My expectation of Marriage vs Reality

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  • Опубликовано: 30 май 2024

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  • @vanshikabindal1734
    @vanshikabindal1734 Месяц назад +15334

    I did not expect this kinds twist😭😭. Stop raising our expectations 😭😭

    • @mii_7093
      @mii_7093 Месяц назад +339

      A right guy will do this. My husband let me sleep when I'm too tired while he help settle the house chores and taking care of the baby in the same time.

    • @juliashireen6195
      @juliashireen6195 Месяц назад +20

      IKR

    • @vanshikabindal1734
      @vanshikabindal1734 Месяц назад

      @@mii_7093then ur very very lucky! Congratulations love

    • @mii_7093
      @mii_7093 Месяц назад +121

      But this kind of husband comes with a wife that's always help him be a better person, teach him and be patient.

    • @mii_7093
      @mii_7093 Месяц назад +82

      Men are men but a good men will never want to be anybody else's problem

  • @lbarcs896
    @lbarcs896 Месяц назад +8980

    One in a million rare gem these days. This is the definition of taking care of each other in marriage.

    • @MalayPanTV
      @MalayPanTV  Месяц назад +582

      Really? I thought it's becoming more and more common these days. As I notice his friends would do the same

    • @nurulain2290
      @nurulain2290 Месяц назад

      It actually depends on the individual​@@MalayPanTV

    • @Trailblazer839
      @Trailblazer839 Месяц назад +31

      Only in america

    • @subscribeburntrivers
      @subscribeburntrivers Месяц назад

      @@Trailblazer839The guy is Malaysian though

    • @mika-rawr
      @mika-rawr Месяц назад +240

      @@MalayPanTVa person’s friends are a reflection of themselves, so maybe your husband and his friends are all rare haha.

  • @talysharawlins94
    @talysharawlins94 10 дней назад +629

    His parents deserve a shout out. That young man was raised right. 👏

    • @scorpionwins6378
      @scorpionwins6378 7 дней назад +11

      In western culture he would be classified as a simp.

    • @bensisko-theemissary4940
      @bensisko-theemissary4940 7 дней назад +7

      Naaa, she will divorce him after a while because he is too FEMININE. She has a wife

    • @Pomagranite167
      @Pomagranite167 6 дней назад +19

      @benisko-theemissary4940 you wish she would so you could get a chance with her but sadly for you, i think she really enjoys her "feminine", helpful, caring husband.

    • @MsTachke
      @MsTachke 6 дней назад +1

      He really was.

    • @bensisko-theemissary4940
      @bensisko-theemissary4940 6 дней назад

      @@Pomagranite167 Nope, give it time. He gonna be lined up right behind SIMPS like Destiny. We see how some of you ladies operate.

  • @user-ltz
    @user-ltz 24 дня назад +159

    At first, I thought the 'expectations' and 'reality' labels were exchanged

  • @christywilliams5636
    @christywilliams5636 Месяц назад +1818

    Cute. It’s nice to see someone talking good about their husband instead of making them into a joke :) good job

    • @LuanaSantos-rl4sb
      @LuanaSantos-rl4sb 28 дней назад +79

      well he is not a joke like so maaaany husbands so...

    • @yahsharelscrown7647
      @yahsharelscrown7647 27 дней назад +67

      Maybe if they didn't behave like Jokes?

    • @sweetbnuy
      @sweetbnuy 26 дней назад +44

      That's because he isnt a joke.

    • @PureRythm
      @PureRythm 25 дней назад +14

      ​@@LuanaSantos-rl4sbas if the wives are smh better all over...
      Ik many husbands are terrible partners, but many of them are like that cause of their terrible wives, iydkt...🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @PureRythm
      @PureRythm 25 дней назад +12

      ​@@yahsharelscrown7647maybe if their wives treated them better...they wouldn't be.🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @Poopick
    @Poopick Месяц назад +1699

    Married life should be a shared experience. Not dumping everything on one side

    • @daysofend
      @daysofend 24 дня назад +22

      Tell that to the tradbros

    • @innerself3796
      @innerself3796 24 дня назад +29

      Marriage should be whatever the people involved say it is.

    • @Poopick
      @Poopick 23 дня назад +3

      @@daysofend where are they so i can tell them?

    • @Poopick
      @Poopick 23 дня назад +5

      @@innerself3796 are you married?

