Pronoms - a Trans short film (fr sub en)

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  • Опубликовано: 19 фев 2019
  • "Pronoms" is a trans short film directed by Roméo Bertrand, who was a trans cinema student at the time of the shooting. The film is made with a trans cast. This was made in 2017 by us and for us. Hope you'll enjoy it!
    Synopsis: It can be hard to figure out your own gender when nobody has ever told you some other options existed. When Alice meets Sora, a genderfluid person who asks about her pronoms, many things start to change and to suddendly make sense. After a journey of self discovery it is now time to show yourself to the world.
    Edit First thank a loooooot for all the nice comments ! It makes my heart really warm and motivates me to make other movies for our beautiful community. ❤️🎥 🌈
    Second : as many people asked in the comments here is where you can find our beautiful team on social media 📲 :
    my insta: / romeomarin__
    Nathan/Vic's instagram: / nuggetsitude ❤️
    Elise's instagram: / 1000pertuis and twitter: / cozartistic

Комментарии • 8 тыс.

  • @zilinca5448
    @zilinca5448 5 лет назад +7692

    Of course he got a baguette. He's French

    • @cigsnjuulpods7531
      @cigsnjuulpods7531 5 лет назад +144

      baguettes are good

    • @PhsycoEarthling
      @PhsycoEarthling 5 лет назад +67

      Zilinca le baguette oui oui

    • @nyalpiers7203
      @nyalpiers7203 5 лет назад +6

      😂😂

    • @justsomeguy2825
      @justsomeguy2825 5 лет назад +40

      Baguettes are quite popular in France. Les Francis aiment le pain.

    • @sydneydaum9204
      @sydneydaum9204 5 лет назад +13

      And 2 croissants. Edit: @Zilinca , I like you. You follow proper comment curtacy and like all of the replies to your comments. Not alot of people do that, thank you.

  • @jayredila7244
    @jayredila7244 4 года назад +3374

    the scene where he's going through all of the ftm and trans stuff on the Internet and questioning himself hits me hard on a personal level.

    • @toxichope7793
      @toxichope7793 4 года назад +48

      You're not alone

    • @shrekthesloth34
      @shrekthesloth34 4 года назад +29

      SAME OMG

    • @nerea3785
      @nerea3785 4 года назад +22

      sAAAME

    • @sadisticsweet3140
      @sadisticsweet3140 4 года назад +53

      Ahaha I'm half certain that is a literal phase for every trans person (probably gay/multi gender attracted folks too who knows) to find a trans thing and then go search it up a fuckton cuz what the fuck and then be like "oh shit it me" cuz Samee

    • @-elliot-8842
      @-elliot-8842 4 года назад +11

      Same lol

  • @hi-dx5hs
    @hi-dx5hs 3 года назад +2384

    THE “IF YOURE GAY THEN YOUR GAY DONT PRETEND THAT YOURE STRAIGHT” GOT ME 😭

  • @altofmoleperson
    @altofmoleperson 3 года назад +1934

    5:12 JAMIEEEEEEE
    He's one of my favorite trans RUclipsrs, watching his videos was super helpful when I came out. It's cool to see him casually included!

  • @qxuuiinnn
    @qxuuiinnn 4 года назад +7953

    the trans Tie-dye shirt, nice touch.

  • @mybeansarecooler
    @mybeansarecooler 5 лет назад +8499

    The little happy moment at the end and then--
    "IF YOU'RE GAY THEN YOU'RE GAY"

    • @yfeboanvakenss8841
      @yfeboanvakenss8841 4 года назад +438

      DON'T PRETEND THAT YOU'RE STRAIGHT

    • @sacrificethem9961
      @sacrificethem9961 4 года назад +396

      YOU CAN BE WHO YOU ARE

    • @FlowerHakee6969
      @FlowerHakee6969 4 года назад +150

      XD *cries in the corner because this song is everywhere* .......help

    • @chandravennelarao473
      @chandravennelarao473 4 года назад +182

      ANYVDAY IF THE WEEK! YOUBSRE UNLIKE THE OTHERS SO STRONG AND UNIQUE

    • @FlowerHakee6969
      @FlowerHakee6969 4 года назад +26

      @Gary Lee God damn why did you take that so hard?

  • @Pasta_tastesGODLY-im8oq
    @Pasta_tastesGODLY-im8oq 7 месяцев назад +79

    I have a trans friend, he went from female to male. I support him in every way. He deserves to feel comfortable in his own skin, comfortable within his own gender, comfortable to be him. AND HIS STYLE IS JUST OMG- I NEED TO FIND MORE PEEPS WITH HIS STYLE ITS GORGEOUS

  • @bean5157
    @bean5157 3 года назад +601

    Love how Jamie was used as the transition example, more recognition for the trans king 💙💗💌💗💙

    • @dokimonki
      @dokimonki 7 месяцев назад

      ruclips.net/video/BbeeuzU5Qc8/видео.htmlsi=dV14R8KrMuP7JKkt

    • @F34GOGO
      @F34GOGO 7 месяцев назад +5

      YESHSHSHSH

  • @klarastopar7946
    @klarastopar7946 5 лет назад +6080

    *i like how his shirt matches the transgender flag*

    • @lunarsystem
      @lunarsystem 5 лет назад +160

      That's the first thing I noticed

    • @liolove9971
      @liolove9971 5 лет назад +76

      This is why I got confused when he found out about the transgender thing...

    • @dhanaadellalavere6922
      @dhanaadellalavere6922 5 лет назад +19

      Klara Stopar her shirt was supposed to match the flag that's the whole point. I forgot the bi flag colors.

