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  • Опубликовано: 3 янв 2025

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  • @muslimsahabah
    @muslimsahabah Год назад +62

    When I was a girl, I thought that getting married would be a beautiful journey..
    After marriage, there were so many obstacles to climb. But Alhamdulillah, let's pass all the tests for the sake of Jannah that Allah promised.

  • @katerinageorge
    @katerinageorge 6 месяцев назад +22

    I am a Christian, and I love this message. Islam teaches us peace from Allah/God, and I love the message from Allah, who is, as the Qur'an says, the most merciful, the greatest, and the most gracious. The Qur'an and this message about how to be successful in marriage bring me closer to God than ever before. Thank you, Brother Mufti, for your message. It is much appreciated! 🙏

    • @katerinageorge
      @katerinageorge 3 месяца назад +6

      @GUUL-t2m I have already converted to Islam! I love everything about Islam and being a Muslim.
      Mashallah!

    • @katerinageorge
      @katerinageorge 3 месяца назад +3

      @GUUL-t2m I have been truly blessed by Allah right after my conversion, and I am soon to marry him. 🙏 I am the only muslim covert in my family, and Allah already has blessed me with an amazing Muslim man. I can't wait to unite with him in Nikkah! Thank you so much, and may blessings of Allah be poured unto your supportive and kind words. Mashallah!!

    • @ChristopherPrado-n3d
      @ChristopherPrado-n3d 3 месяца назад +1

      I am so happy for you sister. I was a catholic christian. Welcome to Islam.

  • @ابراهيمروساريو-ص9و
    @ابراهيمروساريو-ص9و 2 года назад +131

    Maa sha Allah.. Everytime i hear mufti i really feel close to Allah. The way he delivers his speech was very smooth and clear! May Allah bless you and your family ya mufti. May Allah grant us all Jannatul Ferdaus, in sha Allah..! Jazakallahu kheir!!!

  • @ismaville
    @ismaville 2 года назад +31

    This message is enough for mankind if at all is consumed. Salaam form uganda🇺🇬

  • @yvanminanga1592
    @yvanminanga1592 Год назад +6

    I am becoming a better muslim because of your lectures Sheikh Mufti Menk Jazakallah khair😊❤

  • @carolinejeiden9491
    @carolinejeiden9491 2 года назад +155

    Seriously Mufti thank u so much. Uve preached me how to talk and reply them. I've been so hard on my children and they can't tell me anything bt they speak to other people. My family too😢. May God forgive me 🙏🙏🇺🇬. Am Christian bt uve changed my life through listening to yo preaching always 🙏. God bless u Mufti 🙏🙏

    • @shcyb1584
      @shcyb1584 2 года назад +8

      Please convert and embrace Islam and become part of the successful ones here and hereafter insha'Allah.

    • @madam321
      @madam321 2 года назад +1

      Sister, know that Islam is the true religion of God, and that prophet Muhammad pbuh has been prophesized in the Bible and also the place of final revelation (Mecca). Please do your research. May Allah guide us all.

    • @madam321
      @madam321 2 года назад +2

      @Mohammed Raheem Allah SWT says, " Certainly, Allah’s only Way is Islam.1 Those who were given the Scripture did not dispute ˹among themselves˺ out of mutual envy until knowledge came to them.2 Whoever denies Allah’s signs, then surely Allah is swift in reckoning." 3:19
      He also says, " And whoever desires other than Islām as religion - never will it be accepted from him, and he, in the Hereafter, will be among the losers." 3:85
      Therefore, it truly affects one's fate which religion they follow and if one follows another religion other that Islam, then no matter how to close to God they become, it will not be accepted from them.