    • @innerself3796
      @innerself3796 22 дня назад +4

      @@Poopick For over 25 years before he passed.

  • @infiniteblissco
    @infiniteblissco 26 дней назад +16

    My Croatian husband is like this and it truly is a blessing in disguise. After 10 years of soul searching and quite a few toxic, narcissistic relationships. Unlearning what I thought love was through abusive relationships, learnt to love myself and put my damn self first, and then having mofo high expectations. I wasn't about to settle for less than I brought to the table and knew I deserved. After spending 2 years in a narcissistic relationship, only to breakup and heal, quickly after my now husband appeared. Who is meant for you truly will never pass you by, you might just gotta wait for some time 😅but the wait was well worth it, and now I'll experience this magical bliss with my husband, and we are soon to be first time parents to twins this year. Life is blessed! Happy for you girl 💜❤good men are truly rare gems these days.

  • @likethecolorgreen
    @likethecolorgreen 24 дня назад +29

    You got a best friend. Treat him like a king.

  • @fithrijasmin6786
    @fithrijasmin6786 Месяц назад +3498

    he’s setting the bar pretty high for other malaysian husbands 🤣

    • @MalayPanTV
      @MalayPanTV  Месяц назад +240

      Hahaha not really!!! I feel like Malaysian men are all so kind and helpful towards women

    • @naylisyazwina6836
      @naylisyazwina6836 Месяц назад +102

      @@MalayPanTVI’m Malaysian and I think there are a lot of divorce and abuse in Malaysian men. A lot of women in my family went through it or cheating not abuse

    • @Melon-ALL-Free
      @Melon-ALL-Free Месяц назад

      ​Then how bout women who act like fucking asshole towards her husband? Especially when they did have good, loving, caring, honest or most importantly LOYAL yet guess what? They get cheated as well. Abusing child while he is at work and so on. Women can be real nasty too stop pinning all the blame to us won't you? Divorce won't happen either if your wife don't act like a hoe. Despite that there also many unspoken marriages that still work. So yeah world aren't as bleak as you thought actually. It still fucking suck tho.

    • @legoomcircle
      @legoomcircle Месяц назад

      actually you need to compare with current japanese generation. Mens there to compare to ours, yes we won in term of respect to women@@naylisyazwina6836

    • @MissyUna-om7yc
      @MissyUna-om7yc Месяц назад

      ​@@naylisyazwina6836depends on. In my family i have 5 sister. All have happy marriage and my father still romantic towards my mom.he jokes a lot.im malay btw. Dont stereotype all marriage are the same just because circumstances surrounding. Wish u happiness 😊

  • @KN-cs8dp
    @KN-cs8dp Месяц назад +894

    My Malay Malaysian husband is like this too and after i gave birth, he learned to cook just to make sure i get to eat the best foods during my confinement ❤

    • @lucifero9077
      @lucifero9077 Месяц назад +1

      what race are you?

    • @IVvOOvVI
      @IVvOOvVI 28 дней назад

      @@lucifero9077 Malaysians

    • @ItlswhatItls
      @ItlswhatItls 25 дней назад +11

      @@lucifero9077 what a weird comment lol

    • @ayeshajamil6023
      @ayeshajamil6023 24 дня назад +2

      I also see Malaysians they also like this example. Watching from johor

    • @dekev7503
      @dekev7503 23 дня назад +4

      @@lucifero9077what a stupid question 😮

  • @julietli7970
    @julietli7970 24 дня назад +27

    Your husband is a rare gem! Love and treasure him!

  • @Stephanie.101
    @Stephanie.101 20 дней назад +4

    I’m crying 😭 I hope I have a partner who wants to do everything with me and for me as much as I want to do everything with him and for him too ❤❤❤❤

  • @MalayPanTV
    @MalayPanTV  Месяц назад +3501

    Before I get many comments that this is staged. Yes, some parts are indeed staged for this reels. But it's the only way I can show how he is really like at home 😅
    He really is like this and it amazed me how well Malaysian guys takes care of their partners ❤

    • @keribrahim
      @keribrahim Месяц назад +223

      nah, you just lucky. normally husband is lazy lol

    • @terrorblade251
      @terrorblade251 Месяц назад +55

      My father is also the same 😄😄

    • @terence3004
      @terence3004 Месяц назад

      Get me another Japanese wifey too

    • @Mister_Ri_MFBMT
      @Mister_Ri_MFBMT Месяц назад

      Of course we knew this was staged. Re-enacted to be more precise.