    • @noah730
      @noah730 5 лет назад +33

      Dhana Adella LaVere its he

    • @nyctoby
      @nyctoby 5 лет назад +1

      Same xD

  • @kadeolsen463
    @kadeolsen463 5 лет назад +4575

    3 things I love about this short film:
    1. Vic is trans in real life
    2. Sora
    3. David Bowie during the parade

  • @jackanimations1068
    @jackanimations1068 3 года назад +479

    I love the smile at the end, when vic said, "he/him." His reaction is pretty similar to mine. Im a young trans male that goes by he/they. Only a few of my friends know about my preferred pronouns. (Not parents JHGJF). Idk i just felt like this comment needed to be said cuz this video is really important to me :)
    Update now two years later💃 I came out to my parents, my pronouns went from he/they to he/him, and honestly i'm really glad i came out. i was really terrified at first, but talking to someone about my transition made my life so much better. it doesn't have to be your parent, it can be a friend or a sibling. just let someone you trust know. i promise you'll feel so much better guys

    • @itsantoniaaa9200
      @itsantoniaaa9200 2 года назад +7

      I'm proud of you for figuring out, you're doing great and you're valid :D

    • @jackanimations1068
      @jackanimations1068 2 года назад +3

      @@itsantoniaaa9200 wow thanks! I really needed this :)

    • @DinosaurNick
      @DinosaurNick Год назад +6

      I came out a couple years ago and have been pretty vocal about who I am. My entire family says "No you're not. You just think you are."
      I'm bxy AFAB and my pronouns are they/he and a couple neos and my family calls me she/her and compares me to women as if I can relate to them and tells me I'm a girl etc

    • @alexanderthegreat-mx5zu
      @alexanderthegreat-mx5zu Год назад +1

      ​@@DinosaurNickthey have made a movie about you, you know what it's called?

    • @CajunGators
      @CajunGators Год назад +4

      @@DinosaurNickLMAO! How offensive to actual dysphoric people who want to pass. And to all the gay men overrun with women on dating apps calling them bigots for wanting other men. Girl please.

  • @danet13
    @danet13 3 года назад +308

    damn, I remember watching this two years ago and whisper to myself "I have to cut my hair and start being me". Now, April 2021 I'm a trans boy who has already a year and a month on testosterone! :3

    • @GRAPH_URINACULA
      @GRAPH_URINACULA Год назад

      Отрезала волосы и стала пацаном 🤡 Премия дауна обеспечена

    • @SparklezAn
      @SparklezAn Год назад +9

      that’s so fucking cool! i’m so happy for you :)

    • @GRAPH_URINACULA
      @GRAPH_URINACULA Год назад +3

      @@SparklezAn че счастлив? Нарушению естественных процессов и недогибриду? На секундочку, теорию Дарвина никто не отменял, и целостность индивида в биологическом смысле заключается в нормальной репродуктивной функции. Так называемые беременные мужчины рожают уродов, и природой такие ударные гормональные вмешательства не предусмотрены. Ну, слава Богу такие чаще всего не плодятся. Как говорится: "чем больше суицидников тем меньше суицидников".

    • @BlyadskayaDvornyaga
      @BlyadskayaDvornyaga Год назад

      @@GRAPH_URINACULAеба, тролль детектед азаза, пиздуй на двач, и продолжай фапать на фембоев

    • @danet13
      @danet13 Год назад +1

      @@SparklezAn thanks!!

  • @koals6783
    @koals6783 5 лет назад +18796

    12 seconds into a french short film and they're already buying baguettes and croissants. Love it.

  • @clarahubert2715
    @clarahubert2715 4 года назад +2189

    I love how everyone is saying “hey that’s so cool my family can’t understand the video cause it’s in french”
    Ahaha my family is french and my mother is an English teacher. She understands every thing. Every. Thing.

    • @hookerson5thstreet789
      @hookerson5thstreet789 4 года назад +13

      but they still dont listen to you, so you fell the urge to post unnecessary shit

    • @DankoCh2
      @DankoCh2 4 года назад +56

      Actually, I and all my family are french, I am transgender and obviously, my parents are transphobics
      Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaas. Fuck my life

    • @wedontknow6428
      @wedontknow6428 4 года назад +8

      Me and my parents are Brazilians but I understand English so I'm using Legend

    • @teaaddict813
      @teaaddict813 4 года назад +3

      Learn Polish :)

    • @tiredcatman7381
      @tiredcatman7381 4 года назад +16

      Don't people wear earphones?

  • @user-iq9nu3sn8p
    @user-iq9nu3sn8p 7 месяцев назад +27

    Hello, my name is Senya, I am a non-binary person from Russia. Literally two weeks ago, we passed a law with which any LGBTQ+ person can be arrested for 12 years. I'm scared. I'm in danger, my friends are in danger, my partners are in danger. I don’t have the opportunity to leave Russia, and the only thing that remains for me is to fight and believe that someday such a world shown in this film will become real in our country. thank you very much for the film. it gives me strength to keep moving forward. I burst into tears... the issues raised in the film are very familiar to me. you talked about it very well, conveyed these feelings very subtly. and it was also very happy to see alex bertie!! I also watched it when I was figuring out my gender 💛
    it’s very important to be accepted. I have an understanding and caring environment now, I built it myself, and I am as safe as can be in Russia... but there are always risks. thank you very much, I rarely write comments on RUclips, especially in English... (I hope I didn’t make too many mistakes and my thoughts are clear to you) but here I couldn’t pass by, I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for the work you’ve done 🌧️

    • @Mini_P.L
      @Mini_P.L 7 месяцев назад +5

      Удачи👍

    • @blood_hunt3r
      @blood_hunt3r 7 месяцев назад +2

      I know that is difficult, but we can! We have to fight for our rights my country may not be as strict on LGBT issues, but we still suffered, and we won't admit defeat anytime soon. I'm cheering for you! strength!

    • @Kamrynidk
      @Kamrynidk 5 месяцев назад +3

      aw, I'm in america rn, stay safe ok!

    • @cobalt101
      @cobalt101 Месяц назад +2

      Wishing you the best, Senya. You deserve to have unconditional safety 🤝

  • @wowitsadinosaur2553
    @wowitsadinosaur2553 3 года назад +258

    Me: *Leaves with noticing my headphones disconnected*
    Everyone in my house:
    Me: *Goes back And hits Resume*
    My Phone: *IF YOU GAY THEN YOU GAY*
    Me: *Dies cutely*

  • @kiarahfabian8116
    @kiarahfabian8116 4 года назад +2081

    Even tho I speak French...
    I put on the subtitles cause I’m too lazy to understand the French.
    Edit June 2020: Bruh thx for the likes didn’t know I could be relatable 😂💀 Stay safe guys.

  • @asterismos5451
    @asterismos5451 5 лет назад +5602

    A trans guy played by a trans guy

    • @monamaennchen
      @monamaennchen 5 лет назад +98

      Right!? *-* And all the actors in this are great! Do any of them have social media?

