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  • @Geisezr
    @Geisezr  4 месяца назад +327

    I just want you all to know, that your not alone. The depression, drugs, trying to understand why life matters like what’s the point of it. I was consumed by these things for a very long time. But I want you to know that I’ve been set free. God really is real and he saved my life, he pulled me out of that dark bottomless pit and I know he can do the same for you because with God all things are possible ❤
    Also remember you do matter, you’re not alone, you do have a purpose, and you are loved by Jesus! For he is the way the truth and the life! Keep on keeping on everyone ❤🤙 don’t give up, keep moving forward!
    (John 3:16)

    • @ABIONICultratem
      @ABIONICultratem 4 месяца назад +8

      Thanks brother, this video is one of my favorites, good edit, greetings.❤

    • @josepazzone28
      @josepazzone28 3 месяца назад +4

      Amen ty 🙏

    • @cameronislive
      @cameronislive 3 месяца назад +5

      Exactly what happened to my friend. I'm glad to hear you're doing better, through the darkness there is light

    • @SantrellMason
      @SantrellMason 3 месяца назад +6

      Brother, I am in such a hard place rn. I feel so numb and heartbroken. I need a prayer or a miracle or something. Please, if you could pray for me, I beg of you do so

    • @Geisezr
      @Geisezr  3 месяца назад +3

      @@SantrellMason Hey brother, keep that head up my friend, I will definitely be praying for you. Don't give up, keep yours eyes on Jesus. I'm sorry your going through a hard time, but I want you to know you are never alone God is always with you. I love ya man! Your important and you do matter, and whatever your going through it will get better. Keep on keeping on, Jesus is coming soon

  • @fifteen5191
    @fifteen5191 Год назад +9638

    In my opinion, the worst feeling of loneliness, isn't being lonely, it's realising how miserable you are.

    • @maskedking5990
      @maskedking5990 Год назад +36

      Yes

    • @Ratzyxx
      @Ratzyxx Год назад +29

      @@Darksuskiki on est ensemble

    • @jesh1640
      @jesh1640 Год назад +171

      hey man sorry, you feel like that, But I assure you things get better. Even though you may not see light at the end of the tunnel. Hang in there brother and let me know if you need anything, much love, and God bless !
      Mathew 11:28-“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest”

    • @-LucasFishing-
      @-LucasFishing- Год назад +51

      Yeah it’s like Groundhog Day just on repeat, but dealing with depression sucks…

    • @jesh1640
      @jesh1640 Год назад +33

      @@-LucasFishing- it does, but even the most dreaded things come to an end mate. sorry to hear that you may be dealing with depression but things get better soon just gotta trust God with it, and even if things don't seem to change they will. one day or another you'll be free from whatever may be plaguing you. so stay strong brotha and don't lose courage, much strength, and God bless !
      Psalm 9:9 "The Lord is a shelter for the oppressed, a refuge in times of trouble."

  • @Wolfsta
    @Wolfsta 10 месяцев назад +1353

    Being alone taught me how to love myself, being with her taught me how to start loving the world. :(

    • @Beautiful_mind..
      @Beautiful_mind.. 10 месяцев назад +2

      So, are you happy?

    • @Wolfsta
      @Wolfsta 10 месяцев назад +8

      @@Beautiful_mind.. i was the happiest person

    • @Beautiful_mind..
      @Beautiful_mind.. 10 месяцев назад +5

      @@Wolfsta Appreciation often dawns upon us only after we've lost something :')

    • @myric1173
      @myric1173 10 месяцев назад +8

      Her betrayal taught me that the world doesn't love back :(

    • @Wolfsta
      @Wolfsta 10 месяцев назад +5

      @@myric1173 exactly 😂

  • @Genjutsu238
    @Genjutsu238 10 месяцев назад +87

    You know what's worse... seeing everyone be with someone. Seeing everyone having fun, making memories and having not one but many girlfriends. But you are just a shadow, no happiness or happy memories for you, just total emptiness.

    • @smartgem4284
      @smartgem4284 10 месяцев назад +11

      Welcome to my boat, there are many people like you and I, rowing this boat
      across the empty nothingness

    • @falltuneu9563
      @falltuneu9563 10 месяцев назад +6

      I think it's good. Your so empty there is enough room for it all. For you to face reality at eye level, you get to see the cruelty and misery of people around you but equally the beauty, and the tender unconditional love one has for another. It all fits right? The world is blank, people think they've got it covered but the truth is we question everything everyday. We do it messy but atleast we try, Humans struggle but living is the most important. I can't end it myself because that's not how my story is going to end. I'll die one day but I refuse to go without giving it a try.

    • @SeregaOrgan
      @SeregaOrgan 10 месяцев назад

      I hardly can see something alive in the others. They all the same. It looks like they not real at all. Nothing outstanding. Why envy them? You have a gift to see reality and not to be distracted. Prepare yourself to the end, which is coming for us all. They will be shaking, and you will be smiling

    • @aadock5260
      @aadock5260 10 месяцев назад

      Être avec quelqu'un ne veut pas forcément dire que tu es heureux... Profite de la vie et construisons notre avenir des femmes ils en a beaucoup

    • @Thesavagesouls
      @Thesavagesouls 10 месяцев назад +1

      Doesn't makes them happy. Stop thinking about what everyone else has that you don't. It's a blackhole skining you in. Instead use your energy to become the best version of yourself. And eventually you will find a girl. I've been in this dark place you're standing, but now my life is better.

  • @deweytsieps4bh731
    @deweytsieps4bh731 10 месяцев назад +83

    “The worst feeling isn’t loneliness, it’s being forgotten by someone you could never forget”

  • @N_S_1
    @N_S_1 Год назад +289

    I think the worst part about being lonely is seeing other people together and happy

    • @InVinoVeratas
      @InVinoVeratas Год назад +28

      No, the worst part of being lonely, is being alone. Nobody shares in your misery as much as those who have experienced such misery as you have, and even then, the perspective isn't the same as the one who's experienced it, They are alone in their sufferring, as nobody has experienced such suffering. If you look at the cycles of life, we all experience a great tragedy within 80 years, we go through cycles of sufferiing for 25 years, only to realize we're experiencing the same pain as those who have experienced the same pain that we have, prior, wether it's 80 or 100 years later, we all go through the same cycles of pain, eternally.

    • @sohanpal8152
      @sohanpal8152 Год назад

      no bro
      never you must be happy that time..
      but when u r alone that became the worst part...
      so the worst part is being alone.

    • @trunks3920
      @trunks3920 Год назад +2

      either u became mentally ill, or you just find a way to not depend on the other and take advice by yourself, learning to be your own master of happiness etc..

