My Brother, Too, Is Abandoning Me After My Parents for His Girlfriend, Who Resents Me, Bullies M...
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- Опубликовано: 1 авг 2024
- 00:00 1st story:
AITA for yelling at my brother’s girlfriend because she is trying to get rid of me? (u/ThrowRA-brothersgf in to r/AmItheAsshole)
19:20 2nd story:
My son's friend's parents want to adopt him (u/livinginfearmom in r/TrueOffMyChest and her own profile)
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As a big sister, if my partner thinks they can convince me to re-home my siblings, they're dead wrong and they'd be single.
Facts! Thanks, from one older sibling to another.
I don't understand how the OP got so many comments supporting the brother when the bros of Gf was so clearly a bad choice of a partner. Seriously she bullied a child. How is that not the main issue of focus?
Often i see reddit stories like this, they never treat children like another human being, they see kids as an object can easily be left or thrown when anything happened
Genuine sociopaths. They expect children to act like adults but adults are allowed to be children. It's honestly sickening.
We are assuming this story is real…
Agreed. If she treats OP that bad, how will she treat his Japa-korean kid?
@@Maninawig Exactly when you come across people that are that selfish, chances ara they aren't going to be a decent spouse.
Id stop talking to my brother if he did that behind my back then tried to act like he gave a shot while defending the woman who repeatedly mocked me
Story 1 is heartbreaking. They clearly and understandably has severe abandonment issues. The brother was only 3 yrs away away from having op raised. I have a feeling the relationship with the gf is going to implode. I hope its karmic. But op definitely needs counseling and possibly medication to deal with the abandonment issues.
Right! And how can anyone hear this story and think op is just a spoiled brat? It's sad how people have less and less empathy for others.
Not Reddit ganging up on a 15y/o who literally having their life ripped apart and uprooted -_-
NTA. Don't agree to care for someone if you won't.
Story 1: OP is NTa. As far as the brother, NTA for wanting a life but TA for dating someone who abuses his sister. It seems like the gf puts on a good mask but when she heard of OP, she wanted to get rid of her from the get go.
Doesn't it sound suspicious for someone to want to date someone with a kid and want to ship them off immediately? She doesn't care about your family. You don't want to start a life with someone who wants to bully a child
Yeah, it’s giving "OMG he's family oriented, perfect husband materials. She's not his biological kid just his sister, interesting. Oh and he's got some underline resentment I can exploit to get rid of the brat! Imma give him that WAP WAP 9000 and bag me a good man." 😂💀 aka Pick Me Girl
OP's brother from Story 1 deserves all the pain he's gonna get when he tries to backtrack and get OP to return. Hope OP talks with mom and gets some proper stability. Choosing the putang shows his true character. Wonder if he's following in dad's footsteps.
OPS brother is in a lot of trouble because that bi... I mean gf is toxic
Story #1
OP says she doesn't feel like herself anymore.
She's a teenager, that's kind of normal. She isn't herself yet, never has been. She's still turning into whoever that person is.
Re: Therapy.
She's a U.S. Citizen still. She should ask her brother to keep her on his insurance, if possible, and she can get a therapist for online visits in the U.S. via Zoom. The time of her sessions might be inconvenient because of the time zones, but she can get a therapist who speaks English. It may work out for her brother as well, as with maintaining her insurance and keeping her U.S. address active, he may be able to claim her as a dependent on his taxes still. Don't break the law, but there are plenty of accountants who can work that out in a legitimate way.
Re: Brother
Yes, it seems like he's doing this for his girlfriend, at his sister's expense. He'll deeply regret that one day. But I also acknowledge that raising a 7 year old and a 15 year old are VERY different challenges. Things he once handled with ease may now be overwhelming. That explains some of his actions, but doesn't excuse them. It sounds like he hasn't been very forthcoming about his actual reasons.
I think the brother might realize he's messed up with the OP, if she talking to him like he's a distance relation she barely knows.
Personally I hope the girlfriend gets exposed as a cheater and he dumps her, and realized he abadon his sister for a person who was trash.
OP is not the asshole. Brother is the asshole and Julie is definitely the asshole. I'm going to go out on a limb and say that their relationship won't last. A person that is that selfish tends to be a shitty partner. When people show you who they are believe them.
Thank you for not giving the brother a pass. All he had to do was wait three years for OP to go to college and start her own life.
@@jamestown8398agreed, he knew about Julie bullying and abusing his little sister and what does he do? He decides to basically kick her to the curve cause she doesn’t want kids but wants a family?! She’s a fucking evil narcissist and when the brother loses all contact with his sister he will realize she’s evil and will know he fucked up and that he became just like his abusive father. I am also sure that she’s a gold digger as well.