    • @hanayuuki790
      @hanayuuki790 Месяц назад +150

      Not everyone haha. You're lucky. He loves and care for you so much. Perhaps he was raised right or he doesn't want his wife to end up like his mum, i dont know. Or maybe he is just nice and helpful.

  • @mimikyu3347
    @mimikyu3347 Месяц назад +269

    it's nice to see positive marriage content 🥺 so cute !!

  • @shennettamack
    @shennettamack 27 дней назад +12

    brought tears to my eyes....sooo sweet! you two are an inspiration

  • @ladycryptoshop
    @ladycryptoshop 4 дня назад +3

    Same girl same. My man exceeded my expectations. Kudos to the parents who raise their sons right that make you want to give them the world! ❤

  • @cathycallendar7982
    @cathycallendar7982 29 дней назад +235

    Girl, you won the jackpot!! In other words you won a PRIZE!🎉🎉🎉

    • @blancaflores2276
      @blancaflores2276 9 дней назад

      Lol. Is not real! It's in her dreams 😅😅

    • @cathycallendar7982
      @cathycallendar7982 9 дней назад +1

      @@blancaflores2276 of course, that's the only place it would actually happen. 🤣🤣🤣

    • @blancaflores2276
      @blancaflores2276 9 дней назад

      @@cathycallendar7982 problem is some people believe it and start fights with their spouse etc.

    • @lornarettig3215
      @lornarettig3215 6 дней назад

      Isn’t it sad, that simply ‘absence of being a lazy slob’ is enough for us to get surprised and excited about 🙇🏼‍♀️

    • @Billy-bc8pk
      @Billy-bc8pk 6 дней назад

      @@lornarettig3215 If 80% of men weren't invisible to women, there would be nothing to be surprised about, given that many aren't lazy slobs. But sadly, only Chad/Tyrone get your attention.

  • @21anis
    @21anis Месяц назад +732

    This should be normalised! I'm grateful my husband also helps around the house with chores, I never have to worry about washing clothes and taking the trash out he'd do it without me telling him to.

    • @michellewhitehead7053
      @michellewhitehead7053 26 дней назад +1

      Same

    • @JoiceVaderd
      @JoiceVaderd 26 дней назад +7

      Damn. I cook, clean, do laundry, pay for hair and nails and my wife still complains that I work too much

    • @keroki932
      @keroki932 26 дней назад +21

      He doesn't "help" he does his part as a functioning adult

    • @keroki932
      @keroki932 26 дней назад +3

      ​@JoiceVaderd well then listen. She probably misses you.

    • @JoiceVaderd
      @JoiceVaderd 26 дней назад +4

      @@keroki932 Perhaps. She did enjoy the date I took us on, last night. She didn't expect it.

  • @EerieUniverse
    @EerieUniverse 7 дней назад +1

    Treating her like a QUEEN!! ❤

  • @BunnyRabit-yo3lx
    @BunnyRabit-yo3lx 27 дней назад +4

    Oh no! Most of had it the other way around.😂 I'm glad your marriage is a good one!

  • @maklongbacaapa628
    @maklongbacaapa628 Месяц назад +626

    Thank you to his mother... To raised him so well... ❤❤❤

    • @MalayPanTV
      @MalayPanTV  Месяц назад +143

      Indeed ♥️ I was surprised when he offered to wash the toilet seat everytime 😂 can't complain when he doesn't aim properly anymore

    • @clairefoo4783
      @clairefoo4783 Месяц назад +13

      ​@@MalayPanTVoops... you just revealed his P&C...😂

    • @Willygman
      @Willygman Месяц назад +10

      Damn just had to leave out his father

    • @ahbakare
      @ahbakare 28 дней назад +10

      Sure, his father has nothing to do with his upbringing. His mum was his role model of what a husband should be!

    • @hobomike6935
      @hobomike6935 27 дней назад +1

      Sorry, *not* cutting hair.
      I’ll do the rest of those chores no problem. but if you have me become your personal barber 💈 you’ll end up having to pay extra money to hire a real one to undo the damage….

