answering questions girls are too afraid to ask w/ Jordan Ciciotti

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  • Опубликовано: 27 авг 2024

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  • @ToriAndChad
    @ToriAndChad  2 года назад +16

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      @ToriAndChad  2 года назад +2

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    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 года назад +1

      aww thank you so much Keeks!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 года назад +3

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  • @stephaniedidonato134
    @stephaniedidonato134 2 года назад +178

    Your answers to the last question meant so much to me. I’m currently 37 weeks pregnant with my first baby. My body looks completely different than it did 9 months ago. I have a ton of stretch marks and at first it was very hard for me to come to terms with them. The older women in my family have always been ashamed of their own marks. They even told me earlier in my pregnancy when they saw me in a swim suit that I was “blessed to not have any.” Fast forward just a few weeks and now I’m covered. But I now wear them with pride knowing that the growth of my belly and the marks that come with that is evidence that God is sustaining and growing my precious child.

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 года назад +15

      yes wear those with pride!

    • @rebekahcanova6403
      @rebekahcanova6403 2 года назад +5

      Amen! Well said! Being a mama and truly seeking the Lord in the raising of our precious children is the greatest work we can ever do because we are honoring the Lord in serving others and impacting a life or several lives for eternity! Instead of focusing on ourselves and our body we need to focus on how we can please the Lord and bless others! From a Mama who is pregnant with our 10th baby💕🙏

    • @taraleasure
      @taraleasure 2 года назад +1

      Aw yes I can relate to this so much! I’m 35 weeks and thought I wasn’t going to get any but then I hit 25ish weeks. It’s amazing to see how my husband still loves my body despite all my stretch marks. I just remind myself that our little girl is so worth it 💕

  • @whitneywilliams6168
    @whitneywilliams6168 2 года назад +45

    "if you can't love yourself right now, you never will", this hit so hard! The conversation around body image really encouraged my heart today!
    This video is filled with so much good perspective!

  • @nancydroge7682
    @nancydroge7682 2 года назад +8

    “When it comes to physical appearance, our wives are our standard… !”
    Beautiful!

  • @shwetav
    @shwetav 2 года назад +94

    Ah! This was good! It's so nice to hear the boys talk from their perspective about all this stuff girls want to know about! Thanks for doing this and being so honest! That ad break in a bow tie was real fun! Thanks for making us girls aware of how you boys think! 🙂

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 года назад +1

      awww thankyou for letting me know your feedback! We love you!

  • @claubit32
    @claubit32 2 года назад +66

    Jordan, I really appreciated your wisdom. Congratulations to you and Milena on your new baby!✝️😊

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 года назад +6

      I will share that message with him!

  • @wellworthitco.8495
    @wellworthitco.8495 2 года назад +26

    Don't apologize for getting too deep into the conversation! Those are the BEST!! IMO I wish ya'll had more content like this, and helping the young women in the Masters Fam understand men (whether they're single/dating/married) is such an important and topic not discussed enough in the church.

  • @teresacaceresvillarroya3793
    @teresacaceresvillarroya3793 2 года назад +10

    How beautifully said!!!!!! The Last answer deserves a standing ovation for the holy spirit for having inspired such an eye-opening comparison of Jesus ‘ scars as a sign of Love with moms’ bodies as a sign of love. Thank you so much, as a mom of 3, I will cherish this forever.

  • @kate_700
    @kate_700 2 года назад +7

    Praise God for Godly, masculine, devoted husbands like you both! May God raise up more!

  • @dsophie7816
    @dsophie7816 2 года назад +15

    That was really good what you said about the image based questions and your spouse being the epitomy of beauty. We grow with so many insecurities engraved to our minds by culture and media that it is so refreshing to hear how you honour your wives' body

  • @_devotionart
    @_devotionart 2 года назад +4

    Is amazing to hear you guys talk like this. I think is funny that as women we (for the most part) grow up thinking that men are very superficial and that they only think about sex and “a type of body” and is actually not like that. We tend to think every single man on earth thinks the same way, and you guys are the evidence that is not true. Thank God for men who really know who they are in Christ and also respect women in a truly beautiful way✨💕

  • @mominasweet
    @mominasweet 2 года назад +3

    Absolutely loved the part about highlighting how important commitment is in relationships and how important it is to encourage your partner because at the end of the day it's not about rather you love them enough or not but about the strong team and bond you build by uplifting each other through the hard parts of life because anyone can love someone on the good days. Just being thoughtful enough and considerate is what matters just as much. Chad preach on. You are an inspiration 👏🏻🤌🏻🙌🏻

  • @allisonlucas018
    @allisonlucas018 2 года назад +10

    Just read the description. Chad, you always hit the mark with them! I've been thinking about the topic of victory the last couple days and how I haven't been living like God has already won. I don't need to be anxious or worry because of our victory in Christ!

