Op 1: thats gotta be so rough for op, no closure, no peace, just being left to raise a kid on your own after finding out the love of your life was a stranger.
Oh wow i know a person who was result of assault. She and her sister twins that were result of that assault were shocked when they found out the truth. He was 12 and woman was 36,their mom told them they were result of one night stand. When they were 20 they found their dad but were shocked finding out the age gap. Lets just say she regreted finding out the truth. Even now after years of finding out she still feels weird around him scared,angry, whole range of emotions.
So sorry for the OP. I only imagine how painful this situation is, esp. the STD that he has that will remind him of that betrayal over the rest of his life. Baby girl will forget her Mom completely far sooner than most realize, though may be hard on her off and on as she grows up unless the OP finds someone else to love them both. Truly hope there is no time in the future that the bio mom tries to show up in the daughter's life.
I’ve heard of many a story where they got the gender wrong because the ultrasound has been misread, parts hadn’t developed yet or just plain incompetence. It’s not uncommon at all unfortunately 🤷🏿♀️
Prenatal gender tests are not 100% accurate. In fact they are based entirely on 'looks like' visual assessments of ultrasound scan images. Newborns can often have ambiguous primary gender characteristics too so it taking a couple of weeks to get the gender right isn't unprecedented.
Story 2: Due to all the hell OP's mother put her through, I predict that, her boyfriend will cheat on her with/jilt her for another woman, next, she'll stay with/marry a new guy who also treats her like a slave, abuses her (mentally/emotionally, verbally, and physically, to the point of landing her in the hospital), traps her, and at times, threatens to un-alive her if she breaks up with him, and she'll stay with her abuser because she doesn't want her kid to not have a father in his life, then, file for divorce, move in with her father's sister (because she's scared that her husband will take her baby away from her, with her mother's help, kidnap him from her, and paint her as an unfit mother who abused/neglected him), stay temporarily with her or at a women's shelter until she finds an apartment, take online college courses, and work two jobs to support her one-parent household, and instead of ever finding new love, getting married again, or making her own new family, she'll need to steer clear of potential new partners, concentrate on getting therapy for herself, getting to know her father, and raising her kid.⚠️
I think I know what changed her ( went he's strong dislike for her brother and everyone judge him and him stopping her for getting help and force not to save her brother and didn't care about her feeling but care about his ego and force her to go no contact on her brother when he needed help but interfere with her helping him by find a place that can help him get clean and change for the better but he made her choice between him and her brother and he end up dead and she blame herself and didn't trust him anymore and the final straw was his true feel about her brother so she cut everything that connect to him like her daughter and him and her parents and everyone from her old life) so she can ran away from past and stop thinking about it and cut her old feeling out so she can be free and that man made her choice this past to remove the pain and saddest and fear she had in her mind
What? The brother stole from everyone including the OP. The brother choose not to expect help and can't make a horse drink water when it doesn't want too.
Imagine defending the dude who broke into someone’s house and stole all there shit. He’s a grown adult who can make his own decisions, it is no one right to “help” him. Not to mention this dude was abusing his wife and kids, and you still took his side…..
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Op 1: thats gotta be so rough for op, no closure, no peace, just being left to raise a kid on your own after finding out the love of your life was a stranger.
Oh wow i know a person who was result of assault.
She and her sister twins that were result of that assault were shocked when they found out the truth.
He was 12 and woman was 36,their mom told them they were result of one night stand.
When they were 20 they found their dad but were shocked finding out the age gap.
Lets just say she regreted finding out the truth.
Even now after years of finding out she still feels weird around him scared,angry, whole range of emotions.
Once an abuser ALWAYS an abuser.
So sorry for the OP. I only imagine how painful this situation is, esp. the STD that he has that will remind him of that betrayal over the rest of his life. Baby girl will forget her Mom completely far sooner than most realize, though may be hard on her off and on as she grows up unless the OP finds someone else to love them both. Truly hope there is no time in the future that the bio mom tries to show up in the daughter's life.
Shit even the STD he got isn’t curable.
The daughter is one, and the woman had the time and energy for an affair? The parents of babies I’ve seen barely have the time to brush their teeth!
1st: How the doctors didn't found it was a girl? isn't something acurrated?
I’ve heard of many a story where they got the gender wrong because the ultrasound has been misread, parts hadn’t developed yet or just plain incompetence. It’s not uncommon at all unfortunately 🤷🏿♀️
Prenatal gender tests are not 100% accurate. In fact they are based entirely on 'looks like' visual assessments of ultrasound scan images. Newborns can often have ambiguous primary gender characteristics too so it taking a couple of weeks to get the gender right isn't unprecedented.
It’s actually more common than you think ultrasounds can miss the gender it happened with my second child didn’t know I was having a boy😂
Happened to me. My parents thought I was going to be a boy until I came out.
It happens. My sister, according to the ultrasounds, was going to be a boy
Story 2: Due to all the hell OP's mother put her through, I predict that, her boyfriend will cheat on her with/jilt her for another woman, next, she'll stay with/marry a new guy who also treats her like a slave, abuses her (mentally/emotionally, verbally, and physically, to the point of landing her in the hospital), traps her, and at times, threatens to un-alive her if she breaks up with him, and she'll stay with her abuser because she doesn't want her kid to not have a father in his life, then, file for divorce, move in with her father's sister (because she's scared that her husband will take her baby away from her, with her mother's help, kidnap him from her, and paint her as an unfit mother who abused/neglected him), stay temporarily with her or at a women's shelter until she finds an apartment, take online college courses, and work two jobs to support her one-parent household, and instead of ever finding new love, getting married again, or making her own new family, she'll need to steer clear of potential new partners, concentrate on getting therapy for herself, getting to know her father, and raising her kid.⚠️
Story 1: How is the wife a male and also pregnant
Ai?
I think I know what changed her ( went he's strong dislike for her brother and everyone judge him and him stopping her for getting help and force not to save her brother and didn't care about her feeling but care about his ego and force her to go no contact on her brother when he needed help but interfere with her helping him by find a place that can help him get clean and change for the better but he made her choice between him and her brother and he end up dead and she blame herself and didn't trust him anymore and the final straw was his true feel about her brother so she cut everything that connect to him like her daughter and him and her parents and everyone from her old life) so she can ran away from past and stop thinking about it and cut her old feeling out so she can be free and that man made her choice this past to remove the pain and saddest and fear she had in her mind
I had a stroke trying to read this and died. Greetings from the afterlife
What?
The brother stole from everyone including the OP. The brother choose not to expect help and can't make a horse drink water when it doesn't want too.
Imagine defending the dude who broke into someone’s house and stole all there shit.
He’s a grown adult who can make his own decisions, it is no one right to “help” him.
Not to mention this dude was abusing his wife and kids, and you still took his side…..
Did you forget the part where he beat his family??
Punctuation is your friend.