An Autistic Man with Schizophrenia and Psychosis (Blurred Lines Between Reality and Hallucination)

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  • @dreaMakerOne
    @dreaMakerOne 3 года назад +5221

    -How can you tell that I'm your friend?
    -Because you're real.
    oh my god, that struck me

    • @syedabdulhanan3127
      @syedabdulhanan3127 3 года назад +51

      That struck me too ....

    • @squizzyicetea
      @squizzyicetea 3 года назад +107

      I know. He's a strong dude.

    • @coliaccountcoliaccount2339
      @coliaccountcoliaccount2339 3 года назад +20

      When he means real it means your being real to him *puts shades on*

    • @heysaucemikehere1804
      @heysaucemikehere1804 3 года назад +18

      There’s something about that like that got to me too. I think it’s because it can be hard to comprehend different conditions, but that line really helped me understand a little bit better. He’s such a beautiful and strong person 💕

    • @walexander8378
      @walexander8378 3 года назад +13

      That's right. It puts things in perspective. Don't take people for granted

  • @ChickenFerLei
    @ChickenFerLei 3 года назад +3700

    I can’t imagine how exhausting it must be to constantly fight with your mind everyday… you can tell he really tries and what a wonderful family he has to be there for him like that. God bless him!

    • @gustavocardoso5187
      @gustavocardoso5187 3 года назад +52

      And how much stronger his mother is, you know. To be care and tryng to keep him feeling safe with yourself. Anyway, i'll keep to cry tears of joy

    • @gildeanyvieira312
      @gildeanyvieira312 3 года назад +9

      Amém 🙏

    • @DerrickSchneider
      @DerrickSchneider 3 года назад +20

      Having schizophrenia is so awful.. I don't have autism but I can't imagine what both at the same time is like. It breaks my heart that people font take these things seriously enough in this world. Mental Illness is so important for others to understand more about.. my heart hearts so much for others struggling as well cuz it hits so hard. 💔

    • @TSUNAMI-MAMI
      @TSUNAMI-MAMI 3 года назад +13

      Yeah you can tell he is very mentally strong. Fighting those distractions and the fear of being in between two different worlds you can’t tell which one is real must be so exhausting and disorienting. I think many people can’t fathom that reality and would not be able to keep it together and use coping skills so well like this. His momma loves him so much, you can tell she’s sad about his struggles but she’s so supportive/proud of him. She’s very in tune with her son

    • @KayDot_40
      @KayDot_40 3 года назад

      I can't imagine how exhausting it must be for my D to fight with your cat everyday. You're gorgeous.

  • @venessalizabeth
    @venessalizabeth 3 года назад +5864

    “That’s absolutely a-okay!” What an angel.

  • @isabelamascarenhas
    @isabelamascarenhas 3 года назад +2796

    The way his expression changes at 4:13 when he realizes that the guy’s not being judgemental is just priceless! Love & respect for this warrior. And also congrats to the guy who conducted this conversation so kindly.

    • @internetsapphic8568
      @internetsapphic8568 3 года назад +219

      What most neurodivergent people (I'm one of them!) really need is actually just a simple clarification. That's why when the interviewer explained that they wanted to understand, he felt like something is finally cleared. So whenever we encounter a neurodivergent person, it's very needed for us to explain our reasoning or intention :) I'm glad that the interviewer understood this. Most of the time, for those who don't know about this, tend to make neurodivergent people uncomfortable in the middle of conversation. But hey, we learn something with an open mind every day.

    • @millsdickson8498
      @millsdickson8498 3 года назад +52

      Yeah, that was an amazing moment! I had to stop the video and just walk around for a bit.

    • @gabriellafarrar6693
      @gabriellafarrar6693 3 года назад +72

      yes! when he says, “Ohhh, okay!” it melted my heart ♥️ it really did seem like he opened up way more & was more willing to participate & engage in the conversation & explain things. but what hurts is when he talks about his fear of being abandoned & expresses how much of a fight every moment is for him. may God be with him, & i truly pray that he gets at least some moments of rest from the chaos in his head 🙏🏼

    • @insanegamer4532
      @insanegamer4532 3 года назад +3

      You should know what a warrior is lol

    • @TSUNAMI-MAMI
      @TSUNAMI-MAMI 3 года назад +32

      It was so sad. But you could tell the relief wash over him in real time!!! It’s sad he has to deal with that genuine judgment in life, but so heartwarming to see that moment of happiness and a sense of belonging.

  • @Kimchi_Studios
    @Kimchi_Studios 3 года назад +2357

    The man straight up called out ALL the bullies and bad guys.
    The imaginary and the physical.
    He's exhausted battling both realms 24/7 and still is one of the most emotionally intelligent and polite people I have ever seen.

    • @packratrust
      @packratrust 3 года назад +9

      @M M lmao

    • @fuegodelbueno9344
      @fuegodelbueno9344 3 года назад +37

      @@Human_Organic just what I thought. He's third eye is super open but he's seeing always through the same dimensional door. There are thousands. He needs to battle this things with chi energy cultivation and people that is very aware of this.

    • @kareenfraser5352
      @kareenfraser5352 3 года назад +21

      This guy is definitely super spiritual

    • @reasondro
      @reasondro 3 года назад +6

      that's what I'm saying too 👍

    • @sonicsoftly
      @sonicsoftly 3 года назад +8

      Pray for him 🙏

  • @dana_jay497
    @dana_jay497 3 года назад +1763

    “I’m not judging you, I want to understand”
    “Ohhhh, ok. That’s A-ok”
    He so cute!!!

  • @GhoulieStee
    @GhoulieStee 3 года назад +4159

    It's crazy how this man is 99% better at articulating his thoughts than most people I know. God bless him

    • @RMCMXCV
      @RMCMXCV 3 года назад +121

      This man is more intelligent than a LOT of people.

