there's a part in this video where I smile and the smile is so loud and wet. I hope u can find it. also I probably messed up the editing at least 2 times. so there's ur scavenger hunt. I hope u like it.
The definition of pedestrian - cause i'm sure you think it means something like a innocent bystander or something. noun a person walking along a road or in a developed area. adjective lacking inspiration or excitement; dull. So no "Honey" we are not all pedestrians. Speak for yourself.
I'm also feeling lonely and a bit stressed at college! Rn I'm just aiming to get through 1 semester because I'm already here, and then decide if this is actually right for me. Being away from my family absolutely stinks butt.
this was not depressing it actually gave me that good feeling inside like where you realize how content you are with something simple and it makes you wanna shed a tear
Literally, I’ve had so many times in my life where I’m insecure about someone not liking me and wondering what’s wrong with me… only to realize later that I didn’t like them or want to be their friend I just convinced myself they were cooler than me and put too much stock in their validation and I was projecting, it’s the same kinda feeling, it’s nice
I relate to so much of this video. Spent 9 years living in LA because writing is my passion and I love filmmaking, but there were too many things about the film industry that were completely incompatible with me. Working in the industry meant living my life in a way that felt less like living and more like striving. I agree not everyone is fake in LA; I met some of the loveliest, most creative, interesting souls there, and the hours I spent chatting on their couches or going to their weird, niche, sparsely attended art events were some of the best experiences of my life. Even though we were so emotional close, I still never saw my friends more than once or twice a month because of the urban sprawl factor. After leaving ~the industry~ I actually discovered a whole new passion, and that was for horticulture. Weirdly enough, my love of plants brought me into closer proximity to fame and fakery than any of my time working in television and film. Suddenly I was watering plants for Beverly Hills plastic surgeon’s offices and on the rooftop of an ex-SNL star’s mansion. Ironically, those were the years I most got to enjoy what LA had to offer. Great weather (I was actually enjoying instead of being stuck inside a production office), gorgeous homes (I couldn’t afford but I got to visit every week to water their plants), and interesting people (it’s amazing the sort of conversations you can have when you’re not preoccupied with networking). Eventually I left LA for Portland because said horticulture passion made me want to live somewhere with more rain, cheaper rent, and shorter commutes. I love Portland for all the reasons you mentioned about loving your hometown. It feel comfortable here, and I actually have time and energy to do the living that feels like what life is meant to be. I spend my days gardening, exploring hobbies, wandering around, meeting up with friends, learning new things. And there’s so much NATURE here. Rivers to jump in, forests to explore, birds to watch, mushrooms to forage. I’ve had some pretty magical days that only I know about, because I experienced them for and with myself. I love the calm, meandering adventure my life has become. I’m no longer focused on outcome and becoming something like I was in LA. Now I’m focused on experiencing, discovering and growing. And that writing passion I mentioned earlier? It still lives and grows within me, but it’s been taking a completely new form. In the past, I was trying to write in order *to have written* something, so I could then *make* something and become the *someone* I thought I was supposed to be. Now I’m not focused on the outcome, I’m focused on the experience. I like to write because it’s a space where I can feel my feelings, explore my thoughts, play with ideas, and communicate with other people. I don’t dream of being a Writer anymore. I just want to be Me, a person who discovers themself and shares their inner world through writing. I like this version of life so much more. I have no regrets about living in LA or leaving LA. I have thousands of great memories and funny stories from my time there. There are so many people and places in LA that I miss (especially restaurants omg, the diversity of authentic, delicious cuisine cannot be overstated). But missing things and moving on is an integral part of growing and getting older. It’s wholly intractable from the experience itself; life is bittersweet like that. I miss the museums and the botanical garden and how touring musicians are always doing stops in LA (and yet they skip Portland all the time wtf!). I miss the beach and the architecture and certain plants that don’t thrive in my current climate but grow abundantly there (jacarandas, bougainvillea, pepper trees, and citrus). I miss my creative community, my old professors, and the way friends from out of town always seemed to be passing through and crashing on my couch. But I don’t miss the old me. I love the parts of them I still carry with me, or the parts of them I’ve said goodbye to but can still revisit in my memories. I much prefer the me I am and the me I’m becoming. And I think that’s one of the greatest signs of a life well lived.
every time I tell someone that I want to live in LA, they look at me like I’m crazy. i don’t know whether you’ll respond to this or not, but it seems like you’ve experienced the “good” and “bad” of LA. I can’t see myself living in LA for my whole life, but I do want to pursue some things there, especially for the sake of community. I’ve had a lifelong dream of being a youtuber, and I know many stay there. Im also vegetarian, sort of hippie-ish, decently spiritual, typically LA type of things. I feel it calling to me sometimes. do you think it would be worth it? I know you don’t know me or my perspectives, but it seems like you got a lot of growth out of your experience and are very observational of the environment you lived in.
@@tamagotchi7989 Hi I just read your comment and even though I am not the OP I wanted to respond. I have lived in LA for about 15 years originally from NY. Los Angeles has changed a lot and not all for the good. But I don’t regret living here at all. If you really want to live in Los Angeles for a time in your life, do it now or at least sooner than later. The entertainment industry is definitely not so much even based here anymore. People are moving, historic places are demolished all of the time ( it’s not like other places in terms of preservation of landmarks) they hardly film here anymore ( cheaper elsewhere). Crime is definitely on the rise as well. Obviously there are still great things about LA but these were the negative aspects. All of that said my advice is if you want to move here, do it! I don’t regret living here. The weather has helped me immensely. There is so much to do. And if you really want to do it and you don’t, you might regret that.
