How to bond
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- Опубликовано: 10 сен 2023
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For more information, see:
R. Van Baaren, R. Holland, B. Steenaert. and A. Van Knippenberg. (2003). Mimicry for Money: Behavioral Consequences of Imitation, Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, 39, 393-98.
Reported in: Dijksterhuis, A., Smith, P. K., Van Baaren, R. B., & Wigboldus, D. H. (2005). The Unconscious Consumer: Effects of Environment on Consumer Behavior. Journal of Consumer Psychology, 15, 193-202.
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Came for james bond. Accidentally made friends instead
The Bond’s name
James name
Because you only live once (not twice)
Dnob
May be James Bond are the friends we made along the way.
Mah names Bond, James Bond
You made my childhood much happier than if you were not in it. Love the podcast, and now that I have my own income I finally bought one of your books all these years later. Thanks Richard
I love how your mic still sounds like its from 10 years ago, love it!
So funny I saw this video 59 seconds after it was uploaded 😂😂😂
And I saw 59 minutes after! 😂
@@nahiyankhan7270and i saw is 59 hours later
A bond is a lasting attraction between atoms or ions that enables the formation of molecules, crystals, and other structures. The bond may result from the electrostatic force between oppositely charged ions as in ionic bonds, or through the sharing of electrons as in covalent bonds.
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Ay fellow science student
yes
The explanation I came for
😂😂
Came for adhesive advice, stayed for the friends I’ll make along the way
I love this channel. Short yet informative videos.
I read about this 30 years ago in a Tony Robbins book. It's called matching and mirroring. Ultimately I rejected this teaching. If done subconsciously it create bonding. But doing it consciously is just manipulation and turns you into a manipulator.
You have a point.
I don't even understand how this works. Why would just having a person stand like you would even have anything to do with how they perceive you. Idk if it's some biology or evolution logic, I'd need to know why this works before calling it manipulation.
Which book? Could you give me the name please ?
@@SocialMediaSays Unlimited Power by Tony Robbins
Eventually, the outcome and how it's used matter, just as in many things.
How about this approach along with yours?
If you genuinely care about someone and want to build a strong bond, consider a different approach, take some time to get to know their interests and hobbies without them noticing. Learn about their hobbies and then try to learn them yourself, and remember to ask for their guidance without becoming a nuisance. People generally appreciate it when others seek their expertise in areas they're passionate about. Be sure not to overdo it, as you don't want to become annoying. Practice the hobby both on your own and occasionally in front of them. After a week or so, share your progress and ask for tips on improvement.
This approach can help you build a lasting bond based on shared interests and mutual respect."
oh right, this series was called ":59 seconds"
with other words: u invented youtube shorts 10 years early
he isnt a magician, hes a time traveler
Pure content
His videos from 10 years ago have much better mic quality 😂
step 1. bond
This is what sociopaths do to get you to trust them
Will help a lot with my preference of close friends instead of mere acquaintances
Always worth the wait! Thank you!
Most straightforward content on youtube. Love it
I needed this today so hard.
Really needed this at this time in my life. Good stuff.
I'm trying this tomorrow
I’m so glad he came back
In short, imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.
I thought you're dead. Glad you came back alive. You're one of my favorite RUclipsrs
thank you for uploading this and for the new information ❤❤ i will keep this trick on my mind
Accidentally did that for months with someone I had a crush on and they eventually left and I don't think I ever wanna try to bond by bending again lol. Should've been more chill but it was a first
imitation is the highest form of flattery
finally got the friend for the bet videos made by Richard on his other channel
thanks a lot mate
what happened to the mic quality richard :(( glad you're back though
babe wake up new in59seconds vid dropped
the legend is back
Bro just disappeared for 5 years and still is loved by the public
He is backkk
“This whole video is supposed to take one minute, but I’ll have it done in 30 seconds. How? Name repetition, personality mirroring, and positive reinforcement through nods and smiles. So, don’t worry about old Andy Bernard. I’ll be back. Just like Rambo”
I work in sales, mirroring is the most important thing when talking to a customer.
legend
Bro casually respawned like nothing happened during those years at all
I'll be honest, the first thing i thought when looking at this title was not this kind of bonding...
How did the video quality finally get to full HD but the mic sounds like it came from 2003?
He is so back
Nice
Honestly I doubt that will ever work if you do it conciously, that'd be weird and not much more. If you wanna bond with someone, the only thing that will really work in the long term is spending time together, preferably doing something exciting.