    • @e.t9403
      @e.t9403 5 лет назад +14

      @@monamaennchen Yeah ! I saw them on fb

    • @monamaennchen
      @monamaennchen 5 лет назад +6

      @@e.t9403 Oh, I don't have facebook. Oh well :)

    • @romeobertrand108
      @romeobertrand108  5 лет назад +53

      @@monamaennchen Hey here you go ;) Nathan/Vic's instagram : instagram.com/nuggetsitude/

    • @briel4170
      @briel4170 5 лет назад

      Foda-se

  • @social_avocado
    @social_avocado 3 года назад +146

    I love Victor's story, he's a good example of something some people go through. My best friend came out to me as trans 8 months ago, but hasn't told his mom. I hope she's okay with it. But GODAMN IT,, if she hurts his feelings ima have a talk with her.

    • @politemenace5781
      @politemenace5781 2 года назад +6

      I read your comment in Catra's voice and let me tell you, it was terrifying
      Seriously though, you're such a wonderful friend. All the best to both of you 💕

    • @social_avocado
      @social_avocado 2 года назад +2

      @@politemenace5781 aww thank you. You're a fan of She-ra too?

  • @CramSkyy
    @CramSkyy 2 года назад +15

    I can't wait for people (teens mostly) to be able to come out to people with ease. Without having to feel anxious, nervous and scared and so on.

  • @garrettfrick3818
    @garrettfrick3818 5 лет назад +5635

    You know what’s funny:
    I’m trans and when I was younger I used to really like the name Garrett
    Fastforward 7 years later
    Hi, I’m Garrett!

    • @bellalawrence5588
      @bellalawrence5588 5 лет назад +98

      Garrett Frick ello Garrett

    • @sotsu618
      @sotsu618 4 года назад +141

      I’ve always loved the name miles...
      And I’m genderqueer

    • @idkbutyoujustseemcoolman3088
      @idkbutyoujustseemcoolman3088 4 года назад +70

      I'm trans and I like the name Garrett...let's see what's gonna happen in 7 years...or maybe earlier :P

    • @Its_e_my_dudes
      @Its_e_my_dudes 4 года назад +18

      That's so awesome ❤^^

    • @32shortcake
      @32shortcake 4 года назад +15

      Congrats! :D

  • @parttime_kpopstan8061
    @parttime_kpopstan8061 4 года назад +3143

    Does this count as studying French? xD

    • @keiyhval6872
      @keiyhval6872 4 года назад +174

      Yes.
      But french will still be hard , even french people are bad at french lmao-

    • @parttime_kpopstan8061
      @parttime_kpopstan8061 4 года назад +61

      ​@@keiyhval6872 You know I would say this sounds bad but it's the same with German, my mother langauge is German and I'm bad at it too xD Are you French btw?

    • @keiyhval6872
      @keiyhval6872 4 года назад +47

      @@parttime_kpopstan8061 Yes im french , the only problem is all the words that you prononce the same way and how to conjugate , there's too many ways to conjugate past present and futur ,and also every object have a gender. For exemple in french if you wanna talk about a table you'll have to say " she" , yes a table is a girl in french.
      Also I'm sorry for my english I'm only 13 years old and what we learn in french school is not enough to have a conversation so I try to learn by myself-

    • @parttime_kpopstan8061
      @parttime_kpopstan8061 4 года назад +23

      @@keiyhval6872 I'm 13 too and I have French in school and it's cunfusing as heck sometimes, but in German every object has a gender too, there is even one more, in French it's le and la and in German it's Der die and das (das is neutral) but the genders for objects are diffrent in French, for example Table is male in German xD And you're english is pretty good, I'm self taught in English too. French and German are a bit simlilar sometimes but the pronounciation is very diffrent

    • @parttime_kpopstan8061
      @parttime_kpopstan8061 4 года назад +8

      Oh and I like watching French movies or short films sometimes but without subtitles to see how much I can understand through the context xD

  • @LunaHolmesLhbholmes
    @LunaHolmesLhbholmes 3 года назад +71

    Here, a genderfluid bisexual human, just really happy to be seeing this, my family is super supportive and I don't really need any advice on who I am because I have been sure about that since I'm 12, but still happy to see how many good people are out there. Hey, you are loved and appreciated, don't ever let someone tell you otherwise, you deserve the best! 💖🤍💜🖤💙

    • @laysthechip3356
      @laysthechip3356 2 года назад +2

      Yo! Im also genderfluid ! And i see you also have the vape cat pfp lol

    • @iateyourdog617
      @iateyourdog617 2 года назад +2

      I love your pfp

  • @I_Love_The_Night1
    @I_Love_The_Night1 7 месяцев назад +12

    First time I have seen a genderfluid person in a short film or generally on a famous video on RUclips, this makes me happy. c: The movie was generally amazing and full of emotions!

  • @gordonramsayslambsauce
    @gordonramsayslambsauce 5 лет назад +3418

    I was so happy at the end, and I was smiling, but then suddenly,
    "If you're gay, then you're gay-"
    I'm sorry but that was so sudden

  • @brominebarium4709
    @brominebarium4709 3 года назад +7497

    Nobody:
    Me, a cis girl(??????): *watching trans short films for hours*
    Update: I am not cis

  • @_Basil_.
    @_Basil_. 10 месяцев назад +16

    As a genderfluid Im so happy we saw other genderfluid person !

  • @just_dying_np6469
    @just_dying_np6469 3 года назад +99

    When he walked up and immediately asked pronouns I was so happy 🏳️‍🌈

  • @snazzyfellow2804
    @snazzyfellow2804 5 лет назад +8329

    *plays video out loud because it is french and my family are English*
    End song: I'mma bout to end this man's whole career...

  • @ironicacunit
    @ironicacunit 5 лет назад +2738

    I was watching this with english subtitles. My mom could not understand, so it was fine until she came into the room in the end just to hear from my phone...
    *IF YOUR GAY THEN YOUR GAY*

    • @natyblueberry5659
      @natyblueberry5659 4 года назад +39

      So...what's bad that your mom heard it?
      You're mom is catholic or what?