Drew.. You are seriously the most talented improv speaker iv ever heard.. Your stories are so random, interesting, and fkn hilarious. You're so honest and the way you chill and talk to us, is like im hanging out with Drew. Love you man, never stop being yourself and im glad you're paying alot less in rent. Dont need to be in LA to be mytoecold
Here's to "boring" places and so-called "boring" activities! I love that the major event of the weekend in my town is just getting to go to the farmers market. I'm literally so hyped just to go to a book sale at our local library next month. That's all the excitement I need lol
watching your videos feels like spending time with a friend who just wants to validate my feelings. you talk about so many things i have felt or thought but never been able to articulate quite like you do. i'm really grateful that you are still making videos and sharing yourself with us so genuinely.
1) I am SOOOOO happy that you’re making content regularly again. It’s been consistent and never misses. I laugh, smile and relate every single f&$@ing time. 2) You gotta get a job as a jingle writer wtf. Your sponsor songs are legitimately fantastic. I’ve never rewatched sponsor bits before. You did that. 3) Hi! ❤
Its beautiful to hear you talk about your hometown. When I was younger I used to think I would leave as soon as I could could...and I never did. Now I'm 27 and i'm starting appreciate where I live, its comforting and safe and the world is scary.
What sucks is my hometown everyone from out of state and from cities is moving here and pricing out our locals. I’m literally and figuratively getting pushed out of my comfort zone. Its really hard not to be bitter!
I’m 26 and live in a major city and I’m quitting my job and moving home. I couldn’t agree with everything you said in this video more. Thanks for sharing. This video came at the perfect time. I’ve been getting cold feet but this was so validating and reassuring. 💚🐸
I recently had to in order to take care of my mom and I was upset about having to go back to my hometown... But now that I'm here, it's so comforting. Drew validated this even more and I hope you enjoy going back home!
This video was so scarily relatable, reminding me of my time living in DC to be "where the journalists are" and now I'm back at home with my family feeling like I'm actually living life with more purpose ... so when you said my name, I was terrified. also i love some tbell and drama and then you called me out again. Kinda scared
Reading the comments and it seems like a lot of us are going through it this week. Glad Drew is here to help make us feel a lil better. Keep your chin up everyone ❤
Yes, I was just thinking this! The quality and vibes of a channel’s comment section says something about the creator. I’m not sure what, but I’ve noticed that different channels have very different feels to them. Once in a while I’ll find myself in the comments under a video that’s kinda catty and low-quality, and the comments are also bad vibes. I tend to get icky feelings and go elsewhere. Honestly it’s rare to find a comment section quite this sweet!
This is almost semi validating cause I have never had an urge to live in a large crazy city. It’s never appealed to me. And hearing someone else talk about it like this is nice to hear.
I'm making oatmeal now because of you, drew....And you're not annoying to me, you make me feel happy and like everything will be ok even though my life is a gross mess. Love ya.
This video's topic is really dear and important to me. i love the phrase "I just lived life" in the face of some simple everyday occurence. I love simplicity and I love nostalgia.
Drew i relate 100% to wanting to live in your hometown. I don’t think anyone should feel shame for choosing to stay close to home. We should all just do what makes us feel happy and safe
as someone who moved back home at 21 to help take care of my grandma, this video means so much to me. there is so much comfort in knowing someone else has felt exactly as you have, or close at least. yeah things are slower here but like. things are slower here. there's this one spot on my way to and from work that is so beautiful i slow down just to see the sunrise/sunset for a little bit longer. i sit with my grandma and watch jeopardy. i walk around. i type on my computer. hey i'm living. also i found the lyme disease joke very funny as someone who has lyme disease. just kidding i don't actually have that. that's like fucked up to lie about. why would you say that? i didn't- i dunno i didn't really think about it. sorry i barely know what lyme disease is. that is on me.
Drew speaking about how the most simple times in your life could be the best and most comfortable, was so beautiful and eye opening like damn, he got a way with words
39:56 yess that feeling of 'this is what life is all about' is so often in the quieter moments, not the big flashy instagrammable ones. I am learning that more and more every day and it is such a comforting thing to feel :) Sounds cliche but honestly happiness is really about living in the moment - enjoying the view, enjoying the sounds, enjoying the thoughts, enjoying the people, enjoying the nature, enjoying the journey. Those tend to be the most warm and peaceful memories. And isn't warmth and peace all we really want?
I think the olderr you get the more you appreciate and love your parents/grandparents if they are and were kind and loving parents that is. And you realise how precious those simple moments are
listening to Drew is like listening to a classical music concert played by an orchestra. Even though I have attention deficit problems, I never get bored, I never want to multitask or pause the monologue
i dont know about anyone else but i feel like a lot of these realization are happening in my life at the same time. i feel like this is the point where life gets real and im healing and growing and i find so much comfort in drews videos and honesty and humor
how do u manage to explain feelings that are so important to me but I never understood or thought to explain, u are such a special human. I've been watching you since I was in middle school and I'm 23 now and I genuinely don't think I would be the same person if I didn't watch you growing up (as weird as that sounds). there are so many philosophy milestones I've had watching your videos since I was like 13 to now lol. I'm glad things are getting better for you and i hope they get better
33:28 - 33:46 i feel like i've been coming to that realization lately and you put it into words so well! And this goes for everything. For example clothes too - instead of looking for small glimpses of excitement in new cheap low-quality unethically produced clothing, it's so much nicer to have less clothes, but ones that i'm more emotionally attached to. There's this one sweater i got at a flea market like five years ago and i feel like we've been through so many adventures together haha. Wearing it is like a warm hug from an old friend. It's really MY sweater you know. Whereas some random new h&m purchase wouldn't really feel personal like that.