  • @nadinekba8989
    @nadinekba8989 2 года назад +5

    I truly feel like you guys are special ! There’s actually guys like you two out there? No wonder you’re married! This video was great. I love how Jordan speaks, very inspirational. He’s very intentional and genuine🤍Thanks for sharing!

  • @mallorymakenzie
    @mallorymakenzie 2 года назад +4

    THE DESCRIPTION IS FIRE 🔥😭 thank you. Also this video was great. Love the perspective from not just guys but godly men who live for Christ! Praying for y’all! 💗

  • @francescasalcedo
    @francescasalcedo 2 года назад +20

    Dynamic duo! Thank you guys for sharing your wisdom, these were some really great answers

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 года назад

      thank you for letting us know!

  • @clarapretorius794
    @clarapretorius794 2 года назад

    "If you can't love yourself right now, you never will." 🙌
    TRUTH

  • @jacquelyn1000
    @jacquelyn1000 2 года назад +3

    Love this. Thank you guys for being vulnerable! Helps to see men being vulnerable. I’ve learned that I respect a man so much more when they allow themselves to be real and not afraid to speak about these sorts of things!! 🙏🏼

  • @ZoeyIndigoSky
    @ZoeyIndigoSky 2 года назад +4

    Oh my gosh this was amazing!! And YESS to all the depth and focusing on the love, the beauty and the gift of God than physical appearance! Love you guys. It's so great to see two great male friends have these conversations. There needs to be more men that have a great group of friends where they can talk about all of this!

  • @Greg_Orr
    @Greg_Orr 2 года назад +18

    Another awesome video! Hope you and Tori and baby are healthy and doing well! Praying for you three and hope you have a great rest of the week! Also love the description Chad!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 года назад +3

      thanks a ton my man! You are the best!

  • @GermaineNimundel
    @GermaineNimundel Год назад +1

    I think for us girls I speak mostly for myself. The questioning is not because we don’t trust, but it’s because we want to be included and aware of what’s going on. You hear so many stories of woman whose husbands keep telling them they know what they’re doing an have things under control and then when things spiral, they’re not the only ones paying the price for it but now it’s the previously oblivious spouse stuck with the mess too cause she had to just trust and not question too much.

  • @mishajacobs.2000
    @mishajacobs.2000 2 года назад +26

    Props to you for answering these questions! I'm surprised and also not surprised that so many were on the physical side of things. Really learnt a lot from you guys🙌🏻

  • @rockyrock7756
    @rockyrock7756 2 года назад +3

    Jordan's analogy of Christ's scars and stretch marks that a woman bears from carrying a child was 👌🏽, never looked at it like that before

  • @inezhollmann5135
    @inezhollmann5135 2 года назад +3

    This was precious! How wonderful to hear that you don't obsess over looks

  • @rachelfaithmanning
    @rachelfaithmanning 2 года назад +1

    So blessed to hear others holding & sharing such a Godly perspective!

  • @kaydeebeedy1582
    @kaydeebeedy1582 2 года назад +6

    Y’all’s answer to that last question has me in tears as a mama. Thank you for reminding me how my husband really does see me! ❤️

  • @aligrace8135
    @aligrace8135 2 года назад +2

    This was seriously so nice! I’m so glad y’all answered questions that were unrelated to image. There’s so much more to a person. Looks are only scratching the surface! I love what y’all were saying about motherhood and how it needs to be seen as a gift. It’s far more important than any career.❤️

  • @adriahrestituyo506
    @adriahrestituyo506 2 года назад +2

    Love this SOOO much. Especially you’re beautiful perspective on motherhood and how IMPORTANT and amazing it is!!! ❤️ society says working is wayyyy better being a mom and it’s sad!

  • @sarahpreusser1514
    @sarahpreusser1514 2 года назад +3

    Not too deep at all !! I love hearing this !! Such wise Godly men !! Gives us hope that there are still other Godly Men out there !! Love love yalls videos !!

