Right, he's obviously psychopathic and those people are usually awful, toxic and abusive partners. However - still more manly guy than the other loser. Look at it the other way - a guy is with an awful, toxic, psychopathic girl, but at least she's hot and he's somehow OK with that. I know, still messed up, but hey, life. We feel sorry for that cool girl, but the girls sees attractiveness different than us. They prefer a partner who is objectively worse to her, but just stronger, more... manly man. It doesn't mean they prefer assholes, they just repulsed from soft men, either physically or mentally.
@@Adam_Lyskawa The skinny nerd who lied about having a gf is... a manly man? You're looking too into it. Watch the video, she stayed with him because he manipulated the other doormat into not being with her, so while she is broken and needy he comes by and takes the chance.
This is not about Tomboys bruh.... This is about people who manipulate others and destroy others people lifes but expect to still be friends with them. I hate those type of people.
Blame the patriarchy idk but me, as a 5'1" sporty not so skinny girl (I'm healthy, not skinny not too curvy but I do have curves) felt a little awkward with my ex. As I said I am a sporty bitch, I like moving around a lot, my ex has a job where he has to sit still all day, that means that I certainly have more muscular tissue than he does. My shoulders were as broad as his. I always felt insecure about this, I felt like I would weigh too much on top of him (going straight to the point). I wish he took care of his health more (he truly didn't care about his looks). After I broke up with him he started working out (lol, hilarious but anyway I didn't break up because of that so i don't really care) I think his health will benefit from that 😅 Me, in the meantime, I will keep being a sporty bitch who likes to wear tracksuits everyday, doesn't wear makeup and doesn't really mind her looks that much. People will have to like me because of my humor, not beauty lol and anyway I am super dirty... No I am serious, I repeatedly get dirty because I work in the country side always outside, handling dusty stuff lol. Gotta go for a bike ride now byeee
@@naiadelacrimosa5234Neat, you honestly sound like my type (I practice Muay Thai so I'm more fit than the average joe, I think) but yeah I don't know why exactly society wants the man in the relationship to be better than the woman, especially psychically, I think as long as the relationship is healthy it doesn't matter whos smarter or stronger. Anyway have a good day friend, God bless.
Usefull advice: If someone talks shit about other people to you, then they propably talk shit about you behind your back. The same goes for sharing secrets and gossiping.
But everyone talks shit about other people, especially when theyve done something upsetting, that doesnt mean you'd talk about your friends and family like that, theres different standards
@@noisafuzol4028 It's naive to think: "Oh, that person acts like an asshole to others, but we're close and so they wouldn't do that to me". My point is that if someone often talks shit about other people, that means they're likely to do it to you too. Of course, everyone sometimes talks shit about somone else, but if someone does that all the time (like zoomer in the vid) and they talk shit about their other supposed friends then that's a red flag. Talking shit, to your friend, about someone you both barely know is very different than talking shit about your mutual friend. It's generally not "talking shit" if you talk about someone doing something very upsetting that should be shared with someone else. Basically, the more shit someone talks about people, and the closer those people are to that person and you, the bigger the red flag it is.
100% true Took me until the end of high school to realize this. Went from 15 friends to two. To zero because they both died. It was going well though 😸
I find it to be hilariously tragic that people think tomboys are disliked. As a guy, I can safely confirm the majority of us love the idea of a girl who shares our interests.
Not true… you cannot speak on billions of men across the world. If anything, the majority of the world’s men do not like tomboys. I for one do not like tomboys.
Yes. That's why there are many pick me girls. "I'm not like other girls I'm different" where they choose to be tomboy even if they're not and look down on girly girls.
Soyboy are just that. They are not convinced profoundly by the progressive s*** they spread. They just repeat the phrases that the system wants them to say. They see social interactions as "tokens to happinness". That's why politically correct people are often the most cruel, the most vile, twisted and manipulative personalities. They'll do anything to fulfill their objectives, even if it involves stepping on others (even close friends). I know loads of people like that. They're the most dangerous. Kings, stay away from Soyboys.
@@gabrielegenota1480 what's the point you're trying to make? The most hateful, homophobic, hate-filled, aggressive, insecure, racist people I know are progressives.
He is a pussy, he will become a doomer. The guy dug a very deep hole for him self. He would have to be smart, charismatic/rich and know Ivan (muscle guy) and Vadim (computer guy) to get out of it. Even then he could still fall into "what could have been if...... (he was not a retard) " hole.
Don't try to do that, be what you want to be, sure, you may be weird if you don't look normal, but if you conform, them you are trying to remove your uniqueness, mark my words.
Nothing wrong with trying to be more feminine if that's what you want and you're doing it because you genuinely want to be more feminine. The sad part about that google search in the video was that she was doing it for someone else, to impress someone else, because she thought that's what they wanted. Even worse that it was based on a lie. Personally I say; Never be content with yourself, for self-improvement comes from a desire to do and be better. And everyone can always work to be a better version of themselves if they have the desire and will to do so. Just be sure it's your path you are walking, and not a road someone else's desire is leading you down.
“I work out too” “I Don’t see any progress” This is what we call the laggard. Tries to bring you down to their measly little level in everything you do. Cut these people off immediately, or tell them to shut their ass up and why
I had a friend like this for a decade. They were incredibly insecure about their own intelligence so they had to bring down everyone else in the friend group. They'd often wax philosophical about shit they never understood and then blow up if you called them out on it. I felt pretty shitty most of the time when they were over but I have clinical depression so I didn't know any better. After I figured it out, I cut them out and boy have my days been better since.
"I don't see any progress" Bro by working out u look better than 99% of the population. People with average genetics have to be more patient when it comes to bodybuilding, so just stick with it on what u doing
@@dominiksz3883 Protein powder can work wonders though. If your trying to lose fat weight, then dont eat any protein and just cut your carbs and your calories.
"And now you are alone, because you let yourself be convinced about what to like about a woman." One of the best life lessons on RUclips, powerful words.
@@kidgamer8023 So yeah. He manipulated him into hating his preference for tomboys so that he gets the tomboy and flex on him in the end. One loussy SOB!
I remember when my “friends” were trying to sway me not to date the Tomboy, cuz she was not feminine enough. Later I found out those same ppl were sneaking in the DMs. Good thing I listened to my gut. I married her, and have kids together. Our bond is amazing. Love her to death.
As a tomboy, it is nice to watch a video not accusing me of being a “pick-me” just because I have guy friends or try to convince me that I’m actually a boy “suppressing my masculinity”
tomboy / feminine girl friendships make me so happy bc it shows women can express themselves in different ways and be friends and don't have to compete even when society pits them against one another
@@liv.s. fr! All throughout middle school my best friend was a “girly girl” but we still got along great & we were kinda infamous for our opposite aesthetics
The part where the tomboy searches up how to be feminine really hurts, but what twisted my stomach was when the dude just sat there with a broken look in his eyes realizing he had been betrayed by a friend for something his grandfather did. He and the tomboy could've probably been happier together, but instead he got his chances screwed up by a freaking sociopath. I really just want to see a sequel where he realizes he should go to her, tell her the truth, beat the shit out of the zoomer, and start a life with the tomboy, but I understand why there won't be one. It helps the lesson stick, keeps the hurt stabbed into your heart so you remember it. And it works.
The truth is once the damage is done there is no coming back, in a real life situation if he were to ask that woman what he did to her she probably wouldn't believe him and would think he is weird.
Tbf im not even mad at the sociopath he could only go so far cuz the other friend had a weak persona that let the other one dictate to him what to do and say..... This could've all been avoided if he thought about life a lil harder and what actions bring which consequences than be such a pushover..... Smh the girl doesn't deserve neither of them
Not gonna lie this hurt to watch. I consider myself a masculine woman, and sometimes struggle with the idea of being considered a desirable partner. Even friendships can be hard because your male friends feel compelled to treat you differently when you don't want to be. I will never change myself for anyone, but it is a painful path sometimes, going against the grain. Just wanting to be seen as an equal in friendship and seen as desirable by a partner.
If this video hurt you, then I hope the comments here can help to heal you and encourage you. There are many people here who would love you for exactly what you are. And there are many, like me, who seek a tomboy as a girlfriend/wife/mom of our kids. Please don’t give up, and keep on going.
Yet this people are the peopel who say "she's trying too hard" "She cares too much about her looks" "She's too girly" Don't change yourself to please others
It can also be preference sometimes. I like my women to have some meat on them. And i think abs on women is fine but just not for me. Everyone has a preference no need to shame people for wanting to be in shape ….that sounds stupid anyway.
They ask you how are and you just have to say that you're fine when you're not really fine but you just can't get into it because they would never understand
Fear of sexualization made me into a tomboy. I had a bad experience with my first partner, he made me do things I didn't want to do but at the time I didn't know how to say no. I was deep in depression and was easily manipulated Years later, I felt terrified of being sexualized by other men. I would wear the most baggy clothing, talk excessively masculine, act crass or unladylike. If I was just like a man, then I men wouldn't treat me like an object again. To this day, I still struggle with this. There are parts of being tomboyish that I love. Yet at the same time, I can't tell if I'm doing it because I enjoy it or if I'm afraid of being desired for only one thing.
Being objectified is awful, and shouldnt have place in modern society. Sadly, so many women actually want that, it destroys peoples minds. Men have their share in it as well, but i dont think its majority. Im also sorry for your experiences. You say this as a whole "turned" you into tomboy, but i think you just developed stronger personality, that goes against average mindset. Its something not many people can. Noone should be forced into that by fear, though, but i hope you will find peace and happines by doing what you find right and comfortable Sorry for stalking btw lol
@@wickedjaws5400 Oh, hello again lol. Interesting that you say that "so many women want [to be objectified]" since I've always experienced the opposite. I honestly have no idea where the line is drawn between a stronger personality and a defense mechanism but thank you for the thoughtful response anyways :)
@@Dragonaiis well, out viewpoint may differ, as im european, and have pretty wierd expieriences with women. I have few female friends, and none of them are "average". I just cand do it with normal people i guess. As for the second part, i just guessed. To fully judge someone, you really need a bigger picture, so dont take it as serious, its just how i feel
@@wickedjaws5400 hm, that’s fair. It really can depend on the demographic. haha yeah, even I don’t know the answer but hey there’s still plenty of time for me to figure that out
life is crappy, so such things amuse me, he at least gave him a lesson about having his own opinion and his happiness became the payment for this lesson
Im not a tomboy, but i really like do things that are considerate "masculine" like playing video games, making jokes, weird noises to see my friends smile, listen to heavy music, wear black and baggy clothes, but in the other side, i love caring my appareance, using makeup, do diets to keep my body beauty, leave with my boyfriend, trift and buy clothes, because of it, i had friends just like these two guys one time, and happened the same situation, i felt so sad for her because all she was doing is being herselve while the other 2 was just 2 dumb idiots who couldn't see her as a human just was happened to me, i felt really bad for her :(
@@PewDiePie777video games are made to attract male customers, they promote stuff like competitiveness and violence and grinding which is masculine nature
@@PewDiePie777Yeah, but they always attack women who say they play it 😑 like it's something strange or that they are terrible, like when it comes to the topic of football.
