Story 1: it's sad that the AP seems to be the only person who gives a shit about the OP in any way. His mom dumped him for years, his dad clearly believes OP isn't really his and abandoned him as well. Maybe the OP is the AP's son, but these weird lying freaks are too cowardly and worthless to actually tell him anything, they just randomly decide to ghost him with no explanation as if any of this is his fault.
Oh god, that would make a lot of sence actually. I mean, why there fathers side cut him off completely, why he is making it clear op is HIS first born son. The only reason is why abandon him for 9 years.. wouldn't you have wanted those mile stone moments
Story 1: The mom won’t tell OP the truth because she can’t. Even in her delusional mind, she can’t make a proper excuse for abandoning her firstborn son for 9 years. She acted like everything was normal because to admit that there was a problem is to admit that she did something wrong. It was easier for her to get rid of you and start over than to step up and be an adult. OP, in those 9 years you were with your aunt, I doubt your mother thought about you more than a handful of times. She and your father are vile narcissists. Even now, none of them actually view you as a person. You’re just a reminder of bad times to them. They don’t deserve your love or respect. Your mom’s AP is somehow the most sympathetic parental figure in this whole thing. At least the bastard is trying to be a parent.
I still hate the affair partner too because he's suddenly trying to be a dad (whether he's OP's biodad or not) after having also abandoned him for 9 years and is lovebombing him. But it also looks like it's working because OP is starting to like the AP calling him "son". It all just seems like manipulation to me. He wouldn't even let OP go to individual therapy unless he accepted family therapy. That's such a douche thing to do.
@@addictofanimation2923 OP just said some magic words and the family therapy became individual therapy with occasional appearances by the egg donor to give the appearance of family therapy.
@zacharylewis2802 Even if OP was able to turn it on him, the affair partner still tried to strong-arm him into family therapy first. I hate when people do that.
They are just materialistic brats thinking that OP had it good because he gets to have those stuff, not thinking that his mom and her AP are just basically bribing him so they could play the happy family now.
@@yeahyeahyeah3724 I don't know if I was OPI would play nice just to get as much Money out of them as possible and Then Go non Contact when I'm Older... It'd be the best revenge just like they want to use OP to play happy family, he could play happy family just to use them
Y'all are wrong. While outwardly it seems the friend was after the money but in reality if someone is just being nice to you, you reciprocate. People often like to paint people into black and white- yes mom was a jerk who cheated with someone who probably knew she was married. Yes dad was the jerk who pushed away the child he'd raised because the kid reminded him of his ex-wife. Nobody is in the right here. The only person who is trying to form a real relationship is the AP and OP is misdirecting his rage at him for changing a stable situation to the point where he lost both parents affection. But in reality if his parents truly cared or were better people they wouldn't have distanced themselves no matter what. In life, sometimes love is simply about loving those who love you back and treat you well.
@@personwithaquestion1800 is what way OP is wrong? he was left behind at the age when family is most needed. he does not owe them forgiveness. he has every right to hate them, especially since they just act like nothing happened
OP's dad is the WORST AH.. Cannot justify mums choices but I have to wonder if Mom stepped out because of the father. His coldness and cruelty are beyond awful. I think SD is actually wanting a true son.
If he wanted a true son, then he shouldn't have also abandoned that son for 9 years or had an affair. This is not the right way to start a family. The mother should have divorced the husband if he really was that bad and then started dating and had a child with them. Her and the affair partner's actions have completely shaped how her son sees them. While the OP shows signs of potentially forgiving them (such as liking when the AP calls him "son"), it could also be his subconscious craving for a father-figure. He could very well change his mind later and go right back to hating both of them.
@@nightking8490 No "good father" would abandon his kid. I'm not siding with the mother and her fuckbuddy, they're the bigger AHs here, but his father isn't better for abandoning a child that had nobody else.