    • @skaizero2336
      @skaizero2336 11 месяцев назад

      And you see other Man or woman being happy while you're feeling like shit it's like you were humiliated a little

    • @wolfybuizness157
      @wolfybuizness157 11 месяцев назад

      The worst part is to find the mental strength to keep going, knowing that you are the only one who has your back. Loneliness goes wayyyy deeper than " my crush dont like me" my brother.

  • @ashitoshchavan3957
    @ashitoshchavan3957 Год назад +233

    The worst feeling is when you have your family and friends around you but still feel lonely

    • @dotdotdot9038
      @dotdotdot9038 Год назад +11

      Just read this comment and almost broke into tears bc this is how i feel around people literally every time, i just didn't realize it

    • @bitgoldexpert5014
      @bitgoldexpert5014 11 месяцев назад +2

      Same situation. Although those friends are more the children of my parents friends and they don't ever really hangout with me except on their birthdays

    • @driftybull72064
      @driftybull72064 11 месяцев назад +6

      It’s true I do mostly feel lonely but I still live a good life

    • @foronetoo
      @foronetoo 9 месяцев назад +9

      i just want a girl to hold me and tell me i love you… no one knows how much i fucking want that all my friends think im overreacting but they dont know how i feel atleast just a day of being loved by a woman atleast ONE SINGLE DAY id be happy.

    • @jarrygarry5316
      @jarrygarry5316 9 месяцев назад +1

      I don't have friends.Majority of my good friends are disappeared and now I have friends that try to backstab me

  • @kdot2513
    @kdot2513 3 месяца назад +48

    A wise man once said “sometimes we think we want to disappear but all we really want is to be found”

  • @darkcrozz
    @darkcrozz 9 месяцев назад +42

    Sad part is
    I’m surrounded with my family and good friends or coworkers,
    But still feel loneliness at the end.
    It’s feels like
    EMPTY

    • @hariunique391
      @hariunique391 9 месяцев назад +1

      yeah how to end this boredom and how to enjoy things like others 🙂

    • @iiCounted-op5jx
      @iiCounted-op5jx 7 месяцев назад

      its called adulthood

  • @lemonmuffin4990
    @lemonmuffin4990 Год назад +306

    I'm 20. Looking through life pass by my eyes like a movie scene. Weeks blend together and I watch everyone else move on while I'm stuck in the void I put myself into.

    • @darrentang44
      @darrentang44 Год назад +30

      I’m 22 and I feel the same way

    • @jaysportal5439
      @jaysportal5439 Год назад +22

      Change up how you live. Wake up. Get sleep. Work out in the morning. You control yourself and your mind. You Have to do what your thinking is to much effort to change man. You got this and I believe in you.

    • @jaysportal5439
      @jaysportal5439 Год назад +2

      ​@Darren Tang Change up how you live. Wake up. Get sleep. Work out in the morning. You control yourself and your mind. You Have to do what your thinking is to much effort to change man. You got this and I believe in you

    • @brandthendo5623
      @brandthendo5623 Год назад +2

      go on a hike by yourself.

    • @ekamufarrikha5153
      @ekamufarrikha5153 Год назад +5

      20 yo here, still figure it out if everything that I am doing now is worth it enough.......

  • @Cresce_Music
    @Cresce_Music Год назад +2089

    this hits harder than ever since my heart has been broken around christmas time.. I've been writing songs to get through the pain, my heart been hurting... 3,5 years of my life i gave my all to this girl and in the end I got nothing to show for it. I made a song about it to express my feelings and help people going through the same thing.. Lonliness hurts and I hope to inspire people to use heartbreak as a motivation for their passion. Dropped the song yesterday, to anyone taking the time to check me out and join me on the journey to success, I will forever be thankful. Right now it means more than anything💔🙏

    • @kronixboi9629
      @kronixboi9629 Год назад +11

      I'm going through the same shit rn man...1 year of great fun, happiness, and better days with that one person goes to what? Nothing... because suddenly this person decided to start ignoring me, and don't give a heck about anything..I honestly never been so broken like now, crying and checking every minute if maybe this person going to write back...eh it's just like, you talk with someone everyday, and you two enjoy eachother and boom one day everything is wanished.. now I'm alone, my heart is broken, and mental health in a really bad condition. Thank you that I at least was able to throw this emotions out of me in the comments. Be careful who you trust people 💔

    • @entitledjew7905
      @entitledjew7905 Год назад +9

      @@kronixboi9629 stay strong. Don't wait for her, she don't deserve you. Hit gym , get out with friends. Just don't be nice guy...

    • @bohrrmashiiin1586
      @bohrrmashiiin1586 Год назад +4

      I lost 4 years :) got replaced in 2 weeks :)

    • @kronixboi9629
      @kronixboi9629 Год назад

      @@entitledjew7905 Thanks man, I appreciate it. Yesterday I got support from many people and I feel lot better today. It's just, you know my first time being in such a situation, and for a 17 yo guy like me is hard to deal with. But, I guess when you have right people on your side it's easier to move on. Thanks again brother, big love

    • @ulacromeiov7410
      @ulacromeiov7410 Год назад

      Man your song Dry Your Tears is super! Great work.
      I love the kinda mix between Lil Peep and XXXtentacion.
      Keep grinding Brah.

  • @evileye47
    @evileye47 Месяц назад +20

    Worst part of life is realizing that nobody needs you but, you need somebody.

    • @King_chaosx
      @King_chaosx Месяц назад +3

      That is painfully true

  • @StirringSound
    @StirringSound 3 месяца назад +35

    There will be countless people who can support a woman to heal from a breakup, but nobody helps broken man during loneliness.
    Keep it strong 💪 brother!

  • @vladshim1600
    @vladshim1600 Год назад +1290

    When you feel lonely even with people around you, so nicely done

    • @mr.unbekannt5900
      @mr.unbekannt5900 Год назад +17

      Stay strong bro🔥

    • @anactualguy8257
      @anactualguy8257 Год назад +24

      Even Jordan Peterson said he wouldn't know what to do if confronted with such a situation per client.

    • @hochigaming14yearsago90
      @hochigaming14yearsago90 Год назад +27

      That is a horrible feeling. I hope everyone feeling this has some well needed respite.

    • @Bob-nz8dv
      @Bob-nz8dv Год назад +14

      I can relate but God helped so much

    • @hochigaming14yearsago90
      @hochigaming14yearsago90 Год назад +3

      @@Bob-nz8dv whatever helps you get back on track with your life. Godspeed man

  • @aidarjapykeev4544
    @aidarjapykeev4544 Год назад +170

    I’m 22. Used to hate this feeling of loneliness, then just stopped caring about it anymore. But when looking at people being together and happy, and people that are close to each other, and just seeing other people’s happinesses, and not having it myself, just kinda rose this stupid dumb feeling inside of me again.. emptiness.