Not that harsh honestly. He’s seen her as his friend for a while so to have that thrown on you so suddenly, it’d throw any guy off. I’d personally say nothing, but I’d still be weirded out/confused because it’s pretty damn unexpected
There’s nothing wrong with a girl who likes sports and video games. There’s nothing wrong with a girl who likes makeup and fashion. And there’s nothing stopping a feminine girl from liking comics or an athletic girl from loving pink. At the end of the day, she’s worth just as much as anyone else.
For every "everything doesn't have to be pink" kind of girl, there's 50 who solely buy pink and love it. There's generally no reason to dislike any kind of person for any kind of cosmetic choice. If they dislike animals however, that's a red flag.
@@beidouenjoyer6192 Not every tomboy is into the exact same things as “the boys”. And there are other reasons people may want to date a tomboy, some of which have absolutely nothing to do with her being a tomboy. Also, plenty of “feminine” girls can still crack the same jokes. And there’s nothing wrong with being gay lol.
To all the tomboys reading, if u wanna change or be feminine but are scared of what ppl will say, you'll get nowhere, let ppl say what they wanna say, u do what u wanna do and ppl will adjust to the new u, as u change, ppl will too.
This has happened to me. No tomboy involved but douche bag friend being a fake bestfriend for 6 years and leading me to believe I was a oddball and that I was indifferent to everyone else in friend groups I was in with him. And I never knew why until recently. When I found out he had been talking shit to everyone around me for years and making them have this prejudgemental idea about me.
Dude, me too. Worst part is that there isn't any way to defend yourself when rumors are made from these narcissistic pathological liars. Atleast not in my case.
usually i don’t write this kind of comments but I really felt sad and started to cry when the girl was trying to be more “feminine”. I sometimes relate to that. Just because I play video games and don’t dress in tight clothes or a dress it doesn’t mean that I am not a girl. I feel bad for her.
You dont need to ne extra feminin , if you should met the love od your life it Will come true don't need to ne sad just beacuse you may be little bit boyish.
You shouldn't feel bad. It's completely understandable and not at all sad to wish to look "better". Attention to the " ", having a more feminine look doesn't automatically mean better, that's up to whoever judges it that way. If you do, that's ok, and if you don't, that's ok too. The same way if you choose to go after it or not. You are beautiful as long as you are doing what you want and feel good about it, so don't put yourself down for wanting or liking a change of look. You want what you want, you like what you like and nobody got a say on that.
"when a woman has a sixpack it's a bit weird" lost count of the amount of times i've heard that from friends, friends who don't wokout or train or do any phsyical activity/sport and are just soft and flabby and insecure about their own body and masculinty. i find it very attractive, it's a sign of hardwork and discipline, nobody can give you it, you can't buy it, you must earn it.
@@Cronoroid Lmao yes. I get saying it's not right to say a woman is weird if she has a sixpack, but it's stupid to turn around and insult the men with their preferences for more feminine women and accuse them of being insecure lol.
The “how to be more feminine” part really hits home. I’m a 6’1 teenage girl with very broad shoulders and a very flat chest and butt, and just on the whole a very masculine body. Until recently, I was always self-conscious about my body as people would always label me as “intimidating” and very few guys are ever attracted to me. I did my absolute best to look as feminine as possible but nothing ever worked, and no matter how many dresses and make up I put on, I was never happy. I’m doing a lot better now as I have discovered how much of an advantage my body is compared to other females when it comes to physical strength and ability. I have started working out a lot (which I had never done before) and I really feel myself thriving. I plan on joining the royal marines when I finish school, as I feel like I have the potential ability to pass the training, and being part of the navy has always been a dream of mine. I am more than satisfied and very grateful with my body.
@@joeligbinomwanhia6409 No. That’s exactly what this video is going against: the stereotype that all girls should be feminine and petite while all boys should be big and masculine.
@@starblinds there is nothing wrong with women working out to be strong it is good for health but women are naturally feminine it will be against their nature to be masculine.
@@joeligbinomwanhia6409 how does it feel to hide behind patriarchy, gender roles, stereotypes and your made up "against the nature" laws to hide your fragile masculanity? and even if a women is masc, why and what are you so scared of? gatekeeping masculanity for what?? i think you are a 12 y/o
Just be yourself. Who cares? I do weightlifting, and I like girls who workout, and I could care less about what they wear, as long as they are happy they can wear anything (as long as it isn't nothing...being naked is what I mean)
Depends, if you're lucid enough you'll learn to accept it as a fantasy and be fine but if you try to turn fiction into reality you're going down a road of disappointment.
@@schabowy6149 i think i am a good looking fella like a solid 7/10 or 8/10 and i have abs too, i am smart, i don't get manupilated, i am true to myself, i am confident so i am gonna tell tomboys that i love them
My mom shames me for being a tomboy. I always dressed less feminine over the years, I've never liked dresses or bikinis and stuff like that especially since I have sensory issues. I usually wear whatever feels comfortable like sweatpants, baggy clothes, beanies, jackets, skater shoes, crocs, and other stuff that normally a "feminine" girl "wouldn't wear". Even though I dress like this, I am a straight female and will always be. I also don't wear makeup at all because I just don't like the way it feels on my face (except for occasions like theater but that's pretty much it). However with all this in mind, my mom calls me gay, lesbian, non binary, trans, furry, and more. She is a complete homophobe and assumes I'm gay because of the way I dress which is complete bullshit. There is nothing wrong with being gay or anything like that but my mom makes it seem like it's a bad thing when it's not. Even though I'm straight, I think it's completely awful she says such mean things about me and gay people. Most of my friends who actually care and accepts me are gay. I've never had many friends my entire life and the one time I do have friends my mom is hateful towards them. She says that I'll never get a boyfriend because of the way I present myself cause I don't wash my hair every day (even though it's bad for my hair) and that I don't shave that often (mostly because I forget). I tell her that she doesn't understand what I'm going through but she doesn't care and still harasses me. She tells me her friends are questioning MY gender even though they've NEVER MET ME! The worst part is that all this crap has affected me so much that it's actually physically harmed me through the stress. A couple of days ago i got so sick that I was puking all day even though I wasn't actually sick from anything I ate. As I'm typing this it's STILL hasn't gone away. My mom also didn't really prepare meals for me that entire week I was at her house and told me to do it myself even though I'm 16 and was never taught how to cook for myself and is not allowed to walk out of the house and get food for myself out of fear I'll get "kidnapped or something" even though I live in a super save neighborhood. Sorry for venting Yall and if you have read this I appreciate you. Thanks if you had.
I'm also a tomboyish girl and I absolutely understand you, every bit of your struggle. But things get better! I'm older than you and I have a boyfriend, who loves my style even though it may seem "masculine" to others. But hey, isn't that silly? Clothes are just clothes, I could even make them myself and dress whatever my imagination demands. Don't ever let your mom get to your head - remain strong and logical. These silly gender dilemmas don't matter anyway. Being resilient will shape your way through life, and judging by what you wrote, I can tell you are doing great. After all, you're still fighting. Just keep being you and know things will be okay :) Best regards Good luck
this is just my own experience as a tomboy. I dressed pretty much “boy-like” since i was 13, but at that age i started liking a boy that was into more feminine girls. I completely changed how i styled my clothes and started using a bit of makeup to fit his liking, but i always felt uncomfortable doing all of those stuff. I wish i wouldn’t have changed myself for a boy :(.
Yes. I was nervous that millennia thinker would just go with whatever the “based 4chan radtrad” take is and shame her for not being feminine. Unfortunately quite a few people in the comments believe that kind of bullshit anyways
@@roadtonever true, but because of the rejection they feel by their girlfriends, they surround themselves by men and this will lead 100% of the time into being the town bicycle for her circle of male friends who have shown her acceptance for the first time in her life
squid game, Octopus game, squidward game or whatever it was, pls stop it, this shit is become annoying and i watch the show and on the first episode its fucking bullshit, stop with this stupid fucking shit
“When your whole life was directed by others, only to be later left all by yourself” This hits hard as I know people who said their parents did everything to guide them through college, and helped them, and then abandoned them completely when they graduated. It’s like they wanted a delusional “happy ending” and did not want to face the supposed repercussions.
Watching Sam going out of her way to change her tomboy style trying to be more girly and feminine was heart breaking. I want all the tomboys out there to know that us guys LOVE you the way you are! 😭❤
I grew up with my dad, brother, and grandpa. My mother died when i was five so i didn't get the chance to be with her longer. Then, my grandma died. All my current family members that i grew up with are males or men. I don't know where it started, but i think it was when i was aroung 6-7 years old that i started to act more like a boy and dress like a boy, i really liked how comfortable and casual my style is and never changed until my age turned 15, because at 15 years old is the first time i had a crush. For the first time in my life, i got concerned about how i look or act and became more self aware. I was still pretty cool wearing boy clothes (imagine a normal teenage boy. I look exactly like that with long hair.) i don't like wearing dresses or skirts or anything that involves showing skin much. Because i feel like they would judge me and think that I'm a show-off. The only hairstyle i literally know was ponytail. My dad doesn't know how to tie my hair and my mom didn't have the chance to teach me, but it's not like I want to try new hairstyles back then. I am straight and was just a tomboy, but my classmates started to ask if I'm a tomboy (here in my school, tomboy=lesbian) so i got scared that they might think I'm a lesbian and that i would lose any chances that i have (if i ever had in the first place) with my crush (i know it's cringe, but i was 15) So i started looking up on how to be more feminine and look girly, i was still uncomfortable doing it until now because i got so used to being a tomboy, and that's what feels more comfortable to me. Only now that i realized that i shouldn't have did that, because it was all pointless and unneeded. That i should just do what i feel more comfortable in doing and not just do something because someone or everyone likes it. Watching this makes me sad because of how i relate to this girl and how she didn't get a happy ending.
@Jasi Duy Nguyễn Also let's be real, the zoomer would get absolutely trashed if this happened in real life, I'm talking straight up invalid level of beating.
"I work out too" "no you arent" "I do" "I dont see any progress bro" "I know" This legit made me laugh hard. Just agreeing that theres no progress with a voice without soul, absolute Gold
“What kind of girl do you guys like” “Feminine” Tbh zoomer seems more closeted than crewcut EDIT: THIS IS A LINE I HAVE TOOK OUT OF CONTEXT FOR HUMOUR PURPOSES, AS THE DESCRIPTOR OF FEMININE WHEN ASKED FOR YOUR PREFERENCE IN WOMEN IS SUSPICIOUS
This almost happened to me. Eerie how similar this is to my story, only difference is that I started dating her in my last year of highschool after listening to others for too long. Currently have been together 4 years, I got lucky.
Yeah but then you realize that it would accomplish nothing so you either do that on the spot, or the most you will do is text the tomboy childhood friend to let her know the piece of shit she is going to stay with. Then just gtfo and never see the asshole friend again.
Yo just wanna say this. If their are any girls reading this, just be yourself. No matter if you’re more traditionally feminine or more of a tomboy, someone out there will love you, so don’t be ashamed of who you are. Just be the best YOU. Don’t adhere to what you think other people want. Don’t try to be perfect because nobody is perfect and that goal is impossible to reach.
