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  • Опубликовано: 9 ноя 2024

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  • @rostallar4243
    @rostallar4243 Месяц назад +69

    Blaming the child for your inadequacies is on you, not the child, & for you to blame the child is disrespectful and dispicable.

  • @SammyK-kb5br
    @SammyK-kb5br Месяц назад +178

    Wow.. his responses and behavior is ridiculous! She is such a beautiful strong person/mom! And her sister is incredible, such a sweet understanding optimistic soul🥰I'm glad she has her sister!

  • @vivlagabster
    @vivlagabster Месяц назад +32

    That second sister is such a beautiful person! So emotionally mature and empathetic. I love seeing it

    • @xxxkerraxxxtv
      @xxxkerraxxxtv 24 дня назад

      And that's why he responds well to her. This one acts like a bitter baby momma

  • @offbeatttt_
    @offbeatttt_ Месяц назад +138

    Oh that first man giving MESSY QUEEN DOWNNNN. Like pls don’t piss me off. Tryna use SAT words to put glitter on bullshit. A mess.

  • @latashadjefferson5465
    @latashadjefferson5465 Месяц назад +17

    He's stuck. He's been playing victim for 28 years. He don't know no other role. He don't know how to take accountability and/or responsibility behind his own actions. He's too busy blaming and accusing everyone.
    The fact he's holding her responsible. It's ridiculous. How is she supposed to be a daughter if you would never her father? 😢😢😢😡😡😡

  • @PortiaKay
    @PortiaKay Месяц назад +279

    The first dad was unbearable. He couldn't even apologize even if he tried. He was unmoved by his own daughter's tears. true narcissism

    • @mirembewinfred5353
      @mirembewinfred5353 Месяц назад +29

      Please, women, let's stop being on oneside everytime ,look at how she talks to him. No noo no

    • @SimplyDionne_
      @SimplyDionne_ Месяц назад +36

      @@mirembewinfred5353look how he’s treated her her whole life!! I don’t care if you’re a parent you still have to earn respect, especially if you weren’t there!

    • @JudahCub1981
      @JudahCub1981 Месяц назад +10

      @@SimplyDionne_Sometimes people are delusional. She is disrespectful. My father treated me the worst out of his six children and I never spoke to my father that way, behind his back or to his face. At the end of the day, I was a child and they were the adults when they conceived me and worked out co-parenting. Their issues were not my business. When my father’s health was failing, and he was in his decline, I got an opportunity to show him the love he never showed me and I forgave him for the relationship we should have had and didn’t.
      With these two, she wants him to be a father, but she talks down to him like he’s her child. How does that work? You can’t say you want a relationship with someone and then push them away with your actions - that’s contradictory behavior and Karamo should have called her out on her nasty attitude.

    • @JudahCub1981
      @JudahCub1981 Месяц назад +9

      ⁠@@mirembewinfred5353Right!!! Look at the difference in the demeanors between the two daughters. Karamo needs to hold the rude daughter accountable for her callous attitude as well. She keeps talking about she’s grown, then act grown. At some point you need to be able to have an adult conversation in a mature way with another adult regardless of who that person is. It’s called emotional intelligence.

    • @jasiyaanderson9360
      @jasiyaanderson9360 Месяц назад +6

      @@JudahCub1981the difference tho is how they were treated growing up the first daughter isn’t gonna tt the dad nice cuz she didn’t have that nuturing relationship like the senior daughter did

  • @Genuinelycuri0us
    @Genuinelycuri0us Месяц назад +133

    If the dad reached over and wiped her tears, she would’ve bit him.

    • @laelajr89
      @laelajr89 Месяц назад +21

      😂😂😂 this comment right here is exactly what i was thinking

    • @trinawatkins7809
      @trinawatkins7809 Месяц назад +5

      True

    • @amccloud2893
      @amccloud2893 Месяц назад +12

      THAT PART…. She was CLEAR in say’n she didn’t want a relationship with him

    • @beenaforever7260
      @beenaforever7260 Месяц назад +3

      Exactly

    • @JessRare
      @JessRare Месяц назад +11

      🤣🤣I swearrrr I was thinkin the same..she would have popped the shii out of him. I understand her pain and frustration but I get where he’s coming from everytime he tries he’s pushed away. In her eyes he hasn’t tried enough so there should def be a pt 2 to see if he holds his end by trying and see what happens. I don’t like how he was acting making it all about him but I know once I’ve tried soo many times and keep getting rejected esp after I been brought on National television then I would wash my hands for good bc what was the point? I pray these two can repair their relationship and it’s not going to be easy but I see how he treats his other daughter so I know it can be done.

  • @johnniemccalister5386
    @johnniemccalister5386 Месяц назад +35

    I know so many dudes like this one. They don't understand the child should not have to chase the parent. It's your job to reach out and keep reaching out until they are able to reach back. we have had a lifetime wondering where you were. Stop being a selfish child.

    • @KD1ME
      @KD1ME 12 дней назад

      Just like mine. Smh

  • @MADIMIKEBOOKIE38
    @MADIMIKEBOOKIE38 Месяц назад +34

    The Dad's problem was he NEVER listened to understand her he only listened to RESPOND! He lacked emotional maturity on EVERY level.

    • @Big617E
      @Big617E Месяц назад +1

      You can fully listen to someone and still not be able to understand them
      She feels like she can be as difficult & disrespectful as she wants & because he’s the DAD he’s supposed to deal with it and jump through any hoop she puts up with
      She learning, THATS NOT GONNA WORK
      And it shouldn’t

    • @1505yonni
      @1505yonni 6 дней назад

      @@Big617E you can’t leave your kids js bc they’re being disrespectful. Her problems run deep and she needs therapy for her daddy issues but that doesn’t mean dad deserves any sympathy 😹

    • @Big617E
      @Big617E 6 дней назад

      @ lol 😂
      She can go get help , i’ll be there when she gets better

  • @TheBadioo
    @TheBadioo Месяц назад +51

    I would never cry or show emotion in front of that first man. Something in his brain is very very off.

