I am meditating upwards of 2-3 hours a day now Kyle, and all the questions of “HOW”, the confusion of what I “should be doing”, it really does all vanish eventually. I am seeing how complete I am, how complete everything is in this moment. I’m nearing the point of total surrender, and I couldn’t feel more at peace. Even when I have those feeling I used to perceive as “negative” as things I “shouldn’t” be feeling, I am at peace. Thank you for being in harmony with source Kyle and continuing to discover what you are.
I was spoon fed shame and fear all my life. The God I was introduced to a God I was supposed to fear. This topic is so sensitive and cried every listening to this video 4 times!
Excellent! I was raised in a home with alcoholism & as I got older developed binge eating disorder to cope with the pain of shame. It took a lot of years of eating disorder therapy to move through all the shame & to heal. This moved me to GREAT spiritual growth & learning about how to love. Shame is such a huge deterrent to love. Shame never changes anything...love does!!!
So I’m currently living at the age of 41 with those parents that shamed me. And I’m here because I lost everything. And I’ve been here six weeks and I keep making so much growth on self love and being present and surrendering and all the work to raise my vibe but they are still pressuring me and shaming me to DO something and won’t hear that I AM doing something. So I am repeatedly shamed and falling into shame. I needed this video. Thank you. However I’m not sure what to do with the pressure they are putting on me as I try to surrender and follow this silent flow love and light based way I’m feeling guided to as my truth.
As a therapist and mindset coach, I am very aware of shame and that we shouldn't be shaming ourselves, however, Ive been feeling a bit of that recently due to feeling off focus a bit complacent. Then this video popped on my feed. While listening to you and exercising at the same time, I just bursted into tears.... I knew this before but it came to me harder just now that, there is no need for shame at this moment. It is not complacency, rather I'm just pure content, grateful, and happy where I am in my life. What I have been wishing for my whole life.... (a happy loving family, not jailed to a job, not worrying about money..etc) are what I have in my reality right now. Those things I thought it was impossible to achieve.... and now that I have them, I was so thankful and later that happiness just kept trying to turn into shame as if it was speaking to me saying "HOW DARE YOU STAY HAPPY!" "WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE BEING HAPPY!", it's my ego deep inside of me still reminding me that its still in there somewhere. I use to identify myself as a person who probably didn't deserve all of this and that was also my childhood and upbringing. I am so thankful for you Kyle and the collective consciousness to bring me to this huge realization. Thank you thank you thank you❤️🙏
YOU attracted his message. That's pretty bad-ass, imho. It appears your Higher Self is hella stronger than your ego. Good job 🤍. You got this -- and YOU DESERVE IT.
"Real change happens, when the pattern no longer exists." This whole talk was such a big one for me. This quote has been in my (metaphorical) pocket ever since the live session... yes! I think I've been a butterfly sitting on the ground chatting with the caterpillars amd ignoring my wings... so many epiphanies... Kyle, you have amd continue to make such an impact on my life. Thank you!!!
This was just what I needed to hear today 🙏 Recognising that I too believed that I could let God down, as I continued on the path of the pendulum between shaming myself, and then saying 'fuck the shame' imma do whatever want! Stepping into the new me isn't the same as setting the shame down. Actively trying to erase the shame has been keeping me in that energy, as it has always been the shame that's has been doing the trying... ❤
This is so profoundly true. I was at a pretty dark place yesterday and tried to listen to the silence. I just realized that the reason it was so difficult was shame. The ego can be so relentless and shout shame into you for all the things you never did. One person cannot do it all. It's nice to kno that I dont have to do everything. We can share the load of molding beauty into the world. Especially with art, I have a crazy, unyielding need to 'become a renowned artist' no matter in what field. And the energy that goes along with that is so uncomfortable. Just knowing that I am okay and the world will create beautiful art even if it might not be me, is nice.
I find myself constantly nodding and saying “yes!” during your videos. I learn so much in such a short time. You are surely an elevated man to know all you do. Thank you for sharing your knowledge.
Once again, it is like you are speaking directly to me. I just had lunch 3 hours before listening to this with someone I have a crush on, and I needed to hear this! Your telling me to appreciate something without needing more from it showed me that my mind can focus on the growth from that moment rather than the expectation of a different moment in the future. In fact, all we have is this moment so I should savor it when it is both glorious and also excruciating.
I came across your videos just a month ago and now I can be going about my day and get a mental notification about when I need to sit and listen. I don't know how to thank you enough, I'm finally feeling like I'm LEARNING FREEDOM 🙏🏾
Thx so much Kyle for sharing so generously! What a gift to be a part of this "liberating point of view movement". So deep and so empowering! Much love to every who watches this.
I just started tuning into you man and ......you make me cry incredibly happy tears as you describe very well this ride I am on and what is happening to me. Thank You.
You speak often of death to the old self, so I was thinking maybe you could write a book called “Cease to Exist,” get it? 😁 These videos are amazing, I keep listening to them, and I get something new every time. Thank you 🙏💜
Thank you shame. You had your run and I had to release it from my mind and body out for good. Without any strong emotions attached to a painful thought/experience - you are free from it. I am so happy I did let it all melt in my magical volcano. ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨❤️
Holy Sheetballz... Several nuggets but this one stood out: Why do you I need to be the one that has to learn and perform everything I'm interested in or inspired by ?? I can just appreciate those doing the amazing thing. We're all one. Gold, baby, thx Kyle 🪙!
