Hey Jocelyn- I say you were ‘Blackgirl luxury’ before it became a thing on TikTok and YT. You are awesome, and classy and we look up to you and get inspiration from you. Hope everything falls in line for you and know you are not alone with the overthinking and hyper criticism of self. It just means you want the best of the best. Be encouraged and do your thang. Loads of love 💕 to you. Cheers 🥂
Jocelyn ive been watching you for years and ive never commented. I cant speak for everyone else but I think most of us like you for who you are. The expectation for you to be perfect all the time, Shouldn't be there. Because you're a human being. Perfection isn't realistic. So don't worry too much about not looking put together. Saying that do whatever makes you comfortable and happy.
You were one of the first soft life babes that was brown and seeing this video resonates as I have wanted to create but I’m so picky of how I look. If you have been in the social media content space there is standard that you see like what pops or not and we know how people will create viral stuff dragging someone if their wig isn’t perfect. Glad to see your evolution.
YES! this is so true I think knowing how easy it is for others to find issues with my appearance makes me want to find them first. Thank you for your message.
The "STUUUUPID" SENT MEEEE!! It's so wild you posted this today as I've been itching to go through my subscriptions to unsubscribe from people who aren't active anymore.
Hello Jocelyn, glad to see you are back! I personally have always just appreciated you for exactly who you are. You inspire me, so I understand your thought process and it takes a bit to get back into a "flow" of things... however....Young Lady... just be YOU. You are FAB, and I personally love your suggestions, content and style! 🥰
I’ve been watching you for years and I think you have an amazing sense of style. I think it’s great you want to expand and experience the greater things in life. I understand the pressures of being on a public platform, but the ppl that get it will get it. No need to be overly careful or insecure.
I wouldn’t say I look up to you… but I appreciate your presence, I connected with you both on RUclips and instagram. You are such a sweet genuine woman, we all appreciate this about you. Perfection is not real. You are beautiful in your raw authentic self, you have a support system in us here…We love you.
I’m a few years older than you and I can say with certainty that what you’re going through is normal. It’s just a maturation process. You’re doing great. 💕
It’s wild how much more self-critical we get with more experience, when being brave (and somewhat clueless 😂) is why we get where we are in the first place. Looking forward to more videos!
I appreciate your vulnerability! I’ve been on a similar journey (getting out of my way) and would love to see more women embrace imperfection. Especially as they move into their 30’s. Perfectionism is the mother of procrastination smh. I can’t wait to see what 2024 has in store for you! Trust that we have your back. Side note: I’m on camera all the time for work and girl my nails look busted more than I’d like lol. A shiny clear nail strengthener polish and cuticle oil makes me feel so much more confident!
Thank you for sharing you. I feel like society puts this heavy weight on women’s image but there’s something to be said about being authentic and having a personality. I hope your intentionality of your image can be fun and align with you. I’ve followed you for a bit and I always LOVE when you show various depths of your life without being covergirl perfect. Excited for your next year
Also, i see on instagram that your a big reader! Would love to see some content of your favorite books, your thoughts maybe looped into a vlog of the day
OMG!!! You've been MISSED!!!!! Please come back to posting regularly, we love your smile, no more erasing videos. Please try not to be hard yourself...We adore you.
Great to see you. Missed you so much. Congratulations on getting your license. For those of us who love you we always think that you're perfection ❤❤❤❤ Such a kind spirit. Beautiful inside and out. Just go with the flow. We love whatever you do and you look absolutely beautiful and your hair looked very nice.
I completely understand your thought process. Well done for pushing through, hope you continue to feel the motivation to share the content you create 🤗
Hi doll- it’s so good to see you . Hope all is well. I just want to say congratulations on earning your real estate license. Proud of you hun.✨✨. I hope you know that you are beautiful inside and out - also you should not be so hard on yourself… Looking forward to more great content. ❤.
I'm like that too but I've created countless makeup tutorials over the years, and I couldn't bring myself to post. I keep telling myself one more surgery, and I'll start posting on social media etc. The more attractive you are the more people will criticize but also the more people will admire you. In your case you have the rare ability to be entertaining just by talking, and doing whatever you wants, makeup, vlogs.. whatever. You're elegant, poised, unique and intriguing, I'll watch whatever you post honestly. ❤
😫😫 Aw thank you so much for this comment. I really needed to see this message. I'm going to try to be more consistent this year and people like you are my motivation for that. Thank you for your kind words
So glad you are back. Sometimes you need to heal and re-invent yourself. I definitely can relate to what you are saying. So glad you are back, you are an inspiration to me and so many others! Keep shining we are here to support you!
