I love the vibes you give off. Watching you is like getting a kick in the rump. I finish your videos and then I have to get up and accomplish something. Thank you for being real and motivating me to be a better person. God bless🌼🌼
Julie Keenum I have commented this same thing sooo many times!!! Right??? I watch her over my morning coffee and seriously it's the motivation I need! Love her vibe!!! 😊
Cassandra, I just love how real you are!! One thing about being "that" house with all the kiddos. My youngest is now 16 (gosh, where did the time go!?) but my house was always full of kids! Having 5 of my own, if they each had one friend over, that made 10 :) But now the oldest 3 live on their own, and my house is much quieter these days. Earlier this month, my son was going to "catch a ride" to our home with his best friend, who lives about an hour south of us now. When they found out we were fixing breakfast for supper, the friend decided to spend the night too! That did this momma's heart good ... even now that they are grown, they want to come and hang out at our house! So enjoy all the days of craziness and hundreds of snacks and millions of fingerprints on the storm door! And maybe, just maybe, they'll all want to come and visit even when they are grown :)
Noreen Bowen well said. I haven’t done the empty nest thing very well. The grandchildren help tremendously with that and one granddaughter who is 15 brings her friends to stay with her sometimes. My husband and I have 6 children between the both of us.
My grandma who is 86 recounts being that house, and just this past year, one of the boys who used to stay there admitted how hard things were at home, and how he loved just being part of their family. My grandma had NO idea how bad things actually were for them. And he travelled into her city all those years later to thank her. So, it inspired me! And I think it's awesome that you're that house too!
You'll never regret having the kids 'popular house'. My 2 sons are 47 and 40. We lived on a small farm when they were young. Within bike riding distance were 7 boys who loved playing at my house. There were rules, but once they were established none of the boys overstepped their good manners and rules of etiquette. My boys are raising their children with social rules, but so far it's worked to the grandchildrens advantage. Keep going 'Mom.' you're doing a great job. Can't wait to see your next book. Love your 1st one. 😍
Sherre Smith is love to know what the rules were that you set for all the kids. I have the same kind of house...and although my husband and I feel it’s easier to know where our kids are if we are “that house” I feel exhausted and grumpy a lot when I have so many so much of the time and also feel out of ideas on what to give them to do. Maybe not an issue for the timeframe you raised your kids but I’m constantly having to set timers for screen time because I want them to use their imagination. My parents and grandparents (I’m 47 but had kids later in life) used to herd us outside and we couldn’t come in until lunch. But different time now a days but I still insist they go out and play within our yard when the weather permits.
Thanks for always making my day. It's a struggle trying to maintain a house, downsize the crap, and be a stay at home mom to 3, but you KILL it! Thanks for the laugh and tips!
You are one of my fav RUclipsrs and you are a rockstar! Your life is total #goals. You are the last person that needs tips for getting more done, you are totally #winning at life in every way!
She's the family blogger that adopted a special needs child from China. Asking for donations from her subscribers to help fund this...( I was one of many, that helped donate!) Made videos filming this whole process, including 3 years of the child in their home. Highlighting the child Medical diagnoses, "tantrums/meltdowns" the child food anxiety/ insecurities, and lots of other personal content about this little boy. After making tons of money around this the adoption & this little boy, "RE-HOMED" the poor little guy!!!! If you haven't heard about this terribly sad situation, check-out the RUclips channel: " " Dad challenge podcast". He speaks out on behalf of this poor little boy, & the unfortunate situation surrounding.
I totally agree with you on the sentiment that kids are welcome, anytime... I really haven't got any tips, but I can tell you it's awesome to look back on when the kids move out.. I still from time to time have talks or even visits from my sons friends ( he's 23 and living with his gf of 5 years) and I LOVE seeing the kids... lots of the boys even consider me their second mom... and there is nothing better than getting great big 'thank you for making my childhood amazing' hugs from a bunch of 22-24 year olds!! Trust me ;)
Sabina Hertzum I so hope for this for my own family! My sons are 2 and not yet born and I want them to have their friends over whenever, I rarely had friends over when I was young and feel bad about it!
Hi I'm a foster carer to 3 little kids plus a teen of my own. in the past I've fostered teens and have always encouraged them to bring friends home. I'm no social butterfly but feel it's good for kids to have friends over. plus I usually find out so much more about the kids I'm caring for as sometimes they open up more with friends around. I'm still working at being organised I still have a long way to go but I feel like I'm getting somewhere. love your videos you make me smile which is great.
I was the party house too when my kids were growing up. I know it can be stressful at times but enjoy every moment because one day your kids will be grown like my are now. You will never regret doing for all of the kids that are coming over to your house. Love you channel
As an adult child of parents who had a closed off home where friends were restricted, THANK YOU!!! You are helping your kids so much by opening your home to their friends.
Hi, thankyou for all that you do!As a single mom of 3 I appreaciate you in so many ways.As for the all the kids showing up i use 2 crockpots for different food an i keep a gallon of freshly made tea so when all 15 different kids show up tbey all know to help themselves an the brownie timer one gets to hold it when their outside playing an when it goes off the brownies are done.Only one kid name Luke would drink milk so I always made sure it was there for him an Jalen who would come knew i kept his favorite grapejuice in the cabnit would always be excited when he saw it there just for him. I could never say no to any of them. I always feel Gods grace when Im preparing all the food it never runs out theres plenty for every kid that shows up everyday...
I think the kids coming over is hopefully a gateway for you to address your personal insecurities! You are a vibrant person with so much to offer... no need to worry about how you are perceived!
My mother was just like what you described. Everybody loved her. I was so proud of her. You are role modeling something healthy and wonderful. You are also giving those child happy memories. What a wonderful gift! God bless you!
I hope you see this Cass, (because I know this is from last year.) I re-watch this video about once per month. It is such excellent advice and it keeps me motivated! All five ideas are so good and when I practice them, life is definitely better. Keep preaching girl!
My home seems to be my neighborhood's hang out spot. I have major anxiety and try my best to be welcoming. At the end of the day, good or bad, I feel so thankful that I can bring happiness to my family and friends simply by opening the door to my home. As for feeding everyone, that's what freezers are for! I cannot count the meals I've made simply because the neighbors were gathered at our place and I wanted dinner! Great video, nice wrap up too.
We had 4 children , now all grown, and I was the pied piper, our house was always open, back and front doors everyone welcome. I loved it, my husband not so much! But they have all grown up with famillies of their own, and we still see them lots, but it is my husband who suffers with the empty nest syndrome, really being quite sad if no-one visits in a day! Make the most of it, you must be an awesome family, enjoy it while you can xxx
My kids aren't old enough to have their friends pop over yet, so no advice here. I do have some encouragement though! I think it is great that you're allowing your kids to fill your home with the love that comes from good friendships. Hang in there on those days when you just want some peace. It also might be okay to have some boundaries if you would like. For example, people have to leave by sunset or no friends on whatever day, because that is family day or whatever it is that might work for you. It is okay to make your sanity a priority, even if it means your kids have to tell their friends "later" or "tomorrow". Thanks for another great and motivational video!
Really enjoyed your video! You are so real, and down to earth. I'm 53 now, and my kids grew up on a farm, but we were always having sleepovers and parties, etc. It's great to be THAT house! I miss it. Enjoy it while you can!
