COMING OUT TO FRIENDS | Q&A/ADVICE

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  • Опубликовано: 16 сен 2024
  • Hello everyone! This week's video is one of my favourites! I filmed a Q&A/advice video with one of my best friends, Lindsay, to share some insight about what it's like to come out to friends from both of our perspectives. If you have any other video suggestions, please let me know down below! I hope you all enjoy this week's video!
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Комментарии • 126

  • @lindsaymaciver8420
    @lindsaymaciver8420 5 лет назад +54

    Stares at myself the whole video lmao

  • @alyssaexline
    @alyssaexline 5 лет назад +60

    I love your friend. She’s so funny. You should make more vids with her, and your other friends

  • @ianahharris6285
    @ianahharris6285 5 лет назад +29

    Your videos just keep getting better!! Especially with editing👍🏽

  • @Im15cheese
    @Im15cheese 5 лет назад +14

    I remember when I came out as being bisexual to my friend. She wasn’t really my bestie back then but now she is. Back then, we were at school and we were bored and both of us where in the mood to share secrets. So I just spat it out. Then a month later, I came out to my “best friend” and told her I was pansexual. But she didn’t know what it meant... Then another month later when I realized I was gay, I waited for a few weeks, then I told two of my really close friends. We were talking about movies and I said “the last time I went to the movies was when I was with a friend” then one of them asked “was it a guy” I said maybe. They both went “Ooooh” and I said “If I told you a secret, you would probably stop fangirling” after like 5 minutes I gave them a big hint by saying “I’m coming out” then one of them went like “Omg WHAT” I said “I’m gay” they said “OMG YOUR LESBIAN” one of them said “I love gay people”. I haven’t told anyone else.

  • @sarahconnors8909
    @sarahconnors8909 5 лет назад +7

    You seem like such a happy and fun person to be around and this video is making me happy because it reminds me of one of my friends and I, also I'm glad you're making videos because I enjoy your content a lot so yeah good job bro keep it up!

  • @lodettes8472
    @lodettes8472 5 лет назад +5

    I rewatched that start like 29 times just to hear your laugh again

  • @kindajordyn
    @kindajordyn 5 лет назад +2

    Even though I can't see your guys outfits. From what I can see, I literally love the colours!
    Lysm❤️

  • @hannahely4898
    @hannahely4898 5 лет назад +3

    Keep doing what you’re doing girly!!❤️

  • @maeedrid836
    @maeedrid836 5 лет назад +4

    I was watching your 1st vid and I saw u upload new vid 😆....luv ur vids Btw💙

  • @jumpingjellyfish9000
    @jumpingjellyfish9000 5 лет назад +2

    I live for the lil dance in the beginning 😂

  • @ifur666
    @ifur666 5 лет назад +13

    i'm literally so late, but i love this. i've been planning on telling my mom that i'm bi, so hopefully this can help me.
    *edit: watched the video, and it does help! thank you! 💛*

  • @blossomvanorman2798
    @blossomvanorman2798 2 года назад

    this is so wholesome 😍

  • @H3llok1tty444
    @H3llok1tty444 5 лет назад +2

    It’s actually been 11...not tryna be a smart Alec because your amazing and beautiful and ily and everything so you❤️🥰🏳️‍🌈

  • @barbl4738
    @barbl4738 5 лет назад +2

    Can you make a video on how to come out to parents? Like what's the beat way, advice and stuff 😊

  • @callmeariii
    @callmeariii 5 лет назад +1

    Love this video! keep it up, you deserve the best of the best for your channel. helpful advice ...

  • @lodettes8472
    @lodettes8472 5 лет назад

    Okay okay I know this video came out like 4 months ago but since then I've came back here every once in a while JUST FOR THE BEGINNING JSJSJS I CAN'T HANDLE HOW ADORABLE YOU WERE WHEN YOU LAUGHED

  • @wolfyroo9856
    @wolfyroo9856 5 лет назад +9

    2 of my friends are gay, and I don’t care at all because love is love ❤️

  • @rc0417
    @rc0417 5 лет назад +2

    oh yes, more vids with friends

  • @juuzoureisuzuya5333
    @juuzoureisuzuya5333 5 лет назад +4

    You're so prettyy xxxx

  • @spedC00kie
    @spedC00kie 5 лет назад +7

    i promise i won’t call the police!😂 congrats on to see aliah sorry if miss spelled it but congrats to have her come to your prom

  • @Lydia-zl6wc
    @Lydia-zl6wc 5 лет назад

    excited to watch! you're both so pretty 🖤

  • @aina.bordon5695
    @aina.bordon5695 5 лет назад +7

    Omg I so want friends who wants to listen to one D with me 🤧😩

  • @annabialek7856
    @annabialek7856 5 лет назад

    you guys have such friendship goals!!!