    • @elektro1078
      @elektro1078 Год назад +3

      😢

    • @danielevstratov
      @danielevstratov Год назад +6

      мне 25. это чувство будто бы съедает меня изнутри каждый день. и этот неуходящий ком в горле. но я занимаю себя учебой и музыкой, чтобы отвлекаться

    • @sinatra_srb
      @sinatra_srb Год назад +2

      i'm also 22, and I think the same thing.

    • @driellx6640
      @driellx6640 Год назад +2

      literally me

    • @sanfayyaad
      @sanfayyaad 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@danielevstratovI want to hug you so much man

  • @christophercamacho3451
    @christophercamacho3451 3 месяца назад +37

    If you listen to this often, i hope everything gets better for you, stay strong.

  • @akshaychauhan8924
    @akshaychauhan8924 9 месяцев назад +27

    I think , the worst part about loneliness is not being lonely and feeling lonely but the inability or incompetence to fill that loneliness.
    And this continuous disappointed / rejection of countless trials elevates the feeling of loneliness much more times than just experiencing the absence of someone.

    • @mad_murlocmedia2569
      @mad_murlocmedia2569 9 месяцев назад +2

      Being alone is one thing, suffering alone is another. Overcoming your suffering with no one hollows the experience altogether.

    • @akshaychauhan8924
      @akshaychauhan8924 9 месяцев назад

      @@mad_murlocmedia2569 exactly 💯

  • @willardlarkinsnow5622
    @willardlarkinsnow5622 Год назад +158

    Ryan can say more with one look than most actors can express with a monologue

  • @Sean-Johnson
    @Sean-Johnson Год назад +88

    My father always said…
    “Life isn’t fun without a struggle in it, but some struggles lead to tragic endings.”

  • @daezombie1602
    @daezombie1602 9 месяцев назад +25

    "To look without fear, to smile without feeling. Loneliness is a beautiful curse she is."

  • @poggingmilk9452
    @poggingmilk9452 8 месяцев назад +26

    We are lonely. Together.

    • @mateus98467
      @mateus98467 8 месяцев назад +2

      Alone but together at the same time

  • @NegativKreep
    @NegativKreep 10 месяцев назад +95

    All I ever wanted was to matter to someone. To know my existence meant something to somebody. To feel like I’m actually wanted in this life.

    • @JosephP8
      @JosephP8 10 месяцев назад +10

      from a stranger online, i promise you matter to many people. wether they show it or not - they care and so do i and every person who reads these comments

    • @jayeshbisht8999
      @jayeshbisht8999 10 месяцев назад +7

      It's amazing how many guys you have just spoken for. Stay strong brother, all we can do is dream and hope for such a day.

    • @Juju3947
      @Juju3947 10 месяцев назад +6

      I genuinely feel the weight in my chest these days.

    • @TomAndrews91
      @TomAndrews91 9 месяцев назад +1

      I had that once and then it was gone. Another false flag.

    • @dutchvandk1487
      @dutchvandk1487 8 месяцев назад +4

      I think about this thought. Wanting to matter to people. But I then think that I’m just not going to matter to anyone, and that I’m just a waste of space. This thought happens often.

  • @Someone..00.
    @Someone..00. 9 месяцев назад +18

    The worst feeling is wanting to be loved,wanting to have fun or wanting to have someone to comfort you..but all you get is hate...

    • @AlbertWesker_GOAT
      @AlbertWesker_GOAT 9 месяцев назад

      Social networks have only given people the opportunity to show without remorse the selfishness and narcissism that already existed among them.
      I was ashamed of myself when I realised life was a costume party and I attended with my real face.
      Franz Kafka.

  • @Richi_MTB
    @Richi_MTB 8 месяцев назад +28

    the worst part of being lonely is knowing that you have so much to give and nobody to give it to.

    • @ManergoTones
      @ManergoTones 8 месяцев назад +4

      tell me about it. It's like being punished for having a heart full of love and life.

    • @donx7ru7h53
      @donx7ru7h53 8 месяцев назад +1

      The worst times of the year are just around the corner thanksgiving and Christmas.

    • @MAN-20
      @MAN-20 8 месяцев назад +1

      The one thing, the only void in my life. I wish I had someone. Or wish i could turn off the part of my brain that yearns for her, can't take it anymore.

  • @lustbeforeluv
    @lustbeforeluv Год назад +116

    I think the worst thing about loneliness is feeling it even while being surrounded by people who love you.

  • @talesgarcia9689
    @talesgarcia9689 Год назад +69

    good men are often condemned to be alone.

  • @ayebing
    @ayebing 3 месяца назад +24

    "there are worse things than being alone...but by the time you realize that, its too late. And theres nothing worse than too late. - C. Bukowski

  • @Fpartan104
    @Fpartan104 3 месяца назад +18

    Who else has gone an entire day just to realize by the end of it you haven’t spoken a single word? Just you and your thoughts all day

  • @samuraj147
    @samuraj147 Год назад +8565

    Most of people dont understand the feeling going from this video. Loneliness is not when you are alone. It is the feeling tha makes you feel you are lonely and you have people and friends arround. I still try sometimes explain this feeling to some people, but its dont go well. I am 29, have girlfriend, own appartment, good job. But arround the corner still hideing feeling like in this video and hits me in the night, my girlfriend sleep, and i just play some games, listen to music, drink some beers couse you need to relax and still thinking abut everything. Even if everything goes great, something is not good. Sorry for my english, but i have feelings that i wrote right now. Ive had good stream few hours ago, we make lot of fun, and now i am watching and YT algorithm give me this. And it hits hard, couse this is my feeling. Sorry about this "mail", but first time i wrote something like this. But still, great edit and video man. Subscribed, keep going in good work :)

    • @JoseRamirez-mg4pn
      @JoseRamirez-mg4pn Год назад +472

      Please like this comment because this is the exact message I was looking for, And this is the exact explanation that describes me and the feeling of loneliness

    • @Pratham8582
      @Pratham8582 Год назад +137

      I feel the same way bro ♥️

    • @cowboyschad5x778
      @cowboyschad5x778 Год назад +65

      Many such cases.
      Very common.

    • @blkp4nther
      @blkp4nther Год назад +75

      Literally me.

    • @jazzcat969
      @jazzcat969 Год назад +36

      Literally me

  • @Yann2020
    @Yann2020 Год назад +82

    Ryan Gosling is such a remarkable actor, not only because he did great movies, but mostly because this dude doesn't even have to speak to show how he feels. He's one of the few actors who pretty much doesn't talk in most of his roles, his acting is mostly done by his face, and it's a particularly sad, calm and tortured face that he has...

