But, you must explain that only guys she does not find attractive are creeps. If she finds you attractive, you can be the biggest creep in the world and she will be good with it.
@@vzig2348Yet you won't know if she finds you attractive until you ask her, which is a 8-10 miss chance and an 80% chance to be called a creep and what other consequences thereof.
I have been seeing this more lately. We were told for years to don't approach women, don't walk near women, don't assume women are interested, etc. So we stopped all of that. Now, I'm seeing more women complain about not getting approached. I know it's probably different women saying these things, but we can get some kind of consensus please? Clearly the situation isn't working
So going to a girl and say hi how are you, can be considered an harrasment ? Harassment is when you touch her,follow her like a creep or staring at her non stop
@@gabrielti210Yeah, I've watched Women report men to HR because the man told them They looked good, and since they weren't attracted to that man, it wasn't okay...
I agree, getting it wrong "CAN" get negative repercussions.... It has happened! Think about a yelling match between boyfriend and girlfriend and the girl who hits the guy tells the cops that he hit her, what happens? He goes to Jail!!!
@gabrielti210 Unfortunately nowadays just looking a woman you think is pretty enough to get ypur attention is basis for harassment charges. Women have literally pressed for sexual assault charges because their male colleagues have happened to touch their shoulder!!!
Cause women don’t understand how tough it to just walk up to a stranger and try to flirt with them. They literally have no idea what it’s like to do that and risk the embarrassment of being rejected
Seconds of eye contact... it is embarrassing how often I hear women consider this flirting. The answer to why men don't take the hint is because of decades of telling us not to read into anything. 🤦
Decades and generations of hate speech directed towards us, telling us we are pervs, they don’t need us, that we are useless. If they said that about a cultural group or race (other than white) they would be called out as bigots.
1. He doesn’t owe you an approach. 2. The repercussions of being wrong, or even just using the wrong approach, are too harsh to risk it anymore. 3. She might be giving hints, but there is a 90% chance that she isn’t being even half as obvious as she thinks she is. 4. The hints women give when they ARE attracted to you are often the same exact hints they give when they are NOT.
She could also be doing something that warrants a red flag for approach, like maybe she was drinking or surrounded in conversation by her single friends.
I have a woman friend that says to me one day that she would never approach a man. She believes a man should always approach her. And I responded with, "So is that why you've been single most your life?" and Shook my head. The look on her face was of shock, and then realization.
You should have also told her it was quite common for women of the past to drop a hankerchief in front of a man they were interested in to give him a reason to talk to her. They made the first move all the time in the past. It's more modern to be such a prude, it's like this new generation has reverted to protestant public behavior, all while dressing as promiscuous as possible.
Years of job losses,harassment charges,and being called creepy on the internet has taught men it isn't worth the trouble.These women also like getting on social media saying they don't need a man to be happy,so we listened.
Or, like me, he is clueless. In my 75 years I have had: two women who were in love with me, and two more who I barely knew, open their pants enough to show me the top of their pubes, and I missed it all.
Lady to ladies here. Nothing is sexier to my man than just flat out knowing what I want and flat out saying that. Makes both our lives significantly easier not playing the subtlety game.
Yep. Yet another feminist double standard. They're constantly reminding men that we're not entitled to their attention, but that's conveniently forgotten when it's the other way around.
I agree…but, society has taught women that they are 10’s (well the modern delusional ones) and men should be standing around waiting for their signal to jump on it. But from customs from hundreds of years ago…men suck at reading covert communications and are used to overt aka “using your words” type of communication and not subtle hints that are only accurate 1/3rd or less of the time. But if everyone told you since you were little how awesome you are because you have something they want then you would be at least a little delulu.
@@ratedg5039 Yet, they'll be the first to remind men that they we're not entitled to their attention. Convenient how they forget that when the situation is reversed.
Because the words she uses are not true. "No I am not hungry." "Why didn't you get me something?" "Why didn't he notice me?" "He must be ghey" Women don't always mean what they say. This is why they have 3 baby daddies but says "I am a good girl, I am not easy"
If a woman smiles at you there is a 95% chance she is just smiling. Which means a 95% chance of rejection and maybe a 25% chance of being called an abuser. We don’t want those odds.
Agreed, better safe than sorry. You can't get yourself into hot water, or embarrass yourself if you ignore her. Woman play games, they always have. It seems like this woman is the one who doesn't want to take the risk of putting herself out there more to let the man she's giving her 10 second stare to know she wants something more than just testing her ability to get a man's attention.
This exactly. She say 1/50 chance of being wrong more like 1/50 chance of being right which means you would get some terrible response the other 49 times. I'll pass thank you. Women have made themselves unapproachable.
You got to read the signs in this case though as this girl right there does much more then smile - she's talking to you with her fly already unzipped :-D
When I was a kid this adult male offered advice. Stay away from ladies who like to give BJ's. I didn't heed his advice but looking back he was right. They were trouble.
Funny thing is this is the type of woman to do just that. She is blasting men over social media for not approaching, she will blast the men that do approach that she doesn't want.
@4lackofbetter that last part especially. If she deemed the guy attractive he would get a pass, if not the exact same behavior is 'creepy' and a guy is forced to risk far too much for such little gain. So just not worth it
@@moto-fl3rdShe might only think he is creepy after talking to him though. Maybe he gives off autistic vibes that she only picks up on after he starts talking. Either way, not worth the risk for many men these days.
@@moto-fl3rd you missed my point (on purpose?) The point is what one guy does she would consider 'charming' or 'quirky' if another guy did the exact same thing she would call him a creep and try to ruin his life over it. You either understand that now or you're going out of your way to avoid what I'm saying
why do men not understand "hints" like a smile or eye contact? vs. WHY DO MEN THINK THAT A POLITE SMILE OR EYE CONTACT IS A HINT? (this is usually followed up by public shaming, humiliation, and/or s--ual harassment charges. HARD PASS! not worth it.
As a 6'4" man with unfortunate looks if I walk up to a woman who smiled just to be nice there is a very real chance I could get pepper sprayed or tased. So no, I'm not going to take your nonexistent "hints" or telepathic "signals" as a precaution to save myself.
Yep. And tossed in jail. If you, as a man, pepper sprayed a woman and tased her for walking up to you, you'd be in jail, too. Nope. It's safer to avoid and ignore that dangerous creature. The worst that can happen is far Far FAR worse than "no." Far safer is the old, "Hey! My friend fancies you." He's not being rejected, so no risk.
Same. We're not mind readers, and it's very easy to villify a big guy. Our height is rarely an advantage in the dating scene. There could be any number of reasons a female looks in our direction. Maybe our flies open, maybe they're zoning out, maybe we remind them of someone, maybe they're afraid of that someone, maybe they're waiting for us to move so they can see what's behind us, the what ifs are endless. Some men don't gamble, and 100 to 1 odd we get shot down or humiliated aren't great odds to begin with. Guys with no dignity aren't attractive anyway.
Understood that the risk of harm due to misreading signals is real on both sides. Just because your gender is bigger and stronger most times doesn't make you bulletproof. Plain talk dissolves the mystery.
Pray tell, please describe unfortunate looks? Either that means youre so good looking that you're defined as female catnip, or the other scenario - a face made for radio, as my mother in law used to say.
@delightschwartz2155 plain talk must be reciprocal, and idk where you took away from what either of us said that being a big person makes us bulletproof. Bulletproof how? In a sense that we're impervious to humiliation? That's the exact opposite of what was said. If anything we're far more suseptible to it BECAUSE of those characteristics. As I said, it's more often a detriment to initiating than an advantage. Me, personally I try to be very nice, smile, and soft spoken just to dispel any possibility of that but I'm also short in my interaction time. I've been told by a good friend who passed away that I seem very preoccupied. That's something I need to work on.
Girl1: why didn't he take the hint and approach me? Girl 2: did you try to give him a hint? Girl1: of course, I glanced at the window next to him while talking on my phone. Girl 2: Wow, nothing could br more blatant than that. You did all you could. He's either blind or gay.
The amount of women who consistently flirted and even went on multiple dates, asked me out, kissed me unprovoked, sent unsolicited noods, or even told me they were in love and wanted to be together forever, who absolutely had no romantic interest or true desire to be with me is far too high to ever believe that a woman was interested by some eye contact. They aren't even interested when they are interested
I've asked a lot of women out who have looked into my eyes and smiled at me. Only 2 have said yes. The rest of them said no. How is it a hint that they are interested in us? It's apparently not a hint 90% of the time. I don't fall for that b.s. game anymore. Ask me out if you are interested. I can have a quick yank at home and continue with my stress-free life.
adjoining example: I recently accepted a position as an A.I. specialist, at a woman owned and woman operated corporation. After the fourth week of employment, I was let go for some dumb reason. Two-weeks later, my former female boss hired a woman to replace me. My attorney said: "thanks, my work doesn't get any easier than crucifying a chauvinist, be it a woman or a man." So, how much money do you want me request?
One woman’s hint is another woman’s just being nice. Some women complain that men are thinking they’re flirting when they’re just being nice, with smiling just being nice.
Yep. This. They want to keep plausible deniability in case they don't like you if you do approach, then they can call you a creep and play it off like they weren't interested so they don't suffer any embarrassment.
And it's true, to be fair. I could easily mistake an attractive and friendly woman to be flirting with me. But we guys didn't set it up this way. We don't decide the precedent for female flirting, or it'd be a lot different.
The answer to being nice is to respond nicely, the answer to a misplaced flirt is also being nice, the answer to a missed flirt is also being nice, and then flirting. The answer is always be very nice, to everyone, and always flirt with everyone.
@@Nicholas-ze5vv A huge part of the problem is we are just like women. We assume the one we find cute is flirting with us, and the one we don't like isn't there. If you flirt with the cute and the not so cute, it never has to go beyond mutual fun, but can also develop easily.
3- we know how y’all change your mind depending on which way the wind blows and a hint like that sure doesn’t make you look like you have your mind made up
A guy said this one time and it makes sense 110%; "If you're a full-grown adult or mentally mature woman, then use your mouth to communicate with words. If you can talk about how he didn't pick up on those hints "after the fact", then you definitely could've talked to him "in the moment." You're a human being, not some animal."
Omg this. I'm just spamming this in comments of these types of harpies on social media. Maybe if it proliferates enough women will finally realize they aren't the great communicators they claim to be.
Those are the women that just aren’t worth it because she’s also the same kind of modern “woman” that will put a man on blast, on the internet, as a “creep” if she doesn’t find the guy attractive.
Most women find me attractive. I'll have conversations with them about other men being "creeps" and not understanding that their smile is just a smile and not an invitation for the guy to hit on them. The women think I get it. Oh, I get it alright. Women are nutz. Smile for Chad = come talk to me Smile to Nick = stay away just a friendly smile I just noticed after writing the above I used FOR Chad & TO Nick. You gotta be a psychic boys, know if it's FOR you or TO you. Rev up your psychic abilities. I'm 43 & still fit. Stay fit. You'll hit your peak at 35-45. Just talked to a hot 23 year old co-worker the other day about how she needs to marry her long term boyfriend as she's peaked at 23 and it's all downhill from here. Told her men peak much later like "The Rock". Told her to look up The Rock at 20, 30 and 50 and how the 50 year old version she'd want the most. She said, "oh, I know, I'd throw myself at The Rock right now". And before you say I have an HR visit on the horizon. A) Women find me attractive. B) I've built rapport with these women C) I've dealt with enough women to know the HR narcs from the cool women D) I work in a factory, the stuff women say in there is 1000% over the line all the time.
Yeah, if you think she is flirting and she finds you unattractive, she will get you arrested or embarrassed you. I agree, it's nit worth the effort. She has to say it out clearly, that gives.men confidence knowing that he is safe.
@ronmexico8383 I'm 41. I just got back into shape after a decade, being unnoticed for most of my life being average. My friends scold me because all I give any look or attention is a smile and a hello and go on with what I was doing. I have given up and changed my lifestyle for a longer life. I never learned social queues and I'm pretty horrible in relationships. Not worth the hassle anymore.
@@KeldiurIf a man hits his late 20s or early 30s without having had lots of women in his earlier years, many times he's just not going to care anymore.
Sexual harassment, rape, domestic violence, pervert allegations we stay far away. We have been told to leave them alone LOL. Cheaper and less stress being single.
@Fun.Guy.Forager Agreed! I chose to stay single 16yrs ago, and since then I've got a house, 2 nice cars, a retirement in place, savings, and spending $$, a great F/T job, peace & quiet, emotional well being, and a sense of contentment that would've been impossible if I had wasted those precious yrs trying to find the right woman.