  • @ashlxne4433
    @ashlxne4433 5 лет назад

    I just came out to my bestfriends as bi, one of them is bi and he wasn't like he already knew and my other friend ALSO CAME OUT! Best day ever

  • @MARY-cz3qz
    @MARY-cz3qz 4 года назад

    I hope i can finally do that

  • @justrachel6903
    @justrachel6903 5 лет назад +1

    Lol @ your friend doing the duck pout throughout

  • @lunagloss6607
    @lunagloss6607 5 лет назад

    this was 3 days ago and I didn't get the notification ;-; but now I'm watching it I love your videos

    • @heatherwotherspoon7313
      @heatherwotherspoon7313  5 лет назад

      Luna Gloss i’m sorry you didn’t get a notification, that’s really annoying! thank you so much for watching!

  • @saphira0441
    @saphira0441 3 года назад +1

    You like One Direction? Now I like you even more😍👀

  • @no.m1
    @no.m1 5 лет назад

    This video honestly makes me so happy! I remember I came out bisexual to my friends and they accepted me. It was like weight lifted off my shoulders :))

    • @heatherwotherspoon7313
      @heatherwotherspoon7313  5 лет назад +1

      brianaa loredoo thank you so much! yes it’s so great to come out to friends who accept you for who you are!

  • @raquel7999
    @raquel7999 5 лет назад +1

    can you believe that i read all your reply with your voice? lol so cool

  • @blancamelgar6571
    @blancamelgar6571 5 лет назад +1

    Loved ittt ❤

  • @deIcorazon
    @deIcorazon 4 года назад

    i love y'all :(((

  • @mvguelx3451
    @mvguelx3451 5 лет назад +1

    you go girl

  • @mitsuhamiyamizu6921
    @mitsuhamiyamizu6921 5 лет назад +2

    I love your vids😂😍

  • @sandijamegi7144
    @sandijamegi7144 5 лет назад

    You told us to comment. So this a comment. Just kidding :D Binged all of your videos, I'm glad I found your channel :)

  • @cedevita7069
    @cedevita7069 5 лет назад +1

    Hello Heather. I've been struggling for a while now, regarding my sexual orientation, so I fould be really happy if I could get some tips on this.. It's really bothering me. So for a year now, I've been questioning whether I'm bi or lesbian. I've had a deep longlasting crush on a girl, and confessed to her but sadly it was unrequited. I can't deny that I've had one crush on a boy years ago, but it was never past romantic. I feel almost as if it was kind of forced. I'm really confused. I'm in 9th grade now and I'm 100% sure I'm attracted to girls. The only problem is, I just don't know if I'm attracted to guys. Like you said in your coming out video, you can acknowledge that some guys are attractive, but you don't feel attracted to them. I am really not sure if this is the case for me. I don't know if this is a twisted wish, but I really want to fall in love with girls only. This feels kind of morbid but I guess I can't do anything about it.. Thanks!

    • @blueXkanna
      @blueXkanna 5 лет назад

      mishasworld Hi! I usually don’t reply to comments but I couldn’t help this one haha. How you feel and the crushes you’ve had is almost exactly like me. The only difference is I didn’t have the guts to tell my friend I liked her, so right on for that move! However, I believe we’re in a really similar situation right now and I just wanted to show some support :) I hope it all becomes clear for you... and myself :P

    • @cedevita7069
      @cedevita7069 5 лет назад

      @@blueXkanna Thank you for taking the time to say something nice😊 Good luck to you too!

    • @blueXkanna
      @blueXkanna 5 лет назад

      mishasworld Thank you 😀

  • @isha4074
    @isha4074 5 лет назад +1

    i love you - isha

  • @bloodwolf7640
    @bloodwolf7640 5 лет назад

    thats good that your friends support you

  • @jpfroes
    @jpfroes 5 лет назад +1

    What is better: Come out to your friends or to your parents first?

    • @heatherwotherspoon7313
      @heatherwotherspoon7313  5 лет назад +1

      João Pedro it’s different from person to person but i’d say come out to who you think will be the most accepting first as a starting point!