Congratulations 🎉 again hun! Welcome to the beautiful industry of real estate 🏘️ hopefully I can refer some clients to you from my neck of the woods across the pond . And honestly I completely get it about judging yourself and honestly it’s pushing through the fear, the anxiety, the judgment and getting comfortable being uncomfortable and just doing the thing. I missed your presence and energy ❤
SHEEEEEES BACK!!!!!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I would love an updated makeup routine please include the lashes 👀 because some of y’all beauty creators be gate keeping on the lashes and sometimes the lip combos❤❤❤❤ love you
Yes I will do one in the next week or two. However when it comes to lashes I get mine from a specific vendor and have over 100 boxes in my house so that's why I don't usually talk about them
I have missed your presence in my life. Your Chanel always has positive information and believe me your presence has truly been inspiring for us all. Do what is good for you and we will always be here. I feel like you are a friend who I have never met ❤. I wish you success and prosperity always. May Allah protect and guide you always Ameen 🤲🏼
Girl you are gorgeous, I hope you don’t loose your beauty with botox & fillers, you are dark skinned & beautiful ageing much later is one of the advantages of your complexion, you don’t need any work. Said with & from love. ❤ the critical voice in your head is what makes you think you need to be perfect when real beauty lies in the imperfections.
I totally understand the feeling of not wanting to post if you don’t think you look right, but what I’ve learned from my time on YT is that the people posting content are spending so much time looking at themselves that it changes their perception of what they see. It’s like when you stare into the mirror for too long that you see an unrecognizable face. One suggestion I could make to help you through this is to find either a YT buddy or Master Mind of women who also post to social media. Maybe someone who can review your videos and give you a realistic impression of whatever you think your flaws are. I’ve had several different buddies throughout the years and having them always helped me create and share more confidently. Hope that helps!
@@jocelynpartee talk about whatever you want to talk about (examples: life, health, fashion, gossip, business, advice, conversations with friends, relationships, men, career advice) the sky is the limit
Hey my love I really really missed the old you, I’ve watched you from day 1, the make up and hair, the surgery etc…etc…. Then I felt you was going to another space, you started doing high fashion, and it felt like to me you was showing off, and I switched off, I haven’t watched you in ages, and then this video popped up, and I just rolled my eyes, and ignored it, but something said, no watch it, and I’m so glad i did And I’m also glad you said, those things, that most people was actually thinking which is good Let’s see if it sticks ❤, 🤗 and 🙏🏾 xx
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Hey Jocelyn- I say you were ‘Blackgirl luxury’ before it became a thing on TikTok and YT. You are awesome, and classy and we look up to you and get inspiration from you. Hope everything falls in line for you and know you are not alone with the overthinking and hyper criticism of self. It just means you want the best of the best. Be encouraged and do your thang. Loads of love 💕 to you. Cheers 🥂
Thank you so so much! I really appreciate you 🥰
Jocelyn ive been watching you for years and ive never commented. I cant speak for everyone else but I think most of us like you for who you are. The expectation for you to be perfect all the time, Shouldn't be there. Because you're a human being. Perfection isn't realistic. So don't worry too much about not looking put together. Saying that do whatever makes you comfortable and happy.
Thank you I needed to read this. ♥️
I couldn't agree more on this!
I couldn’t agree more. I started watching her back when I was about 15 I’m 24 today and I still think she’s literally the best person on social media.
@BaeliaOra same I think I started to watch her at 16 or 17, and now I'm 26.
I agree 😊
You were one of the first soft life babes that was brown and seeing this video resonates as I have wanted to create but I’m so picky of how I look. If you have been in the social media content space there is standard that you see like what pops or not and we know how people will create viral stuff dragging someone if their wig isn’t perfect. Glad to see your evolution.
YES! this is so true I think knowing how easy it is for others to find issues with my appearance makes me want to find them first. Thank you for your message.
@@jocelynparteeyou have always been baddie example but I also see the change of the game on social media. Like the standard is a mess.
Omg for real a soft life OG!
Missed you. Don’t be hard on yourself. Be authentic. We love your humor and your high standards. You have inspired me throughout the years.
Thank you I really appreciate your comment. ❤️
The "STUUUUPID" SENT MEEEE!!
It's so wild you posted this today as I've been itching to go through my subscriptions to unsubscribe from people who aren't active anymore.
😂 dating has definitely been "stupid" when it comes to the past year 😂. Hopefully you didn't unsubscribe just yet
I clicked so fast when I saw the notification. So good to see you on RUclips 🤗
Thank you 🥰
missed seeing you girl, I'm glad you doing okay and I'm glad that you'll be back posting on social media again 💗
thank you I appreciate you. ♥
and I swear girl you don't age I've been watching you for yearss, and you look gorgeous 😍
Hello Jocelyn, glad to see you are back! I personally have always just appreciated you for exactly who you are. You inspire me, so I understand your thought process and it takes a bit to get back into a "flow" of things... however....Young Lady... just be YOU. You are FAB, and I personally love your suggestions, content and style! 🥰
Thank you so much! I really appreciate your support.