  • @Kuldeep-qm3xk
    @Kuldeep-qm3xk Месяц назад +494

    "Do you / do you not trust me with your hair" line LoL.😅

  • @Iseeyou0165
    @Iseeyou0165 28 дней назад +2

    I'm Malaysian Chinese and my dad is like this to my mother too :')

  • @camilleudan7552
    @camilleudan7552 13 дней назад +4

    So cute!! I love that the REALITY IS BEYOND THE EXPECTATIONS 😍 Yes to this!!!!

  • @johnatutahi9757
    @johnatutahi9757 Месяц назад +821

    She's one of the lucky Japanese women to find a really nice husband, and it had to be a foreigner🇲🇾. Japanese culture is such a beautiful culture but is not very nice to females. So enjoy your happy marriage to your Malaysian husband.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @MalayPanTV
      @MalayPanTV  Месяц назад +216

      You are actually right about this! I think that's why we really appreciate it when we see men doing all these things for us. It's very different!!

    • @shannenchin9825
      @shannenchin9825 Месяц назад +40

      You are the lucky one. Not all Malaysian husband do these. 😂

    • @thecowegg
      @thecowegg Месяц назад +3

      @@shannenchin9825don’t think there’s any Japanese hand that does this at all 😂

    • @Emerald7779
      @Emerald7779 Месяц назад +34

      @@thecoweggyou can’t generalise. It depends on their upbringing. My Japanese husband does all these and we have been married for 9 years

    • @thecowegg
      @thecowegg Месяц назад +13

      @@Emerald7779 Another Gem...good for you 👍

  • @juliastafflersjourney
    @juliastafflersjourney 28 дней назад +38

    I love this! Usually these type of videos are full of stereotyps and frustration but this is so wholesome 😊

  • @EbonyRivers1
    @EbonyRivers1 27 дней назад +1

    That hair turned out wonderful!❤❤

  • @oncewasblind4292
    @oncewasblind4292 8 дней назад +3

    "Do you or do you not trust me with your hair?" is now perhap the manliest thing I've ever heard. Up there with "Come with me if you want to live."

  • @jillktsm
    @jillktsm Месяц назад +39

    My husband is so much better than me in cleaning but I’m better in cooking/food prep 😅. He is also better at managing money but I’m better at getting shit done when it comes to working with others. So we do what we are best at.

    • @cmm5542
      @cmm5542 29 дней назад +10

      You sound like the perfect team!

  • @chuen388888
    @chuen388888 Месяц назад +65

    Good man who was brought up right. Respect to you brother

  • @sukiBambina
    @sukiBambina 26 дней назад +2

    Soooo cute. My uncle just passed and he loved my aunt just like this. God bless. 🙏🏼

  • @CyraGetsFit
    @CyraGetsFit 5 дней назад +1

    You got a good one!! His parents raised him well!!

  • @LudwigVanBeethoven17
    @LudwigVanBeethoven17 Месяц назад +69

    You restored my faith in marriage perhaps now I can sob in a corner since I already took a oath not to get married.

    • @zagangamer2981
      @zagangamer2981 29 дней назад +5

      Why ? it's your choice nobody can stop you

    • @LudwigVanBeethoven17
      @LudwigVanBeethoven17 29 дней назад +5

      @@zagangamer2981 ya you're probably right, I commented that to get some attention 😂 no cap

    • @tesladrew2608
      @tesladrew2608 24 дня назад +1

      ​@@LudwigVanBeethoven17lmao

  • @lede1810
    @lede1810 Месяц назад +92

    The best marriages are where people are team players and strive to make each other happy and work together towards common goals. My first husband was exactly like the expectation scenario, leaving dishes near the dishwasher but never inside it because it would “hurt his back” to bend for 5 seconds, and asking if I’ve washed his clothes. I hated his immaturity and left him as a result

    • @mbrilliB
      @mbrilliB 20 дней назад +4

      You did the right thing by not continuing to put yourself is such an environment an person

    • @rue2003
      @rue2003 9 дней назад +1

      Leaving mine soon as circumstances allow:)

  • @lanalou2749
    @lanalou2749 28 дней назад +2

    They have more like these in the store?? 😂😂😂😂😂.... Definitely not the usual model!! 😅

  • @tericollier8232
    @tericollier8232 26 дней назад +1

    I definitely have been through the expectations era. It's makes a huge difference when you find someone who really likes, wants and loves to be living life with you. I love that your reality turned out to be better.