@@lobsterbisque7567that's great, I'm glad you've made a comfortable life for yourself, I hope you have many excellent years ahead. I do feel like it's worth acknowledging that none of these things are necessarily impossible with a partner. You can live your life however you want, but saying it would be impossible if you were in a relationship is kind of like me saying "I've built myself a great life, with a fulfilling career, and plenty of money in the bank, it would all be impossible if I had played sport." Maybe if I had neglected all other parts of my life to solely focus on sport, or maybe if you did the same with a relationship, but they could easily have very little influence on these other parts of our lives, or even have had a positive influence 🤷♂️ You could have met a horrible person that ruined your life. I could have gotten an injury that ruined mine. But not much in life is purely negative.
You got that right, I was married for 7 years, been divorced for 37 years now, happiest years of my life. And I get plenty attention on the side without marriage.
Even 40 years ago I was very cautious with the Women. Even then they were an emotional unstable group. Now ??? Hell no. At my age they look for the retirement backup plan and if you are a young man they are looking for a “Starter Husband “. Think about the statistics of home ownership. More single women own their own than men.. We know that the home was awarded to the ladies in a divorce settlement..
I remember working on a ship in the mid-2000's. A woman on board was really bucking for a lawsuit, and she focused on me. She'd complain about my language, who doesn't say shit when they get overly frustrated, but f-bombs constantly flowed from her mouth. She'd complain about me looking at her, when she's standing in a spot I have to pay attention to while running heavy machinery. Her complaints got to the point where none of the officers paid her any mind, not even the captain. Last complaint I heard from her she actually said it to the 3rd mate in front me while I was running a winch to pull in mooring lines. She looked at the mate and said "Flanyl's really messing with me." The mate replied "What? Is he ignoring you too hard?"
Why didn't any of those man stand up and bat for you? Why didn't you confront them, and demand they put her in her place? Are you a beta male? You don't have to suffer the abuse. Speak out, and speak up. Women want men to tell them what to do. Notice how she targeted you, the quite one???
Or when the clock and shared office key rack are right above her head and you need to check time and availability. Guys seem more inclined to look around for alternative explanations.
@@jamesespinosa690 Apparently you didn't read this. We didn't put up with her shit. She was playing a stupid game, and was pissy we didn't respond. You sound like the same kind of person. Someone to respond to once, then wait for you to go away.
@@jamesespinosa690 Most company HRs will side with the woman, especially in male-dominated areas. That might be changing now as people are starting to get sick of the BS, but before the ThemToo debacle? It was quite literally believe all women. You deal with them until you hit shore and ask the captain when he's firing her.
Today, I was going through Home Depot. While I was l walking down the length of the store, this woman, who was about 30 ft. away from me, smiled and waved at me. I found this strange and looked around. There was no one within 50 ft of me. I looked back at her and she immediately said she was waving at her husband at the other end of the store. Now wouldn't I have been a creep if I took her smile and wave at me as a signal? Any one who knows what a Home Depot is knows how long and wide those stores are.
Some women will say "No" when they mean "Yes" because they're 'playing hard to get' then don't understand when men take their "No" as a "No" and leave them alone.
@@Guide2RS3I had a woman ask me to fulfill her r*pe fantasy as I was walking her home after a party (down a secluded country lane)…the way she said it was; “If you wanted me right now, you could take me, but I don’t want you to, so don’t do it, but don’t listen to what I say…no doesn’t always mean no.” I ran back to that party so fast, the 10 minutes that I’d spent alone with her was already far too much of a risk….I told the people at the party what had happened and they were like “yeah, she does it all the time, the poor girl gets ‘r*ped’ about once a month 🤨….”
Considering the FACT that guys are getting fired,arrested, charged, and imprisoned for “getting it wrong” nowadays, WHAT DO THEY EXPECT‼️I’ve personally known guys that were fired,arrested,charged,convicted, and even imprisoned just because of “morning after regent” turned into “he must’ve r#ped me” even though she aggressively pursued and even propositioned them. I’ve even known guys that girls have lied about their age,whether or not they’re married, etc. and when they’re parents or husbands found out, instead of coming clean about their “activities”, they screamed “r#pe”‼️After seeing this 💩 on MULTIPLE occasions, I stopped even trying to meet someone while at work,was even believed to be gay,and I flat out refuse to go clubbing when asked‼️I’d rather be home alone than being locked up just because a woman “changed her mind”‼️🤬🤬🤬
Women make this argument about being in the woods with a Bear and all that, but they don't understand that as a man... Talking to women in public is like going fishing for Bears. Yeah it looks cute and cuddly and may even smile, but if I'm wrong about this interaction I'll be eaten alive.
It's called the "Me too" movement. That's what stopped guys from taking "hints". They didn't want to go to jail on the off-chance they misinterpreted the "hint".
@@cheeseburger12 It's not worth the squeeze. Possibly going to jail or losing your job for some very used up roast beef is never worth it. It's like 20+ dudes took a bite out of the roast beef and left it on the ground. It was so bad, nobody wanted to finish it. Why the heck would you want to even pick it up?
We do pick up on hints, but the consequences of being wrong include jailtime, reputation destruction and becoming forever unemployable. So anything less than a neon sign is insufficient for those who aren't reckless.
Feminism, and the legal system have undermined the nuclear family, which was the backbone of our society. Women have become toxic, with insane expectations, and no accountability. With the current statistics on divorce a man has to be crazy to get married, or live with a woman.
1. "Just because i smile at you, doesnt mean you can just talk to me?" 2. "Just because i looked at you doesn't mean you can just talk to me." 3. "You saw me smile, so you wanted to talk to me? Ewww, stalker alert!" 4. "I didn't come here to meet men." 5. "Why do men just walk up to us and just start talking? We're not here for them to gawk at." Lady's, you've made it clear you dont want to be approached. If you see a guy you like, dont use hints and hand signals..... be a big girl and use your words.
It's come to the point where it's women who need to make the first move. We men have been told "we're creeps" "we're not tall enough" and etc. This is the new reality, ladies....the ball is in your court
They want to revert back to a non verbal ungabunga society in terms of signals. We evolved beyond that long time ago: where no means no or yes or maybe or sometimes or not the right time but still yes.
False accusations, ruined reputations, court fees and prison time happened. Are you just completely oblivious or do you lack accountability? This is a genuine question, not rhetorical.
@andorfedra far, far more often than not, women want to be left alone. If a woman is staring my way, she wants me to go away or she was eye f@cking the guy behind me. Also if she changes her mind or I was wrong, now I'm the harasser
Little middle school girls use hints, grown women speak. When they tell me they were sending signals I tell them you’re not a traffic light. The reason a lot of them don’t approach is they can’t handle getting rejected, but have no problem rejecting men.
Middle school girls use notes or send a friend to ask if you like her, then words are exchanged if it is a yes. This type of woman is *less* mature and direct than that.
Women crave desire and they are allergic to rejection. You can help them avoid both by simply returning the flirt in a happy, fun, and safe way. Who knows, the random may end up being the bank manager approving your business loan, the cop pulling you over, the IRS agent sent to check your intestines for hidden assets. Flirt always and well and leave a wake of happy, warm hearts behind you and half your life will be well lived before you even get there.
One, her fly is open. Two, women have told men that they can be strong, independent women who don't need a man, and then women have gotten mad at men for any hint of chivalrous behaviour. Three, a man misunderstanding "hints" can get them blasted on the internet, called a creep, or even getting serious charges levied against him... or having his life ruined in other ways. It's just not usually worth the risk. Feminists and lying women have ruined dating for the rest of us.
Women do a lot of mass flirting, flirting with every guy around them and then when a guy they don’t find attractive pops up and trying to talk to them they get the ewe get away treatment and every guy that sees that and now knows that your not approachable. So the key is what she wants not what she’s sending out in mass to everything with a dick.
the girl in the video is just mad that Chad ignored her and left the room when she looked at him. i guarantee you she sees regular dudes all the time and does not care if they pick up her "hints"
There was a study done on hetero attraction back in... 2010? (I think... I'm having trouble finding the study to cite it, so take what follows with a grain of salt). In this study, the researchers encountered something usually they dread...the "Law of Unintended Consequences". This is a research phenomenon that basically shows the researchers have brought an incredible amount of confirmation bias to the study and the results totally contradicted what they expected OR, even worse, indicated something they NEVER expected. Okay. Study on attraction. Women were shown to be almost 10 times more afraid of rejection than men. There were numerous reasons cited but the main one was because of their unhealthy relationship with a male role model while growing up. Sound familiar? The one quality that women in the study cited as the main reason for fear of rejection was the male role model's PERCEIVED lack of leadership. It didn't matter whether or not he actually WAS a poor leader in the home, the young girl had only to PERCEIVE it as such to affect her the rest of her life. This type of "perception" usually occurred, but not always, when the girl child started attending school. And here's the "unintended consequence" portion. The incidence of the attributed "unhealthy relationship with a male role model" increased almost exponentially as the girl child progressed from 1st to 12th grade. I'm not a statistician, nor do I have a PhD in Sociology or Psychology. But I don't need them to understand what the study blatantly shows. To me, our school system is what is the problem. Our school system is usurping the role that young girls (and boys for that matter) are supposed to see in our parents, specifically our "Dads". Our school system isn't teaching children HOW to think critically (as with a classical education), it isn't even teaching them HOW to LEARN (so that they can teach themselves). Our school system is teaching young people to be DRONES and to accept what the government says WITH NO CRITICAL THOUGHT.... TO TRUST THE GOVERNMENT IMPLICITLY. This is very dangerous, and, we are seeing fruits of that type of labor by the US Dept. of Education even as we sit at our computer chairs in front of our screens or on our mobile devices tapping away..... OBLIVIOUS to it. This system of "education" was promulgated back in the early 1900s in eastern and central Europe. It's called the "Prussian Model". There was one particular European country who underwent a horrible depression (much worse than here in the USA back in the 1930s) and the Prussian Model was adopted after a certain national socialist and future tyrant took over this government as supreme chancellor. And then came the blame game on a certain ethnicity within that nation that blamed them for all the ills and faults of this country. Then came the property seizures, the bank seizures...then the concentration camps....and then the gas chambers. I won't say the name of this man whom the entire Western world (with a few isolated exceptions) repudiates with hatred and reviles his philosophy. People say history is irrelevant, that we should move on from the past and invalidate it's lessons. I can see why someone would want us to do that. It is so that we forget the METHODS of said tyrants and be very susceptible to those methods... even as I type these words... Food for thought.
Just the other day a friend of mine was complaining that her friend was giving me hints and I didn't make a move. I replied that if I wanted to play games I would pull out my phone.
Men do not communicate by hints ladies ! And as other men have stated there are to many legal percussion if we get something wrong with the opposite sex !
Saturday night: where are all the men? Well, they're certainly not with the women spending all week long trash talking them, posting "creeps" on tiktok and high fiving other girl bosses over latest guy having his life ruined. 😂 Being delusional and girl power will never overcome nature's law that ya can't reap tomatoes if ya sowed potatoes.
I completely agree. We do notice hints, at least I do. But if you are wrong you are often treated with disgust, annoyance, mocking and anger. If every time you thought a guy liked you and you asked him out and were wrong you got slapped in the face in front of everyone how often would you ask men out? That is how it feels to be rejected by many women.
What happened to men not understanding hints: being called toxic creeps enough times after responding to said hints and being accused of being a sexual predator. Your hints aren't worth the risk, now you have to use your words.
I've had women smile and stare at men when I was an adult in my late teens. I got rejected by a woman who told me she wasn't interested after dropping a "hint" like that. Ladies, your "hints" suck and they could land a man in jail for sexual harassment. Just use your mouth and say, "I think you're cute, can we go out?" The overwhelming majority of you seem to have a hard time with being straightfoward about what you want and men aren't going to go out of their way to suffer extremely negative and unwanted attention as men have everything to lose if they're wrong.
I do recall in the earlier years of university one girl from my class giving me massive hints, smiling, seeming so glad to see me etc and one day she even talked to me very nicely. I thought for a moment “wow…she probably likes me” The next day, I saw her walking holding hands with her boyfriend and upon seeing me, she gave me those very same smiles and was waving at me. Uggh…The Games and I felt a bit nauseous and cringe. Thank Goodness I didn’t act on that “hint” otherwise there would have been some embarrassment on my part, even accusations of harassment and her boyfriend and his mates would have duffed the crap out of me. I eventually left her and her boyfriend in the dust.
They don't know whether or not they want to go out with you. They need to test you first. It's a conundrum. That's why we used to have clear roles, which women destroyed. Why you ask? Because a few generations ago, men failed all their tests.
@@josemanuel-mb6xs They test if you behave like a man or show weakness. With reversed gender roles, women per definition take over the leading role, which puts the man into a weaker position. That's why it will never work. Feminism is a fad.
