Is He My Dad Or A Mooch? | KARAMO
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- Опубликовано: 19 окт 2024
- Sasha says Anthony stepped it up and raised her as a single father when her mother was missing in action. However, Sasha now feels like she's shown up for her dad as an adult and he is unappreciative. Their communication style could use some work and a linger DNA mystery might change their entire dynamic. Can Karamo help this father and daughter?
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I don’t understand why Mr Karamo didn’t address the issue of him living under her roof and being disrespectful, burning stuff with his cigarette, not helping financially…
The father should move out and get his own place as a grown man.
Agreed
I don't think he needs to move out, but he needs to stop acting like a guest and start acting like a roommate. Respecting her things, following rules in the house, taking up financial responsibility. And he needs to deal with his addiction.
The father is hurt to, and he said, “it don’t change nothing.” I am so grateful for what this father said… I can hug them both ❤❤❤
😢 my dad told me that & it changed everything. I pray he doesn’t change on her
No excuse for walking all over her financially. I would kick him out.
Honesty is vital to children for any parent about biological parent. If in doubt then find out.
Although they are dealing with boundary issues in their relationship I hope she realizes how blessed she is to have a dad who cared enough to put his kid's needs ahead of himself.
maybe you didn’t watch the full video….but the dna test revealed he’s not her dad but at the end of the day that’s not the issue. the issue is he’s over extended his stay with her, not respecting boundaries on top of damaging property, talking bad about her to her kids, smoking in the home, not paying rent, etc. she’s even gave him props and acknowledged multiple times that he’s done a good job as well as took care of her but now the issue is him not being respectful and responsible in HER home. Being a parent doesn’t give you the right to disrespect someone’s home.
@@kayfromatl
Very Well Said
@@kayfromatltrue but she was willing to kick him all the way out of her life but protecting a ragady bia tch who abandoned her responsibilities in raising her and then lied to this man about he was her dad. 🤔 sad.
@@kayfromatl I did watch the whole video, however, I consider him her dad because he raised her and her siblings. In my book DNA doesn't make you a parent as evidenced by her biological mother! I already acknowledged that there are boundary issues!
@@trinathompson8587 your comment was not addressing him and the negative impact he was having towards her and her kids. your comment was focused solely upon the fact that she should be grateful for having a dad and that’s where you’re wrong
DNA tests need to be mandatory at birth. This is sickening.
I think there are a lot of pros and cons.. but ultimately, people do deserve to know, so yeah.
@@ellen5276 there is no con to knowing who you are
There are cons to knowing who you are not.
Very sad!!!
I have a petition for it but no one will sign it lol
Gorgeous woman! I’m praying she gets the healing she needs 💔
He needs to move out immediately! Father or not, he’s disrespectful of her, her children and her household!! He’s gotta go!!
Facts 💯
Y’all sound crazy! That man didn’t even have to be there cause it isn’t even his daughter! He is the one that got the short end of the stick!
@doyouknodw their saying yes, it's his daughter, but he's disrespecting her , her house, and her kids. It's been 4 years, and he can move out
You obviously ain’t watch the whole thing he raised her like his own for nun
@thejourneyofbre2104 So he raised her and gave her resources he should have given to his biological children and now he's fallen on hard times you think 4 years is too much to help him out. He was there for you 27 years while your cheating mother was running the streets! This entitled generation 🙄.
Not directed to the daughter in the story, but to those who think he should move out 😊
she is a beautiful young lady i wish her all the best
Yes…she is very beautiful and classy. Dad did a great job!
I would be so proud to be Sasha's mom....wow!
She seems like a decent girl. And besides the boundaries and substance abuse issues, I hope they realise all they have is each other.
I’m in tears!!! WOW!!!! I hope they stay close and figure out their new normal!!! 😰😰😰
Pray that she finds your read dad so you can find her real peace. She's going through all this with him just to know he's not her dad. Everything happens for a reason. Now it's time to let go of unnecessary toxic company.
Shame on her mom for not being honest as well, that's why she didn't show up. She's been knowing he wasn't that young ladies father, and she should be a ashamed of herself
Yes
but he is her dad. He reared her! So she is his!
Now the toxic part - that's another chapter... lol
REAL Dad!!!! Learn English 101😠
I am loving this look on Karamo ❤
He don't play with Wardrobe👏🏾
The momma probably didn’t want to come on the show because she knew that wasn’t her father. I hope they can continue on their relationship minus the toxicity ❤
He did a good job raising her.