Growing up a tomboy, boys thought I was icky for being a girl, and girls thought I was too feral to be a girl. In late middle school it finally started affecting me as I was starting to notice boys for boys and not friends, so I put on make up for the first time, some jewelery, and tied my hair up. They laughed, said I looked like a raccoon, asked me how much I cost, and I hid in the bathroom all after lunch crying. Haven't touched make up since, I'm too afraid. I'm not ugly, so it's not the end of the world but... it'd be nice to look nice, you know?
Hey plz read, if you can, P.s I'm sorry my English are terrible I'm self taught So I'm a tomboy my fellow tomboy and im also a lesbian, of course this has nothing to do with my style, people assume every masc girl is a lesbian and I hate it, i know there are many str8 tomboy girls and I love them and respect them, anyway being a gay masculine girl made my dating life easier but one day I really started having feelings for a girl that was into femme girls, I wanted her so much that changing was no big deal for me, I would do anything for her, that's the first time when I started thinking changing my style. But I never liked dresses or something so I was like I can be feminine without dresses you know just wearing crop tops and Jean's with white sneakers or putting some eyeliner, not any other kind of makeup, just this, for the illusion that I have something feminine on my face, I lost a bit of muscle mass and started focusing on abs workouts, I have a nice tiny waist I'm not wearing dresses or too much makeup just these little changes, also I stopped wearing manly perfume I started using something that reminds of fresh mint or coconut or dark chocolate etc, I stopped wearing chains and started putting these basic necklaces girly girls wear. But the real deal is that there are plenty ways for you to rock a style. The reason why your friends made fun of you was because what you did didn't fit you, not because you are a tomboy but because if you want something to fit you you need to like it first, that's the only way for you to look pretty on it. Think about it, at the end of the day you are a girl but you managed to rock man's clothes, if you can embrace your masculine side as a girl of course you can embrace your femininity!! Look all the girly girls, do they have the same style? No! Do they all wear dresses?? Hell no! So how they are feminine? Many girly girls wear just sneakers instead of heels because they feel like it, they can be feminine without wearing a dress, you can be feminine without a dress or makeup. If you have any questions tell me, also let me tell you that I was a tomboy since I was a child my friends knew me as the most masculine girl and one day I just found a girly style that I actually liked i showed up on them and gave me so many compliments and now even dudes are staring at me some times on the streets, but I'm never wearing dresses, you are a tomboy but I'm sure you don't like all the manly clothes, you wear only those you like and if you put on manly clothes you don't like they won't look good on you either, you need to like something to wear it, you need to feel comfortable on your clothes. You can be feminine just search what you like if you need help to start from somewhere tell me I know how you feel so I'll help my friend:)
@@idkidc5074 i just passed by and i read it all . Cuz i also know whats like your comment is like a miror and youre english is understandable btw youre very very kind
How badly it takes to be a morally corrupt person to screw up someone else's relationship because of a grandparents conflict... and carry that grudge for years. Wtf.
Tomboy is just a name, its pretty much a natural girl who isn't afraid to get dirty and can keep up with the boys alot of times, and often are very smart. My first love was a tomboy, most tomboys have older brothers, and fathers. Strong male influences. They are tough girls. Follow your dreams, use your brain, be a leader.
@@erenjaeger1738 It doesn't help that society treats tomboyism as something you're expected to grow out of either. As a kid I was somewhat in the middle ground, had male friends, liked video games, bugs, science etc. But also like pink, dolls and pretty clothing. But as I got older I became more masculine and have gotten quite a few comments about how I'm now a young lady and should act like it, that not wearing makeup makes me ugly, how I won't be attractive to other people if I start building muscle ( I wanna get into powerlifting ).etc. Doesn't help that I cut my hair for practicality sake and never got the hang of makeup application. People expect women to grow into femininity at one point or another and if you don't you get alot of toxic femininity and occasional misogyny for it. Sucks but it's how the world works unfortunately.
I'm dating a "tomboy" (not in appareance but she act just like one) and my "friends" tried their best to separate me and her. And just gave them the middle finger and stayed with her. We marry this year. Best. Decision. Ever.
The best thing about this video is that it wasn't really about tomboys. It was about you... again. How you once again did not believe in yourself and your passivity deprived you of another chance for happiness.
Hits too close home man, I want to do a lot of stuff but am just slacking instead of doing any of that, painting, electric guitar, gym, sailing, waiting for the sunrise with best friend and then annoying that poor woman who just opened her bakery in 6 am but still being very self aware and polite about buying burek (its like some sort of chesse/meat pie here in Balkans), and a few smaller things, I just want to do all of this cool stuff but I am not leting myself be happy for some reason even tough I can do all of that right now
I agree honestly it took me stepping out of my comfort zone, having confidence in myself and not being afraid of rejection that I finally found the woman of my dreams and we’re engaged and to be married in 3 months
I like a balanced perspective from this channel, like this video. This is very true. I hate dressing up. Going to this dance, I would feel exactly like this girl as a teenager. Just out of place. I wouldn't describe myself as a tomboy but I much prefer casual clothes. Men are very led by porn nowadays. Women with surgically enhanced bodies, and extra glam makeup. As much as men complain about women wanting taller men, or with high paying jobs...its just a different standard. I'd just like someone I could genuinely have a laugh with, wasn't controlling and wasn't pushing ridiculous expectations on me. The standards nowadays on both sides are crazy.
Legit seeing the girl crying when looking up how to change herself made me feel really sad. Kind of as a guy who maybe should become more masculine (work out a bit more to not be skinny fat, get a hair cut) I relate from other perspective ig.
@@niavellir7408 yeah for sure, lucky enough to have a fair few people now who do care about me but sure as hell didn't feel like that back in school. Just be confident and true to yourself and you'll find people out there for you!! (Still not an excuse for me to slacc on working out tbf lol)
Even as a guy I figure girls changing themselves in general tends to be worse than guys. Fitting the man model is more often just about getting your shit right, while for girls it doesn't seem something objectively positive
You should workout though not to become more appealing or masculine (I mean you can) but because it's generally good for your health and fitness. Working out made me more disclipined and confident so good luck to you too
When I was little, I was obsessed with makeup, dressing pretty and acting like a princess. Now, I am a tomboy who likes martial arts and is trying to get abs. Plus, I have learned many new things that have made my life better as a tomboy. But despite all of that, I still don't mind embracing my feminine side. It has never left me and it never will. It's better for me to embrace both sides because it won't make me less of who I am. Same goes for you if you are a tomboy. We got the best of both worlds.😎
My fiance is a tomboy, I always liked her because she was not soft and I really loved her green eyes and freckles and also her being the only redhead in a high school that is mostly if not all hispanic origin making her being the odd one out in a crowd, this school was in southern California. I remember in prom that she was sitting alone in a simple black dress, her hair was like a Bob cut she had little makeup and eye liner, I too was alone as we both just sat alone there, I stared at her and said " prom is pretty boring without someone to dance with" she looked at me and nod, we chatted for a good while and as the ball room was getting smaller and smaller, I eventually told her that I always liked her but was too scared to tell her since I didn't knew she was into guys like me who are not athletics like her or was into hispanic guys, she liked me too and she was also scared to ask because she thought I wasn't into tomboys. We both looked at each other and I said "You want to dance with me?" She smiled a smile I will never forget, she said yes and we were the only and last ones to dance at prom, a night I won't forget.
As a tomboy, I felt I could never fit in with girls so I eventually just started hanging out with guys instead, and I’m really glad I did. With girls there was always a lot of drama and yes, there is drama with guys too but it wasn’t as bad and I’d never really get involved in it. Since I lost my mother sort of at the beginning of teenage-hood, I changed a lot because I only grew up with my brother and my dad. So, I developed a really raunchy humour and a very guy-like mentality, so I essentially just became one of the guys. I’m so happy my guy friends accepted me at that point in my life (middle school). Most of my friends and all of my best friends are guys even today, and I couldn’t feel happier without it. Hanging out with girl friends is nice too, but I much prefer hanging out with guys. As fun as it all sounds, I don’t know if other tomboyish girls have experienced this, but I had so many identity crisis’s. There are times I wish I was more feminine, like there is something about other girls that I simply cannot understand. And then there is some stuff that I can’t completely connect with with guys. Sometimes, I wish I wasn’t a girl (yeah, yeah I’ve thought about the trans stuff, but I’m definitely not trans). This also made it difficult for me to find a boyfriend, cause I feel like a lot of guys just saw me as another guy (I don’t look like one btw haha). Eventually mid-highschool I got a boyfriend who I am still with today, and the weirdest thing happened. After I got a boyfriend, my friend group dissolved until it was only me, my boyfriend and my best friend. And the thing is, I would still always hang out with them despite having a boyfriend, so it really didn’t change anything. I often think if it was because they were scared of my boyfriend (he’s tall and Asian, so his hair is really dark and it’s also really long, and wore a leather jacket, also he was really quiet because he was so shy), if it was because some of them liked me (which I doubt, because they never made a move), or if they hated the idea/they realized that I was a girl, with the same needs as (example) a guy wanting a girlfriend. It was so odd, and I was really worried in the future that I wouldn’t be able to make any new guy friends because I had a boyfriend. But then I realized that a lot of guys are friends with me not cause I’m a girl, but because they just like me as a person. Though I still think about my identity a lot, I definitely feel better about it than I did before. It’s difficult for tomboys because we often get shunned REALLY hard by other girls, and also shunned by guys and ON TOP of that, it’s virtually impossible to connect with lgbtq people because tomboys are almost the antithesis to what they stand for or expect of you. Once you get older though, it starts to not matter who you are in this day and age, and it’s easier than ever, at least for me, to connect with a lot of people, especially guys. I watched this video awhile ago and it genuinely warmed my heart. It makes me feel understood, even from the small details. I also only do light eye make up, just eyeliner and brows. I don’t want to be that person, but finally I found something that I could relate to so much. I know this comment will get buried, but thank you so much for this video.
Oh wow do I relate to every sentence of this lmfao. Been feeling the identity crisis tbh. Sometimes I can't tell if I became more masculine because I liked being masculine or if it was to escape sexualization. And then ofc I'm not really accepted by either girls or guys. Its fuckin frustrating lol. Still, I've been figuring things out for myself and its cool to see that you have been too. Best of luck to you my fellow tomboy, we are a rare and powerful breed.
"Remember that time at prom when Stacy danced with you then after it pretended to love you and because of that the Tomboy hated you? It was me Wojack, I paid her to pretend she loved you only for you to receive pain in the end." "Remember when the Tomboy got angry at you and she was all alone on the street? it was me Wojack, I lied about you so she stayed with me and you received pain of solitude because of a pen more than 100 years ago."
Thats why I didnt join immediatly. I didnt want to look like an asshat newbie. So I trained for a while at home to get in decent shape. Funny thing, the only gym in my town is filled with annoying 13-14yr old children, so I got bored fast and quit after less 2 months. I still train at home, but just to maintain what I have already.
