Boring Beta Male
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- Опубликовано: 13 сен 2024
- The effect a boring beta male who is too nice has on a woman’s attraction & his ability to keep her attracted and interested long-term, vs. a happy alpha male who attracts and keeps women effortlessly.
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a female viewer who was married to her ex-husband for fifteen years. They had two kids together. She says that he was a really nice and sweet man. She describes how his constant need for validation and never feeling like he deserved her, led to her eventually agreeing with him. She says that she never quite understood why she felt like he was more of a brother than a lover to her. She finally decided to listen to her gut and left him. At the time, she could not explain to him why she no longer wanted to be married to him despite his demand for an explanation for the divorce. He was loyal, helpful, nice and a good father. He made the mistake of making her his mommy, therapist and nurse. After finding my work she was able to finally understand why she felt the way she did towards him, and viewed him as another kid to take care of instead of being a teammate, lover, friend and equal. Her email perfectly illustrates from a woman’s point of view the importance and necessity for a man to be a leader, centered, masculine & confident in his relationships to prevent rejection.
“The outer world tends to match our inner world. How we view ourselves will determine how other people view us as well. When we see ourselves as being amazing & deserving, we will act accordingly and attract people who will reinforce & vibe with our perception. When we see ourselves as being undesirable and undeserving, we will act accordingly & attract people who validate this perception as well. When we love & accept ourselves, we allow others to love us. When we don’t love & accept ourselves, not only will we not allow others to love us, but also deep down we won’t believe anything good that they see or acknowledge about us. We push away those who are not in harmony with our self-perception and attract those who are. Choose your self-talk and thoughts wisely.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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Once she gets played and used a couple times, she'll be talking about how she just wants a nice, sweet, caring guy smh.
Fucking bitch!
Beta males do make the best husbands... But they really need to step up their game when it comes to Romancing their wife
Facts
Lol
Nope, the whole thing is more complex than we thought but simple in practice as you gather the necesary attributes.
This one really hit home. I feel like the guy that the email is talking about. Our circumstances are different but the same outcome. I invested everything into this 7 year marriage. I put her on a pedestal. I treated her like a rock star. I thought we were best friends. She meant everything to me. Had she sat me down and said that I was doing this behavior and it was bothering her so much that she was considering divorce, I could have worked on myself to change (like I'm doing now) but instead she just wanted a divorce. No chance of fixing anything. She's just done. None of her family gets it, none of my family gets it. Even her own kids don't get it. I can't even begin to imagine what this guy is going through because of the kids. I have a better understanding of women thanks to you Corey but it doesn't ease the pain. A very difficult and hard learned lesson.
Wow man , damn , how you feeling now ?
Funny, I ran across "boring beta male" after this weekend while implementing your teaching, I danced all night with my wife..(never been much of a dancer) I had 4 beautiful females staring at me (most of the guys were not dancing) and found out later they told my wife "your husband is so fun!" Girls don't like boring, girls just want to have fun!
He was a nice guy and was afraid to rocked the boat in his relationship. And gave the power to his wife. He wasn't attractive anymore. That shit was gone long ago.
I would hear the husband's version before making any judgement.
Dude. You have some good advice. Your background of being raised without hugs and never hearing "i love you" growing up gets internalized is so similar to my upbringing. Having it internalized into negative self talk too me years to get over.
I bet if they divorced his money won't be "Beta" . Lol . Now he's gotta pay a fine for life because he is loyal and a good father etc.
luis maldonado Truth!!!!
luis maldonado damn that's true lol
All this BS sounds good ... But let's see where she is in a year. F her.
Ordered your book tonight on Amazon, love the videos and all of your insight. Amazing how many mistakes I've been making. Looking forward to studying up and being more happy!! Thanks.
How evil one must be to divorce a good father over something so trivial. All she wanted was to return to the streets. I like Coach, but I can't congratulate a woman for destroying a family just so she could hop on Chad's thunder 🐓.