Three points: 1. Let's say you gave him ten seconds of eye contact and smiled. What differentiates that from a woman who is watching him to make sure he doesn't approach, but smiles to not make it look like she's being mean? Women stare at trouble and things they want. Men have heard the stat that the over-estimate a woman's interest in them, and, yeah, some men pay dearly for doing so. 2. It's possible he got your hint, but isn't rewarding communication skills like that. If you aren't willing to put in enough effort to walk up and say hi if you're interested, then what indication does he have you'll put in effort on dates? Or the relationship? Or the marriage? Or with kids? We can and do think that far ahead sometimes! 3. Just because you're into him doesn't mean he owes you anything. Ladies, you say it all the time: he's not entitled to your attention. True! And, fairly, you aren't entitled to his. We're supposed to make a good impression, right? So can you. We'll probably be nicer if you try than the other way around, too.
If a woman would stare at me like that, I'd assume several things 1) something about my shirt 2) she might be laughing at me 3) she might just look and smile at lots of people, for any number of reasons, including she's just having a good day
Point 1 A woman could be staring because she is uncomfortable and is keeping an eye on me. It is not a smart tactic because it attracts trouble. Most women will avoid eye contact or look away to avoid trouble. Unless a woman proves otherwise, I'm going to assume she wants to be left alone.
1. Eye contact isn't flirting. It's expected in western culture. 2. Being nice isn't flirting. It's just nice, and people, myself included, have been burned for reading into it too deeply. 3. The book of Proverbs says that it's better to keep your mouth shut, and be suspected a fool, than to open it, and make it known.
There's another issue with eye contact. Let's say I'm at a convention. I see a woman from 50 feet away. Our eyes meet. She gazes at me for an unusually long time. a) I can't read her expression from 50 feet away. b) From 50 feet away, it's hard to be sure that she's even looking at me. There's other stuff going on. Maybe she's looking at something going on near me. Perhaps she's looking at the guy a short distance to my left/right. c) She's standing there with a group of people who are clearly friends of hers, and some of them are men. Makes things ambiguous, doesn't it?
So like 10 or 15 years ago, there was a picture posted of a sign on a subway in New York City that said a man and a woman were drunk and they had sex. The woman couldn’t consent because she was drunk and that the man had committed assault. That’s when men stopped, taking hints and decided that they were only going to respond to verbal communication. Because the world decided that women could do whatever they wanted regardless of the situation and that they would always be the victims and that men had to bear all responsibilities, even if they were capable of making that decision.
I know the exact sign you’re talking about. It also said he was drunk TOO. Yet it was still his fault. Such a joke. Remember kids, consent only works for women to use against men, not the other way around in society.🤦♂️
Everything is always the man’s fault, even her choices when he’s not there “Well you should have been there! You know that this strong, confident, independent woman can’t think for herself!” He cheats: He’s a pig She cheats: He wasn’t giving her enough attention…and anyway…what even is cheating…it wasn’t serious….he’s just being insecure….blah blah blah.
She nailed it. Not only have we gotten it wrong once out of 100 times. It is only RIGHT once out of 100 times. The next time we think eye contact and a smile is an invitation for something she may very well say “I was just smiling at a joke I heard…what are you doing?!?!”
For every woman who says "take the hint", there's 20 more saying they were creeped out or offended by you taking the basic kindness for an insinuation of any romantic interest. It's just safer and less awkward. I've been in that situation plenty of times. Apparently a lot of women were interested in me over the years but I need clear and effective communication or it flies right by. The most frustrating was when I had a girl over my place once to watch movies and chill. I wanted to be a gentleman so I made no advances just smoked and talked. The next day she texted a mutual friend that she was annoyed I didn't try anything. I'd rather not get sent to jail or be tried in the court of public opinion off an assumption.
There's another dynamic going on in the middle of all this: what is the girl hinting at? If the guy's seeking a wife to live with "util death do us part" and sees a hint that reads as "let's go find a room tonight and never see each other again" or even "I want to hang out at the bar with you but this isn't going anywhere", then she might as well be yelling "Danger! Danger!" ... and that's even if she's also looking for util death do us part (at which point she should blame hookup culture for appropriating a few thousand years worth of established social signaling).
Why do women not just communicate like normal people? Do businesses run on hints? Do home builders operate on hints? Do you get gas in your car based on hints? Stop being difficult and start talking in an honest and rational fashion. Its called Communication !!!
Aha, but if you use actual words, then you may have to take accountability for what you said and you may have to put effort into it. If all you do is communicate in vague hints, you always have the option of pointing at the other person and declare them responsible for misunderstandings.
Oh, it's more than "1 in 50" - *way more!* The average man's experience in the world of romance is something like this: (1) Put yourself out there as a teen, only to get rejected because no money. (2) Put the work in to get a good education, only to be rejected because no social skills. (3) Put in the work to get social skills, only to be rejected because no "game". (4) Game: rejected because no confidence. (5) Get confidence; rejected because "arrogant" / "try-hard". (6) Get told you need to be "emotionally available", rejected for showing emotions other than anger… because "weak". (7) Get told you need to provide; get a job and concentrate on work, rejected because "you ignored me!" (8) Pay attention to your woman, get rejected because "smothering!" -and this is not even mentioning that women will flirt *HARD* and then if you reciprocate say _"I was never attracted to you!"_ I'm sorry but your "hints" aren't worth *anything* at all, because _even your explicit words mean nothing._
Women also give seconds of eye contact to men they find creepy, they keep an eye on them too. So now we have to figure out what type of eye contact it is. All while... Women: We want equality; except we don't want to approach, we don't want to make the first move, we don't want to pay on the first date, we don't want to take any risks, we just want to look at you and you do all the work.
As a man, I can state, without fear of being wrong, that WE ARE NOT ABLE TO READ YOUR MIND!!!!! We understand words, but only if they are direct and truthful. Keep this in mind when dealing with us.
LOL a woman speaking her mind and telling the truth, is like her accepting accountability for when she is wrong... Better off playing the lotto then hold out for that to happen most the time.... Yes there is rare females like Emily here but lets face it... Her guy won the lotto getting to be in a relationship with her...
Bro don't make it too obvious, rule one never speak about our mind reading skills (not in the positive nor in the negative sense). They shouldn't figure it out we can do that.
I see the hints everyday on my commute on the subway, And yes you're totally right, I don't want to be accused in public with "ewww" "what are you trying to do" get away, you just want to sleep with me"...etc...etc...So i just ignore and go to work.
I had a girl talk to me alone for an hour. Steady eye contact. I tried to end the conversation twice and give her outs but she didn't take them. I eventually walked away. Sent her some of my music, and she got me fired. And this was after being discarded by my narcissistic ex-wife. So, I'm done. If a girl likes me, if a girl wants me to dedicate my time and resources to her, she can put in the effort. I'm in no hurry to be someone's thankless servant.
I remember a girl I was interested kept asking me if I was hungry and I kept saying no. She finally exclaimed at me “I’m starving! Ask me to lunch!” I’ll never forget that. I learned that day that “Are you hungry?” Was an invitation for me to ask her out. 😂
If she asks you to ask her out, isn't she just asking you out? It's just funny how they have to still frame it in a way where it makes it look like they didn't
How about this? There was a new restaurant opened in the area and I said I may try it someday. She pestered me over a week to go there together, so I said let's go tomorrow at lunch and she accepted. Next day, I asked her shall we go at lunch time and she replied with no, I have lunch with me. Here explain it if it has any sense in it. Oh also, I went alone and another coworker was there so we ate together and went back together, she was furious I went there with someone else.
@@manmoth4 Feminism has conditioned modern women into being incapable of admitting their desire for men. This is why they play these stupid 'frame games'. They cannot allow their frame to be breached. They aren't strong enough to deal with the possibility that their world view might be totally wrong.
@helpfuljump4260 This sounds really narcissistic. All the pestering to get you to do what she wants, then bringing lunch and telling you no as she thinks that she is putting you in your place/showing you how she is really in charge. You going anyway and another coworker being there causes some major issues with being able to see herself as in charge/control. I wonder if she is lashing out at you because it broke her delusion that she is in control or she still thinks she's in charge and is just enraged you acted differently than she wanted you to. Does any of that seem to fit how things are from your perspective?
I can *guarantee* you that 5+ seconds of eye contact and a smile is a "signal" that I've been wrong about countless times. Especially in moments that lead to getting absolutely wrecked with someone in a shrill voice shrieking at me "Just because a woman is nice to you doesn't mean she's flirting" You really expect someone with that experience to go through that again? Lol
Enthusiastic consent doesn't cut it, all she has to do is change her mind then it becomes he said / she said and the law doesn't doesn't give a shit what he said. Probably going with "here, sign this on camera with my lawyer present"
Getting it wrong is horrible... being called a creep or worse is soul wrenching, especially when you know that you are a good man. Ladies, please just ask. 🙏
I don't play those silly little mind games . Women only want equality when it suits them . If you want to be equal , put in equal the effort and ask men out for a change .
To be fair: I was hit on by a girl once and found it disturbing. Men don't want to be asked out. Reversing the gender roles feels wrong. You'll realize once it happens to you.
As a student who just went back to college, I've seen plenty of girls who have smiled at me, made eye contact, mostly strangers, but it also takes one complaint of harassment to get me in serous trouble.
This is the ultimate gaff women pull on men. They drop hints or expect them to know what they want...and when they don't, women get pissed at them for not being mind readers. Hey ladies, try actually telling them what's on ur mind...works better.😅
So women want you as a man to pick up on hints, but they want a man to not drop hints and be a "man" and step up? Double standard much? Men are also tired of picking up on these so called hints only to be told they are creeps for trying.
You think women understand what's on their mind? There is a reason they are mad that men can't read their minds....because they sure as shit can't read it themselves.
Hints require us to assume we know what you want. When you're dealing with a person that can want a hug from you, yet simultaneously be disgusted with your existence....... Those ain't betting odds.
Use your big-girl words, ladies, use your words. Men are tired of that hinting crap. Attempting to interpret "hints" just leads to us being embarrassed by rejection, called a creep, or accused of harassment. In fact, sadly, a signed note in your own handwriting, with your phone number would be perfect!! 😢
The latest dating research showed 80% of women expect/demand men to make the first move. I've found that pretty hilarious with how much young women also scream about feminism/equal rights.
"Men dont understand hints" instead of "I suck at showing my intentions" Women always dodging responsibility for their shortcomings and failures and blaming them on men for literally everything in their lives lmao
The problem is the "hints" given by women to show they are interested are also given by women who aren't interested. This leads to men getting burned a few times. Then they just stop bothering.
As my Dad tried to say "dip your toes in the water". I said no because the punishment for doing so is getting my toes melted by acid. That's the short and simple answer.
Women from overseas just walk over and talk to you. I was in a church service, and I caught a woman looking my way. 10 seconds after it ended. She ran over and started a conversation. I'm not saying women have to do this. But that was amazing.
Women from overseas are the same, they just grew up in a culture that shamed them for their Hypergamous behaviors. As soon as you bring them back here they will get tainted by Feminism and be the same. Nearly all female mammals are Hypergamous by nature and damn sure all female primates are and human women are female primates. Black, white, yellow or pokadotted, left, right or sideways, Western or not Western all women are the same
I completely agree. If more women would just walk up, introduce themselves, and state their intentions rather plainly. I can almost guarantee they would be successful every time. Men are not always great with mind games.
@EdibleOutdoors I have a friend. Career Military retired. Met a woman in Germany in his late 30s. Married her at 41. They have two kids. Lives in Germany. But he has lived in the US, too. He couldn't be happier. I know a guy from Europe who married an American woman. All he talks about is how nasty American women are. Women act like it's some badge of honor to act nasty, then complain when it goes sideways. It's not that hard.
@@MikeGaul-ps9ux that's because he lives in Germany with her and understands leaving her their will be worse than being married here. LMFAO. German men or men married in the German system are mostly not leaving their wives because the allimony and sh*t is worse than the states. Never ever marry a foreign woman outside the US. LMFAO
Got called into HR once. Sits down, lady says to me "Do you know why we called you here?" No. Turned out some woman took my politeness to her as a "sign" got a bit bent out of shape when someone else corrected her and her manager called HR "to raise a concern". Whatever happened to us all being grown-ups and just talking properly? Or asking someone else "d'ya think he/she/they are into me" first? And HR doesnt see it as acceptable to treat the workplace as a dating app. Believe me.
As a woman never approach a man first that could end up in disaster!!! And if man doesn't get the hint or approach you, as a female the only thing you can do is walk away, find someone who shows interest in you and is ready to engage with you romantically. Never force any kind of relationship on a man, don't try to have purposefully his baby, to get pregnant from him so you can force a marriage! Never do that, it ends up in disaster. Always be honest sincere, and open with man beforehand so he can understand what are your exact expectations from him!😊
Men have been told for 60 years that if women don't give us a clear and enthusiastic "Yes", then it's a no, and if we don't accept that we're creepy predators. Now, when they drop subtle hints, instead of saying clearly and enthusiastically "Yes", we treat it like a no. How do women now get this?