    • @blakeniehus4728
      @blakeniehus4728 4 года назад +84

      IF YOUR STRAIGHT THEN THAT'S GREAT

    • @jdawg9722
      @jdawg9722 4 года назад +5

      WhenPigsFly FlyingPigs you’re*

    • @sugurusbf
      @sugurusbf 4 года назад +12

      @@natyblueberry5659 my mom would probs argue with me over it lmao

    • @natyblueberry5659
      @natyblueberry5659 4 года назад +1

      @@sugurusbf why?

  • @ayuna..
    @ayuna.. 8 месяцев назад +9

    THE "IF URE GAY THEN URE GAY DONT PRETEND THAT URE STRAIGHT" CAUGHT ME SO OFF GUARD

  • @vlals434
    @vlals434 3 года назад +1136

    LMAOO I THOUGHT I COULD PLAY THIS AT FULL VOLUME BECAUSE IT WAS FRENCH THEN ALL THE SUDDEN "IF YOU'RE GAY THEN YOURE GAY"

    • @vlals434
      @vlals434 3 года назад +68

      This short film put such a smile on my face seriously I loved it

    • @Thatscrayzee
      @Thatscrayzee 3 года назад +32

      SAME PLZ I AM RIGHT BESIDE MY SISTER TOO

    • @chaoticporsche
      @chaoticporsche 3 года назад +6

      SAME

    • @logannebot8029
      @logannebot8029 3 года назад +8

      this is just perfect cause i come into the comments to see if anyone noticed that too lmao

    • @felixoxo3893
      @felixoxo3893 2 года назад +7

      (From my point of view)
      Homophobic mom: SAYWHAA!?

  • @lonelytrashcan2614
    @lonelytrashcan2614 5 лет назад +3761

    my French teacher said to watch French films to get accents, so...
    also that ending song, love it.

    • @chiary.is.not.amazing5760
      @chiary.is.not.amazing5760 5 лет назад +27

      hello pham. Nice to see another person of culture from my phandom ;D
      I'm studying french too (and english isn't my first language either lol) so this video was very interesting XD

    • @hotchfucker
      @hotchfucker 5 лет назад +4

      I take French too... I’ll tell my French teacher on Friday I watched a French film but not tell her what, cuz, duh

    • @anon3422
      @anon3422 5 лет назад

      Any recommendations ?

    • @MsLittlemiss23
      @MsLittlemiss23 5 лет назад +9

      La vie d'adèle is a French film about a lesbian relationship 😊

    • @avatarlhamo3063
      @avatarlhamo3063 5 лет назад +5

      @@anon3422 May I ?
      I'm french (and a damn nerd)
      May i suggest a web-movie comedy (ytb) called "the dissociés" (the nobodies). Not about transidentity at all but there is some subtext/metaphor about that ;)
      made by a pretty famous french youtube comedian crew

  • @Jxss_c7
    @Jxss_c7 3 года назад +47

    I’m non-binary and it took me months to figure myself out, I relate to this a lot however my parents were the ones who told me that I will always be a girl to them. It is really hard but it feels good to be able to be my authentic self

  • @Mstr._lexx
    @Mstr._lexx Год назад +24

    Moi je suis un gars transgenre, et en voyant cela, j'étais heureux, sa ma fait sourire. Sinon c'etait vraiment super, c'était vraiment bien à regarder, je vous soutiens les LGBTQIA+ 💙💗🤍💗💙 🏳️‍🌈

    • @Kami-Lee
      @Kami-Lee 7 месяцев назад +1

      Moi aussi ça réchauffe le cœur

  • @marthaarrington611
    @marthaarrington611 4 года назад +2650

    me, an american, watching this: oUi

  • @phoenixweckman359
    @phoenixweckman359 4 года назад +1998

    Me: **puts on subtitles because I don’t know french**
    Texting scene: *im about to ruin this mans whole career*

    • @siobhanharnett3072
      @siobhanharnett3072 3 года назад +66

      All my friends already think I'm gay and the end screen just raised their suspicions

    • @eelio8469
      @eelio8469 3 года назад +5

      Siobhán Harnett 😂Oof

    • @eelio8469
      @eelio8469 3 года назад +23

      It showed subtitles for me during that scene

    • @pommedeter7407
      @pommedeter7407 3 года назад +62

      The texts are :
      1rst text : « thanks for the party, it was nice »
      2nd text : « no problem, it made me happy ! See you soon »
      3rd text ( the one that Victor is writing ) : « can we meet up ? »

    • @phoenixweckman359
      @phoenixweckman359 3 года назад +4

      @@pommedeter7407 thank you very much!

  • @galinavandam2701
    @galinavandam2701 3 года назад +14

    If someone called me sir i would probably cry of happiness

    • @serena8942
      @serena8942 3 года назад +2

      Oh my gosh yes, it’s the best feeling! I was working at a *girl scout* cookie booth and a customer called me sir until he realized I’m also a Girl Scout and he corrected himself (little did he know he was right the first time and it made me want to scream out of pure joy lol)

    • @-onlykvle_
      @-onlykvle_ 2 года назад

      OH MY SAME

  • @bisexualblueberry
    @bisexualblueberry Год назад +4

    The little PLEASED SMILE that SIMON DOES after saying a SLUR is MIND BOGGLIN G 9:36
    Also as someone who learnt french from my christian grandparents, parents, and school as a young child, and still only has that young child basic vocabulary because of my lack of use of French in day to day conversation, I am learning so many cusses and slurs wow

  • @sonofgabby5232
    @sonofgabby5232 3 года назад +8786

    Am I the only one that actually WANTS my mom to look through my history so I don’t have to TELL her I’m trans?