    • @Josh-fp2qn
      @Josh-fp2qn Год назад +7

      Yes. A very versatile actor.

  • @Victor30461
    @Victor30461 6 месяцев назад +23

    Loneliness is worse when you get to feel like this even when you actually have people in your life.

  • @Kodipika
    @Kodipika 7 месяцев назад +23

    Love being alone! Hate being lonely

  • @T.Ali.Isisah
    @T.Ali.Isisah Год назад +59

    The worst thing about loneliness is it never really leaves you. Because you’ve become used to being that way. And in that you realize how dangerous it is. But how addictive it is when you find a it to be peaceful.

    • @loganlyons2138
      @loganlyons2138 Год назад +8

      So true I had that feeling of loneliness all year until I meet her it was weird having someone to talk too but then we broke up and I felt I just lost something great and the going back to rock bottom hurt and now I’m trying to make my peace with it again

    • @dontreadmyprofilepicture7705
      @dontreadmyprofilepicture7705 Год назад

      its not peaceful its shit it leaves and comes back ive been used to this for a long time like 2 years and I hate feeling lonely its not really a peace. And I dont feel anything anymore like before I used to get happy and shit not anymore

  • @kingzakkuu7844
    @kingzakkuu7844 Год назад +57

    After being alone for so long it’s kinda crazy. You can feel yourself growing numb. You can literally feel a part of you dying.

    • @griff5746
      @griff5746 Год назад +12

      Yeah and you realize you’ll never get that part of you back and you can’t do anything about it

    • @Wolfsta
      @Wolfsta Год назад +6

      U have to go out of your shell and move to a new city

    • @kingzakkuu7844
      @kingzakkuu7844 Год назад

      @@griff5746 exactly. Never getting it back. It’s already happened.

    • @kingzakkuu7844
      @kingzakkuu7844 Год назад

      @@Wolfsta it’s what I feel like doing

    • @Wolfsta
      @Wolfsta Год назад

      @@kingzakkuu7844 then save up some money and move 🙏 this will be the best decision u make

  • @JOHNDILLINGER1934
    @JOHNDILLINGER1934 12 дней назад +13

    Loneliness is like cancer, it feeds on you until the day you die, pretty sad.

    • @MusicismoreImportant
      @MusicismoreImportant 12 дней назад

      Music matters, hope and God matters

    • @JOHNDILLINGER1934
      @JOHNDILLINGER1934 11 дней назад +2

      ​​@@MusicismoreImportant,I am an atheist, and if "god" existed he would most likely hate us.

    • @MusicismoreImportant
      @MusicismoreImportant 11 дней назад

      @@JOHNDILLINGER1934 well the world has less cruelty, more cuisine and music available today then ever before
      Listen to max bruch violin concerto ,
      Frederick Chopin piano concerto 1, Edvard Greig,
      Dvorak cello concerto 🥂

    • @JOHNDILLINGER1934
      @JOHNDILLINGER1934 10 дней назад

      ​@@MusicismoreImportant,Besides the music comment, what the fuck does your answer have to do with being alone and depressed? less cruelty? People continue to kill each other out of envy, we are selfish, manipulative, psychopaths... even the people we love destroy us by replacing us when they find someone better to take advantage of. And what the fuck with the cuisine who is talking about food?

  • @petermonaghan6749
    @petermonaghan6749 3 месяца назад +16

    The worst part of feeling lonely is having so many people around you but you feel like no one is there 😢

    • @Bertal03
      @Bertal03 3 месяца назад +2

      nobody cares about you... nobody... but you want this very hard

  • @toxickun2155
    @toxickun2155 Год назад +71

    Loneliness is not the feeling about being alone it,s the feeling that no one cares.

  • @erdemkose8994
    @erdemkose8994 Год назад +66

    ''And when nobody wakes you up in the morning, and when nobody waits for you at night, and when you can do whatever you want. what do you call it, freedom or loneliness?”
    - Charles Bukowski

  • @harungogic7047
    @harungogic7047 3 месяца назад +23

    To all my brothers coming to this video; I wish you to keep strong and stay positive. Whatever you think right now, if you think it can't be worse, please do not despair. Sun will shine upon you once more and you will get over the dark times.

  • @Judah_889
    @Judah_889 Месяц назад +27

    I watch this video daily. Each time I see someone is hanging out with their friends or going to date with his girlfriend, I come and watch this video cuz I don't have any friends forget about having girlfriend. But from the last two days I was so sad when I saw that this video went out of youtube. I searched it everywhere but couldn't get. It wasn't there in my Watch later playlist too. I thought it hit deleted. But now I'm so happy that it came back

    • @BookerDeWitt77
      @BookerDeWitt77 Месяц назад +4

      Bro same I was so scared that it got deleted. You weren't alone in that I was panicking.

    • @joshuathomas5626
      @joshuathomas5626 Месяц назад

      I woke up in an ambulance last year, almost cashed in my ticket trying to feel good. Didn’t know what to do afterward but knew I didn’t want what I had been doing. Realized physical fitness was a cheat code to feeling good, and once u feel good then u can actually enjoy life and go after goals. I look forward to running now, and work out a little just to look good, and now I feel like I have life at my fingertips. I know this sounds preachy, but getting in shape with daily exercise does so many things for mental health it’s amazing, it’s not about being healthy. Just give it a shot for 30 days and I promise it will change ur life, don’t wait till ur almost 40 like me

  • @commendatori1
    @commendatori1 Год назад +78

    Loneliness has followed me my whole life.. Everywhere. In bars, in cars, sidewalks, stores, everywhere. There's no escape. I'm God's lonely man..

    • @PopperKing-pn9hz
      @PopperKing-pn9hz 7 месяцев назад +2

      Bro ya not alone I feel trapped in a box and I can’t even reach out and talk to no one let alone get live from someone

    • @PopperKing-pn9hz
      @PopperKing-pn9hz 7 месяцев назад +1

      Love^

    • @commendatori1
      @commendatori1 7 месяцев назад

      @PopperKing-pn9hz Sorry to hear your feeling like that brother, I'm here if you want to chat. Bless you. Love 🙏❤️

  • @flatusletalis
    @flatusletalis Год назад +22

    "You look lonely,I can fix that".Some of us are beyond fixing.

  • @DewaldNelson
    @DewaldNelson 3 месяца назад +32

    27 years old and still never felt so lost ...

