Over 3 years now. Just the peace and happiness, the lack of drama.. So good. Getting older finally helped me to get over this damaging and life eroding addiction.
Why is it that when a man talks about women's behavior (in general) to a woman he's lambasted, but when a woman talks about a man's behavior (in general) to other women she's praised? We're essentially being told "Sit down, your opinion doesn't matter. Now you get to be treated the same way we've been treated." How about they just be better?
Because women are the dominant gender in society. Have you noticed during gender reassignment for transsexuals they will move from man to woman but rarely woman to man. It tells you something. You would not believe the degree of cuckery that goes on in our society.
Men are being told to sit down and shut up! If you have an issue it is always who hurt you so bad with absolutely no validation for the fact that no human should ever hurt anyone else especially that badly (it involves a funny little concept called compassion).
It could only blow up if the social engineers decide to co opt it as controlled opposition to their men are pigs/women are equal to men project, ongoing since 1970.
@Nodge Sinisborat isn't it strange how the need for immigration came about because the family unit was being annihilated due to feminism at at that time?
because you live in reality and you recognize the fact that men are prone to sucking while she lives in la-la land, and she can't recognize that wmn do suck. Colttaine said it best in one of his videos women are all about 'Me and my vagina!' they think only about themselves and everything that is outside of their interest doesn't matter or doesn't exist.
“I want to approve that you guys are talking about relationships correctly”. Exactly. If you take a look at all this backlash and hate towards guys who do their own thing, this is the sentence which is playing like a broken record in these women’ mouths and the white knights who pretend to protect them. By the way, I love this new way you change topics, like an old TV changing channels. Thanks for the wisdom.
4 things I’ve noticed that women say: “Feel, feels, feeling, feelings”. If you can ask, question or to test them on what they see and have heard, you’ll get silence, stuttering or awkward replies- with the occasional heated retorts.
@@koli5979 Now that I see it everywhere- A- I can’t unsee it and B- The course of action with the least amount of conflict or drama is to ghost- which is annoying at times because I’m someone who likes to respond and to be active.
The first time i dared to speak out about my issues with a woman the response was - you weigh me down with your depression i cannot carry you, it wears me down....that's how they do it, because all of a sudden the attention has to shift from her to me, and that's not how this works in their world.....it's really sad, but this is happening more often these days, because they all feel so empowered by the back of daddy government and they allow themselves to perpetrate psychological and emotional abuse on men and even their own children and in cases other women. And then of course the time comes when all these get together and ask the most stupid question ever "Where all the good me go?" I have no sympathy or anything for such individuals anymore, they have been fucked so bad by the mainstream modern culture that in most cases the damages are irreversible...
You wouldn't expect a child to carry a tool box heavy enough to make you struggle. The female children in adult bodies are truly overwhelmed with weighty thoughts requiring adult reasoning.
The Titanic went down with a lot of guys saying, "Women and children first". Molly Brown said, "Let's go back the life boats 1/2 full, and get some more" To late. She meant some more women anyways.
I can't help but think that the men would have found away to save everybody. But, they where not allowed. They are the ones that had to die.....By the way, I love sailing in my boat and I never ever take females along....ever. Had plenty ask to go along. My response to them is, "No I want to be a lone", and I hear them mumble something as I leave....
Can't count the number of time's I've witnessed a wmn hide her disgrace and malintent behind the innocence of her children. It's second-nature to them. Disgusting. A part of me pities them for how fragile their egos are. Most of me is disgusted that the fragility of their egos (Narcissism), compels them to do such despicable things.
Equality, and other things, means then have to treat such people as equal, as if they can or might negotiate rather than have these, covert deals, issues, that can't be negotiated with.
Yet the psicology for some reasson say narcissism it most seen in men, when every single women in the word have some degree of pathological narcissism. What can you expect for a field dominated by women and subjective "science" that makes no logical sense. Women have patological degree of narcisism and solipsism.
@@ArantyrDarkhand The study commonly referenced doesn't actually state that there are more male narc than female, rather, it states that the majority of those diagnosed are male, and when one considers the lack of agency thrust upon females in western societies, and the judicial biases against males, it's not that difficult to conclude that if one were to meticulously account for every male and female in the population, and assess the each without a preferential bias, it is entirely plausible that from a clinically diagnoseable stance, there could well be more certifiable female narcissists than men. Unfortunately, we're subject to a biased system, so no accurate conclusion can be made. On an individual basis, I absolutely believe that wmn are innately narcissistic, though whether each one remains on the healthy side of the spectrum is entirely subjective.
The manosphere has helped me put my needs first. I limit my exposure to women. I am getting more comfortable living my life with minimal contact with women.
Awesome! No idea how old you are but will assume you are significantly younger than I am at 56. I always makes my heart sing to see another young man saved from destruction.
From my observation, it seems like it offends (some) women when men sort of gather around together to discuss issues that may end in women being forced to be accountable for their sh*t and f**k ups. It also appears to bother them when they aren't the subject of discussion amongst men; at least in my (biased) opinion. Sidenote: Your content is unparalleled in a world full of content creators who sell political correctness. Great work huMAN.
Yea, he been on fire lately, and he is the content creator I cite when I counter journalists who state mgtow is “misogynistic,” or a hate group. It’s a philosophical dialogue. Rarely do I get interaction to join the dialogue.
Where are those political correct video on dating haven't seen one but have seen a clip of crazy lady barking like dogs when asked certain questions they don't know how to answer.
Your opinion isn’t biased my friend. I’ve experienced nothing but the same results with women. Subjects like this are real if they’ve happened to more than a small handful of people. You’re spot on buddy
Depends on who you chose and what you put into it. If you only want sex be upfront or you are going to be disappointed relationships to women mean something different its about emotional connection spending time together building a strong meaningful partnership if that draining look for hook up and you get the relationship your looking for there are a small amount of women out there that just want sex and for you to leave after.
Women's conversation is anecdotal and emotional. Personally, I very rarely talk about my place in the world as a man and how men are treated 2nd class, outside my close male friends and RUclips comments. When talking to external people, a comment like 'I'm an advocate for men's rights' is followed by silence as words like misogynist, incel and right wing flash through their train of thought. So, I never bother engaging and just stick to the mundane small talk. Great content, huMAN. The video production is also very slick and I love the subtle background music.
We do live in a gynocentric world. We live in a woke world. We can't change it because it's like a freight train. Women are also victims. Women are just bystanders who are given the key to the Candy store. Imagine if the dynamic was switched? Men had the choice of any woman. We'd be making big bucks on Only Fans 🤣
Not to mention that if you do venture out of your comfort zone and say something about men's rights, there will always be a simp or two that step up to to neutralize you.
The male point-of-view without female solipsism is much more adept at nuance and rationality. I can usually see the issue from her side as well as my own and try to meet in the middle. But women just keep pulling on the rope towards herself in our conversational tug-of-war. That's when I just drop the rope and walk away. She's won and I don't want to play anymore.
50 years ago, a group of guys living on the same street would get together and talk. About anything. Hunting, fishing, sports, politics, and yes, women and relationships. And one of those guys was always single. He was happy, owned his car outright, almost had his house paid off, was saving and making retirement investments. The wives hated that single guy and didn't want their husbands talking with him, because he was living life on his terms and no one else's. Then one of the wives gets caught cheating and it all changes...for the married guys. The single guy is still happy and still living the way he wants. The wives are angry, not because one of them cheated, because she was careless enough to get caught which gave relationship power to the men. Now with the internet, all men are in that group and we talk about...us.
We are constantly bombarded with their views and demands, yet at the instant we present hours, we become the Austrian Painter's reincarnation, lol I don't have many personal experiences on the regard because I portray the situation as me being too bitter to care, which isn't exactly a lie, but since it's worded as a "me" problem, it doesn't hurt their feewings so it's all good for them. I also have learned that life is too short to be arguing with walls unless you're in for some good ol' trolling.
I love the "women most affected" articles out there, even if the men in the same story have all been killed. "Asteroid wipes out all life on earth...women most affected".
It all comes to a simply truth that has been discussed countless times : a woman s words are mere sounds. Remove all meaning from them , observe them only for what emotion they express and observe what your emotions caused by the sounds are. Observe and you ll find your power.