  • @Notyourplainjane
    @Notyourplainjane Месяц назад +21

    May god protect ur marriage at all cost! U guys are classified as endangered species! Too freaking damn rare!!

  • @jjeti798
    @jjeti798 29 дней назад +38

    My husband and I share the chores at home, too. Of course, it can't be equal all the time. Depends on our workload since we're both working from home. But I'm happy I got a husband who doesn't expect his wife to do all the chores. My ex fiance was the "expectation" in the vid. I missed that bullet.

  • @lmendez1289
    @lmendez1289 10 дней назад

    My husband is like this. He's also the best dad ever!! Having a baby together has been wonderful. I never went through sleep deprivation or overwhelm, he's always around taking care of both of us. Plus, remote working is a blessing.

  • @A25665
    @A25665 20 дней назад

    Girl, you just got lucky!😭🤧
    Usually the expectation(you've shown) is how the reality looks like🥲😭

  • @jonathanfu3437
    @jonathanfu3437 Месяц назад +71

    You are so blessed! His love language is expressed as act of service towards you

  • @JuriBinturong
    @JuriBinturong Месяц назад +31

    Outstanding, his love language is taking care of his wife.

  • @NhuLe-cm3nw
    @NhuLe-cm3nw 27 дней назад

    This is really wholesome. Usually these are lowkey shady to the partner, I love that this uplifted yours.

  • @jdprettynails
    @jdprettynails 24 дня назад +1

    I can’t….the cuteness….my poor cold dead heart…stop making me feel things!!!

  • @MultiYoungMi
    @MultiYoungMi Месяц назад +12

    If you're partner love you, they will treat you as good as they want them to be treated 😊❤
    Grateful for having lovely husband too ❤❤❤

  • @hanayuuki790
    @hanayuuki790 Месяц назад +217

    Damn he is such a good husband. Someone who actually appreciates and care for his wife. The comments who say women are meant to do those chores alone, I hope you dont end up with anyone. Nobody wants a boy for a husband.

    • @S-Y-Z
      @S-Y-Z Месяц назад

      Unless you’re a tradwife. 🤭

  • @baby_dahl162
    @baby_dahl162 12 дней назад

    I'm shook... This warmed my heart.

  • @JustLex98
    @JustLex98 10 дней назад

    I truly hope he stays like that forever. Mine started off that way and turned it back on me when I had our daughter.

  • @cheoarts
    @cheoarts Месяц назад +37

    itu maknanya dia berkahwin dengan orang yang tepat.

  • @2710TK
    @2710TK Месяц назад +14

    You got so lucky girl. I wish I could be so blessed as to find such a kindhearted man as this ❤

  • @gloryomaduvie2631
    @gloryomaduvie2631 18 дней назад +1

    Kudos to your mother-in-law. She raised a husband and not just a man.

    • @MalayPanTV
      @MalayPanTV  18 дней назад

      Yes!! His mom is really nice 🥹 I see why he grew up well

  • @cutesythings
    @cutesythings 14 дней назад +2

    My United States American husband is similar to this too. A lot of them are, but the media likes to make it seem otherwise. 💚💚

    • @Emilyrest
      @Emilyrest 7 дней назад

      As an American girl that is in her 20s that wants to get married one day, seeing this comment gave me hope. 🤍

  • @Speculate173
    @Speculate173 Месяц назад +37

    Us foreign Western and European men need to step it up.🔥

    • @stephaniefoster1964
      @stephaniefoster1964 25 дней назад +1

      There's a show on HGTV called Help! I Wrecked my House, about people who think they can watch RUclips videos and do a full renovation _ or they lucked out with the contractor they hired, who ended up wrecking the house. There was one episode, an Indian-American guy paid for a renovation of his mother's house, so she could host family visiting from India. Even the host, Jasmine Roth, said at the end, he set the bar high for looking after mom; [the dominant culture] sons need to step up to the plate!

    • @crazedvole
      @crazedvole 21 день назад +4

      Gotta have someone worth stepping up for.

    • @xejelah
      @xejelah 19 дней назад +3

      @@crazedvole or you could just stay single

    • @crazedvole
      @crazedvole 19 дней назад +1

      @@xejelah Yes we can.Men are flexible like that.