I've been with boring beta males and sexy bad boys and finding a middle ground is nearly impossible, but that's what we seek. If you meet a mate with high value, he spreads himself too thin, but if you meet one with lower value, you end up in a state of neglect, abuse or both. With the destigmatization and increasing popularity of divorce, more and more men have been, and are being, raised by women. And the obverse, more and more women are growing up without any modeling by a stable male figure in their lives. Most of the comments here sound like observations made inside a bubble, with no insight into how American relationships are falling apart. Culturally, we can argue that it's the strategy of the elitists to destroy mainstream American values by disintegrating the family unit. Once the basic unit of human interaction and community (family) is destroyed, we move toward selfishness and greater internal conflict. Soon, the majority will be homosexual, bisexual or abstinent and population control will have been effected without law or overt social and political control. But, however you look at it or explain it, we are already on a collision course toward destruction and we are complicit.
They threw alcohol at us and addiction is at pandemic proportions. They threw porn at us and even women are addicted in record numbers. They threw food, prescription drugs, illicit drugs and virtual reality. What do we have to blame but our own foolishness and immaturity? We have lost our way as a nation. Over half the population lost its way spiritually and everything else follows. Perhaps the next generation following the Millennials will revive the family unit. Maybe.
Jul ofDenial So, you have feelings on this issue...
She is right.
I've walked a long path on what is the trend; feminism. I never identified myself as such. But there's a sort of social engineering made to get you reason irrationally. They don't care about women problems. Is mind-blowing when you realize how things really are.
I've never hated any woman in life even though I had bad experiences in my past. What is sad is seeing men harbouring hate against woman because they aren't able to fully realize what is going on.
There's not such thing as alpha males or beta males. A man cannot be defined around women but himself. The most important relationship in a man's life is with himself. You just collect the necesary attributes to become a reliable man.
I don't believe in such thing as the millennials. They are made up demographics. They are not reliable. I've witnessed really capable men falling to petty fears and joining lines to the progre-posmo army.
Humanity won't fall apart. Family was, is and will be the corner stone of society.
Brings a whole new meaning to the words "end times." Ugh, stay smart and keep your head on a swivel. I pray for a revival of the family unit and not the one trying to be shoved down our throats
thanks corey, this video helps alot I been struggling with negative self talk and complaining all my life, and also I havent felt like I truly deserve to be with this/that girl especially when other confident guys are around.. ive often needed validation from people just cause I always had little confidence and assertiveness. but I'll apply what you teach in this video. Thank you!!!..
I hate that Corey is right! After listening to this I can only conclude marriage vows should not read "till death do us part" but " till you dry up my vagina by not acting alpha stud". I feel bad for the husband.
I was talking with my mother the other day about relationships and stuff and I brought up how I would probably have a pre-nup written up before I get married and had kids. She thought that was a terrible idea. I didn't think much of it until I stumbled onto this channel and finally saw how my dad traded in his masculine card a while back. Oh well, at least I see the signs now.
My dad did the same. He's retired now and let's my mom sit on his head.
This is soo spot on!..I was in a similar situation and I needed to leave which worked out really well in the long run.
This woman wrote this email to Corey to get validation because she feels guilty about destroying her own family and Corey has given her just that. Corey is very quick to criticise this poor man without hearing his side of the story. I am sorry but i don't agree with you Corey on this one, usually i do but on this one you kind of put this woman on the pedestal and validated her. Not one single thing did you mention she did wrong, it was all the man's fault for 15 years, yet his ex wife describes him as a good man.
michael yusuff he was a pussy
michael yusuff what she did wrong was stay for 15 years.
Are you not listening to what this did to her? When a mom gets suicidal or depressed, leaving her husband to be alive and mentally healthy for her kids, IS not destroying her family.
@@yessicawellington4571 True point. I look at the other perspective and say the husband was wrong to let her stay for 15 years.
@TheLazy0ne who cares she can entertain herself 75% of the time or hit the road
Coach Corey Wayne Thank you for your book and your videos. the best part of your highly effective and practical advice is that sometimes I find myself laughing out loud at your delivery. Thank you for your sense of humor and facial expressions!
it's my 27th birthday today and being that your work has been and is continuing to be part of my transformation into a 3% Man, are we decided to break down and write a comment expressing my gratitude. Thank you very much Corey Wayne! as soon as I get my first paycheck for my new job I'm going to be in touch review. take care and many blessings.
To be honest if she is tellinv the truth and not hiding anything she at least stepped up and tols the truth and ended it. That is the most responsible thing to do.