@@tolkienblack There is a chance the affair partner is, but the ex-husband didn't even bother taking a paternity test before he ditched the kid. Unless the OP gets a D.N.A test with the affair partner, we will never know. The affair partner could just think that he's his son because the wife told him so. But even then, all three still abandoned him for 9 years.
Honestly, it feels that the current GF in the 2nd story was corrupted by the close friend who planted fears and slowly turned her into this psychotic mess.
im not going to say anything new but in s1, a dna test is almost needed if you ask me. op's dad doesnt act very rationally in my book, maybe is because the story comes from op and there are actions that doesnt seem rational, but it feels like the "biodad" is not the biodad, is just the ex-husband of the mom that was cheated upon more than once. op could very well not be the son of who he thinks, maybe is even the son of AP, maybe is the son of other random guy that the mom also fucked at the time. the AP being so nice tells me that he thinks he is the real dad or knows he is, but maybe is just that nice? but things dont add up, if you are that nice, then you arent the AP of anyone in the first place. and the 9 years of abandonement dont add up either. op is just 18 now, so in reality this is the time were maybe he starts to know these things, maybe they werent even telling him for some reason and now that he is an adult they will start telling him more? never understood why have the kid in the dark in these issues, but some parents think is a good thing to wait until 18 or more even when is clear that the kid is in need of the truth sooner.
To be honest i have seen so many drama series about a mother who having an affair with someone and turns out the affair is actualized person then you're biological father or mother share some people saw this as disgust, sinful, disrespect, and betrayal. But sometimes affairs could have a good changes in life all the others have a different effect negative and positive sometimes affairs have a different way in what future may hold i didn't say that affair is amazing i'm just saying that sometimes mistakes can cause something new it's something that people change and something that evolves from it some mistakes can actually learn from it poor there's something that accidents or mistakes could something more than you think in your point of view
the questions asked in the comments at the end are dumb, she was stalking her already and had trashed the place plus in her crazy mind he was sleeping with Alma so he was gonna run into her arms the moment he was away from her. Reddit be wild expecting logic from crazy people but this is reddit and most of them have never actually dated anyone that wasn't pixels on a screen.
S1: I wonder if the reason mom left was maybe dad was abusive in some way and she found happiness in AP. she might have wanted to take OP but dad threatened her in some way? honestly it sounds like OP refuses to go to therapy to get help for their issues and is just being spiteful to punish mom and make her miserable
He threatens her so that she can't take their son and then he leaves their son with her sister?? Her family?? And she doesn't even bother to come back until he's already eighteen?? The aunt could have turned around and gave him to his mother. She could even testify in court against the husband about abandoning their son at her house. Courts heavily favor women, anyway. The only thing that could work against her is if they find out she had an affair.
Insert “I ain’t saying she’s a gold digger, but….” 😂. Guys, I am the daughter of one of these women who act like this. She even conned a lottery winner. Do not be an absolute FOOL for a beautiful woman who plays you like a puppet. Don’t be that easy to take advantage of just because of good looks. These women are out there, and a beauty can sometimes hide a beast underneath that facade. And no-you are not loved. You are a wallet, a tool to be used. A means to an end, nothing more. A ladder up in the world without having to work for it. If you are fine being used, then great. Let it be mutual. But DO NOT be fooled that it is love. It isn’t.
S1: Go to therapy, go to family therapy. (Good job) moving forward. I'd not even be shocked if your father wasn't abusive or something else. What your mom did sounded like someone running. Your bio father sounds sus. S2: you cheated because you hang on to relationships that are over and or not communicating well in the relationship like an adult. you are making the same mistake again.
What about the eight or nine years that she could have visited OP while he was living with her own sister? She didn't even show up until said sister died. Even if his "father" was abusive, most mothers that genuinely love their children put them first, so she should have grabbed OP the first chance that she could.
