddesses who best fit into the Tomboy archetype, Athena and Artemis, took a vow of chastity and won't take partners. Even the Ancient Greeks couldn't get a tomboy gf.
.... It is as though primal man had the habit, when he came in contact with fire, of satisfying an infantile desire connected with it, by putting it out with a stream of his urine. The legends that we possess leave no doubt about the originally phallic view taken of tongues of flame as they shoot, upwards. Putting out fire by micturating - a theme to which modern giants, Gulliver in Lilliput and Rabelais’ Gargantua, still hark back - was therefore a kind of sexual act with a male, an enjoyment of sexual potency in a homosexual competition. The first person to renounce this desire and spare the fire was able to carry it off with him and subdue it to his own use. By damping down the fire of his own sexual excitation, he had tamed the natural force of fire. This great cultural conquest was thus the reward for his renunciation of instinct. Further, it is as though woman had been appointed guardian of the fire which was held captive on the domestic hearth, because her anatomy made it impossible for her to yield to the temptation of this desire. It is remarkable, too, how regularly analytic experience testifies to the connection between ambition, fire and urethral erotism. -Freud, Civilization and its Discontents
Dude that’s such a good point about the goddess image assuming more virile traits with the rise of the hierarchical city state. Athena is a total daddy’s girl, Zeus dotes on her, and she just wants to sack Troy with the boys
I ain't a philosophy student, but i think almost anything humans do can say something about them, but memes is the person itself talking/relating about their anima subconsiously, just my opinion.
@@Pewatito it's like teachers that add more meaning to literature that even the authors themselves didn't think of. There was a red handkerchief. Teacher: This symbolizes a nearby threat and can also mean rising Tensions.
i think that one would work, it perfectly wraps back around to modern men needing validation from the "internet mommy" and the direct correlation to a submissive male watching twitch who wants something he cannot have
Oh man, this hits close to home. A girl who is social, energetic and free is what I wanted. Now I realize she is exactly who I am not. I can see how my childhood influenced this type of sexual desire. Living between 4 walls has started to make me feel sick lately. The fact that we are under quarantine doesn't help either.
I’ve noticed something strange happening concerning the GF culture. Anyone seen the hellish wojack with the caption “You’re not real, get out of my head” in response to waifu like memes? I think, slowly, we are beginning to painfully realize our projections. I hope so, anyways...
Self-awareness may be a step in the right direction but it isn't the journey. Those memes as far as I say at first glance are no more than a mere sad acceptance of reality.
Expecting self awareness from this generation, or any for that matter, ESPECIALLY when it comes to what they deem as an entitlement of gimmicked love catering to their tastes produced by fictional media and festering desires, you'll have a hard time buddy because NOBODY is going to want to face reality no matter how scalding it gets.
@@PaulStore800 Someone pointed out the tone of these memes are often of nihilsm or resignation. I agree with his take, meaning that we could have a worse problem on our hands than mere illusion. You are also right. As it stands, no one will want to face the reality, because facing it does not contain a better alternative. I suppose the question is how to convince one that an act of facing reality is the path towards true improvement. We would need "you're not real" memes that proclaim this realization triumphantly...
@@Crossbow1712 I await the day where reality is the only scent left, no veils are left. Where these poor men, these fools, they do not cry from pain. They eat the pain. They sustain themselves on the pain, and no longer proclaim a need for unreachable love. There will only be a single proclamation, such is KILL, MAIM, BURN. A single, thunderous cry, an absolute truth. For now they see, there is no love, no reality of love. The reality is death, the most beautiful sight to behold, because death will always remind you that you are alive and meant to enjoy this life and its pains, its absences and everything in between. Kill maim burn, io io Nyarlathotep
I think the tomboy gf is a dream specifically for men who have a hard time relating to women. They can't communicate with most women so they wish she was more like a man.
@@benwatford3068 I was friends with a kid in middle school who had the same problem. It was hard for him. I was always the one who could talk to girls and I can tell it upset him.
@@FDJ656 see but that's how it starts. Most women naturally don't have our interests. So certain men start looking for a masculine woman because they don't want to learn new social skills.
I honestly would not want a relationship with any of these "GF" archetypes. Real people are more complex than that, and I personally feel second hand embarrassment for people go out of their way to try fitting into an archetype to achieve a superficial relationship.
I think everyone knows people are more complex than that. The contrast is between people who can be compared with a virtuous archetype and simpletons who can’t really form an identity outside of their closest group
@@off6848 What would you consider a virtuous archetype? I think the difference is between people who form their own identity for themselves and those who shape their identity to fit within any given group.
@@CrumCringle There’s not just one virtuous archetype because there are many virtues A person who embraces their natural form builds and takes care of their body , doesn’t give up, could be considered Herculean for instance That person will be attractive across many dimensions to other folk, taken too far and without temperance they become more like Narcissus Which is still more attractive than a nothing blob late capitalist consumer Virtue exists somewhere else, but it’s very real and relatable when you see it in a person it’s more relatable than say a person who just grew up eating the same brand of snack or whatever
@@off6848 I guess... Idk I just have a hard time really looking at people and defining them by their archetypes. I see the archetypes, but so many of them overlap too.
@@CrumCringle yeah they do overlap I was being simplistic for sake of clarity All I’m saying is there seems to be a ton of people who lack any real virtue or at best over compensate into narcissism (popular people no one actually wants to be with or around)
She is the opposite of the mother the father. She offers the same pleasure of the mommy gf just differently she acts like a dad. For a large portion children do think of parents as invincible especially the father. As they grow they realize the reality thus wanting a psuedo father smone who will protect and push you keeping you focused and motivated. Not to different to the mommy gf. (Wrote this before seeing the video let's see how much good at analysis I am) Edit:- couldn't be far from the truth
I see the word "invincible", and it makes me think of this guy who has been trying to get The Lich King's horse in World of Warcraft since Wrath of the Lich King. He still has no horse, and he doesn't really have a girlfriend either. Although, not for lack of trying...
I dont think its because people want a father figure. Hear me out: In Freudian psychosexual Development there is a stage in wich kids form a rivalry with their same sex parent. Basically the kids want to replace their same sex parent (oedipus complex, electra complex) and will act very similar to them. If the kid doesnt learn that replacing the parent isnt possible or doesnt try to or has any other complication in the process then it will have a fixation for its life. For boys the Oedipus complex. So what i am going at is, when boys have a difficult life with their father they will rather search for a 'motherly woman' then again a 'dominant father' wich they despise or are afraid of. However Sexual development is harshly critiziced today and is really old, but it comes from the guy who invented Psychoanalysis.
"We naturally project our opposites to alien forms that we either want to fuck or fuck up" is probably one of my favorite quotes now lol it conveys the idea in a very primal manner and concise manner.