We’re also told- “Maybe she’s being polite. Maybe she’s a friendly-outgoing person.” How about a compliment on my looks? How about slow-blink eyes & a smirk? How about lingering eyes as you walk away? How about flirty vocal tones/influxes How about enthusiasm when you see me? As a man, you gotta give me something that STANDS OUT or I’m NOT gonna bite the bait.
Cause even when they are interested, they don't want to show their interest cause 1) it makes them vulnerable and 2) if you screw up in the approach, they can still claim victim and blast you with her friends or on Tick Tok.
Or, how about, using your verbal communication skills (or sign language) and yano making it known by using the words "hey I'm interested in you", yano like we're expected to do
Nah even that's too vague. Complimenting my looks? She's just giving a compliment. Slow-blink eyes and a smirk? She's just tired and thinking of something funny. Lingering eyes as I walk away? She's just thinking of additional questions she might ask before I get out of view. Flirty tones/influxes? That's just her natural voice. Or maybe she's happy about something else. I'm just there. Enthusiasm when she sees me? She's just happy to see a familiar face. Nothing more. As a man, none of those things are clear enough for me.
@@sandasturner9529it’s why if I’m not sure if the women’s bathroom is empty and I have to clean it I’ll ask a female coworker to go in and check for anyone inside. And yes I have knocked on the door and announced that I was there just to get no response from the women inside
Emotionally mature adults (ie, the type of person you need as a partner) don't deal in "hints". Especially as we're realizing just how many folks are neurodivergent. Speak plainly and directly, or forever hold your peace. To quote millions of parents of toddlers: "USE YOUR WORDS."
I discovered long ago that I was wrong 100% of the time. Haven’t paid any attention since. Never in my 50+ years on this planet has a woman approached me. If one did I’d consider her to be so incredibly desperate that I’m a last resort. Life has shown me anytime a woman shows interest, she’s desperate and I’m only an option to get her self esteem and such up until better options come around.
Exactly. I was approached a couple of times in my teens and I always thought it incredibly suspicious because that wasn’t normal for me, so it seemed more likely this person was trying to get something from me and unlikely that this was actual interest in me. But who knows.
I've been that guy. I was working fast food when a coworkers ex came up to order. I just punched it in and fixed the display cup she had knocked towards me for some reason. As soon as I hung her ticket the coworker she dated walked up to me. "You know I won't be offended if you take her out right?" He asked "Wtf are you talking about?" I replied. "She was just flirting with you SO hard! How did you not notice?" "I'm at work. I don't make a habit of flirting with customers. If she really wants my number she can ask for it, but honestly I already know from you talking about her-even when you were happy-she's not my type. We share like zero interests."
I was enjoying your post until I read the part about not having shared interests. I've never heard anybody of the male variety not be interested in a woman because they don't have shared interests. It's because she didn't look good to you. Let's just agree on that and call it a day. If she looked beautiful to you, or quite good to you, there would be no talk by you of "interests."
@greggsloate4677 wow so do you only date women for the fact that you find them attractive? I don't date women if I don't have any shared interests what the f*** are we supposed to do? Just f*** all the time? It doesn't matter if I find the hottest woman on the planet if we can't enjoy the time we spend with each other without because we aren't into the same kind of stuff the relationship is going to be stale and boring. Just go buy an expensive blow up doll if all you want to do is have something to f***.
@@greggsloate4677not true. As a friend of mine once said "you can't spend all of your time in bed, and you can't spend all of your time in bed having sex" unless you're just looking for a one night stand, you have to have things in common.
@kimbraun0823 Kim, you're a woman, and you clearly don't understand men. Nobody was talking about sex. I was talking about attraction. And I've never heard of a man unwilling to take a girl's phone number or go on a first date with her whom he found physically attractive. Most men don't have dozens of opportunities a week or per month as attractive women do. In this case, he claims to know her interests, but only second-hand through someone else who was dating her, which is close to useless information. He simply found her unattractive. If you don't want to take my word for it, fine. But nobody was talking about sex. I was talking about attraction. In fact, as many ways as women have to sabotage their own relationships, I've never heard of a woman who was attracted to a man who still didn't want to go out with him once because she heard, 2nd-hand, of his objectionable interests.
@@kimbraun0823 Anyone who's lived a while wants a partner who can do MOST of life and MOST of life's activities in a mutually interested way. It gives so much meaning and quality to everything one could do, if someone you loves and respects you enjoys the same activity.
40, maybe even 30, years ago... Yes, I'd would have taken the hint and took a shot. Today, not a chance. Walk over, say hello, and we can see where it goes. I'm not risking being labeled a creep, or worse, being accused of harassing you because I misinterpreted your eye contact and smile. Y'all told us to leave you alone, and we listened.
One woman's "obvious hint" is another woman's "just being nice." Flirting with strangers is a dangerous game many if not most men aren't willing to play anymore.
1. Maybe he's taken? 2. Maybe he's gay?... Or, and this may be a stretch coz she's a "godess" who should never be denied... 3. Maybe he didn't want YOU?!!! Main character syndrome is really an epidemic rn.
@@danielallan8061 No, it goes far beyond just being egotistical. It’s thinking literally everything revolves around you, good and bad, not just thinking you’re more awesome than you actually are.
Two words... Me Too! When even the slightest misunderstanding can lead to social media cancellation, unending harassment, and potential legal entanglements, it just isn't worth it for a moment's pleasure. To put it in the words of the character Stoney Brown in the movie Encino Man, "is the juice worth the squeeze?"
I am a widower and I was at my 50th high school reunion. I was well dressed and well groomed. A classmate had brought his beautiful young wife and she had quickly topped her tank at the cash bar. He introduced her to me and she immediately hugged me in a fairly inappropriate manner, while she gushed, "Ooooh! You're soooo Handsome!" I thought - 'Oh, you are sooo tanked!' while her husband was giving me the stink eye! Under other circumstances I would definitely interpret this as a clear invitation.
"stop approaching us, you creeps!"
"Why aren't men approaching us...?"
But, you must explain that only guys she does not find attractive are creeps. If she finds you attractive, you can be the biggest creep in the world and she will be good with it.
@@alexhanson6577 exactly!
@@vzig2348Yet you won't know if she finds you attractive until you ask her, which is a 8-10 miss chance and an 80% chance to be called a creep and what other consequences thereof.
I have been seeing this more lately. We were told for years to don't approach women, don't walk near women, don't assume women are interested, etc. So we stopped all of that. Now, I'm seeing more women complain about not getting approached. I know it's probably different women saying these things, but we can get some kind of consensus please? Clearly the situation isn't working
This
Men who understand hints get accused of sexual harassment. End of discussion.
Bingo
1 out 50 times he doesn't go to jail for sexual harassment. Congratulations, feminists, sleep on the bed you've made.
They want to eat their cake & have it too.
And then they wonder why all the men they end up with are players hahaha
Yup - too risky - you might think there was a hint but just too much risk to act on it.
Getting it wrong gets men harassment charges and possibly arrested. The juice is not worth the squeeze.
So going to a girl and say hi how are you, can be considered an harrasment ? Harassment is when you touch her,follow her like a creep or staring at her non stop
@@gabrielti210Yeah, I've watched Women report men to HR because the man told them They looked good, and since they weren't attracted to that man, it wasn't okay...
I agree, getting it wrong "CAN" get negative repercussions.... It has happened! Think about a yelling match between boyfriend and girlfriend and the girl who hits the guy tells the cops that he hit her, what happens? He goes to Jail!!!
@@gabrielti210yes they 100% can.
@gabrielti210 Unfortunately nowadays just looking a woman you think is pretty enough to get ypur attention is basis for harassment charges.
Women have literally pressed for sexual assault charges because their male colleagues have happened to touch their shoulder!!!
No Sexual Harassment charge or Sexual Assault charge is worth it.
25 years ago I'd get rejected, laughed at by her and her girlfriends...today it'd be a stalking charge. Hard pass.
Definitely lived through both those scenarios multiple times.
Same!
Cause women don’t understand how tough it to just walk up to a stranger and try to flirt with them. They literally have no idea what it’s like to do that and risk the embarrassment of being rejected
Yep
If you’ve had that happen to you multiple times maybe you’re the problem. Introspection is a good thing.
Seconds of eye contact... it is embarrassing how often I hear women consider this flirting. The answer to why men don't take the hint is because of decades of telling us not to read into anything. 🤦
Also, 10 seconds is actually a really long time for something like this. It was defo only about a second and a half.
@@alexhanson6577 True, you'll be lucky if it's more than 3. 😄
Any girl staring aggressively at me just makes me wonder if Im bout to be murdered.
For men, eye contact can mean something else, like how gorillas see it as a challenge
Decades and generations of hate speech directed towards us, telling us we are pervs, they don’t need us, that we are useless. If they said that about a cultural group or race (other than white) they would be called out as bigots.
1. He doesn’t owe you an approach.
2. The repercussions of being wrong, or even just using the wrong approach, are too harsh to risk it anymore.
3. She might be giving hints, but there is a 90% chance that she isn’t being even half as obvious as she thinks she is.
4. The hints women give when they ARE attracted to you are often the same exact hints they give when they are NOT.
PREACH!!
And it can confuse the hell out of us
And some times they are kiding or just testing and you look lime fool at the end.
@@DomingosCJM yup had this happen enough times over the years that I now become paranoid if someone tries to “hint” that they like me
She could also be doing something that warrants a red flag for approach, like maybe she was drinking or surrounded in conversation by her single friends.
I have a woman friend that says to me one day that she would never approach a man. She believes a man should always approach her. And I responded with, "So is that why you've been single most your life?" and Shook my head. The look on her face was of shock, and then realization.
You should have also told her it was quite common for women of the past to drop a hankerchief in front of a man they were interested in to give him a reason to talk to her. They made the first move all the time in the past. It's more modern to be such a prude, it's like this new generation has reverted to protestant public behavior, all while dressing as promiscuous as possible.
Because its 2024... "Your honor, she was giving me the sexy eyes" doesn't make for a compelling defense in court.
Lol
Women equal problems
10 second eye contact plus a smile is pretty darn obvious...lol! I mean, come on guys, get with the program....lol!
@@francisdashwood1760some people are just people watchers and like to smile
😂😂
Years of job losses,harassment charges,and being called creepy on the internet has taught men it isn't worth the trouble.These women also like getting on social media saying they don't need a man to be happy,so we listened.
Or, like me, he is clueless. In my 75 years I have had: two women who were in love with me, and two more who I barely knew, open their pants enough to show me the top of their pubes, and I missed it all.
You forgot to say, I'm gone fishing
They chose the bear. Go make eye contact with it!
Don't forget about them choosing Walmart version of Wade Wilson!
This woman is very grateful for all you good men. You're very appreciated. Thank you
I refuse to take ANY hints. I do NOT play childish games. YOU have something to say, SAY IT. Period.
Preach!
Say it louder for the folks in the back. This ain’t Blue’s Clues
Yeah. If I want to play games, I'll turn on my PlayStation Four! Modern women just don't get it nowadays.
I 100% agree with this. On the other hand, I'm 47 and never married.
And then, put it in your handwriting.
Lady to ladies here. Nothing is sexier to my man than just flat out knowing what I want and flat out saying that. Makes both our lives significantly easier not playing the subtlety game.
+respect
Women: Just because you drop a hint does not mean that we are required to do something. We don't owe you anything!
Yep. Yet another feminist double standard. They're constantly reminding men that we're not entitled to their attention, but that's conveniently forgotten when it's the other way around.
This.
The projection is insane; so many women complain that guys feel entitled to them, but here we are.
Best answer.
I agree…but, society has taught women that they are 10’s (well the modern delusional ones) and men should be standing around waiting for their signal to jump on it. But from customs from hundreds of years ago…men suck at reading covert communications and are used to overt aka “using your words” type of communication and not subtle hints that are only accurate 1/3rd or less of the time. But if everyone told you since you were little how awesome you are because you have something they want then you would be at least a little delulu.
@@ratedg5039 Yet, they'll be the first to remind men that they we're not entitled to their attention. Convenient how they forget that when the situation is reversed.
Why can't women use their words instead of hints? They use their words when their pissed off at you! 😅
Tell it, ol feller! Amen!
You telling me, been dealing with such all week!!🤣🤣
@@bgd5339 but every other time make you dig deep for nothing
And they use their "words" too much when you absolutely don't want to hear them. Get it right.
Because the words she uses are not true.
"No I am not hungry." "Why didn't you get me something?"