Damn as a tomboy that’s really accurate. I’m introvert and living the good life by myself, achieving my goals is what really fills me. Maybe that’s why I’ve never dated men, never learned how to show love
I dated a tomboy around the end 2017. Sadly, our relationship only lasted 3 months because her sisters made false rumors about me cheating on her. We're still friends to this day & talk about the days we hanged out
I feel bad for the tomboy, she is going out with a zoomer who tricked her “crush” and her for some pen lmao
Right, he's obviously psychopathic and those people are usually awful, toxic and abusive partners. However - still more manly guy than the other loser. Look at it the other way - a guy is with an awful, toxic, psychopathic girl, but at least she's hot and he's somehow OK with that. I know, still messed up, but hey, life. We feel sorry for that cool girl, but the girls sees attractiveness different than us. They prefer a partner who is objectively worse to her, but just stronger, more... manly man. It doesn't mean they prefer assholes, they just repulsed from soft men, either physically or mentally.
@@Adam_Lyskawa Not really no. Being single is better than a bad relationship. And sometimes women like soft men.
@@kaleidoscope5054 Of course. Yet I still think the Tomboy had some bad company from the start. Both of them. Either one was a pretty bad choice.
@@Adam_Lyskawa The skinny nerd who lied about having a gf is... a manly man? You're looking too into it. Watch the video, she stayed with him because he manipulated the other doormat into not being with her, so while she is broken and needy he comes by and takes the chance.
@@erectoelectro7671 Yes, I was wrong. He's not manly men, just less doormat than the other.
This is not about Tomboys bruh....
This is about people who manipulate others and destroy others people lifes but expect to still be friends with them.
I hate those type of people.
Don't we all?
Yea I was confused about this video
The real meaning of this video, congratulation
It sorta is though? Videos can have multiple meanings. This can be about tomboys and manipulation at the same time
@@sleepydreams9046 you gave me an comtemporian artistic answer lmao but if you want to know, ask to the original poster.
Sporty girls attractive
Athletic men attractive
Good shape is a good shape
This is the way.
Exactly
Of course bad health is unattractive but I can’t lie some of them bbws still got the goods
@VeganCarnivore look up bbw bro it’s basically fat women that’s still shexy
@VeganCarnivore Not always. Being healthy doesn’t always mean someone looks athletic.
"You know, when a woman has a six pack, it's a bit weird. Especially when she is more athletic than you are."
Sounds like a skill issue
haha for real
Fr
Blame the patriarchy idk but me, as a 5'1" sporty not so skinny girl (I'm healthy, not skinny not too curvy but I do have curves) felt a little awkward with my ex.
As I said I am a sporty bitch, I like moving around a lot, my ex has a job where he has to sit still all day, that means that I certainly have more muscular tissue than he does. My shoulders were as broad as his. I always felt insecure about this, I felt like I would weigh too much on top of him (going straight to the point). I wish he took care of his health more (he truly didn't care about his looks).
After I broke up with him he started working out (lol, hilarious but anyway I didn't break up because of that so i don't really care) I think his health will benefit from that 😅
Me, in the meantime, I will keep being a sporty bitch who likes to wear tracksuits everyday, doesn't wear makeup and doesn't really mind her looks that much.
People will have to like me because of my humor, not beauty lol and anyway I am super dirty... No I am serious, I repeatedly get dirty because I work in the country side always outside, handling dusty stuff lol. Gotta go for a bike ride now byeee
@@naiadelacrimosa5234Neat, you honestly sound like my type (I practice Muay Thai so I'm more fit than the average joe, I think) but yeah I don't know why exactly society wants the man in the relationship to be better than the woman, especially psychically, I think as long as the relationship is healthy it doesn't matter whos smarter or stronger. Anyway have a good day friend, God bless.
@@naiadelacrimosa5234 yo by any chance can I get your istagram?
i feel bad for the tomboy the most. Now she stuck with a psycho and she has no idea he was like that in the first place.
True
Yeah..
We need a sequel where she somehow heard their conversation without being seen, and confronts him.
Thinking the same.
@SirSnufflelots cope. That’s not gonna happen. And you know it
Usefull advice: If someone talks shit about other people to you, then they propably talk shit about you behind your back. The same goes for sharing secrets and gossiping.
100%
This goes for all the girl gossip groups out there too lmao.
But everyone talks shit about other people, especially when theyve done something upsetting, that doesnt mean you'd talk about your friends and family like that, theres different standards
@@noisafuzol4028
It's naive to think: "Oh, that person acts like an asshole to others, but we're close and so they wouldn't do that to me".
My point is that if someone often talks shit about other people, that means they're likely to do it to you too. Of course, everyone sometimes talks shit about somone else, but if someone does that all the time (like zoomer in the vid) and they talk shit about their other supposed friends then that's a red flag. Talking shit, to your friend, about someone you both barely know is very different than talking shit about your mutual friend.
It's generally not "talking shit" if you talk about someone doing something very upsetting that should be shared with someone else.
Basically, the more shit someone talks about people, and the closer those people are to that person and you, the bigger the red flag it is.
100% true
Took me until the end of high school to realize this. Went from 15 friends to two. To zero because they both died. It was going well though 😸
That zoomer went through all of that vindictive shit because of a pen.
that guy is pure evil, like dio
and thus the cycle of hatred started
old timey pen
I saw this comment before finishing the video and I never expected the ending
This is something Rick Sanchez would do.
I find it to be hilariously tragic that people think tomboys are disliked. As a guy, I can safely confirm the majority of us love the idea of a girl who shares our interests.
Not true… you cannot speak on billions of men across the world. If anything, the majority of the world’s men do not like tomboys. I for one do not like tomboys.
@@Parzzyval yeah tomboys are pretty weird to me
@@austinthegamerthebest2752 you are in fact gay
@@Parzzyval you are not a person
Yes. That's why there are many pick me girls. "I'm not like other girls I'm different" where they choose to be tomboy even if they're not and look down on girly girls.
It's crazy how this meme format is just used to make these incredible stories
999
agreed
Ikr 🤩
Ikr
Yes
With "friends" like these, you don't need any enemies.
Agree
Can I know your ethnicity?
Atleast u can beat the SHT out of them xD
@@marouanefellaini4843 a giant boat dumping chemicals in the ocean who scream: ,,fuck you Poseidon!,,
over a pen bro. a freakin pen.
soyboy was a fucking mastermind villain? wow that was a twist that i had never expected
He makes up for his physical inferiority with his mental superiority.
Soyboy are just that.
They are not convinced profoundly by the progressive s*** they spread. They just repeat the phrases that the system wants them to say. They see social interactions as "tokens to happinness". That's why politically correct people are often the most cruel, the most vile, twisted and manipulative personalities. They'll do anything to fulfill their objectives, even if it involves stepping on others (even close friends). I know loads of people like that. They're the most dangerous.
Kings, stay away from Soyboys.
@@HommeAuCigare The person who thinks liking tomboys are gay are... progressive?
Sorry what?
@@gabrielegenota1480 what's the point you're trying to make? The most hateful, homophobic, hate-filled, aggressive, insecure, racist people I know are progressives.
Actually it makes a lot of sense .
Some guys saying liking tomboys is gay are just Weird lol
Exactly, at the end of the day it is still a girl
@@lovverri no, it's a man in a woman body
@@lovverri yah, and for most men the only requirement for a girl they want is being alive and that's all.
@@SheksgemWhepdo everyone deserves love out here
As a tomboy, sometimes, I look like a femboy, so I understand
i'm so f cking frustrated for this poor guy
But if he's intelligent, he still has a chance.
Yeah, but he's now traumatized and needs to recover from this.
*good looking*
@@Kyumifun i think he will either become a paranoid smart guy or socially isolated
@@Kyumifun he will become a doomer then a bloomer
He is a pussy, he will become a doomer.
The guy dug a very deep hole for him self.
He would have to be smart, charismatic/rich and know Ivan (muscle guy) and Vadim (computer guy) to get out of it.
Even then he could still fall into "what could have been if...... (he was not a retard) " hole.
Shit. The "how to be more feminine" google search... I have done that quite often as a girl. I feel so exposed right now.
Millennia thinker knows all
Don't try to do that, be what you want to be, sure, you may be weird if you don't look normal, but if you conform, them you are trying to remove your uniqueness, mark my words.
Don’t feel exposed and you don’t have to act more feminine just be you as long as you aren’t a serial killer you are gonna be fine
Ive been dumped 3 times by different boy friends in hte past because I was too masculine for them lol...rip
Nothing wrong with trying to be more feminine if that's what you want and you're doing it because you genuinely want to be more feminine.
The sad part about that google search in the video was that she was doing it for someone else, to impress someone else, because she thought that's what they wanted. Even worse that it was based on a lie.
Personally I say; Never be content with yourself, for self-improvement comes from a desire to do and be better.
And everyone can always work to be a better version of themselves if they have the desire and will to do so.
Just be sure it's your path you are walking, and not a road someone else's desire is leading you down.
“I work out too”
“I Don’t see any progress”
This is what we call the laggard. Tries to bring you down to their measly little level in everything you do. Cut these people off immediately, or tell them to shut their ass up and why
I had a friend like this for a decade. They were incredibly insecure about their own intelligence so they had to bring down everyone else in the friend group. They'd often wax philosophical about shit they never understood and then blow up if you called them out on it. I felt pretty shitty most of the time when they were over but I have clinical depression so I didn't know any better. After I figured it out, I cut them out and boy have my days been better since.
"I don't see any progress"
Bro by working out u look better than 99% of the population. People with average genetics have to be more patient when it comes to bodybuilding, so just stick with it on what u doing
@@dominiksz3883 Protein powder can work wonders though. If your trying to lose fat weight, then dont eat any protein and just cut your carbs and your calories.
Dude, that's literally my family. XD
@floppa floppovich pointing out unnecessarily rude things isn't "being honest"
You all guys wanna see an example of Fragile masculinity?
Well there is the friend with the glasses
Both tbh
Fragile masculinity doesn’t exist but nice try
He still bagged the girl in the end tbh
Brother just used random words he found on internet.
@@MG-ql8sgwym? How does it not exist
Lesson learnt, never trust any boy that looks like a zoomer.
If it dresses like a zoomer and dances like a zoomer, expect eventual zoomer bs
Or tells you tips that sound wrong
@@gansmith if it dresses like a zoomer, and dances like a zoomer, get the baseball bat
Yea zoomers are nuts you can't trust them.
Never trust a guy that talks about eyeliner.
"And now you are alone, because you let yourself be convinced about what to like about a woman." One of the best life lessons on RUclips, powerful words.
DISCORD MOD
I might missing something here? He was manipulated to reveal about his preference for a girl?
@@carltasticdrew9633 No, he was pressured into believing his preferences were bad, therefore he missed his chance of getting the tomboy he liked.
@@kidgamer8023 So yeah. He manipulated him into hating his preference for tomboys so that he gets the tomboy and flex on him in the end. One loussy SOB!
@@carltasticdrew9633 Yep.