    • @madam321
      @madam321 2 года назад +3

      @Mohammed Raheem brother, do either of the two categories of Jews and Christians accept that Muhammad peace be upon him is a prophet? They certainly don't. If they reject even one of Allah SWTs prophets then their faith is not accepted.
      The Messenger ˹firmly˺ believes in what has been revealed to him from his Lord, and so do the believers. They ˹all˺ believe in Allah, His angels, His Books, and His messengers. ˹They proclaim,˺ “We make no distinction between any of His messengers.” And they say, “We hear and obey. ˹We seek˺ Your forgiveness, our Lord! And to You ˹alone˺ is the final return.” 2:285

    • @Ben-yr9oc
      @Ben-yr9oc 2 года назад +2

      Bless you sister ❤️

  • @DEFFGEB
    @DEFFGEB 2 года назад +6

    Askum Mufti Menk. Im from Malaysia was educated in Britain. I adore and listen to your sermons..Thank u throughout. Alhamdulilah and Syukran

  • @farhatriaz4378
    @farhatriaz4378 2 года назад +44

    This is one of the very simple and beautiful way to talk about a matter of great importance...jazakallah Mufti Menk

  • @hossainasiya1241
    @hossainasiya1241 2 года назад +20

    Almighty grant my Taqwa 🤲
    The more I fear 🐰 the more love 😚 you...
    Allah
    Subhanallah Subhanallah Subhanallah Subhanallah Subhanallah Subhanallah

  • @Afshanoorin-y9s
    @Afshanoorin-y9s 3 месяца назад +4

    A man himself told me that Allah didn't created parents or siblings first, Allah created a pair (Adam and Hawwa) First, So man is more responsible towards his wife more than anyone else. And that's an alignment, this kinda brought up so rare these days.! 🙌

  • @TheYghani1
    @TheYghani1 2 года назад +9

    May Allah protect you shiekh and reward you highly. Give you good health and keep you safe. Ameen insha'Allah

  • @zuhraismail1615
    @zuhraismail1615 2 года назад +4

    BarakaLlahu fiikum wajazakumuLlahu khair fidunya wal akhira for reaching us these golden islamic msgs of islam thru our Sheikh.Ameen

  • @zulekhamohammed3344
    @zulekhamohammed3344 7 месяцев назад +15

    I have been mean to my husband I disrespected him and now I feel really sad about it😢😢😢 . I want Allah to forgive me and make us for both forget. And start over. I want to be the best to him and make him pleased with me and so Allah will be pleased with me❤❤❤ make dua for me

  • @ummubaid7712
    @ummubaid7712 2 года назад +9

    Aameen 🤲 we truly can do better!
    Jazakallahu khayran 💞

  • @sounsliti4055
    @sounsliti4055 2 года назад +11

    Thank you for your teaching brother .. You help me be a better person , a better Muslim .. Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @baliamudkebe6532
    @baliamudkebe6532 2 года назад +16

    I was crying
    Because am going through a tough time in my marriage 🥲🥲🥲
    When I suddenly came across this video
    Indeed blessed 🤲🤲😭🥲
    Allahamdulilah

  • @iqrahFark90
    @iqrahFark90 2 года назад +91

    May Allah grant us the righteous spouse Ameen protect us from fraud dramatic evil people

  • @shakirahbadru2144
    @shakirahbadru2144 2 года назад +5

    Asalam Aleikum Warahumatullah Wabarakatuh my brothers and
    sisters in Islam 💕💕
    Jazaka Allahu khairah fii Dunya wal Akhirah ya Mufti Menk 🌹🌹

  • @maaidakausar9802
    @maaidakausar9802 2 года назад +8

    Incredibly incredible guidance
    May Almighty Allah bless you always.
    Aameen Summa Aameen

  • @alialhamed3128
    @alialhamed3128 2 года назад +15

    May Allah Guide me more and everyone AMEN

  • @fatuys814
    @fatuys814 2 года назад +5

    Masha Allah S.W.A grant us better understanding of our religion Islam.