Love that your kids friends are so welcome in your home. We're the same because THAT way - I know where my children are, who they're hanging out with and they're safe in their home. I keep copious amounts of crisps ( think you call them chips), biscuits, lolly ices, juice, board games, DVDs and colouring sets and when it's nice out (North of England not always known for good weather) then they are taken to the local park - or if there's only a few of them I can cater for them in my 14ft by 14ft garden! Picnics, paddling pool or the car rug comes out, or the hula hoop game ( a bit like a kitchen roll holder that we throw hoops on). It's not forever - they grow up so quickly - but it's creating happy memories for them. You'll be a cool mum. X
I’m like you, not super social.... however, keep the kids coming in! When they get older, especially in high school, the kids still showed up, and they ALL shared everything! I knew everything going on with every kid! More than I wanted to know at times! LOL. I always knew where my high schoolers were, who they were with, and what they were all doing! It was awesome, and gave me piece of mind for sure!!! Best scenario ever!!! Feed them, and they always enjoyed hanging out at our house with our kids! Thanks for your videos, Jennifer
I am not a stay at home Mom but I still would like to implement some of your ideas. I am feeling particularly defeated right now but you have given me a spark of hope today. You always do when I watch your videos. God bless you and your family.
Thanks for the tips! My parents were antisocial and we lived out in the country. So we didn't have a lot of friends, growing up. I taught Bible study, as an adult, for years at my old, teeny, tiny house. We had about 4-5 moms and 11-15 kids running everywhere. I loved it! Now we moved out in the country to a new town, and I sure miss the craziness of kids everywhere. Yes, it is work. My favorite meal for big crowds: big, cheap pizzas or Italian. I'd throw a plastic table cloth on the floor and have the kids sit on it for easy clean-up. Blessings!💖
Hey cass, I just wanted to tell u that I do wake up half an hour earlier then everyone else, I make my coffee and listen to ur pod casts or RUclips videos and I’m motivated and inspired all day with a positive attitude, so thank you for being awesome and keep doing what your doing 🙂
When my children were small, I was that Mom that always had kids over to play. I had that really long driveway, six of those plastic cars, play house with all the extras that go into it and a swing set but no pool. I know what you mean about the snacks and drinks! I wouldn't have changed it for the world though! Thanks for the kickstart on getting something done around my home! Hugs my friend!
I was the mom that let lots of friends coming over I love that!!! I have the same routine everyone come in the door is open like full house!! I think you’re doing a great job!
Thanks for this! Since I haven't read all 483 of your comments I might be repeating someone else's, bu t here are my hints. 1) Schedule a 'just us' night, since you value your family. And you can let 'the others ' lol know about it ahead of time, and then have a sign on door to remind them this is the day not to walk in. It will become routine and they will understand eventually. You family might come to treasure those nights also. 2) Let your kids (and the others) know sleep overs can be scheduled, but NEVER for 'Today'. I did this one!! It taught my kids some planning skills & Delayed Gratification / they were more excited about having something to look forward to & treasured those times more. When they would ask for a sleep over they started saying "wait, can we put it on the calendar?" Believe me, those times were more valuable to them, also, you will have a renewed sense of control of your home.
i love your videos!! Tip for being that cool neighborhood house: Have a bin in the pantry designated for snacks for kids guests. that way your kids and guests know theyre welcome to that bin (and they wont hopefully eat you out of house and home) lol! Then replace the bin as often as you'd like: weekly, bi-weekly, monthly or whenever... but the key is this: once the items are done , theyre DONE and wont be restocked until next time. hopefully that teaches all the kids to share and be considerate of everyone that comes over... My husband was a youth pastor for almost 8 years and we had kids coming in and out of our house ALL the TIME! lol. i learned quick that they needed food but I needed to keep it seperate from our personal groceries. when my 3 little ones are old enough to have friends over often i will def be re-establishing this! 😊 good luck 🤞🏾
Being the home your children's friend are comfortable going to be invaluable when they become teenagers. My house and my best friend's house were the "safe houses" for our daughters and all their friends. The friends' parents knew if their child was not home they were with one of us. I have had a key safe outside my front door for nearly 10 years that this group still knows the combination. They know where the spare towels and toothbrushes are. They do not have to call or ask- forever open invitation. We never had a runaway bcz there was always a safe and loving place to go to. No questions asked and parents were only allowed to call to confirm their child was safe - no arguing or yelling at them. We got dozens of amazing young people through high school without running away, driving drunk, or worse. It is such a blessing to your children's friends that you are establishing this now 💖💖💖💖💖
Thank you Cass! I'm hoping to start managing my time and learning to prioritize the things I need to accomplish. Thank you for the printables, I will put them to use. I really appreciate all the time you put into helping us, you're awesome!
I love watching you! You are so real! I look at you and you remind me of when my kids were little! I was the same way! I started cooking big meals in my crook pot! I wood shop at Costco and stook up! I wood make like shredded pulled BBQ pork and have buns for them and put mine on a salad . I made big batches so I could feed more kids and if a lot of the kids were not here I had left overs! Enjoy it my baby boy is 21, and his sisters are7 and 10 years older! I never thought I would say this but I do miss it now! And I not a very out going person!
Congratulations Cass on your 200 000 subscribers! I am so proud of you. I make a to do list before I go to bed & this little task & starting a day with a plan makes a difference. Your house has become like a Halfway House Greetings from Port Elizabeth, South Africa
I love your simplicity and frankness 😊 That's what keeps me hooked to your channel 😀 The best part is you're not all preachy and advising or showing that you're perfect. You're like the next door girlfriend for every woman out there 😊
I was that mom and I am still that mom! My kids are 31 and 26! The memories are priceless and I wouldn't change a thing!!! Yes it was a lot of work and the messes never ended! However soon things wind down as they get older and you do... Really and truly do miss those times, when there was a house full of kids!!!
its 7.00 am in India and iam watching your video which i was waiting for two consecutive days as my son had perched on the seat for the computer...so now i see your videos and get excited and encouraged to do things..thnk you
Our house was filled with kids when my kids were growing up, too and I really loved it. But, like you, sometimes I felt like I was in a zoo. One thing that helped me was setting limits for the revolving door. The kids in our neighborhood learned that on Sunday, we had a day without friends. It helped my kids focus and it helped me keep my sanity.
My Grandma's house was the house that no one had to knock at, just come on in! I so miss that! I finally live close to my grandkids and am establishing the same policy. Keep up the good work! It will be worth it in the end.
We've just had school holidays here, 2 weeks only. But I reckon you'll kind of feel when you or your kids need a break, tiredness kicks butts after too many late nights/early starts sleepovers. The best part is when you're only left with your own kids & it seems so quiet & calm. Perspective!!! I usually do kind of a night on night off thing. Don't usually do two sleepover nights in a row.
I’m glad you are “that mom” and so are your children! I was that way when my kids were growing up and wouldn’t have it any other way. Yes my house and yard were messed up more than others but it was so worth it! They are all grown now but they still come back to see me and it does my heart good every time. 😊
I was that house when my kids were younger too. I had to create a couple of family-only days for my sanity. My kids could still play with friends, or do whatever they wanted, but ....let's say.... Every Monday and Wednesday.... No extra kids were over. Of course, it took some time to train the neighborhood kids, but I enlisted the help of their parents when I could. It's awesome to be "that house" but (1) the other parents are using you, without consideration and (2) even teachers take "in service" days, where they have time to do what they must without children. It's important, too, to teach our kids boundaries, and respect for them, while still giving unconditional acceptance. It's good to teach kids that they can be happy in their own sometimes (which I'm sure you already know) and they don't need a constant infusion of entertainment. I think you're awesome, BTW!
I watched one of your videos and then told myself that this video will be the one I watch while I sweep, mop and spray my bathroom with cleaner... Your videos are my timer and motivation to clean... Thank you for inspiring me from NY to do what I've always wanted to do... I wanted to be a stay at home wife and mom that has the energy to cook and clean for my family.... I aspire to be just like you!!!
When I raised my daughter I was THAT mom too, every weekend was another a couple kids staying over so I understand completely. lol Hang in there cause they grow very fast and POOF the time is gone for sleep overs and crazy. Try to enjoy and keep that AWESOME sense of humor we love!!!!!