    • @clemcon501
      @clemcon501 3 года назад +287

      Yeah or find my girl stuff 🙃

    • @lemonweirdo
      @lemonweirdo 3 года назад +259

      Same but my parents know that I’m an ally so even if they did, they wouldn’t think anything

    • @tartarsauce1387
      @tartarsauce1387 3 года назад +119

      yesss omg i feel like coming out to her would just be so awkward bc its out of my comfort zone hahah

    • @-dumdino-6818
      @-dumdino-6818 3 года назад +106

      I found giving a note easiest, although I only came out as bi that time. Hooray, let's come out again 😃

    • @jaywaypeeeasassybaka3184
      @jaywaypeeeasassybaka3184 3 года назад +50

      My brother came out as gay last y , even though everybody already know since Long ago ( he was really obviously the more he tried to hide it and denies it the more obvious it was) my family never had problem with it we love him for who he is as a person as he really is the best brother and has a beautiful heart, I always wondered why won’t he tell us if he knows we love him as he is , when we were 15/16( were only 1y apart ) he really liked our guy friend from the group but that guy is straight and was dating my best friend at the time, it hurt to watch him hurt like that and him hating himself just because of who he likes, so I pulled him aside and told him ( look you know I love you and always will to me it doesn’t matter who you like) he asked me confused “what do you mean “ I said “ I know you like boys and it’s ok “ but that’s when I realised it wasn’t him who didn’t wanna tell us it’s the fact that he didn’t even admit it to himself he just started crying when I said it out loud and was repeating I’m not I’m not It’s broke me I made a mistake I wanted to help him ,for him to know that I’m on his side but I hurt him instead I didn’t know what to do and I didn’t want to make it worse so I said “oh I’m joking ha ha , jeez don’t take it seriously “ I know he know what I meant and just went along with my pathetic excuse cause it was easy, I told my parents what I did they were mad at me ,we forget about it and just waited for him to be comfortable with himself and tell us when his ready, what I mean by telling you this is don’t force yourself just do it when you’re ready I’m sure you’re parents will understand even if they don’t they are still your parents they can’t just forget the love they had for you, it may take time but I’m sure they’ll accept you cause you as yourself is the most beautiful 😊

  • @omelettechampi
    @omelettechampi 5 лет назад +971

    The french comment you're looking for.
    .. wait-

    • @lynx3556
      @lynx3556 4 года назад +10

      o u i o u i

    • @ibrahimthehobbit4982
      @ibrahimthehobbit4982 4 года назад +1

      I don't want to ruin the 669 comments-

    • @arilene
      @arilene 4 года назад +1

      bonjour ! je m’appelle leo ! mon anniversaire juliet vingt-cinq ! ❤️🧡💛💚💜💙🖤

    • @williamrice5934
      @williamrice5934 4 года назад +2

      le commentaire français que vous recherchez

    • @arilene
      @arilene 4 года назад +1

      @@williamrice5934 ooh u french ? nice 🤩

  • @marlzhal6122
    @marlzhal6122 3 года назад +6

    My French teacher was like "Watch french videos with Subtitles so you can learn French!", she never said what type of videos

  • @troublemaker_J
    @troublemaker_J Год назад +12

    Im trans and woah, hits hard for someone who also got to know abt trans in one night and EVERYTHING changed in my mind. While watching the video, I doubted myself the whole time because I didn't look so masculine before realizing this. Perhaps the parents affection
    This vid got very deep into my soul. My name is Victor too, so it was wery exciting thing to hear.

  • @robynnhoud4001
    @robynnhoud4001 4 года назад +2984

    Me, calmly watching:
    Main Character: **watches Jammidodger**
    Me: *IT’S MY BOI!*

  • @kat11523
    @kat11523 5 лет назад +1923

    A person: are you a boy or girl
    Me: yes

  • @jonbrown1385
    @jonbrown1385 2 года назад +5

    the look on vics face after he got to tell someone his pronouns literally melted my heart

  • @nikipomu
    @nikipomu 3 года назад +24

    this is. making me cry I'm going to have a gender crisis again

    • @nikipomu
      @nikipomu 3 года назад

      he's so happy at the end:(((

  • @ash8257
    @ash8257 5 лет назад +650

    me, a trans dude:
    realising I used that gender expression unicorn post, watched those exact transition videos on RUclips, wearing flannels... oh boy

    • @minemonlp7072
      @minemonlp7072 4 года назад

      Oh yes

    • @daffyhd3826
      @daffyhd3826 4 года назад

      S a m e

    • @lemonboy4035
      @lemonboy4035 4 года назад +1

      I'm a trans boy as well but im a gay trans boy so

    • @herequeer.1592
      @herequeer.1592 4 года назад +6

      So, what if you're super uncertain? I've been feeling like i wanna be a boy for months now and honestly am even though I'm a lesbain and my family "accepted" that. I'm terrified to tell them I'm trans. I DON'T EVEN KNOW IF I'M TRANS

    • @faerierealms1
      @faerierealms1 4 года назад

      Here, Queer.
      Well your trans if your trans your parents can’t stop you

  • @cjck1344
    @cjck1344 4 года назад +537

    He passes so well that when he took off his shirt I was confused for a second 😂

  • @ace_yt..
    @ace_yt.. 7 месяцев назад +4

    its so hard trying to accept the fact that im bi and people make fun of me, but seeing this video makes me want to feel more confident in myself, i love this community!

  • @shoyohinata2302
    @shoyohinata2302 2 года назад +7

    “If you’re straight then that’s great! You can make gay babies” in the song at the end really killed me it was too funny

  • @jaysartescape7653
    @jaysartescape7653 5 лет назад +2744

    Dang I’m so gay for Sora
    ...what am I talking about I’m gay for everyone

  • @ratsratats6352
    @ratsratats6352 5 лет назад +1652

    At the end: *piano starts*
    Me: I KNOW THIS SONG OML

  • @momipliersforgottenchild
    @momipliersforgottenchild 3 года назад +9

    I love how they used Jamie in the video. I love Jamie’s story

  • @1337Shockwav3
    @1337Shockwav3 2 месяца назад

    Probably my favorite LGBTQ short I've seen on youtube so far. This felt the most real, not requiring focus on big drama or overdrawn struggle in the first minutes to get attached.
    Love how the film is about queer youth/young adults, as I realized and accepted my gender in my 30s, having a different journey than kids/youths/young adults may have today.

  • @jellycat555
    @jellycat555 4 года назад +843

    HOW DID I NOT NOTICE THE TSHIRT!!! ITS LITERALLY A TRANS FLAG SWIRL

    • @arson7999
      @arson7999 4 года назад +41

      first thing I noticed ngl

    • @jellycat555
      @jellycat555 4 года назад +4

      @@arson7999 i didnt notice it at ALL when i watched it a year ago but this time??? dude how did i not see it

    • @serena8942
      @serena8942 3 года назад +1

      Lol I want that shirt

    • @irlibukimioda5156
      @irlibukimioda5156 3 года назад +3

      hold up i have that shirt, I've been struggling with gender dysphoria for a while now so could this be a sign???