    • @rainerwinterstein4357
      @rainerwinterstein4357 3 года назад +43

      You know the wrong people, man.

    • @Adiriches
      @Adiriches 3 года назад +5

      I swear bro

    • @lilrawmoi8189
      @lilrawmoi8189 3 года назад +5

      @@rainerwinterstein4357 😭😭😭

    • @mikeking087
      @mikeking087 3 года назад +2

      Really?

  • @ohitsthem7601
    @ohitsthem7601 2 года назад +325

    Im autistic, have ptsd, paranoia, and hallucinations and i feel so very alone, no body seems to believe me or at least not enough. Thank you for sharing your story, it helps people like me feel less alone and alienated

    • @michaelcandido2824
      @michaelcandido2824 Год назад +30

      your not alone and you are loved.

    • @Jason-hk6fx
      @Jason-hk6fx Год назад +11

      Me too ❤

    • @Barqop
      @Barqop Год назад +9

      Your not alone, and you are stronger than you realize. Much care my friend 😊

    • @somebodynamedJ.
      @somebodynamedJ. Год назад +6

      You are not alone, we all love you

    • @victoriadelgado4050
      @victoriadelgado4050 10 месяцев назад +2

      I hope you to be sooooo very happy because you really deserve it. You are not alone and i really hope that you could see the great things hidden everywhere everyday

  • @jonritchey8653
    @jonritchey8653 3 года назад +2107

    This interviewer is one of the most patient compassionate people I've ever seen. These videos restore my hope in humanity.

  • @henrysmith3429
    @henrysmith3429 3 года назад +2252

    When he hugged his sister and said "this is how I feel". That was powerful.

  • @MrTheologianscafe
    @MrTheologianscafe 3 года назад +1990

    This guy is honestly less deluded about his situation of psychosis than most people are about reality. He also spits straight wisdom at times. Very effective communicator.

  • @cjfrench5401
    @cjfrench5401 2 года назад +231

    It’s heartbreaking seeing someone trapped in their own mind so much, he seems like such a sweet, friendly guy.

    • @CJRegister
      @CJRegister Год назад +8

      Good comment. That's exactly what it is... trapped in their own mind. This is a great video.

  • @ZEBRAjinx
    @ZEBRAjinx 3 года назад +851

    I want to hug him so badly and tell this man he’s not alone.

    • @pinkcandy7772
      @pinkcandy7772 3 года назад +4

      He's lost poor guy

    • @93CarpeDiem
      @93CarpeDiem 3 года назад +3

      YES.

    • @cheriaanderson5036
      @cheriaanderson5036 3 года назад +7

      I know what loneliness feels like I want to hug him too.

    • @MiaEZ
      @MiaEZ 3 года назад +11

      @@pinkcandy7772 no he's not lost nor poor he is more found and richer in genuine spirit and soul than most

    • @MiaEZ
      @MiaEZ 3 года назад +5

      Me too A big hug and i would like to laugh with him. His laugh is beautiful

  • @michaelscott8896
    @michaelscott8896 3 года назад +1358

    I used to teach life skills in the autism department in an elementary school. So seeing this really hit home. I appreciate the guy talking to him giveing Miguel time to process what was being asked. This video made me happy and sad. The hardest part of my job was watching the kids struggle with tasks that were so simple to someone who is not on the spectrum and not being allowed to just do it for them. As a parent, I commend his mother for being a Super-Mom.

    • @gabogomez3471
      @gabogomez3471 3 года назад +43

      And you a super teacher 👍🏻

    • @michaelscott8896
      @michaelscott8896 3 года назад +20

      @@gabogomez3471 Yo! I appreciate that.

    • @zaqwertyfish
      @zaqwertyfish 3 года назад +26

      I used to be a job coach for people with mental and physical disabilities. Some of the best people I've ever known. Brave people. Loving, trusting people. Mischievous and funny people. Happy people. Generous and caring people.
      They made me a better person, each in their own unique way. I miss them.

    • @LordGarchomp
      @LordGarchomp 3 года назад

      Dont want to be that guy but correct the spelling mistake incase sombody would be confused

    • @michaelscott8896
      @michaelscott8896 3 года назад +15

      @@LordGarchomp I could say the same for Your punctuation, And your spelling...

  • @rome.u
    @rome.u 3 года назад +734

    he knows whats hes saying like he's very aware of his condition and knows everything about it and his words are very meaningful.

    • @fortunateson2
      @fortunateson2 3 года назад +12

      In some ways I envy his innocence and honesty.

    • @skyofthelivingdead
      @skyofthelivingdead 3 года назад +5

      Of course he does. He’s not slow, he just has hallucinations and some difficulty with social cues. Most people on the low end of the spectrum are extremely self aware of our condition(s), sometimes even moreso than most people.

  • @csmcgaia4209
    @csmcgaia4209 3 года назад +862

    He is so smart and in tune with himself. Brought tears to my eyes

    • @formerlyarandompropernameb9327
      @formerlyarandompropernameb9327 2 года назад +4

      Mine, too. God placed us here to perform a work only through him. Each of us have different gifts. This is why one reason anyway, it is so important not to make snap judgments, particularly for the purpose of criticizing someone. There’s more light in the boys and some of the most “heralded“ people in this increasingly darkening backwards world.
      But there are lights that God has placed in the world. Ultimately the light is him, & He calls us to be His instruments to build each other up; all for His glory.
      We were simply not created to be rejected and that is why it is so very painful, and whatever form & on whatever level it comes in.
      I can tell his mother has been through some wearying battles. His sister, too. God bless them all in the mighty name of Jesus Christ.