Went into this wanting a Tomboy GF. Ended up still wanting a Tomboy GF but accepting the fact that i'll never get a Tomboy GF and i should focus on making myself a better person in general.
imagine having childhood friendships and defining social experiences throughout puberty that are essential for your development into adult life must be nice
The dark side is that you learn from idiotic children Your generation learning from anime n shit can circumvent a lot of painful mistakes like not learning about sex from fellow littol turd nuggets Needs to be a balance tho
Bad girls, people who have fucked up lives and backstories, possible parental issues, abuse, drug use, hatred of society, etc etc. Those are things people usually associate with Goth people…….I don’t know you at all, and I sure as hell won’t ask you to reply to this, but ask yourself if you relate to any of those ideas at all? And bingo, that might be way. “Opposites Attract” is total bullshit. People like who they share things with
Well, I do know some women that'd count as tomboys. But ye they aren't usually around the same kind of shitposting meme environments I am. But I tend to end up around women in general just out of lack of discomfort. Growing up with three aunts and two sisters a fear of women is quite alien to me.
In my case, growing up with two sisters and a mother, and for a time considering myself a trans woman, my discomfort around women didn't stem from a fear in the regular sense, but an almost reverence toward women. This isn't to say I put them on a pedestal above men, but that I revered the nature of the divine feminine displayed through them, something I at the time (and am having trouble getting over) I envied them for. My attempt at transitioning to a woman stemmed from my desire to embody that divine feminine essence the women in my life so effortlessly exuded.
@@CrumCringle I am actually your opposite, I dislike the feminine, seeing it as a source of irrationality, emotional instability, weakness and unclarity. Which is why I have never had a female friend, because in my mind a female friend would just waste my time, weaken me, confuse me and maybe even use me. I know this sounds bigoted, but it is a natural thought pattern to me. I think I am naturally misogynistic, and consider the masculine the posessor of power, energy, agression, and the feminine merely a distraction, a temptation, the kryptonite to masculine progress. I know I am missing something huge. What should I do to overcome this?
@@devanshrathore9112 realize the qualities that come with the downsides of the feminine and attempt as best as you can to take a cold look at it and rid it of your emotions that clearly made you resentful
"Why do people on the Internet want a Tomboy GF" actually this is really easy to answer. They are easy to get along with, to please and are alot of fun to be around
Oh yes, indeed! That’s why I thought it was a genuine question. I thought this poor guy just wanted to know where to buy his own Nietzsche pillow. But maybe I was just projecting my own desire to have a Nietzsche body pillow all along :(
I have some counterarguments for you: 1. Wanting a lover who has similar interests to your own isn't a bad thing. If you do find someone like it means you'll both have a great time pursuing your hobbies together. The only downside is when people start pretending to be someone they're not to try and fit into a narrow archetype that doesn't really suit them. 2. Actual tomboys sometimes feel like they cannot get a boyfriend because they feel like no man would them not being "feminine enough" while being torn between choosing to compromise their own hobbies or being lonely. This meme would be a giant relief to them because it implies they are desirable as they usually are, therefore they wouldn't need to change themselves. Your arguments in this video are valid, but you didn't mention any potential beneficial traits to this meme, when it seems to me like you should have.
Tomboys are an endangered species. Many have become hardcore woke fanatics, or trans. We need to protect our tomboys from falling into that dark rabbit hole.
You hit the nail here. I've always been attracted to tomboys because they seem like my own missing puzzle piece; more free and masculine than I am. I was loved as a child but ridiculed as a teenager.
I've moved past that phase, but something is wrong. Without a central desire in my life, I can't help but not feel empty. It's almost as if I have lost my love for something I once revered as my God.
You can still be a masculine tomboy and be nice to your friends tho, I don't see the point in calling something nice feminine and something bad and rude masculine.
Being masculine doesn't mean being a piece of shit to everyone. You shoot the shit with your friends, nothing serious just taking the piss and having a laugh with them, but when someone really messes with your friends then you can be a piece of shit. Also good luck reigning in the anger and the disses as a software developer lmao. I think you chose the wrong profession to go with that goal 😅
My experience with a certain real life tomboy (who gave me my first kiss and many more): Tomboyism seems to be a variant of the Shakti Principle (femininity as energy). Even the frequent saying of "riding the tiger" actually fits astonishingly well. The element of "danger" expressed in that statement is definitely present as well.
I’ve waited my entire life to hear others say you can’t play video games all day and they are harmless. Back in the 90s they did they would make kids violent, but the opposite happened. These kids seem to lack virility. It use to be a kid or two like that in your class back in the day, but it’s like all of them now. It’s like sticking a house cat by an ally cat. He needs to discuss the lack of virility in kids today. I find them sick and disturbing. I blame the culture. They will never attract a woman and will stay angry. Sad
"Back in the 90s they did they would make kids violent, but the opposite happened. These kids seem to lack virility." Completely agree, I WISH video games were able to move people to act on their drives! What we have is a truly enervated youth, which would happily stay down forever.
@@jinroh5517 of course, there is a time and place for every emotion, and I don’t think people understand that. I don’t like ultra alpha or ultra beta men, just too extremes who tend to be fake
@@MemeAnalysis Honestly your videos sometimes call me out on a personal level that I both enjoy and despise. I love video games, I was slightly sheltered, and in recent years I find I live entirely in my own head and have contempt both for myself and those around me. Your videos often expose the reason for my behaviors in ways I never previously understood. I feel conflicted and resentful of it, but only because it is true. Im not a deeply submerged, hunch-necked internet slave who says things like "POG" irl, but I do often use the internet as a crutch to save me from reality. From porn addiction to video game addiction to phone addiction, my development was admittedly stunted. After the covid crisis is dealt with, I have to do better. I have to live.
One of the greatest things to come from RUclips. May you go down as one of the great analysers and thinkers of our time, good sir. Keep up the fantastic content.
this kinda videos is so refreshing mate. keep posting. honestly I think you should start actual classes or a ted talk. memes are an interesting mirror to various aspects of society
Thank you so much for making a series like this. Its been what I was looking for in terms of how you relate seemingly simple memes to the larger sphere of psychology and how we as people think. Keep up the good work!!
But the video actually contains nothing but fouls on people desire instead of actually seeing the core point of why people have this desires. This video is like making having desire is nothing but stupidity which is false. there is no human who don't have specific desires. The desire for tomboy is because of the quick related mentality of them which are more towards masculine. There is no doubt that men finds tomboy attractive in physical way, and find familiarity with tomboy too. This guy trying to make a indirect law that straight people can only have desires of having relationships with female who are feminine and men who are only masculine. This video will create a fear in people who have this desires, they will fear that the majority of people here will make fun of them for having this desires.
Steps on how to get a tomboy gf: Step 1: go outside Step 2: socialize to a tomboy Step 3: let the rest just happen Me trying the steps: 1: trying to go outside 2: trying to socialize 3: failing to socialize and go outside 4: cry
Finally a meme analyst that thoroughly searches and studies the memes instead of just throwing a random philosophical explanation that can fit multiple situations. Subscribed.
i used to just look at memes without any thought for the lols but this man has really made me think about them more. What kind of person made the origional picture? who are the people that find this meme worthy to spread to others? its all so interesting now
Any person making memes about Tomboy GFs probably had a crush on a sporty/alt girl who turned out to be a butch lesbian in 8th grade & never got over it in the last 10-15 years
For a long time i didn't dig the "Cool Girl Monologue" from Gone Girl, i belived that "well there are women that are really into men's stuff", but now i understand: is a monologue directed to Tomboy GF enthusiasts.