    • @Shania-od5pn
      @Shania-od5pn Месяц назад

      People like that man …. Some people shouldn’t be allowed to procreate

  • @Hope-jt1js
    @Hope-jt1js Месяц назад +60

    How did the mom not tell her that they did a DNA test seems like her mom also failed her.

    • @johnniemccalister5386
      @johnniemccalister5386 Месяц назад +6

      No mom didn't want to make it worse. It would hurt her more if she knew about the test because of his mistreatment.

    • @kooniestewart6025
      @kooniestewart6025 Месяц назад

      No her mom new he was a narcissisant SOB & would never change, so she was protecting her daughter from his crazy AZZ!

    • @mosesmartin588
      @mosesmartin588 Месяц назад +8

      @@johnniemccalister5386the matter couldn’t get any worse. Both parents should’ve been straight up with the child. Don’t excuse that away.

    • @Gaetania
      @Gaetania Месяц назад +9

      As mush as she wants to believe that her mom didn’t brain wash her, she did. Her mom told her that her father gave her a hard time because she did not look like the other kids, showed her picture of a man who resemble her even though she knew that he took a DNA test and knew she was his. So clearly he did not give her a hard time for the reason she mentioned. Who knows how many times the mom denied him access when she was a kid.

    • @Disclaimer_I.couldB3wrong
      @Disclaimer_I.couldB3wrong 10 дней назад

      Naaaarcistic

  • @doclove2045
    @doclove2045 13 дней назад +3

    I've read so many comments about the father and his wrongdoings. He's definitely not a picture-perfect father but he's not the only one to blame. The mother or someone else had to tell him that he's not the father. There were issues for another man to be deemed as the father also. The father needs counseling because he still feels that hurt from years ago. The daughter still needs to respect him even if she doesn't like him, know him or believe him. There's a lot going on and pointing the finger will never heal this hurt only listening, communication, love and respect will help this situation. IJS

  • @Hope-jt1js
    @Hope-jt1js Месяц назад +55

    She says she wants him to make an effort but she doesn’t allow him to.

  • @RosalynnAnne
    @RosalynnAnne Месяц назад +45

    I hope my child’s father is a wonderful man and stays a wonderful man. I can’t deal with these types of men

    • @therealtisha2066
      @therealtisha2066 Месяц назад +3

      The man LITERALLY was tryinggg

    • @Mzleedivine
      @Mzleedivine Месяц назад +1

      @@therealtisha2066no he wasn’t he was being an immature a$$ the entire time

    • @RosalynnAnne
      @RosalynnAnne Месяц назад

      @@therealtisha2066 who was trying ?

    • @christywilson2429
      @christywilson2429 17 дней назад

      ​@@Mzleedivinewhere is the mothers accountability.? You don't tell someone they have a two year old and then expect them to be gitty.

  • @frankbushuyumutaremwa2470
    @frankbushuyumutaremwa2470 Месяц назад +10

    Anyone calling the dad a bad dad has no idea. The 2nd daughter is enough to show he is a great dad but what the 2nd daughter does that the 1st one doesn't is respect the dad. The disrespect 1st daughter shows the dad is the same he received for years from her mothers side as he tried again and again to see her but rejected. At some point we men walk away and I understand it. The fact that he came when invited for the show, demonstrates his resilience, am not sure I would have come for the show! You are a great dad bro, let no one take it away from you!

  • @itsnicoletoyou5524
    @itsnicoletoyou5524 Месяц назад +17

    This girl is so confrontational like omg! 🙄

  • @corrinepowell8332
    @corrinepowell8332 Месяц назад +34

    She doesn't want to blame her mom for nothing.

    • @victoriahollister6875
      @victoriahollister6875 Месяц назад +6

      Facts. It's her mom's fault. She wants to blame him. This happens way toooo much

    • @lmx113
      @lmx113 25 дней назад

      @@victoriahollister6875yep

  • @norahsg7908
    @norahsg7908 Месяц назад +39

    The 1st young lady needs to put some of the blame on her mom, stepfather, and grandfather!

    • @asijahsmith6849
      @asijahsmith6849 Месяц назад +5

      For what ? He knew that was his child even when they were talking they had already did the DNA test. He is supposed to fight for the relationship he is the father nothing and no one should keep you away from your child if you truly want a relationship.

    • @sandramartez6472
      @sandramartez6472 Месяц назад +4

      @@asijahsmith6849 he did try to see her and got turn away, she needs to forgive her dad.

    • @asijahsmith6849
      @asijahsmith6849 Месяц назад +2

      @@sandramartez6472 he needs to actually apologize instead of blaming everyone else for why he didn't go see see his child. You can't forgive without an apology. He didn't get turned away he left cause he heard whispers even tho they already did the DNA test so he knew 100 % that she was his child. Nothing should stop you from seeing your child.

    • @neisci
      @neisci Месяц назад +1

      ​@@sandramartez6472 he should have thought for her by requesting court appointed visits.

    • @drxppygxd
      @drxppygxd Месяц назад +1

      @@asijahsmith6849women will be bitter Baby mothers and other women will still blame the man…sad!