  • @yasina63
    @yasina63 2 года назад +2

    When I listen to Tealim I feel extremely so happy. Jezakhelah Kheyran

  • @anamkausar788
    @anamkausar788 Год назад +2

    Consciousness of Allah ( learn forgiveness)
    Always utter good words or keep silence

  • @tiptopbangbang3298
    @tiptopbangbang3298 2 года назад +19

    Subhan Allah 🤍💛🧡
    May Allah SWT bless us with hadaya, afiya, good health and wealth, respect and success in every step of this world and hereafter 🌸🌼🦋

  • @alhassanadam6391
    @alhassanadam6391 Год назад +8

    This is the best ever 18 minutes I have spent in my life🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @warjan8142
    @warjan8142 2 года назад +2

    Masha'Allah
    Jazaakallahu khoiran Syekh..
    Saya suka skli Da'wah Syekh...
    Sy asli 🇮🇩 sy tinggl d 🇮🇳&🇸🇦

  • @letstargaze
    @letstargaze 2 года назад +3

    It is a sign and warning from Allah that his message is so relatable and we are still hard headed

  • @gurugitatilakasutadevidasi5272
    @gurugitatilakasutadevidasi5272 Год назад +1

    The gentleness of speech, very important 🙏 Thank you
    There is a sentence which says that the highest religiosity is non-violence, in thought, in word and action

  • @D52M5
    @D52M5 2 года назад +5

    I welcome and encourage everyone to read and listen to the Holy Quran. Start with one Ayat per day. You can do it! Subhan Allah!

  • @farhaa2664
    @farhaa2664 2 года назад +6

    What a beneficial lecture. JazakAllahuKhairan for this reminder. May Allah guide us all with good deeds. Ameen.

  • @nadirajames4267
    @nadirajames4267 2 года назад +16

    SubhanaAllah thank you for sharing such beautiful beneficial knowledge Ma Shaa Allah TabarakAllah beautiful reminder Shaykh 🤲🏾🤲🏾

  • @AhmedMohamed-zw2lx
    @AhmedMohamed-zw2lx 2 года назад +6

    Of course we have negative relationship with our family how ever the moment remembered the words of Allah our soul become calming.indeed Allah like those have good characters.

  • @frdosr5794
    @frdosr5794 2 месяца назад

    JazzakAllahu khayran brother Mufti Menk, actually your lectures have really lead me to know and understand what Islam means as a reverted Muslim,all alone from a christian family but Alhamdulillah for Allah has chosen me.

  • @laughteralways4717
    @laughteralways4717 2 года назад +6

    JazakAllah’khair Uncle Mufti 💙

  • @maulidichisenga962
    @maulidichisenga962 2 года назад +2

    So educative,May Allah ease yours tasks and grant you Jannatul fir days.Allahumma Ameen🤲

  • @gabrieladugu1166
    @gabrieladugu1166 2 года назад +3

    Thank you Mufti for your daily preaching to us. Am a Christian

  • @sharonomune1284
    @sharonomune1284 2 года назад

    mashallah am a christian but am learning so many things from you thank u so much

  • @Mrs.Hill5
    @Mrs.Hill5 2 года назад +5

    Subhanallah Thank you. This is something that I struggle with…I really needed to hear this.

  • @mdsumonmiaalmightyallaah3773
    @mdsumonmiaalmightyallaah3773 2 года назад +4

    Mashallah awesome message jajakhallahu khairan barekhallahu fic......

  • @mariamkasirye7085
    @mariamkasirye7085 2 года назад +3

    SubhaAllah this makes me reflect about so much especially with my kids.. this is a turning point

  • @ndeyndey3448
    @ndeyndey3448 2 года назад +7

    Masha Allah,may almighty Allah guide us through the right path and thanks so much Mufti for the lecture i always learn a lot from your preach.

  • @deenexplorer950
    @deenexplorer950 2 года назад +9

    Alhamdulillah we got married this year 2022

  • @farhanaanis8382
    @farhanaanis8382 2 года назад +14

    Wa alaikum salaam wa rahumathullahi wa barakathuhu bro. Aameen Aameen ya Rabbal Alameen. MASHA ALLAH Beautiful n deeply efforts you put in ur every lecture to mend every one's problem and broken hearts. I see my father in your words. He oftenly put these words in my heart. You two people are great blessings in my life. MAY ALLAH SWT bless you both forever. Aameen Aameen ya Rabbal Alameen. 🤲🤲🤲Jazak ALLAH khair for ur great encouraging words and excellent n genuine guidelines. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @firdhows1077
    @firdhows1077 2 года назад +10

    Subhan Allah 🤍 nice lecture May Allah bless you with good health and wealth happiness & long life