Like so many of the commenters stated here I too resonated with the story about feeling the need to be the great piano player instead of enjoying the shit out of what's happening in the now. I believe for me this is also shaming the self for not being enough. Once again a pattern identified. Thank you once again kind Sir!
I've been asking great spirit for clarity about what the blockage is. This is the answer I didn't know I needed. Thank you Kyle - amazing video as always. Much love!
I’ve just joined your wonderful community after watching many many of your videos. This is the Universe taking me to the next step in my evolution. ✨🕊✨ Deepest Gratitude Kyle ✨🕊✨
“All shame is, is an argument with God.” ✨ “Real change happens when the pattern no longer exists.” Yes! “Most of the actions we’ve made that we don’t like anyways came from being shamed in the first place.” 💯
'why do i need to be anywhere other than where i am ??!! ... accepting and appreciating the moment is AMAZING !! and truly, there's only ONE of us here , anyway !! ... brilliant relaxation revelation .
Thank you Kyle !! Love this. I think I barely realize how deep the guilt and shame has been inculcated in me from a young age. Besides my father dying when I was 6 y/o, I would say I had a fairly joyful childhood and I truly appreciate my mother and the way she raised me. I can still sense however, that the water in which I swam, from the Catholic church, to Catholic school, to my family to the rules of society as I interpreted them, there was definitely an underlying sense that guilt "works". Now shame is always close on the tails of guilt. Anyway, hearing this helps. Here's to being Free, Joyful, and Radiant Beings of Light !!
I had the same thing happen to me 6 years ago. To be frank, all mainstream clinical psychiatry treatment is shame based. It doesn’t work as good as good as the natural stuff. You heal when you love and accept yourself, plus you get cool abilities!
@@aubrielledegn4809 Thank you :) Yeah absolutely, I agree. I've been on a healing journey over the last 6 years, I feel letting go of the shame is the final part. The shame didn't hit me until maybe 2 years ago, as I had so much other stuff to heal from first after long term psychological abuse working for a psychopath. I'll get there in time.
I'm in the middle (or who knows just how far I'm in it) of tremendous change. I continue to judge myself and wonder if I'll ever make the transition from people pleaser to fully authentic in my lifetime. I simply want to be me, and use my voice. Thank you, Kyle, for this video, and your constant encouragement and compassion. I do believe we can channel God's love for each other and you do that in your work.
Really needed this message, thank you. I have really been struggling with the religious dogma I grew up with and no longer resonate with; those who still ascribe to the exclusionary doctrine of "think like us or you're doomed" have a crafty way of pointing the finger toward my beliefs and trying to make me feel like I am the one who is crafty and deceptive and deceived - people I have come to trust and respect who have slipped back down into the shame and blame, doom and gloom energy. I don't understand it and it makes me really sad, how we can become so expansive and so open to the idea that we all are capable of experiencing the Oneness of All That Is and then just so easily fall back into "we have the Truth, you don't, believe us or perish." And that they appear so veiled by the hypocrisy in their statements. Anyway, Kyle, thank you for being a beacon of light at this time.
Pausing ... was nodding my head yes when you spoke of not wanting to do God wrong.. I absolutely felt that and made a not so serving decision to get married because I had a child beforehand. I allowed myself to get guilted into it because some woman who is very much by the Bible created a fear in me that I had felt being a part of a family that grew up Catholic. Fast forward I am divorced and have done a lot of inner work since then but now I see there's more .. You nailed it with how I have been seeing God and I have viewed God from how I was spoken to.. You are the message I needed tonight .. Grateful 🙏
the need to "also do that", ooohhhhh how i know what that feels like. in fact, it's possible that every conversation i ever had, from the past, included an "also do that". whether it was a hike a friend enjoyed, or, or, or. but NOW, i can appreciate it without even thinking of "also do that"......., it finally comes naturally, just BEing. what a pure, unadulterated enjoyment/feeling. thank you, always.
This is exactly what I needed to hear tonight. The shame thing is real. It’s a conflict that exists currently between me and God. I need to know my time is not now to release the actions I do is not shameful. I need to be kind and patient with myself. Teetering on 3D and 5D. Surrender to what is IS my current struggle
Another great one from Kyle! Reminds me of what Abraham Hicks said; "You cannot get it wrong, and you never get it done." So, let's enjoy the unfolding!
Yes!! I’m experiencing this too. Cut out the middle man and appreciate the experience and say goodbye to the shame of not ever (for me ) learning the piano. It’s ok, I can appreciate the pianist without having to be the pianist. Just be ok with where I am. Whatever I’m meant to learn will be. Thank you Kyle!
Geeessshhh!! The way your words come out are so smooth & relatable & honest it’s wild! You know how to break down even the most subtle things that i myself didn’t think I needed to hear out loud! Wow!🎯 keep doing you Kyle! Much appreciation!
Contentment, love of self and others, expansion, forgiveness and understanding, letting go of fear and worry, getting out of the way of natural growth, holding space for self and others, opening to awareness -- thank you for all of these gifts, and more, from this video
Awesome reminder to just sit and appreciate the jazz rather than having “to do the gorgeous chords.” “Appreciation of the now is being all that is-ness. All that we see around us comes from us. Shame is silly. We are supposed to learn to grow. We are here to expand All shame is is a long stuck argument with God. Shame creates fear. It keeps us in the small consciousness. Shame is like a freezer getting on ice and screaming at it that it should be water. No one changes with shame. Real change happens when the pattern no longer exists. Parents are supposed to support all that you are to thrive not to shame you. It just takes awareness. Asking how much longer things take is you working in the time and effort frequency. This is a shame comment.” Thanks for the message. The Illuminati hands comment holding your circled finger to your eye-ROFL!!!