    • @AhmedSaad-vn1oo
      @AhmedSaad-vn1oo 3 месяца назад +5

      You’ll fight through it 💪

    • @MrLatrinca
      @MrLatrinca 3 месяца назад +1

      Same here 😢

    • @Biggityboppity
      @Biggityboppity 3 месяца назад +2

      It gets better my man. Stay strong

    • @VolSer1993
      @VolSer1993 3 месяца назад +1

      Все будет хорошо)

    • @johnxx684
      @johnxx684 3 месяца назад +3

      Im 22 and same..

  • @Ojkmt882
    @Ojkmt882 2 месяца назад +25

    Yeah. It’s one of those nights.

    • @AlterEgoShawn
      @AlterEgoShawn 2 месяца назад +2

      Every weekend Brodie

    • @h0tpotatoes
      @h0tpotatoes 2 месяца назад +2

      5am no sleep. got mountains of homework due at the end of the day, accompanied by an exam, and i really couldn’t give a fuck about doing any of it. definitely one of those nights for me.

  • @JojoSmacks
    @JojoSmacks Год назад +37

    Loneliness hits you when you are with your friends and you dont feel accompanied. You are just there. You call them your friend but none of them will talk to you outside of school. They invite others on hangouts and you arent even a consideration. Being different makes you realize youre lonely.

    • @Shahmane666
      @Shahmane666 Год назад +3

      I can relate to this. Its like the friends i have are artificial. Yeah we talk and hang during school, but outside of school its like our friendship doesnt exist. Maybe they just arent the people for me, or maybe i just havent been able to/cant make those types of sincere, actual connections and relationships

    • @abrahamfrescas8316
      @abrahamfrescas8316 Год назад +4

      Hang in there, high school n even college is but a breeze amongst the entire span of a life. So endure, observe, work out, learn, adapt, study abroad, live outside of the state/ and or country as it will mature you faster, embrace new friends & their cultures, evolve, & above all smile & be grateful each day. For nothing lasts forever but those memories for as long as u are sane...

    • @PedroHenrique-xb2uk
      @PedroHenrique-xb2uk Год назад

      É foda man

  • @lightwrks
    @lightwrks Год назад +113

    Loneliness isnt being Alone at night. Loneliness is when you in a crowd of people and are still alone

  • @generalgub2221
    @generalgub2221 10 месяцев назад +52

    loneliness will always be better than surrounding yourself with ones who dont care. remember that

  • @ashitoshchavan3957
    @ashitoshchavan3957 10 месяцев назад +28

    If you listen to this often..I'm sorry man I hope everything gets better.

  • @tanmaymalandkar9868
    @tanmaymalandkar9868 10 месяцев назад +11

    Worst kind of loneliness is not being alone by yourself but staying around people you know and yet feels so lonely.

    • @offtheice
      @offtheice 10 месяцев назад

      stay strong man we're going through the same but one day we'll get there

    • @deweytsieps4bh731
      @deweytsieps4bh731 10 месяцев назад

      Yeah I have all my friends but I know they do everything without me as a group that im not part of

    • @offtheice
      @offtheice 10 месяцев назад

      @@deweytsieps4bh731 change friend groups man they're not your real homies bro or talk to them about it, don't be afraid man you got this

    • @projectx7453
      @projectx7453 10 месяцев назад

      That sounds bad

  • @Lito0889
    @Lito0889 Год назад +38

    Loneliness is when you finally learn to love yourself cause thats all you have is yourself. And yet still find yourself with that deep feeling of depression because you have no one to share your love with.

    • @amar9515
      @amar9515 Год назад +2

      Yes,when you are alone or lonely you are still with someone….with yourself.
      It is how we feel about this person that’s always with us and that determines if we are depressed or happy.

    • @hozic9929
      @hozic9929 Год назад

      I love how i wasted my life playing videogames instead of enjoying the moment

  • @quinnhilligoss9498
    @quinnhilligoss9498 Год назад +60

    The thing about being lonely is not feeling like you have nobody it’s feeling like nobody has you. You’ve got everybody’s back but nobody has yours

    • @jesh1640
      @jesh1640 Год назад +4

      honestly, it sucks to have a mindset like that, it makes you feel helpless, I was in your shoes once man, but let me tell you this and whoever reads this, things will get better in the end never doubt it for a second. you will find true friends you will be happy and no longer have to deal with those evil thoughts, for in life all you need is God and yourself. I came to God and never regretted it since mate. and im sure God will help you as well, let me know if you need anything, hang in there mate, Christ is Lord and God bless !
      John 14:27 “I am leaving you with a gift-peace of mind and heart. And the peace I give is a gift the world cannot give. So don’t be troubled or afraid"

    • @lxz8021
      @lxz8021 Год назад

      ​@@jesh1640 Thank you so much friend. I needed that

  • @mushroom0006
    @mushroom0006 4 месяца назад +23

    There are so many lonely people in the world... why can't others see us?

    • @frankbeans5921
      @frankbeans5921 4 месяца назад +10

      Because we put a face on to cover the sadness. Human condition through evolution is to hide weakness. Only the strong survive.

  • @tsstealthy1655
    @tsstealthy1655 9 месяцев назад +14

    My biggest fear is growing up, reaching my 50s, and not having a family or friends. All of the time you had as a young person being used up but ending up with nothing in the end.

    • @Venomized-studios56
      @Venomized-studios56 9 месяцев назад

      I’m sorry you feel that way but all I can say is keep moving forward and keep going again sorry you feel this way hope you feel ok

  • @arandomguy842
    @arandomguy842 10 месяцев назад +36

    "Loneliness is and always has been the central and inevitable experience of every man"
    - Thomas Wolfe

    • @schwartzy65
      @schwartzy65 10 месяцев назад

      Not for every man...

  • @thatdudefrom7118
    @thatdudefrom7118 Год назад +108

    I was so close this time so fucking close to ending this vicious cycle of loneliness and depression. I did everything I was supposed to I hopped on self improvement, I started focusing on myself and hitting the gym and as I learned to love myself I began to pull myself out of the pit I was in and my confidence skyrocketed. Then I met this girl and we clicked instantly and I fell head over heels for her. I’ll spare the details and cut to the end. She left and stole a solid chunk of my confidence and the remaining hope of finding love I had left in me. That was months ago and the funny thing is I don’t even miss her anymore, just the idea of her. Im so tired of being alone and despite my best efforts I sit here in this comment section on Christmas Day alone and back in that pit. I dream of the day I can look in the mirror and confidently say I’ve made it.

    • @minecrafterselite1
      @minecrafterselite1 Год назад +5

      its been months for me too and i feel the same way. best of luck to you brother.