This is jaw dropping. Simply incredible great work. I was actuslly obsessed with the character Tetra from Zelda the Windwaker (constantly drawing pictures of her and replaying scenes with her from the game) and this actually puts a lot of this into perspective.
Lol all these people acting like he's found the holy grail of human experiences and can perfectly dissect the modern human mind based on memes. Take it for what it is, an interesting look. Wanting things like this is nothing wrong; obsessing over it might be. Everyone has wants and desires, and the issues are far greater than just yourself.
I like ya take, g. But many here don't know the first thing about human experiences and stuff so this kind of objectivism is difficult I have to admit I'm the same
Yeah same. I love Carl Daddy too, but, y'know, the Jung Cream is like the Jesus Sauce or the Marx Soup, you gotta keep your head out at one point to take a breath of fresh air.
You want a tomboy gf not a masculine girl. Big diff. The tomboy gf thing is so true. I don’t ever get crushes anymore. But sometimes those naturally pretty Tomboy girls make my heart melt.
@@CrumCringle not necessarely, but i find it fascinating as it involves the both biggest drivers of humanity, sex, violence and power, all combined into a single entity that both terrifies and attracts the viewer.
@@CrumCringle I also think an in deep analysis of the Yandere will go togheter with the videos talking about the All consuming mother and the internet as the "mother" that the Meme analyst was doing.
@@maurelneimar I don’t want to be reductionist, but I feel it would also be a type of devouring mother. Ultimately the fantasy is selfish, as the yandere is possessed by their attraction of the male without requirement or condition. It is a kind of motherly love, but exaggerated. A yandere is so infatuated she is willing to kill, torture, etc to secure the love of the male. This isn’t very different than the devouring mother who is willing to keep their child enveloped at all costs, I think. I think the particularly interesting part is the attractive nature of narcissistic, dangerous women.
@@Crossbow1712 While you are right, in the Yandere trope, she isn't eveloping the child, the object of her obession is aware of her dark nature and her violence, and fears, hates and also feels sexually aroused and tempted by the Yandere, but the main point of the thrope is to be face to face with the darkest aspects of the devouring mother, while trying not to be devoured but loving the idea that she desires to devour you.
it's here! great video! one of your best videos! also nice, now it looks like on the channel video layout that the tomboy gf and the mommy gf thumbnails are fighting against each other or are having a showdown counterbalancing each other from extremely masculine woman and extremely feminine woman. in a sort of ying and yang way like at 1:00 . this video really helped , me a lot. also the new outro music is a smooth banger.
I almost feel like I'm outside this. I became interested in tomboys/fit women after I began lifting weights because I wanted to be with someone who shared a common cause with me.
I've only dated "tomboys." I had no idea they were widely desired. Perhaps it's because men have really gone more feminine in a lot of ways the last20+ years and balance is needed for a relationship...
As always, great work! I always find your work to be combng and extremely informative. I appreciate the way you deliver content. Keep up the quality stuff!
My first Gf was a tomboy like in the memes tan lines, boy hair, and athletic she was very loving but i was inmature and did not love her as much as she did i still think about her but i can't change the past, overall 10/10 would have a tomboy gf again
I always thought that the tomboy was the desire of the egos masculine qualities in the opposite, the same way the soft boi/femmeboy, guys who wear makeup and skirts has become a desire for girls.
So I guess the moral of the story is to get outside, get friends, and live life? Because the tomboy gf sounds like your average girl who just works out and plays Vidya.
I played outside as a kid in a semi-dangerous neighborhood. There was an abandoned house with an escaped convict that lived in the basement and made jewelry for people for money. BTW, I am 25... I feel anyone who wasn't a kid before smartphones came out missed out on a large part of childhood. I played a large amount of video games AND played outside....playing outside does not happen as much now...not unsupervised like it was with me.
I've gone back and forth on my opinion of your videos so many times, but I always come away learning something. I love that you dive into topics around gender and sexuality from a psychoanalytic perspective without turning towards prescriptive claims and pathologization of diversity. It's very rare for me as a femboy to feel included in this kind of discourse, but your bit at the end about individuation really hit for me personally. I'm not used to feeling acknowledged and empowered by psychoanalytic ideas. Bravo
Hey man. I love your content and I watch everything you post. It gave me a different perspective on many things. One thing I've observed is that I really love pausing and reading everything that is written in the meme. But now that you put it small in the corner, I couldn't read some of them... And I liked more when you had your voice in the background and the meme on full screen. Is not that I dislike to see you talking don't get me wrong haha, but it is distracting me because I see that you are reading, but when your voice was in the background I could focus better on the content you were transmitting. I'm not saying you should do it different, just that this has been my experience.
Tomboys fill a space for those who had neither a gf nor a friend in high school/growing up. This is why she also fills the role of the perfect gf of the improover. He still feels the sadness of his lowest point and he desperately wants this upbeat, almost bro-like female to help pull him fully from the muck. He had no friends who hit the gym with him, nobody to spot him and encourage him to make that new personal record. When that person enters his life and is, at the same time, the object of his affection, the encouragement means so much more and he works harder because of it. The nature of this relationship means that he not only strives for improvement for his own gain but also for the purpose of keeping this person in his life. Bottom line muscle tomboy gf makes you want to live it. Kyriakos Grizzly has a tomboy gf, that's why he's able to lift close to 2000lbs.
yo great analysis in a minute. i really get behind this interpretation. i hate this whole ideal gf meme stuff in general but this gave me a new perspective as to why nerds love it so much
this is one of the most brutal videos i had ever seen, the part about overbearing parents and a generation raised by internet and video games just reminded me of this dystopian era we live in, and one of the smartest videos i had ever seen, i downloaded it to my hard drive because i don't want such video to be lost.
Great video! I have noticed that when it comes to imagining my ideal Tomboy GF they not only possess traits I lack but also traits that are probably what one might consider my own more "positive" qualities. Guess if anything this would be a sign of my need to properly individuate and look within. Maybe then I can go from desiring an Archtype to someone who's with another that dances with their animus. First I need to learn to dance...
I must admit, as a child, I had somewhat of a crush for Haruka Tenoh/Sailor Uranus. (Who wears short hair, boys clothing, drives fast cars etc. in the series.) Strangely enough, the first girl who later kissed me (and allowed me my first sexual experience I did not pay for) looked extremely similar to Haruka. At the same time I watched Sailor Moon, I became a huge fan of fighting games. Especially from SNK and Capcom. One of my favourite characters was Nakoruru, a somewhat pagan huntres figure.
I can't speak to other people, but I know why I do: Because when I was younger, I had a friend who was tomboyish. I still think about her to this day, despite it being almost a decade since I last saw her. These tomboy memes remind me of her. I really wish they wouldn't though
This hit very close home,this explains my attraction to muscular girls and links it to my childhood full of loneliness and isolation in my home,she would never let me go further away than the backyard,it was an impassable border to me while other kids would go around the whole small town and even further.