I'm sad in a way because I relate so specifically hard with a few things you said in this video. my throat literally does hurt when I'm around people, even family gatherings. it's mentally and physically exhausting. also I spend sosososos soso so much time chasing the beautiful perfect times I felt most alive. going bowling with my old best friends (who I pushed away for so many reasons) and laughing until we cried at 3 am in their car. singing at the top of our lungs without a care in the world. I chase youth, I chase happiness, I chase old memories. I went to the beach in June and struggled to sink into that headspace I used to have. it's like I'm always mourning and struggling. you say bits and pieces about how you've found things that REALLY matter to you. not celebrities, not parties, not the flashy LA lifestyle. your comforts, family, quiet time with friends, oatmeal bowls. they keep you grounded and connected. I'm genuinely so happy for you and proud that you take time to honor and appreciate those things. I hope I can do that, too. -a girl with trowma.
u really make me not feel alone in my struggles & how i think. i’m so glad u found more happiness living in a “boring” place. sometimes simplicity where you live is relaxing and that’s exactly how i feel about where i live too.
Me and my coworker literally had a conversation about the “living where you’re from” thing yesterday. Such a toxic way to think, I’m so glad I moved past it bc I love my hometown! My friends and family are here and I love them. Big supporter of staying in your hometown.
Man... I don't know how you do it, but you so consistently manage to spit straight facts for longer than 10 minutes while being so naturally entertaining that my ADHD doesn't drag me away. (I left you a comment. Please don't be lonely.) ❤
One, I watched the entire ad because of how beautiful Drew's voice is. And two, this in my opinion is one of Drew's best videos. It was comforting and emotional and genuine. Love you, Drew :)
IT IS QUIN! He's always done that joke of knowing the viewers name and I thought since mine is uncommon he'd never do it but my heart dropped when he said my name it really scared me, felt like Drewmytoecold could see me
For everyone calling LA fake, it’s literally more than just the fake influencer / rich part. LA is so big and has so many great communities (communities for everyone!)You can meet amazing and real people here, and it’s pretty easy since people are more laid back and not constantly rushing. The saddest part tho is the homelessness and mental health/ drug crisis. Everything is super expensive and a lot people are so close to losing their homes. PS. Love you Drew!! I could listen to you talk for hours!
I always find it funny that people make such generalized comments about cities. There’s a small percent of fake people who live there, but there’s fake people that live everywhere 😂 and the whole area is actually filled with tons of communities of working class people. I find when people want to deflect and find something to blame that things aren’t going well on a geographic location (not saying drew did this, but in general people who like to be like it wasn’t ME, it was L.A.) it’s there way of not taking responsibility for how they chose to change in a negative way. There’s tons of people who live in different big cities and don’t turn into fake douche bags. Lol sorry for the rant but I really resonate with your comment and I always find it so interesting people try to generalize so much
I had the opportunity to live in California for a year when I was younger. The idea of moving from the middle of nowhere Midwest to California was exciting. I was overwhelmingly happy by the amount of creatives I met and being invited to events to meet more people. It's disheartening when you realize they aren't your friends, they don't care what youre doing, you're just another support beam in their networking castle.
the way I had the same thoughts so many times, it feels so validating hearing you say/feeling the same things that I do. I hope your pillow stays cool 24/7
You have a miraculous way of speaking to my ADHD brain where a normal person would tell a story twice as efficiently as you and I would not be able to pay attention and you take 45 minutes to say “LA was bad for my mental health” and I am completely locked in and loving every moment including the ad
u making the joke ab the dentist being from la so hes fake was funny cus the only time ive been to the dentist here i swear they were laughing at me/my teeth and i havent been able to go back
I've watched you since we were in middle school, we were born the same year, and I am very much at the same point in my life. I just hang out with my parent and make oatmeal and that's actually the key to living a good life.
Hi Drew! I’ve been a fan since 2013 & I’ve seen every one of your videos since! It’s so amazing to see your growth and I will always support you! You’re the funniest and realest person on RUclips- I’m always sending you lots of love!
Hi Drew, I've been watching your channel since I was about 15 (I'm 24 now). I kinda dipped out for a while but I want to in some way express to you how much you've meant to me. I related to you back then because I was that weird sense of humour "quirky" boy when I was a teen. And I've come to relate to you again because I'm an alcoholic. I get a lot of joy from watching your videos now on here and on the second channel, back then because I related to your quirkiness and strange sometimes abrasive humour and now because I feel like we've grown up together in a similar path. obviously we're not the same person but I just don't know how I'd do it without you. I know there's not that many guys who are big fans of you but for me, it feels like we're old friends when I watch your vids now. I guess that's weird. idk. rock on anyway
I added this as a lazy reply bc i was so tired after work but I have felt the same way for years. But really i think that’s cool. I always go back to drew’s vids when im sad, sick, etc. I don’t like to share him with the world tho so it’s annoying when ppl beg him to make videos or when he has to resort to sponsors to keep afloat
I’m from the same town as you and hearing you talk about it in this way is making me appreciate it so much more. Like I’ve always kinda resented it for not being very interesting, but that doesn’t make it any less special. Thanks for repping this small town. Love you❤
literally the one and only time i've ever sat through a whole sponsorship ad. 100% Drew please write all the ads for all the other youtubers. I'm sick of fastforwarding 5 seconds and then having to watch a few seconds past after the ad and then rewinding to the spot where the ad ended.
i’m moving several states back to the house i grew up in with my parents in a few weeks and this video has really helped me look forward to it more. i think i need to watch this like at least 2 more times
I totally relate to this video so much drew! I lived in LA for 6 years and had an amazing time but a very unhealthy time. I was a struggling actor and couldn’t stand the “networking”. I moved to rural japan actually now and feel completely disconnected to my time in LA. I have to most peaceful life here swimming in rivers and going to festivals. I spend most my time alone but have such a close community. Everyone in the town knows me lol. I look back at photos of me when I lived in LA and I don’t recognize that person at all! It’s spooky. So everything you said… it hit hard for me lol!