  • @cyndicopeland4113
    @cyndicopeland4113 2 года назад +4

    That was hilarious! We need more of just Chad and Jordan!

  • @tfeliciano1106
    @tfeliciano1106 2 года назад +1

    It’s beautiful to see you honor your wives, and keep the Lord in the conversation.👏🏼

  • @justinemcpherson
    @justinemcpherson 2 года назад

    The way Chad threw in, "And some snacks" so precious. 😄(I instantly thought of Motts/Welchs fruit snacks)

  • @baileycornelll
    @baileycornelll 2 года назад +1

    I feel like these questions were answered with such a fatherly type of love.

  • @jenlewis354
    @jenlewis354 2 года назад +3

    "...it's just to give myself the best chance at reacting well"

  • @eemilee91
    @eemilee91 2 года назад +1

    That outro never gets old. :) You guys have such a cute bromance going on! The giggles you guys shared. 🤭Really enjoy the dynamic you guys have with each other, y'all are so funny. Appreciated your guys' insight/thoughtful answers! The last part about your wives being your guys' standard of beauty was too sweet.

  • @lexxilouuuu
    @lexxilouuuu 2 года назад +3

    Crying at work LOL - that last question hit me hard. Thank you for sharing your perspectives ❤

  • @nancydroge7682
    @nancydroge7682 2 года назад +1

    ~Powerful, powerful encouragement! GOD IS IN THIS, for sure! Way to go, guys! It’s pure joy to watch God working in & through you the way that He does! Thank you for being who God designed & made you to be & for using your gifts to spread the joy & further the kingdom in the extraordinarily powerful way that you do!
    Grateful!

  • @elenaursachianu1074
    @elenaursachianu1074 2 года назад +1

    More of this, maybe a series with guys talk & one with girl talk .
    GOD bless you all & His name be PRAISED!
    hugs, from Romania

  • @cassidyjordan4690
    @cassidyjordan4690 2 года назад +1

    The ad was so hilarious! I had no idea Chad was that funny! What a fun surprise! Q & A chat was great too!

  • @mishajacobs.2000
    @mishajacobs.2000 2 года назад +11

    The bow tie 😂😂 need to see Chad in more commercials

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 года назад +1

      ahahah if more people like it, then I will do more!

  • @andreaarmstrong7543
    @andreaarmstrong7543 2 года назад +1

    Hi guys, thank you for sharing your perspective. My husband is not confident in expressing his feelings, what you talked about gave me a great insight into why and what I need to do to support him. From NZ

  • @YAD1997
    @YAD1997 2 года назад +1

    Looooved all your questions you picked and the answers as well! 🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @hannahsnyder8748
    @hannahsnyder8748 2 года назад +2

    Thank you so much for the example you both set and for emphasizing the right things! So blessed by this video ❤️

  • @charafisher6929
    @charafisher6929 2 года назад

    This was great! Thank you guys for answering some of the more image based questions because it is so good to hear the truth that men who are submitted to God notice but do not obsess over a woman’s appearance. My husband is a godly man and I’m so thankful for him too. It is however something that many women think often due to our heart questions “Am I enough?”, “Am I too much?”, and “Am I loved?”

  • @Kiayamarieee
    @Kiayamarieee 2 года назад +4

    Love these type of videos! Also cool to see from a guys perspective cause it’s reminded me and inspired me to give more safety and space for my boyfriend to process too…thank y’all!

  • @eeg122
    @eeg122 2 года назад +1

    Congratulations to both of your parents for bringing you guys up in the way you should go. Credit to you both for staying the course w/ the Lord and allowing him to mold you in the men that you are. Your answers were mature. Milena & Tori are very blessed to have you. And of course big big Praise to our Lord & Savior for His Love grace & mercy.

  • @maryckepienaar7959
    @maryckepienaar7959 Год назад

    Happily married for 10 years to my amazing hubs and we have 2 beautiful daughters. But this video was a blessing in disguise😂😝always fun and amazing to hear things from a different perspective! Definitely taking the good and applying it😅🙏🏻

  • @haroldgeernian3699
    @haroldgeernian3699 2 года назад +1

    That question about body image really hit me hard. My main hobby is golf, and all my friends are better than me and I've had issues with feeling lesser than them because I can't spend the time or money to get the newest clubs and lessons all the time.