  • @thankgod7776
    @thankgod7776 Месяц назад +33

    I understand she is hurt but she needs to stfu and stop cutting him off… his other daughter respects him. If my daughter was manipulated to hating me I still wouldn’t allow the disrespect. The father was wrong for lack of trying but it doesn’t give her the right to keep cutting him off and yelling I mean what type of response does she expect… all I see is she doesn’t wanna be held accountable for her disrespect and wants him to remain humble while she carry on with the loudness

    • @Shania-od5pn
      @Shania-od5pn Месяц назад +5

      She never cut him off 😂 he lost all access to respect when he came out there pointing his finger in her face…. Nah he lost it when she was 2 and he already knew it was his child but tried to lie. Stop standing up for sorry excuses of men

    • @TheRealEvvonne
      @TheRealEvvonne Месяц назад +9

      @@Shania-od5pnyes she was cutting him off every time he was trying to talk!!! What show did YOU watch???? She was rude, loud and disrespectful and did not want to acknowledge her mom’s role in the mess. She has no idea what he tried to do when she was a CHILD. She only knows the STORIES her mother fed her, which doesn’t mean they were true stories.

    • @colleenlang9250
      @colleenlang9250 Месяц назад +3

      @@TheRealEvvonne Why should she be nice when he's lying about his treatment of her and trying to give himself excuses about how he treats her? Fuck respecting parents if they can't love their children and respect their emotions.

    • @anthonyyt__
      @anthonyyt__ Месяц назад

      u need to stfu tf she doesn't owe that man any respect until she receives respect

    • @bernadettenansubuga9963
      @bernadettenansubuga9963 Месяц назад

  • @petermorton301
    @petermorton301 Месяц назад +29

    She disrespectful to

  • @Mzleedivine
    @Mzleedivine Месяц назад +16

    Before the results even came I can tell that’s his daughter he is very condescending and cold she ain’t gon never be able to heal without letting him go regardless of the results his Stubbornness is extremely exhausting

  • @NompiloZiqubu
    @NompiloZiqubu 18 дней назад +1

    I wish we had a Karamo show in south africa.. our black familes are messed up... Love you karamo big fan from south africa

  • @mratrian442
    @mratrian442 Месяц назад +36

    1st girl is getting what she wants... Like he said you cant give love to someone who dont want it.

    • @TheRealEvvonne
      @TheRealEvvonne Месяц назад +7

      Yes she was annoying and rude! I thought the military taught manners and respect. Smh

    • @kelseyblake1879
      @kelseyblake1879 Месяц назад +8

      Yall sound emotionally unintelligent...She is dealing with a lifetime of pain and abandonment. The sperm donor sat there and exacerbated all those feelings for her with his actions.

    • @qweenzee7188
      @qweenzee7188 Месяц назад +5

      I agree! She was super annoying. Ppl want to look over and past the disrespect and just cater to the daughter just because she’s a daughter. 😐 Nah, respect goes both ways. If my child talked to me like that, I’m not going to sit back and figure out how to keep approaching him until he calmed down. Me personally, I would cuss his ass clean tf out and then you REALLY ain’t getting shyt from me 😂

    • @JasLoretha95
      @JasLoretha95 Месяц назад

      ​@@TheRealEvvonnefor real.. very rude

    • @lbodilycreations4us635
      @lbodilycreations4us635 21 день назад

      ​@@kelseyblake1879Are you serious?? Emotionally unintelligent? Even me, being maybe twice her age, growing up hearing all kind of daddy names but the biological dad's name can't empathize with what I just saw. To this day I still live in pain and am still traumatized, but can't agree to this type of behavior from someone claiming to be a grown up and being a parent now. Everyone deals with pain differently, but the host and the audience weren't doing anything to correct her and just applauding her behaviour. Have you asked yourself why? Because the world needs to empathize with 'our situation' cause we're pitiful and went through so much already, so correcting us could cause more trauma and you don't want to add more to it right??!!

  • @eilissaortiz
    @eilissaortiz Месяц назад +44

    That first guy 😤😢 I won’t let him in my life at all

    • @kooniestewart6025
      @kooniestewart6025 Месяц назад +1

      NOPE 👎🏾🙅🏾‍♀️

    • @victoriahollister6875
      @victoriahollister6875 Месяц назад +2

      That's dumb..

    • @lonagwegwe
      @lonagwegwe Месяц назад

      So you don’t see how the girl is rude, not allowing the father to even finish talking. She is not a teenager first of all her attitude is a choice, at her age she should be able to communicate her pain without having to be disrespectful

    • @demiracovington3359
      @demiracovington3359 Месяц назад

      @@lonagwegwebut at the end of the day, the ways she acts is a result of how’s she’s been treated her whole life. not feeling accepted and feeling like you’re never listened to, can make a person defensive, she was never rude she was just stating how she felt, and she may not have expressed her emotions the right way but that’s the only way she’s feels heard, and obviously her father still doesn’t listen.

  • @MrAdal206
    @MrAdal206 Месяц назад +18

    Karamo always takes the child’s side no matter how disrespectful they are.

    • @kydukes14
      @kydukes14 Месяц назад +5

      She’s hurt! Plus the father has known for years yet he still treated her differently

    • @Gaetania
      @Gaetania Месяц назад +6

      Yes she was very disrespectful. Everybody is blaming him but it’s clear that he was denied access to her when she was a child so she grew up feeling rejected by him and became resentful. She made it hard for him to come around and his pride stop him from trying.

    • @chisomuzik8644
      @chisomuzik8644 24 дня назад

      Thats true. He should also try to listen to the parents sometimes. I really hate that

  • @aleta9134
    @aleta9134 Месяц назад +5

    I grew up in foster care from the age of 11 saw my dad a handful of times. Last time I saw him was when I was 18 on graduation. Now I am 45. I am not hurt. I grew up quick. I do not need him in my life to have a good life. I make my happiness not him. My mom was not in picture since the age of 9 then got in connect with her after 18 and dealt with that crazyness for years. Last I seen her was 4 years ago.. To say that my life is better without them is postive and less of a negative.