She’s so beautiful.. I hope she gets the healing she needs 💜
This father entitlement and the way he deflects and shifts blame to the mother not being there is cell manipulative. I remember learning in psychology that when a person responds with emotion when they could employ logic it's manipulation. For example he could have said I have taken care of you your entire life without a dime from your mother and child support but he would have realized how crazy he sounded so he stuck with just mentioning the mom wasn't in the picture to try to strengthen his case
Yeah but he aint the sire ? Aint the mom the scandalous one.
Two victims of the same heaux.
Mom put the kitty on him than her baby .
Mandatory dna protects stupid weak slow men. The moms just don't care about the kids.
you saw the outcome of dna and still wrote this? things suddenly get clear when you find out the man who worked hard to ensure you had everything u wanted and needed is not even ur father. her mother was an alcoholic who chose not to take care of her kids and this man stepped up and did it all. mom probaby dont know who her father is thats why she didnt come on tv.
@@luv4ever101 ok... what's your point? He made all of those statements prior to the results. In his own words the outcome of the test wouldn't change anything in his eyes. So why TF would I factored in the paternity test when the people actually being affected aren't? Not to mention it was his choice to raise her. She has other siblings according to her and could have left her in whatever situation they're in, but he chose not to, he chose not to get a paternity test sooner knowing the lifestyle her mother was living, he choose not to take the mother to court to seek child support. And you trying to validate his entitlement being directed towards the child in this situation who didn't ask for any of this and who doesn't owe him shit because that was his role as the parent, when the person he should have this animosity towards is the mother shows what kind of person you are. Honestly the daughter should take a note out of her mom's book and ignore his dusty ass too. Good thing I'm not your son because you rocking with this emotionally abusive sack of 💩 you definitely be in a nursing home... 🚶🏽♂️ 🚪👵🏾
Alcoholic is crazy cus i don’t remember ever saying that lol
@@blaq7892the dude said it's crazy to him because he was also married to her mom at the time. He also he heard stories but didn't buy into the conversation.
I've been there and done that, father or no father, it is nothing worse than to let someone live up under your roof and they're talking about you like a dog when you're helping them. Then the nerve, talking to my child about me? He's got to get out straight past go, not because he isn't her biological father, but because he doesn't respect her,her home, or her children. Perhaps they can still have a relationship, but not under the same roof.
😢I was sad seeing her get that result...he was good to have raised her and I believe she appreciates and loves him...BUT WHYYYYY is nobody talking about the fact that he is a grown man and needs to be established and living on his own😑🤔
He is an addict.. messy, narc
lol..there are so much men out her like this...hence am for this decentralizing idea...not that we want to but we have too... i have brothers like this..bitter men woh did minimal and turn out to be nasty and spiteful.
This was so sad to watch like I can’t imagine after all them yearsssss
I watch you my brother DAILY!! Ive cried many times for these people. BUT THIS ONE really tore me up. Continued prayers for the two! 💚🦋
Father or not, he would be out of my house.
Wasn't expecting the results. Poor Dad. It's completely heartbreaking for the parent. I was adopted, and my parents who adopted me love me very much. No matter what, they are Mom and Dad. Nothing can change that. They would be heartbroken if I ever disowned them because we weren't related by blood. That would be so disrespectful. I hope people realize it's not about blood, it's about love.
this. i’m adopted too, and i’m fortunate enough to have gotten in contact with my biological father’s side of the family.
even they know and respect that no matter what, my adoptive parents come first. family is the love, support, and care we put into those around us.
*the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.*
That woman wanted to break down but she was holding that pain inside I can just tell that she feel betrayed by her mother..💔😓
i hope they are able to heal
I could love someone to death but smoking in my home is a deal breaker. Talking down on me to my child is a deal breaker. Being a active drug user is a deal breaker especially when. I have kids in the house. Four years of non- contributing is a deal breaker. He didn't look like he missed any meals, so she's feeding him well. He's like another child, only more expensive to take care of.
Duties want credit for taking care of their kids. YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO!
He’s not the biological father. The mother was supposed to. The mother lied
This almost made me cry
AND THE MOTHER GOES SCOTT FREE! THIS MANS LIFE WAS STUNTED BY A LIE, AND RAISED A CHILD THAT IS NOT HIS OWN TO BE DISRESPECTED BY HER
My thoughts exactly, nobody not even her wanted to get that part out. She was willing to dog this man out vs talking about her ragady mama. Just goes to show you how ungreatful some people are. The mom no disrespect towards her but all the disrespect she can give towards him. That test result humbled her real quick.