A rather vile example of that self-referential thing you mentioned. Many years ago, there was a popular with the women man in town. Tall, charismatic, but didn't chase after them. Perhaps that because he liked young boys. When this finally came to light, a number of women expressed surprise, and said, "but he wasn't a threat to me." But he was molesting boys, "yes, but he wasn't a threat to me-uh." The impression being that because he was entertaining and they felt personally safe around him, nothing else mattered.
If they are chasing a dude they will overlook and rationalize anything and everything, if you want more proof and a good laugh just search for this video by it's a gundam: "Reddit Proves Hypergamous Women On Tinder Have No Moral Compass".
@Mark Park Totally a agreed, many years ago there was a brief time frame that I considered marriage. My first question for them was always "pro life" or "pro murder", even I, knowing how deranged most are, was appalled how many never batted an eye and replied "pro murder".
I have to ask,"Have you been inside my head and taking notes?" For a very long time I have observed that when it comes to conversations regarding relationships they are often skewed towards the woman's perspective. My social media feed is flooded with the opinions of women. When a man does give his perspective it is often derided or dismissed followed by an attack on the character or masculinity of the man.
Odd maybe cause more women share feelings you see more women and shutting people down its not a target on gender there is just many toxic people that will silence anyone that don't agree with them. So if you are just saying what they want to hear you will be heard that's with most anything in life. By the way i get that to men are less likely to hear you out as a female even when you are in agreement to there view. It is also a status thing I worked at jobs were I know and see the problem I the one that directly interacts with the customers and seem them hear their complaints but they chose to ignore that I know their ideas aren't going to work.
@xraf32 That would make the most sense I was never a fan of watching so didn't noticed the agenda being pushed only resent since look down watchin anything from boredom I can see some agenda going on but this wasn't normal to me years ago
I say "it's not about you" or "that's irrelevant". I've gotten all sorts of ridiculous responses to that, chief among them "you don't care about women?" Essentially, they always try to make a conversation emotional in order to control it.
I’ve listened to several women call into the Kevin Samuels show, try to argue with him, and as you said here, everything they say is self referential. One in 50 may be able to track with him in a logical discussion, but it’s usually a dead end. It’s just not in their nature. I accept it.
When interacting with most women, if I assume their thinking capacity is that of a young child, the interaction goes much more smoothly than if I expect them to think as an adult.
Chris Rock said it best:" Being a Hot Girl is same Level of fame & Privilege a A-List male Celebrity has" Not the Exact words, but the Meaning is on Point. The diffrence is, A Male Celeb has to Work and develop Skills while Beeing hot is Genetics and Basic self Care. If someone wants Control over anything, be it things, events or Persons, What comes always with it? The Entity that wants to Control you cannot allow you to keep anything for yourself. That entity have to know about everything and will create Events to justify that or will Punish you for everything you keep for yoursef. Every Woman that wants to assert themself into Mal Spaces follows this exact Principle.
Examples: The state pushes for more and more laws to Create the "1984" state and grab every bit of information about you. It doesnt need that if it would think of you as a Person with the ability to make Informed and Logic decisions and doesnt want to control you. A woman who wants to know where you go, with whom you go and keeps Contacting you While you are out with your friends. She wants to know everything so she can Prepare her Plan. She wants to Control you. Wimen who enter a Hobby, Event and Demand acceptence instead of Earning it And demand Change. She my not know everything about your Hobby, but, she Demands you change the Hobby to fit to her Knowledge. that way she can achieve Control.
When having an intellectual discussion, if emotions get involved, the discussion tends to break down to ad hominems, hence it is difficult to do with a lot of women. Also, subjectivism ... I had a female "friend" claim that only subjectivism matters and that there are no objective truths. I left a one word comment ... "gravity". She hasn't spoken to me since. 😁
I used to give out no information on dates by answering her probing rude questions with responses like well you know, it's all about doing what makes you feel right, and not caring what anybody thinks because we're entitled to live. Just start making up b******* politician responses and they actually love it, stupid as hell. The less female energy I'm around, the better I feel. No stupid mind games.
Almost every time I've left a comment on social media talking about stats/data, someone will "refute" that stat with a personal anecdote and that someone is almost always a woman. I recently posted something about how children raised in single-parent households are more likely to fail high school, abuse drugs, break the law, end up in jail, etc. Cue the women raised by single mothers and the current single mothers and how they didn't run into any of those problems. Imagine responding to, "men commit most violent crime" with, "well, I'm a man and I haven't committed a violent crime. This is my truth."
Almost spit my coffee out when I heard the female voice respond 😂😂😂. Wow I missed it. You having a conversation with a female would sound JUST LIKE THIS! KUDDOS AND HAPPY FRIDAY huMAN.
Letting women into an objective discussion on [INSERT ANYTHING] will turn it into a subjective discussion about her. This is why all of human growth has grind to a halt since their 'liberation'. The only reason why tech flourished while the rest died, is it was a boys club for all of that time.
Its true when you look at it. Male dominated fields are flourishing, meanwhile mixed fields have not progressed at all. Its always business as usual when vvoman are involved. Same shit as yesterday.
@@nicholashenderson6941 They're wired to be wives. Sure, you can prop them up and pretend otherwise. But in the end, they're going to treat every position as if still a wife, with the knowledge that they learned as the husband to honor and protect. The problem, knowledge not only doesn't progress once they takeover said position - but because they can't think about what they're being told, people can use their feelings to fill their heads with absolute gibberish. And they have no way to know it's absurd, and that it doesn't make any sense.
When i talk about male experience and someone goes "It's not just men, it happens to women too.", I say "Yes, of course, and they are free to talk about it from their point of view just as I am free to talk about it from mine", and then I continue in what I was saying.
I love your content hUMAN, you are like a father figure to us. You are teaching us uncomfortable truths, The truths which the society, schools, parents, media, never taught us.
I once talked to my mom, the only woman I know who knows how to listen rather than just talk, about the idea of mgtow and I realized she could only think that every man in this movement is a loser and gay. Perhaps the idea of women being more self-centered is what made her think that when I talked about it.
This was a phenomenal video. HuMan, I don’t know how you do it, but you manage to continue to find gold at increasingly farther depths of humanity / relationships / the manosphere.
The main take away is women don’t want to add to the conversation, they want to control and steer it in a way that benefits them. Men need men only spaces. It’s ok for women to have women only spaces, but men only spaces are mysogynst (according to women)
When a man is broken hearted they are told harden up by woman. For a woman it’s poor her and her female friends rally round . Men are left to their own devices to recover .
The crazy thing is having to do that has made me happy i don't care anymore if I'm with them friend or relationship. They always need a men , kids, money, holidays, gifts support, arguments, houses, car, protection, marriage, fixing stuff, I'm not going to be pretty much 100% happy with someone why bother with a woman or kids. I see so many miserable couples.
Yea getting made homeless over a mood swing and losing all my possessions is stripping me of my attachments, and is beginning to feel extremely liberating.
They always talk from a solipsistic point of view because they don't have to care about men until they need them. Since the dawn of time, we have been doing everything for them.
Of late I’ve been pondering on the shear lack of empathy that women have towards men, let’s call it what it is, cruelty. This dawned on me at work. A woman I work with was talking about raising her two sons and how ‘boys are so difficult.’ I asked her who were the male role models available to teach the boys about the masculine tools they will require in adult life. As predicted there were crickets and then the inevitable; ‘I can teach them everything they need to know.’ I couldn’t help myself and said. ‘Who will teach them about how to manage their relationship with women as adults?’ She screwed up her face incomprehensibly like someone left excrement in the room. ‘They don’t need that, they can learn that as they go.’ Nothing more needed to be said. No comprehension, compassion, even the possibility of detecting a need that boys actually need tuition when it comes to relationships. Mothers protect the sisterhood even when it comes to their sons. It’s no wonder most adult men lead bewildered, confused and empty emotional lives when they experience such neglect, manipulation and gaslighting even from their primary maternal attachment figures, this is never spoken about. The feminine imperative is imprinted on the boy, most never outgrow it
I am a life long bachelor, at 56 I have never met a woman I could have a conversation with that the top priority in her mind was not her feelings. I am over it at this point, they get one "warning" to answer the yes or no question with a simple yes or no, or I am out.
Me too. Im slightly younger, but have the same conclusions. I got tired of being the crisis line/good listener. Thats all it was, and when I made that point, the hostility was instant. Ultimately, once the annoyance overcame horniness, the stage was set for walking away.