Excellent and important conversation. God/ Source is pure unconditional love. Unconditional love. We're here to learn and grow and improve . Source loves us through our progression, not just if / when we're perfect. Shame lowers your vibration. You can change your behavior and practice without hating yourself. ❤️
After the first two minutes- “God” is the Life happening through the aperture of awareness that “you”. How could It be disappointed? It’s been making all the decisions all along- as all of us. 💛🙏
Yet another important message from you Kyle I completely understand the energy of the language coming through you and I appreciate you and these teachings so very much.✨⭐️✨🙏🏼🙏🏼🇨🇦🙏🏼🙏🏼✨✨✨✨✨🔮🦚🦚🦚🦚🦚
Thank you 💕 Just stumbled across this clip this morning after 'shame' coming up yesterday connected to a past event. I was very emotional and wasn't sure how to clear it. Coincidentally I bought the movie 'Soul' yesterday. Had never heard of it, just happened to pick it up amongst some supermarket DVDs! Gratefully appreciate your wonderfully wise messages 🙏💖
I really appreciate your ability to impart so much authenticity, gems 💎 of wisdom and healing advice whilst simultaneously making me laugh so much Kyle! (With you - not at you!) I found this video particularly therapeutic 💖 your analogy about the freezer and ice had me rolling 😂 so true though! Passing on the good vibes to all reading this comment! 😍🙏💓✨🙌
You have a wonderful way of helping one confront reality, very empowering indeed. Not all is lost, it has only just begun and the best is yet to come! Just let it all go, a higher power of consciousness is at work now, we are meant to feel it and embrace it with all our being
Kyle, I had a big insight today. I have not said to my sister that her using my bathroom when she had her own complete bathroom was pissing me off. For a year I kept quiet thinking I should not make a big fuss. I shouldn't be petty. We are living in our parents house for the first time as adults. I have always had my own place and been independent. Since meditating for 2 hours a day for 2 weeks now with you, I realised me holding myself back and not creating boundaries with her was from programming. I realised my inner child (or as a child) nobody told me about my sister coming. Young Aida didn't want a sibling. When my sister came along, I was 3 and a half and forced to accept her. Emotionally I didn't accept her. I felt over run. I felt 'quieted'. I felt I had no choice but to be a good big sister. Nobody asked little Aida if she was ok to welcome a sister. That is why the main emotion I feel from her, now as an adult, is intrusion. She triggers me in many ways for 'invading' my space. So today, I finally can release by informing her to not use my bathroom, draw the line and more importantly acknowledge to my inner child that yes, you can say how you feel. ' It's ok to say I don't want a sister.' 'I am not ready to have a sibling'. I felt so light and liberated.✨✨ I have been keeping this story amd emotion of frustration and anger of being forced to accept someone in my life that I wasn't ready for. ♥️♥️♥️
I have great regrets of capturing every moment I could of holidays on my video camera and camera. I always felt I missed the magical moments of what was happening in the now at that time. I thought I would feel and have the same experience when I got home. It never was the same. The moment was lost and they just became something to look at. Now I only use a camera for art. I now live in the moment of what I am experiencing without the technology. It is truely makes those experiences more magical. I have missed out on much because of this
Omg! The part about the Soul movie and beeing the doer just HIT HOME! That was so ME! The doer and not the enjoer and it was exhausting. I'm so glad you brought that up and that I caught it. Love your content and the way it makes me grow out of my old habits and patterns. Forever greatful. 🙏🏼❤
Hi Kyle. I’ve been watching your RUclips videos and I really like your messages to the world. You are truly one of the genuine “prophets” who are making a difference in helping the world’s consciousness evolve. I’m almost 59 years old and I can honestly say that I’ve been on a spiritual journey most of my life. I’m still on the journey and as much as I hoped that some of the past “mistakes” of my life would finally be healed by allowing them to surface, they have not…not really. They come back over and over and over…and at this time in my life…I’m experiencing a “break-up” so to speak with my 40 year old daughter…and trying like hell to keep telling myself, “there are no mistakes.” It’s the toughest. I’ve been doing this a lot of years and when it comes to your child telling you all the mistakes you made and how much they hate you, it’s got me in a hard place right now. When I was going through a divorce 20 years ago, one of my most admired spiritual friends was a 70 something nun who I so admired for her grace, her non judgment, her mild manner and loving nature. She told me how life is a process, like the peeling of an onion, each time we go through a deep level of spiritual healing, it’s like peeling those layers away. I asked her once, “Sister Rose, does this process of the peeling ever end?” Her response was, “We never stop the process. No matter how old we are, we continue to peel those layers.” My "layer peeling" began many year ago and continues. It's never easy or enjoyable. Journaling during the most turbulent years really helped me to “heal” to a degree and to get though a particular time in my life. I thought you might like to read this journal excerpt from 2004. I think you’ll resonate with it. As Sister Rose said, the process never ends. We will forever deal with things that come up to be healed and when it’s finally at the end, we will move on. That’s what I believe. Thank you. Keep on doing your good work for the world. We all need it. ____________________________________ August 21, 2004 Karen Landrum - Journal Excerpt “One day you finally knew what you had to do and began, though the voices around you kept shouting their bad advice - though the whole house began to tremble and you felt the old tug at your ankles. “Mend my life!”, each voice cried. But you didn’t stop.” - The Journey, by Mary Oliver There is a message I have been hearing lately, loud and clear. It keeps coming to me, in meditation, in the form of prayers or poems, in the particular phrases I open up to in books, as well as from others. The message is “Trust in the journey. Let the inner conflict rest. There are no mistakes - only misperceptions.” Once I let go of looking for a way out of my confusion and darkness, the way lights up the path that allows me to rest in the acceptance of all I think I want to change. It’s a good feeling to get myself out of the way so the energy of truth can move through, free of distortions. Funny how this journey