I've been "that house" and there are things I loved about it and things I hated about it. I finally realized that the things I hated about it were that didn't have any boundaries and I didn't feel in control. When you have boundaries, you can give of yourself and your time and your space and feel good about it, because it's you being giving. When you don't have boundaries, you don't ever get to feel giving because you're not in control and so you start to feel taken advantage of. And it can be hard to reinstate boundaries if you've let things go without them for a long time, but if you're starting to feel overwhelmed, figure out some boundaries that would let you feel in control again and start little and build to the point you're comfortable. Because living a life like that with no boundaries will WEAR-YOU-OUT. Maybe just start with a sign you can put on the door that says, "We're not playing right now. Come back after_______." And fill in a time. That way you feel like you can turn being "that house" on and off when you just really need a break, but hopefully still avoid the knocking.
love this idea my daughter goes to daycare now from 1230 to 3 monday to Friday and I tell you I love it yesterday I organized all her baby items like her baby bin all those thinga you keep when you have a baby they were all over my house her first birthday things with her 3rd birthday stuff and then her first outfit was in the bedroom so I put it all in 2 bins one for birthday and 1 for everything less and today I did the dishes and sweep the floor and put away the laundry :) I feel great :)
I was the kid always at my neighbor Debbie's house because I was best friends with her daughter. Their house was like yours and I can tell you what you're doing is helping some of the kids who don't really want to be home. ❤️ What Debbie did is put us to work sometimes. If we were gonna be over there all the time acting like we lived there we could help out and clean it too!
I so love and appreciate your videos, Clutterbug! You're sooooo motivating but so real at the same time! Definitely my favorite videos to watch and love your stuff! ...especially love your decorating on a budget videos. Keep it up, sweet lady! You're doing an awesome job!
My boys are grown now, but they always had friends at our house when they were growing up. They would stay for dinner and all night lots of times and I loved it!
I always had the "kool aid" house and I loved it! My children are grown now but when I see there friends around town they all always give me hugs. All my children's friends thought I was the cool mom too. Just savor the time you have, buy extra snacks and do fun stuff, because when they are grown, it's much, much lonely-er and quit-er. Once a year I always had a "cookie" party. I'd make dough balls ahead of time and allow each of my 4 children to invite a friend or two, to come over and make cookies. I made mini rolling pins out of a large dowel rod, and had lots of cookie cutters and decorations. I'd cover the table with freezer paper and just let them do it how ever they wanted. Then what ever cookies they made, they took home with them. My husband thought I was nuts for putting myself through it, because IT'S A LOT OF WORK. But my thinking is that long after I'm gone and my children are old and senile, they may not remember who they are, but they will have memories of me ingrained in their minds. I can honestly say, (as the voice of experience) nothing, and I mean NOTHING is as important as spending time with them.
I just love your videos. You give such practical advice. We have 3 young kids at home (and 3 older ones 😁), my husband works, a lot, I have my YT channel and up until this coming year, I've homeschooled, and I work seasonally. The point is, I stay pretty busy and all of your organization and cleaning tips are so helpful, so, thank you! You really make a difference 😁
Just ordered your book the other day. It should be here tomorrow and I can't wait to get it! Your videos changed my life almost 2 years ago when I discovered the whole RUclips world! I have been able to keep up with my housework ever since. Love you girl! Xoxo 😘
So glad I found your channel! These little tidbits are helping me to FINALLY start to make progress on getting my house in order. I know the things in my head that I need to do, but was missing the "how to" steps. You give the way to apply what I already know. The most important tip for me... the GRACE tip. Forgiving myself of not being perfect has been so freeing!
OMG! You just described my life! Kids at my house constantly too! And I’m not on top of my house organization like you are, so I just get totally bummed out with all the coats, shoes, sweaters, toys left at the front door. It’s like if you have a bit of clutter somewhere it just multiplies! Thanks for the inspirational videos!
I am that mom too!! Our house has always had tons of kids in and out we have been that way for 30 years and we still have young ones 10&8😂😂and now we have 3 grandkids😂😂🤪 and the best tips I have are waaaay minimalizing That has motivated me to want to keep it clean because I am no longer overwhelmed by stuff! And I used to have issues with back pain while cleaning because of the leaning over stuff I no longer have the pain because I had a breast reduction last month best thing I have ever done decluttered my body😂😂😂😂😀 I feel soo much younger and lighter and I just zip around doing all the cleaning tips you give!!! Now if I could just declutter my belly😂. I just adore you and your videos and am amazed to see such a successful spastic version of me when I watch you!
I'm that mom! Love having the kids here. Get to know them and their families. It's a short window though because once they go to high school it all changes! Enjoy these years! It goes by way too quickly.
This morning in the shower I was just thinking about writing in a specific kids fun day on the calendar each week where I focus on them. I love the idea of sectioning specific days for specific things! PS: you are the cutest!
First off, you're so inspiring to me!! Thank you for the "positive" caffeine-filled vibes!! I have five kids, all who are over 18 now, my youngest a Senior in high school. My house, when they were younger, was the hub, the central home for everyone to come to, whether it was raining and we watched movies with popcorn, or sunny and everyone was outside! I had to stock up on Kool-Aid(I think their stock rose high in those years! Lol), band-aid's, snacks and ideas! I was a stay-at-home mom as well, so I had to be "on my toes" ready for ANYTHING to happen! It was chaotic (to say the least!) sometimes, but the memories that my kids have are gonna last them their whole lifetime! If I had to do it all over again, I would! I knew homes where no children could go, because their homes might get messy or homes where kids were sent home for drinks, snacks and small injuries! I had grown up with neighbors who watched out for each other's kids, and I wanted to do the same for the kids in the neighborhood! It's a memory that will last a lifetime for me, and I'm glad I was there for all of the kids!! Again, another novella for your reading pleasure! Hahaha!
I don't get bored watching your videos, thank you so much! I heard your cry for help about your party house situations. Maybe make it a structured one. Set a date say starting next month, this or these are the days you guys can come over from these stated hours. Some are sleep overs and some are not. Bring some snacks of their own that they might want to share with the other kids. Maybe also teach the kids to clean up after themselves. It's a good life skills to learn and may spill over to their own home. Thank you very much for sharing.
I find I am most productive when I have a prioritised list. However, the first couple of items on the list are really easy to accomplish task just to set me on the right path. This is especially important to me when returning to work after holidays. It eases me back into the world of work.
We lived in the same house for 23 years, bringing up our kids in a beautiful neighborhood full of kids the same age as ours. I was at home most of the time, and kids would move from house to house throughout the day. It was a great experience for my kids.