@Mark Park so true I don't believe most men understand 1%, how much different theyre thinking patterns, physiology, and emotional states are from men. There is more genetic variation from a human man to a human woman than a human man to a male chimpanzee, forensically factual. All of the significant structures of the brain are immensely different between men to women. I just can't stand how high strung their minds are and how they are already asking you a different question to answer while you're answering the question they asked before that and they're not even remembering what they just asked you two seconds before because now their brain is thinking about the next question while they're saying it they are also imagining the next three questions at the same time and you're supposed to keep up with this s***? No, I'm out, go talk in your meaningless circles with a girlfriend I actually want to get something accomplished today.
@@johnnycorn7225 lmao, yup, more detailed than mine, but that is exactly correct. Right behind that annoying crap is their ability to intentionally twist your words in order to match their present feels.
% of survivors on Titanic: Male - 20% survived Children - 51% survived Women - 75% survived Is it really children first, or is it women first, but because it's women's will to also save their children, so children are at least higher than men in terms of % survived?
Great video. I need to think about this some more; after I talk with my "woman." Oh yeah, I forgot; I live alone. So, sure. I prefer to talk about "men things" with men. Only men. At seventy plus, I've had enough of "women feelings" input. Frankly, "I'd rather be alone."
_Until you can kick my ass, I don't care what you think._ That line shuts women up every time. As a matter of fact, I've never cared what women thought, even before I found out about MGTOW or the red pill or whatever. My rationale was _why should I concern myself with what someone who's beneath me thinks?_ And yes, I implied women are beneath me; if you can't kick my ass, _whilst_ society charges me with your protection, you are by default beneath me. Deal with it.
huMan has an amazing outlook on what it means to be a man in the 21st century. I have followed his philosophical insights, and it has helped me tremendously. His camera work and color grading are great too!
I've really liked your channel for the exact fact that it's a philosophical discussion for men, between men. We need more of that, I miss that, pre social media days. It's healthy and in many ways women have hijacked the whole discussion. We need men to reconnect again philosophically and make women follow. Morality, Philosophy, Theology is historically a male led discussion.
Very accurate huMAN, especially the solipsistic self referential lens, every discussion is taken personally, so much so I have to regularly repeat, this is not about you and not all women. If you remind them the discussion isnt about them personally it helps women ease into an object view BUT one needs to regularly remind her as she will constantly bring the discussion back to her or her friends feelings MO. My experience of ALL conversations with ALL women, without exception.
Yup, same same, as I said in an earlier comment, I give them one "warning" to answer my yes or no questions with a simple yes or no, after that, I'm out.
I think you articulated it profoundly. The main point I use was basically what you said about 95% of the focus has always been about the woman/women, and that it's about time the male perspective is brought forth.
All my life I’ve heard nothing except the constant rah rah women. You go girl, a girl can do whatever a boy can do, girl power, and most recently “strong and empowered”. It’s truly sickening.
Some men forget who they are around a woman, especially if she is physically attractive. Women know this is the case and use this phenomenon to their own advantage while remaining objective to their own agenda under this cloud their presence can make. Men who are aware of this and have developed immunity to femininity can then actually have a direct conversation that will expose the true nature of the woman they are talking with. The woman will immediately sense that the usual effect has not taken place and that she must deal with a meeting of the minds on an equal basis as one human being to another if she is able to feel comfortable speaking as an equal and not as somehow some special entity with rights and privileges. like talking to your sister in law. If a society breaks down completely, as during a war, women quickly come to realize their real worth as human beings with all the bullshit of their privilege pushed to the sidelines.Most women are up to the task under these conditions of helping their men defend hearth and home....but perhaps this has all changed now against the reality of the situation if women continue delude themselves as to the true value of men? Or whatever happened to a man building the house and the woman making it a home with mutual respect for the other? Relations between men and women have certainly changed for the worse as far as I can see and there is a need by both to set things right again even if a new understanding is a different one from the old model. What would that look like even as we all, both men and women, are about to be totally enslaved mind and body to a coming Technocracy and the effects that will have on relations is a big question?
"there is a need by both to set things right again" - No, this is on women. We men played our parts for decades after feminism, and women decided to have their cake and eat it too. This is about respect, and either women respect men enough to own up, or they don't.
@@ldl1477 I agree for the most part, however, men hold a degree of responsibility for this crap too. I am nearly 56 and saw this coming back in the 80s in my late teens and early 20s. I refused to take part in this "equal" crap, and walked away, literally. Most men on the other hand, willingly surrendered their balls to a feminist female of varying degrees to put in her purse. Those feminist females have now raised 2 generations of more feminist females, along with 2 generations of confused young men. I contend that this could have been avoided, had men refused to surrender their authority to females in the first place. Yes, I get it feminism goes back to long before we were ever born, and those men did nothing either, but I think my point still stands on it own two feet.
huMan - I'm a relatively recent follower of your content. It was so refreshing to find a calm, intellectually aware, individual like yourself who is not a ( let's screw broken women, make money, lift weights, and let the gynocentric world go to hell ) kind of guy in the "manosphere" I suspect that you and I have vast differences of opinion in our worldview underpinnings, but ultimately you seem like a decent guy someone could have a reasoned discussion with over coffee, even if that discussion ended peacefully with agreeing to disagree on some topics. Now to your question. I find that it's hard to even enter into a discussion about the male experience because everything these days is so framed in terms of gynocentric presuppositions and assumptions so pervasive in society. We as men have to do a ton of unpacking before we can even enter into the discussion, and often we can't even get through the unpacking stage due to people often refusing to even concede to (or unable to see) the assumptions or presuppositions they're bringing to the table. I see these attitudes even in my own extended family, and I actually grew up in a small city with rather traditional, conservative viewpoints. Gynocentric or radical feminist viewpoints use to be exclusive to large metros where your larger universities are pushing this crap down people's throats, but not anymore. Gynocentric culture has even saturated more rural areas.
Based on your picture that has been the case since long before you were ever born. I am nearly 56, grew up in rural farm country, I walked away back in the 80s due to this garbage.
@@jerrybruckhart9134You and I are only a few years apart. My fault though, this pic is about five years or more old. I'm not big on taking pictures of myself like this modern "Selfie" generation. Thanks for your comment.
@ 6:35 My wife at the time and I were trying to work on our marriage and reading 'happily married' therapy books. I checked one out from the library...can't remember the title but I remember a statement made by the author. He mentioned therapy is best perscribed by addressing the concerns of the wife first. You can bet wives will end therapy once they feel all their 'concerns' have been addressed and their husband is 'making improvements' in their marriage. I also listened to a therapy podcast; this sentiment was equally expressed in the interview with a therapist who used CBT modalities. He said (roughly) therapy sessions tend to go more smoothly if the husband is shushed whilst the wife lists her grievances first. I can't imagine psych courses being taught differently than what these two therapists practiced in their therapy sessions with couples. Why do therapists prefer to listen to the wife first? If husbands were first, the wives would end the sessions prematurely and the therapists wouldn't get paid once a week, anywhere from six months to a year...bad business practice. The bottom line is: It'd be a poor business model to address husbands' concerns first. Remember to follow the money (wives typically control the money, and therapists around the world understand this very well).
Excellent observations. I don’t even bother discussing men’s issues when women are present. I’d try to describe men’s plight in family court and the financial burden that is almost always placed on them. My anecdotes, she: “I know a woman who makes a lot of money. They had to split everything.” “I didn’t get any money from my ex-husband, just child support.” “He probably cheated on her so he should pay.” Great anecdotes but totally just that; end of her discussion or interest in statistics, facts, or a larger picture.
Of course, I always dig the subjects you bring up, but I want to acknowledge your improvements in your video production. Your cuts are sharper. The music was already good, but now it's improved. The effects are excellent, but not flashy. And you dialogue feels like a fourth-wall exposition in a movie. You have obviously put a lot of continuing work into your videos, and I want to acknowledge that. Good stuff, huMAN.
The issue about the female perspective, as you said many many times, is that they dont have a universal reference for values. To them all is relative. Can you imagine the state of this world if the Laws were all subjective? It would be absolute chaos.
No need to wonder. Just wait a little while longer. The big girls have muscled their way into the seats of power and are changing our world based on their feelings.