takes its course, and how I relate to it. Often, I think if only I could remember the way out of this confusion, I’d be okay. I’ve been here before. I know I’ve had this lesson at least a billion times. SO WHY CAN’T I FIGURE THIS ONE OUT! Then...I remember. The confusion is not a mistake. The turmoil that I find myself in is not because I did something “wrong” and that I have somehow placed myself in a state of eternal punishment for not making the grade and getting it “right”. The confusion and the dark times are essential to the journey! No experience and nothing I do is a failure. It is part of the process! As I seek to discover who I am, I cannot know who I am unless I know who I am not. The only way to discover who I am not is through experience. To lovingly embrace what I term “failure” has been a challenge that I am continually moving through…and it is not an easy path to take. But I have noticed that once I let go, I feel a clearing from the inside that seems to move me easily on my path, rather than forced. Compassion is able to make its way in, without me standing in the way. Kindness can step in while I continue to change life-long habits into life-giving habits. To the degree that I have compassion for my dark times, for my bewilderment, that measures how much empathy I will have for another. In the book, “Mile Markers - 31 Stops on Your Inner Journey”, by Daniel O’Leary, he says something that really hits home for me. “Sooner or later, no matter which approach we take towards having a healthy mind in a healthy body, no matter how many self-help books we read or processes we undertake, no matter how many prayers we say or pilgrimages we make, our inner work will never be complete without the experience of forgiving and of being forgiven. Without these experiences, there can be no true, inner peace or freedom. Heaven is on earth when forgiveness happens. Without the words ‘I’m sorry’ and ‘I forgive you’, the promises and vows of love ring very hollow indeed. The need for a constant openness for forgiveness comes, you will have noticed, like a refrain, throughout these Breathers.” It makes so much sense that in order to know forgiveness, we must have the experiences in which we forgive and are forgiven. Otherwise, how else can we really know it from within? O’Leary explains that there is no alternative, no detour to avoid the reality of forgiveness. The reason being that “whatever the nature of the negative emotions from which we suffer and from which we crave some release and healing, we are essentially acting out of a sense of hurting, a basic pain. And where there’s hurting, there’s anger. And anger held on to, becomes resentment and even hatred, taking a huge toll on our emotional and physical health.” In turn, our psychic and physical balance comes as result of walking through the path of forgiveness. As I sit here tonight and write about the gift of forgiveness , I know that I could not have known it to write about it without having walked the course. Each time, I take a new path, it leads me into places within that I’ve not seen or recognized in many years. And each time I make it through another challenge, I feel the victory of having come to know yet another aspect of my being. The joy is the gift of having gone through the complexity, not having escaped it.
I am meditating upwards of 2-3 hours a day now Kyle, and all the questions of “HOW”, the confusion of what I “should be doing”, it really does all vanish eventually. I am seeing how complete I am, how complete everything is in this moment. I’m nearing the point of total surrender, and I couldn’t feel more at peace. Even when I have those feeling I used to perceive as “negative” as things I “shouldn’t” be feeling, I am at peace. Thank you for being in harmony with source Kyle and continuing to discover what you are.
Wow! You might have just convinced me to try again!
Source loves
Us
no matter what
Good 😌 news
It’s
Unconditional love 💕
Thank you for your beautiful message ♥️✌️🙏
How long did it take you ? Congratulations btw
@@MsScirocco19 it doesn't take time, it takes awareness :)
You are a true leader. Everything you post is pure gold. Keep going on your mission. Let your light shine on everyone. God bless you.
I was spoon fed shame and fear all my life.
The God I was introduced to a God I was supposed to fear.
This topic is so sensitive and cried every listening to this video 4 times!
Crying to let go always helps me 🤍
My therapist shamed me. I fired her.
Excellent! I was raised in a home with alcoholism & as I got older developed binge eating disorder to cope with the pain of shame. It took a lot of years of eating disorder therapy to move through all the shame & to heal. This moved me to GREAT spiritual growth & learning about how to love. Shame is such a huge deterrent to love. Shame never changes anything...love does!!!
So I’m currently living at the age of 41 with those parents that shamed me. And I’m here because I lost everything. And I’ve been here six weeks and I keep making so much growth on self love and being present and surrendering and all the work to raise my vibe but they are still pressuring me and shaming me to DO something and won’t hear that I AM doing something. So I am repeatedly shamed and falling into shame. I needed this video. Thank you. However I’m not sure what to do with the pressure they are putting on me as I try to surrender and follow this silent flow love and light based way I’m feeling guided to as my truth.
As a therapist and mindset coach, I am very aware of shame and that we shouldn't be shaming ourselves, however, Ive been feeling a bit of that recently due to feeling off focus a bit complacent. Then this video popped on my feed. While listening to you and exercising at the same time, I just bursted into tears.... I knew this before but it came to me harder just now that, there is no need for shame at this moment. It is not complacency, rather I'm just pure content, grateful, and happy where I am in my life. What I have been wishing for my whole life.... (a happy loving family, not jailed to a job, not worrying about money..etc) are what I have in my reality right now. Those things I thought it was impossible to achieve.... and now that I have them, I was so thankful and later that happiness just kept trying to turn into shame as if it was speaking to me saying "HOW DARE YOU STAY HAPPY!" "WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE BEING HAPPY!", it's my ego deep inside of me still reminding me that its still in there somewhere. I use to identify myself as a person who probably didn't deserve all of this and that was also my childhood and upbringing. I am so thankful for you Kyle and the collective consciousness to bring me to this huge realization. Thank you thank you thank you❤️🙏
YOU attracted his message. That's pretty bad-ass, imho. It appears your Higher Self is hella stronger than your ego.