  • @lunarose72
    @lunarose72 2 года назад +7

    We love this dynamic duo haha

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 года назад +2

      I want to do more videos like this! lol

  • @christinawatkinsyoutube
    @christinawatkinsyoutube Год назад

    getting Jim from the Office vibes with that Ad 🤣

  • @brittanygreenland9059
    @brittanygreenland9059 2 года назад +1

    The ad was amazing! First time i've watched a full ad in a long time ahaha

  • @jlv61560
    @jlv61560 2 года назад +1

    The Romans had a saying; "Oculi ducunt in amorem." "The eyes lead in love." It IS looks that attract us to one another (and everyone likes a different kind of "look," so don't assume anything). After that, unless you are an incredibly shallow person, it's the whole package that keeps us interested in each other -- looks, intelligence, wit, behavior, the whole nine yards. If you stop and think about it, everyone of us under the sun does it exactly the same way, regardless of being a man or a woman!
    There's a difference between "confidence" and "arrogance," by the way. 🙂

  • @Greg_Orr
    @Greg_Orr 2 года назад +8

    Hahahaha Jordan trying to sing the outro part. Not bad for a first attempt!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 года назад +2

      hahah a he actually did decent!

  • @TreasureLovely
    @TreasureLovely 2 года назад +1

    This was amazing!! So insightful to know how kingdom men view women. Thank you Chad and Jordan! Y'all are awesome ❤

  • @lailavipal
    @lailavipal 2 года назад +1

    Soooo much wisdom in there! Thank you guys! :) And the description is fire! Thanks for the reminder!!

  • @cbentler4528
    @cbentler4528 Год назад

    🤣 "Women are like ovens, they have to be pre-heated" LOL so true

  • @bibi3297
    @bibi3297 2 года назад

    when they compared Jesus's crucifixion scars with mother's stretch marks as a physical testimony of love... WOW! Blew my mind ❤ 🤯

  • @unciaciapanca
    @unciaciapanca 2 года назад

    Love them both. Young men need examples like them

  • @briggseats4472
    @briggseats4472 Год назад

    Can y’all please do another one
    The generation need this

  • @cjay6033
    @cjay6033 2 года назад +1

    Omg! Am so happy your both are talking about important topic 👍

  • @drummergirl0385
    @drummergirl0385 2 года назад

    Thank you both so much for answering these questions and especially from a Christian perspective.

  • @ToriAndChad
    @ToriAndChad  Год назад

    Hi MastersFam! Please do not fall for these spam/scam comments. We will NEVER ask you to send money or for your banking information etc… The only messages from us are the ones with a checkmark by our name… Report any spam comments you see! Sorry this is a reality but YT does not do a lot to stop these spam/scam accounts..

  • @mj_9450
    @mj_9450 2 года назад

    But yall will agree with me that WE NEED THIS COMBO 😁 Jordan and Chad, this was great and I feel like we could use more of these videos - a series, maybe? So, so helpful 🤗

  • @lik3mik365
    @lik3mik365 2 года назад

    Might just be the best sponsored skit ever! The music in the background haha!

  • @EleniceASolis
    @EleniceASolis 2 года назад +1

    My husband says messy buns reminds him of a target 🎯 then proceeds to do a shooting motion at it 😂😂😂…thank you for making this video! It was definitely interesting and had me thinking.

  • @ev_green_
    @ev_green_ 2 года назад +4

    Omg the express ad ...the mini hands

  • @Greg_Orr
    @Greg_Orr 2 года назад +5

    Hahaha yes Chad! That ExpressVPN ad break segment was so good!

  • @shaughnsmit2076
    @shaughnsmit2076 2 года назад +8

    To all the ladies, this is such a great perspective video!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 года назад +1

      hahah we need to do one together!!

  • @stephanieac7893
    @stephanieac7893 Год назад

    Thank you guys for this video! Loved hearing your perspective and also so encouraged by the fact that there are good Godly men out there... and that shines with how you live your life 🧡

  • @cdesjardins1988
    @cdesjardins1988 2 года назад

    Definitely love hearing other men and their thoughts about women among other things. Make more of these vlogs! So interesting!

  • @Greg_Orr
    @Greg_Orr 2 года назад +9

    The boyssss! Looking forward to this one!