    • @ayiisubs
      @ayiisubs 3 года назад

      lmOooo same

  • @imadumdum2043
    @imadumdum2043 4 года назад +1670

    I identify as gender fluid-
    **punches wall** *MORE*

    • @user-gg6ym3rh8s
      @user-gg6ym3rh8s 4 года назад +86

      *punches same wall*
      I AGREE

    • @spencecents3473
      @spencecents3473 4 года назад +108

      *punches an different wall*
      I ALSO AGREE BUT WHY ARE WE DAMAGING THINGS?

    • @user-gg6ym3rh8s
      @user-gg6ym3rh8s 4 года назад +82

      @@spencecents3473
      *punches table*
      CAUSE WE CAN

    • @sheepflock9025
      @sheepflock9025 4 года назад +68

      *Throw glass cups at the wall* HELL YEAH

    • @arilene
      @arilene 4 года назад +58

      *dONT BE SHY PUT SOME MORE*

  • @allistair9024
    @allistair9024 3 года назад +6

    Beautiful! Perfect! I love it! Nathan (the guy who plays Victor) is such a good actor. I also loved the one who played Sora. Also Sora is such a cool name. I love Victor's self discovery, and I love how he didn't hesitate to leave his ex. I had a bad feeling about his crummy bf since it seemed he just saw Victor as a piece of meat. All the actors and actresses did a wonderful job! I love the tie die trans shirt detail too.

  • @zm.4913
    @zm.4913 5 лет назад +3395

    Bro sora is the peak of perfection. He is beautiful inside and out. And the glittery eyeshadow at his party? Yes king!!

    • @finder_
      @finder_ 4 года назад +111

      ikr, and his hair was 👌

    • @ozzy760
      @ozzy760 4 года назад +69

      I love him. Sora is best boi, slay it King!

    • @zephyr4648
      @zephyr4648 4 года назад +8

      He looks like Trevor Moran

    • @christianqueer1131
      @christianqueer1131 4 года назад +36

      @@ozzy760 he is not a boy, but genderfluid.

    • @skippitydippity
      @skippitydippity 4 года назад +2

      i wanna steal his weave and

  • @non-existentfriend2219
    @non-existentfriend2219 3 года назад +876

    For anyone watching with family “if your gay then your gay” comes on at the end

    • @hi-pm8il
      @hi-pm8il 3 года назад +59

      i should've been read this before watching this video but my whole family cant speak english anyway

    • @Quinn-tt6oc
      @Quinn-tt6oc 3 года назад +12

      Well, that was a little too late🤣

    • @miasevilclonetookover2989
      @miasevilclonetookover2989 3 года назад +2

      @@hi-pm8il same lmao

    • @Thatscrayzee
      @Thatscrayzee 3 года назад +10

      @@hi-pm8il I WAS BY MY SISTER AND SHES HKMOPHOBIC

    • @logannebot8029
      @logannebot8029 3 года назад +2

      this is just perfect cause i come into the comments to see if anyone noticed that too lmao

  • @genisay
    @genisay 10 месяцев назад +4

    That moment when things just start to click for you. ❤ I identify with what I was born as, but for me this moment was when I learned that not just animals, but Humans could be asexual as well, and so many things in my life suddenly fell into place like missing puzzle pieces.

  • @__Oscar
    @__Oscar Год назад

    Thank you for making and sharing this short film. It is encouraging to see that there are other people out there like me. I came out to my parents and my dad is not super supportive, so it is nice to have support online and it helps me hope for the future :)

  • @dampbreadstick1805
    @dampbreadstick1805 4 года назад +918

    “Just go into the locker room and change.”
    Me: *Yesn’t*

  • @Sako1996
    @Sako1996 4 года назад +769

    Dude: if ur a guy get out!
    Guy: *walks out*
    Dude: 👁️👄👁️

  • @sbuggg
    @sbuggg 6 месяцев назад +3

    gender can be emotional and confusing. i really like this short film.

  • @prince_caspiian
    @prince_caspiian 9 месяцев назад +1

    i remember seeing this short film when it first came out 4 years ago and I was 13 and just starting to question my gender. Currently, I think the label that best fits me is genderfluid! thank you for making this.
    i almost cried watching again because I've come so far in my journey.
    i wish all who see this wonderful film and have a transphobic family/friend group to know that it DOES get better, I promise.

  • @currykureo
    @currykureo 3 года назад +629

    ”IF YOU’RE GAY THAN YOU’RE GAY”
    i honestly got scared-

    • @logannebot8029
      @logannebot8029 3 года назад +4

      this is just perfect cause i come into the comments to see if anyone noticed that too lmao

    • @amelialikesautumn
      @amelialikesautumn 3 года назад +7

      Jump scared me like jeez-

  • @bestmom5788
    @bestmom5788 4 года назад +2117

    "I was thinking of... Victor."
    *Me, in the background being the weaboo I am:* WE WERE BORN TO MAKE HISTORY!

  • @thepebble4121
    @thepebble4121 Год назад

    The fact that he was watching Jamies videos makes me so happy. Those videos have helped me figure out so many things about myself

  • @trevodoazar
    @trevodoazar 7 месяцев назад +1

    I want to cry seeing this. it's so good to see things done by people in my community for people in my community, it makes me happy to be who I am, a trans person :]

  • @multi-namedloser821
    @multi-namedloser821 3 года назад +3283

    When they had Jamie on the computer I was just like “hey it’s that dude I watch on RUclips! The dude!”

  • @nex7243
    @nex7243 3 года назад +2835

    We all Stan Sora he’s a real homie

  • @D4rkmoon77
    @D4rkmoon77 8 месяцев назад +5

    En tant que français(e), c'est la première fois que je vois un court métrage qui vient de France, et je trouve qu'on devrait plus en parler dans mon pays.