Op is NTA, The brother is slightly a one, YTA for the girlfriend, first off OP and her brother are a package deal basically you’re getting a relationship with somebody who already has kids, not only that you’re sending the child to somebody who has already shown to be willing to abandon them and from what it sounds like they neglected them before that, not only that the brother is willingly in a relationship with a woman who berates his sister, I understand he doesn’t have a life, but at the end of the day he made the decision to take her in he can’t just go “you’re in the way of my life now so leave” at the end of the day he’s just gonna damage his relationship with his sister from leaving her and also not protecting her
I can agree with this. I can understand he has his own life to live, but he went behind ops back and ditched them with someone who already abandoned him and op once. It was really trashy in my opinion.
Also pretty petty of me, but who wants to bet the gf will eventually ditch him once they have kids or just because she can?
@@randomloseranddull1560fr fr, i did not understand the people who keep commenting that his brother deserve life too as an excused, they all treated op like some kind of object that can easily be moved away, they never think of her as a human with genuine emotion, op has only known her brother for her entire life, do they really think a child is gonna be fine after that?? Also yeah, i hope he and his gf fought lmao
He is also the asshole for enabling his gf bad behavior
The brother is a huge asshole. He chose to take a fatherly role for a child that was abandoned once. That was his decision. He than abandoned that child again. That is unbelievably cruel. He was an adult when he took OP in and basicaly planned to ship her off. The time between her k owing about this and her going to korea is 2 FUCKING WEEKS. 2 weeks to process your brother will discard you just like your father and that you will be shipped off to a country you dont know.
When you choose a responibility you are responsible for that and the brother chose to take care of op. He is the same as her deadbeat dad.
im sorry but why does Julie not want to take care of a 15 year becase she *young* but is so willing to start a family?
is like a step mom situation, she only would care for HER own kids and not any others
She's only 9 years older than the 15 year old, it would have to be weird to be more of a parental figure to someone that close in age to you
@@ajzephyros7454 bruh just be a cool auntie type, it's not hard
@@cototototorra7106She bullied a 15 year old. Who says she would love her own kids?
@@mr.halfright she bullied the 15 year old because she was in the way of her otherwise child free bf, she is gonna spoil rotten her kids
Your mother wanted you. Your dad took you to hurt your mother, why he then sent you to your brother was just to keep you away from your mother. As you can see your mother is quite kind and so is your step father and step brother. Now your brother is going to lose the money yoyr parents send him. That might make a difference in their "fun" money
OP is still a child and her feelings are valid. The people who should take care of her and keep her safe have failed her utterly. It is good that her mother does want her. OP is not at fault for anything, she is going through a well of pain that no person should experience. Therapy is a vital need for her.
Poor OP man
The first story is so sad!!! I'm glad she seems to be getting along with her maternal step-family, and they seem eager to have her around, like her step-dad helping her with homework and helping her learn korean, but it's terrible that her brother just straight up just threw her away, she is a child who he CHOSE to care for, and started planning to send away without talking to her at all about it, and clearly didn’t pay attention enough to how his girlfriend treats his sister. It sucks that this will probably only hit him one day when she says brother at a family event and he won't be the brother she's talking to.
Op from story 1 needs to talk to her mom, and get some help. She will understand.. she is in a full blown manic depressive episode.
This child is depressed and suicidal. And these people were saying shitty things to her 😢
Poor OP I hope the brothers gf cheat on him
I agree. He does NOT deserve to be happy. He is a monster.
seeing how she was heartless enough to just convince this spineless fuck to throw away his little sister like that then i wouldnt put it behind her, hope once the brother is all alone and with his family (hopefully) hating him for that shit then he will realize how he let everyone that matters down
Me too, with a lot of guys, and after if he ever try to get back to what it was before he drove his sister to depression, she doesn't forgive him and don't talk with him anymore. Because yes, the first OP is clearly showing things that make me think she has it. Also reddit didn't help as you can see some of them just made her feel more worthless and bad, it's clear they helped a lot to make her feel like a burden.
some people are just trash. Julie and brother are among them. leave and tell him that you hope she ruins his life like she ruined your life
The quality of life in Korea is WAY better than in the USA. I hope OP life gets better.
HA! Nice.
Story 1: Shame on your parents. Slight shame on your brother, no it wasn't his job to raise you, but damn. What a failure of an older sibling. Thank God for my parents!
I wonder if OP was a boy people would still be acting like the brother and the girlfriend didn't just do thhe shadiest thing ever
So sad. I know that my oldest sister and her husband would take me in .
I'm the eldest of 3 siblings and my youngest sibling lives with me, I could not imagine sending my sister to a remote island in fucking Korea to live with a bunch of people she doesn't know for someone i've barely known for a year.