When you said women are parasitic in talking about relationships, man that hit home. Its not only relationships, they suck the life out of every room they enter regardless of topic, unless theyre a lady of the night and theyre there for one reason only. Sober rooms for just men are essential. Thanks human, youre truly a gem in this bleak world!
And again great work huMAN. This is the best platform to interact with others whether it be through hobbies, or other activities that truly enrich our lives. Thanks again from the Netherlands
"What about women?" "What about them?" "They go through things too." "So? They're strong and independent and (enter whatever adj). Therefore they're perfectly capable of solving their own issues. We're discussing men's issues from men's perspective."
My grandfather, god bless him, had an saying : "the problems of a feemale are the responsability of the male who phook her. If that male isn't you, move along."
Third time and yes there is still more to be gained. Soberingly it’s bringing me back to myself, my needs, my thoughts and my purpose….. none of which includes a woman at all… You’ve smashed this one out of the park. Shared it with those who will appreciate it and gain from watching it…. So many others I’d like to show it to but…. Watching a man cry is uncomfortable Simply brilliant huMAN
I like the way you put that, Tom. Especially the part about "blades of grass on the prairie." I've come to appreciate the majestic beauty of raging wildfires in the grasslands because of your comment. :)
Honestly, women want to be able to do their thing, and not let men do their own.., it's ridiculous. Their need to control can be pretty suffocating. Good vids huMAN.. psychological therapy. 👍
With all of the talk of gender "Equality", could the resistance of women to allow for men to form their "Coterie" of conversation, be seen as an abject power play to relegate men's conversations to a "female supervised/governed" play-pen, akin to the garage or basement workshop?
I do not have this issue. I only have conversations about masculinity and manhood with female who tell me what is masculinity, what is manhood, and why I am wrong. Then I stop talking... because I guess they are not qualified enough to talk about theses topics just because they have read some essay and have a fantasy point of view about what should manhood and masculinty be (for them).
huMAN, I love your content. I want to acknowledge one very difficult thing that you do for us: as MGTOWs, we get the privilege of speeding off on our motorcycles and looking like badass lone-wolves, but ONLY because we were empowered by the ideas of people like you who were BRAVE enough to speak out, risk sounding bitter/butthurt, and at the expense of gynocentric social disapproval. Thank you!
TLDR... when the women get involved, there is a distressing tendancy for them to bring with them overwelming emotional subjectivism that derails any attempt at a thought out logical reasoned discussion. And we want to have a logical reasoned discussion without spending most of it soothing the feelings of women who think their emotions are a logical argument.
How do you handle that situation? With unflinching assertiveness. The setting and the woman will dictate how much having her saving face is a priority. Courteous assertiveness is the ideal. Always account for brevity dictating otherwise. This strategy has already taken hold in west with abolishment of traditional male-only social spaces. The manosphere and virtual spaces such as this one, are first aid at best and not a replacement. Here's a big question that I have grappled with, how, when, and where do modern adults get to truly assess the character of their peers? As children of the brick and mortar world, we had ample opportunity to that in our youth in our communities. A cornerstone of having and predicting the long term prospects of our intimate relationships, platonic or otherwise is knowing one's character and seeing organic and private behavior. TL:DR: We have less meaningful and "accurate" adult friendships/relationships because we don't have or abide by the times and opportunity to see others' character.
Very very good! The high quality keeps it easy to keep watching! To answer your question at the end of the video... I personally have incorporated statistics into the those conversations especially with women
Society has changed dynamics. Instead of us being the men, to be infront. We're at the opposite pole trying to please them. Which is totally against the course of life
We as men have to understand women and dynamics because we are the initiators. Women just have to sit there--no agency, no responsibility, not required to have objective knowledge.
Oddly enough, this video illustrates exactly why I disagree with the concept of the covert contract found in "No More Mr. Nice Guy". The assumption in that book is that women simply have no idea what men want. Supposedly it's the mans fault for not articulating exactly what he wants out of the relationship. That bit might be true, but pretending that women don't already know exactly what the man is after is completely disingenuous. Trust in this young men.... Women know exactly what they are doing and they know exactly what you want from them. Them pretending this isn't true is one of their greatest powers.
I found it interesting that after I've been more aware of the RP when I'm in the conversation with somebody and they are all about benefiting the women I somewhat get repulsed by this conversation simply because I understand that it implies the expensibility of a man and it's sickens me.
I love my wife dearly. But many times during conversation I have to remind her that "this is not about you, sweetie ..." Now I know why this happens. Thanks.
"Women suck all objectivity out of the room." I've never heard a more profound truism. 👍
It’s because 80% seems to revolve around feelings from what I’ve seen, heard and have gone through.
I'm about 745 days sober from women. Best choice I've made.
1480 brother.
It only gets better
😆 damn the pain & extreme humor in this is reassuring that I’m on the right track
Over 3 years now. Just the peace and happiness, the lack of drama.. So good. Getting older finally helped me to get over this damaging and life eroding addiction.
@@jambajoby32 "Pain?" I mean, it was painful as hell at first. Kind of like detoxing and withdrawal. But now it's just even keeled, no highs and lows.
@@hydrostatic8048 pain as in I’ve endured the bs to know your statement has much truth in it
Why is it that when a man talks about women's behavior (in general) to a woman he's lambasted, but when a woman talks about a man's behavior (in general) to other women she's praised?
We're essentially being told "Sit down, your opinion doesn't matter. Now you get to be treated the same way we've been treated." How about they just be better?
Because women are the dominant gender in society. Have you noticed during gender reassignment for transsexuals they will move from man to woman but rarely woman to man. It tells you something.
You would not believe the degree of cuckery that goes on in our society.
Men are being told to sit down and shut up! If you have an issue it is always who hurt you so bad with absolutely no validation for the fact that no human should ever hurt anyone else especially that badly (it involves a funny little concept called compassion).
@@jasonasdecker Or they ask you why you're being so negative. Why? Because the objective truth isn't comparable to their subjective one
If you wrote a book, huMAN, it'd become a Bestseller. Easily.
I been bugging him for three years to do this. I think it would be the gold standard of MGTOW philosophy, and likely would be cited for generations.
Somehow I can see amazon pulling his book since it isn't PC enough
He is very interesting I want to read his book
It could only blow up if the social engineers decide to co opt it as controlled opposition to their men are pigs/women are equal to men project, ongoing since 1970.
@Nodge Sinisborat isn't it strange how the need for immigration came about because the family unit was being annihilated due to feminism at at that time?
Women take EVERYTHING personal.
Man: “women suck”
Woman: “reeeeeee im not like that!!!”
Vs
Woman: men suck
Man: yea, most of em do.
Had a female try to shame once by calling me an asshole. I said yep and I'm good at it too...
because you live in reality and you recognize the fact that men are prone to sucking while she lives in la-la land, and she can't recognize that wmn do suck. Colttaine said it best in one of his videos women are all about 'Me and my vagina!' they think only about themselves and everything that is outside of their interest doesn't matter or doesn't exist.
“I want to approve that you guys are talking about relationships correctly”. Exactly. If you take a look at all this backlash and hate towards guys who do their own thing, this is the sentence which is playing like a broken record in these women’ mouths and the white knights who pretend to protect them.
By the way, I love this new way you change topics, like an old TV changing channels. Thanks for the wisdom.
4 things I’ve noticed that women say: “Feel, feels, feeling, feelings”. If you can ask, question or to test them on what they see and have heard, you’ll get silence, stuttering or awkward replies- with the occasional heated retorts.
@@daydreamdirty yeah I remember Bill Burr joked about this in one his stand ups.
@@koli5979 Now that I see it everywhere- A- I can’t unsee it and B- The course of action with the least amount of conflict or drama is to ghost- which is annoying at times because I’m someone who likes to respond and to be active.
The first time i dared to speak out about my issues with a woman the response was - you weigh me down with your depression i cannot carry you, it wears me down....that's how they do it, because all of a sudden the attention has to shift from her to me, and that's not how this works in their world.....it's really sad, but this is happening more often these days, because they all feel so empowered by the back of daddy government and they allow themselves to perpetrate psychological and emotional abuse on men and even their own children and in cases other women. And then of course the time comes when all these get together and ask the most stupid question ever "Where all the good me go?" I have no sympathy or anything for such individuals anymore, they have been fucked so bad by the mainstream modern culture that in most cases the damages are irreversible...