Good job 🤍. You got this -- and YOU DESERVE IT.
"Real change happens, when the pattern no longer exists." This whole talk was such a big one for me. This quote has been in my (metaphorical) pocket ever since the live session... yes! I think I've been a butterfly sitting on the ground chatting with the caterpillars amd ignoring my wings... so many epiphanies... Kyle, you have amd continue to make such an impact on my life. Thank you!!!
This was just what I needed to hear today 🙏
Recognising that I too believed that I could let God down, as I continued on the path of the pendulum between shaming myself, and then saying 'fuck the shame' imma do whatever want! Stepping into the new me isn't the same as setting the shame down. Actively trying to erase the shame has been keeping me in that energy, as it has always been the shame that's has been doing the trying...
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This is so profoundly true. I was at a pretty dark place yesterday and tried to listen to the silence. I just realized that the reason it was so difficult was shame. The ego can be so relentless and shout shame into you for all the things you never did. One person cannot do it all. It's nice to kno that I dont have to do everything. We can share the load of molding beauty into the world. Especially with art, I have a crazy, unyielding need to 'become a renowned artist' no matter in what field. And the energy that goes along with that is so uncomfortable. Just knowing that I am okay and the world will create beautiful art even if it might not be me, is nice.
I find myself constantly nodding and saying “yes!” during your videos. I learn so much in such a short time.
You are surely an elevated man to know all you do.
Thank you for sharing your knowledge.
Once again, it is like you are speaking directly to me. I just had lunch 3 hours before listening to this with someone I have a crush on, and I needed to hear this! Your telling me to appreciate something without needing more from it showed me that my mind can focus on the growth from that moment rather than the expectation of a different moment in the future. In fact, all we have is this moment so I should savor it when it is both glorious and also excruciating.
Word and WORD. The truth.
I needed to hear this.. I was punishing and shaming myself for the past. Thank you
This is one of the best Oneness calls ever. So much is shifting... Kyle, our group, the world. Thank you, Kyle!
This is filled with greatness.
Thanks for Being Kyle. ❤️
You're on fire with these videos. Thank you for sharing and helping people conceptualize the raising consciousness of humanity.
I came across your videos just a month ago and now I can be going about my day and get a mental notification about when I need to sit and listen.
I don't know how to thank you enough, I'm finally feeling like I'm LEARNING FREEDOM 🙏🏾
Thx so much Kyle for sharing so generously! What a gift to be a part of this "liberating point of view movement". So deep and so empowering! Much love to every who watches
this.
I just started tuning into you man and ......you make me cry incredibly happy tears as you describe very well this ride I am on and what is happening to me. Thank You.
I get goosebumps every minute or so while listening to you talk, such is the quality of the truth
Real change happens when the pattern no longer exists... Yes yes yes ✨✨
Wow. Thank you. Release and appreciation.
You speak often of death to the old self, so I was thinking maybe you could write a book called “Cease to Exist,” get it? 😁 These videos are amazing, I keep listening to them, and I get something new every time. Thank you 🙏💜
Haha! "KARMACTICALLY"! A NEW WORD (Sanskrit + English)!! love it!
Thank you shame. You had your run and I had to release it from my mind and body out for good.
Without any strong emotions attached to a painful thought/experience - you are free from it.
I am so happy I did let it all melt in my magical volcano. ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨❤️
10:00 "Don't shame yourself for shaming yourself.... because that's just the pattern trying to stay alive."
Holy Sheetballz... Several nuggets but this one stood out:
Why do you I need to be the one that has to learn and perform everything I'm interested in or inspired by ??
I can just appreciate those doing the amazing thing. We're all one.
Gold, baby, thx Kyle 🪙!
"People can like you exactly as you are"- Mister Rogers
Like so many of the commenters stated here I too resonated with the story about feeling the need to be the great piano player instead of enjoying the shit out of what's happening in the now. I believe for me this is also shaming the self for not being enough. Once again a pattern identified. Thank you once again kind Sir!
Ugh yes. This resonated SO much!
“The constant need to be somewhere else” can so related this.
I've been asking great spirit for clarity about what the blockage is. This is the answer I didn't know I needed. Thank you Kyle - amazing video as always. Much love!
I’ve just joined your wonderful community after watching many many of your videos. This is the Universe taking me to the next step in my evolution.
✨🕊✨ Deepest Gratitude Kyle ✨🕊✨
Thanks so much!
and welcome!
“All shame is, is an argument with God.” ✨
“Real change happens when the pattern no longer exists.” Yes!
“Most of the actions we’ve made that we don’t like anyways came from being shamed in the first place.” 💯
Thank you brother, you’ve melted my heart and turned ice into water
Lol 😂😅🤣😆 the piano analogy did it for me!!! Amazing message, exactly what I needed to hear 🙏🏻
'why do i need to be anywhere other than where i am ??!! ... accepting and appreciating the moment is AMAZING !! and truly, there's only ONE of us here , anyway !! ... brilliant relaxation revelation .