I remember when my “friends” were trying to sway me not to date the Tomboy, cuz she was not feminine enough. Later I found out those same ppl were sneaking in the DMs. Good thing I listened to my gut. I married her, and have kids together. Our bond is amazing. Love her to death.
lmao
You made the best decision a man can make
ok
#goals
You have reached a happy ending
As a tomboy, it is nice to watch a video not accusing me of being a “pick-me” just because I have guy friends or try to convince me that I’m actually a boy “suppressing my masculinity”
fr
Relatable
Same !!!
tomboy / feminine girl friendships make me so happy bc it shows women can express themselves in different ways and be friends and don't have to compete even when society pits them against one another
@@liv.s. fr! All throughout middle school my best friend was a “girly girl” but we still got along great & we were kinda infamous for our opposite aesthetics
The part where the tomboy searches up how to be feminine really hurts, but what twisted my stomach was when the dude just sat there with a broken look in his eyes realizing he had been betrayed by a friend for something his grandfather did. He and the tomboy could've probably been happier together, but instead he got his chances screwed up by a freaking sociopath. I really just want to see a sequel where he realizes he should go to her, tell her the truth, beat the shit out of the zoomer, and start a life with the tomboy, but I understand why there won't be one. It helps the lesson stick, keeps the hurt stabbed into your heart so you remember it. And it works.
The truth is once the damage is done there is no coming back, in a real life situation if he were to ask that woman what he did to her she probably wouldn't believe him and would think he is weird.
@@danolix I suppose that's true, but it still hurts to think that they *could've* been happy if they had a solid go at it.
Tbf im not even mad at the sociopath he could only go so far cuz the other friend had a weak persona that let the other one dictate to him what to do and say..... This could've all been avoided if he thought about life a lil harder and what actions bring which consequences than be such a pushover..... Smh the girl doesn't deserve neither of them
Exactly, mostly for the last phrases you wrote.
@@finklorien8047 ikr
If rock-hard abs exist, men will simp over them
ok
No
Yes.
Yes.
Yes
Attractive women are a dime a dozen, a smart, kind, loving woman is a needle in a haystack.
Vice verse for men
sadly
@@uriah9638 There should be a mutual self improvement movement for men and women too bad that'll get cancelled for being too traditional
Exactly
I mean of course but everyone is always talking about what men do wrong not about what women do wrong
Not gonna lie this hurt to watch. I consider myself a masculine woman, and sometimes struggle with the idea of being considered a desirable partner. Even friendships can be hard because your male friends feel compelled to treat you differently when you don't want to be. I will never change myself for anyone, but it is a painful path sometimes, going against the grain. Just wanting to be seen as an equal in friendship and seen as desirable by a partner.
If this video hurt you, then I hope the comments here can help to heal you and encourage you. There are many people here who would love you for exactly what you are. And there are many, like me, who seek a tomboy as a girlfriend/wife/mom of our kids. Please don’t give up, and keep on going.
@latinhero1818 thanks for going out of your way to say this. It's appreciated. You have a good day/night wherever you are!
@@latinhero1818 I appreciate this too, thank you. The comments on this vid are gold.
to be honest with ya im hopin things turn around for ya, tomboys are a rare gem where im from and pretty much universally loved and appreciated.
Yet this people are the peopel who say "she's trying too hard" "She cares too much about her looks" "She's too girly"
Don't change yourself to please others
Life advice: Don't take life advice from strangers on the internet.
But... You re a stranger, but if I take it then.... AGGGGGGHHH MY HEEEEADD
-Some stranger on the internet
@Givens Raymond And Endless Decent into MADNESS
@Givens Raymond It's like saying "There aren't facts, only opinions" is it an opinion or a fact?
I do take life advice from strangers on the internet, and I'm tired of pretending I'm not.
"When a woman has a six pack it's a bit weird"
Blasphemy. Weak willed thought process.
Abs are the making of a good hips and ass, it is a bridge that will conmect us to the thigh
@@nerfedmann You get it too my dear sir
It can also be preference sometimes. I like my women to have some meat on them. And i think abs on women is fine but just not for me. Everyone has a preference no need to shame people for wanting to be in shape ….that sounds stupid anyway.
> you will never have your head crushed between the thighs of an amazonian strong mommy gf while she softly carasses your head
Why even live?
@@SomaStory my type of woman is lady D from resident evil village. Shes literally perfect
This should be shown in school, to educate kids about manipulation and their own insecurities.
That moment when using memes in school to be relatable actually being relatable and not cringe.
LMAO
I disagree, I think that this is the job of both parents which a lot of people don't have
They ask you how are and you just have to say that you're fine when you're not really fine but you just can't get into it because they would never understand
Caleb
Fear of sexualization made me into a tomboy.
I had a bad experience with my first partner, he made me do things I didn't want to do but at the time I didn't know how to say no. I was deep in depression and was easily manipulated
Years later, I felt terrified of being sexualized by other men. I would wear the most baggy clothing, talk excessively masculine, act crass or unladylike. If I was just like a man, then I men wouldn't treat me like an object again.
To this day, I still struggle with this. There are parts of being tomboyish that I love. Yet at the same time, I can't tell if I'm doing it because I enjoy it or if I'm afraid of being desired for only one thing.
Being objectified is awful, and shouldnt have place in modern society.
Sadly, so many women actually want that, it destroys peoples minds. Men have their share in it as well, but i dont think its majority.
Im also sorry for your experiences.
You say this as a whole "turned" you into tomboy, but i think you just developed stronger personality, that goes against average mindset. Its something not many people can. Noone should be forced into that by fear, though, but i hope you will find peace and happines by doing what you find right and comfortable
Sorry for stalking btw lol
@@wickedjaws5400 Oh, hello again lol. Interesting that you say that "so many women want [to be objectified]" since I've always experienced the opposite.
I honestly have no idea where the line is drawn between a stronger personality and a defense mechanism but thank you for the thoughtful response anyways :)
@@Dragonaiis well, out viewpoint may differ, as im european, and have pretty wierd expieriences with women. I have few female friends, and none of them are "average". I just cand do it with normal people i guess.
As for the second part, i just guessed. To fully judge someone, you really need a bigger picture, so dont take it as serious, its just how i feel
@@wickedjaws5400 hm, that’s fair. It really can depend on the demographic.
haha yeah, even I don’t know the answer but hey there’s still plenty of time for me to figure that out
As a lesbian tomboy. Not all tomboys are gay. But some of them are.
"When a woman has a six pack, it's a bit weird."
Yes, and when a man has a triple chin, it's a bit off putting.
When a man doesn’t exercise at all, he’s double down bad.
When anyone has a triple chin it’s off putting lol
mad stay mad
I mean both are unattractive
@@Grind2Excellence 👍
Anyone who thinks it is ok to manipulate people like this “friend” did is trash. Ruined a perfectly blooming relationship out of hate and spite.
Lmao
That sort of happened to me actually. It sucks!
life is crappy, so such things amuse me, he at least gave him a lesson about having his own opinion and his happiness became the payment for this lesson
he was so stupid to turn his back because someome thought she wasn't "feminine" enough lol
but u see, that guy grandfather didnt give back the pen. This incredible writing skill is why i have empathy for the joker
“Care about what other people think and you will always be their prisoner” -Lao Tzu
Thank you. Sucks they're planning on cutting you out of the $20 USD bill.
Well said!!
thank you andrew jackson very well put.
"He who makes a beast of himself does so to lessen the burden of being a man"-Dr gonzo
@@huntarthebarbarian8407 only saw it in the opening of fear and loathing
Im not a tomboy, but i really like do things that are considerate "masculine" like playing video games, making jokes, weird noises to see my friends smile, listen to heavy music, wear black and baggy clothes, but in the other side, i love caring my appareance, using makeup, do diets to keep my body beauty, leave with my boyfriend, trift and buy clothes, because of it, i had friends just like these two guys one time, and happened the same situation, i felt so sad for her because all she was doing is being herselve while the other 2 was just 2 dumb idiots who couldn't see her as a human just was happened to me, i felt really bad for her :(
Calling playing videogames a masculine thing to do😂😂😂
Are you aware that videogames are for children, right?
@@PewDiePie777video games are made to attract male customers, they promote stuff like competitiveness and violence and grinding which is masculine nature
@@PewDiePie777I sounded like a nerd but I ve searched Abt this stuff a lot
Have you ever played Sims?@@dbbdbdbdbd599
@@PewDiePie777Yeah, but they always attack women who say they play it 😑 like it's something strange or that they are terrible, like when it comes to the topic of football.
"They're called tomboys, Dutch."
- John Marston, RDR2
“Mah boy… they’re packin more than a wagon, son… they packin the DUMPTRUCK!”
@@mileschow5961 “fuck outta here and go to the M E G A G A Y Z O N E”
Van der Linde
@@mileschow5961 DA D U M P P T R U C C
@@tommyvercetti5106 FAPWATHER!!!! HELLYEAAAAAAH!!!!!!!!
"Dude, what are you doing?"
Damn, that was harsh.
Bruh, that even hurt me when he said it.
Yeah pretty sure everyone can empathize with that situation
I fell off my chair and skinned my knee because I lost balance from how hard I curled up
Not that harsh honestly. He’s seen her as his friend for a while so to have that thrown on you so suddenly, it’d throw any guy off. I’d personally say nothing, but I’d still be weirded out/confused because it’s pretty damn unexpected
damn fr
There’s nothing wrong with a girl who likes sports and video games. There’s nothing wrong with a girl who likes makeup and fashion. And there’s nothing stopping a feminine girl from liking comics or an athletic girl from loving pink. At the end of the day, she’s worth just as much as anyone else.
For every "everything doesn't have to be pink" kind of girl, there's 50 who solely buy pink and love it. There's generally no reason to dislike any kind of person for any kind of cosmetic choice. If they dislike animals however, that's a red flag.
True
And that is absolutely nothing becuz I haz chipz
Let's be honest we want tomboys cuz they can relate and be homies without it being gay.
@@beidouenjoyer6192 Not every tomboy is into the exact same things as “the boys”. And there are other reasons people may want to date a tomboy, some of which have absolutely nothing to do with her being a tomboy. Also, plenty of “feminine” girls can still crack the same jokes.
And there’s nothing wrong with being gay lol.
To all the tomboys reading, if u wanna change or be feminine but are scared of what ppl will say, you'll get nowhere, let ppl say what they wanna say, u do what u wanna do and ppl will adjust to the new u, as u change, ppl will too.
This has happened to me. No tomboy involved but douche bag friend being a fake bestfriend for 6 years and leading me to believe I was a oddball and that I was indifferent to everyone else in friend groups I was in with him. And I never knew why until recently. When I found out he had been talking shit to everyone around me for years and making them have this prejudgemental idea about me.
Do you know why?
Dude, me too. Worst part is that there isn't any way to defend yourself when rumors are made from these narcissistic pathological liars. Atleast not in my case.
@@SadFroge go out with different people separately. Let them know how you really are.
Me too, it fucking sucks when people already have a bad preconcept about you when you haven't even interacted too much with them.
Where is your profile picture from
In the world dominated by instant gratification, this dude chooses to make us wait for his cool content. Pure gold
Ultra meta
Instant and infinite novelty and its consequences have been a disaster for the human race
Bruh no content to be finished in few days. It take time
Delayed gratification.