    • @diamondspearls9151
      @diamondspearls9151 2 года назад +2

      I’m here with you 😢😢

    • @yassinee.3463
      @yassinee.3463 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@diamondspearls9151 That's not nice

  • @jiffpop5143
    @jiffpop5143 3 года назад +1651

    This guy is so emotionally intelligent it's insane. When asked how he feels about it, I would always respond in some generic way with words, but he expresses how he feels by hugging his sister. The way he acts conveys so much more meaning than anything I could say with words.

    • @chrisking6695
      @chrisking6695 3 года назад +20

      Being emotional intelligent means you are able to read people and do what's necessary without them having to tell you. So I'm this case he hugged her because he felt like he needed a hug. That's not emotional intelligence.

    • @user-yr5yl6zt5l
      @user-yr5yl6zt5l 3 года назад +34

      @@chrisking6695 Shut up he clearly is more emotionally intelligent than the average person

    • @rand0m.u5er
      @rand0m.u5er 3 года назад +8

      @@chrisking6695 I wouldn't say at all that being emotionally intelligent does mean you are able to read people and do what's necessary. It's not about reading people. What's going on inside oneself is the key, not reading something in the outside. That's how I see it.

    • @paololaroco7909
      @paololaroco7909 3 года назад +2

      @@chrisking6695 being emotionally intelligent doesn’t always mean you can read someone

    • @DJMadeB
      @DJMadeB 3 года назад

      Facts

  • @ilovebeansOO
    @ilovebeansOO 3 года назад +924

    He’s so intelligent. His eyes are so expressive I can almost tell what he’s thinking. I’m happy he is happy to be alive. What an amazing person.

    • @roderickgarcia2778
      @roderickgarcia2778 3 года назад +7

      You're beautiful
      I wish I could meet someone like you as a soul mate

    • @mateuss5754
      @mateuss5754 3 года назад +6

      @@roderickgarcia2778 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

    • @World.21
      @World.21 3 года назад +4

      😂😂😂😂 best reply section this dudes are on something, soulmate😂😂 jesusss 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @ilovebeansOO
      @ilovebeansOO 3 года назад

      @@roderickgarcia2778 we’re you replying to me? Haha

    • @pezequilibradohace5anos538
      @pezequilibradohace5anos538 2 года назад +4

      Yeah, I can see that he fades away to fight inside his mind and his eyes get tired, and then he returns and looks you with expressive tired eyes that tell you that he is really hearing you.

  • @triggerhoppe
    @triggerhoppe 2 года назад +283

    7:57 got me. The way he clearly expressed how much he loves his sister without saying anything was beautiful.

    • @tcrump212IsLmbrJck_t
      @tcrump212IsLmbrJck_t Год назад +8

      talmbout THIS IS HOW I FEEL. CHILD, I'M BAWWWWWLING!!

    • @Laura-ji8be
      @Laura-ji8be Месяц назад +1

      @@tcrump212IsLmbrJck_ti know right, i cannot stop crying

  • @alexhb12333
    @alexhb12333 2 года назад +123

    The fact that he wants the bad voices to learn and become better... what a sweet soul with the kindest heart.

    • @thewizard4200
      @thewizard4200 6 месяцев назад +1

      That's what struck me the most. He's so good he wants to help those hallucination even if they want to harm him.

  • @pilotpetrov3855
    @pilotpetrov3855 3 года назад +1358

    Honestly, this guy is an absolute warrior. I can't even imagine how hard it must be to deal with autism and severe schizophrenia. He seems so lucid about it and is emotionally more put together than a lot of people I know.
    I mean, I'm sure he has his darker episodes and this interview is just a tiny slice out of his personality and life but I admire him and his family for how they are handling this situation.
    All the best to you guys!

    • @Bouldah
      @Bouldah 3 года назад +1

      Him vs Robbie lawler what happens? He ain't no warrior

    • @pilotpetrov3855
      @pilotpetrov3855 3 года назад +10

      @@Bouldah this comment is as blunt as the combination of your user name and profile pic. I guess that's the definition of consistency. So... Good job?

    • @Bouldah
      @Bouldah 3 года назад +3

      @@pilotpetrov3855 THATS RIGHT

    • @boxxy12
      @boxxy12 3 года назад

      @@Bouldah Lawler got beat by Askren 💀

    • @Bouldah
      @Bouldah 3 года назад +1

      @@boxxy12 well it wouldn't take lawler to beat ole fish eyes here. I'd maul him. Hes not a warrior

  • @jazzman2516
    @jazzman2516 3 года назад +609

    “It’s beautiful to have an imagination like that”. My God, he’s got a heart of gold! The fact that he can look at his situation like that is truly inspirational.

  • @jackiebicboichan1674
    @jackiebicboichan1674 3 года назад +303

    The fact that he's giving such concise answers while dealing with schizophrenia and psychosis, I can't even imagine handling all that. He seems so composed and intelligent despite what he's dealing with, it's incredible.

    • @aelfycarcini3992
      @aelfycarcini3992 3 года назад +15

      Well, that's in part because the interviewer is very, very skilled in his labor. I don't know if he's a doctor himself, but it wouldn't surprise me.

    • @AGKyran
      @AGKyran 3 года назад +1

      @@aelfycarcini3992 Skilled?
      Just looks like someone nice and patient, don't know where or how he looks skilled really.
      I don't mean this to offend, I'm just wondering, really.

    • @Arobisme
      @Arobisme 3 года назад +21

      @@AGKyran there is definitely a way to ask questions and tone that not everyone has

  • @chadapie6782
    @chadapie6782 3 года назад +614

    “You just gotta not give up on me…” that was so honest to hear which almost all of us think but cannot say.
    And the look he has when he realizes he is not being judged 😊 such a heart warming interview somehow.

  • @ccalvac18
    @ccalvac18 3 года назад +176

    13:33 that he has empathy toward his hallucinations and wants for them to redeem themselves from darkness is just a deep testament to Miguel's beauty. They pick on him and tire him but he only wants the best for them; that is one of the most powerful things I've heard in my life.