I’ve been watching you for years and I think you have an amazing sense of style. I think it’s great you want to expand and experience the greater things in life. I understand the pressures of being on a public platform, but the ppl that get it will get it. No need to be overly careful or insecure.
Thank you for you're message. I really appreciate it & you ♥️
You are amazing, smart, and beautiful. I've missed you and so glad you're back. Don't beat yourself up.
Thank you ♥️
I wouldn’t say I look up to you… but I appreciate your presence, I connected with you both on RUclips and instagram. You are such a sweet genuine woman, we all appreciate this about you.
Perfection is not real. You are beautiful in your raw authentic self, you have a support system in us here…We love you.
Thank you so much!!
I’m a few years older than you and I can say with certainty that what you’re going through is normal. It’s just a maturation process. You’re doing great. 💕
We love you Jocelyn! Been watching you for the last 7 years! Thanks for sharing with us 💕
Thank you so much for watching all these years
It’s wild how much more self-critical we get with more experience, when being brave (and somewhat clueless 😂) is why we get where we are in the first place. Looking forward to more videos!
We can be so hard on ourselves. Just continue to be transparent and honest about your journey, it provides some much-needed nuance.
thank you! I will ❤️
I appreciate your vulnerability! I’ve been on a similar journey (getting out of my way) and would love to see more women embrace imperfection. Especially as they move into their 30’s. Perfectionism is the mother of procrastination smh. I can’t wait to see what 2024 has in store for you! Trust that we have your back.
Side note: I’m on camera all the time for work and girl my nails look busted more than I’d like lol. A shiny clear nail strengthener polish and cuticle oil makes me feel so much more confident!
This is a word!!! I appreciate you for watching and understanding.
Miss you beautiful lady ❤ Anything you post is going to be AWESOME I just know it ❤ We love you ❤️
OMG! I'm sooo happy to see you again.❤❤❤
Yay! Thank you!
We miss your beautiful content and love you just how you are 👍🏻 You are fantastic!
Thank you Vanessa
Welcome back Jocelyn 🥳🥳🥳
I totally understand the pressure just enjoy every moment both Good and the lessons 🙏🏿🫶🏿🤎
thanks girl ♥️
Thank you for sharing you. I feel like society puts this heavy weight on women’s image but there’s something to be said about being authentic and having a personality. I hope your intentionality of your image can be fun and align with you. I’ve followed you for a bit and I always LOVE when you show various depths of your life without being covergirl perfect. Excited for your next year
Also, i see on instagram that your a big reader! Would love to see some content of your favorite books, your thoughts maybe looped into a vlog of the day
Yes I definitely will have a video dedicated to that.
Thank you so much I really appreciate it. I definitely am trying to get better at getting out of my head. ♥️
Hey,
Nice to see you
🥂 to being open and honest ❤
thank you ❤️
OMG!!! You've been MISSED!!!!! Please come back to posting regularly, we love your smile, no more erasing videos. Please try not to be hard yourself...We adore you.
Missed you so much beautiful ❤
missed you too
Great to see you. Missed you so much. Congratulations on getting your license. For those of us who love you we always think that you're perfection ❤❤❤❤ Such a kind spirit. Beautiful inside and out. Just go with the flow. We love whatever you do and you look absolutely beautiful and your hair looked very nice.
Thank you so much! ❤️❤️ Your so kind
I completely understand your thought process. Well done for pushing through, hope you continue to feel the motivation to share the content you create 🤗
Thanks so much! I really appreciate you
Hi doll- it’s so good to see you . Hope all is well. I just want to say congratulations on earning your real estate license. Proud of you hun.✨✨. I hope you know that you are beautiful inside and out - also you should not be so hard on yourself… Looking forward to more great content. ❤.
Thank you!! I really appreciate your comment.
I'm like that too but I've created countless makeup tutorials over the years, and I couldn't bring myself to post. I keep telling myself one more surgery, and I'll start posting on social media etc. The more attractive you are the more people will criticize but also the more people will admire you. In your case you have the rare ability to be entertaining just by talking, and doing whatever you wants, makeup, vlogs.. whatever. You're elegant, poised, unique and intriguing, I'll watch whatever you post honestly. ❤
😫😫 Aw thank you so much for this comment. I really needed to see this message. I'm going to try to be more consistent this year and people like you are my motivation for that. Thank you for your kind words
So glad you are back. Sometimes you need to heal and re-invent yourself. I definitely can relate to what you are saying. So glad you are back, you are an inspiration to me and so many others! Keep shining we are here to support you!
Thank you so much I needed to see this ♥️
Happy to have you back. And we love the way you are authentically so you don’t have to be too critical of yourself!