Adevarat
The tomboy: a woman with a hot body, ample levels of health and fitness, good interests, and a great personality.
So a productive human minus the hot body part
Bruh idk, I outdo other MEN wth my stamina, doubt a girl will match me
@@tacklefatkids1195 when did YOU get mentioned in the comment?
@@tacklefatkids1195 nobody asked dude.
All of which make her out of your league
usually i don’t write this kind of comments but I really felt sad and started to cry when the girl was trying to be more “feminine”. I sometimes relate to that. Just because I play video games and don’t dress in tight clothes or a dress it doesn’t mean that I am not a girl. I feel bad for her.
bruh
They put you down bc they want you, bc they're jealous. They are insecure and hateful.
@@j.t.1086 Thanks for the kind response
You dont need to ne extra feminin , if you should met the love od your life it Will come true don't need to ne sad just beacuse you may be little bit boyish.
You shouldn't feel bad. It's completely understandable and not at all sad to wish to look "better". Attention to the " ", having a more feminine look doesn't automatically mean better, that's up to whoever judges it that way. If you do, that's ok, and if you don't, that's ok too. The same way if you choose to go after it or not. You are beautiful as long as you are doing what you want and feel good about it, so don't put yourself down for wanting or liking a change of look. You want what you want, you like what you like and nobody got a say on that.
"when a woman has a sixpack it's a bit weird" lost count of the amount of times i've heard that from friends, friends who don't wokout or train or do any phsyical activity/sport and are just soft and flabby and insecure about their own body and masculinty.
i find it very attractive, it's a sign of hardwork and discipline, nobody can give you it, you can't buy it, you must earn it.
Facts! Anyone can put the effort in to work out, and it just shows how hard working they are!
As someone who only used to have a six pack I applaud everyone my age who’s kept it up. Shit is hard.
my ex had abs, was also into yoga, that shit was lit fam
I workout, yet I also find masculine women unattractive. Feminine men find them otherwise.
@@Cronoroid Lmao yes. I get saying it's not right to say a woman is weird if she has a sixpack, but it's stupid to turn around and insult the men with their preferences for more feminine women and accuse them of being insecure lol.
Anon should’ve told zoomer to shut his face and that he’d didn’t know shit
You can't blame him, he just honestly looked at her as if she was part of the boys. But he is a hypocrit XD
I mean... he is a zoomer. His opinion is wrong for default
Jesus zoomers sound like boomers...
Until he brought up the six pack.
You know how much Testosterone it takes to have a well defined 6er?
He dances alone.. At that age azz is azz.
The “how to be more feminine” part really hits home. I’m a 6’1 teenage girl with very broad shoulders and a very flat chest and butt, and just on the whole a very masculine body. Until recently, I was always self-conscious about my body as people would always label me as “intimidating” and very few guys are ever attracted to me. I did my absolute best to look as feminine as possible but nothing ever worked, and no matter how many dresses and make up I put on, I was never happy. I’m doing a lot better now as I have discovered how much of an advantage my body is compared to other females when it comes to physical strength and ability. I have started working out a lot (which I had never done before) and I really feel myself thriving. I plan on joining the royal marines when I finish school, as I feel like I have the potential ability to pass the training, and being part of the navy has always been a dream of mine. I am more than satisfied and very grateful with my body.
@@joeligbinomwanhia6409 No. That’s exactly what this video is going against: the stereotype that all girls should be feminine and petite while all boys should be big and masculine.
@@starblinds there is nothing wrong with women working out to be strong it is good for health but women are naturally feminine it will be against their nature to be masculine.
@@joeligbinomwanhia6409 how does it feel to hide behind patriarchy, gender roles, stereotypes and your made up "against the nature" laws to hide your fragile masculanity?
and even if a women is masc, why and what are you so scared of? gatekeeping masculanity for what?? i think you are a 12 y/o
@@joeligbinomwanhia6409 I dunno if you're trolling or not lol, but you sound pretty close minded.
Just be yourself. Who cares? I do weightlifting, and I like girls who workout, and I could care less about what they wear, as long as they are happy they can wear anything (as long as it isn't nothing...being naked is what I mean)
His friend pulled the biggest "It was me Barry" in history
Let's do it again Anon.
*Ask me anything.*
Another Millennia Thinker interesting
Do you love tomboy ?
What is life for current generation?
U gay?
How you get idea to make video?
Moral of the story.
Don't ever be ashamed of loving tomboys.
I'm not.
Depends, if you're lucid enough you'll learn to accept it as a fantasy and be fine but if you try to turn fiction into reality you're going down a road of disappointment.
@@1810jeff its not fiction, there a people who married to tomboys
I fear them, I'm affraid of women in general
Dude if you love tomboys pls don't tell them that XD look in the mirror
@@schabowy6149 i think i am a good looking fella like a solid 7/10 or 8/10 and i have abs too, i am smart, i don't get manupilated, i am true to myself, i am confident so i am gonna tell tomboys that i love them
My mom shames me for being a tomboy. I always dressed less feminine over the years, I've never liked dresses or bikinis and stuff like that especially since I have sensory issues. I usually wear whatever feels comfortable like sweatpants, baggy clothes, beanies, jackets, skater shoes, crocs, and other stuff that normally a "feminine" girl "wouldn't wear". Even though I dress like this, I am a straight female and will always be. I also don't wear makeup at all because I just don't like the way it feels on my face (except for occasions like theater but that's pretty much it). However with all this in mind, my mom calls me gay, lesbian, non binary, trans, furry, and more. She is a complete homophobe and assumes I'm gay because of the way I dress which is complete bullshit. There is nothing wrong with being gay or anything like that but my mom makes it seem like it's a bad thing when it's not. Even though I'm straight, I think it's completely awful she says such mean things about me and gay people. Most of my friends who actually care and accepts me are gay. I've never had many friends my entire life and the one time I do have friends my mom is hateful towards them. She says that I'll never get a boyfriend because of the way I present myself cause I don't wash my hair every day (even though it's bad for my hair) and that I don't shave that often (mostly because I forget). I tell her that she doesn't understand what I'm going through but she doesn't care and still harasses me. She tells me her friends are questioning MY gender even though they've NEVER MET ME! The worst part is that all this crap has affected me so much that it's actually physically harmed me through the stress. A couple of days ago i got so sick that I was puking all day even though I wasn't actually sick from anything I ate. As I'm typing this it's STILL hasn't gone away. My mom also didn't really prepare meals for me that entire week I was at her house and told me to do it myself even though I'm 16 and was never taught how to cook for myself and is not allowed to walk out of the house and get food for myself out of fear I'll get "kidnapped or something" even though I live in a super save neighborhood. Sorry for venting Yall and if you have read this I appreciate you. Thanks if you had.
I'm also a tomboyish girl and I absolutely understand you, every bit of your struggle.
But things get better! I'm older than you and I have a boyfriend, who loves my style even though it may seem "masculine" to others. But hey, isn't that silly? Clothes are just clothes, I could even make them myself and dress whatever my imagination demands. Don't ever let your mom get to your head - remain strong and logical. These silly gender dilemmas don't matter anyway.
Being resilient will shape your way through life, and judging by what you wrote, I can tell you are doing great. After all, you're still fighting.
Just keep being you and know things will be okay :)
Best regards
Good luck
It’s just a character, it’s just a character, it’s just a character…
Much needed PSA for all the people here, myself included.
NOOOOOOOO
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@EyePatchGuy88 agreed
Based on real people I guess lmao
"I work out too"
"I don't see any progress"
"I know..."
Bruh. MT is a fucking prophet.
He drive our lives. We're just past copies of His will.
Stop.
Drinking.
Soda.
sad
Most relatable line in the video. I've been working out for a year and haven't seen anything
@@Thonck- you gotta train harder and eat more bro
I think I speak for everyone when I say this NEEDS a sequel. Sam deserves better.
True that!!
yeah.
Unfortunately, doomer is called doomer for a reason.
YES now lets get u up so our boi can see u
@Thomas Serrano some people just want a happy ending
this is just my own experience as a tomboy.
I dressed pretty much “boy-like” since i was 13, but at that age i started liking a boy that was into more feminine girls. I completely changed how i styled my clothes and started using a bit of makeup to fit his liking, but i always felt uncomfortable doing all of those stuff. I wish i wouldn’t have changed myself for a boy :(.
Honestly, I was terrified that MillenniaThinker was gonna sh*t all over tomboys.
But actually he want us to Sh*t the Zoomer who ruined everything.
does his opinion matters anyways?
@@trungkiennguyenhuu2072 Thank god
Had us in the first half, not going to lie
@@trungkiennguyenhuu2072 Aren't they both zoomers?
Moral of the story: Always buy 2 pens.
"What kinda of girls you like?"
-"feminine"
*that hit me in the heart*
The hearth? Fucks that
Well that sucks, hope you got a new stove already :p
Hearth
Hearth
Lmao you fixed your grammar mistake but forgot about "hitted".
That's not even a word...
"how to look more feminine" that was personal
im glad that the tomboy is portrayed in a positive wholesome matter rather than the stereotype that if she's is a tomboy she must gay or trans
Most tomboys are like that IRL, they get shamed by other women for being feminine.
@@roadtonever that's why I hate the body positivity movement it shames the right people and praises the wrong people
Yes. I was nervous that millennia thinker would just go with whatever the “based 4chan radtrad” take is and shame her for not being feminine.
Unfortunately quite a few people in the comments believe that kind of bullshit anyways
@@roadtonever true, but because of the rejection they feel by their girlfriends, they surround themselves by men and this will lead 100% of the time into being the town bicycle for her circle of male friends who have shown her acceptance for the first time in her life
I like that too
This is literally how Korean dramas are written 🤣
squid game
It’s still a good message and it happens more than you think
Squid Game ?
squid game, Octopus game, squidward game or whatever it was, pls stop it, this shit is become annoying and i watch the show and on the first episode its fucking bullshit, stop with this stupid fucking shit
@@Jordan-bn5dz ich stimme nicht zu :/
"honey wake up, your dreams about tombois will be crushed in 5 minutes."
Edit: that anon could be any one of us...
@Honkler Agent 🤡 dude stop being a negative nancy
Imagine dreaming over a tomboy. Get outside, or be honest with yourself and go gay.
I dont want to be awake.
“When your whole life was directed by others, only to be later left all by yourself”
This hits hard as I know people who said their parents did everything to guide them through college, and helped them, and then abandoned them completely when they graduated. It’s like they wanted a delusional “happy ending” and did not want to face the supposed repercussions.
@@hellatze life is but a monotonous nightmare rn. It only looks like it's gonna get worse
Watching Sam going out of her way to change her tomboy style trying to be more girly and feminine was heart breaking. I want all the tomboys out there to know that us guys LOVE you the way you are! 😭❤
To all those tomboys out there, just know we appreciate you.
Tysm ☺
Thanks
no
@@asbest2092 Lmao
@@asbest2092 chill bro
"How to be more feminine."
Oh I've been there before it sucks :(
its cause she’s a low level,level 6 get better at being feminine she’s low level smh.