@@rainsoakedscribe7068 unfortunately many abused women do that same behavior pattern. It's sad but very common. I have a friend who has finally got her relationship on track with her 3 sons after leaving on eof those relationships. Folks are human and flawed. Do the wrong thing. Never said it was right but sometimes it's life. It's his choice what he does with it. But being in something like that is destructive as hell. Also, the sister is some what of a gem if she took him in. I feel sorry that everyone f'n abandoned this kid. Father is the lowest of piece of crap. Mother needa get her crap together. Step dad needa slow his roll but thankfully he's the only one who is actually trying. I'd not be shocked if there was some type of paternity issue found out after he was born. Once his father started disengadging even after he found out he was his he kept doing it.
@@MistressOP That's fair. I think that the best thing would be for all three (OP, mom, step dad) to sit things down and have a full conversation about it, no secrets. It may involve opening up old wounds, but right now those wounds are just festering instead of healing. After hearing the last update I think that you're onto something with the mom and "father," but mom may be inadvertently prolonging the issue by refusing to talk about certain things.
Story 2 Nah he saying he agrees and disagrees cap there is no disagree once a cheater always a cheater also idc if people disagree with this statement 😂
The AP is not in the wrong. It is completely fault of your mom, OP. For your alleged DAD,he is right to abandon you. You are most likely not his kid, and why should someone else's leftover be his problem
MOST LIKELY IS NOT 100% SURE, COULD HAVE DONE DNA TEST BUT DID THEY NO SO YES IF IT WASN'T HIS KID SURE BUT AT LEAST DON'T BLAME THE CHILD... BUT IF IT IS HIS CHILD THEN CWHAT? BE SURE BEFORE MAKING A DUMBASS MISTAKE AND A FOOL OF YOURSELF PERIOD.
That is such a brain dead take. The affair partner, the mother, and the father are all at fault. Pretty much every adult in this young man's life except for his aunt has failed him. Unless the dad got a paternity test and proved that his son was not his, then that means that he potentially dropped his own 9-year-old child just because he didn't want to be reminded of the boy's mother. And when his child was in trouble and needed him, he wasn't there. Even though the mother is just as in the wrong as the father, at least she stepped up when her child had nowhere to go. She should have been there for him instead of just leaving him alone for all the years that his dad abandoned him. She shouldn't have let her sister do all of the heavy lifting and then only come back when her sister is no longer in the picture. First and foremost, though, she should have never even had a freaking affair. If she didn't want her husband anymore, she should have divorced him and then started dating. Instead she ruined both her husband's and her child's life. If the affair partner knew she was married and was still seeing her, he's in the wrong. If he didn't know but kept seeing her after after he found out, he's still in the wrong. The mother may have stepped out of the marriage, but being a home wrecker is not cute. The affair partner is just as much at fault as the person who they cheated with. It took two people to make that decision. Eventually, he'll realize that now he's gonna have to constantly worry about her having her own affair partner now that he's her husband. After he married her, he left the affair partner spot open. There's also a 50/50 chance that he could simply find another mistress now that his previous mistress is his wife. They were a match made in hell and - one day - this is gonna catch up to them. Even if the wife had been cheating for 9 years with this same man and he is the OP's father, he has killed any positive relationship he could possibly have with his child with his actions. Doesn't matter if he's trying to be a father to him now, especially since he also left the boy alone with his aunt for years.
@@addictofanimation2923 Hehe thanks but you stated my points and extra and was more articulate and NICE about how you worded it probably matters to, but definitely call out all BS all the time ^^
@@_junedays_1614 Re listen the story carefully and make inference out of it. Dad abandoned the OP, not only because OP reminds of the bad past but also because the cheating mother was cheating for a long time, Affairs like these are long term. He could be well assured the kid is more likely of the APs. And for the lovebombing by AP, he must have understood that the OP was his son and now trying to make things correct.