❤️
Congratulations 🎉 again hun! Welcome to the beautiful industry of real estate 🏘️ hopefully I can refer some clients to you from my neck of the woods across the pond . And honestly I completely get it about judging yourself and honestly it’s pushing through the fear, the anxiety, the judgment and getting comfortable being uncomfortable and just doing the thing. I missed your presence and energy ❤
Hey Tasha I appreciate you girl. Definitely hope I can recommend some clients your way in the future as well.
SHEEEEEES BACK!!!!!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I would love an updated makeup routine please include the lashes 👀 because some of y’all beauty creators be gate keeping on the lashes and sometimes the lip combos❤❤❤❤ love you
Yes I will do one in the next week or two. However when it comes to lashes I get mine from a specific vendor and have over 100 boxes in my house so that's why I don't usually talk about them
Welcome back Jocelyn 🤗
I love your vibe and style. You helped me get better with my make and outfits ❤.
Thank you 😊
@@jocelynpartee Your welcome!
Love the video!! Missed you ❤❤
🥺❤️
Yes!! So glad you are back. ❤❤❤
Thank you 🥰
Welcome back. I missed your content.
Thank you I'm excited to start posting again
I have missed your presence in my life. Your Chanel always has positive information and believe me your presence has truly been inspiring for us all. Do what is good for you and we will always be here. I feel like you are a friend who I have never met ❤. I wish you success and prosperity always. May Allah protect and guide you always Ameen 🤲🏼
I love this! Thank you so much. May Allah send you many blessings ♥️
So happy you are back. You are absolutely beautiful don’t be so hard on yourself. ❤
❤️
you look amazing. Especially your beat. It's flawless
thank you so much ♥️
Welcome back! Congratulations on getting your real estate license.
Thank you!! 🥰
Welcome back Jocelyn! 🤍
Thank you 🥰
We missed you so much and you're absolutely perfect 💞💞💞
Thank you so much!!
Wow 🎉
thank you so much for watching
Jocelyn, you gave me hope that as a single black mother, that I can still have a happy soft life , even date if I choose too. Thank you 💜
Yesss thank you! It is definitely something that is possible for us as single moms we deserve soft lives too
Girl you are gorgeous, I hope you don’t loose your beauty with botox &
fillers, you are dark skinned & beautiful ageing much later is one of the advantages of your complexion, you don’t need any work. Said with & from love. ❤ the critical voice in your head is what makes you think you need to be perfect when real beauty lies in the imperfections.
You're so right about that! Thank you!
Glad you’re back!
Thank you ♥️
Hi welcome back ❤
Thank you 🥰
I totally understand the feeling of not wanting to post if you don’t think you look right, but what I’ve learned from my time on YT is that the people posting content are spending so much time looking at themselves that it changes their perception of what they see. It’s like when you stare into the mirror for too long that you see an unrecognizable face. One suggestion I could make to help you through this is to find either a YT buddy or Master Mind of women who also post to social media. Maybe someone who can review your videos and give you a realistic impression of whatever you think your flaws are. I’ve had several different buddies throughout the years and having them always helped me create and share more confidently. Hope that helps!
Thank you. I needed this message. I love the idea of having a YT buddy.
Welcome Back!!
thank you ♥️
Recently licensed too!
Congratulations
🤍I missed you on RUclips🤍
💖Welcome Back💖
🥰 Thank you!
You were missed!!!
☺️ Thank you
Welcome back and pls dont leave again
I'm definitely back for good
Wow wow wow 🎉🎉🎉🎉
🥰 thank you so much
Yes girl…..perfectionism. Ugh, I am over the whole thing! It’s tiring!
It absolutely is.
Can you share the what contacts you wear please? That colour is fab! ☺️
I wear airoptix colors in honey
@@jocelynpartee thank you ✨
Jeeze, your a smarty pants. I heard that test is hard in any state.
Did you go to community college to prepare you?
I just did it online.
@@jocelynpartee Can you recommended to a Texas girl?
i hope you start a audio podcast you have a great voice and communicate very well
I would love to. Just need to find a topic for it.
@@jocelynpartee talk about whatever you want to talk about (examples: life, health, fashion, gossip, business, advice, conversations with friends, relationships, men, career advice) the sky is the limit
How was your experience in Ghana??? I am a Ghanaian
I loved it and I definitely hope I can go back soon
Hey my love
I really really missed the old you, I’ve watched you from day 1, the make up and hair, the surgery etc…etc….
Then I felt you was going to another space, you started doing high fashion, and it felt like to me you was showing off, and I switched off, I haven’t watched you in ages, and then this video popped up, and I just rolled my eyes, and ignored it, but something said, no watch it, and I’m so glad i did
And I’m also glad you said, those things, that most people was actually thinking which is good
Let’s see if it sticks
❤, 🤗 and 🙏🏾 xx
Thank you I appreciate your perspective.