Drew always brings the best sponsorship songs! You never have to fast forward his sponsorships😂 I hope someday somehow he is a music producer or writer.
This means so much to me as someone who just dropped out of college and is back in my hometown with my family feeling so much happier 😭 I relate to you so much Drew
This was very.. therapeutic to listen to! I really appreciate your feelings and honesty about your experience through the years. I feel like reflecting on what could of been and what is.. is so hard to do. Though when you get on the other side of those thoughts, coming to terms with things, and appreciating how a lot of things probably turned out for the best.. kind of makes it all worth it. The whimsical way you tell stories is so unique and endearing. Sending lots of love! Thank you for sharing with us.
As per your musical request towards the end.. I’m also lonely and actually moving tomorrow from LA back to Modesto!! LA is expensive and depressing. I’m happy to be moving back!
This video wasn't depressing Drew, it actually made so much sense. And as someone who used to chase the thrill (and also had substance abuse issues) I've realised in my 30s that for me true happiness is in the little moments and doing simple things ❤
1) that was the first sponsorship that turned out to be entertaining. Good job! 2) I’m happy you realized what made you unhappy & went back to a place, even if not “glamorous” that gives you support & peace of mind. The honest you reveal from your hardships makes your content so good!
Your comments about feeling like you’re living life in simple moments made me tear up. You so perfectly encapsulate that feeling of trying to make sure we’re living life fully enough. Love ya drew.
HI Drew :) thank you for making this. im currently in LA because a family member invited me to come out here for the experience . Originally planned to stay for six or so months..now just after two and a half months, im looking forward to heading back home soon. It is fun! But it's not home. Listening to this brought clarity. Part of me feels like Im not "giving it more time" but im also aware that it's not a big deal to not stay. Also, I LOVE what you said about feeling content in simple moments. Just chatting with my best friend in the car on our way home from an outing with Coldplay music in the background, things like that make life feel so good.
i agree so much that there's a weird stigma about staying in your hometown...its something that keeps me in that adolescent mindset of like "ugh i HATE this town we gotta LEAVE THIS TOWN and then itll all get better and i'll be happy forever" but i know deep in my soul i could find a way to be depressed/isolated anywhere on gods green beautiful earth. doesnt stop me from daydreaming about moving to norway or whatever but it does give me a sense of perspective btw i want to be a pedestrian so bad i live in a car dependent city...thats why i gotta leave this town to get to the pedestrians paradise
I too am a white person who can't drive. I actually started my licence this month, but I am sad to say I will be turning 29 without knowing how to do it properly.
Whoever reviews Drew’s sponsored videos is always in for such a treat. Can you imagine just being like “okay let’s just review this quick” and it’s a whole top of the charts hit
there's a part in this video where I smile and the smile is so loud and wet. I hope u can find it. also I probably messed up the editing at least 2 times. so there's ur scavenger hunt. I hope u like it.
I proud of you
will love it
oh i can’t wait
i think i found it
@@daisykopping9731timestamp?! 😮😮
“Honey, Im a pedestrian…” Is the most perfect answer ever. Aren’t we all just pedestrian’s in life? Beautifully insightful. Thank you Drew.
The definition of pedestrian - cause i'm sure you think it means something like a innocent bystander or something.
noun
a person walking along a road or in a developed area.
adjective
lacking inspiration or excitement; dull.
So no "Honey" we are not all pedestrians. Speak for yourself.
i grew up with my grandma in my house and that “boring” time spent together is so, so special. so glad you got to experience that. love this drew
Drew is the only youtuber who can make their sponsorships entertaining
I think this everytime
you must be unfamiliar with internet comment etiquette (the channel) those sponsorships are full on productions with characters and plot lol
only youtuber i don’t skip through them for
@@pinheadlarry2921same here I always turn into the equivalent of a baby watching cocomelon when drew starts singing
And they are catchy. I will be singing them later on or humming the tune later on and I'm like, woah I'm singing about a meal prep service. 😂
“Honey, I’m a pedestrian” took me out LMAO! It was super relatable, as I’m also an adult who doesn’t drive. Gonna start using that lol
I’m feeling kinda lonely/stressed at college rn, and watching drew is comforting and helps my anxiety
I'm also feeling lonely and a bit stressed at college! Rn I'm just aiming to get through 1 semester because I'm already here, and then decide if this is actually right for me. Being away from my family absolutely stinks butt.
I’m also feeling the same way at college 😭😭
same here🫂
Me too!!!