What does your brother do that he thinks is taking care of you? What does Julie think she'll be expected to do for you. Make sure your ticket is round trip. But if it isn't find out where your countries embassy is and if you get ditched there go to the embassy. Make sure you have your passport for whichever country you come from. Foster might be what had to happen for you. Or they could find a boarding school for you and they could all pay the fees
Reddit did 1st op soo wrong
I deel bad for op this is the most likes I got
Same but I also feel bad for the brother. He’s had no childhood sounds like it
@@Catherine.Dorian. i don't feel bad for him.
@@HeoBaby24 Me either... The point isn't that he raised OP, the point is that he's in a abusive relationship and gave his sister away, wich one his girlfriend was always bullying.
@@vl5794 seriously your choosing someone who openly hates your sibling over your sibling who you're raised for 7 years. and you couldn't wait 3 more? the finally have the life you want?
you chose to raise her you choose to take care of her she never asked for this
@@HeoBaby24 Exactly!
Second story, they definitely got denied by adoption agencies
The real villains of the piece are the parents.
Op in first story sounds like they have depression i hope they get help, im worried aboyr them
Y’all I totally get how essentially being a teen parent to your younger sibling is one of the hardest things to do on this earth, but at the same time he shouldn’t have agreed to care for her by himself. Forgive me for sounding cruel (as I know from close friends how truly terrifying foster care can be) but he should’ve let her go into foster care if neither parent wanted/could have taken her. There’s ways they could’ve stayed connected and could’ve visited each other. If I’ve learned anything from worker with little kids, it’s that 7yo are still little kids. The OP talks/writes like she doesn’t remember her dad at all, and I can almost guarantee that that is the case. I feel so sad thinking about how literally every adult in her life failed her…
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Agree as older sibling
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How is any of this ops fault?
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Story 1: OP: “I don’t know why she hates me so much”
next line: I then yelled at her asking why she never liked me.
last story. stupid choice by kidding at 16
First story, she’s NTA but neither is the brother. Sounds like the brother hasn’t had almost any childhood or young adult life because he’s been parentified. He’s not wrong for wanting his own life
But he is TA for sending OP away to their mother who had abandoned them, sending her to a completely new country, and completely disregarding how she felt just to be with his girlfriend. OP should have told him that he was acting like their father
What made him the idiot was that he was deciding her future without any input from her. You don't get to decide that you're gonna send your sister (who has only had you for most of her life) off to a whole other country and then just never tell her. Did he expect her to just sit there with her legs crossed just waiting for her mother to show up to take off to a whole other country? Or to come home one day with all of her things already packed and her brother with plane tickets in his hand? He can want his own life but doesn't get to complain when he's retraumatizing his sister and abandoning her like their parents did. There was no communication with the person who's future everyone was deciding for.
The update I heard in a different video said that she had to tell him this to his face before he realized just how he was making his sister feel. It also said that her mother, stepfather, and stepsibling all appear to be good people when she visited and the mother couldn't take her because the dad made it so she couldn't (can't remember how at the moment). She's also considering just staying with her mother instead of returning to her brother even though her brother seems to no longer want to send her there permanently anymore after what she said. I'm glad things might go well between OP and her mother but the relationship with her brother will suffer. I don't know how much or for how long but it will take a long time to rebuild that trust.
OP has abandonment issues. The worst thing her brother could do is make it look like he's abandoning her too for a girlfriend. Whether he meant to or not, he freaked out his sister and had no right to be upset when keeping such a huge secret from her - deciding her future for her without her input - blew up in his face. I hope they eventually make up and the brother does get to live his own life but he really screwed up here. He should have communicated with her and tried harder to find a place close by instead of sending his sister to a whole other country.
@Cherry_Pie_Slice Thankfully, it seems her mother isn't so bad and her dad did something to make it so her mother couldn't take her. Her, her husband, and OP's stepsibling seem to genuinely like OP. She's considering staying there and not going back with her brother. I don't know any information after that.
@@addictofanimation2923wouldn't be surprised if that spiteful POS filled their heads with lies about the mom and made it seem like she walked out on them. He probably used some past medical history to rip them away from her. And I sure hope the mom gets some strength to keep away from her son. It looks like the son is about to be just like that man they call dad.
@southernflight5078 I'm not sure if the brother is going to get quite that bad, but he certainly is on the right track if he doesn't stop himself. He can't just abandon his sister just because his girlfriend wants to start a family. I admit that I don't like that it took this long for her mother to talk to her, but I also understand to an extent, even if I don't like it. I can only hope that she can be a better mother to her daughter now than she was when she left. I hope that the brother and sister can repair their relationship too. That brother really needs to stop himself before he actually does become like their father. Maybe if she told him that, it might open his eyes.