    • @ilyashilov3534
      @ilyashilov3534 Год назад +3

      I'm with you my guy. Same boat. We'll make it

    • @Alexis-vc5vj
      @Alexis-vc5vj Год назад +2

      We’ll make it through bro

    • @arkadeepganguly6384
      @arkadeepganguly6384 Год назад +1

      Bro bro chill it's gonna be alright you can't be the only one in the world going through this

    • @lordofloneliness7249
      @lordofloneliness7249 Год назад +2

      i dream of that day too

  • @hasn222
    @hasn222 4 месяца назад +29

    Listening to this now , alone on my 39 birthday , i just want to say that im v happy and blessed with my life , happiness comes from inside always remember that .

    • @Barbieque
      @Barbieque 4 месяца назад +3

      Hey, happy birthday

    • @antox2343
      @antox2343 3 месяца назад +1

      Happy birthday man! I hope that someday i Will be as happy as you...

    • @flowrsh
      @flowrsh 3 месяца назад +2

      happy birthday man

    • @Rebelo....
      @Rebelo.... 3 месяца назад +1

      Happy birthday bro!

    • @Haliov
      @Haliov 3 месяца назад +1

      i dont know if im to late but happy birthday and greets from germany

  • @StudMacher96
    @StudMacher96 Месяц назад +16

    “Loneliness has followed me my whole life. In bars and cars…..sidewalks, stores. Everywhere. There’s no escape. I’m god’s lonely man.”

  • @NoOne-lt6du
    @NoOne-lt6du Год назад +38

    This guy is almost a flawless actor in the roles he does.

  • @The_House_Always_Wins
    @The_House_Always_Wins Год назад +46

    There’s a difference between being alone and being lonely

    • @aj897
      @aj897 Год назад +6

      I'm both

  • @ekhanekibhabe
    @ekhanekibhabe 15 дней назад +18

    there’s not a single person i know whom i can fully relate to

    • @johndickle4694
      @johndickle4694 15 дней назад

      same.

    • @StudMacher96
      @StudMacher96 14 дней назад +4

      I have maybe 2 friends that I can truly relate to in this world. While it’s not a luxurious amount, it’s better than nothing and they luckily saved me from falling deeper into the abyss

    • @RunrunrunrunrunGordon
      @RunrunrunrunrunGordon 13 дней назад +1

      Personally I think it’s a good thing, everyone sees disagreement as a bad thing. But I personally think it opens your mind up to new opinions and experiences. It makes life more interesting.

    • @StudMacher96
      @StudMacher96 13 дней назад +4

      @@RunrunrunrunrunGordon unless you’ve been living in a cotton candy house your whole life it sucks having almost no one to relate to. It’s like being a nobody. Everyone treats you like you don’t even exist in this world. It hurts man

    • @MusicismoreImportant
      @MusicismoreImportant 12 дней назад

      Well hence musicians matter

  • @prasantabag5659
    @prasantabag5659 3 месяца назад +26

    Normal life
    Depressed life
    Then Discipline life ❤
    Move on boys❤

  • @akonlinetutor8831
    @akonlinetutor8831 11 месяцев назад +33

    Boys i am crying right now life is just unfair for some of us who tryna make it. Pray for me i love you all

    • @stevenalan462
      @stevenalan462 11 месяцев назад +3

      You'll be ok

    • @Stoic_27
      @Stoic_27 11 месяцев назад +3

      We all will be ok 😢

    • @danielm.5442
      @danielm.5442 11 месяцев назад +2

      We’ll be Okay my man. Please find hobbies or things to do as a distraction from this world. Even the smallest thing. Just love yourself and stay safe ❤❤❤

    • @StudMacher96
      @StudMacher96 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@danielm.5442ood advice that I wish made me feel better

    • @xWhocaresxX
      @xWhocaresxX 11 месяцев назад

      Don’t do what I do and use vices to pretend to be better.

  • @emilio556
    @emilio556 Год назад +15399

    I usually hate these type of edits, but this was great. No shitty tiktok slowed reverb bullshit, just great clips and ambience.

    • @smoothbrained4channer976
      @smoothbrained4channer976 Год назад +1156

      this song is slowed and reverbed 💀

    • @emilio556
      @emilio556 Год назад +519

      @@smoothbrained4channer976 yeah but its not annoying, the fact that i didnt even recognize it, makes me appreciate the edit even more

    • @nexlis3569
      @nexlis3569 Год назад +184

      whats wrong with a song that slowed reverb

    • @maximbgg
      @maximbgg Год назад +185

      @@nexlis3569 It usually removes the main point of the speed that the song already had

    • @mattacer
      @mattacer Год назад +160

      @@maximbgg eh sometimes slowed song sound better

  • @timothylucas9244
    @timothylucas9244 9 месяцев назад +11

    ryan gosling plays a lot of these roles in which he is lonely. i think why a lot of people( including myself ) like ryan gosling so much is because we can relate to him in such roles that he plays, that of being lonely or being sad. ( such movies as : drive, blade runner 2049 and the place beyond the pines - are perfect examples )

  • @alexpfs1
    @alexpfs1 Год назад +74

    Happy new years brothers

    • @Cam-gn6uk
      @Cam-gn6uk Год назад +5

      You too be safe

    • @tfresh2838
      @tfresh2838 Год назад +8

      Happy new year dude, hopefully this year gets better for all of us

    • @humanoide4459
      @humanoide4459 Год назад +3

      👍🏻

    • @crossfireclips3443
      @crossfireclips3443 Год назад +2

      You as well brother stay safe and fight the food fight

    • @ish8322
      @ish8322 Год назад +2

      It’ll get better for us. I know it’ll will…

  • @Elessar-zg6ug
    @Elessar-zg6ug Год назад +42

    If you're reading this, hold on tight, don't give up.

  • @tristynmann849
    @tristynmann849 9 месяцев назад +19

    "When you experience something long enough...it becomes a state of being" *sheds tear-Space Dandy

  • @cameronriley7110
    @cameronriley7110 3 месяца назад +11

    People say that being lonely is dangerous but then when you've been alone for that long and struggled through everything alone. You get used to being alone and you start to prefer it

  • @ghostcircuitry
    @ghostcircuitry Год назад +51

    Some people are so deep into loneliness that their loneliness can’t be reached by any methods. After years of it your brain slowly rewires itself, adapting to that kind of life and it’s pretty much impossible to reverse. It’s like trying to scratch an itch just out of reach. On a positive note, life happens very quickly, making everything, even your loneliness temporary. We come from nothing and before you know it you will return to nothing. In the meantime , hang in there.

  • @Dualpersonalities617
    @Dualpersonalities617 3 месяца назад +25

    Ever just sit back and wonder what’s the point of it all?

    • @canelowhite2395
      @canelowhite2395 3 месяца назад +7

      Yeah almost every day, but the point is to keep going and to enjoy most of what you can before our ride is over

    • @kiritoken101
      @kiritoken101 3 месяца назад +4

      Sometimes, I just want to end that ride @@canelowhite2395

    • @Superluigi881
      @Superluigi881 2 месяца назад +1

      At least once every week.