    • @Dr.JulieJames
      @Dr.JulieJames 18 дней назад +2

      @@crazedvole Nope a man is this way because he chooses to be this way..

  • @Rosarossa.0_0.
    @Rosarossa.0_0. Месяц назад +7

    The "do u or do u not trust me with ur hair" ❤ he like such a reliable guy 😢

  • @a.l8061
    @a.l8061 8 дней назад

    My husband is like this everyday. I work longer hours than him, so he always tells me to rest. Love that man.

  • @OrchidTingz
    @OrchidTingz 14 дней назад +2

    This is beautiful and a blessing marriage is NOT perfect and fairytaleish all the time but it can be healthy, safe, beneficial, wonderful, and reciprocal if both people are committed, healthy, honorable, and wise in mind & heart!
    Healthy lasting marriage is possible ❤️

  • @twilightdemon7004
    @twilightdemon7004 Месяц назад +22

    Wow I want this type of relationship in the future. This looks so peaceful absolutely heaven hahaha. This is inspiring 👍

    • @sammyb1651
      @sammyb1651 Месяц назад +4

      It looks like master and servant. If thats "inspiring" then you're probably a very selfish person.

    • @JadeVamp1986
      @JadeVamp1986 27 дней назад +4

      ​@@sammyb1651It's been the other way around (like the beginning of the video) for women of all generations but no one has ever said "looks like master and servant" yet when a man does his part in the domestic labor as he should as a grown ass adult & PARTNER in a marriage you foolishly claim he's being treated as a slave... Hmm. Weird...🤔

    • @sammyb1651
      @sammyb1651 27 дней назад +1

      @@JadeVamp1986 Simply not true I'm afraid. Plus women generally select for men who work harder than them at career ("what do you do for a living?" being the classic female first date question) so it's only fair that a woman does more domestic work. 👍

    • @JadeVamp1986
      @JadeVamp1986 27 дней назад

      ​@@sammyb1651 Ew. Found the misogynist! Stay single! You don't deserve the privilege of a woman in your life if all you're going to do is use her. 🖕

    • @Fenestration526
      @Fenestration526 6 дней назад

      She doesn't help out at my job though, should I be mad at that?

  • @jess_bounce
    @jess_bounce Месяц назад +11

    They need to show this in schools ☺️

  • @Kuroshitsuji0Ciel
    @Kuroshitsuji0Ciel 7 дней назад

    this is like my boyfriend... I told him I hate doing dishes so he said he would do it if we move in. Now we have moved in for 2 years I have not washed a single plate, even my tea cups are washed by him. so ladies, if a man truly loves you he would help/do things to make you happy!

  • @justinkedgetor5949
    @justinkedgetor5949 9 дней назад

    Holy christ her hair came out amazing

  • @crisdiaz67
    @crisdiaz67 Месяц назад +47

    My husband is the other way around 😅

    • @awjames1121
      @awjames1121 Месяц назад +2

      Why are you complaining that he didn't treat you well,,?.

    • @MalayPanTV
      @MalayPanTV  Месяц назад +7

      Haha oh no 🤭🤭

    • @husnaliyana8393
      @husnaliyana8393 Месяц назад +23

      ​@@awjames1121 what are they supposed to do then?
      Talk it out with their husband and/or seek couple therapy?
      Try that with an egoistic, authoritative & stubborn husband who treats their wife like a subhuman or sxx maid bot
      Or suck it up? Cuz their husband turns out (or decides) to be a jerk after marriage, unlike the dating phase
      Or divorce them? Hopefully they still don't have kids and/or pressure from their families and/or society to keep their marriage
      Is it wrong for people to voice out their complaint to relieve the burden they're bearing a bit?
      Just because society tells you to keep it inside and deal with it on your own when you really need help doesn't make it the right thing to do

    • @sammyb1651
      @sammyb1651 Месяц назад +4

      So in other words your husband is like the wife in this video? People seem to think this is a great relationship..so just be his servant and your relationship will also be great! :)

    • @szewei85
      @szewei85 Месяц назад +3

      ​@@sammyb16512 each its own hahaha

  • @folie13
    @folie13 Месяц назад +4

    The only way someone would be my husband: they do their share of chores, and so do I. They dont "help" me. They do their part. I do my part. We both live here :)
    I'm glad you found someone like that!