    • @chriskn1490
      @chriskn1490 4 месяца назад +1

      You’ve articulated this part so well. I knew there was something I was supposed to grasp from Miguel saying that but I couldn’t quite find it.
      If only most people had even half his empathy!

  • @thelordoftime803
    @thelordoftime803 3 года назад +434

    That moment he understood your intention of understanding him instead of asking questions just so you can find things to judge him about. I feel
    like he's so used to real and hallucinatory bullying that it's very hard to distinguish when people genuinely want to understand, connect and believe him. The reaction in the moment he understood that is probably the most genuine human reaction I have had the honour of seeing. Just by creating these small moments of connection could change these people lives drastically. Thank you!

  • @daffodilcaptain
    @daffodilcaptain 3 года назад +482

    the way he opens up when he realizes that the questions arent coming from a place of judgement but because he wants to understand and get to know him and i just. i care about Miguel a lot

    • @AGKyran
      @AGKyran 3 года назад +10

      I agree. There is I think many people who do judge him.

    • @tede2567
      @tede2567 3 года назад +5

      That was very wholesome on the interviewers part

    • @etherious5957
      @etherious5957 3 года назад +1

      He’s pretty slow bro I don’t think he can tell the difference regardless

    • @friedtoads13
      @friedtoads13 3 года назад +6

      @@etherious5957 he probably has trouble understanding the interviewers motives due to his autism which causes general socialization issues but he's definitely intelligent enough to know that that there are people who ask him these questions to belittle him. once he was told that he was asking for the sake of understanding his situation, he opened up. nothing slow about that. just an autistic brain working the way that it does.

  • @2wayproducing2584
    @2wayproducing2584 2 года назад +142

    When he said this isn't a PDA I died, he isn't just great for being honest and working through things, you can tell he brings genuine joy to those around him.

  • @lukelmaooooo
    @lukelmaooooo 3 года назад +384

    This makes me want to cry. This man is speaking the most honest words anyone ever spoke. His brain is fighting itself and because of that battle he probably couldn't even imagine something like being intentionally deceitful or mean. so awful to experience. I hope he finds a circle of tolerant friends to watch movies and shows with him, and grow with him through the years.

  • @sumr5757
    @sumr5757 3 года назад +229

    It makes me really happy to see that nobody in the comments are being mean :)

    • @Opi0id-z
      @Opi0id-z 3 года назад +13

      True, and I would report anyone if i saw them

    • @papacinoooo
      @papacinoooo 3 года назад +1

      @@Opi0id-z yes sir

  • @lucyfoster2911
    @lucyfoster2911 3 года назад +417

    “Because if I gave up I wouldn’t meet amazing people like you” that bit got me🥺 he’s so amazing!!! I’d love to be his friend

    • @Dkflying1
      @Dkflying1 3 года назад +2

      Right? Just wish there was a way to reach out and send positive vibes. ❤️

    • @jasonm343
      @jasonm343 3 года назад

      you'd be his friend but would ц fцск нiм and show him what he's missing? Would u treat him like a man and be his wife?

    • @helionzerx817
      @helionzerx817 3 года назад

      @@jasonm343 what?

    • @lucyfoster2911
      @lucyfoster2911 3 года назад +1

      @@jasonm343 was this necessary??

    • @jasonm343
      @jasonm343 3 года назад

      @@lucyfoster2911 I guess not I'm just mad I've never had a girlfriend

  • @juanjots
    @juanjots 3 года назад +269

    I want to praise the way how the interviewer approaches the patient. He's got such professionalism and extraordinary rapport that any psychiatrist, psychologist, therapist, or psych nurse practitioner would love to have

  • @raco2937
    @raco2937 3 года назад +132

    Bro, I love the guy but I can't ignore the fact that the man talking to him is incredible at making questions and having a good conversation

  • @oridniv
    @oridniv 3 года назад +292

    I love his mom. She's raising a stand up family.

    • @MrColdwilliam
      @MrColdwilliam 3 года назад +11

      His mother is an incredible force! So much strength and love that is clearly instilled in her children.

    • @torresdestinya82
      @torresdestinya82 3 года назад +2

      She’s amazing

  • @NoYesJess
    @NoYesJess 3 года назад +408

    Miguel: *yawnnn*
    Miguel: "Excuse me for this yawning"
    "Should we take a nap real quick?"
    Miguel: "Yeah"
    "That was a joke"
    Miguel: *Cutest laugh ever.*

  • @lucca1-d9x
    @lucca1-d9x 3 года назад +168

    11:49 THATS SO CUTE!!!! it's so nice to see him smiling and having fun with someone

    • @leecopeland2061
      @leecopeland2061 2 года назад +14

      I agree. I loved when he laughed so hard with Chris. He needs that joy in his life. 😄

  • @louisj4645
    @louisj4645 3 года назад +281

    Props to everyone in this...he's a very intelligent young guy. His mother is a real one too...its nothing like a mother's love, she won't give up and he's not giving up, true champs!

    • @InvestedGman
      @InvestedGman 3 года назад +1

      Sadly My Mother pretty much gave up on me and made my issues worse both Physically and mentally with my autism even though it’s all her fault. 😔

    • @louisj4645
      @louisj4645 3 года назад +1

      @@InvestedGman trust and believe sir, you're stronger than you know. It's inside of you, trust that u can become what u envision for yourself. First, forgive what she did and then, understand you will can build yourself. U got it

    • @InvestedGman
      @InvestedGman 3 года назад +2

      @@louisj4645 I appreciate it but I forgave her too many times and all she did was made empty promises about helping me And making life easier for me so I can take care of myself as a 23 year old adult with autism for my hopes and dreams one day before I hit my 30s, instead She pretty much blames me for everything she caused without reason, making my life more harder and difficult for years since I was 18 with my mental health getting worse due to stress caused by her overtime but she doesn't care or listen to me anymore Even though it's her fault. 😔

    • @louisj4645
      @louisj4645 3 года назад +1

      @@InvestedGman seek therapy young man, in some places you can get for free. In your mind, and soul...u have to still forgive her and be the man you are...it works out, trust...I'm older and know

    • @louisj4645
      @louisj4645 3 года назад

      @@InvestedGman good luck

  • @ringostarrfanatic
    @ringostarrfanatic 3 года назад +574

    Loved hearing Miguel’s laugh and smile. I hope he’s doing well. He seems like such a kind and gentle person. I also loved the advice he gave!