    • @WHITEWOLVES6754
      @WHITEWOLVES6754 2 месяца назад +1

      Yeah

  • @armankhorshidi9726
    @armankhorshidi9726 10 месяцев назад +11

    Loneliness is a test of a man, either come out of it depressed and uregretful or proudful and wanna gratefully conquer the earth
    Keep being strong💪❤

    • @spectre_4582
      @spectre_4582 10 месяцев назад +1

      Damn man, nice words. ty

  • @crisp8364
    @crisp8364 Год назад +24

    Men go through this loneliness every day while constantly told we are trash. It’s over.

    • @Ghosty_Dosty
      @Ghosty_Dosty Год назад +2

      Our world needs a complete "reboot"

  • @harrylong2796
    @harrylong2796 8 месяцев назад +19

    I've been lonely so long I don't even remember how some emotions feel, I don't know how much longer i can survive this

    • @FacasGameplays
      @FacasGameplays 8 месяцев назад +1

      Brother hope and i am sure you Will some day get better
      Dont quit bro
      Wish you the best

    • @Jimmy.3
      @Jimmy.3 8 месяцев назад

      Cut that weak talk, if you got family talk to them, if you got friends or had them reach out to them, your only as miserable as you let yourself be.

    • @ivangarbelli9028
      @ivangarbelli9028 8 месяцев назад

      @@Jimmy.3 maybe he never have got friend's....... (like me)

    • @Jimmy.3
      @Jimmy.3 8 месяцев назад

      @@ivangarbelli9028 talk to your family, go and make friends, everybody I know is dead enjoy what you got.

    • @lastmashstanding2155
      @lastmashstanding2155 8 месяцев назад +1

      Please stay.

  • @ivangarbelli9028
    @ivangarbelli9028 8 месяцев назад +14

    Someone once said , “I love being alone, not feeling alone.”

  • @datboybobby
    @datboybobby Год назад +27

    In a room full of people and you still feel alone and empty .

  • @kirkangel2185
    @kirkangel2185 Год назад +27

    Only man will understand how it feels to be lonely..

  • @user-pm8tv6mn3o
    @user-pm8tv6mn3o 3 месяца назад +36

    Anyone still here 😢

    • @DoPERocker
      @DoPERocker 3 месяца назад +2

      yup

    • @braeden29221
      @braeden29221 3 месяца назад +4

      havent left man

    • @iONLYuseMETA
      @iONLYuseMETA 3 месяца назад +1

      Physically, yes. Mentally, I checked out a decade ago. Don't know when I'll ever be ok mentally at this point.

    • @stefun4084
      @stefun4084 3 месяца назад

      you never check out unless you want to

    • @ramgotame8672
      @ramgotame8672 3 месяца назад +1

      good luck on your journey brother you are not the only one

  • @d3v1l48
    @d3v1l48 7 месяцев назад +18

    A man only recieves flowers at his funeral

    • @MonkeyDIvan
      @MonkeyDIvan 7 месяцев назад +2

      Blame the patriarchy buddy.

    • @deimosok2003
      @deimosok2003 7 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@MonkeyDIvanBlame society.

    • @vishal.anand26
      @vishal.anand26 7 месяцев назад

      Fuck society

  • @quackhead1661
    @quackhead1661 Год назад +57

    Stay strong friends, we will get through this together.

    • @b40670
      @b40670 Год назад +10

      My time has came to an end.

    • @zigi2o.141
      @zigi2o.141 Год назад +2

      Seems like my entire existence ended 4 years back. Now all my friends n family have moved on while I'm left all alone.
      Sometimes I hug myself to make myself feel better 😢😭

    • @zigi2o.141
      @zigi2o.141 Год назад

      @@b40670 mine too 😪

    • @revenge8215
      @revenge8215 Год назад

      @@b40670 lol same bro

    • @quackhead1661
      @quackhead1661 Год назад

      @ﷺ
      Trust me ik it's hard, sometimes I feel like I just don't belong in this world or that there's no point in trying, but it's important to remember that there are people who care for us and if you think people don't care about you then I care about you. I hope you're doing well

  • @edwardj4454
    @edwardj4454 10 месяцев назад +14

    in a weird state where I like to be alone but also hate feeling lonely. not sure what to do anymore.

    • @micraft0814
      @micraft0814 10 месяцев назад

      its schizophrenia if u dont like to be alone but also hate feeling lonely

  • @Pringleman-gg9kl
    @Pringleman-gg9kl 11 месяцев назад +44

    The message of blade runner was to show how lonely the future would be, For most that’s already a reality.

    • @TheDennys21
      @TheDennys21 11 месяцев назад +8

      The future is shit!

    • @Superluigi881
      @Superluigi881 9 месяцев назад +1

      I long for a reality that no longer exists for me. Nothing can ever be as it was. No matter how much I pretend it could be.

    • @iiCounted-op5jx
      @iiCounted-op5jx 7 месяцев назад

      yep, its already happening, just very slowly...

  • @discoloured3492
    @discoloured3492 Год назад +42

    Just to all the brothers and sisters out there, I’ve been lonely with a lot of mental problems for the past 8 years, not gonna say because I ain’t taking anyone down with me. It’s gonna be ok, sounds typical “it’s gonna be ok” but it will be. Stay strong, stay strong please. Both mentally and physically. Please, life is insanely precious. Take your time, the storm will pass by, love you all.

    • @LNLBD
      @LNLBD Год назад +5

      Stay strong, brother! Have faith the future will be beautiful.

    • @IITJII95
      @IITJII95 Год назад +1

      I just can't believe that

    • @AeiouCommander
      @AeiouCommander Год назад +4

      @@IITJII95 its one of those things that won't make sense until you figure it out yourself.

    • @revenge8215
      @revenge8215 Год назад

      I need some head tbh

  • @bodavandaik9135
    @bodavandaik9135 8 месяцев назад +9

    You know what hurts, its when a person tries to open up about their depression most people reply with "Just get over her, Bro" but that person haven't even been in a relationship or experienced it before. They're suffering from family problems, life problems, getting blamed for absolutely everything, bullied, male loneliness, getting yelled at by your own parents, mental illness, mental health, overthinking.

  • @Jashwaan
    @Jashwaan 3 месяца назад +17

    The smile was long gone

  • @vigilante3342
    @vigilante3342 Год назад +27

    "Loneliness followed me my whole life, everywhere..."

  • @coughingcat7188
    @coughingcat7188 Год назад +29

    You know, when you want to be with others. But you don't have friends. And forced to live lonely. That hurts.