  • @kobusingesafinah4908
    @kobusingesafinah4908 Год назад +1

    May Allah grant me ease to protect my tongue and everyone else Amen ❤

  • @bakarezulfah7293
    @bakarezulfah7293 2 года назад +2

    Allahu Akbar. JazakAllahu Khairan ya mufti

  • @sidarbouz3044
    @sidarbouz3044 2 года назад +6

    Alhamdulillah Thank you Almighty Allah

  • @sirajummunira7107
    @sirajummunira7107 2 года назад +6

    Important lecture for us..💖💖ZazakAllah❤️

  • @adamakargbo5105
    @adamakargbo5105 2 года назад +1

    May Allah guide us in the right path Ameen 🤲

  • @vanillla421
    @vanillla421 2 года назад +4

    Subhanallah Jazak allahu khairan for this video 💕💐

  • @ahmedbello8152
    @ahmedbello8152 2 года назад +3

    Jazakha'Allah Mufti Menk, for the reminder. Good and king words from our mouth all the time insha'Allah🤲🤝🤲

  • @abubakarmuhammad8591
    @abubakarmuhammad8591 2 года назад +3

    Masha Allah Jazakallahu Khairan Yaa Sheikh

  • @jallowabdoukarim33
    @jallowabdoukarim33 2 года назад +6

    make a special playlist for your jumu'ah khutba

  • @dhamaysinajamac8192
    @dhamaysinajamac8192 2 года назад +4

    Mâcha Allah brother Mufti.

  • @audreykoko6671
    @audreykoko6671 2 года назад +3

    I love Mufti Menk.

  • @ALI97711
    @ALI97711 2 года назад +2

    Baraka Allah..Love from Bangladesh..

  • @hammadyndonga3315
    @hammadyndonga3315 2 года назад +1

    InshaAllah..Allah will give us in our marriage wit our spouse good lovely word both in our marriage coz everythng its Da Almighty wish inshaallah

  • @tmobein2683
    @tmobein2683 5 месяцев назад

    Alhamdulillah.. You're very Right to make aware of Tounge.

  • @savamohammed7539
    @savamohammed7539 2 года назад +2

    May Allah grant us good end insha'Allah thanks shk

  • @nabilaesat398
    @nabilaesat398 2 года назад +2

    Incredible guidance! JazakAllah Mufti 🤲🏽✨

  • @hellenobwogi472
    @hellenobwogi472 2 года назад +8

    Masha Allah may God direct our tongues to say what's right

  • @naida6958
    @naida6958 2 года назад +11

    Thank you for taking your time and hard work for teaching us may Allah bless you goodness and grant you more knowledge so you can continue with the good work. I have so much respect for you .May Allah grant us spouse's of spring that will be the comfort of our eyes and joy of the heart ameen .

  • @senait8091
    @senait8091 2 года назад +1

    You help me to be a better mother to my kids.Aman Aman

  • @maryanntomas2219
    @maryanntomas2219 Год назад

    MASHA-ALLAH 💜 💜 💜 Lucky are those who do not go astray... it is really a must to be guided in ISLAM right after ur marriage or even b4 it...

  • @sarrehm
    @sarrehm 2 года назад +3

    I wish my parents could hear this lol they are always yelling and swearing. But they probably may not ever watch this video 🤦🏻‍♀️ may Allah make this appear on all parents recommended videos whoever need to hear this 😂😂 Ameen 🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽

  • @mariamissa8390
    @mariamissa8390 Год назад +2

    God.. am tired 🙏🏾 i don't want to lose my marriage

  • @Borangkay
    @Borangkay 2 года назад +5

    SubhanaAllah,May Allah bless and guide us always🤲thank You so much Shiek Mufti Menk for always sharing your video's I have to much learn,,
    I am New Balik Islam

  • @baiwardajunaiddalganaraji9128
    @baiwardajunaiddalganaraji9128 2 года назад +1

    WAALAYKUMUSSALAM w.w sir....Nice advice In'shaa'Allah our marriage get more stronger 💞🤲