"Why didn't he notice me?" "He must be ghey"
Women don't always mean what they say. This is why they have 3 baby daddies but says "I am a good girl, I am not easy"
If a woman smiles at you there is a 95% chance she is just smiling. Which means a 95% chance of rejection and maybe a 25% chance of being called an abuser. We don’t want those odds.
Agreed, better safe than sorry. You can't get yourself into hot water, or embarrass yourself if you ignore her. Woman play games, they always have. It seems like this woman is the one who doesn't want to take the risk of putting herself out there more to let the man she's giving her 10 second stare to know she wants something more than just testing her ability to get a man's attention.
This exactly. She say 1/50 chance of being wrong more like 1/50 chance of being right which means you would get some terrible response the other 49 times. I'll pass thank you. Women have made themselves unapproachable.
Do any of those things actually hurt you?
@@frotobaggins7169 I was thinking the same thing, she got it backwards.
You got to read the signs in this case though as this girl right there does much more then smile - she's talking to you with her fly already unzipped :-D
If you're handsome, it's flirting. If you're ugly, it's harassment.
That woman is a "honey trap" for a sexual assault charge.
Minus the sweetness.
She doesn’t have the decency to zip her pants …. She’s not getting invited to the dance.
When I was a kid this adult male offered advice. Stay away from ladies who like to give BJ's. I didn't heed his advice but looking back he was right. They were trouble.
I'm glad someone else noticed too! @BigDan7114
@@BigDan7114just her trying to make it "obvious" that she's interested and 1 less thing for him to do when he figures out what she wants
And men don’t want to be berated, yelled at, and plastered all over social media labeled as a creep or pervert just for approaching you.
Funny thing is this is the type of woman to do just that. She is blasting men over social media for not approaching, she will blast the men that do approach that she doesn't want.
@4lackofbetter that last part especially. If she deemed the guy attractive he would get a pass, if not the exact same behavior is 'creepy' and a guy is forced to risk far too much for such little gain. So just not worth it
@@gusmc2220 I'm guessing she is not going to make eye contact and smile at a guy she thought was creepy.
@@moto-fl3rdShe might only think he is creepy after talking to him though. Maybe he gives off autistic vibes that she only picks up on after he starts talking.
Either way, not worth the risk for many men these days.
@@moto-fl3rd you missed my point (on purpose?) The point is what one guy does she would consider 'charming' or 'quirky' if another guy did the exact same thing she would call him a creep and try to ruin his life over it.
You either understand that now or you're going out of your way to avoid what I'm saying
Men have been told to leave women alone for so long and have the potential to be accused of shit if its not 100% clear, im not even trying.
Even then crying wolf is a bit too common.
Nuf said!
why do men not understand "hints" like a smile or eye contact? vs. WHY DO MEN THINK THAT A POLITE SMILE OR EYE CONTACT IS A HINT? (this is usually followed up by public shaming, humiliation, and/or s--ual harassment charges. HARD PASS! not worth it.
As a 6'4" man with unfortunate looks if I walk up to a woman who smiled just to be nice there is a very real chance I could get pepper sprayed or tased. So no, I'm not going to take your nonexistent "hints" or telepathic "signals" as a precaution to save myself.
Yep. And tossed in jail.
If you, as a man, pepper sprayed a woman and tased her for walking up to you, you'd be in jail, too.
Nope. It's safer to avoid and ignore that dangerous creature. The worst that can happen is far Far FAR worse than "no."
Far safer is the old, "Hey! My friend fancies you." He's not being rejected, so no risk.
Same. We're not mind readers, and it's very easy to villify a big guy. Our height is rarely an advantage in the dating scene. There could be any number of reasons a female looks in our direction. Maybe our flies open, maybe they're zoning out, maybe we remind them of someone, maybe they're afraid of that someone, maybe they're waiting for us to move so they can see what's behind us, the what ifs are endless. Some men don't gamble, and 100 to 1 odd we get shot down or humiliated aren't great odds to begin with. Guys with no dignity aren't attractive anyway.
Understood that the risk of harm due to misreading signals is real on both sides. Just because your gender is bigger and stronger most times doesn't make you bulletproof. Plain talk dissolves the mystery.
Pray tell, please describe unfortunate looks? Either that means youre so good looking that you're defined as female catnip, or the other scenario - a face made for radio, as my mother in law used to say.
@delightschwartz2155 plain talk must be reciprocal, and idk where you took away from what either of us said that being a big person makes us bulletproof. Bulletproof how? In a sense that we're impervious to humiliation? That's the exact opposite of what was said. If anything we're far more suseptible to it BECAUSE of those characteristics. As I said, it's more often a detriment to initiating than an advantage. Me, personally I try to be very nice, smile, and soft spoken just to dispel any possibility of that but I'm also short in my interaction time. I've been told by a good friend who passed away that I seem very preoccupied. That's something I need to work on.
Girl1: why didn't he take the hint and approach me?
Girl 2: did you try to give him a hint?
Girl1: of course, I glanced at the window next to him while talking on my phone.
Girl 2: Wow, nothing could br more blatant than that. You did all you could. He's either blind or gay.
@@treydixon5399 Just Open your heart and it’s gonna be alright
@@treydixon5399 Just Open your heart and it’s gonna be alright
@@treydixon5399 Just Open your heart and it’s gonna be alright
her fly was open and the guy wondered why its open.
Women ☕️
30 years of being told "Ew" when approaching women we thought were flirting with us.
The amount of women who consistently flirted and even went on multiple dates, asked me out, kissed me unprovoked, sent unsolicited noods, or even told me they were in love and wanted to be together forever, who absolutely had no romantic interest or true desire to be with me is far too high to ever believe that a woman was interested by some eye contact.
They aren't even interested when they are interested
I've asked a lot of women out who have looked into my eyes and smiled at me. Only 2 have said yes. The rest of them said no. How is it a hint that they are interested in us? It's apparently not a hint 90% of the time. I don't fall for that b.s. game anymore. Ask me out if you are interested. I can have a quick yank at home and continue with my stress-free life.
@@johnjacob1412
Exactly.
Pron and legal pros are the way to go. No drama, no stress.
adjoining example: I recently accepted a position as an A.I. specialist, at a woman owned and woman operated corporation. After the fourth week of employment, I was let go for some dumb reason. Two-weeks later, my former female boss hired a woman to replace me. My attorney said: "thanks, my work doesn't get any easier than crucifying a chauvinist, be it a woman or a man." So, how much money do you want me request?
One woman’s hint is another woman’s just being nice. Some women complain that men are thinking they’re flirting when they’re just being nice, with smiling just being nice.
Yep. This.
They want to keep plausible deniability in case they don't like you if you do approach, then they can call you a creep and play it off like they weren't interested so they don't suffer any embarrassment.
And it's true, to be fair. I could easily mistake an attractive and friendly woman to be flirting with me. But we guys didn't set it up this way. We don't decide the precedent for female flirting, or it'd be a lot different.
The answer to being nice is to respond nicely, the answer to a misplaced flirt is also being nice, the answer to a missed flirt is also being nice, and then flirting. The answer is always be very nice, to everyone, and always flirt with everyone.
@@Nicholas-ze5vv A huge part of the problem is we are just like women. We assume the one we find cute is flirting with us, and the one we don't like isn't there. If you flirt with the cute and the not so cute, it never has to go beyond mutual fun, but can also develop easily.
@@user-sm3ii5dk1uthe problem is feminism is anti women.
1- Maybe we just don't like you. 2- You underestimate how many women give out these "hints" without actually liking us.
2 - VASTLY underestimate how many times it's just friendly smiling and not a hint.
FIFY
@@angrydragon4574 Usually not even actual friendly smiling, just a mask that may or may not appear as such.
3- we know how y’all change your mind depending on which way the wind blows and a hint like that sure doesn’t make you look like you have your mind made up
3 - 'Hits' look pretty much exactly like dirty looks
4 - Many UK women give multiple men "hints"
A guy said this one time and it makes sense 110%;
"If you're a full-grown adult or mentally mature woman, then use your mouth to communicate with words. If you can talk about how he didn't pick up on those hints "after the fact", then you definitely could've talked to him "in the moment." You're a human being, not some animal."
💯 🎯
🎯 on!
Omg this. I'm just spamming this in comments of these types of harpies on social media. Maybe if it proliferates enough women will finally realize they aren't the great communicators they claim to be.
??? But we are animals
This 👆🏽
What's even more amazing is that when you finally get them to talk, they will never shut up again.
Those are the women that just aren’t worth it because she’s also the same kind of modern “woman” that will put a man on blast, on the internet, as a “creep” if she doesn’t find the guy attractive.
Most women find me attractive. I'll have conversations with them about other men being "creeps" and not understanding that their smile is just a smile and not an invitation for the guy to hit on them. The women think I get it. Oh, I get it alright. Women are nutz.
Smile for Chad = come talk to me
Smile to Nick = stay away just a friendly smile
I just noticed after writing the above I used FOR Chad & TO Nick. You gotta be a psychic boys, know if it's FOR you or TO you. Rev up your psychic abilities.
I'm 43 & still fit. Stay fit. You'll hit your peak at 35-45. Just talked to a hot 23 year old co-worker the other day about how she needs to marry her long term boyfriend as she's peaked at 23 and it's all downhill from here. Told her men peak much later like "The Rock". Told her to look up The Rock at 20, 30 and 50 and how the 50 year old version she'd want the most. She said, "oh, I know, I'd throw myself at The Rock right now".
And before you say I have an HR visit on the horizon. A) Women find me attractive. B) I've built rapport with these women C) I've dealt with enough women to know the HR narcs from the cool women D) I work in a factory, the stuff women say in there is 1000% over the line all the time.
Yeah, if you think she is flirting and she finds you unattractive, she will get you arrested or embarrassed you. I agree, it's nit worth the effort. She has to say it out clearly, that gives.men confidence knowing that he is safe.
They make shr up in their heads and will try to destroy you.
@ronmexico8383 I'm 41. I just got back into shape after a decade, being unnoticed for most of my life being average.
My friends scold me because all I give any look or attention is a smile and a hello and go on with what I was doing. I have given up and changed my lifestyle for a longer life. I never learned social queues and I'm pretty horrible in relationships. Not worth the hassle anymore.
@@KeldiurIf a man hits his late 20s or early 30s without having had lots of women in his earlier years, many times he's just not going to care anymore.
Sexual harassment, rape, domestic violence, pervert allegations we stay far away. We have been told to leave them alone LOL. Cheaper and less stress being single.
@Fun.Guy.Forager Agreed! I chose to stay single 16yrs ago, and since then I've got a house, 2 nice cars, a retirement in place, savings, and spending $$, a great F/T job, peace & quiet, emotional well being, and a sense of contentment that would've been impossible if I had wasted those precious yrs trying to find the right woman.
@@lobsterbisque7567all these things are worthless, 0 hoes 😭
@@lobsterbisque7567that's great, I'm glad you've made a comfortable life for yourself, I hope you have many excellent years ahead. I do feel like it's worth acknowledging that none of these things are necessarily impossible with a partner. You can live your life however you want, but saying it would be impossible if you were in a relationship is kind of like me saying "I've built myself a great life, with a fulfilling career, and plenty of money in the bank, it would all be impossible if I had played sport."
Maybe if I had neglected all other parts of my life to solely focus on sport, or maybe if you did the same with a relationship, but they could easily have very little influence on these other parts of our lives, or even have had a positive influence 🤷♂️
You could have met a horrible person that ruined your life. I could have gotten an injury that ruined mine. But not much in life is purely negative.
You got that right, I was married for 7 years, been divorced for 37 years now, happiest years of my life. And I get plenty attention on the side without marriage.
Even 40 years ago I was very cautious with the Women.
Even then they were an emotional unstable group.
Now ??? Hell no. At my age they look for the retirement backup plan and if you are a young man they are looking for a “Starter Husband “.
Think about the statistics of home ownership.
More single women own their own than men..
We know that the home was awarded to the ladies in a divorce settlement..
I remember working on a ship in the mid-2000's. A woman on board was really bucking for a lawsuit, and she focused on me. She'd complain about my language, who doesn't say shit when they get overly frustrated, but f-bombs constantly flowed from her mouth. She'd complain about me looking at her, when she's standing in a spot I have to pay attention to while running heavy machinery. Her complaints got to the point where none of the officers paid her any mind, not even the captain. Last complaint I heard from her she actually said it to the 3rd mate in front me while I was running a winch to pull in mooring lines. She looked at the mate and said "Flanyl's really messing with me." The mate replied "What? Is he ignoring you too hard?"
Why didn't any of those man stand up and bat for you?
Why didn't you confront them, and demand they put her in her place?
Are you a beta male?
You don't have to suffer the abuse.