  • @ryleenanni4536
    @ryleenanni4536 5 лет назад

    I recently found your channel and I love it! I am not gay but one of my best friends is bi, we are in 6th grade and is excepted by the people shes told. ❤

  • @roshanitamang6839
    @roshanitamang6839 5 лет назад

    I'm so happy nd you both are so cute❤ your friendship is so cute nd I'm happy because your friend❤ support for you always be happy dear ❤ nd be strong dear lot's of love both of you guys 😘😘😘😘

  • @Astrid-fw2mj
    @Astrid-fw2mj 5 лет назад

    Lol you guys are such friendship goals

  • @maggielong1063
    @maggielong1063 5 лет назад

    it was good i mean i expected better, but it was good!!

    • @heatherwotherspoon7313
      @heatherwotherspoon7313  5 лет назад

      maggie long haha i’m sorry it wasn’t as good as you expected but i like it and that’s the most important thing. :)

  • @CAWLEY99
    @CAWLEY99 5 лет назад

    Another Awesome Video :)

  • @imkai4413
    @imkai4413 5 лет назад

    We love you guys. Bro keep up your videos. 🌈😘😍😍💞💞🙆🏻‍♀️ i wish you and your girlfriend could be done this too. The q&a stuff

    • @heatherwotherspoon7313
      @heatherwotherspoon7313  5 лет назад

      A TOP aw thank you so much! the next time aliah and i see each other we’ll definitely film!

  • @wahtsg
    @wahtsg 5 лет назад

    Geaat vid!
    Sending ❤️ from Singapore! #girlswholikegirls

  • @longlivex4100
    @longlivex4100 5 лет назад +1

    We love you 🤠👏🏻

  • @killerwolf-og1hl
    @killerwolf-og1hl 5 лет назад +1

    that laugh meme XD and it is awesome that they were so calm about it

  • @spazdude1
    @spazdude1 5 лет назад +1

    I am amazed you got 16k subscribers for really not being a RUclipsr for very long.

  • @aydensmythe2788
    @aydensmythe2788 5 лет назад

    You are so amazing!

  • @justrachel6903
    @justrachel6903 5 лет назад +2

    Dont call the policeeee 😂😂

  • @thepigfartsexpress8347
    @thepigfartsexpress8347 5 лет назад

    - i'm in my mom's car, broom broom
    + 11:15
    -awww

  • @maggielong1063
    @maggielong1063 5 лет назад

    you should do like a challenge or a game tho!!

  • @stellatwohig926
    @stellatwohig926 5 лет назад

    good for you!! lysm

  • @leonatejares8555
    @leonatejares8555 5 лет назад

    I love you heather💗💗💗

  • @denay8061
    @denay8061 5 лет назад

    luv u two

  • @bloodwolf7640
    @bloodwolf7640 5 лет назад

    its either 14 or 15 years heather

  • @heidi5693
    @heidi5693 5 лет назад

    I love your vids so much ❤❤

  • @jafaelpetals2022
    @jafaelpetals2022 5 лет назад

    April 21st is my birthday.❤️

  • @jpfroes
    @jpfroes 5 лет назад +1

    I've never had Starbucks lol

  • @Someone-us9qp
    @Someone-us9qp 5 лет назад

    Anyone wanna go spoons?!?
    ~~SORRY, gr8 video, dont hate me! :3

  • @lindsaymaciver8420
    @lindsaymaciver8420 5 лет назад

    “The next question is”

  • @albertoaguiar6293
    @albertoaguiar6293 5 лет назад

    I am so glad that your friend loves you for who you are and I am so glad that your friend support you that you are lesbian

  • @vasilena1076
    @vasilena1076 5 лет назад

    How could you be so cute?

  • @anishalama8573
    @anishalama8573 5 лет назад

    Um !!! Where is your girlfriend!!!😮😮😮😮

    • @heatherwotherspoon7313
      @heatherwotherspoon7313  5 лет назад +2

      Anisha Lama i she’s in pennsylvania but she’ll be visiting again in may for my prom!

  • @yoyo-mr7fc
    @yoyo-mr7fc 5 лет назад

    Yo dats sick vid (one deriction sucks) and even though I watched all your vids and love them to bits I find gay/lesbian weird and uncomfortable

    • @heatherwotherspoon7313
      @heatherwotherspoon7313  5 лет назад

      1 million subscribes with no videos i hope my videos can help you to better understand the lgbtq community so that you no longer feel uncomfortable with it.

    • @yoyo-mr7fc
      @yoyo-mr7fc 5 лет назад

      @@heatherwotherspoon7313 thanks but it's just the gays/lesbian in the LGBTQ community I get uncomfortable because a man/women kissing or intercorse with same gender is just weird