    • @the78je
      @the78je 7 месяцев назад +3

      Non

    • @D4rkmoon77
      @D4rkmoon77 6 месяцев назад

      @@the78jechacun son opinion

  • @auggiek445
    @auggiek445 3 года назад +1

    omg that was literally sooo cuteeee!!!! his smile at the end brought tears to my eyes 🥺❤️🥺❤️🥺❤️

  • @jayf8582
    @jayf8582 5 лет назад +657

    Basic french guy for buying a baguette and two croissants

    • @robodragonn9506
      @robodragonn9506 5 лет назад +17

      Wait omg i didnt use the subtitles for the very beginning because it was like real basic buying stuff in a shop type stuff and i know at least enough french for that (i gave up when the two dudes started saying gross shit to vic) and it wasn't until i read this comment that he got two croissants instead of two fish ("poissants")
      I literally noticed it was a bakery idk why i didnt think it was weird that he bought fish from a bakery

    • @ironicacunit
      @ironicacunit 5 лет назад +4

      @@robodragonn9506 excuse me, but are you going to finish that croissant?
      *anybody get the meme?*

    • @andyo3637
      @andyo3637 5 лет назад

      @@ironicacunit y e s lol

    • @moncul4016
      @moncul4016 5 лет назад +3

      J'suis morte 😂

    • @emmittmikhael1250
      @emmittmikhael1250 5 лет назад

      @@ironicacunit you rdy for a better meme (joke but like)
      My friend: TAKE MY CROISSANT *YEETS A CANDY CANE HARD AT ME*

  • @wawawawawawa5898
    @wawawawawawa5898 5 лет назад +346

    The end song just killed me for some reason. Just nice, quiet then all of a sudden:
    IF YOU'RE GAY-

    • @amfro4276
      @amfro4276 4 года назад +16

      THEN YOUR GAY

    • @amfro4276
      @amfro4276 4 года назад +14

      IF YOUR STRAIGHT

    • @amfro4276
      @amfro4276 4 года назад +13

      WELL THATS GREAT!

    • @amfro4276
      @amfro4276 4 года назад +7

      Lol sorry

  • @Sebarockstar
    @Sebarockstar 7 месяцев назад +3

    THE END MADE ME BURST OUT LAUGHING

  • @willowwolfinkwolfidiots
    @willowwolfinkwolfidiots 7 месяцев назад +3

    THE SMILE WHEN HE SAYS HIS PRONOUNS HES SO HAPPY FJDJSJDJDJD as a trans person this is amazing an made so wonderfully!

  • @boopp9283
    @boopp9283 2 года назад +1

    The addition of Jamie is just *chefs kiss* peak discovery process

  • @kimchi_powder6245
    @kimchi_powder6245 3 года назад +1364

    His ex-boyfriend had no reason to just
    t o s s the f-slur.

    • @salmaaaa4068
      @salmaaaa4068 3 года назад +6

      Whats the f slur?

    • @tartaufraiz
      @tartaufraiz 3 года назад +89

      French peeps use it for every fucking situation this is awful

    • @thishandleisiunavailable
      @thishandleisiunavailable 3 года назад +44

      @@salmaaaa4068 if u must know use subtitles on the argument scene, it'll be pretty obvious, then u get the 'shortened' version of it though that isn't exactly any better.

    • @ivanluciano3501
      @ivanluciano3501 3 года назад +6

      @Eva Rivest Really? Im happy now then

    • @pommedeter7407
      @pommedeter7407 3 года назад +63

      Yeah, French is pretty annoying regarding than kinda stuff. The equivalent of the F slur is LITERALLY the word than most teenagers just because they are insecure AF and they are SCARED to use a word that respect people. Disgusting. Oh and don’t get me started on pronouns, y’all English speakers have it waaay easier in that subject

  • @bokutossowlmate874
    @bokutossowlmate874 5 лет назад +387

    ending: if you’re gay, then you’re gay
    me: *laughs in silence bc grandparents are sleeping and it’s 3am*

  • @skylarwinter2596
    @skylarwinter2596 Год назад +2

    there's a secret place in my heart for this film, I come back and rewatch it often

  • @mariem8863
    @mariem8863 7 месяцев назад +6

    Je pense me servir de ce court métrage pour faire de la sensibilisation ❤ merci beaucoup pour tout ce que vous faites ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

  • @noahdraws3311
    @noahdraws3311 5 лет назад +1828

    guy: *looks on RUclips for stuff about gender*
    Me: *sees Jamie*
    Also me: I see you're a man of culture as well

    • @burdlo4687
      @burdlo4687 5 лет назад +2

      yeah,, and assigned male, unfortunately.

    • @holyshitiwascringe
      @holyshitiwascringe 5 лет назад

      überall das community Pb XD

    • @Luke-xs9vt
      @Luke-xs9vt 5 лет назад

      @@holyshitiwascringe ist halt so xD

    • @coopetbriwj768
      @coopetbriwj768 5 лет назад +10

      Ahh everything he was looking at, I looked at at some point

    • @noahdraws3311
      @noahdraws3311 5 лет назад

      @@coopetbriwj768 same

  • @edenmargaitis9085
    @edenmargaitis9085 5 лет назад +307

    me loving france even though i’m an american: “yay a french film”
    me, a queer, seeing french pride: “OH MY GOD OH MY GOD I LOVE IT AHHHH”

    • @DankoCh2
      @DankoCh2 4 года назад +3

      Hi, I am a French Transgirl.
      Yes, that's it.

    • @fifi-gc3nd
      @fifi-gc3nd 4 года назад +3

      Yeah but there’s still a lot of homophobia in France... /:

    • @fifi-gc3nd
      @fifi-gc3nd 4 года назад +1

      Odayaka bah c’est génial

    • @forgor4410
      @forgor4410 3 года назад

      French pride > america pride

  • @A_Guy_Named_Jeronimo
    @A_Guy_Named_Jeronimo 7 месяцев назад +2

    I SAW JAMMIDODGER
    As an uncracked egg I watched him all the time. He helped me come to terms with my gender, and has helped boost my confidence over the years
    Amazing short film as well, the utter joy I felt with Vic when he proudly said his pronouns at the end

  • @storm-gliderdarando5883
    @storm-gliderdarando5883 7 месяцев назад +2

    THE SONG AT THE END BAHAHA, GOTTA LOVE A GREAT BIG WORLD ✨

  • @jylii
    @jylii 5 лет назад +444

    I almost choked on my gum when I saw Jammidodger.

  • @gracefuchs275
    @gracefuchs275 5 лет назад +987

    why is nobody talking about how 2 croissants and a baguette was 2,40?