Speak out, and speak up.
Women want men to tell them what to do.
Notice how she targeted you, the quite one???
Or when the clock and shared office key rack are right above her head and you need to check time and availability. Guys seem more inclined to look around for alternative explanations.
@@jamesespinosa690 Apparently you didn't read this. We didn't put up with her shit. She was playing a stupid game, and was pissy we didn't respond. You sound like the same kind of person. Someone to respond to once, then wait for you to go away.
@@jamesespinosa690 Most company HRs will side with the woman, especially in male-dominated areas. That might be changing now as people are starting to get sick of the BS, but before the ThemToo debacle? It was quite literally believe all women.
You deal with them until you hit shore and ask the captain when he's firing her.
@@TheInsomniaddict So you're answer is "we didn't bother to fight, because the fight would have been hard".
Fuuuuuuuuck off.
I love how she gets it. We don't want the repercussions of getting it wrong, we understand words better and sometimes, we just aren't interested.
"hints" vs "No means no!" Her hint today is paper trail for putting men in trouble tomorrow.
Today, I was going through Home Depot. While I was l walking down the length of the store, this woman, who was about 30 ft. away from me, smiled and waved at me. I found this strange and looked around. There was no one within 50 ft of me. I looked back at her and she immediately said she was waving at her husband at the other end of the store. Now wouldn't I have been a creep if I took her smile and wave at me as a signal? Any one who knows what a Home Depot is knows how long and wide those stores are.
Some women will say "No" when they mean "Yes" because they're 'playing hard to get' then don't understand when men take their "No" as a "No" and leave them alone.
Nicely put!
@@Guide2RS3I had a woman ask me to fulfill her r*pe fantasy as I was walking her home after a party (down a secluded country lane)…the way she said it was;
“If you wanted me right now, you could take me, but I don’t want you to, so don’t do it, but don’t listen to what I say…no doesn’t always mean no.”
I ran back to that party so fast, the 10 minutes that I’d spent alone with her was already far too much of a risk….I told the people at the party what had happened and they were like “yeah, she does it all the time, the poor girl gets ‘r*ped’ about once a month 🤨….”
and 20 or 30 years behind bars because of her "hints"
Considering the FACT that guys are getting fired,arrested, charged, and imprisoned for “getting it wrong” nowadays, WHAT DO THEY EXPECT‼️I’ve personally known guys that were fired,arrested,charged,convicted, and even imprisoned just because of “morning after regent” turned into “he must’ve r#ped me” even though she aggressively pursued and even propositioned them. I’ve even known guys that girls have lied about their age,whether or not they’re married, etc. and when they’re parents or husbands found out, instead of coming clean about their “activities”, they screamed “r#pe”‼️After seeing this 💩 on MULTIPLE occasions, I stopped even trying to meet someone while at work,was even believed to be gay,and I flat out refuse to go clubbing when asked‼️I’d rather be home alone than being locked up just because a woman “changed her mind”‼️🤬🤬🤬
That was exactly the original charges against Assange. Even though both accusers actually pursued him and climbed in his bed.
Exactly!
Agree. 🫡
they aren’t though. this is brainwashing in a paragraph.
3fs
Women make this argument about being in the woods with a Bear and all that, but they don't understand that as a man... Talking to women in public is like going fishing for Bears. Yeah it looks cute and cuddly and may even smile, but if I'm wrong about this interaction I'll be eaten alive.
With the bear-fishing I'm at least allowed to die fighting back if they attack.
I really respect this lady.... Thank you for understanding us 🙏
It's called the "Me too" movement. That's what stopped guys from taking "hints". They didn't want to go to jail on the off-chance they misinterpreted the "hint".
Is the juice worth the squeeze?
trained to avoid women all that comes out of their mouths is double speak.
@@cheeseburger12 It's not worth the squeeze. Possibly going to jail or losing your job for some very used up roast beef is never worth it. It's like 20+ dudes took a bite out of the roast beef and left it on the ground. It was so bad, nobody wanted to finish it. Why the heck would you want to even pick it up?
Or if the woman decided to change her mind about the consent she has given after the action...
here’s a hint…. zip up your fly,lady😂
she is giving men a hint??
The barn is open for business
Not a lady, I'm of a mind that fly was deliberate
Just trying to give her audience a whiff'o tuna.
Now can’t stop making fly contact😂
We do pick up on hints, but the consequences of being wrong include jailtime, reputation destruction and becoming forever unemployable. So anything less than a neon sign is insufficient for those who aren't reckless.
The consequences of getting it right, child support, family court, losing your house
Even neon wouldn't be enough. The minimum is contract.
Feminism, and the legal system have undermined the nuclear family, which was the backbone of our society.
Women have become toxic, with insane expectations, and no accountability.
With the current statistics on divorce a man has to be crazy to get married, or live with a woman.
@@Greylobster Alimony, pension, any business or investments you have.
Man do women have it good.
@@GreylobsterI recommend, idk, not getting married. worth a shot.
1. "Just because i smile at you, doesnt mean you can just talk to me?"
2. "Just because i looked at you doesn't mean you can just talk to me."
3. "You saw me smile, so you wanted to talk to me? Ewww, stalker alert!"
4. "I didn't come here to meet men."
5. "Why do men just walk up to us and just start talking? We're not here for them to gawk at."
Lady's, you've made it clear you dont want to be approached. If you see a guy you like, dont use hints and hand signals..... be a big girl and use your words.
It's come to the point where it's women who need to make the first move.
We men have been told "we're creeps" "we're not tall enough" and etc.
This is the new reality, ladies....the ball is in your court
Yep. Either be real, or go away!
Did you notice her zipper was down?
Was it a hint @@fireboltaz
@@fireboltaz
Lol women have noticed my zipper being done
And she should pay foe the date as well
"use words" is the simplest, smartest, most accurate piece of advice i may have ever heard.
They want to revert back to a non verbal ungabunga society in terms of signals. We evolved beyond that long time ago: where no means no or yes or maybe or sometimes or not the right time but still yes.
False accusations, ruined reputations, court fees and prison time happened.
Are you just completely oblivious or do you lack accountability?
This is a genuine question, not rhetorical.
Counter question: can it not be both?
@andorfedra far, far more often than not, women want to be left alone. If a woman is staring my way, she wants me to go away or she was eye f@cking the guy behind me.
Also if she changes her mind or I was wrong, now I'm the harasser
Why are you asking someone who reacted to the tiktok?
Women's lack of accountability is astounding.
The answer is simply yes.
The last point is GOLDEN! Every guy isn’t checking for you.
Little middle school girls use hints, grown women speak. When they tell me they were sending signals I tell them you’re not a traffic light. The reason a lot of them don’t approach is they can’t handle getting rejected, but have no problem rejecting men.
Middle school girls use notes or send a friend to ask if you like her, then words are exchanged if it is a yes. This type of woman is *less* mature and direct than that.
@@nvfury13where I’m from they used signals. Only if that didn’t work they would get their friends involved.
"When they tell me they were sending signals I tell them you’re not a traffic light." Ahhahhaha Yeahhhhh
Communication is the key to success
Women crave desire and they are allergic to rejection. You can help them avoid both by simply returning the flirt in a happy, fun, and safe way. Who knows, the random may end up being the bank manager approving your business loan, the cop pulling you over, the IRS agent sent to check your intestines for hidden assets. Flirt always and well and leave a wake of happy, warm hearts behind you and half your life will be well lived before you even get there.
What happened? "Me Too". Or " I don't need no man". Or "Leave us alone". Or "Toxic Masculinity".
This is such a good way to put the reality in contrast with... well... reality.
The flip-flopping. I need to steal that
"bear" with us (or more accurately instead of us), it only is getting worse.
@@lonepigeon68im starting to understand how the mgtow movement or passport bros became such a big thing. Dating just isn't worth it anymore.
All of that still exists
@@normanlawton8814 That is my point.
One, her fly is open.
Two, women have told men that they can be strong, independent women who don't need a man, and then women have gotten mad at men for any hint of chivalrous behaviour.
Three, a man misunderstanding "hints" can get them blasted on the internet, called a creep, or even getting serious charges levied against him... or having his life ruined in other ways.
It's just not usually worth the risk.
Feminists and lying women have ruined dating for the rest of us.
Maybe the fly open is another one of her "hints" or "signals" ?
@@wymanscorneroftheworld8777 We all saw the open fly… But no man pointed it out for the exact same reasons you just gave.
Women do a lot of mass flirting, flirting with every guy around them and then when a guy they don’t find attractive pops up and trying to talk to them they get the ewe get away treatment and every guy that sees that and now knows that your not approachable. So the key is what she wants not what she’s sending out in mass to everything with a dick.
the girl in the video is just mad that Chad ignored her and left the room when she looked at him. i guarantee you she sees regular dudes all the time and does not care if they pick up her "hints"
Wrong. As I am a MAN and do not get hints.. I also totally did not notice the open fly.. gonna have to rewatch now 😆
The real question is: Why does she not understand that she needs to be clear?
They ask
"Why do men not understand hints?"
But never think to ask
"Why can't I just be direct?"
Quit playing games.
Saw this on a tee shirt. "Hard of hearing and near sighted. Please flirt aggressively ".😂
There was a study done on hetero attraction back in... 2010? (I think... I'm having trouble finding the study to cite it, so take what follows with a grain of salt).
In this study, the researchers encountered something usually they dread...the "Law of Unintended Consequences".
This is a research phenomenon that basically shows the researchers have brought an incredible amount of confirmation bias to the study and the results totally contradicted what they expected OR, even worse, indicated something they NEVER expected.
Okay. Study on attraction. Women were shown to be almost 10 times more afraid of rejection than men. There were numerous reasons cited but the main one was because of their unhealthy relationship with a male role model while growing up. Sound familiar?
The one quality that women in the study cited as the main reason for fear of rejection was the male role model's PERCEIVED lack of leadership. It didn't matter whether or not he actually WAS a poor leader in the home, the young girl had only to PERCEIVE it as such to affect her the rest of her life.
This type of "perception" usually occurred, but not always, when the girl child started attending school. And here's the "unintended consequence" portion. The incidence of the attributed "unhealthy relationship with a male role model" increased almost exponentially as the girl child progressed from 1st to 12th grade.
I'm not a statistician, nor do I have a PhD in Sociology or Psychology. But I don't need them to understand what the study blatantly shows. To me, our school system is what is the problem. Our school system is usurping the role that young girls (and boys for that matter) are supposed to see in our parents, specifically our "Dads".
Our school system isn't teaching children HOW to think critically (as with a classical education), it isn't even teaching them HOW to LEARN (so that they can teach themselves). Our school system is teaching young people to be DRONES and to accept what the government says WITH NO CRITICAL THOUGHT.... TO TRUST THE GOVERNMENT IMPLICITLY.
This is very dangerous, and, we are seeing fruits of that type of labor by the US Dept. of Education even as we sit at our computer chairs in front of our screens or on our mobile devices tapping away..... OBLIVIOUS to it.
This system of "education" was promulgated back in the early 1900s in eastern and central Europe. It's called the "Prussian Model". There was one particular European country who underwent a horrible depression (much worse than here in the USA back in the 1930s) and the Prussian Model was adopted after a certain national socialist and future tyrant took over this government as supreme chancellor. And then came the blame game on a certain ethnicity within that nation that blamed them for all the ills and faults of this country. Then came the property seizures, the bank seizures...then the concentration camps....and then the gas chambers.
I won't say the name of this man whom the entire Western world (with a few isolated exceptions) repudiates with hatred and reviles his philosophy.
People say history is irrelevant, that we should move on from the past and invalidate it's lessons. I can see why someone would want us to do that. It is so that we forget the METHODS of said tyrants and be very susceptible to those methods... even as I type these words...
Food for thought.
Just the other day a friend of mine was complaining that her friend was giving me hints and I didn't make a move. I replied that if I wanted to play games I would pull out my phone.
Men do not communicate by hints ladies ! And as other men have stated there are to many legal percussion if we get something wrong with the opposite sex !
Hints are also passive aggressive
Monday complains about equality. Tuesday complains that men don’t make the first move every time.
Wimmins logic. Make it make sense. 😵💫🥴
Saturday night: where are all the men?
Well, they're certainly not with the women spending all week long trash talking them, posting "creeps" on tiktok and high fiving other girl bosses over latest guy having his life ruined. 😂
Being delusional and girl power will never overcome nature's law that ya can't reap tomatoes if ya sowed potatoes.
@bobbleheadbob, Wednesday, accuses the door man of sexual harassment FOR OPENING THE DOOR & SMILING😂
@@bonusbaby801no, Wednesday just has Uncle Festus help her set the hospital on fire for a drama club project XD
Ya’ll are dramatic, so you dont like flirting then.