I remember this half-japanese girl i became friends with during my years in college, and yes she act's like a tomboy as well. Yes.. It sounds like it came from an anime but i kid you not unfortunately. But basically she forcefully befriended me, though i was reluctant at first but eventually she succeeded and we became close friends for 2 years to a point that our classmates has mistaken us for being a couples, though i hated that view they had unfortunately there's other dudes there who grew a liking to her and pretty much bugged her to become their girlfriend though she always rejected them as she has this idea that she doesn't want a boyfriend nor planning one until she dies. Fitting for the Anima Archetype indeed. And because of that i didn't have as much friends since they resented me for being close to her. Unfortunately however i fucking fell for her in the end, the problem is (Yes i know i would sounds like a fucking stereotypical anime character but i seriously kid you not) I also never really had interest in any girls but this one caught me. When we were at a sort've date i for the first time on my life confessed only to be rejected lmao.. Don't go for the bad ending route kings.
There was a girl 2 years under me in HS that was a tomboy gf that shitposted with me that also wanted to date me. I was too autistic to notice the signs, and I never really wanted to date until I was out of college. Now that I want to date I found out its so hard online dating in the south. Anyone with the same hobbies as me is either obese or a literal 10/10 and I haven't found anyone inbetween that was close to the 6/10 tomboy gf from high school. Regret
TL;DW: The isolated boy wants the free girl.
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The 2 downvotes are tomboys
Overthinking it.
Alecia Beth Moore Hart, is hot.
Simple as that.
A cigar is a cigar.
Well in some cases.
Or the free boy wants someone he can relate to.
I love the ending credits theme ... did you make that yourself or - if not - what's it called?
Step 1: Individuation
Step 2: Go outside
Step 3: Acquire tomboy gf
Indeed
Step 5: cover yourself in oil
Don’t gotta be in that order ;)
@@raptorx7519 You forgot Step 4.
unclear instructions, I'm being gut fucked...
“Desire of the Memer” is something I never expected to hear today
Or ever in my life
@@____-ze3hj jung has entered the chat
This guy is a machine at churning out perfect, golden phrases.
sounds like a prog-rock album.
Eats spicy goodness, like a boss
Oh God, I just realized the two Greek Goddesses who best fit into the Tomboy archetype, Athena and Artemis, took a vow of chastity and won't take partners. Even the Ancient Greeks couldn't get a tomboy gf.
I had 2 kinda tomboy girlfriends and they really weren't into sex much
@@adrians5875 Damn no wonder why I related to them so much😂.
Yeah Orion and Hephaestus tried but failed.
@@steamyvegetables1445 Hephaestus is the embodiment of the neckbeard.
@@nowhereman6019 besides being a master craftsmen maybe
I was really afraid that he was gonna call me gay
It’s cause you are, no need for the big man to say it
Guys like all kinds of women. What's the big deal? It's not gay if you like certain characteristics in women
U r gay 😈
It's not gay if her balls don't touch yours.
It isn't gay. It isn't straight either tho 🤷
MemeAnalysis drinking game: a shot for every "Jung" and 2 for every "anima".
Water shots
@@monnicamii Fun fact, you can still die by drinking too much water.
@@zzxp1 it would have to be a LOT of water
no alcohol, allah forbids it
how to commit die
At this point, I'm starting to think the way I piss probably has some deeper meaning that I'm not aware of.
....
It is as though primal man had the habit, when he came in contact with fire,
of satisfying an infantile desire connected with it, by putting it out with a stream of his
urine. The legends that we possess leave no doubt about the originally phallic view taken
of tongues of flame as they shoot, upwards. Putting out fire by micturating - a theme to
which modern giants, Gulliver in Lilliput and Rabelais’ Gargantua, still hark back - was
therefore a kind of sexual act with a male, an enjoyment of sexual potency in a
homosexual competition. The first person to renounce this desire and spare the fire was
able to carry it off with him and subdue it to his own use. By damping down the fire of his
own sexual excitation, he had tamed the natural force of fire. This great cultural conquest
was thus the reward for his renunciation of instinct. Further, it is as though woman had
been appointed guardian of the fire which was held captive on the domestic hearth,
because her anatomy made it impossible for her to yield to the temptation of this desire. It
is remarkable, too, how regularly analytic experience testifies to the connection between
ambition, fire and urethral erotism.
-Freud, Civilization and its Discontents
@@MemeAnalysis this is why you're the best. 👏
@@MemeAnalysis Damn, I had no idea people pee on fire.
@@MemeAnalysis bruh
I sit down when I pee and I have a benis.
Dude that’s such a good point about the goddess image assuming more virile traits with the rise of the hierarchical city state. Athena is a total daddy’s girl, Zeus dotes on her, and she just wants to sack Troy with the boys
I was waiting for the mention of Athena. He sorta hinted at Artemis tho with the huntress bit.
@@MaidenMacabre He did mention goddesses of wisdom in general.
this guy just proves that memes are modern day philosophy
I ain't a philosophy student, but i think almost anything humans do can say something about them, but memes is the person itself talking/relating about their anima subconsiously, just my opinion.
meme philosophy is kinda more advanced, too. It’s halfway between traditional and propositional communication
@@Pewatito it's like teachers that add more meaning to literature that even the authors themselves didn't think of.
There was a red handkerchief.
Teacher: This symbolizes a nearby threat and can also mean rising Tensions.
The word "meme" means the smallest unit of an idea, hence both the ubiquity and relatability
He presents the meaning of memes based on his interpretation which comes from his political leanings, perception on life etc.
At least you didn't do "ugh fine I guess you are my little pogchamp"
We need it
This one is pretty cringe ngl
if he did that, he would accidentally massacre the majority of his viewers
Shits cringe, glad he didn't.
i think that one would work, it perfectly wraps back around to modern men needing validation from the "internet mommy" and the direct correlation to a submissive male watching twitch who wants something he cannot have
I feel like this guy is exposing every human irl and indirectly
i agree
Most of this is pseudoscience
@@neighbor472 Most of modern psychology is bullshit pseudoscience.
@@lukejones7164 I mean, you're not wrong, but we don't have anything better at the moment for exploring the human psyche.
did you just vomit letters?
Alright now I'm certain you're calling me out.
Ew, you like meme archetypes? CRINGE
You are a cringe weeb
@@CrumCringle Imagine liking something. That's the true cringe.
@damn boi imagine being an individual. Cringe
@@the_big_iron800 imagine existing unironically, cringe
Oh man, this hits close to home. A girl who is social, energetic and free is what I wanted. Now I realize she is exactly who I am not. I can see how my childhood influenced this type of sexual desire. Living between 4 walls has started to make me feel sick lately. The fact that we are under quarantine doesn't help either.
Yes we can desire what we can't have and sexual desire is the highest form of desire.
I have a tomboy childhood friend next door
I don't know if I am lucky, or dead meat
@@totallynoteverything1. If you don't take advantage of the opportunity I can't say that you're lucky.