    • @lmckinney4303
      @lmckinney4303 3 года назад +2

    • @DarrenHoussein
      @DarrenHoussein 3 года назад +1

      Shutup

    • @saiko2216
      @saiko2216 3 года назад +6

      @@DarrenHoussein Justing bieber got angry :)))

    • @prudeuncle
      @prudeuncle 3 года назад +12

      @@DarrenHoussein man you must have a horrible life to troll on this kind of video.

  • @educatorally3875
    @educatorally3875 3 года назад +529

    I am SO ecstatic to see the comments enabled! I think Miguel is a very smart and charming man. He has answers to questions so quickly and responds with thoughtfulness. You can tell he really loves and appreciates those who care for him and stand by his side. I really hope he will begin taking his medications to see if that will help to fight this battle. Good luck Miguel and family!

    • @shubhampatni2658
      @shubhampatni2658 3 года назад +3

      Godspeed, much love n care for everyone especially Miguel.

    • @unitywalks1761
      @unitywalks1761 3 года назад +3

      I think they only disable the comments if a minor is involved in the video

    • @nicogermon7677
      @nicogermon7677 3 года назад

      Wow I never even realized how great it is that the comments are enabled and aren’t filled with complete bile. Sadly it’s shocking tbh

    • @nicogermon7677
      @nicogermon7677 3 года назад

      @M M annnnnnd there it is

    • @shubhampatni2658
      @shubhampatni2658 3 года назад

      @M M not all humans r like u pal

  • @pulpoyam
    @pulpoyam Год назад +48

    I'm a film student, and every time things get tough I watch this interview, the part that Miguel tells why he likes to watch movies. Because knowing that I can be part of entertaining someone who is having a hard time, it gets me emotional.

  • @zaineneves4933
    @zaineneves4933 3 года назад +1216

    meu irmão é exatamente como ele, foi a diagnosticado com 12 anos, hoje com está 24. Os jeitos, afeição, olhar fixo e vago, a risada. Tudo igual, até as crises. Obrigada por esse vídeo, eu estou tão triste e feliz ao mesmo tempo. Pois, meu irmão perdeu a fala, ( não que ele perdeu de vez, e sim pq ele não quer falar. Nos falaram que o grau dele é o mais severo, esfrizofenia grau 3.) Ele não responde, quando o chamamos, não chora, não fica feliz, ela não tem nenhum reação. Apenas as crises e a risada involuntário e eu não tinha a mínima noção de como como se sentia por dentro. E nesse vídeo eu posso ter uma noção. É tão doloroso e esclarecedor, tantas ações dele, sendo justificada por esse vídeo. Mesmo que cada um tem sua vivência, eu compreendi e entendi muitas coisas. Obrigada por esse vídeo. ❤🙏

    • @sweet1751
      @sweet1751 3 года назад +40

      Oi, Zaine! Parabéns para você e sua família pela luta diária com seu irmão. Só quem tem pessoas com transtornos tão severos em casa, sabe o quão doloroso e às vezes desesperador é. Tomar cuidado com o que fala, se preocupar com o futuro, vigiar, tentar entender e...meu Deus!São tantas coisas. Continuem fortes😉

    • @enzoka4007
      @enzoka4007 3 года назад +29

      Esse tipo de pessoa está mais conectada com o plano astral , por isso é fácil ver ,ouvir e sentir seres que estão por aqui mas não vemos, ou até mesmo coom seu próprio ego

    • @heloarscopel62
      @heloarscopel62 3 года назад +19

      Eu acredito que talvez não sejam alucinações e sim conexão com outros planos, eu não posso imaginar como isso é difícil para ele e para vocês que o amam. Mas tenho certeza de que tudo está certo da maneira como tem que ser, desejo força e amor ao seu irmão e sua família.

    • @mavi_sz.
      @mavi_sz. 3 года назад +40

      @@enzoka4007 Kkkkkkkkkkkkk nada a ver. Esquizofrenia é doença. Vai estudar.

    • @mavi_sz.
      @mavi_sz. 3 года назад +21

      @@heloarscopel62 É uma doença. E como todas as outras devem ser tratadas.

  • @BrunoSousaf
    @BrunoSousaf 3 года назад +905

    E ainda tem gente que dá deslike em um video desses, e tão impactante como ele tenta falar o que sente, e o que ver.

    • @LuisGonzalez-sl4bo
      @LuisGonzalez-sl4bo 3 года назад +3

      Mesmo

    • @descomplicados5
      @descomplicados5 3 года назад +5

      Verdade

    • @lorranfrod
      @lorranfrod 3 года назад +20

      Tava pensando como tem tanto imbecil para dar deslike em um vídeo lindo desse.

    • @general_vikoski
      @general_vikoski 3 года назад +22

      Da tanta dó de ver a agonia dele em se concentrar.. tadinho

    • @diegofromur1927
      @diegofromur1927 3 года назад +7

      Tem gente ruim no mundo tudo mesmo.

  • @virgorising8123
    @virgorising8123 3 года назад +64

    When he hugged his sister and cried and said “ this is how I feel” my heart ❤️ he is such a beautiful soul.