    • @rhondabeasley3870
      @rhondabeasley3870 Месяц назад

      True facts well said don't blame nobody for your happiness

  • @audreajolie
    @audreajolie Месяц назад +29

    She got her attitude from her dad

    • @Arcadia61
      @Arcadia61 Месяц назад +4

      How could she? She hardly had any contact with him. He was the parent. It was up to him to stay close and be there for her. She has every right to be angry at him. There's nothing worse than being rejected by a parent. He knew he was the father. He let her have doubts about whether he was her father when he had proof that he was. The man is just proud and cold.

    • @JessRare
      @JessRare Месяц назад +3

      @@Arcadia61it’s inherited..you can have many traits from a parent that you have never met or been around much. Not saying she doesn’t have the right to feel the way she does.

    • @a2dagreetodisagree-nondeba642
      @a2dagreetodisagree-nondeba642 25 дней назад

      @@Arcadia61you must be extremely young to think that you need to be around someone to inherit their attributes 😳

  • @theadorecurry4102
    @theadorecurry4102 Месяц назад +42

    This girl is rude and disrespectful on so many levels. Not even knowing if that is her dad or not.

    • @sassysmile3853
      @sassysmile3853 Месяц назад

      It's always one ur not in her shoes so stfu!!

    • @sfr9722
      @sfr9722 Месяц назад +12

      Her father hurt her to her core. And then to realize he’s known for 28 years that he is her father but still chose to reject has to be devastating.

    • @xxitsyagirljasminexx1438
      @xxitsyagirljasminexx1438 Месяц назад +4

      You're saying ber not knowing if he's her dad or not isn't her fault. She didn't sleep with him, her mom did. So you're basically blaming her.
      And to top it off, there's a REASON why she's acting like that towards him. Her dad is clearly a narcissist.

    • @TheRealEvvonne
      @TheRealEvvonne Месяц назад +3

      @@xxitsyagirljasminexx1438ok well she needs to direct some of that anger towards her trifling mother! It takes TWO! It was not all his fault.

    • @colleenlang9250
      @colleenlang9250 Месяц назад +3

      @@TheRealEvvonne He couldn't even be proud she was in the military. And he knew she was his kid since she was 2 but never was loving or kind. its clear. Hes more in the wrong than the daughter.

  • @trashanatawekamek3679
    @trashanatawekamek3679 Месяц назад +12

    I truly understand the hurt but the disrespect is unbearable! Everyone keeps saying the dad is wrong wrong wrong but I can tell she's been going at him wrong! Then if she don't want him or need him, why keep bothering with him! My father and I don't have a great relationship, so instead of disrespecting him, I broke my relationship with him!! I believe she heard her family talking about him also! Instead of blaming just the father, the mom needs to be catching heat too!

    • @qweenzee7188
      @qweenzee7188 Месяц назад +2

      Exactly!! I thought it was just me! 💯🙌🏾

    • @NikkiGloom
      @NikkiGloom Месяц назад

      exactly she told lies and did shit too. tired of these women talking, lying and then not answering for it.

    • @kmbutler04
      @kmbutler04 29 дней назад

      Exactly. Also, he apologized and even tried to give her a hug but she rejected. Like what's your purpose... just vent your frustration and hurt to your dad? If that's the case say that.

  • @30chimere
    @30chimere Месяц назад +64

    I can understand that she’s hurt. Lord knows I know what she’s been through. But she is mad disrespectful and nasty. How is someone supposed to be in touch with you? If all they get back from you is negativity and hate?

    • @jadasinclair5714
      @jadasinclair5714 Месяц назад +16

      He gave her the hate. He’s responsible to heal it.

    • @cookingwithlove5132
      @cookingwithlove5132 Месяц назад +8

      Exactly you can’t expect love and not receive it. She needs therapy with him and without him

    • @asijahsmith6849
      @asijahsmith6849 Месяц назад +9

      ​@@cookingwithlove5132and he needs therapy too. To think you dont have to fight for your child ? He's known for 28 years he has always known that was his child and still didn't push for a relationship when she was a child it's sad. And you all are pathetic for seeing her fault but not what caused her to be that way. YOU need therapy too

    • @cookingwithlove5132
      @cookingwithlove5132 Месяц назад +3

      @@asijahsmith6849what do you want me to do with your angry response my opinion is mine seems like you need therapy too because I literally said she needs therapy with him and without him! Or do you chew pencils where you lack comprehension skills!

    • @asijahsmith6849
      @asijahsmith6849 Месяц назад +3

      @@cookingwithlove5132 you clearly knew what to do with the response. And no one is angry cause I have an different opinion than you I'm angry? K and my point was you all can point out where she is wrong but not him. I think it's you who needs the pencil and some therapy as well

  • @quaybeasley3100
    @quaybeasley3100 Месяц назад +7

    He held that finger up like Monica held her arm up in love and basketball 😂😂😂

  • @beatceeful1147
    @beatceeful1147 Месяц назад +3

    Yall keep saying she’s disrespectful, but what happened to “ do not anger your children” she’s coming from a place of hurt and him being the adult, he’s fighting back with disrespect instead of love and forgiveness. He’s the adult so he lead by example!

  • @amccloud2893
    @amccloud2893 Месяц назад +15

    There’s something else to this story…. Outside of the fact that he’s ALWAYS known.

    • @JessRare
      @JessRare Месяц назад +4

      I’m glad that someone sees it and I’m not the only one. I understand her being hurt and angry…and I didn’t like how the dad made it all about him but there’s def something that’s not being addressed.