    • @steamsheep5020
      @steamsheep5020 5 лет назад +51

      Grace Fuchs yeah, it’s expensive, but I mean, this is Paris ( I think )

    • @lolavisconti1853
      @lolavisconti1853 5 лет назад +86

      it's cheap cause a baguette coast 1euro and a croissant 0.8 euro !

    • @gracefuchs275
      @gracefuchs275 5 лет назад +5

      Lola Visconti probably ,70

    • @PhsycoEarthling
      @PhsycoEarthling 5 лет назад +5

      Grace Fuchs it's probably the size or something

    • @MysteriousBeingOfLight
      @MysteriousBeingOfLight 5 лет назад +24

      @@steamsheep5020 EXPENSIVE? Where I live it's almost 15$$$$$

  • @gendercrisiswithabeanie8591
    @gendercrisiswithabeanie8591 3 года назад +4

    Omg I was so happy to see jammidoger in this video I love him

  • @sharkiezpancake
    @sharkiezpancake Год назад

    this was so beautiful, most of the time films like this have a really good message and the acting is a bit off, but this was SO GOOD, i am actually amazed!! gotta admit the “IF YOU’RE GAY, THEN YOU’RE GAY” threw me a bit off guard tho, lmao. really cool video vic is so skrunkly

  • @aloisbaire8902
    @aloisbaire8902 3 года назад +2609

    It feels so weird looking at everyone hugging without any problems...I miss it

    • @Delulu_MIMI.001
      @Delulu_MIMI.001 3 года назад +25

      IKRR

    • @Ghosting.Iguess
      @Ghosting.Iguess 3 года назад +26

      I don’t- germs. I have an excuse to tell ppl to not hug me. Though I do miss not hugs- like kisses and holding hands 😩

    • @therealshinyx9902
      @therealshinyx9902 3 года назад +3

      Right :(((

    • @pb.1803
      @pb.1803 3 года назад

      @@therealshinyx9902 greetings fellow aot fan xd

    • @rainestormee
      @rainestormee 3 года назад +1

      Same

  • @moosboeke2554
    @moosboeke2554 5 лет назад +1251

    did i just get... second hand gender euphoria from him passing?

    • @corvidryan
      @corvidryan 5 лет назад +16

      I DID

    • @perez-navasojea3063
      @perez-navasojea3063 5 лет назад +6

      same

    • @stormstreaks1148
      @stormstreaks1148 5 лет назад +6

      I RELATE WTF

    • @PastelEmoFox
      @PastelEmoFox 5 лет назад +39

      The other day someone asked my mom if I’m her son and I got so happy then my mom said “that’s my daughter”

    • @brrybinnie1541
      @brrybinnie1541 5 лет назад +17

      M Boeke SAME, I'M CLOSETED AND AM NOT CIS-PASSING BUT I FELT SO HAPPY AND COMPLETE WHEN I SAW HIM ALL HAPPY AND COMFORTABLE IN HIS LOOKS
      Edit: I was at this dentist for a tooth surgery I'm getting and the lady that does financial stuff came in and said "her her him him her her her" and "corrected" herself because she was having trouble with my pronouns and for the split second she called me "him" I felt so happy

  • @buz_zie
    @buz_zie Год назад +5

    "im a man"
    the ad: IMMA BE STRAIGHT FORWARD WITH YOU

  • @noir6171
    @noir6171 7 месяцев назад +3

    Sora is so cool, I want to be like him so much! Gender goals, he is amazing and I really love his hair and style. I'm also so happy for Victor and that he has such amazing friends

  • @papa_roach_2364
    @papa_roach_2364 3 года назад +401

    me, someone who doesn't usually cry at films, movies or TV shows: *crys when victor says "He/Him*

    • @WaffleEditsAnime
      @WaffleEditsAnime Год назад +4

      20 seconds later: IF YOURE GAY THEN YOURE DONT PRETEND THAT YOUR STRAIGHT

  • @buckybarnes8735
    @buckybarnes8735 5 лет назад +763

    I’m not trans, but I like visiting different areas of the community to say that I support and love you all 💙💜, keep being you and don’t let anyone tell you that you aren’t amazing or valuable. Stay strong 💪 💖

    • @o.lyandzberg2784
      @o.lyandzberg2784 4 года назад +54

      You may not know, but this type of comments are the most precious. Knowing you're not alone, knowing that the people like you exist and they will support you - it's very important, but knowing that there are people NOT like you and they will support you too, even if they don't really understand what you feels - that I think one of the most important parts of coming out. Thanks for this comment!

    • @vilet-eyes8049
      @vilet-eyes8049 4 года назад +10

      Aww, your so sweet💙💜 thanks for supporting!!!

    • @xy-ot6tr
      @xy-ot6tr 4 года назад +5

      Same

    • @mr-idiot
      @mr-idiot 4 года назад +7

      Oh hi Bucky and thank you

    • @DankoCh2
      @DankoCh2 4 года назад +7

      Thank you very much, this is so kind ^-^ (From a French transgender girl)

  • @michellefl6720
    @michellefl6720 7 месяцев назад

    It's just incredible, I want to express my gratitude to all the people who participated in the creation of this video

  • @RandomExpansion1
    @RandomExpansion1 Год назад +5

    Pronoms sound like a type of food not gonna lie

  • @blod9862
    @blod9862 5 лет назад +608

    Pronouns are so confusing, sorry to everybody I have ever mis-labeled

    • @samwinchester4785
      @samwinchester4785 4 года назад +85

      It’s okay to make mistakes as long as you’re trying ❤️ it’s definitely hard!

    • @blod9862
      @blod9862 4 года назад +50

      Fandoms And Sleep
      Thanks, I have bad anxiety and often feel really bad about it

    • @samwinchester4785
      @samwinchester4785 4 года назад +34

      Organic Water oh of course! All you have to do is try, and that’s enough. It’s hard, and confusing, and honest to goodness I will fight anyone who gets mad at you for making a mistake. Mistakes are natural, and that’s fine!

    • @catalayalafaye5337
      @catalayalafaye5337 4 года назад +6

      My friend is in a relationship with a non binary person and I still don't know which pronon I should use.

    • @mr-idiot
      @mr-idiot 4 года назад +6

      @@catalayalafaye5337 I think you should ask. It's better to ask and then use the right ones that get it wrong because you didn't know/didn't ask