I completely agree. We do notice hints, at least I do. But if you are wrong you are often treated with disgust, annoyance, mocking and anger.
If every time you thought a guy liked you and you asked him out and were wrong you got slapped in the face in front of everyone how often would you ask men out?
That is how it feels to be rejected by many women.
What happened to men not understanding hints: being called toxic creeps enough times after responding to said hints and being accused of being a sexual predator.
Your hints aren't worth the risk, now you have to use your words.
And complete the three page consent form in triplicate.
I've had women smile and stare at men when I was an adult in my late teens. I got rejected by a woman who told me she wasn't interested after dropping a "hint" like that.
Ladies, your "hints" suck and they could land a man in jail for sexual harassment. Just use your mouth and say, "I think you're cute, can we go out?" The overwhelming majority of you seem to have a hard time with being straightfoward about what you want and men aren't going to go out of their way to suffer extremely negative and unwanted attention as men have everything to lose if they're wrong.
I do recall in the earlier years of university one girl from my class giving me massive hints, smiling, seeming so glad to see me etc and one day she even talked to me very nicely.
I thought for a moment “wow…she probably likes me”
The next day, I saw her walking holding hands with her boyfriend and upon seeing me, she gave me those very same smiles and was waving at me.
Uggh…The Games and I felt a bit nauseous and cringe.
Thank Goodness I didn’t act on that “hint” otherwise there would have been some embarrassment on my part, even accusations of harassment and her boyfriend and his mates would have duffed the crap out of me.
I eventually left her and her boyfriend in the dust.
They don't know whether or not they want to go out with you. They need to test you first. It's a conundrum. That's why we used to have clear roles, which women destroyed. Why you ask? Because a few generations ago, men failed all their tests.
@@topophilexplain which type of "tests" you are talking about so people cam identify them and act accordingly.
@@josemanuel-mb6xs They test if you behave like a man or show weakness. With reversed gender roles, women per definition take over the leading role, which puts the man into a weaker position. That's why it will never work. Feminism is a fad.
Three points:
1. Let's say you gave him ten seconds of eye contact and smiled. What differentiates that from a woman who is watching him to make sure he doesn't approach, but smiles to not make it look like she's being mean? Women stare at trouble and things they want. Men have heard the stat that the over-estimate a woman's interest in them, and, yeah, some men pay dearly for doing so.
2. It's possible he got your hint, but isn't rewarding communication skills like that. If you aren't willing to put in enough effort to walk up and say hi if you're interested, then what indication does he have you'll put in effort on dates? Or the relationship? Or the marriage? Or with kids? We can and do think that far ahead sometimes!
3. Just because you're into him doesn't mean he owes you anything. Ladies, you say it all the time: he's not entitled to your attention. True! And, fairly, you aren't entitled to his. We're supposed to make a good impression, right? So can you. We'll probably be nicer if you try than the other way around, too.
1st point for me personally, that ring she's wearing says stay away.
I just want to say thank you for actually breaking down the three pertinent ideas to consider... You are absolutely correct!!! 💯
#2
If a woman would stare at me like that, I'd assume several things
1) something about my shirt
2) she might be laughing at me
3) she might just look and smile at lots of people, for any number of reasons, including she's just having a good day
Point 1 A woman could be staring because she is uncomfortable and is keeping an eye on me.
It is not a smart tactic because it attracts trouble. Most women will avoid eye contact or look away to avoid trouble.
Unless a woman proves otherwise, I'm going to assume she wants to be left alone.
10 seconds of eye contact and a smile will make me think you want to kill me ngl
1. Eye contact isn't flirting. It's expected in western culture.
2. Being nice isn't flirting. It's just nice, and people, myself included, have been burned for reading into it too deeply.
3. The book of Proverbs says that it's better to keep your mouth shut, and be suspected a fool, than to open it, and make it known.
Proverbs 21:19
19 It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman.
There's another issue with eye contact. Let's say I'm at a convention. I see a woman from 50 feet away. Our eyes meet. She gazes at me for an unusually long time.
a) I can't read her expression from 50 feet away.
b) From 50 feet away, it's hard to be sure that she's even looking at me. There's other stuff going on. Maybe she's looking at something going on near me. Perhaps she's looking at the guy a short distance to my left/right.
c) She's standing there with a group of people who are clearly friends of hers, and some of them are men. Makes things ambiguous, doesn't it?
@@theselector2310
Wow. I was following the Bible and didn't even know it.
I don't trust so-called signals
@@alanruhland2489 Exactly! definitely not worth the risk!
Men are not rewarded by 'getting the hint', but at the same time the risk of being accused of sexual harassment is too high to be worth the effort.
@@1xm_mx1 exactly
So like 10 or 15 years ago, there was a picture posted of a sign on a subway in New York City that said a man and a woman were drunk and they had sex. The woman couldn’t consent because she was drunk and that the man had committed assault. That’s when men stopped, taking hints and decided that they were only going to respond to verbal communication. Because the world decided that women could do whatever they wanted regardless of the situation and that they would always be the victims and that men had to bear all responsibilities, even if they were capable of making that decision.
I know the exact sign you’re talking about. It also said he was drunk TOO. Yet it was still his fault. Such a joke. Remember kids, consent only works for women to use against men, not the other way around in society.🤦♂️
Everything is always the man’s fault, even her choices when he’s not there
“Well you should have been there! You know that this strong, confident, independent woman can’t think for herself!”
He cheats: He’s a pig
She cheats: He wasn’t giving her enough attention…and anyway…what even is cheating…it wasn’t serious….he’s just being insecure….blah blah blah.
Remember women are overgrown children who can change their minds at a seconds notice.
@@Nick-xo7bl ehh.. I see people calling cheating women bıtcħes and other vulgar names all the time.
She nailed it. Not only have we gotten it wrong once out of 100 times. It is only RIGHT once out of 100 times. The next time we think eye contact and a smile is an invitation for something she may very well say “I was just smiling at a joke I heard…what are you doing?!?!”
For every woman who says "take the hint", there's 20 more saying they were creeped out or offended by you taking the basic kindness for an insinuation of any romantic interest. It's just safer and less awkward. I've been in that situation plenty of times. Apparently a lot of women were interested in me over the years but I need clear and effective communication or it flies right by. The most frustrating was when I had a girl over my place once to watch movies and chill. I wanted to be a gentleman so I made no advances just smoked and talked. The next day she texted a mutual friend that she was annoyed I didn't try anything. I'd rather not get sent to jail or be tried in the court of public opinion off an assumption.
Women literally think that the only reason men ask them over is for sex.
You need to draft a consent letter outlining a checklist specifically defining sexual behaviors she is willing to perform.
Coming from a straight man. You hit the nail on the head. Sometimes guys are just happy being alive and a woman could be the end of our happiness.
There's another dynamic going on in the middle of all this: what is the girl hinting at? If the guy's seeking a wife to live with "util death do us part" and sees a hint that reads as "let's go find a room tonight and never see each other again" or even "I want to hang out at the bar with you but this isn't going anywhere", then she might as well be yelling "Danger! Danger!" ... and that's even if she's also looking for util death do us part (at which point she should blame hookup culture for appropriating a few thousand years worth of established social signaling).
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yes, all men are not interested about all women who seems to like them. Sure some guys are ready for anything which is elastic and moves.
Why do women not just communicate like normal people? Do businesses run on hints? Do home builders operate on hints? Do you get gas in your car based on hints? Stop being difficult and start talking in an honest and rational fashion. Its called Communication !!!
Aha, but if you use actual words, then you may have to take accountability for what you said and you may have to put effort into it. If all you do is communicate in vague hints, you always have the option of pointing at the other person and declare them responsible for misunderstandings.
Which women prattle abt on a day to day basis. It's always communication until it's their turn.
All that social media has drained their intelligence out through their vaginas!
@@Wonzling0815This is it. Emphasis of effort. Women are allergic to effort.
@@iinred1954and taking responsibility.
Straight forward explicit consent to do something... It's not romantic but it will work with 99% men willing to do what you asked for.😅
Oh, it's more than "1 in 50" - *way more!*
The average man's experience in the world of romance is something like this:
(1) Put yourself out there as a teen, only to get rejected because no money.
(2) Put the work in to get a good education, only to be rejected because no social skills.
(3) Put in the work to get social skills, only to be rejected because no "game".
(4) Game: rejected because no confidence.
(5) Get confidence; rejected because "arrogant" / "try-hard".
(6) Get told you need to be "emotionally available", rejected for showing emotions other than anger… because "weak".
(7) Get told you need to provide; get a job and concentrate on work, rejected because "you ignored me!"
(8) Pay attention to your woman, get rejected because "smothering!"
-and this is not even mentioning that women will flirt *HARD* and then if you reciprocate say _"I was never attracted to you!"_
I'm sorry but your "hints" aren't worth *anything* at all, because _even your explicit words mean nothing._
You just summed up the entire reality of the post feminist era relationship dynamic.
Your comment deserves to be pinned. 👍
Damn, that last part about even their explicit words meaning nothing. 🎯
Women are never happy, because it makes hypergamy easier , and if you’re with a woman, you can’t be happy either.
And to think I thought it was just me.
Women also give seconds of eye contact to men they find creepy, they keep an eye on them too. So now we have to figure out what type of eye contact it is. All while...
Women: We want equality; except we don't want to approach, we don't want to make the first move, we don't want to pay on the first date, we don't want to take any risks, we just want to look at you and you do all the work.
Women have NO game! 😂
@@oceanhedonist265 Some do, and those that do are a sight to behold in action.
Sounds like a mannequin
As a man, I can state, without fear of being wrong, that WE ARE NOT ABLE TO READ YOUR MIND!!!!! We understand words, but only if they are direct and truthful. Keep this in mind when dealing with us.
100%
LOL a woman speaking her mind and telling the truth, is like her accepting accountability for when she is wrong... Better off playing the lotto then hold out for that to happen most the time.... Yes there is rare females like Emily here but lets face it... Her guy won the lotto getting to be in a relationship with her...
Bro don't make it too obvious, rule one never speak about our mind reading skills (not in the positive nor in the negative sense). They shouldn't figure it out we can do that.
You forgot to mention fresh baked goods , casseroles, pot pies and sandwiches
I see the hints everyday on my commute on the subway, And yes you're totally right, I don't want to be accused in public with "ewww" "what are you trying to do" get away, you just want to sleep with me"...etc...etc...So i just ignore and go to work.
I had a girl talk to me alone for an hour. Steady eye contact. I tried to end the conversation twice and give her outs but she didn't take them. I eventually walked away. Sent her some of my music, and she got me fired.
And this was after being discarded by my narcissistic ex-wife. So, I'm done. If a girl likes me, if a girl wants me to dedicate my time and resources to her, she can put in the effort. I'm in no hurry to be someone's thankless servant.
You mean, before you don't have her interest in writing and signed, you don't risk wasting your time 😂
Same here xD
dude Wow......that sucks....
You got fired? 😮
I remember a girl I was interested kept asking me if I was hungry and I kept saying no. She finally exclaimed at me “I’m starving! Ask me to lunch!” I’ll never forget that. I learned that day that “Are you hungry?” Was an invitation for me to ask her out. 😂
If she asks you to ask her out, isn't she just asking you out? It's just funny how they have to still frame it in a way where it makes it look like they didn't
How about this? There was a new restaurant opened in the area and I said I may try it someday. She pestered me over a week to go there together, so I said let's go tomorrow at lunch and she accepted. Next day, I asked her shall we go at lunch time and she replied with no, I have lunch with me. Here explain it if it has any sense in it. Oh also, I went alone and another coworker was there so we ate together and went back together, she was furious I went there with someone else.
@@manmoth4 Feminism has conditioned modern women into being incapable of admitting their desire for men.
This is why they play these stupid 'frame games'. They cannot allow their frame to be breached. They aren't strong enough to deal with the possibility that their world view might be totally wrong.
@helpfuljump4260 This sounds really narcissistic. All the pestering to get you to do what she wants, then bringing lunch and telling you no as she thinks that she is putting you in your place/showing you how she is really in charge. You going anyway and another coworker being there causes some major issues with being able to see herself as in charge/control. I wonder if she is lashing out at you because it broke her delusion that she is in control or she still thinks she's in charge and is just enraged you acted differently than she wanted you to.
Does any of that seem to fit how things are from your perspective?
Rather sounds like "Buy me lunch!"...
I can *guarantee* you that 5+ seconds of eye contact and a smile is a "signal" that I've been wrong about countless times. Especially in moments that lead to getting absolutely wrecked with someone in a shrill voice shrieking at me "Just because a woman is nice to you doesn't mean she's flirting"
You really expect someone with that experience to go through that again? Lol
In a Me Too world, you better use your words because us men are not being called creeps.