    • @victoriahollister6875
      @victoriahollister6875 Месяц назад +2

      ​@JessRare it needs to be about him. The momma and Grand parents kept his child away from him. Now the daughter is mad at the wrong person

    • @JessRare
      @JessRare Месяц назад +3

      @@victoriahollister6875 I mean honestly they both need to understand how each other feel it shouldn’t be all about how just one feels. It’s hard to say bc I feel like parts of the story is missing. Like you said she’s taking her anger out on him bc her moms side kept him away when she was younger but as she got older and he tried she still didn’t let him. She claims he didn’t try hard enough but you can only try soo much and be pushed away each time. He needs to stop making it me me me and say WE…how can we get past this anger and hurt? She just wants to be acknowledged and he wants to be understood.

    • @Jacqua8769
      @Jacqua8769 Месяц назад +1

      @@victoriahollister6875 Totally agree

    • @sharoncooper9615
      @sharoncooper9615 Месяц назад +3

      @@victoriahollister6875she’s mad at the right person because he knew 28 years ago. He’s narcissistic, it’s all about me.

  • @lbodilycreations4us635
    @lbodilycreations4us635 21 день назад +2

    Being someone who never knew my father, I can say that hurted, traumatized or not, the daughter is very ungrateful and disrespectful. Claiming you're an adult and a parent, but raging like that is a pity. What's the reason for getting him on the show if you don't want to start a relationship? Or you only want things to go your way? Is it just to prove to the world what a failure he is, so you can feel satisfied, whereas you haven't taken any steps to release the pain only you feel inside??? Humiliate him will not solve anything!!!! She's still young, so I hope she'll come to her senses soon, before it's too late.

  • @christywilson2429
    @christywilson2429 17 дней назад +1

    CWow, I sm so happy that I am not the only person who can not apologize.

  • @tarshajohnson9628
    @tarshajohnson9628 Месяц назад +18

    Hush girl Hush girl listen listen

  • @zeldapeterson9323
    @zeldapeterson9323 Месяц назад +8

    She cannot hug him because the whole time he new

  • @Meechie4
    @Meechie4 Месяц назад +15

    I dont Blame the dad why keep trying if she doesn’t care. He clearly raised his other kids correctly 🤷🏽‍♂️

  • @deanwillie7082
    @deanwillie7082 Месяц назад +1

    The level of disrespect is amazing. The mother is the Saint in this situation? This is the daughter MOST LIKE HIM.

  • @HalfandHalf1983
    @HalfandHalf1983 Месяц назад +11

    The first girl is soooo disrespectful! I hope she finds healing.

  • @keyanasteen3409
    @keyanasteen3409 Месяц назад +12

    The problem with the first Dad is he don't like her mama whatever her mother did to him he is taking it out on her

  • @theadorecurry4102
    @theadorecurry4102 Месяц назад +27

    In the first case the young lady said she is 30 years old, but she behaves like a 5 year old in my opinion.

    • @krazychilel
      @krazychilel Месяц назад +12

      That's because in her relationship with him she is stuck that 5 year old longing for her dad. I'm pretty sure she doesn't act like a 5 year old serving in the military

    • @asijahsmith6849
      @asijahsmith6849 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@krazychilelexactly

    • @mslafay7
      @mslafay7 Месяц назад +7

      I assume you've been raised by both of your parents. If you've never longed for the love of a parent, you would never understand.

    • @vivlagabster
      @vivlagabster Месяц назад +1

      @@krazychilelyes! She is stuck emotionally as a 5 year old and hasn’t been able to move past it and develop her emotional vocabulary as well as the father being a bit emotionally immature

  • @Myeese
    @Myeese Месяц назад +2

    With him knowing all this time I can’t see why people are saying she’s disrespectful because she was not. He was

  • @KHF24
    @KHF24 Месяц назад +19

    I think she looks like her dad. The dad needs to get rid of the pride because his daughter is hurting. He is a 🤡. I don't like him.

    • @mirembewinfred5353
      @mirembewinfred5353 Месяц назад +3

      But her attitude is killing us ,even if she gets the truth there's no relationship

    • @asijahsmith6849
      @asijahsmith6849 Месяц назад +5

      ​@@mirembewinfred5353can you not see why she has an attitude??????? He has known for 28 years that she was his daughter and still didn't fight for a relationship. Still treated her differently. You all are so okay with a deadbeat but draw the like at an attitude go to therapy.

    • @RosalynnAnne
      @RosalynnAnne Месяц назад +2

      @@asijahsmith6849folks act like you’re supposed to forgive “fathers” at the drop of a dime.

  • @zeldapeterson9323
    @zeldapeterson9323 Месяц назад +6

    He got some nerve he knew she was his child from the age of 2 yrs old. And he still is full of crap

  • @emmacaldwell3583
    @emmacaldwell3583 Месяц назад +15

    True, why is she on the show it's sad how the children and when grown have to suffer because of what their parents did

  • @damonshlds
    @damonshlds Месяц назад +3

    I understand how he feels because if the family was giving you mixed emotions it was something that wasn't telling you ...a man don't have time to waste.....

    • @asijahsmith6849
      @asijahsmith6849 Месяц назад +4

      He had time to waste when he was in the room making her tho. Doesn't matter what anyone else is saying if that's your child you fight for your child, he has known for 28 years that that was his child even when the family was saying stuff he knew 100% that was his child, if you had time to make a child you have time to fight for and raise the child. Y'all make every excuse for a deadbeat.

  • @mslafay7
    @mslafay7 Месяц назад +4

    Im only 20 minutes in and when his daughter walked out, I feel like the two girls look alike, they just different skin tones...
    Back to watching. 😊

  • @janetbahizi9996
    @janetbahizi9996 Месяц назад +20

    But children must also remember their responsibility tonbe respectful in spitenof their parent’s faults. It's a 2- way thing

  • @jasminetamika
    @jasminetamika Месяц назад +8

    That daughter is veryyyy disrespectful. Regardless of her dad not being there. She seems like a very unforgiving person. That’s not a good way to be. Not saying the father is any better. Because he has his ways and faults also. But I’m speaking on the daughter because Karamo got the dad right together. But they held no responsibility to the daughter. I don’t think she is all that innocent.