Cass I honestly am THAT house too !! All my kids friends are constantly just here ! Eating and sleeping over lol I too just leave them in my sitting room to get on with it and enjoy themselves ... I find it impossible to utter the word NO even when I really REALLY should !! So sorry I can’t give you any tips except to just embrace the madness lol !! I also grew up very lonely and isolated as an only child so I completely get where your coming from as it’s the same place as me ! ... and as much as it can drive me crazy from time to time I have to say I wouldn’t want it any other way ! A house full of happy kids makes for a happier me xx Love you so so so much btw your a huge inspiration to me in every way xx
🤗😁🤗😁🤗 I was that mom too, and I don' regret it! I'm 60 years old and my two daughter's are married and on their own and they have such awesome memories to pass on to their kid's. Not only did they not knock, as they got older, some of their friends ended up living with us for various reasons and they had the KEYS to the house. When one of my daughters plumbing went south recently, she and her family had to stay with us while good old dad fixed it. I found myself calling him after five days (it was extensive) and telling him to GET IT DONE FASTER! I needed my life and routine back. Calm is nice. So enjoy them while you can, before you know it they will be on their own and you will be able to exhale. Remember, they ALWAYS come back. . 😉
Awesome video! You are so motivating!!! You know what, it might be crazy sometimes, but your kiddies are going to look back on these days with such fond memories! My mum had an open door policy, we always had a house full of kids - even as teenagers! it was seriously the best and at 34 I still thank her for it! xx
I'm that mum too! We live in a block of flats (UK) & the other mum's sometimes let their kids out & turn their buzzers off (intercom) mine is the flat they all come to, they come to me when they fall & need plasters or if a kid's been horrible it's me they come to to sort it out! We have a big communal garden out the front so the boys often go out to play football (soccer) & they always used to ask me to throw down a bottle of water, I was buying loads! So now I buy 40 small icepoles for £1 & I buy disposable cups & either send out a big bottle with the cups or they can come in & have it from the tap. I buy the cheapest snacks I can find but I don't offer them, it's only if they say they're really hungry. I had 6 kids in here yesterday after school that weren't mine, one asked if he could stay & eat with us but I had to say no or I'd have to feed them all! I like the fact they all like me & want to hang around here but I hate the mess, craziness, arguing, having to be a constant referee etc that comes with it. When my kids go to their dad's I turn my buzzer off & enjoy my child free time. The other kids still sometimes knock & chat but I have to act like I'm too busy & keep it short & sweet or they still want to come in! They're learning lol 😄
scattyfi I love that you translated a bunch of your words 😊 you missed a couple... plasters (bandaids?!) And what are icepoles?! I love everything language-related so I enjoyed your comment 😊
Heidi Muszynski Music I've only just seen this, sorry it took a year to reply lol 😆 yeah plasters are band-aids & I'm not sure what you'd call ice poles, maybe ice pops or freeze pops? They're little frozen sticks with colour & flavours like cola, raspberry, lemon etc & they're really cheap. They're in individual plastic wrappers & don't have a stick like an ice lolly would. You can buy a box of 20 for about £1 unfrozen & just put them in the freezer for a few hours. I googled it & there are so many names for them but noticed some people call them tip tops or otter pops which I've never heard of. Hope that helps lol 😁
There are kids over as I am watching your video. I usually keep plenty of snacks. Fixing meals I call fill up meals work for dinner; mac n cheese with chicken nuggets, spaghetti, and of course veggies on the side. The house is loud always but I tune it out. Love watching your videos and staying til the end is always fun!☺
I have 1 son and our house has always been the house where the friends come to hang out and it was always great because I knew where my son was. As he got older some friends stayed for days and 1 even for a couple of years.
My daughter has had several different friends spend the night and come during the summer. I actually didn't mind. I am too spontaneous and pretty laid back. Love her having these memories. I'm a push over.
As for a dream, my daughter and I helped my husband with a history project of scanning all of the yearbooks from his high school. We took a calendar and entered the newest volume on her last day of vacation. Then we backtracked to the oldest volume on the first day of vacation. This became our schedule for the summer. We managed to finish all but 80 pages before she went back to school. VERY DO-ABLE.
I cannot tell you how much your channel has helped I went looking for some help on how to help me organize my house and declutter and I just keep coming across your videos and they're all super helpful and I just wanted to thank you because my house has been a crazy nightmarish mess and thanks to your speed cleaning dirty thirty and some of the other tips my house is kind of sort of staying a little bit more clean than it typically would we'll see what it looks like when I first season comes around and we're at the theater all the time but I am super thankful for all of your advice thank you so much
We still have two neighbor "kids" (now actually grown) who just pop in when they are in town. Still loving it! These grown "kids" still ask to open the garage door so they can get the basketball and shoot hoops in our driveway. Makes me happy!
From the Aussie Organiser...those colours look great on you. They bring out your eyes. The ideas are very helpful! That's wonderful that you have lots of kids over...that's me...it will pay off when they are teenagers because you can keep an eye on all of them. I used to do home day care like you did. It's busy but relaxing having lots of kids. My secret is I don't offer food. Then they have to head home when they are hungry. (If they ask I will give a piece of fruit ) I just offer a drink as soon as they arrive the first few times that they come.
Our Home has always been the "spot" to hang out! Now it's mainly adults coming over anytime any day! Just more dishes (AND wine glasses!) But paper plates & such make it easy peasy! Loved your video😙❤
Where were you ten years ago? Seriously, I'm so glad I found you. You give sensible tips for getting clean and organized and for real people! Your book is on my list and as soon as I can get it, I'm gettin it! Meanwhile, I'm gonna continue working on this house and watching your videos while I do it. Thank you! :)
My house was that house when my kids were young too. Being an only child who was always going to my friends house I loved the fact that my kids were with me and I knew all their friends and where they were. When the were teenagers I still got all the strays and always had to make extra for dinners because who knew who would be for dinner. I loved it.
I really really like your channel. Your cleaning and "getting stuff done" tipps 😊 great! I'm the messiest person in my hole family... you really helped me to be more motivated. And I love your little story's at the end! I hat so much friends over as a child. I loved it and I'm thankful for it. I think your children will be, too.
Hi Cass. I was that Mom and although there were days i wanted to pull my hair out i loved it because i always knew what my kids were doing and who there friends were. I could keep an eye on the situation. I was glad they didn’t want to leave to go to someone else’s house
What a blissful point of view! I struggle with other's spontaneity rubbing me the wrong way but you opened my eyes; growing up without friends coming over was such a damper - I never want to do that to my children ☆
I always smile when my You Tube notification is from Clutter Bug! You are awesome, and it is obvious how much time you are outside with your children, please make sure you are sun screening the Mommy too!
Roberta Doughty Ikr! She is amazing! I love her and her videos! So inspirational and fantastic tips! I love the way she is so real on here! She's truly inspiring!
We also have the house that all of the neighborhood kids like to hang out at. Really the only negative is keeping up with the food and the constant mess. BUT especially as they get older and into the teenage years it is wonderful to keep your kids and their friends close. You can always keep an eye on them when they are constantly in your kitchen. LOL!
The list idea is really helpful. I know there is no better feeling than crossing off things when you make a to do list. It will also make you more accountable to do the task. Something about writing it down, makes no sense but totally works!
Your word combinations are SO FUN! I tend to be less open door for kids only because we do so much spur of the moment but whenever anyone stops over we all enjoy our company. SUNDAY is family day but anyone n everyone is welcome so that makes me happy! Ur videos are yes a kick in the bumm to get busy. I think I'll do that now...😉
I just discovered your channel and I absolutely love it I love how real you are and I love that you're not perfect and I love that you're just you're out there and I love your rants at the end of your videos.
I'm anti- social to the max and hate having extra people in my house. But I guess I have to let my five grandkids come visit sometimes. 😂😂😂 Kidding...grandkids welcome any time, day or night! You are a great mom!
I love the vibes you give off. Watching you is like getting a kick in the rump. I finish your videos and then I have to get up and accomplish something. Thank you for being real and motivating me to be a better person. God bless🌼🌼
Julie Keenum I have commented this same thing sooo many times!!! Right??? I watch her over my morning coffee and seriously it's the motivation I need! Love her vibe!!! 😊
Julie Keenum yes!!! I have watched her for a very long time. love her videos and she is so real ❤
Julie Keenum Yes!
Julie Keenum I completely agree. I just recently discovered Cass and her channel.
Cassandra, I just love how real you are!! One thing about being "that" house with all the kiddos. My youngest is now 16 (gosh, where did the time go!?) but my house was always full of kids! Having 5 of my own, if they each had one friend over, that made 10 :) But now the oldest 3 live on their own, and my house is much quieter these days. Earlier this month, my son was going to "catch a ride" to our home with his best friend, who lives about an hour south of us now. When they found out we were fixing breakfast for supper, the friend decided to spend the night too! That did this momma's heart good ... even now that they are grown, they want to come and hang out at our house! So enjoy all the days of craziness and hundreds of snacks and millions of fingerprints on the storm door! And maybe, just maybe, they'll all want to come and visit even when they are grown :)
Noreen Bowen well said. I haven’t done the empty nest thing very well. The grandchildren help tremendously with that and one granddaughter who is 15 brings her friends to stay with her sometimes.