@Tapper Tapper yea most women would keep the Beta husband for the security and cheat with the players to get that excitement and romance. Selfish I say
"Needy" No amount of compliments, no amount of reassurance is ever enough. Like a fucking black hole... Wow sums up my ex girlfriend and her depression.
I'm in college and just bought your book and read to part 3 in an hour. I highlighted all the important aspects and I cant wait to get started. I'll send results soon.
I started doing the body language, eye contact, letting them talk, not caring, making jokes, and being more self assertive. 5 girls that never gave the light of the day the entire semester had engaging conversations with me and showed interest in me through their body language like touching their hair and accidently but intentionally touching me. The crazy part is I've only read a little more than a quarter of the book. I can't wait to read more and share more results as I take the next steps.
I'm hanging out with my friend's roommate tonight and its her birthday this is my shot. Time to put all the new knowledge to the test. Updates to follow
nice
So... after 2 years... what has changed??
More updates sir...
Corey You are the Einstein of Relationships man. This shit is so relatable especially binding over negative things, I have done for 23 years of my life. Not anymore. Thanks to you, mate.
That's very fucked up..... for her to sleep with other men!..... feel sorry for the husband!
can't tolerate the thought of my wife being with someone else
This is brilliant - Cory you deal with things I've not heard elsewhere! love your videos and this is one if the most interesting I've seen as a woman ☺
that alkaline diet you mentioned is amazing btw.
There's so much wrong here I could go on all day. The fact that she can just up and leave her entire family shows that she's trash. Attraction or no attraction she doesn't have to be miserable, but she should have at least tried to make it work or go to a counselor or something but not just f****** leave
brilliant as ever Corey, great to see this perspective! so true about the recommendations! I have told lots of people about you and they just glaze over, look helpless, and act like a wet flannels.
"It's never crowded along the extra mile." ~ Dr. Wayne Dyer
That was an inspiring video... All ur vids have inspiring learnings but this one was what so many women that I know including myself absolutely realize and the email was written with great care.. It's refreshing to come here to listen to ur great relationship gospel.. Gospel=Good News.. No more excuses . Both my son and daughter have been homeschooled and there homework is to listen to a video every school day... I still have to get two more copies of your book cuz they can't have mine. Blessings To You And Your Awesome Striving To Save Relationships between a Man and a Woman.
Sid Boon Yes and also read his book.
Self Happiness and fullfillment at the cost of Loyalty. Not sure how I feel about ppl dropping families and 10+ years of marriage for the best sex of your life
It sounds like they guy was busy fathering and working and he prioritized that over romancing his wife
i really appreciate the advice. thanks a lot man. you are chaning many peoples lives.
I just walked away from a 7 year engagement. Got my ass out of there. I could see the writing on the wall.
Here's a 🥂
How you doing now ? She win you back ?
great quotes on self perception and how you portray it
"listened to him talk for hours...." good lord, the man is a straight-up female.
Uhh I dont think shes telling ya,ll the whole story cause she said she too was depressed. Im sure he had her back , she sounds like she would be complaining either way alpha or beta, she probably gonna regret it now that shes alone. I think she had someone else and made up some stupid excuse "he was too nice and sweet" Dude keep being yourself and stand for what you believe in and dont change who you are for no woman! She never really loved you from the jump! Find yourself a woman that love you for you! Fuck all the other bullshit be you !
I stand behind this message 100%!!!
I remember in one of Core'ys videos he said beware of women who cheat and have low integrity. he mentioned that sometimew people including women may lie, cheat ect. these are the kind of people who will keep fucking things up In a relationship. she's the type of woman that wouldn't help her man and may even cheat
yudzin88 I agree, spot on. The "beta males" usually treat their women a lot better than the so called "alphas". Women say they want alphas but then complain about their personality. The guy sounded like he was pretty cool to me.
yudzin88 I agree 100%. You are telling the obvious truth here my friend. She feels so comfortable leaving her kids all because he was "beta". Just imagine the kind of impression that's going to leave on them. She broke up their home all because he was "too nice". People have no conscience at all.