  • @carolinaalvespeixoto4289
    @carolinaalvespeixoto4289 3 года назад +298

    he's so sweet! my heart melted

    • @haunt7121
      @haunt7121 3 года назад +10

      @Tripkid bro lmfao u hitting on here in here at all places.

    • @seydo5675
      @seydo5675 3 года назад

      @@haunt7121 ong

  • @vincentmcmullen2801
    @vincentmcmullen2801 3 года назад +105

    When Miguel gave his sister that hug and let out this breath of relief and security and said “this is how I feel”. That was enough to make a grown man cry. Nothing but love and respect for u Miguel.

    • @jum2521
      @jum2521 3 года назад

      Thank you

  • @Aurelius4114
    @Aurelius4114 3 года назад +183

    He has to deal with all of this but still his gentle nature shines through. His mum and sister too are just brilliant. So lovely. What absolute champions.

  • @shawnyjohnson4456
    @shawnyjohnson4456 3 года назад +47

    When he perked when Chris said I wasn't to understand you and be your friend just wanted my heart so much. Seeing this beautiful young man's smile was amazing.

  • @taiabrooks9061
    @taiabrooks9061 3 года назад +218

    He’s so self aware and articulate. I teared up numerous times throughout the course of this video solely because of how brave he was to come out and speak on his diagnoses on social media despite how unfriendly people can be. His support system is amazing; you can tell how wholesome his mother’s parenting has been as well as how impactful his relationship with his sister has been.💜

  • @chandlerclarke1670
    @chandlerclarke1670 3 года назад +282

    Isn't funny how the ones who are so alone just want the rest of the world to be happy and healthy? It makes me wish i could be friends with more people like that because those are the best qualities to have as people especially in friends

  • @skiskrt3316
    @skiskrt3316 3 года назад +149

    Imagine how strong willed this man’s brain has to be to be able to talk and hold a conversation against all his issues. This man is an absolute genius. He’s able to articulate on something so complex with such an easy going understanding of his own nature, he’s very weary of how he is and it’s extremely inspiring to see how strong this man is. Wow. I’m gonna cry for real.

    • @Dan280974
      @Dan280974 2 года назад +3

      This man is a chad

  • @burehkoroma1435
    @burehkoroma1435 3 года назад +82

    The way he perked up when the interviewer stated his intentions with the questions was so beautiful. Thank you for the insight into his walk of life. What a beautiful human and I hope that videos like these continues to build understanding and remove stigma around mental illness. Thank you for posting these videos.

  • @RyonTeachesMugen
    @RyonTeachesMugen 3 года назад +226

    My son is autistic and this just hits me so hard, it's like being able to hear inside his mind. Sometimes I know what he's thinking, but other times I wish I knew.

  • @creatednewlearning7216
    @creatednewlearning7216 3 года назад +226

    I think the interviewer has done a wonderful job in how he's relayed the questions to him. I'm glad videos like this are made so those who don't understand can begin learning.
    Miguel seems like a really nice person and it appears he's got a great family as well.

  • @tenibrosity3425
    @tenibrosity3425 3 года назад +206

    This is one of the bravest kids I’ve seen. He’s consciously aware of what’s going on. God bless him and his family. I want to give him a hug and play video games.

    • @btownballer27
      @btownballer27 3 года назад +6

      As much as some people may see him as a kid, he is a grown man.

    • @tenibrosity3425
      @tenibrosity3425 3 года назад +14

      @@btownballer27 our body’s are vessels. Our consciousness is who we are. You heard the mother “he’s a child in a grown mans body”

    • @bowskee
      @bowskee 3 года назад +6

      he's 26 years old

    • @tenibrosity3425
      @tenibrosity3425 3 года назад +5

      @@bowskee okay

    • @Destroyer19941995
      @Destroyer19941995 3 года назад +2

      @@bowskee You tarded? :)

  • @nayleahernandez1989
    @nayleahernandez1989 2 года назад +52

    He is such a sweetheart, intelligent, self-aware, kind and funny. Thank you for inviting us into your home.

  • @vlexxsama8444
    @vlexxsama8444 3 года назад +213

    when he said “i want to be your friend” and his whole demeanor changed is just so wholesome 😢

  • @zera2314
    @zera2314 3 года назад +121

    Man, this breaks my heart. He's so aware and well-spoken for someone struggling with such tough conditions.

  • @DeltaRaiden
    @DeltaRaiden 3 года назад +129

    Even with all of the effects he goes through he still shines through it in his answers, definitely a unique brain in there.

    • @yosz9746
      @yosz9746 3 года назад

      @M M i get the joke, but because of the situation is was hard to find it funny. Maybe because it's a serious video.. like there's times to joke and times not to kinda thing

  • @MsEpicArt
    @MsEpicArt 2 года назад +46

    Chris, your interview skills are absolutely phenomenal. You have a real talent to interview people tactfully and with a genuine connection to their feelings and state of being. This was brilliant to watch and I feel like I learn each and every time how to show people how valued they are when they do not necessarily communicate or function as I do. Thank you for teaching the world how to love people better.

    • @BeyondTheIslands
      @BeyondTheIslands 2 года назад +3

      I've been binge watching this channel for a bit, and would just like to add to your words that Chris genuinely instills a sense of awe for what he does. The man has the emotional intelligence and capacity the size of a mountain. I am so glad there are people like him doing the job that he does, and can say for myself that I will strive to achieve a similar outlook on life.

  • @Keybladeaddict
    @Keybladeaddict 3 года назад +82

    You know what really hits? His desire and appreciation for real friends is exactly what so many people quietly wish for in their own lives.

  • @virgo6890
    @virgo6890 3 года назад +133

    i like how the mother said “are they talking to you now” and told him to fight it thru instead of asking what are they saying, that’s respect.