My husband and I have 6 children between the both of us.
My grandma who is 86 recounts being that house, and just this past year, one of the boys who used to stay there admitted how hard things were at home, and how he loved just being part of their family. My grandma had NO idea how bad things actually were for them. And he travelled into her city all those years later to thank her. So, it inspired me! And I think it's awesome that you're that house too!
You'll never regret having the kids 'popular house'.
My 2 sons are 47 and 40. We lived on a small farm when they were young. Within bike riding distance were 7 boys who loved playing at my house. There were rules, but once they were established none of the boys overstepped their good manners and rules of etiquette. My boys are raising their children with social rules, but so far it's worked to the grandchildrens advantage.
Keep going 'Mom.' you're doing a great job.
Can't wait to see your next book. Love your 1st one. 😍
Sherre Smith is love to know what the rules were that you set for all the kids. I have the same kind of house...and although my husband and I feel it’s easier to know where our kids are if we are “that house” I feel exhausted and grumpy a lot when I have so many so much of the time and also feel out of ideas on what to give them to do. Maybe not an issue for the timeframe you raised your kids but I’m constantly having to set timers for screen time because I want them to use their imagination. My parents and grandparents (I’m 47 but had kids later in life) used to herd us outside and we couldn’t come in until lunch. But different time now a days but I still insist they go out and play within our yard when the weather permits.
Thanks for always making my day. It's a struggle trying to maintain a house, downsize the crap, and be a stay at home mom to 3, but you KILL it! Thanks for the laugh and tips!
Cass you are easily one of my favorite youtubers! Thank you so much for this video I found it super helpful!
You are one of my fav RUclipsrs and you are a rockstar! Your life is total #goals. You are the last person that needs tips for getting more done, you are totally #winning at life in every way!
Myka Stauffer Aw. Love when RUclipsrs support each other. 💖
A Beautiful Horizon.
She's the family blogger that adopted a special needs child from China. Asking for donations from her subscribers to help fund this...( I was one of many, that helped donate!) Made videos filming this whole process, including 3 years of the child in their home. Highlighting the child Medical diagnoses, "tantrums/meltdowns" the child food anxiety/ insecurities, and lots of other personal content about this little boy. After making tons of money around this the adoption & this little boy, "RE-HOMED" the poor little guy!!!! If you haven't heard about this terribly sad situation, check-out the RUclips channel: " " Dad challenge podcast". He speaks out on behalf of this poor little boy, & the unfortunate situation surrounding.
I totally agree with you on the sentiment that kids are welcome, anytime...
I really haven't got any tips, but I can tell you it's awesome to look back on when the kids move out.. I still from time to time have talks or even visits from my sons friends ( he's 23 and living with his gf of 5 years) and I LOVE seeing the kids... lots of the boys even consider me their second mom... and there is nothing better than getting great big 'thank you for making my childhood amazing' hugs from a bunch of 22-24 year olds!! Trust me ;)
Sabina Hertzum I so hope for this for my own family! My sons are 2 and not yet born and I want them to have their friends over whenever, I rarely had friends over when I was young and feel bad about it!
Sabina Hertzum I love those hugs, too! From my Other Son :)
Hi I'm a foster carer to 3 little kids plus a teen of my own. in the past I've fostered teens and have always encouraged them to bring friends home. I'm no social butterfly but feel it's good for kids to have friends over. plus I usually find out so much more about the kids I'm caring for as sometimes they open up more with friends around. I'm still working at being organised I still have a long way to go but I feel like I'm getting somewhere. love your videos you make me smile which is great.
I don't know if you know how funny you are. Just love your spirit.
I was the party house too when my kids were growing up. I know it can be stressful at times but enjoy every moment because one day your kids will be grown like my are now. You will never regret doing for all of the kids that are coming over to your house. Love you channel
As an adult child of parents who had a closed off home where friends were restricted, THANK YOU!!! You are helping your kids so much by opening your home to their friends.
Hi, thankyou for all that you do!As a single mom of 3 I appreaciate you in so many ways.As for the all the kids showing up i use 2 crockpots for different food an i keep a gallon of freshly made tea so when all 15 different kids show up tbey all know to help themselves an the brownie timer one gets to hold it when their outside playing an when it goes off the brownies are done.Only one kid name Luke would drink milk so I always made sure it was there for him an Jalen who would come knew i kept his favorite grapejuice in the cabnit would always be excited when he saw it there just for him. I could never say no to any of them. I always feel Gods grace when Im preparing all the food it never runs out theres plenty for every kid that shows up everyday...
When I was a kid I would have loved hanging out at your house! You're the fun Mom for sure!
Gina H. And organized. I wouldn't ever want to leave lol
I think the kids coming over is hopefully a gateway for you to address your personal insecurities! You are a vibrant person with so much to offer... no need to worry about how you are perceived!
My mother was just like what you described. Everybody loved her. I was so proud of her. You are role modeling something healthy and wonderful. You are also giving those child happy memories. What a wonderful gift! God bless you!
I hope you see this Cass, (because I know this is from last year.) I re-watch this video about once per month. It is such excellent advice and it keeps me motivated! All five ideas are so good and when I practice them, life is definitely better. Keep preaching girl!
I could literally watch a video of you chatting about your life and the world for an hour and I would be so happy!
My home seems to be my neighborhood's hang out spot. I have major anxiety and try my best to be welcoming. At the end of the day, good or bad, I feel so thankful that I can bring happiness to my family and friends simply by opening the door to my home. As for feeding everyone, that's what freezers are for! I cannot count the meals I've made simply because the neighbors were gathered at our place and I wanted dinner! Great video, nice wrap up too.
We had 4 children , now all grown, and I was the pied piper, our house was always open, back and front doors everyone welcome. I loved it, my husband not so much! But they have all grown up with famillies of their own, and we still see them lots, but it is my husband who suffers with the empty nest syndrome, really being quite sad if no-one visits in a day! Make the most of it, you must be an awesome family, enjoy it while you can xxx
Cass, just love them. Let them experience your love and your house full of laughter! To some kids, that will mean the world!
My kids aren't old enough to have their friends pop over yet, so no advice here. I do have some encouragement though! I think it is great that you're allowing your kids to fill your home with the love that comes from good friendships. Hang in there on those days when you just want some peace. It also might be okay to have some boundaries if you would like. For example, people have to leave by sunset or no friends on whatever day, because that is family day or whatever it is that might work for you. It is okay to make your sanity a priority, even if it means your kids have to tell their friends "later" or "tomorrow". Thanks for another great and motivational video!
every little boy smiles like that , it's the greatest thing
Really enjoyed your video! You are so real, and down to earth. I'm 53 now, and my kids grew up on a farm, but we were always having sleepovers and parties, etc. It's great to be THAT house! I miss it. Enjoy it while you can!
Love that your kids friends are so welcome in your home. We're the same because THAT way - I know where my children are, who they're hanging out with and they're safe in their home. I keep copious amounts of crisps ( think you call them chips), biscuits, lolly ices, juice, board games, DVDs and colouring sets and when it's nice out (North of England not always known for good weather) then they are taken to the local park - or if there's only a few of them I can cater for them in my 14ft by 14ft garden! Picnics, paddling pool or the car rug comes out, or the hula hoop game ( a bit like a kitchen roll holder that we throw hoops on). It's not forever - they grow up so quickly - but it's creating happy memories for them. You'll be a cool mum. X
I’m like you, not super social.... however, keep the kids coming in! When they get older, especially in high school, the kids still showed up, and they ALL shared everything! I knew everything going on with every kid! More than I wanted to know at times! LOL.
I always knew where my high schoolers were, who they were with, and what they were all doing! It was awesome, and gave me piece of mind for sure!!! Best scenario ever!!!