You wouldn't expect a child to carry a tool box heavy enough to make you struggle. The female children in adult bodies are truly overwhelmed with weighty thoughts requiring adult reasoning.
Over power them for the love of it my brotha. An old saying still rings true : “If I’m going out I might as well get my money’s worth .”
@@frikabg Haha, yeah :D Such caring people can't get enough of that "care", lol
I have noticed this a LOT. A woman will contradict a general point on the grounds that it doesn't apply to HER
Every person I have met who told me he is different was exactly like others and average people.
;)
The Titanic went down with a lot of guys saying, "Women and children first". Molly Brown said, "Let's go back the life boats 1/2 full, and get some more" To late. She meant some more women anyways.
I can't help but think that the men would have found away to save everybody. But, they where not allowed. They are the ones that had to die.....By the way, I love sailing in my boat and I never ever take females along....ever. Had plenty ask to go along. My response to them is, "No I want to be a lone", and I hear them mumble something as I leave....
@@micwell2247 Hands on hips, "Well you're always going to be alone then." Finally figured that one out eh sweetheart?
Can't count the number of time's I've witnessed a wmn hide her disgrace and malintent behind the innocence of her children. It's second-nature to them. Disgusting. A part of me pities them for how fragile their egos are. Most of me is disgusted that the fragility of their egos (Narcissism), compels them to do such despicable things.
Equality, and other things, means then have to treat such people as equal, as if they can or might negotiate rather than have these, covert deals, issues, that can't be negotiated with.
Yet the psicology for some reasson say narcissism it most seen in men, when every single women in the word have some degree of pathological narcissism. What can you expect for a field dominated by women and subjective "science" that makes no logical sense.
Women have patological degree of narcisism and solipsism.
@@ArantyrDarkhand absolutely true. A man goes in for therapy and they see fresh meat to ruin.
@@ArantyrDarkhand I found narcs in both genders. They have different styles of gaslighting.
@@ArantyrDarkhand The study commonly referenced doesn't actually state that there are more male narc than female, rather, it states that the majority of those diagnosed are male, and when one considers the lack of agency thrust upon females in western societies, and the judicial biases against males, it's not that difficult to conclude that if one were to meticulously account for every male and female in the population, and assess the each without a preferential bias, it is entirely plausible that from a clinically diagnoseable stance, there could well be more certifiable female narcissists than men. Unfortunately, we're subject to a biased system, so no accurate conclusion can be made.
On an individual basis, I absolutely believe that wmn are innately narcissistic, though whether each one remains on the healthy side of the spectrum is entirely subjective.
The manosphere has helped me put my needs first. I limit my exposure to women. I am getting more comfortable living my life with minimal contact with women.
Awesome! No idea how old you are but will assume you are significantly younger than I am at 56. I always makes my heart sing to see another young man saved from destruction.
From my observation, it seems like it offends (some) women when men sort of gather around together to discuss issues that may end in women being forced to be accountable for their sh*t and f**k ups. It also appears to bother them when they aren't the subject of discussion amongst men; at least in my (biased) opinion.
Sidenote: Your content is unparalleled in a world full of content creators who sell political correctness. Great work huMAN.
Yea, he been on fire lately, and he is the content creator I cite when I counter journalists who state mgtow is “misogynistic,” or a hate group. It’s a philosophical dialogue. Rarely do I get interaction to join the dialogue.
Where are those political correct video on dating haven't seen one but have seen a clip of crazy lady barking like dogs when asked certain questions they don't know how to answer.
They need to distract us from these discussions for the truth to remain hidden. That is what they are afraid of.
Your opinion isn’t biased my friend. I’ve experienced nothing but the same results with women. Subjects like this are real if they’ve happened to more than a small handful of people. You’re spot on buddy
I've become desensitized to romance and it's something i can't control. There's nothing in releationships.
Sad aren't it?
I feel the same way honestly. Its a waste of time&money.
I feel so much more accomplished doing sports and writing.
I can't fall in love anymore, no chance of it.
Same here 🙌
Depends on who you chose and what you put into it. If you only want sex be upfront or you are going to be disappointed relationships to women mean something different its about emotional connection spending time together building a strong meaningful partnership if that draining look for hook up and you get the relationship your looking for there are a small amount of women out there that just want sex and for you to leave after.
Women's conversation is anecdotal and emotional. Personally, I very rarely talk about my place in the world as a man and how men are treated 2nd class, outside my close male friends and RUclips comments. When talking to external people, a comment like 'I'm an advocate for men's rights' is followed by silence as words like misogynist, incel and right wing flash through their train of thought. So, I never bother engaging and just stick to the mundane small talk.
Great content, huMAN. The video production is also very slick and I love the subtle background music.
What do you expect in such a brainwashed gynocentric world we live in.
We do live in a gynocentric world. We live in a woke world. We can't change it because it's like a freight train. Women are also victims. Women are just bystanders who are given the key to the Candy store. Imagine if the dynamic was switched? Men had the choice of any woman. We'd be making big bucks on Only Fans 🤣
I have heard videos likes the one we are currently gathering under referred to as “hate ideology”
@@jmlkhan5153 yet kill all men and kill whitey isn't considered as such... not very inclusive wokeism
Not to mention that if you do venture out of your comfort zone and say something about men's rights, there will always be a simp or two that step up to to neutralize you.
The male point-of-view without female solipsism is much more adept at nuance and rationality. I can usually see the issue from her side as well as my own and try to meet in the middle. But women just keep pulling on the rope towards herself in our conversational tug-of-war. That's when I just drop the rope and walk away. She's won and I don't want to play anymore.
They are majorally emotional creatures the chance of them bring logic into it was low to Begin with
A womens biggest fear is un emotion objective conversation they can't control. Subjectivity is thier shield from responsability.
Well said 🙌
Great comment!
50 years ago, a group of guys living on the same street would get together and talk. About anything. Hunting, fishing, sports, politics, and yes, women and relationships. And one of those guys was always single. He was happy, owned his car outright, almost had his house paid off, was saving and making retirement investments. The wives hated that single guy and didn't want their husbands talking with him, because he was living life on his terms and no one else's. Then one of the wives gets caught cheating and it all changes...for the married guys. The single guy is still happy and still living the way he wants. The wives are angry, not because one of them cheated, because she was careless enough to get caught which gave relationship power to the men. Now with the internet, all men are in that group and we talk about...us.
@@potatojoe7454 And the relationship power goes to the angry woman because that's what they voted for
I find it effective to point out to women, that relationships are not a zero sum game. "We are partners. If you are having trouble, so are we."
Who cares about human relationships? Avoid, ignore, reject, replace.
We are constantly bombarded with their views and demands, yet at the instant we present hours, we become the Austrian Painter's reincarnation, lol
I don't have many personal experiences on the regard because I portray the situation as me being too bitter to care, which isn't exactly a lie, but since it's worded as a "me" problem, it doesn't hurt their feewings so it's all good for them. I also have learned that life is too short to be arguing with walls unless you're in for some good ol' trolling.
>Austrian Painter's reincarnation
holy kek, so true 😂😂😂
Lmao 🤣
Greetings from germany 🇩🇪
'fluid dynamics' sounds like an Australian euphemism for drinking beer
I love the "women most affected" articles out there, even if the men in the same story have all been killed. "Asteroid wipes out all life on earth...women most affected".
25% of suicides are women , so the other 75% ?
@@timothyhails359 Also, something like 1 in 5 homeless are female which is a HUGE problem, Oh that other 4 out of the 5, ignore them.
the asteroid committed femicide
It all comes to a simply truth that has been discussed countless times : a woman s words are mere sounds.
Remove all meaning from them , observe them only for what emotion they express and observe what your emotions caused by the sounds are.
Observe and you ll find your power.
Shadows on the wall of the cave created by the light from the fire outside.
A rather vile example of that self-referential thing you mentioned. Many years ago, there was a popular with the women man in town. Tall, charismatic, but didn't chase after them. Perhaps that because he liked young boys. When this finally came to light, a number of women expressed surprise, and said, "but he wasn't a threat to me." But he was molesting boys, "yes, but he wasn't a threat to me-uh."
The impression being that because he was entertaining and they felt personally safe around him, nothing else mattered.