  • @ogulcan07
    @ogulcan07 7 месяцев назад +20

    This year has been painful for me. First, our house was destroyed and people died next to me. Then my girlfriend cheated on me. Now I lost my father. I'm in a pitiful situation

    • @sascha9179
      @sascha9179 7 месяцев назад +2

      Thats horrific bro, make sure to keep your head up. I know it sounds hard and i dont know what you're going through

    • @jongunnar6336
      @jongunnar6336 7 месяцев назад +2

      I'm sorry man, but be strong and get back on the horse.

    • @suneel1875
      @suneel1875 7 месяцев назад +2

      Brother, i hope things get better for you soon. Take care!

    • @UncleJago
      @UncleJago 7 месяцев назад +2

      It can only get better from here brother 🫶 stay strong

    • @bwedges
      @bwedges 7 месяцев назад +2

      Shit man. I'm sorry to hear that. Idk what to say. I hope you're staying safe rn

  • @aaalterrr
    @aaalterrr Месяц назад +13

    I’m 17, turning 18 in 1 week and a half I feel this every single day. I have friends and family but everyday i have no one texting me or calling me for anything. Had this one girl who was my best friend 2 years ago, she left me, she’s all I’ve ever think about til this day, I just don’t know how to explain how I feel, I can’t really fix this, she’s in a relationship and I cannot go back to her neither do I want to, either way enough about that but. I have 0 clue what to do everyday is the same, School,Gym, Eat, Shower, Sleep.
    I’m just so stuck and lost in life
    It’s really when I entered high school, loneliness just stuck with me and it’s never went away I simply don’t know what to do anymore

    • @X_XINSANITYX_X
      @X_XINSANITYX_X Месяц назад +1

      Your not alone man.... Stay in there and all will be ok... I feel lonely even when im not and I met people in my life who were amazing... but they left... its hard but healthy to move on... Each day I would come back here and so who struggles and experiences shared... I only came back for the memes tbh... I hope life goes ok for u man... Godspeed...

    • @botoxgaming5644
      @botoxgaming5644 28 дней назад

      Remember, its not the end. You have an entire life to do what you want. Everything will definitely pay off.

    • @user-hp1zk2me2s
      @user-hp1zk2me2s 28 дней назад

      Monday i turn 18 and i fell like you, i quit gym because i dont have motivation

    • @jk20005
      @jk20005 27 дней назад

      i know your pain bro

    • @Machiu
      @Machiu 25 дней назад

      Don't be discouraged, you have a great life ahead.
      18 ready to shine, remember your dream and chase it!

  • @ragewolfofodin
    @ragewolfofodin Год назад +31

    I been going through this for 10 years. Most of my bestfriends moved on with other people even someone i knew since preschool. I don't understand how someone can just throw me away like i never existed. I havent had a gf either in like 10 years an one i had before we were together for 2 but she cheated on me so i gave it up. I never had a father growing up an tbh the only person i talk to is my mother that's it. I see couples an i wander what its like to be happy again. Hopefully all of us will find happiness again.

    • @Reze000
      @Reze000 Год назад

      I hope you find happiness eventually

    • @Kolden999
      @Kolden999 Год назад

      Watch Jordan Peterson watch self help and try to do something
      Something with your life if not for yourself or for your mother once you do that ( make some money and work on your game) then do things that you enjoy go to the gym / and approach women

    • @Bup-ws8js
      @Bup-ws8js Год назад

      Stay strong, brother.

  • @Sheldinator
    @Sheldinator Год назад +25

    Going to bed alone, waking up alone. Terrible feeling.

  • @ggoo2633
    @ggoo2633 9 месяцев назад +21

    "If you ride like lightning, you're gonna crash like thunder "

    • @gigachad_the_giga
      @gigachad_the_giga 9 месяцев назад +1

      True

    • @stabbz6479
      @stabbz6479 9 месяцев назад +1

      Great movie. I was just thinking about watching it over again the other day.
      "The Place Beyond The Pines"

    • @DejiiJones_
      @DejiiJones_ 9 месяцев назад

      Perfect way to go

  • @CaptainBerzerkGames
    @CaptainBerzerkGames Год назад +32

    Ryan Gosling might not even be acting at this point

  • @manunarine3529
    @manunarine3529 Год назад +21

    Guys, as men, we do feel lonely and trash and modern media(often toxic women) villainize us for just being men...but don't cry, not because of the reasons like "men/boys don't cry"...don't cry because it's our duty as a man to be the strong one by not shedding tears and instead offering shoulders to people we love when they feel in distress and feel like crying.... take pride in the fact that we are taking over the burden and hardships of life and are trying to overcome it in order to become successful so we can see the smile on our mother's face(or people who u truly love and care for) ....and when she tells you how proud of you she is after you've made it....that's when u can afford to cry...with tears of happiness and fulfillment... it'll all be worth it, stay strong boys.

  • @tomvlogs8463
    @tomvlogs8463 8 месяцев назад +17

    We men just want to be loved too. To wake up with in a house with a family of our own. But nobody wants us, and prices are soaring. Am i just born to work and be miserable?

    • @ayugoslav5554
      @ayugoslav5554 8 месяцев назад +1

      Always been this way. Just got multiplied 10 fold since '68

  • @icemoney24
    @icemoney24 9 месяцев назад +16

    being alone 😊
    feeling alone 😢

  • @SpiritualLee_
    @SpiritualLee_ Год назад +19

    Work, Gym, Home , repeat. Weekends are quite I feel empty on my days off. I go outside just to experience other people happiness. Wondering when that time will come. Doing my best as a man but also struggling to understand life. I hope you guys make it through this phase, it’s our toughest battle.

  • @J___0926
    @J___0926 Год назад +18

    Gosling is one of those few actors that can express what they’re thinking and feeling without words

    • @emiami458
      @emiami458 Год назад +1

      One of the best actors of all time.

  • @babyboijeremy
    @babyboijeremy 10 месяцев назад +19

    I don't feel lonely. I just dont have any real desires. Just going, empty maybe, but not lonely.

    • @tihamichy
      @tihamichy 10 месяцев назад +3

      i relate to this so hard

    • @user-oe7co8jg8e
      @user-oe7co8jg8e 9 месяцев назад +2

      Yes, me too. I don't know what to do in my life, because i just can't feel anything

  • @chipsahoy3225
    @chipsahoy3225 8 месяцев назад +7

    I don’t mind being lonely it gives me feeling I can’t describe almost like a universal understanding between men when they look at each other and nod

  • @s0nder1275
    @s0nder1275 Год назад +21

    There is peace in loneliness but it's a restless peace.

    • @miketython1550
      @miketython1550 Год назад

      True it’s good to get to know the true you too without outside influences