Feed them, and they always enjoyed hanging out at our house with our kids!
Thanks for your videos,
Jennifer
I am not a stay at home Mom but I still would like to implement some of your ideas. I am feeling particularly defeated right now but you have given me a spark of hope today. You always do when I watch your videos. God bless you and your family.
Thanks for the tips! My parents were antisocial and we lived out in the country. So we didn't have a lot of friends, growing up. I taught Bible study, as an adult, for years at my old, teeny, tiny house. We had about 4-5 moms and 11-15 kids running everywhere. I loved it! Now we moved out in the country to a new town, and I sure miss the craziness of kids everywhere. Yes, it is work. My favorite meal for big crowds: big, cheap pizzas or Italian. I'd throw a plastic table cloth on the floor and have the kids sit on it for easy clean-up. Blessings!💖
Hey cass, I just wanted to tell u that I do wake up half an hour earlier then everyone else, I make my coffee and listen to ur pod casts or RUclips videos and I’m motivated and inspired all day with a positive attitude, so thank you for being awesome and keep doing what your doing 🙂
When my children were small, I was that Mom that always had kids over to play. I had that really long driveway, six of those plastic cars, play house with all the extras that go into it and a swing set but no pool. I know what you mean about the snacks and drinks! I wouldn't have changed it for the world though! Thanks for the kickstart on getting something done around my home! Hugs my friend!
I was the mom that let lots of friends coming over I love that!!! I have the same routine everyone come in the door is open like full house!! I think you’re doing a great job!
Thanks for this! Since I haven't read all 483 of your comments I might be repeating someone else's, bu t here are my hints.
1) Schedule a 'just us' night, since you value your family. And you can let 'the others ' lol know about it ahead of time, and then have a sign on door to remind them this is the day not to walk in. It will become routine and they will understand eventually. You family might come to treasure those nights also.
2) Let your kids (and the others) know sleep overs can be scheduled, but NEVER for 'Today'. I did this one!! It taught my kids some planning skills & Delayed Gratification / they were more excited about having something to look forward to & treasured those times more. When they would ask for a sleep over they started saying "wait, can we put it on the calendar?" Believe me, those times were more valuable to them, also, you will have a renewed sense of control of your home.
i love your videos!!
Tip for being that cool neighborhood house: Have a bin in the pantry designated for snacks for kids guests. that way your kids and guests know theyre welcome to that bin (and they wont hopefully eat you out of house and home) lol! Then replace the bin as often as you'd like: weekly, bi-weekly, monthly or whenever... but the key is this: once the items are done , theyre DONE and wont be restocked until next time. hopefully that teaches all the kids to share and be considerate of everyone that comes over...
My husband was a youth pastor for almost 8 years and we had kids coming in and out of our house ALL the TIME! lol. i learned quick that they needed food but I needed to keep it seperate from our personal groceries. when my 3 little ones are old enough to have friends over often i will def be re-establishing this! 😊
good luck 🤞🏾
Being the home your children's friend are comfortable going to be invaluable when they become teenagers. My house and my best friend's house were the "safe houses" for our daughters and all their friends. The friends' parents knew if their child was not home they were with one of us. I have had a key safe outside my front door for nearly 10 years that this group still knows the combination. They know where the spare towels and toothbrushes are. They do not have to call or ask- forever open invitation. We never had a runaway bcz there was always a safe and loving place to go to. No questions asked and parents were only allowed to call to confirm their child was safe - no arguing or yelling at them. We got dozens of amazing young people through high school without running away, driving drunk, or worse. It is such a blessing to your children's friends that you are establishing this now 💖💖💖💖💖
Thank you Cass! I'm hoping to start managing my time and learning to prioritize the things I need to accomplish. Thank you for the printables, I will put them to use. I really appreciate all the time you put into helping us, you're awesome!
I love watching you! You are so real! I look at you and you remind me of when my kids were little! I was the same way! I started cooking big meals in my crook pot! I wood shop at Costco and stook up! I wood make like shredded pulled BBQ pork and have buns for them and put mine on a salad . I made big batches so I could feed more kids and if a lot of the kids were not here I had left overs! Enjoy it my baby boy is 21, and his sisters are7 and 10 years older! I never thought I would say this but I do miss it now! And I not a very out going person!
Congratulations Cass on your 200 000 subscribers! I am so proud of you. I make a to do list before I go to bed & this little task & starting a day with a plan makes a difference. Your house has become like a Halfway House
Greetings from Port Elizabeth, South Africa
I love your simplicity and frankness 😊 That's what keeps me hooked to your channel 😀 The best part is you're not all preachy and advising or showing that you're perfect. You're like the next door girlfriend for every woman out there 😊
I was that mom and I am still that mom! My kids are 31 and 26! The memories are priceless and I wouldn't change a thing!!! Yes it was a lot of work and the messes never ended! However soon things wind down as they get older and you do... Really and truly do miss those times, when there was a house full of kids!!!
its 7.00 am in India and iam watching your video which i was waiting for two consecutive days as my son had perched on the seat for the computer...so now i see your videos and get excited and encouraged to do things..thnk you
Our house was filled with kids when my kids were growing up, too and I really loved it. But, like you, sometimes I felt like I was in a zoo. One thing that helped me was setting limits for the revolving door. The kids in our neighborhood learned that on Sunday, we had a day without friends. It helped my kids focus and it helped me keep my sanity.
My Grandma's house was the house that no one had to knock at, just come on in! I so miss that! I finally live close to my grandkids and am establishing the same policy. Keep up the good work! It will be worth it in the end.
We've just had school holidays here, 2 weeks only. But I reckon you'll kind of feel when you or your kids need a break, tiredness kicks butts after too many late nights/early starts sleepovers. The best part is when you're only left with your own kids & it seems so quiet & calm. Perspective!!! I usually do kind of a night on night off thing. Don't usually do two sleepover nights in a row.
I’m glad you are “that mom” and so are your children! I was that way when my kids were growing up and wouldn’t have it any other way. Yes my house and yard were messed up more than others but it was so worth it! They are all grown now but they still come back to see me and it does my heart good every time. 😊
You are truly cut out for this job. I kept smiling & nodding at the screen while watching... like a true weirdo! I'm happy you found your purpose!!
I was that house when my kids were younger too. I had to create a couple of family-only days for my sanity. My kids could still play with friends, or do whatever they wanted, but ....let's say.... Every Monday and Wednesday.... No extra kids were over. Of course, it took some time to train the neighborhood kids, but I enlisted the help of their parents when I could. It's awesome to be "that house" but (1) the other parents are using you, without consideration and (2) even teachers take "in service" days, where they have time to do what they must without children. It's important, too, to teach our kids boundaries, and respect for them, while still giving unconditional acceptance. It's good to teach kids that they can be happy in their own sometimes (which I'm sure you already know) and they don't need a constant infusion of entertainment. I think you're awesome, BTW!
The thing I love about you most is that you get the procrastination brain. Where type A people are just go go. That's not our brain. 😀
I watched one of your videos and then told myself that this video will be the one I watch while I sweep, mop and spray my bathroom with cleaner... Your videos are my timer and motivation to clean... Thank you for inspiring me from NY to do what I've always wanted to do... I wanted to be a stay at home wife and mom that has the energy to cook and clean for my family.... I aspire to be just like you!!!
When I raised my daughter I was THAT mom too, every weekend was another a couple kids staying over so I understand completely. lol Hang in there cause they grow very fast and POOF the time is gone for sleep overs and crazy. Try to enjoy and keep that AWESOME sense of humor we love!!!!!