Sad to say this is true. Men will leave the woman for a younger and better looking one which is messed up itself. Relationships just aren't worth it because people don't know how to treat each other. People will never be able to understand or appreciate what love really is. Also a woman will leave a good guy like the man in the email and never look back but will fight for relationships with abusive fucks that couldn't give a shit about them. Women are so damn strange that it's ridiculous.
Women all together are too needy and want too much. And even when they have everything. They still will cheat on an alpha. smh.
Yeah why do you think Corey isn’t married lol
'NOT ALL WOMEN", LOL. No me, for certain. Loyalty are in my top list.
Trust me. There are some clingy, cringy men out there. Not all, but enough that most women have dated at least one man who has done some over dramatic shit. There are guys who say ‘I love you’ on first dates, get mad if they message a stranger and don’t get a reply within a few hours. There are guys who tell women how to wear their hair, and ‘don’t allow’ them to get a tattoo or piercing. I’ve been on dates with guys who have asked me to change how I dress, quit my job because I made more than them, and drop out of school because ‘you’re hot enough to not need work. We can just get married and then you’ll be fine.’ I’ve been on dates what the dude got insulted that I wanted to split the check, and then got even more insulted that o either didn’t want to sleep with him, or I turned down a second date. Their reason: ‘so I paid for your meal for free?’ Again, this is after I requested to pay my half of the check. There are guys who go through their gf’s phone, tell them they can’t have male friends, or possibly any friends. There are guys who act like it’s the end of the world if a woman won’t go on a date with them, yet ending term relationships because their gf asked them to help them with dinner. I’ve met a surprising amount of men who have never cooked it done housework. If they are single, mommy does it all for them... even if they have their own apartment. I had a guy ask me to quit working after a few casual dates because ‘it’s time to get serious and real women don’t work.’ Instead is accosting when I said ‘ok, this is not what I want,’ he begged me to change a major part of my life for him. That’s just the more mild bad dating experiences I’ve seen and had. I can’t speak for all women, but my friends and I just expect someone who will share finances and home responsibilities, have a balance of mutual and delegate interests, shows respect and sees us as their equal, who is on a path similar enough to ours that we will grow together, but not lose any part of our identities. Most men I know are not needy, fragile babies who expect us to give up our individuality and fun for them, and most men will fit the basic guidelines of your average woman, but needy, weak, ‘I’m an alpha male who can’t use a stove’ dudes definitely exist.
Great video as as always coach. For folks who blame and complain, they should man up by reading about american hero Roy Benavidez
He who cares less wins.
Yeah. Try to play that game when you gotta put food on the table and raise two kids, though. Married guys are fucked.
I usually like your videos and advice but this one was off the mark completely. You validated this woman 100%, when she wasn't even able to simply tell her husband exactly what she told you was wrong. The husband was screwing up, but she was a horrible communicator and wife. Now she is being discarded as low value by several men and will struggle to find a decent man that settles with her.
OMG! She left my dream man! I LOVE a pacific home, people who are calm e steady, a guy to cuddle and just be happy. PLEASE... WHERE ARE THE "BORING" BETA MALES? I think she made him a favor!
She’s having fun now I want to see where is she now.
Tragic story, but everyone needs to learn from it. The path to mediocrity is always on the map, but it can't be an option.
Corey's analysis is, as always, spot on. Always so interesting to watch and read his material.
I had the same upbringing as you did, Corey. It takes years to change your perception and behavior
Thanks for sharing Corey great info..
Maybe the ladies could just say "hey... read this book 10 times"
Sounds like he begged her for marriage and she said, yea sure whatever.
you're very wise. I'm glad i found your channel
She never said she tried to talk to her husband. Corey in his book says that women should help us in that when men don't understand how to act like men, it is not an obligation but they should. She could have bought the book and give it to him; she had to communicate. Sure, he has lots of things to change but I don't think she wanted to save that relationship either.
Lmao I like what he says at the end. I've recommended Corey's book to my friends. One of them in particular never picked it up and keeps fucking up. Peace Corey, you've brought me success in my relationships and career life.
Great video thanks Coach.
Simple, don't be a nice guy....treat her like a piece of meat to shag and ignore so she keep chasing, tell her you love her now and again but always make sure she is guessing on my feelings to her......