    • @Fenestration526
      @Fenestration526 6 дней назад

      From a man's perspective that would be unfair because you have the opportunity throughout the day to do your chores while his have to wait until he gets home

  • @Time4change111
    @Time4change111 10 дней назад +1

    He's a keeper!!❤

  • @ruseenajohnson2103
    @ruseenajohnson2103 9 дней назад

    This is like watching a fairytale. I'm so happy for you.

  • @abdulrahimbs3101
    @abdulrahimbs3101 Месяц назад +25

    Wow 220K subscribers. Congratulations !Tahniah ! Gōngxǐ nǐ ! Omedetō !

    • @MalayPanTV
      @MalayPanTV  Месяц назад +3

      Thank you for following us!! Yes, we are just so grateful to see our numbers grow 😭😭

  • @irfaniqbalbinabdulmalekmoe9495
    @irfaniqbalbinabdulmalekmoe9495 Месяц назад +12

    We malaysians are always freling responsible and we help others in need,especially their love one❤

    • @aimisakee5446
      @aimisakee5446 Месяц назад

      Owh no. Not my exes. All they do is spent my money.

  • @adwoa8454
    @adwoa8454 28 дней назад +1

    Awesome twist....I wish...I got your expectations 😔

  • @murinechan1061
    @murinechan1061 12 дней назад

    He's absolutely one in a million and prayerfully, he stays that way for you🎉

  • @goodguyaus
    @goodguyaus Месяц назад +5

    I too would like to pamper my wife like this (gotta find a girlfriend first 😄)

  • @zahar027
    @zahar027 Месяц назад +19

    For context: many Japanese married women handles most of the house chores, from doing dishes, managing kids, cooking, cleaning, housekeeping.
    So it's a new experience for Ari marrying a Malaysian man since most Malaysian man actually do the house chores

    • @EnderViBrittania
      @EnderViBrittania Месяц назад +6

      You ignore that Japanese men are busy earning the money. Typical one-sided story.

    • @chinthengfong1598
      @chinthengfong1598 Месяц назад +2

      ​@@EnderViBrittaniaActually is toxic working environment....they can off duty at the right time, but the bosses and the seniors refraining them go back earlier or meeting after duty or stay somewhere until late then go back home late night

    • @MalayPanTV
      @MalayPanTV  Месяц назад +2

      Yes!! You actually did explain it well 🥰

    • @MalayPanTV
      @MalayPanTV  Месяц назад +10

      You are right! Women in Japan are traditional told to take care of the house while men find money. But now a days women has to work too 😢

  • @skinnyrie
    @skinnyrie 7 дней назад

    This is absolutely beautiful to see!!!

  • @cerberusserberus8488
    @cerberusserberus8488 23 дня назад +1

    The prettiest woman is a happy one and she is glowing

  • @XmollyL0L1
    @XmollyL0L1 Месяц назад +4

    Same. 😂 I feel lucky have a partner that have the same vibe. Like malaysian said "seronok bila dpt pasangan sekufu" 😊

  • @cucumberfishy
    @cucumberfishy Месяц назад +5

    So sweet!!! This is definitely relationship goals! Match made in heaven

  • @TobaMansury-nh3gu
    @TobaMansury-nh3gu 27 дней назад

    Rare gem. U hit the jackpot

  • @randomfish18
    @randomfish18 22 дня назад

    My husband says marriage is a team effort, and he applies that philosophy to everything in our life. I love my man!

  • @kamalila4320
    @kamalila4320 Месяц назад +3

    Betul dh ni..kt bukan nak cari suami or isteri sahaja kt nak cari pasangan hidup dan peneman hidup..😊

  • @Hellibra
    @Hellibra Месяц назад +11

    Its quite common among Malaysian husbands to help with the houseworks nowadays. A dear friend who is a professor goes home and cooks for the children. The wife who is a doctor does not cook. My younger brother worked in the kampong, cleaned the house inside and outside, raised the children, cooked for food business, do kampong jobs. That made the children very closed to him and obedient. My older brother who was a teacher, and wife also a teacher, do the laundry, but not good in anything else.

  • @stickman2012
    @stickman2012 26 дней назад

    This is so wholesome.

  • @deepthijayaprakash6092
    @deepthijayaprakash6092 24 дня назад

    Moral of the story.. don't expect anything great and you won't be disappointed!