  • @mrhersh7189
    @mrhersh7189 Месяц назад +3

    The man came on national TV to try and fix it to me that is a first step. Momma and big Momma gave her a lopsided story as always, not minimimalizing her pain, but she said even if she found out she don't want nothing to do with him, and this man said in the beginning of the show he had to fight her family to see her??!! Sir apologize and leave it at that, let them come to you when they are ready.

    • @victoriahollister6875
      @victoriahollister6875 Месяц назад

      I agree.. these women are jumping on this man when it's the girls momma side

  • @phyliciapatterson910
    @phyliciapatterson910 21 день назад +4

    Everyone is mad at him, but he said he went to New Orleans multiple times to see her, but the family told him to stay away. She's owed an apology from her mother and father. She wants to place blame on just one person.

  • @nbattle1999
    @nbattle1999 Месяц назад +1

    FIRST CASE: yes, the dad needs to apologize just, if anything, to let daughter know that he's willing to take the blame as an adult and as her father. However, I have seen mothers and their side of the family reject the dads to the point where staying away is (in their opinion) the best course of action to avoid more drama and pain. My close friend was kept from his son for years because his maternal grandmother believed that his dad was a street thug and didnt want him around his own son. My friend fought to see his son for years until he finally gave up. Fast forward years later and they now have a good relationship... but the years lost will forever be lost. that dad wasnt unbearable... he was just as hurt.

  • @RebellePuella
    @RebellePuella Месяц назад +3

    Not the sister coordinated with Karamo nd appropriately helping him mediate!! 👏🏽👏🏽 the universe

  • @OfentseAmaniMotsisi
    @OfentseAmaniMotsisi Месяц назад +12

    I can't empathize with the first girl cause she's so disrespectful. She's so mean ! She's angry ? Okay but why is the dad there if she won't even receive him respectfully ? And I don't understand why Karamo did correct that girls behavior.

  • @SherryMoore-ij1qc
    @SherryMoore-ij1qc 26 дней назад +2

    So no one is going to hold her Mom accountable she was the one to set this mess in motion smh .These shows only attack the men

  • @natashaboles2223
    @natashaboles2223 Месяц назад +34

    The dad is a narcissist

  • @antoniobrown6254
    @antoniobrown6254 Месяц назад +10

    Karamo it’s 2024 what are saying, kids stop parents from being there all the time lol bro come on. The girl doesn’t want to let him in simple.

    • @wetwaters7400
      @wetwaters7400 Месяц назад +2

      I agree with you and she is very disrespectful. I had a similar situation. and i no way would put up with that type of resistance, and I did not put up with it

  • @ginalakeland0078
    @ginalakeland0078 Месяц назад +8

    The first dad is such an ass. Even with the other sister ......notice how she was very selective with her wording. I believe the problem is him.

  • @xavtronsupplies6747
    @xavtronsupplies6747 Месяц назад +5

    The dad is right she has no respect

  • @BMCTelevision
    @BMCTelevision Месяц назад +2

    So you want him to be there but you don't want him to be. I think that people are allowed to have boundaries and shouldn't have to put up with disrespect regardless.

  • @sug8415
    @sug8415 Месяц назад +3

    She’s not ready to be receptive to him and he’s on defense at some point the walls are going to have to be lowered if they want a relationship

  • @alisonchancey6726
    @alisonchancey6726 Месяц назад +5

    I been watching these episodes about DNA test results, unlocking your phones and teens girls out of control

  • @topaz1558
    @topaz1558 Месяц назад +1

    the first dad reminds me so much of my dad, who I haven't spoken to in 5yrs !

  • @qweenzee7188
    @qweenzee7188 Месяц назад +4

    Idk. Maybe I’m tripping. But the daughter is very disrespectful and guarded and expects the father to just get beat up and bullied as a grown ass man. I understand her hurt, but how does she expect that man to reach out or connect with her if she gets disrespectful every time he even mutters a word. He barely got a chance to get a full sentence out his mouth before for she cut him off and being disrespectful. I understand as a woman, that as a man, he steps back so that he doesn’t end up disrespecting her in return. Doesn’t matter if your grown, I’m 41 and I NEVER even cuss around my parent let alone at them. The mother plays a big part also but usually in these cases, people forget how much the mom plays a role. She first said her mom told her Xyz and then turned around and said her mom doesn’t talk. Somebody lying 🤦🏾‍♀️ I fks with Karamo, but he should’ve checked her also. He should know that nothing can be worked on if both sides are not open to it. That’s goes for any kind of relationship, family, friends, and romantic! If he wasn’t a good father the other daughter would’ve stated that. I saw hurt but I also saw being stubborn, bratty and disrespectful. I was annoyed. But hey, that’s just me.

  • @nancyhoward1917
    @nancyhoward1917 Месяц назад +22

    This girl is mean to her dad. Some people are just mean. This girl is mean. Very Very mean.

    • @iyannaking03
      @iyannaking03 Месяц назад +9

      He didn’t know her birthday… is he a dad fr?

    • @krystal3407
      @krystal3407 Месяц назад +4

      She’s not mean, she’s hurt. Having a father constantly reject you will do a lot to your mental health and will effect how you feel towards him. I know from experience

    • @sfr9722
      @sfr9722 Месяц назад +4

      She’s hurt. The father is mean and a sad excuse for a father. He has known for 28 years that he is her father and still rejected her. Disgusting behavior.

    • @MSKTLIZ
      @MSKTLIZ Месяц назад

      ⁠@@iyannaking03girl I’m sure you know someone in your family that is bad with dates. Both male and female. Does that make them bad people?