@@Player-re9mo understood
@@Perrirodan1 kob
DIGI-MOMS
DIGITAL MOTHERS
DIGI-MOMS ARE THE ANIMAS
Mama Lilithmon
Aaaannddd Mervamon & Kinkakumon..for when you want both a mommy gf and a tomboy gf in one go.( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
@@SeymoreSparda
Digimon has come that far now??? owo
What about DIGI-MONS
I’ve noticed something strange happening concerning the GF culture. Anyone seen the hellish wojack with the caption “You’re not real, get out of my head” in response to waifu like memes? I think, slowly, we are beginning to painfully realize our projections. I hope so, anyways...
Self-awareness may be a step in the right direction but it isn't the journey. Those memes as far as I say at first glance are no more than a mere sad acceptance of reality.
This is what evangelion was really about
Expecting self awareness from this generation, or any for that matter, ESPECIALLY when it comes to what they deem as an entitlement of gimmicked love catering to their tastes produced by fictional media and festering desires, you'll have a hard time buddy because NOBODY is going to want to face reality no matter how scalding it gets.
@@PaulStore800 Someone pointed out the tone of these memes are often of nihilsm or resignation. I agree with his take, meaning that we could have a worse problem on our hands than mere illusion. You are also right. As it stands, no one will want to face the reality, because facing it does not contain a better alternative. I suppose the question is how to convince one that an act of facing reality is the path towards true improvement. We would need "you're not real" memes that proclaim this realization triumphantly...
@@Crossbow1712 I await the day where reality is the only scent left, no veils are left. Where these poor men, these fools, they do not cry from pain. They eat the pain. They sustain themselves on the pain, and no longer proclaim a need for unreachable love. There will only be a single proclamation, such is KILL, MAIM, BURN. A single, thunderous cry, an absolute truth. For now they see, there is no love, no reality of love. The reality is death, the most beautiful sight to behold, because death will always remind you that you are alive and meant to enjoy this life and its pains, its absences and everything in between.
Kill maim burn, io io Nyarlathotep
I think the tomboy gf is a dream specifically for men who have a hard time relating to women. They can't communicate with most women so they wish she was more like a man.
As someone who has the Berger’s, yes and one with autism would be cloud nine
@@benwatford3068 I was friends with a kid in middle school who had the same problem. It was hard for him. I was always the one who could talk to girls and I can tell it upset him.
That kinda sounds like the Manic Pixie Dream girl a bit
This FEELS accurate as fuck.
@@FDJ656 see but that's how it starts. Most women naturally don't have our interests. So certain men start looking for a masculine woman because they don't want to learn new social skills.
I honestly would not want a relationship with any of these "GF" archetypes. Real people are more complex than that, and I personally feel second hand embarrassment for people go out of their way to try fitting into an archetype to achieve a superficial relationship.
I think everyone knows people are more complex than that. The contrast is between people who can be compared with a virtuous archetype and simpletons who can’t really form an identity outside of their closest group
@@off6848 What would you consider a virtuous archetype? I think the difference is between people who form their own identity for themselves and those who shape their identity to fit within any given group.
@@CrumCringle There’s not just one virtuous archetype because there are many virtues
A person who embraces their natural form builds and takes care of their body , doesn’t give up, could be considered Herculean for instance
That person will be attractive across many dimensions to other folk, taken too far and without temperance they become more like Narcissus
Which is still more attractive than a nothing blob late capitalist consumer
Virtue exists somewhere else, but it’s very real and relatable when you see it in a person it’s more relatable than say a person who just grew up eating the same brand of snack or whatever
@@off6848 I guess... Idk I just have a hard time really looking at people and defining them by their archetypes. I see the archetypes, but so many of them overlap too.
@@CrumCringle yeah they do overlap I was being simplistic for sake of clarity
All I’m saying is there seems to be a ton of people who lack any real virtue or at best over compensate into narcissism (popular people no one actually wants to be with or around)
I thought I liked tomboys, then I dated one and realized I actually just like skinny girls with short hair.
Same
Tom boys are annoying
I thought I liked tomboys. And then I tried to date one. And realized I just like boys :/
@@sporeham1674 same
same
She is the opposite of the mother the father. She offers the same pleasure of the mommy gf just differently she acts like a dad. For a large portion children do think of parents as invincible especially the father. As they grow they realize the reality thus wanting a psuedo father smone who will protect and push you keeping you focused and motivated.
Not to different to the mommy gf.
(Wrote this before seeing the video let's see how much good at analysis I am)
Edit:- couldn't be far from the truth
I see the word "invincible", and it makes me think of this guy who has been trying to get The Lich King's horse in World of Warcraft since Wrath of the Lich King. He still has no horse, and he doesn't really have a girlfriend either. Although, not for lack of trying...
Fatherlessness the syndrome.
@@Alex_Dul
They should get that masculinity from their male companions.
I dont think its because people want a father figure.
Hear me out:
In Freudian psychosexual Development there is a stage in wich kids form a rivalry with their same sex parent.
Basically the kids want to replace their same sex parent (oedipus complex, electra complex) and will act very similar to them.
If the kid doesnt learn that replacing the parent isnt possible or doesnt try to or has any other complication in the process then it will have a fixation for its life.
For boys the Oedipus complex.
So what i am going at is, when boys have a difficult life with their father they will rather search for a 'motherly woman' then again a 'dominant father' wich they despise or are afraid of.
However Sexual development is harshly critiziced today and is really old, but it comes from the guy who invented Psychoanalysis.
So you're trying to tell me that my attraction to tomboys is related to my abandonment issues?
"We naturally project our opposites to alien forms that we either want to fuck or fuck up" is probably one of my favorite quotes now lol it conveys the idea in a very primal manner and concise manner.
Went into this wanting a Tomboy GF. Ended up still wanting a Tomboy GF but accepting the fact that i'll never get a Tomboy GF and i should focus on making myself a better person in general.
And then after making yourself a better person you can find a Tomboy gf at your local gym or something.
@@amexicangorilla2901 that is the plan 😈
@@sainttacobell7264update?
imagine having childhood friendships and defining social experiences throughout puberty that are essential for your development into adult life
must be nice
Yeah.....
The dark side is that you learn from idiotic children
Your generation learning from anime n shit can circumvent a lot of painful mistakes like not learning about sex from fellow littol turd nuggets
Needs to be a balance tho
@@screwtardeeqbillion1939 You have Zodd From Berserk as your pfp, i see ur Man of culture as well
Can relate :(
The bars of the iron gate felt cool against my face at least :)
@@MareWT guts theme intensifies
I can’t wait to see which deep psychological issue he uses to explain why I like goth girls
Bad girls, people who have fucked up lives and backstories, possible parental issues, abuse, drug use, hatred of society, etc etc. Those are things people usually associate with Goth people…….I don’t know you at all, and I sure as hell won’t ask you to reply to this, but ask yourself if you relate to any of those ideas at all? And bingo, that might be way. “Opposites Attract” is total bullshit. People like who they share things with
Well, I do know some women that'd count as tomboys. But ye they aren't usually around the same kind of shitposting meme environments I am.
But I tend to end up around women in general just out of lack of discomfort. Growing up with three aunts and two sisters a fear of women is quite alien to me.