  • @gavinproduction7433
    @gavinproduction7433 3 года назад +34

    When he hugged his mom and his sister it made me cry inside. I just my heart is so warm right now.

  • @alexandervelez9507
    @alexandervelez9507 2 года назад +52

    i’m crying. this was beautiful.

    • @will97gamo
      @will97gamo Год назад

      It's so sad I can't imagine what it's like

  • @melindapickins5391
    @melindapickins5391 3 года назад +149

    What a smart, sweet and articulate young man.

  • @icecoldkiller356
    @icecoldkiller356 3 года назад +74

    I just love how sincere Miguel is, specially when he realizes that the interview is about learning about him and understanding his situation. I really hope Miguel is doing ok today!

  • @jingalls9142
    @jingalls9142 3 года назад +160

    I have seen several of these on this guy's Channel and I hope he never stops doing this because it really does help the world understand. I'm crying right now with a smile on my face. Miguel is a wonderful person and so is his family. Dont stop. Dont push. And never give up. The world loves you buddy.

  • @tamtamvercher5433
    @tamtamvercher5433 2 года назад +21

    This video makes me cry and I have watched it several time. My mother had schizophrenia. At 1st we didn't understand but as the years went on and the closer that we made ourselves available to her the more I understood, just as I understand this young man right here, I pray for him. Believe me there are people out there who do understand...

    • @firdows...
      @firdows... Год назад

      how do you understand if someone has schizophrenia

  • @Clover2k
    @Clover2k 3 года назад +143

    "I just want people to be happy and healthy with each other instead of being there all by themselves" ❤️

    • @djmilehigh7472
      @djmilehigh7472 3 года назад +1

      And to know that he is indeed “alone” in his head in a sense makes him saying that so much more beautiful (but also sad)

  • @JuiccyCouture
    @JuiccyCouture 3 года назад +409

    The fact that he feels safe in his moms room when he’s having bad schizophrenia episodes is so sweet

    • @florentin4061
      @florentin4061 3 года назад

      This is nothing to say „this is so sweet..“ but do what you want to do

    • @treywar25
      @treywar25 3 года назад +14

      @@florentin4061 I think he meant "sweet" as being very caring...

    • @eliudonofre6763
      @eliudonofre6763 3 года назад

      Not trying to be negative but there’s nothing sweet about that
      Is like saying is sweet kids hiding on bunkers during bombing because they feel safe

    • @treywar25
      @treywar25 3 года назад +8

      @@eliudonofre6763 words have multiple meanings bro, pretty sure he wasn't saying that at all...

    • @DJ_WAHTZ
      @DJ_WAHTZ 3 года назад +8

      @@eliudonofre6763 they weren’t calling the situation sweet, they were calling his mom sweet.

  • @barbfrancis1558
    @barbfrancis1558 3 года назад +72

    Wow to see Miguel’s mood change after trust was established is phenomenal! It was great to see how very articulate, loving, & insightful he is after compassion is shown and felt.
    Thank you mom, Miguel and the interviewer for sharing. Many Blessings to everyone.

  • @anthony.grenier97
    @anthony.grenier97 2 года назад +74

    I've cried. He's so strong!

  • @kaitlenuszuko2816
    @kaitlenuszuko2816 3 года назад +150

    I’m in tears. He seems like such an amazing person & I hope he’s doing okay❤️

    • @GODWORRIOS
      @GODWORRIOS 3 года назад

      amazing person till that guy pull out the glock 9 !!! axxaxaxax

    • @jasonm343
      @jasonm343 3 года назад +1

      you'd be his friend but would ц fцск нiм and show him what he's missing? Would u treat him like a man and be his wife?

  • @snifftheglove1119
    @snifftheglove1119 3 года назад +60

    What an intelligent young man. Very articulate, very well spoken. You can tell this is extremely tiring for him.

  • @alesivan4489
    @alesivan4489 3 года назад +73

    I'm crying. He's so brave, unique and has a beautiful soul. 💜

  • @brittbritt6857
    @brittbritt6857 2 года назад +24

    His mind is a battlefield... God bless him... I love you dude! You're so strong

  • @haikalisa2436
    @haikalisa2436 3 года назад +65

    he's so articulate when he speaks. the love he expresses to his family is so genuine. a beautiful soul indeed! the guy who's speaking to him is as articulate with his words too! what a wholesome and wonderful video!

    • @W-N-S
      @W-N-S 3 года назад

      I agree babe.

  • @nixboaski
    @nixboaski 3 года назад +123

    His reaction when you said "I'm asking these questions because I want to understand you" is amazing. He clearly felt more comfortable on speaking about his conditions.
    These videos are pure gem and help us to become aware of mental health issues that people close to us (or not) have. This is brilliant work.

  • @jessedion16
    @jessedion16 3 года назад +627

    I have schizophrenia too. Its a real struggle i admire him bc he seems truly strong 💪 ❤

    • @zroshat_
      @zroshat_ 3 года назад +27

      I'm really sorry for you. That's probably one of the worst things you can have. All the people who live with that are so brave and strong! 🙌

    • @molnarsamuel8690
      @molnarsamuel8690 3 года назад +4

      ♥️👍

    • @bernice-annenieuwenhuis3826
      @bernice-annenieuwenhuis3826 3 года назад +3

      At least youre never alone...

    • @fali5584
      @fali5584 3 года назад +8

      im living in your walls that's not just a random comment🧿

    • @danielgadomski5129
      @danielgadomski5129 3 года назад +5

      @@chrikke don't reply, report comment and ignore

  • @gracehall6009
    @gracehall6009 3 года назад +6

    When you told the young man that you want to understand him, and he replied ooh. That's so sweet, it helped him relax. You are an amazing wonderful person to help people like me and others understand a person dealing with situations that people don't understand. You know how to help people relax.