If they are chasing a dude they will overlook and rationalize anything and everything, if you want more proof and a good laugh just search for this video by it's a gundam: "Reddit Proves Hypergamous Women On Tinder Have No Moral Compass".
whoa
@Mark Park Totally a agreed, many years ago there was a brief time frame that I considered marriage.
My first question for them was always "pro life" or "pro murder", even I, knowing how deranged most are, was appalled how many never batted an eye and replied "pro murder".
I have to ask,"Have you been inside my head and taking notes?" For a very long time I have observed that when it comes to conversations regarding relationships they are often skewed towards the woman's perspective. My social media feed is flooded with the opinions of women. When a man does give his perspective it is often derided or dismissed followed by an attack on the character or masculinity of the man.
Odd maybe cause more women share feelings you see more women and shutting people down its not a target on gender there is just many toxic people that will silence anyone that don't agree with them. So if you are just saying what they want to hear you will be heard that's with most anything in life.
By the way i get that to men are less likely to hear you out as a female even when you are in agreement to there view. It is also a status thing I worked at jobs were I know and see the problem I the one that directly interacts with the customers and seem them hear their complaints but they chose to ignore that I know their ideas aren't going to work.
@xraf32 That would make the most sense I was never a fan of watching so didn't noticed the agenda being pushed only resent since look down watchin anything from boredom I can see some agenda going on but this wasn't normal to me years ago
I say "it's not about you" or "that's irrelevant".
I've gotten all sorts of ridiculous responses to that, chief among them "you don't care about women?"
Essentially, they always try to make a conversation emotional in order to control it.
Or women genuinely perceive themselves as a collective rather than a collection of individuals
@@jimbothegymbro7086 Exactly, females have what is called in group preference, most will take the side of an unknown female over their own son.
I’ve listened to several women call into the Kevin Samuels show, try to argue with him, and as you said here, everything they say is self referential. One in 50 may be able to track with him in a logical discussion, but it’s usually a dead end. It’s just not in their nature. I accept it.
When interacting with most women, if I assume their thinking capacity is that of a young child, the interaction goes much more smoothly than if I expect them to think as an adult.
@@johnvanegmond1812 Yes sir.
The problem is that in order to accept this... you have to think logically, which automatically means women can't reach this conclusion :D
Chris Rock said it best:" Being a Hot Girl is same Level of fame & Privilege a A-List male Celebrity has" Not the Exact words, but the Meaning is on Point. The diffrence is, A Male Celeb has to Work and develop Skills while Beeing hot is Genetics and Basic self Care.
If someone wants Control over anything, be it things, events or Persons, What comes always with it? The Entity that wants to Control you cannot allow you to keep anything for yourself. That entity have to know about everything and will create Events to justify that or will Punish you for everything you keep for yoursef.
Every Woman that wants to assert themself into Mal Spaces follows this exact Principle.
Examples:
The state pushes for more and more laws to Create the "1984" state and grab every bit of information about you. It doesnt need that if it would think of you as a Person with the ability to make Informed and Logic decisions and doesnt want to control you.
A woman who wants to know where you go, with whom you go and keeps Contacting you While you are out with your friends. She wants to know everything so she can Prepare her Plan. She wants to Control you.
Wimen who enter a Hobby, Event and Demand acceptence instead of Earning it And demand Change. She my not know everything about your Hobby, but, she Demands you change the Hobby to fit to her Knowledge. that way she can achieve Control.
Only because of all those weak and desperate guys out there.
"Women are alcohol and men are the alcoholics" - love that analogy!
Profound point about the "... and children" since women and the courts etc reflexively presume the children belong to their mother
And everyone else in soyciety aside from possibly their father.
When they say "women and children" they are talking about the same people.
well came out of her body so 100% hers how can you be sure your the father
@@bunnyboo6295 paternity test, duh.
@@bunnyboo6295 that's the crux of the matter, but it says a lot about how we really see women and how they see themselves, us and our kids.
When having an intellectual discussion, if emotions get involved, the discussion tends to break down to ad hominems, hence it is difficult to do with a lot of women. Also, subjectivism ... I had a female "friend" claim that only subjectivism matters and that there are no objective truths. I left a one word comment ... "gravity". She hasn't spoken to me since. 😁
Its always about my fee fee
I used to give out no information on dates by answering her probing rude questions with responses like well you know, it's all about doing what makes you feel right, and not caring what anybody thinks because we're entitled to live. Just start making up b******* politician responses and they actually love it, stupid as hell.
The less female energy I'm around, the better I feel. No stupid mind games.
@@johnnycorn7225
Female Voters. That's how Biden got in
Yes! They always talk about women's infallible sixth sense! They don't need indoctrination! They are born racist!
@@coiledsteel8344 No I know more men that chose him but Biden didn't win it was rigged
I long ago stopped caring what any woman pretends to think.
Almost every time I've left a comment on social media talking about stats/data, someone will "refute" that stat with a personal anecdote and that someone is almost always a woman.
I recently posted something about how children raised in single-parent households are more likely to fail high school, abuse drugs, break the law, end up in jail, etc. Cue the women raised by single mothers and the current single mothers and how they didn't run into any of those problems.
Imagine responding to, "men commit most violent crime" with, "well, I'm a man and I haven't committed a violent crime. This is my truth."
That is how their hamster wheels work, just stay away from them, they are a life altering "accident" just waiting to happen.
Almost spit my coffee out when I heard the female voice respond 😂😂😂. Wow I missed it. You having a conversation with a female would sound JUST LIKE THIS! KUDDOS AND HAPPY FRIDAY huMAN.
Letting women into an objective discussion on [INSERT ANYTHING] will turn it into a subjective discussion about her.
This is why all of human growth has grind to a halt since their 'liberation'.
The only reason why tech flourished while the rest died, is it was a boys club for all of that time.
Its true when you look at it. Male dominated fields are flourishing, meanwhile mixed fields have not progressed at all. Its always business as usual when vvoman are involved. Same shit as yesterday.
@@nicholashenderson6941 They're wired to be wives.
Sure, you can prop them up and pretend otherwise.
But in the end, they're going to treat every position as if still a wife, with the knowledge that they learned as the husband to honor and protect.
The problem, knowledge not only doesn't progress once they takeover said position - but because they can't think about what they're being told, people can use their feelings to fill their heads with absolute gibberish. And they have no way to know it's absurd, and that it doesn't make any sense.
When i talk about male experience and someone goes "It's not just men, it happens to women too.", I say
"Yes, of course, and they are free to talk about it from their point of view just as I am free to talk about it from mine", and then I continue in what I was saying.
Good Description of your #1. Troll in your video, 'OLDER WOMEN: The Expired Lottery Tickets!
You will very rarely get women to see a man's perspective on much of anything. Those that do....cherish them and don't let them go.
I love your content hUMAN, you are like a father figure to us.
You are teaching us uncomfortable truths,
The truths which the society, schools, parents, media, never taught us.
Hey I like your channel. Lol
I once talked to my mom, the only woman I know who knows how to listen rather than just talk, about the idea of mgtow and I realized she could only think that every man in this movement is a loser and gay. Perhaps the idea of women being more self-centered is what made her think that when I talked about it.
This was a phenomenal video. HuMan, I don’t know how you do it, but you manage to continue to find gold at increasingly farther depths of humanity / relationships / the manosphere.
The main take away is women don’t want to add to the conversation, they want to control and steer it in a way that benefits them. Men need men only spaces. It’s ok for women to have women only spaces, but men only spaces are mysogynst (according to women)
Weird how that works out.
For a man to desire physical and/or emotional space is considered by his woman a hateful ideology.
When a man is broken hearted they are told harden up by woman. For a woman it’s poor her and her female friends rally round . Men are left to their own devices to recover .
The crazy thing is having to do that has made me happy i don't care anymore if I'm with them friend or relationship.
They always need a men , kids, money, holidays, gifts support, arguments, houses, car, protection, marriage, fixing stuff,
I'm not going to be pretty much 100% happy with someone why bother with a woman or kids.
I see so many miserable couples.
Yea getting made homeless over a mood swing and losing all my possessions is stripping me of my attachments, and is beginning to feel extremely liberating.
They always talk from a solipsistic point of view because they don't have to care about men until they need them. Since the dawn of time, we have been doing everything for them.
Of late I’ve been pondering on the shear lack of empathy that women have towards men, let’s call it what it is, cruelty.