Me copying them..
They:"Stop copying my style!"
I always forget these videos are only 59 seconds.
I was expecting something about chemistry, or at the very least the material science of glue
Wow!
I MISSED YOU
I remembered her, god damn how can I overcome her?
wow !!!!!!!!!!!
Hey could you record videos with cam instead of animation?
It was always so nice when you were there talking
Instructions unclear; accidentally superglued my arm to my friend's arm
Same frequency
"I think it's also called taking the piss" Jimmy Carr on Echopraxia/Echolalia
U should consider using the same microphone when ur in the frame, the other one looks like an old notebook's microphone, it's terrible
For this I wear my mirror suit, just a mirror from the neck down. I mirror several people at once.
be careful though because some may assume you're simply making fun of them
Courage benj
I am now a Doppelgänger.
What if other person give a mad expression? Should I give him a same way?
if you are not subtle enough about it they might think you are making fun of them
How to bond, James Bond
bro he still going
The girl on the pic next to you looks like Dina from Superstore
So he thought we wouldn’t notice him coming outta nowhere???
The video last only 59 seconds, but I can Shrink it more into only one sentence:
If you want to bond, just use a mirror😂
do that in Middle-East, if you want to start a fight immediently.
Is this due do mirror affect? AsEmpathetic towards others similar actions
Okay what about when I’m in a group of people ???
0:21 WHY WOULD YOU CONNECT A CORNER PIECE WITH A CENTER PIECE!?
Id like to hear the psychology behind why you purposely use lower quality audio in your videos
OMG!
0:39
me likey likey this video
The Bond’s name
James name
Lesson learned: Play copycat
So basically I have to give out the same vibes
You basically please their ego
As they do when interacting with you, it's human behavior.
@@Kokorocodon That depends on who is adjusting his/ her posture, both of only one of them.
@@the_notorious_bas The one interested in the bonding. It also wont last if the posture of the two person involved is vastly different from one another because maintaining the miming can become tiresome even if done unconsciously. Easier and most likely to work with someone that already moves and poses like you do.
Could you have a decent mic !!
I thought this guy was dead omg😮
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and then they say you're mocking
Yes, if you don't be subtle. We do it naturally all the time, if you make it look forced it will look forced.
do a how to get your crush to like you 😭
"how to create a psuedo-friendship built on manipulation"
Kinda yes 😂
But they say be yourself 😒
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Now i got in trouble for mocking people. 😢
And now the indian guys are mad at me for mimicing their accent
Person: Mimics people
*Gets slapped and called a jerk*
Kinky
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0/10 thought this was an ultrahand tutorial
OMG OMG OMG HE IS BACK ALREADY SINCE 1 MONTH??!!!! 😮
Gotta be honest, either this is done subconsciously or it's just manipulation.
up
This guy made short form videos years before shortform video become a thing
You can also agree with everything they say, assure them they're right in every situation and pretend they're smarter and better looking than you. Their ego will be happy and their vanity will want to keep you around.
No bro I would not suggest doing that because
"Consider this scenario: someone around you agrees with everything you say, even when they know you're wrong. While it may feel comforting to always be right, this approach has consequences for both you and the other person:
1) Firstly, this kind of relationship is built on dishonesty, which is unhealthy for any connection. It's important to value honesty in your interactions.
2) In the future, when you attempt to point out their mistakes or disagreements, arguments are likely to escalate. They might start to dislike you and seek out others who validate their opinions.
3) The concept of a 'Happy ego' can lead to arrogance, causing problems for both parties involved.
If you genuinely care about someone and want to build a strong bond, consider a different approach. Rather than constantly agreeing with them, take some time to get to know their interests and hobbies without them noticing. Learn about their hobbies and try to learn them yourself and remember to ask for their guidance without becoming a nuisance. People generally appreciate it when others seek their expertise in areas they're passionate about. Be sure not to overdo it, as you don't want to become annoying. Practice the hobby both on your own and occasionally in front of them. After a week or so, share your progress and ask for tips on improvement.
This approach can help you build a lasting bond based on shared interests and mutual respect."
One flaw is that i cant copy a womans posture and way of speaking 😅
Instructions unclear : now I've become a mirror
at least now you'll have time to reflect
@@iamdb1990 wow.
I think that’s called brownnosing
i thought the i was a tampon XD