me too
this was not depressing it actually gave me that good feeling inside like where you realize how content you are with something simple and it makes you wanna shed a tear
Literally, I’ve had so many times in my life where I’m insecure about someone not liking me and wondering what’s wrong with me… only to realize later that I didn’t like them or want to be their friend I just convinced myself they were cooler than me and put too much stock in their validation and I was projecting, it’s the same kinda feeling, it’s nice
Same :'3
hey drew stans
👋👋👋💖💖💖
helloooo🥳
🙌💜🎹
Hi kings and queens and other royal members
Hi fam
I relate to so much of this video. Spent 9 years living in LA because writing is my passion and I love filmmaking, but there were too many things about the film industry that were completely incompatible with me. Working in the industry meant living my life in a way that felt less like living and more like striving. I agree not everyone is fake in LA; I met some of the loveliest, most creative, interesting souls there, and the hours I spent chatting on their couches or going to their weird, niche, sparsely attended art events were some of the best experiences of my life. Even though we were so emotional close, I still never saw my friends more than once or twice a month because of the urban sprawl factor. After leaving ~the industry~ I actually discovered a whole new passion, and that was for horticulture. Weirdly enough, my love of plants brought me into closer proximity to fame and fakery than any of my time working in television and film. Suddenly I was watering plants for Beverly Hills plastic surgeon’s offices and on the rooftop of an ex-SNL star’s mansion. Ironically, those were the years I most got to enjoy what LA had to offer. Great weather (I was actually enjoying instead of being stuck inside a production office), gorgeous homes (I couldn’t afford but I got to visit every week to water their plants), and interesting people (it’s amazing the sort of conversations you can have when you’re not preoccupied with networking). Eventually I left LA for Portland because said horticulture passion made me want to live somewhere with more rain, cheaper rent, and shorter commutes. I love Portland for all the reasons you mentioned about loving your hometown. It feel comfortable here, and I actually have time and energy to do the living that feels like what life is meant to be. I spend my days gardening, exploring hobbies, wandering around, meeting up with friends, learning new things. And there’s so much NATURE here. Rivers to jump in, forests to explore, birds to watch, mushrooms to forage. I’ve had some pretty magical days that only I know about, because I experienced them for and with myself. I love the calm, meandering adventure my life has become. I’m no longer focused on outcome and becoming something like I was in LA. Now I’m focused on experiencing, discovering and growing. And that writing passion I mentioned earlier? It still lives and grows within me, but it’s been taking a completely new form. In the past, I was trying to write in order *to have written* something, so I could then *make* something and become the *someone* I thought I was supposed to be. Now I’m not focused on the outcome, I’m focused on the experience. I like to write because it’s a space where I can feel my feelings, explore my thoughts, play with ideas, and communicate with other people. I don’t dream of being a Writer anymore. I just want to be Me, a person who discovers themself and shares their inner world through writing. I like this version of life so much more.
I have no regrets about living in LA or leaving LA. I have thousands of great memories and funny stories from my time there. There are so many people and places in LA that I miss (especially restaurants omg, the diversity of authentic, delicious cuisine cannot be overstated). But missing things and moving on is an integral part of growing and getting older. It’s wholly intractable from the experience itself; life is bittersweet like that. I miss the museums and the botanical garden and how touring musicians are always doing stops in LA (and yet they skip Portland all the time wtf!). I miss the beach and the architecture and certain plants that don’t thrive in my current climate but grow abundantly there (jacarandas, bougainvillea, pepper trees, and citrus). I miss my creative community, my old professors, and the way friends from out of town always seemed to be passing through and crashing on my couch. But I don’t miss the old me. I love the parts of them I still carry with me, or the parts of them I’ve said goodbye to but can still revisit in my memories. I much prefer the me I am and the me I’m becoming. And I think that’s one of the greatest signs of a life well lived.
Loved reading this comment! Happy you found your passion :)
such a well said comment 🥲 thank you for sharing this brought me so much hope and peace and comfort as a fellow writer
every time I tell someone that I want to live in LA, they look at me like I’m crazy. i don’t know whether you’ll respond to this or not, but it seems like you’ve experienced the “good” and “bad” of LA. I can’t see myself living in LA for my whole life, but I do want to pursue some things there, especially for the sake of community. I’ve had a lifelong dream of being a youtuber, and I know many stay there. Im also vegetarian, sort of hippie-ish, decently spiritual, typically LA type of things. I feel it calling to me sometimes. do you think it would be worth it? I know you don’t know me or my perspectives, but it seems like you got a lot of growth out of your experience and are very observational of the environment you lived in.
i enjoyed reading this comment so much❤ just wanted to let you know
@@tamagotchi7989 Hi I just read your comment and even though I am not the OP I wanted to respond.
I have lived in LA for about 15 years originally from NY. Los Angeles has changed a lot and not all for the good. But I don’t regret living here at all.
If you really want to live in Los Angeles for a time in your life, do it now or at least sooner than later. The entertainment industry is definitely not so much even based here anymore. People are moving, historic places are demolished all of the time ( it’s not like other places in terms of preservation of landmarks) they hardly film here anymore ( cheaper elsewhere). Crime is definitely on the rise as well. Obviously there are still great things about LA but these were the negative aspects.
All of that said my advice is if you want to move here, do it! I don’t regret living here. The weather has helped me immensely. There is so much to do. And if you really want to do it and you don’t, you might regret that.
i fed my cat the tiniest lick of ricotta while we watched this video :)
I let my cat lick my bowl while watching this!
I let my cat have a single taste of sharp cheddar!
Ricotta is in small amounts totally fine for cats. It's lower in salt and fat. Let the little rascals enjoy.
MY CAT STILE MY LAST PEICE OF GOUDA CHEESE
@@kippykimber3170 Thievery
Who else did NOT skip ahead past the oatmeal?
It was my favorite part
Drew.. You are seriously the most talented improv speaker iv ever heard.. Your stories are so random, interesting, and fkn hilarious. You're so honest and the way you chill and talk to us, is like im hanging out with Drew. Love you man, never stop being yourself and im glad you're paying alot less in rent. Dont need to be in LA to be mytoecold
You’re so reflective, I think it’s what makes listening to you so engaging. Also I just feel like I resonate with everything you say.
If Drew made a podcast of him just talking I would listen to it everyday
drew deserves so many more views if i was kylie jenner i’d post this on my story
It has been a shitty week, and listening to this while finally cleaning the kitchen was somehow super comforting.
hoping your weekend is better
Couldn't agree more. I'm making me and my beloved some food right now while he works and this was just the perfect video to have on for that
Drew is a fantastic story teller, it's so easy to just take in everything he says
Here's to "boring" places and so-called "boring" activities! I love that the major event of the weekend in my town is just getting to go to the farmers market. I'm literally so hyped just to go to a book sale at our local library next month. That's all the excitement I need lol
watching your videos feels like spending time with a friend who just wants to validate my feelings. you talk about so many things i have felt or thought but never been able to articulate quite like you do. i'm really grateful that you are still making videos and sharing yourself with us so genuinely.