  • @muhamedthiam2810
    @muhamedthiam2810 2 года назад +2

    Happy Friday to all Muslim ♥♥ alhamulilah

  • @juanabintemohamad1104
    @juanabintemohamad1104 2 года назад +18

    Waalaikumsalam warahmahtullahi wabarakatu, Subhan Allah! Indeed & strongly agree. May Allah SWT grant us the strength to control our tongue. Alhamdulillah, thank you Mufti Menk for the amazing lecture and reminder. May Allah SWT bless you with good health & goodness in this world and the hereafter ❤

  • @mamakadastarkhwan2661
    @mamakadastarkhwan2661 2 года назад +1

    اللَّهُـمّ صَــــــلٌ علَےَ مُحمَّــــــــدْ و علَےَ آل مُحمَّــــــــدْ كما صَــــــلٌيت علَےَ إِبْرَاهِيمَ و علَےَ آل إِبْرَاهِيمَ إِنَّك حَمِيدٌ مَجِيدٌ♥
    اللهم بارك علَےَ مُحمَّــــــــدْ و علَےَ آل مُحمَّــــــــدْ كما باركت علَےَ إِبْرَاهِيمَ و علَےَ آل إِبْرَاهِيمَ إِنَّك حَمِيدٌ مَجِيدٌ♥
    رَّبِّ ارْحَمْهُمَا كَمَا رَبَّيَانِي صَغِيرًا
    رَبَّنَا اغْفِرْ لِي وَلِوَالِدَيَّ وَلِلْمُؤْمِنِينَ يَوْمَ يَقُومُ الْحِسَابُ
    رَبِّ أَوْزِعْنِي أَنْ أَشْكُرَ نِعْمَتَكَ الَّتِي أَنْعَمْتَ عَلَيَّ وَعَلَىٰ وَالِدَيَّ وَأَنْ أَعْمَلَ صَالِحًا تَرْضَاهُ وَأَدْخِلْنِي بِرَحْمَتِكَ فِي عِبَادِكَ الصَّالِحِينَ
    Dua for forgiveness for parents and guests:
    رَّبِّ اغْفِرْ لِي وَلِوَالِدَيَّ وَلِمَن دَخَلَ بَيْتِيَ مُؤْمِنًا وَلِلْمُؤْمِنِينَ وَٱلْمُؤْمِنَٰتِ
    يَا مُقَلِّبَ الْقُلُوبِ ثَبِّتْ قَلْبِى عَلَى دِينِكَ
    رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
    "Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous."
    Surah Al-Furqan, Ayah 74

  • @suzannisha1669
    @suzannisha1669 2 года назад +1

    Alhamdulliha am still alive thank you Allah for your business who's me

  • @sidali2590
    @sidali2590 2 года назад +1

    Plz make dua that I get married 43 still single with anxiety divorced

  • @shahnazshah6585
    @shahnazshah6585 2 года назад

    Alhamdulila! We are fortunate as we are open to ongoing learning towards quality goals

  • @juthifardose5137
    @juthifardose5137 2 года назад +6

    ALLAH bless us all

    • @aurorepurple5275
      @aurorepurple5275 2 года назад

      Aameen 🤲. May Allah protect and blessé us all🤲. Merci beaucoup.

  • @MounToure
    @MounToure 2 года назад +3

    Masha-Allah 💝 ❤️ 🌹... God Forgive us and guide us 🤲🏿🤲🏿

  • @kaniyeikiz3871
    @kaniyeikiz3871 2 года назад +3

    May Allah SWT reward you AMEEN 🤲😊😉😊😊💞❤️💞

  • @HaseenaFazil
    @HaseenaFazil 7 месяцев назад

    May Allah almighty grant us goodness🤲🏻❤️‍🩹

  • @amroyoussef1918
    @amroyoussef1918 2 года назад +3

    Salaam, there was a poker advert at the start of this video, hope the channel owner can rectify this inshaAllah