I've been "that house" and there are things I loved about it and things I hated about it. I finally realized that the things I hated about it were that didn't have any boundaries and I didn't feel in control. When you have boundaries, you can give of yourself and your time and your space and feel good about it, because it's you being giving. When you don't have boundaries, you don't ever get to feel giving because you're not in control and so you start to feel taken advantage of. And it can be hard to reinstate boundaries if you've let things go without them for a long time, but if you're starting to feel overwhelmed, figure out some boundaries that would let you feel in control again and start little and build to the point you're comfortable. Because living a life like that with no boundaries will WEAR-YOU-OUT. Maybe just start with a sign you can put on the door that says, "We're not playing right now. Come back after_______." And fill in a time. That way you feel like you can turn being "that house" on and off when you just really need a break, but hopefully still avoid the knocking.
love this idea my daughter goes to daycare now from 1230 to 3 monday to Friday and I tell you I love it yesterday I organized all her baby items like her baby bin all those thinga you keep when you have a baby they were all over my house her first birthday things with her 3rd birthday stuff and then her first outfit was in the bedroom so I put it all in 2 bins one for birthday and 1 for everything less and today I did the dishes and sweep the floor and put away the laundry :) I feel great :)
I am currently treating myself to me time with early morning RUclips! :)
Bridy Bartsch I need to do this too. ❤
I was the kid always at my neighbor Debbie's house because I was best friends with her daughter. Their house was like yours and I can tell you what you're doing is helping some of the kids who don't really want to be home. ❤️ What Debbie did is put us to work sometimes. If we were gonna be over there all the time acting like we lived there we could help out and clean it too!
I so love and appreciate your videos, Clutterbug! You're sooooo motivating but so real at the same time! Definitely my favorite videos to watch and love your stuff! ...especially love your decorating on a budget videos. Keep it up, sweet lady! You're doing an awesome job!
As for all the extra kids? Enjoy knowing that you pick up the slack with the love they need. I so enjoy your last minute shared.
My boys are grown now, but they always had friends at our house when they were growing up. They would stay for dinner and all night lots of times and I loved it!
I always had the "kool aid" house and I loved it! My children are grown now but when I see there friends around town they all always give me hugs. All my children's friends thought I was the cool mom too. Just savor the time you have, buy extra snacks and do fun stuff, because when they are grown, it's much, much lonely-er and quit-er. Once a year I always had a "cookie" party. I'd make dough balls ahead of time and allow each of my 4 children to invite a friend or two, to come over and make cookies. I made mini rolling pins out of a large dowel rod, and had lots of cookie cutters and decorations. I'd cover the table with freezer paper and just let them do it how ever they wanted. Then what ever cookies they made, they took home with them. My husband thought I was nuts for putting myself through it, because IT'S A LOT OF WORK. But my thinking is that long after I'm gone and my children are old and senile, they may not remember who they are, but they will have memories of me ingrained in their minds. I can honestly say, (as the voice of experience) nothing, and I mean NOTHING is as important as spending time with them.
I just love your videos. You give such practical advice. We have 3 young kids at home (and 3 older ones 😁), my husband works, a lot, I have my YT channel and up until this coming year, I've homeschooled, and I work seasonally. The point is, I stay pretty busy and all of your organization and cleaning tips are so helpful, so, thank you! You really make a difference 😁
Just ordered your book the other day. It should be here tomorrow and I can't wait to get it! Your videos changed my life almost 2 years ago when I discovered the whole RUclips world! I have been able to keep up with my housework ever since. Love you girl! Xoxo 😘
So glad I found your channel! These little tidbits are helping me to FINALLY start to make progress on getting my house in order. I know the things in my head that I need to do, but was missing the "how to" steps. You give the way to apply what I already know. The most important tip for me... the GRACE tip. Forgiving myself of not being perfect has been so freeing!
OMG! You just described my life! Kids at my house constantly too! And I’m not on top of my house organization like you are, so I just get totally bummed out with all the coats, shoes, sweaters, toys left at the front door. It’s like if you have a bit of clutter somewhere it just multiplies! Thanks for the inspirational videos!
I am that mom too!! Our house has always had tons of kids in and out we have been that way for 30 years and we still have young ones 10&8😂😂and now we have 3 grandkids😂😂🤪 and the best tips I have are waaaay minimalizing
That has motivated me to want to keep it clean because I am no longer overwhelmed by stuff! And I used to have issues with back pain while cleaning because of the leaning over stuff I no longer have the pain because I had a breast reduction last month best thing I have ever done decluttered my body😂😂😂😂😀 I feel soo much younger and lighter and I just zip around doing all the cleaning tips you give!!! Now if I could just declutter my belly😂. I just adore you and your videos and am amazed to see such a successful spastic version of me when I watch you!
I'm that mom! Love having the kids here. Get to know them and their families. It's a short window though because once they go to high school it all changes! Enjoy these years! It goes by way too quickly.
This morning in the shower I was just thinking about writing in a specific kids fun day on the calendar each week where I focus on them. I love the idea of sectioning specific days for specific things! PS: you are the cutest!
What a blessing you are 😊 to me personally in way of encouragement but to not only your kids but the kids around you.
First off, you're so inspiring to me!! Thank you for the "positive" caffeine-filled vibes!! I have five kids, all who are over 18 now, my youngest a Senior in high school. My house, when they were younger, was the hub, the central home for everyone to come to, whether it was raining and we watched movies with popcorn, or sunny and everyone was outside! I had to stock up on Kool-Aid(I think their stock rose high in those years! Lol), band-aid's, snacks and ideas! I was a stay-at-home mom as well, so I had to be "on my toes" ready for ANYTHING to happen! It was chaotic (to say the least!) sometimes, but the memories that my kids have are gonna last them their whole lifetime! If I had to do it all over again, I would! I knew homes where no children could go, because their homes might get messy or homes where kids were sent home for drinks, snacks and small injuries! I had grown up with neighbors who watched out for each other's kids, and I wanted to do the same for the kids in the neighborhood! It's a memory that will last a lifetime for me, and I'm glad I was there for all of the kids!! Again, another novella for your reading pleasure! Hahaha!
Can you please to dedicated videos for both your morning and night routines? I think that would be really awesome and motivating!
Sure!!
ClutterBug Omg thank you so much!
Casey Thompson would Love that too
Yes!
I don't get bored watching your videos, thank you so much! I heard your cry for help about your party house situations. Maybe make it a structured one. Set a date say starting next month, this or these are the days you guys can come over from these stated hours. Some are sleep overs and some are not. Bring some snacks of their own that they might want to share with the other kids. Maybe also teach the kids to clean up after themselves. It's a good life skills to learn and may spill over to their own home. Thank you very much for sharing.
I find I am most productive when I have a prioritised list. However, the first couple of items on the list are really easy to accomplish task just to set me on the right path. This is especially important to me when returning to work after holidays. It eases me back into the world of work.
We lived in the same house for 23 years, bringing up our kids in a beautiful neighborhood full of kids the same age as ours. I was at home most of the time, and kids would move from house to house throughout the day. It was a great experience for my kids.