This dawned on me at work. A woman I work with was talking about raising her two sons and how ‘boys are so difficult.’ I asked her who were the male role models available to teach the boys about the masculine tools they will require in adult life. As predicted there were crickets and then the inevitable;
‘I can teach them everything they need to know.’
I couldn’t help myself and said.
‘Who will teach them about how to manage their relationship with women as adults?’
She screwed up her face incomprehensibly like someone left excrement in the room.
‘They don’t need that, they can learn that as they go.’
Nothing more needed to be said. No comprehension, compassion, even the possibility of detecting a need that boys actually need tuition when it comes to relationships. Mothers protect the sisterhood even when it comes to their sons. It’s no wonder most adult men lead bewildered, confused and empty emotional lives when they experience such neglect, manipulation and gaslighting even from their primary maternal attachment figures, this is never spoken about.
The feminine imperative is imprinted on the boy, most never outgrow it
I am a life long bachelor, at 56 I have never met a woman I could have a conversation with that the top priority in her mind was not her feelings. I am over it at this point, they get one "warning" to answer the yes or no question with a simple yes or no, or I am out.
Ha me too man, same, just can't stand the way they converse.
Me too. Im slightly younger, but have the same conclusions.
I got tired of being the crisis line/good listener. Thats all it was, and when I made that point, the hostility was instant.
Ultimately, once the annoyance overcame horniness, the stage was set for walking away.
@@tubatits so accurate, exactly. Women nowadays make it so easy to just walk away
@Mark Park so true I don't believe most men understand 1%, how much different theyre thinking patterns, physiology, and emotional states are from men.
There is more genetic variation from a human man to a human woman than a human man to a male chimpanzee, forensically factual.
All of the significant structures of the brain are immensely different between men to women.
I just can't stand how high strung their minds are and how they are already asking you a different question to answer while you're answering the question they asked before that and they're not even remembering what they just asked you two seconds before because now their brain is thinking about the next question while they're saying it they are also imagining the next three questions at the same time and you're supposed to keep up with this s***? No, I'm out, go talk in your meaningless circles with a girlfriend I actually want to get something accomplished today.
@@johnnycorn7225 lmao, yup, more detailed than mine, but that is exactly correct.
Right behind that annoying crap is their ability to intentionally twist your words in order to match their present feels.
You know that the content is good when you imply the names Karen and Nancy as general femals, cuz thats what they truelly are.
% of survivors on Titanic:
Male - 20% survived
Children - 51% survived
Women - 75% survived
Is it really children first, or is it women first, but because it's women's will to also save their children, so children are at least higher than men in terms of % survived?
Women can make new children...there is a reasoning behind that. A sad one.
Great video. I need to think about this some more; after I talk with my "woman." Oh yeah, I forgot; I live alone. So, sure. I prefer to talk about "men things" with men. Only men. At seventy plus, I've had enough of "women feelings" input. Frankly, "I'd rather be alone."
Love your content!
_Until you can kick my ass, I don't care what you think._ That line shuts women up every time. As a matter of fact, I've never cared what women thought, even before I found out about MGTOW or the red pill or whatever. My rationale was _why should I concern myself with what someone who's beneath me thinks?_
And yes, I implied women are beneath me; if you can't kick my ass, _whilst_ society charges me with your protection, you are by default beneath me. Deal with it.
huMan has an amazing outlook on what it means to be a man in the 21st century. I have followed his philosophical insights, and it has helped me tremendously. His camera work and color grading are great too!
It's almost like women are children.
Almost? Why do you think most women shave their pubic hair off if not to look inappropriately young?
I've really liked your channel for the exact fact that it's a philosophical discussion for men, between men. We need more of that, I miss that, pre social media days. It's healthy and in many ways women have hijacked the whole discussion. We need men to reconnect again philosophically and make women follow. Morality, Philosophy, Theology is historically a male led discussion.
Very accurate huMAN, especially the solipsistic self referential lens, every discussion is taken personally, so much so I have to regularly repeat, this is not about you and not all women. If you remind them the discussion isnt about them personally it helps women ease into an object view BUT one needs to regularly remind her as she will constantly bring the discussion back to her or her friends feelings MO.
My experience of ALL conversations with ALL women, without exception.
Yup, same same, as I said in an earlier comment, I give them one "warning" to answer my yes or no questions with a simple yes or no, after that, I'm out.
I think you articulated it profoundly. The main point I use was basically what you said about 95% of the focus has always been about the woman/women, and that it's about time the male perspective is brought forth.
All my life I’ve heard nothing except the constant rah rah women. You go girl, a girl can do whatever a boy can do, girl power, and most recently “strong and empowered”. It’s truly sickening.
Some men forget who they are around a woman, especially if she is physically attractive. Women know this is the case and use this phenomenon to their own advantage while remaining objective to their own agenda under this cloud their presence can make. Men who are aware of this and have developed immunity to femininity can then actually have a direct conversation that will expose the true nature of the woman they are talking with. The woman will immediately sense that the usual effect has not taken place and that she must deal with a meeting of the minds on an equal basis as one human being to another if she is able to feel comfortable speaking as an equal and not as somehow some special entity with rights and privileges. like talking to your sister in law. If a society breaks down completely, as during a war, women quickly come to realize their real worth as human beings with all the bullshit of their privilege pushed to the sidelines.Most women are up to the task under these conditions of helping their men defend hearth and home....but perhaps this has all changed now against the reality of the situation if women continue delude themselves as to the true value of men? Or whatever happened to a man building the house and the woman making it a home with mutual respect for the other? Relations between men and women have certainly changed for the worse as far as I can see and there is a need by both to set things right again even if a new understanding is a different one from the old model. What would that look like even as we all, both men and women, are about to be totally enslaved mind and body to a coming Technocracy and the effects that will have on relations is a big question?
"there is a need by both to set things right again" - No, this is on women. We men played our parts for decades after feminism, and women decided to have their cake and eat it too. This is about respect, and either women respect men enough to own up, or they don't.
@@ldl1477 I agree for the most part, however, men hold a degree of responsibility for this crap too.
I am nearly 56 and saw this coming back in the 80s in my late teens and early 20s. I refused to take part in this "equal" crap, and walked away, literally.
Most men on the other hand, willingly surrendered their balls to a feminist female of varying degrees to put in her purse. Those feminist females have now raised 2 generations of more feminist females, along with 2 generations of confused young men.
I contend that this could have been avoided, had men refused to surrender their authority to females in the first place.
Yes, I get it feminism goes back to long before we were ever born, and those men did nothing either, but I think my point still stands on it own two feet.
huMan - I'm a relatively recent follower of your content. It was so refreshing to find a calm, intellectually aware, individual like yourself who is not a ( let's screw broken women, make money, lift weights, and let the gynocentric world go to hell ) kind of guy in the "manosphere"
I suspect that you and I have vast differences of opinion in our worldview underpinnings, but ultimately you seem like a decent guy someone could have a reasoned discussion with over coffee, even if that discussion ended peacefully with agreeing to disagree on some topics.
Now to your question.
I find that it's hard to even enter into a discussion about the male experience because everything these days is so framed in terms of gynocentric presuppositions and assumptions so pervasive in society. We as men have to do a ton of unpacking before we can even enter into the discussion, and often we can't even get through the unpacking stage due to people often refusing to even concede to (or unable to see) the assumptions or presuppositions they're bringing to the table.
I see these attitudes even in my own extended family, and I actually grew up in a small city with rather traditional, conservative viewpoints. Gynocentric or radical feminist viewpoints use to be exclusive to large metros where your larger universities are pushing this crap down people's throats, but not anymore. Gynocentric culture has even saturated more rural areas.
Based on your picture that has been the case since long before you were ever born. I am nearly 56, grew up in rural farm country, I walked away back in the 80s due to this garbage.
@@jerrybruckhart9134You and I are only a few years apart. My fault though, this pic is about five years or more old. I'm not big on taking pictures of myself like this modern "Selfie" generation. Thanks for your comment.
@ 6:35 My wife at the time and I were trying to work on our marriage and reading 'happily married' therapy books. I checked one out from the library...can't remember the title but I remember a statement made by the author. He mentioned therapy is best perscribed by addressing the concerns of the wife first. You can bet wives will end therapy once they feel all their 'concerns' have been addressed and their husband is 'making improvements' in their marriage. I also listened to a therapy podcast; this sentiment was equally expressed in the interview with a therapist who used CBT modalities. He said (roughly) therapy sessions tend to go more smoothly if the husband is shushed whilst the wife lists her grievances first. I can't imagine psych courses being taught differently than what these two therapists practiced in their therapy sessions with couples.