  • @nadiafillis8432
    @nadiafillis8432 2 года назад +2

    Would be an honour 🎖to meet mufti

    • @hms267
      @hms267 2 года назад +1

      I think we are lucky enough to listen to him alhamdulillah 😊

  • @fatimalaba-ouro5920
    @fatimalaba-ouro5920 2 года назад +4

    Thanks for this topic may Allah 🤲👍🙏

  • @fowzia645
    @fowzia645 2 года назад

    Daily dhikr
    Hadith whoever remembers Allah Allah remembers you no matter how small it is
    Allahu akbar
    LAILAHA ilalahu Muhammadurasoolullah
    Subhanallah
    alhamdulilah
    Astaghfirullah
    Allahumma ajirni minan naar
    Hasbunallahu wanimal wakeel
    LA quwata ila bila hil aliul Azim
    Subhanallahi wa bihamdihi Subhanallahil Azim
    LA ilalaha ilalahu Wahdahu LA sharikalahu walahul hamdu yuhyi wayumeetu biyadahil khair wahuwaala kulli shayin qadeer 3rd kalimah
    ayatul kursi

  • @jamilabegum9670
    @jamilabegum9670 2 года назад +2

    May.Allah.guide.me.right.bath
    Jazak.Allahu.kaira.sir

  • @RTMgi9
    @RTMgi9 22 дня назад

    TDLW: Mind your tongue and think before you speak

  • @syyadahmad6904
    @syyadahmad6904 2 года назад +3

    Sister Inaya.. let's spread the Dawah of Islam to our fellow mankind... It's obligatory to every Muslim!!

  • @salmahussein
    @salmahussein 5 месяцев назад

    May Allah grant us righteous partner

  • @ghaniasohail
    @ghaniasohail Год назад

    JazakAllah Mufti Menk ❤

  • @koyongohassankoyongohassan2608
    @koyongohassankoyongohassan2608 2 года назад +1

    Thanks dear may give you what heart desires insha'Allah Allahhumma Aameen 🤝🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @saminafardosejuthi6218
    @saminafardosejuthi6218 Год назад +1

    ALLAH bless us all ❤

  • @hamidaalhabsi8568
    @hamidaalhabsi8568 2 года назад +1

    Maashallah alhamdulilah rabillamin allah bless you 🙏🙏🙏

  • @marziaahmadzai4565
    @marziaahmadzai4565 10 месяцев назад +1

    my husband insults in difficult times he screams very loud and insults me very bad and my family too and I have a child from another marriage he insults my child too, he even insults his own mother father and sisters, they accept him as he is but we don't anymore, he also went to Madina and made the Ummrah I tried to help him but he is very abusive...

  • @lavenderong6625
    @lavenderong6625 2 года назад +4

    "the tongue" or marriage or relations with each humankind seems to be Allah's only know..🤲🏼Allahu akbar Allah always a great teacher whom gives amazing hidayah for everyone who search for 'Him'

  • @romesaumar4152
    @romesaumar4152 2 года назад

    Jazaayee Khair.

  • @novaheads
    @novaheads 2 года назад +1

    Yes the tongue is everything

  • @Joshwuhh
    @Joshwuhh 8 месяцев назад

    Masha allah heart warming lecture.

  • @IbrahimTripleM
    @IbrahimTripleM Год назад

    Masha Allah God bless you 🙏mufti menk 💘

  • @nakalembehajarah1669
    @nakalembehajarah1669 2 года назад +2

    May Allah grant us easy Amen and i pray to Allah to make me agood mum to my children ishaAllah when that time comes not to take examples of my parents Amen

  • @samiyagani22
    @samiyagani22 2 года назад +1

    Great video❤️❤️❤️

  • @Warcusub_channel
    @Warcusub_channel 2 года назад +1

    Jazakallah kheyr sheikh mufti 🙏

  • @ghodsiizadi9804
    @ghodsiizadi9804 2 года назад +2

    ♥️ Peace be upon you, O Aba Abdullah Al-Hussein ♥️ Oh Alllah, curse the savage killers of Imam Al-Hussein, (peace be upon him), and killers of his children and his companions 💝💝💝 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻📿📿📿📿
    ♥️ السلام علیک یا ابا عبدالله الحسین (ع) ♥️ اللهم العن قتلة الحُسین علیه السلام واولاده و اصحابه 💝💝💝 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻📿📿📿📿