Thank you Kyle !! Love this. I think I barely realize how deep the guilt and shame has been inculcated in me from a young age. Besides my father dying when I was 6 y/o, I would say I had a fairly joyful childhood and I truly appreciate my mother and the way she raised me. I can still sense however, that the water in which I swam, from the Catholic church, to Catholic school, to my family to the rules of society as I interpreted them, there was definitely an underlying sense that guilt "works". Now shame is always close on the tails of guilt. Anyway, hearing this helps. Here's to being Free, Joyful, and Radiant Beings of Light !!
Just abs incredible. Life changing 🙏🏼
Thank you , perfect timing x
So beautiful ideas! Thank you for that! Love you, brother 🙏❤️😘
Warmth melts the ice. 🙏🏻
Yes, exactly! Thank you Kyle! Is lovely to hear from you.
The way we create God in our own minds is mind blowing. This is a beautiful call, hit home for me straight from the analogy about shame and ice ❤️
This is a great video!....I'm still struggling a bit holding onto extreme shame from going crazy during a mental breakdown about 6 years ago.
I had the same thing happen to me 6 years ago. To be frank, all mainstream clinical psychiatry treatment is shame based. It doesn’t work as good as good as the natural stuff. You heal when you love and accept yourself, plus you get cool abilities!
@@aubrielledegn4809 Thank you :) Yeah absolutely, I agree. I've been on a healing journey over the last 6 years, I feel letting go of the shame is the final part. The shame didn't hit me until maybe 2 years ago, as I had so much other stuff to heal from first after long term psychological abuse working for a psychopath. I'll get there in time.
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This came tip top, perfectly timed into my ears. Filled with Gratitude for the Onenessness 🌈🍀💛⭐
Love, love love this!!
I'm in the middle (or who knows just how far I'm in it) of tremendous change. I continue to judge myself and wonder if I'll ever make the transition from people pleaser to fully authentic in my lifetime. I simply want to be me, and use my voice. Thank you, Kyle, for this video, and your constant encouragement and compassion. I do believe we can channel God's love for each other and you do that in your work.
Really needed this message, thank you. I have really been struggling with the religious dogma I grew up with and no longer resonate with; those who still ascribe to the exclusionary doctrine of "think like us or you're doomed" have a crafty way of pointing the finger toward my beliefs and trying to make me feel like I am the one who is crafty and deceptive and deceived - people I have come to trust and respect who have slipped back down into the shame and blame, doom and gloom energy. I don't understand it and it makes me really sad, how we can become so expansive and so open to the idea that we all are capable of experiencing the Oneness of All That Is and then just so easily fall back into "we have the Truth, you don't, believe us or perish." And that they appear so veiled by the hypocrisy in their statements. Anyway, Kyle, thank you for being a beacon of light at this time.
Word.
You're not alone (never!) 🤍. ((Hugs))
Pausing ... was nodding my head yes when you spoke of not wanting to do God wrong.. I absolutely felt that and made a not so serving decision to get married because I had a child beforehand. I allowed myself to get guilted into it because some woman who is very much by the Bible created a fear in me that I had felt being a part of a family that grew up Catholic. Fast forward I am divorced and have done a lot of inner work since then but now I see there's more .. You nailed it with how I have been seeing God and I have viewed God from how I was spoken to.. You are the message I needed tonight .. Grateful 🙏
the need to "also do that", ooohhhhh how i know what that feels like. in fact, it's possible that every conversation i ever had, from the past, included an "also do that". whether it was a hike a friend enjoyed, or, or, or. but NOW, i can appreciate it without even thinking of "also do that"......., it finally comes naturally, just BEing. what a pure, unadulterated enjoyment/feeling. thank you, always.
This is exactly what I needed to hear tonight. The shame thing is real. It’s a conflict that exists currently between me and God. I need to know my time is not now to release the actions I do is not shameful. I need to be kind and patient with myself. Teetering on 3D and 5D. Surrender to what is IS my current struggle
Another great one from Kyle! Reminds me of what Abraham Hicks said; "You cannot get it wrong, and you never get it done." So, let's enjoy the unfolding!
Yes!! I’m experiencing this too. Cut out the middle man and appreciate the experience and say goodbye to the shame of not ever (for me ) learning the piano. It’s ok, I can appreciate the pianist without having to be the pianist. Just be ok with where I am. Whatever I’m meant to learn will be. Thank you Kyle!
🤯🤯🤯 I'm going to go process this cuz holy crap.
Thank you 💓
Geeessshhh!! The way your words come out are so smooth & relatable & honest it’s wild! You know how to break down even the most subtle things that i myself didn’t think I needed to hear out loud! Wow!🎯 keep doing you Kyle! Much appreciation!
Great video! Love this👏 The past is the past. Try appreciating a person for what they are now instead of judging them for their past.❤️
Lmao, I ironically was chewing ice when I watched this. Thank you for your efforts and guidance for the collective, they are humbally appreciated.
Hiiiiiiii Kyle!
This is hilarious! Definitely a hybrid shamer here too! 😆🙋♀️Thank you for the visit ! Def offered some insight !!! Much love and light Kyle !
I can't get over how amazing a teacher you are. Very deep and uplifting.
This is HUGE! I’m going to stop trying to be the one doing these things, and just appreciate them! Thank you Kyle and team ✨🤍
Thank you so very much. You are helping people and making a difference. I appreciate your insight.