Why do therapists prefer to listen to the wife first? If husbands were first, the wives would end the sessions prematurely and the therapists wouldn't get paid once a week, anywhere from six months to a year...bad business practice. The bottom line is: It'd be a poor business model to address husbands' concerns first. Remember to follow the money (wives typically control the money, and therapists around the world understand this very well).
Those raised in times of plenty have lost the ability to differentiate between wants and needs.
Colttaine did a BRILLIANT video essay about this topic called "Whataboutism"
'But it happens to women too!' "No it doesn't. Moving on..."
Excellent observations. I don’t even bother discussing men’s issues when women are present. I’d try to describe men’s plight in family court and the financial burden that is almost always placed on them. My anecdotes, she: “I know a woman who makes a lot of money. They had to split everything.” “I didn’t get any money from my ex-husband, just child support.” “He probably cheated on her so he should pay.” Great anecdotes but totally just that; end of her discussion or interest in statistics, facts, or a larger picture.
Another high quality content HuMAN! I appreciate all your work and effort! You have helped me a lot over the years.
Of course, I always dig the subjects you bring up, but I want to acknowledge your improvements in your video production.
Your cuts are sharper. The music was already good, but now it's improved. The effects are excellent, but not flashy. And you dialogue feels like a fourth-wall exposition in a movie.
You have obviously put a lot of continuing work into your videos, and I want to acknowledge that. Good stuff, huMAN.
The issue about the female perspective, as you said many many times, is that they dont have a universal reference for values. To them all is relative. Can you imagine the state of this world if the Laws were all subjective? It would be absolute chaos.
Well said.
@@huMANs_channel Thank you!
Without patriarchy we are defenseless.
And they know it.
No need to wonder.
Just wait a little while longer. The big girls have muscled their way into the seats of power and are changing our world based on their feelings.
When you said women are parasitic in talking about relationships, man that hit home. Its not only relationships, they suck the life out of every room they enter regardless of topic, unless theyre a lady of the night and theyre there for one reason only. Sober rooms for just men are essential. Thanks human, youre truly a gem in this bleak world!
And again great work huMAN. This is the best platform to interact with others whether it be through hobbies, or other activities that truly enrich our lives. Thanks again from the Netherlands
"What about women?"
"What about them?"
"They go through things too."
"So? They're strong and independent and (enter whatever adj). Therefore they're perfectly capable of solving their own issues. We're discussing men's issues from men's perspective."
My grandfather, god bless him, had an saying : "the problems of a feemale are the responsability of the male who phook her. If that male isn't you, move along."
@@lamikal2515 Awesome grandpa. May god bless him.
This is brilliant. Well done
Editing is on point. 🎯💯
Women enter a male space to monitor and correct their thoughts. You have so eloquently put what we all have dealt with.
Third time and yes there is still more to be gained. Soberingly it’s bringing me back to myself, my needs, my thoughts and my purpose….. none of which includes a woman at all…
You’ve smashed this one out of the park.
Shared it with those who will appreciate it and gain from watching it…. So many others I’d like to show it to but…. Watching a man cry is uncomfortable
Simply brilliant huMAN
Women’s needs are like the stars, like grains of sand on the beach, like blades of grass on the prarie
I like the way you put that, Tom. Especially the part about "blades of grass on the prairie." I've come to appreciate the majestic beauty of raging wildfires in the grasslands because of your comment. :)
Honestly, women want to be able to do their thing, and not let men do their own.., it's ridiculous. Their need to control can be pretty suffocating. Good vids huMAN.. psychological therapy. 👍
With all of the talk of gender "Equality", could the resistance of women to allow for men to form their "Coterie" of conversation, be seen as an abject power play to relegate men's conversations to a "female supervised/governed" play-pen, akin to the garage or basement workshop?
New to you and love the content and helping me out since my fiancé just left me , thank you so much huMAN
Hope you're doing great bro
Whats happened ?
Check-out his Discord server. Lots of guys to talk to if you just want to vent.
The odds are worse than 50-50 you just dodged a bullet, count your blessings.
@@jerrybruckhart9134 yeah listening to a lot of videos I did lol
@@BoffinGrusky where do I find it
I do not have this issue.
I only have conversations about masculinity and manhood with female who tell me what is masculinity, what is manhood, and why I am wrong.
Then I stop talking... because I guess they are not qualified enough to talk about theses topics just because they have read some essay and have a fantasy point of view about what should manhood and masculinty be (for them).
huMAN, I love your content. I want to acknowledge one very difficult thing that you do for us: as MGTOWs, we get the privilege of speeding off on our motorcycles and looking like badass lone-wolves, but ONLY because we were empowered by the ideas of people like you who were BRAVE enough to speak out, risk sounding bitter/butthurt, and at the expense of gynocentric social disapproval. Thank you!
Cheers man... i appreciate it.
TLDR... when the women get involved, there is a distressing tendancy for them to bring with them overwelming emotional subjectivism that derails any attempt at a thought out logical reasoned discussion. And we want to have a logical reasoned discussion without spending most of it soothing the feelings of women who think their emotions are a logical argument.
Wow, I love this video structure, it's soo clean.
How do you handle that situation? With unflinching assertiveness. The setting and the woman will dictate how much having her saving face is a priority. Courteous assertiveness is the ideal. Always account for brevity dictating otherwise. This strategy has already taken hold in west with abolishment of traditional male-only social spaces. The manosphere and virtual spaces such as this one, are first aid at best and not a replacement.
Here's a big question that I have grappled with, how, when, and where do modern adults get to truly assess the character of their peers? As children of the brick and mortar world, we had ample opportunity to that in our youth in our communities. A cornerstone of having and predicting the long term prospects of our intimate relationships, platonic or otherwise is knowing one's character and seeing organic and private behavior.
TL:DR: We have less meaningful and "accurate" adult friendships/relationships because we don't have or abide by the times and opportunity to see others' character.
online Mens Sheds should have their boundaries respected,
I no longer expect to have my boundaries respected by them. Im installing archers along the ramparts from here on out.
Very very good! The high quality keeps it easy to keep watching! To answer your question at the end of the video... I personally have incorporated statistics into the those conversations especially with women
I haven't met many women who submit to stats :)
Very sobering. Watch this a few times and remember the message.
The simple ambient track is incredibly powerful to this presentation. Well implemented.
Society has changed dynamics. Instead of us being the men, to be infront. We're at the opposite pole trying to please them. Which is totally against the course of life
We as men have to understand women and dynamics because we are the initiators. Women just have to sit there--no agency, no responsibility, not required to have objective knowledge.
In the beginning of the video, when he says "ok, let's discuss", he has the smile of a man that has checkmate, but his opponent doesn't know it yet.
I block those people 🖐😂. I already know that womanism is associated with feelings based rhetoric, thus, I run away. 🏃♂️💨💨💨 🙋♀️💬
So true.
I've also noticed that women tend to have difficulties to discuse in a conceptional manner.
"We dont need that bottle in the room." "
Wow. The angles on this. Great video
Oddly enough, this video illustrates exactly why I disagree with the concept of the covert contract found in "No More Mr. Nice Guy". The assumption in that book is that women simply have no idea what men want. Supposedly it's the mans fault for not articulating exactly what he wants out of the relationship. That bit might be true, but pretending that women don't already know exactly what the man is after is completely disingenuous. Trust in this young men.... Women know exactly what they are doing and they know exactly what you want from them. Them pretending this isn't true is one of their greatest powers.
Super video! I applauded for $50.00 👏👏👏👏
Just when I thought I can't imagine how you could improve your content....💥....💥....💥....You do it again.
Definitely one of your best videos
Super video! I applauded for $5.00 👏👏
I found it interesting that after I've been more aware of the RP when I'm in the conversation with somebody and they are all about benefiting the women I somewhat get repulsed by this conversation simply because I understand that it implies the expensibility of a man and it's sickens me.
I love my wife dearly. But many times during conversation I have to remind her that "this is not about you, sweetie ..." Now I know why this happens. Thanks.
Sadly, this is generally correct.
However, now I'm old and tell it like it is.