He should have got the DNA test first to make sure that that child was not his. Because if they do a DNA test now and it turns out that he is the ex-husband's son, he's gonna look like a right fool for abandoning his son just because of what the ex did. And if they take a DNA test and he's not the affair partner's child, that means that she was cheating with more than just the affair partner and he could possibly lash out and hurt the OP and his mother. Instead of doing the bare minimum of getting a DNA test, he just abandoned the boy with his aunt. I bet that guy never even actually cared about his son, if he was his son. He abandoned him way too quickly and cleanly.
Story 1: it's sad that the AP seems to be the only person who gives a shit about the OP in any way. His mom dumped him for years, his dad clearly believes OP isn't really his and abandoned him as well.
Maybe the OP is the AP's son, but these weird lying freaks are too cowardly and worthless to actually tell him anything, they just randomly decide to ghost him with no explanation as if any of this is his fault.
Oh god, that would make a lot of sence actually. I mean, why there fathers side cut him off completely, why he is making it clear op is HIS first born son.
The only reason is why abandon him for 9 years.. wouldn't you have wanted those mile stone moments
Re AP Being OP’s Father: That is what I thought too. It would explain some of dad’s hostility. But I am glad someone cares about OP.
Story 1: The only good thing about mom and her AP is that they respect OP’s privacy
Because they already fucked up so much
@@thestalker67they the mom f up and OP being a punk. Spoil little sht
Story 1: OP mom and dad are both horrible people.
Story 1: The mom won’t tell OP the truth because she can’t. Even in her delusional mind, she can’t make a proper excuse for abandoning her firstborn son for 9 years. She acted like everything was normal because to admit that there was a problem is to admit that she did something wrong. It was easier for her to get rid of you and start over than to step up and be an adult. OP, in those 9 years you were with your aunt, I doubt your mother thought about you more than a handful of times. She and your father are vile narcissists. Even now, none of them actually view you as a person. You’re just a reminder of bad times to them. They don’t deserve your love or respect. Your mom’s AP is somehow the most sympathetic parental figure in this whole thing. At least the bastard is trying to be a parent.
I still hate the affair partner too because he's suddenly trying to be a dad (whether he's OP's biodad or not) after having also abandoned him for 9 years and is lovebombing him. But it also looks like it's working because OP is starting to like the AP calling him "son". It all just seems like manipulation to me. He wouldn't even let OP go to individual therapy unless he accepted family therapy. That's such a douche thing to do.
@@addictofanimation2923 OP just said some magic words and the family therapy became individual therapy with occasional appearances by the egg donor to give the appearance of family therapy.
@zacharylewis2802 Even if OP was able to turn it on him, the affair partner still tried to strong-arm him into family therapy first. I hate when people do that.
Story 2: Boy, this guy really knows how to pick them. 🙄
that friend that says OP's a TA? that aint a friend
They are just materialistic brats thinking that OP had it good because he gets to have those stuff, not thinking that his mom and her AP are just basically bribing him so they could play the happy family now.
Exactly. Op should drop that "friend"
@@yeahyeahyeah3724 I don't know if I was OPI would play nice just to get as much Money out of them as possible and Then Go non Contact when I'm Older...
It'd be the best revenge just like they want to use OP to play happy family, he could play happy family just to use them
Y'all are wrong. While outwardly it seems the friend was after the money but in reality if someone is just being nice to you, you reciprocate. People often like to paint people into black and white- yes mom was a jerk who cheated with someone who probably knew she was married. Yes dad was the jerk who pushed away the child he'd raised because the kid reminded him of his ex-wife. Nobody is in the right here. The only person who is trying to form a real relationship is the AP and OP is misdirecting his rage at him for changing a stable situation to the point where he lost both parents affection. But in reality if his parents truly cared or were better people they wouldn't have distanced themselves no matter what. In life, sometimes love is simply about loving those who love you back and treat you well.