  • @stargazeronesixseven
    @stargazeronesixseven Месяц назад +5

    😊🙏 Arisa must Thank You Good Angels , Good Gods & Goddesses & Enlightened Beings more for your Lucky Life! 🌷🌿🌍✌💜🕊🇲🇾🇯🇵

  • @pvaishnavi8615
    @pvaishnavi8615 Месяц назад +12

    That's wonderful❤

  • @Hello_Kitty_Fan
    @Hello_Kitty_Fan 19 дней назад

    Thats really sweet! So happy you guys are able to do these things together ^^

  • @Warrior23-u2d
    @Warrior23-u2d 12 дней назад

    Oh, same 😅. I expected a lot less than I've got! I never clean the toilets

  • @Miaa.1511
    @Miaa.1511 Месяц назад +12

    Wow your husband not lazy if me i will get easily lazy lol🗿

  • @juliusteo
    @juliusteo Месяц назад +4

    He truly loves you! 😊
    or maybe you don't do it as well as he does hahah

    • @MalayPanTV
      @MalayPanTV  Месяц назад +3

      😂😂 Maybe he secretly can't stand how I do things

  • @princessbamigboye
    @princessbamigboye 26 дней назад

    Honestly. It's videos like these that make me look forward to marriage 🥹🩵

  • @veronicadavanzo2064
    @veronicadavanzo2064 8 дней назад

    He is a gem!

  • @rafisahanum3621
    @rafisahanum3621 Месяц назад +7

    My husband cmni weh...aku kdg rasa mcm isteri xguna.. hahaha 🤣🤣 tp dia yg nk buat semua..aku xsuruh pun..dia masak sendiri sbb dia xmkn pedas..dia ckp aku masak pedas..haha 😹 kain baju semua dia basuh weh.. alhamdulillah la dpt rezeki suami yg function..

  • @knowledgefirst2028
    @knowledgefirst2028 Месяц назад +5

    If you are a Japanese guy watching this, you are awesome just the way you are! Remember, navigating a relationship is about equity. If you truly respect your friends and female partner as an equal, everything else will fall into place. Empathy, communication, true love, and mutual understanding will carry you through the more mundane aspects of a relationship.
    Japanese men face rejection at the hands of stereotypes and personal anecdotes about their socio-cultural role in society. Japanese men are individuals and live beyond the stereotypes that people (Japanese women included) place on them!
    Context: the IG description (which I would consider discriminatory, given the common knowledge of the stereotypes Japanese men face and the call to action. You can't pursue individualistic desires, then claim that a certain nationality of men is collectively more worthy of praise than your own. It's not respecting Japanese men's individuality; it's "escaping" them. It's discrimination).

  • @najmat-ad-din
    @najmat-ad-din 2 дня назад

    I was expecting the other way round😂 this is gorgeous ❤

  • @HoneyBee0316
    @HoneyBee0316 12 дней назад

    That's my husband, he cares about my feelings and well being. I'm blessed and so thankful for his help ❤️

  • @konte641
    @konte641 Месяц назад +3

    2 likes 0 comments is wild. I thought your contents are being stolen by other channels.

  • @Denji-ju7wx
    @Denji-ju7wx 6 дней назад +1

    Your reality is expectation and expectation is reality for most of the people.😅

  • @shaylahope6345
    @shaylahope6345 27 дней назад

    Awee made my day ✨🌻🌺🪷✨ thank y’all!!! I absolutely adore this.

  • @vlsay4what
    @vlsay4what 22 дня назад

    Marriage is a blessing! Best decision my husband and I ever made was getting married 13 years ago!!!

  • @maxgermain4408
    @maxgermain4408 21 день назад

    This made my day!! Thank you for sharing! It's wonderful to see such positivity! 😊

  • @UdodinmaIkechukwu
    @UdodinmaIkechukwu 8 дней назад

    Exactly the reality I thought of!!
    Great stuff here!

  • @tanakamlambo1296
    @tanakamlambo1296 22 дня назад

    You better thank this man’s mother and father real good!

  • @RodP0351
    @RodP0351 6 дней назад

    Bro dead as I be doing dishes washing my sons bottles haha and everything and I don’t think I’ve ever stopped to question what is she doing? I wanna do it. There are men out there that wanna actually do things. Keep us busy. Keep us productive. Keep us moving.