1) I am SOOOOO happy that you’re making content regularly again. It’s been consistent and never misses. I laugh, smile and relate every single f&$@ing time.
2) You gotta get a job as a jingle writer wtf. Your sponsor songs are legitimately fantastic. I’ve never rewatched sponsor bits before. You did that.
3) Hi! ❤
Its beautiful to hear you talk about your hometown. When I was younger I used to think I would leave as soon as I could could...and I never did. Now I'm 27 and i'm starting appreciate where I live, its comforting and safe and the world is scary.
What sucks is my hometown everyone from out of state and from cities is moving here and pricing out our locals. I’m literally and figuratively getting pushed out of my comfort zone. Its really hard not to be bitter!
@@jomr4249 same every two weeks I swear they clear out some trees for a new apartment complex😅
@@scarletstarlet8085 Yeah it’s unfortunate there’s nothing protecting locals. It’s basically mass gentrification.
It's nice to get ounces of fresh air in more rural areas. We wish you all the best, Drew. Don't keep your toes too cold.
I’m 26 and live in a major city and I’m quitting my job and moving home. I couldn’t agree with everything you said in this video more. Thanks for sharing. This video came at the perfect time. I’ve been getting cold feet but this was so validating and reassuring. 💚🐸
Seeing your name the same as mine is definitely a sign for me to move back home at some point 😂
Hope your move back is easy and enjoyable
I recently had to in order to take care of my mom and I was upset about having to go back to my hometown... But now that I'm here, it's so comforting. Drew validated this even more and I hope you enjoy going back home!
@@nicolegoose567 that’s too funny!! Maybe this is your sign😝
@@maxwellversed thank u so very much
This video was so scarily relatable, reminding me of my time living in DC to be "where the journalists are" and now I'm back at home with my family feeling like I'm actually living life with more purpose ... so when you said my name, I was terrified. also i love some tbell and drama and then you called me out again. Kinda scared
The 'leave me a comment I'm very lonely' part in this video hit different. You sound so beautiful it made my chest tight
Reading the comments and it seems like a lot of us are going through it this week. Glad Drew is here to help make us feel a lil better. Keep your chin up everyone ❤
❤
This made me feel so much better, this week was a hard one for me. Have a great day :)
@@aphonic2276 ❤️❤️❤️
Yes, I was just thinking this! The quality and vibes of a channel’s comment section says something about the creator. I’m not sure what, but I’ve noticed that different channels have very different feels to them. Once in a while I’ll find myself in the comments under a video that’s kinda catty and low-quality, and the comments are also bad vibes. I tend to get icky feelings and go elsewhere. Honestly it’s rare to find a comment section quite this sweet!
I could cry reading these comments, they're so sweet. I hope you feel the love, Drew!
I’m obsessed with this comment section 💕
Right! The comment section of his videos is my happy place
This is almost semi validating cause I have never had an urge to live in a large crazy city. It’s never appealed to me. And hearing someone else talk about it like this is nice to hear.
honey i'm a pedestrian
you are so real for stopping that faucet drip immediately
I'm making oatmeal now because of you, drew....And you're not annoying to me, you make me feel happy and like everything will be ok even though my life is a gross mess. Love ya.
This video's topic is really dear and important to me. i love the phrase "I just lived life" in the face of some simple everyday occurence. I love simplicity and I love nostalgia.
Drew i relate 100% to wanting to live in your hometown. I don’t think anyone should feel shame for choosing to stay close to home. We should all just do what makes us feel happy and safe
as someone who moved back home at 21 to help take care of my grandma, this video means so much to me. there is so much comfort in knowing someone else has felt exactly as you have, or close at least. yeah things are slower here but like. things are slower here. there's this one spot on my way to and from work that is so beautiful i slow down just to see the sunrise/sunset for a little bit longer. i sit with my grandma and watch jeopardy. i walk around. i type on my computer. hey i'm living. also i found the lyme disease joke very funny as someone who has lyme disease. just kidding i don't actually have that. that's like fucked up to lie about. why would you say that? i didn't- i dunno i didn't really think about it. sorry i barely know what lyme disease is. that is on me.
Drew speaking about how the most simple times in your life could be the best and most comfortable, was so beautiful and eye opening like damn, he got a way with words
39:56 yess that feeling of 'this is what life is all about' is so often in the quieter moments, not the big flashy instagrammable ones. I am learning that more and more every day and it is such a comforting thing to feel :) Sounds cliche but honestly happiness is really about living in the moment - enjoying the view, enjoying the sounds, enjoying the thoughts, enjoying the people, enjoying the nature, enjoying the journey. Those tend to be the most warm and peaceful memories. And isn't warmth and peace all we really want?
im fully convinced that every time drew drops a video an angel gets its wings
I think the olderr you get the more you appreciate and love your parents/grandparents if they are and were kind and loving parents that is. And you realise how precious those simple moments are
listening to Drew is like listening to a classical music concert played by an orchestra. Even though I have attention deficit problems, I never get bored, I never want to multitask or pause the monologue
i dont know about anyone else but i feel like a lot of these realization are happening in my life at the same time. i feel like this is the point where life gets real and im healing and growing and i find so much comfort in drews videos and honesty and humor
I never want drew's videos to end, it feels like my favorite show ending a season everytime :(
how do u manage to explain feelings that are so important to me but I never understood or thought to explain, u are such a special human. I've been watching you since I was in middle school and I'm 23 now and I genuinely don't think I would be the same person if I didn't watch you growing up (as weird as that sounds). there are so many philosophy milestones I've had watching your videos since I was like 13 to now lol. I'm glad things are getting better for you and i hope they get better
33:28 - 33:46 i feel like i've been coming to that realization lately and you put it into words so well! And this goes for everything. For example clothes too - instead of looking for small glimpses of excitement in new cheap low-quality unethically produced clothing, it's so much nicer to have less clothes, but ones that i'm more emotionally attached to. There's this one sweater i got at a flea market like five years ago and i feel like we've been through so many adventures together haha. Wearing it is like a warm hug from an old friend. It's really MY sweater you know. Whereas some random new h&m purchase wouldn't really feel personal like that.
love you drew, dont ever feel pressured to talk about things you dont want to
I just love your videos Drew. You are probably one of the most vulnerable and honest people on this site.