@@Ebd1990 THEN THERE WAS SILENCE WHEN THE RESULTS CAME BACK THAT HE WASNT EVEN HER FATHER.
With all of the above being true… he still shouldn’t be burning holes through her belongings, not contributing and overstaying his welcome. She’s literally just asking for decent boundaries and to have her home respected. He’s for sure a great father but needs to understand boundaries.
I hope you find healing in spite what your mom decides to/not to do. Am talking from experience.
It's sad that he's not her real father but it's still good that he still say she's his daughter and just hope they get better and hopefully he does move out so she can have a life
This is insane! I pray this fact doesn’t negatively change their relationship. I hope they can heal from this and strengthen their relationship.
She so beautiful.
She is well spoken and appears to be a sweetheart. I wish Karomo would have addressed the dad about him mooching off of his daughter. That's not cool. It seems like she's an empath and has nothing but narcissists around her. Karamo said one thing right...her healing is not gonna come from her dad. But he was wrong to say it needs to come from your mom. No! It won't come from either! It's only gonna come from God! Cut your losses baby girl, block mom, kick dad out and block him too. That sounds cold, heartbreaking and sad. But turning to and seeking a relationship with your Heavenly Father is the only way you'll heal, become whole and be better off! I know all too well. You're in my prayers 🙏🏾.
GOD this broke me I feel so sorry for her she's so gorgeous smart respectful and I pray that she gets the answers she deserves thanks again Karamo for a beautiful story. God bless you all 🙏🏽💕
Can anyone answer my question Honestly? Has anyone ever used ancestry to do a DNA test, find relatives like siblings and what your ethnicity is? Or can someone connect me to Karamo please there's things I need to know since my dad never told me.
Thank you in advance!
these ancestry test are not always correct, just letting you know that
This isn’t going to do anything but make them closer! Yal are so blessed to have each other !!
They have an unbreakable bond but he is knowingly using her. He admitted as much. Still, I respect that he was a good father. He should adopt her legally. I think that would warm things but the mom is the true source of pain for the both of them. They definitely need some counseling.
Thank you! He did do right by her but that is a parents job and thankfully he did that. That doesn’t not mean that she has to financially and physically support him while he disrespects and turns her kids against her
This my sister and this man did absolutely did nothing for us!
I was very sad for this outcome but I had a feeling he wasn’t. I hope she can heal and they can establish some healthy boundaries.
It’s runs a lot deeper than peoples opinions. Love and understanding is what is needed x good luck to you both 🙏 x
Prayers for this relationship. Both of them have a common denominator and thats depression. I pray for healing.
Karamo is looking so good in that suit
I wonder do the Producers tell them to walk out on stage and pop off lol. It seems to be repetitive.
i bet they don’t. if someone went on a stage and started going on a long list of complaints about me, i’d get worked up too
I always wonder the same thing about EVERY show that does this, and I’ve addressed that here in Karamo’s comment section, because in my opinion, it brings down the quality of the show. Reminds me more of Jerry Springer or Maury, and I’m sure that wasn’t what he had in mind when was conceiving the show idea.
@@NubianP6I agree that why I think it genuine when theyre mad .
We definitely did not see this in season 1. It cheapens the show. Karamo has all this class and style then allows folks to come on there acting a fool out the gate... it just doesn't make sense. 🤔I wouldn't let production cheapen my brand. 🤷🏾♀️
Wow, I was not expecting those results. I even convinced myself that they look alike.
I thought so too.
I’m so sorry to the both of them I wish they never took that test because that part didn’t matter. It’s a blessing to even had someone to call dad I would love that.
I feel so sad for the dad, I don’t feel like they paid enough attention to his feelings after learning that the child he raised for 27 years who wants him out of the house isn’t even his. He could’ve possibly saved so much more money to afford a place of his own if he had one less child. He’s probably worried about being put out even more now that he has no grounds to stay and he wasn’t offered counselling support or nothing. The staying parent hardly ever wins.
The victimhood is astounding. He's the elder and the father figure. I am sure she loves him but he took advantage of her. He is responsible for his mental health and financial means. She's a young lady starting her life. He should take accountability and responsibility for his actions.
@@Zorobbabel though u agree with you and understand that she could not be having fun, I’m from the Caribbean and we help our parents like they helped us. All of that aside, I still don’t think they offered that man the support he probably needed at the time.
@moy16ful She did help him financially to the best of her ability, and culture has little relevance to his behaviors. So answer this... is it abusive to damage her property? Is it disrespectful to spit tobacco at her domicile? Is it shady to demean her to her kids? It's as simple as right or wrong. Would you like your parents to do that to you? Being a parent doesn't entitle you to abuse your power. He who troubles his house will inherit the wind. Treat others like you would like to be treated.