@@personwithaquestion1800 is what way OP is wrong? he was left behind at the age when family is most needed. he does not owe them forgiveness. he has every right to hate them, especially since they just act like nothing happened
Story 2's ex fiance sounded just as bad as his current fiance
Story 1: can the op be the real child of his step-dad and that why the dad doesn't want to have any relationship with him .
Yes, most likely.
S1- OP needs a DNA test. I wouldn't be surprised if the AP was his bio dad.
Story 1
SD: Luke, I am your father!
OP: ‼️
Story 2 she was definitely cheating too
story 1 why do i feel like OP isn't really his supposed to be bio dad isn't really his dad and his mom cheated on him before
Story 2: That woman sounds extremely unstable
He threw enough money at him.
OP's dad is the WORST AH..
Cannot justify mums choices but I have to wonder if Mom stepped out because of the father.
His coldness and cruelty are beyond awful.
I think SD is actually wanting a true son.
😂 😂 / another simp trying to pull the good father into the mess
If he wanted a true son, then he shouldn't have also abandoned that son for 9 years or had an affair. This is not the right way to start a family. The mother should have divorced the husband if he really was that bad and then started dating and had a child with them. Her and the affair partner's actions have completely shaped how her son sees them. While the OP shows signs of potentially forgiving them (such as liking when the AP calls him "son"), it could also be his subconscious craving for a father-figure. He could very well change his mind later and go right back to hating both of them.
@@nightking8490 No "good father" would abandon his kid. I'm not siding with the mother and her fuckbuddy, they're the bigger AHs here, but his father isn't better for abandoning a child that had nobody else.
I think the affair partner is his actual dad. He might know this and that’s why he doesn’t want anything to do with him
@@tolkienblack There is a chance the affair partner is, but the ex-husband didn't even bother taking a paternity test before he ditched the kid. Unless the OP gets a D.N.A test with the affair partner, we will never know. The affair partner could just think that he's his son because the wife told him so. But even then, all three still abandoned him for 9 years.
Sometimes therapy just is useful to cover the shit someone else throw you
Story 1: I wonder why it was after the grandma’s death? Maybe she had something to do with it.
Honestly, it feels that the current GF in the 2nd story was corrupted by the close friend who planted fears and slowly turned her into this psychotic mess.
Or she has been a psychotic mess all along.
@@lindah3803 true
Bro had the yandere gf that weebs fantasize about.
Story 1: wow ngl I know everyone is talking about the mum being awful, but his biological father is also a massive peice of sh*t wowww
I’m pretty sure it’s not his child
im not going to say anything new but in s1, a dna test is almost needed if you ask me. op's dad doesnt act very rationally in my book, maybe is because the story comes from op and there are actions that doesnt seem rational, but it feels like the "biodad" is not the biodad, is just the ex-husband of the mom that was cheated upon more than once.
op could very well not be the son of who he thinks, maybe is even the son of AP, maybe is the son of other random guy that the mom also fucked at the time.
the AP being so nice tells me that he thinks he is the real dad or knows he is, but maybe is just that nice? but things dont add up, if you are that nice, then you arent the AP of anyone in the first place. and the 9 years of abandonement dont add up either.
op is just 18 now, so in reality this is the time were maybe he starts to know these things, maybe they werent even telling him for some reason and now that he is an adult they will start telling him more? never understood why have the kid in the dark in these issues, but some parents think is a good thing to wait until 18 or more even when is clear that the kid is in need of the truth sooner.
I believe AP might be his biodad. The "dad" moved on too easily from his "son". The AP is going above and beyond for a non bio stepdad.