In my case, growing up with two sisters and a mother, and for a time considering myself a trans woman, my discomfort around women didn't stem from a fear in the regular sense, but an almost reverence toward women. This isn't to say I put them on a pedestal above men, but that I revered the nature of the divine feminine displayed through them, something I at the time (and am having trouble getting over) I envied them for. My attempt at transitioning to a woman stemmed from my desire to embody that divine feminine essence the women in my life so effortlessly exuded.
@@CrumCringle
Huh- I just make a lotta my personal characters female as fantasy self inserts but damm.
@@suruxstrawde8322 Lol Ye
@@CrumCringle I am actually your opposite, I dislike the feminine, seeing it as a source of irrationality, emotional instability, weakness and unclarity. Which is why I have never had a female friend, because in my mind a female friend would just waste my time, weaken me, confuse me and maybe even use me. I know this sounds bigoted, but it is a natural thought pattern to me. I think I am naturally misogynistic, and consider the masculine the posessor of power, energy, agression, and the feminine merely a distraction, a temptation, the kryptonite to masculine progress. I know I am missing something huge. What should I do to overcome this?
@@devanshrathore9112 realize the qualities that come with the downsides of the feminine and attempt as best as you can to take a cold look at it and rid it of your emotions that clearly made you resentful
"Why do people on the Internet want a Tomboy GF" actually this is really easy to answer. They are easy to get along with, to please and are alot of fun to be around
is that a Nietzsche bodypillow you got there?
I think he’s from cardboard and appeared in some older video
@@wilgefortisohlin568 it's a joke, bud
@@flexkuntsmash3053 Well, I was wondering if it is. Good to know
Oh yes, indeed!
That’s why I thought it was a genuine question. I thought this poor guy just wanted to know where to buy his own Nietzsche pillow.
But maybe I was just projecting my own desire to have a Nietzsche body pillow all along :(
@@wilgefortisohlin568 it's ok, bud. If it's any solace to you, I'd get a Jung body pillow.
smartest, most knowledgable youtuber i've seen and EVEN entertaining
I have some counterarguments for you:
1. Wanting a lover who has similar interests to your own isn't a bad thing. If you do find someone like it means you'll both have a great time pursuing your hobbies together. The only downside is when people start pretending to be someone they're not to try and fit into a narrow archetype that doesn't really suit them.
2. Actual tomboys sometimes feel like they cannot get a boyfriend because they feel like no man would them not being "feminine enough" while being torn between choosing to compromise their own hobbies or being lonely. This meme would be a giant relief to them because it implies they are desirable as they usually are, therefore they wouldn't need to change themselves.
Your arguments in this video are valid, but you didn't mention any potential beneficial traits to this meme, when it seems to me like you should have.
very interesting and solid argument
spitting straight facts
Tomboys are an endangered species. Many have become hardcore woke fanatics, or trans. We need to protect our tomboys from falling into that dark rabbit hole.
I did had a tomboyish gf and she did assumed that men preffer more girly girls.
Thanks for standing up for us ;-)
You hit the nail here. I've always been attracted to tomboys because they seem like my own missing puzzle piece; more free and masculine than I am. I was loved as a child but ridiculed as a teenager.
I literally had a nightmare just this night where I met a tomboy where she told me women dont like me cause I'm a male, not a man...
Fuckin hell. I hope you feel better or in the case the dream was right I hope you improve.
I believe in you. You have value.
Fuckin hell, I'm stealing that one
I've moved past that phase, but something is wrong. Without a central desire in my life, I can't help but not feel empty. It's almost as if I have lost my love for something I once revered as my God.
@@YourFather1555 You ever tried religion bro?
@Alex JG technology is awesome, social media is not.
I love the new(?) outro
Well sounds like you recovered from the bullying stuff.
It seem you found balance and came full circle.
You can still be a masculine tomboy and be nice to your friends tho, I don't see the point in calling something nice feminine and something bad and rude masculine.
You seem to balance your masculinity and femininity very well.
Being masculine doesn't mean being a piece of shit to everyone. You shoot the shit with your friends, nothing serious just taking the piss and having a laugh with them, but when someone really messes with your friends then you can be a piece of shit.
Also good luck reigning in the anger and the disses as a software developer lmao. I think you chose the wrong profession to go with that goal 😅
My experience with a certain real life tomboy (who gave me my first kiss and many more): Tomboyism seems to be a variant of the Shakti Principle (femininity as energy). Even the frequent saying of "riding the tiger" actually fits astonishingly well. The element of "danger" expressed in that statement is definitely present as well.
Well what if I want a tomboy mommy gf?
Momboy gf?
@@CrumCringle Dad Gf
Ah yes, perfection
you have to master dancing around the anima, a mutalistic relationship instead of symbiosis one. atleast thats one the guywith the beard said
A soccer mom?
"Need tomboy gf"
I feel called out.
I really love these videos man. You're totally on to something
I’ve waited my entire life to hear others say you can’t play video games all day and they are harmless. Back in the 90s they did they would make kids violent, but the opposite happened. These kids seem to lack virility. It use to be a kid or two like that in your class back in the day, but it’s like all of them now. It’s like sticking a house cat by an ally cat. He needs to discuss the lack of virility in kids today. I find them sick and disturbing. I blame the culture. They will never attract a woman and will stay angry. Sad
"Back in the 90s they did they would make kids violent, but the opposite happened. These kids seem to lack virility."
Completely agree, I WISH video games were able to move people to act on their drives! What we have is a truly enervated youth, which would happily stay down forever.
Sometimes you need to be violent.
@@jinroh5517 of course, there is a time and place for every emotion, and I don’t think people understand that. I don’t like ultra alpha or ultra beta men, just too extremes who tend to be fake
@@MemeAnalysis conformism is my motto and lifestyle
@@MemeAnalysis Honestly your videos sometimes call me out on a personal level that I both enjoy and despise. I love video games, I was slightly sheltered, and in recent years I find I live entirely in my own head and have contempt both for myself and those around me. Your videos often expose the reason for my behaviors in ways I never previously understood. I feel conflicted and resentful of it, but only because it is true.
Im not a deeply submerged, hunch-necked internet slave who says things like "POG" irl, but I do often use the internet as a crutch to save me from reality. From porn addiction to video game addiction to phone addiction, my development was admittedly stunted. After the covid crisis is dealt with, I have to do better. I have to live.
Tomboy GF trumps the Goth GF. Change my mind.
One of the greatest things to come from RUclips. May you go down as one of the great analysers and thinkers of our time, good sir. Keep up the fantastic content.
4:08 That pic is pure nightmare fuel
lmao
this kinda videos is so refreshing mate. keep posting. honestly I think you should start actual classes or a ted talk. memes are an interesting mirror to various aspects of society
Thank you so much for making a series like this. Its been what I was looking for in terms of how you relate seemingly simple memes to the larger sphere of psychology and how we as people think. Keep up the good work!!
Well that's cool and all but I STILL want a TOMBOY GF
My mate has tomboy gf and seems happy. Imagine having a fish with your partner. Heaven.
Having a fish? People usually have a baby!