I'm sad in a way because I relate so specifically hard with a few things you said in this video. my throat literally does hurt when I'm around people, even family gatherings. it's mentally and physically exhausting. also I spend sosososos soso so much time chasing the beautiful perfect times I felt most alive. going bowling with my old best friends (who I pushed away for so many reasons) and laughing until we cried at 3 am in their car. singing at the top of our lungs without a care in the world. I chase youth, I chase happiness, I chase old memories. I went to the beach in June and struggled to sink into that headspace I used to have.
it's like I'm always mourning and struggling. you say bits and pieces about how you've found things that REALLY matter to you. not celebrities, not parties, not the flashy LA lifestyle. your comforts, family, quiet time with friends, oatmeal bowls. they keep you grounded and connected. I'm genuinely so happy for you and proud that you take time to honor and appreciate those things. I hope I can do that, too.
-a girl with trowma.
U did not need to go that hard on that factor sponsorship song. Such a BOP
I wish LA stood for Long Arnold
Drew’s videos make life worth living
u really make me not feel alone in my struggles & how i think. i’m so glad u found more happiness living in a “boring” place. sometimes simplicity where you live is relaxing and that’s exactly how i feel about where i live too.
Me and my coworker literally had a conversation about the “living where you’re from” thing yesterday. Such a toxic way to think, I’m so glad I moved past it bc I love my hometown! My friends and family are here and I love them. Big supporter of staying in your hometown.
You are such a refreshing, comfortable person to listen to. I wish more celebrities or youtubers just spoke their mind like this. Thank you drew :D
Man... I don't know how you do it, but you so consistently manage to spit straight facts for longer than 10 minutes while being so naturally entertaining that my ADHD doesn't drag me away.
(I left you a comment. Please don't be lonely.) ❤
One, I watched the entire ad because of how beautiful Drew's voice is. And two, this in my opinion is one of Drew's best videos. It was comforting and emotional and genuine. Love you, Drew :)
we love you drew! thanks for making everyone’s day better by posting :)
IT IS QUIN! He's always done that joke of knowing the viewers name and I thought since mine is uncommon he'd never do it but my heart dropped when he said my name it really scared me, felt like Drewmytoecold could see me
For everyone calling LA fake, it’s literally more than just the fake influencer / rich part. LA is so big and has so many great communities (communities for everyone!)You can meet amazing and real people here, and it’s pretty easy since people are more laid back and not constantly rushing. The saddest part tho is the homelessness and mental health/ drug crisis. Everything is super expensive and a lot people are so close to losing their homes. PS. Love you Drew!! I could listen to you talk for hours!
I always find it funny that people make such generalized comments about cities. There’s a small percent of fake people who live there, but there’s fake people that live everywhere 😂 and the whole area is actually filled with tons of communities of working class people.
I find when people want to deflect and find something to blame that things aren’t going well on a geographic location (not saying drew did this, but in general people who like to be like it wasn’t ME, it was L.A.) it’s there way of not taking responsibility for how they chose to change in a negative way. There’s tons of people who live in different big cities and don’t turn into fake douche bags. Lol sorry for the rant but I really resonate with your comment and I always find it so interesting people try to generalize so much
I had the opportunity to live in California for a year when I was younger. The idea of moving from the middle of nowhere Midwest to California was exciting. I was overwhelmingly happy by the amount of creatives I met and being invited to events to meet more people. It's disheartening when you realize they aren't your friends, they don't care what youre doing, you're just another support beam in their networking castle.
the way I had the same thoughts so many times, it feels so validating hearing you say/feeling the same things that I do. I hope your pillow stays cool 24/7
You have a miraculous way of speaking to my ADHD brain where a normal person would tell a story twice as efficiently as you and I would not be able to pay attention and you take 45 minutes to say “LA was bad for my mental health” and I am completely locked in and loving every moment including the ad
I desperately needed something to listen to, thank you. Hope you’re doing the bestest, Drewbert
struggling with my health lately, this cheered me up.
u making the joke ab the dentist being from la so hes fake was funny cus the only time ive been to the dentist here i swear they were laughing at me/my teeth and i havent been able to go back
I've watched you since we were in middle school, we were born the same year, and I am very much at the same point in my life. I just hang out with my parent and make oatmeal and that's actually the key to living a good life.
Hi Drew! I’ve been a fan since 2013 & I’ve seen every one of your videos since! It’s so amazing to see your growth and I will always support you! You’re the funniest and realest person on RUclips- I’m always sending you lots of love!