    • @MSKTLIZ
      @MSKTLIZ Месяц назад +2

      Thank you for being a woman that actually tells the truth. Too many are delusional these days.

  • @robertajohnson4608
    @robertajohnson4608 Месяц назад +17

    I understand. I want to know if she let her mom and grandparents know she wanted to see her dad. Some Father's shouldn't have to fight to see his kids. Everybody know some of these mothers are mean. Let's be real two sideways to every story.

    • @gcchair7634
      @gcchair7634 Месяц назад +3

      You think this man would allow anyone deny him? Plus there is a thing called court.

  • @Big617E
    @Big617E Месяц назад +1

    He is NOT giving her a pass for treating him that way

  • @ashblake99
    @ashblake99 Месяц назад +2

    Speaking on the second scenario in this video, I have sooo many close friends like this passive girl and the main thing they all say when their men end up leaving them, is they should’ve spoke up more, or how they didn’t carry themselves with enough self respect (as in they should’ve left sooner and not keep dealing with disrespect). If I can have seminars to teach women how to speak up, I would, but it’s a combination of my education throughout my life and how I was raised by my family. I have no idea how to install a backbone into women but ya gotta do better fr.

  • @latoyaowens3645
    @latoyaowens3645 Месяц назад +1

    It's crazy to me that people are overlooking the fact that she waited 2 whole years before even telling that man that he had a child. The blame need to go to the mother as well.

  • @chiquitasewell8163
    @chiquitasewell8163 Месяц назад +13

    The first guy comes off as old man T.D. Jakes.

  • @LivingLife_2001
    @LivingLife_2001 Месяц назад +36

    The daughter is mad disrespectful, you can’t just blame everything on your father he’s human as well. You expect him to be a perfect person if continuously disrespect him and making him feel less of a man

    • @jadasinclair5714
      @jadasinclair5714 Месяц назад +15

      Taking care of the human u bring into this world is not perfect it is your duty. Period.

    • @JacksonJackson-g4q
      @JacksonJackson-g4q Месяц назад +2

      Yes I said the same I don’t agree with karma on this one she told him not to touch her. He respected her boundaries, but then y’all say he should wipe her tears like the other daughter she’s disrespectful and she needs to go to therapy too

    • @asijahsmith6849
      @asijahsmith6849 Месяц назад +8

      He didnt need to be perfect he needed to be a father, he help bring he into the world he should have been there while she was a child no matter of what her mom side was saying that's what you go to court for and actually fight for your children, you are just like him make every excuse for him and just ride her off as disrespectful but don't ride him off as a deadbeat

    • @karenbrown922
      @karenbrown922 Месяц назад

      She is hurt. And he is a trifling deadbeat that took his dislike of her family out on his daughter. A grown man did this to a chikd.....YOU are tripping!!

    • @LivingLife_2001
      @LivingLife_2001 Месяц назад

      @@asijahsmith6849 the point is she is disrespectful regardless, yes he could have done better way better but she can also choose to do better with him now Period!

  • @MsLauraLove626
    @MsLauraLove626 27 дней назад +1

    They put that daughter and dad face up and I was like bruh they twins lol they got the exact same face hahahaha I knew before the show started omg the nose the eyes everything

  • @zaahirjakye
    @zaahirjakye Месяц назад +8

    I’m sooooooo over adult kids or kid kids disrespecting their parents idc this is never cool when did communities accept this ya weird no respect for elders never in my day

    • @gracebaksh5454
      @gracebaksh5454 Месяц назад +2

      Back in the days , we never disrespect our parents. This generation is too much.

  • @lorrainejackson2029
    @lorrainejackson2029 Месяц назад +1

    Karamo you need a 1-800 I needed to tell this dad something 😢

  • @karaward2989
    @karaward2989 Месяц назад +2

    He not sorry so he can’t apologize

  • @payladybarbie
    @payladybarbie Месяц назад +2

    That girl is disrespectful! What’s a man suppose to do if your household members are asking questions like what are he doing here and a man saying stay away from my daughter. Shid these men go through things too. And another thing these grown ppl need to stop being so rude then saying I need you… grow up

  • @angellove5337
    @angellove5337 Месяц назад +1

    i’m confused.. the mom is saying to stay away, the grandma is asking why is he here, the daughter is saying she doesn’t want anything to do with him and doesn’t want him to be around his grandchild and doesn’t want a relationship with her dad… then get mad at him for not reaching out?? after he said he’s tried multiple times?? the dad also has a lot of pride and stubbornness to work on, but the daughter is extremely confusing n uses her pain as an excuse to react negatively towards her father. anger is not an excuse to act on it, there are ways to communicate your anger healthily. that’s the first step to building the relationship but it seems she still has a huge wall built up (which is understandable, but will end up nowhere if she doesn’t open up). they both wrong tbh

  • @67Chevi
    @67Chevi Месяц назад +5

    I'm sorry I'm like him if you keep talking crazy to me when I'm trying then two years in a bucket,he could try try try but if she doesn't receive it then he will eventually stop trying

  • @MsRaine1223
    @MsRaine1223 Месяц назад +3

    I don't feel bad for the potential daughter. She has a horrible attitude she is very negative & she get back what she puts out. If I were him I wouldn't try either.

  • @MSKTLIZ
    @MSKTLIZ Месяц назад +9

    Oh please. I wouldn’t want a relationship with her either. Why is she even on the show??? You can tell she is just a nasty, rambunctious, and disrespectful person. Not just to him.