@@heinoustentacles5719 update: She sucks. Super abusive. I hope they don’t have kids
Bruh moment
@@cia1985 very. Probs just stick to feminine girls, boys
Man I just think Tall Girls with abs are attractive, it doesn't mean I want a womb.
You tell yourself that but really you are hypno-projecting the ur-example of the hyperbolic Ashkenazi God-Mom! I know all your secrets!!!
no but I think he means the type of personality you like
you're gay
Yes
how does a woman being fit and tall make them a tomboy
The guy who disliked was the guy that got perfectly called out on its desires.
I'm disliking this comment too because I did not need to get called out twice like this 😂
@@soffren It's ok bro. I wish you a good Thanksgiving and success in your life.
Also probably should desire for stuff other than archetypes
@@gaber7113 thanks I hope the same for you. I'll try too
But the video actually contains nothing but fouls on people desire instead of actually seeing the core point of why people have this desires. This video is like making having desire is nothing but stupidity which is false. there is no human who don't have specific desires. The desire for tomboy is because of the quick related mentality of them which are more towards masculine. There is no doubt that men finds tomboy attractive in physical way, and find familiarity with tomboy too. This guy trying to make a indirect law that straight people can only have desires of having relationships with female who are feminine and men who are only masculine. This video will create a fear in people who have this desires, they will fear that the majority of people here will make fun of them for having this desires.
@@Aaryan.S too true this video is like Reddit analysis of tomboy shit
Steps on how to get a tomboy gf:
Step 1: go outside
Step 2: socialize to a tomboy
Step 3: let the rest just happen
Me trying the steps:
1: trying to go outside
2: trying to socialize
3: failing to socialize and go outside
4: cry
Same
boo hoo
F
Me who has an actual tomboy childhood friend: I am several parallel universes ahead of you
@@totallynoteverything1.
Me who had some but was to shy to say anything and now they’ve forgotten about me: sad laughter
Finally a meme analyst that thoroughly searches and studies the memes instead of just throwing a random philosophical explanation that can fit multiple situations. Subscribed.
This meme is the entire reason I started lifting
Same
Keep at it champ, you are winning
@ That amazing! what a feat, Glad to hear your making progress love.
i used to just look at memes without any thought for the lols but this man has really made me think about them more. What kind of person made the origional picture? who are the people that find this meme worthy to spread to others? its all so interesting now
Any person making memes about Tomboy GFs probably had a crush on a sporty/alt girl who turned out to be a butch lesbian in 8th grade & never got over it in the last 10-15 years
Watch out bro, you're growing a neck beard
Bro its a full bush beard.😂
The prophecy is nearly fulfilled
Bro, im growing a neck beard and im normal, neck beard ain't shit.
@@tavsch that's what they all say
@@xxprogamerxx7770 i already shaved :|
Wish you would talk more about this stuff from a female perspective like you did when you mentioned the daddys girl.
For a long time i didn't dig the "Cool Girl Monologue" from Gone Girl, i belived that "well there are women that are really into men's stuff", but now i understand: is a monologue directed to Tomboy GF enthusiasts.
This is jaw dropping. Simply incredible great work.
I was actuslly obsessed with the character Tetra from Zelda the Windwaker (constantly drawing pictures of her and replaying scenes with her from the game) and this actually puts a lot of this into perspective.
"Manly women are strong women....John"
-Sauce or loss with the Van Der Linde gang
Damn great video. Your argument came together beautifully, and the tomboy meme was a great entry point.
You showed up on my recommendation page a few minutes ago, I subbed. Very well made analysis, can’t wait to see what you have in store for us.
Lol all these people acting like he's found the holy grail of human experiences and can perfectly dissect the modern human mind based on memes. Take it for what it is, an interesting look. Wanting things like this is nothing wrong; obsessing over it might be. Everyone has wants and desires, and the issues are far greater than just yourself.
I like ya take, g.
But many here don't know the first thing about human experiences and stuff so this kind of objectivism is difficult
I have to admit I'm the same
Yeah same. I love Carl Daddy too, but, y'know, the Jung Cream is like the Jesus Sauce or the Marx Soup, you gotta keep your head out at one point to take a breath of fresh air.
The first half of the video was right second half was wrong.
Jokes on you, I already have a tomboy gf that is capable of embracing her femininity.
Good for you.
My man just came here to flex on us all
@@keepermovin5906 I'm here to let you know that it's possible.
@@RockiestRock ah so you are a speaker for the people of kán, I see now. My sincere apologies of course.
X
You want a tomboy gf not a masculine girl. Big diff. The tomboy gf thing is so true. I don’t ever get crushes anymore. But sometimes those naturally pretty Tomboy girls make my heart melt.
@Alex JG yes there is
Really, please, please please consider doing a video on yandere archetype.
I'm assuming this is the one you like lol
@@CrumCringle not necessarely, but i find it fascinating as it involves the both biggest drivers of humanity, sex, violence and power, all combined into a single entity that both terrifies and attracts the viewer.
@@CrumCringle I also think an in deep analysis of the Yandere will go togheter with the videos talking about the All consuming mother and the internet as the "mother" that the Meme analyst was doing.
@@maurelneimar I don’t want to be reductionist, but I feel it would also be a type of devouring mother. Ultimately the fantasy is selfish, as the yandere is possessed by their attraction of the male without requirement or condition. It is a kind of motherly love, but exaggerated. A yandere is so infatuated she is willing to kill, torture, etc to secure the love of the male. This isn’t very different than the devouring mother who is willing to keep their child enveloped at all costs, I think. I think the particularly interesting part is the attractive nature of narcissistic, dangerous women.
@@Crossbow1712 While you are right, in the Yandere trope, she isn't eveloping the child, the object of her obession is aware of her dark nature and her violence, and fears, hates and also feels sexually aroused and tempted by the Yandere, but the main point of the thrope is to be face to face with the darkest aspects of the devouring mother, while trying not to be devoured but loving the idea that she desires to devour you.
it's here! great video! one of your best videos! also nice, now it looks like on the channel video layout that the tomboy gf and the mommy gf thumbnails are fighting against each other or are having a showdown counterbalancing each other from extremely masculine woman and extremely feminine woman. in a sort of ying and yang way like at 1:00 .
this video really helped , me a lot. also the new outro music is a smooth banger.
I almost feel like I'm outside this. I became interested in tomboys/fit women after I began lifting weights because I wanted to be with someone who shared a common cause with me.
this.
Do an analysis on the Yandere trope and the yandere gf meme
Stfu I don’t want to feel attacked
I've only dated "tomboys." I had no idea they were widely desired. Perhaps it's because men have really gone more feminine in a lot of ways the last20+ years and balance is needed for a relationship...
Best channel of YT.
Love the new outro music
As always, great work! I always find your work to be combng and extremely informative. I appreciate the way you deliver content. Keep up the quality stuff!
My first Gf was a tomboy like in the memes tan lines, boy hair, and athletic she was very loving but i was inmature and did not love her as much as she did i still think about her but i can't change the past, overall 10/10 would have a tomboy gf again
How did you get her? Need to find one myself
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I always thought that the tomboy was the desire of the egos masculine qualities in the opposite, the same way the soft boi/femmeboy, guys who wear makeup and skirts has become a desire for girls.