Contentment, love of self and others, expansion, forgiveness and understanding, letting go of fear and worry, getting out of the way of natural growth, holding space for self and others, opening to awareness -- thank you for all of these gifts, and more, from this video
Awesome reminder to just sit and appreciate the jazz rather than having “to do the gorgeous chords.” “Appreciation of the now is being all that is-ness. All that we see around us comes from us. Shame is silly. We are supposed to learn to grow. We are here to expand All shame is is a long stuck argument with God. Shame creates fear. It keeps us in the small consciousness. Shame is like a freezer getting on ice and screaming at it that it should be water. No one changes with shame. Real change happens when the pattern no longer exists. Parents are supposed to support all that you are to thrive not to shame you. It just takes awareness. Asking how much longer things take is you working in the time and effort frequency. This is a shame comment.” Thanks for the message. The Illuminati hands comment holding your circled finger to your eye-ROFL!!!
I must express myself to you how much you are appreciated Kyle!!!
DUUUUUDE KYLE!! MIND BLOWN @15MIN....such a weight lifted at the mere thought of this...INCREDIBLE ❤
" If god wants you to grow on these things, you just will." Damn right
Thankyou Kyle. This is perfectly what I needed to hear 💟
Excellent and important conversation.
God/ Source is pure unconditional love.
Unconditional love. We're here to learn and grow and improve . Source loves us through our progression, not just if / when we're perfect.
Shame lowers your vibration.
You can change your behavior and practice without hating yourself. ❤️
You just make so much sense. Thank you
After the first two minutes- “God” is the Life happening through the aperture of awareness that “you”. How could It be disappointed? It’s been making all the decisions all along- as all of us. 💛🙏
Yet another important message from you Kyle I completely understand the energy of the language coming through you and I appreciate you and these teachings so very much.✨⭐️✨🙏🏼🙏🏼🇨🇦🙏🏼🙏🏼✨✨✨✨✨🔮🦚🦚🦚🦚🦚
Thank you Kyle, this really spoke to me. Even more awakening over here. ❤️. You and your messages are a gift.
Thank you 💕 Just stumbled across this clip this morning after 'shame' coming up yesterday connected to a past event. I was very emotional and wasn't sure how to clear it. Coincidentally I bought the movie 'Soul' yesterday. Had never heard of it, just happened to pick it up amongst some supermarket DVDs! Gratefully appreciate your wonderfully wise messages 🙏💖
S/He is faithful to complete it in you.
Thank you for showing compassion to all.
How beautiful! It's not long I have come across your video and your work and it has been mind-blowing! Thank you Kyle for being you! Be more of you! ♥
I really appreciate your ability to impart so much authenticity, gems 💎 of wisdom and healing advice whilst simultaneously making me laugh so much Kyle! (With you - not at you!)
I found this video particularly therapeutic 💖 your analogy about the freezer and ice had me rolling 😂 so true though!
Passing on the good vibes to all reading this comment! 😍🙏💓✨🙌
Thanks again for enlightening my psyche on this topic. You've really opened my mind to the dysfunction of my family dynamics.
I absolutely love you Kyle❤ Thank you for all you do and share with us🦋
Thank you ,the timing of this was great for me to hear and remind myself , Thank you .
You have a wonderful way of helping one confront reality, very empowering indeed. Not all is lost, it has only just begun and the best is yet to come!
Just let it all go, a higher power of consciousness is at work now, we are meant to feel it and embrace it with all our being
Cheers Kyle. Big love to you 🙏
Kyle, I had a big insight today. I have not said to my sister that her using my bathroom when she had her own complete bathroom was pissing me off. For a year I kept quiet thinking I should not make a big fuss. I shouldn't be petty. We are living in our parents house for the first time as adults. I have always had my own place and been independent. Since meditating for 2 hours a day for 2 weeks now with you, I realised me holding myself back and not creating boundaries with her was from programming. I realised my inner child (or as a child) nobody told me about my sister coming. Young Aida didn't want a sibling. When my sister came along, I was 3 and a half and forced to accept her. Emotionally I didn't accept her. I felt over run. I felt 'quieted'. I felt I had no choice but to be a good big sister. Nobody asked little Aida if she was ok to welcome a sister. That is why the main emotion I feel from her, now as an adult, is intrusion. She triggers me in many ways for 'invading' my space.
So today, I finally can release by informing her to not use my bathroom, draw the line and more importantly acknowledge to my inner child that yes, you can say how you feel. ' It's ok to say I don't want a sister.' 'I am not ready to have a sibling'.
I felt so light and liberated.✨✨ I have been keeping this story amd emotion of frustration and anger of being forced to accept someone in my life that I wasn't ready for.
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Enjoying this from London UK. Got some shame around an earring disorder so is synchronous
Thank you so much!😭😭😭😭
I have great regrets of capturing every moment I could of holidays on my video camera and camera. I always felt I missed the magical moments of what was happening in the now at that time. I thought I would feel and have the same experience when I got home. It never was the same. The moment was lost and they just became something to look at. Now I only use a camera for art. I now live in the moment of what I am experiencing without the technology. It is truely makes those experiences more magical. I have missed out on much because of this
You’re an amazing energy !!! Please keep doing what you’re doing it’s been an honor to discover you
The butterfly example is perfect. Tyvm ❤️🦋
thank you so much kyle- exactly what I needed to hear!
Very nice, thank you
Great analogy about shame being like a freezer trying to demand that ice become water 💦
Ikr! This will serve me well for a lonnnnng time 🤍.
He ~NAILED IT~ ... !!