I can't tell you how refreshing it is to see your honesty and humour 😁 really enjoy your tips at the end of your videos looking forward to the next x
Cass I honestly am THAT house too !! All my kids friends are constantly just here ! Eating and sleeping over lol
I too just leave them in my sitting room to get on with it and enjoy themselves ... I find it impossible to utter the word NO even when I really REALLY should !! So sorry I can’t give you any tips except to just embrace the madness lol !! I also grew up very lonely and isolated as an only child so I completely get where your coming from as it’s the same place as me ! ... and as much as it can drive me crazy from time to time I have to say I wouldn’t want it any other way ! A house full of happy kids makes for a happier me xx Love you so so so much btw your a huge inspiration to me in every way xx
🤗😁🤗😁🤗 I was that mom too, and I don' regret it! I'm 60 years old and my two daughter's are married and on their own and they have such awesome memories to pass on to their kid's. Not only did they not knock, as they got older, some of their friends ended up living with us for various reasons and they had the KEYS to the house. When one of my daughters plumbing went south recently, she and her family had to stay with us while good old dad fixed it. I found myself calling him after five days (it was extensive) and telling him to GET IT DONE FASTER! I needed my life and routine back. Calm is nice. So enjoy them while you can, before you know it they will be on their own and you will be able to exhale. Remember, they ALWAYS come back. . 😉
Awesome video! You are so motivating!!! You know what, it might be crazy sometimes, but your kiddies are going to look back on these days with such fond memories! My mum had an open door policy, we always had a house full of kids - even as teenagers! it was seriously the best and at 34 I still thank her for it! xx
I'm that mum too! We live in a block of flats (UK) & the other mum's sometimes let their kids out & turn their buzzers off (intercom) mine is the flat they all come to, they come to me when they fall & need plasters or if a kid's been horrible it's me they come to to sort it out! We have a big communal garden out the front so the boys often go out to play football (soccer) & they always used to ask me to throw down a bottle of water, I was buying loads! So now I buy 40 small icepoles for £1 & I buy disposable cups & either send out a big bottle with the cups or they can come in & have it from the tap. I buy the cheapest snacks I can find but I don't offer them, it's only if they say they're really hungry. I had 6 kids in here yesterday after school that weren't mine, one asked if he could stay & eat with us but I had to say no or I'd have to feed them all! I like the fact they all like me & want to hang around here but I hate the mess, craziness, arguing, having to be a constant referee etc that comes with it. When my kids go to their dad's I turn my buzzer off & enjoy my child free time. The other kids still sometimes knock & chat but I have to act like I'm too busy & keep it short & sweet or they still want to come in! They're learning lol 😄
scattyfi I love that you translated a bunch of your words 😊 you missed a couple... plasters (bandaids?!) And what are icepoles?!
I love everything language-related so I enjoyed your comment 😊
Heidi Muszynski Music I've only just seen this, sorry it took a year to reply lol 😆 yeah plasters are band-aids & I'm not sure what you'd call ice poles, maybe ice pops or freeze pops? They're little frozen sticks with colour & flavours like cola, raspberry, lemon etc & they're really cheap. They're in individual plastic wrappers & don't have a stick like an ice lolly would. You can buy a box of 20 for about £1 unfrozen & just put them in the freezer for a few hours. I googled it & there are so many names for them but noticed some people call them tip tops or otter pops which I've never heard of. Hope that helps lol 😁
There are kids over as I am watching your video. I usually keep plenty of snacks. Fixing meals I call fill up meals work for dinner; mac n cheese with chicken nuggets, spaghetti, and of course veggies on the side. The house is loud always but I tune it out. Love watching your videos and staying til the end is always fun!☺
Omg I loved that 30 mins routine for cleaning 10 mins each worked fabulous thank you so much !!
I have 1 son and our house has always been the house where the friends come to hang out and it was always great because I knew where my son was. As he got older some friends stayed for days and 1 even for a couple of years.
We all need a little hippie crap in our lives! Love your videos, love your energy!
My daughter has had several different friends spend the night and come during the summer. I actually didn't mind. I am too spontaneous and pretty laid back. Love her having these memories. I'm a push over.
As for a dream, my daughter and I helped my husband with a history project of scanning all of the yearbooks from his high school. We took a calendar and entered the newest volume on her last day of vacation. Then we backtracked to the oldest volume on the first day of vacation. This became our schedule for the summer. We managed to finish all but 80 pages before she went back to school. VERY DO-ABLE.
I cannot tell you how much your channel has helped I went looking for some help on how to help me organize my house and declutter and I just keep coming across your videos and they're all super helpful and I just wanted to thank you because my house has been a crazy nightmarish mess and thanks to your speed cleaning dirty thirty and some of the other tips my house is kind of sort of staying a little bit more clean than it typically would we'll see what it looks like when I first season comes around and we're at the theater all the time but I am super thankful for all of your advice thank you so much
We still have two neighbor "kids" (now actually grown) who just pop in when they are in town. Still loving it! These grown "kids" still ask to open the garage door so they can get the basketball and shoot hoops in our driveway. Makes me happy!
I love that!
From the Aussie Organiser...those colours look great on you. They bring out your eyes. The ideas are very helpful! That's wonderful that you have lots of kids over...that's me...it will pay off when they are teenagers because you can keep an eye on all of them. I used to do home day care like you did. It's busy but relaxing having lots of kids. My secret is I don't offer food. Then they have to head home when they are hungry. (If they ask I will give a piece of fruit ) I just offer a drink as soon as they arrive the first few times that they come.
Our Home has always been the "spot" to hang out! Now it's mainly adults coming over anytime any day! Just more dishes (AND wine glasses!) But paper plates & such make it easy peasy! Loved your video😙❤
Where were you ten years ago? Seriously, I'm so glad I found you. You give sensible tips for getting clean and organized and for real people! Your book is on my list and as soon as I can get it, I'm gettin it! Meanwhile, I'm gonna continue working on this house and watching your videos while I do it. Thank you! :)
Can't help but leave another comment! I'm new to your channel and addicted! I can relate to almost everything you talk about! Thank you so much!
Thank you so much for watching ;)
My house was that house when my kids were young too. Being an only child who was always going to my friends house I loved the fact that my kids were with me and I knew all their friends and where they were. When the were teenagers I still got all the strays and always had to make extra for dinners because who knew who would be for dinner. I loved it.
it's called being the Cool Mom and there is no cure for it! You and your house are welcoming and so it goes!
I really really like your channel. Your cleaning and "getting stuff done" tipps 😊 great! I'm the messiest person in my hole family... you really helped me to be more motivated. And I love your little story's at the end! I hat so much friends over as a child. I loved it and I'm thankful for it. I think your children will be, too.
I love how real you are. Thank you!
Hi Cass. I was that Mom and although there were days i wanted to pull my hair out i loved it because i always knew what my kids were doing and who there friends were. I could keep an eye on the situation. I was glad they didn’t want to leave to go to someone else’s house
What a blissful point of view! I struggle with other's spontaneity rubbing me the wrong way but you opened my eyes; growing up without friends coming over was such a damper - I never want to do that to my children ☆
I always smile when my You Tube notification is from Clutter Bug! You are awesome, and it is obvious how much time you are outside with your children, please make sure you are sun screening the Mommy too!
Roberta Doughty Ikr! She is amazing! I love her and her videos! So inspirational and fantastic tips! I love the way she is so real on here! She's truly inspiring!
We also have the house that all of the neighborhood kids like to hang out at. Really the only negative is keeping up with the food and the constant mess. BUT especially as they get older and into the teenage years it is wonderful to keep your kids and their friends close. You can always keep an eye on them when they are constantly in your kitchen. LOL!
U r a great mom 😊😊. Not everyone can put up with that, u know kid coming over all the time. 😊
The list idea is really helpful. I know there is no better feeling than crossing off things when you make a to do list. It will also make you more accountable to do the task. Something about writing it down, makes no sense but totally works!
Your word combinations are SO FUN! I tend to be less open door for kids only because we do so much spur of the moment but whenever anyone stops over we all enjoy our company. SUNDAY is family day but anyone n everyone is welcome so that makes me happy! Ur videos are yes a kick in the bumm to get busy. I think I'll do that now...😉
I just discovered your channel and I absolutely love it I love how real you are and I love that you're not perfect and I love that you're just you're out there and I love your rants at the end of your videos.
God bless your family. Its nice to have your kids friends around. That's the way I grew up. I think it's good and healthy,
My parents house was the one all the kids in the neighborhood would go. I'm in my 40s now and still love to remember. So much fun!
I'm anti- social to the max and hate having extra people in my house. But I guess I have to let my five grandkids come visit sometimes. 😂😂😂 Kidding...grandkids welcome any time, day or night! You are a great mom!
Wow! Major thanks for this advice and super kudos for being so hospitable with all the children.