So I guess the moral of the story is to get outside, get friends, and live life? Because the tomboy gf sounds like your average girl who just works out and plays Vidya.
Hey guys I want to live in accordance with my will. Does anyone know where I can get a fuzzy worm riding bird like in 5:13?
I played outside as a kid in a semi-dangerous neighborhood. There was an abandoned house with an escaped convict that lived in the basement and made jewelry for people for money. BTW, I am 25... I feel anyone who wasn't a kid before smartphones came out missed out on a large part of childhood. I played a large amount of video games AND played outside....playing outside does not happen as much now...not unsupervised like it was with me.
"I want somebody who is distinctly female but that doesn't have the negative aspects of one. that is what's called a tomboy."
-The Martian Manhunter
@Alex JG having stinky poos is soy behavior. respect goes both ways. your right
@Alex JG Personally its the aesthetic of one. I advocate for men to be masculine and not be soy. it doesn't really matter that much though.
@Alex JG Whatever, it doesnt matter that much, after all, its just a glorified tsundere
I've gone back and forth on my opinion of your videos so many times, but I always come away learning something. I love that you dive into topics around gender and sexuality from a psychoanalytic perspective without turning towards prescriptive claims and pathologization of diversity. It's very rare for me as a femboy to feel included in this kind of discourse, but your bit at the end about individuation really hit for me personally. I'm not used to feeling acknowledged and empowered by psychoanalytic ideas. Bravo
Damn i wasnt expecting such an eloquent & perceptive analysis. Great job man!
Came for the memes, stayed for the philosophical and psychological advice.
Hey man. I love your content and I watch everything you post. It gave me a different perspective on many things. One thing I've observed is that I really love pausing and reading everything that is written in the meme. But now that you put it small in the corner, I couldn't read some of them... And I liked more when you had your voice in the background and the meme on full screen. Is not that I dislike to see you talking don't get me wrong haha, but it is distracting me because I see that you are reading, but when your voice was in the background I could focus better on the content you were transmitting. I'm not saying you should do it different, just that this has been my experience.
Tomboys fill a space for those who had neither a gf nor a friend in high school/growing up. This is why she also fills the role of the perfect gf of the improover. He still feels the sadness of his lowest point and he desperately wants this upbeat, almost bro-like female to help pull him fully from the muck. He had no friends who hit the gym with him, nobody to spot him and encourage him to make that new personal record. When that person enters his life and is, at the same time, the object of his affection, the encouragement means so much more and he works harder because of it. The nature of this relationship means that he not only strives for improvement for his own gain but also for the purpose of keeping this person in his life. Bottom line muscle tomboy gf makes you want to live it. Kyriakos Grizzly has a tomboy gf, that's why he's able to lift close to 2000lbs.
yo great analysis in a minute. i really get behind this interpretation. i hate this whole ideal gf meme stuff in general but this gave me a new perspective as to why nerds love it so much
I have been waiting for this since you posted that heads up thing. Finally, good shit on the internet
this is one of the most brutal videos i had ever seen, the part about overbearing parents and a generation raised by internet and video games just reminded me of this dystopian era we live in, and one of the smartest videos i had ever seen, i downloaded it to my hard drive because i don't want such video to be lost.
There's also the issue of growing up without one of your parents, which happens often these days. Hell, it happened to me.
@@amexicangorilla2901 same
life is an associative nightmare! memes truly out here mattering!
What do you think of "types"? Are they normal manifestations of our anima, or are they there to prevent rejection and part of the IDEAL GF?
Idk... still waiting for a meme that even comes close to the types I attract :(
@@LeoRex13 what do you want I could probably make it for ya I’m pretty bored you see
@@keepermovin5906 surprise me!
Great video! I have noticed that when it comes to imagining my ideal Tomboy GF they not only possess traits I lack but also traits that are probably what one might consider my own more "positive" qualities.
Guess if anything this would be a sign of my need to properly individuate and look within.
Maybe then I can go from desiring an Archtype to someone who's with another that dances with their animus.
First I need to learn to dance...
>censors swear words on memes
>swears in video anyways
One of the best analytical channels on current year YT.
I must admit, as a child, I had somewhat of a crush for Haruka Tenoh/Sailor Uranus. (Who wears short hair, boys clothing, drives fast cars etc. in the series.) Strangely enough, the first girl who later kissed me (and allowed me my first sexual experience I did not pay for) looked extremely similar to Haruka.
At the same time I watched Sailor Moon, I became a huge fan of fighting games. Especially from SNK and Capcom. One of my favourite characters was Nakoruru, a somewhat pagan huntres figure.
@Shimohira Reika Weirdly, I liked her too.
Hey, I used to read sailor uranus hentai. They're my favourite.
@@iliveinsideyourhouse3943 So, you liked uranus and heranus? ;)
@@SSJKamui
Yes.
I can't speak to other people, but I know why I do:
Because when I was younger, I had a friend who was tomboyish. I still think about her to this day, despite it being almost a decade since I last saw her. These tomboy memes remind me of her. I really wish they wouldn't though
I'm at 0:06 and already lost my mind with cthulhu gf. The true appeal to the male fantasy
You have made me totally re think Freud - in a good way. Thanks man!! your content is awesome
listen i just want a girl with the personality of one of my homies
Glad ur vids are getting recognition as of late! :) wish more would see ur vids, they're so interesting
This hit very close home,this explains my attraction to muscular girls and links it to my childhood full of loneliness and isolation in my home,she would never let me go further away than the backyard,it was an impassable border to me while other kids would go around the whole small town and even further.
This channel is a gem
I remember this half-japanese girl i became friends with during my years in college, and yes she act's like a tomboy as well. Yes.. It sounds like it came from an anime but i kid you not unfortunately. But basically she forcefully befriended me, though i was reluctant at first but eventually she succeeded and we became close friends for 2 years to a point that our classmates has mistaken us for being a couples, though i hated that view they had unfortunately there's other dudes there who grew a liking to her and pretty much bugged her to become their girlfriend though she always rejected them as she has this idea that she doesn't want a boyfriend nor planning one until she dies. Fitting for the Anima Archetype indeed. And because of that i didn't have as much friends since they resented me for being close to her. Unfortunately however i fucking fell for her in the end, the problem is (Yes i know i would sounds like a fucking stereotypical anime character but i seriously kid you not) I also never really had interest in any girls but this one caught me. When we were at a sort've date i for the first time on my life confessed only to be rejected lmao..
Don't go for the bad ending route kings.
Honestly, I think Tomboys are kind of cute and they seem fun too.
There was a girl 2 years under me in HS that was a tomboy gf that shitposted with me that also wanted to date me. I was too autistic to notice the signs, and I never really wanted to date until I was out of college. Now that I want to date I found out its so hard online dating in the south. Anyone with the same hobbies as me is either obese or a literal 10/10 and I haven't found anyone inbetween that was close to the 6/10 tomboy gf from high school. Regret
I so desperately can’t wait until my children have to write research papers on such topics. “The desire of the memer” how eloquently put.
you're a genius my dude
Honestly androgynous people just tend to be the most attractive people