  • @hereticme
    @hereticme 3 года назад +56

    Wow! I can tell he’s been working really hard to overcome his issues. God bless him and his family!

  • @ShantyAlysia
    @ShantyAlysia 3 года назад +38

    “Tell all the bad guys and bullies to be gone” 🥺 awee and when he said “both”, I broke down. Blessings to this guy and his family 🙏🏾❤️ and protected.

  • @sonorangaming449
    @sonorangaming449 3 года назад +40

    When it clicked that the questions were to help understand, his whole attitude shifted towards positivity .

  • @coltonstevens4339
    @coltonstevens4339 2 года назад +23

    As someone who struggles with Asperger's (higher-functioning autism), depression, psychosis, having different personalities that helped me cope with over 16 years of childhood truama, I can genuinely say this person has a genuine idea of what it is like to struggle nearly every day for your whole life, and never give up!

  • @BigSteenThaGodHD6520
    @BigSteenThaGodHD6520 3 года назад +1331

    I would love to be Miguel's friend

  • @spicygal8564
    @spicygal8564 3 года назад +25

    What an amazing mother. It is so crucial to be seen, heard, and understood when you're autistic or schizophrenic and when she said her children were her whole life I truly see it. A one in a million parent.

  • @eagleone5456
    @eagleone5456 3 года назад +27

    A beautiful and kind soul. Innocent and just wants to be accepted and loved. He deserves that love and respect. His mother is also deserving of so much more!

  • @catdoherty5103
    @catdoherty5103 2 года назад +31

    This was so awesome to watch. He is so sweet and it's heartbreaking that he has to deal with this. Stay strong 😊

  • @alexx34
    @alexx34 3 года назад +26

    the way he changes when he said "im not giving up on you and im not judging you either" and he proceeds to say i want to be your friend and he got even more excited! i love it

  • @kaycee8323
    @kaycee8323 3 года назад +60

    "People should respect that our society in today's world doesn't care about us as much. We have to always fend for ourselves and sometimes I feel that our society needs to know that we can't fend for ourselves all the time." What a smart young man! He's so right about that.

  • @Repartocorse_Official
    @Repartocorse_Official 3 года назад +115

    This guy is better than the most of the “normal” people I know

  • @zeynaharris8654
    @zeynaharris8654 2 года назад +11

    He is so caring, smart and knows how he feels the love he have for his sister and mom is priceless. I know it hard for me to ADHD and anxiety. So I can only imagine how hard it is for him with the voices in his head. Keep staying positive. I will be your friend. You are truly a amazing man.

  • @l.a.5698
    @l.a.5698 3 года назад +35

    I hope he sees this and knows there are good people out here that would feel HONORED to be his friend. REAL people. Im sending a hug and positivity in spirit and i wish i had your strength friend. You are an example of a great person, pushing through hard times and remaining a good person. You are great. Much much much much love.

  • @taintedlove245
    @taintedlove245 3 года назад +127

    I love the wait he communicates, he has a very rich vocabulary, speaks very smoothly, and expresses his thoughts and feelings way better than I do. I can tell he’s highly intelligent. I would love to see more from him. Is he in social media?

  • @eveeee6464
    @eveeee6464 3 года назад +50

    Wow he is such a sweet soul i can’t even imagine what he goes through everyday. My heart goes out to him and his family.

  • @enruchiohaka2962
    @enruchiohaka2962 10 месяцев назад +3

    Am in tears now. But he is a strong guy. Sending hugs to you. Interviewer, you are doing great

  • @krismallaerd9121
    @krismallaerd9121 3 года назад +11

    Its actually an extremely sad thing to think about someone as nice and innocent as him being picked on. It choked me up tbh. Thank you

    • @estellawhyte1063
      @estellawhyte1063 3 года назад +2

      This young man is so intelligent. I think he needs deliverance .Mum needs to get serious in prayer. God will deliver him if you ask him. Please contact a holy ghost pastor to pray with him.

  • @alexlaroi8757
    @alexlaroi8757 3 года назад +116

    Miguel you're such a cool guy. You are so brave for making this video. Love you and God bless. You're a model of strength and courage.

  • @userjb1yb5yq3t
    @userjb1yb5yq3t 3 года назад +51

    his breathing is down, he has good manners. For the struggle and fight he has everyday he is a trooper and a champ. I wanted to hear what he said after every question. he looks like such a great friend.

  • @MargoIndigo
    @MargoIndigo 2 года назад +24

    “how can you tell that i’m your friend?”
    “because you’re real”
    🥺🥺🥺

  • @jesusandresramirezvargas5614
    @jesusandresramirezvargas5614 3 года назад +234

    Me sorprende lo inteligente que es y las clases de respuesta que da. Definitivamente este muchacho es un guerrero, sentirse afortunado de vivir a pesar de sus condiciones es algo muy valiente. Espero que cada vez la ciencia avance más para poder ayudar a este tipo de personas que no merecen aguantar tanto. Gracias por tu aporte, fue un vídeo genial.

    • @tupapaenpelotas
      @tupapaenpelotas 3 года назад +12

      igual me sorprende como sus voces le dan mensajes de odio y el en vez de ponerse triste sale adelante

    • @bolaamarillat.t7310
      @bolaamarillat.t7310 3 года назад +5

      Es admirable , y pensar que algunas personas se quejan de vivir

    • @cocacolaoficial2018
      @cocacolaoficial2018 3 года назад +3

      Es verdad ese chico con tres enfermedades mentales es más maduro que yo más inteligente que yo más bien hablado que yo es super inteligente buen chico no se merece todo eso la verdad pero la vida es injusta

    • @richy2964
      @richy2964 3 года назад +11

      @@bolaamarillat.t7310 no hay que minimizar los problemas de los demás, cada persona vive sus problemas, no porque alguien tenga mas problemas que tu significa que los tuyos no importan o son fáciles de resolver.