Hi Drew, I've been watching your channel since I was about 15 (I'm 24 now). I kinda dipped out for a while but I want to in some way express to you how much you've meant to me. I related to you back then because I was that weird sense of humour "quirky" boy when I was a teen. And I've come to relate to you again because I'm an alcoholic. I get a lot of joy from watching your videos now on here and on the second channel, back then because I related to your quirkiness and strange sometimes abrasive humour and now because I feel like we've grown up together in a similar path. obviously we're not the same person but I just don't know how I'd do it without you. I know there's not that many guys who are big fans of you but for me, it feels like we're old friends when I watch your vids now. I guess that's weird. idk. rock on anyway
you should read keroac
I added this as a lazy reply bc i was so tired after work but I have felt the same way for years. But really i think that’s cool. I always go back to drew’s vids when im sad, sick, etc. I don’t like to share him with the world tho so it’s annoying when ppl beg him to make videos or when he has to resort to sponsors to keep afloat
8:57 i wonder what secrets king is keeping from us
I’m from the same town as you and hearing you talk about it in this way is making me appreciate it so much more. Like I’ve always kinda resented it for not being very interesting, but that doesn’t make it any less special. Thanks for repping this small town. Love you❤
My condolences to you
You’re grandma seemed soo cool
I know she’s still around 👼🏽
I never fail to literally laugh out loud when watching drew
Seriously!! And it’s as soon as all his videos start, I’m cracking up from the first second! He’s just so damn funny omg
This is beautiful, saving this vid and playing it when I feel arbitrary shame and antsy for not having a “cool” life. ❤
I’m always so ashamed of how much I feel and how strongly I feel but you’re such a safe space for me, thank u, never stop, or do if u wanna idk
literally the one and only time i've ever sat through a whole sponsorship ad. 100% Drew please write all the ads for all the other youtubers. I'm sick of fastforwarding 5 seconds and then having to watch a few seconds past after the ad and then rewinding to the spot where the ad ended.
Drew is so real. Its refreshing to see from a creator
Drew, just so you know, the bird you colored in 2nd grade always DID matter, because it mattered to YOU.
Thank you, thank you I'll take my Oscar now.
i’m moving several states back to the house i grew up in with my parents in a few weeks and this video has really helped me look forward to it more. i think i need to watch this like at least 2 more times
I totally relate to this video so much drew! I lived in LA for 6 years and had an amazing time but a very unhealthy time. I was a struggling actor and couldn’t stand the “networking”. I moved to rural japan actually now and feel completely disconnected to my time in LA. I have to most peaceful life here swimming in rivers and going to festivals. I spend most my time alone but have such a close community. Everyone in the town knows me lol. I look back at photos of me when I lived in LA and I don’t recognize that person at all! It’s spooky. So everything you said… it hit hard for me lol!
Drew always brings the best sponsorship songs! You never have to fast forward his sponsorships😂 I hope someday somehow he is a music producer or writer.
He's already both
i also like that drew edits like it’s still 2012
This means so much to me as someone who just dropped out of college and is back in my hometown with my family feeling so much happier 😭 I relate to you so much Drew
Does anyone love that drew has the ability to pull a full song out of his ass when he needs to😂
This was very.. therapeutic to listen to! I really appreciate your feelings and honesty about your experience through the years. I feel like reflecting on what could of been and what is.. is so hard to do. Though when you get on the other side of those thoughts, coming to terms with things, and appreciating how a lot of things probably turned out for the best.. kind of makes it all worth it. The whimsical way you tell stories is so unique and endearing. Sending lots of love! Thank you for sharing with us.
As per your musical request towards the end.. I’m also lonely and actually moving tomorrow from LA back to Modesto!! LA is expensive and depressing. I’m happy to be moving back!
It’s always a good day when drew uploads. Can’t wait to watch this. I love you bff
u help me in my lonely moments. it’s so comforting having someone to listen to & relate to. thanks for being here, Drew
"When I go wild, I go to rehab" needs to be a shirt
35:00 scared as fuck because it actually is me Quinn. I am watching your video and my name is Quinn.
Your light is bright. I'm so happy you choose to share it with all of us:)
This video wasn't depressing Drew, it actually made so much sense. And as someone who used to chase the thrill (and also had substance abuse issues) I've realised in my 30s that for me true happiness is in the little moments and doing simple things ❤
The sponsorship ad songs are 10/10
The fact that your sponsorship song is such a bop??? This is the reason I still listen to the pop he faked to this day!
1) that was the first sponsorship that turned out to be entertaining. Good job!
2) I’m happy you realized what made you unhappy & went back to a place, even if not “glamorous” that gives you support & peace of mind. The honest you reveal from your hardships makes your content so good!
Drew is like the only RUclipsr who can make my feelings feel validated and make me feel in a good mood ❤️❤️❤️
Your comments about feeling like you’re living life in simple moments made me tear up. You so perfectly encapsulate that feeling of trying to make sure we’re living life fully enough. Love ya drew.
HI Drew :) thank you for making this. im currently in LA because a family member invited me to come out here for the experience . Originally planned to stay for six or so months..now just after two and a half months, im looking forward to heading back home soon. It is fun! But it's not home. Listening to this brought clarity. Part of me feels like Im not "giving it more time" but im also aware that it's not a big deal to not stay.
Also, I LOVE what you said about feeling content in simple moments. Just chatting with my best friend in the car on our way home from an outing with Coldplay music in the background, things like that make life feel so good.
i agree so much that there's a weird stigma about staying in your hometown...its something that keeps me in that adolescent mindset of like "ugh i HATE this town we gotta LEAVE THIS TOWN and then itll all get better and i'll be happy forever" but i know deep in my soul i could find a way to be depressed/isolated anywhere on gods green beautiful earth. doesnt stop me from daydreaming about moving to norway or whatever but it does give me a sense of perspective
btw i want to be a pedestrian so bad i live in a car dependent city...thats why i gotta leave this town to get to the pedestrians paradise
I too am a white person who can't drive. I actually started my licence this month, but I am sad to say I will be turning 29 without knowing how to do it properly.
Whoever reviews Drew’s sponsored videos is always in for such a treat. Can you imagine just being like “okay let’s just review this quick” and it’s a whole top of the charts hit
This was so beautiful and poetic, Drew. One of your best videos hands down.
I am convinced I would no longer be annoyed by advertisements if Drew just made them all.