Err nope, i will always strive to be a gentleman, grounded, secure and dominant but with manners. I will treat my woman with respect and take the lead in all while valuing her opinion....i will work on my-self always and provide a caring environment for my partner and children. I will learn how to please her in the bedroom in ways she feels dominated while loved, respected and safe.....yes i will love and respect my partner but she will know i want her and not need her.
Yo I Fucking love you bro no homo 😂 that part that you said " black hole" 😂that's some real shxt loving how you keeping it real with these ppl tho 👌🏽
Good job mane.
just in time! I was just wondering about this topic!!
video has not even been out 10 mins and is more than 20 minutes long and already has a dislike? fucken haters
If you're mad at the lady who typed up this email... then you don't understand female psychology.
The person talking in this video is completely right. Listen, financial stability is cool and all but that's not what sexual attraction is about. If you think financial stability/resources are the end all be all of attraction then YOU are the superficial one, not the girl.
I'm not saying money doesn't attract women but would you rather attract a woman with an external resource or your own personality/sexual polarity?
This channel is awesome, thanks Corey.
kind of funny to notice how all the emails from women are on the lines of "my ex was broken so i got rid of him", and the emails from guys are on the lines of "i fucked up, help me get her back". god forbid the day when a woman will admit to part of the blame for a fucked relationship.
We're crazy. liking before veiwing. lol Corey's the man!
i before e
This woman has serious issues. Another guy would have dumped her arse well before the 15 years were up. At what point did she act feminine towards her husband to put him in his masculine? He just reflected her negative energy. Losing a woman like this would be a great relief to many. It would be interesting to hear the husband's side or where he is now with women.
12:40 Woman vasilating and going from acting very feminine and very sexy to kind of acting like a dude, trying to be the leader, trying to make all the decisions - instantly the sexual attraction evaporates. You can literally feel it happen.
15:25 Having a domineering mother, and if the father was around, the father was probably dominated by the mother (Corey's family). When you see that in your family, you try not to rock the boat, just go along with everything and become a people pleaser. Women love a man who has a fucking spine and stands up for himself and just simply says yes or no depending on what he wants.
I don’t feel so bad about never getting married and having kids now, of all my friends I wanted that the most and I’m the most single! Lol
this is the same thing as me leaving my wife because I don't find her attractive anymore. Women take advantage of nice guys. it's really cruel, but it's just natural as the lion eats the zebra.
Hey Corey!!! 3months in & I have more dates more pleasant encounters& even random women from Nowhere coming to be in my presence. Even my fortune cookie even told me that a secret admirer was goning to show a sign of affection. A girl who I never dated but knew just messaged me saying Im hot AF after I told her no nonsense.😅 #GetTheBook
There is truth in criticism. However, some women and men are never satisfied...
Note to self: *Must catch self-talk*
Oh man and the most ironic part about all of this is that Corey Wayne still isn’t married. Geez I wonder what it is about understanding women that would cause you to avoid marriage.
It's unnecessary
Well now that the chick has had an epiphany and realized she divorced that guy through no fault of his own will he be getting all his alimony bac.... Pffffft HA ha ha ha ha!!!
Your tips are great.
She left her family for casual sex , this time I disagree with Corey
so if this guy started to read your book and take his advice do u think it would be too late already? (to get his family back)
Hey corey, just want to say I love your stuff. I've had more success with women since I read your stuff than I ever had before. Have you thought about writing a book about your business insights? I've watched your RUclips vids on business but there are not that many. It would be cool to get the other side of the coin so to speak. Thanks for all you do
eventually I will
OMGGGG! This is exactly the type of guy im dating right now. There was something i couldnt put my finger on as to why my attraction has decreased. THIS IS WHY. I grew up with my dad being an alpha male. He was retired but a masculine man I had a GREAT relationship with. I respected him sooo much. I am a very feminine woman and I cant have i guy that I cant respect. Your explanation was on point and helped me understand clearly why this wont work out. I care about his feelings and do not wish to lead him on but didnt want to let a nice guy go. He is a good guy but not the guy for me.
THANK YOU CORY
cuiet16 did u find any one alpha now
Recovering nice guy here. Yes this is problem with some guys. Not well established with their inner masculine. He’s got to learn this on his own. Letting him go might be the best thing for him. And just maybe he’ll come back a stronger man.