  • @mookgirl74
    @mookgirl74 Месяц назад +4

    I can just tell that the 2nd guy is TRYING TO ACT like he thinks they should break JUST BC HE KNOWS THAT'S GOING TO MAKE THE GIRL WANT HIM BACK SO MUCH MORE (STR8 UP narcissist) n u can tell that, even tho she's agreeing to break up to that she is already feeling like crap about it and already is so worried about him being with other women.... HE KNOWS THIS, YOU CAN TELL BY THE LOOK ON HER FACE AS THE SHOW'S GOING OFF SMFH... I hope that karamo keeps in touch with her w counseling TO KEEP GOING ON WITH HER LIFE WO HIM/THE BF 😢❤💪🏾🙏🏽😍

  • @cath32
    @cath32 Месяц назад +8

    I understand that the daughter is angry, but the way she talks is disrespectful, and I can understand why the dad pulls away.

    • @aniyahlewis7219
      @aniyahlewis7219 23 дня назад

      He literally came out there waving his hand in her face , like she said she’s a grown woman . He set the tone for the conversation .

  • @LorraineGross-s7w
    @LorraineGross-s7w Месяц назад +5

    The father has too much pride and hurt as a man. Both parents are at fault but the disrespect I definitely couldn’t do to my parent! If he was in his other children’s lives I felt he would have been in hers but we never really heard why he didn’t go back to try. But you hug a stranger but you couldn’t hug your father because he wanted to! Both the daughter and father is stubborn with pride. You honor your mother and father!!

  • @mahoganeyboss2339
    @mahoganeyboss2339 18 дней назад

    Understand her pain and hurt...but the mom played a huge part in this also as well as the granddad who told him to stay away...

  • @Shania-od5pn
    @Shania-od5pn Месяц назад +2

    I’m finna email the show 😂💯

  • @SherryMoore-ij1qc
    @SherryMoore-ij1qc 26 дней назад +2

    HER MOM WAS THE PROBLEM

  • @dodomodo8334
    @dodomodo8334 Месяц назад +4

    If my child raised their two finger at me all bets are off.

  • @veronmae7990
    @veronmae7990 27 дней назад

    That "supposed father",is horrible, he doesnot deserves such beautiful (daughters )I am happy the rejected daughter showed him in public what rejection is like...hoping that in the future, their relationship will improved❤

  • @timjhonson3792
    @timjhonson3792 Месяц назад +5

    So now it's his fault, because her mother did some stupid s please man

  • @Talkandcrime
    @Talkandcrime 16 дней назад

    Yall better stop telling people stay out your life if you don’t mean it. Some people will really stop trying even if it’s not right.

  • @DWill-zw1xf
    @DWill-zw1xf Месяц назад +1

    The first father, I really do have a sincere feeling of dislike more so hate for him. He knew she was his daughter and still didn’t try!!! He’s a sad case of a man… That’s real Talk and God knows I’m just speaking from my heart…😢😢

  • @theadorecurry4102
    @theadorecurry4102 Месяц назад +26

    Karamo did not at one time tell the young lady to quit disrespecting her father. Dude always gaslighting the men on this show, almost as if he's looking for handclaps from his female audience. Encourage the young lady to open up and forgive her dad. Stop giving bad advice. Forgiveness is one word you hardly hear on this shown

    • @karenbrown922
      @karenbrown922 Месяц назад +5

      She didn't disrespect him. She told him how his actions affected her. And she respectfully stated it. The father is the gaslighter he didn't do his job as a father and he took no responsibility for it.

    • @karenbrown922
      @karenbrown922 Месяц назад +2

      And it became apparent that how she feels is valid when the whole world saw his gentleness with the other daughter, who was not expressing any pain, that he refused to show the daughter who was in pain
      Your comment is obviously about YOUR dislike of Karamo....

    • @Cancerbaby69
      @Cancerbaby69 Месяц назад

      Wowwwwww. I’m not even gonna lie he is a “girl person” he do be in the women side no matter what that’s true

    • @paulbarnett3578
      @paulbarnett3578 Месяц назад

      ​@@karenbrown922 I see you only got one like for delusional comments that made no since. Women like you take no accountability.

  • @NurseNessey
    @NurseNessey 20 дней назад

    He wouldn’t mean it if he said he was sorry. She just needs to walk away from him.

    • @standground7956
      @standground7956 19 дней назад

      I agree, that father shouldn’t tolerate her demeaning attitude. I bet she’s also single mother as well (given that she mentioned her daughter over and over, but not the child’s father. If she treats her parents like that then any man wouldn’t stand a chance while in a relationship with her. I don’t blame the dad for wanting nothing to do with a person of her caliber.

  • @TheriSpice
    @TheriSpice Месяц назад +1

    As much as I sympathize with this young lady , her dad has feelings to and sometimes one parent keeps information from their children and makes the other parent look like a villain .Her side of the family should of been there to answer questions also.

  • @cordeliacannedy3627
    @cordeliacannedy3627 Месяц назад +3

    The daughter is wrong and disrespectful.... The daughter is brain washed and disrespectful

  • @mistycaldwell9952
    @mistycaldwell9952 Месяц назад

    That’s sad that the Dad still didn’t received what they were saying and at the end you can see that especially after he tried giving her a hug after she already said she didn’t want a hug smh

  • @traceyscott2343
    @traceyscott2343 Месяц назад +1

    I bet the first dad is mad all over again since she didn't want his hug. He really needs some counseling himself. She is his twin.

  • @payladybarbie
    @payladybarbie Месяц назад +2

    You come on the show wanting answers but then you don’t want to work it out!? Kids be disrespectful to their parents but expect for the adults not to react or stop talking to them. That’s bs

  • @perfectlyimperfect9129
    @perfectlyimperfect9129 16 дней назад

    1:30 The resemble eachother!! 7:57 Just because you lay down with somebody and it produced.A child does not make you A FATHER!! She's right.It takes way more than that !! 12:09 AS A DAD YOU SHOULD HAVE FOUGHT FOR YOUR DAUGHTER AND YOU DIDNT. SHE HAS EVERY RIGHT TO BE ANGRY AND HURT