The phrase is “enthusiastic consent”. Anything short of “enthusiastic consent” can easily become “sexual harassment” or “sexual assault”.
Enthusiastic consent doesn't cut it, all she has to do is change her mind then it becomes he said / she said and the law doesn't doesn't give a shit what he said. Probably going with "here, sign this on camera with my lawyer present"
And you better get that on paper and in digital copy as well, maybe even notarized..
I don’t recall the last time I was enthusiastic about anything.
As a man, I've been burned before, speak to me plainly, I will not pay games.
Getting it wrong is horrible... being called a creep or worse is soul wrenching, especially when you know that you are a good man. Ladies, please just ask. 🙏
Pick up on this hint.....your goddamm fly is down 😂😂😂
I don't play those silly little mind games . Women only want equality when it suits them . If you want to be equal , put in equal the effort and ask men out for a change .
To be fair: I was hit on by a girl once and found it disturbing. Men don't want to be asked out. Reversing the gender roles feels wrong. You'll realize once it happens to you.
@@topophilSpeak for yourself!
When women ask me out my first thought is "what are they trying to set me up for?"
As a student who just went back to college, I've seen plenty of girls who have smiled at me, made eye contact, mostly strangers, but it also takes one complaint of harassment to get me in serous trouble.
This is the ultimate gaff women pull on men. They drop hints or expect them to know what they want...and when they don't, women get pissed at them for not being mind readers. Hey ladies, try actually telling them what's on ur mind...works better.😅
If you pay attention long enough you’ll notice they tend to get mad at and blame men no matter what they do.
So women want you as a man to pick up on hints, but they want a man to not drop hints and be a "man" and step up? Double standard much? Men are also tired of picking up on these so called hints only to be told they are creeps for trying.
Someone should tell her that her fly was down, that would fire her up thinking that's the only reason guys were looking at her.
WoMen ArE BeTtEr CoMmUnIcAtors!
You think women understand what's on their mind? There is a reason they are mad that men can't read their minds....because they sure as shit can't read it themselves.
Me: ‘Go away, thanks’
And ‘Take care’.
Hints require us to assume we know what you want.
When you're dealing with a person that can want a hug from you, yet simultaneously be disgusted with your existence....... Those ain't betting odds.
Use your big-girl words, ladies, use your words. Men are tired of that hinting crap. Attempting to interpret "hints" just leads to us being embarrassed by rejection, called a creep, or accused of harassment. In fact, sadly, a signed note in your own handwriting, with your phone number would be perfect!! 😢
We need a signed and notorized consent form to have a conversation
The latest dating research showed 80% of women expect/demand men to make the first move.
I've found that pretty hilarious with how much young women also scream about feminism/equal rights.
Yeah, I had several cases where I got similar what the woman said and did approach and still get rejected. So, uhh, no "hint" seems universal.
Also....so what if they send "hints"? You smiled at me. YAY celebration! Send all the hints you want, they could mean ANYTHING.
"Men dont understand hints" instead of "I suck at showing my intentions"
Women always dodging responsibility for their shortcomings and failures and blaming them on men for literally everything in their lives lmao
I hear many women talk about men reading into women's intentions. Using your words trumps all.
The problem is the "hints" given by women to show they are interested are also given by women who aren't interested. This leads to men getting burned a few times. Then they just stop bothering.
As my Dad tried to say "dip your toes in the water". I said no because the punishment for doing so is getting my toes melted by acid. That's the short and simple answer.
Women from overseas just walk over and talk to you. I was in a church service, and I caught a woman looking my way. 10 seconds after it ended. She ran over and started a conversation. I'm not saying women have to do this. But that was amazing.
Women from overseas are the same, they just grew up in a culture that shamed them for their Hypergamous behaviors. As soon as you bring them back here they will get tainted by Feminism and be the same. Nearly all female mammals are Hypergamous by nature and damn sure all female primates are and human women are female primates. Black, white, yellow or pokadotted, left, right or sideways, Western or not Western all women are the same
I completely agree. If more women would just walk up, introduce themselves, and state their intentions rather plainly. I can almost guarantee they would be successful every time. Men are not always great with mind games.
@EdibleOutdoors I have a friend. Career Military retired. Met a woman in Germany in his late 30s. Married her at 41. They have two kids. Lives in Germany. But he has lived in the US, too. He couldn't be happier. I know a guy from Europe who married an American woman. All he talks about is how nasty American women are. Women act like it's some badge of honor to act nasty, then complain when it goes sideways. It's not that hard.
@@MikeGaul-ps9ux that's because he lives in Germany with her and understands leaving her their will be worse than being married here. LMFAO. German men or men married in the German system are mostly not leaving their wives because the allimony and sh*t is worse than the states. Never ever marry a foreign woman outside the US. LMFAO
Got called into HR once. Sits down, lady says to me "Do you know why we called you here?" No. Turned out some woman took my politeness to her as a "sign" got a bit bent out of shape when someone else corrected her and her manager called HR "to raise a concern". Whatever happened to us all being grown-ups and just talking properly? Or asking someone else "d'ya think he/she/they are into me" first?
And HR doesnt see it as acceptable to treat the workplace as a dating app. Believe me.
HR call in's is just the way a female tells you your not hot.
Oh yeah. Even nonsense comments or jokes aren't fun between coworkers anymore. Everyone is looking for an excuse to run to HR.
@@HiJoel102 we're not even allowed to refer to the colour of bin bags and equipment due to diversity rules.
@@Fl4ppers😅
@Fl4ppers ...please elaborate I'm so sickened but so curious.
As a woman never approach a man first that could end up in disaster!!! And if man doesn't get the hint or approach you, as a female the only thing you can do is walk away, find someone who shows interest in you and is ready to engage with you romantically. Never force any kind of relationship on a man, don't try to have purposefully his baby, to get pregnant from him so you can force a marriage! Never do that, it ends up in disaster. Always be honest sincere, and open with man beforehand so he can understand what are your exact expectations from him!😊
Men have been told for 60 years that if women don't give us a clear and enthusiastic "Yes", then it's a no, and if we don't accept that we're creepy predators. Now, when they drop subtle hints, instead of saying clearly and enthusiastically "Yes", we treat it like a no. How do women now get this?
We’re also told- “Maybe she’s being polite. Maybe she’s a friendly-outgoing person.”
How about a compliment on my looks?
How about slow-blink eyes & a smirk?
How about lingering eyes as you walk away?
How about flirty vocal tones/influxes
How about enthusiasm when you see me?
As a man, you gotta give me something that STANDS OUT or I’m NOT gonna bite the bait.
Cause even when they are interested, they don't want to show their interest cause 1) it makes them vulnerable and 2) if you screw up in the approach, they can still claim victim and blast you with her friends or on Tick Tok.
Or, how about, using your verbal communication skills (or sign language) and yano making it known by using the words "hey I'm interested in you", yano like we're expected to do
Nah even that's too vague. Complimenting my looks? She's just giving a compliment.
Slow-blink eyes and a smirk? She's just tired and thinking of something funny.
Lingering eyes as I walk away? She's just thinking of additional questions she might ask before I get out of view.
Flirty tones/influxes? That's just her natural voice. Or maybe she's happy about something else. I'm just there.
Enthusiasm when she sees me? She's just happy to see a familiar face. Nothing more.
As a man, none of those things are clear enough for me.
Some men don't want to get it wrong and then be labeled a creep and predator 😩
Bad news is in some cases, men don't need to do anything to be labeled as a creep or predator.... Just don't shave for like a week or two
@@sandasturner9529it’s why if I’m not sure if the women’s bathroom is empty and I have to clean it I’ll ask a female coworker to go in and check for anyone inside. And yes I have knocked on the door and announced that I was there just to get no response from the women inside
Emotionally mature adults (ie, the type of person you need as a partner) don't deal in "hints".
Especially as we're realizing just how many folks are neurodivergent.
Speak plainly and directly, or forever hold your peace.
To quote millions of parents of toddlers:
"USE YOUR WORDS."
I discovered long ago that I was wrong 100% of the time. Haven’t paid any attention since. Never in my 50+ years on this planet has a woman approached me. If one did I’d consider her to be so incredibly desperate that I’m a last resort. Life has shown me anytime a woman shows interest, she’s desperate and I’m only an option to get her self esteem and such up until better options come around.
Exactly. I was approached a couple of times in my teens and I always thought it incredibly suspicious because that wasn’t normal for me, so it seemed more likely this person was trying to get something from me and unlikely that this was actual interest in me. But who knows.
I've been that guy.
I was working fast food when a coworkers ex came up to order. I just punched it in and fixed the display cup she had knocked towards me for some reason.
As soon as I hung her ticket the coworker she dated walked up to me. "You know I won't be offended if you take her out right?" He asked
"Wtf are you talking about?" I replied.
"She was just flirting with you SO hard! How did you not notice?"
"I'm at work. I don't make a habit of flirting with customers. If she really wants my number she can ask for it, but honestly I already know from you talking about her-even when you were happy-she's not my type. We share like zero interests."
I was enjoying your post until I read the part about not having shared interests. I've never heard anybody of the male variety not be interested in a woman because they don't have shared interests. It's because she didn't look good to you. Let's just agree on that and call it a day. If she looked beautiful to you, or quite good to you, there would be no talk by you of "interests."
@greggsloate4677 wow so do you only date women for the fact that you find them attractive? I don't date women if I don't have any shared interests what the f*** are we supposed to do? Just f*** all the time? It doesn't matter if I find the hottest woman on the planet if we can't enjoy the time we spend with each other without because we aren't into the same kind of stuff the relationship is going to be stale and boring. Just go buy an expensive blow up doll if all you want to do is have something to f***.
@@greggsloate4677not true. As a friend of mine once said "you can't spend all of your time in bed, and you can't spend all of your time in bed having sex" unless you're just looking for a one night stand, you have to have things in common.
@kimbraun0823 Kim, you're a woman, and you clearly don't understand men. Nobody was talking about sex. I was talking about attraction. And I've never heard of a man unwilling to take a girl's phone number or go on a first date with her whom he found physically attractive.
Most men don't have dozens of opportunities a week or per month as attractive women do. In this case, he claims to know her interests, but only second-hand through someone else who was dating her, which is close to useless information.
He simply found her unattractive. If you don't want to take my word for it, fine. But nobody was talking about sex. I was talking about attraction.
In fact, as many ways as women have to sabotage their own relationships, I've never heard of a woman who was attracted to a man who still didn't want to go out with him once because she heard, 2nd-hand, of his objectionable interests.
@@kimbraun0823 Anyone who's lived a while wants a partner who can do MOST of life and MOST of life's activities in a mutually interested way. It gives so much meaning and quality to everything one could do, if someone you loves and respects you enjoys the same activity.
40, maybe even 30, years ago... Yes, I'd would have taken the hint and took a shot.
Today, not a chance. Walk over, say hello, and we can see where it goes. I'm not risking being labeled a creep, or worse, being accused of harassing you because I misinterpreted your eye contact and smile.
Y'all told us to leave you alone, and we listened.
One woman's "obvious hint" is another woman's "just being nice."
Flirting with strangers is a dangerous game many if not most men aren't willing to play anymore.
1. Maybe he's taken?
2. Maybe he's gay?... Or, and this may be a stretch coz she's a "godess" who should never be denied...
3. Maybe he didn't want YOU?!!!
Main character syndrome is really an epidemic rn.
Isn't main character syndrome just being egotistical?
4. Maybe she wishes she was some sort of victim.
@@danielallan8061
No, it goes far beyond just being egotistical. It’s thinking literally everything revolves around you, good and bad, not just thinking you’re more awesome than you actually are.
Two words... Me Too!
When even the slightest misunderstanding can lead to social media cancellation, unending harassment, and potential legal entanglements, it just isn't worth it for a moment's pleasure.
To put it in the words of the character Stoney Brown in the movie Encino Man, "is the juice worth the squeeze?"
Eye contact these days could lead to a stalking and harassment charge.
Now that just sounds ridiculously stupid.WTF?
@@PatchesOHoulihan-hi2tb Feminists and Misandry killed chivalry.
@@joqerjoe3716 Yeah it did. But making eye contact with some skank won't lead to a harrassment charge. That's just stupid!😆
military...will charge u....just saying
Some little pansy keeps reporting my comments. Maybe they're just mad because I'm calling out their bull 💩.
I am a widower and I was at my 50th high school reunion. I was well dressed and well groomed. A classmate had brought his beautiful young wife and she had quickly topped her tank at the cash bar. He introduced her to me and she immediately hugged me in a fairly inappropriate manner, while she gushed, "Ooooh! You're soooo Handsome!" I thought - 'Oh, you are sooo tanked!' while her husband was giving me the stink eye!
Under other circumstances I would definitely interpret this as a clear invitation.