More truth from the Coach. It really makes a huge impact hearing it from the woman's side. Most people should reconsider their marriages or at least study Coach's material and incorporate his teachings.
Coach Corey's story about the contact lens folding up in his eye has ME laughing out loud, and I'm a dude! These ladies don't stand a chance when The Coach puts his mind to it.
Granted the beta behavior didn't help, but her real breaking point came when she had to get up off her ass and go to work. She said so herself. Hang out, have fun, hook up. But don't ever get married. The ROI simply isn't there these days.
Thanks a lot man :) you are a life school
Instead of congratulating that woman, how about considering the aspect that she fed her ex-husband false cues all this time by accepting situations, lying about sex, etc.? She might have been gradually unhappier and her husband might have drifted away from what she initially liked in him indeed, but it's a terrible strategy to expect your partner to be a mind reader, especially if you're wearing a mask. The real courage, the true intelligence isn't to endure until you just leave without even being able to explain why (the classic), it's to try and figure out what brings back harmony in yourself and in the relationship and express it. Now either partners can be lost at this (lacking the tools, the awareness, the hindsight), but pretending until it's too late helps no one. Yet another fucking waste.
Cant be mad it was just his turn
Getting stoned with contacts doesn't work well I agree! Lol
Plot twist / Next video: Her ex husband finds Corey's book and wins her back
Reads it 10-15 times
So true!!! I appreciate a man who's honest and isn't afraid to tell me the truth! Is it being in my masculine just because I'd prefer a parter where we can take turns co-leading? I want an equal not a doormat or a "dad". I already have a dad. Lol
"Co-leading?" You obviously want a man you can have your way with.
ur lost..
Hey Corey! Just one question. What if she asks me why I'm only contacting her once a week? What should be my response? Thank you for your work and material it's great!
For me keeping dating a woman that is not worth it messes you up. Is good to go out with many women but when you see something wrong is better to walk out and keep going with the others. Don't get hanged up with bad ones people.
This explains why my wife served me with papers after 17 years. I'm that guy. This video would have saved my marriage. The hair on my neck stood up because he described my ex-wife and I to a T. Now I know.
eastlake93 you dodged a bullet mate
He didn't dodge any bullets if he was with her for 17 years!
Bachelor Frog Meh he can find a new younger woman now ;)
Sorry about that, mate. That's the stuff we should have been taught as boys, but we grow up believing in lies.
Thus endeth the lesson.
I need some advice please. this girl I hired to sing for me is showing interest in me all of a sudden after i deactivated my fb. gave me her numbet on snapchat and stuff. she is a 10. has her own fashion label and is a professional singer. performs at various venues and has been on local radio. but im just a bedroom producer so theres nothing for her to gain from me. I have no success in music as its more of a hobby plus im a uni student. she is 3 years older than me. How do i go about not turning her off since she seems interested? should i seem disinterested ?
So.. it took her 15 years to realize this ? Lol now i can find her at my local bar niceeee
Reminds me of the movie Crazy Stupid Love
Hi Corey I've been following you and read your book and basically you are my life coach. My question is this I'm a expert in my field ( hairstylist and makeup) and have had my beauty channel for a year and I don't know how to get more subscribers. I'm getting high views on some. I would love any tips or info 💛
Post consistently and at the same times every week. look at your competition and see what they are doing and model what they are doing successfully. Get sound panels for your video studio so your voice does not bounce off the walls. I get mine from here: www.acoustimac.com/ Add thumbnail images to all of your existing and future new videos with the video title on them like mine have. that doubled my subscriber add rate when I did that. organize your channel into categories on your channel homepage similar to what I've done on mine: Hair, Eyes, Clothes, etc., whatever your categories happen to be. Add a paragraph or two that describes what your video is to the video description that appears underneath every video. Example of my video text from the "show more" tab from todays video:
"The art of negotiating a great deal so you can achieve your outcomes & reach your full potential.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss a short email success story from a viewer who has been following my work for about six months. He details how it has changed the way he thinks about himself, the value he brings to the table and how he now negotiates from a position of strength to achieve his outcomes. He went from practically begging women to pay attention to him, to being able to approach them anytime, anyplace and anywhere. They often ask for his phone number and later call to ask him out for dates despite the fact they know he is dating other women. I also discuss twelve of my recent Instagram quotes and the success philosophies behind them, and how you can use their wisdom to negotiate better personal and professional deals."