Omg! The part about the Soul movie and beeing the doer just HIT HOME! That was so ME! The doer and not the enjoer and it was exhausting. I'm so glad you brought that up and that I caught it. Love your content and the way it makes me grow out of my old habits and patterns. Forever greatful. 🙏🏼❤
Another wonderful video, thank you 💕
Epiphany time 😃😃😃 thank you Kyle!!
always live your guidance 🙏 ❤你
Hi Kyle.
I Love your energy, your insights, your wisdom, your LOVE.
And especially your TRUTH.
Thank you implicitly.
14:42 for my future reference -" why don't I just hear it?"
Beautiful, something I needed
Hi Kyle. I’ve been watching your RUclips videos and I really like your messages to the world. You are truly one of the genuine “prophets” who are making a difference in helping the world’s consciousness evolve.
I’m almost 59 years old and I can honestly say that I’ve been on a spiritual journey most of my life. I’m still on the journey and as much as I hoped that some of the past “mistakes” of my life would finally be healed by allowing them to surface, they have not…not really. They come back over and over and over…and at this time in my life…I’m experiencing a “break-up” so to speak with my 40 year old daughter…and trying like hell to keep telling myself, “there are no mistakes.” It’s the toughest. I’ve been doing this a lot of years and when it comes to your child telling you all the mistakes you made and how much they hate you, it’s got me in a hard place right now.
When I was going through a divorce 20 years ago, one of my most admired spiritual friends was a 70 something nun who I so admired for her grace, her non judgment, her mild manner and loving nature. She told me how life is a process, like the peeling of an onion, each time we go through a deep level of spiritual healing, it’s like peeling those layers away. I asked her once, “Sister Rose, does this process of the peeling ever end?” Her response was, “We never stop the process. No matter how old we are, we continue to peel those layers.”
My "layer peeling" began many year ago and continues. It's never easy or enjoyable. Journaling during the most turbulent years really helped me to “heal” to a degree and to get though a particular time in my life. I thought you might like to read this journal excerpt from 2004. I think you’ll resonate with it. As Sister Rose said, the process never ends. We will forever deal with things that come up to be healed and when it’s finally at the end, we will move on. That’s what I believe.
Thank you. Keep on doing your good work for the world. We all need it.
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August 21, 2004
Karen Landrum - Journal Excerpt
“One day you finally knew what you had to do and began, though the voices around you kept shouting their bad advice - though the whole house began to tremble and you felt the old tug at your ankles. “Mend my life!”, each voice cried. But you didn’t stop.” - The Journey, by Mary Oliver
There is a message I have been hearing lately, loud and clear. It keeps coming to me, in meditation, in the form of prayers or poems, in the particular phrases I open up to in books, as well as from others. The message is “Trust in the journey. Let the inner conflict rest. There are no mistakes - only misperceptions.” Once I let go of looking for a way out of my confusion and darkness, the way lights up the path that allows me to rest in the acceptance of all I think I want to change. It’s a good feeling to get myself out of the way so the energy of truth can move through, free of distortions.
Funny how this journey takes its course, and how I relate to it. Often, I think if only I could remember the way out of this confusion, I’d be okay. I’ve been here before. I know I’ve had this lesson at least a billion times. SO WHY CAN’T I FIGURE THIS ONE OUT! Then...I remember. The confusion is not a mistake. The turmoil that I find myself in is not because I did something “wrong” and that I have somehow placed myself in a state of eternal punishment for not making the grade and getting it “right”. The confusion and the dark times are essential to the journey! No experience and nothing I do is a failure. It is part of the process! As I seek to discover who I am, I cannot know who I am unless I know who I am not. The only way to discover who I am not is through experience. To lovingly embrace what I term “failure” has been a challenge that I am continually moving through…and it is not an easy path to take. But I have noticed that once I let go, I feel a clearing from the inside that seems to move me easily on my path, rather than forced. Compassion is able to make its way in, without me standing in the way. Kindness can step in while I continue to change life-long habits into life-giving habits. To the degree that I have compassion for my dark times, for my bewilderment, that measures how much empathy I will have for another.
In the book, “Mile Markers - 31 Stops on Your Inner Journey”, by Daniel O’Leary, he says something that really hits home for me.
“Sooner or later, no matter which approach we take towards having a healthy mind in a healthy body, no matter how many self-help books we read or processes we undertake, no matter how many prayers we say or pilgrimages we make, our inner work will never be complete without the experience of forgiving and of being forgiven. Without these experiences, there can be no true, inner peace or freedom. Heaven is on earth when forgiveness happens. Without the words ‘I’m sorry’ and ‘I forgive you’, the promises and vows of love ring very hollow indeed. The need for a constant openness for forgiveness comes, you will have noticed, like a refrain, throughout these Breathers.”
It makes so much sense that in order to know forgiveness, we must have the experiences in which we forgive and are forgiven. Otherwise, how else can we really know it from within?
O’Leary explains that there is no alternative, no detour to avoid the reality of forgiveness. The reason being that “whatever the nature of the negative emotions from which we suffer and from which we crave some release and healing, we are essentially acting out of a sense of hurting, a basic pain. And where there’s hurting, there’s anger. And anger held on to, becomes resentment and even hatred, taking a huge toll on our emotional and physical health.” In turn, our psychic and physical balance comes as result of walking through the path of forgiveness.
As I sit here tonight and write about the gift of forgiveness , I know that I could not have known it to write about it without having walked the course. Each time, I take a new path, it leads me into places within that I’ve not seen or recognized in many years. And each time I make it through another challenge, I feel the victory of having come to know yet another aspect of my being. The joy is the gift of having gone through the complexity, not having escaped it.