She is a Beauty!🤗
Wow, I didn't expect this so sad. I'm sure we all feel her pain
She looks beautiful, she is a clean lady❤♥️💕🙌
If this young woman isn't the definition of strength then there's no definition.
I feel like he knew he was not this is sad for the both of them smh. Her mother is not any good. So sad 😮.
Right at least take responsibility and show up and hold your daughter's hand, but that would be too much like right
Yes but he raised her. So she should be happy she could have ended up in foster care. He stepped up rather she was his or not
or i couldve ended up with my biological father who is very well off and successful 🤷🏾♀️ we’ll never know
@@thatgirltyrianaaaa8699true. You are beautiful and a strong lady. I wish you well
Where Is The Blame On The Mother! The Mother Was Probably In The Streets, And Still Is!😮
The wife didn't want him back into her house for several reasons.
It's one thing to have a boundary issue is even worse when the mother lied and say that this man is this young lady's father and then it turns out this man is not even the got to be heartbreaking 😢🤬👎🏼🤡💯‼️ why would you dare sit up and defend the mother when the mother knew the whole time instead of allowing you to come on national TV just to find out what she did which is not good she should have been honest Day One😢
I feel like her Mom told her he wasn’t her Father a long time back. I feel bad for him but he needs to move his grown behind out of her house. She does not want him there. She owes him nothing. You can’t live rent-free in someone's home acts disrespect them at the same time. She can’t freely live her life with her Dad there.
Awe that's a sad outcome. I wish them peace.
I feel for the man, imagine raising a kid thinking she is yours then later find out she isn't 😢
This is so emotionally painful😢!
They both need hugs this made me really sad
Very sad situation 💔😢 🙏 for them both ❤️
The entitlement is mind blowing. It’s ridiculous. Girl just continue to be great and love him from afar.
God bless them both 🙏🏻🥰🙏🏻💕
Is he my dad or a mooch is out of line 😂
Honestly she couldn't have ask for a dna test cause she already knew! Now Karamo didn't give her advice on how they could live together or him getting his own place
She is beautiful
Wow! This is a lot. If her love her he needs to respect her house and obey her rules. Hope she finds out who her REAL dad is eventually.
Wish the father would of had a chance to talk after the results. He looked beyond devastated and destroyed.
I hope she gets the answers she deserves..and you need to bring ya mama on she has some questions to answer
Am I the only one that think the father knew all along , but used the girl as a investment from birth . I truly believe that he didn’t think he this far ahead but definitely think as a child he took advantage of her of her being his dependent on them taxes plus any gov assistance or benefits that come with having a child .
You don’t know these people to make those assumptions. He was married to her mother
She did good on her wording.. " His been stuck with me ever since." So she does not regard him..
He is ridiculous! What's wrong with adults these days... because you are the so called parent doesn't mean you can control your adult children. I know she not his daughter!
thank you for your understanding! 🫶🏾
I don’t see enough people talking about the mother. People gaining up on the man who ended up not being her father, yes he was wrong, but if a man not taking care of their kid, it would be a lot to say but as soon as the mother not in the child life, it gets quiet. The mother is a dirty ass woman and wrong for pending a baby on this man. This was sad.
But a man who could have ran off but he didn’t he raised her ass and this is the thanks he gets. People dogging him out but letting her ragady mammy off the hook. I think he needs to straighten up and get his self together, but she was willing to kick him straight to the curb, but that test humbled her reaction toward him towards the end. God don’t like ugly.
Karamo well done
Parents please stop breaking kids,the cycle of abuse can't break with us having kids for the sake of it,in this modern times there are so many ways you can prevent this,must you conceive or impregnate whoever you do sthg?
From his perspective , he has helped her a lot . Now as his daughter it’s her turn to help him. She seems a bit one sided.
I know he turned out not to be the biological dad, but being a father is more than sharing the same blood. It’s being there which it looks like he was .
She is onesided which is why Im glad Karamo expressed that her real issue is with her mother. Shes just putting it all on him just like her mother did knowing dang well he wasnt even the father. That argument of her yelling “you were supposed to take care of me!” Is hitting real different now knowing that he actually wasnt supposed to but he actually saved her frfr.
It always gets me how different the picture looks once we get both sides. I wouldve never known if it was left up to her, that she disrespected his household for yrs bringing men up and through there with her and her son.
True enough he needs his own place but she was wrong for making that man seem like a demon and hes not that at all.