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Hi Coach Corey. I'm a senior in high school and I've been hanging around with this girl in the grade below me. I have a few classes with her and we hang out quite often. I am not sure whether she has a boyfriend or not. I really want to start something with her and I don't know what to do because I've never dated anyone before. She has contacted me a decent amount of times to hang out and we're getting to know each other better. How am I going to find out if she's already in a relationship or not? Please help. Much appreciated
Honestly I've given up on dating
dam na lot of true things here
Now, to address this video, Corey, you've got to address these issues from a psychological and/or spiritual point of view. It's blatantly obvious that the woman was with a man who needs personal counseling and healing. He is obviously damaged, broken from childhood trauma and people (codependents especially) continue to nurse the fantasy that enough love will heal them. No, it will not. The man had self-love deficit disorder, depression and self-loathing. He based his worth and lovability on being a provider and he was emotionally unavailable and unable to provide emotional and spiritual nurture, encouragement and healthy love. He is so insecure as a result of childhood trauma that he could not initiate sex either. Sadly, the woman in the email was not astute or aware enough to see him from an individual and objective standpoint. So she thought she could fix him herself. She needed to leave him, just as she did, and he needs to avoid relationships until he gets himself the counseling and healing needed to be able to sustain a healthy relationship. Broken and dysfunctional people tend to think that relationships should just work and when they fail, over and over, they assume ALL human relationships fail, when in fact, it's their unhealthy mind attracting another unhealthy mind why the relationship is doomed without healing, because that's the nature of human beings. When I hear shallow and selfish explanations, it's as ignorant and superficial as if a scientist hears one lay person say to another lay person, "All human cells must be cancerous because some people get cancer." I'm sure many wish it were that simple, but the truth is that without understanding, we lack the language and the concepts to interpret events in our lives and the mind has an uncanny ability to fill in the gaps for survival.
Fact is she was looking for reasons to stay with him for 15 years until her lack of being happy in the first place caught up to her. She fell for the bait and has nobody to blame but her self. She only hated the things in him that she hated in herself. Maybe she should of gotten a hobby in life instead of putting her happiness in a mans hands. She had no self love or self respect to begin with.
This comment is ON POINT! My ex-husband was expecting me to "fix him" but he really needed to fix himself. Sadly, he jumped into another relationship and tells everyone that I'm crazy.
help! What should I do when I ask a girl over text when she's free, and she texts back but doesn't answer the question?
How can you prove to someone that you know what you done wrong, know the mistakes you made and that you've changed?
With my ex I pushed her away and got complacent but how can she see that I've changed if we are no longer in contact?
When she broke up with me I've walked away and not tried contacting her since. It's been 2 months and I saw her last night for the first time since the break up, we smiled at eachother and that was it.
I was with another girl all night laughing a joking so I guess she didn't like that but she didn't try to come and speak to me or anything
I love watching documentary about the social life of lions... these animals can give us a lesson on how our society have to be...
Yes, we get it. Tell someone about your book or get a copy of your book.
Read the fuckin book bro!!!!
Shit!
I'm not perfect the perfect man, I guess marriage is not for me.
just fix yourself.
Can you give examples of how people act in the way they perceive themselves? For example if someone thinks they’re not good enough, how do they act this way?
Healthygamergg has a great video on how your mindset affects your behavior "Talking with an Incel about Starting a Relationship" ruclips.net/video/MPnWbj70TTY/видео.htmlsi=1a7j4IFa4MkN_wDL
I see where your coming from, I think there is a two way street with society and relationships, this is the microcosm, there is also feminism, media in modernity, that is the macrocosm. I think these things help and I agree men should work improving themselves and their relationship skills, but there are external factors. Example microcosm, guy is fat and low self esteem microcosm, macrocosm - the economy, politics(feminism).
so true
I'm a boring beta male so I'm gonna stop here.
Thoughts create beliefs, beliefs create actions, actions reinforce thoughts...
I wonder who got custody of the kids.