Story 1: Well at least there was a semi-happy ending
Poor OP
To be honest i have seen so many drama series about a mother who having an affair with someone and turns out the affair is actualized person then you're biological father or mother share some people saw this as disgust, sinful, disrespect, and betrayal. But sometimes affairs could have a good changes in life all the others have a different effect negative and positive sometimes affairs have a different way in what future may hold i didn't say that affair is amazing i'm just saying that sometimes mistakes can cause something new it's something that people change and something that evolves from it some mistakes can actually learn from it poor there's something that accidents or mistakes could something more than you think in your point of view
Probably OP wasn't Dad Son
the questions asked in the comments at the end are dumb, she was stalking her already and had trashed the place plus in her crazy mind he was sleeping with Alma so he was gonna run into her arms the moment he was away from her. Reddit be wild expecting logic from crazy people but this is reddit and most of them have never actually dated anyone that wasn't pixels on a screen.
S1: I wonder if the reason mom left was maybe dad was abusive in some way and she found happiness in AP. she might have wanted to take OP but dad threatened her in some way? honestly it sounds like OP refuses to go to therapy to get help for their issues and is just being spiteful to punish mom and make her miserable
He threatens her so that she can't take their son and then he leaves their son with her sister?? Her family?? And she doesn't even bother to come back until he's already eighteen?? The aunt could have turned around and gave him to his mother. She could even testify in court against the husband about abandoning their son at her house. Courts heavily favor women, anyway. The only thing that could work against her is if they find out she had an affair.
I don’t blame him 9 years and now you want me no apology nothing honestly just leave me alone at that point
Story 1: OP is kinda dunce in the head, mom's AP is his bio dad, that's why his father was so distant with him.
Except they completely abandoned him and had absolutely no interest in him at any time.
100 percent sure. The man is not his bio dad.
@@thespider2566 Wtf this has to do with my comment? They who?
@@nightking8490 How are you 100% sure?
How do you know? Or are you just assuming?
Insert “I ain’t saying she’s a gold digger, but….” 😂. Guys, I am the daughter of one of these women who act like this. She even conned a lottery winner. Do not be an absolute FOOL for a beautiful woman who plays you like a puppet. Don’t be that easy to take advantage of just because of good looks. These women are out there, and a beauty can sometimes hide a beast underneath that facade. And no-you are not loved. You are a wallet, a tool to be used. A means to an end, nothing more. A ladder up in the world without having to work for it. If you are fine being used, then great. Let it be mutual. But DO NOT be fooled that it is love. It isn’t.
S1: Go to therapy, go to family therapy. (Good job) moving forward. I'd not even be shocked if your father wasn't abusive or something else. What your mom did sounded like someone running. Your bio father sounds sus.
S2: you cheated because you hang on to relationships that are over and or not communicating well in the relationship like an adult. you are making the same mistake again.
What about the eight or nine years that she could have visited OP while he was living with her own sister? She didn't even show up until said sister died. Even if his "father" was abusive, most mothers that genuinely love their children put them first, so she should have grabbed OP the first chance that she could.
@@rainsoakedscribe7068 unfortunately many abused women do that same behavior pattern. It's sad but very common. I have a friend who has finally got her relationship on track with her 3 sons after leaving on eof those relationships. Folks are human and flawed. Do the wrong thing. Never said it was right but sometimes it's life. It's his choice what he does with it. But being in something like that is destructive as hell. Also, the sister is some what of a gem if she took him in. I feel sorry that everyone f'n abandoned this kid. Father is the lowest of piece of crap. Mother needa get her crap together. Step dad needa slow his roll but thankfully he's the only one who is actually trying. I'd not be shocked if there was some type of paternity issue found out after he was born. Once his father started disengadging even after he found out he was his he kept doing it.
@@MistressOP That's fair. I think that the best thing would be for all three (OP, mom, step dad) to sit things down and have a full conversation about it, no secrets. It may involve opening up old wounds, but right now those wounds are just festering instead of healing. After hearing the last update I think that you're onto something with the mom and "father," but mom may be inadvertently prolonging the issue by refusing to talk about certain things.
so she left her son there to be abused as well. yup shit parents all 3 of them.