@@HisLifeBroughtLight B R U H
@@HisLifeBroughtLight low level my type den
@@HisLifeBroughtLight I would rather be at a low level then -.-
aaaaa same bro
If a friend told me that girls with abs aren't attractive, I'd just get off the bench and walk away 🗿
🗿
Depends on your preference really
ikr?!!there fukeing hott!!sheeeh!
Girls with abs ar on some elite shit
@@iancox2745 my bad I'm not that good at English is "elite shit" is like uh a good thing or bad thing?!
I grew up with my dad, brother, and grandpa. My mother died when i was five so i didn't get the chance to be with her longer. Then, my grandma died. All my current family members that i grew up with are males or men.
I don't know where it started, but i think it was when i was aroung 6-7 years old that i started to act more like a boy and dress like a boy, i really liked how comfortable and casual my style is and never changed until my age turned 15, because at 15 years old is the first time i had a crush.
For the first time in my life, i got concerned about how i look or act and became more self aware. I was still pretty cool wearing boy clothes (imagine a normal teenage boy. I look exactly like that with long hair.) i don't like wearing dresses or skirts or anything that involves showing skin much. Because i feel like they would judge me and think that I'm a show-off.
The only hairstyle i literally know was ponytail. My dad doesn't know how to tie my hair and my mom didn't have the chance to teach me, but it's not like I want to try new hairstyles back then.
I am straight and was just a tomboy, but my classmates started to ask if I'm a tomboy (here in my school, tomboy=lesbian) so i got scared that they might think I'm a lesbian and that i would lose any chances that i have (if i ever had in the first place) with my crush (i know it's cringe, but i was 15)
So i started looking up on how to be more feminine and look girly, i was still uncomfortable doing it until now because i got so used to being a tomboy, and that's what feels more comfortable to me.
Only now that i realized that i shouldn't have did that, because it was all pointless and unneeded.
That i should just do what i feel more comfortable in doing and not just do something because someone or everyone likes it.
Watching this makes me sad because of how i relate to this girl and how she didn't get a happy ending.
"And now you are alone. Because you let yourself be convinced about what to like about a woman."
Hits too hard
@Bioman Smith I hate you too.
Now that we have something in common, let's be pal
@Jasi Duy Nguyễn Also let's be real, the zoomer would get absolutely trashed if this happened in real life, I'm talking straight up invalid level of beating.
"I work out too"
"no you arent"
"I do"
"I dont see any progress bro"
"I know"
This legit made me laugh hard. Just agreeing that theres no progress with a voice without soul, absolute Gold
Yep
Lol
you work for the matrix
@@pregnantmariobros I hope so...sounds like a career to me
but its kinda sad too tho. sounds like a bad friend
she’s literally the cutest one in the video
more like in the entire channel
E
@Qikert no one care
@Qikert whats ur point
@Qikert Objects can be cute.
nobody:
The subtitles at 5:05:
"Do you think *he's* going with someone?"
🤨🤨🤨🤨
9:09 Well that's a twist I didn't see coming
Real crazy, right?
@@kastillopan not gonna lie at first i thought he was doing that to keep her to himself but HOLLY FUCK that escalated quickly
Now I'm just sad.
@@raeldri5867 yup I think I've seen milleniathinker add backstory like this in his other videos
@@raeldri5867 it really FUCKING DID
she is literally so far out of their leagues
@@wheresdarice3988 damn ok shawty
@@wheresdarice3988 report him
What a Chad
@@wheresdarice3988 yooo , wtf report his weird ass to your family members or something .
@@wheresdarice3988 thats messed up you should report him thats sexual abuse
“What kind of girl do you guys like”
“Feminine”
Tbh zoomer seems more closeted than crewcut
EDIT: THIS IS A LINE I HAVE TOOK OUT OF CONTEXT FOR HUMOUR PURPOSES, AS THE DESCRIPTOR OF FEMININE WHEN ASKED FOR YOUR PREFERENCE IN WOMEN IS SUSPICIOUS
Is it because he likes feminine women or because he specifies liking feminine women?
If its the latter yeah, but if its the former its totally normal.
@@skepticmonkey6923 anyone who specifies that they like their women “feminine” is gay
@@nikodemruta7686 thats kinda a oxymoron but okay
@@nikodemruta7686 what?
@@nikodemruta7686 If you like women your either straight or bi it’s not hard to understand. You literally can’t be gay because you like women.
This almost happened to me. Eerie how similar this is to my story, only difference is that I started dating her in my last year of highschool after listening to others for too long. Currently have been together 4 years, I got lucky.
You married or not god damn
Dude everyone here would obliterate the zoomer, its that type of “friend” that secretly hates you and wants to destroy you
100% that friend
Yeah but then you realize that it would accomplish nothing so you either do that on the spot, or the most you will do is text the tomboy childhood friend to let her know the piece of shit she is going to stay with. Then just gtfo and never see the asshole friend again.
@@mario9808 you forgot the other step
@@mario9808 which is to beat the shit out of him
@@slurryshade4103 it was the "that" that you'd only do on the spot after the big reveal and out of blind rage
Yo just wanna say this. If their are any girls reading this, just be yourself. No matter if you’re more traditionally feminine or more of a tomboy, someone out there will love you, so don’t be ashamed of who you are. Just be the best YOU. Don’t adhere to what you think other people want. Don’t try to be perfect because nobody is perfect and that goal is impossible to reach.
Thank you.
Thanks man.
Thank you
thank you ♡
Thanks foo
I didn't expect these memes to start being used to make whole stories and I'm living for it
you work for the matrix
@@pregnantmariobros Crap my cover's been blown
@@pregnantmariobros fun fact matrix 3 is out.
@@pregnantmariobros Holy shit🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱
moral of story: keep liking what you like and be mindful of the people who you trust
Or just to be lonely
Growing up a tomboy, boys thought I was icky for being a girl, and girls thought I was too feral to be a girl. In late middle school it finally started affecting me as I was starting to notice boys for boys and not friends, so I put on make up for the first time, some jewelery, and tied my hair up.
They laughed, said I looked like a raccoon, asked me how much I cost, and I hid in the bathroom all after lunch crying. Haven't touched make up since, I'm too afraid. I'm not ugly, so it's not the end of the world but... it'd be nice to look nice, you know?
Hey plz read, if you can,
P.s I'm sorry my English are terrible I'm self taught
So I'm a tomboy my fellow tomboy and im also a lesbian, of course this has nothing to do with my style, people assume every masc girl is a lesbian and I hate it, i know there are many str8 tomboy girls and I love them and respect them, anyway being a gay masculine girl made my dating life easier but one day I really started having feelings for a girl that was into femme girls, I wanted her so much that changing was no big deal for me, I would do anything for her, that's the first time when I started thinking changing my style. But I never liked dresses or something so I was like I can be feminine without dresses you know just wearing crop tops and Jean's with white sneakers or putting some eyeliner, not any other kind of makeup, just this, for the illusion that I have something feminine on my face, I lost a bit of muscle mass and started focusing on abs workouts, I have a nice tiny waist I'm not wearing dresses or too much makeup just these little changes, also I stopped wearing manly perfume I started using something that reminds of fresh mint or coconut or dark chocolate etc, I stopped wearing chains and started putting these basic necklaces girly girls wear. But the real deal is that there are plenty ways for you to rock a style. The reason why your friends made fun of you was because what you did didn't fit you, not because you are a tomboy but because if you want something to fit you you need to like it first, that's the only way for you to look pretty on it. Think about it, at the end of the day you are a girl but you managed to rock man's clothes, if you can embrace your masculine side as a girl of course you can embrace your femininity!! Look all the girly girls, do they have the same style? No! Do they all wear dresses?? Hell no! So how they are feminine? Many girly girls wear just sneakers instead of heels because they feel like it, they can be feminine without wearing a dress, you can be feminine without a dress or makeup. If you have any questions tell me, also let me tell you that I was a tomboy since I was a child my friends knew me as the most masculine girl and one day I just found a girly style that I actually liked i showed up on them and gave me so many compliments and now even dudes are staring at me some times on the streets, but I'm never wearing dresses, you are a tomboy but I'm sure you don't like all the manly clothes, you wear only those you like and if you put on manly clothes you don't like they won't look good on you either, you need to like something to wear it, you need to feel comfortable on your clothes. You can be feminine just search what you like if you need help to start from somewhere tell me I know how you feel so I'll help my friend:)
@@idkidc5074 i just passed by and i read it all . Cuz i also know whats like your comment is like a miror and youre english is understandable btw youre very very kind
@@breakfist6364 thank you so much:) I hope she gets to see it cause I've been in her place and I feel very bad:(
@@idkidc5074 wow your English is great, respect for all that studying. I'm also a gay tomboy
@@idkidc5074 your support is important ty ty
Bruh he was getting revenge for his grandfather all along 😂
😂😂😂unexpected
How badly it takes to be a morally corrupt person to screw up someone else's relationship because of a grandparents conflict... and carry that grudge for years. Wtf.
@@miyamotomusashiPL7041 Defending the Honor of your families history.
@@glebb..3416 By stabbing ,,friend's" back? Good joke.
@@miyamotomusashiPL7041 They were never friends to begin with.
Tomboy is just a name, its pretty much a natural girl who isn't afraid to get dirty and can keep up with the boys alot of times, and often are very smart. My first love was a tomboy, most tomboys have older brothers, and fathers. Strong male influences. They are tough girls. Follow your dreams, use your brain, be a leader.
Tomboy are rare.
@@erenjaeger1738 blame society
@@erenjaeger1738 It doesn't help that society treats tomboyism as something you're expected to grow out of either. As a kid I was somewhat in the middle ground, had male friends, liked video games, bugs, science etc. But also like pink, dolls and pretty clothing.
But as I got older I became more masculine and have gotten quite a few comments about how I'm now a young lady and should act like it, that not wearing makeup makes me ugly, how I won't be attractive to other people if I start building muscle ( I wanna get into powerlifting ).etc. Doesn't help that I cut my hair for practicality sake and never got the hang of makeup application.
People expect women to grow into femininity at one point or another and if you don't you get alot of toxic femininity and occasional misogyny for it. Sucks but it's how the world works unfortunately.
@@misscaptain5598 i like my women without make up and fit not super musclar tho
@@misscaptain5598 but hey i bet their are guys that like girls that can lift up 500 pounds with ease
EVERY TOMBOY OF THE WORLD
UNITE !!!
(as myself a tomboy this video is a W)
I'm dating a "tomboy" (not in appareance but she act just like one) and my "friends" tried their best to separate me and her.
And just gave them the middle finger and stayed with her.
We marry this year.
Best. Decision. Ever.
Congrats!
👏👍
Hope you love birds the best
The good ending
Congrats!!
The best thing about this video is that it wasn't really about tomboys.
It was about you... again.
How you once again did not believe in yourself and your passivity deprived you of another chance for happiness.