It makes me sick that she got shat on in the comments
makes me more sick she getting shat on in the youtube comments too, like what the fuck? and people wonder why kids be acting out and standing up for themselve
The internet is a cesspool full of creeps.
A lot of redditers see children as property, rather than as human beings.
Story 1: OP is such a little brat. Like I can understand her perspective but she isn’t doing herself any favors acting like “Brother’s Princess Sister”. No wonder the brother got her to go to Korea.
OP needs some time apart to appreciate all he did for her. Shes so quick to talk shit on the guy for sacrificing his entire adult life for her.
She does not it's a big difference between not appreciating others and being thrown away because your new girlfriend, not even a fiance, a girlfriend who you know has bullied your younger sibling says that she doesn't want her in the house. If you don't see the issue with that then there is a problem.
Stfu and watch the whole video before yapping
no if he actually put his foot down she wouldn't have to talk shit about him. you knowly sent your sister to the person who was so quick to abandon you. and im supposed to be grateful i wasn't abandoned as well? and then you just go ahead and abandon me? no fuck all that.
She is a teenager. Right now, dhe needs more stability. I feel the gf is the one. Many women try this, get with a man who has the responsibilty of a child and drives the child away.
@cyndirankin Because they like a man with responsibility, but they feel like they need to come first. Basically, a "pick me" bitch. Women like that are really selfish and unfortunately there are men who don't realize that it's fine to tell them to to fuck themselves because honestly they aren't worth it.
Come on, this is just a giant fishing for attention, brother did everything he could for SEVEN f* years, but OP is sad because he wanted their mother to make a mother's work and OP almost never speaks about the father that didn't take care of her for SEVEN f* years and neither wants to take care of her now, but yeah, the brother is the bad guy, sure
But it’s not that he wants to continue his life, but that he was making plans and talking to people before talking to the little brother about his thoughts. The older brothers wants aren’t wrong but the way he went about it was shitty.
So you're gonna ignore how scary it is for a 15 year old with abandonment issues to be abandoned again to someone she believes abandoned them before? By the one person she was hoping would never abandon her? It is true that he deserves his own life but shipping your younger sister to a whole other country behind her back and without telling her and for a woman he's only known for a year was TA move. He couldn't wait or find a place closer and in the same country to send her to? 15 is a little too young to be forcing your younger sibling to uproot their life and haul them to a whole other country. He completely ignored how his sister felt and then got upset when it blew up in his face. He made an admirable sacrifice by raising her and I truly commend him for that but he's backtracking all of it by abandoning her just like their parents did. This can completely destroy his sister's trust in him and make her abandonment issues even worse.
An update in the comment section on another different video said that she's actually considering staying with her mother and not going back to her brother, even though her brother seems to be changing his mind about leaving her in Korea. Her relationship with her brother is now damaged and he needs to rebuild trust with her.
But if my partner was insulting my younger sibling and basically trying to convince me to send them to a whole other country, they would no longer be my partner. They couldn't even wait for her to turn 18 or find a place closer by, they sent her to a whole other country.
yah once again op was abandon at fucking 8 years old now as a normal life, and her shiity brother is taking that away because his whore gf wants to move in? you can't wait 3 more years? 3?! i would understand if op was a maybe a problem and that's a big fucking IF but op didn't do anything wrong and has every fucking right to be upset.
@@addictofanimation2923 First of all, this story is fishy, first OP says her mother wanted to take her to Korea but her dad didn't let her, then the dad abandoned her and she says if her brother didn't take her in she would be in foster care, why? The mother suposedly wanted her and, it seems that her mother always wanted her, all this "no one wants me" is just BS from OP, she just want to her brother to be her father, that's all. You just need to pay attention to what OP isn't tellingl.
@TacoCat_Fabio I am paying attention, it's you who's not. OP learns about her mother having wanted her *_after_* she visited her in Korea. We and OP don't know why her mother didn't come get her after she moved to Korea. People aren't these predictable robots that move on pure logic. Who knows for sure why her mother didn't come for her sooner. Maybe the father would have done something if he heard about it, but if OP went to Korea, he couldn't because they would be out of America. Maybe she thought she would be safe with Yukio. I don't know and I won't try to be omniscient and say I do. If she went into foster care, her mother can't do anything in Korea. Especially if her dad got involved if he heard she was trying to take her. Why did he make it so her mother couldn't take her and then abandon her too? That wasn't logical, either. But he still did it. Humans as a whole act irrationally and can be pretty stupid at times, despite their propensity for world changing feats.