  • @ManonJadeYeah
    @ManonJadeYeah 2 года назад

    Amen for your anwers and especially the last one. Hope many young men will watch the video and be inspired by your respect, maturity and hearts to be great husbands :)

  • @jonathanrolle5118
    @jonathanrolle5118 2 года назад +3

    Awesome video! Enjoyed the bro talk👍

  • @vallenclark1721
    @vallenclark1721 Год назад

    Wow I love that analogy of Jesus' scars to a women's stretch marks!! I've never thought of it like that. Wow I seriously love that❤️😥🙏❤️

  • @naomigrace8261
    @naomigrace8261 Год назад

    Loved the answer to the last question 😍🙌🏼

  • @sofiaiwaszewicz4251
    @sofiaiwaszewicz4251 2 года назад

    i felt so hugged in my soul right now 🥹

  • @beautifulmariah6677
    @beautifulmariah6677 2 года назад +3

    Random thing,Jordan’s shirt matches chads eyes and vice versa🤣

  • @KimberlyWatson2023
    @KimberlyWatson2023 Год назад

    My experience it's been like a month after talking constantly or so that all the sudden the guys head over heels for me and in love and is ready to move in and get married when all I've done was opened up with my confidence in myself and I care about others around me and I always make it loud and clear to them it starts with a friendship not friends with benefits and sex isn't the first thing on my mind ever I never want to rush anything anymore because nothing has worked in the past so my mentality is if I'm single forever so be it as long as I'm happy with myself and love myself that's all I need as a 42yr old wheelchair bound woman who's been threw all the bad stuff sexual physical emotional abuse I've been called everything under the sun because they wanted me to feel worse than them and it worked for a short time but I'm way stronger now.

  • @abifaithh
    @abifaithh 2 года назад

    i love this! wish men expressed stuff like this more!!

  • @outstandingsyd
    @outstandingsyd Год назад

    Lol at Milena making Jordan get paper when she ran out. I know that’s right 😂

  • @kelimyers3433
    @kelimyers3433 2 года назад

    Great to hear a man’s opinion and point of view.

  • @dsophie7816
    @dsophie7816 2 года назад +4

    Thank you! That was really interesting

  • @graceforclaire8888
    @graceforclaire8888 2 года назад

    Thank you for answering all the questions, and for making this video. 💖👍

  • @addisonswannack
    @addisonswannack 2 года назад

    this was such a fun video! would love a part 2!

  • @emiliamartinez5463
    @emiliamartinez5463 2 года назад +1

    It's funny how guys feel uncomfortable with some type of questions, whereas girls are like "yes, more questions like this!"

  • @nat2057
    @nat2057 2 года назад +2

    The bowtie 😭😭🤣💀

  • @shaughnsmit2076
    @shaughnsmit2076 2 года назад +6

    Awesome description again Chad!

  • @christinelee2535
    @christinelee2535 2 года назад

    i only enjoy ADs on this channel. LITERALLY the best thing in the world. Express VPN better give them a pay raise.

  • @harleighstringer
    @harleighstringer 2 года назад

    we love this duo

  • @biancajc
    @biancajc 2 года назад +1

    What a great duo! :D

  • @dreaplascencia
    @dreaplascencia 2 года назад +2

    Love this!

  • @ashleyjohnson5026
    @ashleyjohnson5026 2 года назад +1

    This is the only RUclips video that I did not skip through the sponsorship lol

  • @patwilliams676
    @patwilliams676 2 года назад +2

    I’m not a man, but when I receive a question or a lot of questions, I tend to feel like I’m being questioned too. Does this apply to most women too, or am I just different 🤔

  • @JMKrech
    @JMKrech 2 года назад +5

    Yesss woohooo!!! This was fun to watch!

  • @MamaBear0414
    @MamaBear0414 2 года назад +2

    Jordan is the male version of Milena and Chad is the male version of Tori lol

  • @Dana-mb1hd
    @Dana-mb1hd 2 года назад

    you guys are awesome! god bless both your families ❤️

  • @SimplyLivingInFaith
    @SimplyLivingInFaith 2 года назад

    The ending 🤣. But so true what you said at the end. The questions were a lot on outer ness.

  • @amybueckert6411
    @amybueckert6411 2 года назад

    Thanks for doing this guy's. It was great information.

  • @LNRyen
    @LNRyen 2 года назад

    The last one made me want to cry 🥺

  • @keana._
    @keana._ 2 года назад +7

    notebook flashbacks got me 🤣