Hits too close home man, I want to do a lot of stuff but am just slacking instead of doing any of that, painting, electric guitar, gym, sailing, waiting for the sunrise with best friend and then annoying that poor woman who just opened her bakery in 6 am but still being very self aware and polite about buying burek (its like some sort of chesse/meat pie here in Balkans), and a few smaller things, I just want to do all of this cool stuff but I am not leting myself be happy for some reason even tough I can do all of that right now
I agree honestly it took me stepping out of my comfort zone, having confidence in myself and not being afraid of rejection that I finally found the woman of my dreams and we’re engaged and to be married in 3 months
We're not gonna make it, bro. We're just not.
Believe me dude, I know
@@Artaxian_Debacle Congrats! May you and your bride-to-be have a wonderful wedding! :)
“I don’t see any progress bro”
Man looks like the Doritos at the bottom of the dorito packet
lmao
68 likes oh the power I hold 😎
man if you workout & someone tells you that its like the worst thing ever
THIS ONE KILLED ME.😩
@@gabo8954 i had a friend tell me that i dont look like i lift, then i went to the gym with him once and flexed hard in front of him 😂 best feeling
I like a balanced perspective from this channel, like this video. This is very true. I hate dressing up. Going to this dance, I would feel exactly like this girl as a teenager. Just out of place. I wouldn't describe myself as a tomboy but I much prefer casual clothes. Men are very led by porn nowadays. Women with surgically enhanced bodies, and extra glam makeup. As much as men complain about women wanting taller men, or with high paying jobs...its just a different standard. I'd just like someone I could genuinely have a laugh with, wasn't controlling and wasn't pushing ridiculous expectations on me. The standards nowadays on both sides are crazy.
Legit seeing the girl crying when looking up how to change herself made me feel really sad. Kind of as a guy who maybe should become more masculine (work out a bit more to not be skinny fat, get a hair cut) I relate from other perspective ig.
There is people out there for everyone, look for people who love you for who you are
@@niavellir7408 yeah for sure, lucky enough to have a fair few people now who do care about me but sure as hell didn't feel like that back in school. Just be confident and true to yourself and you'll find people out there for you!! (Still not an excuse for me to slacc on working out tbf lol)
It was both sad and cute
On one hand she liked doomer enough to try and make herself seem more attractive to him.
But also sad at the same time
Even as a guy I figure girls changing themselves in general tends to be worse than guys.
Fitting the man model is more often just about getting your shit right, while for girls it doesn't seem something objectively positive
You should workout though not to become more appealing or masculine (I mean you can) but because it's generally good for your health and fitness. Working out made me more disclipined and confident so good luck to you too
"When your whole life was directed by others, only to be later left all by yourself."
Yeah, that really hurt A LOT
Yo that's a lot of people.
Life is garbage
Being physically fit IS NOT just a masculine trait
finally someone said this
Still Tomboys are fuckable
Exactly
Why do people act like muscle is a thing that can’t come and go relatively easily.
Looking healthy is a feminine trait, good health includes some physical fitness so yeah
When I was little, I was obsessed with makeup, dressing pretty and acting like a princess. Now, I am a tomboy who likes martial arts and is trying to get abs. Plus, I have learned many new things that have made my life better as a tomboy. But despite all of that, I still don't mind embracing my feminine side. It has never left me and it never will. It's better for me to embrace both sides because it won't make me less of who I am. Same goes for you if you are a tomboy. We got the best of both worlds.😎
Everyone talking about tomboys like they are some kind of pokemon
like some rare pokemon
@@yourlocalcarguy6209 depends on the country, but they are
More like the holy grail or the golden fleece or some other mythical treasure
@@youarenotmadenough655 as opposed to individuals
They be talking about every girl like they're a pokemon. Because they talked to real life girls as much as they talked to real life pokemons.
My fiance is a tomboy, I always liked her because she was not soft and I really loved her green eyes and freckles and also her being the only redhead in a high school that is mostly if not all hispanic origin making her being the odd one out in a crowd, this school was in southern California. I remember in prom that she was sitting alone in a simple black dress, her hair was like a Bob cut she had little makeup and eye liner, I too was alone as we both just sat alone there, I stared at her and said " prom is pretty boring without someone to dance with" she looked at me and nod, we chatted for a good while and as the ball room was getting smaller and smaller, I eventually told her that I always liked her but was too scared to tell her since I didn't knew she was into guys like me who are not athletics like her or was into hispanic guys, she liked me too and she was also scared to ask because she thought I wasn't into tomboys. We both looked at each other and I said "You want to dance with me?" She smiled a smile I will never forget, she said yes and we were the only and last ones to dance at prom, a night I won't forget.
THIS IS LITERALLY ANIME
IRL
Stop the cap🧢🧢🧢
Then you woke up.
Enough to make a grown man cry 😭
why are some people on the replies so salty like damn- life beats movie
9:49 BRO HE IS STRAIGHT UP THE GREATEST TWIST VILLIAN OF ALL TIME
man's even had the audicity to ask for uber money
That’s it L, This is my ultimate victory 😹😹😹😹
It was all part of my plan
Kyouka Suigetsu
Dude favorate charecter must be aizen or Kira. The way he planned the whole story of that guy. Perfect manipulator
Dudes the perfection reincarnation of the reverse flash
It was ME, BARRY
What I've learnt: don't let others steer your own directions
As a heterosexual male,tomboys are one of the most perfect things created by God
Agreed.
Agreed.
Agreed.
thank you :) -a fishergirl tomboy
Agreed.
Guys who dislikes tomboys, just have a fragile masculinity
bro nah tomboys are too masculine instant turn off
@@flaming3624 not really tomboys are cooler than other type of girls
@@killer_sangwoo I dont want cooler in a woman
@@flaming3624 I hope u get a cooler in a women and tomboys are the best.
@@killer_sangwoo no
Bruh when she leant on him and he said "what are you doing dude?", that was a critical kill lmao.
Yea. 😅
I woulda never turned that down. Id have jumped on the chance to embrace her advances. But that's just me.
Yeah that was him fucking everything up
@@usernameluis305 he's too dense
As a tomboy, I felt I could never fit in with girls so I eventually just started hanging out with guys instead, and I’m really glad I did. With girls there was always a lot of drama and yes, there is drama with guys too but it wasn’t as bad and I’d never really get involved in it. Since I lost my mother sort of at the beginning of teenage-hood, I changed a lot because I only grew up with my brother and my dad. So, I developed a really raunchy humour and a very guy-like mentality, so I essentially just became one of the guys. I’m so happy my guy friends accepted me at that point in my life (middle school). Most of my friends and all of my best friends are guys even today, and I couldn’t feel happier without it. Hanging out with girl friends is nice too, but I much prefer hanging out with guys.
As fun as it all sounds, I don’t know if other tomboyish girls have experienced this, but I had so many identity crisis’s. There are times I wish I was more feminine, like there is something about other girls that I simply cannot understand. And then there is some stuff that I can’t completely connect with with guys. Sometimes, I wish I wasn’t a girl (yeah, yeah I’ve thought about the trans stuff, but I’m definitely not trans). This also made it difficult for me to find a boyfriend, cause I feel like a lot of guys just saw me as another guy (I don’t look like one btw haha). Eventually mid-highschool I got a boyfriend who I am still with today, and the weirdest thing happened. After I got a boyfriend, my friend group dissolved until it was only me, my boyfriend and my best friend. And the thing is, I would still always hang out with them despite having a boyfriend, so it really didn’t change anything. I often think if it was because they were scared of my boyfriend (he’s tall and Asian, so his hair is really dark and it’s also really long, and wore a leather jacket, also he was really quiet because he was so shy), if it was because some of them liked me (which I doubt, because they never made a move), or if they hated the idea/they realized that I was a girl, with the same needs as (example) a guy wanting a girlfriend. It was so odd, and I was really worried in the future that I wouldn’t be able to make any new guy friends because I had a boyfriend. But then I realized that a lot of guys are friends with me not cause I’m a girl, but because they just like me as a person.
Though I still think about my identity a lot, I definitely feel better about it than I did before. It’s difficult for tomboys because we often get shunned REALLY hard by other girls, and also shunned by guys and ON TOP of that, it’s virtually impossible to connect with lgbtq people because tomboys are almost the antithesis to what they stand for or expect of you. Once you get older though, it starts to not matter who you are in this day and age, and it’s easier than ever, at least for me, to connect with a lot of people, especially guys.
I watched this video awhile ago and it genuinely warmed my heart. It makes me feel understood, even from the small details. I also only do light eye make up, just eyeliner and brows. I don’t want to be that person, but finally I found something that I could relate to so much. I know this comment will get buried, but thank you so much for this video.
I'm so happy for you
Love from France!
Why are you saying that lgbt are the antithesis to what you stand for?
Oh wow do I relate to every sentence of this lmfao. Been feeling the identity crisis tbh. Sometimes I can't tell if I became more masculine because I liked being masculine or if it was to escape sexualization. And then ofc I'm not really accepted by either girls or guys. Its fuckin frustrating lol. Still, I've been figuring things out for myself and its cool to see that you have been too. Best of luck to you my fellow tomboy, we are a rare and powerful breed.
@@gecko736 thank you :)
@@Dragonaiis I’m happy that I’m not the only one who’s experienced this!! 🫡 best of luck to you too soldier
i LAUGHT SO HARD. If you like something, you don´t need anyones approval.
That was so retarded actually. Idgaf what other people think if I like a tomboy.
as long as it's not hurting anyone who cares what other people think
Yeah. Trans are real woman. Lmao!
@@DavidB1124 you know what a tomboy is right?
@@Quiet-coast masculine men like feminine women, feminine men like masculine women, opposites attract
Zoomer just pulled an “It was me, Barry” and I despise him for it
Bro, why you gotta put this in my head 😂
Brrrr
"Remember that time at prom when Stacy danced with you then after it pretended to love you and because of that the Tomboy hated you? It was me Wojack, I paid her to pretend she loved you only for you to receive pain in the end."
"Remember when the Tomboy got angry at you and she was all alone on the street? it was me Wojack, I lied about you so she stayed with me and you received pain of solitude because of a pen more than 100 years ago."
In tears rn
"I don't see any progress"
This 5 words are powerful enough to stab gym newcomer right into his/her morale.
Thats why I didnt join immediatly. I didnt want to look like an asshat newbie. So I trained for a while at home to get in decent shape. Funny thing, the only gym in my town is filled with annoying 13-14yr old children, so I got bored fast and quit after less 2 months. I still train at home, but just to maintain what I have already.
I got a pretty good laugh when all of this turned out to just be revenge over a pen being stolen! 🤣
His family was too poor to afford another pen so it was a big deal.
I prefer a tomboy to a gymbunny. Tomboys get really hard to meet, they either live happy fun lives without the need to meet new people or change.
How im tryna live tbh
Damn as a tomboy that’s really accurate. I’m introvert and living the good life by myself, achieving my goals is what really fills me. Maybe that’s why I’ve never dated men, never learned how to show love
@@makiniita just be your trueself and share your interests.
I dated a tomboy around the end 2017. Sadly, our relationship only lasted 3 months because her sisters made false rumors about me cheating on her. We're still friends to this day & talk about the days we hanged out
They're like the near perfect girl, just the right amount of bro in her.