A lifetime with a man that loves you unconditionally even tho he didnt have to is beyond worth a few yrs without men who prolly just wanna phuck frfr. Hes prolly saving her arse again from the drama she could be facing had he not been living with her.
She needs to count her blessings, learn how to communicate, so some appreciation and get some counseling.
She doesn't seem to be one sided to me when he's been living with her for 4 years rent free and putting burn holes in everything. He and his wife charged her $800 a month for rent when she was down on her luck. That's not a good man. Sorry. He may have raised her but there are narcissistic parents who use their children. I believe in being there for your parents when the took care and provided for you. But where do you draw the line? That is not the case for them.
Would you want your "precious" mother who didnt have custody of u and let a stranger raise u MOVE OUT if that was her on the stage?
children seem to over look what the mom does but blame dad alot for not being there. Even after finding out that he is not the dad, but in alot of cases has played the role anyway.
O yes just living her life.
He's shaped like a butterball turkey!
Wow! How sad and hurtful. I just knew he was her biological father! um um um... wow... They're saying that the result doesn't change anything...but, I wonder how they will move forward.
Not a butterball turkey 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@joyhudson5674 yep, a whole butterball 🤭🤭🤭 lol lol (shame on me) lol
Im ctfu. That was so random😂😂😂 I just knew he was her dad. I thought she literally looked like him with a wig on. Her bio dad must look really similar to him.
@@snickers8970 IKR! I was like 😳. That ancestry gift changed her whole life.
If anybody gives me one of those, Imma be like ... Please NO... LOL (I wonder how the gift giver feels) ... just wow! I wonder if she'll find her real dad and what that would be like. wow...
my real dad is very likely my dad’s ex bestfriend!
This is so sad I feel so
Horrible for the both of them
If it was the other way around… the dad would of been bashed… but the mother get to live her private life lol
He shouldn’t say he’s a burden
She needs to address her anger with her mother also
DNA is a must ...You taking çare of a Child that is not even Yours . Her Mother wants nothing to do with her...now the child wants you out of her house she is doing DNA test just to prove you not her father.......What a waste time....I feel bad for this man 😢😢 guys DNA IS A MUST
This is so hurt breaking
Im seeing her bashing the man that did raise her yet the momma no where around at all
That part.
Should Be Bashing The Mother! Why Does She Get A Pass!😮
@@celestecruthird7842 that part.
I feel like she doesn’t mention her simply because the mother is a non factor in her life
This is messed up for both of them 💔
Aww how sad a straight stranger been staying with her for 4years pretty much
A stranger?He raised her since she was a child. It doesn’t take blood to be a dad, he stepped up to the plate and raised her. She could have been in foster care because of her ragady mama
Dad, sounds like he might be , at least, borderline malignant narcissist....not even contributing to the household, not even a leg to stand on. Dad, is out of order!
Funny thing is he is not the dad! Don’t forget that part!
@@doyouknodw understood, however, he's the only father she has known for 27,yes. Dad or not, he's got to go though!
It would of been a “NO”??? How? To a man who took care of you by himself because your mom wasn’t a mother. He did his job as your father but I think that was kind of harsh and ungrateful.
She should of had her mama up there. She clearly has Mama issues
He not your biological father but he stayed to raise you. You owe this man eternal gratitude
I think he already knew she may not had been but decided not to leave this child when she was young. And I think the burden was always with him and he took to drugs and stuff
Why would a grown man be yelling at a young woman like that? He has no respect
Love is patient, Love is kind. How much more can she SHOW her LOVE as she already has. There's such a thing as PRIVILEGE. He acts as if he is ENTITLED to more. He's a grown man, taking advantage of a young lady who THOUGHT he was her father. I believe he knew, and just don't care. While pointing fingers at others, you got 3 back at yourself and your thing facing God..shame on him.
I’m going through the same thing
I think once parents raise their kids and the kids become adults .parents think the kids owe them for raising them .should I be their for your parents sure but don’t take advantage of the kids ..also he need to move out asap
🙏🏽
Of course your not gone recognize relatives if your trying to search for them off ancestry. That’s the point of Ancestry to search for relatives dead or alive or am i tripping? I was lost when she said she didn’t recognize the relatives.
because the relatives i were matching with .. are relatives of my dad’s bestfriend 🥹 theres so much to the story you guys dont know.
Sorry dear ❤
He looks like a great father they just are having some clashing issues
Oh that's upsetting because he raised her as her dad
Father or not he nerds to GO!!! He's taking advantage of her and disrespecting her and her home!!!