Story 2 Nah he saying he agrees and disagrees cap there is no disagree once a cheater always a cheater also idc if people disagree with this statement 😂
YTA. The OP is such a B ik her mom is AH and the man who doesn't has any obligation towards him still bought him a car the OP is a B
The AP is not in the wrong. It is completely fault of your mom, OP. For your alleged DAD,he is right to abandon you. You are most likely not his kid, and why should someone else's leftover be his problem
MOST LIKELY IS NOT 100% SURE, COULD HAVE DONE DNA TEST BUT DID THEY NO SO YES IF IT WASN'T HIS KID SURE BUT AT LEAST DON'T BLAME THE CHILD... BUT IF IT IS HIS CHILD THEN CWHAT? BE SURE BEFORE MAKING A DUMBASS MISTAKE AND A FOOL OF YOURSELF PERIOD.
That is such a brain dead take. The affair partner, the mother, and the father are all at fault. Pretty much every adult in this young man's life except for his aunt has failed him. Unless the dad got a paternity test and proved that his son was not his, then that means that he potentially dropped his own 9-year-old child just because he didn't want to be reminded of the boy's mother. And when his child was in trouble and needed him, he wasn't there. Even though the mother is just as in the wrong as the father, at least she stepped up when her child had nowhere to go. She should have been there for him instead of just leaving him alone for all the years that his dad abandoned him. She shouldn't have let her sister do all of the heavy lifting and then only come back when her sister is no longer in the picture. First and foremost, though, she should have never even had a freaking affair. If she didn't want her husband anymore, she should have divorced him and then started dating. Instead she ruined both her husband's and her child's life.
If the affair partner knew she was married and was still seeing her, he's in the wrong. If he didn't know but kept seeing her after after he found out, he's still in the wrong. The mother may have stepped out of the marriage, but being a home wrecker is not cute. The affair partner is just as much at fault as the person who they cheated with. It took two people to make that decision. Eventually, he'll realize that now he's gonna have to constantly worry about her having her own affair partner now that he's her husband. After he married her, he left the affair partner spot open. There's also a 50/50 chance that he could simply find another mistress now that his previous mistress is his wife. They were a match made in hell and - one day - this is gonna catch up to them. Even if the wife had been cheating for 9 years with this same man and he is the OP's father, he has killed any positive relationship he could possibly have with his child with his actions. Doesn't matter if he's trying to be a father to him now, especially since he also left the boy alone with his aunt for years.
@@addictofanimation2923 lmao someone removed my comment but glad you at least got yours up there xD
@@heffa3821 I think I did see your's. It sucks that it got taken down.
@@addictofanimation2923 Hehe thanks but you stated my points and extra and was more articulate and NICE about how you worded it probably matters to, but definitely call out all BS all the time ^^
The dad this OP thinks is his dad is NOT his Bio Dad, Why will a self respecting man raise someone else's kid ?
How do you know?
@@_junedays_1614 Things are easy to see. If you are slow not to understand, then it is not my problem.
@@nightking8490 dude I was just asking, snowflake can’t take a question.
@@_junedays_1614 Re listen the story carefully and make inference out of it. Dad abandoned the OP, not only because OP reminds of the bad past but also because the cheating mother was cheating for a long time, Affairs like these are long term. He could be well assured the kid is more likely of the APs. And for the lovebombing by AP, he must have understood that the OP was his son and now trying to make things correct.
He should have got the DNA test first to make sure that that child was not his. Because if they do a DNA test now and it turns out that he is the ex-husband's son, he's gonna look like a right fool for abandoning his son just because of what the ex did. And if they take a DNA test and he's not the affair partner's child, that means that she was cheating with more than just the affair partner and he could possibly lash out and hurt the OP and his mother. Instead of doing the bare minimum of getting a DNA test, he just abandoned the boy with his aunt. I bet that guy never even actually cared about his son, if he was his son. He abandoned him way too quickly and cleanly.
Story 1 yta
“I don’t want to be looked at & treated like a cheater” typed the cheater 🙄